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This is your best kept secret to success. With me,
Prema Leaguerary, I'm a leading Veta astrologer and creator of
the Sacred Wealth Code. I'm here to guide you on
a revolutionary journey to unlock your soul's blueprint for purpose
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countless others to success on our own terms. Get ready,
let's access your personal success blueprint and manifest your rich life. Hello, Welcome,
it's Prema, and I'm so glad that you're here with
me today. Welcome back, and if you're new, I'm so
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glad that you're joining us for the first time. Today.
I really want to talk about something that I have
been bumping into with my clients, something that I've had
to navigate time and time and time again. And this
is all around making decisions. And how do you make
those decisions, those intuitive decisions for your business that you
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can really trust and that really won't burn you out.
So how do you move from alignment instead of the
outer pressure of what you should do and what everybody
else is doing? So I want you to think about
this for a minute, like, what if one of the
main reasons your business isn't flowing or isn't flowing at
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the level you'd like it to be or in the
direction you'd like it to be. Maybe it's not your strategy,
but maybe it's really your decision making energy. And this
applies to your work in the world too. So if
you don't have a business and something's emerging from you
or the way you're using your purpose within the context
of the work that you are doing, this all applies.
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So most conscious leaders are making decisions from pressure and
from not from alignment. And I know that when I
say conscious leaders that I'm talking about you know that
we're conscious. But the truth is there is so much
input coming in from the outside that it is not
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so easy to hold that place of alignment. And that's
something that we talk about a lot on this show,
something that's near and dear to my heart, and it
really is a practice. It's not something that we strike
the string of alignment and then we're just there forever
we want to move from this place of alignment, not urgency,
not you know, not from the again the pressure from
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the outside. And yes, that does include your intuition, staying
away from what you think you should do and really
moving towards what actually expands you, what enlivens you, what's
really aligned with your values and the future vision for yourself.
So we're going to shift that and the things that
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keep us stuck in the place of wasting a lot
of time because we aren't able to make a decision.
We learn how to make those choices, to make those
decisions that grow your business, that grow your work in
the world, and are in alignment with the energy of
who you are becoming. I know this is a big
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game changer for me. When I really started to embrace
this as not a one time thing to check off
the list. Okay, I made that decision and it was
from alignment. Okay, now I'm going to just go back
to making decisions from urgency. But when I started to
make it a practice, when I took the regular time
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to look at the decisions that it was time to
make each and every day or over a week or
over a month. So really weighing the vision of where
am I going with my work in the world, Where
am I going with my business, how do I want
it to grow, who do I want it to touch.
How do I want to feel while I am, you know,
doing my work in the world, and are the choices
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that I'm making in alignment with that or are they
going to take me away from that? There was many
pivotal moments in this, but there was a time where
I was following a particular strategy in my business and
it became more and more uncomfortable. It felt like more
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and more things I had to do, things that were
heavy lifting basically, and you know, there are times in
our business that we are going to have to put
the effort in one hundred percent. Absolutely, it's not all
easy breezy. But when you are putting the effort in
because there's an inspiration behind that, because you know it's aligned,
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because you know that there's value there, then you know
you find the energy for it. And when it's connected
to your purpose, purpose will always pull you forward. So
we're going to dive into this whole subject about making
aligned decisions that actually grow your business without burning you out.
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But first I want to remind you that we do
take live callers on the show, and the number there
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l U t IO n A r Y dot com.
And that's also with the show notes, we're going to
dive into a couple of the current Vedic astrology trends first,
we'll just take a few minutes for that, and then
we'll dive into our main topic. So the planetary energy
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right now that actually supports our clear decision making and
sort of that recalibration of our long term alignment. We've
got a few different things. The Sun, which is our
great leader and our great king in the sacred wealth
cut archetype system has moved into areas and that's actually
the beginning of the Vedic New Year, and that gives
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us this brilliant, clear, bright energy to stand forward with
our independence, with our authenticity, and to start something new.
We can always start something new, but this is a
great energy because of the energetic time that we currently
are in and having come through a lot of chaotic
energy and in the place of Pisces, which is very
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otherworldly and kind of hard to pin down that having
this energy of the sun very brilliant right now is
very helpful for our clarity and for our inner drive
to really move forward with what lights us up. Mercury
has also been direct for a while, but it's getting
more space from Rahu, the north note of the moon
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and mercuryes are communicator, but it's also the merchant, which
rules business. And one of the mantras for the merchant
is opportunities to prosper are everywhere, but we need to
know which opportunities are for us. And because it's getting
some space from the magician, from the north note of
the moon, it's Mercury and our clarity is a little
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less confused than it has been, although because it is
still in Pisces till May seventh of twenty twenty five,
we are still being called to lean more into our
intuitive decision making now. That is something that we want
to lean into anyway, but it's highlighted during this time.
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So that's one of the reasons I wanted to create
this podcast, which is timeless. You can listen to this
at any time for the main topic here, but this
is really sort of a new level of decision making
and being able to really touch in with our intuition
and being able to trust that and then put some
practical strategy around us that we are all sort of
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being called to exercise our muscles around And the main
transit we have right now is Saturn and Rahu in Pisces.
They are in a conjunction right now, and a pretty
tight conjunction at the time of this episode. And this
really is about where karmic pressure meets spiritual awakening. So
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this is the great organizer or administrator in the Sacred
Wealth code system. Everything has its rightful place, and Saturn
is all about the long run, not the short run,
and lining up with Rahu. The north note of the
Moon and Rahu is a very very interesting energy. It's
a wild card. It's desire driven. It's very unconventional and
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hungry for growth, but not all growth is created equal.
We want that inner growth that also leads to the
growth that we want. Sometimes that north note of the
Moon Rahu can encourage us to go sort of wide
and entertain a lot of things like spin, a lot
of different plates, and Saturn wants us to go more
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narrow and be in something for the long run. It's
the long distance runner. It's the marathon runner, and the
prize is at the end where Rahu is looking for
the shiny object and the prize in every moment, So
they're really contradictory energies in a lot of ways. This
can put a lot of inner pressure on us, but
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it also can bring out a really creative energy on
how we put things in their rightful place Saturn, how
we commit, and how we create discipline and structure for
the long run. And that's what this energy is very
good for. But I will fully admit it's not easy
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to strike that particular balance and the inner pressure that
you can feel to do it all or you're not
where you should be, you should be farther along and
you know you're not far enough along in the game,
can then make you sometimes make choices that aren't necessarily
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aligned with where you're really going. It's more to satisfy
some external pressure that you're feeling, or it's actually internal pressure,
but external comparison, maybe that or shiny object syndrome that
you're dealing with, to make it feel like you know
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something's happening right here and right now. So this is
sort of the teeter totter that we are on And
what I want to invite you to do is to
be very in touch with what is your vision for
yourself personally, for your work in the world, for your business,
and what is the purpose? What is your purpose in
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those things? And when we can weigh our decisions against Hey,
is this going to really lead me to where I'm going,
where I want to be going, who I am becoming?
And is this going to enliven me? Is this aligned
with my purpose? Then that gives us a place to
start to bounce our decisions off of and very importantly
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be able to help us to be able to see
through these times that might not be as clear because
it is still a little bit foggy. So this energy
is really pushing us in a way to redefine success,
but we want to do it not through those external
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matrix but through our internal alignment. In order to do
it from an internal alignment, we've got to bit familiar
with our internal alignment. And this is again something that
you're always going to hear on the show in my
Sacred Wealth Mastery program. It is one of the core
pillars along with our divine timing, our purpose, our high
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value gifts, and our alignment an alignment for you is personal.
It's personal. You have a soul blueprint, you have a
way that you are wired up, you have divine gifts
that you're called to use that you were born with
a PhD. And you have a unique timing of the
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unfoldment of where you're called to really step into your
gifts when how and your initiations and your sole challenge
is that at some level you've chosen to go through
so you could overcome and find out who you are
on the other side, develop yourself. And these aren't always
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easy places. And we've been talking a lot about this
in episode eleven, twelve, and thirteen, and sort of how
do you navigate these big shifts when we are going
through these times where everything is shifting and changing, and
our identity is and our voice and our message and
all of that is shifting and changing. So how do
you actually calibrate and what do you weigh who your
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choices against. Again, it needs to be from an internal
framework that does have a constant to it that it's
not always in flux. So let's dive in here and talk. Well, actually,
I want to mention one more thing about Rahu. We
always have this in our chart somewhere, and it just
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happens to be in Pisces. In Vedic astrology, it's going
to move into Aquarius at the end of May. Rahu's
influence can make us chase goals, obsess over plans, and
compare ourselves to others, and in Pisces sometimes this looks
like spiritual bypassing or clinging on to mystical ideas or
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philosophy without the true embodiment, like you're not living it.
Maybe you know what it is, but you're not living it.
So with Saturn being there, Saturn sort of asks, is
this alignment with your integrity? Is it with your sole purpose?
And again, that's why we want to weigh our choices
against something that is more of a constant. So during
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this time especially, you want to slow down so that
you can hear that voice of your inner knowing that's
always good advice, and you want to be able to
choose that inner authority. This transit that we're going through
highlights something that we always want to be developing, and
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that's our radical self trust. Can we really trust ourselves?
And where does that trust live within us? We'll do
a practice around that in our episode today, towards the
end about finding the trust within ourselves to make those
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intuitive choices, like what is the decision that's really in
alignment when we're getting that intuitive download, or when we
just feel confused, like which way do we actually turn?
What's a big yuess and what's a big no. Because
your soul is always reminding you that clarity doesn't mean
knowing everything. It means knowing what's aligned right now. And
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sometimes what's aligned right now may not be aligned for
the long run, but it moves us along our own evolution,
what we need to grow, how we need to develop ourselves,
or who we may even need to meet in order
to be in alignment with what we're choosing for the
long run. So we are living in very complex, energetic
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times and overall this is a time that's got a
lot of polarila in it. So the more you can
really know where there's a place that's true within you
and know how to trust the information that is coming
through more than what you're absorbing from the outside, and
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how to sort of sift and sort and discern all that,
the clearer choices that you'll be able to make. And look,
we all chose to be here at this particular very
poignant time, or else wouldn't be here, right, And you
have something inside you that unlocks something in the world
that only you can unlock. And your journey is part
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of unlocking that, your realization, your evolution of using your
gifts and even knowing what they are. So let's dive
in here and go in a little deeper on how
you actually can make those decisions that really grow what
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you're here to give and do. But don't burn you out,
because if you're using everybody's strategy, I guarantee you are
going to be burning out. I was actually just looking
at everything that I was doing recently and realizing and
this is really probably over the last three months, and
realizing that I am I was also going a little
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bit too wide, so to speak. So when I make content,
for instance, for social media or for YouTube that is
just based on the current transits, that's a flash in
the pan. That's something that doesn't last very long, and
it actually takes a good amount of energy for me
to create that. And I really realized that that was
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starting to burn me out. So look, we all know
in business, you know, create things that are long lasting, evergreen,
and that's what this podcast is all about. But at
the same time, there are things that are just emergent
in the moment in our business. So I've really narrowed
down some of what I am doing that is just
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going to be relevant for a very short period of
time and pouring more of my energetic currency into things
that are longer lasting. And that way, I'm not only
conserving my energy so that I have more to pour
into what really enlivens me, but it's like I'm taking
my energy from being more of a floodlight to more
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of a laser beam. It's more focused that way. And
in the times that we're living in and in the
business climate, there's just so much noise in the world
that the more you're able to stand in for who
you are and what you take a stand for, the
more that who you're here to serve can actually hear you,
see you, and tune in with you. And that's a
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service that you're doing, not just for yourself, but for
others to be able to be able to hear you receive.
So oftentimes we don't need more strategy. We need to
trust the energy behind are Yes, you know, we look,
you're you're very smart, You're very capable, and just notice
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if you are burned out, and if you are, my
first question to you is what is burning you out?
What is burning you out? Because that may need to
be put down like I put down doing as much,
you know, social media and things like that, and now
things are more repurposed. If you're choosing from outdated metrics,
you're probably in the energy of the fear of missing
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out and maybe in the energy of trying to create
past results. So again looking at the past and seeing
how it was done and then wanting just to create
that again. But when you're creating something new, you're going
to be creating new results. And that's kind of how
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a whole different paradigm. Also really watching out for desiring
and seeking and going after other people's approval or even
old versions of success, all of this is going to
burn you out. So I want to give you the
sacred space and the tools to start making decisions from
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your authentic frequency based on expansion and not based on exhaustion.
So how do you know if it's a big yes
or if it's a no. I will again lead you
through a practice at the end of our conversation here
or before were wrapped up today so that you can
actually make a decision about something. So when you are
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saying yes to something, you often are saying no to
something at the same time. And I think that's one
of the things that jams our circuits. Well, if I
say yes to this, I say yes to this opportunity,
if I say yes to this client, if I say
yes to this deal, well then and I have to
say no to some other things. There's nothing wrong with that.
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Whatever you say no to also opens up space. And
again we can't entertain it all. It's like we can
only spin so many plates, and if we're trying to
spin too many, we don't have enough energetic currency to
fuel what to fuel the forward momentum. Again, we're just
going to wide. We need to be able to take
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the inspired actions on those things that we're saying yes to.
But if you don't have the energy, if you don't
have the bandwidth physically, energetically, you won't take the inspired actions,
and therefore you'll just stay spinning in your head over
and over again. I've heard this said. I think I
heard Tony Robbins say this action leads to results, no
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results without action. Well, sometimes the action of holding a
very strong intention and making choices on yes or no
to things that are in alignment with you or not
very much can lead to results. But here's the thing
about action, action inspired action. From that yes that you're
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getting and you just taking the next step on that
starts to bring it down into embodiment and then you
get more information. So if you take a step, so
if you get a download that hey, there's a new
program that you want to create, there's a book that
you want to write. There's a new way of you know,
doing something. It's a new innovative way and you want
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to really step into that. Or maybe you want to
take a complete course change and dive more into art
than business consulting. Just depending on where you're at. Well,
if you're willing to take just the next inspired action
you get, you give the divine, You give your soul
an opportunity to kick your feet in the right direction.
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But if you stay in your head with it, you
it's like you don't go into the testing ground, and
we have to go into the testing ground with it.
But when we go from a place of truly inspired action,
like we tap into our soul and we ask for
what is this next step, and then we trust it
and we take it. We're going to get a lot
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of information back, and we are going to shortcut the
process of just taking a bunch of random actions, and
again we will you will walk away with an inspired
action today. You need to know what that big yes is, though,
and you need to be brave enough to say no
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and change course if necessary. I've changed course many a time,
and sometimes it's a micro change in the way I'm
doing things, like just what I was talking to you about.
Sometimes it's a really it's a big macro change, like
when I close down my yoga center and I just
completely shifted my business. So we have those micro changes
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and those macro changes course changes. Look, change is just
so unpredictable, and anything new you want a birth is
going to require change, and it's going to require you
to trust the unknown. Everything that you already know lives.
You know. That's more of the left brain. The left
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brain is always looking to create the next move from
something that you've got evidence it's going to work, whether
that was a business strategy that you've seen somebody do
or yourself do, whether that is you know, again doing
some template of how you've done it, in the past
or somebody else has done it in the past. That
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is a safety zone, but a lot of times it's
a false safety zone because if it's not aligned with you,
then it's not going to bring you the results you desire.
Whereas the things that are new and different that you
want that is in the unknown and that unknown place,
that place of you know, creativity is definitely not as
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secure because nobody has walked that path, and that's why
we want to be able to walk it, one yes
at a time, one inspired action at a time. So
sometimes our strategy isn't working because we've outgrown the identity
behind it, and we talked a lot about that in
episode eleven and twelve. When you evolve internally and your
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external systems just may not match up, and this is
again there's just a lot of breakdown that happens. You
may have outgrown how you make decisions, and that's why
it's essential to learn a new way to make decisions
in a way that you can actually trust. That's the
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key piece because if you're trusting the decision you're making,
there is no wrong decision. It may not lead exactly
to what you thought, but that's not a way how
the aligned intuitive decisions work. They'll lead you to what
you need to know next. And if you can trust that, Okay,
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from here, I can just I can tune in for
the next aligned decision and you know there is no
wrong decision. Then you can get forward momentum and you
can keep it moving and quite rapidly. Also, but you
can't make aligned decisions using again those old metrics, especially
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from performance perfectionism and from people pleasing. You will not
please everyone with your decisions. You will not please everyone.
There are plenty of people who are not pleased that
I won't be releasing as much free astrology content as
often as I was. But if they want more of that,
they can come into my Sacred Wealth Mastery program and
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they can because I really dive deep into all of that,
including how to we even have a business astrology call
every month? Then how do you your particular chart in alignment?
And when's the best time to launch, when's the best
time to lean back, when's the best time to create
something new? All the things. So you can't always please everyone,
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and that's a big one, and especially if you're an EmPATH,
and I have a lot of impaths in my community,
But can you please yourself first, because that's where your
energetic frequency is going to really be dialed up, and
that attracts you to the right circumstances and choices that alone.
So most conscious entrepreneurs get stuck here if their old
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way of choosing brought them some success, but that success
isn't really what feels right now. So the safety part
of you may choose an old way of doing something,
even if that's not aligned with where you're going, because
it brought you some success in the past. So if
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you're running a group program, if you were producing a
particular product in your company, and you know, maybe it
doesn't enliven you anymore, but it brought in the cash,
you may keep doing that now. There's nothing wrong with
creating security for yourself and financial security. So if that's
the case, then you're going to do the same, say
product or service. Then how can you bring yourself the
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new you more authentically to that. That would be one
way to work with that true alignment lives in our body,
not in our spreadsheet. And one of the most powerful
shifts you can make is to move from your mental
decision making until you're into your like your energetic resonance,
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and you know, sometimes we want clarity before we take
the leap, but it feels like you're supposed to leap
to get the clarity. So this juxtaposition keeps people stuck. Aligned.
Yes feels expansive, energizing, even call me, and usually pretty grounded,
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and a fear based yes tends to feel more urgent,
sometimes confusing and exhausting, because a fear based yes usually
is enrolling us into something we don't really want to do,
and that exhausts us before we even start. So what
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I want to invite you to do is I want
to invite you just to take a moment and recall
a choice that you made in your business, in your
work and your work in the world that really wore
you out, that has been exhausting for you. And I
can feel for some of you that you're in that
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choice now you're living that choice out. So just tune
into how that feels or how that felt, like, how
it felt, did it feels heavy, contracted? Did it feel
just sort of flat? Like? How did that feel? Just
tune into that for a moment, and then I want
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to invite you to tune into a remember a choice
that you made, and I'm also feeling that some of
you are going to go well, I didn't make I've
never made one of these choices. But I guarantee you have,
in one way or another, a choice that you made
that was really from your intuition. It was trust. You
just trusted it. It felt light, it felt easy, breezy.
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Even though you didn't have a guarantee. You weren't overpreshing yourself,
you weren't overthinking. It was like almost like, oh, the
natural next thing to do. Like when I wrote my book,
I'd been doing this work for a long time. I
had never planned on necessarily writing a book creating oracle
deck and journal, but it was just like, oh, okay,
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that's what I'm going to do next. I didn't put
a lot of pressure on it. I just went ahead
and started to create. And it's led me many many
wonderful places. So notice the difference between when you are
making a decision that is more expansive, light, easy, and
when you're making one that's more heavy. And notice that
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a lot of times it's easier to make a sort
of intuitive, aligned decision when it doesn't feel like there's
a lot of money at stake. Those because you give
yourself room to move and there's safety in that. But
then we want to be able to take those intuitive decisions,
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those aligned decisions that may have the potential and that
we're aware of too actually bringing in a lot of success, success,
a lot of revenue, and be able to have it
light and easy, to be able to say a yes
or no. It doesn't really matter as far as what
we perceive the external result is going to be. It's
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still that inner driver of does this feel light? Is
this something that feels like it is aligned with who
I'm becoming where I'm going, as opposed to who I've been.
So sometimes alignment can feel a little scary, not because
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it's unclear, but because it challenges your old self image
and choosing differently is the work even before the inspired action.
Is that that choice to be able to choose differently
and to be able to give yourself the grace and
the space to be able to do that, and decisions
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that are made are never wasted. Every time you make
a decision from alignment, even if it doesn't so work
the way you thought it was, it strengthens your trust muscle.
It strengthens that intuitive part of you that part of
you that's listening to alignment. You build yourself trust through
this follow through, not by knowing all the steps ahead
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of time. Again, that's the left brain mapping out, taking
a template of the past and laying it on the
future to create some false sense of safety. This is
about making the next right choice from who you're becoming
and not trying to predict or control. So some of
the archetypes and how they play into this, and then
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we're going to do a process together the strategist, where's
my strategist? So the strategist, one of the strategists gifts
this is Mars's card. Mars's org archetype is clarity wise
decision making and structured alignment. But Mars doesn't make decisions
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from process. It's a very polarity. It's like either a
yes or either a no. So it can be very
useful and so the block here can be over controlling
or stuck in your mind. And the shift here is
to trust your long term vision, not just the next
move to really as the strategist like where are you going?
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You want to trust the long term vision. We talked
about that the very beginning of this podcast, and then
weigh your choice is against that. So the mantra we
can use here with the strategist is I trust my
vision and the structure that I create, the pathway that
I create, and the strategists. And if you're not looking
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at the oracle card here, it's a chessboard. It's like
you cannot play the whole game of chess from You
can't just go in and make all the moves right.
You have to make a move and wait to see
what happens and then make another move. Then that's how
it is. We take one inspired action at a time.
The mystic is another archetype that I want to talk
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about for a moment that plays into this, like all
the archetypes do, but I always like to just highlight
a few because we all have the different archetypes in
our Sacred Welf code. And if you don't have your
Sacred Wealth code, you can get a Sacred Wealth Code reading.
You'll find the link with the show notes. You could
also take the free Sacred Wealth Code quiz and get
one of your archetypes, and that link is with the
show notes and it's on the homepage of Solutionary dot
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com as well. So the gift with the mystic is
that deep inner knowing that you know that spiritual timing
the mystic has a lot to do with letting go
and being willing to say the nose that make space
for the yes's. Sometimes the block here is doubting those
intuitive hits or waiting too long to act. And the
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shift is when you is move when the knowing comes,
even if it's not logical and you don't know exactly
where it's going, It's like, okay, make the move though,
let go of that thing, take the next step. And
the mantra here is I trust the unseen and act
on what I feel. And again that's what alignment is
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is really understanding your own inner language and the great nurture.
This is one of the Moon's archetypes, and this creates
emotional safety and nurtures clarity from within. When we feel safe,
we relax, we open up, and we can very much
tune into our alignment. It's much easier. In fact, your
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DNA as you contract your body, as you're stressed, as
you're uptight, your DNA that beautiful. If you've seen a picture,
it looks like a ladder with that's like a ribbon
has a slight twist in it. That twist becomes tighter
as you relax, as you open up you feel more safe,
that twist is much looser. DNA are basically receptor sites,
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and that's where more information can come and go. So
creating that feeling of safety is incredibly important, especially for
all of us, and especially for us impaths. The black
here can be over responsibility or people pleasing that cloud
self trust because if you're feeling overresponsible, if you're trying
to please somebody else, then you aren't going to be
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putting your alignment first. And the shift here is to
let your decision serve you first, and that's what makes
it sustainable you before it serves anyone else. Look, if
you do what's good for you, truly good for you,
like the right kind of selfish, that's good for you,
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that your soul is calling you too, that's aligned with
who you truly are, that makes you light up, and
then that's good for everyone, even if they don't know it.
It's good for them because you being who you've come
here to be authentically who you are is the best
thing you could ever be, and the people who aren't
aligned with that will fall away. So you want to again,
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let your decisions serve you first, and then the mantra
here is I nurture my clarity with space, softness, and
self trust. When you're feeling confused, often your circuits are
jammed and you haven't given yourself enough space. So sometimes
it's just stepping away, getting into nature, quiet time, the
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turn off the noise. Don't listen to any other information,
just tune into you. Know, you might have gotten lost
in everybody else's energy and you need to come back
home to yourself. So let's do a decision clarity process
and then we'll do an oracle card reading before we
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wrap up today. So if you have the space to
be able to close your eyes you're not driving, I
encourage you to do that. If you need to keep
your eyes open, that's fine, and you can always come
back to this and do this process at any time.
So close your eyes and place your hand on your
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heart and just start to take some deep, full breaths.
Breathe down into your belly, let your shoulders drop away
from your ears, Just come down into the essence of
who you are as you breathe, just feel the rise
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and fall of your breath. Have compassion, for your humanity.
You are a spiritual being and you are living in
this physical world which requires a lot, and have some
compassion for yourself, for your humanity. We're going to drop
your mind into your heart. We bring the mind and
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heart together, we come into coherence. Just doing this creates
a shift, just that there's just that mind drop into
the heart, but we'll take it a lot further than that.
So I want to encourage you to take your busy mind,
brilliant but busy, and you're going to drop it straight
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down like there's a waterfall moving just gently and beautifully
from your head to your heart. And you're just gonna
let that mind ride all the way down that waterfall,
down through your nasal cavity, down through the top of
your throat, the base of your throat, the top of
your chest, right down into the very center of your chest,
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and take a deep, full breath and just let your
awareness expand, open up. And I want to invite you
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to bring into your awareness a decision you've been holding,
a choice you've been holding, you haven't quite been able
to make, and it's maybe about your offer, maybe about
your niche, your visibility, or just your next step, and
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if you're someone who doesn't have a decision like that
sort of rolling around already, you didn't come with anything,
use this prompt and what is it that my heart
is wanting to me to make a choice or a
decision about, And just let that float up your heart
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knows the way. That's your wisdom, that's your sole wisdom.
And tune in to if I really allowed myself to
step into this decision, to step into this choice, what
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could that make possible for me? What could that make
possible for me? What would open up? What might change?
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And I just want to drop this in too, And
am I afraid of what will happen if I choose
what I really want? If you get a yes to that,
then we'll drop this in. What am I afraid of?
What am I afraid will happen if I really do
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make that choice for what I want? And we will
take a moment just to release that, just on the
next three breaths, Just release that, release that fear, release
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that projection of what you think might happen.
Speaker 2 (43:36):
And what would you choose if you really trusted yourself fully?
What would you choose if you really trusted yourself fully?
I really trusted yourself and take a deep breath with that.
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Notice where trust lives in your body. Notice that there's
more of a sense of maybe relaxation or safety or openness.
Notice how that feels in your body. Trust, and then
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tuning into what's one inspired action I can take from
this knowing, like really just trusting myself. What's one inspired
action I can take from this place, from this knowing,
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and whatever that inspired action is, really make sure it's
an inspired action, like you could. This is where we
bring it from the soul down to the soles of
our feet. We actually like, this is something we can
schedule and we're going to do, whether it was to
take a walk, make a phone call, whether it was
to sit down and start writing about something, whether it
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was to launch something like in.
Speaker 1 (45:13):
The first step of that whatever it might be. You
don't need to force any clarity. You just need to
create the space for it to arrive. Just the space
for that clarity to arrive. So you can do this
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process as many times as you need to. And what
I like is daily doing it. And it's something that
I also teach in Sacred Wealth Mastery, that we tune
in regularly and we take inspired actions regularly based on
what's coming through that way, when the big decisions come,
they are not so monumental. It doesn't feel like there's
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so much at stake because again, like the marathon run,
you've already been training, You've made many you know, you've
moved forward with many inspired actions that are maybe don't
feel as weighty. So then it just becomes natural. You're
conditioned for it. If you've got a big decision to make,
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I guarantee, I'm just hearing to remind you that you've
probably already made the choice, you just haven't fully come
to peace with it. So give yourself some space, give
yourself some time. That's where you're going to have to
work through the fear on it. Again. Something else we do,
and it's one of the phases in Sacred Wealth Mastery,
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is really clearing all those beliefs, very very very important.
I do that in my Sacred Wealth Code, my Sacred
Wealth Full Moon Healing Circles. There's a membership. It's twenty
seven dollars a month for that. You can find the
link with the show, and we do that through all
kinds of practices as well. So we're going to pull
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an oracle card that really to anchor in what's come
up today on our theme here and talk about just
get some guidance here from the Oracle Deck. If you're
not familiar with the Sacred Wealth Code Oracle Deck, then
you can also the link to it is down in
the show notes as well. You can find out on
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Amazon your Sacred Wealth Code book, Oracle Card and journal,
and you also on my website solutionary dot com. Soul. Oh,
that's interesting. So the card that comes up here is
the Magician, and the Magician we talked about a little
bit earlier. This is the card that represents Rahu the
north note of the moon, and I love the picture
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on this anyway, this is I'm a master manifestor. So
what's coming through with this card is for you to
remember you are a master manifestor and that's the process
of evolution. That's taking energy and that's creating something from energy.
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So being very clear that clarity, that decision that you
make brings in the clarity when you bring in the
clarity you make a choice. When you're making the choice,
then we want to bring them. We start to gather
energy up for that. You can bring your practices in
of you know, how you're going to feel when you
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make this particular choice. And that's always good to really recognize,
because you don't want to be in fear, you know,
you don't want to be contracted in any way we
like we talked about. But it's going to be specific
to you. Whether this is something that's going to you know,
enliven you, whether it's going to make you feel peaceful
or more free or whatever it is. But tune into
that feeling quality and spend time, you know, you know,
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writing it out or seeing it through in your visioning
so that you allow it to start to take form
from an energetic place. Then stepping into it will be
a lot easier and then just one inspired action out
of time. But also with the magician, we have to
watch out for shiny objects because you may know this
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decision and you may have made the choice around it
and it will really grow your business. And likely you
have a choice like that, maybe you actually have made
at some internal level, but you've gotten caught up in
external things and haven't allowed yourself to move forward with it.
So the reminder here is one inspired action at a time.
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Make the choice, make it internally, and then to make
it externally allow it to evolve one inspired action time.
You've got to reel back from having to know how
it's all going to play out. That's just going to
keep you stuck and keep you confused. And what you
have to give is incredibly important. The next thing that
you're evolving into incredibly important. So trust yoursel self to
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choose from expansion and not from fear. I want to
thank you for being here. I want to remind you
that if you have any questions or topics for me,
please email me at Askprema at solutionary dot com. If
you are wondering how you can come in for some
deeper guidance with me, I encourage you to send me
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an email. You can just say sacred Wealth, mastery or
just say the word invite, and I will send you
the details on how you can come in and start
to work at a deep level based on your soul
blueprint for your divine timing, your divine gifts, your purpose,
your next level of success, having that all line up
in your unique way. Because we are not cookie cutter,
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we all have a very unique pathway. Thank you for
being here. I look forward to seeing you in our
next episode and so much love to you. I very
much appreciate you tuning into my show, Your Best Kept
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