My GF Got Pregnant By Another Guy In Wild SEX Party | Reddit Relationship Cheating Story

My GF Got Pregnant By Another Guy In Wild SEX Party | Reddit Relationship Cheating Story

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ge if pregnant by another guy after wild weekend of
sex with him. Gory details inside thoughts appreciated. Me and
my GF are both thirty, We have good jobs and
make a reasonable amount of money. We have been together
for five years. I love her very much. She is,
to be frank the most beautiful woman I have ever seen.
She could easily be a model. She is many guys
ideal woman, and a certain ten ten. Whenever she goes out,

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she gets hit on constantly, whether I am there or not.
Actually me not so much. Although I have no problem
attracting women. I am above average seven to ten and
take care of myself. But I couldn't be a male
model or anything. Generally, our relationship has been fantastic. Neither
of us has been unfaithful, and we are very much
in love. I certainly love her very very much. The
last six or so months have been stressful, however, work

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has been into overdrive for both of us, and although
we've made a reasonable amount of money towards buying our
first house, either of us getting home before ten pm
has been very rare. Basically, we've been exhausted and have
neglected both tax and our relationship. Although not for any
other reason than time and being exhausted. My feelings haven't
altered one iota, and neither have hers. Fast forward to

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around two point five months ago, when we were both
invited to separate reunions with old friends across the country.
Neither of us are originally from the area we're living
in now. It was a great opportunity for both of
us to blow off steam after working so hard and
neglecting life for a few months. Although we were both
disappointed it wasn't going to be with each other. So
we kissed, told each other how much we loved and

(01:24):
we'll miss each other, and I went across the country
to my hotel and she went to hers. Let's just
say we had very different weekends. Hers involved going to
a party where, in her words, the most good looking
guy she has ever seen approached her. Apparently he was
a friend of a friend of someone else. At the party,
She basically said, every woman was getting wet just looking
at him, and she was just on a hive at
this guy approached her. She didn't plan on anything, but

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everyone was drinking heavily, and she ended up in bed
with him for most of the weekend. When she came back,
she was the most loving, attentive girlfriend you have ever seen.
I was still too tired exhausted for tax, but literally
she was like a Stepford wife. In the weeks that fought,
I stupidly just put it down to her missing me
and love that she loved me so much. Fast forward again.
She broke down and said she couldn't cope with a

(02:07):
lie anymore and told me everything prompted. I am sure
by her finding out that morning that she's pregnant there
is zero possibility of it being mine. She is the
most sorry and frightened woman you have ever seen. She
even asked me to physically assault her because she is
so angry and upset that she cheated on me. She
will do anything I want to make things okay. It's
a bit scary, actually, she is frightened and literally shaking

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at the prospect of me leaving her. If I am
honest with myself, I think most of the fear is
about the baby. She is crying saying she can't get
rid of it, and she is terrified of keeping it
and raising it alone. I was completely and utterly numb
and heartbroken. I said to her that before I go
any further, I need the truth literally every second of
what happened that weekend, or I am out the door.
I knew this was a double edged sword and that

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the reality and cold facts could destroy me, but I
am one of these people who can't not know the
facts were horrifying and made me physically sick. I actually
threw up. Basically, my girlfriend was this guy's personal adult
video star for the weekend. Some highlights. It was the roughest,
most aggressive tax she has ever experienced, and she ducking
loved every minute of it. It was the best tax
she has ever experienced. She had several powerful and intense

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orgasms during their weekend in bed. She has never ever
come like this before with anyone or solo. His dick
was the best she has ever taken. Nine He made
her ducking measure it during one of their tax games,
which rubbed all the right areas and he could keep
going for hours. They didn't use protection, obviously, and he
came in her mouth. She swallowed all over her face,
her oo, and inside her several times during their weekend together.

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How big were this guy's balls? Fun fact? After he
came on her O, he pushed her back on the
bed and scooped up his cumb with his finger and
fed it to her. He smecked her during tax not
too hard, her ass in her face, and before she
had time to even feel the pain or react, he
would whisper something or do something passionate that made her
just let him keep going, so she said. So he
basically taught my girlfriend to enjoy some BDSM that weekend. Awesome.

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He caught some of the above on his camera phone.
So there is a video somewhere of my girlfriend basically
acting like a Peter and Star in a cheap hotel room.
So Reddit, I can't say I didn't consider the implications
of asking, but ducking hell, I have had my heart
firmly ripped from me. Currently. Therefore, I have a girlfriend
who is pregnant by a male model BDSM hero with
a magic duck, who is going to have his baby,

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and who is so sorry she will do whatever the
duck I want so that I can somehow get over
this and stay with her. Basically, I can treat her
however I please, as long as I don't leave. It's
fine if I hate her for the rest of my life,
even as long as I stay with her. We have
been talking about marriage and kids this last year, and
she is desperate for me to commit to that. Still,
she keeps promising to spend the rest of her life
making this up to me and will be the perfect

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wife I could possibly want. I don't even know what
to think right now. I feel like every sense I
have has been shorted out and I am now totally known.
My first instinct is to just wait for her to
work in the morning, then pack up all my stuff
and just leave. I am not the type of guy
to raise another guy's baby, especially now I know the
full circumstances of how it was conceived. We have just
two months left on our lease, and I can easily

(04:57):
switch to a different end of the country with my
job very quickly. I feel so grateful for that right now,
so I can literally leave and never speak to or
hear from her again. The only problem is that I
am so in love with her. I don't feel like
I'll ever get over her. Duck. I am hesitating, I
am second guessing myself. What do you think, Reddit, Is
it possible to overcome a situation like this? I can't

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think how I simply cannot raise this guy's kid. I
can't duck. My head's all over the place. Rational thoughts
would be awesome about now, dude, she wants you to
take care of the baby. Also, since she hasn't had
the chance to get bored with that guy, nothing will
ever live up to that weekend, and she will probably
go looking for it again. She didn't seem to feel

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too bad until she realized she was pregnant and had
to tell you. If you want to raise another man's
child while she thinks about him every time you duck,
then go ahead. But I don't think you want that.
She even told you she's just scared of raising it alone.
Don't get used as a wallet. This is duck, bro.
I don't even know what to say. I'd get out
if I were you. It's just too much, far, too much. Eded.

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I seriously think this is the most duck thing I've
seen on our relationship advice ever. I have a terrible
feeling in the pit of my stomach. The magic duck
guy was clearly a vampire, and he blamed her into
doing all those things you see. Oh wait, vampires don't exist. Okay.
It was many long hours of the best tax you'll
never have made of a great many individual moments of weakness.

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It could have happened to anybody. Okay, no, wait, I've
got this. Lots of guys are cuckoos and raised kick
ass kids of some alpha dude who ducked your wife
so much better than you ever could. It's cool, bro. Plus,
if you stay, it'll send a clear signal that your
undying love for her is stronger than your self respect
and chicks love that stuff. And just think she'll be
super nice to you for at least two more months

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before she realizes you're a goddamn pe seeing that she
can treat you however she wants for as long as
she decides to keep you around. There are no downsides here.
Second story. My ex wife f thirty eight and I
am thirty eight, divorced because I was infertile and unwilling
to use a sperm donor. How should I tell her
that my gff twe twenty four is pregnant. My ex
wife is a complete girly girl who loves children and

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always wanted a big family. She is a primary school
teacher and was a dula for her sister's births. We
started trying when we were both twenty eight and it
had been married for five years. After eighteen months without success,
we both got fertility testing. I was found to be infertile.
I went through several diagnostic procedures and treatments that, frankly,
I would like to forget. I was told the odds
of me conceiving naturally were close to zero. We considered IVF,

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but the specialist said it was not viable. The whole
episode took about five years from beginning to resignation. I
was upset, but my ex wife was devastated. She was
briefly hospitalized for an acute depressive episode in twenty fifteen.
It did not help that her younger sister had five
children by that time. My ex wife wanted to use
a sperm donner. I understand that biology isn't everything, but

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despite counseling and my best efforts at rationalization, I could
never moderate the feeling of revulsion at the idea of
choosing to raise another man's child. I knew I could
never see the child as mine, maybe a stepchild at best.
My still called that toxic masculinity, so unstoppable force meets
and immovable object deal breaker. We divorced in twenty seventeen.
It was a strange divorce. We both loved and supported

(08:10):
each other throughout. We were still living together until about
six months after the finalization, when my ex sill started
finding men for my ex wife to day. I then
made myself scarce. We briefly reunited numerous times during the
next year and are in each other's wider social circle
to this day. As I understand it, she has had
no long term relationships since our divorce, and surprisingly no children.

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In mid twenty eighteen, I met my current GF. I
revealed my infertility early in the relationship. She said she
always thought she would have children, but she was young
enough that by the time she was ready, maybe they
could fix me. I pointed out that this was setting
up both of us for future heartache, but I had
fallen for her, so I wasn't going to argue. In
April this year, she missed her period. When the test

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came back positive, her first reaction was to go into
full panic mode and swear she had never cheated on me.
I never doubted her, but realized that's what ever cheated
on partner said. But hey, you can now get a
prenatal paternity blood test as early as seven weeks who
knew the baby is mine. We are both delighted. I
went to a fertility doc to see if anything had changed.
It hadn't. How did this happen? Then? His answer? You

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won the lottery. Part of my problem was that the
few sperm I did produce were deformed, so we have
undertaken every available prenatal screening. This is also why we
have only told four other people. But now we have
the all clear. I share numerous friends and acquaintances with
my ex wife. We cannot conceal this from her. I
know her, and although it has been two years since
we were close, I know this will devastate her. My

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GF knows all the history and is totally supportive. She
thinks that telling my ex wife before she finds out
is the right thing to do. How should I go
about it? Should I contact my ex wife's sister or
mother so they can be there, Maybe write a letter
they can deliver, tell her to her face? Hick. I
do not want to cause my ex wife any more
pain than is inevitable. Third story. My wife thirty seven

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female and I thirty nine male, entered into an open
marriage at her request. Now she wants to close it
up again. Self relationship advice. My wife and I have
been married for fifteen years. We have two children, a
fourteen year old girl and a twelve year old boy.
About a year and a half ago, my wife came
to me asking for an open marriage. She said she
was bored with just us and wanted to experience more.

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I was very against this, as I am a strong
believer that marriage is between two people. At the same time,
when we got married, iut had five astrual partners and
my wife had only been with me. She made it
clear that either we opened things up or she was
prepared to file for divorce. Neither of us wanted that,
so I agreed under certain conditions. Nobody brought back to
the house. We don't talk about partners. The kids don't know,

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family doesn't know, all partners are tested ahead of time,
nobody that we both know, et cetera. I had a
strong suspicion that my wife had someone in mind, and
this was confirmed when twenty four hours after we agreed,
she went out and didn't return until four a m.
It was difficult for me to accept, and I was
really not okay with it, but I wanted to save
my marriage. Last May, I met Amber. Our daughters are

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in marching band together. Amber is divorced and has no
interest in getting married again. Like everyone else in the world,
she does have needs, So five months after opening up
the marriage, I began sleeping with Amber. At first, it
felt like cheating, but honestly, it's nice to have something
no strings where neither of us wants it to proceed forward.
Over time, I became comfortable with the idea that my
wife and I would be able to get our needs

(11:20):
met both inside and outside of our marriage. It actually
made our tax life a lot more passionate and we
were much happier. My wife and her side guy, who
I never met, stopped seeing each other in April amid
coronavirus from what I gather while he's in an open marriage,
his wife is not aware and it was too hard
to get away. In May, we helped organize a Zoom
concert for the band kids, which turned out great. Though

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my wife met Amber for the first time. Well, I
guess Amber has been opened with a few of the
moms because of God. Back to my wife at Amber
was my outside partner. My wife informed me that, as
we both know Ember, I needed to end things with her.
I refused, citing the fact that neither of us knew
her ahead of time and the meeting did not violate
the rules we established. Throughout the past months, she's numerous

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times told me that she's uncomfortable with me continuing to
sleep with Amber and I need to conclude the arrangement.
Note that she was fine for a year where she
was with her partner. This weekend, she came to me
and stated that she'd like to close our marriage again.
I told her I was open to that as long
as we agreed that it would remain closed moving forward.
She agreed that's what she wants, as well, that she
doesn't need to have any more partners that she's happy

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with just me. I told her that we could agree
to close the marriage on two conditions. The first I
laid out above. The second, I wanted her to sign
a document waving spousal support in the event of divorce.
She flipped out. She categorically refused to even consider that
my wife is a salmon has not worked since we
got married. She said that I could keep seeing Amber
and leave her with nothing if she signed that. I

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told her that I'd be willing to include a list
of mutually agreed upon situations, including infidelity on my part,
where the agreement would be void. She says it's not
open for discussion, that she's not going to continue to
be cheated on and left with nothing. When I decided
to leave her for Amber, I pointed out that this
whole thing was her idea and that I only went
along with it to preserve our marriage. She says that
if we don't close the marriage up, then it might

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as well be over. I told her that I am
not going to tolerate being threatened with divorce every time
she doesn't get her way. She says, I am being
dramatic and I need to focus on us. Should I
agree without stipulations. I know there's no future with Amber,
as we've both agreed it's purely physical, and even though
I know I am standing my ground, I feel like
I am blowing up my marriage over a dead end.
At the same time, I don't believe it's about Amber

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at all. Too long didn't read My wife asked for
an open marriage. I reluctantly agreed. Now that she's no
longer seeing her outside partner, she wants to close it
up again. Fourth story My forty five male wife forty
two female revealed she was unfaithful and I am divorcing her.
Our children fifteen females, seventeen male hate me for it
and it guys. I appreciate the advice, but I am

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not asking on how to get past the infidelity. I've
made my decision and it's not something I am willing
to forgive. I am looking for advice on how to
handle this with my kids and how to reassure them
we can still be a family even if we aren't married.
My wife and I have been together for eighteen years.
We had our ups and downs, but overall our marriage
has been solid and she was my best friend. We've
always been very close with our children and have raised

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them very much as a unit, and in turn there
very close to us. About two weeks ago, I brought
up an advice column in the paper I had read
regarding infidelity and talked about it for a bit, and
I could see she had clearly started to tear up
and was attempting to hide it, so I asked her
what was bothering her. She confessed that about seven years ago,
she cheated on me with a former co worker on
a business trip, and then once with him after that

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before breaking it off due to guild. This was around
the time she left that job for a new one,
which she had told me back then was due to
feeling like it wasn't a good fit, but now confesses
was because she didn't want to work with him anymore.
She says she never had a good reason for it.
She knew it was wrong then but gave into the
urge and nothing has ever happened since, claims she confessed
now as she can't live with the guilt of hiding
it from me. We talked about for the next three

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days when the kids were in school, while trying our
best not to let them know while they were home.
I realized I knew I'd never be able to let
this go, nor would I be able to forgive her.
She's distraught. We set our kids down to tell them
about the fact our marriage was ending. Obviously, this was
extremely tough. They acted as one could expect, and blame
was thrown at both of us. My wife and I
agreed to tell them it was mutual, but I guess

(15:13):
guilt got the better of her again because she ends
up crying and telling them not to blame me, that
she betrayed my trust in the past and just told
me now and that it's all her fault. This had
the opposite effect that she intended, and now both our
kids absolutely resent me for not forgiving mom and ruining
our family. My wife has repeatedly tried to put blame
back on herself, which only makes the kids double down

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and defend her more as if she's the victim. I
don't want to drag their mother through the mud, so
I am being trying to explain as tactfully as I can,
but they're gone as far as saying that when I
get my own apartment, they don't want to see me anymore,
and refuse my suggestion of seeing a therapist together, and
reject the idea that I still plan to see them
on a regular basis and be on good terms with
their mother. My wife isn't helping matters, as she's been

(15:54):
an emotional wreck since I've told her of my plan
to leave. I love my kids, but I don't know
how to make them understand this without dragging their mother
through the mud. I don't know how to assure them
this has nothing to do with them, or that I
am not trying to punish or hurt their Mom, I
just know that I cannot get past this, and for
my own happiness, I need to leave. Any suggestions on
how to get them to stop seeing me as the
villain would be helpful. Too long, didn't read wife revealed

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past infidelity. I am leaving. Kids hate me for it