Happy Father's Day! Not Everyone Supports You, Buffalo Crime Wave, NBA Finals And More

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Yes, yes, we're back again. This is episode number three of With Awesome Serity. This is Mr. Sincere. Let's go.

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Happy Sunday to everyone. I want to apologize for the second episode of the part that the audio was pretty choppy.
I fixed it the best I could. I almost took it down because, you know, I'm a bit of a perfectionist, you know, and I don't want to put it out.

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I don't want to put out any nonsense, any crap for you guys. You know, I want to put out quality content, quality audio.
So I kept it up. I got a lot of good reception. I got a lot of, uh, uh, constructive criticism, which, uh, I definitely open to it because I knew it could have been better for the audio.

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But for the most part, my message in that episode, especially at the end, everything, you know, was heard loud and clear.
That was the most important thing to me in that episode. I want you to listen to all of it, but, uh, that last message, that's what, that's what I really wanted everyone to hear.

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That is directed to. So that got out. So that was best for me, you know, this episode will be much cleaner.
So, uh, thank you for your feedback as well as your support.
So let's start off, uh, talking about NBA finals. Um, the other day, it looked like, uh, the cell just were going to, you know, just sweep it across the board. Obviously that didn't happen.

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Just a different game altogether.
Dallas beat them by 38 points. That's the third highest finals victory in NBA history. So I'm like, wow.
Pardon me. That was, that was a shot. Uh, maybe tonight on their home floor, um, most likely, they may, uh, close it out, um, up until that point.

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Uh, Luca and Tyree were, I mean, Tyree was just totally different player. These first three games and then he stepped it up in the, uh, fourth game facing elimination.
Uh, Luca did okay, but, uh, Luca, I know they said he's playing with a bit of an injury, but, uh, he, uh, he did his part, but, uh, most of that was Tyree. He had, you know, stepped up.

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He was kind of not existent in the first three games. Um, so, uh, we'll see what happens tonight.
You know, we may see them as champions or, uh, that was my pull another one. I was, you know, no one has ever came back from a three old deficit to win the championship.

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Three one before in the final matter fact, Tyree in 2016 with the Cavaliers and LeBron. They came back from a three one deficit against the, uh, Golden State Warriors and became NBA champion.
So we'll see what happens. Um, now let's talk a little bit of WNBA. Um, obviously, uh, the WNBA has had more, more fanfare, more attendance, more viewers.

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More attendance, more viewership, more money coming in, uh, more eyes on it, you know, because of this draft class, uh, namely, uh, Angelries and Caitlin Clark.
The only issue with that was they were, uh, making it all about Caitlin Clark, which is totally unfair. Um, so many other young ladies are a part of this.

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They made her the, uh, the vocal point of, of everything and, uh, and as Angelries said, uh, in a recent interview, they're not just watching the WNBA for her. It's for me as well. And she's right. And it's a few others.
We know how narratives get pushed and, you know, they're, they're, and nothing, and I have nothing against Kable's. I don't. I have something against how they're trying to put her above everyone else and, and just make it like she's the greatest thing ever.

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She's clearly struggling, uh, badly. Uh, she, uh, she had her best game on the 13th. She had, uh, on the 13th, she had, uh, she played 35 minutes. I'm sorry. Excuse me. At the 13th. I'm sorry.

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She had her best game. She played 39 minutes. She was 8 to 15 from the field. 7 to 13 from 3 point range. 7 to 8 from the free throw line. 8 rebounds. 6 to 6. 4 steals and 30 points. And they won.
June 13th. Uh, it was pretty much what she's been doing all season. She played 35 minutes. 3 of 11 from the field. 1 of 6 from 3. No free throws or attempts. 4 rebounds. 8 turnovers.

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And I'm sorry. I'm sorry. He had 8 turnovers in June 7th. She had 7 on the 13th. 4 rebounds. 6 to 6. No steals. 2 blocks. And only 7 points.
Her stat so far at the time of this recording. Uh, she had 32.7 minutes per game. 15.6 points. 5 rebounds. 6 to 6. 1.4 steals. Almost 1 block.

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But 5 and a half turnovers. That's pretty bad for men or women as a pointer. 6 to 6. 5 turnovers. That's not going to cut it. And she's only hit only 36% from the field.
She's hitting 32.2 from 3 point range. 89.7 from the free throw line. So she has work to do. And I hope she does do well. But she has to learn how to play better team basketball.

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She definitely has to stop those turnovers. Turnovers and change the whole outcome of a game. But you want to lose. Stop your team's momentum.
And something that guys are playing with where you shoot too many three. Like the game where she had her best game. Only one of those shots she made was from two point range. Everything else was three.

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And that's not going to help her again. You know. So she has to learn how to penetrate, facilitate and hopefully she'll get there. She puts the work and she'll get there.
But like I said, they're making it all about her. Like when she got file file the game against Angel Reese. She can't go sky.

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It was a hard file. It was a little flopping on her part when you watch the replay. It was a little flopping. Like, come on. But they made it like it was.
And she was like, uh, trees in or something. But Angel Reese before that in another game. She I forgot.
I'm sorry. I can't remember the team. They were playing. She literally got like choke slammed by the other girl. And she got slammed so hard. No one made a big fuss about that though.

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And she still got up with tears in her eyes and made her free throw. So, you know, let's let's cut the crap. But making her like she's the greatest things in sliced bread with other players that are doing better than her.
Like Asia Wilson is the top bit has been a top player in the WNBA for quite some time, especially these last three years.

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Like the number she's putting up our crazy and she's a two time MVP. You know, and the defensive player of the year. You know, so I mean, come on.
You know, she had to fight to get a Nike deal, which in the past, they've had women in the WNBA with shoot deals, who says, you know, shoot deals, signature, excuse.

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Like this is the most the most media coverage.
Interested the WNBA has had since the what 90 1997. Yeah, right back around when a.
Liesa Leslie. Cynthia Cooper Dawn Staley, the great coach for South Carolina. You know, they have this much eyes and this much interest from men and women alike.

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Hey, we got a guy at the gym. Let me and my brother work out at he comes in with whole WNBA suits. I mean, the whole suit he comes with the Jersey and the short so, you know, so.
I hope all these ladies do well. I hope a statement Clark improves and gets better.

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Yes, the ball for game and you know, add some intangibles, you know, play better team basketball like I said previously. Stop those turnovers.
And she'll do well. And now if anyone is any any of those ladies that have been in the WBA putting work.

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If you have a little chip on your shoulder that's cool, that makes sense. Competitive, but when it gets to where you're being dirty or you just you just hate and like, come on.
Like they did that thing in college. They can't necessarily help the media coverage. They all gotten.
But it's also helping you, you know, you all work for the same place. So it's helping you too. So it goes both ways.

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But, you know, I wish the media put to making all about hating Clark every little thing she does good or bad. They want to highlight it and it's crazy.
So. And like I said, as you know, her team is struggling the laws make a basis the last two years in WNBA champion.
They're struggling, but she's still is the best swear by by by fire in the lead. And she doesn't even get that much coverage.

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And the most she got is when through scrutiny, Nike gave her a deal when they gave Clark one out the gate who who hasn't done anything.
Like let's go back to win. Angel Reese's LSU team defeated Caitlin Clark team in the national title game.
And you know, they invite the winning team to the White House. They also brought Caitlin Clark team Iowa to the White House and just you know, crappy on their moment.

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You know, so, you know, let's cut it out. The stop and nonsense. She's a player just like the rest of them. Yes. She's got a lot of the warrant attention and in a lot of unwarranted attention where you just guys are just forcing her down people's throat.
And whether you believe it or not, those you that are fans or whatever, they're putting more pressure on her.

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You know, there's already pressure on all these ladies coming in to do well to win. Stay healthy, all this stuff. And then you're putting more pressure on her.
Now, I like what Caitlin Clark said the other day. She said, my name shouldn't be used to be pushing narratives. And I like to say that she's right. Absolutely right.

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So hopefully she's improved. She improves and they cut this crap out, you know. So, yeah. So I'm going to talk about something else.
That is very serious. Give me a second.

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I'm going to be increasing violence here in our city of Buffalo. You know, I've been here my whole life. I've lived in some of the worst neighborhoods in the city.
I grew up on the east side. And it's other neighborhoods all over the city. And don't believe everything you read again with the media.
A lot of these places in the south towns and all places that are predominantly Caucasian or whatever, some of the worst stuff you could think of happens, but it doesn't get put in the major newspaper.

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They put it in a little neighborhood newsletters in the area called the beat.
And my brother, Al, who lived in Kimor for a while, he put me on to that. And we read some of the most crazy, heinous stuff like, wow, this wasn't even in the paper, but we know why.

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Because they put this stuff in the paper on the front page or big article, it will put a light on these areas that they don't want. And it would also lower their property balance.
So, you know, they're out here, you know, omitting stuff and hiding things. But say, for instance, if I went to my neighborhood laundry man, and I went in and knocked over the vendor machine, exposed myself and maybe peed on someone's clothes.

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That will be slapped on the front page. No violence. No one was assaulted sexually, nothing like that. But it'll be on front page. You see what I'm saying?
A lot of it is due to race, whether people like to hear it or not, it is. It is very much.

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But overall violence, crime, anywhere in our neighborhood is unwanted. That's a matter of what color you are. Who wants to worry about getting robbed sexually assaulted, physically assaulted, shot, stabbed, home invaded. Who wants to deal with that?
No one wants to deal with that crap, you know. And the sad thing to the city, everyone, male, female, white, black, Asian, Latino, whatever.

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We all say, hey, summer's coming, you know, people talking about fishing, fire, beacuse, amusement parks, some of the events like the, I don't know, art festival, take the Buffalo, Italian festival, all, you know, concerts, all that good stuff, the beach.

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But the one thing we all say, yeah, people are going to start tripping though, people are going to get, you know, start shooting and everything. And it's sad but true.
Like, and that's what I want to talk about, you know, just, this how the violence has been increasing. Like, here's one story, Buffalo woman fatally shot on CDC side.

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All right, Buffalo police said they are investigating a fatal shooting. It took place Wednesday night on the Del Street.
This was last week. Officers responded to a call just before 8.45 pm at the 100 block of the Del Street, the woman was struck by gunfire during an alleged altercation with a group of other women according to detectives.

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The 43-year-old victim was transported to ECMC and later declared deceased. Wow. And that's just one story. Here's another one from three days ago.
And there's like a bunch more I can read you. And if you're, you live in the city and you're a listener, you know, you know what I'm talking about.

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All right. This one was a major drug trafficking ring busted in Western New York. Attorney General James.
Here, secures convictions and $250,000 fentanyl and cocaine operation in New York, New York attorney. General Latissia James has announced successful convictions of 14 individuals involved in a significant drug.

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Drug trafficking ring in Western New York. The operation was responsible for distributing over $250,000 worth of fentanyl pills and cocaine and eerie. Yeah, that's fentanyls everywhere.
And it's even a stronger fentanyl called car fentanyl that's even stronger than the other fentanyl. So it might not good.

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Excuse me. Attorney General James. This is the article. And this was on this article. You guys want to look for yourself.
What's in New York news now? Attorney General James. Secures convictions and $250,000 fentanyl and cocaine operation.

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Okay. I read that part. Okay. Here we go. New York attorney general Latissia James has announced the successful conviction of 14 individuals involved in a significant drug trafficking ring.
In Western New York, the operation was responsible for distributing over $250,000 worth of fentanyl pills and cocaine and eerie and Niagara counts.

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The central figures have received the state have received state prison sentences following an extensive investigation led by the office of the Attorney General's OAG organized crime task force or OCTF.
The investigation resulted in the seizure of 1,440 counterfeit description in 30 fentanyl pills. Yes.

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A lot of people, you know, that's another epidemic going around pills, you know, perks and perks.
Zanacs and lower tabs and all kinds of prescription medication, but there's a lot of fake medication. A lot of people are dying for things to feel.

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First of all, even the real pill, you should be taking the abuse notes anyway. First of all, but the fake ones in their late but fentanyl people want to get higher.
I mean, why is it marijuana enough? People want to do the heroin, meth, coke.
Here, when it's made a big comeback here in the city, cocaine, if you just heard, "brack," people are, what else is it doing?

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What they call it, that B, perhaps that people, I don't know if they're still doing it, but they were putting it on their eyelids to get high.
I saw a video of people collecting bad bugs, something that you don't want, and smoking them getting high, which is ridiculous.

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Just all kinds of stuff people are using to get high, it's just ridiculous. Sniffing, that's not common here, but people have done it.
Sniffing feces that are festered and all that in a can, getting high off that, you heard what I said.
Human feces, yes, ridiculous. I can go on and on, so, yes.

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For, 1,440 counterfeit prescription, M30 fentanyl pills, nearly 1 kilogram of cocaine valued at $130,000, it loaded 45 calorie pistol, and more than $4,000 in cash.
The operation was primarily based in Buffalo and involved in complex distribution networks and coded language to evade law enforcement.

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Attorney General of the T.C. James stated, stopping drug trafficking operations that sell deadly narcotics is critical to keeping New Yorkers safe.
Not only did these traffickers distribute deadly amounts of fentanyl, they put New Yorkers in even more danger by disguising their drugs as prescription pills.
I want to thank our partners in law enforcement for helping to secure these convictions. My office will continue to use every tool at our disposal to protect New Yorkers, safety and bring those fueling the opioid addicts, prices to justice.

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Key figures in their sentences included, child Sims pleaded guilty to criminal possession of a control substance in the second degree since the nine years in prison.
Moosa Ramadhan pleaded guilty to criminal sale of a control substance in the second degree since eight years in prison.

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Tevin Geter pleaded guilty to criminal sale of a control substance in the third degree since the four years in prison.
Michael McPhee pleaded guilty to attempted criminal possession of a control substance in the third degree since the three and a half years in prison.
DEA New York Division special agent in charge, Frank Tarantino commented, "The guilty pleas from members of this drug trafficking ring are a result of the collaborative effort DEA New York has with New York's office of the Attorney General New York State Police."

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And our law enforcement partners are effectively targeting the organization and individuals poisoning our communities.
The 18-month investigation utilized physical and wiretags of evidence to track and dismantle the network.
He offered, operatives were thought through and intercepted a phone conversation where they used cryptic terminology to discuss that illegal activities.

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New York State Police Superintendent Steven G. James added, "This investigation and the convictions against the 14-year-old's are evidence of the commitment we share with our law enforcement partners in keeping our dangers and keeping dangerous drugs off our streets."
So that's that.
Yeah.

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It's crazy, guys.
And it's another one for you from three days ago.
Nine apprehended in three stolen vehicle incidents, which overnight, three days ago, this is covered by news for Buffalo.
Air one in the Buffalo Police Department apprehended nine subjects in three separate stolen vehicle incidents during the overnight hours of Tuesday into Wednesday, the Erie County Sheriff's Office announced.

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Air one was on routine training and patrol flights over Erie County when they were requested.
Yes, when they were requested on three separate occasions by Buffalo Police to help track stolen vehicles seen by area patrol units.

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124 Maple Ridge, one stolen vehicle out of Buffalo was tracked and recovered.
Two of the three individuals from the vehicle were apprehended.
Oakmont Avenue and South Oak Street, one stolen vehicle out of the city, out of the city of town of Wanda was tracked and recovered.
Three subjects were apprehended.
177 military road, one stolen vehicle out of Buffalo was tracked and recovered.

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Four subjects were apprehended.
Oh, yeah, there was another one.
Another story.
And this is the most recent one actually two hours ago, two injured, two separate weekend shooting this weekend every weekend at something.

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Buffalo Police, this is also covered by news for Buffalo.
Buffalo Police are investigating two shootings that occurred over the weekend.
In the first one, 15 year old, a 15 year old boy was injured on Maple Ridge Avenue early Saturday morning.
Police responded to the shooting on the first block of Maple Ridge just before 1 a.m. Saturday.

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The team was transported to ECMC where he was treated for non-life-friendly.
The second occurred on a 2000 block of South Park Avenue around 915 p.m. Saturday night.
Police say a 31 year old man was shot while outside in connection to the same, to some type of dispute or argument with others.
The man also was also transported to ECMC where he's listed in stable condition.

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Both shootings are still under investigation.
Anyone with information on either is either asked to call or text a confidential tip call line at 716-847-2255.
Wow.
Like, it's crazy.

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It really is.
That's glad and proud to be licensed, gun owner now.
I know that's that make me completely safe.
No.
But it makes me a lot safer than what I would be without one.
You know, I'm pretty good, you know, far as hand-to-hand combat my hands, but these days these guys are perpetrators and not fighting.

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They're coming with weapons, they're jumping you.
Sometimes you just women that set you up, you know, anything that gets you off guard.
But the being the gun owner, the one thing I hate that they're doing with a lot of these gun laws nearly all of them.
The law of drug making our hurting the citizens like myself from protecting ourselves.
You know, you're not attacking the criminals.

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They got, they have armor pissing rounds, lock switches, stuff that we can't even buy or we're not even lawfully, we can't even buy.
You know, you're not getting, that's what you need to attack and in a lot of the firearms, how do you think these kids and people are getting Israeli weapons and stuff like that?

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Come on, let's be serious now.
Like, they've busted so many of our military people.
A lot of them active duty, selling and distributing guns for years and rico cases all across the country to these kids and these games.

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Like, come on now.
But you make it harder for people like me to get weapons and things like that.
Yes, anybody can do anything with a weapon, whether you're a criminal, whether you have mental issues, whatever.
Like, someone who's a law-abiding citizen that carries a gun, hit the snap one day with all the things going on.

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You know, you don't know what anyone's doing.
When everyone you see, you talk to, you walk around, you mingle with, it's fighting the battle, you know nothing about.
So any, we're all born capable of doing horrible things, you know.
But, so when people say, oh, well, no one should have guns.
I don't agree with that.

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I don't agree with that, you know.
That's why you have to have a responsibility with the weapon.
You know, earn the weapon, clean it, all those things as a law-abiding citizen that has one, use it when necessary.
Not because you lost the fight, not because you're angry, not because you're trying to be tough.
Your life is in imminent danger, your family's life, or God forbid, you might have to protect someone else who can't protect themselves.

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You know, so, you know, I wish they would do that, which, what I'm saying is it going to change anything because they have an agenda, you know, they want to do privacy, guns and I saw a video months ago with a calling on New War.
He's on YouTube, check him out.
Also, check out my YouTube channels. I have two YouTube channels to see a vision, the name of my business and my other channels, a Horabase channel, brutally sincere entertainment.

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So check those out on YouTube.
Please, and thank you.
And,
I'm calling on New War. I'm subscribed to him and he, you know, fights for our gun laws and talks about a lot of the laws being passed in different news.
And he was talking with a guy.

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I can't remember his name, I'm sorry.
He was saying how, which this is something I knew many others knew anyway, but this is an actual official admitting to this.
He said that those numbers for mass shootings and different statistics were done.
They lie or they inflate them stuff like that to push, to push different laws they want to pass and also to, you know, fear.

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How do you need a savior if there's nothing to save you from?
That's the equivalent to someone starting a fire and an abandoned house and then they come, you know, they started a fire.
They come to save the day and put the fire out. You think they're a hero and they're really not the same thing.
So he was saying many times he would come with the truth to put it out there and they would stop him and things like that.

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And I wasn't surprised. We know our government lies to us and our, and our brothers are our benefits.
We know this.
You know, so I wasn't surprised by that at all.
And just like they lie about neighborhoods or areas that are predominantly black or brown.
Yes, they may be crime, but they try to make you think let's say Chicago, Francis.

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Chicago was very racist and segregated. You blew that up for yourself.
I'm not making that up.
I'm based on facts. I know that by need you to know that.
But they publicize, you know, old block, 63rd, you know, mainly through music, you know, that machine promoting, you know, nonsense and death to our kids with this drill stuff.

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That's like a whole other video on itself, too.
There's a whole lot of people that are active in a whole other part episode and stuff.
And these are little small areas that's not the whole city.
You know, there's some good parts now can now can sometimes the bad come to the good parts. Yeah.
Like when a FB duck, director, soul was killed August 4, 2020.

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He's at the Gold Coast when they went to kill him.
That's a rich area of people go to shop. A lot of people that have money.
Go there, but unfortunately, a lot of these young men and criminals have money either through criminal means or now through the medium of music, promote death and all that stuff.

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They have the money to go to these places.
Unfortunately, if anyone's been following the old block five case that included, they've got to wait for sentencing now.
They drove there in two cars and shot this man over 27 times.
Like it's ridiculous.

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But that's one, that's an isolated incident. That's not the whole city.
You know, people are scared. I'm not going to Chicago. I'm going to know this certain areas you shouldn't go to.
Obviously, just like anywhere like that certain areas here, you don't want to be at especially after dark or something.
But that's not the whole place.

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So please don't let media use your own brain, your own discernment and everything.
Anywhere there's danger, you don't go. That's common sense.
I'm not going to be anywhere where dangerous high for me. I'm not going. That's stupid.
I just saw a video in LA.

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I was throwing different hats that I made for sports teams. You know, hear me out guys.
I made for sports teams not gangs, but gangs take the hats or whatever injuries or whatever the teams are going to adopt them for themselves.
And you can't go to these areas. You already are at risk with some of these high crime gang areas to get robbed, assaults, or whatever.

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But you come with a certain hat that's a rival gang or even their gang and they don't know you're not part of the gang.
You can be subject to getting killed, beat up or something like that. You know how ridiculous that's.
You can't wear a nice hat.
That's May 14th. Team owns the name, trademark, all that. I can't wear that in certain areas and not just in California and LA everywhere.

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A lot of places.
Or you can't wear your hat a certain way. You can't tilt it. You can't because someone's going to mistake you for enemy or as they like to say now, op, which is short for opposition.
And you can get killed or something. That is so dumb and ridiculous. I feel stupid saying.

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Like are you serious? Are you serious? I cannot wear a hat for a team that I like or whatever or goes to my clothes or my outfit.
I can't wear it. Are you kidding me? I'm a my goodness.
Like, oh my goodness. Yes, just the dysfunction that goes on with prime and everything.

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Do I believe people someone asked me this earlier this week? Do you believe people deserve second chances in fire?
Depending honestly, like I know authority. I'm not God. I don't run into this system. Nothing like that. But yes, if depending on what you did or is your first offense or you know how you put your kid or something.

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But depending on what you did, no, if you rape someone, I don't believe you. I mean, obviously they're not going to give you life probably.
And they're going to put you in jail for certain amount of time. No, because you rape someone. That's a sickness.

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That's that's that's like. And again, I'm no authority. I'm not God and I'm like that. I don't believe that can be cured. That's in you.
Same if you're like a serial murderer. That's in you. That's like a spirit. Almost like you present. That's a spirit. I don't believe that's something you can correct.
You kill someone once, maybe. You could be redeemed in my maybe murder murder murder is bad murder is murder.

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But when you killed multiple people, you rape multiple people, stuff like that. Now anyone at harm's children sexually.
Oh, no, you might need to be in jail for like you do. And my opinion. That's enough. That's a deeper sickness.

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You're a pedophile and things like that. That's a deeper sense. Again, my opinion is my pencil. Please don't want to get a thinner of that. These are just my pen.
But like like a young kid or something that

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you're desperate. You broke. Now making excuses people because you can't always blame the person for crime like stealing even robbing stuff like that on the person.
You got to sometimes blame the circumstances. Depending on, you know, everything. Yes, you should get a second chance. But when you're like a said, doing it over and over.

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Killing folks or how some of them get online and bragging all that. Yeah, you deserve whatever punishment you get. Sometimes I don't know thing you should get life. You should get life for more serious stuff in my opinion.
But a lot of crimes, especially amongst black people.

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You know, we're, you know, far as the financial structure with we're lower on the total poll.
That's the real. And some cases in our situations and I've had friends. People I've been around that had to do the wrong thing for the right.
I'm not talking about like I said killing or sexy. It's all be for no, no, no, no, no, no, no, I'm stealing or selling drugs. And I talk to a lot of the younger men and when I go to some neighborhoods that grew up in or around and when you talk to them.

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A lot of them. Not all you got something that just straight ignorant or don't care or you just got to pray for them and some of them it may not, you know, everybody can't be saved.
Everybody doesn't want to be saved. But a lot of them when you talk to them, they'll tell you, I don't want to do this. But what am I options?
I'm 15 and I'm in a single parent home, my mother is either sick, on drugs or whatever. And we need money. We got to eat or whatever. What am I supposed to do?

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And I multiple say, oh, well, a lot of them can do rap. Okay. You shouldn't have to just do rap. It should be it should be job options. Why does that to be rapping in lines out of the 10 lot of these labels.
They want to promote negativity. And if you're broke or something, you're going to do whatever.
You're going to sign a messed up contract in some cases that you're going to talk about whatever. Well, we want you to rap about this. Okay.

(41:58):
Not thinking about the consequences after like the damage or causing. And what you're promoting.
You know, and at the point of desperation, that's why one of my goals as I grow as my business growth is to help kids who like me. I mean, I came like I said previously, I came from two parents home.

(42:22):
I was blessed that both my parents. And every kid doesn't have that. And even some kids that do have both parents sometimes kids may decide to go this way they get influenced.
Outside, you know, but like that, I lived pretty good. You know, we were poor. But we had love and everything.

(42:51):
And I never did anything crazy. I've never been locked up. Not a Mr. Meater, not a felony. I break in people's house. Nothing like that.
Not neither has my sister or anything like that or brother. My dad at some certain point in his life had to do the wrong thing for the right to family.

(43:16):
Something's on the street. Nothing that kills up at the time. It was marijuana. And he did it for a short time. You know, that's what he had to do at the time.
You know, he didn't want to do it. He wasn't trying to be you know brown or anything. And I want to say this to I'm not can donate to a drug at all.

(43:40):
Especially things like crack. I'm not condoning that. But as I said, when you're in these situations, you have to survive.
That's the first instinct of self survival, self-preservation. So to anyone, any of my brothers out there and sister out there, they had to do that.

(44:04):
They didn't want to do it, but they had no other choice.
You know, and my father did what he did for a time and then he stopped, you know, he did, you know, what he had to do, you know, parents have to make sacrifices, you know, at time for the kids.
Fortunately, me as an adult, I'll be 42, God willing, next month. I've never had to do anything like that. And because of sacrifices, my parents made.

(44:30):
And things I've seen from others, I've never had to do that. And actually, my mother made me promise at a, I was in single digit age, no matter how hard times I got.
Do not sell drugs. He said, you only got one, one way to go. Two ways, I'm sorry. Death or in jail.

(44:52):
And it was hard. I'm not going to ask you to keep that promise, because I'm seeing my mother and father struggling. You know, you're a little kid, you know, you want to help. Even when I was in my teens and all that, still wouldn't really open up to get a job or anything like, no, or significant job.
You know, you see that, you know, you love your parents. You want them to be happy and do well and, you know, and prosper.

(45:17):
It was hard. It wasn't that hard, but it was a little hard, you know, you see your friends, or I hung around like the older kids and then they put it when I was growing up, that they were doing something to strip.
But back when I was growing up, there was a cold. They respected my mother and father, like I used to want to go with them when they were going to fight other neighborhoods like gang.

(45:42):
I wanted to go with them. I wanted to go, you know, do the stuff they were doing and they would make me go home. No, this is not for you. No, go home.
I would cry because I couldn't go. And then at that time, but I didn't know what they were doing for me. I would went with them.
I probably, I definitely probably wouldn't be here today or I'd be a totally different person. I'd be dead and jailed. Who knows? Creeple, I don't know.

(46:11):
So I thank all of them that did that for me. That doesn't happen now. You got guys my age, corrupting kids, giving them guns, telling them, yeah, it better be empty or just destroying their lives with no rhyme or reason.
There's no honor or respect at all now. So things are way different now.

(46:37):
And then even my father, when I was growing up, him trying to be a good parent, he was saying he told my mom and mother told me story. He was like, we should keep me in the house.
She was like, you know, shelter me. Keep me from outside. And what I said, no, we can't do that. We do that. He does get outside. We will lose them to these streets and we'll never get them back.

(46:59):
So now I go, oh, why die? Oh, look, you know, and I'll be easily influenced anything. So, you know, God bless my parents and all the other good people, other than my parents that were good influences in my life to speak me on the right track.
And obviously God is always with you, but a child to myself as well, because I have my own mind. I could have easily did whatever I was, and then held with it. I'm going to do what I want to do. I didn't do that.

(47:31):
I knew to do the right things.
And that's later translated to my nieces, brothers, everybody else, you know, and I tried to instill that to other kids as well and other people.
And as I was saying previously, my goal is to help help others as well help my people, you know, for my people.

(47:56):
And as I grow, you know, get more financial secure things I want to do programs, events, because these kids I was actually talking, yes, say, my brother, Jake, you know, shout out to brother, Jake, you know, we were talking about how, and I first found this out when a home, me, a mind, a Dale.

(48:25):
We were working on something together, you know, put young men, young, you know, young brothers out here. And we went to a couple places to pitch what we're trying to do the program.
We're trying to do.
And the ladies, I can't remember that I'm sorry, I can't remember the center. We went to, but the ladies that we pitch to, they were very interested, but they had to go to a medium, someone else to accept it.

(48:52):
And those people were looking at what kind of money is going to come in and we're like, what? You know what I'm saying? I was like, I was like, I was like, yeah, you know, and they didn't accept this.
I felt some type of way about that. I was very emotional. I felt some type of way about that because Dale had a sense of experience with the boy scouts and many young men.

(49:14):
He's worked with over the years that grown up to be prosperous, grown men that he, something he still talks to today.
And what I noticed, I was telling him, I was like, man, I see how they have all these programs for the young sisters, you know, dance.

(49:37):
Other stuff and nothing for the boys already really have for the boys like basketball, you know, typical stuff basketball, you know, running nothing constructive to build their minds.
Just like stuff to exert aggression. You know, naturally, you know, boys are aggressive, you know, young brothers are aggressive, but not every last one of us.

(50:03):
And even if we are some of us, we need something more, you know, to build on in basketball or punching bag or something.
What about the kids that are into computers, music? I ain't talking about rats and all, you know, I'm talking about like actual, proposing, you know, music, reading and writing, you know, music, piano, violin.

(50:25):
And what about the ones that are into art? Cooking, you know, sewing and knitting, crocheting, you know, stuff for, you know, clothing, you know, stuff like that.
Stuff, stuff not only that is constructive to learn and build your mind, but also you could have a trade to where you'll never be hungry again.

(50:47):
And the thing we don't have either trade school, you know, they said those out, well, my parents were still in high school or getting out of it.
And they did that to stop a black folk from prospering because we were getting out, getting like plumbers, licenses and this and that.
We didn't have to go to college, you know, because we had a career.
A lot of them now that some of the last ones that are from that crop, they got the, you know, the welding job, you know, all that stuff, they're living better than me now for the longer living, living better.

(51:25):
They took those away, trade school. We don't even have, they used to have them in the high schools with my dad and my mother and all them were going high to the head.
And they took those away and the programs are designed for the young brothers, not the habit of them because we are, we are the providers, we are the protectors.
And if we don't have anything to build us as young men, we can't be great fathers and then what does that do?

(51:53):
You know, what does that do? Nothing. We can't grow, we can't build families. Nothing. And then we'll continue to train those single mothers, our fathers locked up, you know, things like that.
So that's one of my goals, you know, to build pro, help build programs here in the city. And as well as other things, the primary is the city. This is where I live in.

(52:19):
This is where I grew up at, you know, so to help the young brothers here, to be effective and useful in society for themselves and for others, you know, each one teach one, you know.
And I'm going hard for that. And then not only that, investing in our neighborhoods, some of these bad areas before it gets, they get gentrified and then they know what's the way somewhere or somebody that know, get enough money and a lot of you,

(52:52):
a lot of you, I'm sorry about that too. I know my voice went a little bit. I'm sorry, I put the microphone on. I'm sorry.
Invest in these neighborhoods and tearing them to neighborhoods, not hoods.

(53:15):
You know, we glorify a lot of stupid shit or, you know, everything, you know, and where like a batch of honor is nothing to be proud of.
You know, how are you proud of a neighborhood where a bunch of crime is going on and stupid shit and drugs and all that.
And it's filthy that you don't clean up nothing, whether you own or rent, you don't take area area, then when the property property drops down dirt, low, and then they bite up, piles it be, bite up and kick your ass out.

(53:48):
Yeah, you have to blame. Oh, we, they don't, we can have nothing. But why don't you take care of where you live? Then they can't take it from you and eventually, build up money or whatever and buy where you live.
So now it'll be more home owners and you guys take care of stuff. Like what I'm saying is going to take a while. We have a lot of growing pains ago, but as a start somewhere,

(54:15):
that's the best in these neighborhoods where we're at. So we can clean them up, clean up the crime and build a real community. See, that's probably people like to say black community, like we really don't have a black community. Sorry.
Sorry, sorry for it. And you brothers just to make it mad at it. Oh, well, in fact, we don't have a black community. We don't sit together for nothing. Yes. It was by design. A lot of it always all the way back to slavery. Yes, I know.

(54:40):
But we all have been aware of the programming. And we've been aware of it. This is not new. It's books. It's right in front of your eyes, all that. Come on. What are we going to do about it?
That's the issue. What are we going to do about it? We can't be happy for one another. You know, if you're a lighter, you consider weak. If you're darker, you consider dogs.

(55:08):
All types of stupid stuff. We can't even share good news. We we get the only people black folks. We get some money. It could be tax money.
A good amount of tax money. Cut out the minute too many people know or the wrong person knows you are in danger.

(55:31):
That is sad. You are in danger of getting robbed, killed, whatever just for that for you for the money. And mostly we say, oh, well, people are desperate. Okay. That doesn't mean you should go hurt someone else who's trying to come up like you.
Heard them killed them and then you don't have to send prison or even worse, you might run into the wrong person that's, you know, that's ready for this. Now you're killed or crippled if you want to be stupid.

(56:00):
But we all got the same 24 hours. Like I said in the last episode, get up off your ass.
Get up and go do something.
It's opportunity everywhere. Do they make it hard for us? Yes. I know this. Yes. It's designed for us to, to, to, to be harder, but it's not impossible to actually want you to think.

(56:25):
A lot of stuff they do or the bear case they put up toward us. It's a discourage you so you never even try.
Or at all, you don't even start. Get up off your ass and do something for you, your family and for others. It can inspire others.

(56:46):
But yes, we have no black community in that. And then and then and then investing in our neighborhoods.
We can turn it into community because you don't move the communities you build.
So when you go when you guys get some money. Now naturally, I don't want to live in a bad area who does not go alive.

(57:08):
I don't want to live in a bad area where bunch of dumb shit happened. You know, facts.
You know, at least find a neutral area somebody that is always going to live with with what a lot of us do and still do.
We move where we're not want.
And then you wonder why you get what you get when you move somewhere you're not want.

(57:33):
But we have to build communities. We have to build up our neighborhoods and start for something simple.
It's keeping them clean. And then you know what else community does when you got a gang or group of people committing crimes.
Strong, growing people, hurting people, you know what the community does. We a community will come together.

(57:58):
But we haven't that.
No, either get you about run you about here. But the authorities handed you.
You know, or got a bit. We handle it ourselves. That's what the community does.
And it's like say, for instance, with this niche narrative, this bullshit that if I'm a law buying citizen, yes, again, you know,

(58:25):
I know with some some of the stupid people might say, well, the system is, I know the system is against us.
I know it's racist. I know all this. You ain't telling me nothing new.
But crime is crime is wrong. Is it right for someone to hurt someone or someone shooting up our neighborhood where kids live at?

(58:47):
You know, bullets do ricochet. People get hit by straights all the time. How often do you see when these game members are going after a rival gang member and shoot up a car.
They don't care at all who's in there or shoot up a house. And then instead of the person getting hit, the baby gets kids.
Wife gets kids, something like that. So the snitch narrative is someone in our neighborhood committing all these crimes. We all live here.

(59:11):
We all want to be safe. We all don't want to trouble their brains.
They're also helping when I said previously, probably values, property values within the enemy, the oppressor can come in and take over the neighborhood.
It's going to be take over the neighborhood. So it's easier to buy. And instead of us coming together, someone coming forward.

(59:34):
Hey, this person is doing this. This is net. This person is one shooting up stuff, breaking in our home.
You don't want to do anything because you're worried about being called snitch.
And I know what other things people are going to say. Well, you know, the police are not going to protect you.
People, you know, have gotten killed for telling or testifying. That's a fact. I know this.

(59:56):
Like I said, you know, tell me nothing new. Again, this is where community comes in.
Well, community, there is strength and numbers, believe it or not. They're strength and numbers over the game.
Imagine the strength and numbers ever strong, like mind the community can have.
So, so if if a if Ronda is willing to testify on a drug ring that's plaguing our neighborhoods.

(01:00:20):
And she's being threatened with her life and all this stuff. We as a community.
Coming together young owners and people who don't know whatever we come to get. No, you're not doing nothing to her.
We're going to protect her. You try anything. We're going to defend her. That's what the community does.

(01:00:41):
We come together. We look after each other's kids in an neighborhood stuff like that.
We don't we don't see someone breaking your home when you're in a vacation or something like that.
And then we just turn the blind eye.
Or I see nothing with any mile. Stuff like that.
So, we got a lot of work to do. You know, a lot of, you know, like they grow in pains.

(01:01:05):
And what I'm saying may not even happen in my lifetime.
It may not.
But hopefully one day does happen. And we have to instill that in our kids because they're the future.
And still the truth in them about our history, you know, our current.
Going on, you know, and all that, you know, history in the present and put the right values and morals on them.

(01:01:30):
And hopefully they can stay on the right path longer after we're gone.
And then maybe something better could come of this, you know, I only hope.
So that's my thoughts on that in the state of crime.
Here in Buffalo.
Now, something else I want to touch on was a relationship, romantic relationship.

(01:01:54):
I'm touch on a little bit.
Now me currently right now, I'm saying.
That's what I prefer to be right now.
Now if I do meet someone, excuse me, down the road.
I'm definitely open to it. I know what I want.

(01:02:15):
I know what I don't want, you know, so.
But I'm not, I'll never settle for anything.
I'm not going to settle for someone just to say, oh, I'm booed up.
Oh, look, we're going to a trip together.
Yeah.
No, a lot of, a lot of, a lot of y'all do that too.
And I see it on social media.
You just, you like, come on, like, come on.

(01:02:36):
You don't have to just settle for anything.
You don't.
You're saying what you want, what you don't want, you know, what you need, all that stuff.
And you should be fine.
But remember, men and women that are listening, finding the right man or woman is not guaranteed.

(01:02:59):
Try to tell you, husband, what is not guaranteed?
This is something you hope for, something you pray for, that you may not get it.
The only thing guaranteed is the death.
That's guaranteed.
That's a destination we all share, you know, but you hope and pray for that good woman and, or a good man and a family and stuff.

(01:03:20):
And it is not going to happen for everybody, you know?
So what you have to say to yourself though is, if I don't achieve that, if I don't have a family, am I a failure?
I don't think so, but it doesn't matter what I think, with your life, what do you think though?

(01:03:43):
And prior to relationships, there's a lot of dysfunctional relationships today.
Like, why is it for men and I'm speaking, I'm going to speak from both sides, but I can mostly speak for the man because I am a man.
So why is it, if I meet a woman?

(01:04:04):
Not all the time, but most of the time I have to leave with my wallet, meaning if I see a woman in the gas station, and her car is way better than mine.
You might have a hundred thousand dollars vehicle or something, you know?
I'm driving a hoopty.
I come through the talk to her and I've seen this happen to her.
First thing she said, "You gonna let me pump my gas?"

(01:04:28):
What?
Excuse me? I mean, what's wrong with your hands?
I mean, obviously if I was in a, if I chose to do it, yeah, I might be, "Oh, let me pump your gas."
I don't have to do that though, so that's nothing too.
It's like we're obligated to do stuff. Why?
First of all, I don't even know you.
I don't even know if you're, if you have a man or one or anything, I don't know.

(01:04:52):
I'm trying to start a conversation to get to know some things, to see where we go after this.
Or someone being bold enough, like, "Are you gonna let me pay for my gas?"
You should be paying for my gas.
I'm looking at your card, what you got on it?
You, you want to pay for my gas?
Oh, I'm sorry.

(01:05:22):
You know, yeah, you want to pay for my gas?
Like, seriously? And then I've dealt with stuff and I've talked about men have dealt with women that told them,
"You got to have this. You got to have that."
Be with me and we're in the same boat. We're both poor.

(01:05:44):
You're telling me, "I got to make a certain amount of money per year.
I have to drive a certain car."
This is then the third. I'm looking at you, like,
"Excuse me, ma'am. You have on $2 flip-flops and they're dirty."
I just saw you come out of the dollar store.
They ain't unrounded, "Dowl-Store, dawg, can you understand?"

(01:06:06):
You're telling me what I need and you're coming out the dollar store.
Oh, I get it. This is another thing, too, that annoys me.
Oh, I'm supposed to take care of you.
Oh, oh, I was, 'cause I didn't know I was your dad.
I didn't know I was Jesus.
I didn't know that I was that team. No.
Now, I've gotten arguments when we were, uh,

(01:06:29):
that I've had a conversation with, like, I didn't take care of nothing.
As if we're together, if we were together, we look out for each other.
We take care of each other at times, but I'm not your father.
And you're not my mother.
It's a team effort.
Fifty-fifth.
That's what it's supposed to be.

(01:06:50):
And a lot of women are not taught that.
And it starts at the home, like, I'm mother, I'm stuff like that.
And then now, we have the medium of social-medium music.
What these women are saying is that a man supposed to do this and that.
It's okay to be with a man and he buys you everything and this and the third.

(01:07:13):
Or, uh, it's okay if a man is with you and he's with other women
and you're getting the money and the bag and he's not, uh,
giving you anything, you know, far as the STD STI.
Stuff like that. I'm like, what?
Who told you that, you know?
That's ridiculous. And for men and women,

(01:07:35):
you get someone to take care of you.
That's your alternative?
Excuse me. That's your, uh, that's the thing you want.
That comes with a price.
And I know, I know a lot of stories with women that went through that got with a man.
He had a bunch of money.
They can go all fly over on the world, expensive jewelry, all that stuff.

(01:07:56):
And then I'm telling you how happy they are.
You don't find them after relationships over or after the man gets tired of them
and moves on to something new.
How happy they were.
Oh, well, you bought me this and that, but he was with this woman.
He was a dad woman, did that?
You signed up for that.
You wanted victims of your volunteer.
So anybody cry? No tears for you for being stupid.

(01:08:19):
And being stupid can be painful.
Yes it can.
And for you men out there, or a lot of you men that are, uh, hobo sections
that are getting with women just for a place to stay.
You need the kids snacks, things like that.
That comes with a price too.
Because eventually, if you can get tired of you, get ready to you.

(01:08:41):
Now you depend on her, no job, no nothing.
Now you back square once.
You went to find someone else's something like that.
That's ridiculous.
And nothing speaking on that with the brothers, which is ridiculous.
The thing they do is a joke.
People make jokes, but it really happens to where a guy gets with a woman that's overweight or whatever.

(01:09:03):
They typically say women that's obese or something because generally.
Women that are obese or whatever or not deemed as attractive.
I have very low substance, very low standards.
So they manipulate their emotions.
And get with them during tax time.

(01:09:25):
It's mean it's about it and everything.
For a place in five and you know, a lot of different stuff they make jokes about.
And it's ridiculous.
You know, you met with some eyes emotions, but not all the time.
Sadly, no what's going on and they're just happy to have somebody that's sad all around.
So live on fully aware that you're here for that that you're going to be going after the tax money's gone or whatever.

(01:09:50):
And they're just happy.
Okay, I got this person like that.
That's very sad, very, very, very, very, very twist.
You know, so that goes on too.
But you got like I said, you got like this man at a whole, both sectors straight, bumps.
The woman's working and all that.
Hey, she comes in.
He don't do none for you don't rubber feet don't know what it back.

(01:10:12):
Don't make no damn food either.
Don't make no food.
Don't make no damn fish sticks.
Nothing.
He's sitting there in the drawers.
Hey babe, you going to cook house ain't clean enough like she she's paying for everything.
You can't even clean up.
You can't even do that.

(01:10:33):
Seriously.
You ask this somebody cook some you would need a damn thing.
If it was me, if I was a woman, you would need a damn thing.
You know, so there's a lot of ridiculousness with relationship, man.
And at the man you're leaving to wallet.

(01:10:57):
A lot of these women have and I'm not judging anybody's sexual stuff like whatever you do.
Whatever you do with your man or whatever you grant that's on you.
I'm going to say what I would do.
You know, you got a lot of these relationships that are open relationships now where that's a recipe for this answer to.
I don't care if you both down for it eventually it's going to become a problem.
Where you guys are picking up women together or hell.

(01:11:23):
Whatever floats you both.
So I'ma you picking up guys together or couples together whatever.
Swingers, whatever.
That's your business.
But it just far as talking about relationships that's a lot of twisted stuff.
It's not a lot of normal basic stuff.

(01:11:45):
I'm sorry.
I'm old fashioned.
If I'm with a woman that's me in her, I don't want to.
Excuse me.
I don't want another woman in that relationship.
I don't want another man in that relationship.
You know, I don't want to do that.
It's us.
If they ain't enough, okay then you can go on and I'll go on.
And I'm told women in the past have dated.

(01:12:07):
I'm not forcing you to be here.
If anytime you get tired, you know, I'm not forcing you to be here.
You can not go on.
I don't want anybody that I have to force to be with.
Why would you want anyone to have the force to be with you?
Excuse me.
Why?
It makes no sense.
You pretty much keep them hostage then.

(01:12:29):
Well technically, they are free to leave but you're trying to keep them there when they don't want to be there.
But in my experience, the old ways still work.
You can't have love, respect, friendship.
You can't have one without the other.
The first friendship starts to grow.

(01:12:52):
Then the respect grows with it.
And then lasts is the love.
You know, and if you don't have that, you don't have nothing.
Now, love is not enough to sustain a relationship.
Know what it is.
You've got to have patience and tolerance and other things.

(01:13:14):
And when I say tolerance, I'm not talking about this dumb stuff.
They're talking about now about people cheating on you and accepting that.
Screw that.
I can't tell someone what to do if someone cheated on them and they decide to take them back.
I can't tell you what to do.
Me.
That's a deal, break.
You cheat on me.
That's it.
We're done.
You put your hands on me.

(01:13:35):
That's it.
We're done.
You steal from me.
We're done.
I honestly have to hate you, but we're done.
Long box, you'll be kicked right.
You know.
And it's a lot of warped.
And just ridiculous.
You know, things that are being accepted in relationships, they're being promoted.

(01:13:58):
Through social media, music and things.
And people accepting, I hear a lot more women and men, women and men both alike.
That's cool.
It's normal for a dude to have a side dude.
Well, side dudes, you got all you dudes at a pillowbiders undercover.
Yeah.
But it's normal for a man to have a side piece, side woman.

(01:14:23):
And the girls school that.
Or girls, women that have side dudes.
I saw a mean where a girl had, she has like a dude for weed, a dude for fixing stuff, a dude for, I mean, get out of here.
It's not a sense, man.

(01:14:47):
It's me and you.
It ain't enough gone.
I'll be by myself.
I do bad by myself.
You know.
I guess ridiculous.
But they're destroying what true romantic relationships are.
They're destroying them.
It's disgusting.
It's absolutely disgusting.
That's why I see a lot more things because people ain't trying to play.
You have a lot of people like myself, men and women, we ain't trying to play them games.

(01:15:10):
We're not.
We ain't playing, we ain't dealing with that bullshit.
You cheating, we must be okay with it.
You're lying.
We got deal with that.
You want to add another person relationship.
That's supposed to be cool.
Man, get out of here.
And then not only that, the respect.
And I see it a lot with us.
Black folks.

(01:15:31):
I see it on social media as well.
Where women and men are just openly disrespecting.
You know, for the world to see it.
And it's supposed to be funny or whatever.
And it's just sad.
I seen one of the latest ones I saw actually.
They were in.
The in and out.

(01:15:53):
Berk.
I believe.
I remember stated it was in.
And it's it was a sister in a brother.
And he surprised her.
I take it a lunch.
On our lunch break.
Take it a lunch.
From her.
Now the fool look great.
I'd have been in in our.
Berk.
I want to go.
No, because I like to eat.
Uh.
Fool look great.

(01:16:14):
Now the fool she was complaining about.
It didn't even look like she can eat half of it.
And she's filming him.
And I think eventually started filming her too.
She's filmed it.
Put it on Instagram.
Look at him.
Y'all.
Look at him.
This is where he takes me for lunch.
I'm looking at her.
Mike.
How ungrateful can you be.

(01:16:36):
He didn't take you know where he surprised you.
Took you to lunch.
Meaning he treated you.
Been and he paid for it.
And you can plan it.
And I see you still sitting in that seat.
So I bet you's going to eat that food.
But you can plan it.
And.
She.
Just sitting here.
Disrespecting the man.
He said.
He said.
I paid 50 some dollars.

(01:16:57):
And she said.
Let me see the receipt.
Oh.
I'm.
Oh.
I said.
I'm.
Oh.
I said, Lord.
Have mercy.
He better than me.
Man.
I.
What.
I'm not getting rid of that.
I'm.
I'm.
I took that my food to go.
Uh.

(01:17:18):
The bill is already paid for.
I took my food to go.
I'm.
You.
You.
You find the best way home.
You know, we're done here.
Out of left foot right there.
And if we.
Now, if it was the situation where they lived together and all that, guess what?
Her stuff.
Who you waiting for her when she get out?
I'm.
When she come home.
You know, if it was my place.
Now, if it's a place they share, that's a little different situation.

(01:17:40):
But.
Yeah.
We're done after that.
First of all, you.
You disrespect me anyway.
And if she did this then.
It's probably the first time.
This is the first time.
It was filmed.
And I do this for you.
And because of where you.
Uh.
Where I took you.
You didn't like it.
Like, it's totally ungrateful and unappreciated.

(01:18:01):
You know, I don't care where he took.
He treated you.
Because he he wanted to put a smile on your face.
Something you decide you.
Is how you are.
Is how you are.
Oh, it is not just the relationship.
It is the kids too.
It's the kids too.
Uh, I believe.
The J. Yeah.
I believe I believe my brother J.
Tell me that.

(01:18:26):
I believe it was J.
Uh, someone.
Uh, told me that.
I saw a video where.
Uh, young man.
I think it was a young man.
His parents or whatever bought him.
Uh.
What is that?
3000 dollars.
Somebody.

(01:18:47):
Point is they bought them a car.
A nice car.
He didn't pay for it.
They bought you a car that he owned.
Like, you know, because they.
No, because they know bought it outright.
He was on a preachy.
It was extremely on a preachy.
Like, I wanted this and then I think it was a girl.
I'm sorry if I'm telling this wrong.

(01:19:08):
Uh, if you the girl or young man.
But anyway, there's a bunch of videos.
So you can go to that same thing.
And they were greatly.
Unappreciated.
And I remind me that stupid show.
Uh, sweet 16 and super sweet 16 with, you know, the rich kids who made no damn money.
Something to have little BS white careers, but no money.
Your parents bring all the money and you're being an ass for a party.

(01:19:32):
They're putting together for you.
That you're not planning to be an ass and disrespect for that same thing.
I hate you and all that black kid white kids all right.
Maybe with the hell.
Who the hell is wrong with you?
I need to slap the taste of your damn mouth.
Talking like that.
And then doing something for you.
Ungrateful.
You got more than hell.
You got more than me.

(01:19:53):
I'm a grown ass man.
You got more than me.
You can blame it.
Ridiculous.
This is this is this is disrespect.
Ungrateful.
And then back to the, uh, men and women thing.
Uh, it's just discussing man.
And that's something that burns my mother mother up at the black woman.
How black man gets disrespected by the black woman.

(01:20:16):
People like to talk about the black woman not being protected and all that.
And it's true, but so, so we're not protected either.
This goes both ways.
The disrespect.
Like I just said previously disrespect on both sides.
I've seen on video social media and saying.
Yeah, so it goes both ways.

(01:20:37):
You know, it is the sun against more of our dysfunction.
More work we have to do.
You know, and, uh, like I said,
I'm saying go to find the right right right now with, you know, my business and things.
I can't even, I can't give a woman the attention she needs right now.
I, I, most of my folks, my focus is on this.
Not saying I can be in a relationship.

(01:20:58):
Not saying that at all.
But depending on what she wants.
You know, obviously we have to talk another big thing in relationship communication.
Communication communication communication.
Say the three times.
All right.
That's a big, big, big factor where relationships don't work either.

(01:21:19):
Not expressing our emotions, not being open and honest with each other.
That's a big, another big thing with any relationship friends or romantic relationships.
But, uh, yeah, I'm not selling for anything.
I never had a problem getting women and unrelated, not a problem.
But I'm not just going to settle for anything.
Especially when you want something meaningful and hopefully something that lasts until you die or whatever.

(01:21:42):
You know, especially when you're looking to someone you want to make children with.
You know, that's nothing.
Men and women you need to be careful.
You have kids with it.
Because there's a lot of just dysfunction with that.
Men using kids is, is this pawns women using kids is pawns.
Deadbeat father, deadbeat mothers.
Here, let's talk about that too.
You guys like to talk about deadbeat fathers?

(01:22:03):
No, there's a lot of deadbeat and messed up mothers are there.
Let's talk quite at all.
But let's talk about one side of talk about all of it.
Yeah.
And, uh, just a whole lot of mess, man.
And a lot of people don't even want relationships because they're like, hey, I'd rather be on my own day here and there and I understand it.
I understand.

(01:22:24):
I totally understand.
And, uh, yeah, if you hope for something meaningful, if you're a person out there, if you're a man or woman out there that wants something meaningful, a relationship, you know, keep, keep your, uh,
you're, uh, you know, you're what you want intact.
Don't, don't lower it.

(01:22:46):
Don't lessen it or change it for nobody.
You know, and then somebody out there for you, hopefully, like I said, it's not guaranteed.
Hopefully, there is one out there, if you guys do right by one another, you all know the, the, all the right things, the good things, you know, I said previously and you'll be all right.
My mother and father have been together for what, uh, what, 44 years, I oughta be 44 years coming up from now, I'm taking 44, 45 years, my mother's father has been together.

(01:23:16):
Yeah, that's, that's a, that's a long time.
You know, so maybe into the thick and thin and everything.
My mother said herself, a number of cases that I don't care where your father is, your father could be in a cardboard box outside somebody right there with.
So I had a, a, a front row seat on my life to real love and devotion and stuff.

(01:23:44):
So it's out there in the future.
Quit listening to that nonsense, too, when they tell me, oh, everybody cheats, you know, cheaters says that don't know everybody damn cheap.
Now, will I agree that everyone thinks about cheating? Yes.
Probably once it's white.
And what I mean, I don't mean like, oh, I'm gonna, uh, I want to cheat on my husband and wife or girlfriend or whatever.
No, I mean, in a sense that temptation is out there.

(01:24:08):
You see other men, you see other women that are attractive, that, you know, different body types of, you know, whatever something you may like and you may get excited, but you don't have to succumb to that.
You have to have, uh, self-control, self-discipline respect for you and your relationship.
Now, people can believe this if they want to, you know, see what I was one thing to line about time.

(01:24:30):
And any, I only been in a couple of days, if there's a couple.
I am never cheated.
Have I thought about, yes.
Especially the last one when I was being, you know, mistreated, what, you're taking for granted.
Yeah, temptation is out there, but I did not cheat for her.
I didn't cheat for me.
That's not who I am.

(01:24:51):
That's not what I do. Even if she didn't know nothing, I wouldn't know. I couldn't look myself in the mirror.
I couldn't look my niece in the face. I could look my mother in the face.
Father, all the people that looked up to me or at, or, or, you know, admired the man I am, I couldn't look at them.
So don't believe that bullshit, that bullshit, too.
Oh, everybody chees. That's a lot.

(01:25:12):
That's a lot.
So shut it out with that.
But I said a little more than probably what I wanted to, but the relationship is, but I, you know, kind of down to a flow.
So, you know,
I don't think I want to discuss about fake friends.
I had a few of those, fair with the friends, friend of me, whatever you want to call them.

(01:25:39):
Notice people, everybody I want to see you in.
And it doesn't have to be something sinister, the way they want you to die or something like that.
No, no, no, no. If they're not doing nothing or not about nothing or at a certain level,
and you're getting some motion and ascending or ultimately successful,
when you talk about your success and things, it highlights their failures.

(01:26:05):
So in tune, you know, being in tune and everything, they want you to be where they are.
They want you to be down to their level.
What's the whole thing?
Misri loves company.
But a lot of people don't want you to see because they're not succeeding or let's say we're both friends.

(01:26:26):
We're working to achieve something, have a business, whatever.
I'm getting along a little faster than you.
You know, not that I did anything, not for them, but I'm just, you know, maybe God wants me to win now.
Or I'm putting in the work and you're not.
Put your ego and everything won't let you see that.

(01:26:50):
So you start hate.
Then then it could turn to someone you're trying to sabotage me or we're not even friends anymore now.
Because you made about work you didn't put in or that.
I'm, you know, doing my thing or like, if I'm winning now, right?
That doesn't mean my other friends are losers or whatever it may not be your time to win.

(01:27:15):
And it me being me, if I'm excelling or something like that and I see your working hard, I'm going to help you too.
And I want us all to win. Especially if I love you and we both be brothers, whether we're blood brothers or brothers as friends that we're just that close, I want you to win.
Sisters too. I want you to win too.
It's not a competition.

(01:27:37):
Even if we're doing the same type of business, same job, it's not a competition.
And I hope it's the same for you.
Like for me, it's not a competition.
We all can win.
I don't care if my business one year makes 100,000 yours makes 250,000.
I'm not mad at that. The only way I will get mad is you try to disrespect me.
I turn your ass up at me.

(01:27:58):
Now we got a problem. I'm still not mad about the money you made.
I'm mad that you're disrespecting me.
We came from the same place.
You post the love me and we have respect me.
Yeah, then I'm going to be upset, but just because you're exceeding faster or more.
I don't care about that you're winning.
And coming from the situations we come from, we're both doing far better than we ever done or that we thought we would do.

(01:28:20):
But why would I be mad at that?
You got to be disturbed to be mad at that or have a competition with someone you call your brother or your friend.
But see, I said this in a previous episode.
Money doesn't change your character or reveals it.
It reveals who you are. Take that cover off.
Oh, this is who you are.
Some people you've been the same person or even your broke.

(01:28:42):
Some people it doesn't come out to that money comes up.
Oh, that's who you are.
Yeah, so yeah, remember that.
Yeah, but I want us to win, man.
I'm not.
I just start my business to compete with people.
So I can say, oh, look, I got a business.
I'm doing better.
You know, I did this for me, my family, what I've said in the very first episode of this podcast.
I did it for me, my family, and to inspire and help others.

(01:29:09):
That's what I did it for.
Now for someone to say, you know, the be popular or none of that shit.
I didn't do I didn't do many of that, you know.
And I got a couple so called friends now that I keep it a long distance that I've helped or tried to help.

(01:29:32):
And they don't support me at all.
When I say support, this is this is for family friends.
Everybody don't give me no fake support.
Don't just do something because I'm doing don't just support it because I'm doing it or.
If you're not say friends, my two YouTube channels that I mentioned earlier, sincere vision and brutally sincere entertain.
If you, if they're not your cup of tea, just say that.

(01:29:55):
Don't pretend like you support and you really don't.
Okay.
If you support it, I appreciate you for it.
Appreciate you love you.
Love you comments.
Love your, your likes and all that stuff.
But don't pretend.
Because how you know when someone is fake and.
When it's L.A. I support you.
I want you to win.
They don't know nothing.
You got going on.
They'll ask you when you next video up.

(01:30:17):
Well, I thought you was subscribed to my channel.
I'm through notifications on you.
You didn't know I had video.
You know, we get granted you not probably not on YouTube every day.
All day.
Okay.
Still, if you're supporting, you will get alert and all that.
Or whatever.
Or with the podcast.
Or when you next episode.

(01:30:38):
I don't you subscribe to my podcast channel on speaker.
Aren't you on my YouTube channel?
It goes about a maximum of YouTube channel.
So what are you talking about?
And then sometimes they don't even know your YouTube channel.
Oh, yeah.
What's your YouTube again?
I thought you was subscribed.
I do not know my YouTube channel.
So you got a lot of those fake supporters.

(01:31:00):
Or like I said before, people that.
As a couple of so-called friends.
That.
Can be doing way better than what they're doing.
But they procrastinate.
They bullshit.
They don't.
They bullshit.
They're not doing nothing.
I'm doing something.
I'm.
Growing.
I'm trying to help them gave them some games.
All of the other branch.

(01:31:21):
They don't take it the same time.
You're.
You're hating on me or your.
Upset.
Will stay upset.
What.
What else can I tell you?
Stay upset.
As I said in the last episode.
You know, but I feel I had to do something.
I support you forever.
You don't.
I support you forever.
You don't support me.
You.
You can get rocks.

(01:31:42):
I.
I don't.
I don't support them.
You do either.
I don't.
You either.
I don't wish you.
Uh.
You know.
Not to be successful, but.
You ain't got to support me.
I got to.
You know.
I'm not going to.
Extend my hand for you to spit on it.
Or you give me your ass to kiss.
No.
Uh-uh.
If I call you a friend or brother, I mean it.

(01:32:05):
I don't just say it.
A lot of people do women and men, sister, brothers, friends, capacity and all that stuff!
And you don't uphold that because friendship is love and��'s fellowship, trust respect, all that stuff!
So, you say that nonsense and then you don't uphold it.

(01:32:25):
I already know what it is but you don't just like people that are starting businesses.
You know, you don't have to do that.

(01:32:46):
Everybody doesn't want to see you in.
Unfortunately, a lot of times it would be people that you think are really down for you and they're not.
They secretly don't want to see you in.

(01:33:08):
I know you guys heard the term "Yel, you're failures but whisper your success."
Yeah, that's true, too.
Or like, you're in a boat with that person.
Keep an eye on them because when you're not looking at them during the holes in your boat,
unfortunately, the Lord gave us all the sermon and I'm not wrong when it comes to people.

(01:33:30):
That's the gift I got to God from my mother.
And I'm very selective who's around.
Like, I tell people all the time, you could put a bunch of people in the circle,
but only the elite can go in your square.
And I only got to handful it in.
And it doesn't also, it doesn't mean how long, you know.

(01:33:53):
That doesn't mean anything.
You know somebody in their whole life, they don't really know them.
As my mother told me many years ago, people would be tripping and flipping all the time.
People have tripped and flipped on me that I didn't think would.
She wasn't lying about that, but far as time, like my brother Jay,
I mean, he met, I started kicking it like about a year ago,

(01:34:18):
I said in previous podcasts, we started working out things.
Me and him have been friends for a full year yet, but his respect, his loyalty and thinking,
we're still growing, like, you know, we're still growing, you know, we got years and time to build and build on front of our bond.
Our bond, build them more quickly.

(01:34:39):
We started working out together in this fitness show and he coming up together, you know.
And it's like we've been friends and little brothers for real, like we, you know,
but it's like we've been friends for twenty-thirty years.
It hasn't been a year, but that shows the respect and aberration we have each other for each other, you know.

(01:35:03):
It's reciprocated between the both of us.
So it isn't always in tail time, but I've had friends and people family known for forever turned into the whole 180 on me.
So, yeah, I don't trust one human being, one hundred percent, not one.
I trust some human beings more than others, but you can't trust anything human being, one hundred percent,

(01:35:26):
only trust a guy, one hundred percent.
Because people pull it down, people turn, people flip, so, yeah, so thank God, I thank God for the people in my life,
in my square, you know, Fomzel, Mike, Monique, Jay, my mother, father, my brother Oscar, you know, good people, God's within my life.

(01:35:58):
I want to forget it nobody now.
Oh, my dad, father, Jay, it's so many other people, man, you know, you know, you know, they're in my square, so,

(01:36:19):
you know who you are, oh, the shame, man, south of you, the shame, I was just with you yesterday, man, shame, you know.
Obviously my younger sister actually you know all you and all all the kids who are not so much kids so much now
No, my niece is destiny and your number one? No love her to moon a bag. I love all you that as me

(01:36:42):
you know, first of all but
Leah depend on Carla you know?
Yeah
I don't think I forgot nobody I hope I didn't if I if I if I didn't say someone's name you know what it is
So yeah, you know, thank for all the people that support me and really love me and care about me you know

(01:37:10):
love and appreciate y'all you know I'm saying
Really do the things you do to the things you say to
Your wisdom you might be stolen all that appreciate everybody, you know
Um
And lastly like they as father's day. I'll say shout out to all the fathers all all my listeners that are followers

(01:37:33):
All the people in the city Buffalo where I live and everywhere else, but especially to people I know
my father
You know shout to you
You know appreciate you loving appreciate you all the sacrifice you made and

(01:37:53):
For us to live in prosper
No shout to you for all that
Being a protector all that stuff, you know things you showed me think you know think all that stuff, you know
shout to you Jay brother Jay, you know
shout to you man
Happy five day to you as well man shout to you, you know our friendship man our brotherhood

(01:38:18):
You know shout to raise in the great son, you know his son is a teacher
You know he's he's a true teacher. He loves what he does and cares about those kids so shout to raising a son
Shout to Al my brother Al
Who's a father three little girls who I had to had the

(01:38:42):
Privilege of being in their lives. I don't get to see him because I don't see him as much now with work and everything else
I don't see them nearly as much as I used to but
I was in all their lives since before they came out the womb and when they came out so shout to him
You know be a father like I said keep man keeps keep us

(01:39:02):
Shr
Getting better and you know be you know be a better man better father, you know you always get better every day
So shout to you
I'd be five day to you as well
shout to
my
Dale shout to him
His son and daughter his sons are gonna get married. I believe next month shout to him

(01:39:24):
Shout to a Ricardo I saw him my man Ricardo
I saw him the other day he pulled up with me for a second shout to you man, you know raising your two sons and your daughter
You know shout to you happy five day to you
shout to Frank
Yeah Frank shout to you, you know he just became a

(01:39:47):
Father again a few months ago. Go shout to him
You know being a father
So all his kids man shout to you that be five day to you man
And joy unite off tonight, too. Yeah, he's gonna be off tonight. I gotta go back to work tonight, but shout to you Frank

(01:40:08):
I
Don't forget nobody now. I want a buddy. That's me outside. Hey, man you in you know, you know
so
And lastly but that definitely not least shout to my brother
Oscar man, he's a truck driver. Who's a shout-out to all the truck drivers, too if you listen into this

(01:40:31):
This is actually my long zip so
so far, so
shout to my brother Oscar man shout to you man
Father, you know to your daughter, you know, sweetie. She can be your daughter. Layla, you know
She was over last weekend in my parents house. You know, sweetie. She can be shout to your wife around the same way
Shout to you, you know, yeah, your son

(01:40:56):
except son and your eldest daughter
shout, you know being a father to all your kids happy five day to you man and
and
Yeah, man
Appreciate what y'all do and and for those listening honor your mother and father every day obviously that goes without saying but
Today is Father's Day, you know and last month was Mother's Day

(01:41:21):
So you know, obviously they have a you know a day for them as well, but honor honor honor and appreciate them every day
They ain't gonna always be here. Trust me. You can miss him when they go. I'm still blessed to have my mother and father
Here alive and well
so
thank God for that
but yeah
Shout to y'all man happy five day to y'all. Hope you guys have a great day, you know and

(01:41:45):
Yeah
That is my time
This is Mr. sincere signing off and
Everyone have a great day and then let and again happy five this day to all you fathers all right have a bless for him
.

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