Turmoil Tuesday (Recorded LIVE on 9-24-24)

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:12):
U s.

Speaker 2 (01:01):
H yo, what's up? Speak on this might her podcast?

(01:29):
Going to you live from where the fund we go
live from you know how it is. I'm bringing my
co hosts. You know how we do. Here is Lady G.
Lady G, what's up? Good evening and here everything everything's good,
everything's good in his TG love ADG pay How's how's everybody? No,

(01:59):
nothing's really going on, just.

Speaker 3 (02:00):
Chilling, just the ladies ganging up on big this evening.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
It's I guess it's ladies night, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Where's the drinks at TG?

Speaker 2 (02:12):
I know, right, So let's go around the room. Lady G.
How was your week?

Speaker 3 (02:19):
Oh? It was good. I mean it's only Tuesday, like
I always.

Speaker 2 (02:22):
Say, but Tuesday to Tuesday, Tuesday.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
To Tuesday, it's pretty good, pretty good. Can't complain?

Speaker 2 (02:30):
What about you? TG? What was up?

Speaker 1 (02:32):
The same? Nothing to complain about, really, I mean there's
always something to complain about. But I'm doing all right.
And and it's like Tuesdays always are upsetting because they
don't feel like Tuesdays. And then you're like, oh crap,
it's just Tuesday. Hey, Heather, Hello, Heather, Yeah, hey midnight.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
Yeah, it's it's it's just just Tuesday. Yeah, I guess
you could say that. I mean, being as it's it
was just Monday and Sunday and like.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Wednesday.

Speaker 1 (03:12):
Some day we're a little closer.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Yeah, a little closer.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
It's good for the people who work, you know, during
the week anyway, right, yeah, well you know, so.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
With that being said, Diddy's in jail, oh god, and
he's not. He's not ever getting out.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
He's on suicide watch'd watch.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
I think I don't think. I don't think they're going
to go for it. He offered fifty million dollars for
his bail and they said.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
Nope, yeah, no, the judge said no.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yep. He tried three times and each time they were like, nope.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
The offenses are too too much. And yeah it's they're bad.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Crimes, yeah, really really bad.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
The judge is not is like hell, no.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
Risk, a flight risk. He can get on the jet
you know what, see and then disappeared. I mean, you'll
never see him again. But with all the baby oil involved.

Speaker 1 (04:17):
And goodness and Loube I'm assuming.

Speaker 2 (04:22):
And then the ketamine and all that ship, he'll he'll
never get out. He'll never get out. But did you
see the list no, there's a list of people that
are people of interest in this case. So I copied
it and I took a screenshot of it, and it's

(04:43):
it's outrageous. You you wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
I will. I don't know if I'd be surprised.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
All right, So let's start off. It's it's coming out
that the people who attended did these freak off parties
will soon be u will soon be questioned by the Feds.
These are just some of the names. This so far

(05:12):
includes Steve Stout. I think he's uh. I mean, if
anybody out there and knows who Steve Stout is, look
him up. Whatever, let me know who he is. Russell Simmons, Okay.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
We build that name and obviously.

Speaker 2 (05:29):
Eve Okay, Aaron Hall, he's an R and B.

Speaker 1 (05:37):
Singer, I think, Okay, so familiar.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
Yeah, jay Z, Beyonce, Beyonce, Rick Ross, Steve j This
one really got me though. I was like doctor dre
oh Man, uh Usher, Meek Mill Okay, Drake. Here's another

(06:08):
one that got me too, Lebron James the Game. He's
a rapper justin Bieber.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
What my daughter is going to be so sad?

Speaker 2 (06:22):
Yeah? Some guy in Cuba Gooding Jr.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
That one's upsetting me.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
Stevie J. Young Miami. I don't know who that is,
Daphne Joy, I don't know who that is. Bishop he
d Jakes, No way, yep, you know who that is,
Lady g Oh, yes I do.

Speaker 3 (06:50):
I listened to him almost every day.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
O my god.

Speaker 2 (06:54):
Oh man, Chris Brown and Jade Ramsey, Rammy whatever.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
Yeah, they're gonna be questioning everybody who's associated with him,
been to those parties, been invited to parties, been around like, oh,
CEO of United Masters. Well, I'm sure there's a lot
of other CEOs and whatnot involved, but you know, but

(07:24):
I'm not gonnas so many things. Oh my gosh, you
know what I'm saying. Yeah, let's wait till all the
facts are in before everybody starts. Well, I'm sure everybody's
making means like crazy, So it's happening.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Yeah. So this is another one, another article that I
read that a very big person of interest, Jennifer Lopez.

Speaker 1 (07:55):
Jennifer Lopez, she was like with him.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
Yeah, yeah, they say they said that someone said in
an interview that at the FBI at one point presented
Now I don't know if this is true, because you know,
how it is on the net, presented ben Affleck with
some video cassettes that they found at Ditty's place.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
You know what I heard that? I heard that.

Speaker 2 (08:27):
And that yeah, and that that that was like enough
for him to be like deuces yeah wow. Yeah, So
ship sitting the fan, people are going down and Diddy's
on suicide watch. I mean some of some of the

(08:48):
charges are crazy.

Speaker 3 (08:50):
Well, the same thing happened with Epstein.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
So and and look where that got him, you know yeah,
and the ship that's that That that's driving me a
little bit up the wall about it too, is that,
I mean, people don't seem to understand the severity of this,
this this thing we're talking about sex trafficking underage people,

(09:17):
you know.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
What I'm saying abuse.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
Yeah, And they're saying that these parties were like overlooked
by him as well as medical professionals because they were
using ketamine, ecstasy and all other types of drugs to
keep these people going during these parties and then keep them.

Speaker 1 (09:44):
Like kind of out of it so they don't really
know what the fuck is going on.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
Right, and then to give them IV fluids when everything
was said and done, like.

Speaker 1 (09:58):
Pretend like nothing happened, like you're all good, nothing happened
type thing like that is scary. Like that's what I'm saying.
And I'm gonna be honest, Like I've seen a lot
of memes and I don't think they're funny because I
don't think the accusations that are being made right now,
and like the charges that are on this man right

(10:19):
now are funny things when we shouldn't be fucking making
jokes and laughing about rape and sexual abuse. He fucking
sexually abused justin Bieber, Like, I mean, we kind of
know this, some shit was down a already, but like
that's disturbing and like, god knows what else is gonna
come out. That's why he's on suicide watch because he

(10:41):
knows the shit he did and he gett So that's
what I'm saying, Like this is like just as bad
as like Epstein, this is, this is just as bad
as all these these predators that are being found. And
you know, I'm glad. I'm glad that they're getting them

(11:02):
because what they're doing is horrible. It's not okay to
do ship like that. That's not how you party. I
don't and and we're from the tri State, New York area,
we will party like that. What the fuck? Like? What
is that? That's their power and money? That's power and money. Yeah,

(11:24):
you know that that can do that to a sick person,
an individual who already likes power. And we've known this.
The man has wonted power. He's always got always around.
There's claims about like stuff with Biggie and videos or whatever,
and like I just like music videos that were made

(11:50):
and the people used in those videos and ship like that,
Like there.

Speaker 2 (11:54):
Is is that the is that the one day along
with the transgender.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
Yes, something like that I just saw and I was
just like, I'm sure there's just a lot like out
there that no one pays attention to.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
Look.

Speaker 1 (12:09):
R Kelly got away with the shit he did for
how long? And we've known something was up from the
moment Aliyah was out and around and that whole like
marriage thing and him changing her age when she's fucking sixteen,
and like why why not? Then were people like, uh,

(12:32):
this is fucking weird and not okay, Like something's going on.

Speaker 2 (12:36):
Here that should have been a red flag to begin.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
With, and let this man do what he did for
so long, That's what I'm saying like, I guess it
doesn't matter why they are black. You have money, you
can hush people up and do whatever the fuck you want,
it seems until the right person comes along and finds out. Yeah,

(13:00):
but it's like there needs to be more right people
out there coming out. It shouldn't fucking wait this long,
and people shouldn't be a betting shit like this. Like
it's just how do you sleep that night knowing that
you were around letting shit like this happen, or you

(13:20):
engaged or you helped or you participate whatever, Right, it's
fucking sick.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
Yeah, and and and the fuck the fucked up the
fuck the really fucked up thing is that I feel
personally that if you, if you had, if you had
went to this one of these parties, right and you
saw what was going on and you didn't partake in it,

(13:53):
but you saw what was going.

Speaker 3 (13:54):
On and you didn't do anything about it.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
You're an accounts.

Speaker 1 (13:57):
Say it yeah yeah, or be or anonymously go and
say something like you can do that. This whole like
stitches gets I mean, yes, it just gets stitches. It's
so stupid because there are certain things that you should
be reporting. There are certain things that you should be
looking out for other people in a situation.

Speaker 3 (14:20):
And the thing is if it was happening to them,
they wouldn't be saying the whole stitches snitches, get stitches right.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
News.

Speaker 3 (14:30):
Then they're on the news wanting to know if anybody
sees something, say something right.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
And then people get mad about it, about about the
little they're gonna say something to the cops because like, hello,
that's their job. They're trying to like stop the crymes,
like that's the whole point. And then we all know
like that by standard thing where people see things and
they don't call, they don't say anything. They think someone

(14:55):
else is gonna call and say something like accidents or whatever.
This is like a thing and people are so quick
to pick up their phones and make videos and not
actually call. Fuck yeah, like ship is going down like bad,
something bad, and they're recording like I just like, oh

(15:17):
my god, like that video that I talked about last
time that the kid was shooting, like had a gun
in his hands, shooting. You could see him running. They're
taking a video of this. They're taking a video of this.
I'm like okay, And then what you're just posting it
on the group and you're not calling the cops and

(15:38):
telling them like there's this fucking little kid out here
like shooting random people, Like come on, that's so weird
to me.

Speaker 2 (15:49):
Weird. Weird isn't the fucking words. It's crazy.

Speaker 3 (15:52):
It's yeah, that's that's the world we're living in now.
There there's just no.

Speaker 2 (16:00):
Yeah, it's it's sucked up.

Speaker 1 (16:03):
It's everyone to themselves, like and I get that to
an extent, but the whole sense of like community and
belonging isn't really there.

Speaker 3 (16:15):
It's gone.

Speaker 1 (16:16):
I mean it's there in some places.

Speaker 3 (16:18):
The village, the village, the village has dispersed.

Speaker 2 (16:23):
Even Usher. Usher was like he was like, yeah, I
you know, he was. He was young too, He was
really young when he got involved with all of them.

Speaker 1 (16:32):
Yeah, all of them.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
And it's crazy that that that Bieber after he got
old enough and I guess realized that this is not okay.
He was he was already he was groomed.

Speaker 1 (16:51):
And even harder, he was groomed by a male and
he is a male, which already, like you know, when
it's a man to a woman or female, it's a
little different in a sense, like because you know it's wrong.

(17:13):
And I don't know. I'm not gonna say that you
can accept, but you can you can accept the fact
that this is a predator and someone who was abusing you.
Right with men, I feel like it becomes a thing

(17:33):
where they start questioning their own sexuality because it's a uh,
you know, I enjoyed myself. The thing is that, like
that's how sex works. Like Unfortunately, whether we're being forced
on or used or whatever, the body still reacts naturally

(17:55):
to things.

Speaker 3 (17:55):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (17:56):
So just because you know you may have common or
whatever does not mean mean that if you enjoyed it
and you wanted it and you didn't want that, you
didn't ask for that. So that's what I mean when
I say that there becomes this. There are other parts
to it as well, like where you have to break

(18:18):
it down, like and then him coming out, him specifically
coming out and saying stuff. Then I think also can
you know they'll question him more and a lot of
And I hate this, the victim shaming that people do
or say like why didn't you say something sooner? Because

(18:40):
that shit is hard and and sometimes it takes years
to realize what the fuck happened? And and now and
right right, like I hate bringing it up. But it's
it's the whole Michael Jackson thing all over again, Like
nobody wants to believe victims because we're talking about a superstar,

(19:02):
and it's like he was a person that was fucked
up and was abused himself.

Speaker 2 (19:07):
Chances of that Michael Jackson, since he was a little boy,
was fucked up, abused, beat up.

Speaker 1 (19:18):
In show business at a very young age, meaning he
was subjected to a lot of things. Probably too.

Speaker 3 (19:25):
Oh his dad, his dad did him dirty.

Speaker 1 (19:28):
Yeah, yeah, that doesn't make it okay, nope, right, right,
So he looked so Bieber looked up to Diddy. He
was his mentor, the person who was guiding him through.
That's what I'm saying, Like it's so complicated because like,

(19:49):
at one hand, this person brought you your career, right,
helped you become Bieber, and and yet all this was happening,
Like it's almost like one could a victim in this
sense could be like, well he did that, and but

(20:12):
he gave me all these things. They justify it, and
it's like a bargaining thing, like a quid pro quo thing, and.

Speaker 3 (20:20):
He owes him all of his success, which he doesn't
because without their talent, right, you know.

Speaker 1 (20:27):
They wouldn't have made it. I mean, just to be
was adorable and all the girls fell in love with
him like that was gonna happen even if he couldn't
saying okay, so but yes, like I don't know, it's
it's and it's I feel like it's hard to be
a victim in circumstances because a lot of times people

(20:48):
don't believe them because they have these expectations of like
you knew you should have said something, yeah, like this
is exactly like this is how you're right, or whatever
the case may be, but any of it, No, it
doesn't work. Okay, everyone wants everything to be so black
and white, but it isn't. Like it's not.

Speaker 2 (21:10):
You want to hear it. You want to hear something
that uh Rihanna said about.

Speaker 1 (21:14):
Jay Z, Well, let's hear it.

Speaker 2 (21:19):
This happened to her when she was sixteen years old.
Jay Z kept a sixteen year old Rihanna in a
room till three am and allegedly left her with no
choice but to sign with him. This is what she said,
he said. Jay Z allegedly said to Rihanna, according to her,
there's two ways to leave here. Either through the door

(21:43):
with with with a signed contract or out the window
and keep in mind on the twenty ninth floor.

Speaker 1 (21:50):
Wow, okay, then.

Speaker 2 (21:54):
Yeah, so that's that's what she's saying. He said to her,
well ten years old. I never I don't like. The
only thing that that jay Z, and the only thing
with jay Z that I thought was okay was his
first album. After that, He's trash. I never liked it.
I mean honest, I never liked jay Z.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
I do and I liked But you know what, I'm
not surprised anymore that, like any of these celebrities that
all this shit comes out. It's like, at the end
of the day, they're people. They're people just like us,
and we just put them on a pedestal and we
make them bigger than what they are. But they're not.

(22:35):
They're fucking people and they do stupid shit or bad
ship or whatever. Like.

Speaker 2 (22:40):
There's there's tons of videos, man, like leaked videos from
Puffy's collection. Wow. And there's one you ever heard of
the rapper French Montana. Mm hmmm, Well there's a video
of Puffy in a robe singing to him has seen
Happy birthday to him. I wish I could download the

(23:03):
video and put it on. It's so funny. French Spontana
sitting on the other side of the table with no
shirt on. Wow, while Puffy is in a robe saying
happy Birthday to him, and somebody's recording it. And they're
alone in this room wherever it is, first.

Speaker 3 (23:18):
Of all doing stuff like that, and you allow somebody
to record that ship get out of here?

Speaker 1 (23:24):
No?

Speaker 2 (23:25):
Yeah, oh man, yeah, and this whole thing, you know
what I mean. And there's I don't know if you
remember this. This rapper's name was Shine, so he was
he was under puff Daddy's label, right. He was the
one that went down for that whole ship with the

(23:48):
gun with Jennifer Lopez and Puffy in the club. Yes,
So what ended up happening was so the story was
that that Puffy gave Jennifer the gun. Okay, they got

(24:08):
into the club, then she gave the gun back to Puffy.
Puffy shot a guy and then gave the gun to Shine.
Sean got arrested, went to jail for like ten years
over that charge. Jenner. They they're saying Jennifer said, oh,
Puffy didn't do it. He didn't do this, he didn't
do that. She got under the roath and Sean went

(24:32):
to jail. He did like ten years or whatever the
case may be. And yeah, so and and Sean even
said it. There's an interview with him, you look him
up where he said, yeah, Puffy destroyed my life. He said,
I had nothing to do with that. And you know,
I took that charge and he completely disregarded me. And

(24:53):
and and they were there there. They're rappers that were
under his label that died broke. Yeah, that were fame,
like at one point, we're famous, like the one Black
Robbie saying that song whoa remember that one?

Speaker 3 (25:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (25:08):
Well yeah, like whoa. So he died in a hospital,
bed broke with no with no money, nothing, you know
what I'm saying. So, I mean, it's it's it's it's
it's terrible. He takes he he signs these people, makes
money off of them, and they're saying he has something
to do with not only hold on, let's just say.

Speaker 1 (25:37):
Is the dude named Scar had beef with Diddy. Diddy
was with Jaho Shine and Puff's boy named Wolf Wolf
and Shine busted off shots at Scar. They pined the
guns on Shine.

Speaker 2 (25:51):
That's yeah, that I guess that's just that's the story,
Thank you, mister vic. So what was I saying? See,
this is it's a grandpa.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
Moment, right grandpa?

Speaker 2 (26:10):
Yeah, So anyway, I did.

Speaker 1 (26:13):
He You're basically saying, just like all the horrible things
this guy and so far that you remember of of
certain things that he's done. I can't. I don't even
remember where you were going with it either.

Speaker 2 (26:27):
So yeah, yeah, So anyway, the thing is that Jenny
from the block is going to end up being Jenny
from the block, Cell Block.

Speaker 1 (26:35):
E, Jenny from so BLOCKY.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
She's she's in trouble, man, She's in a lot of
trouble with the rest of them.

Speaker 1 (26:45):
That makes sense now with the whole divorce.

Speaker 2 (26:47):
Thing, yep, I mean, what do you what do you
do with that? Somebody comes to you and says, this
is what your wife is doing or has done, right,
what do you? What do you do with that?

Speaker 1 (27:02):
You know?

Speaker 2 (27:02):
You know what I'm saying. I mean, come on, at
some at some point.

Speaker 1 (27:07):
I record the bitch, you you don't dirty things.

Speaker 2 (27:12):
Yeah, they're saying she was with with young dudes and
she looked at she was married to some young dude.

Speaker 1 (27:18):
Too, right, Yeah, I don't remember.

Speaker 2 (27:22):
Yeah, she was married to a young dude. It was
one of her dancers or some ship.

Speaker 1 (27:27):
You know. So I do remember Mark Anthony.

Speaker 2 (27:30):
Yeah, because that was the most popular one. Alex Rodriguez,
I think she was married to.

Speaker 1 (27:37):
Just engaged, engaged and wound up with Ben and married him.

Speaker 2 (27:40):
Yeah, Alex Rodriguez knew better. He was like, this is
one Puerto Rican chick I ain't fucking with. Yeah, So
I mean, it's it's it's nuts, it's it's she's they're
all in trouble. There's also a video out there with
Kat Williams and he's funny. He's a funny motherfucker man.

(28:02):
And he said he was on The Shah Show and
he said that twenty twenty four is going to be
the year that the truth comes out. And he said,
he said nobody is going to be safe, not even Diddy,
not even this one, not even that one. Right, And
then like months later, Diddy's in jail. You know you

(28:24):
have to some of those videos are they're crazy.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
And even coming out. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
Even in two thousand and six, Kat Williams went on
stage and he said that he wasn't even that famous yet.
This was during his stand up show. He wasn't even
that famous yet, and he went to one of those
mansion parties. He said, Yeah, I went to this mansion party.
I wasn't even that famous, he was. I walk in there.
Everybody's cooling, and then there's there's there's the party rooms,

(28:53):
and then there's these other rooms. And I was one
of the unlucky ones that walked through one of those
rooms and just stared and said, this is the room.
Fucking room he was. He was like, yo, what the
fuck is going on in here? He said, put I

(29:13):
put my boy to the side, and he was like,
is that a dude? Fucking a dude? Like is this
what happens at these parties? He said, And he was
like yo. He left. He was like, I can't and
they're they're even there. Even other other artists and rappers
that said they walk into some of these parties, industry parties,

(29:33):
and it's like, what the fuck, Let's get the fuck
out of here, you know, because I don't want to
be associated with that bullshit, you know. So I mean
and look at look look also, also, what's the drake

(29:57):
is next?

Speaker 1 (29:58):
I believe it, Well, she's already gonna be questioned and
it's evolved, and I don't ask what young girls anyway.

Speaker 2 (30:06):
Let me explain why I think. And a lot of
people think Drake's next because, for one, there's a video
with him with some young girl on stage.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
I don't know if you've seen it, a sixteen year older.

Speaker 2 (30:19):
Sixteen seventeen year old girl, and he says to her,
how old are you? And she's like, oh whatever, she
whatever age she'saying. He goes, damn you dodn't get me
in trouble. But he's still up there groping there. Yeah,
I think he ended upssing. I don't know what the hell.

Speaker 1 (30:35):
Happened, but he's on or something like that, but he
like like was holding her and stuff like that, moose
and shit.

Speaker 2 (30:42):
And not only that, but that whole situation with the
chick from Stranger Things, Millie Bobby Brown. They were like, oh,
so we hear you and Drake are close friends. She
was fifteen at the time, I think, when they interviewed her,
and she said, oh, me and Drake are really good friends.
We text and we talk all the time, and you know,
I love I love him so much and he loves me,

(31:04):
and and I'm like, bro, she's fifteen years old what
is a thirty seven year old dude or whatever? However
age he was, you know, communicating with a young girl
like that. And not only that, he did that ship
to Billie Eilish too, and she cut that ship off quick.
She was like, nah, you're gonna do that ship to me?
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (31:25):
You know, I guess it helps that she's gay, So.

Speaker 2 (31:28):
Yeah, I got I get so. I guess I didn't
know that, by the way, but I guess I guess.

Speaker 1 (31:33):
So yeah.

Speaker 2 (31:35):
Oh all right, And then this one says, y'all doing
this one Williams, Oh my.

Speaker 1 (31:43):
God, that's a huge compliment. Thank you.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
What happened.

Speaker 2 (31:49):
That?

Speaker 1 (31:49):
Where we're doing miss Wendy Williams proud? Oh poor Weddy Williams.
That poor woman.

Speaker 2 (31:55):
Yeah, she's.

Speaker 1 (31:58):
I watched like that. Uh who did this special on her?
I'm trying to think if it was like VH one.
It was some random channel that did like a adopt
like a little thing with her, like interview and stuff
like that, and they told her story about her husband

(32:20):
or ex husband, and man, that woman wants for some
shit man, and she I feel bad. You know, she's
an addict lifetime. Of course, it's fucking lifetime. Why wouldn't
it be. But yeah, that woman I feel bad like
seeing her now, like compared to what Wendy Williams was,

(32:44):
you know, like it's sad, it's really sad. But addiction,
fucking abuse and all that fucks you up.

Speaker 2 (32:57):
Yeah, it really does.

Speaker 1 (32:59):
She really tried to like keep it together and the
public eye and everything and was going through some real ship.
Yeah you you know what I'm saying. People forget like
every you know, we're all human beings. We all have
a story, we all went through some shit or go
through shit and like.

Speaker 3 (33:20):
And nobody getting out of this life without something, right.

Speaker 1 (33:23):
I mean, unless you're super rich and you're born into
that life. That's just different. I just watched the fucking uh.

Speaker 2 (33:32):
Oh my god. I don't even want to keep that
up there.

Speaker 1 (33:34):
How dare they?

Speaker 2 (33:35):
That's that's terrible.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
Uh. The Menendez Brothers Netflix that movie.

Speaker 2 (33:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (33:45):
Netflix did the Monster series, but it's monsters for them
because there's two of them.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
And yeah, there's let me tell you something. I have
to look for it, but I have it. The Mark
Jackson Knicks basketball card from that from that year. He's
he Mark Jackson has the basketball and he's dribbling the ball.
In the background of the card, you see the both
Menendez brothers at the basketball game. That was the night

(34:15):
they killed their parents. No, and look up, look up
Mark Mark Jackson Menendez brothers basketball card and you look
at it and they're sitting in the background watching the
basketball game. That was They say, say it was the
night that they killed their parents they went to the
game or the day after they went to the game.

Speaker 1 (34:35):
It wasn't the day of, because the day of they
killed their parents tried to get movie stubs and went
to a wine festival.

Speaker 2 (34:44):
So it must have been some time after they killed
their parents.

Speaker 1 (34:47):
They we after because they went on a fucking brand
page of spending money as much as they could.

Speaker 2 (34:55):
They were court sided. They were actually court side at
that game.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
Yeah, I mean, I will say this. They were both
fucking rotten. They were entitled bitches, that was for sure.
Do I believe that there was some you know that
their parents were abusive or not loving, possibly, But did

(35:25):
they do anything to just like get shot the way
they did by them? No, they went in premeditated doing this.
They went in wanting to kill And that alone makes
them sociopaths because those are your parents, Like it wasn't.

(35:50):
I don't think it was that fucking bad because when
they do like recount the way they treated their parents
and all the trouble they would get into, and their
father would bail them out with his money every single time,
like you know, like also there there there was issues

(36:11):
there for sure, and the father was an idiot for
fucking bailing them out every time. He should have made
them fucking pay, right because they burglar They did robberies.
They burgalized like people's homes and got caught and apparently
his model was cheat, steal, lie, but don't get caught.

Speaker 2 (36:37):
They got caught, then they're doing time.

Speaker 1 (36:40):
Now, well yeah, they're and and the fact that they
tried to like come up with some story of like
how it went down and the costs were just like
this is not plausible at all, and they're like we're
trying there. They kind of had a feeling it was done,

(37:00):
but obviously you need evidence, right proof something so just
crazy And I didn't I forgot that this literally was happening.
Their trial was happening, uh during like when OJ's trial,
like their their trial was first, and then it was

(37:23):
the Ojay trial. And because OJ got off, they thought
there was a chance that they too were going to
get off. Yeah, he there was a part in there
that apparently he came up with a saying for them too,
or something like if you were abused or something. I

(37:44):
don't know whatever, but fucking crazy, Like those guys are
socio fasts like one. And what's crazy is like I
think they're married or have been married, like, and they
are in prison, you know, for life. I'm just like,
I don't I don't understand people.

Speaker 2 (38:03):
But whatever. Yeah, well you know, I mean ship that's terrible.

Speaker 1 (38:13):
Yeah, yeah, that's cheat and steal a little for real.
He said that ship well allegedly, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
Everything is alleged. So until there's facts, it's it's it's alleged.

Speaker 1 (38:29):
We'll never know because.

Speaker 2 (38:33):
Yeah, I mean, I mean, who you you really gotta
be on some ship to kill your parents? Wasn't there
a story recently of a little a little kid that
killed his mom or or or some ship like that,
And I'm sure there's plenty.

Speaker 3 (38:47):
I think. Well, I mean that one girl that her
and her boyfriend or whatever killed her mom, spent.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
The whole well, she fucking made that girl sick literally
and she was healthy as fuck? What is that that
mounts by proxy? Yes, that mom was yeah, because she wanted.

Speaker 3 (39:14):
Money.

Speaker 1 (39:15):
Yeah, but man, to use your kid like that, ship Hey,
Gipsy Rose, money is the root of all people.

Speaker 2 (39:26):
That's that's fucked up, man.

Speaker 1 (39:29):
I know she says that she regrets it.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
Yeah. What about the fucking the kid that shot up
the fourteen years old who buys their fourteen year old
son an assault rifle? Apparently parents those parents? Yeah yeah,
but the father, the father is going to jail too.

Speaker 1 (39:50):
Yeah. Finally, this is the second one, the second case
where they're actually making the parent accountable because if it
wasn't for the parents, they wouldn't have had the garden.
So yeah, I mean they kind of go together.

Speaker 2 (40:08):
So yeah, So I mean, ship Man, all right, so
what the fuck? Microphone on my face and ship I
going like that way I hit the fucking microphone, I'm like,
what the fuck? Yeah. So with that being said, I

(40:30):
have another the topic here. So this is bad. There's
this football player that played for the Kansas City Chiefs.
I know you guys aren't into sports or nothing, but
this this this is a question. I know, I know,
but I mean, we don't we don't we don't talk.
Don't talk, but this is this is crazy. I don't

(40:51):
know how you would feel about this. So his name
is Carson Steele. He's a rookie running back for the
Kansas City Chiefs. Okay, Sunday that just passed was his
opportunity to start for the first time because the starting
running back is injured. So they're like, you know what,

(41:14):
you're gonna start this week. You're gonna be the number
one running back for our team this week. And we're
talking about the Chiefs now champs, two time champs. They're
going to be working on their third championship. Now his
catch his sister's getting married Sunday. Oh, his sister. His

(41:34):
sister got married Sunday. He chose to play the game
instead of going to the wedding. Right, how would you
feel if you were the sister at that point?

Speaker 3 (41:47):
Well, I mean, if he's playing in the NFL, i'd
have to understand that.

Speaker 1 (41:51):
Yeah, this is like professional, his moment, his moment to
actually do something. I mean, it sucks, but why are
you getting married on a Sunday when your brother could
be playing?

Speaker 3 (42:04):
Hello, Hey, my brother's not showing up for ship for
a lot lesser my brother didn't. My brothers didn't even
come to my daughter's sign and that was and that
was for no reason but to lay on the couch.

Speaker 1 (42:21):
No, yeah, that's just wrong.

Speaker 2 (42:24):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (42:24):
Her own father didn't even show up.

Speaker 2 (42:27):
Oh yeah, so yeah, he played the game, had a
pretty decent game, and didn't go. They didn't go to
the wedding. So I just wanted to know what you
you know, if you were in that situation.

Speaker 3 (42:42):
What do you mean He's getting paid millions of dollars
to do it?

Speaker 2 (42:46):
So, I mean, I'm sure she's got a nice wedding gift.

Speaker 1 (42:48):
Yeah right, I'm sure he could make it up to
her somehow. He should pay for their honeymoon. That's what
I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (42:59):
He could, He really could.

Speaker 3 (43:01):
I'm sure he did something.

Speaker 1 (43:03):
Yeah, let's hope. Yeah, yeah, because you never know, yeah,
you never you never do know.

Speaker 3 (43:10):
I mean, yo, my brothers wouldn't even put me out
if I was on fire and I got and I
got four of them.

Speaker 1 (43:16):
Bad boys, damn.

Speaker 2 (43:20):
Not one of them, not one of them. That's that's
that's tough.

Speaker 3 (43:26):
That's what's spending your whole life taking care of them.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
Does to you.

Speaker 2 (43:30):
Oh yeah, so.

Speaker 3 (43:37):
Too. So you know they were taken care of.

Speaker 2 (43:41):
Yes, yeah, so you have you have four brothers. You said,
do you have any sisters?

Speaker 3 (43:48):
I had one sister, but she passed about nine years ago.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 3 (43:53):
It was all right. She was disabled, so it is
what it is. But nope, it's just.

Speaker 2 (44:00):
Me mm hmm. Yeah, that's that's tough. I got. I
got tons of siblings. I had a brother. I had
a brother that passed though. Yeah, that was that was
a little rough because he he See the thing is
that my my my father. He was he's retired now

(44:23):
he's a Latin singer, right and you know he he had.

Speaker 3 (44:30):
He was retired from making children.

Speaker 2 (44:34):
Yeah, so he's he's retired, but you know, he calls
me from time to time, you know, and I thinks
he's talking to his brother because his brother name is
his brother's name is Corleone too, Okay, So he calls
me up and go, oh yeah Coon, get to what
I say. And I'm like, bro, this is your son.

(45:00):
He's like, oh, I'm sorry, I'll call you back.

Speaker 1 (45:03):
Oh.

Speaker 2 (45:05):
I'm like, man, look and the thing that that really
got me with him is that he's not doing too well,
you know what I mean. And he's at a he's
at a he's at a crossroads I think in his
life where he's he's trying to mend things.

Speaker 3 (45:26):
Right and people ain't ready.

Speaker 2 (45:27):
You know, and he he has he has he has
this thing where it's like, do you forgive me for

(45:49):
what I didn't do for you?

Speaker 3 (45:52):
Right?

Speaker 2 (45:52):
You know what I mean did right? Because he actually
didn't do ship, you know. So it's kind of like
he's he's facing in tortality exactly, and he's like, he's like, damn,
you know, if I don't reconcile, I'm gonna I'm gonna die,

(46:21):
you know.

Speaker 3 (46:22):
In this situation.

Speaker 2 (46:24):
Yeah, so I kind of I kind of feel like
I'm a grown man, you know what I'm saying. I'm not.
I'm not looking for anything. I'm just I'm just like,
you know, and if you wanna, if you want to
come to me and talk to me about it, you know,
like like he has and stuff, and you know, I

(46:47):
I accept it. I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna sit
there and be like, well, go fuck yourself and go
and go go die by yourself, you know what I'm saying.
I mean, he has this lady, he as, he has
other kids and stuff. But he's really focusing for some reason.

Speaker 3 (47:06):
On me, you know, and well maybe you know, in
his heart, it's like he realizes that he did some
big screwing up with you, feels guilty.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (47:19):
Let me tell you something, when when people start to
question immortality, my own biological father did the same thing.
I mean, he showed up in my life after forty
something years, damn and last year and spent the first
ever Father's Day with me. And you know, and of course,
now me being the woman that I am, as soon

(47:42):
as he showed up, I had every right out of
all of my siblings, I think I had the most
right to tell him to go kick rocks. But I
didn't because it's not the person that I am, and
actually ended up seeing that he was in you know,
and so I immediately went to Florida and you know,

(48:06):
did power of attorney and started taking over.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
You know.

Speaker 3 (48:09):
So I'm literally while he's living in Florida trying to
be in denial of his mortality because there's a lot
going on with him, you know, I'm over here in
New Jersey basically taking care of all of his stuff,
you know, paying his bills and and doing all those
things and The funny thing is he was never there

(48:32):
one day in my life. But again, it's not about him.
It's about me, kind of like like you were saying, Corleone.
You know, I don't want my life to go down
that way. You know, I don't want to let him,
you know, cause me bitterness, you know, and the forgiveness

(48:56):
I've given wasn't for him. It was for me because
I deserve peace. I deserve peace and tranquility in my life.
And for me to hold on to whatever, you know,
other people think he deserves. That hurts me more than
that hurts him, because he's still he has still been

(49:17):
living his life over there, you know, and and me
sitting over here just continuing to ruminate in all of
the history for what for what? You know, absolutely, oh yeah,
they start thinking about their more because for the first
time in my life, he cried, you know, how sorry

(49:38):
he is about you know, everything in the you know,
when my mother passed away, not being there and blah
blah blah. Well, the truth is you were never a
dad to begin with. So I'm not missing I'm not
missing anything. Uh, you know. I do what I do
out of the kindness of my heart and because my

(49:58):
mother who actually raised does you know put that in
us to be those people? So yeah, he could cry
all he wants, It doesn't change anything, right.

Speaker 2 (50:12):
Right, And the ship the ship is too is that
when you have a parent that that is delinquent like
that and then pops up. The first thing that comes
to mind is why, Yeah, what do you want? Know
what I'm saying, like, what what do you want? You
know what I'm saying before anything else, like what what?

(50:33):
What the fuck do you want from me? Like what
do I what can I possibly offer you?

Speaker 1 (50:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (50:38):
What are your motives and your intentions and your suspect? Dude?

Speaker 2 (50:43):
Yeah? Like what the fuck? So? Are you missing your
Days's studio fifty four? Are you missing you know what
I'm saying, are you missing the limelight? I mean you
miss traveling the world or you miss traveling you know,
to go see your your your side pieces exactly because

(51:05):
it's let me tell you something he's told He's told
me some stuff while he was drunk, right, and some
of it rocked me, Like I'm like what, I don't
know if I mentioned it, but he one time he
said to me he was, I mean he was. It's
strung and I'm just sitting there listening to him Babylon,

(51:27):
and I think listening to him Babylon is part of
what I do with the old folks, you know what
I'm saying. But just let them talk that ship, let them,
you know, say what they got to say. And every
once in a while, Oh yeah, really wow, you know
what I mean. So he says to me, he says,
you know something, I had three He said, like, that's

(51:52):
how three women. And I thought he was gonna say
at one time, which makes sense, Yeah, WI should make
a lot of sense. But he said, I have I
had three women pregnant for one year, give birth to
kids in one year. So I'm counting in my head

(52:15):
and I'm saying, well, I know that my brother Daniel,
we're the same age a couple of months out of
the year that I know, But who's this third one?

Speaker 3 (52:32):
Oh snack. I'm like, really, you better go do some
twenty three in me.

Speaker 1 (52:39):
I was just gonna say that.

Speaker 2 (52:42):
Well, that's actually one of the reason why I'm gonna
get I'm gonna get it done, because.

Speaker 3 (52:45):
He said ancestry dot Com.

Speaker 2 (52:48):
He said that I have a sister, oh in California somewhere,
and she was born the same year that me and
Daniel were born. And I'm like, bro, how do you

(53:09):
how did how did you get away with this? You
know what I'm saying, Like what what the fuck? He
was like, Oh, you know, I I just was having
a good time with my life. You know, I was
I was I was singing, I was traveling, I was
making babies, right, bro, Like what the fuck you doing?

(53:30):
And he, you know, I don't think he I think
what he regrets is how he handled his situation with
his kids. You know, I don't think he regrets his life.

Speaker 3 (53:41):
Yeah, and how he.

Speaker 2 (53:43):
Right or how he lived it. But I just think
that he's just regretting how he handled the situation with
his kids. Now he is, you know what I'm saying.
And that that's why I'm I know, you know, And
and I think I think I look, I look at it,

(54:04):
and I say to myself that I'm really glad that
I didn't do that to mine, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (54:14):
We know you got to mess load it.

Speaker 2 (54:15):
Down, you know, you know, and you were.

Speaker 3 (54:20):
Playing seeds everywhere?

Speaker 2 (54:25):
Yo, what you're doing? Oh ship man? But but.

Speaker 3 (54:37):
Yeah, I don't know, oh man, did I just do that?

Speaker 2 (54:46):
But it's it's, it's, it's, it's it's you know. I mean,
I'm glad that I didn't do that to any of mine.
You know, I was. I was there from the jump.
Any of my any of my children can tell you that.
You know. I had a couple of hiccups here and there,

(55:08):
but ultimately when it came down to it, you know,
they know, they know what's up. You know what I mean,
they know what the deal is, so, you know, and
then I got I gotta. I got a slew of grandkids,

(55:29):
you know what I'm saying. And Christmas time is rough,
but you know, it's all good. And I think this
year I'm just gonna pick out a gift that's neutral

(55:50):
and get them all the same thing. You know, what,
what do you mean? I want to look. I don't
think any of mind. I don't think my kids are
viewing right now, but I want to get them all
an at M piggy bank so they can learn at
an early age how to save money and yam pay

(56:16):
for my home health aids and stuff. Yeah, and they
can learn how to you know, save money and you know,
ad and math and you know all that good stuff,
especially for the older ones. So that's what I think
I'm going to do. I saw a nice, pretty cool

(56:37):
looking one. He actually comes with a little at M
play card that you can and all right and.

Speaker 1 (56:50):
Money.

Speaker 2 (56:55):
Yeah, so I think I think that's what I'm going
to do. Yeah, So that that's that's what it is.
So we got that, we got we got that, and
I went for in one of my my fantasy football

(57:16):
leagues this week. I'm so happy two weeks in a row.
I'm doing really good.

Speaker 3 (57:25):
But other than that, man, I meant paid balls.

Speaker 2 (57:29):
Right yeah, I mean, I'll be I'll be straight up.
I'll tell you right now that we've been I'm very
happy that we've been so consistent with this the last
month and a half two months. So now I'm gonna
I'm gonna put in two to get it to that
point now. So as long as we can keep this up,

(57:53):
we will, okay. Yeah, So I'm gonna I'm gonna look
into that and you know, make things happen. Mm hmm,
make things happen. And the thing that that that that
I think is as cool is that we have we

(58:15):
have great chemistry between the four of us. You know
what I'm saying. I mean, it's not like we're sitting
here fucking twiddling our fucking thumbs and we don't know
nothing about nothing. You know, we got the fucking over here,
we got over here.

Speaker 3 (58:33):
Yeah, we're all experts in our own fields.

Speaker 1 (58:38):
Right, absolutely, we all have something to offer.

Speaker 2 (58:42):
Yeah, and that and that's what makes it. That's what
makes the dynamic dynamic. You know what I'm saying. And TG,
actually you should, you should. I'm not. I'm not. I mean,
you can do whatever you want to do, but under
your name, under your name, you should put something like
what we have with ours. So you should make a
make up an a ka or something and put it

(59:03):
under there.

Speaker 3 (59:04):
The civil rights advocate, you know.

Speaker 1 (59:11):
But I don't think that's something simple.

Speaker 2 (59:14):
Oh look at this one.

Speaker 3 (59:18):
Oh please, just mind just popped up like one day,
I was just looking at I was looking at the
two of them, and I was just like, I'm gonna
put something on my thing too.

Speaker 1 (59:30):
That's true. They you guys usually do put something on there.

Speaker 2 (59:35):
Yeah, I think.

Speaker 1 (59:39):
No, I didn't do it actually.

Speaker 2 (59:40):
Ever, So so now with that being said, and that
being said, and that being said, I'm not, I am not,
and I will not ask what are you passionate about this? Week.
I will not do that, no worries.

Speaker 1 (01:00:02):
I'm only passionate about sleeping, and I don't.

Speaker 4 (01:00:09):
Think mine is shareable, all right, So all right, I mean,
you know, is there.

Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
I don't anyone to ask them to keep my mouth
shut because I don't want teach you to go on
a tangent over.

Speaker 1 (01:00:26):
Oh my god, I don't have any tangents. I promised,
like we kind of hit some big, big stuff before.
So I mean I can only just add because you
guys shared about your families, but that I am want
the first born, right, you know, so spoiled. I was

(01:00:53):
definitely spoiled by my grandmother because that was the first.
And then I have two brothers and two sisters. But
my youngest sister passed away three years ago giving birth
to my niece. And and I don't really talk to

(01:01:15):
my other brother and sister or my brother. Nobody likes me.
It's okay, though, because.

Speaker 3 (01:01:22):
You know what, we got each other, because.

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
I mean, I probably have the same thing going on here.
But the reality of all of that for me is that,
like I just I've learned as the older I got,
the more I wasn't like able to set boundaries. Oh well,

(01:01:50):
thanks Uh. I was able to set boundaries for myself
and if if I have family members who are toxic
or they or like only bring negative shit, then it
was okay for me to cut ties with that because
I don't want to be I don't want that in
my life absolutely. And as when I was young, I

(01:02:11):
dealt with it because I was taught that your family
is your family, you love them no matter what. But
as an adult and having dealt with so much and
being a survivor of so many things, I'm just like, yeah, no,
like y'all are wrong. I'm not okay with the way
you act, treat people, talk about people, whatever. I don't

(01:02:31):
associate with that. I don't. I'm like my I most
my friends are my family, and my friends aren't like that, so.

Speaker 2 (01:02:41):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:02:43):
But yeah, and then my mom in December, it will
be ten years that she passed away. So it's like,
it's a weird, so weird what.

Speaker 2 (01:02:53):
You thirteen fourteen fourteen, Yeah, my mom passed in twenty thirteen, guide.

Speaker 3 (01:03:00):
To two weeks before September eleventh.

Speaker 1 (01:03:03):
Oh damn, that's tough.

Speaker 3 (01:03:08):
But I tell my I tell my siblings. I was like, hey,
I ain't gotta like you to love you. Yeah, but
I'm gonna but I'm gonna love you from over here
while you be chaotic and toxic over there, right.

Speaker 1 (01:03:21):
Yeah, Like I think like there is love, Like there's
there's good memories that I have, you know, and I'll
live on those. But you know, we'll see what the
future holds. I mean, hopefully people uh become better for themselves, yeah,

(01:03:43):
become more self aware and grow up, and then you know,
I'm willing and able to ament with certain things. But
like certain shit, I'm just like I'm too old for this,
Like I absolutely I don't got time for this anymore.
Like right now, I'm I'm trying to figure out what

(01:04:04):
the hell I want to do with myself. So I'm
currently because my job. One of the benefits is that
they'll pay for tuition. However, the school that they're associated
with only offers to two fucking master degrees. So it's like,

(01:04:24):
unless I want to be a nurse or some other
stupid thing I don't want to do, I'm like, I
don't want to be any of those things. So I'm
just trying to figure it out. But I'm actually thinking
about getting a master's I don't know, and what but
that's what I'm trying to decide right now.

Speaker 2 (01:04:40):
Now.

Speaker 3 (01:04:41):
I'm just I'm just letting you know with the master's degree,
I ain't made no more freaking money.

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
Well this, I mean I was trying to do that
for that, but I mean, we'll see, because like I'm
also trying to try to figure out what I can
get that helps me get a job where I can
actually make changes. So that's kind of like where I'm
going because I feel like I'm going to stand still
right now because you know, to certain people, my experience

(01:05:09):
isn't enough, like for some you know, certain jobs, you
need to have more than just a bachelor's It is
what it is. But like, also, if I want to
make real freaking money, that's what I'm going to have
to do too, because I'm working in healthcare, so the
opportunities are endless. And I think that's why so overwhelming
because I'm just like I know what to do, Like

(01:05:31):
I've thought about maybe going more into nutrition or like
some type of admin type thing or something, but I
have no idea right now, and that's okay, and that
is okay, but I don't have a lot of time
because if I want to start, I want to start
in the spring, so I got to get my shit
together quickly and figure it out.

Speaker 3 (01:05:53):
But hey, it's never too late because even in my age,
even in my age, and I don't even know why,
because the job that I work at now my master's degree.
They don't even care that I got a master's degree.
But I'm considering, you know, my doctorate in something totally
different than what my bachelor's and masters is in. And

(01:06:14):
actually my doctorate would be in something that interests me,
something that speaks to my soul, and would really have
nothing to do with professional because I would not want
to do it professionally, right. So it's just like personal
growth and things like that. But you do get to
a point in your life where you're just like, do
I want to be happy or do I want to

(01:06:35):
be rich and miserable?

Speaker 1 (01:06:37):
So I think I want to be rich and happy.

Speaker 3 (01:06:41):
So I don't know that those two things can exist.

Speaker 1 (01:06:46):
I don't know. I think being someone who grew up poor.

Speaker 3 (01:06:50):
It might be well I grew up, I grew up, Yeah,
I grew up pretty poor. My thing though, is with
the more money that comes, you know, more responsibility and
more taxes, yeah, and less quality of life.

Speaker 2 (01:07:06):
And they say, with great power comes great responsibility.

Speaker 3 (01:07:10):
Yes, yes we know that, Corleone, but it also comes
but it also comes with the high stress and again
a lower quality of life, you know, not lack of resources,
you know, which does make life easier. However, you know,
the stressors get a lot bigger. I mean, the twenty

(01:07:31):
years I spent as a therapist, the people that I treated,
you know, like they all because I worked at least
my last couple of years in doing therapy. It was
in an affluent you know area in Pennsylvania, and I
mean they were so unhappy and you know, just they

(01:07:58):
didn't know what to do with themselves. They had all
of these resources, but no quality of life.

Speaker 1 (01:08:03):
But that's the thing, right, like those people they didn't
have that they didn't have like a purpose. I feel
like people with purpose it's different because definitely, like some
people may not like Bill Gates or whatever, but like,

(01:08:24):
not for nothing, that man as a billionaire has also
done a lot of like charity work and foundations and
things like that to help other people and is doing
you know, so like there are people out there who
have money, but not people like Elon Musk, who fucking

(01:08:45):
just the names, and also just use his money to
do stupid things like put a fucking car in space,
Like why who the fuck? Why did anyone think that
was okay? Thing to do? Is beyond me? But whatever.
That's what I'm saying though, Like, there are people who

(01:09:06):
are miserable because they don't find that purpose in life.
They don't find the things that actually make them happy.
And and you also can't rely on your money for
happiness either, because if you're doing that, then you're fucked really, Like, yes, money,
money brings resources and things. Obviously, ship I would first

(01:09:29):
thing I would do is have someone clean my house
every week and maybe even have someone cooked for me.
I mean, I'm all good with that. But in a car,
a new car. Maybe I'll get you one too, big
c I don't know, yeah, depends how much money I'm
rolling in though, That's all I'm saying. What if I
went the latto? I mean I gotta play it though,

(01:09:50):
but yeah, I mean you never know, so all.

Speaker 2 (01:09:57):
Right, quick, go around the room, right, you win a lottery,
win fifty mil. What's the first thing you do?

Speaker 1 (01:10:06):
First thing I do, pay off my debts. Mhm, get
rid of that shit, buy a house, Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:10:16):
One more thing, give me three things.

Speaker 1 (01:10:19):
Definitely buying a new car or not a new used car.
Even with money, I would and buy a new car.

Speaker 3 (01:10:26):
They're not worth it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:27):
I know. I'm not just gonna be going crazy spending money,
but I definitely think like having a home is like
I would love to own my own home. So for me,
I think that's like the first thing i'd want to do.

Speaker 2 (01:10:43):
All right, what about you, lady G.

Speaker 3 (01:10:46):
I would definitely open up bank accounts for my well,
my granddaughter, both my girls, even my nieces and nephews
because they really they've had a hard way in life,
and you know, they all deserve, you know, So just
a little bit for for everybody that's here. My ten

(01:11:07):
percent to the church.

Speaker 1 (01:11:10):
And uh, that's a lot of money. That's five million dollars.
Sure about that.

Speaker 3 (01:11:17):
I'm positive. Let me tell you I have always done
my ten percent and the Lord has always kept me
above ground.

Speaker 2 (01:11:26):
So yeah, yo, that that's five million dollars.

Speaker 1 (01:11:34):
Okay, that's a lot of money.

Speaker 3 (01:11:36):
Let me tell you something. If I got fifty million,
I would probably do the annuity because what in the
world am I going to do with all that money?
With the amount of time I got left in my life.
I'm not leaving nobody.

Speaker 1 (01:11:49):
I'm not even just throw that to me a big sea.

Speaker 3 (01:11:55):
I can still break you off some but no, God
comes first, man, I gotta given.

Speaker 1 (01:12:00):
My ten percent faithful, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:12:06):
And then the third thing, even though I know what
it is to own a home, I think I would
actually build my dream hacienda, which is actually not very big.

Speaker 1 (01:12:19):
It would not.

Speaker 3 (01:12:21):
It could probably fit in the yard that I have
right now, but it would be the house that I
need and want because I don't see. The thing is
I am very easy to please. I'm easy to please,
but because being in the middle class, we don't make
enough money to do things on our own. But however

(01:12:41):
we're too rich to get any assistance. So the middle
class really does do a lot of suffering. And the
truth is, I'd probably go broke giving it all away
to people because I don't need much.

Speaker 1 (01:12:57):
And what you do, first of all, you need like
a whole uh I forgot the name of it. Oh
my God. Treat yourself day, okay, first of all, because
you deserve it. Go on a couple of vacations. I
have a whole listenship for you to do for yourself.
Don't be go spending all that money. Okay, you deserve it.

(01:13:18):
I mean you talked.

Speaker 3 (01:13:19):
About so that I could I can maintain because I
still have to work. I cannot.

Speaker 1 (01:13:24):
Well, you got to show up for work for a
little while. Least, that's what everyone says that like, if
I went the latto, I would still going to work
and act like everything is okay, and then eventually you
just be like, all right about beaches. I want. I
can't give to the two weeks.

Speaker 3 (01:13:44):
On the I think on the you know, everybody's got
that bad side of them. I probably do something real
bad to my ex husband, make his life a living
mess for a little bit.

Speaker 1 (01:14:00):
You could send him a box of decks.

Speaker 2 (01:14:02):
Oh god, some baby oil.

Speaker 1 (01:14:11):
You could know, there's so many things.

Speaker 3 (01:14:14):
I would buy all of the condos next to his.

Speaker 2 (01:14:21):
And puts next to Oh.

Speaker 3 (01:14:25):
That would be wonderful. I put I put Corleon on
one side and Duves on the other, and then me
and t J. T J'll just show up every once
in a while that our vacation, vacation. That's yeah, I would.
And the funny thing was, I wouldn't do anything to

(01:14:47):
hurt him, but I would annoy the crap out of him.
I would use that money for some good.

Speaker 1 (01:14:53):
Oh you know what some people do. They do like
boxes of glitter. That's fun because that's so hard to
get out of everywhere.

Speaker 3 (01:15:03):
I'd send strippers to his house every Daylarious.

Speaker 2 (01:15:08):
Magic Mike like bitter ideas funny, that's funny. Yeah. So
my three things would be the first thing I would
do is make sure the family set. You know, that
would before I handle mine, to make sure the kids

(01:15:31):
and the grandkids all have you know, they're all set.
And then I would build uh youth football field. I'll
pick a town one of the towns I've lived in
that was that you know that I coached in or whatever.
And I would build a football field with little kids.

(01:15:55):
And then after I did that, I would builds four
things I would do. I would make sure the kids
are good, build a football field. The third thing would
be build like a not not a not a shelter,

(01:16:18):
but like an apartment complex with a bunch of apartments
in it for abused mothers, you know, to make sure
that they get a safe place for themselves, you know.
And then the last thing I would do is go

(01:16:38):
to South Carolina by a big ass piece of land
and build a house for all the kids, right with
a gate in front with a big sign that said the.

Speaker 3 (01:16:59):
Franch. Oh, speaking of which, I have a Wu Tang
poster for you, corleone my granddaughter. Last weekend I was
in Texas, my granddaughter turned too, and for my granda,
my daughter and her husband, it was like a rock

(01:17:21):
party type of thing.

Speaker 1 (01:17:22):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (01:17:23):
And he bought all these posters, like different genres and
whatnot to to decorate the hall with. And so part
of the partying gifts for all the people were the
two to let them pick the posters they wanted to
take home. And I was like, oh, Corleon loves Wu Tang,

(01:17:44):
so let me get.

Speaker 2 (01:17:45):
That post A word thank you. If I if I.

Speaker 3 (01:17:50):
Had known, you know what what TG and and Dubs liked,
I probably if they had it, I would have grabbed
them for those two.

Speaker 2 (01:17:59):
Wow.

Speaker 3 (01:18:00):
Man, Yeah, this little girl was so funny because she
had on I mean, of course it was plether. It
wasn't real leather. Uh, a pleather skirt. My my daughter
bought her combat boots and fishnet knee highs.

Speaker 1 (01:18:16):
I can't with.

Speaker 3 (01:18:17):
A red Hot Chili Peppers T shirt and a leather
jacket It was uh adorable. And she even had her
own little setup of a microphone, like the real microphone
that had the the tie the things tied onto it. Uh,

(01:18:42):
like all of those wall hanging things or like bandannas
or whatever tied onto it. Yes, like Steven Tylert has
or whatever. Yeah, but it has it. But but she
but she had all these things tied on them.

Speaker 1 (01:18:57):
A rock star, yeah, like a rock star.

Speaker 3 (01:19:00):
And then she even had a speaker, like one of
her own little subway for speakers.

Speaker 1 (01:19:07):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (01:19:08):
I had like play guitars and whatnot.

Speaker 1 (01:19:10):
It was.

Speaker 3 (01:19:12):
It was so like imaginative and at the same at
the same time like the cutest thing. You just want
to bite all the little kids that were singing.

Speaker 1 (01:19:25):
It was.

Speaker 3 (01:19:28):
Yep. But Texas was hot. I'm like, can I go home?

Speaker 2 (01:19:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:19:36):
Heard that?

Speaker 3 (01:19:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:19:40):
Hot.

Speaker 3 (01:19:40):
You wake up and all of a sudden you're on fire.

Speaker 1 (01:19:44):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (01:19:45):
And then we got stuck in the Boston airport. Oh
god overnight.

Speaker 2 (01:19:51):
I was like, oh gosh, man, well, how did you
end up in Boston?

Speaker 3 (01:19:55):
Well that was one of the layovers, so you went past, yes, stupid, yep,
that's the way the airline did it. I was like
but the reason we got stuck in Boston is because
these idiots uh booked us on a flight that took

(01:20:17):
off before we landed, Oh Jesus. And then they tried,
they were they were getting ready to not and so
we missed the last flight back to Philly. And I'm like,
but this is your like, your fault, your mistake. You
changed our flight. And they were like, but we sent

(01:20:39):
an email, And I said, you know what you know
when they sent the email while we were in the air, Yeah,
like yeah, and how was I supposed to read that email?
If you tell me my phone's got to be on.

Speaker 1 (01:20:56):
Off?

Speaker 3 (01:20:57):
Yeah, and I was supposed to read that email that
you changed my flight, and then when I arrived it's
already gone. So what am I supposed to do with that?
So that was interesting, it was.

Speaker 2 (01:21:09):
Yeah, that's that's yeah, that's oh man.

Speaker 3 (01:21:16):
Yeah, So of course I miss an extra day of
work and my younger daughter missed the extra day of school.
I'm like, you.

Speaker 2 (01:21:25):
People, well, it was quite an adventure, wasn't it.

Speaker 1 (01:21:31):
Yes, it was.

Speaker 2 (01:21:34):
All right, that's cool. So it's like interesting, Yeah, it
really does, it really does. So with that being said,
Lady G, what's your final thought of the evening.

Speaker 3 (01:21:52):
It's all gravy. Life is what you do about things
and only ten percent about what actually happens. So we
get to decide.

Speaker 2 (01:22:06):
Okay, So that's good. Stuff makes sense, makes a lot
of sense. TG love. What's your final thought of the evening?

Speaker 1 (01:22:15):
Don't get old there you start peeing yourself, your bladder
fails you. It's not cool, yo.

Speaker 3 (01:22:25):
They getting up in the morning.

Speaker 1 (01:22:27):
I'm so done getting older.

Speaker 3 (01:22:29):
That little bit over walk you gotta do and then
when you get to the end of the hallway then
you can stand straight up.

Speaker 2 (01:22:37):
Who needs a home healthy?

Speaker 1 (01:22:39):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:22:40):
Oh damn.

Speaker 1 (01:22:42):
It's like I wake up, I hear all these things
cracking and stuff, and I'm just like, I'm like, damn uh.
There was a me and my share with my best
friend today that said something about like, when you're younger,
you could like fall down like five like feet down
or whatever, and you're you just get a scratch or something.

(01:23:04):
But when you're old, you could be making a cake
and you dislocate your shoulder. Ridiculous. It's true that you
were cooking so hard.

Speaker 2 (01:23:26):
Sounds going on in there? What the chicken? It was?

Speaker 5 (01:23:34):
The other day I was just like, oh my god,
it's crazy crazy, that's hilarious.

Speaker 3 (01:23:45):
You're the only one I know. He's a cheeseburger with
no cheese.

Speaker 1 (01:23:52):
I can't.

Speaker 2 (01:23:54):
Let me get a cheeseburger hold the cheese.

Speaker 1 (01:23:59):
How was raughing to? Oh my god, I would laugh
at you and be like, it's called the hamburger, sir.

Speaker 2 (01:24:06):
I'lladly pay you Tuesday for a hamburger today, but I
needed the bacon.

Speaker 3 (01:24:16):
Ship.

Speaker 2 (01:24:17):
Oh. My final thought the evening.

Speaker 6 (01:24:19):
Is, uh, don't get burger without cheese, don't.

Speaker 1 (01:24:36):
I mean, it's not as good without cheese.

Speaker 2 (01:24:38):
I'm sorry, it really isn't. It really isn't. It really isn't.
Oh ship. Yeah, Well, it was a great night. I
really enjoyed hanging out with y'all. It was ladies night.
Don't worry about it. So with that being said, I'm
big Quodon. That's lady G. That's TG love. This is

(01:25:00):
this my herd podcast, and always keep in mind that at.

Speaker 1 (01:25:03):
Some point this is my hurt.

Speaker 2 (01:25:06):
Good Night everyone, good night, good night. H