August 16, 2025 • 19 mins
My Girlfriend Is Cheating On Me
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
My girlfriend is out cheating on me right now. I
am really sorry to hear all of this, mate, And
the hard truth is that now is time to just
end this. This level of cheating is beyond saving a
relationship for But only you can make this choice. I
don't know who the house belongs to, but maybe now
is a good time to look at new options and
to start rebuilding. But what is done is done, and
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all you can do is start building yourself up and
preparing for a new life. Don't waste time on revenge
your other petty plans. Just start to improve your life again.
I really am sorry, though thankfully the condo is all
in my name and we are not married. I'd honestly
have her crap outside already if it wasn't four am.
And her stuff is on the second floor. Her window
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isn't big enough to throw most of this stuff out
of a friendly advice, you should not spend the next
few days alone. Being alone makes you think too much.
Call some local friends, tell them what happened and that
you need their help. Good friends will most likely drive
over to your place immediately, bring beer, sit down with you,
and cheer you up. You shouldn't fall into a depressive
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state of mind, wanted or unwanted. After you finally kick
the parasite, Sorry, I can't find a better word. Out
of your house, it is time to count all the
things you still have in live, a roof over your head,
stuff to eat, a job, friends, hobbies, Continue with your life,
and use the experiences you just made in your future.
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This is all good. Also call your job and see
if you can come into work and save your back days.
The following will garder you more calmer than you can
possibly know. What to do with one box up her
things and inner thing she may reasonably claim as hers.
Do it neatly and with care. Overly generous perhaps, But
then the idea is to get her completely out of
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your life in a thing linking you too will keep
her in a way in your life. Purge it, and
do it in a way that makes you the nobler beast.
Change your locks at this time two. Bring her things
to her mother's place. This will get her out of
your life faster and will allow you to make a
great last impression on the one person who knows your
girlfriend better than anyone. Explain calmly to her mother why
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you've had to do this. And who to expect the
next time her daughter comes by to visit. Be polite
and friendly to the mother. She was drawn until her
daughters lies about her whereabouts when not with you. Three
contact the hotel where they're staying and ask for the guy.
If he answers, Explain briefly who you are and why
you are calling, that she's been cheating on you, and
to request that he pass on the message that her
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things are now at her mother's. Do this reasonably and calmly,
and emphasize that you have absolutely no interest left in
her and that Romeo is in no danger. Once the
guy ses he's broken the bro code, it'll be his
decision whether or not to continue the relationship. Four. Post
the breakup publicly into your now ex girlfriend. Keep things
simple and direct. No talk of feelings or hurt, no
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cussing or threats legal or otherwise. Keep explanations to a minimum,
but do not leave out why you are breaking up
with her. Refuse to answer any questions. Do not respond
to any rumors. She is now a complete stranger to you.
Five hit the gym, Block her from Facebook and from
your phones. Consult legal counsel if necessary. Work your job
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like mad for the rest of the week. For the weekend,
get yourself something nice and hang out with friends. Give
yourself three months before starting to date again, just so
you can get yourself back in shape for the prow. Dude,
I went through more or less the same thing during
October November last year. I was married for twelve years,
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together for fifteen and have two kids. Ex wife met
some guile on Internet. They flirted and it escalated to
full on sexting and cockshitsvagij pictures being sent up and down.
Had access to all her accounts, so practically watched my
wife bangin some guy a long distance for about a month.
Confronted her a couple of times forgave her. She said
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she would stop, she didn't. She finally ended up taking
a holiday to the UK where she spent a night
with him at a hotel. I phoned the hotel room
and confronted her at freak. It's a long story, but
here is some useful advice. She is on heat, not
thinking straightened. You are just an irritation getting in the
way of her next session with this guy. Nothing you
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say or do is going to change the way she
feels about you. She may plead for forgiveness. But this
is just delaying the inevitable. It's going to hurt like
frick for the next few months. There is nothing you
can do about it, but make sure you are distracted
as much as possible. Go out with friends every night,
meet as men and new people as you can. Focus
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on yourself, get your identity back and your self respect.
Be brutal with her when you see her, and dont
by the crocodile chairs. She will try and get you back.
Once logic returns, you will never see her in the
same way again, even if you did get back together.
To this day, I am still repulsed by my ex one.
It's difficult to hold a normal conversation with her. It
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is not the end of the world. Life goes on
and it could be better without her. It's up to
you to make it better. There will be good days
and bad days, even hours. I found myself going from happy, angry, distraught, etc.
All in the matter of a couple of ours. Your
mind will go haywar for a while. Look after yourself,
plenty of exercise. I found myself running everywhere and lost
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ten kgs best shape I have been and for years
now I have met someone else, amazing woman. It's good
to have someone who likes me as much as I
like her. Good luck and provide an update. PM me
if you want to know more and some advice. Hey man,
sorry to hear about your crappy situation. If it's any consolation,
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as awful as it feels now, it'll get better and
you'll be stronger as a result. Remind yourself and remember
that none of this is your fault. She's fricked up
and can't be an adult. My advice is change the
locks first thing. Then spend your time this weekend boxing
up all her crap everything, put it all by the
front door, and when that finally done, let her know
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that it's over. Prepare a short, well thought out statement
for her. Make it absolutely direct, unemotional, and unequivocal. Leave
absolutely no wiggle room. Then take this prepared statement and
get it to her through every means of communication available.
Make each transmission identical. So read it verbatim to her
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answering machine, email it to her, and Facebook message it
to her. Anything that gets the message across. I don't
know how it'll go down, but basically, you don't want
to let her into your place without supervision. Ideally, she
doesn't need to be in your place at all, She
just needs to pick up her crap and GTFO, don't
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talk to her. She'll use this talking to weasel her
way back into your apartment because suddenly she'll realize that
she's homeless. Keep a stone wall up, don't afford any
wiggle room, and don't sympathize when she's gone. She's gone.
Get rid of her from your Facebook, et cetera, et cetera,
and don't stalk. Move on. If she tries to call
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you or whatever. Ignore her. This is hard at first,
but if you don't do this, the next few months
of your life will suck even more because she'll keep
contacting you, which will remind you of what happened. Good luck, man,
things will get better. Having been in a similar situation,
I wholeheartedly agree with the no talking, don't listen to her,
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treat her as if she were lucky in the Avengers,
referring to manipulation, not the Hulk part. Oh god, I
really really think this is my room mate. The similarities
in the previous job post on the account are way
too much. I knew he was planning on going to
a water park this weekend upstate, dude, if you need
to talk, I'm here suffering at work, but I'll be back.
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She's not on the lease land. I was able to
afford it without her paying into rent before text her,
tell her that her stuff is out front, You've changed
the locks, and good luck with her life. Then join
Jim delete rampart. You are only wrestling, et cetera, et cetera.
Actually texting her that you know everything in that her
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crap is out front while she is with this dude
would be fricking awesome. Probably would ruin the whole thing
for her. Call her phone and tell her you know
what she is up to, and you require her to
remove all her things by six pm tomorrow night. Have
a friend go to your house that can make sure
she doesn't cause any crap. You go to the water
parkers planned. When you get home the next day, she
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should be out of your life. Why let her enjoy
her time off. Make sure she moves it all out now.
The sooner she is out of your hair, the better.
This is great advice. Unfortunately, she has this crappy pay
as you go phone. She loses phones often that went
through the wash last week and got trapped. I have
no way to reach her until she decides to turn
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up again. Literally, everything except her toiletries and three dash
five days of clothes are with me, though she'll have
to come back at some point. Your most powerful weapon
is silence. Simply get all of her stuff away from you,
ideally have her mother pick it up, and never acknowledge
her existence ever again. Confrontations always bring the danger of
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you losing your cool, which would only make it easier
for her. With silence, you don't give her closure, and
she may even feel guilt. If it's particularly hard to cope,
consider moving as a new living environment makes it easier
to move on. Source being abandoned after a ten year
relationship is the other guy's name. The you protip don't
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get hammered, assuming you can still log onto her Facebook,
change her status till I'm gay. On a serious note,
just drop it. Don't give her any ammo, don't confront her,
don't burn her crab, become her great white buffalo. That's
the sweetest revenge. Most of the suggestions here are similar
to just getting drunk. It will make you feel good
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for a world, but it won't last. Humiliating her in
front of her friends and family. Won't help you feel
better in the long run. Drive her possessions to her
mother's house, but don't explain why, and lock her out
of your life. Then drink in moderation cheers. Mate. It
might feel like the end of the world, but at
least you're better person than the ex. Take this guy's advice,
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be the bigger person. If she sees you freaking out,
she's just gonna feel like she made the right choice. Cheating.
To be calm, collected and get her out of your life.
That'll get under her skin way, I'm more. The most
satisfying thing you can probably do is to not be
a dong about this. That role has clearly been filled
by your GF and let her have it. Have a
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couple buddies over to help you box up her stuff
and maybe make a lock changing party out of it.
Since you mentioned the condo is in your name and
I assume you have the right to do that if
you have a garrard, just leave all her stuff in
there and let her know about it. But like everyone
has said, don't be alone right now, TLDR change the locks,
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take her stuff to her mom's, leave a note on
the door. Be out of town when she gets back.
Do not confront, do not discuss, just end it. I
hate these postings where someone is being cheated on and
ventsandriud it. Usually I spend my time gleefully shooting a
laser pointer of harsh reality into the eyeballs of the
fluffy thinking of young people who think the world is
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a giant episode of Barney the Dinosaur. However, in these cases,
you just had someone else point the laser and your eyeball,
and not in an informative or warning fashion and a
fun internet for him for of arguing, but rather in
real life by someone who is one of those not
nice people that reminds us all this is not an
episode of Barney, but rather life being lived by billions
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of selfish people who only briefly awaken from their self
interest to be nice to each other at random intervals,
and otherwise ruthlessly pursue their own interests. Luckily, there is
a silver lining to your situation. You are not married,
you do not have children, you have not lived together
long enough to be common law married. You don't have
to go through a lengthy breakup. It will be swift.
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Those who advised you to take her staff to her
mom's house. I agree. Just empty the place while she
is gone, change the locks, and then stay with a friend.
Leave a note on the door for her to find
when she arrives and cannot get in. Be polite, be
the mature one in the note, inform how she no
longer lives with you and that her belongings are at
her mom's. Be nice when you speak to her mom
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about her, she will be embarrassed. Consider also the possibility
that you were a guy she cheated with one someone
else that you don't even know about, and that this
is a pattern of adrenaline seeking on her part. Good
luck to you, my friend. Btw, I remember where I
was when Kennedy was shot. So this is genuine old
man advice. Go watch some sports with her. Tell the
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producers you're going to propose show the news to the
world with a placard. If ri did has taught me
anything about relationships, it's that if your girlfriend is cheating
on you, then you should go right now and is
right in her face. Cream. First thing is first, pack
up all her crap and put it outside. She's never
coming to visit you again. Secondly, when she finds out
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you know, she will probably cry. Ignore this. It is
emotional blackmail. She wouldn't be crying if she didn't get caught. Thirdly,
with a view towards the long term, get back into
the dating market asap, but be casual about it. The
best way to get over a girl is to realize
that there are plenty of others who are just as
if not more cool at your ex. Get some new hobbies.
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Spend more time with your mates. Fill up your time
so you don't have time to mope around. It's hard
to miss someone when you are super busy. To add
to this, if she gets set about being flat out
kicked to the streets like this, tell her to go
ask her new wh my friend for help. Oh he
please update us whenever this is over. Want to know
what happened. You are important, intuitive, and loved by men.
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Unfortunate things happen, things outside of your control. People will
peruse their own life arc and have their own demons
to battle. Above all else, be kind, Show compassion and
love to all people, even those that have hurt you.
Don't forget yourself. Be kind, patient and loving to yourself.
Remember your good qualities, rekindle friendships that may have faded.
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Go outside and do things you like to do. Do
not deprive yourself of human contact, reminisce over recent events
or become trapped in thoughts about the past. Scorn over
people who have wronged you or broken your trust only
leads to a downward spiral where you hate yourself and
all others. Cynicism and harsh critique of others follows quickly,
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love and be loved. People will make mistakes trying to
follow emotions, but remember, emotions are the physical manifestations of thought.
Thought comes from idleness and usually unhappiness in some way
or another. Don't forget her, don't get mad at her.
Just love yourself and the world you live in. Surely enough,
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within some period of time, you will feel lighter, unburdened,
and people will remark on this outward appearance. If things
will get better, I dump her, but I would do
so in the following fashion. One buy a clown suit,
not some cheap one, a high quality clown suit. Big
shoes here, paint your skin, nose, shoes, etc. Two find
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her and give her a flower. Said flower squirts water
in her face. Three take out gun and shoot her
said gun is one of those guns with a flag
that pops out with a message. This one says it
is over W four. You can also make a balloon animal.
Maybe do that first actually to make her think you
are just being a good god. I know you've been
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banging someone else. It's over blind sided. You've been watching
the truck come closer for months, first in the vast distance,
and now it's upon you give up the relationship. You
are young. There is much beauty you haven't yet seen.
Go find it. This is just a minor character in
a single season of your life. Go forth. Do you
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guys live together? Whose name is on the lease? Can
you afford to live by yourself? If possible? I would
either pack up my things and leave, or pack up
her things and give them to a friend of hers.
If you confront her, she is probably going to make
you feel really bad about dumping her. Emotions are powerful things,
and you may even start second guessing yourself. There's a
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lot of negativity in these comments. Don't listen to it.
A thing like this shatters you to your very core.
I walked in on my GF of the time with
another dude in our bed a few years ago, so
I'm in tune with what this is like. When you
love someone, you tend to ignore the warning signs, no
matter how obvious, until it's too late. So first the obvious,
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let her know you know. Send a text and tell
her you know exactly what she's doing. Pack her crap
up and have it waiting for her. End it now.
Do not let your emotions make you stay in this
crappy situation any longer. It'll just prolong the pain and
now the tough part. Recovering something like this can destroy you.
It destroyed me. It took the better part of a
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year for me to start feeling normal about things again,
and even longer to be capable of having a healthy
relationship with another woman. Even then, there were scraps of
paranoia and distrust that popped up here and there. It's
tough and it takes time, but this is a learning experience,
as bitter and painful as it is. Spend some time
on your own and figure your crap out. Don't jump
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into another relationship, as tempting as it may be. I
wish you the best, and I hope you can get
over this as quickly as you can. This sort of
betrayal is one of the shittiest things that can happen
to a person, and I feel for your Just reading
it made my blood boil. Good luck, man, and stay strong.
You deserve better than this mother. How about eighty L
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you are here? Ya go? My girlfriend has been blatantly
flirting with some guy she met online for a while.
She wasn't home tonight, so I snooped her Facebook and
Skype logs, found some steamy chatting and found out she
is fricking him in a hotel for the next few days.
Oh crap, what do I do? Crap in her pillow case?
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Best advice here, by far, pillowcase crapping is seriously underrated.
Just make sure you do it on the side of
the pillow facing the mattress so that she doesn't find
out until she flips to the cold side at like
three am. If she isn't and I flipped to the
cold side of the pillow kind of person, then I
don't know why you even considered dating her in the
first place. You have been visited by the money Bird.
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My girlfriend is out cheating on me right now. I
am really sorry to hear all of this, mate, And
the hard truth is that now is time to just
end this. This level of cheating is beyond saving a
relationship for But only you can make this choice. I
don't know who the house belongs to, but maybe now
is a good time to look at new options and
to start rebuilding. But what is done is done, and
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all you can do is start building yourself up and
preparing for a new life. Don't waste time on revenge
your other petty plans. Just start to improve your life again.
I really am sorry, though thankfully the condo is all
in my name and we are not married. I'd honestly
have her crap outside already if it wasn't four am.
And her stuff is on the second floor. Her window
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isn't big enough to throw most of this stuff out
of a friendly advice, you should not spend the next
few days alone. Being alone makes you think too much.
Call some local friends, tell them what happened and that
you need their help. Good friends will most likely drive
over to your place immediately, bring beer, sit down with you,
and cheer you up. You shouldn't fall into a depressive
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state of mind, wanted or unwanted. After you finally kick
the parasite, Sorry, I can't find a better word. Out
of your house, it is time to count all the
things you still have in live, a roof over your head,
stuff to eat, a job, friends, hobbies, Continue with your life,
and use the experiences you just made in your future.
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This is all good. Also call your job and see
if you can come into work and save your back days.
The following will garder you more calmer than you can
possibly know. What to do with one box up her
things and inner thing she may reasonably claim as hers.
Do it neatly and with care. Overly generous perhaps, But
then the idea is to get her completely out of
(01:49):
your life in a thing linking you too will keep
her in a way in your life. Purge it, and
do it in a way that makes you the nobler beast.
Change your locks at this time two. Bring her things
to her mother's place. This will get her out of
your life faster and will allow you to make a
great last impression on the one person who knows your
girlfriend better than anyone. Explain calmly to her mother why
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you've had to do this. And who to expect the
next time her daughter comes by to visit. Be polite
and friendly to the mother. She was drawn until her
daughters lies about her whereabouts when not with you. Three
contact the hotel where they're staying and ask for the guy.
If he answers, Explain briefly who you are and why
you are calling, that she's been cheating on you, and
to request that he pass on the message that her
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things are now at her mother's. Do this reasonably and calmly,
and emphasize that you have absolutely no interest left in
her and that Romeo is in no danger. Once the
guy ses he's broken the bro code, it'll be his
decision whether or not to continue the relationship. Four. Post
the breakup publicly into your now ex girlfriend. Keep things
simple and direct. No talk of feelings or hurt, no
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cussing or threats legal or otherwise. Keep explanations to a minimum,
but do not leave out why you are breaking up
with her. Refuse to answer any questions. Do not respond
to any rumors. She is now a complete stranger to you.
Five hit the gym, Block her from Facebook and from
your phones. Consult legal counsel if necessary. Work your job
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like mad for the rest of the week. For the weekend,
get yourself something nice and hang out with friends. Give
yourself three months before starting to date again, just so
you can get yourself back in shape for the prow. Dude,
I went through more or less the same thing during
October November last year. I was married for twelve years,
(03:40):
together for fifteen and have two kids. Ex wife met
some guile on Internet. They flirted and it escalated to
full on sexting and cockshitsvagij pictures being sent up and down.
Had access to all her accounts, so practically watched my
wife bangin some guy a long distance for about a month.
Confronted her a couple of times forgave her. She said
(04:02):
she would stop, she didn't. She finally ended up taking
a holiday to the UK where she spent a night
with him at a hotel. I phoned the hotel room
and confronted her at freak. It's a long story, but
here is some useful advice. She is on heat, not
thinking straightened. You are just an irritation getting in the
way of her next session with this guy. Nothing you
(04:22):
say or do is going to change the way she
feels about you. She may plead for forgiveness. But this
is just delaying the inevitable. It's going to hurt like
frick for the next few months. There is nothing you
can do about it, but make sure you are distracted
as much as possible. Go out with friends every night,
meet as men and new people as you can. Focus
(04:42):
on yourself, get your identity back and your self respect.
Be brutal with her when you see her, and dont
by the crocodile chairs. She will try and get you back.
Once logic returns, you will never see her in the
same way again, even if you did get back together.
To this day, I am still repulsed by my ex one.
It's difficult to hold a normal conversation with her. It
(05:03):
is not the end of the world. Life goes on
and it could be better without her. It's up to
you to make it better. There will be good days
and bad days, even hours. I found myself going from happy, angry, distraught, etc.
All in the matter of a couple of ours. Your
mind will go haywar for a while. Look after yourself,
plenty of exercise. I found myself running everywhere and lost
(05:27):
ten kgs best shape I have been and for years
now I have met someone else, amazing woman. It's good
to have someone who likes me as much as I
like her. Good luck and provide an update. PM me
if you want to know more and some advice. Hey man,
sorry to hear about your crappy situation. If it's any consolation,
(05:49):
as awful as it feels now, it'll get better and
you'll be stronger as a result. Remind yourself and remember
that none of this is your fault. She's fricked up
and can't be an adult. My advice is change the
locks first thing. Then spend your time this weekend boxing
up all her crap everything, put it all by the
front door, and when that finally done, let her know
(06:12):
that it's over. Prepare a short, well thought out statement
for her. Make it absolutely direct, unemotional, and unequivocal. Leave
absolutely no wiggle room. Then take this prepared statement and
get it to her through every means of communication available.
Make each transmission identical. So read it verbatim to her
(06:32):
answering machine, email it to her, and Facebook message it
to her. Anything that gets the message across. I don't
know how it'll go down, but basically, you don't want
to let her into your place without supervision. Ideally, she
doesn't need to be in your place at all, She
just needs to pick up her crap and GTFO, don't
(06:53):
talk to her. She'll use this talking to weasel her
way back into your apartment because suddenly she'll realize that
she's homeless. Keep a stone wall up, don't afford any
wiggle room, and don't sympathize when she's gone. She's gone.
Get rid of her from your Facebook, et cetera, et cetera,
and don't stalk. Move on. If she tries to call
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you or whatever. Ignore her. This is hard at first,
but if you don't do this, the next few months
of your life will suck even more because she'll keep
contacting you, which will remind you of what happened. Good luck, man,
things will get better. Having been in a similar situation,
I wholeheartedly agree with the no talking, don't listen to her,
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treat her as if she were lucky in the Avengers,
referring to manipulation, not the Hulk part. Oh god, I
really really think this is my room mate. The similarities
in the previous job post on the account are way
too much. I knew he was planning on going to
a water park this weekend upstate, dude, if you need
to talk, I'm here suffering at work, but I'll be back.
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She's not on the lease land. I was able to
afford it without her paying into rent before text her,
tell her that her stuff is out front, You've changed
the locks, and good luck with her life. Then join
Jim delete rampart. You are only wrestling, et cetera, et cetera.
Actually texting her that you know everything in that her
(08:20):
crap is out front while she is with this dude
would be fricking awesome. Probably would ruin the whole thing
for her. Call her phone and tell her you know
what she is up to, and you require her to
remove all her things by six pm tomorrow night. Have
a friend go to your house that can make sure
she doesn't cause any crap. You go to the water
parkers planned. When you get home the next day, she
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should be out of your life. Why let her enjoy
her time off. Make sure she moves it all out now.
The sooner she is out of your hair, the better.
This is great advice. Unfortunately, she has this crappy pay
as you go phone. She loses phones often that went
through the wash last week and got trapped. I have
no way to reach her until she decides to turn
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up again. Literally, everything except her toiletries and three dash
five days of clothes are with me, though she'll have
to come back at some point. Your most powerful weapon
is silence. Simply get all of her stuff away from you,
ideally have her mother pick it up, and never acknowledge
her existence ever again. Confrontations always bring the danger of
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you losing your cool, which would only make it easier
for her. With silence, you don't give her closure, and
she may even feel guilt. If it's particularly hard to cope,
consider moving as a new living environment makes it easier
to move on. Source being abandoned after a ten year
relationship is the other guy's name. The you protip don't
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get hammered, assuming you can still log onto her Facebook,
change her status till I'm gay. On a serious note,
just drop it. Don't give her any ammo, don't confront her,
don't burn her crab, become her great white buffalo. That's
the sweetest revenge. Most of the suggestions here are similar
to just getting drunk. It will make you feel good
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for a world, but it won't last. Humiliating her in
front of her friends and family. Won't help you feel
better in the long run. Drive her possessions to her
mother's house, but don't explain why, and lock her out
of your life. Then drink in moderation cheers. Mate. It
might feel like the end of the world, but at
least you're better person than the ex. Take this guy's advice,
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be the bigger person. If she sees you freaking out,
she's just gonna feel like she made the right choice. Cheating.
To be calm, collected and get her out of your life.
That'll get under her skin way, I'm more. The most
satisfying thing you can probably do is to not be
a dong about this. That role has clearly been filled
by your GF and let her have it. Have a
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couple buddies over to help you box up her stuff
and maybe make a lock changing party out of it.
Since you mentioned the condo is in your name and
I assume you have the right to do that if
you have a garrard, just leave all her stuff in
there and let her know about it. But like everyone
has said, don't be alone right now, TLDR change the locks,
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take her stuff to her mom's, leave a note on
the door. Be out of town when she gets back.
Do not confront, do not discuss, just end it. I
hate these postings where someone is being cheated on and
ventsandriud it. Usually I spend my time gleefully shooting a
laser pointer of harsh reality into the eyeballs of the
fluffy thinking of young people who think the world is
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a giant episode of Barney the Dinosaur. However, in these cases,
you just had someone else point the laser and your eyeball,
and not in an informative or warning fashion and a
fun internet for him for of arguing, but rather in
real life by someone who is one of those not
nice people that reminds us all this is not an
episode of Barney, but rather life being lived by billions
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of selfish people who only briefly awaken from their self
interest to be nice to each other at random intervals,
and otherwise ruthlessly pursue their own interests. Luckily, there is
a silver lining to your situation. You are not married,
you do not have children, you have not lived together
long enough to be common law married. You don't have
to go through a lengthy breakup. It will be swift.
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Those who advised you to take her staff to her
mom's house. I agree. Just empty the place while she
is gone, change the locks, and then stay with a friend.
Leave a note on the door for her to find
when she arrives and cannot get in. Be polite, be
the mature one in the note, inform how she no
longer lives with you and that her belongings are at
her mom's. Be nice when you speak to her mom
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about her, she will be embarrassed. Consider also the possibility
that you were a guy she cheated with one someone
else that you don't even know about, and that this
is a pattern of adrenaline seeking on her part. Good
luck to you, my friend. Btw, I remember where I
was when Kennedy was shot. So this is genuine old
man advice. Go watch some sports with her. Tell the
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producers you're going to propose show the news to the
world with a placard. If ri did has taught me
anything about relationships, it's that if your girlfriend is cheating
on you, then you should go right now and is
right in her face. Cream. First thing is first, pack
up all her crap and put it outside. She's never
coming to visit you again. Secondly, when she finds out
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you know, she will probably cry. Ignore this. It is
emotional blackmail. She wouldn't be crying if she didn't get caught. Thirdly,
with a view towards the long term, get back into
the dating market asap, but be casual about it. The
best way to get over a girl is to realize
that there are plenty of others who are just as
if not more cool at your ex. Get some new hobbies.
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Spend more time with your mates. Fill up your time
so you don't have time to mope around. It's hard
to miss someone when you are super busy. To add
to this, if she gets set about being flat out
kicked to the streets like this, tell her to go
ask her new wh my friend for help. Oh he
please update us whenever this is over. Want to know
what happened. You are important, intuitive, and loved by men.
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Unfortunate things happen, things outside of your control. People will
peruse their own life arc and have their own demons
to battle. Above all else, be kind, Show compassion and
love to all people, even those that have hurt you.
Don't forget yourself. Be kind, patient and loving to yourself.
Remember your good qualities, rekindle friendships that may have faded.
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Go outside and do things you like to do. Do
not deprive yourself of human contact, reminisce over recent events
or become trapped in thoughts about the past. Scorn over
people who have wronged you or broken your trust only
leads to a downward spiral where you hate yourself and
all others. Cynicism and harsh critique of others follows quickly,
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love and be loved. People will make mistakes trying to
follow emotions, but remember, emotions are the physical manifestations of thought.
Thought comes from idleness and usually unhappiness in some way
or another. Don't forget her, don't get mad at her.
Just love yourself and the world you live in. Surely enough,
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within some period of time, you will feel lighter, unburdened,
and people will remark on this outward appearance. If things
will get better, I dump her, but I would do
so in the following fashion. One buy a clown suit,
not some cheap one, a high quality clown suit. Big
shoes here, paint your skin, nose, shoes, etc. Two find
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her and give her a flower. Said flower squirts water
in her face. Three take out gun and shoot her
said gun is one of those guns with a flag
that pops out with a message. This one says it
is over W four. You can also make a balloon animal.
Maybe do that first actually to make her think you
are just being a good god. I know you've been
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banging someone else. It's over blind sided. You've been watching
the truck come closer for months, first in the vast distance,
and now it's upon you give up the relationship. You
are young. There is much beauty you haven't yet seen.
Go find it. This is just a minor character in
a single season of your life. Go forth. Do you
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guys live together? Whose name is on the lease? Can
you afford to live by yourself? If possible? I would
either pack up my things and leave, or pack up
her things and give them to a friend of hers.
If you confront her, she is probably going to make
you feel really bad about dumping her. Emotions are powerful things,
and you may even start second guessing yourself. There's a
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lot of negativity in these comments. Don't listen to it.
A thing like this shatters you to your very core.
I walked in on my GF of the time with
another dude in our bed a few years ago, so
I'm in tune with what this is like. When you
love someone, you tend to ignore the warning signs, no
matter how obvious, until it's too late. So first the obvious,
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let her know you know. Send a text and tell
her you know exactly what she's doing. Pack her crap
up and have it waiting for her. End it now.
Do not let your emotions make you stay in this
crappy situation any longer. It'll just prolong the pain and
now the tough part. Recovering something like this can destroy you.
It destroyed me. It took the better part of a
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year for me to start feeling normal about things again,
and even longer to be capable of having a healthy
relationship with another woman. Even then, there were scraps of
paranoia and distrust that popped up here and there. It's
tough and it takes time, but this is a learning experience,
as bitter and painful as it is. Spend some time
on your own and figure your crap out. Don't jump
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into another relationship, as tempting as it may be. I
wish you the best, and I hope you can get
over this as quickly as you can. This sort of
betrayal is one of the shittiest things that can happen
to a person, and I feel for your Just reading
it made my blood boil. Good luck, man, and stay strong.
You deserve better than this mother. How about eighty L
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you are here? Ya go? My girlfriend has been blatantly
flirting with some guy she met online for a while.
She wasn't home tonight, so I snooped her Facebook and
Skype logs, found some steamy chatting and found out she
is fricking him in a hotel for the next few days.
Oh crap, what do I do? Crap in her pillow case?
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Best advice here, by far, pillowcase crapping is seriously underrated.
Just make sure you do it on the side of
the pillow facing the mattress so that she doesn't find
out until she flips to the cold side at like
three am. If she isn't and I flipped to the
cold side of the pillow kind of person, then I
don't know why you even considered dating her in the
first place. You have been visited by the money Bird.
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