WTF!! Wednesday (Recorded Live 3-19-25)

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Speaker 1 (00:08):
S S.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
S S.

Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yes, Hey, exce up everybody, this big holy one, this

(02:07):
might her podcast of course, coming to you live as
always live and from I guess wherever you want us
to be from, That's where we're from. That's where we're
broadcasting from. Use your imagination, think what you want to think,
and that's where we are. We're here, as always here

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to entertain you, not on need to entertain you, but
to hopefully, you know what I'm saying, help you guys,
gain some knowledge on some things you know, and just
broaden your mind so to speak, you know. So with
that being said, let me let me bring in my

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co host for the evening. I thought, I heaty.

Speaker 1 (03:02):
Geez, how are you good, evening people?

Speaker 3 (03:07):
How are you doing?

Speaker 1 (03:08):
I'm wonderful as usual, all.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Right, that's that's what's up. I was your week for
two weeks really, because you know, we didn't we weren't
here last week.

Speaker 4 (03:18):
I don't know why you asked me that, because my
answer is always going to be the same, wonderful, great, smart, Well.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
We want we want to we want to hear that.
The fans want to hear that you had a fabulous week.

Speaker 4 (03:31):
Even when it's you know, not fabulous.

Speaker 5 (03:34):
It's fabulous, all right.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
Okay, my birthday was last week. That's why we didn't.
We didn't. Come on. I got together with some with
some fam and and the kids and stuff, and we
went to Longhorn Stakhouse and I literally, I literally literally

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thought I can take out a Porterhouse steak and let
me tell you that I couldn't. It was twenty two ounces.
Oh wow, Yeah, I I really thought I can. I
was like, I could take this ship out. I'm gonna
fuck this steak up. Yeah right, it really it really

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went that way. Yeah, I had a lot left over.
I really didn't. But I had a good time. Kids
and some fam and shit like that. We had a
good time. It was nice. I was pleasantly surprised at
how nice the evening went.

Speaker 1 (04:38):
So why would you be surprised?

Speaker 3 (04:43):
Why would I be surprised? I guess, I guess because
everyone who showed up. I was surprised. Some people I
was surprised showed up that, you know, I was. I was.
I was just kind of, you know, taken by it all.
That's all. Okay, Yeah, I just.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
Went I wasn't invited, but hey, hey ain't.

Speaker 3 (05:05):
No way, Hey my bad. I didn't. I wouldn't. I
wasn't doing I wasn't doing that set it up though.

Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:12):
So but but yeah, man, everything is everything is is good,
Everything is golden. You know what I'm saying. I mean,
I'm good. I'm getting older, but getting better?

Speaker 5 (05:25):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (05:26):
Are you getting better? Corleon?

Speaker 3 (05:28):
Yes, I am getting better. Come on, doc thor what
you think? You think I'm not gonna be getting better.
I'm getting better, you know that. I know. But I
am getting better though.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
That's good.

Speaker 3 (05:42):
Yeah, I feel I feel good. You know. Everybody has
their moments, you know what I'm saying. You go through,
you go through some things here and there, but I
ultimately feel like like I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm good
right now.

Speaker 1 (05:56):
That's good.

Speaker 3 (05:57):
And I have I have great co hosts, I got
good friends. And you know, how much how much better
can it get? You know? I mean it could? I
mean I think sometimes sometimes at some point things can
get a little better. But I honestly think that right now,

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I think I think I'm I'm in a good place. Really,
And how about you? Do you feel like you're in
a good place?

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (06:29):
I get I get in a better place each day
each week, each month, you know, because the funny thing
is age and wisdom never come at the same time, right.
So it's funny because I was at a doctor's appointment
this morning and uh, I was telling I was telling
the doctor, I'm like, you know what's funny, I said,

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at this age, this is the oldest I've ever been.

Speaker 1 (06:55):
And I'm more.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
Like, even though I have the aches and pains of
getting older and you know, the creeping in of the
arthritis and all that kind of stuff, like I think
I'm I'm mentally physically, emotionally, you know, I'm in one

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of the best places I've ever been.

Speaker 2 (07:22):
You know.

Speaker 4 (07:23):
That's thes so yeah, and it really is sometimes it
really is just the state of mind. You know that
you're in the way you see things, the way you
see life, the way you know, like they say, life
is really only ten percent what happens to you. It's

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ninety percent what you do about it, how you handle it.

Speaker 3 (07:48):
Absolutely so absolutely yeah, that's that's what it is, man.
I mean, you know, you go through you go through things,
you go you know, you experience things, and you live
through things and sometimes when when when when when those

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experiences happen and they pass you say to yourself and
you ask you ask you to actually act yourself. I
just survived this, right, you know what I'm saying. I
went through it, I got through it. I survived. Let's
keep it going, let's keep it moving.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
Yeah, I want you to do that.

Speaker 4 (08:31):
Like sain, think about some of the worst times in
your life, the worst seasons, the worst moment, the worst seasons.

Speaker 3 (08:39):
Yeah, they definitely that. Life is definitely about seasons too.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (08:43):
So if you think about the worst things that you've
been a part of, or in the middle of, or
gone through, Right, it wasn't until you allowed yourself to
actually go through it instead of trying to avoid it,
that you were able to come out on the other side.
It was when you had no other choices you had,

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you know, like you kept trying to stay busy, you
kept trying to ignore it, you kept trying to, you know,
push it down, and.

Speaker 1 (09:14):
None of that was working.

Speaker 4 (09:16):
You find yourself, you know, just as deep a hole
as you'd ever been, until you got to a point
where it was like, I can't take this anymore. I'm
just gonna let it happen. Once you let it happen
and you feel what you're feeling. Then you notice, oh, wow,
that didn't last as long as I thought it would.

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It wasn't as hard as I thought it would be.
Not saying it was easy, but like, it just wasn't
as bad as I thought it was.

Speaker 5 (09:46):
Going to be.

Speaker 1 (09:47):
And look at me now, like I'm way, way on.

Speaker 4 (09:50):
The other side of it, and all I can do
is sit and say, how did I do that? But
because of it, I'm better for it, Like I'm better prepared.

Speaker 5 (10:01):
For it, you know.

Speaker 4 (10:05):
And and the funny thing is, especially as mental health professionals,
we tend to, you know, try to assist people to
not feel what they're feeling, because a lot of people
come and they're like, I don't like feeling this way.
I don't want to feel this way. You know, this

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is horrible. Nobody understands. And the reality is nobody can
understand because each person, even if it's the same situation,
each person experiences it and goes through it differently. And
the truth is you got to start telling people like

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when they say you shouldn't feel that way, or you
need to light you know, lighten up on yourself, or
you need to get out of your phonk.

Speaker 1 (10:56):
You know, all this stuff how about you just say
I need to feel what.

Speaker 4 (11:01):
I'm feeling, you know, like, can you just let me
feel what I'm feeling so that the feeling can move
because people are so afraid afraid of judgment, afraid of
their own self judgment. Like what does it mean if

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I can't look at somebody without tearing up? What does
it mean that I have to take a medicine from
my emotions? You know, and even people like me, like
you know, I've mentioned before on the show that I'm
a Christian, you know, like we're also some of the
worst people. You know when we tell each other, you know,

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it's it's not of God, Like depression, anxiety, all the
mental health struggles is not of God.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
Right, Well, clearly.

Speaker 4 (11:58):
He had something to do with it because it's here,
you know, so he either knew it was going to
exist or whatever. So it's like we got to start
letting like supporting people, asking them what is it you need,
and us who are going through it, you know, saying
exactly what it is. Because for some people they like

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to be left alone. Other people they need physical touch,
they need that support, someone to say it's going to
be okay. Other people actually need advice. They need someone
to go to so they can get an answer. But
we have to listen to what people are saying. We
have to listen, not to answer, but to actually hear

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and to understand, right, you know, that's like just let
me feel it.

Speaker 3 (12:46):
Yeah. Yeah. A lot of people, well a lot of
people don't don't realize is that. You know, sometimes when
you know you have someone to listen and they're listening,
some people just don't don't know how important it is

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just to have that person there listening. Sometimes they think
to themselves like, oh, they know, they're just here because
they feel bad or they did They're here because, you know,
they they think that you know, I just you know,
they just feel guilty, They feel bad, they feel like
they should be there for some reason. But sometimes people

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don't understand that we're genuinely here because we genuinely give
a fuck, you know what I'm saying, Like, we genuinely care.
That's why we're here, That's why we listen, that's why
we give feedback, that's why we do and say what
we say and do because we genuinely give a shit,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (13:45):
Yeah, But sometimes the people that are going through it.
They can appreciate that, but in the moment sometimes we
give them things or think that we're being helpful, and
we're really not for them. You know, it's not help
for them. Like my ex best friend, Now.

Speaker 3 (14:05):
Why is this been an ex best friend?

Speaker 4 (14:08):
Well, I guess I'm going to try to make that
long story short. When we first became friends, she's a
new Eurekan. Okay, so she's very adamant about things, not
afraid to tell you like it is. You know, we'll
throw down at the drop of a hat. Right early, early,
early in our friendship. When we started, I made it

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very clear to her because I am very self aware
of myself, but introducing myself to her, introducing this friendship,
I told her, if there ever comes a day where
you feel that you need to stop talking to me
or hold a grudge against me for something I said
or did, then that is going to be you telling

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me that.

Speaker 1 (14:55):
Our friendship is over.

Speaker 4 (14:58):
Because I love and care about people so much that
that's not the way you resolve issues. If you hold
that If you know, like if we're friends, you know
we're supposed to care and love each other, you're supposed

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to tell me about it. You know, tell me what's happening.
Tell me what you see that I don't see. If
you're mad, like I guess, going back to my hood
around the edges. If you're woll say you're swollen, If
you want to slap me, tell you tell me you
want to slap me. If you're gonna want to be
my family, then act like my family. And me and

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my brothers there were boxing matches. I mean, I'm talking
gloves and punching bags like it was real. We'd be
on the porch with the boxing gloves on and we
literally would have a boxing match outside.

Speaker 1 (15:54):
Like people who love you will tell.

Speaker 4 (15:56):
You the hard things, right because they want to, but
because they need to, because they love you and want
you to be better. So anyway, after about fourteen and
I'm even her daughter's godmother, right after fourteen years of friendship, and.

Speaker 1 (16:15):
And I did suck up a lot of things, you know,
like there were.

Speaker 4 (16:18):
Plenty of times in our relationship where I felt her,
I felt you know, just damage from her and the.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
But I accepted her for who she was.

Speaker 4 (16:30):
I accepted that she was that that person that she
was that you know, petty, and she she would admit
it herself that she was petty. Right, I accept her
as that petty person, but it got to a point
where I wasn't meeting her expectations. I think, I actually

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think the whole thing had to do with being a godparent. Right,
So I wasn't the godparent that she thought I should
have been. But in my eyes, in my heart, I
was being the best godparent. I knew how to be
the best godparent that I thought I could be, right,
But for her, it wasn't good enough. So she started,

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I guess, feeling angry, but instead of telling me about it,
like actually having a how can we resolve it? Conversation,
she just kept letting her her expectations build and build
and build, until.

Speaker 1 (17:30):
It got to a point where she actually questioned me.

Speaker 4 (17:35):
About whether I got her daughter a gift or not,
after I had always already told her made it clear
to her that at that very moment I wasn't financially able.
But there in the in the daughters thirteen years of life,
not once have I not been there for her or
have I not shown up. And that's the thing, Like

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I tried to show up when I couldn't spend money,
I would spend money even when I didn't have it,
just so the girl would have something, you know, like
I might not have been able to buy the three
hundred dollars cake, but I didn't show up without one.

Speaker 3 (18:12):
I must be of a cake. It was three hundred dollars.

Speaker 1 (18:15):
Well it's like she saw it on Pinterest and you know,
all this stuff.

Speaker 4 (18:19):
So it's like, but she has you know, she has
quality tastes and I can appreciate that. But I'm a
single parent. I don't have quality pockets.

Speaker 5 (18:28):
You know.

Speaker 3 (18:29):
Uh, that's a good way to put it.

Speaker 4 (18:32):
But I always showed up with love, and even though
I couldn't get like the unicorn cake she asked for,
I showed up with a unicorn cake, you know, like
even if I had to buy all the pieces that
went with it, or if I had to order something
on Amazon to put on the cake. Like I even bought,

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you know, the cakes for her other kids who were
not my god children, but that I love.

Speaker 3 (18:59):
We talked in the little Debbie unicorn cakes and were
talking a cake you baked yourself.

Speaker 1 (19:04):
No, it's a cake got bought. But they were big cakes.

Speaker 3 (19:07):
You know, I'm just saying because you know, they got
unicorn little Debbie cakes. I'm just making sure.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
No no, no, no, no, no, I would I would
buy like the decorations. No, But people who know me.

Speaker 4 (19:22):
Know that I actually go above and beyond sometimes over
I overdo it, whether it's overgiving, over selling, over loving.
You know, I'm extra right. So she mentioned all of
these things as thoughts in her mind, but never that
they were such a concern that she would stop talking

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to me. So anyway, in October, somebody's laughing at me.
In October, I actually officiated one of her children's weddings,
and I was honored to do it.

Speaker 1 (20:00):
I was glad to do it.

Speaker 4 (20:02):
And let me tell you, when I showed up, I
gave it all I had right, made.

Speaker 3 (20:07):
Sure works everything.

Speaker 1 (20:11):
I was crying over everything. I was, you know, bringing
the love.

Speaker 4 (20:16):
I was bringing the love. And I did exactly what
the daughter asked me to do. I can't control traffic,
and the venue was like three hours away. So for
the rehearsal dinner the night before, I left three hours
before I should have to get there on time. But

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driving through Philadelphia traffic, uh, there was like a bad
accident and I was forty five minutes late to the
rehearsal dinner. Now, if there's gonna be problems, that's what
the rehearsal dinners for.

Speaker 1 (20:54):
It's for the problem, so.

Speaker 6 (20:58):
Out.

Speaker 4 (20:58):
Yeah, but when I showed up. As soon as I
showed up, I stood there kind of waiting to see
because they were in the middle of the practice. So
I just stood there to kind of wait until it
was done so that you know, she could talk to me,
show me what I was doing. And I apologized profusely,
but again, I can't control if someone gets in an accident, Like,

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those are things that are out of my control. Now,
had I left late, that would have been under my control,
but I left extra early.

Speaker 5 (21:31):
So.

Speaker 1 (21:34):
I got there forty five minutes late.

Speaker 4 (21:36):
After I got there, they all ignored me, like they
acted like I wasn't even there. And then after the
thing was over, I tried to approach the bride to
kind of say, is there anything you know special that
you need me to do? And I mean, you would think,
as the bride, you want to make sure everything goes

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off without a hitch, so you want to show you want.

Speaker 1 (21:59):
To show your official what they're supposed to be doing. Nope, Uh,
they totally ignored me.

Speaker 4 (22:04):
We went to the venue for the dinner, I sat
there and it just felt very awkward, very uncomfortable.

Speaker 5 (22:10):
But then.

Speaker 4 (22:12):
The morning of the wedding, I went down, you know,
we all go down early for breakfast and everything. I
even saw the bride on the elevator and I said
good morning, and she kind of gave me, you know,
a dry good morning, and I was like, all right.

Speaker 3 (22:31):
Then, father Mike.

Speaker 1 (22:32):
At that point, you know what I mean again, I
was handling. That's not me, that's not Whowaiian.

Speaker 5 (22:38):
I made a.

Speaker 1 (22:39):
Promise and I always followed through.

Speaker 4 (22:42):
But then my Michael Madre at breakfast, I was like,
good morning, you know, being sweet and everything, and she
just came out of nowhere and was like, so are
you going to be on time for the wedding today?

Speaker 6 (22:54):
I was like what.

Speaker 1 (22:55):
First of all, we're at the hotel.

Speaker 4 (22:57):
We're literally five minutes down the street from the wedding venue,
like and the bride, and I asked the bride what
time do you want me there?

Speaker 1 (23:05):
She said it's twelve o'clock. I was like, okay.

Speaker 4 (23:07):
The wedding didn't start till too, so I was like,
all right, I'll go at twelve and I'll help, you know,
set things up I get there, go see the bride
in her little room that she's getting ready, and basically
she was again ignoring me, like I wasn't even there.
And when I asked, there's anything I can do, She's like, no,
you can just go stand at the uh you know,

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the the altar outside or whatever. So literally she had
me and my daughter standing just standing outside doing nothing
for two hours.

Speaker 3 (23:40):
Nah man, and she's I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (23:44):
Like I didn't know how to feel about that. And
then at the reception, nobody spoke to me. No, like again,
nobody acknowledged me, like I was really treated like a
piece of garbage. So I asked, like her best friend,
I'm like, you know, are you aware of something that
I've done that she might be angry? Nobody didn't know nothing,

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didn't say nothing, So I left. I didn't hear from
the lady for months.

Speaker 7 (24:12):
Yeah, it was.

Speaker 1 (24:14):
And I tried to justify it.

Speaker 5 (24:15):
I really did.

Speaker 4 (24:16):
I tried to justify the behavior or whatnot. But then
I didn't hear from her for months, and then out
of nowhere, she invites me to a housewarming and I'm like,
what Actually Thanksgiving? I sat and I thought to myself,
of all the things I'm thankful for right, And I
was like, okay, so we have come fourteen years later,

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we have come to this place that I told her
if we ever got here, then that was her telling
me that she no longer wanted us to be friends. Right,
And she hadn't spoken to me from June all the
way to Thanksgiving and again saw me and I told

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brat her daughter's wedding and they didn't say thank you.
I didn't get paid for it, like nothing, nothing, not.

Speaker 1 (25:06):
At all nothing. And I told you, and I put
my foot in it that day.

Speaker 4 (25:12):
I was like giving them all the love I had
in my heart and read off of the script that
she gave me, you know, and I think I knocked
it out of the park. So but I basically told
my friend, listen, this is a choice you're making, not me.
But you know again, I'm a woman of my word.
I told you this was the consequence for petty, childish behavior.

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And you are fifty something years old and this is
not the way you should be acting. If you had
a problem with me. Number one, you should have told
me because I had no idea. Number two, I still
don't know what's going on. And number three, you literally
embarrassed me and treated me like garbage in a public

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setting in front of my own child, and I took it.

Speaker 3 (26:03):
You know.

Speaker 1 (26:03):
I was like, and for me, that is.

Speaker 4 (26:07):
I'm not gonna say I unforgivable, because I can forgive anything,
but that is just unacceptable and right, you know. And
I thought I thought we met more than that. And
then she even came back and was like, you know,
I was like, and then I don't hear nothing from you,
and then you're gonna invite me to a house, warm
me for what so that I could buy you a gift? So,

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you know, because then I started thinking about the fourteen
years and I was like, you know what, in fourteen
years and we lived an hour away from each other.
In fourteen years, you've been to my house twice. I've
been to your house four to five times a year,
you know, Like I'm always traveling to you, doing for you,

(26:52):
doing for your kids. Yeah, pile of me and girls,
that's exactly.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
And I just I don't. I don't function that way.

Speaker 3 (27:02):
You know.

Speaker 4 (27:03):
Life is too short. Life is too short for me anyway.
Life is too short. If I have an issue, I'm
gonna speak up and let you know I have an issue.
We can make adult decisions and decide we don't want
to be friends anymore. But I basically told her, yeah,
they don't.

Speaker 1 (27:20):
They don't.

Speaker 4 (27:21):
And we even saw each other as family, like my
daughter calls her THITHI, you know, which means aunt. Yeah,
And then she started contacting my daughter behind my back,
you know, and I was like, listen, my daughter's at
the age now where I'm not going to stop you,
but like that's some really elementary and and I don't

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And so I just decided I don't want to be
a part of that. So unfortunately, that is why she
is my ex friend. Now.

Speaker 1 (27:50):
I still love her. I still love her to death.

Speaker 4 (27:53):
And actually, uh, last month, I think it was I
went and picked my daughter, my guy daughter, up to
take her out, and being in their house, being in
their presence caused me to tear up because it was
very painful.

Speaker 1 (28:09):
It was very painful to have to say.

Speaker 4 (28:12):
Goodbye to a friendship, that a family member that I loved,
you know. But she was making this choice and I
needed to stand on that, you know. I needed I
needed to stand on my promise.

Speaker 1 (28:27):
And that's what I did.

Speaker 5 (28:29):
You know.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
Let me let me real quick and bring Dubson. Hold
on a second. Hey, you're good. I don't hear you.
Your mic is off? Yeah, yeah, sound you sound muffled,
like really bad? Hold so so, so lady, keep going.

(28:55):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 6 (28:56):
Hey, hey, hey that the Verizon. God, can you hear me? Now?

Speaker 3 (29:01):
Yeah? All right?

Speaker 6 (29:02):
Good?

Speaker 3 (29:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (29:05):
So, I mean just enjoying this air.

Speaker 1 (29:08):
It was really nice out today.

Speaker 4 (29:12):
So oh, But we had started that conversation because I
was saying, you know, my ex best friend or whatever,
anytime I was going through something, I couldn't call her
because as much as I loved there, as much as
I wanted to call her, like she was the first
person I thought about when something was going bad, but
I wouldn't call her because she would always end up

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making it about her.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
And about what I should do instead of allowing me.

Speaker 5 (29:39):
To go through it. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (29:42):
Very toxic, very toxic, and especially at this time of
my life, toxic. I want that far away from me now.
All these yo yo friendships, relationships, whatever. Nope, when I
say goodbye, it's goodbye.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
Don't come back.

Speaker 4 (30:00):
The ship has sailed. You're not gonna be putting me
on pause. I'm not a placeholder in case your other
thing falls through No, I'm a good friend, I'm a
good woman, I'm a good sister, I'm a good family member.
If you can't deal with me correctly the first time,
then I have to regretfully, lovingly give my.

Speaker 1 (30:22):
Distance and live my life. Because my life right now, yeah,
this season of my life. My youngest is about to
graduate high school and go to college.

Speaker 4 (30:33):
Right now, it's about her, and when that's done, it's
about me living my best life. And that includes self care,
you know, caring for myself, my relationship with my faith,
my job.

Speaker 5 (30:51):
You know.

Speaker 4 (30:52):
Yeah, small circle. My circle is so small it doesn't exist.
You're looking at my circle right here.

Speaker 3 (30:59):
On the screen. I appreciate that, Thank you very much.
Let me be a part of your circus.

Speaker 1 (31:05):
This is the only people I talk to.

Speaker 6 (31:08):
I appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (31:09):
Yes, absolutely, yeah.

Speaker 4 (31:11):
But you know what, when we're younger, you know, there's
a Spanish saying right which basically is like it's better
to be alone than with bad company. You know, So
if I want to be miserable and angry or whatever,
I could do that all about myself.

Speaker 3 (31:31):
I don't.

Speaker 4 (31:31):
I don't need to have other people in my life
to feel that way, you know. And the funny thing
is I have created a very peaceful, loving life.

Speaker 1 (31:42):
You know, I don't have drama.

Speaker 4 (31:44):
I don't have any of that stuff. I'm not perfect,
nobody's perfect, you know, but I try to learn something
new about myself every day. I'm always trying to make
myself the better version of myself.

Speaker 8 (31:58):
You know.

Speaker 4 (32:00):
I'm working on my health, on you know, being healthy,
being a good mom again, a good employee, and just
loving people, loving people how I want to love them,
not you know, right, not always having to to compromise
myself to make them happy. And truthfully, it even includes

(32:24):
you know, my ex husband. You know, like, dude, you've
had so many years where I've been the nice guy.
I'm not the nice guy anymore. I'm not gonna be nasty.
I'm not going to be mean, but I'm gonna play
things the way you want to play them. You know,
you want everything to be dry and like by the book,

(32:47):
So be it. That's how we're doing it. So don't
get mad when I go buy the book and you're
going to be spending money on your lawyers and all
this other kind of stuff. Hey, Midnight, we are wonderful,
you know, So it just comes a time when you
have to. You have to have boundaries for yourself. You

(33:08):
have to say enough is even within yourself, enough is enough.
You know, if I'm not going to take care of me,
how can I expect anybody else to want to take
care of me? You know, Like when I again at
my age, now, I think this is the healthiest I've
been emotionally, mentally, physically, you know, trying to stay active,

(33:32):
trying to do things that I enjoy, you know, making
me happy. Because the truth is, I think we have
this mistake where we tell other people that we're happy
when they're happy, right, And the thing is, that's a
lot of pressure to put on somebody, to put your
happiness in somebody else's hands. That's a lot of pressure

(33:56):
because nobody should be responsible for something you need to
do for yourself, you know, because then that means that
your happiness is always going to depend on the other
people's moods, right, And that's and that's not okay because
what if you're having a bad day, or what if
the you know, doves is having a bad day. If
if I depended on the two of you guys to

(34:18):
bring me my happiness, to make me happy?

Speaker 6 (34:22):
Yeah, because especially today, you'll be asked out today.

Speaker 1 (34:27):
Yeah, yeah, I saw your message earlier.

Speaker 6 (34:30):
Yeah yeah, you know what.

Speaker 5 (34:34):
Yeah yeah, So it's like we can't do that.

Speaker 4 (34:37):
We have to we have to make ourselves responsible and
and accountable to ourselves to make sure that we're doing
everything we need to do. I think I've mentioned before
I'm at the gym five o'clock every morning, true story.

Speaker 1 (34:52):
Yeah, I see you.

Speaker 6 (34:55):
Yeah, yeah, yep, yo, Look you know what that is about.

Speaker 9 (35:00):
See, I'm at the gym five o'clock every morning. See
that ship just woke me up, you know what I'm saying.
And I can't wait to get my I can't wait
to get my surgery done so I could just beat
so I could come on here and be like, you
know what, I doubled down with you. I'm at the
gym at four thirty in the morning. How you like
them apples?

Speaker 6 (35:17):
And I actually go to the gym.

Speaker 1 (35:18):
You know, right there with you dubs.

Speaker 4 (35:20):
In order to be able, in order to be able
to do this, I've had foot surgery, I've had hand surgery.

Speaker 3 (35:28):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
I just had endoscopy, like I'm doing.

Speaker 5 (35:33):
All of it.

Speaker 9 (35:34):
Yeah, speaking of endoscopy, I gotta get that Monday you
know what I'm saying, like that that that that's all
pre surgery.

Speaker 1 (35:40):
Yeah, but that's what I'm saying, Like sometimes.

Speaker 6 (35:43):
I can't wait, I can't wait for this to be over.

Speaker 1 (35:45):
Yeah, but sometimes we have to do the thing that
we're most afraid of, you.

Speaker 9 (35:50):
Know, liked Yeah, you know what I'm afraid of calling
moscopiece man.

Speaker 6 (35:55):
You know what I'm saying, Like I'm put you to sleep?
So why are you afraid of that?

Speaker 5 (35:59):
Yo?

Speaker 6 (36:00):
Because?

Speaker 9 (36:00):
Yo? You know what, it's the torture the twenty four
hours beforehand you're drinking that freaking liquid and ship clearing
yourself out. It's tortuous. And then like you know, yes
it is y yo, yo, Yo, you know what like
just drinking that just drinking that nasty ass liquid that
that you got to drink a gallon of it before
you know what I'm saying anything.

Speaker 6 (36:21):
And plus you know I'm saying, you got to drink
a lot of it.

Speaker 9 (36:23):
But and plus you're being cleared out. You know what
I'm saying, You're being cleared out to the point where
like you're cramping up because like it happened to me,
right and then like you know, like and and and
and then and and then like you know what I'm saying,
like that you're you're basically on the twenty four hour
faster right, And then like you know what I'm saying,
you smell like people cooking. That's the torture part, because

(36:45):
you know what, at some point you want to eat
and you can't even eat, you know what I'm saying,
that's the tortuous part.

Speaker 6 (36:51):
You see what I mean. I've been there before. You
know what I'm saying. That ship was a straight torture.

Speaker 5 (36:54):
You just have to prepare it. That's all.

Speaker 1 (36:56):
You got to get yourself in the mindset.

Speaker 9 (36:59):
And then like you know, waking up and like all
of a sudden, you have don't want the gas and
you're trying to like you know, like with me personally,
think it's funny because I don't want the gas, and
like you know, I'm like, yo, you know what, it
sounds nasty, nough, but like it's natural, you see what
I mean?

Speaker 4 (37:14):
Because you know, and Tanya's over here talking about bubble guts.

Speaker 6 (37:20):
Yo, that yo, empt Yo, you know what empty bubble guts?

Speaker 9 (37:24):
You know what I'm saying, because like for hours, yo,
for hours, you know what I'm saying, Like like granted,
I feel violated as is, you know what I'm saying,
But I'm here, like you know what I'm saying, like
passing gas and that shit sounds like a marching band
coming out.

Speaker 6 (37:34):
You know, I'm saying for one of them, HBCUs.

Speaker 9 (37:36):
You know what I'm saying, Like it sounds like sounded
like a tune was playing, you know, like like yo,
like it was blown horn.

Speaker 5 (37:43):
Bro.

Speaker 6 (37:44):
You know what, Like Conoscar piece are the worst.

Speaker 9 (37:46):
I don't want to go through it again, but I
have to, you know what I'm saying, because like because
like my first one they found like a lot of polyps.

Speaker 6 (37:53):
Yeah that's and that's not good, you know, yeah, exactly.

Speaker 1 (37:57):
Again, sometimes we have to do the thing that we have.

Speaker 4 (38:00):
That we don't want to do exactly because and I
have to admit that part of the part of this
part of my life this season is because my own
mother passed away when she was fifty two years old, right,
and I was all of like twenty one, maybe like
I was in my early.

Speaker 1 (38:21):
Times. I have that I need to eat. That's why
you set it up for like track of dawn morning,
you know, So I'm close. I'm close to that now.

Speaker 4 (38:30):
And my youngest is eighteen, so he's not far away
from the twenties.

Speaker 1 (38:35):
And even though I know it's not a realistic fear,
it is still a fear, you know, Like.

Speaker 4 (38:42):
Of course Mom was fifty two, and I probably won't
forget it. Even if I crossed fifty two, you know,
I still might worry about it. But it's definitely the
time my life where my mortality is.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
Definitely you know, question backed me in the face.

Speaker 4 (38:58):
A lot of my friends are passing away way, you know,
people that I knew, uh, and we're still fairly young.
So if that's happening, that really gets you thinking, am
I doing what I need to be doing.

Speaker 1 (39:11):
To at least set myself up to succeed?

Speaker 6 (39:14):
You know what?

Speaker 9 (39:16):
Like my mortality always like you know what I'm saying,
Like I always question my mortality, you know what I'm saying,
because you know, things happen, yeah, but but you know,
like earlier, you know, like like like yesterday today, you know,
like the stuff that I seen, I I really you
know what I'm saying, Like, Yo, it got it really

(39:36):
got me to the point where I was like, yo,
you know what I'm saying, Like I would like to
speak on it, but it kind of like crosses lines
a little bit, you know what, because.

Speaker 4 (39:47):
You can just do you can generalize it, dubs. You
can just say when it comes to certain things, you know.

Speaker 6 (39:54):
Yah yah yo, you know what? All right? So I
have to let it out. You know what I'm saying,
Like if I start crying so big.

Speaker 9 (40:00):
Man, because I'm not speaking on the political general, speaking
as a problem it's real. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
I'm speaking as a dad. You know what I'm saying
when I seen those bodies on the floor, like I
hugged my daughter a little tighter. You know what I'm saying,
because like at some point you know what I'm saying,
like you got to call out you know what I'm
saying the other You know what I'm saying, the elephant

(40:20):
in the room, Like like yo, you know what what's
going on, isn't I don't think that's justified? Like the kids, bro,
you know what I'm saying, Like like like for instance, right,
if Coleon had a problem with me and he saw
me in the street, fine, that's a business to me, right,
But if I caught colle On walking with his kids

(40:43):
or grandkids, I'll let him be yeah, you know what
I'm saying, because like, yo, you know what that's to
me is off limits.

Speaker 6 (40:50):
But it's like the fact that.

Speaker 9 (40:51):
You know what I'm saying, people justifyd that well you
know they're you know, yeah, you know what I'm saying,
Like it's yo, it's you know what I'm saying, Like
like like I yes, you know what I'm saying, Like
I expect animals to do that. Polar bears do that,
bears do that, lines do that. You know what I'm saying,

(41:12):
Like you know what I'm saying because like that's built
into into their system. Us you know what I'm saying.
We have reasoning and yet you know what I'm saying, Yo, Yo,
it messed me up to the point man, it was
like I didn't.

Speaker 1 (41:29):
I can't think about that, think about this, dubs.

Speaker 5 (41:31):
Right.

Speaker 4 (41:32):
So we've talked about the relationship things before, and you've
talked about like how you used to treat women, and
it wasn't until it happened to you that it kind
of woke you up.

Speaker 1 (41:41):
Right, So it's things like that.

Speaker 4 (41:44):
It's things like seeing videos, seeing photographs, seeing reality right
of things that we really never saw before from that
point of view to really wake us up and say, man,
so we have to be the change we want to
see you.

Speaker 6 (42:01):
You know, it's a funny thing, right.

Speaker 9 (42:03):
I used to watch Faces of Death to laugh at
it back then, Like the ship was kind of funny,
you know what I'm saying, Like the narrator, you know,
like he had a very you know, like he had
a very sick sense of humor, you know, And I
found that kind of funny because back then because like
I did not care, Like I had no care in
the world for that.

Speaker 6 (42:21):
But but like I don't know, you know what I'm.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
Saying, like stars staying home?

Speaker 9 (42:26):
Yeah, you know, like like like like yo, you know what,
I can't I can't imagine being a father who has
to bury their child so damn early you know what
I'm saying, and use us with them yesterday, Yeah, you know,
like especially under those circumstances, man, like you know, and like, yo,
you know what. And it's like the messed up part
about it is that if we speak on them, if

(42:48):
we speak out on that, all of a sudden, you
know what I'm saying, your captain the label and you
really can't you know what I'm saying, You have to
be careful around certain things. But however, if it was
done by a different group, yeah, it'll be it'll be.

Speaker 6 (43:04):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (43:06):
Yeah, we can speak out on that not a problem,
We can speak out against that injustice. But yeah, like
you know that's why I like, you know what I'm saying,
Like I'm trying to tiptoe you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (43:16):
I'm trying to tiptoe around it because.

Speaker 9 (43:20):
Because like it's you know what I'm saying, just the
you know, bro, you know what I'm saying, like like yo,
you know what, like the morning parents and like the
morning kids.

Speaker 6 (43:31):
You know what I'm saying, Like they don't they don't
deserve that.

Speaker 1 (43:36):
Man, it's hard to lose parents.

Speaker 9 (43:39):
But like that, but like that though yeah, but but
but but yo, you know what, Yes, you know what
I'm saying, Like like see like with death, right mhm,
when when someone is sick, when a loved one is sick.
You know what I'm saying, You're expecting it when it
happens like a car accident.

Speaker 6 (43:58):

Speaker 9 (44:00):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like it's it's like
a shock, you know what I'm saying, it's like a
shock and all, Like you know, like like anything sudden
is a shock and all.

Speaker 6 (44:06):
But when.

Speaker 3 (44:09):
That's certain, but what but.

Speaker 9 (44:11):
But but when it's that circumstance when you're just hearing
explosions and all of a sudden, something comes to your
living room and you see nothing and you wake up
and your whole family's flat out, you know what I'm saying,
Like out of nowhere, it's like that that to me
is probably kind of different. You know what I'm saying,
like thank and and and yo, you know what, thank
God I live here now, you know what I'm saying,

(44:33):
because like the way.

Speaker 5 (44:35):
The world we're going in that way even getting that way, yo.

Speaker 6 (44:38):
You know what the yo?

Speaker 9 (44:39):
You know what the way you know what I'm saying. Yo,
it's almost as if like us, you know what I'm saying,
Like we're going one way, but the world's going.

Speaker 6 (44:47):
To other m hm.

Speaker 9 (44:49):
You know what I'm saying, Like it's totally different directions.
And you know, as of right now, I thank god
that you know, like I live the so called safe
haven when in all reality, you know what I'm saying,
like it's probably not that you know what I'm saying,
but as of right now, that's what it is. And

(45:12):
my prayers go out to the you know what I'm saying, hmm.

Speaker 6 (45:18):
Yeah, yeah, you know what.

Speaker 9 (45:20):
Tell you know what, man like those images man like, like, yo,
you know what it's It's worse than me seeing someone
get hit by a train.

Speaker 6 (45:28):
And I've seen it before, you know, like, h.

Speaker 9 (45:37):
So, yeah, I understand and and and you know and
and and bro, you know what, and this is the
reason why I question my mortality now. You know what
I'm saying, This is the reason why, like you know, like,
I have a stronger strive to live because you know
what I'm saying, I have a baby. You know what
I'm saying, I need to protect her. You know what
I'm saying. I gotta protect my kids. You know what
I'm saying. If it's gonna get that ugly, you know, like,

(45:59):
I gotta protect my kids, man, because yo, you know what,
you know, I put it on God and everything to
give me. You know, I'm saying this sounds blasphemous, but yo,
you know what, I'd rather die on my feet deliver
my knees, you know, like, and yo, you.

Speaker 6 (46:20):
Know what, man like, that's yo, that's just not even right, bro,
you know, like I can't you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (46:26):
The only reason why, like it affected me because you
know what I'm saying, Like it's bodies on the ground
that I've seen.

Speaker 6 (46:31):
It's the size of my daughter. Bro, It's probably the
same age.

Speaker 9 (46:39):
At some point, man, you know what I'm saying, Like,
like you know, and I ain't even speaking on political things, man,
It's on a moral thing, bro, speaking as a human.
No politics, but like yo, you know what. But but
like yo, you know what they're gonna do. You know
what they're gonna be like, Oh, you're sympathizer and this
that and the third you know what I'm saying, Oh yeah,
you know what I mean. So so that means they're okay.

(47:00):
You know what I'm saying. So that means you're okay
you know what I'm saying with the China side and
Fanta side and all that ethnic cleans and stuff, you're
okay with that behind I'm not okay with that. I'll
never I never will be you know, Like kids, yo,
you know what I'm saying, And I don't want to
hear that excuse Well, they're hiding behind the kids, bro.
But you're killing them, So you wipe out thirty people

(47:24):
just to get to one.

Speaker 5 (47:26):
More than one killer?

Speaker 9 (47:28):
Yeah exactly, you know what I'm saying. But I'm just
saying though, like you wipe out thirty people just to
get to one. No, thirty innocent lives just to get
to one.

Speaker 5 (47:36):
That's warfare, Yo, it is yo. You know what. Yeah,
it's fucked up, That's what it is.

Speaker 6 (47:44):
Yo, Yo, you know what is it?

Speaker 2 (47:45):
But what I don't like is the the like highlighting
of one specific area when worst things are going around
in Africa right now, when worst things you're going on
in the Seadan, when worst things are going on around
the world, and everyone wants to make this about only
two countries. When we got a president who's siding with

(48:09):
the dictator against another fucking country that was uh ambushed
and try to be take from another country and we're
siding with the dictator. Do you even understand where we
are right now?

Speaker 10 (48:25):
Like it's insane, you know, and I just want people.

Speaker 5 (48:29):
To wake up.

Speaker 9 (48:30):
But but but like yo, you know what though it
is like it's like yo, you know what, though, like
I'm speaking on a personal thing, like like I don't
want to make it like a political thing.

Speaker 6 (48:39):
But regardless of what it's gonna sound like anyways, you
know is that.

Speaker 10 (48:44):
But not in politics aside, dubbs, this is about human life.

Speaker 5 (48:49):
People don't human life. It's a consideration, yo.

Speaker 6 (48:55):
You know what yo?

Speaker 2 (48:56):
Yo?

Speaker 6 (48:56):
You know fucked up about it too.

Speaker 9 (48:57):
You know what I'm saying is that we can be
speaking on this human life stuff right and they'll make
it about politics. You know what I'm saying, because like
that's how that's how like ingrained this whole society is.

Speaker 6 (49:06):
Right now, everything's about politics.

Speaker 2 (49:08):
Like a lot of politics are like enveloped within these things.
You can't it's like you can't just ignore certain things.

Speaker 9 (49:20):
And that's the part about it, because yo, you know
what certain things aren't about politics?

Speaker 6 (49:24):
You see what I'm saying?

Speaker 9 (49:26):
Like how like like yo, you know what power is
about politics? But yo, you know what compassion yo? But
compassion is not you know what I'm saying, but.

Speaker 2 (49:35):
People, but the people in power don't have compassion. So
how do you expect that to change? Like you're we
get mad at the wrong people. You should be getting
mad at the people that are in charge of things everywhere.

Speaker 3 (49:51):
Yo.

Speaker 6 (49:51):
You know what, yo? You know what I know?

Speaker 3 (49:52):
Yo?

Speaker 9 (49:53):
I know where, I know where my anger is directed at,
but I'm not going to say it on this platform.

Speaker 6 (49:57):
Because, Yo, you know what, out of respect you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
Like, out of respect for what we have a first
amendment that is being used against us now when we
talk about things that people don't want to hear about.
I'm sorry, it's bullshit, like this is not America.

Speaker 5 (50:16):
That's not fucking America.

Speaker 10 (50:18):
Yo.

Speaker 6 (50:18):
Everything you say and I agree with you one hundred yo,
believe me one beyond it. Know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (50:25):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (50:25):
It's hard to sit here and pretend like I just
can't anymore. I can't pretend that everything is okay. I
can't pretend that I don't have crazy levels of anxiety
on a daily basis, which is probably making my health
a problem.

Speaker 5 (50:38):
Right now.

Speaker 2 (50:39):
I can't like focus and function because I'm so afraid
of what might happen to.

Speaker 5 (50:46):
Us because of who we're fucking with.

Speaker 2 (50:50):
I want people to realize that nuclear bombs exist and
countries have them, and if we fuck with the wrong
people and say the wrong fucking things, they can send
something right to us. We are not immune from things
and the realities of the world. We can be the
next fucking Palestine. Just don't be fucking.

Speaker 5 (51:12):
Stupid, like yo, yo, you know what, Yo, everything you're saying.

Speaker 6 (51:17):
You know I'm saying. Coleon knows that. You know what
I'm saying. I've said, I've said it before. I mean,
I don't know where did he go? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (51:26):
Where do you go? You know what?

Speaker 2 (51:30):
He has to come back because I feel like this
doesn't run without himself.

Speaker 6 (51:34):
Yeah, I know.

Speaker 2 (51:38):
I'm just very frustrated. It's just very frustrated with things.
Oh Jesus, we might both be gone soon. I don't
know what's happening.

Speaker 5 (51:50):
I broke it. I broke everything.

Speaker 6 (51:53):
Oh I'm back.

Speaker 5 (51:54):
Yeah, I came in and broke it. Yep.

Speaker 6 (51:59):
Yeah yo Yo.

Speaker 9 (52:01):
You know what, Like I don't want to like you
know what I'm saying, like, but like I can't hold
it in man Like I really can't.

Speaker 2 (52:07):
Man Like it's horrible and it's atrocious that they that
people are doing, you.

Speaker 9 (52:13):
Know, like like like a Sudan You know what I'm saying,
both go around, like I'm saying from what I heard
beheaded like Christians.

Speaker 5 (52:20):
I mean, it's all under the word of God.

Speaker 2 (52:25):
It's always a religion that's being used, but it's really
just a height like it's it's Jahada ship. It's like
beyond what the real religion is. It makes Muslims look
really bad when they're not bad people. Their religion isn't bad.
Karan isn't bad either. It's you have extremists on both sides,

(52:46):
Christians and Muslims that take shit way too far. And
you know what I'm saying, like interpret the books the
way they want, you.

Speaker 9 (52:57):
Know, like like like yo, you know what man, Like
it's just yeah, I couldn't hold that ship in today,
man Like I really couldn't, like you know, like yo,
you know what, like like that's why I said. You
know before it made me question my mortality as to
like you know like it may like it made me

(53:19):
appreciate where I'm at right now, you see what I mean. Yeah,
but it made me but it made me hug my
daughter a lot tighter.

Speaker 5 (53:26):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 9 (53:27):
You know what I'm saying like and yo, like like yo,
I've seen it yesterday. Man, I was crying for two days.

Speaker 6 (53:34):
I was even crying today, you know what I'm saying,
because like I don't like I really don't know why why.

Speaker 9 (53:42):
Like you know what I'm saying seeing that affected me
like that, you know, like maybe that was the story
that I really broke the camels back, you know what
I'm saying because of all the of all like of
all the other pressures I'm going through right now, such
as you know, like dealing with lawyers and operations and stuff,
and what's cool the owner.

Speaker 2 (53:58):
I was just gonna ask anybody has reached out to
him to see what happened to him?

Speaker 6 (54:03):
Yeah, you know what, hold on, man, let me text him,
because I'm like.

Speaker 5 (54:08):
What happened here? I think we know there is Oh
my god, what happened? Bro? You can't disappear like that?
That scares me.

Speaker 3 (54:20):
No, I was, I was. I was in the room.
I just had to step away for a second.

Speaker 10 (54:25):
Did you have to poop?

Speaker 3 (54:27):
No, I didn't have to.

Speaker 6 (54:28):
I'm not.

Speaker 3 (54:29):
I'm not. I'm not drinking a gallon of that ship.
I'm not getting anoscopy or anything.

Speaker 2 (54:35):
So no.

Speaker 6 (54:37):
Participating in the thought. So so yo, yo, you know what.
I just had to get that out of my system. Whatever.

Speaker 3 (54:49):
Yeah, yeah, so I got it. I got a couple
of emails, email Tom, Yeah, just like is going on
because my old man eyes can't see the paper already.

Speaker 1 (55:02):
An hour into the show.

Speaker 3 (55:03):
Yeah, all right, So I'm gonna read this and then
I'm gonna let y'all speak it out. All right, This
is kind of long, so that's why I have to
turn the light on to see. So bear with me.

Speaker 6 (55:18):
This is how you Yeah, he got the homicide light on.
That's what it is.

Speaker 3 (55:27):
Where we are in the fifteen.

Speaker 6 (55:31):
You know you up right here. You don't suck up right,
all right?

Speaker 3 (55:37):
So check it, I says, Hey, this might HERD podcast.
Recently I have had I was having a conversation with
a cousin that made me realize something odd. I am
hoping you guys can help me process this and if
and if I am maybe overreacting in my concerns. When

(55:59):
I would I was two or three years old, my
mom being seventeen or eighteen, she started dating this guy.
He was a neighbor, family friend, about three years older
than her. They only dated about six months and Mom
called it quits. I was told by a few that

(56:21):
he was extremely destroyed about their breakup. As I continued
to grow up, I remember seeing him around, which I
recall feeling uncomfortable because he would comment that I was
his daughter. And asked for a hug, but the amount
of times did not seem significant. When I hit high school,

(56:46):
I got a social media account. I quickly received friend requests.
He soon started to request I call him. I would
keep seeing how he he kept saying how he missed
me and saw me as his daughter. After many messages,
I felt obligated to make the call. Once on the phone,

(57:11):
he was super excited and quickly made me uncomfortable. He
again told me how much he loved and missed me,
how he wished to see me, and how he always
saw me as his daughter. Mind you, he only dated
my mom for six months when I was two. After
the call, I proceeded to ignore him and go forward.

(57:35):
I can need to ignore him going forward. I did
block him from my Space and my previous Facebook after
yearly messages requesting to call him. Instead of blocking him
on my newer accounts, I just ignored him. Some examples
of messages. You shall always be my daughter, the daughter

(57:59):
I never had. You stole my heart the day I
first met you, Happy birthday. That was in June of
twenty twenty. I love you with all my heart, even
though I haven't seen you for so many years. I
still hold you dear to my heart, but don't tell
anyone that was in May of twenty twenty three, I
just gave a couple I did ask mom my mom

(58:23):
a couple of years back, if she has reached out,
if he had reached out to her, which she reported me.
Reported to me that he tried back a few times,
but nothing of significance. He recently reached out to me
again last month after my mom passed. All he all
he did say was can you call me? I want

(58:45):
to see you. But I think because I ignored him
all these years, it did not click that it was creepy.
But I am over But at my old we're exaggerating
if I say that the messages are borderline obsessive and concerning.

(59:07):
If I block him again? Should I block him again?
When blocking him again cause a negative reaction from him?
Is this a safe situation? Hold on?

Speaker 6 (59:17):
I mean.

Speaker 3 (59:19):
With the page, Yeah, it's pretty long. Am I unsure?

Speaker 6 (59:25):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (59:25):
Am? I unsure how the death of my mom impacted him.
But I have children now and finally clocked that this
is not normal behavior. And at the end of the day,
I can't help. But wonder was he obsessed with my
mom or me. Thank you for reading and I look
forward to your opinions. What do you guys think of that.

Speaker 2 (59:49):
I'd be calling sbu right, I think and trust your
it was it felt creepy, it felt weird. You blocked
him for a reason. Don't like let this person back in.
There's no reason for it. That's just weird.

Speaker 9 (01:00:12):
See, this is the reason why like I got left
my female counterparts because they take the word out of
my mom. You know what I'm saying. For the most part,
that's just like, that's just like weird behavior. Man, you
know what I'm saying, like like yo, unless unless you
know what I'm saying, like you took an active role
in raising her throughout her childhood. You know what I'm saying,

(01:00:34):
unless and like you feel like you know what I'm
saying and you adopted that role as being like her.
You know what I'm saying, like her male Like you
know what I'm saying, like the father figure, unless it
is that you know what I'm saying, then yeah, you
know what I'm saying. What I'm saying, like yo, you
know what I'm saying, like unless you got that you
know what I'm saying that that rapport of like you know, father,

(01:00:56):
you know what I'm saying, step stepfather, step daughter. You
know what I'm saying, relationship where like you know what
I'm saying, you love her like your own. That's one thing.
Like hell, you know what, man like you're you in
and out? You know what I'm saying. You know what
I'm saying out the life that you know what I'm saying,
two years old.

Speaker 3 (01:01:10):
It's not it's not that, Yeah, it's not that the
dude was even in and out. It's that he was
in a relationship with her mother six months exactly, and
and and and and that was out the he was
out the picture.

Speaker 9 (01:01:22):
That's not even you know what I'm saying, long enough
to even have that. You know what I'm saying, that
type of relationship. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:01:29):
You know, like people really and my.

Speaker 4 (01:01:32):
Kids at least six months into our relationship. So if
they were only daily for six months, he shouldn't have even.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
Ever met her.

Speaker 6 (01:01:42):
Yeah, but you know what, they were next door neighbors.

Speaker 4 (01:01:44):
So yeah, it's between seeing someone and actually being a
part of their life type of thing because you were
dating their mom, right.

Speaker 1 (01:01:57):
Yeah, Like I've got neighbors here.

Speaker 4 (01:01:59):
If I ever happened to date one of my neighbors,
it would be more than even though my daughter knows them.
They would not be invited into my house as somebody
I'm seeing or introduced to her or told that we're
seeing each other for a while, unless I.

Speaker 1 (01:02:18):
Know that it's for real, for real, right.

Speaker 3 (01:02:21):
And the thing, the thing that also that also got
that made me wonder too, is that the dude, not consistently,
but every so often would be like, yeah, I want
to see you or I miss you like the daughter
I never had, Like what's the obsession there?

Speaker 6 (01:02:37):
You know what I'm saying, unless you yo, unless, unless
you unless she looks like the mother or something like that.

Speaker 9 (01:02:46):
That's even creepier, bro, Yeah, exactly. You know what I'm saying,
Like like like yo, you know what I mean. I mean, yo,
you know what you gotta like? You know what I'm saying,
Like really think about it, you know, I mean, like, like, yo,
you know what after six months the mother leaves that ship.
You know what I'm saying. It partly because he was obsessed,
what I'm saying, and now like you know, oh, she
looks just like her. You know what I'm saying, like, Yo,

(01:03:09):
you know what man like that? That's something?

Speaker 6 (01:03:15):
Yeah, man in the phone call, right, Yo, you know what,
it's just you know what I'm saying. It's just weird
ass behavior.

Speaker 3 (01:03:23):
Man.

Speaker 6 (01:03:26):
You look the daughter I never had, bro Like, it
wasn't even an after part of her life.

Speaker 3 (01:03:37):
Oh the fuck?

Speaker 6 (01:03:40):
What come on?

Speaker 3 (01:03:44):
It's fantastic Man. Oh ship, that's the name I haven't
seen in a long time. Yeah, that's the name I
haven't seen the law long time. Fantastic Man was my
YouTube name back when I was a Redskins video maker.

Speaker 6 (01:04:06):
Yeah, that's it's hell. I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 9 (01:04:09):
It sounds like one of them, you know what I'm saying.
The nineteen eighties. You know what I'm saying. Porn figures
you bust through a room.

Speaker 5 (01:04:20):
Man, Literally, that's literally what he sounds like.

Speaker 9 (01:04:25):
You say with the with the porn stash too. Yeah
in that wow, crazy ass music in the background.

Speaker 1 (01:04:36):
Sounds like Ryan Jeremy.

Speaker 5 (01:04:39):
Yo, for real, what's up, Bets?

Speaker 3 (01:04:42):
How are you? Bro? I'm clear, I clearly remember you
be like, what's good?

Speaker 6 (01:04:52):
Snappy?

Speaker 3 (01:04:54):
Yeah, he's a he's a he's a Mets. He's a
big time Mets fan video maker.

Speaker 6 (01:05:00):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:05:00):
Great, content, great content. I don't know. I don't know
what he's doing now with himself. I guess he's but
I know that he was at the time a giant
Giant fan, right and a Mets fan and great content.

Speaker 6 (01:05:13):
This guy is good all subject.

Speaker 9 (01:05:16):
You know what I'm saying, Like when it comes to
like local sports around here, it's like, if you're a
Yankee fan, they expected to be a Giants fan. If
you're a Mets fan, they expected to be a Jets fan.
It makes no sense, you know what I'm saying. It's like, yo,
you know what him and I will be odd of
these You know what I'm saying, Because I'm I'm a
Yankee fan, but I'm a Jets fan, you see what
I mean. And he's a Giant fan and a Mets

(01:05:36):
fan like like kill You know what around here is like, Oh,
that's an oddity. You know what I'm saying, as if
like there's like an unwritten rule around here where you know,
you got to be a Jets and a Mets fan
and all that stuff.

Speaker 6 (01:05:47):

Speaker 3 (01:05:48):
But that'shes off chop though, So we're all in agreement
that this this dude that's weird that this dude's got
some issues and he needs to really some help.

Speaker 6 (01:06:02):
It's like Michael Jordan, get some therapy.

Speaker 3 (01:06:05):
Yeah, all right, so then let's move on to this one.
I think TG is gonna like this one. We shall see, Yeah,
we shall see. All right? Back with the light? All right?

Speaker 6 (01:06:23):
Where were you?

Speaker 3 (01:06:23):
July eighteenth? Check this shit out? My boyfriend has had
sex with my sister in law and brother. What should
I do?

Speaker 5 (01:06:34):
I hate him, believe them?

Speaker 3 (01:06:40):
All right, so holds up. I started dating my current
boyfriend about two and a half oh two and a
half months ago. What He had been divorced about three
years before we met, and I told him I was
looking to settle down early during dating. He understood and

(01:07:02):
was on the same mindset as I. I allowed myself
to fall form. He seemed like the man of my dreams.
He has a good job, nice family, has his own home,
and wants children like me. We both decided we should
introduce each other to our families. I met his mother

(01:07:24):
and father and they are great people. Then I was
then it was his turn to meet my family. My
parents live about three hours away. It was about three
hours away. I love my place as old man shit,
but frequently.

Speaker 6 (01:07:42):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (01:07:43):
My parents are about three hours away, but my brother
and sister in law and two nieces live about three
miles away in the same town that I live. I
babysit my nieces frequently, and I'm close to my brother
and his family. We decided they could meet him first.
My brother and sister in law had been married about

(01:08:04):
eight years and at this point together probably about ten years.
When we both went to their home. My sister in
law was noticeably acting weird, but my brother seemed okay
and got along well with my boyfriend. They even went
off to play pool after dinner. While I helped my

(01:08:26):
nieces and sister in law clean up, my sister in
law took me to the side and told me something
that made my world come crashing down. They had a
threesome with my boyfriend. I was instantly sick to my stomach.
I knew two years ago they were having a rough

(01:08:49):
time in their marriage and my brother considered opening up
their relationship, but I hadn't heard anything about it after that,
and wasn't my time, and I'm not the type the pride.
I tried playing it cool the rest of the time
we were in the in the in their presence of
my brother and his family the best to the best

(01:09:10):
of my ability. Once he left, I asked him if
he had anything that he wanted to tell me. He
said no. I told him I wasn't feeling well and
needed to go home for the next week. I avoided
him until he stopped by my house and asked me
to talk. He decided to come clean and said that

(01:09:31):
he had met them through a local swingers club. He
also he also told me that he participated in several
orgies after his hold on, hold on, hold on several
orgies after his ex ended their marriage. He explained that

(01:09:53):
his ex was prudish and jealous and sex was rare,
so he went a little while once after the marriage ended.
He has apologized profusely for lying and says that he
didn't want to lose me. I still feel that this
situation is so surreal. I honestly thought he would be

(01:10:16):
I honestly thought we had a connection. We've been intimate
and had and have great chemistry. But I don't think
this is something I can get over. It's not the
part that he was involved in these activities, but more
so that he lied, and the reality is that he's
been sexually involved with two people so close to me.

(01:10:39):
I told him I needed time to think about it.
What should I do moving forward? Is this something that
the relationship can overcome? My boyfriend, I keep thinking about
the idea of my boyfriend and my brother and sister
in law having sex with each other. This is an

(01:11:03):
If this is a new relationship, I'm wondering if it's
worth even saving.

Speaker 2 (01:11:08):
If you can't get over something that he did in
his past when he was exploring and having fun, then yeah,
because it hits too close to home. It's literally your
brother and his wife, Like that is a small fucking world.
Of all the people she meets, she meets the motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (01:11:31):
That had the THREESO.

Speaker 5 (01:11:34):
With her brother and what come on? You can't make
this shut up? This is crazy?

Speaker 3 (01:11:40):
Oh shit, just just just think about this four minute.
Think about this for a minute. You had they had
sex with a dude that sex with your brother and
sister in law.

Speaker 10 (01:11:54):
Yo, hold on, well, you know if they had sex
three times ago, can be.

Speaker 3 (01:12:01):
Her Just the fact just the fact that the three
of them we're involved.

Speaker 6 (01:12:06):
In something like that. Yeah, regardless, I mean, like, like, yo,
you know what.

Speaker 5 (01:12:14):
It's kind of funny. It's like said brow like like, yo,
you know, out of your town. I don't know what.

Speaker 3 (01:12:25):
Oh hold on, hold on, check this out. Check this
out real quick, hold on this one.

Speaker 5 (01:12:30):
I can't read that all right.

Speaker 3 (01:12:33):
Said it's really strange. To be honest, it makes me
wonder if he suffers from delusions and if he attached
himself to the idea of being a dad for this girl.

Speaker 10 (01:12:44):
Oh okay, I see it now now this is all yeah,
like yeah, we're over that.

Speaker 9 (01:12:48):
But yeah, oh yeah, hell yeah. But but but yo,
you know what though, like I mean, think about it, man, like,
oh yeah, you know what I'm saying, Yo.

Speaker 5 (01:13:00):
Your brother's a freak. Your brothers a freak. You know
what you found?

Speaker 9 (01:13:06):
Yeah, talking to the system, Like yeah, you know, like
he put my wife out pretty good.

Speaker 6 (01:13:14):
You know what I'm saying. I was there, read that,
I was watching. I watched, I watched, yo, Like.

Speaker 5 (01:13:25):
That's just that's crazy, that is crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:13:31):
Yeah, that's that.

Speaker 6 (01:13:33):
I even gave him a reach around for his troubles.

Speaker 3 (01:13:41):
So pep, peep it, beep it, pep. I'm gonna read.
I'm gonna read one more email and then.

Speaker 10 (01:13:47):
But basically we decided that she is really up to
her she can't get over it.

Speaker 5 (01:13:52):
I wouldn't. I went and put myself in.

Speaker 6 (01:13:56):
This show, like like, nah, man, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:13:59):
But that's up to her though, right like if she honestly,
if you can't get over it, which I can understand,
you know.

Speaker 6 (01:14:06):
What I'm saying. I wouldn't, you know, because like, yo,
you know what I imagine? You know what I'm saying,
Thanksgiving dinners. You know what I'm saying, I'll pass you
board than a leg. Oh my god, like like what
do you doing? Stuff in the Turkey?

Speaker 4 (01:14:25):
Just like you're not just what but that that's definitely
going to come up in one of their life arguments
me like something.

Speaker 5 (01:14:32):
It's just yeah, it's.

Speaker 4 (01:14:34):
Definitely going to come up when they have an argument
or a disagreement or.

Speaker 6 (01:14:39):
You know, imagine an argument something.

Speaker 2 (01:14:42):
What if she starts thinking that, you know, he's now
looking at the sister in law a different way because
she they had that intimacy.

Speaker 5 (01:14:51):
So that's a lot of trust issues.

Speaker 3 (01:14:53):
But what are the chances?

Speaker 5 (01:14:55):
I know, that's just crazy and a girl. I'm so
sorry with you.

Speaker 9 (01:15:01):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying looking at the brother
like you know what I'm saying your family, you guys
broke out nice asses.

Speaker 3 (01:15:07):
I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:15:10):
You both cut nice asses.

Speaker 8 (01:15:12):
Yeah I knew I seen that ass somewhere before the
phenomenal last even yo, yo, yo, you know what he
must have walked in he was like, oh, like you
guys have different with clothes on, you know, like, oh
damn like.

Speaker 6 (01:15:27):
Bro like that.

Speaker 5 (01:15:28):
Maybe he didn't recognize them at first because they didn't
have to exactly, like, wait a minute, maybe I know
these people. And then brother's like, yeah, let's go play
pools so I can remind you.

Speaker 6 (01:15:42):
Let's go hold some wing sticks and hit some balls.

Speaker 5 (01:15:45):
Down to her.

Speaker 6 (01:15:46):
Yeah yeah, all right, yeah that is so yo. But
but yo, you don't what the what are the chances though?
You know what I'm saying, Like, like.

Speaker 3 (01:16:01):
She said, they lived three miles away, and she ended
up with a dude that slept with the both of them,
whether they had sex with the with them, that's crazy,
that's crazy. All right, here's the last here's the last one.
Here's the last one. I feel depressed every time we
have sex, yo, yo. All right, hold the hold up.

Speaker 5 (01:16:31):
The man laugh.

Speaker 3 (01:16:34):
Ship all right. Me and my boyfriend have been together
almost two years. We're both in I don't know what
this means you and I we're both in the University
of Probably we're both in university, living together, and for
the most part, having things. Things have been great. When

(01:16:58):
we met. We were both very gins and have had
zero experience, or he's had zero experience with girls. Lately,
though our sex sight has our sex life has been
really getting me down. We barely have sex, maybe once
a week, sometimes every three weeks, and when we do,

(01:17:20):
he just lies there and puts in no effort. If
I try to be intimate, he rejects me. After sex.
He either goes straight to sleep or hops on his computer,
and it makes me feel so unwanted and unattractive. I
brought it up to him multiple times, but when he
blames or then he blames it on stress or says

(01:17:43):
he's not on I don't know what the fuck this says.
It says he blames it on stress, and he's not cut,
not on a cut, and his testosterone is low. I
just don't know what to do anymore. Has anyone else
been through this? My boyfriend he's been. He puts barely

(01:18:06):
puts effort into sex. He jects my advances and makes
you feel unwanted. He blames stress and low testosterone, but
I feeling really good. Oh yeah, I don't know. I
don't know what. I don't know what the fuck is right.
He's nineteen, she's twenty one.

Speaker 5 (01:18:24):
Oh Jesus, no test bro, that's bullshit, bullshit. He needs
to figure his shit out, and she needs to go
get some dick everywhere.

Speaker 6 (01:18:35):
Yo, you know what? You need to check that browser? See.
You know what I'm saying, what he's really watching? I'm serious?

Speaker 5 (01:18:42):
Hen like like like, yo, you know what I mean?

Speaker 2 (01:18:47):
Well, maybe she should start putting things in his browsers
so he can learn something.

Speaker 5 (01:18:52):
Jesus, Wow, he wants stale fish or you know what?

Speaker 6 (01:18:57):
You know what I'm saying, yo? Or Yo?

Speaker 9 (01:19:01):
You know what if everybody's seen you know what I'm saying,
Like like, I don't know, give him acavey shirt. You
might like that ship have to reach the back of
his teeth. He might, you know what I'm saying, He
may be into that.

Speaker 6 (01:19:11):
I don't know. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:19:13):
They just sound very young and maybe just shouldn't be
of that kind of relationship.

Speaker 3 (01:19:17):
No, they shouldn't.

Speaker 5 (01:19:19):
You know what I'm saying like maybe he has some
other ship going on.

Speaker 3 (01:19:24):
It's definitely not low testosterone.

Speaker 5 (01:19:27):
I mean, if he does, he should be seen from that. Yeah, depression.

Speaker 6 (01:19:32):
You know what yo, yo yo, you know what? You
know what? You know what I'm saying, Like like all right,
you know what I'm saying, The only excuse I can't
even give this man is lis You know what I'm saying.
If he's really.

Speaker 9 (01:19:41):
Deep into a school in his grades and he's falling off,
you know what I'm saying, And like you know what
I'm saying, he's putting out of stress to himself. You
know what i mean, like trying to get the right
grades and all that extra ship. You know what I'm saying,
Like that could probably and the key word is probably,
you know what I'm saying, lead to that part. You
know what I'm saying, Like I'm like I'm trying, like

(01:20:01):
like that's probably the only past I can you know
what I'm saying, I can even think of giving this man,
You see what I mean because like at nineteen, you
know what I'm saying, like like, yo, you know what
we would energizing bunnies, bro, Like you know what I'm saying,
Like we ain't stop till blood came out.

Speaker 5 (01:20:16):
M M.

Speaker 6 (01:20:17):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (01:20:18):
Like who you fucking bro?

Speaker 6 (01:20:21):
You know what I'm saying, Like yo, Like like like bro,
you know what so yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (01:20:27):
That does, But like, yo, you know what it got
to the port, you know what I'm saying, Like where
there was probably once sperm cell left talking about crying
or whatever. It's like, Yo, I'm lowly in here. You
know what I'm saying, Like right, you know what I'm
saying like that, like at nineteen. You know what I'm
saying at nineteen. What I'm saying like like jack rabbits, Bro,
you know what I mean, Like like you're saying.

Speaker 2 (01:20:49):
You're your hormones are usually pretty.

Speaker 9 (01:20:53):
Up there jumping, yo, jumping. You know what I'm saying,
Like jumping everywhere everywhere. You know what I'm saying everywhere where.
But it's like, don't like like I said, you know what,
if he's like really stressed out about his grades and
you know what I'm saying, how it's going to affect
his future and all that stuff, you know what I'm saying,
Like then that's probably the only past. You know what
I'm saying that it could be probable at that you

(01:21:15):
know what I mean? Yeah, you know, you know because
like because like yo, you know what yo. You know,
there's a lot of kids out here today, like the
actually give a fuck about school, you know what I'm saying,
like that point o g PA.

Speaker 6 (01:21:27):
They'll do anything and everything like.

Speaker 9 (01:21:29):
Drinking, you know what I'm saying, like red bull and
all that stuff, like all these energy pills standing up
on like trying to like, you know, get that perfect.

Speaker 6 (01:21:35):
Grade or whatever.

Speaker 2 (01:21:37):
They need to focus on their studies exactly and don't
worry about having like that be single.

Speaker 5 (01:21:44):
If that's college Yeah for real, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:21:47):
You learn what you like and don't take your boyfriend
to meet them.

Speaker 9 (01:21:55):
He might have had a threesome, bro, bro that you know,
not to be something was crazy though, man, Like yeah, that's.

Speaker 7 (01:22:04):
Like you know what, what what what is the percentage
of like you know what I'm saying, Yeah, like what
but like what is like what is the percentage what
I'm saying that whole world?

Speaker 5 (01:22:15):
Are you kidding me?

Speaker 10 (01:22:16):
Like, if you live in an area and you see
people in the area, chances.

Speaker 5 (01:22:19):
Are you might run into them.

Speaker 9 (01:22:21):
True, but you know what though, Like what yo, what
will make that story more amazing is like let's just
say you know, they lived like in a heavily populated
metro area like the New York metro area right.

Speaker 5 (01:22:37):
Where. You know what I'm saying, Like you'd be surprised.

Speaker 9 (01:22:40):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like you know what
I'm saying, Like like the why and why I see
metro area alans like what like probably thirty one million
people and the spans like three states, right yeah, So
like I'm like, if it was if it was a
story like that, you know what I'm saying, where like
so brother, you know what I'm saying, the brother and

(01:23:01):
sister law on that part. You know what I'm saying,
Like what like that would be like amazing. I'm like,
holy ship, you know what I'm saying, Like that would
be for the proof of how small the world is,
regardless of how many people around. Yeah you know, like
but but yo, but but yo, either which way, you
know what I'm saying, Like that's just crazy. You know
what I'm saying, Hey, Hey, I know you guys.

Speaker 3 (01:23:26):
Yeah, I don't not even know you from somewhere.

Speaker 9 (01:23:30):
And not and not yo and yo yo what and
and now and now and now the sister and now
the sisters realizing that Yo, you know what, you know
what I'm saying, me kissing this man, I probably you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:23:43):
You know what I'm saying, Like like you think like that,
You probably think like that, YO, think.

Speaker 2 (01:23:51):
About that because you got to think about every other
person he's ever kiss, touched, whatever.

Speaker 5 (01:23:57):
If we're going to do that, definitely this even.

Speaker 9 (01:24:04):
Exactly so like, YO, you know what, this is your
family you're talking about. You know what I'm saying that
that's out there, you know what I mean. So it's
like so it's like, Yo, you know we've had a threesome.
You know what I'm saying. It's like that I'm talking
about it like it's probably like Yo, so this nigga
probably my brother or like vice versa.

Speaker 3 (01:24:21):
Oh g I I got I got to show you.
I'll be right back. I don't don't don't go crazy,
just talk about this stuff. I'll be right back.

Speaker 5 (01:24:35):
You're supposed to give us a topic and then.

Speaker 6 (01:24:40):
Talk about it. Oh, well, I guess we'll make one up.
Oh talk about.

Speaker 2 (01:24:47):
Talk about the fact that this is crazy, that people
will be having crazy sexual experiences. I'd be asking more
about the swingers club thing and stuff myself.

Speaker 6 (01:24:59):
But BRO like like, yo, you know what that was quick?

Speaker 3 (01:25:04):
Yeah? All right, so check it out.

Speaker 9 (01:25:06):
I was.

Speaker 5 (01:25:06):
I went. It was quicker than in college kids.

Speaker 6 (01:25:13):
I wouldn't be depressed.

Speaker 3 (01:25:18):
Doves actually got something. I went to the to the
good will today mm hmm, and I found something to
give your mom's she's gonna she's cool. And then I
got this. I know that that TZ is a green
Bay fan?

Speaker 6 (01:25:36):
Did you know that?

Speaker 3 (01:25:37):
Did everybody know that green Bay fan? So I found
I folded up real quick. So I found this this cup.

Speaker 5 (01:25:47):
Oh very nice.

Speaker 3 (01:25:52):
It's uh, I guess it's a mug cup whatever you
put it.

Speaker 1 (01:25:57):
But what did she have to think about all the
people that that mug touched.

Speaker 6 (01:26:06):
I don't think.

Speaker 3 (01:26:06):
I don't think. I don't think.

Speaker 5 (01:26:09):
Let me tell you.

Speaker 2 (01:26:09):
So if we did that for everything, I don't think
we'd eat anywhere anymore.

Speaker 3 (01:26:14):
Not real And yeah, so I saw it and I
was like, oh, T would like this, So I snatched
it up. I'm gonna send me, send me your your address.
So with that being said, we're gonna end it right here.

Speaker 5 (01:26:34):
Sure. I like ending with gifts.

Speaker 6 (01:26:40):
That's what the Brothers sister said.

Speaker 3 (01:26:47):
So I'm big. That's the ad G t G loves.
I don't know how to say that. She's the professor
of the whole ship that Simon Phoenix Dove the don
I'm big, Holy you on. This has been another episode
of This Might Her podcast. Thanks for everybody for watching

(01:27:08):
and joining us and going to the chat rooms and
bullshitting with us. Thanks for the emails. Well, we'll be
back next week with some more shenanigans. And always keep
in mind that at some point, with some fucking enthusiasms,
people Jesus Christ like this might hurt, just might hurt.

(01:27:29):
This is gonna hurt.

Speaker 10 (01:27:33):
I'm like, dad, do I have to bite down on
the pillow right now?

Speaker 5 (01:27:35):
This is not crazy?

Speaker 3 (01:27:39):
Good Night everybody,

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