August 16, 2025 • 18 mins
My Wife is Having SƐX with My Son's Teacher and My Son Call Him Daddy
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I thirty think my wife twenty seven has been having
an affair with our son's kindergarten teacher. Thirty How can
I handle this in a way that doesn't hurt and
confuse my son. So basically I travel for work, but
my wife is a stay at home mother to our
six year old son. He started school in August, and
we both hit it off with his teacher, and he
became one of our friends and would come over sometimes
(00:22):
to hang out on the week ends, et cetera. About
a month ago, when I was home for a week
or so, I found a change of men's clothes in
the laundry hamper in the basement and recognized them as
not mine and asked my wife about them. At first,
she insisted they were mine, but as soon I pulled
them out and said that I don't wear those kinds
(00:42):
of clothes, her whole demeanor changed. She suddenly got very
reserved and said it was his my son's teachers, and
that he came over and went swimming, and that's why
they were there, because he had brought a change of clothes.
She had never told me she had any one over
while I was gone, which is fine, but a little odd.
(01:02):
When I asked what day he was here, she told
me the day, which was conveniently also the same day
our security cameras were broken and she had to reset
them or something. Still, it didn't make a lot of
sense to me, but me and my wife never had
any issues, so I just shrugged it off and went
to bed. A few hours later and she was bathing
(01:23):
in our master bathroom. I could hear my wife on
the phone while she was in the bathtub, both being
extremely quiet and giggly. I heard her legitimately say moaning,
I love your batman voice, and so I got up
and knocked on the door. The following conversation ensued, Me, Hi,
(01:44):
who are you talking to her? My sister? Me, your
sister can do a batman voice? Her? Why are you
listening to my phone? Call me? I'm not I overheard you.
Then silence, and she hurriedly got off the phone and
(02:05):
came to bed A little later. I hate to say it,
but I did go through her phone and immediately found
a lot of stuff. I really don't like her and
him the teacher with my son out doing things looking
like a family. I found texts that she had been
making a lot of trips to the school and meeting
him for lunch during the day. He had gifted her
flowers twice, and ultimately I found really weird hotel booking
(02:29):
confirmations in the teacher's name and the duration of the
time I was gone for a hotel in our city
for two adults and one child, which made me look
back on some of the pictures I saw in her
phone and realized that at some point she had taken
my son to a hotel with the teacher and all
of them were together. I am not proud of going
(02:50):
through her phone, and obviously I didn't find anything romantic
between their texts, but they do seem to be constantly
eager to talk, and the hotel thing weirds me out. Frankly,
I haven't taken any job super far away for a
while for a reason, and the more time goes on,
the worse I feel about what I saw in my
wife's phone. I think I am going to straight up
(03:12):
tell my wife tonight that someone told me they saw
her with teacher at hotel and that someone made a
comment about how much she is at the school. I
am especially concerned for my son and wondering what he
might have seen as far as I have seen of
his school work, and from what he's told me, he
just does a really good job in school and loves
(03:33):
his teacher and class. He's really well adjusted, but talks
about his teacher a lot, and even randomly blurted out
when I took him to McDonald's that sometimes his mom
makes him call his teacher uncle daddy, which is just bizarre,
but also could just be him being a kid and
saying weird things. Should I ask him? I mean, he's
(03:55):
only six, If he hasn't seen anything weird, I don't
want to can confuse him. But I also feel like
if my wife is acting this way, I have to
be sure my son isn't being hurt or involved in
this edit. Thank you everyone. So far, I've decided not
to confront her and just wait it out with the
help of a lawyer or a private investigator. Do not
(04:18):
confront her. She's only going to lie to you first
and foremost, you need to go to a reputable divorce
lawyer law firm. I'm not suggesting you file for divorce.
I'm only advising you this because if it gets ugly,
and it most likely will, you need to get a
leg up on this. Also, a good law firm will
set you up with a private investigator. Odds are there's
(04:42):
more to this than you know. If you don't feel
comfortable going to a divorce lawyer for advice, then at
least get a good private investigator. Then based on what
comes up, you can decide how you want to proceed.
Good luck. Man, This sucks, okay, So I won't confront her,
then I guess I'll start shopping around for a good
(05:02):
lawyer and a therapist. While I am at it, I
know you feel like throwing everything in her face, but
don't do it. Lawyer up and start documenting her interactions
with your kid and the teacher. Get your financials in order,
house accounts, bills, who pays what, from whose money were
(05:23):
the hotels paid for, et cetera. Keep as calm as possible.
When you feel you can't handle it any more, go
for a walk alone. I do, and I am struggling
against just screeching at her, but I know it's best
for my son and even myself in the long run
if I just suffer in silence for another few weeks
(05:44):
so I can find a lawyer and get the ball rolling.
I agree with everyone about not confronting the wife or
involving the kid. But the uncle daddy thing has to stop.
It's creepy and if he does it at school, he
might get picked on and later when the kids are older,
they might learn about the divorce and put two and
two together with the nickname. Tell him in the classroom
(06:06):
we should only call teachers by their teacher name or
something to that effect. Yes, she's almost certainly have an affair.
The uncle daddy thing is super, super weird. I think
you need to collect all this evidence for divorce proceedings
and set yourself up with a lawyer so she can't
duck you over. I'm sorry, she's literally trying to replace
(06:30):
you in their lives with this guy. Time to act,
but maybe don't let her know you know for sure
yet until you've spoken to a lawyer. So sorry, dude,
I agree with this. Oh, he should check out our
slash Surviving Infidelity for support. Those guys have tons of
experience in being gas lit and trickle truthed, and consequently
(06:52):
some really good practical advice. He should also check bank
accounts to make sure she hasn't been siphoning martial funds. Unfortunately,
I have been playing the fool. My wife is on
a five hundred dollars a week allowance given to her
by myself as when we got married she decided to
be a housewife but didn't want to merge bank accounts.
(07:13):
As far as I know, she has no other income
besides that, so I've been funding the rendezvous myself. At
least she doesn't have access to your accounts. Not exactly
a silver lining, but there's some horror stories of savings
accounts being cleared out by the cheating spouse. Update. Hi everyone.
(07:35):
A month ago I made a post about my wife
cheating on me with our son's teacher. Obviously, I had
a lot of people asking me for an update when
I had one, so this is it. I served my
wife divorce papers a week after my post was made.
With the help of a damn good private investigator and
another employee at my son's school. I had more than
(07:56):
enough evidence to file on account of infidelity. Not that
I needed this, but the harsh truth of the situation
really pushed me to actually go through with it. She
denied everything at first, but caved and signed them later
on in the evening, after realizing I meant it. Everything
should be finalized in about three four more weeks. I
(08:18):
have primary custody of my son as of now on
account of my now ex wife had been going absolutely
ballistic with pain pills, like going through four hundred dollars
worth a week. I am not sure how I didn't
see all of the signs, and I found this out
via my private investigator. It made me realize I was
away from home far too often. I was an absent
(08:41):
father and husband, and I am working every day to
change that. It also made me realize how blindly I
trusted her to woman up and be there for our
child when I was away, and I hope I will
never be that naive again. I hope she gets the
help she needs so she can ceased the disappointment she
has caused my baby, who cries a lot now. I
(09:01):
feel terrible for him, and I am not sure how
she could have acted with such disregard for him going
into the affair. But I digress. As for the teacher,
turns out he was on some sort of quarterly contract
or something at the school. After a trip to the
school system, armed with what evidence I did have and
quite the grievance against him, I have been informed that
(09:23):
he has not been invited back for the new semester.
After Christmas break redacted has moved out of the house
and is at her parents, but she comes on the
weekends to see the kid sometimes. I still love her
and my self esteem is mostly shattered after this whole ordeal.
But I am in therapy, so is my son. We've
(09:46):
both had two sessions. We are going to be okay.
I have family coming from out of the country for
Christmas and he is so excited for that. Thanks for everything. Edit.
I was actively deployed. I don't work away from home
because I'm the regional manager of Arby's. Wow. I've been
(10:09):
waiting for an update from you. Just despicable behavior, not
just the infidelity, but also the reckless exposure of your
son to this person. Good luck and glad you and
your son are in therapy. Hopefully your soon to be
ex wife will get her shit together so your son
can have both his parents in his life. Did she
express any remorse or was she just upset about getting busted.
(10:34):
I am also hoping she really pulls through with the
rehab and slowly gets to a place where I can
trust her to have him for the week ends. At
her place, et cetera. I am not going to stop
her from being in his life, but I will monitor
the time they have until I am sure she won't
get him involved in any more chaos like this. She
denied everything at first, and it was all water works
with the I love you. So we had a long
(10:57):
talk and I told her she had to stop lying
and that she didn't love me. She basically agreed that
she didn't love me and thought she could have both
a boyfriend and a normal family at the same time.
She's in therapy too. I am sure because of the rehab.
I hope the best for her. Really, but what she
did really really sucks. Man, complete cake eater. Holy crap,
(11:24):
it's also your cake day. Happy cake Day. Second story,
my wife cheated on me. My twenty five males spent
most of yesterday trying to sort out my thoughts and
feelings while my twenty three female wife was asleep. She
works graveyards and cheated on me with a police officer
she works with. When we started our talk yesterday, she
(11:46):
said she still doesn't think she did anything wrong and
claims that she wasn't active in the inappropriate touching or
kissing It's like she planned on how to get this
guy to feel her up and still have some deniability.
I brought up contacting this guy's wife and telling her
what happened, and she won't stop saying it's none of
our business. I asked her who she thinks the United
(12:07):
States is in that, because it's my business and I
don't think she should have to stay in a relationship
with a guy who does that stuff behind her back.
I work a part time job right now as a
first responder in the same city. This guy is a coppin.
I am worried because I am not the kind of
person who would see him walk by while working an
event and just say nothing. It's not who I am,
(12:28):
and I owe myself at least a good solid giving
him a piece of my mind. It seems like she
feels bad for all the wrong reasons. In fact, when
I dropped our son off at my parents' office, I
ran into my mother in law, her daughter was receiving
care from my dad, and told her what happened because
I was visibly distraught and crying. That was the day
(12:51):
I found out when I told my wife where our
son was so we could have the talk about how
she cheated on me, and I found out the first
words out of her mouth, where did you tell my mom?
My wife is upset because our son is really distant
with her and super close with me. I am a
full time parent, and she has spent the last three
months emotionally distancing herself from us. I thought she was
(13:14):
going through a tough time, and she might be, but
now I think it was so she could cheat on
me and not feel guilty. In fact, the last two
arguments we have had were about seemingly insignificant stuff that
I had already apologized for that she would then bring
back up and blow out of proportion, like cleaning. I
don't clean enough. I do clean, but I also am
(13:38):
a full time parent to a whirlwind of a two
year old. I can clean in the morning, and by
noon it looks just as dirty. One time she drove
us to the store parked and I asked her to
park in a different spot because our son was getting
sun right in his face. She just threw her arms
up in the air and started to drive us home.
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We went there because she wanted to get ice cream
on a hot day. She would also go to this
bastard cop for emotional support after we argued about all
these little things only through text, but she let me
read through them in it seemed like she was always
making me out to be the bad guy after these fights.
I rarely get angry. When I do, it's just raised
(14:22):
voice and more animated gestures. I don't hit people when
I am mad, and I don't throw things. She's making
me feel crazy, and it doesn't seem like she feels
bad about what happened. She held this guy's hand while
he kissed her all over, and he put his hand
under her shirt. Every time she says she was the
(14:43):
passive party, I get more upset. She wrote in her
diary that she wants this guy and reading through her texts,
he was the one to shut it down. Between her
texts and her diary entries, I fully believe she would
have had six with him if she had been to
get him alone. We scheduled counseling, but we're also going
(15:04):
to the bank today to sign her off of my
checking account. I also have a consultation with a lawyer
next week. I'll post the original account of events in
the comments. Dude, this marriage is over. You realize that
right If she can't even own her part in the behavior.
(15:24):
This will go nowhere. Yes, for once, I agree there
is nothing to fix here. She was one hundred percent
having an emotional affair, then tries to take no blame
for her actions, like there isn't even a stepping stone
here to start to recover. Damn, I am sorry. That
ducking sucks. Brutal divorce that person. She sees no wrong
(15:49):
in it and is actively making you feel crazy to
cover it. You telling her mother made it harder for
her and put her in a corner. She can't lie
to her mother like she can gaslight you. That affair
will continue regardless of what you do, and your son
shouldn't be around someone like that. Contact a lawyer, get
STD tested, and get therapy going for you and your son.
(16:12):
Wish you the best. You're fighting an uphill battle for
a woman who cares only about herself. There's no reasoning
with some one who doesn't know or even have a
clue that they are in the wrong. Divorce seems to
be the only reasonably evident thing to do, and for sure,
tell the wife of the affair partner, but knowing the
(16:33):
not so subtly douchy attitude of the cop affair partner,
you'll get backlash, like so good luck document every freaking thing.
Copps and lawyers get away with literal murder because they
know how to fudge the system. Don't let them by
not doing your due diligence. I wish I had a
way to get affair partner's wife's number, but I don't.
(16:56):
I don't really know what to do for this, because
I feel like she has a right to know. My
wife keeps saying that if a fair partner thinks it's important,
he'll tell her, but that it's not our decision to make.
I know if I go to the department, I am
going to meet a blue curtain and nothing will be done.
In fact, my wife's dad works at the same department.
(17:17):
Any complaint I could make will probably be swept under
the rug. Especially at this department. They're notorious for s
zule misconduct, and because it happened off duty, they probably
won't take any action. Two things here. Firstly, this isn't
a legal or criminal case, so the police will do nothing,
(17:39):
doesn't matter the morality of situation. And secondly, and the
more important of the two, she is not done with him,
not one bit. She is literally telling you to let
the affair partner control the narrative of the situation. She
is still going to meet up with this guy for sure.
This right here solidifies the issue. She's serious question you've
(18:01):
been racking your brain with. She is serious about him.
Good luck. I am sorry you're doing this, but I
hope you do what's best for you. Thanks for watching.
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I thirty think my wife twenty seven has been having
an affair with our son's kindergarten teacher. Thirty How can
I handle this in a way that doesn't hurt and
confuse my son. So basically I travel for work, but
my wife is a stay at home mother to our
six year old son. He started school in August, and
we both hit it off with his teacher, and he
became one of our friends and would come over sometimes
(00:22):
to hang out on the week ends, et cetera. About
a month ago, when I was home for a week
or so, I found a change of men's clothes in
the laundry hamper in the basement and recognized them as
not mine and asked my wife about them. At first,
she insisted they were mine, but as soon I pulled
them out and said that I don't wear those kinds
(00:42):
of clothes, her whole demeanor changed. She suddenly got very
reserved and said it was his my son's teachers, and
that he came over and went swimming, and that's why
they were there, because he had brought a change of clothes.
She had never told me she had any one over
while I was gone, which is fine, but a little odd.
(01:02):
When I asked what day he was here, she told
me the day, which was conveniently also the same day
our security cameras were broken and she had to reset
them or something. Still, it didn't make a lot of
sense to me, but me and my wife never had
any issues, so I just shrugged it off and went
to bed. A few hours later and she was bathing
(01:23):
in our master bathroom. I could hear my wife on
the phone while she was in the bathtub, both being
extremely quiet and giggly. I heard her legitimately say moaning,
I love your batman voice, and so I got up
and knocked on the door. The following conversation ensued, Me, Hi,
(01:44):
who are you talking to her? My sister? Me, your
sister can do a batman voice? Her? Why are you
listening to my phone? Call me? I'm not I overheard you.
Then silence, and she hurriedly got off the phone and
(02:05):
came to bed A little later. I hate to say it,
but I did go through her phone and immediately found
a lot of stuff. I really don't like her and
him the teacher with my son out doing things looking
like a family. I found texts that she had been
making a lot of trips to the school and meeting
him for lunch during the day. He had gifted her
flowers twice, and ultimately I found really weird hotel booking
(02:29):
confirmations in the teacher's name and the duration of the
time I was gone for a hotel in our city
for two adults and one child, which made me look
back on some of the pictures I saw in her
phone and realized that at some point she had taken
my son to a hotel with the teacher and all
of them were together. I am not proud of going
(02:50):
through her phone, and obviously I didn't find anything romantic
between their texts, but they do seem to be constantly
eager to talk, and the hotel thing weirds me out. Frankly,
I haven't taken any job super far away for a
while for a reason, and the more time goes on,
the worse I feel about what I saw in my
wife's phone. I think I am going to straight up
(03:12):
tell my wife tonight that someone told me they saw
her with teacher at hotel and that someone made a
comment about how much she is at the school. I
am especially concerned for my son and wondering what he
might have seen as far as I have seen of
his school work, and from what he's told me, he
just does a really good job in school and loves
(03:33):
his teacher and class. He's really well adjusted, but talks
about his teacher a lot, and even randomly blurted out
when I took him to McDonald's that sometimes his mom
makes him call his teacher uncle daddy, which is just bizarre,
but also could just be him being a kid and
saying weird things. Should I ask him? I mean, he's
(03:55):
only six, If he hasn't seen anything weird, I don't
want to can confuse him. But I also feel like
if my wife is acting this way, I have to
be sure my son isn't being hurt or involved in
this edit. Thank you everyone. So far, I've decided not
to confront her and just wait it out with the
help of a lawyer or a private investigator. Do not
(04:18):
confront her. She's only going to lie to you first
and foremost, you need to go to a reputable divorce
lawyer law firm. I'm not suggesting you file for divorce.
I'm only advising you this because if it gets ugly,
and it most likely will, you need to get a
leg up on this. Also, a good law firm will
set you up with a private investigator. Odds are there's
(04:42):
more to this than you know. If you don't feel
comfortable going to a divorce lawyer for advice, then at
least get a good private investigator. Then based on what
comes up, you can decide how you want to proceed.
Good luck. Man, This sucks, okay, So I won't confront her,
then I guess I'll start shopping around for a good
(05:02):
lawyer and a therapist. While I am at it, I
know you feel like throwing everything in her face, but
don't do it. Lawyer up and start documenting her interactions
with your kid and the teacher. Get your financials in order,
house accounts, bills, who pays what, from whose money were
(05:23):
the hotels paid for, et cetera. Keep as calm as possible.
When you feel you can't handle it any more, go
for a walk alone. I do, and I am struggling
against just screeching at her, but I know it's best
for my son and even myself in the long run
if I just suffer in silence for another few weeks
(05:44):
so I can find a lawyer and get the ball rolling.
I agree with everyone about not confronting the wife or
involving the kid. But the uncle daddy thing has to stop.
It's creepy and if he does it at school, he
might get picked on and later when the kids are older,
they might learn about the divorce and put two and
two together with the nickname. Tell him in the classroom
(06:06):
we should only call teachers by their teacher name or
something to that effect. Yes, she's almost certainly have an affair.
The uncle daddy thing is super, super weird. I think
you need to collect all this evidence for divorce proceedings
and set yourself up with a lawyer so she can't
duck you over. I'm sorry, she's literally trying to replace
(06:30):
you in their lives with this guy. Time to act,
but maybe don't let her know you know for sure
yet until you've spoken to a lawyer. So sorry, dude,
I agree with this. Oh, he should check out our
slash Surviving Infidelity for support. Those guys have tons of
experience in being gas lit and trickle truthed, and consequently
(06:52):
some really good practical advice. He should also check bank
accounts to make sure she hasn't been siphoning martial funds. Unfortunately,
I have been playing the fool. My wife is on
a five hundred dollars a week allowance given to her
by myself as when we got married she decided to
be a housewife but didn't want to merge bank accounts.
(07:13):
As far as I know, she has no other income
besides that, so I've been funding the rendezvous myself. At
least she doesn't have access to your accounts. Not exactly
a silver lining, but there's some horror stories of savings
accounts being cleared out by the cheating spouse. Update. Hi everyone.
(07:35):
A month ago I made a post about my wife
cheating on me with our son's teacher. Obviously, I had
a lot of people asking me for an update when
I had one, so this is it. I served my
wife divorce papers a week after my post was made.
With the help of a damn good private investigator and
another employee at my son's school. I had more than
(07:56):
enough evidence to file on account of infidelity. Not that
I needed this, but the harsh truth of the situation
really pushed me to actually go through with it. She
denied everything at first, but caved and signed them later
on in the evening, after realizing I meant it. Everything
should be finalized in about three four more weeks. I
(08:18):
have primary custody of my son as of now on
account of my now ex wife had been going absolutely
ballistic with pain pills, like going through four hundred dollars
worth a week. I am not sure how I didn't
see all of the signs, and I found this out
via my private investigator. It made me realize I was
away from home far too often. I was an absent
(08:41):
father and husband, and I am working every day to
change that. It also made me realize how blindly I
trusted her to woman up and be there for our
child when I was away, and I hope I will
never be that naive again. I hope she gets the
help she needs so she can ceased the disappointment she
has caused my baby, who cries a lot now. I
(09:01):
feel terrible for him, and I am not sure how
she could have acted with such disregard for him going
into the affair. But I digress. As for the teacher,
turns out he was on some sort of quarterly contract
or something at the school. After a trip to the
school system, armed with what evidence I did have and
quite the grievance against him, I have been informed that
(09:23):
he has not been invited back for the new semester.
After Christmas break redacted has moved out of the house
and is at her parents, but she comes on the
weekends to see the kid sometimes. I still love her
and my self esteem is mostly shattered after this whole ordeal.
But I am in therapy, so is my son. We've
(09:46):
both had two sessions. We are going to be okay.
I have family coming from out of the country for
Christmas and he is so excited for that. Thanks for everything. Edit.
I was actively deployed. I don't work away from home
because I'm the regional manager of Arby's. Wow. I've been
(10:09):
waiting for an update from you. Just despicable behavior, not
just the infidelity, but also the reckless exposure of your
son to this person. Good luck and glad you and
your son are in therapy. Hopefully your soon to be
ex wife will get her shit together so your son
can have both his parents in his life. Did she
express any remorse or was she just upset about getting busted.
(10:34):
I am also hoping she really pulls through with the
rehab and slowly gets to a place where I can
trust her to have him for the week ends. At
her place, et cetera. I am not going to stop
her from being in his life, but I will monitor
the time they have until I am sure she won't
get him involved in any more chaos like this. She
denied everything at first, and it was all water works
with the I love you. So we had a long
(10:57):
talk and I told her she had to stop lying
and that she didn't love me. She basically agreed that
she didn't love me and thought she could have both
a boyfriend and a normal family at the same time.
She's in therapy too. I am sure because of the rehab.
I hope the best for her. Really, but what she
did really really sucks. Man, complete cake eater. Holy crap,
(11:24):
it's also your cake day. Happy cake Day. Second story,
my wife cheated on me. My twenty five males spent
most of yesterday trying to sort out my thoughts and
feelings while my twenty three female wife was asleep. She
works graveyards and cheated on me with a police officer
she works with. When we started our talk yesterday, she
(11:46):
said she still doesn't think she did anything wrong and
claims that she wasn't active in the inappropriate touching or
kissing It's like she planned on how to get this
guy to feel her up and still have some deniability.
I brought up contacting this guy's wife and telling her
what happened, and she won't stop saying it's none of
our business. I asked her who she thinks the United
(12:07):
States is in that, because it's my business and I
don't think she should have to stay in a relationship
with a guy who does that stuff behind her back.
I work a part time job right now as a
first responder in the same city. This guy is a coppin.
I am worried because I am not the kind of
person who would see him walk by while working an
event and just say nothing. It's not who I am,
(12:28):
and I owe myself at least a good solid giving
him a piece of my mind. It seems like she
feels bad for all the wrong reasons. In fact, when
I dropped our son off at my parents' office, I
ran into my mother in law, her daughter was receiving
care from my dad, and told her what happened because
I was visibly distraught and crying. That was the day
(12:51):
I found out when I told my wife where our
son was so we could have the talk about how
she cheated on me, and I found out the first
words out of her mouth, where did you tell my mom?
My wife is upset because our son is really distant
with her and super close with me. I am a
full time parent, and she has spent the last three
months emotionally distancing herself from us. I thought she was
(13:14):
going through a tough time, and she might be, but
now I think it was so she could cheat on
me and not feel guilty. In fact, the last two
arguments we have had were about seemingly insignificant stuff that
I had already apologized for that she would then bring
back up and blow out of proportion, like cleaning. I
don't clean enough. I do clean, but I also am
(13:38):
a full time parent to a whirlwind of a two
year old. I can clean in the morning, and by
noon it looks just as dirty. One time she drove
us to the store parked and I asked her to
park in a different spot because our son was getting
sun right in his face. She just threw her arms
up in the air and started to drive us home.
(14:00):
We went there because she wanted to get ice cream
on a hot day. She would also go to this
bastard cop for emotional support after we argued about all
these little things only through text, but she let me
read through them in it seemed like she was always
making me out to be the bad guy after these fights.
I rarely get angry. When I do, it's just raised
(14:22):
voice and more animated gestures. I don't hit people when
I am mad, and I don't throw things. She's making
me feel crazy, and it doesn't seem like she feels
bad about what happened. She held this guy's hand while
he kissed her all over, and he put his hand
under her shirt. Every time she says she was the
(14:43):
passive party, I get more upset. She wrote in her
diary that she wants this guy and reading through her texts,
he was the one to shut it down. Between her
texts and her diary entries, I fully believe she would
have had six with him if she had been to
get him alone. We scheduled counseling, but we're also going
(15:04):
to the bank today to sign her off of my
checking account. I also have a consultation with a lawyer
next week. I'll post the original account of events in
the comments. Dude, this marriage is over. You realize that
right If she can't even own her part in the behavior.
(15:24):
This will go nowhere. Yes, for once, I agree there
is nothing to fix here. She was one hundred percent
having an emotional affair, then tries to take no blame
for her actions, like there isn't even a stepping stone
here to start to recover. Damn, I am sorry. That
ducking sucks. Brutal divorce that person. She sees no wrong
(15:49):
in it and is actively making you feel crazy to
cover it. You telling her mother made it harder for
her and put her in a corner. She can't lie
to her mother like she can gaslight you. That affair
will continue regardless of what you do, and your son
shouldn't be around someone like that. Contact a lawyer, get
STD tested, and get therapy going for you and your son.
(16:12):
Wish you the best. You're fighting an uphill battle for
a woman who cares only about herself. There's no reasoning
with some one who doesn't know or even have a
clue that they are in the wrong. Divorce seems to
be the only reasonably evident thing to do, and for sure,
tell the wife of the affair partner, but knowing the
(16:33):
not so subtly douchy attitude of the cop affair partner,
you'll get backlash, like so good luck document every freaking thing.
Copps and lawyers get away with literal murder because they
know how to fudge the system. Don't let them by
not doing your due diligence. I wish I had a
way to get affair partner's wife's number, but I don't.
(16:56):
I don't really know what to do for this, because
I feel like she has a right to know. My
wife keeps saying that if a fair partner thinks it's important,
he'll tell her, but that it's not our decision to make.
I know if I go to the department, I am
going to meet a blue curtain and nothing will be done.
In fact, my wife's dad works at the same department.
(17:17):
Any complaint I could make will probably be swept under
the rug. Especially at this department. They're notorious for s
zule misconduct, and because it happened off duty, they probably
won't take any action. Two things here. Firstly, this isn't
a legal or criminal case, so the police will do nothing,
(17:39):
doesn't matter the morality of situation. And secondly, and the
more important of the two, she is not done with him,
not one bit. She is literally telling you to let
the affair partner control the narrative of the situation. She
is still going to meet up with this guy for sure.
This right here solidifies the issue. She's serious question you've
(18:01):
been racking your brain with. She is serious about him.
Good luck. I am sorry you're doing this, but I
hope you do what's best for you. Thanks for watching.
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