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November 6, 2024 5 mins
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"Helping you to transform your life from the inside out by healing your heart, reshaping your mind and unlocking your true potential so that you can begin to maximize on every opportunity."
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
So I'm gonna get straight to the point today.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
I read this powerful and transformative message on Facebook the
other day, and the author who published this his name
is Jay Will on Facebook Jay last name Will. And
it's a transformative message that I pray resonates with you
and elevates your mindset, elevates you spiritually so that you

(00:28):
can start to move forward in your life in a
whole new way by seeing yourself in a new way.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
So here's the message.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
People who hate themselves want you to hate yourself too,
so they can comfort themselves into thinking that it's the
normal human experience. Psychological projection is real. Most people are
stuck in the trap of living unfulfilling lives, so much
so that they begin to believe that a sad, dull,

(00:58):
and numb life is the standard human experience. Not because
they wish you harm, but because that's all they understand.
That's the reality they live in. People determine their own
social and personal worth based on how they stack up
against others, which is inherently wrong, but people still do

(01:21):
that subconsciously. If you see yourself being confident, very few
encourage you to sustain it. For most they'll just assume
you're being arrogant and faking it because most do not
understand what it means to be on good terms with
yourself and living a fulfilling life, so they will tear

(01:42):
you down, tear down your character, and try to bring
you down to their level. How dare you feel good
about yourself? Your demeanor threatens what they believe to be
true and attainable, so they project their insecurities onto you.
But none of it matters at all. Their stories people
tell themselves have nothing to do with you and everything

(02:03):
to do with them. You should focus on the only
thing that you can control, which is yourself. You are
living your own life, perceiving it from your own lens,
and you should act as such the main character. Take
pride in who you are. Constantly work on making yourself
even better. This is the only way to break cycle

(02:24):
and actually achieve anything meaningful. The more you focus on
what others are doing, the less energy and time you
have to focus on what you are doing. Do not
live your life thinking about what people will think of you.
If you do what truly fulfills you, do not waste

(02:45):
your time trying to please everyone because you simply can't
stay true to yourself, and maybe you'll inspire a few
others to do the same.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
Remember, you can't fight fire with fire.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
You eliminate the haters through difference, because what they want
above all is your attention. That's what validates what they
think and gives meaning. If you simply ignore it, it
then becomes irrelevant. I pray that this message has resonated

(03:18):
with you, touched your heart and really just.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
Transform you in a way that it transformed me.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
It really made me think about the power of self perception,
the power of the narratives and the stories that we
tell ourselves. If you tell yourself you can, you're right.
If you tell yourself you can't, you're right. And it
doesn't matter what anyone else else believes about you, whether
you're qualified or not.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
You determine that.

Speaker 2 (03:46):
And the only thing that matters is the credibility that
you have earned with yourself or not.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
And that comes by you.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
Not only telling yourselves the story, but walking it out
so that you have the evidence that the story that
you're telling yourself is true. If you believe you're worthy,
walk like it. If you believe you're beautiful, walk like it.
If you believe that your voice matters, talk like it.
If you believe that other people's lives will be changed

(04:17):
if you step into your purpose and your authority. I
need you to show up for yourself like your purpose
depends on it, because it does. If you believe that
you can change your life, break generational curses, and shift
the trajectory of your entire lineage, then I need you
to show up in the world boldly with authority and

(04:39):
do just that through action. Change the narrative, change your action,
and ultimately change and transform your life.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
I love you so much. Thanks for listening. Tuxisom M
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