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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, there, Unstoppable Men. This is Jackson Reed and welcome
back to Unstoppable Men. Confidence and power for men. You know,
we've talked a lot about confidence, how to build it,
how to project it, how to make it your secret
weapon in life. But today we're flipping the script a
little bit. We're not chasing confidence, we're living it. Ever
felt like you were constantly trying to catch up, playing
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this game of keep up with the Joneses when it
comes to confidence. You know that feeling where you're comparing yourself,
doubting yourself, and basically living in a constant state of
almost there. Listen, I get it. We live in a
world that throws confidence in our faces constantly through social media, advertising,
even everyday interactions. But here's the truth. Real confidence isn't
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about pretending or faking it till you make it. It's
about living authentically, owning your strengths and embracing your imperfections.
So how do we ditch the chasing and start living?
Here are five key takeaways to help you shift your mindset. One.
Confidence is a journey, not a destination. Stop thinking of
confidence as this big final goal you need to reach.
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It's an ongoing process. A constant evolution. There will be
ups and downs, moments of self doubt, but that's okay.
Embrace those challenges as opportunities for growth. Each time you
overcome a fear or step outside your comfort zone, you're
building your confidence muscle. Remember, rome wasn't built in a day,
and neither is unshakable confidence. Two. Know you're worth This
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one's crucial. You are inherently valuable, regardless of achievements, possessions,
or external validation. Your worth comes from within, from the
unique qualities you bring to the world. Spend time reflecting
on your strengths, your passions, your values, what makes you you.
Embrace those things and let them shine. Three Act as
if ever heard that saying fake it till you make it. Well,
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there's some truth to it, but we're not talking about
putting on a mask or pretending to be someone you're not.
We're talking about embodying the confidence you desire. Stay and tall,
make eye contact, speak with conviction, and take up space.
The more you act as if you are confident, the
more believable it becomes, and eventually it becomes your reality.
Four Step outside your comfort zone. Growth happens when we
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push our boundaries start small, Try a new hobby, strike
up a conversation with someone new, speak up in a meeting.
Each time you step outside your comfort zone, you're proving
to yourself that you're capable of more than you thought possible. Five.
Surround yourself with positivity. The people we surround ourselves with
have a huge impact on our confidence. Seek out supportive
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friends and mentors who encourage your growth and believe in
your potential. Limit your exposure to negative influences who drain
your energy and bring you down. Remember you're the average
of the five people you spend the most time with.
Choose wisely. Okay, let's get real for a minute. Think
about that last big presentation you had to give. Maybe
it was at work, or maybe it was a speech
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for a club or organization. Ever felt that not in
your your stomach, the racing heart, the urge to just disappear.
I know I have. But here's the thing. That feeling
is normal. Even seasoned public speakers get butterflies before taking
the stage. The key is to channel those nerves into energy.
Instead of letting fear paralyze you, use it to fuel
your passion and focus on delivering your best work. Remember
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you've got this, So how are you going to start
living confidence instead of chasing it? It all starts with
a shift in mindset. Start small, maybe challenge yourself to
speak up more, take on a new project, or simply
dress with intention every day. Celebrate your wins, learn from
your setbacks, and never stop growing. You've got the power
within you to create an unstoppable life, and remember this
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is just the beginning. Don't forget to share your thoughts
and experiences in the commons below. Let's build each other
up and keep pushing toward those goals together. Until next time,
stay strong, stay confident, and live your most unstoppable life.
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