The REAL Reason Will Compton Went Bald!!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Papa Team six. We're back another episode of four the Dads.
You're probably looking at my head right now, wondering what's
going on. I'm sure we do have a lot of
people who tune in, maybe listen, maybe watch the podcast.
I know a lot of pet Sikos are sitting there
with their wife right now. Their wife probably has no
clue what they're looking at. Their old man, the dad.
He might be chuckling to himself because he knows what's

(00:22):
going down. Yeah, I lost the bet. I lost the
bet Michigan versus Nebraska. Yeah, with my boy Taylwan. He's
also my co host. So I'm busting with the boys.
I lost the bet.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
You did.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
I lost the bet. So that's why you're seeing in
the shining bald head right now. Your boy had to
go bald. I had to just shave the face. I
had to shave the top. This is my first time
ever doing this.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Very cold.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
It's a it's a different feel, it's a different vibe.
Let me know if you like in the comments. I
need some words of affirmation right.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
Now, and please like it in the comments, because he
does look good. Thank you, that does look.

Speaker 1 (00:55):
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That one. They got podcasts. They we'll play they got
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Speaker 1 (01:53):
Yeah man, this this this show is is for fatherhood,
for embracing fatherhood. The suck, the love, everything in between,
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You're gonna hear about our wins, losses, as dads, as husbands.
Am I missing anything? Sure?

Speaker 3 (02:08):
Will?

Speaker 1 (02:09):
Are any new viewers that might be tuning in?

Speaker 2 (02:11):
Yeah? New viewers? First off, welcome. Secondly, maybe hey, maybe
you got a bad haircut over the weekend. Maybe you
lost a bed over the weekend. What is a great
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Speaker 3 (02:51):
How are we doing?

Speaker 2 (02:54):
Look a gay.

Speaker 4 (02:57):
Love this hat for all the out there that aren't
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Speaker 3 (03:04):
This hat right here with the teddy Bear.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
Let me see if I can get it without it
focusing in is an absolute sick hat. I wore it
out both nights this weekend. Got a lot of compliments
you did. It's a real runaway hit it is. He
looked good at Jill's party. He wore that hat to
Jill's party and looked sick.

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We got how many shirts we'll have?

Speaker 5 (03:47):
Rumors are scrolling on the other side. I believe three shirts.
I believe this hat. I believe the Sherman hat and
a visor of the bear some hoodie. I believe a hat.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
I believe.

Speaker 5 (03:58):
I mean g showed me an image of It's an
overwhelmingly positive amount of here coming.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Oh, let's go.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
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to do we need to talk about? Do I need
to address anything about that anymore?

Speaker 3 (04:24):
To me?

Speaker 1 (04:24):
This is this is what fatherhood looks like. You ain't
a true.

Speaker 2 (04:28):
Dad unless you get a shaved dad. Hey, here's the deal.
You look tough. I think if there's one thing that
could be said where it's not like, oh, Sherman's just
being nice to will of like, oh you look good
with it shaved well, which I do think you look good.
You look tough.

Speaker 1 (04:43):
This is the a gap. Come.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
You look like you're in the league again, Like I
kind of I'm seeing it again.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
I had an athletic director shoot me a message saying,
that's who told me I look twenty one. I was
trying to figure out if somebody text me and told
me I looked twenty one at AD. I'm not gonna
say which school it was. I'm sure you guys can
figure it out. You look twenty one. You got some
more eligibility.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
You do, what do you mind for the viewers throwing
on the Teddy Bear hat kind of high up on
the head. You look like a first round draft pick
when you wear the just like you look like the
guy that I probably shouldn't drive here, but I'm not

(05:29):
going to regret it when I do.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
Get the grill going. Got the chains on. The first
thing I did. I got up, I got out of bed.
When I knew I lost the bed, I'm like, yeah,
I got to embraced this ship. Yeah, and I'm kind
of excited to get my head shaped in my face shaved.

Speaker 2 (05:42):
I look right.

Speaker 1 (05:43):
I looked in my closet, Yeah, and it was no,
without question, the black True Classic shirt hats. And then
I was like, it was time to bring these chains
back out of retirement. They've been sitting, They've been sitting
in my bathroom for quite some time.

Speaker 2 (05:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:56):
I got the same Christopher necklace with a ceruleum bell
etched etch behind it for safety as I travel. Ooh,
Charles has been asking me like, when you're gonna put
the neckls back on? My God, I just feel like
I'm not as much of a necklace guy anymore. But
now now with this bald head, you look at a
black tea look and the chains are back.

Speaker 4 (06:16):
It's fitting that we're talking about family while he looks
like Ben Diesel.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
Great calls.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
I lived my life one quarter mile at a time.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
Great quote, hashchak.

Speaker 1 (06:28):
Family doesn't matter if you went by an entire mile
winnings winning.

Speaker 2 (06:34):
Will I almost had you.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Have me.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
You didn't have me.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
You didn't even have your own car. Come on, go
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Speaker 2 (06:49):
Uh, there was one last thing I was gonna say.
You wanted to talk briefly about Solidarity Solidarity. You wanted
to talk about how speaking of family that we are
a family on this show. Yeah, was there anything that
you wanted to bring up with that with Solidarity heads
or how are you feeling.

Speaker 1 (07:09):
There is a co host with me on this show
that they put in a bed of Nebraska minus twelve
and a half, thirteen and a half over the weekend.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
Thirteen and a half but one hundred.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
I did have some guys riding with me on the
game over the weekend, the Busting Bull, A couple of
gentlemen sitting behind the cameras right now, Derek and Chef.
So there's a part of me. It's like, am I
the only one going to take the bullets here on
shaving my head? Or should my for the dad's family?
Should my PT six ers? Should the captain? The seaman

(07:40):
Team six? The funcal club? What're you laughing about? You too?
You too, Buco.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
I'm laughing because I'm laughing because I'm excited.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
I truly me is wondering if you guys should be
doing this in solidarity with your boy, if we're going
to be a family, if we're going to be like this,
then I think it's only right. Did you guys do
it with me comments? Let me know what you think.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
I have to be completely honest. This is my take
on it. Overwhelmingly excited. If the whole PT six s
crew is down to schaef heads, I mean chef chefs.

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Chef's there, he's he was like that when he first
showed up as an intern. He had that thing buzzed down.

Speaker 4 (08:24):
Yeah, yeah, been buzzed for well, actually that was the
first time. Can I'm willing to do it? I don't care.
Can I go half guard up top here and then
a fade on the side.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
Yeah? Do we have to go full razors?

Speaker 4 (08:38):
Because it would really help with the girlfriend, convincing her
because I told her I was going to grow it
out till the summer.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
Yeah, I don't see why not. I don't see how.
I mean, it would obviously mean the world to me
if you did what I did. But if you guys
are standing in some type of solidarity with me, I
would love that. What about you, Derek? You you're kind
of new here. You know, you got a nice little
head up top.

Speaker 5 (08:58):
I had already told that after October thirteenth, I'll do
whatever you want to my head. That is our engagement
photo day where we are sending out wedding. I think
that's I think that's safe.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
That's safe. That's safe. Here's what I say.

Speaker 5 (09:13):
October fourteenth, we are going to the Jonas Brothers. I
will gladly walk into the Jonas Brothers with that haircut.
As long as I'm not losing my wonderful fiance, I
have no issue.

Speaker 1 (09:24):
Right bro. So when I lost this bet because Charle
was talking to me last week and she was like,
are you actually gonna cut your hair? And I was like,
I mean, sweetheart, if we lose, I have to. But
I'm telling you right now, we're not gonna lose this
football game, Taylor's gonna be the one buzzing in his head.
We're not losing. This hair is staying. I know you
love the hair. Gets what the hair is staying. Because
she's like, we got family photos in early October. Oh no,

(09:48):
and I'm sweetheart, don't even worry about we ain't losing.
We lost. She wanted me to back out of the bet.
She wanted me to like, not do it. I'm like, sweetheart,
I can't. I gotta be a man of my word here.
I gotta I gotta pay my debts. She really was like,
we got the family photos, the family. I'm like, you know,
it's one set of family photos, family photos by the way,
which you know I didn't like set them up, but
I put it out there like, hey, we should get

(10:09):
some family show on that text. And we got some
family photos dialed in, which I'm excited about. But it's like,
this is the one group of family, this is one
this is one sitting of family photos. And it's able
to look back at this family photo like, Daddy, why
is your head shaved here? Daddy lost the bet.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
And your daddy's kind of a fun guy. Isn't a
man of his words.

Speaker 1 (10:33):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but yeah true.

Speaker 2 (10:35):
Hello Taylor. Oh perfect timing, too perfect, But we're.

Speaker 1 (10:43):
I believe that. I believe that was the nineteen ninety
seven Champions or the Michigan Wolverines.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
Yeah, that was. Also, you are on camera right here
in Taylor. Oh you have a producer camera. People see
my hair, Taylor for the first time ever. Round of applause, Tailor.

Speaker 6 (11:02):
Oh yeah, I just came in here to took an
afternoon too, and realize that you guys are shooting. Big
fan of the show, big fan of both of you guys.
I think you guys are bringing a unique perspective onto
the dads everywhere. A lot of people want to be like,
this is what I do as a fault because I'm
the best dad ever. No one's the best dat ever.
Got to just flip a coin and hope the god
it works out for your kid.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
Luckily, everyone in.

Speaker 6 (11:23):
Here, for the most parts worked out. And uh, I
love that you guys use this as therapy session because
we all need it.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
So I tuned in.

Speaker 2 (11:32):
Thank you, thank you. So you have seen the multiple
breakdowns on the multiple episodes, tears pretty much every.

Speaker 6 (11:40):
Ye yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong
with tears. I think you need to normalize dudes weeping
on camera.

Speaker 1 (11:49):
Normalize it. Oh, we are doing it.

Speaker 2 (11:51):
We are doing it it today, not yet. Go ahead,
started up there, but.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
You didn't come in in a minute, so who knows.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
You came in perfect timing because we were talking about
maybe the whole crew goes in solidarity with Will on
the headship.

Speaker 6 (12:07):
Did you take Michigan or Nebraska?

Speaker 2 (12:09):
I took Nebraska. He took Nebraska minus thirteen and a
half Nebraska. Yeah, you guys should.

Speaker 6 (12:15):
Honestly, if the guys that work at Busting with the
Boys are who they claim to be, everyone who is
with Nebraska should do this in solidarity.

Speaker 1 (12:24):
I don't disagree. I think I'm just cleaned it.

Speaker 2 (12:27):
I think that's great.

Speaker 6 (12:29):
Really turns to do a bunch of skitheads and me
and Coop is what it would be?

Speaker 2 (12:34):
Coop and Furda. What's in Ferida?

Speaker 7 (12:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (12:38):
Shape his head too though. Okay, Actually, now that I
think about Freida did go with Nebraska.

Speaker 6 (12:42):
I think he you know, I think he said to
my face and then probably went up to Will and
be like I got that someone.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
Don't worry. Don't know because he was like he was
gonna go Michigan. But then he was like, we're on
the same like we GM the fantasy team together.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
I got Nebraska.

Speaker 1 (12:55):
He's like, I gotta go with my boy, like I
gotta go with my GM. So yeah, we would be
everybody except you and Coop.

Speaker 2 (13:01):
Yeah, honestly, and we we be the trend setters, well
trend setter, but we joined in.

Speaker 6 (13:09):
Right, have a full cool segment before the dad It's
cool Kids Club, all three k's.

Speaker 2 (13:16):
You can't do.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
That bad idea in a brain, No bad ideas, right,
no bad idea?

Speaker 2 (13:21):
Yeah, man, around the wrong show right now? You're no,
I can't joke around. Well we joke.

Speaker 3 (13:27):
We joke.

Speaker 2 (13:27):
Guys can't joke around. We joke.

Speaker 6 (13:30):
Okay, I'll tell you this. It's much more fun being
a guest on the show. Whatever I want, Yeah, you
can gotta say whatever I want. That was it, though,
All right, guys, I'm gonna go, uh finish business.

Speaker 1 (13:44):
Do your think you get that afternoon too?

Speaker 6 (13:46):
And once again love the show and actually I mean it,
I mean it, thank you. And then before I go,
would you say The nineteen eighty seven National champions were
the Michigan Wolverines, my boy.

Speaker 2 (14:01):
Round of applause. Taylorwan taylorwan.

Speaker 3 (14:06):
See.

Speaker 1 (14:06):
We can get that, we can get the clippers out,
I guess, Derek, we can wait until your engagement photos
are done. That's fair, chef.

Speaker 2 (14:14):
Yeah, yeah, I'll do it. I'll do it too.

Speaker 3 (14:18):
I mean I just buzz oh yeah, a month ago.
So I don't. It's not like I gotta be.

Speaker 2 (14:23):
Oh yeah, you look good. You look good with the
buzzed head than I. I'm in need of a haircut.
I think that going in solidarity wise with you, it
would feel good. I think if the whole career had it,
we kind of looked tough. We looked tough.

Speaker 1 (14:42):
Come on, should we dive into some some engagement shout
out some fans. Yes, dude, I had a really cool
conversation and I am so sorry that I'm not I'm
forgetting his name with this couple I was talking to
when we were doing that CBS show on Saturday morning
overdone the Haymarket area. Oh yeah, he pulls me aside

(15:03):
over by the fence and he's just he's just he's
honestly just talking to me about for the dads and
how much he loves it and his wife was sitting
there and being like, yeah, we tune in every week,
and he's just he doesn't even want to talk Husker football.
He just wants to talk about how much he loved
for the Dads and Papa Team six. And he was
getting to a point I said, buddy, look, it's gonna
be like we're reading these comments or reading these stories,

(15:24):
like you're starting to get water in my eyes by
how much you could tell he was wanting just to
let me know how much he loved the show and
how much it's like influenced them and stuff like that.
But it was, uh yeah, because he was talking about
how he had lost his job and within a couple
of weeks he like he like got a job and
then they were due like two weeks later or something

(15:46):
like that, so he only had like two weeks of
paternity leaving. How hard it was like on them and
everything else because Dad, you know, Dad's like going and
doing this job and kind of sacrificing the you know,
just the stuff that they had to go through, like
while he was doing the whole work thing just to like,
you know, have a career, like have a job for
himself and provide and everything like that, like, hey, he
gets a job and then two weeks later is like, hey,
you know, do I get some some paternity to leave

(16:08):
to where he's not at the job. He felt like
he had to go to said job. That's so hard
and he's giving me a full breakdown, but it was.
It was awesome. We had a few other conversations. BET
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(17:14):
checking in. Happy father of two beautiful children two and
a half year old daughter and month old baby boy.
Love the pod, look forward to it every week, shouting
out the whole pod. I'm a teacher in a high
school across coach of ten years. Do you want do
we want merch? You can shoot us some merch. We
would love that. Kids are my life. My students and
my players are my kids basically, so obviously being a
dad is the best thing in the whole world. I

(17:35):
love my children and I love the girl dad culture.
But been taking some hard times with my daughter as
we're transitioning to having another child in house. The tantrums,
the fight back, the regressions have really put me in
a feeling of being a bad dad while also keeping
my emotions in check and showing love to my newborn son.
The question is, Will, how did you how did you?

(17:56):
How did you doing that how did you doing that
when you had How did you do that when you
had scott Dilla? How is ru? I think that's how
you spelled it, my math, teach your brain. What were
some of the things that seem to work or didn't work. Finally,
while I've been going through this, the pod has helped
reminding me that this too will pass and then everything
will be better. Thank you, Andrew appreciate the question, my friend.

(18:17):
I would say, we worked for us, and I've I've
kind of given a couple of these dad hacks in
the past episodes. But one thing that we did coming
out of the hospital is introducing Rue to Scottie while
Scotty wasn't in Mom's arms, because you know, I was
seeing honestly, I was just seeing this stuff on Instagram

(18:37):
that when your kid is like walking in to check
on mom and they see the newborn in mom's hands,
it's like you the first one you are. You are
their world, they are your world, and they see you
holding a different world and you're introducing them. So one
thing we did do was have somebody else holding Scottie
when Rue came in to check on mom and see
Mom and everything else. Obviously, that's already, that's that's pastor you,

(19:00):
but a couple good pieces of it, your dad hacks tips,
whatever you want to call them. Is we would get Rue.
We got Rue a gift from Scotty and it was
like Rue at the time loved Frozen, still loves Frozen,
but loved Frozen love on and Elsa. So we gifted
her like this like elsa necklace or this like little

(19:21):
jewelry set or whatever from Scotty to Rue when we
brought Scotty home, like Scotty, has you a gift waiting
at home? Another dad hack, I would tell you is
something that we tried intentionally and consciously doing because it's
very hard when you got two kiddos and your older one,
your first one. They want a player. They want to
do stuff that do this, or put me down first,

(19:41):
or Dad, I want you to hold me. I don't
want you to hold Scotty. Is instead of telling Rue Rue,
I'm holding Scotty right now, I can't do it, or Rue,
I can't do this because I'm doing X, Y and
Z with Scottie. I still do that from time to time,
but I got to catch myself saying it, and I
just instead I'll tell Rue, okay, it can do that,
and then I will look at Scotty and say, Scotty,

(20:02):
whenever I'm done holding you, I got to pick up
your sister, Rue, because the little one, they have no
clue what's going on. Yeah, but almost you know, if
you're older one, your first one is telling you something
and say you can do but you just can't at
the moment, or you will later, but you can at
the moment instead of like telling them I can't do X,
Y and Z because my responsibility is with your younger
sister right now. You need to understand that my hands

(20:22):
are full and Dad's trying, but I got to tend
to your younger sister right now. It would be more
so I tell her, yes, I nod my head, we'll
be able to do this. Hang on, let me just
tell Scotty something really quick. So then I'll tell Scotty
whatever I got to do with her and say, but
when I'm done, I have to play with your sister.
So that way Ru is hearing me say that, then
it allows me to then look at Rue say do

(20:43):
you hear what I told Scotty? I just said, you know,
let me let me change your diaper. Let me get
you into your outfit. But the moment I'm done, I'm
gonna play. I'm gonna play with Rue and then I'll
look at real. But I just give that these couple
of minutes, I'll knock it out quick and then we'll
start playing. So those are like a couple of little
hacks and a couple of little tips. That's the only
experience I have. Ruth does get jealous and stuff at
times with Scottie, but she Ru's honestly, she's been a

(21:05):
pretty good big sister for the most part, and I
do feel a lot of it has to do with
like making them feel included in the conversation of whatever
you're doing responsibility wise. With the younger one, he's just
more so look at them, say everything you're going to
do to them, while the while the older one hears
you that way, they feel part of this solution of
the problem solving that's taking place. So that's what i'd say.

Speaker 2 (21:27):
Those have been two of my favorite dad hacks that
you've actually shared on this show. And it was Stephen
Shade that gave you the Stephen Jay, Yeah, shout out
Stephen Chay. He gave me the gift idea when you
were bringing the newborn home, tell the older one.

Speaker 1 (21:43):
Genius, Yeah, hey, Scotty, got you a gift. When we
get home.

Speaker 2 (21:46):
She's so excited to be your sister.

Speaker 1 (21:48):
Yeah, she's so excited to be your sister, and just
kind of sets it up for success. Oh. But it's
like it's just like little things like that, because it
does happen. It does get hard. You're juggling a lot
of things when you have multiple kids, and you get
caught up, you know, being a little too impatient or
maybe you're a little run down from the day and
you know, wearing all the different hats being a husband,
being you know, employee, being dad, being dad to one,

(22:12):
being dad to two, and you kind of like, you know,
you get a little frazzled. But that's like a it's
like a It's like one thing I will allude to
in my brain is okay, if I check the way
I'm talking or rue doesn't feel important right now. I
try to think of what I've just been doing, and
I gotta switch it around. I need to talk to Scotty,
say hey, Scotty, whenever I get downe putting you in
your credit or give you your bottle. I have to go

(22:33):
play with I have to go play with Rue. It's
Rue's time. And you know you're sitting there talking a
little one there. They have no clue what's being said,
but Ru's fired up because you know you're talking about
her and letting them know at the same time how
important they are in front of a little sister.

Speaker 2 (22:47):
I love that. I next one that I have is
off of TikTok, which we haven't done. A ton of
comments off TikTok. I saw Derek pulled a bunch of
TikTok comments, which gets me stoked. This is where I'm
twenty stew underscore, he says. Fellas dad to dad to
a rambunctious eleven month old boy who is hates sitting

(23:11):
still even when getting his diaper change. Full of shit good. Also,
longtime PT sixer, my son has recently been deployed to
every nook and cranny in our house since he is
crawling now. Anyways, have the best dad moment the other
day as I walked in the door, he crawled to

(23:31):
me with the biggest smile. Also, he caught him bobbing
his head to Rocky Top, which made me a static gbo,
come on, shit h thoroughly enjoy all the pods fellas
great advice for future dads, new dads or all dads
love that which I also have a similar story a gbobo.

(23:55):
I have a similar story with Scarlet. That's one of
my krack of cole ones not crawling but smiling.

Speaker 1 (24:01):
All right, thank you for the comment on TikTok Yes,
thank love that TikTok comments.

Speaker 2 (24:06):
Let's go twenty six alos on TikTok Uh.

Speaker 1 (24:10):
Brandon Brandon zero nine fifty ripped a fart in my
son's room. After asking did you hear that frog? He laughed.
My three year old thinks farts are funny. Good love
the love the podfellows, keep killing it. Then some more
PT six some some engagement here. Nick beck With responds
to him. My dad used to call him California Barking
Spiders legend. Love seeing the community, love the community talking

(24:34):
back and forth with each other, just all dad's trying
to help each other out.

Speaker 2 (24:38):
My dad was a big barking spider guy. He loved
that joke, and I never fully got the joke because
I was like, I don't know if spider's bark, Like,
what's my dad talking about chef shake his head to
you like I don't I don't.

Speaker 1 (24:50):
Know you know.

Speaker 2 (24:53):
This one comes from Brett Dureau Underscore also on TikTok.
How's it going, guys? My my name is Sergeant Brett
Dureau and I am currently deployed to the Middle East.
Thank you for your service, Brett. However, my wife is
back home and is due in October with our first baby,
a baby girl. I'm super excited and nervous about this,

(25:14):
so I was just wondering what tips you have for
a girl dad who hasn't been there through all the
appointments due to military service. Also, I plan on surprising
her by coming back before our baby is born. What
should I do for my wife to help make up
for the lost time. You guys are a huge inspiration

(25:35):
to me about to become a girl dad, and I
can't wait to make my own memories with my daughter.
Any tips you could give me would help out a lot.
Thank you guys for being awesome motherfuckers and awesome girl dads.
Hopefully me being from Iowa doesn't rub you the wrong way,
will Winkie face? Anyways, Love you boys, God bless That

(25:55):
comes from Brett Dureau, Brett Dureau.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
Thank you, bro thank you for tapping in, Thank you
for leaving a comment. Saran, what do you got, broh advice?
I know you got a couple of things advice wise.

Speaker 2 (26:08):
As far as like making up that time, I feel
like it's so different, uh in Brett's case because he's
literally serving our country. But I know what he means about,
like the a the guilt from absence.

Speaker 1 (26:23):
Yeah, and although I did not experience that with my wife,
I felt like the communication, even if I wasn't able
to make a baby appointment, the communication before the appointment
and after the appointment meant the world to her of
even the most minutes stuff.

Speaker 2 (26:41):
Her head has grown eight millimeters. Sureman, Oh my gosh,
that's that's incredible, because we were worried about the size
of her head, Jill, you know, but like being plugged
into those conversations. But I think the best gift that
he's gonna give them is like him coming home and
surprising them, like those you want to talk about crying
on camera. Yeah, yeah, I'll pull those up on YouTube.

(27:05):
Just a soldier coming home, a mom or a dad
and oh dude, I'm dead me at the time.

Speaker 1 (27:12):
Yeah, I'm with you. It always comes back to the
communication and just the presence, and then if you can't
have the presence, just them knowing that you care to
ask about what's going on, because you got to think
too as a mom going into these appointments and let's
just say it's alone. Like there are things that they're
nervous about, there's things that they're learning, and whenever they

(27:33):
come out of it and talk to you, they want
to know that you're there and you see them and
that you you are in it with them, even though
you might not actually be with them. So whether it's
fears or insecurities or learning something new, it's that same
excitement to where you're curious about it and what you got,

(27:53):
what you got in that.

Speaker 2 (27:54):
Way, I was worried about the bottom of my water,
but I think it is just some liquid IV.

Speaker 1 (27:59):
Yeah, nice nice blood, Thank you, thank you. But yeah,
just knowing that you that you're that you're in it
with them as much as you can possibly be, because
she gets it and I'm sure she asks you how's
everything going? Uh there, whether you can share with her
or not, but it's just flipping the table and asking her, Hey,
how's your day? How are you feeling going into it?
Are you feeling excited? They want to know that you're

(28:20):
excited all of those different things. That's what it it.
That's what it always comes down to. Because for me,
if like my wife checks me a lot of times,
it's like, I just want to know that you're excited
or that you're feeling some of the same same things
I'm feeling, versus like staying you know, reserved or unemotional.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (28:40):
I know exactly what you mean.

Speaker 3 (28:41):
And uh.

Speaker 2 (28:43):
The other question that he had asked was like, what
advice do you have as a couple of girl dads
for me? I think the only thing that I would say, uh,
instead of some advice is just like to get Brett excited?
Is I feel like dad's the opportunity is so great
rate with being a girl dad, like the opportunity to
be a good father to your daughter. But that cheat

(29:07):
code of like the relationship of a daughter and her
dad is like I'm starting to see it with Scarlet
of just like the way that she looks at me
and the way she interacts with me and stuff, and
like it's just so much fun. It really is. And Brent,
You're in for an absolute treat. I know, I'm only

(29:28):
barely eleven weeks into, you know, this whole process, but
it's like, it's such a cool thing. It's such a
beautiful thing. I don't know how to describe it. Even
you're a barber. What was his name, Allan Matt Allen? Today?

Speaker 1 (29:44):
Can hey, can can you turn that on? Can people
hear the lawnmowing going on outside? I will get that
out of the okay, okay, because that just got super loud. Yeah,
Alan's a stud, bro.

Speaker 2 (29:56):
Allan's a stud. And congratulations to Alan. They have a
baby girl on the way in October. And it was
fun just him saying like, hey, I have a baby boy,
but we actually have a baby on the way. It's
a girl. And like just the look that he kind
of gave me and like dap me up. It's like,
I don't know, there's just something cool about being a

(30:18):
girl dad.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
So yeah, awesome responsibility, like the new love that you have,
like you are your daughter's first love. Go back to
episode one and listen to the end of the episode
because I kind of do a little written thing on
being a girl dad and what it means and I
absolutely love it. And then what you'll do is you
might not have the capacity yet, but one day you
will when your little girl comes. But I would say,

(30:40):
when you're wanting advice on, you know, your wife, whether
you're away or she's alone, it's almost like, how would
you want how would you want your daughter to be
treated if she was with somebody who was either overseas
in the military or is absent. Like again, sometimes is
that's just the that's the that's the hand you that's

(31:03):
the hand you're dealt with. Yeah, that's the that's the
life that is chosen on on being married to somebody
who's at who who with their job and career, is
absent a lot of the time. Like you as a girl, dad,
how would you want that man to treat your daughter
if he was away? And you will find a lot
of those answers that way as well, and then you'll
kind of know, you know, things to ask, things to

(31:25):
feel excited about with your wife, because I feel like
that gives you a nice little guiding light when you
do finally have your baby girl.

Speaker 2 (31:33):
I love that answer. That's a good answer.

Speaker 1 (31:35):
I've been joking around in the office sometimes with some
of the single guys when they're telling stories of like
you know, dating and text that they're sending back and forth.

Speaker 2 (31:45):
Then I'll especially for.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
That, that's what you're talking about.

Speaker 2 (31:50):
Yeah, I'll go, Hey, that's scarlet you're texting. Keep that
in mind. You're so right. Hey, you're so right, dude,
So right.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
Yeah, that's a that's a that's a Seman Team six
member right there.

Speaker 2 (32:03):
He's a he's right there with chef. Yeah, second in command,
would you say chef? At least.

Speaker 4 (32:10):
He might be what was the military branch where it's
like the the goom berets. Yeah, but like I'm talking
about the actual like the Delta Squad guys who are
just like they're like black ops.

Speaker 1 (32:21):
Oh yeah, yeah yeah, Furdo might be a goo beret.
He might be a goom Beret that's on Semen Team six.

Speaker 2 (32:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:30):
Yeah. And for people if you're new tuning in the
tiers we have, you're Papa Team six. Those are the fathers. Yep.
You might be on Seman Team six currently where you're
not a dead yet but you're shooting. You're dropping in
Seeman Team six to do you know some night operations.
Oh yeah, we also call that buds training breeding until

(32:50):
dad status and that's for you.

Speaker 2 (32:53):
Uh uh, pre PT sixers, pre PT sixers, you're trying
to actually becoming PT six members.

Speaker 1 (33:00):
That means you're in bud straining.

Speaker 2 (33:01):
Yep.

Speaker 7 (33:02):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (33:02):
You could be a seeming Team sixer where you're just
you're playing for the love of the game.

Speaker 2 (33:06):
Milk Team six, Milk Team six. That's the female audience
right now, Team six, Team six. Yeah, Dad DG six,
which was Daddy Girl six right that We came up
with the other episode comment from last week girls.

Speaker 1 (33:21):
Yeah, Daddy Girl six, Okay, Daddy Girl six. You got
the gooon berets goom berets. Oh yeah, what did I say?
Did I say goom Berets or green Berets?

Speaker 2 (33:31):
You said goomby Okay?

Speaker 1 (33:32):
Yeah, you got the gooners out there. Those are the
young bucks. Those are the young bucks. Now, uh this comment,
I got a YouTube Chris Deck forty two to forty
five Boys Day one, PT six Sixoh love the pod
and community being built, uh with for the dads. As
a dad amongst a crew of goon Berets, it's been
great hearing from the other dads and relating to the
absolute battle stories that our parenthood. Thank thank you boys

(33:54):
for all you do. Keep it under an hour. We
gotta keep it under it, got to keep it under
it out. I do have an email here from Dustin Disher,
hey fellas new PT sixer to be to be at
any moment now to a baby girl. Contractions are happening
and likely going to the hospital tonight for delivery. Oh
just wanted to say thanks for the pod. It's brought
my excitement to be a girl dad to a whole
new level. Wednesday's on my way home from work, I

(34:15):
listen asap and Wednesday evening I watch it again on
YouTube and force feed it to my wife respectfully because
she needs to hear it. Thanks again for the great
laughs and loving tears. PS. I hope you find a
find a way to shift to Canada soon double PS
go bills, yours truly Dustin, Dustin, thank you for reaching out.
Sure the six er dish or the six or congratulations man, Congrats,

(34:38):
congratulations on the new baby girl.

Speaker 2 (34:40):
I got Matt some ten twenty five on YouTube. Pt
sikes brutal start to the week. My dog got six
Saturday night, Sunday morning. Take them to the vet. Find
out it's pretty much nothing they can do, so we
have to put them down. Dang dude, I hate that.
I have a six year old and a four year old.

(35:01):
My six year old was devastated. The four year old
doesn't quite understand yet. Took us a couple of days
because it was definitely unexpected. Was for sure looking forward
to the pod this week. Dang dude, that stinks.

Speaker 1 (35:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
I was lucky enough that I was like high school
age when we had family pets. But the way it's
lining up with Scarlet, Wrigley and Goose are they're a
bit older. They're like seven, and I'm like, oh man,
she's gonna be like five or six.

Speaker 1 (35:33):
Yeah, I want to say Waffles like five or six
years old. Yeah. So I'm sure that'll be a.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
That'll be a moment's a that's a hard one, but
I think it can be I think that it can
be dealt with, like in a really cool way. How
you treat it of like, you know, talking through if
they're old enough, like talking through what has had happened.
You know, dogs they don't live as long and here's

(36:03):
why and dah dah da. But you know the great
thing is we can get a new dog or we
can get it's.

Speaker 1 (36:12):
The new dog. Bro. I remember when I I was
like the same age as so my parents. They did
the whole get a pet first before having a kid,
for the whole responsibility factor. So Conan he was a
Rottweiler studer too. I look like a guy who owns
a couple of yeah, a couple of me. They are

(36:34):
good dogs. Owner.

Speaker 2 (36:37):
It's about the owner. Ain't the dog.

Speaker 1 (36:40):
It ain't the dog. He ain't the marie.

Speaker 2 (36:43):
Aren't they like the number one attack on because they, hey,
the owner, they paint.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
In the wrong line. So I was like the same.
I was like a year behind Conan, and I was
like somebody who you know, I like got into the
dog bowl. I hate the dog food. My parents had
to like. I hate the dough.

Speaker 2 (37:05):
That's where Scotty got bro.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Scott ll Man, she's just like her daddy. She's just
like her daddy being there at the bowl eating the
dog food. They'd have to like set me on the
outside of the outside of the gate and stuff, and
I'd be crying trying to hang with Conne. I was
the only one because Cone he was, you know, little
guard dog. Now I growl and you get close to
the bowl, but I could just crawl up there and
just eat with me.

Speaker 2 (37:26):
He would let you.

Speaker 1 (37:26):
Yeah, I would go and flip the or change the
change the channel on the TV, back when you had
to go do it on the TV, and my dad
would get all piste off and want to tan my ass.
And and he saw it to me one time I
did it again. He started to approach me, and then
Cone and got in the middle of my dad. And
now Cephone was growling at my dad. Yeah, just knowing
that I was, you know, I was about to get
a little licking. Uh huh. So I was close with Conan,

(37:50):
and so Cone and Rob Rolers lived around like ten
years old. And so we lost connine when I was ten,
and my you know, my dad, he was everybody was
grieving about it more the loss of Conan, and my
parents handled it well. I was very sad, but again,
you get a new dog, it's like new life. Yeah,
kind of passed the time, but it was it was
tough when we lost Cone. Conan was a good boy.

(38:12):
Cone was a good boy.

Speaker 2 (38:13):
Pets. Pets are so awesome.

Speaker 1 (38:15):
Pets are awesome. Gosh, and me, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (38:26):
Dogs are so awesome. Man, I just want to shout
out this is this is such a random story, but
my mom just got a dog. His name is Bama. Sorry, chef, Uh.

Speaker 1 (38:39):
That was fuck that dog kid Cho Kid Show kit.

Speaker 2 (38:44):
Cho Kids Show. But just hearing like the cheer my
mom's voice of her just calling me and tell me like, oh,
you know, Bama was barking loud when like the mailman
came up to the door and the mail man made
a joke of like, oh, your new dog's a good
guard dog, and you know it helps me like feel
safe at night. And I just love stuff like that. Dude,

(39:07):
dogs are just the best.

Speaker 1 (39:08):
They really are. They really are.

Speaker 2 (39:11):
I got I got a comment here, Okay, I got
a couple more. Oh sorry, I just went you go.

Speaker 1 (39:17):
Uh lukuigi l U l u k u. I g
I on YouTube PT sixer of three under five. Here
mam is letting dad have the weekend, gonna try and
catch the Friday Live show. Already signed up for the tailgate.
I told her she's on Milk Team six, which I
had to explain to her. Cheers to another, Uh, cheers

(39:38):
to another will Day, Best Day of the Week, fantastic
interview on House Rules as well go big rad dude,
shout out. Shout out Lukuigi, shout out Big Red.

Speaker 2 (39:47):
Hey GBR, shout out Laguigi. And when is Will Compton Day?
It's around this time of.

Speaker 1 (39:52):
Year, right, September nineteenth, that's my birthday.

Speaker 2 (39:56):
I am so sorry.

Speaker 1 (39:58):
What do you think I did?

Speaker 2 (39:59):
I was thinking of like the Will Compton Museum and
all that stuff. That's also September nineteenth. That's the Will
Compton Day.

Speaker 1 (40:07):
I guess, oh you're talking about with barstools. Yeah, like
the museum. Yeah, is that maybe?

Speaker 2 (40:12):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
I can't remember.

Speaker 2 (40:13):
I need to look that up. I still have that,
sure you look that up. I need to look that up.
Will Compton Day. We need we need to keep celebrating.
We do need to.

Speaker 1 (40:21):
Keep celebrating that. Big opportunities of celebrating Will Compton Day.

Speaker 2 (40:25):
Okay, good, except for the internet. We missed it.

Speaker 1 (40:30):
Missed it.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
That's what I gotta throw love to my guy anyway
I can.

Speaker 1 (40:35):
That would have been fun to just that. It would
have been fun to celebrate that. Dang it. Just bring
it back to the you know.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
Yeah, I got for other reasons outside celebrating myself. Of course,
I got Nick Sexton. This one's from TikTok. What's going on? Boys?
I really enjoy your show and the way you share
your experiences so openly. I'm reaching out because I'd love
to hear your advice on something personal. My partner and
I are expecting our first baby, and I was wondering

(41:04):
how you both felt when your first child was on
the way. Uh, were there things that surprised you or
advice that you wish you had received at the time.
I think it would really help to hear your perspective
as I get ready for this big change in my
own life. Thanks for taking the time to read this
and keep up the amazing work with the podcast. Now

(41:25):
you're Nick Sexton, Nick Sexon, thank you, brother.

Speaker 1 (41:28):
I would say you're the closest removed from firstborn. Yeah,
do you have things that jump out at you that
you wish you had advice on? Because Scarlett is what ten.

Speaker 2 (41:44):
Weeks ten weeks agoing really eleven? We'll call it eleven, Okay.

Speaker 1 (41:50):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (41:51):
The piece of advice that I would say is that
any little thing I know for any listener that's listened
to every episode. I am sorry if I sound like
a broken record, but I do think This is if
I had a book or like a quote that you
could quote me on for being a good dad in
those first couple of months. All the little things are
big things. So if you remember to wash that bottle

(42:14):
after you fed, wife will notice that, and wife will
appreciate it. If you remember to put the you know
you went into the baby's room, because now you have
a whole nother load of laundry. You gotta do that.
You weren't used to go in there and get the
kid's laundry without you know, even telling the wife and
go run that laundry. And when she opens up the

(42:36):
dryer later that day and sees that the kid's clothes
already been you know, washed and dried, she is going
to be stoked. Like and I'm giving myself that advice.
I fall short in that area all the time. But
as far as like how do I want to absolutely
kick ass as a dad, it's like all those little
things that, uh, I'll do that later, Oh you know,

(43:00):
do it right then and there, and do it for
both the kid, your wife, but for yourself too. It's
gonna make you feel like a part of everything because
it's so mom when she's pregnant, like it's it's really
just mom and like taking care of mom and how
can I help mom? And then once baby's there, it's like, okay,

(43:20):
you're up, dad, Like what do you got? And if
you step to the plate and you're doing all those
little things, your mother in law, dad in law, everybody's
gonna be going. He's doing a good job, he's kicking ass.
That would be my advice.

Speaker 1 (43:34):
Dude Well said thank you. I don't think anything needs
to be atted toe that, but very well said thank you,
because you're right, it is. It's all mom. And then
like as dads, I would assume it's just like being
being a guy, like being a male. It's uh, you know,
you think to yourself if you had like I had
an awesome mom growing up. So mom did did a

(43:57):
lot of stuff for me. Like my dad. He was
the one who went to work, commuted an hour, you know,
an hour and working back to each day, kind of
like the working dad. He worked a lot, he had
to work a lot, and so my mom did everything
around the house. So growing up and it's three boys,
no female energy, you just think mom takes care of everything,

(44:19):
like mom always has all the answers. So when I'm
be like when I'm a husband and my wife is
pregnant everything else, Like there are times where you just think, oh,
you know, Charles got this, Like moms just know how
to do this stuff. And the truth is they don't either,
Like they just you know, they have to figure it
out and you don't want them to feel alone in
the process. That's the entire game. It's like, that's the

(44:40):
entire game. Is like asking those extra questions so that
way you're prepared, not being told what to do afterwards.
There's a few times when Charle would have to tell
me afterwards and it's like, man, why is she on
my ass about stuff? Like I'm trying where it's like
I need to seek out this type of preparation before
I even get in these situations. Yes, where it's like
if I am doing the laundry, do I need to
dry every article of c or some do I need

(45:01):
to be hang drying them? You know mom can get
a little chippy, mom can get going, or the women
can get going. Hey, you're not You're supposed to hang
dry this one, or like cleaning the bottle. It's like
I would do the just the short cut of times
where I'll just put the hot water in and put
the soap in and I just shake it up. I'll
just shake it up on there. Hey, sweetheart, Sometimes you
do gotta get you gotta twist the top off. You

(45:21):
got to pull the rubber part out of the classic
can clean the insides because if not, there'll be some
there be some residue inside there. And I'm just like, yeah,
she's right. I'm literally just taking the shortcut here. But
I need to. I need to be the guy that
like cleans out the bottle so that way it's just
sitting there and then she sees it so they know
that the effort is being put forth. But that was
well said man.

Speaker 2 (45:41):
Also chicoed and wives, plug your ears if you if
you take the nipple out. I've gotten it down to
where I can one hand it, where I take the
nipple out of the top and both pieces stay in
my hand and give a little you know, underneath the
water put on the dry which little that act. Jill
would be pissed if she heard that. All in here

(46:02):
your bucks. I used the brush. I use the brush
every time, honey.

Speaker 1 (46:05):
Yeah, but you know, Charlie, listen to this, like you
never do the do the nipple. She's not wrong, Like
it's been just a handful of times where I thought
to do it. Yeah, I'll be in there trying to
shake an eye. So you're coming around the corner and
then I kind of twisted off.

Speaker 2 (46:19):
This brush is awesome that you got it. Brush is incredible.
It's crazy.

Speaker 1 (46:23):
But she ain't cover on the corner. She'll be all right.
I would still drink it.

Speaker 2 (46:27):
I legitimately love using this brush. Like this is crazy love.
I will say, not a dad win, but like those
moments of when you're able, when you're doing all those
small things and you are operating independently of your wife
on uh prep preparing for the baby to go to

(46:48):
outside time, getting the diaper bag ready, washing bottles, making bottles,
You'll get into a rhythm where like you're like, dude,
I do have this to where Jill and I wanted
to do a birthday dinner just her and I on Thursday,
and the way it worked out, she was like, I
have to go get my nails done and then go
straight from there to the restaurant. I don't know, Like,

(47:10):
can you take Scarlet and meet me at the restaurant?
I don't want to do that to you. Do you
feel comfortable to do that? I was like, I got it,
I got it. I know everything that needs to go
in the diaper bag. I'll have the douna I'll do.
I got it. And dude rolling up to Blue Sushi
and walking in with Scarlet and everybody, oh my gosh,
yeah yeah, pull up to the table. And then mom

(47:32):
like rolls into the restaurant later and just seeing the
smile on her face, I was like, I got this.
I got this.

Speaker 1 (47:39):
Yeah, Because I want to say early in the game,
it's like you're some sitting there trying to get the
diaper bag ready and I'm like, hey, what all do
we need to put here? Buddy?

Speaker 2 (47:48):
Well, being on the show helps too. And I mean
that like being on the show helps too, of like
Jill helping to prep me. But like all the little
dad hacks that I've been getting from guys, I've been
getting from you, it helps. Dude stacks up.

Speaker 1 (48:03):
Yeah, we got a turtle nineteen xx here new shirt idea.
I rode the shockwave this weekend. Might be tricky with copyrights,
but might be worth it. Everyone loves an inside joke. Shockwave.

Speaker 2 (48:18):
Hey just the the wolf on top of a rollercoaster,
like right at the drop, he's just about to go
down the drop and he's in the front car.

Speaker 1 (48:27):
Just would be electric shockwave. This weekend, I got.

Speaker 2 (48:32):
One from Tyler Grosswick four five three six on YouTube.
He said, can we get money line per episode that
shirm starts to shed a tear? Keep up the great
work force? Love that. Hey, the book is gonna you know. Hey,
they say Vegas always wins. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
You bet the line right now? After these last couple episodes,
you're looking at what a minus two fifty on tears.

Speaker 3 (48:56):
That's exactly where I was at.

Speaker 2 (48:57):
Yeah, I think you are being kind. You could say
minus six hundred. I didn't want to hurt my feelings.

Speaker 1 (49:03):
Mine's two fifty.

Speaker 2 (49:05):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (49:05):
What are the odds?

Speaker 2 (49:06):
Hey, what are the odds that's come to my fan?

Speaker 1 (49:10):
I have one last one ruler of Latveria BT six
here y'all are the best. So I have two boys,
two and five year old. My two year old with
or my two year old with the last week has
randomly become afraid of monkeys. Wife and I don't know
where he got it from, but it's taking an extra
hour to get him to bed, trying to assure him

(49:31):
no monkeys are in the house. Good fuck yes, yesterday.
The wife tells me so that I watched Toy Story three.
He hadn't seen it yet. Well, near the end he
comes running and screaming because there's a mean monkey in
the Towards the end of the movie. Good and out
of day, she sends a group She sends a text

(49:52):
at nap time, and now he's even afraid of nap time.
Good love it loud, y'all are awesome, Keep it up.

Speaker 2 (49:58):
I have a hack for this. Go ahead, my parents.
I was very afraid of monsters under my bed in
my closet. My brother was actually the one that coined this.
So shout out, Jordan, aerosol deodorant, something safe to spray.
You could do some sunscreen. It's monkey spray, dude, and
go spray down everything in the house and take little

(50:19):
guy who was a son, right, yeah, yeah, take a
little guy with you and just go spray everything down
and just be like, it's monkey spray, right right. I
love that idea.

Speaker 1 (50:31):
By the way, maybe a lot of fragrance in the house.
Maybe wife won't like that idea, but maybe she'll love it.
Maybe she'll love it. Another little one would be like
stickers that say, like, monkeys are terrified of these stickers.
And you put the sticker on the crib, you put
it at the door, you put it wherever a little
man wants to put it, so that way he knows
monkeys are terrified of these stickers. It like keeps them away,
it scares them off.

Speaker 2 (50:52):
And a great way to segue your son into fandom
of whatever your favorite sports team is. Buy just a
bunch of stickers of set sports team. Now we're cooking. Hey,
there is nothing that scares a monkey away like a
Baylor Bear. You kidding me? AKA corn Husker. You throw
this in anywhere. You know what? That inn also stands

(51:13):
word no monkeys.

Speaker 1 (51:15):
No monkeys. That's an inn right there, a red one.
They're scared of the color red. No monkeys.

Speaker 2 (51:20):
And you just put that everywhere, dude, and then your
kid's gonna love Nebraska. Yeah, those are great.

Speaker 1 (51:25):
Those great little Hey, good dad, head, we're good, good
at this?

Speaker 2 (51:31):
Okay, n I will fly through these. These are these
are my last two. I'll go back to back and
if there's.

Speaker 1 (51:37):
Anything you got to keep it under an hour gote
got to keep it under an hour, so please.

Speaker 2 (51:41):
kJ underscore Kitchens on YouTube says pt siico you did
the PT six echo uh here listen to the pod
Since the Days and the gravel Lot with no ac
a true Tier one asking how many Matt Neely's would
it take to take down Daddy Luan, lifelong time Titan
sand boy dad of two years in deploying for second

(52:03):
mission do made twenty twenty six? Congratulations DM Sherman last
week about his dad loss. He voice messaged me back
lost my shit made the wife listen and I've told
basically anyone that would listen, I'm obsessed with the show.
I'm obsessed with all of you boys. I only live
an hour from the shop, so let me know if
you want a psycho on the pod. Shout out Willy

(52:25):
Ce for operating with the wife. Gone love you all,
Pepperinonis ps Wolf emoji Deeke Derek should be the name
Big Deep Derek. Should be the name Big Deep Derek.
They should be the name. Also send a voice message
to kJ as he said, I'm sorry to try to

(52:47):
do that more. I love that. I think it's fun,
but I had a friend that you actually met that
came by the office, Oaks that was close friends with
Matt Neely, and that was my message back to him.
I said that my friend Oaks is also one of
the reasons that I'm here today working for you guys.
So I thought that that was a cool little Matt

(53:08):
Neely working his way through it.

Speaker 1 (53:10):
Yeah, and for those who are curious about Matt Neely,
Matt Neely was one of our first He was our
first social media guy, one of the first guys that
worked with us on the bus, and he suddenly passed
away in that first year in October, and so Matt
Neely is huge. There's huge lore around Matt Neely and
his super fandom with the Titans and then being very

(53:31):
pivotal with busts with the boys, and it's very early
stages in our first year. So that's paying homage to
Matt Neely. It would take seven Matt Neely's to take
down a Taylor to one.

Speaker 2 (53:40):
It would take seven seven. He was pretty he was
bigger than me.

Speaker 1 (53:44):
Yeah, you gotta think, you know, one on each limbit
Taylor many one for the head, one for the piece,
and then you know that's six and then just seven
because Taylor's number seventy seven.

Speaker 2 (53:58):
Yeah, that's true, that's true. Last one we got Mason
Clay Donaldson, twenty one, new to the PT six squad,
but dad of a two and a half year old
daughter in a three day old son. Congratulations Mason. Writing
this comment as I rock my son at midnight listening
to the pod while I let the wifey sleep to
get some rest, just wanted to say that this podcast

(54:20):
has inspired me to be more intentional and present to
both my two year old and my newborn. Good stuff fellas.
Look forward to hearing more stories, advice and lessons. Keep
it up. PT sixer out.

Speaker 1 (54:33):
Thank you brother, Thank you Mason.

Speaker 2 (54:35):
Yes, I love that we made the trailer with that
in mind, like the trailer launch trailer for the show
with somebody listening to it in the wee hours of
the morning. Yeah, and then you have it right there,
I know.

Speaker 1 (54:45):
Thank you, Mason.

Speaker 2 (54:46):
That's so sick.

Speaker 1 (54:47):
Should we get to some crack of cold one Dad losses,
sabs and downs, I'm crackle one. My crack of cole
one this week goes to Scottie Joe Lee scott Zilla.
Scott Zilla, as you all know here, she's standing for
like ten seconds at nime bro. Yes, yes, So I
was like, what you know, I was watching I was
watching the games and I just scanned over and she's

(55:09):
just standing up next to me and got her hands
in the air looking at me. I was like, ain'ng
gona let daddy, Let daddy take a video real quick.
Got a little video over I can, I can plug
to you guys so you can show it on the screen.
But scott Zilla is standing a little bit now.

Speaker 2 (55:22):
Scotty is going to be a problem in the best way. Yeah,
she went over under on how many days of her walking?

Speaker 1 (55:32):
I think she walks before she turns one. She's ten
months right now. Yeah, I mean you'll learn, it's not
like it just happens once he starts standing. Yeah, but
I think she'll start walking before she turns one.

Speaker 2 (55:45):
I bet she starts walking. But you said ten months,
like on the dot, right, she's ten months.

Speaker 1 (55:51):
She is. She was ten months twelve days ago.

Speaker 2 (55:57):
So here in three weeks, you think she'll be walking
probably four four? Yeah, maybe it's tough.

Speaker 1 (56:05):
Man Like Ruth did a really good job of like
I would stand like I would stand rue like on
my body like this, and she could like walk up
my chest. I felt like, like early into where she
was like trying to walk and everything else, Scotty doesn't
really like move her legs and walk ahole lot very
sturdy and you've seen her army crawling like you know,

(56:25):
I've already made the comparison Michael Parson's on third down,
say Crosby. Yeah, yes, some are saying Max Crosby as well.
It'll just depend man. You gotta get her legs going.
I think when I get home today, it's time to
start putting in some work with her little walker because
she was walking. She was like standing up against Rue

(56:46):
seated at the dinner table and having it and it
was kind of moving it, like walking and moving it.

Speaker 2 (56:51):
So woo, I'll get her going. When does the head
like they're able to start hold their head up? Because
Scarlet's almost there, I feel like, is that like question.

Speaker 1 (57:00):
I want to research that? You want to research that,
Like three or four months, her head gets sturdy and
you can kind of may maybe toss start tossing up
in the air and stuff rolling them around like hey
you wrestling dad, ain't y?

Speaker 2 (57:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (57:16):
Six months six months?

Speaker 1 (57:18):
Six months around six months okay, because she's you know,
two and some change on months, and like I'm seeing
her lifting her head and keeping it up when I'm
putting her on my chest. She's keeping this right here.
I'm like, oh my god.

Speaker 2 (57:34):
So she's she's she's holding her head pretty sturdy, very sturdy.
Could you toss her up? I've done some lifts. I
have done some lifts, and you gotta feel it out.

Speaker 1 (57:43):
You gotta like start here and then just kind of
go up a little fast and kind of drops down. Well,
you know how, I kind of know Scotty, like I go, eh,
maybe a little maybe a little too soon, maybe a
little too soon to toss.

Speaker 2 (57:54):
You in the air. I brought up the idea of
lifting Scarlet, and she goes, you're not tossing her. I said,
I lifted her. I'm not tossing it. I'm not pausing it.
I'm not pausing. I'm lifting. But Scarlet's old face. When
I lift her up, she just starts beaming. Dude, she's smiling.

(58:17):
Oh that's why I crack a col one.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
Dude. There's nothing better when they start smiling.

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Uh my crack a cold one, and I have a
photo here. I will send it to Chef and Derek
so we can have it on the podcast. But this
happened two weeks ago. I was facetiming my dad, of
all moments, for Scarlett to have her very first smile
with me. She was on the changing table. I was
facetiming dad, and my dad took this screenshot right here.

Speaker 1 (59:55):
Oh that is awesome, bro.

Speaker 2 (59:58):
I mean, look at this kind of went out right there, woo.
And I have my boys hat on. That's the best part.
I'm wearing the boys hat, dude. And she just loves
the changing table and I was going, do you love
your dad, ass? Do you love your dad?

Speaker 3 (01:00:16):
Ass?

Speaker 2 (01:00:16):
I'm kind of doing this with her hand, and she,
you know, I started going up and she's like making
little noises and big smile and I'm just my dad
was totally silent. I was totally silent. We're both sitting
there just like, oh my god. That was incredible. And
you knew that it wasn't just like her randomly smiling,

(01:00:38):
like she was looking at me and was like smiling
because I was in her face talking to her. It
was ah, it was good.

Speaker 1 (01:00:48):
It was really really that juices me up for you guys,
Thank you, because smiling is just the best. And I
feel like two. When smiling starts happening, like for the mom,
it's such a massive wind because again, these little, these
little minions, bro, what's it been ten eleven weeks. Yeah,
it's like when they finally start smiling, you're getting something

(01:01:09):
in return. Yep, right, because you're just your entire life
is sacrifice for them when they're newborns, to where it's
just eat, sleep, it's take, take, take, take, take. Moms
in postpartiment feeling all these emotions, all these things are
going on in her body. For dads, it's like this,
you know, the stress of like being a good dad,
being a good husband, all the things, And when the

(01:01:30):
baby starts smiling, it's like instead of it's all the take, take, take, take, take, take,
and you're finally getting something in return now, which I
feel like it's such a big win as a parent,
especially for the moms, especially for the mom.

Speaker 2 (01:01:43):
Jill's been loving it, and she's been talking to Scarlet way.
We both have been talking to Scarlet way. Yeah, And
just like in the mornings, how much Scarlet loves the mornings,
and when it's both me and Jill over her, when
we're both standing over Oh my god, she's looking at
both of us and she's got a clean dipe beyond
when she's in a clean onesie and you can just

(01:02:04):
see it all in her face and just the biggest.
Now she's just a smile machine these last two weeks
and a giggle machine, like just making little like I like,
she wants to talk so bad, and you're just like, oh,
it's crazy, dude, with the they always saw it. You

(01:02:25):
have said this that you're gonna love her more and
more and more like as time goes on. Yeah, yeah,
the whole wait till this month. Wait, yes, dude, And
it's like it truly is crazy. Just how much more?
I told Jill, I just said I'm in trouble. I'm
in huge trouble. Yeah, because I thought I loved Scarlet

(01:02:47):
and I thought I knew how much I loved her.

Speaker 1 (01:02:49):
But keep enjoying. Man, My first instinct is like just wait,
just wait, but it's just keep keep doing your thing, bro.
It just gets it weirdly, just it's better and better.
And it's nothing that you're missing out on with me
saying that, it's just it just it gets better.

Speaker 2 (01:03:07):
Well, do you just talking about ru holding this teddy
bears and being like I thought I was gonna sleep
with you? Like I told that story to Jill, I said,
imagine me in that situation, we would be halfway to
dairy queen getting some ice cream too. Yeah, and she's
sleeping in the bed. Yeah, oh my god.

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Speaker 1 (01:06:38):
We are back from potty break, and uh, Dad losses Dad.

Speaker 2 (01:06:43):
But I smell it.

Speaker 1 (01:06:45):
So when we were on potty break, I was a
little little little tooth slip.

Speaker 2 (01:06:50):
Right before we started recording. He goes, oh, that's a
smelly boy. I'm talking and breathing through my mouth. It
sounds like you have a dad loss.

Speaker 1 (01:07:04):
I got a couple. Oh really, a couple dad losses.
You know, on last week's episode, it was Charles's gonna
come home and I'm going to pass the house test.
It's gonna be spotless, X Y and Z. Yes, it
was oh no, and this is one that just snucked

(01:07:25):
by me. This isn't U. Yeah, I don't know what
to say. It's snucked by me. But we traveled to
you know, that night on Wednesday, I flew to New
York because we had ESPN the next Yes, I took
off at eight thirty. Charle ends up landing at ten
coming home. So we're two ships passing and I don't
get to see each other. Great song by the way,
and you know, it's like you want your wife just

(01:07:46):
to come home to a clean house, so they don't.
That way, they don't have to stress about anything going on.
They can just unpack their stuff. They can just probably
crawl in bed, get ready for bed, go hug the kiddos,
because I'm sure I know she was excited to see him.
But I get to my hotel probably like twelve thirty
in the morning, and then Charles sends me a photo

(01:08:07):
of essential oils just spilled all over her nightstand. With
all you it wasn't me, it was Rue. I hate
pointing the finger at room. Yeah yeah, but it was
her because you know how she stayed with me those
she was gone, and uh, there was one night, so

(01:08:28):
the essential oil sat there for like a couple of days.
Apparently it was like bubbling up on the wood and
got all over her books and photos. Oh no, yeah,
but what happened was when Rue was sleeping with me
one of those nights, I go upstairs, or I go
and get something upstairs, whether it's a sleep machine or
I had to get something upstairs and break it back down. Yeah,

(01:08:51):
Rue being in the bedroom when I came back downstairs,
she was like, she's just telling me. She was like,
dad had the lamp fell and I picked it up
and put it back, like it's it's okay. And she
must've knocked the lamp over.

Speaker 2 (01:09:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:09:02):
Yeah, But I'm sitting there and I'm just listening to
her story and she's like, I knocked the lamp over
by I picked it up. It's okay, it's okay. I
picked it up. It's not broken. And I look at
the lamp and it seems like it's right up in
the right spot where it was. I just look and
I go, oh, great job, sweetheart, that's awesome. And then
I go on to like brush my teeth and get
ready for bed. I didn't check the night stand. Yeah,

(01:09:22):
I'm just I look at the lamp. I'm like, yeah,
it seems like nothing's wrong with it. And if it
fell and she put it back up, like that's low
key awesome, like great work, kiddo. So I don't even
check the night stand. But apparently it knocked over the
essential oils. The essential oil was everywhere on her nightstand,
and Chart was like, you just didn't want to check.
You didn't just cared to check the other stuff that's

(01:09:44):
sitting on the night stand. If the lamp fell over,
I'm like, dude, I was moving and grooving. She kind
of told me this story, and I looked at the
lamp and it seemed like it was just fine. Reached
up and turned it on. It worked, so I was like, oh,
great job, give her a pat on the ass, and
kept it moving. So that was one dad loss.

Speaker 2 (01:09:59):
There's also an nothing worse than just getting a picture
of said thing, because I've been on that side of
it to you. Yeah, you just get to pick Were
there any words with it? Was it just a picture?

Speaker 1 (01:10:10):
It was what happened here?

Speaker 2 (01:10:11):
Yeah it was.

Speaker 1 (01:10:12):
I forget what the breakdown was, but yeah, dude, And
it bummed me out just because I know the effort
I was putting in, and I was exhausted. When I
was in New York, I was like, all right, let's
try to close my eyes and get some sleepy sepp
like four hours for I had to wake up for
ESPN the next morning. Yeah, and but yeah, that's one

(01:10:32):
day loss. I have a second one. So when we
went to the Husker game last weekend and flew out
on Friday, yeah, oh I forget. Oh yeah, it was
my birthday. So we went out to Benji's Bagels. We
had a great little family morning, and then Charo had
to go. She had to go do.

Speaker 2 (01:10:51):
Something for bar three.

Speaker 1 (01:10:52):
So I took both the kiddos. I went and dropped
ruof at school, and then I went dropped her off
at school, and then I had Scotty and I just
had to take Scotty home to see Augie, and uh
but what I forgot to do? I drove to the
airport and then obviously took off. And then I get
a couple of texts from Charro like you left the base,

(01:11:15):
left the base, left the base in my truck.

Speaker 2 (01:11:20):
Oh and you only have one set of keys.

Speaker 1 (01:11:23):
I did have a spare. And I told her, I'm like, hey,
because our our nanny she has a base too, So
I think she got linked up with with Augie to
get the second yes, because we have we have a
base in every car for rue. We only have two
bases for Scottie and one's one's with the nanny and
one is with Charro.

Speaker 2 (01:11:44):
Is she doing do? Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:11:46):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (01:11:47):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:11:48):
The Duna like where you just click it in every
time about and then you just the car seat click
it up in there by the way that survival kit
right there, that's you get it do No. I know
we've said that one before. We have new viewers. We
have new lists you want to add to your survival
kit bag. It is rock with the Duna, super easy, seamless.

Speaker 2 (01:12:06):
With the car seat.

Speaker 1 (01:12:07):
Oh yeah, but I left. I didn't get out the car.
I didn't get out the base. So charl was rocking
without a base until she got linked up with Augie.
And then I didn't take the backpack out of the truck.
Oh the diaper bag, the diaper bag, the diaper bag, backpack.

Speaker 2 (01:12:25):
I just did that. If it makes you feel better,
I just did that. Last week when Jill came up
to the office, the bag was in my car. Yeah,
to come up to the office and come grab the
diaper bag. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:12:37):
And she told me about She was like, did you
also did you happen to put the diaper bag anywhere?
Because she couldn't find it, and she's like, you know,
not trying to say, hey, did you have the backpack too,
but hey, did you happen.

Speaker 2 (01:12:46):
To She was being sweet Yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:12:50):
And I was a god, that's in the truck. That's
in the drug too, sweetheart, it's my birthday.

Speaker 2 (01:12:56):
But I love Hey it's my birthday, and ps I
be a prioritize yeah a lot.

Speaker 1 (01:13:02):
Yeah, that's what I told her. I was like, I
do have a spare if you wanted to drive over
to the truck and get all these things.

Speaker 2 (01:13:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:13:10):
Yeah, So another dad loss. She did just fleeting brain man,
I know sometimes you used to we just we just
don't think.

Speaker 2 (01:13:19):
Well you I was bragging before about the birthday dinner
that I took scarlet tow all by myself. I left
the diaper bag in my car that was from the
same thing. So with the wind came a loss as well. Yeah,
but we got through it, got through it. Charo had
very kind words for you on her birthday posts. By

(01:13:40):
the way she did. I don't usually read the captions
that say show more, but I was invested. Yeah, I
clicked on it. I was like, hey, that's a good read.
That's a good like for you. I was like, I
bet will that was a good read.

Speaker 1 (01:13:54):
She's a good little writer too. She is like charl
is big. My wife is big on cards, cards, love
written word love. Yeah, write on a card. Yeah, Like
that's the biggest thing, whether it's birthday, whatever it is.
She's a big card person. That to her is like
that's like a love language for you.

Speaker 2 (01:14:16):
Did that kind of spark your interest in writing?

Speaker 3 (01:14:21):
Guess?

Speaker 1 (01:14:22):
And no, almost like I know I have to put
an effort. Yeah, Like again, whether it's birthday, Like I
could not have a gift, but if I have, if
I have a handwritten card, that's the moneymaker right there.

Speaker 2 (01:14:33):
Because you have ability I think in writing as well.
Thank you like the stuff that you've written for the show.
But also like when when you write down your thoughts
and stuff, it's very succinct.

Speaker 1 (01:14:44):
Some barstool blogs in the past. Yeah, ever, once a year,
I was good for a blog once a year. And
all the time it's like, I want to challenge myself
more to write. It's just it's just doing it, man, Yeah,
it really is just doing it.

Speaker 2 (01:14:59):
And it is It's such a lost art for him.
I feel like with kids they now in public schools
in Texas, cursive is no longer mandatory. Yeah, and that
breaks my heart.

Speaker 1 (01:15:12):
And with chat GPT now writing, she want to get
worse yeah or better? I have no you know, charl
hates chat gipt for that reason of writing. Yeah, because
she just she enjoys, Like she's reading this book. I
want to say, it's like an Onyx and Storm or
Onyx storm or something like that.

Speaker 2 (01:15:26):
Yeah, you were talking about this. She's a Charle is
a huge reader, huge reader. It's a fantasy.

Speaker 1 (01:15:31):
Yeah, she can she can run through books, bro, it
is crazy. And so she appreciates she appreciates writing, reading, reading, storytelling.

Speaker 2 (01:15:44):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:15:46):
So also like with her nice little Instagram post, she
had a nice little card for me written, the whole
thing was covered.

Speaker 2 (01:15:53):
That's so well done. That's so well done, shout out Chario.

Speaker 1 (01:15:56):
Yeah, I would you know what you know, like, I
don't do it. I want to more but encourage everybody
to like journal or write down their stuff. And again
this is coming from somebody who tells himself to do it,
and I don't do it. I have a I have
like a I got a cool little like Charle and
I like one of our little inside sayings that we

(01:16:17):
kind of got connected on. And what's the word I'm
looking for? Bonded over, bonded over carpe a dm oh
the phrase carpe dm seize the day. And when we
were over in Italy and we were in Rome and
everything like that, you know, I love Stoicism. But there
were these like journals, these like diary journals whatever, and

(01:16:39):
like those little gift stores. And there's one like leatherbound
one that had carp a dm etched in the front.
So I had like gotten that one with the intention
to write in it and my thoughts, philosophies, whatever it is,
write about the kids, yes, life, and I only have
about two pages of it written. That was when we
went to Italy, A few years ago. So again I'm
encouraging everybody to do it because I think it is.

(01:17:01):
I truly think it's like you'll get to this point.
But thinking of all the times back when Ru is
little or Scotty being little right now, like Rue still
is little, but all the moments I wish I would
just have like journaled down and written down because you
think you're gonna remember, but you just don't. Yeah, So
why I'm huge and like take as many videos and
photos as you can. Is there already some things that

(01:17:23):
I'm forgetting about or I got to remember, or if
like Scotty's at a certain age, I'm like, man, where
was Rue during this time? And I'm just like, God, damn,
I will if you would just write this shit down.

Speaker 2 (01:17:31):
Man, I need to get better at that too. I
do have a I have to brag on myself a
really good visual and auditory memory with like I often
have friends be like, dude, how do you remember that
movie line? Like verbatim? Like I'm able to retain stuff
very well. But I'm like, if I applied that to

(01:17:52):
my own life of journaling and then being able to
like read that stuff, I feel like I would retain
stuff even better when it it's like visual retention. You'd
be good, you'd be a good little writer.

Speaker 1 (01:18:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:18:05):
I had a little fun stuff here and there, like
little scripts and et cetera. But I need to like
write my thoughts down.

Speaker 1 (01:18:14):
Yeah, I need to do it.

Speaker 2 (01:18:15):
Write to your kids, write to my kids.

Speaker 1 (01:18:18):
You want to hear a sad story?

Speaker 2 (01:18:19):
Yes, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:18:21):
So my mom wrote a book, wrote in a book.
There were three that she had intentions of writing books for. Dude,
you're kidding, Like, I guess life. I can't tell you
what's in there because I haven't read it yet. My
dad finds these books after my mom had passed. Yeah,

(01:18:44):
and I was like going through stuff in the next year,
Like my mom passed away in December. It was like
December nineteenth, twenty twenty first, like one of those days,
and so not that Christmas, but the entire next year.
My dad came across something in the fall, like when
he was like looking through drawers and everything else, and
there were these three there's these three books, and one

(01:19:06):
of them mine was written in. I don't know what's
in it, and it wasn't all the way finished. But
my mom apparently had written to us like she had
intentions of like writing to each of us. I know
it's sad, holding back some tears, but the other two
weren't written in, which makes me sad. And if Cody
and Whyett listened to the show, like, I don't even

(01:19:27):
know if they know, because part of me felt bad
that I had one and they didn't have one.

Speaker 2 (01:19:33):
Yeah, you know, yeah, And.

Speaker 1 (01:19:37):
I haven't read it because part of me is like
I'm scared to read it because then in my mind
that might be then there's nothing else, you know what
I mean. Yeah, that's sad. That's sad story, sad story.

Speaker 2 (01:19:55):
We gotta have that. Hey, that's sad, that sad story.
But this is uh, this is why I would say
to that is I would never pressure you to like
do anything, but you should one million percent read it,
and you do it in your own time, like you
find the time that you're ready. But you got to

(01:20:17):
read that, and you're what you're you're not wrong.

Speaker 1 (01:20:20):
Part of me is because it sits by my bed,
so it's like all my night standing next to my bed.

Speaker 2 (01:20:25):
You have it, Yeah, I have it?

Speaker 1 (01:20:28):
My dad? What I was gonna say? The next Christmas?
The next year, my dad gifted it to me on Christmas,
oh wow, And he was like, I came across I
came across these journals, these books, and one is for
you heavy bro, dude, what oh man? And so it
sits on my nightstand and it's like I just don't.
Part of me is like I have that excuse to

(01:20:48):
where if I read this, these are the last words
and then there's nothing else after that. Like I know,
I still have like her words, they're written to me.

Speaker 2 (01:20:58):
Yeah, And part of me is.

Speaker 1 (01:21:00):
Just like I just don't have like the the stones
or the courage to open it up and start like
reading her words.

Speaker 2 (01:21:07):
Without sounding cheesy like written word is forever. We have
books that like people are still being quoted from fair
Point thirteenth century, fourteenth century. If anything, I think it
will give your mom life by reading those and letting
those words live on. That would be my thoughts on it.

(01:21:30):
I I think that's oh man, your mom's a good one, dude,
your mom's a legend.

Speaker 1 (01:21:36):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (01:21:37):
Damn.

Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
Yeah, I appreciate those words though. Actually, yeah, that makes
a lot of sense. You'll control talk to me about it,
but she won't talk, you know. It's more of like
I'll be like sweet, I just I can't do it
yet I don't want.

Speaker 2 (01:21:51):
To, and I don't blame her. I have the same
thing with Jill's stuff with her dad, Like I just
feel like that's a place where I, you know, I
let Jill make those decisions.

Speaker 1 (01:22:06):
So it's just hard. You obviously see the emotion that
comes out when I just talk about her. It's like
I feel like if I open the book and just
start reading words like, I won't even be able to
make it, dude, very far. And then I'm like, man,
I just don't want to be in that emotional state.

Speaker 2 (01:22:20):
Yeah, you'll find the right time. Yeah you're right, You're right.
But that also that that is like inspiring me to
now want to write stuff for Scarlet.

Speaker 1 (01:22:32):
I know, yeah, because when the moments I do think
about I'm like, well, you just got it. You gotta
start writing.

Speaker 2 (01:22:39):
Jill wrote a letter the second time I took her
on a date of that like she knew that I
was going to be the guy that she married, and
she read that she kept h at her purse forever
and when I proposed to her or she brought out
that letter to read it, dude, I had to pull over,

(01:23:02):
like driving over and proposing to Jill because I was
like this, like trying to drive, like written word is
so crazy. That's awesome.

Speaker 1 (01:23:14):
Yeah, I need to do that more. Let's challenge ourselves,
Dad's that's a good challenge. It's a good challenge. Everybody's
cashing their bets right now.

Speaker 2 (01:23:26):
What was the lie? I feel like bald guys can't
cry either. I'm telling you it's minus six they cry.
It should have been minus six hundred. Oh my gosh.
We also we gotta get some wigs for Will, sorry, Derek, cause.

Speaker 5 (01:23:43):
It's the only thing I could ever offer to you
guys as a dad hack is I heard it a
long time ago. Make a Google driver a Gmail account
for your daughters. And so that's where I have a
journal for myself. That's a Gmail account that is just
my name journal and every big day. So when I
was proposing to my fiance, when I was doing these things,
I write notes to myself and I don't go back
and look. And so if you do want like that

(01:24:03):
small bit of it, I always say, like, one thing
I can't wait to do when I have kids is
like make them an email account and just write like
first day of preschool stuff like that. Just because it's
the digital wage and things like that. So that's how
I get my writing out.

Speaker 2 (01:24:16):
Just throwing that up. That's a sick idea.

Speaker 1 (01:24:19):
That's a great idea.

Speaker 2 (01:24:21):
That's a dad hack.

Speaker 1 (01:24:22):
That's a dad hack. Man.

Speaker 2 (01:24:24):
I am, I have my trenches if we want to
go into that second, absolutely, because I don't. I for
the first time and for the dad's history, I don't
have a dad loss. That's big. I bet we could
find one though, if we really wanted to dig for it. Sure, Jill,

(01:24:44):
we have dad lots. In five seconds, you're like, yeah,
do you see the toilets heat this morning? There? You gods,
but the trenches. Jill's birthday party, it was absolutely incredible. Bill,
being pregnant has not had like the opportunities to be

(01:25:05):
as social as she has wanted to be and to
like host events and to drink alcohol in like a
celebratory way and all those things. And so her thirtieth
birthday she did a fantastic job of just ordering like
all these little tablecloths and little lanterns to like hang

(01:25:25):
in the trees and twinkle lights. And her stepdad built
that a frame I was talking about on last week's episode.
We hung all the twinkle lights and it was just
like an epic night. Chef pulled through Furda, pulled through
Ryan pulled through. Chef looked good in his Teddy Bear
hat too. He rocked the Teddy Bear hat at Jill's

(01:25:47):
party and looked like a dude. But the trendiest part
of it was doing all that with no family in
town and like balancing taking care of Skarlet and setting
up for the party. And I just have to kind
of give myself a poundment back, but really give Jill

(01:26:09):
a pat on the back, because it was so sick
seeing us operate with like Scarlet's crying. Scarlet's crying, put
her in the baby Bajor and put her in the
front yard, and we're rocking her in the front yard
as we're like putting up the tables and I'm hanging
the lights. And then now Scarlet's in a good mood
and she's looking at all the leaves up in the
trees and gone, oh, like ah, you are making noises,

(01:26:30):
and we're like, oh, Scarlett, you like the party, and
like everything was just so incredible. The night of the
party was incredible. We did have I will keep his
name out of it because I have not talked with
him about sharing this. But we had a dude at
the party that was coming fresh off of a torn
laborum surgery and he was talking to chef and uh,

(01:26:54):
while he was talking to chef, his shoulder went out
of socket, and I guess like the world closed in
on him and he passed out like four or five times,
like fully at the front door of our house, like
pass out into my arms. Thankfully I was right there
and caught him. I was like, oh man, this guy's drunk.

Speaker 3 (01:27:16):
That's what I thought too, And he didn't see it. It
was so weird. He kind of like all of a
sudden because he was so sober. Yeah, he was looking
at me.

Speaker 4 (01:27:23):
He goes, do you have all the like out of
like that you have a bathroom or something here? Like
I was like, oh what, let me sure, And I'm
grabbing schirms over by the tragger badass trigger by.

Speaker 1 (01:27:34):
The way, thank you will shout, oh yeah, shout out.
Rectech made some Halpino poppers that was fun amazing.

Speaker 3 (01:27:43):
Uh yeah, and he just I didn't see him pass out,
but he looked.

Speaker 4 (01:27:46):
I was like, man, this guy hammered and just hiding it.

Speaker 2 (01:27:50):
It was crazy. I catch him and he's fully limp.
He's around your size, not like uh is filled out,
but I mean way bigger than me.

Speaker 1 (01:28:00):
Hey boy.

Speaker 2 (01:28:01):
Yeah, And so I catch him. I'm like, oh my god, Jared,
they would me out of nowhere, like comes up and
we're getting them pulled up and dude he like came
back to He's like, hey, do you have a bathroom.
I'm like, yeah, let's get into the bathroom. Ountain know
what's going on. And we get him like five steps
into the house and he just again, and that time

(01:28:22):
I like caught him, caught him. We got him on
the couch, and thank god, Jill's a nurse and had
like eight of her nursing friends there that dude was
taken care of. They had they had a steposcope on him,
they were checking poles. Everybody at the party like it
died for like ten seconds and everybody's like, oh my god. Yeah,

(01:28:44):
But it ended up all being good. He was totally fine.
We like we laid him down horizontal and he ended
up getting home safe and they diagnosed it with what
happened with the shoulder. I guess they popped it back
in place for him. It's crazy, but I know, but
that whole night, everything about it, with all the little
curveball oh and the entire time that that's going on,

(01:29:07):
Scarlet would not go down for the first time in
two weeks. She's in her crib the entire time, going
like screaming as I'm holding this guy, and so as
soon as we get him on the couch, I'm like,
I gotta go tend to Scarlett.

Speaker 1 (01:29:24):
Yeah, And I was.

Speaker 2 (01:29:25):
In the nursery for like twenty minutes as the party's
going on, just being like, come on, girl, like of
all nights, I need you to go down, I need
you to go down.

Speaker 4 (01:29:34):
Can I give a quick shout out too, shirm because
as someone that was just there, him and Jill both
handled themselves really really well. You'd have a ye're aware
that Scarlet isn't going down. They have a baby monitor
out there on the tables, but they're still like, you know,
extremely kind and courteous. It's you know, handling it like pros.

(01:29:57):
I mean, it was very cool to see you guys. Uh.
I'm sure that was a lot and internally probably really hectic,
but you couldn't see that from the outside. They were
amazing hosts of this awesome venue. Sure them on the
grill is.

Speaker 2 (01:30:10):
Dangerous, dangerous Texas boys. Texas boy. I don't know that
smoker is a pretty big cheat code. I mean you
put that day. I have an app in everything, he said.
I don't know, I don't know. People can mess up
the smoker. Yeah, yeah, well come on now, there's a
little if you're mess If you're messing up with smoker,
we need to talk. We need to have a little combo.

Speaker 1 (01:30:30):
But drug.

Speaker 2 (01:30:35):
And that's true. It's the Indian, not the Arrow as
they say. But yeah, it was fun. It was actually
shout out Chef, and shout out Ryan, and shout out Matt.
We call him Ferda in this office. Jill said her
favorite part of the night was talking to those three guys.
And that was my other crack of cold one is.

(01:30:56):
I looked at the party, all the twinkle lights, everything
going on, and all Jill's friends are meeting, all of
Mitch's friends. Everybody's kind of bonding. And I look over
and I see Jill with the drink in her hand,
and y'all had drinks in your hands, and they're laughing
so hard. For is doing something crazy. He's like acting
something out Jill's dying laughing. An hour passed by, truly

(01:31:18):
an hour, and I look back up and Jill was
still talking to those three guys and they're still laughing.
And the next morning she woke up and she said,
I gotta tell you, my favorite part of the party
was talking to those she calls them the interns, which
y'all aren't interns anymore, but she was like, talking to
the interns was They are so much fun. It was

(01:31:39):
just like that life like coming back of like, yeah,
being able to like live and be in the moment,
but also bouncing the scarlet, taking care of her. It
was awesome.

Speaker 1 (01:31:50):
I love that.

Speaker 2 (01:31:50):
That was my trenches, y'all. We did watch the bust
and Bowl. We did watch the bust and bawl.

Speaker 1 (01:32:00):
The boys are riding. Yeah, should we get to some callers.

Speaker 2 (01:32:04):
Let's get to some calls.

Speaker 1 (01:32:05):
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(01:32:27):
six o one the dads at gmail dot com. How many?
How many?

Speaker 2 (01:32:33):
How many we doing this week? Does we got two?
Two callers? We'll go quick?

Speaker 1 (01:32:37):
All right?

Speaker 4 (01:32:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:32:39):
What's up?

Speaker 1 (01:32:40):
Well?

Speaker 7 (01:32:40):
I just wanted to share with you a little story,
little answer that I had with my three year old
the other day. By the way, I just had another daughter,
uh about a month ago, but I also got a
three year old the other day.

Speaker 8 (01:32:52):
I'm working from home on my computer.

Speaker 3 (01:32:54):
I look over.

Speaker 8 (01:32:55):
My three year old is riding on the walls with
motherfucking whiteboard marker. I fucking a reserve judgment. I wait,
she looks over. I mean, my first thought is the
ripper anew him? I hold off, so I just ask, hey,
why'd you do that? She looks me dead in the
fucking eye and says it wasn't me, it was John Cena,

(01:33:19):
John fucking Sina. I didn't know what to say, so
I immediately dropped a wrestling promo on how fucking dare
you bring up John Blame John Cena, seven time world champ,
the franchise. Matter of fact, go to your room. It's
rough dude, raising a baby, You're just basically staring.

Speaker 7 (01:33:40):
At it fucking all day, making sure it's fine and
fucking not dead.

Speaker 8 (01:33:45):
A three year old, it's fucking war. It's fucking war
every day, and they need to teach this shit in schools.
How is the fucking guy supposed to prepare for this?

Speaker 5 (01:33:55):
What the fuck?

Speaker 2 (01:33:57):
The only thing I'll say is, how do we know
it wasn't John Cena. You can't see him, you know
for a fact. How does a three year old connect
those dots to go ultimate Alibi and the man? So funny,
John Cena.

Speaker 1 (01:34:11):
He's not wrong about with the three year old. It
is just war verbally at all times. Twenty four to seven.
You say one wrong thing to them and they think,
you know, they're in their world thinking they're doing whatever
it is. They just snap at you, bro, Yeah, like
I'm doing this first. I told you I'm doing this first. Okay,
take it easy, Jesus Christ.

Speaker 2 (01:34:33):
We also have to put the real reaction video in
this episode to the hair.

Speaker 1 (01:34:39):
Bro me walking in with the bald head and just
her like scared for life, but also still kind of
trusting what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:34:49):
And her voice as you walk in before she sees
you in the dada and then as she sees you
just total monotone.

Speaker 1 (01:34:58):
Yeah, your nervous, a very nervous energy.

Speaker 3 (01:35:02):
Do you like it?

Speaker 2 (01:35:05):
Yes, silent nod.

Speaker 1 (01:35:07):
You want to touch it? And she's just like and
then kind of.

Speaker 2 (01:35:10):
Like she was she was, yeah, I'm not sure.

Speaker 1 (01:35:17):
Oh I did to get her last night because we
kind of motivate her with a piece of a cookie
for after dinner.

Speaker 2 (01:35:22):
Oh heck yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:35:24):
And she was on one not want to eat a
hamburger patty. We had burger cut up the burger. She
wanted it with the bun, but all she wants to
do is eat the bun, not the burger.

Speaker 2 (01:35:34):
Hey, that's a good call, good call.

Speaker 1 (01:35:39):
I was like, sweet, I'll get you the bun. We'll
get you the bun, but you're eating the burger with it.
And she's like, okay, I know. I'm like, well, if
you know, then why haven't you already been doing it?
And so I'm like tearing off the burger bund and
then she eats the burger bund and well, I tear
off one piece and I put it on her plate
and then I'm the burger bun and she's like I

(01:36:02):
want more. I was like, no, your bun's right there.
I want to see how you're gonna do the bun
and the burger like you said, like you said you.

Speaker 2 (01:36:10):
Were gonna do it.

Speaker 1 (01:36:11):
You do that, I'll give you some more piece of bread.
She's like, I don't like the burger. She got. She
puts the bread in her my house and starts eating
and she's like, I don't like the burger. She starts whining,
and I'm like, you know, pissed off. I'm like, you
said you're gonna eat the burger, like you gotta eat
the burger with the bread. And she's like, I want
more bread. I want I want more, I want more
of the pun.

Speaker 2 (01:36:30):
I want the bun.

Speaker 1 (01:36:32):
And so I'm like, I'm like, fine, i'll give you
a bun, but you're eating the burger. So I start
turning off the bun and put.

Speaker 2 (01:36:39):
So my daughter's a liar, now that's what we're doing.
And she likes.

Speaker 1 (01:36:44):
She like picks up the piece of bond and I'm like,
you're putting burger on that. He's like, I was like, here,
I'll show you how to do it. She starts getting
fussy and I like, take the fork and like, get
the bun, get the burger with it. I'm like, this
is how you eat it, and then she doesn't want
to do it, so she just kind of sits there.
And it's what I've kind of been doing recently, Like
when I was solo with her last week, like this,
this was what I was.

Speaker 2 (01:37:04):
Hitting her with.

Speaker 1 (01:37:05):
Okay, if you don't want to eat, you don't have
to eat. You can go sit on you can go
sit on the couch.

Speaker 2 (01:37:09):
You don't have to eat. And what she would do.

Speaker 1 (01:37:12):
She didn't do this last night, but what she was
starting to do is she might get up and mosy
around the couch or whatever, and then she's like that
kind of have a cookie. You ain't getting a cookie
cookies for CPC Clean Plate Club. You only get a
cookie if you're part of the CPC.

Speaker 2 (01:37:30):
And hold on one second. We have the membership card
right here. Let me oh, yeah, you're not on that,
as is on it. That as good as a cookie.

Speaker 1 (01:37:38):
But last night Mom is like it got to a
point to where she was starting to eat the burger
in the bond. I was fired up by I see,
I told you it's good. It's fun to try new things,
cause it might taste good. That's Daniel Tiger. Come on, Danny,
Come on, Daniel Tiger. And it got to a point
where Charles like, uh, you can eat three more bites

(01:37:58):
and you'll be done or something like that. And so
she so she eats three bytes and then she like
gets off the chair and she runs over to get
a cookie. And she was like, uh that I get
a cookie. I get a cookie.

Speaker 4 (01:38:11):
Now.

Speaker 1 (01:38:11):
I was like, you can't get a cookie. You're not
part of the Clean Play Club. So Mama said, three more,
three more bites. I'm like, yeah, three more bites and
you can be done eating. If you want a cookie.
You're eating all this burger.

Speaker 2 (01:38:21):
That's CPC.

Speaker 1 (01:38:22):
You're yeah, that's how you get into the Yeah, you
gotta be CPC. If you're gonna get a cookie.

Speaker 2 (01:38:27):
TBC is three bike club that don't get a cookie.

Speaker 1 (01:38:30):
That don't get no cookie. You can be done eating food.
If you are fool and you're done eating food, then
have at it. You can be done eating food. And
she said, but I want a cookie. I was like,
if you said you're full, then how are you gonna
have room for a cookie? You can't you're full? You
said you you can't eat anymore, and.

Speaker 2 (01:38:48):
Then her wheels are spinning a house. She's like kind
of sitting there looking.

Speaker 1 (01:38:51):
I'm like, if you listen, you ate your three bytes,
that is amazing. You can be done eating for the night.
You can be done eating. You can hang out, you
can go play, you do what whatever you want. But
if you want a cookie, you're eating that plate of food.
She goes over, knocks it out. Bro, let's go knocks
it out. That's a dad win, Big dad win, Big
dad up. And I walked by my wife. You see

(01:39:13):
how Dad I handled that one.

Speaker 2 (01:39:16):
You're up.

Speaker 1 (01:39:17):
Yeah, Yeah, I'm gonna go watch. I start breaking it
down here, just like you know, psychologically in her mind,
it's what I was telling her while you were gone.
Sometimes she didn't want to eat any dinner. Sweet, you
don't have to eat dinner. I'm not even I feel
like you if you put the pressure on the kid,
or you start stressing, which happens like again, it happens
for me like every day. Yeah yeah, but you start
doing that, they just start getting resistive and fighting you

(01:39:37):
about it to where they don't end up eating. You're
all done eating food. They haven't eat a bite of
their plate and you're kind of just sitting there at
the dinner table, like, sweetheart, we need you to start eating.
She wants to play, she wants to journal. She's got
this journal to where all she basically does is like
scribble in between the lines. Thinks she's right, she thinks
she's writing something. She's like, right, sweetheart, you gotta start eating.

Speaker 2 (01:39:57):
I'm finiching my journal. I'll finishing my journal, then I'll
eat food.

Speaker 1 (01:40:02):
I'm like, you ain't even write nothing of something, just
finish that line. I saw that journal is gonna be
there when you're done eating food.

Speaker 2 (01:40:11):
We need to and also we're we're good on that,
but we are time wise. It is n I'm thirty two.

Speaker 1 (01:40:18):
I texted clumpetson nine forty five for the okay, perfect for.

Speaker 2 (01:40:22):
The team meeting. But yeah, that's how.

Speaker 1 (01:40:24):
That's how that has been handling dinner time for parents
out there looking for some techniques, looking for some strategy. Dads,
you want to put the wife on some game, because
after I executed that, I'm kind of tea I'm kind
of telling Charlie like I'm like, in my brain, I
think I'm teaching her what to do because I won't
buy a nuger. You see how I handled that one.
You gave her three bites. You would have gave her
a cookie. I know you would have gave her a kikie. No,

(01:40:45):
that ain't how we handle it.

Speaker 2 (01:40:47):
I would have. I would love to see Will on
a whiteboard to just charrow. You see how I did.
You see what's going on when we run that so
in her brain?

Speaker 1 (01:40:57):
If I just tell her she doesn't want to eat
any of her food, I just homly, all right, Hey,
you don't eat, that's fine. You ain't getting no snacks.
You ain't getting nothing else, No juice, no snacks, no
TV coupon, no cookie, no nothing. If you want to
be done eating, you don't have to eat. We can
go get ready for bed.

Speaker 2 (01:41:13):
She has to think she's in control, Chara. We gotta
let her make the mistake and learn from it. Yeah,
and that's how we're gonna do it. Right here. Let
me show you out.

Speaker 1 (01:41:21):
Yeah, Oh you want to go to bed hungry, Go ahead,
I promise you do your thing. You don't eat food
that we worked, that we worked on. We've had a
hard day. We want to just have some love and
support here at the dinner table tonight and you don't
want to respect that.

Speaker 2 (01:41:33):
Go ahead, go do your thing. Oh you just want bread.
See how you're Tommy feels tomorrow morning.

Speaker 1 (01:41:37):
Yeah, let's just see bread. Yeah, go ahead, eat whatever
you want, sweetheart, do your thing. Oh you want a cookie.
That's funny. Now you're in my world. Now you had control.
You just gave it back to me. Yeah yeah, yeah,
you want that cookie. Come eat this plate of food, sweetheart?
Oh my god, she though.

Speaker 2 (01:41:58):
Oh yeah, we are we're we are short on time.
We're coming up to an hour, so we can kick
it to our topic. Quote or lesson of the week.

Speaker 1 (01:42:08):
Do you have one?

Speaker 2 (01:42:09):
I have a quote of the week.

Speaker 1 (01:42:10):
I have a quote as well.

Speaker 2 (01:42:12):
Okay, sick, do you wanna I can go? I can go.

Speaker 1 (01:42:16):
Rock paper scissors, rock paper scissors, rock paper scissors.

Speaker 2 (01:42:19):
Shoot, rock paper scissors. Shooe okay, okay, rock paper scissors. Shoot. Ooh,
so I got you wanna go first or second? I'll
go first? All right? Quote of the week. Oh man,
this was really good. Okay. This comes from my dad
Loss of like for listeners of the episodes, you know
my big dad Loss that featured the airport for somebody

(01:42:43):
that's new. I had maybe the biggest dad loss of
all time, like two or three weeks ago, and let's
just say I should have been in the doghouse for weeks.
Jill is a very forgiving wife and we love her
for that. During my crash out, I was saying how
I felt very like I felt like I fall short

(01:43:03):
a lot of the time, and that Jill doesn't think
that I'm a good dad. Jill's my wife, and she's
sitting there reassuring me that she thinks I'm an incredible dad.
And then she hit me with this quote, which WiFi listeners,

(01:43:24):
empty six ers out there, hit your hubby with this one.
Oh man. She the next day she said, I'm sure.
I just want you to know that when you're at work,
me and Scarlet we talk about how much we love
our dad and how awesome our dad is all the
time when you aren't here. That's it. That's the quote.

(01:43:46):
And that melted me. Melted me of just like you
might think you're falling short, but like we talk about
how awesome you are and how much we love you
when you're not around. And I was just like, oh,
I just hold onto that when I'm at work and
I miss him. That like I have a partner that's
sitting there just gassing me.

Speaker 1 (01:44:07):
Up at home, and it just juicing you up unless
you forgot the diaper.

Speaker 2 (01:44:11):
Bag, unless I forget the But even when I forget
the diaper bag, she's sitting there saying, you have the
best dad in the world, which I'm just.

Speaker 1 (01:44:17):
Like, your dad is so awesome. Even he falls short.

Speaker 2 (01:44:21):
Sometimes, even he falls short, even he leaves the diaper
bag in the car. But that that was my quote
of the week.

Speaker 1 (01:44:27):
I love that.

Speaker 2 (01:44:28):
Think you love that.

Speaker 1 (01:44:28):
The tears fill the eyes again yet again. You're a
good dude. Man.

Speaker 2 (01:44:32):
Hey, thank you MiG as. Are you minus six hundred?
By the way, the odds have to be pushed.

Speaker 1 (01:44:39):
I think you're in plus odds. You get multiple cries,
it's like a it's like.

Speaker 2 (01:44:44):
Oh sorry, sorry sorry plus six hundred.

Speaker 1 (01:44:47):
That's like two plus touchdowns.

Speaker 4 (01:44:48):
Yes, I met plus last year when christ McCaffrey was
playing so well that people were like, well, it's mis
two hundred for touch it might as well go two
tuddies and yeah, twuddies.

Speaker 1 (01:44:58):
Yeah that is right.

Speaker 2 (01:45:00):
Wait is it? If there's a big likelihood of it happening,
it would be minus six hundred, right, because like the adds.

Speaker 1 (01:45:11):
Right, but you did it twice.

Speaker 3 (01:45:13):
Oh I see, so if you.

Speaker 1 (01:45:14):
Took the first one, hey over under the boys?

Speaker 2 (01:45:18):
Yeah, yeah, cryer.

Speaker 1 (01:45:21):
Anytime the boys cry on the episode, likely very likely
that minus six hundred you get them twice, two separate occasions.
The odds start, you know, going down.

Speaker 2 (01:45:31):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. I do like that.

Speaker 1 (01:45:33):
Yeah, I do like that. I have a I have
a quote as well.

Speaker 2 (01:45:37):
Let's go.

Speaker 1 (01:45:38):
One of the greatest things a father can do is
to show his children that he, too, is still learning.
And a couple of takeaways from that is, uh, it
shows them humility over pride. So kids see that dad
doesn't have it all figured out and it's okay, and
it helps take the pressure off them of being perfect
when they see you falling short and you kind of

(01:45:59):
and you kind of explo laning through your shortcomings. I
feel like it helps takes pressure off the kids because
they see us as the superheroes, right Like anytime a
shortcoming happens and you pull from your rolodecks of an
experience from the past, and they're kind of like locked in,
like oh, Daddy, you cried too, or Daddy, you've gotten
booboos too, or you know, Rue came up last night
when I was putting Scotty down and was kind of

(01:46:20):
crying and I was low key. When she came in,
I was like, damn it, Rue, because I was just
getting Scotty to sleep and Ruke opens up the door
and she's got like the cry noises going and she's like, Dad, Dad,
I'm like, what is this, sweetheart? And she was like
I need a hug. I'm like, oh, you want to
hug Scotty.

Speaker 2 (01:46:35):
She's like no. I was like, oh, you need her
from dead? Then's what's going on? What's wrong?

Speaker 1 (01:46:38):
And she's like, uh, I spilled water. She must have
spilled a lot of water downstairs. And so I was
giving her a hug and let her know it's okay
that had spills water all the time. I promise if
this is going to be okay, you know what, even
Scotty Jojo she gets in Waffle's water bowl every day,
spills water everywhere, and that's okay. I'm sure. I don't
even know the situation that happened. I'm just saying, I'm

(01:46:59):
sure you're trying to be perfect and try to do
something nice and spilled and it's gonna be Okay, so
that whole humility over pride perspective. It also teaches that
growth is lifelong. They learn that growth doesn't stop, whether
it's after school, if they're older, after work, after any
big moment in life, that growth is lifelong, that you're
always staying curious, you're always trying to figure out ways

(01:47:22):
to get better. And then the third thing is modeling curiosity.
Children imitate more than they listen. They see us like
seeking wisdom, reading, learning through a failure, struggling of falling
short at times, loving on mom like you're modeling this behavior.
Because here's something else I found. I came across that

(01:47:45):
it feels like ties the bow on this one, ok.
And that every parent should want should remember that one
day our kids will follow our example and not our advice.
So we can have all of the words the world,
We can have all of the great you know, whatever
it is one liners, or if they do something wrong

(01:48:05):
and you're kind of telling them what they should be doing,
or you're always giving them solutions and not like being
in the problem with them, if you're always just talking
at them and you're not modeling this behavior, you're not
modeling these examples, you know, the words that'll that'll go
through one of year out the other. But if they
see you modeling this stuff too, that it's okay to
not be perfect, that us that we are, we are
also still learning in our superhero form, to them that

(01:48:29):
it gives them the courage to do the same, like
as they get older, as they grow, like when they're
in their own sticky situations. But yeah, that was my quote.
I love that was a quote. Dad lesson on it,
thoughts on it.

Speaker 2 (01:48:41):
To apply quickly to my own life. Just in adulthood.
There are multiple situations where I think to myself, not
a shot in hell my dad would do that, Like
when I'm pressed up on a situation of oh, here's
the easy way of you could do this, and I
just imagine my mom or my dad would be like,
no way they would do that. So even to this day,

(01:49:04):
like that you like followed their example or like what
that creation of morality or decision making that you have
pictured of your parent, Like here at thirty two years old,
I'm still sitting there going, no, I'm not gonna do
that because there's no way my dad.

Speaker 1 (01:49:21):
Would do that. Yeah, No, I agree, even on the
stuff that the behaviors that we would grow up seeing
or witnessing that we wouldn't necessarily want to put into
our bag of parenthood. Or if you don't realize you're
doing it, Like maybe this is going to be a
broken way of trying to explain this, But let's just
say subconsciously, you had you saw a bad model of

(01:49:46):
behavior from your parents growing up, right, and then you're
then a parent one day and maybe you're not doing
the best job, and you might not even realize that
you think you are, but everybody's on you, and you're
kind of just projecting all this stuff and realistically, like
you're just thinking you're modeling, you're subconsciously modeling the behavior
that you saw growing up. So where there's some you know,

(01:50:08):
probably some therapy sessions or some things that you need
to look like cool see in the mirror to forgive
your parents for or to like learn from that, you realize,
like you're just modeling that behavior. So I think it
goes like both ways, one hundred great examples of how
your parents would handle it, and even subconsciously, like when
you think you're you know, when you're you're not doing
the best, you don't even know that you're not doing

(01:50:29):
the best. But if you actually sit down and sit
with yourself, like say you're sitting there with the therapist
and then you're coming to grips or you're coming to
Jesus about like you know, the way you are being,
and you realize it's a lot of a seed that
was planted when you were young, a lot of things
that you witnessed that wasn't good for you or good
for your soul that you're not even aware that it
wasn't good for your soul. But you're learning that you've

(01:50:49):
been projecting all this out into the world, and you
know that's when the tears come and you start to
forgive yourself and all these things start to happen. But again,
you're just modeling behavior that you saw growing up. Because
a lot of people, majority of people come from not
great situations.

Speaker 2 (01:51:04):
Yeah you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:51:05):
We all have experiences with our parents at one time
or another to where it's like, you know, this is
not a behavior you want to have, Like it's the
whole saying of like you want to be better than
your parents, or your parents they want you to be
better than them too. But those generational curses that you
think are curses, But really it's just you're just remodeling
behavior that you thought you that you thought you had

(01:51:27):
to do, that you witness growing up.

Speaker 2 (01:51:29):
Yes, which is innate in like most mammals like that,
behaving like your parents. Yeah, like that is a it
is deep seated in us. Yeah, like that is a
normal thing. But to your point, like those things can't
be broken, those things can be identified and eliminated from

(01:51:51):
your bag of shortcomings.

Speaker 1 (01:51:54):
Yeah. Great, example is just a buddy calling in and saying,
like when he saw three year old drawing on the wall,
and he's like, I wanted to react, and maybe he didn't. Maybe,
like you know, but just use that example. If he
grew up in a household to where you're correcting bad
behavior in a like a verbally negative way, you might
not know any different. You think you're parenting the way

(01:52:16):
you know how to parent. Everybody else's so off you
need to be harder on your kids when really it's
just a three year old riding on the wall. But
in that moment, say he was somebody who grew up
in a bad model behavior household, he's wanting to react,
but maybe in that moment he's intentionally grabbing himself like
this is a generational curse that I'm starting to break.
This is a three year old scribbling on the wall, Like,
let me just ask her, hey, what are you doing?

Speaker 2 (01:52:37):
Anditate you with that.

Speaker 1 (01:52:38):
It wasn't me, it was John Cen. But it's moments
like that. Yeah, you know what I mean that you
can just take from an easy example of this could
go that way because the parent doesn't know any different.
He thinks this is how you have to correct this
behavior of drawing on the wall. But really you're scaring
them and everything else because they're just a three year
old and they have no clue what they're doing. But
if you're that dad who like, who's frustrated, But you

(01:53:00):
can just grab yourself in the moment to be like,
you know, hopefully you're in a good mood about it,
but if not, you grab yourself and intentionally think she
doesn't know what she's doing.

Speaker 2 (01:53:08):
Yeah, where we doing it? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:53:12):
Why you get the markers out right now? That's permanent marker.

Speaker 2 (01:53:15):
This is called the permanent marker. And this over here
that's called the wall.

Speaker 1 (01:53:18):
Yeah you wanna yeah, yeah, you wanna know what I'm
gonna have to make up to fall on the sword
for your mother.

Speaker 2 (01:53:25):
White board.

Speaker 1 (01:53:26):
Yeah, sweet, I didn't have a white board. Like I'm
gonna have to make this make sense somehow. What made
you think this is a good idea.

Speaker 2 (01:53:32):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:53:33):
I was having fun with the girls. I'll fall on
the sword for you. For the love of God, we
can't be coloring on the wall.

Speaker 2 (01:53:38):
Yeah. I hate to cut it, cut a short, but
we we do have to wrap up. Yeah, we gotta
wrap up. Good soud bald bi great bald brigade, bald
but grant bald brigade. That is hard to say. Bald brigade.
We dad shaved.

Speaker 1 (01:53:58):
Yeah, God get the head shaped October October after engagement
photos for Derek. We'll get you, right, Chef, Papa Team
six signed off. Make sure your trash are taken out
and leave comments again. You want to be featured on
the show, Just drop comments. Just get in the community.
The community is awesome. Engage with each other. Papa Team

(01:54:19):
six is growing. Yep, and we are fired. The hell up.

Speaker 2 (01:54:22):
We're fired.

Speaker 1 (01:54:23):
The hell up.

Speaker 2 (01:54:23):
Drop a little wolf, Yeah, Troup a little Wolf.

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