28 People Who've Had Experiences With Cheating Shared Their Darkest Secrets - Read By Lady Rslash!

28 People Who've Had Experiences With Cheating Shared Their Darkest Secrets - Read By Lady Rslash!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hello everybody. I am Lady R Slash. Yep, that's right,
Lady R Slash. I'm the one behind what's been going
on here, and we've had such a good response that
I wanted to come on in person and share with
you for me to you, and I actually would like
to know if you prefer it either way. Do you
care about the computer voice? Would you rather hear more

(00:22):
in person shares? Let me know. I'd really like to
hear from some of the listeners out there. All right,
this is your escape. All you need to do is
sit back, relax and listen. Today I have for you
twenty eight people who have shared experiences about cheating. They're

(00:42):
sharing their darkest secrets. This is emotional, it's eye opening,
and it's downright wild. So let's get into it. Number one,
my husband of twenty five years had an affair with
his boss, a famous singer who hired him to play
guitar in her band. He knew her for three months

(01:03):
before he left me and our nine year old son.
That was last May. He moved out the same day
he told me that I had made him miserable for
years and that the trauma of my sexual assaults were
the reason he went looking elsewhere for a physical relationship.
The shame, the self loathing and gaslighting that followed left

(01:27):
me gasping for air. But I still had to wake
up every day. I still had to be a parent
to our child. One day, the woman he left me
for reached out to say if I ever felt like
processing this with her, she was available. Nine months later,
I am ready and I have a lot to say. Now.

(01:48):
This one's interesting, guys, I want to know what you
would do. I'm not quite sure I would want to
talk to anyone about this, especially the person that he
cheated on me with nine months later. I would hope
that i'd move on by then. But what do you,
guys think? Would you always hold a little chip that
maybe you could get everything off your chest and process it,

(02:09):
and process it with the person that did wrong to
you and your family? Let me know what you think.
What would you do? What would you want to do?
All right on to number two. They say I was
the cheater. I had been with the same guy for
four years and it wasn't going anywhere. But I had
a very bad feeling that he wasn't going to let
go of me, let me out of this relationship without

(02:32):
a good reason. I tried many times before to break
it off, but he always came back saying he would change,
and of course I stupidly took him back and I
believed him. He never did change. What a shocker, but
I had I wanted out, So I ended up cheating
and I told him the next day what I had done.

(02:53):
Well immediately he breaks it off. He's crying and screaming
at me, telling me I was a whore. I haven't
seen him since, and they add that I know he
shit talk to me to all of our mutual friends,
which caused me to pretty much lose all of my friends.
But it was a small price to pay. I felt
like I couldn't get out any other way. At the time.

(03:14):
Let's note they were only eighteen. I was too ashamed,
they say, to admit to anyone what I was going through.
I have since grown up quite a bit. I've gone
to therapy and I'm even married. Never cheated after that.
It was only that one time. So here is something interesting. Okay,
they're cheating to end a relationship. Very interesting. Has anyone

(03:36):
out there tried that? Does it work? Do you feel
good when you're done with that? I'd be curious to know.
All right, let's go on to number three. This one
sounds fun. I found Vieger tablets in my husband's drawer. Huh.
I was shocked. One packet had been taken already and
one was full. Well at the time, I'm running late

(03:58):
for work, so I thought i'd speak to him when
I got back, Like get home after work. I check everything,
and I found out that he took two tablets while
I was gone at the office. And I asked him
about it, and he lied to my face three times,
so I leave it alone. The next day, I check
his phone, and the day he took those tablets, he
had taken a forty five minute uber ride away from

(04:21):
the house. Well, he told me he was working at
home that entire day. Huh. Liars and cheaters go together.
I guess it's true, right, Well, okay, on to number four.
I was in a long term relationship with my boyfriend.
We were living together when I find out we're expecting
a baby. The night before my first prenatal appointment, he

(04:44):
went out to celebrate with his friends. Of course he did.
His phone was off all night, and I was super worried.
He showed up at the doctor's office on time, but
was reeking of alcohol. Not only was that happening, he
was also covered in hickeys. Well, I broke up with
him right after the appointment. That one's got a sting.

(05:05):
Don't you think you're pregnant? He goes out that night.
That's pretty harsh. All right on to number five. After
two years of dating my ex, we started having a
lot of issues in our relationship. It became really clear
to me that we were simply not a good match,
but I still felt like maybe we could work things out.

(05:25):
My coworker, who was always a great friend to me,
became sort of a confidant, giving me advice and talking
me through some things with me when my ex and
I would fight. He'd even grab a drink with me
after work when I was upset. Even though this started
out totally platonic on both of our ends, I realized

(05:46):
after a couple of months that I was developing these
feelings for him. One night, after getting drinks, we hooked up,
and I ended things with my ex about a week later.
That's how fast it happened. The hookup was something that
oh open my eyes to how little I was invested
in actually making my relationship work. I'm not proud of

(06:08):
cheating on my ex, but I don't think that this
sort of thing should be vilified as much as it is.
I mean, what do you guys think? Okay, because here's
the second story of someone cheating only to find out
they actually should be leaving. Is that a way out?
Not sure? Maybe it is a good tactic, you tell me.

(06:29):
Number six. We were together for five years and finally
got engaged. During the wedding planning, he started getting all
stressed and he was saying it was too soon, so
we called the wedding off. Then he kept going to
hang out with his mom's friend. He was smoking weed
with her, and that was fine with me. I don't smoke,

(06:50):
but it was fine with me. But something was bugging me.
So when he told me he was going to hang
out with her and went for a shower, first, I
opened up phone and saw her say to him I
love you, and then he says I love you too, babe. Back,
I threw his phone at him while he was in
the shower and made him move out that night. I'm

(07:13):
so much better off now. Well, I guess you could
say this is a happy ending. You know you're diverting,
You're you're avoiding a trap, You're avoiding something that clearly
is going to end bad. And although it was very ugly,
again we have cheating leading to a final solution. Didn't
really think of cheating that way, but I guess maybe

(07:34):
that's a way to think about it. All right, Well,
let's move on. I want to cheat so badly. My
husband has been lying to me since before we got married,
on issues both big and small. We have three kids,
and he has fought me on setting the rules and
boundaries with our kids since the beginning. I hate him
and I hate my life. We'll just leave that one alone.

(07:57):
On a number eight, five years into our relationship, my
boyfriend decided to go on an extended backpacking trip after
getting his degree, which was great, he was twenty five. Well,
I stayed home and I worked for a few months,
and we planned to reunite in Paris and then after
that we were going to spend a month there exploring
the city. I did not find out until I got

(08:19):
to Paris that he was in a full blown relationship
with another girl in England. And even though we were
still facetiming and we were romantic, every single day he
would not be joining me in Paris. I spent that
month exploring the city alone, drinking wine and crying. Wow.
All I can say to that is ouch all right, guys.

(08:42):
On to number nine. My gut told me to google
my partner of two years. Okay, So I did, and
once I did, their name and a cheater blog popped
up as the first hit and had been updated only
two weeks prior. I clicked the link and I find
photos of an online converse station between two women arguing

(09:02):
over my boyfriend. Their profile photos and full names were
on the pictures, and I looked them up on Facebook.
I didn't confront them, but I did confront him, and
all he said was why are you googling me? There
he goes, trying to make me the bad guy. Wow. Okay.

(09:22):
On to number ten. I struggled to keep control of
my borderline personality disorder when I was in my early twenties.
The main issue I was having was hyper sexuality. I
had such a lovely boyfriend at the time, but he
was an enabler of my moodshifts. He would give me
a lot of wine and he couldn't stand up to

(09:44):
me when I was acting out. This fifty one year
old man came and stayed at the pub I worked in,
and I found him hot in kind of a George
Clooney kind of way. So I slept with him until
he had finished his work and left the accommodation. I
told my boyfriend, but I feel like he must have known.
I regret what I did deeply, and after our relationship ended,

(10:08):
I took control of my mental health and I'm now
in a long term, healthy relationship and even have two
beautiful girls. A cheating story with a happy ending, all right,
how about this one? We were in a long term relationship.
We're talking two years, and had lived together for six months.

(10:28):
A little after our two year anniversary, I noticed he
began acting a bit more short and snappy, like everything
I said just irritated him. I asked him if he
had feelings for someone else, and he swore up and
down that he didn't, that he was just stressed. I
go out of town for a funeral. I missed my
flight back and it took him forever to get back

(10:51):
to me, which I thought was strange when I was
trying to get in touch with him. Now, fast forward
to the holidays, when we were supposed to be hosting
a Christmas party at our well. He tells me on
the night of that party that a girl is coming
over who have never heard of. Then we have this
blow up about it. We cancel the party an hour
before it's supposed to start. The next morning, I woke

(11:14):
up to him on a bended knee at my side
with the ring, and for some reason I said, yes, Wow,
another happy ending. All right. On to number twelve. My
best friend also married and I went for a night
on the town and ended up hanging out with a
male friend of hers and his roommate since he had

(11:36):
offered to be a designated driver for us. At the
end of the night, we went back to their place
for drinking games makes sense. The sober roommate ended up
going to bed and the rest of us piled into
a bed and had a threesome. We were all pretty
drunk and never spoke about it again. So here we
have the typical I was drunk when I did it,
kind of like the stories we hear while I played

(11:57):
in college, Only this girl wasn't in college and she
was married, so she had her experience a little late.
But I guess we'll just leave that one be all right.
On to the next one. My boyfriend of two years
cheated on me with his friend. I suspected something towards
the end, and friends even told me they thought something

(12:18):
was up with them because he was always on her Instagram. No,
I don't have Instagram, she says. So I confronted him
about it many times and he denied it. Then he
said he needed a break from us, So after two
weeks of being ignored, he started seeing this girl officially.
He never even formally broke up with me. I also

(12:40):
found out that he did cheat on me with the
girl towards the end of our relationship. Then about a
week after that, the girl shows up at my work
to yell at me for sticking my nose into their relationship.
She called me crazy. I say, excuse me what. She

(13:00):
and my boyfriend were sleeping with each other for two
months before we even broke up, and that was none
of my business. I have to say, I side with
this girl. Hey, you want to cheat, you know you're
on your way out. Just get it done and then
go for it. But don't blame the person you cheated on, right,
all right? Number fourteen, I had been living with my

(13:23):
girlfriend in New York City for a few months, and
we had a routine of attending separate gyms each morning,
and then we would meet up for coffee and breakfast.
This was on Saturdays. Well, this particular time, she left
for the gym first, and this was unusual. She said
she had an early session with her trainer. She left
me a list of chores that needed to be done

(13:45):
before I could leave for the gym, and I'm hyper focused,
so I finished them quickly, and then I leave for
the gym, my gym. As I got to the lobby
of our sixth floor walk up, she was standing outside
the front doors kissing the gay neighbor that she regularly
had lunch with. Lunch was always happening because he would
need advice on being gay, and since she was a lesbian,

(14:09):
apparently she was the perfect one to provide advice. I
opened the doors and I say, looks like a good workout,
and then I just left. I packed my bags literally
and left on the next train and never saw her
again after almost two years being together. Now, I don't
know what you guys are thinking, but there's a lot
of questions in that story, A lot of things I'd

(14:31):
like to ask these guys, all of them, so I
don't know. I hope they're all happy now, right Number fifteen.
I've been in a long term and long distance relationship
for a long time now, and it's gotten to the
point where I realized I ignore so many red flags
for years, and I don't feel safe breaking up with
him because now he's in a very dark place mentally.

(14:54):
I mean, I love him with all my heart, but
I don't love him in a romantic way anymore. A
few months back, I was at a party and I
had too many drinks and heavily made out with a
friend of mine who I know was into me. We
didn't sleep together, but we did get really close. I
eventually left, went back to my place, just cried myself

(15:16):
to sleep. Yeah, I would too. That's pretty much a
tragedy of living. Not a happy place, all right. How
about this one? I dated my ex for almost five years,
all throughout college and about six months after that. It
was a pretty small college community, and I always heard
rumblings of him cheating, but it was always unfounded. You know,

(15:38):
I don't believe everybody. I'd ask him or friends about it,
and he would always gaslight me and tell me I
was crazy to even think about that. I stayed with
him because it was the only consistent thing that I
felt I had at that time. After we broke up,
I moved away and came back to visit our hometown
for Christmas. We shared the same group of friends and

(15:59):
I went out with all of them for drinks one night.
One of them tells me that they couldn't believe us
strong I was to stay with him after everything he
had done, and several other people that were there they
were just nodding along with him. I was dumbfounded and confused. Well,
this girl's friends went on to reveal that he had
cheated many times with multiple women, especially after leaving the bar,

(16:24):
before coming home to meet her. She turns twenty one,
and she went to Washington, d c. For an internship.
They leader. Her friends later tell her that once their
friends found out, he tells them not to bring it
up because we were working it out in therapy, she says,
and it was a sore subject for her. Although she
never knew really what was going on. He was saving

(16:46):
face in order to placate her and keep their friends.
Who would you believe? Who would you even think to believe.
To me, it sounds like just a big mess all around.
And there's so many of them out there, right like
this one. I was in an abusive marriage for twenty years. Wow,
twenty years. Let that sink in for a minute. Okay.

(17:10):
It started out right out of high school, and although
lots of people tried to help me, I was in denial.
I prayed constantly for God to heal my marriage, but
things just kept getting worse. He'd brainwashed me to believe
that I was useless, that I couldn't take care of myself,
that it was only good for sex. I ended up
falling in love with someone else. I was so messed

(17:33):
up in the head I thought there was no way out.
I wanted to know, for once in my life what
it would be like to make love without fear, so
I cheated. Of course, the experience opened my eyes to
what two people could share. I found the strength to
break free from that bad marriage. It was very hard

(17:54):
because I had to learn how to see myself as
having value beyond what I looked like, which matters even
more as we age still working on it. But now
my body belongs to me. Eh. I'd call that a
win in the cheating world. How about you, guys? How
about this? I was with my boyfriend for almost five

(18:14):
years before I had actual proof of him cheating on me,
and then he moved from California to New York. For me.
I had some suspicions along the way, but nothing too striking.
We had talked about getting married all of the time,
so one day he suddenly became against it. Well, I
knew something was up. I never looked through his phone,

(18:37):
but one night had a strange feeling, so I looked
through it while he was asleep. I found texts going
back months to this one girl I sort of knew,
talking about ravaging their bodies and making plans to meet up.
He denied everything and said it was only emotional and
never physical. Okay, well, I have a few things to

(18:57):
ask you guys about that. Number one, what do you
feel about snooping? Is it worth it? Do you really
think you have the full story when you snoop, because
a lot of times you don't really understand what's going on.
In this case, she was right, sometimes you're not right.
What do you think of that? And having an emotional
relationship with someone outside of your core relationship. Who sees

(19:20):
that as a problem or not Let me know Number
nineteen people. My husband had a mental breakdown six years
ago after years of therapy, with me supporting him and
taking care of the kids, the house, and our relationship.
He was treating me like a caretaker, not a wife.
He constantly criticized my appearance, my cooking, even my parenting.

(19:45):
When a cute, younger male coworker started flirting with me, well,
I flirted back, mostly by text. One time, he took
a vacation day and jokingly invited me over. Well, I
took him up on it. We had a fling for
about a min My husband never knew, but I did
foul for divorce a year later. How about this one?

(20:08):
I knew a guy from high school. We ended up
living in the same town together, and we actually became
good friends. I had a crush on him, but he
wasn't interested in me that way. We lost touch for
a while, but reconnected over skypework calls when we had
the same employer. He was just about to get married. Well,

(20:28):
suddenly he became really flirty. Our conversations gradually turned sexual.
We ended up having sex a couple of months after
he got married and continued this off and on for
a couple of years. It worked for me because it
was safe and I wasn't going to get hurt because
I knew he loved his wife. The guilt ate away

(20:51):
at me though. I used to be the one married
to someone who had a secret life, and I got
divorced when my husband came out of the closet. So
obviously she's feeling bad about something that she's doing, but
she's satisfied with what she's getting herself. So what do
you think of that? Is that one sided? Is it narcissistic?
Is this how relationships should be? I'm curious what you

(21:14):
guys think. There's a lot of cheating going on out there.
How about this? We were together seventeen years, married for
nine and had three kids together. We went on holiday
and he spent hours locked in the bathroom with his phone.
I accused him of cheating, and he told me I
was just paranoid and psycho and he didn't want to

(21:34):
be with me anymore. Well, we got home and he
moved out. A couple of days later, a phone bill arrives.
He had spent three hundred dollars calling the same number
while we were away, and that is when he finally
admitted that he had been having an affair with a
woman he met on Facebook. We've all heard that one before.

(21:56):
We hear that a lot on Facebook. People reconnect, maybe
with someone that they knew a long time ago, as
it happened to you. How about this. During my freshman
year of college, I started dating a guy I met
at a party. I hated my dorm roommate, so I
moved in with him after knowing him for a week.
It's probably not a good move, as it turns out

(22:18):
he was a compulsive liar and a disgusting human. But
I had gotten really close with his roommate and I
wanted to keep hanging out with him, so I didn't
break up with this guy. So for a few months,
I was hooking up with this roommate every day while
my boyfriend was at work. We went on dates, We
spent the days together, the whole nine yards. One time

(22:39):
I was giving this roommate some attention when my boyfriend
came home from work early. He never saw what was
going on. He did give me a kiss. Eventually, I
broke up with my boyfriend and stayed with his roommate.
I even continued living with them, both of them. Yes, cringe.
I dated the roommate for two years. Surprise, surprise. He

(23:01):
ends up being a garbage person as well. Wow, they
say college is a wild time. Yeah, don't know what
the percentages are of the college relationships and flings that
actually work out versus those that you meet later. An
you want to have some stats on that, I'd like
to know, all right, Guys. Number three, we had been

(23:23):
dating for a year and he said he had to
go out of town to help his sick nana, and
I knew for a fact that she was sick. We
didn't talk much while he was away, and he said
it was because he just didn't have good service at
her house. We've all heard that. One I was hanging
out with mutual friends, including some of his family, and
the vibe was just off. Finally, his brother sat me

(23:45):
down and told me it was their mom who was
taking care of their nana, and that my boyfriend had
been spending the week with his ex who was in
town also. I immediately went to his place grabbed all
of my things. I'm glad it happened, though, because he
was very abusive. Actually I was too afraid to leave
him before that. So hey, sometimes when someone is treating

(24:08):
you badly, it is you're out. So sometimes it's a
good thing, all right. Number twenty four. I just had
a gut feeling. We'd been together nine years, and I
ended up finding him on ten plus dating apps and
websites under seven or more different names. He tried to
say it wasn't him, as I'm looking at the picture

(24:29):
of his face wearing the shirt my mom bought him
for Christmas. He thought I was gullible. Okay, not gullible enough, buddy,
A lot of smart people out there. If you're cheating,
just remember that, all right. Number twenty five. We were
together for seven years, lived together for five, We were
even engaged. He moved across the country with me and

(24:51):
our two dogs for my dream job in New York City.
Meanwhile he's having this affair with a girl back home
in the Middle West. What they would do is meet
halfway under the guise of his late hours at work.
He lied about work conferences and would fly her out
and stay with her in hotels miles from our apartment.

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He couldn't afford bills because he was paying all of
hers all unbeknownst to me, because I was working ten
to twelve hours a day and then coming home to
do all the chores, the cooking, take care of the dogs. Yeah,
that's not a win for her at all. Number twenty six.
I was doing long distance with my now husband, but

(25:35):
our relationship was struggling. I felt like I was putting
in one hundred and fifty percent, yet he was barely
putting in fifty financially, emotionally, you name it. Out of
the blue, an old flame contacts me and I started
receiving the attention that I was craving. And as the
story goes, one thing led to another and I was unfaithful.

(25:57):
This went on for a few months. I come clean
to my partner and we make a commitment to be better.
He forgives me like the angel he is. Over. Two
years later, we're married, we own a house and have
three dogs. But I still think about what I did
and it actually makes me feel sick and ashamed. I know,
honestly that I could have been better. I know my

(26:19):
cheating has made us stronger, but I really hate myself
for what I have done, and I have a hard
time forgiving myself. That sounds like a real story of
truth and the emotions that you can hear going through
the story. She's very lucky that this worked out. I mean,
how many times do you think cheating actually helps a relationship?
These are really great today because we're getting all angles

(26:42):
of cheating. Okay, young, older kids married. It's a very
interesting subject. It happens in many different ways. I guess right,
number twenty seven. I'd been with my husband for four years.
He was military, so we married young. Well, he gets
home from a deployment and he's acting all levels of sketchy.

(27:04):
Eventually he kicked me out. I was floored, but I
agreed to move out to keep up whatever level of
peace was left. Two months later, I go down to
get the rest of my stuff while he's out of town.
The house is a complete disaster. I'm talking five foot weeds,
cockroaches in the closet, a dirty litter box, et cetera.

(27:25):
It was just disgusting. I went into the bedroom and
amongst all the trash there was all of her things,
literally undies and everything. I find an empty box of condoms,
which must not have worked out, because then I found
an empty box of pregnancy tests. Then I find abortion paperwork. Wow.

(27:47):
I don't even know what to say to that. It
just played out one after the other. That's pretty crazy.
So our final story of the day. Oh good, it's
during COVID, Do we remember that? At they say? Finally,
during the first year of COVID, and not long after
mandatory lockdowns began, I was working from home a home

(28:10):
that we shared together, and our HVAC repairman pushed our
sectional back against the wall, exposing an iPad that I
had never seen. Luckily, it was unlocked, but unfortunately I
spend the next three hours sitting and reading in complete shock.
There were graphic pictures and conversations with over twenty women,

(28:33):
one of whom my boyfriend and I had both gone
to college with, lasting the entire duration of our relationship.
I told him to come home, but not before taking
as many screenshots as I could to protect myself. I
refused to be gasolet by a man so comfortable with
his manipulating and lying. Wow, even a COVID cheating story.

(28:58):
How does this happen when everyone's on a lockdown? I
guess cheating finds a way through anything. I hope that
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