Welcome Back Wednesday (Recorded LIVE On 1-29-25)

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Speaker 1 (01:43):
Nay, except everybody, this big cold on of this my
every podcast, coming to you live like we always do.
It's been a while, it's been a minute, it's been
over a month, to be honest with you, but may
bring hi. Co hosts Stady G the One, the Only Lady.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
Hello when I snows me hinting?

Speaker 1 (02:11):
What's up?

Speaker 2 (02:13):
Not much? Same old stuff, no and exciting. Yeah right, yeah,
happy new year for at least not be that, you know,
all that great stuff.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Yeah we missed, we missed all that where we're late,
but yeah we're we're back, you know, yeah, most definitely,
most definitely. So how you been? How's how's the thought
of doing good?

Speaker 3 (02:40):
Good?

Speaker 2 (02:42):
Every day I get up, it's a good.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
Day, that's right. That's how you gotta look at it.
That's how you gotta That's how you gotta view it. Right.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
And I got little and I got little things, you know,
keep keep life going.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
Well, that's good. That's awesome. Can I if anything better? Right?

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Yeah? And you can ask, but that only you ain't
in it.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
That Jack doesn't mean you're gonna get it. You know
what I mean, I get it. I understand completely. So
it's twenty twenty five New year's coming gone, Christmas is
coming gone. Everything is a midnight what's up? Oh? Thank you?

Speaker 2 (03:34):
Ah, that's so sweet. We've been missed.

Speaker 1 (03:38):
We appreciate that. Yes, yeah, well, thank you very much.
We really appreciate it. We really appreciate it. Gotta gotta
gotta love those fans, you know what I mean. They
keep us going, They keep us going. So since you

(03:59):
live the area, I'm gonna give some props, and props
is due. I don't want to do this, but I
have no choice, you know what I'm saying. I mean,
it's hello, Heather, how you doing. The Eagles did that thing?

Speaker 2 (04:23):
Yes, we did.

Speaker 1 (04:25):
Eagles did that thing?

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Man?

Speaker 1 (04:26):
I mean, oh, I mean not guess.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
I thought about you all day. Corleo. I was like,
he gotta be hurting.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yeah, what happened in Washington? Yo? Oh good, Mitchelle, thank you,
thank you, thank you. Appreciate it. Back to this one.
But big see what happened to Washington. I'll tell you
what happened to Washington.

Speaker 2 (04:59):
They it was fun. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
I'm not gonna make any goddamn excuses. I can sit
here and talk all the shit I want to talk,
but the fact of the matter is it was a
rough game. You know what I'm saying. Philly came in
and handle business. It was in their house. I mean,
they have to handle business, you know what I mean.
There's there's no offens or buts about it. You can't.

(05:24):
You gotta handle business in your house, you know.

Speaker 4 (05:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
But you know, with every win, there's always got to
be those knuckleheads who do something stupid. Yeah, and a
poor young person died. Really yeah, he was because Philly
always does it big when we when we win and whatnot.
And he was climbing up on light poles and stuff

(05:48):
and he fell and passed away. So there's always got
to be and he was young. He was young, like
like nineteen, I think, you know, man, So to see that,
people always say I'm extra, but you know, those consequences
people don't think about. Absolutely have some fun.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
But now, just now that that was because they won.
Imagine imagine that game, and.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
And we've had stuff like that on South Street and whatnot,
where people just they they tore the streets up when
they lost.

Speaker 1 (06:31):
Yeah that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
But it was a good game, it was you.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
Know, yeah, yeah, it was it was it was all right, Yeah,
it was all right.

Speaker 2 (06:46):
So but true fans win to lose.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
Oh absolutely, absolutely, yeah, absolutely all day. It's this.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Yeah, that definitely. I mean you got to think about
the families of that young man, and you know they're
just their tragedies, but the tragedies that can be prevented,
you know.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah, that's.

Speaker 2 (07:20):
Just I mean, I digress.

Speaker 1 (07:27):
All right, all right, all right, all right, So I
got a couple of things to talk about here. Let's
get it moving. Let's keep it moving. Waiting on PG
Love to join us in a bit. Doub Don should
be here soon, so let's go with Let's let's start
off with a couple of situations. Now, we got some

(07:54):
we got some stories here we're going to talk about.
It's not story time, but it's some stories. And we
want the fans of the show that are listening and
watching to give us their opinions and their thoughts besides
what we say and what we think and our opinions

(08:14):
and stuff on these on these stories. Now, I'm gonna
read them, so bear with me. I I can read,
but it's kind of it's it's kind of dark. So
I'm gonna try. And yeah, I should have some kind
of little light here, but I don't. But it is
what it is, all right, this is this is Let

(08:37):
me see the other topics.

Speaker 2 (08:38):
Piach the dog to hold your flashlight.

Speaker 1 (08:41):
Yeah, where where is she? Let me see she's somewhere
around there. As long as she's not barking, it's all good,
all right. So my boyfriend and I have been together
for a little over three years. A couple of years ago,
he told me, in the middle of an argument, probably

(09:02):
that things were so bad with his past girlfriend that
he got a calendar that he put stickers on every
time they had a good day. I think he was
making the point that he and I don't have don't
have that many bad days. I can only speculate. I

(09:28):
really don't remember the full context. I don't think he
remembered telling me about this. A couple of weeks ago,
he presented me with a calendar and a pack of
stickers and presented it to me with that same idea.

(09:50):
I remembered what he had told me and asked him directly,
what did you What did you do this? Because you
did it with your ex He didn't really acknowledge it.
So I had been sitting here with this calendar on

(10:11):
my desk for weeks, not knowing what to do with it.
On the other hand, the calendar was thoughtful, had kittens
on it. At least he was nice enough to get
something that, you know, she might like. Wow, they had
kittens on it, and the general idea of marking good

(10:33):
days doesn't seem too bad. But knowing he had done
it with more than two of his other girlfriends gave
me a lot of weird feelings. Not because it's an
ex I'm not jealous. It just feels patronizing. It feels

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indicative of a negative pattern in his life. I can't
quite explain it, and that's part of the issue. I
feel guilty for not putting it up because he put
He did put something thoughtful behind it, but I'm just
not comfortable. I dropped a few hints that I wasn't

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comfortable with it. Like I said, I don't know about
the stickers, but hanging up the calendar would be nice
because they had kittens on it. We've had a really
good week. Today he came into my office, opened the
calendar and put six or seven stickers on it and said,

(11:43):
I really don't want to rain on your sticker idea.
Though she said no, she said, I really don't want
to rain on your sticker idea, and I proceeded to
directly explain he kind of acted like it was ridiculous
and that I would feel, oh, I would feel that way,

(12:04):
and made it out to be like I was jealous,
which I can see why it came across that way. Yeah,
I lost my place. See that's what happened.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
But I think that's I think that in itself describes everything.
I don't even think you have to finish the story.

Speaker 1 (12:26):
But but needless to say, she said that he's done
it before with his ex girlfriends. He's always done it
with his ex girlfriends. And they got into an argument
and he didn't put any stickers on the days they
had arguments, the only stickers that they had good days on.
And she she wasn't sure how to handle the situation
because she felt like he was he was he was

(12:48):
patronizing her, and you know, just it's it's weird. It's weird.

Speaker 2 (12:55):
It's like me weird because like as as a therapist,
as you know, as a psychologist and whatnot, Like I
could see how the gist of it might be a
good idea, but only if it was like a mutual
what can we do right? One he's recycling a previously

(13:19):
done exercise, and he let her know that it was
previously done with other couples, you know, with his other relationships.
So that's number one. Number two, who's the one that
gets to decide? It sounds like he's a kindergarten teacher
creating a reward chart, and you believe it or not,

(13:40):
that is exactly what he's doing. He's creating, you know,
a reward chart. But it's like, for what is the purpose?
Because again, we come up with ideas, we come up
with with things, and I have to admit I may
have been guilty of this at some point in my
life too. It's like we come up with these ideas
is because we find ourselves in these these places. Uh yeah,

(14:06):
do we go get ice cream? If we get so
many stickers?

Speaker 1 (14:09):
You like?

Speaker 2 (14:10):
You know, but you have to ask what is what?
What was your intent with this exercise? You know, what
were you hoping to accomplish? And two why are we
Because I can't speak for all women, but I know
me as a woman, I and I think just because

(14:30):
I'm a leo, I want to be you know what,
don't even go there. I want to be special, you know,
like I don't want to be doing the same thing
that you were doing with everybody else. I mean, I
know things are going to be repeated and all that.

Speaker 5 (14:46):
But.

Speaker 2 (14:48):
Something like that, that that's not something you want to
be another person in line for, right, you know. And
and again I just gotta I gotta ask what was
the intent? What was what was your hope? Because I mean,
who decides when it was a good day and when
it was a bad day? You know, Corleone, I can
fight with you all day and it's still gonna be

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a good day.

Speaker 1 (15:12):
Absolutely, Yeah, well it's always gonna be a good day.

Speaker 2 (15:15):
So many questions, so many questions about that one right there.

Speaker 1 (15:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
So I mean concept, the concept itself, you know, like
when you're a couple and you're coming to uh like
ideas ideas of how we can make things work, and
but that that requires both people to contribute, you know, right.

Speaker 1 (15:40):
Yeah, So I'm not Yeah, I'm not. I don't Yeah,
I don't understand. Why the fuck you're not a man?

Speaker 3 (15:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yeah, I mean to get a calendar and just here's
your gold sticker. I mean, what the fuck you like?

Speaker 2 (16:00):
She said? Is it a reward chart?

Speaker 1 (16:03):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (16:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (16:05):
Who wants to be a repeat. Listen, listen, let me
tell you something that's like you and your ex had
a favorite restaurant, and now when we have a special occasion,
you want to take me to that same restaurant.

Speaker 1 (16:20):
Well maybe they got good fucking wings.

Speaker 2 (16:22):
Okay, well we're gonna have to but for our special thing,
know you, then we go. Now we have to find
our own special place. Yes, unique in your own way.
And if there is an issue, yes, we do need
to talk about it and again sometimes again. Because I
did marriage you know, I was a marriage and family

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therapist almost twenty years. It's like, yes, it it does
behoove you to find some tools that will be helpful
in figuring out, you know, what's going on. Like, for instance,
I had a conversation.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
That one second. Let me bring you in.

Speaker 4 (17:05):
Okay, tg lo, now we we're on. We're on some
just catch up, catch up? What are you talking about?

Speaker 1 (17:22):
I got a calendar. I'm going to put stickers on
for you, just gold golden stickers. So at the end
of the week you get ice cream.

Speaker 2 (17:29):
Oh oh see, like the concept, the concept this sweet,
but it's like what is the purpose?

Speaker 1 (17:39):
You know? Like yeah, oh so let me just run
her up real quick. Yeah, so we got got got
a story, chick says. This woman says her boyfriend gave
her a calendar. He explains to her that he's done
this before with his ex girlfriends. He gives them, he's
given them a calendar and on the good days, he

(18:01):
put stickers on the days that were good, and no
stickers on the days that were bad.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
And let me let me follow up with that, Oh
you put sticker. He was putting stickers on this calendar
for when they had good relationship days, and then no
stickers if they had a bad relationship day, like an
argument or something, you know. And it came up with
this all by himself, no consultation or nothing. And so

(18:30):
she's like, well, thanks for the calendar, but I'm not
sure how I feel about this whole exercise. Uh. And
the fact that again it's something he did with previous relationships.

Speaker 3 (18:42):
Yeah, that's why they're axes.

Speaker 2 (18:44):
Yes, if you do what you've always done, you're gonna
get what you always got.

Speaker 1 (18:49):
So you just doomed it words.

Speaker 3 (18:52):
Yeah that's so weird.

Speaker 1 (18:55):
Yeah, it's like, all right, gold star, here you go.
We had a good day.

Speaker 3 (19:04):
Yeah. Oh wait, that star is not deserved.

Speaker 5 (19:09):
I mean, every day is different, and like there's so
many reasons why people get into arguments, and sometimes they're
not even big arguments, like it's just stupid shit and
you get over it or whatever, little tip for tat things.
But right, but like to value every day a certain

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way on your relationship, that's just strange.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
That's that's that's a way to look at it, you
know what I mean?

Speaker 5 (19:40):
I mean, yeah, like what is he doing like counting
back on like how many good days?

Speaker 3 (19:45):
Like oh we were good on you know?

Speaker 2 (19:48):
Well, I think he I think what Cole said was
that he was trying to prove to her that they
have more good days than that. But my thing is, regardless,
what what are we doing about these no star days?
Like are we actually doing something too?

Speaker 1 (20:03):
Is there some kind of communication like kind of communication?

Speaker 2 (20:07):
Does it just count as a no star day we failed?

Speaker 3 (20:10):
Or like are I mean, what's the grating system exactly?
You know, is it eighty to ninety percent?

Speaker 5 (20:18):
What's happened?

Speaker 2 (20:18):
We got a GPA for each semester exactly? Oh ipp
in the party? I need a gold star? Oh my god,
that's hilarious.

Speaker 1 (20:31):
Oh shit, Yeah, but I mean it's it's it but
the fact that he said to her, I've done this
with my exes, and now I'm gonna do this with you.

Speaker 2 (20:41):
As soon as you say I did this with my
ex I'm gonna say, well, then that's next right there.

Speaker 5 (20:46):
Yeah, that didn't work that didn't work out.

Speaker 1 (20:52):
So by Felicia, oh man, you know ec Yeah, it's like, yeah,
it is weird. It is a weird, a weird situation. Yeah.
So now I'm gonna go to the second story, okay,
and I have to read this one. This one TG

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will be here for and she can give me a
gold sticker if I read it correctly. All right, So
all right, so I'm I'm a twenty eight year old male.

Speaker 2 (21:30):
There is wrong. We don't need to be reading about
no twenty eight year old males. Thanks, Derek Sack hasn't
even dropped yet.

Speaker 1 (21:40):
Man, all right, all right, so jacket, all right, I'm
a twenty eight year old male. I've been living with
my girlfriend who's thirty one, for almost two and a
half years now, and I'm feeling really stressed, stressed out
about the relationship dynamic. Here's the situation. I moved into

(22:04):
her apartment with the initial agreement of splitting the bills,
housework expenses and rent and whatever else. Months go by
and the intimacy dies completely, so almost nonexistent at this point.
No cuddles, no hugs, no kisses, no sex. As time

(22:26):
goes on, I feel like I'm doing everything for my
partner and I'm still not having my needs met. We
both work full time jobs. I have a pretty chill
work schedule. Some days I work four hours, some days
I work nine hours, while she works a full eight

(22:47):
hour plus day every day. Most of the time. After work,
I tidy up the apartment. I buy her favorite bottle
of wine, I make her dinner or order food, and
then put on her favorite crime drama for us to
sit and enjoy. I try my best to go out

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of my way, above and beyond whatever is possible to
support her. I make her feel loved in every way that.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
I can, except for the fact that you have to
split the bills. What the heck is that about?

Speaker 6 (23:24):
All right?

Speaker 1 (23:25):
Right, on the other hand, she is. In the other hand,
she's in mindor debt from school and other things, so
afterwards she seems stressed and overwhelmed. I don't ask her
for much. I just want to be there for her
and in return, I want to have some genuine connection

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with her. In the past few months, I've been feeling
like my needs have been extremely neglected. We have not
had section over four months. It's not okay with me.
I believe relationships are supposed to go both ways, and I,

(24:10):
unfortunately have not been on the receiving end. The past
few times I've tried to initiate sexual advances with her,
she flat out and said she's not in a mood
or not tonight, and I have just given up on
making more attempts at the risk of me feeling inadequate

(24:32):
and embarrassed. I have tried to bring up my feelings
on multiple occasions, and her reaction is that I'm nagging.
I'm nagging her, and that I always point out the
things that she does wrong, and I never look at myself.

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I never look at myself right. And then all right,
I feel like I I cannot have a conversation with
her explaining that I have needs and expectations, and I
am really hurt over the fact that she isn't willing
to reciprocate supporting me and making me feel heard. It's

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frustrating to stay.

Speaker 2 (25:18):
The least where a reverse relationship?

Speaker 1 (25:23):
Where where else am I supposed to turn for my
needs to be met? What else can I do beyond
communicating my feelings with her? How long do I have
to keep on putting up with the relationship, this relationship dynamic?
We don't have money for couple's therapy? Are my feelings

(25:45):
justified or feeling like I should consider taking a break
for this relationship? I genuinely don't know what to do
or where to turn. I love this woman to death,
but I also cannot keep living my life.

Speaker 3 (26:01):
Like this agreed four months that's wrong with you?

Speaker 2 (26:06):
Yeah, but okay, even beyond that. So he's talking about
all the things that he does for her, But the
thing is was that did they have that discussion about
expectations and all of those things in the beginning? Like, yeah,
I'm sure they didn't, and you know not that everybody

(26:27):
subscribes to love languages, But it's that whole thing about
you're loving somebody the way you want to be loved,
but are you loving them the way they want to
be loved? So he feels like he's overextending himself. But
has she expressed that that's what she wants? That that's
what she needs. And I'm sorry, but you could cook
all the meals you want. That has nothing. That is

(26:49):
a totally separate thing from our sex life. Like I
don't gauge my sex life based on how many things
you do for me, and it a lot of women,
not all, But that's not how I feel loved and valued.
You know, just because you clean something or just because

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you pick up Hello, you live there too, that's just
as much your responsibility as his mind. They're not doing
me no favors, right, you know. Now if you see
me doing it and you help me with it, that's
that's valuable. But that's only valuable to me. You got
to know what she's thinking, you know, and find out

(27:31):
what her reason is for not wanting to be intimate,
because she may have a valid reason. Everybody's feelings are valid,
so he's when he says, are my feelings valid? Of
course they're valid, but so with hers. Have we even
discussed if she has feelings about any of this? Or
you know, like, what are these conversations that that is

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he talking to her or is he talking at her?

Speaker 1 (27:54):
Right? I mean maybe maybe maybe, Like like this is
only one side of the story. Yeah, you know, his
feet is thinking bed. I mean maybe that's the problem.
I mean, maybe he doesn't know how to wipe his ass.
I don't know. Maybe he does know how to take
a shower and he doesn't.

Speaker 2 (28:10):
And it smells like something died, you know, like oh boy,
he burbs and it's a beef hot dog.

Speaker 1 (28:17):
I mean, I don't know, you know what I'm saying.
I mean, it could be a whole lot of different things.

Speaker 5 (28:22):
Living with somebody and being in a relationship with somebody.
If they stinking you haven't said something that's bullshit.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
Well if the woman isn't, you know, if she if
she ain't standing up for herself, I could see that happening.

Speaker 5 (28:38):
Yeah, I mean, yes, if someone's not standing up for themselves.
But that's kind of weird that you would want to
be with somebody who's smelling.

Speaker 2 (28:46):
I'm like, you either address it or I'm out right.

Speaker 5 (28:50):
So I don't know. I just take the whole thing
of like, this is what happens prior to people cheating,
Like they they try so hard on their end or
I think they're doing everything they need to be doing
for the relationship to be better. But it's it could
just be assumptions being made of what is going to

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make this relationship better, And it sounds to me like
something is going on with her that she isn't voicing
because or he's not hearing, because that.

Speaker 1 (29:24):
Could be possible too, just not hearing.

Speaker 5 (29:26):
Yeah, Like we're talking four months of no intimacy, like no,
and you live with this person, Like I just I
feel like I'm not saying no, I am saying that
in a real relationship there needs to be multiple levels
of intimacy, not just sex, but when there is no

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kind of intimacy and a person's needs aren't being met
in any way in a relationship, and he says that
he's voiced it and she's like take you'd been like whatever,
You're just like okay. So I feel like maybe he
is trying to let her know and she's not trying
to hear it. So if you're trying and there's no resolve,

(30:13):
there's nothing coming back from that other person, And that's
sometimes it sit down and say listen, I don't think
this is working out because like I need more than
what you're giving me. You're not telling me what's going
on on your end. Obviously something's up, but like I'm
not here for a roommate. I'm here for a relationship.

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So because it sounds like he feels like a roommate right.

Speaker 2 (30:40):
Now, I'm sorry, but I'm going to go back to
my original comment TG and I know that we don't
all feel the same, but it sounded from the very
beginning the way you guys set things up it was
a roommate situation. Because I'm sorry, it's a roommate situation
if we're both paying half the bills.

Speaker 5 (30:59):
Like no, I think that's kind of the norm these
days because it is so expensive.

Speaker 6 (31:05):
I he Yo, you know what that is? Another being, bro,
you know what I'm saying, Like, Yo, you know what
he she realized four months ago that she was nothing
in relationship pervod. What I'm saying, rying that long ass?
Let it bro, man up, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (31:22):
That's what.

Speaker 2 (31:24):
Scooter.

Speaker 3 (31:25):
Maybe she's noise that.

Speaker 5 (31:31):
Work street, baby, leave that ship outside.

Speaker 7 (31:35):
Damn, it's sounding like a helicopter was I'm like, it's
got like a pup punt going on.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
What the heck hold on? Let me just tell him that.

Speaker 2 (31:50):
It's I thought he was on like a little a
little scooter or something.

Speaker 3 (31:54):
Motorcycle or something.

Speaker 1 (31:56):
You know, yeah, his son's motorcycle. That's what he's saying.

Speaker 5 (31:59):
Now they say't the time of place for that? Now,
come on, Oh my lord, you were you were saying something,
you were saying.

Speaker 1 (32:10):
Sorry, sorry, No, I mean, like.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
I said, I know everybody doesn't agree, and maybe that
is kind of the norm.

Speaker 5 (32:21):
But it's.

Speaker 2 (32:25):
It's us having expectations of people without expressing those expectations
or even agreeing on being in those situations. So you know,
it's like whatever, I mean, whatever they decide is what
they decide. But you know, yes, I gotta, I.

Speaker 1 (32:42):
Gotta you used to handle this. I gotta handle some
very back. Okay, all right, I'll be back.

Speaker 2 (32:49):
We got it to you.

Speaker 3 (32:50):
You to handle it. Oh damn. Okay.

Speaker 5 (32:57):
So yes, but it's that's it's an unfortunate thing right now.
But that is the case where in the households it
is two people trying to work together to to you know,
pay things. I know of relationships where the husband pays
for the mortgage or whatever and then the white helps

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with whatever bills and stuff like that. But I'm doing
all this crap by myself because it's ridiculously hard to
do it.

Speaker 3 (33:30):
By yourself. It's just so.

Speaker 5 (33:33):
It's it's not doable. The reality is it's it's it's
not doable right now in our country to live on
your own. Like, uh, rent prices are extremely high, groceries
are extremely high. Yas is ridiculous, Like every expense that
we need is expensive, and our wages are not showing Yeah,

(33:59):
they're not showing up that way. So it's like where
I believe what did they say? We're still like I
think in the nineties or the beginning of the two
thousands is when it was like seven dollars the federal
minimum wage and it's still it is so and it's

(34:23):
crazy because the government right now definitely does not want
to raise the minimum wage.

Speaker 2 (34:31):
So so it's the government right now is just all
over the place. Yeah, I was telling Corleone, I was like,
all this stuff that's been happening just within the last week,
you know, got me in tears. You know, you're involving
children and all this other stuff. It's just it's crazy

(34:53):
and it's frustrating, and it really leads people to sit
down and say, what what is happening?

Speaker 5 (35:01):
Not everyone, unfortunately, a lot of people eat that propaganda
up and are quick to want to deport people and
not care like I've seen videos of people blatantly being
like I don't give a fuck that you're your family's
being torn apart.

Speaker 3 (35:20):
You shouldn't be here. And it's interesting because.

Speaker 5 (35:24):
A lot of people don't what's going on here? Nothing
about here?

Speaker 1 (35:31):
Did I did? I just did? I just hear something
I wasn't supposed to hear.

Speaker 8 (35:35):
We're talking about families and then we're talking about families
literally how families are being torn apart because people don't
understand immigrants.

Speaker 3 (35:49):
And what can consist of an illegal immigrant or undocumented.

Speaker 2 (35:58):
But they're they're removing children that have legal status.

Speaker 5 (36:04):
My whole thing is the going to schools. I don't understand,
Like that's one.

Speaker 1 (36:11):
Thing, is like the wait before you continue, just not
want to say one thing. Yes, I'm gonna give you
five minutes on this.

Speaker 3 (36:22):
Five minutes.

Speaker 2 (36:23):
We're not we're not taking sides. We're just stating the
facts that are happening.

Speaker 5 (36:29):
Right This is becoming like, this is what's happening in
our country right now. Brown people are being looked at
and taken without and then asking questions later. That's not
okay because illegal undocumented migrants. Immigrants that happen come from

(36:51):
all over, so they are racial profiling with this. If
you have legit criminals, then you have warrant judicial warrants
that you're giving to wherever to get these people showing
up at schools, children schools to scare the ship out
of kids and families.

Speaker 3 (37:12):
That's not how you do this.

Speaker 5 (37:14):
It's like around them up and then ask questions later.
Puerto Ricans like American they're American citizens, Uh, needing to
have ida on that, Like, yeah.

Speaker 3 (37:30):
That happened.

Speaker 9 (37:30):
You want the why not not suns out? You know
what I'm saying, because Yo, you know what, Yeah, that's
the plan play out. Then who the hell is gonna
be working in the poms Nobody?

Speaker 3 (37:40):
This is the thing.

Speaker 5 (37:42):
It's gonna be bad. It's America US big time. And
and those migrant workers they pay taxes, so like they
already showed, I forgot how many billions of dollars undocumented
under documented immigrants make for this country in taxes and

(38:05):
they have no rights. Okay, they're giving us money, but
they're not getting the rights of being a citizen. So
I think it's important for people to understand information and
not have misinformation and understand that a lot of the
people that are here are here legally because they came

(38:27):
here under asylum or visa or something else that got
them into the country and they and it takes a
lot of time. The issues in our government is the
structure for immigration is broken.

Speaker 3 (38:42):
They have to fix that.

Speaker 5 (38:44):
And it's not about detaining people or throwing them back
to their countries, because that's not how it works.

Speaker 6 (38:51):
You know, you have right you have to be from
your work right around. You know what I'm saying. Look
at that that Trump's wife. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (39:02):
You know, like, according to what he wants with birthright citizenship,
then his son Baron doesn't belong here, and neither does Milania.

Speaker 6 (39:11):
Goodbye exactly.

Speaker 5 (39:13):
That makes no sense, Like you want to get rid
of birthright citizens Like what these people have been here.
Some of us have been here forever. You know what
I'm saying. We've lived our lives, we become citizens or whatever.
It is, Like, it's just crazy.

Speaker 6 (39:32):
Did you hear that the ICE was raiding the reservations.

Speaker 5 (39:36):
Yes, this is what I'm saying. They are going after
brown people and that's not cool.

Speaker 6 (39:40):
That hell, yo, you know what that is that you
know what that's crazy.

Speaker 9 (39:43):
So my plan is this, right when I'm like out
of Elizabeth or you know, take a should out of
berger Line, I see Ice, I'm gonna look, I'm gonna
start running right and then like you know, when they
chase me whatever the right.

Speaker 6 (39:56):
Like why you're running, I'm like, you know what I mean?

Speaker 9 (40:00):
And when I asked me question, But yo, nigga, look,
I'm just ran to my car because I forgot something.

Speaker 6 (40:04):
Give some leeway for all. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (40:07):
You know, my fellow Browns, my fellow Browns, get people.
You know I'm saying, bounce. I'm serious, bro, you know.

Speaker 6 (40:12):
What I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (40:13):
Ice agents took three women, uh the other day because
they were speaking Spanish and they're they're all citizens, yo.

Speaker 6 (40:20):
They just they detained the Puerto Rican veteran.

Speaker 5 (40:24):
Yeah in Jersey likework.

Speaker 9 (40:28):
Yeah and Nork or whatever, right, and like yo, the
the funny thing about it is that I was at
the van to drink good Yo.

Speaker 6 (40:36):
I was at the I was at the v.

Speaker 9 (40:38):
A today right not yo, yo. You know what it's
a taboo subject. But yo, you know what's happening right now?
We can you know what I'm saying, dance around the
whole ship. I'm not going on that.

Speaker 1 (40:48):
We're not We're not We're not going to do this,
but Yo.

Speaker 9 (40:52):
It's happening. Bro, you know what I'm saying, like like yo,
you know what? You know what I'm saying, like like Yo,
you know what I mean. We could come by all
we want. You know what I'm saying, but because going
to hit, we're not gonna. We're not gonna talk about
the as well were we Well, we're we're gonna ship.

Speaker 5 (41:07):
I think it's hard though, to combay all this ship
when it's affecting our people like as apanic person I
have real.

Speaker 1 (41:19):
Yeah, well that's that's affects.

Speaker 5 (41:22):
Putting that on anything you could get.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
What crying, you know for five years and no relationship.

Speaker 3 (41:34):
No, this is not okay.

Speaker 5 (41:36):
Look you know what, We're gonna do a show justifying her,
like can we play the match game. Let's find three
acceptable bachelors. Okay, we're gonna grill them and question the
ship out of them, and then she gets to choose
which one. I'm telling this will be amazing. Actually, you

(41:59):
know what you want to talk about real life changes
right here?

Speaker 3 (42:05):
You should.

Speaker 2 (42:08):
Then goes the hell.

Speaker 3 (42:12):
God is going to give you a high five? Girl?

Speaker 6 (42:14):
You have no idea call leone Like like that story
you're read that. You know what I'm saying, Is that truth?

Speaker 1 (42:19):
Is that?

Speaker 6 (42:20):
Is that like fan fiction? Or is that true story?
Because like, yo, you know what you know what man like?

Speaker 9 (42:27):
First off, you know what I'm saying, he needs like
strong male guidance. You know what I'm saying, because like,
ain't no way, ain't no way at that age. You
know what I'm saying. Both of them are not You
know what I'm saying. Intimate. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (42:40):
At this point, he's a roommate. You know what I'm saying.
That's one.

Speaker 9 (42:43):
Secondly, Secondly, you know what i'm saying, like unless you
know what I'm saying, she has a medical condition. You
know what I'm saying like that, You know what I mean,
Like come on, bro, you know And one more thing,
obviously you know what I'm saying, like he like he
didn't you know what I'm saying right to part where
it was like you know what I'm saying at some
point you know what I'm saying. I'm thinking that you
know she's banging a coworker.

Speaker 2 (43:04):
Or something that's right.

Speaker 6 (43:06):
You see what I mean? You know what I mean?
Like like, Yo, you know what I mean. You know
what I'm saying. You gotta look at it from every angle.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (43:15):
But Yo, you know what I'm saying, Like Yo, the
way this do you know what I'm saying something? You
know what I'm saying, like really expressed himself. Man's like, oh,
I see why.

Speaker 6 (43:25):
You know what I'm saying. So you're not the dominant
person in the relationship. You're the bitch. Oh my god, Yo?
You know no, No, Yo, that as serious. You know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (43:42):
Like like like Yo, you know what you know what
I'm saying, Like you can make lesson still be more,
you see what I mean?

Speaker 6 (43:48):
But like Yo, you know what man like like see
like should let that?

Speaker 5 (43:50):
Yo?

Speaker 1 (43:51):
Yo? Yo?

Speaker 6 (43:51):
You know what should like that? Push me off? Is
like you know what I'm saying, because like Yo.

Speaker 5 (43:55):
Be vulnerable and sharing their feelings.

Speaker 9 (43:57):
But at the same time, Yo, at the same time,
like Yo, such a dominance somewhere.

Speaker 6 (44:02):
Man.

Speaker 9 (44:02):
You know what I'm saying, Like stand on your own,
you know what I mean? Like like, Yo, you know
what the way this dude came off, is like I
need her No, bro, we need your sell first.

Speaker 6 (44:10):

Speaker 9 (44:11):
Now, what if you know what I'm saying, What if
Homegirl realizes that he loves her more than he loves himself.

Speaker 6 (44:18):
You women hate that ship because you know what, you
women hate that shit. Let's let's be honest, love.

Speaker 2 (44:28):
Himself and still be vulnerable and sensitive.

Speaker 9 (44:31):
No, yes, yes, yes, but yo, you know what the
way that letter came off because I was listening to
that ship, I'm like, Yo, this does sound like a
fucking simp.

Speaker 6 (44:39):
Yo, Like you know what, like I love I love
her more than I love myself.

Speaker 9 (44:43):
Bro, you know what I'm saying, Like, Yo, you know what,
more than any she figured more than anything.

Speaker 6 (44:49):
You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying.
It sounds like more than himself telling each other.

Speaker 5 (44:53):
Say things like that. You know, I could appreciate a
man who could actually be vulnerable like that and is
actually literally what is wrong is in his relationship. I'm
not even like it's just reading too much into it
because he was pretty clear.

Speaker 9 (45:11):
From how from from from how I took it and
sounding like yo, you know what, like like you know,
like she figured out, Yo, she figured out that.

Speaker 6 (45:19):
You know what I'm saying, like, oh, this it was
like a getover. You know what I'm saying. I don't
read any comments, easy peasy, you know what I mean.
It's a get over. You know what I'm saying. Like
that's the way that let it came out. That's what
I was like, Yo, is that real?

Speaker 9 (45:32):
You know what I'm saying, because ain't no way you
know I'm saying like, Yo, you know wait, first off,
twenty eight that's the trauma of your life.

Speaker 6 (45:38):
You should be t bagging vinces in the club or something.
Oh my god, you know what I'm saying. The fuck?

Speaker 2 (45:44):
You know, I cannot believe that you have go make
some horrible or something.

Speaker 6 (45:48):

Speaker 2 (45:49):
And you're talking this trash, bro, because.

Speaker 6 (45:53):
Yo, yes I can talk this trash. You want to
know why this is all SATs high.

Speaker 5 (46:02):
Here?

Speaker 3 (46:05):
It hurts?

Speaker 6 (46:05):
It's why not not?

Speaker 9 (46:08):
But for real though, you know what I'm saying like
like yeah, like yeah, you know what, listen to that.
I'm like, yo, you know what, See that's the problem.
You know what I'm saying, Like like yo, you know
what like like listen to it. It came out like, oh,
well listen me. You know what I'm saying, Like, bro,
look you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (46:22):
I don't know if it came over as oh, whoa
was me? I think you can.

Speaker 6 (46:25):
That's how you know, That's how I do.

Speaker 1 (46:27):
That's how you're trying to tell me. You're trying to
tell me that that you're you're you know, you got
you have a lady that that that's that work doing
things and ship right and you chill and and you
know you're doing, you're cleaning up a little bit, you're cooking,
you're clean, you doing, you know what I'm saying. And
and she come you mind it pays you no mine? Yo?

Speaker 7 (46:49):
You know what?

Speaker 6 (46:49):
Not that part. You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo,
you know what? Not right there?

Speaker 9 (46:53):
You know what I'm saying. There's the player's son that yo,
you know what. She's probably occupied somewhere else.

Speaker 6 (46:59):
You know what I'm saying. And she's paying, you know,
mind to do and all that. You know what I'm saying.
So like, what is there to discuss what I'm saying?

Speaker 9 (47:04):
At some point, you know what I'm saying, you need
to go find out the truth, you know, because like
there is no you know what I'm saying, There is
no like yeah, you know, no, bro, you know what
I'm saying, Like, Yo, you know what her mind is
somewhere else, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (47:17):
It could be somewhere else or with someone. You know
what I'm saying. It's not a good look.

Speaker 5 (47:23):
I mean, it's an assumption you're making, yes, for you
have that conversation with her to know exactly you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (47:31):
So instead of writing this letter, you know what I'm saying,
go have that conversation.

Speaker 5 (47:35):
But that's what people asking advice do. They kind of
put it out there and then ask for advice, or
we wouldn't.

Speaker 3 (47:42):
Have feel.

Speaker 2 (47:44):
And from what I you know, like he felt like
he was trying to have the conversation.

Speaker 5 (47:50):
Opinion like we like we do when we go to
the doctor and we don't.

Speaker 3 (47:54):
Like what they say.

Speaker 6 (47:56):
Well, you know what I mean. I mean, you know
what four months?

Speaker 9 (47:59):
I mean, it's time for you to get on your
interest and start you know, like you know what I'm saying, like,
see what she's doing over time but not getting paid
for it?

Speaker 5 (48:08):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (48:11):
Talk the person.

Speaker 5 (48:14):
Because in thinking this person is cheating.

Speaker 3 (48:17):
I think that's stupid. I think you should go.

Speaker 5 (48:23):
No, he needs to just have a conversation with her
and talk to her and tell her these things, and
if she ain't hearing him or giving anything back, then
that should be a sign for him to go. That's it. Like,
it's not good to make assumptions and and pick and
choose what you want and then be like, oh, it

(48:45):
could be this, It could be a million things. It
could be that she's fucking depressed and she's not it
could be that she's suffering, she's not talking.

Speaker 9 (48:57):
But as a person, you know what I'm saying, that's
trying to figure it out. You gotta expect everything. The
last thing you the last thing. The last thing I
want to do is get blindsided. The same thing with
everybody else. You know what I'm saying, the last thing,
you know.

Speaker 2 (49:09):
But if you go looking to be blindsided, then you're
practically guarante true.

Speaker 9 (49:15):
But you know what, though, it's always good to have
you know what I'm saying, even you know, even the
things that can hurt you in mind, it's always good
to like, all right, you know what I'm saying. You
know what I'm saying, like, look at every option you
no stone unturned, you see what I mean?

Speaker 5 (49:31):
I don't see the point of investigating, right.

Speaker 1 (49:34):
So so so so dumb. Just telling me that you
would rather sit and and think about your your your
lady doing some shit with somebody else in your head
and not confronted her about it. That's what you're saying.

Speaker 6 (49:51):
Oh hell no, I'm in front of her. Funk that.
You know what I'm saying, Like like, Yo, you know what,
but what it says.

Speaker 1 (49:57):
That's not the case. Like then then what do you do?
You invested gated and you want to hand no, you
know what that that then?

Speaker 6 (50:03):
Yell, you know what, it's either talk what I'm saying,
forever hold your piece.

Speaker 9 (50:06):
You know what I'm saying, because like, yo, you know what,
if you're gonna forever hold your piece, I'm gonna start
packing my ship.

Speaker 1 (50:11):
But what if she comes when she says, but that's
not the case, baby, Like this is what's up? Like
this is this isn't what's going on? We haven't? You
know what I mean?

Speaker 6 (50:18):
Alright, the fucking say something? You know what I'm saying.
You fucking say something?

Speaker 1 (50:23):
You know what?

Speaker 9 (50:24):
First off, you know you don't know how that professor, Yo,
doing that professor reminds, bro. You know what I'm saying, struggle,
you gotta you gotta do I.

Speaker 6 (50:35):
Look like all right, you know what though he should know? Yo?

Speaker 3 (50:38):
You know what?

Speaker 6 (50:39):
You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo, does anybody reminds here?
You know what I'm saying. Do we have teleconnected powers?

Speaker 7 (50:44):
No?

Speaker 6 (50:45):
Speak? You know what I'm saying, Speak what's on your mind?

Speaker 7 (50:49):
Yo?

Speaker 5 (50:49):
Lay it out?

Speaker 9 (50:49):
You know what I'm saying, even if it hurts, lay
it out, you know, save me the trouble from you
know what I'm.

Speaker 6 (50:55):
Saying, like trying to figure out, Oh why why?

Speaker 3 (50:57):
No?

Speaker 6 (50:58):
Lay it out? That's it?

Speaker 1 (51:00):
So? So what what if the rolls are reversed? You
won't giving her no dick, right, you weren't going ahead
and you aren't giving her anything. And she come to
you and she's and she's trying to figure out what
the problem is and you you, you really can't communicate
it because you don't know how to communicate it. You
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (51:18):
I tell her yo, you know what yah? Yah, I'll
tell her yo.

Speaker 9 (51:21):
Look, you know what you know what I'm saying. First off,
you know what me right now I'll communicate anything.

Speaker 6 (51:27):
You know what I'm saying. If I'm hurt, I'll let
it be known. If I'm bothered, I'll let it be known.
You know what I'm saying. I let it be known. Now,
you know what I'm saying. I don't. I don't internalize
it no more. You know what I'm saying. For what
you know? That's gonna make me a better person? You know?
Like you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (51:45):
Ship like that and that makes everyone bitter, you know
what I'm saying, because like they always want to keep
things in.

Speaker 6 (51:49):
No, man, you gotta let it out. You know what
I'm saying. You gotta let it out. You can't be yo. Yo,
you know what? You know what I'm saying, Like, who
wants yo?

Speaker 3 (51:56):
You know what.

Speaker 6 (51:58):
I learned, Yo? I learned that.

Speaker 9 (51:59):
You know what I'm saying, walking around like Yellowstone ready
to erupt every time it's not a good look.

Speaker 6 (52:03):

Speaker 1 (52:04):
Because if you're thinking she's doing it behind your back,
and that's not the case.

Speaker 6 (52:09):
But yo, you know what.

Speaker 9 (52:10):
Therefore, you know what I'm saying. He needs a man
up an ass. You know what I'm saying, He got
a man up and ask you know what I'm saying, like, Yo,
you know what? You know what I'm saying like instead
of like, oh yeah I do this that and the
third cut that ship off. You know what I'm saying,
real quick, ask like, Yo, why you stop? Yeah, we
need to talk. You know what I'm saying. You gotta
throw the curveball, bro. You know what I mean, like
you can't. You know what I'm saying, You can't keep

(52:31):
you know what I'm saying, pampering her? Throw the curveball
real quick. You know what I'm saying. Once you guys
get to talking or whatever, you know what I'm saying.
All right, you know what I'm saying, Like now, all right,
then you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (52:41):
I don't think I don't think it's pamp.

Speaker 1 (52:44):
I just think he he's trying to show her that
stop showing her for a minute. Stop showing up.

Speaker 6 (52:52):
Yo, She'll start talking, sot'll start the women.

Speaker 1 (52:56):
Let the women chime in on that part. What happens
when the guys stops showing that, you know, his appreciation,
I'm not appreciation, but he stops showing you that he
gives a ship. What happens then?

Speaker 5 (53:10):
MM hmmm.

Speaker 9 (53:11):
I said for a minute, for a minute, stop showing
for a minute. That's you know what I'm saying. She's
gonna talk because.

Speaker 3 (53:18):
You know what, it's good to see. What if she notices?

Speaker 6 (53:22):
Why not exactly? You know what I'm saying. Now, If
she don't notice, then yo, you know what.

Speaker 1 (53:29):
Then you're really really appreciation Then.

Speaker 6 (53:32):
Then you know what? Then you know what that says
at all? Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Yo.

Speaker 9 (53:36):
You know what, then you're not You're not You're not
in a relationship no more. That's just your roommate that
you're happen to share a bed with.

Speaker 3 (53:43):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 6 (53:44):
You know what I'm saying, sleeping cousins. You know what
I'm saying to sit yourself related? All right?

Speaker 9 (53:52):
You know what I'm saying, like like yo, you know what,
it's foul, but that's what it is. You know what
I'm saying, like like, yo, you know what you can't
keep you know what I'm saying, try to like you know, like, oh,
look at.

Speaker 6 (54:01):
Me, look at me for attention, to see what I'm
done for people?

Speaker 9 (54:03):
No, bro, you know what I'm saying, Like, Yo, you
know what if you're not if you as a man
in getting that intention. Now you know what I'm saying
and trying to figure out why stop doing it?

Speaker 6 (54:11):
Real quick? See if she notices, if she don't notice
that ship, then you know what I'm saying. You know
where you stand?

Speaker 3 (54:19):
You know?

Speaker 9 (54:19):
I bet you, yo, I bet you real quick. You know, Like,
let's just say you know what I mean, like you
know whatever. You know I'm saying when he starts packing
his ship or whatever. Oh, now you want to talk,
you know what I'm saying. And at some point you
know what I mean, like it just sounds yo, you
know what? Yeah, you know what I'm saying. It just
it just sounds toxic, you know what I'm saying, Like, yo,

(54:40):
you know what? You know what I'm saying. The toxicity
ain't even got to be verbal, you know what I mean.
It's that quiet shit that kills the most. Yeah, yeah,
you know, like shit, you know what I'm saying, Like
like yo, you know what, Like just the other day
and I smacked over ahead with a frying pan because
you know what I'm saying, you know, like I'm throwing
the cross Samsung and be like, yo, my dishwash is broken.
You know what I'm saying, she's acting up. You know,

(55:02):
I mean cooking breakfast for the baby. You know what
I'm saying, cast iron, you know what I'm saying, concussing
all whatever. I still got up and I was say, yo,
you know what I'm saying. My daughter hits harder than you.

Speaker 6 (55:13):
You know what I mean? All woozy and ship all right?

Speaker 9 (55:15):
So yo, So we communicate though, even if it's even
if domestically violent, got tired, sat tired, satired.

Speaker 6 (55:25):
I have to say that because people actually believe me.

Speaker 3 (55:27):
It's not it's uh sarcasm.

Speaker 9 (55:34):
Not too but like but when I seriously though, you
know what I'm saying, like like yo, you know what
see like see that's the reason why like like stuff
like that pisses me off. You know what I'm saying,
because it's like, yo, you know what it's like, you're
doing all this, you know what I'm saying, and you
all you want is her attention and she pays you
no attention? Right, and it's that silence. Should that be

(55:56):
killing you? You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (55:57):
I felt that. I felt that what it's like and
a woman know what I'm saying. I felt that ship yo, Yo,
you know what.

Speaker 1 (56:05):
I'm a team.

Speaker 9 (56:06):
I'm gonna tell you woman something on why we don't speak.
You know what I'm saying, because yo, you know what.
It's two words. You know what I'm saying, and it's
real simple pride and ego. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (56:18):
And it's stupid and it's stupid. Wait wait, I'm not
even done. It's stupid. But you know what I'm saying.
How we were brought up.

Speaker 9 (56:26):
You know what I'm saying, Like a lot of us,
you know what I'm saying, don't know how to swallow
our pride of ego. You know what I'm saying, Yo,
I'm learning. You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo, when
I'm bothered, I speak on them, you know. You know, like, oh,
you know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying,
Like like I don't even care, Like, yo, you're math
for no reason.

Speaker 6 (56:43):
I don't care. Let me be mad real quick and
I'll get over it. You know what I'm saying. That's it,
you know, Like, yeah, I get it, Yeah, I know.

Speaker 1 (56:55):
You all right, I got this one. Ay, it's all right.
My best friend stuck with my cheating acts and try
to hide it.

Speaker 9 (57:11):
I'm not even you know, but yeah, first off, first off,
you know what I'm saying. First Off, hold on, hold on?
Did a man write this or a woman wrote this?

Speaker 1 (57:23):
Woman wrote it? Yeah?

Speaker 9 (57:25):
You know what?

Speaker 6 (57:25):
Cut them both off? They deserve each other, all right,
So here goes, that's your best run.

Speaker 1 (57:32):
Yeah. I feel like I mean some kind I feel
like I'm some kind of sick joke. I don't even
know how to process this. The two people I trusted
the most completely betrayed me, and one of them is
standing here acting like I should be happy for her.

Speaker 6 (57:49):
Let's back up, yo, yo system.

Speaker 5 (58:03):
Right, you said this was her a her ax was
a cheater?

Speaker 1 (58:06):
Right, So twenty six show female and shed all right?
So she let me back up. My ex and I
broke up a year ago after I found out he
had been cheating on me for months, and not just
with one girl. He had a he had a whole rotation.

Speaker 3 (58:28):
Damn.

Speaker 1 (58:29):
When I finally dumped his lying ass, I was shattered.
But at least I had my best friend, Emily. Yeah,
damn Emily she was. She was furious at him, called
him a narcissistic asshole, swore she'd never even looked in
the direction again. She was the one who I told

(58:52):
that told me I deserve so much better. Fast forward
till last week. Ever started acting off distant, canceling plans,
taking forever the text back, and when she did, she
was dry. I figured maybe she was stressed out or

(59:13):
dating someone new, but something in my gut told me
she was hiding something. Then a mutual friend casually mentioned
seeing her at a bar with my ex, just the
two of them. My stomach dropped. I texted Emily immediately,

(59:35):
where the fuck are you and are you with this guy?
Or were you with him the other night? It took
her hours to reply. Then she hit me with yeah,
I ran into him. It was totally random. We just
caught up for a second. In quotations, he put bullshit.

(59:57):
At this point, I knew something was up, so I
decided to do some digging, and that's when I found
out the real story. And I'm not not from Emily
but from someone else. Apparently she had been seeing him
for weeks and wasn't and it wasn't some random running.

(01:00:19):
She had been sneaking around sleeping with the same guy
who destroyed me while pretending to be my best friend.
I was shaking with rage, and when I confronted her,
she didn't even give her didn't or I didn't even
give her time to weasel out the weasel whole way
out of this one. I just looked at her with

(01:00:41):
her eyes and said, how long have you been fucking
my ex? Her face went pale. At first, she tried
to fake the fake innocent act. What are you talking about?
So I told her everything I knew well. She opened

(01:01:03):
and closed her mouth like a fish. Then she finally
died and said, I was going to tell you, Oh,
you were going to tell me like when after the honeymoon,
phased after you got engaged, or maybe if you ended

(01:01:23):
up after I ended up a bridesmaid. Then she hit
me with I knew this is going to sound crazy,
but he's really changed. Mm hmm, I almost I almost laughed. Changed.
The same guy who lied to my face every day

(01:01:45):
for months, the same guy who swore was faithful while
texting other girls in the bed. That guy changed. I
asked her if she actually gave a damn about me,
about how she held me while I cried over him,
about how she ranted about how disgusting he was, how

(01:02:06):
she swore she'd never give him she'd never looked in
his direction, and you know what she said, I do,
but people make mistakes. You know what, at that point,
I couldn't even look at her. I walked out, Nah
bro that hold up, hold up, it's not done. I'm winning.

(01:02:29):
Hold happened in TG?

Speaker 6 (01:02:31):
I think she.

Speaker 1 (01:02:33):
All right? So now and now and now she's blown
hold on here she is, man, all right, son, all right,
because now she's blowing up my phone, apologizing, saying she
never meant to hurt me, that she didn't plan for

(01:02:55):
this to happen. That love is complicated, yo, that's no. No,
lust is complicated, betrayal is complicated. This this is just disgusting.
I don't think I can ever look at her the
same way again. But we've never been friends since we
were in pre We've been friends, we've been in preschool.

(01:03:16):
This hurts so much. I don't know how I can
go on, go on, or if I can even forgive her,
How do I get the picture of them together out
of my head?

Speaker 6 (01:03:27):
Well? You know what I mean?

Speaker 9 (01:03:29):
You know what, if you got your friends in preschool that,
then you shouldn't know she was a slut to begin with.

Speaker 6 (01:03:33):
I'm saying, like, no, I'm serious that yo. You know what, Yo,
you know what she could do with some I'm saying
grimes like that. I'm saying you should have known.

Speaker 3 (01:03:42):
Say I'm gonna say something different. I don't think it's grimy.

Speaker 5 (01:03:45):
Like she made a choice, Like she knew who this
dude was, she knew all about that, and she still
chose to engage in something with that man. Uh, Like
she's a grown ass woman and she made that choice.
Now that check this happened to, she has to just say,

(01:04:08):
like what are her boundaries? If this is a deal
breaker for her of a friendship, then why it's unfortunate
that your friend did this? But better that you know now,
better that this is out, now change you know what
I'm saying. Yeah, and if it if it hurts you
that much, yeah, But if it hurts you that much,

(01:04:29):
then maybe maybe this doesn't need to be your friend
and that chapter needs to be closed and you need
to move on, which, well, be the better person, bigger
person and just none.

Speaker 6 (01:04:42):
Yeah, you know what, beat a bigger person after you
beat the ship out of her? You know what I'm saying,
Like like no, no, no, no, no no no no
no no no no no no, no, No, you know what,
get mad?

Speaker 3 (01:04:54):
Yo?

Speaker 6 (01:04:55):
You know what, Yo? You know what it's not about
to do. You know what I'm saying. That's the principle.
You know what I mean. It doesn't matter. You know
what I'm saying. So you know what you get. You
know it doesn't It's principality damage, not tea, not all.

Speaker 9 (01:05:11):
Your society, all your society. You know what I'm saying.
Like like, yo, you know what all your society? You
know I'm saying satire?

Speaker 6 (01:05:17):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 9 (01:05:18):
Like I don't, I don't you know, I'm just joking around,
but like seriously, man, like that's messed up, you know,
like that best friend. You know what I'm saying, your
best quote unquote best friend and stuff. Man, Like bro,
you know what, yo?

Speaker 1 (01:05:31):
You know what?

Speaker 9 (01:05:31):
Like like Yo, you know what, I don't see friendships?
You know what I'm saying, Like you know what I'm saying, bombing.
You know it's not gonna happen. You know what I'm
saying because like because like yo, you know what, Like
with dudes, you know what I'm saying, Like with like
us men, something like that happened. We banging you up
right then and there I'm saying, the women we find out,
you know what I'm saying, we banging you up. You

(01:05:51):
know I'm saying, not because of the you know what
I'm saying, but back then, not because you You know
what I'm saying, you bag my chick. You know what
I'm saying, because like times, you know what I'm saying,
we want You're saying, we have that mentality. It's like,
all right, you know what I'm saying that at the
end of the day. Uh, she wasn't my girl. It
was just my turn what I'm saying, But you should
know better what I'm saying because we because we treat

(01:06:12):
came up in a month together.

Speaker 6 (01:06:13):
I will never do that to you, but you're gonna
do this to me say less. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (01:06:18):
You know what I'm saying, Like we're gonna have to go, well, yo,
you know what, We're gonna have to go somewhere discreet
and let our hands do the talking. And then after that,
you know what I'm saying, We've done.

Speaker 6 (01:06:27):
We've done. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:06:29):
Yes, guys, women and men aren't inferent in that way.
When we fight, we fight for life and it's probably, yeah,
you know whatever, it doesn't matter. But what it is
when you find out who your real friends are though,
when you start sleeping into your thirties, that's when you
start seeing who got your back and who doesn't. So

(01:06:51):
see this as a blessing because it is because this
person should.

Speaker 3 (01:06:57):
And now you can move on.

Speaker 6 (01:07:02):
But it's pain. It's a painful blessing, of course, and.

Speaker 5 (01:07:05):
It's gonna hurt. But you know, people made choices here.
And look, if she stays friends with her, then she's
still gonna be wrapped up in the drama of the
bullshit of this man because now he's with her friend.
Like who wants that? I know I wouldn't want that.
So what she's gonna be calling her bitching about that

(01:07:25):
dude a girl I told you about her already, Like
why are you coming to me? So it's just it's
just not a good situation. So I hope that she
cut ties with both of them and you know, find
better friends.

Speaker 1 (01:07:41):
Yeah, see friends, but this might her podcast.

Speaker 3 (01:07:46):
We are your friends, that's right, and we bitch up for.

Speaker 1 (01:07:50):
You because at some point we'll tell you something that will.

Speaker 5 (01:07:53):
Hurt, that's right, and then.

Speaker 6 (01:08:00):
We hurt your feelings is because you know what I'm saying,
it's for your own good. Bring back bullying sometimes.

Speaker 3 (01:08:06):
God now we already have enough for that.

Speaker 6 (01:08:10):
No, you know what bully I mean, just just think
of it.

Speaker 1 (01:08:14):
Think of it like this, all right. So it was
a year so since they were together. But I mean
despite the fact that, I mean, they were together for
for for two and a half years, she said. And
then yeah, we were split up for a year and
then all of a sudden you find out your best
friends for yo, you know what, who you were with
for two and a half years.

Speaker 9 (01:08:33):
I mean, there is no despite the fact, you know,
you know what I'm saying, Like like, yo, you know what.
It's a loyalty test, bro.

Speaker 6 (01:08:38):
You know what I mean, Like you failed the test
of course. Oh yeah, but flying Fellers, I'm not looking
at I'm never looking at it. Hey, yo, yo, you
know what she was like, I would never look at
his direction.

Speaker 9 (01:08:49):
I'll just look at his erection, you like, Like like, yo,
you know what you know what I'm saying, Like, I mean,
I wanted to be on fly on the wall right
when when you at each other, because I'll expect her
to say I kind of step the phone lands on
his deck. You know what I'm saying, Like, hear that excuse,
that's that that that excuse sounds more feasible than you

(01:09:10):

Speaker 6 (01:09:11):
What I'm a bullshit excuse she gave.

Speaker 1 (01:09:13):
That's like, oh my god, bro, that's disgusting, man, I mean,
how can you call somebody your your your best friend,
especially be a friend since since preschool?

Speaker 5 (01:09:24):
I mean, and she felt bad about it, right because
she didn't tell her so she knew she was doing
something wrong.

Speaker 4 (01:09:30):
Right.

Speaker 9 (01:09:33):
You know what I'm saying, You kiss on the cheek
after you don't give that niggahead and ship. You know
what I'm saying, disgusting, yeahographic yeah, no problem, It's hard.
You know, not all jumps aside all right until that moment. Yeah,
but like like seriously though, all jumps aside, right like

(01:09:53):
like see, I mean, you know what I'm saying. Like
the only reason why, like you know what I'm saying,
all of us could talk on it is because, like
you know, we we've been at the receiving that and
we've been after giving that.

Speaker 6 (01:10:03):

Speaker 9 (01:10:04):
Pause, you know what I'm saying, Like you know, well,
you know I can't speak for everybody, but I know that,
you know, I've been at the receiving them some things,
and I've been at the giving under some things. And
sometimes it's been vote you know, like so like I
understand the situation, you know what I'm saying, Like and
it sucks, you know what I'm saying, because like at
the end of the day, man, it's like it's like

(01:10:27):
you let your you know what I'm saying, You let
your luck.

Speaker 6 (01:10:30):
You know what I'm saying. So like that, yo, that yo,
that right there, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (01:10:34):
After a year later, that right there should tell you
that he's been that she's been lusting your man ever
since y'all hooked up, you know, necessarily.

Speaker 1 (01:10:44):
Hold on, hold on, but hold on a minute for them,
for them to to to hook up.

Speaker 6 (01:10:51):
She's been using.

Speaker 1 (01:10:54):
At some point she had to thought about him in
that in that sense, don't you.

Speaker 9 (01:10:59):
Think, Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because like, yo,
you know what, things don't generally happen, you know, not
like that, you know, because like yo, you know what, like.

Speaker 6 (01:11:09):
You know, like the woman you know I'm saying the
woman I know, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (01:11:12):
Like some of most of them, you know, like they
would never toss that threshold ever, you know, and I
was you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:11:17):
I respect that, you know what I'm.

Speaker 9 (01:11:18):
Saying, but like like yo, you know what she yo,
you know what that woman you know what I'm saying,
that homegirl must to like was secretly feeling him and
not saying that, and she probably treated him extra mean.
Trust me, I've experienced that before. And the NeSSI you know,
you know, like later on you know, like I'm having
a one night stay with one of my friends.

Speaker 6 (01:11:37):
Like it's crazy, you know, like you know you said.

Speaker 2 (01:11:40):
Say that, and it makes me think, none, what the
heck my god, my daughter's godmother was thinking when you know,
you know.

Speaker 9 (01:11:51):
What that's that's that's probably you know what, that's probably
what That's probably what it is, you know, And it's
messed up is because like you know what I'm saying,
like it's it's really yo, it's it's foul, you know
what I'm saying, Like I have like yo, you know what,
Like I'm not gonna I'm not gonna you know what
I'm saying, like like sit here and not speak on it.

(01:12:11):
You know what I'm saying like say her not say
how I feel about it. That ship is foul all
all around. It's like it makes you want You're saying
like it makes you think.

Speaker 6 (01:12:18):
I'm like, all right, you know what? You guys hooked up?
So how long? You know what I'm saying, Like you've
been lusted them? Saying you did? You guys have been
lusting each other? You know what I mean? Like how long?
What I'm saying, like.

Speaker 1 (01:12:29):
The question is the question is this too? The question
is this despite the fact, I mean they did they
did do what they did? They put they together and
she didn't tell her, She kept it a secret. She
knew she was wrong. But can you.

Speaker 6 (01:12:45):
You can't.

Speaker 1 (01:12:45):
You can't justify doing what you did. That's one thing.

Speaker 6 (01:12:49):
No, no justification, bro, like ya, you know what you
have to you have to you have to wonder.

Speaker 1 (01:12:56):

Speaker 6 (01:12:58):
There's no statues of limitations on that, bro.

Speaker 1 (01:13:00):
I was just that's that. That's why I was trying
to go with it. I mean, you can be with
someone for so many years split up and there's there
shouldn't be any one of your friends near.

Speaker 9 (01:13:13):
Anyone you know with no ever like like, yo, you
know what you like like, yo, you know what. You
know what I'm saying, Like like Corleone, you know what,
like you know, like you know what I'm saying, Like
like with me, like you like you know how I
get that you know what I'm saying, Like once you've
been with one of my Once you've been with one
of my boys. You know what I'm saying. I don't
look at you as that. You know what I'm saying,

(01:13:34):
Like no, you know what I'm saying. It's it's an
automatic no because you know what I don't.

Speaker 6 (01:13:39):
You know what I'm saying. I don't. It's it's broke,
it's you know what I'm saying. You know what I'm
saying with us as bro code. You know what I mean?

Speaker 9 (01:13:46):
Like like if you just know you know what I'm saying,
like that shit is weird, you know what I mean,
Like it's weird, but like you know, like like a
lot of people don't have more like don I'm saying
that type of morals. You know what I'm saying at
the end of the day is about your morals.

Speaker 6 (01:13:58):

Speaker 9 (01:13:59):
So this's and another thing, you know, and another thing too.
You know what I'm saying, like I'm thinking about it
right now, my bad bro.

Speaker 1 (01:14:06):
But like.

Speaker 9 (01:14:08):
Homegirl, and she's you know what I'm saying, she's been
out with a bar with her whatever. She you know
what I'm saying, Let's just stay her friend is loose
and she condones that ship, right and she you know
what I'm saying, And let's just say you know, like
like yo, you know if you don't know the dynamics
of the friendship, right, but like let's just say you
know what.

Speaker 1 (01:14:23):
I mean, Like, that's the hell of a dynamic.

Speaker 9 (01:14:27):
You're true, but like you know what I'm saying. The
actually like how this person really is what I'm saying. Besides,
you know what I'm saying, helping over with her? Ax,
you know what I mean, we don't know you know
what I'm saying, Like, and she's loose with it. If
she's loose with it, you know what I'm saying. And
you condone that, you're still you know what I'm saying,
he's still her friend. You know what I'm saying. What
makes you think she ain't gonna be loose with you
know what I'm saying with her ship. That's the way
you have to look at it. Even though I ask

(01:14:48):
your friend, you know what I'm saying, you don't want
to look at it that way, you know what I'm saying, Like, nah,
she can't.

Speaker 6 (01:14:51):
You know what, you have to expect the unexpected on
every angle, and it's foult you.

Speaker 1 (01:14:56):
Should you shouldn't. You shouldn't have to, you shouldn't expect.

Speaker 6 (01:14:58):
You But but yo, you're right, right, You're right, you shouldn't.

Speaker 9 (01:15:03):
But you know what, based on her personality, you know
what I'm saying, and she's like loose with it like that,
and you should expect it in a way.

Speaker 1 (01:15:13):
I think that's I don't think. I don't think.

Speaker 2 (01:15:16):
Yeah, like my best friend could be a whole and
I would never expect her across that line, right, yeah,
but yo, you know what, that's her problem, But I
would never expect that.

Speaker 3 (01:15:28):
I'm yo, Yo, have boundaries, Okay, I guess be for
the hose and I'm like.

Speaker 6 (01:15:36):
We have hold on though, like like look, you know what,
Like what I'm trying to say, is this right?

Speaker 9 (01:15:47):
If like let's just say, you know what I'm saying,
Like it's like a group of girls, like you know
what I'm saying, they all like hung out with and
she's done it to. You know what I'm saying somebody
in the group. You're not exempt, you know what I'm saying,
because she could do that to someone in the group.

Speaker 3 (01:16:00):
Like you got to do, we would be friends.

Speaker 5 (01:16:02):
We probably wouldn't be friends with that person if they
were like that, and you would be calling your friend
now too, because we don't stay got to be like,
oh you aren't homegirls a man? Oh ain't he good looking?

Speaker 3 (01:16:14):
Oh yeah you should?

Speaker 5 (01:16:15):
No, we doing that like that's kind of weird to
even it's city.

Speaker 9 (01:16:22):
But at the same time, though, you know what I mean,
you know what I'm saying, Like like like I said,
you know what I think of you, I'm saying that
I'll talk things as all possibilities.

Speaker 6 (01:16:32):
You know what I'm saying, all possibilities because.

Speaker 1 (01:16:34):
You know what.

Speaker 3 (01:16:36):
I said. You're an overthinker, aren't you?

Speaker 6 (01:16:40):
Yo? Every angle? You know what I'm saying, because like, yo,
you know what, you don't want to be surprised or not?
Uh huh, you know what. I hate surprised.

Speaker 3 (01:16:48):
That's why I know we can't control it.

Speaker 6 (01:16:51):
Like you know, no, I don't you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (01:16:53):
But but but but you know what, though, like sometimes
you know, you know what I'm saying, like I want
to be prepared for it, see what I mean?

Speaker 3 (01:16:59):
I mean obviously want to be prepared to Sometimes it
just happens.

Speaker 6 (01:17:07):
Does happen?

Speaker 1 (01:17:07):
Why? Why live you? Why live your life like that though?

Speaker 2 (01:17:11):
Because it's why is not fun?

Speaker 6 (01:17:15):
Because I have nothing to do.

Speaker 1 (01:17:16):
You shouldn't live your life constantly in that type.

Speaker 6 (01:17:18):
Of thought that, But I do, though. You want to
know why because I have nothing but time on my
hands right now.

Speaker 3 (01:17:25):
Crocheting or something.

Speaker 1 (01:17:27):
Yo.

Speaker 6 (01:17:27):
You know what I was thinking about that? Make a
mother thro Yo? No, I'm serious. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (01:17:33):
I'm serious, you know, like it doesn't just have like
like yo, you know what I was really thinking about that?
But then you know I'm saying, like my hands nott
coordination is not you know.

Speaker 1 (01:17:44):
You know, to make a blanket.

Speaker 5 (01:17:45):
I know people who are really bad at sports and
they're great at crocheing.

Speaker 3 (01:17:49):
So I'm telling you it's doable. But yes, you know
theods or something. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:17:56):
I can make a fucking nod, that's easy.

Speaker 6 (01:17:58):
Yeah, crochet is good. What up my neg what you're
doing cro Shane?

Speaker 1 (01:18:08):
Making my mother fucking baking?

Speaker 6 (01:18:12):
Yo, it's ming famous coming.

Speaker 5 (01:18:15):
Like scarves scarves by dubs.

Speaker 6 (01:18:21):
Yeah, oh my wildlife is out. Oh the wildlife is
out today, wildlife.

Speaker 3 (01:18:28):
Oh what what are you seeing? I see deer all
the time here.

Speaker 1 (01:18:32):
Mm hmm, alright, you know what I do?

Speaker 9 (01:18:35):
You know, I was about to say something, but it's
gonna sound real racist. I was like, so there's two
raccoons running across the street. I was like, oh, raccoon
swiping nose swiping, right, you know, damn well swipe was
Puerto Rican stealing the ship.

Speaker 5 (01:18:59):
He's right, he's a fox.

Speaker 6 (01:19:03):
Right, No, man, you know what he he got them
things around his eyes, so like, you know, he's a fox.
He's a fox. Cool, that's it. Fox school.

Speaker 3 (01:19:19):
He's probably on too much cold. That's why he got
ring around his eyes. Always swiping ship.

Speaker 1 (01:19:26):
Ship.

Speaker 6 (01:19:31):
Yeah, you know what he's got support that.

Speaker 9 (01:19:33):
Oh one more thing, one more thing, you know, Donald
Trump sounder the order to ceasing to sist Duran.

Speaker 6 (01:19:43):
He was like the door the deported.

Speaker 3 (01:19:48):
Stupid.

Speaker 6 (01:19:49):
That was horrible, yo, you know what.

Speaker 9 (01:19:53):
You know what I'm saying, Like, like you know what,
little girl, y know, Trump is the type of build
the wall around your Mexico just because that Mexico and it.

Speaker 3 (01:20:00):
You know, it to New America.

Speaker 6 (01:20:04):
Yeah, right, like yeah, like like like like uh hm,
you know what.

Speaker 3 (01:20:11):
And New America.

Speaker 9 (01:20:14):
Because because you know what, I was at the v
A right and like they were saying that, yo, you
know what, there's gonna be a lot of cuts in
the VA and I'm like, of course there.

Speaker 2 (01:20:22):
Is, you know, as if it didn't stuck already enough.

Speaker 6 (01:20:26):
Right yeah exactly.

Speaker 9 (01:20:28):
No, Like like you know, like he was like, oh,
you know, I'm saying like this person you know, was like, oh,
if you get like monthly benefits, what I'm saying, I
expect to see it.

Speaker 6 (01:20:37):
Hm.

Speaker 9 (01:20:39):
I'm like, bro, I'm like, yo, you know what, So
I gotta be outside selling the drugs now, yeah, you
know what I'm saying, Like like yo, that's crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:20:49):
And then they're gonna poor you too, right they talked, where.

Speaker 6 (01:20:52):
You gonna deport me to Brooklyn?

Speaker 1 (01:20:54):
Please, like swiper.

Speaker 3 (01:21:02):
The Dominican Republic take them back.

Speaker 6 (01:21:07):
So with that, oh don't worry, Yeah, don't worry. I
hung it on my banana boat. You know, I'm saying,
singing the national anthem, Row row row my boat. You
know what I'm saying. I'm here what's daft foot?

Speaker 1 (01:21:21):
All right? Yo?

Speaker 6 (01:21:25):
Yo? Much a clause it? So I heard the Eagles
made the human sacrifice to win the Super Bowl.

Speaker 2 (01:21:33):
What we already been there, done that, dubs you all?

Speaker 6 (01:21:38):
Yeah, yeah, you know what.

Speaker 9 (01:21:39):
Don't see you see you see you know what the
problem with that human sacrifice is they don't have Taylor
Swift on the side.

Speaker 6 (01:21:46):
She's a witch in New Orleans singing the place you
in the place for all that mythical stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:21:52):
Nah.

Speaker 6 (01:21:54):
You know what I'm saying now, you know what, yo,
you know what she's yo? Chiefs by three? Yeah, all right, Yeah,
the rest are gonna help out bro with that.

Speaker 1 (01:22:08):
Yeah, I know that. That's that's gonna be. That's gonna
be a funny game to watch.

Speaker 3 (01:22:12):
No, I'm just so yeah, That's what I've been doing
for years now.

Speaker 1 (01:22:18):
Well, with that being said, people, With that being said,
it was a hell of a night. We talked a
lot of ship, laughed at a lot of ship. Hopefully
none of us starts swiping to support our habits.

Speaker 2 (01:22:40):
Only page tonight.

Speaker 1 (01:22:45):
He's gonna open up a foot finished.

Speaker 6 (01:22:49):
Page there you go on fan page as well. You
know what I'm saying, Like, like, yo, you know what I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:22:55):
Gonna started the only Dad's page.

Speaker 6 (01:22:59):
I'm the only fans set.

Speaker 2 (01:23:01):
The grandfather of so many kids.

Speaker 1 (01:23:08):
That is true. That is true. So I want to
just say that I'm glad everybody was here tonight. Glad
everybody was here this just to share.

Speaker 6 (01:23:23):
This real quick. Rais mother.

Speaker 1 (01:23:28):
Right.

Speaker 6 (01:23:29):
My girl's birthday tom right. So I want to what's
her happy birthday? You no do it now?

Speaker 1 (01:23:37):

Speaker 5 (01:23:38):
Maybe why birthday?

Speaker 6 (01:23:39):
Maybe not right?

Speaker 3 (01:23:42):
Maybe not?

Speaker 9 (01:23:43):
You know, like yeah, sorry, like yo, like like yo,
you know what, another another trip around you know what
I'm saying, another day trip around the sun.

Speaker 6 (01:23:51):
You know what I'm saying, Like, I'm very grateful for that.
I'm grateful that you know what I'm saying, Like, you

Speaker 9 (01:23:58):
She's a mother, you know what I'm saying. And I'm
also grateful that I was able to hurt her up
with her taxes. You know, you know I said all
Joe aside because I always got a joke. But like, like, yo,
you know what, I'm grateful that you know what I'm saying,
Like that's someone that understands and I'm actually listening.

Speaker 6 (01:24:15):
I'm actually saying, yo, you know what, I'm actually calm.

Speaker 9 (01:24:19):
It's longer when I got out here. You know what
I'm saying, Like I feel like bust the balls, yo,
Like seriously, you know, like like yo, you know what?
Like it's satire, you know what I'm saying, Like, don't
you know what I'm saying. Whoever's listening, do not take
take my words with a grain of salt, you know
what I'm saying unless I say something like you know,
like meaningful.

Speaker 6 (01:24:36):

Speaker 2 (01:24:37):
I meant that, you know, like and that's it, you know,
I take kids with a grain of saut and a
whole margarita.

Speaker 6 (01:24:50):
Yo, yo, you know what? And you're being weak about
used to take a tekula shot after that?

Speaker 3 (01:24:56):
You know?

Speaker 6 (01:24:57):
So you know what Corona line to killer shot?

Speaker 1 (01:25:00):
Yeah, we gotta Yeah. So with that being said, that
being for the fifth time for the fifth time.

Speaker 10 (01:25:08):
Although you about that person who fractured the universe for
the fifth time six you know, stuttering, I'm trying.

Speaker 2 (01:25:29):
To I'm trying.

Speaker 1 (01:25:30):
I'm trying to trying to end oh yo yo.

Speaker 6 (01:25:32):
Yo, yo yo, hold on, hold on one more thing
more than I'm going to tell you. They was just
scored again. I just want to let you know. And
the game has been over since Sunday. So he's a man.

Speaker 1 (01:25:46):
Guy at least at least I've seen three Super Bowls. Bro,
you weren't even alive to see one.

Speaker 6 (01:25:55):
Yes, I was, Yes, I was.

Speaker 9 (01:25:57):
You want, Yes, I was wanted the wh Thank god
for ESPN Classic Okay, thank god for NFL Classics. All right,
it may not being coloring, but it's colored enough. Alright,
So you go on YouTube, right and thank god for YouTube.
I can go on YouTube right now and relft something
that I was even there for.

Speaker 6 (01:26:15):
That's right, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:26:17):
Boom live, I watched it live. I'm old than I'm boom.

Speaker 4 (01:26:24):
Boom.

Speaker 1 (01:26:27):
Anyway, that's stuffs it done. Hey, Hey, that's stuff's is done.
That's Gigi Love, that's Lady g I'm big on. This
has been another episode of this my Her podcast, and
that at some point

Speaker 6 (01:26:41):
I heard good night every boom, good night

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