Will Compton Talks How Crucial Communication Is & Thanksgiving Traditions | For The Dads - Bussin' With The Boys

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Team six Welcome to another episode Before the Dads. I

(00:21):
hope your trash is taken out. I hope your the
school lunches are packed. I also hope you forgot to
take out the car seat from your vehicle to give
back to your wife so she could put in her vehicles.

Speaker 2 (00:32):
Yes, right now.

Speaker 1 (00:33):
I got a text right before we logged on here,
and it's my it's my wife. Do you have Scotty's
car seat base with the with this emojisa?

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Is it's to the point where it's becoming a joke now?

Speaker 1 (00:45):
Uh, it's happened a few times. Yeah, it's a few
that's a good things. Yeah, because yeah, that's good. Hey
I forgot the car seat?

Speaker 2 (00:52):
Good?

Speaker 4 (00:53):
Oh uh what is it?

Speaker 2 (00:55):
Sue me? Oh, sue me?

Speaker 1 (00:58):
I took the kids to breakfast on Sunday morning. Needed
the car seat bass. And every time we get back home,
I just it fleet. It just goes through the brain, ye,
and I forget and then it's it's in the weekday.
Charle might be trying to take him to work so
the nanny can come pick Scottie up there, and it's age.
You forget the car seat bass, sweetheart, you.

Speaker 4 (01:19):
Gotta remind me in the mornings.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
Heart emoji, hard emogi hart emoji. I sure did, sweetie. Yeah,
I love you, Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's one where it's
like it do the car seat basses? They make them
so easy right now, and I listen, I've blown. I've
blown it with any brain that I use, because I
don't I don't really know what I use.

Speaker 4 (01:37):
I think it's the noon.

Speaker 3 (01:38):
Let's go, let's go find out after the pod. By
the way, we gotta lock this in.

Speaker 1 (01:42):
But the car seat bass is that you just kind
of snap in and then you put the car seat
on top. No like using the seat belt and doing
on the maneuver like the wrestling in the back seat.
You gotta do so on the car seat bass is
in my truck YEP, she's got to be in the
backseat wrestling the seat belt to get her locked in.

Speaker 4 (01:57):
But that's what I'm dealing with right now.

Speaker 3 (02:00):
Yeah, I'm dealing with forgetting to change Scarlet's diaper before
I take her into daycare. I obviously change her when
she wakes up, but I'm just dropping off a poop
and grenade to the daycare worker.

Speaker 4 (02:10):
And you what's crazy.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Too, is you'll smell it and you'll just be like,
I know what's going on. I'm hating you a grenade
right now. As I look you in the eye. I'm
gonna pretend that I don't smell anything.

Speaker 2 (02:24):
Or they take her.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Like, oh, oh, you got a little sticky that. Oh,
she must have just did that. Then I just changed
her before I got her in the car. That just happened.
That's crazy. It's a podcast for the dad's, the wins,
the losses. We just essentially talk about our experiences as fathers.
My dog SHRM or also known as Fat Stafford on
the show, has a four month old five month old

(02:47):
Scarlet yep, beautiful baby girl. I have a three year
old Roue and a one year old Scottie who just
turned one last week. Reasons Reasons, what are the reasons
why people tune into the show. Shirm uh community community.

Speaker 4 (03:03):
That's probably that's that's number one.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Dads are just straight up in the comments, putting other
dads on game, telling funny stories themselves. I berely laugh
at at some of the comments.

Speaker 4 (03:13):
I did too.

Speaker 1 (03:14):
It almost feels like it's just refreshing that we know
we're all going through this shit together. Yes, like we're
not the only ones who just forget to change or
change the diapers, or forget the car seat in the car.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
Yes, it makes you realize how human we all are,
and it just makes life that much easier. As I
keep on I'm grading myself too hard, and I see
the pet sikos in the comments, I'm like, okay, I'm
in the dridge as well.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
It's okay. And for those new people tune it in.
Our community is called Papa Team six. If you are
a father, if you are somebody who's trying to be
a father, that means you're going through buds training, breeding
until dad status. If you are not a father, not
looking to be a father soon, we have those listeners.
We have that kind of community as well, or they
just love to tune in and listen to Dad's talk shop.

(03:59):
Maybe excite them about becoming a father one day. Maybe
they're like, this is the birth control pill that I
need to not be a dad right now. Either way
that your community is called Semen Team six ST six.
The leader that had honch over that is Chef Jack
over there. And then you got the Funkals, you got
the fun uncles. We got Deeke in the back. He's
been ripping. He's been ripping with the boys. What's so funny?

Speaker 3 (04:19):
I just I love it. The captain is Seman Team six.

Speaker 4 (04:22):
He's the captain. He's the captain, He's the leader. He
is he definitely is. He's the leader and all and
the Funkles headed up by Deeke. Yeah, we're just covering everything.
We're growing the family.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
Man we are.

Speaker 1 (04:33):
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against the family and the way you do go against
the families by not subscribing to this channel. If you
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and love listening to this show, just do the boys
a favor and make sure you are subscribed to the channel.
I believe we're getting close to ten thousand subscribers. We
might be what fifteen hundred away or yeah, fifteen hundred away.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
That sounds about right.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
That sounds about right. Fifteen hundred away from ten thousand
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Speaker 4 (05:16):
Across the board. We're also on social media at for
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Speaker 3 (05:19):
Uh, give us a little follow, give us a little
and that's across the board. That's across that's TikTok, Instagram, Twitter, Yeah,
the Amazon.

Speaker 4 (05:26):
One formerly known as Twitter, the Amazon one.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (05:29):
Reddit. Is there a Reddit page out there yet? There
is a Reddit page out there? I kind of need
a Seaman Team six Reddit page. Yeah. I think that
will be more fun with the gooon berets a bunch
of Yes, there's also boom berets out there.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Those are a wild cards. Those are the young cats.
Those are the young cats out there. Is that is
Matt in that division? Nerded we I.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
Would say, Matt, who's one of our social media producers
for Busting with the Boys, he is one thousand percent
of goon Beret.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:56):
Yeah, I have video evidence that pre Matt. Yeah, and
then dudes.

Speaker 1 (06:01):
To be around you know, they're guys, guys, but they
also got a little d bag in him.

Speaker 2 (06:10):
I could already see mass reaction.

Speaker 4 (06:12):
He's gonna he throw the hands up.

Speaker 2 (06:14):
You may get way too dramatic. Well, An, they're talking
about me before the dad. He'll never watch this. Maybe
his dad does a quick, a quick thing. And while
we're on this topic, where's Jared Beamon demon I said,
did we discuss this? Because he wanted to know where
he fell in on stream? He did. He was very

(06:34):
he unlike Matt would watch this and would love to
know because he was.

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Already interested in Like, because we'll be on a Thursday
night football stream, So anything we have going on with
Bustle with the Boys, say we're streaming, we'll have Papa
Team six ers jump in the chat, be like PT
six for life or shout out PT six. So we'll
start calling it out because we know we know what
it is with Papa Team six Yeah.

Speaker 4 (06:54):
Oh man.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
Then they peaked Jared's interest, like, Hey, what you guys
got going on? We were kind of breaking down the
commune that he's in. The tears to him and.

Speaker 4 (07:02):
I'm seeing all these sickos, all these sickos. I want
to be a sicko, Like you make a good six
he would. I personally think he's he's right now. He's
in the Semen Team six. He's in the Semen Team six.
He's got himself a lady. They live together.

Speaker 1 (07:19):
He's not in buds training, they're not you know, it's
not like they're one kids anytime soon. So he's a
prime candidate for Semen Team six. He's not a goon beret.
He's more he's he's matured out of the goon beret status.

Speaker 3 (07:30):
And I have evidence that he is full Semen Team
six from this past weekend. We did a little hangout
with him and mcas Franklin.

Speaker 5 (07:41):
He was talking big about how he did this weekend,
and I don't know his performance about how well he did,
so I'm excited to hear the truth.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
He did do one thing.

Speaker 4 (07:52):
To hell, he did more than one thing, but he
did do one thing to help me on Saturday, and
he looked at me and he goes talk about that
on the pod.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
And the difference people might be wondering, like, you got
a couple of young cats, they're in their twenties. Yeah,
what separates Jared from being Seemen Team six and Matt
being a Goombrey. Jared has his own responsibilities, He pays
his bills. Matt sleeps east. I think he sleeps on
a race car twin with his parents right now. Like
he's ripping around. I know he hates if he listens,
he's gonna hate hearing. But to me, that's the separation

(08:23):
of a goom Beret and a Seemen Team sixer.

Speaker 3 (08:25):
No, I think he would fully agree. And when we
told him that he was a Goombray, he got excited
about being a goombre. And I think that that is
a tailtale sign of a true gooner.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
Yeah, of a true gooner.

Speaker 3 (08:41):
And so I think he is not only happy to
be in the Goombreys, but he could be an early
leader of the Goombras.

Speaker 1 (08:50):
Yeah, yeah, anyone he could. You know, he's gonna love
this breakdown. Rizzo is gonna love this.

Speaker 4 (08:59):
Yeah, Matt.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
Matt's definitely gooble Ray. You're gonna be sitting there sipping
his call. I see that kits and I forgot my
Barsita base too.

Speaker 4 (09:07):
You know my truck. But that mad sleeping on a
race car bed.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
That's of a bitch. Them boys are funny.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
We kind of got off, We kind of got off
the rails there a little bit. Yeah, let's bring it
back on. Ways to get on the show, all right,
Shum said it. The reasons we love this community are
reasons we love this brand so much is because of
the community.

Speaker 4 (09:30):
We love engaging with the community.

Speaker 1 (09:32):
So if you leave comments across our social media channels
or in the YouTube comments, yep, we love shouting out
people on the pod. You can also reach us by
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of the episode.

Speaker 4 (09:45):
We also read emails.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
If you are not able to call in because you
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We will cover those things toward the end of the episode.
And let's just shout out some comments, please people. I
just love the pod right now. This is from DJK
twenty five hundred Good morning, fellow PT sixers. Happy birthday,
Shirham Love the pod Ontario. Hey, that's why I asked

(10:10):
you when your birthday is, because I'm thinking, hang on,
is it Shurm's birthday today and we're not.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
Hey, That's that's how you make sure your comic gets read.

Speaker 5 (10:17):
By the way, there was a lot of confusion about
whose birthday it was last week. Despite everything saying scott Zilla,
there were a ton of comments saying happy birthday Shirm. Idea,
you are scott Zilla, but there are a lot of
happy birthday Shirream comments.

Speaker 4 (10:31):
By That makes Yeah, that makes it.

Speaker 3 (10:33):
I did get a DM of a happy Birthday that
I scrolled past because I thought it was a bot
and I thought like that, you know, I thought it
was like one of those fishing things. It's like, happy birthday,
join my crypto investment.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
The Sometimes I just enjoyed texting people happy birthday, just randomly,
and I thought, that's what he's doing, is just being like,
happy birthday, Shirm.

Speaker 2 (10:53):
But dude, what a legend.

Speaker 3 (10:55):
What was his name again? DJK twenty five DJK. I'm
going to bank that. I'm gonna remember that on May
twenty fourth. Thank you. DJK.

Speaker 2 (11:03):
We made a fun graphic and we made not sillo graphic.
It took me like an hour and a half to
figure out the font to get the flame. The flame
bond came in and I had to call in Cooper Comstock,
So you.

Speaker 4 (11:14):
Know, great birthday birthday graphic.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
Oh yeah, Zilla the Fear little head on Godzilla the.

Speaker 4 (11:21):
Fear Will Compton PNG is gonna come in handy. I
feel like many a time are you talking about me
dresses fear?

Speaker 3 (11:29):
I know, Wiscotti blowing the fire on you. This one
comes from Jake Ryan on YouTube. Jake says first like
and top ten and views on this one.

Speaker 2 (11:39):
Gonna be a good day.

Speaker 3 (11:41):
Only thing that will top it is when my kids
run in and hug me when I get home from work.
Keep up the great work, guys, makes every Wednesday at
the office a little better.

Speaker 4 (11:52):
Hashtag PG six shout Out Man shot Out.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
I got one here from on Spotify. You can leave
comments on Spotify. Boy, Tom Darmit, I needed this podcast
more than y'all know. Thank you for always keeping it
real and help me get out of this slump. I'm
in glad to hear I'm not the only one mentally
going through it as a dad to a six month
old baby girl. Yeah, he's in the He's in the trenches,
right in the trenches. He's in the trenches right now, dude. Yeah, slump,

(12:16):
it's he goes in faces. I'm currently in a slump
right now.

Speaker 2 (12:20):
I am as well.

Speaker 3 (12:22):
We talked about this. I have like a little bit
follow up with my slump, but could not agree more
with his comment.

Speaker 1 (12:27):
Yeah, dude, I've been I've been sleeping til it's time
to get up and at the family rolling like. I
haven't been getting up early and working out, and it
just pisses me every time I walk to the truck
and I've handled like Charlo go up and do get
rude dressed and everything.

Speaker 4 (12:41):
I'll start whipping up. I do the I'm the I'm
the kitchen guy.

Speaker 1 (12:45):
Yeah, I'm getting breakfast ready for Charro, get breakfast ready
for Scotti and Rue. I'm packing the school lunches, I'm
getting the snacks. We're in a great rhythm with that.
But I knocked that out of the park. And every
time I walk to my truck with my backpack on,
and it's about you know, this morning, it was like
seven was like seven fifty two in the morning, walking
out to my truck, looking at my truck, just sizzling internally, like, bro,

(13:07):
you've got.

Speaker 2 (13:08):
To get your shit together.

Speaker 1 (13:10):
As far as taking care of myself, it frustrates me
when I'm not like on my routine. So the slump,
I mean, it's like the time change. It's getting a
little colder, it's getting dark sooner. I tell myself I'm
gonna work out at nighttime when the kids go down.

Speaker 4 (13:22):
I don't do it. I talk myself in the hey,
I got to study for football. I do study.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
But also it's like I could get the shit in
if I truly dialed it in and focused. And then
I'm like, ill get up early in the morning because
I'm getting the better probably around eleven at night. I
don't wake up at five forty five or six am.
I don't even snooze it. I just turn it off
because I'm like, I know Charles's gonna wake me up
when it's time to get rolling. Around six forty five
or seven. I sleep into that point. I get up,

(13:47):
do my thing, and I mean I wax it in
the kitchen. But I'm in like that slump right now,
just feeling my dog mentally like mentally, I know it's
going to snowball on me, not to where I fucking project.

Speaker 4 (13:59):
I hope not.

Speaker 1 (13:59):
Anyway, it's gonna be one of those ones where you're
sick and tired of being sick and tired, and then
I'm gonna be And what I don't want to do
is I don't want to wait till New Year's to
be like this is my New Year's resolution.

Speaker 4 (14:10):
That fucking pisces me off to my core.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
If I become one of those people that's like, oh,
here's my New Year's resolution, Like I want to start
doing it before and I need to.

Speaker 4 (14:19):
I need to shout out to you Tom things tuning in.

Speaker 2 (14:22):
I have a proposal for you, man. I have a
proposal for you.

Speaker 4 (14:29):
Go ahead.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
I just started a morning workout thing I've been trying
to do. Get up at six am, hit the gym
before work happens. Because after work I drive. I live
a little bit away with my mom and dad, so
getting I just don't feel like it when I get done.
If you want, we can be accountabill buddies because I
have to be up pretty much every day by forty

(14:49):
five to get to the gym. It's an offer.

Speaker 4 (14:54):
What's the proposal going? Texting each other around that.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
Yeah, we're just making sure that we're up and going.

Speaker 1 (15:00):
Yeah, I would love that. Should we all do it?

Speaker 2 (15:04):
I'd be done.

Speaker 3 (15:05):
Yes, I think, Hey, I think that's a great idea.
We should all do it. I actually look, can I
actually tell you something? I gave Chef this idea. Yeah,
I said, Chef, we should all be You did a
kind of Billa buddies with the morning workouts.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
Do you feel like that's where he was like he
was remembering, that's where he's getting it from with you,
Like you guys had a conversation and it's just now
it's manifesting.

Speaker 2 (15:30):
No. Sum came to me and he's like, Hay, I'm
where you're bet here. That's what it was. You can get,
you know, in with the boss, with the boss man.

Speaker 4 (15:40):
That's the angle.

Speaker 3 (15:45):
That's a Stephen Team six are looking out for his boy.
I was more so covering for the fact that I
could not be more not down for that idea, but
I need to be down for that idea.

Speaker 4 (15:55):
Let's be down with that idea.

Speaker 2 (15:57):
We need to be down with that.

Speaker 3 (15:58):
Earth sure needs speed down with that idea. What time
we start? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (16:03):
What time five five for I no, hang on though,
that was there? Sit your fun uncle ass back up.
That wasn't there.

Speaker 2 (16:15):
That was.

Speaker 4 (16:18):
Five forty five.

Speaker 2 (16:20):
I'm done with that five forty five period until six.

Speaker 4 (16:23):
So five forty five you have a grace period five
forty five to six.

Speaker 2 (16:27):
I'm in on that. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (16:28):
If not, If you don't, you get swirlied.

Speaker 3 (16:31):
Oh you have to start your workout.

Speaker 1 (16:35):
We're we're up. You handle your morning routine. However you
want to handle your morning rot that's do not. You
cannot hit the group chat but then just go back
to sleep.

Speaker 2 (16:43):
Yeah, oh that would be that'd be diabolical this actually,
but that's how we do it.

Speaker 4 (16:49):
That's why we keep each other accountable.

Speaker 1 (16:50):
And maybe if the community, if they're like in with
it too, like, maybe we could just whether it's a
bad signal, we put up some gift in.

Speaker 2 (16:56):
The mornings that yeah, seldom selfies out of the bed.

Speaker 1 (17:00):
Yeah, your care so, but if we just drop a
certain emoji or a gift or whatever it is now
selfie and people can start engaging with it whatever, that's
the way we can all the community.

Speaker 4 (17:11):
Yeah, accountable.

Speaker 2 (17:12):
I do like that.

Speaker 1 (17:13):
I shout again, shout out Tom for bringing up this
slump face. We're all we're all in the trenches together, bro,
we are. I know he's got a six month old
at home, very similar to yourself.

Speaker 3 (17:24):
Yes, yes, And that actually goes into a little bit
of my schedule change stuff that I've been trying to implement,
uh for the slump. So I don't know why I'm
fighting this morning routine so much because I'm kind of
implementing it and I already love it.

Speaker 4 (17:39):
Okay, so we'll dive into that. We're diving into it.
We'll dive into it.

Speaker 3 (17:43):
Barker on YouTube said pt Siko of three month old
baby boy already starting to teethe and crying uncontrollably.

Speaker 4 (17:52):
Mmmm good good.

Speaker 2 (17:55):
Put on for the.

Speaker 4 (17:57):
Dads and he stopped crying immediately and was walked in
on the pod. Much love boys Wolf Emeggie. Hmmm, shout
out to pt sicco. Come on, bark we got one
here from West Coast.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
Savage on YouTube, First Night First time listener, Future a
long time listener. Then e K chimes in says, great, Soed,
that's good.

Speaker 4 (18:18):
That's it.

Speaker 1 (18:18):
That's all that's all we got. That's just great. Great
so first time listener, Future, long time listener I did.
It fires me up. It tickles my pickle when it's
like somebody they have a new kid and they just
come across the episode, they come across one episode, or
people say like they hold themselves to a standard of
I didn't want to leave my first comment until I

(18:40):
was all the way caught up because we're only what
twenty three episodes.

Speaker 2 (18:43):
In, Yeah it's me episode twenty four.

Speaker 1 (18:45):
This is episode twenty four. Like we're we're we're new
we're newborns right now, we're in the newborn phase. But
I love the fact that the pt sikos they understand
the assignment with Papa Team six and it's like my
comment ain't worth the shit until I get all these episodes.

Speaker 3 (19:00):
My stride gott to earn the badge, and I love
all the intro stuff, like the comments that I'm getting
from the dads who are very soon to be dads,
and those guys are the ones that are really starting
to like lock in.

Speaker 2 (19:14):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (19:17):
I have another one from Toby Bradford. Read it six
one one six. He said, Dad, hack, get a frame
for your kid's art. They make a frame that has
a really deep backing so you can stack new pictures
over each other whenever they make a new piece of art.

Speaker 4 (19:32):
I fucking love that.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
That's a great dad hack because one thing that uh
we've done, Charle got this big container, like this long
container where basically all of rue her art has went
into and we've like stored it. And I just think
in my mind, because I saw some sick go out there,
like building this incredible collage that I will never be
able to put time and energy into. Oh okay, be able,

(19:55):
that's I am too lazy to put that time and
energy into make it. This collage type of art piece
that he made. I would love for that to be.

Speaker 3 (20:03):
In my mind, all the kid's art is one artp
piece like you all together sign.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
He's used a bunch of different so I'm talking Elmer's glue,
I'm talking massive frames pieces.

Speaker 4 (20:14):
So he got a flamethrower out at one point.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
But anyway, hearing that dad hack gasses me up because
I think that is an incredible, unincredible idea. Because we
have all the art pieces, there's gonna be something we
want to do, and I think that would be I
think that'd be badass.

Speaker 3 (20:29):
That would that would be badass. Another dad hack that
I've seen It's one of my favorite uh like tiktoks
I've ever seen. These parents hosted an art show at
their house of their little five year old's work, and
they had him like hanging and all these you know,
like fancy frames and stuff, and then they just had
a projector shooting onto like their living room wall of

(20:53):
like all of her work kind of cycling through, and
they got her a barstool to like sit next to
the projector so she can sit there to like answer
questions for people that were coming here.

Speaker 4 (21:05):
It's awesome, man, bro.

Speaker 3 (21:06):
It was one of the best things I've ever seen,
one of the best things I've ever seen. My mom's
an artist, so I love that kind of stuff.

Speaker 2 (21:13):
But that's all time.

Speaker 3 (21:15):
Oh yeah. Sean Moore three six one zero on YouTube,
Sean Moore says, I'm hoping you can give a quick
shout out to my boy Jalen. Shout out Jalen. Why
you ask, He's a fellow PT sixer and an avid
listener who just turned thirty one.

Speaker 4 (21:32):
Shout out jah, Happy birthday, Jalen thirty one.

Speaker 2 (21:36):
You'll love this part.

Speaker 3 (21:38):
In college, all we used to eat were chicken dinners.
We would get on pubg now we have families, but
you know we make sure to carve out a little
time to get a chicken dinner like the old days.
Keep up the good work, boys, y'all. Some dollars for real.

Speaker 2 (21:55):
That's Sean Moore. That's Sean Moore and his boy Jalen.

Speaker 3 (21:59):
Dude, ude, some PUBGPT sick guys.

Speaker 4 (22:02):
Dude, nothing, I look who I've been hit the group chat?
Yeah yeah, the pubg chat. I missed the teams. Oh,
I've been sucked into this TV show terminal List and
it is so badass. Bro, it is a good show. Boys,
I'm telling you right now. Pop a team six.

Speaker 1 (22:18):
Community community, community, military based themes having fun Terminal List
Navy Seals.

Speaker 3 (22:27):
Oh yeah, dude, you are in on this.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
You're tweeting about this, not only tweeting and telling everybody
in the shop about it. One of the guys I
think from the who's the authors of Jack Riggins.

Speaker 2 (22:40):
Joe isn't the same? Is it the same guy that
made the Jack Ryan books?

Speaker 4 (22:46):
Jack Carr, Jack Carr?

Speaker 1 (22:48):
So this guy who reps Jack Carr, I guess he's
got books coming out next year. And he sends me
an email and says he wants to send me in
it the all the books for the Terminal List. I
guess he saw the tweet because when I first read
the email, I'm thinking, did they bug the shot? Because
I was going I was just going off about how

(23:09):
great this show was. Everybody kind of giving us a
synopsis of everything because I want people to buy in
on the Terminal List because I think it's an incredible show.
It's got Taylor Kitsch, it's got Chris Pratt. Dude, it's
a phenomenal show.

Speaker 4 (23:23):
Great, great show. And Patrick Schwarzenegger, yeah, he's uh, he's
emailing me. I like, Patrick, I could get I could get.

Speaker 1 (23:32):
Mister Carr, Jack Carr, like on the bus if you'd
want to have a moment, like, dude, I would be
stoked to get your hitting promise.

Speaker 2 (23:38):
Man.

Speaker 4 (23:39):
Yeah, car on a bus. And I'm my wife.

Speaker 1 (23:42):
I'm telling my wife about this and she's like, I've
never seen you read a fiction book in your life.
And I'm like, what a great series to.

Speaker 4 (23:48):
Start, Yeah, this one, and a passion of your wives
right reading. Oh, she loves reading. She's always got a
book in her hand.

Speaker 2 (23:56):
She loves fiction.

Speaker 1 (23:58):
She's like, could you tell me a fiction book you read?
I'm like, now, no, I couldn't. I can't even recite
the books we was required to read like in grade school,
grown up, like those are the only fiction that I read. Yeah, yeah,
you know what I mean. But I can't remember any
of the books. I consumed.

Speaker 3 (24:13):
I was a big series of unfortunate events. Harry Potter,
it did all those.

Speaker 4 (24:18):
My grandma sent me a Harry Potter book and it
just it's sat there. I think it was the fourth one.

Speaker 2 (24:22):
Mm hm.

Speaker 3 (24:23):
I never took that step into go ahead.

Speaker 2 (24:26):
Sorry, I was just saying, you gotta started the first
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

Speaker 4 (24:30):
On Terminal List, the set that comes in, I'll read it.

Speaker 1 (24:33):
Yeah, I think it's I'm excited because I'm curious how
they make another series.

Speaker 4 (24:39):
With the way.

Speaker 1 (24:39):
So I watched Terminal List Dark Wolf first because that
came out in twenty twenty five, and I was just
kind of looking for a new show.

Speaker 2 (24:47):
Charle was she had a show she was watching, and.

Speaker 1 (24:51):
I could tell football game was on one night and
she's like, you're gonna go upstairs and watch the game.
I'm like, yeah, like she's wanting to watch this show,
this show. But I was curious, like what shows are
out there right now that I consume.

Speaker 4 (25:00):
So I'm on Amazon Prime and I see Terminalist, Dark
Dark Wolf, and I see it's Taylor Kitchen Chris Pratt.

Speaker 1 (25:07):
I'm like, oh, I bet this is badass. I looked
up the Terminal List on Google and I see it
was a seven point nine on IMDb. That's good enough
for Willy c to watch a show. And I'm thinking
the Terminal List and I'm marrying that to the Terminal
List Dark Wolf. So I watched Terminalist Dark Wolf. This
show is incredible. This show is incredible. Government conspiracy, cels
CIA like all this stuff.

Speaker 2 (25:27):
It's amazing.

Speaker 1 (25:28):
And I'm watching this and I'm typing in like, is
there a sequel or anything else? I see that the
Terminalist the initial rating that I looked up, the seven
point nine was from just the original Terminal List. There's
one that came out in twenty twenty two that was
the sequel or dark Wolf was a prequel, Yeah, the
Terminal List in twenty twenty two.

Speaker 4 (25:47):
So I'm like, oh shit, I just watched the prequel.
Now I get to watch the real thing.

Speaker 1 (25:51):
I watched that the way that one ends, I'm thinking,
how do you make a sequel off of that based
on what happened one of the biggest twists of my
life no spoiler, no spoiler, boiler's biggest twist in my life.

Speaker 3 (26:02):
Dude, what for any Will Compton sick goes out there?
I just I want to tee this tweet up that
Will put out because I thought it was the ultimate
Will Compton moment of all time. I love reading your
tweets and your voice. Sometimes Will has been around this
office talking about the Terminal List Dark Wolf on three

(26:22):
separate shows. I've heard him bring up the Terminal List
Dark Wolf. Boys, you gotta watch it to then read
this tweet that was pecially on November fourteenth. How come
nobody ever told me about the Terminal List Dark Wolf
and that one, and that it's a prequel and that
the original series dropped the twenty twenty two.

Speaker 2 (26:47):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (26:47):
I died laughing reading that that.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
Was November fourteenth, the Terminalist the Terminal List in twenty
twenty two was done on the sixteenth. That's crazy, binged it.
You're talking but the late night's and not in my routine.
I was up till two in the morning one night.
I think I watched like four in a row, Bro,
consuming this.

Speaker 3 (27:07):
How long of that episode, like forty five to an hour?

Speaker 2 (27:10):
Yeah yeah, fifty fifty five minutes, Yeah yeah, fifty to
fifty five minutes. I walked in yesterday. Me and g
were excited to talk to Will because we're all Lambman fans.
Oh N shout out Lamb and I was like, Will
have you We talked about this, like the upcoming. We say, hey,
Lambman's coming out this Sunday, and I was like, hey,
will be watching the episode Lamb and he does.

Speaker 4 (27:28):
Nobody fully locked on this terminal issue.

Speaker 2 (27:32):
You gotta watch it.

Speaker 4 (27:35):
You gotta fucking watch it, man.

Speaker 3 (27:37):
Maybe a little bet six sick a watch party of
the urbinil list.

Speaker 4 (27:42):
Yeah, it's it's amazing. It's amazing.

Speaker 3 (27:46):
I love I love finding a good show. So I
love seeing you. You found something that you're truly passionate about.
It needs to be stoked. No this show, No, this show.
It's got you reading the origine, the original stop like that.

Speaker 1 (28:03):
It gets me reading these fictional books because it sounds
great in theory. I'm more so fired up that the
dude reached out. I'm communicating back and forth to them,
feeling grateful that he wants to send me a set
and potentially get Jack Carr on the bus because I
love to pick his brain about what's in the what's
in the pipe. Yeah, for the next year, Like, you
gotta make another one somehow. Maybe it's a prequel to

(28:24):
the prequel, or it's all based around their seals and
their teams, because what happens is they break off.

Speaker 4 (28:30):
Dude, you gotta watch it. I will.

Speaker 3 (28:33):
I'll make that promise to you. I'll watch that, chef.

Speaker 1 (28:36):
Like the synopsis of the first one, the original in
twenty twenty two, it's about this platoon of twelve Navy seals,
this Navy seal team, one of the best ones, the
elite of the elite. They're doing a mission in Iran.
They eleven of the twelve get taken out. Chris Pratt's
the only one that survives. Well, there's another one that survives.

Speaker 3 (28:54):
I need no, I need no further. I'm sold. And
I don't say that, like I don't want it to
let me.

Speaker 4 (28:59):
I'll tell you this are don't.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
Don't spoil it.

Speaker 4 (29:02):
I'm not. I'm not. I'm not spoiling it. This will
be in the synopsis.

Speaker 1 (29:07):
I think it's a set up and he's trying to
put it to how he got set up, and there's
so many different angles where the setup could come from.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
I'm done.

Speaker 2 (29:14):
I'm done. I'm done.

Speaker 4 (29:15):
That's a synopsis that's not giving it up. All right,
you gotta watch it. This is a good sign that
I'm gonna watch it. Yeah, I know it.

Speaker 2 (29:23):
Dude.

Speaker 3 (29:23):
When there's movies coming out that I'm legitimately excited for,
I don't even watch the trailer.

Speaker 1 (29:27):
Yeah, this is this is one where as I'm reading
these grim fairy tales the rue while she's going to bed,
and we'll get into the rou and these grim.

Speaker 2 (29:34):
Faery we'll get it in a second.

Speaker 4 (29:35):
We'll get in.

Speaker 1 (29:36):
But I'm sitting there and when I walk on, when
I walk out of her room, I'm thinking, oh, it's
time to go put on some terminal list. And I'm like,
you know, go down. My wife's like, oh, you gotta
go study, and like yeah, I gotta go study, and
mind you, I do study. But once it's like nine
thirty hits, I'll get in an episode. This is more

(29:57):
so last week. Now I'm done with terminal list of them,
both of the show, both of the series are.

Speaker 2 (30:02):
Done for me.

Speaker 4 (30:03):
But last week, like bro's putting in some hours because
it had me and captivated. It had me right, he captivated. Captivated.

Speaker 5 (30:11):
Dude is an insane badass too, which one pers Wikipedia.
Jack Carr is his pen name. His real name is
George Peterson. George Peterson decided at the age of seven,
when he found out about the Navy Seals, that that's
the career he was going to pursue. He spent over
twenty years in the Naval Special Warfare Command. There were
two careers he wanted to have his whole life. Navy
Seal author. This dude is like the baddest of badasses too,

(30:34):
So it's not just some writer fantasizing about this stuff.

Speaker 3 (30:37):
He's lived this shit.

Speaker 1 (30:39):
That's yeah, that's amazing. And we're just podcasting right now.
Once they got to do with fatherhood, n what does
that have to do? Glad you asked. You got to
have a side quest in your life that you enjoy,
that you feed yourself personally. Right now, when I'm down
in the dumps, it's like I'll latch onto some more TV.

Speaker 3 (30:57):
Yes, dude, I was talking with you.

Speaker 4 (31:01):
I desperately need to pour into me more like I
I feel very selfish saying that, and I feel very
selfish in doing it, but I also realized with how
much I'm uh like about work and Scarlet's life and
all these things, like I.

Speaker 3 (31:20):
Need to have some balance for me.

Speaker 1 (31:23):
Yeah, and again we've talked about it at length before
on past episodes, but it's truly it's prioritizing it. Yes,
it's like sitting down and writing some shit out, and
i'll write stuff out, I'll forget, I'll fall into the slump.

Speaker 4 (31:39):
But to me and my brain for it not to
sound selfish, it's like, how you know.

Speaker 1 (31:42):
How are you going to take care If you're not
taking care of yourself, how are you going to take
care of everybody else? You'll take care of everybody else,
but you have zero energy for yourself. At some point,
it's gonna come to a boiling point. Yeah, back, what
you know, where's that come from? Where's that attitude come from?

Speaker 4 (31:55):
What's going on? What's this?

Speaker 2 (31:57):
What's that? Dude?

Speaker 3 (31:58):
Jill and I had And this might be like the
ultimate segue segue, but I'm trying to stay on topic.

Speaker 4 (32:06):
Jill and I have like the ultimate.

Speaker 3 (32:11):
Vomit of emotion and like I need support and I
feel supported from you, but like just a reminder that
we're a team. It was so it was sick, dude.
It was on Sunday and we went we went to
Ruby Sunshine, had a great brunch and we're walking around
and as we're walking around, we're talking and we're talking

(32:32):
about being in Nashville and being away from family and
missing friends and being homesick and like finding our place
here and it's hard because we have scarlet and date
nights we haven't been doing them. And it was like
this all of a sudden, it kind of came to
ahead of Jill being like, Sherman, I know that you're

(32:54):
feeling these types of way about yourself because this is
me talking like this, and Jill's like, I know that
you're feeling these types of ways, like I feel those
types of I feel that way too, and I feel
like I don't get to voice that, Like you you
don't really ask me about that because you're feeling it.
I'm also feeling that. And we need to be there

(33:17):
for each other. We need to be better teammates in
this moment because we are the two closest people in
each other's lives, and like, let's be here for each
other let's celebrate each other. Let's like we both do
a bad job of communicating I need help or I'm struggling.

Speaker 4 (33:35):
Yea, because you.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
Guys and give people a die or some context in
your guys' work lives too. Oh yeah, like like you're
you're you know, you put in work here at Bustin.
Your wife Jill, she's a nurse, Like her hours are crazy.

Speaker 3 (33:48):
Her hours are crazy. She puts in a ton of work.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
Uh.

Speaker 4 (33:54):
Today we're talking like the nurse schedule two is like
twelve hour days.

Speaker 3 (33:58):
Yeah, oh yeah, and well and it's like twelve hour day,
but it's really like a thirteen fourteen, fifteen hour day
depending yeah yeah, and she's you know, her schedule's crazy,
Like they switched her shift this week. So instead of
Mondays how I always take Scarlett in on Mondays, I
took her in this morning, which I usually don't get

(34:20):
here till nine, but I did the whole Uh. I
told these guys, I like prepped them for it that
I was gonna get up extra early, feed Scarlet extra early,
and have everything knocked out before I even woke up Scarlet,
so then we're ready to go. So I had that
five am wake up this morning and it kicked ass.
It felt good, so that you know, I do want

(34:43):
to do the workout thing, even though my body's like
I don't.

Speaker 4 (34:46):
Yeah, stay on it, stay on it.

Speaker 2 (34:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (34:49):
But with the with the Jill stuff, with the wife stuff,
it it was just like a really really good reminder
that I not only am married to this person and
I have a child with them, and I live with
them cohabitate, but like this is my best friend, this
is my life partner, that we are in this together,

(35:14):
and if anybody is going to have my back, and
if anybody's gonna have her back, it's each other. And
we have to have that for each other. And we
just have this like, you know, she's crying telling me
how proud she is of me and thinks that I'm
killing it, but also like I miss you and like

(35:35):
I need you in these ways, and I'm sitting there
like I'm proud of you, Like I can't believe that
you don't think anybody's proud of you for being an
incredible mom, because you're literally the best freaking mom in
the entire world. It's crazy. My mom's sitting there bragging
about you. I'm bragging about you, but you just you
get so caught up in life, you get so caught

(35:56):
up with everything that's going on with the kid. It
was like a little reset button of like, man, we
got to like pour into each other way more way
and pour into ourselves. Yeah, she's got some stuff on
her end that she's got to start investing in herself more.

Speaker 4 (36:13):
Right, Yeah, we all do.

Speaker 1 (36:15):
I want to say one thing I heard that you
were saying is the whole like you're you're doing all
these things.

Speaker 4 (36:19):
I'm so proud of You're crushing.

Speaker 2 (36:21):
It, but I miss you.

Speaker 4 (36:23):
It is It is like it's you get in these
seasons and it happens.

Speaker 1 (36:26):
It's how it happens with me and Charlie all the
time because she, you know, with bar going on, she's
a business owner. We're doing all the things busting bar.
And the little time you do have it's at home.
It's it's really all into the kids or the kid,
like you're trying to get make sure they're all good.

Speaker 4 (36:42):
You're you're.

Speaker 1 (36:44):
You're quickly kind of catching up on your day, but
you're not really connecting. You're kind of just checking the
boxes and then like when the kid goes down, depending
on what the next day looks like you're either tired
or you want to catch up on some sleep or
some rest, or you kind of feel bogged down or
you have to for the next day, whatever that is,
to where you're not like spending that quality time, to
where it just comes down to, like, you know, we

(37:05):
live in the same house. We're more roommates than anything else,
like I miss you. One thing that Charles does a
really good job of is like after if I would
encourage anything, it would be following up on that conversation
and just getting something in the books for you too,
so you guys can do one of these things, whether
it's a brunch of coffee, a date night, a stay cahit,
whatever it is. Yeah, what Charlo does a really good

(37:26):
job of is staying on that pressure of getting something.

Speaker 4 (37:28):
On the calendar because it's for me like I'll just
get I'll just get going, and I'm not like she
is very good at doing that, to where hey, we
have this, we have a scheduled date night here, it
kind of gets all set up, but if you don't
follow up, it'll just kind of continue to happen and
then we still go by and you'll have the same
type of situation. Charle and I had one last night,

(37:49):
like if I have a dad.

Speaker 1 (37:50):
Loss, there was an intentional being there in the present
moment happening last night, Like it was we got done
with dinner and we're all trying to catch up dinners.
Kind of it's not kay, but Rue wants attention. We're
trying to get Rudy, you know, Scotty's eating, she's throwing
food off the plate. Tro and I are trying to
have a conversation.

Speaker 4 (38:06):
I'm trying to tell her about terminal list, but us
kind of like us just having time where I Troll
and I are actually trying to have a conversation where
we're catching up. We're telling each other stuff, but Rue
wants your attention what's going So then you got to
redirect your attention to Rue, and we kind of our
conversation gets kind of you know, kicked off the tracks.

(38:28):
And then we're having a moment to where I'm watching
the kids until Charlie gets home around six fifteen. I'll
have dinner ready and everything else, and then Charli gets home.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
So there's kind of a moment after dinner where I'm
kind of catching up on my stuff on the phone
and the kids are having all these needs, and we're
going to take Scottie upstairs or it's bedtime. I got
Scottie on the night, She's got Rue on the night.
She's handling them both, and I'm glued to my phone
because I'm trying to figure out where Lane Kiffin's going. Yeah,
and I'm slowly going into the pantry to get the

(38:56):
bottle ready for Scotti, and I'm kind of taking doing
one of those take my sweet time.

Speaker 4 (39:00):
I put it on there, but I'm looking at my phone.

Speaker 1 (39:01):
I don't really press the button to go, and she's
already said like, hey, let's get rolling on bedtime and
then she's like.

Speaker 4 (39:07):
Get the bot.

Speaker 1 (39:08):
I just hear from the outside, I'm like looking at
my phone again link IVN and uh. I just hear
Charles say like, hey, bottle be present, present moment, present moment.
She's thinking in her mind, she could be saying it
as like a joke, but I kind of come out
with an attitude. I'm like, hey, that's fine. You better
make sure you're clean too from here on out. I know,

(39:30):
some passive aggression came out of my what's my reaction?
And we go up and we kind of go do
our separate things in there reading books. I'm putting Scottie
down reading her favorite books. She loves this little flat
book Worse Spot the Dog, and it's one of those
where you can open and open up the flaps. Oh nope,
he's not in there. Where's the next one? So we
kind of do our thing. I put Scotty down, she
puts Rude down, and Rue wants me to come up

(39:50):
and scratch her bag because she loves when.

Speaker 4 (39:52):
Dada scratches her back. Don't blame her. What's funny.

Speaker 1 (39:56):
Side note, Charles lambell with her giving her back scratch
and she's kind of put her down. She's like, all right,
I'm gonna go downstairs. She's like, can you send that out?
She's like, why do you need that? She's like, I
need that and scratch my back. She's like, well, do
you need that? Scratch you back? I just scratched your
back and she's like, yeah, but I love when Dena
scratches my back. He scratches my back every night, and
so she comes out she tells me that. I'm like, oh,
I love that. Kind of give Carl Charo a kiss

(40:16):
and she's like, hey, can we talk whenever you get done,
I'm like, goes, yeah, we can talk because I already know,
like I had a piss poor attitude coming out, like
all right, yeah, make sure you're clean, like I've seen
you on your phone doing stuff.

Speaker 4 (40:29):
Kind of just tight. I was sensitive being sensitive about it.

Speaker 1 (40:33):
But then after I kind of come downstairs and she's
she's doing her like pre bedtime routine, washing her face
and stuff, and she's like, uh, like what do you
what do you make of what happened earlier? And just
right there, I was like, hey, sweetheart, I'm sorry, like
you were right and I had a piss poor attitude yeah,
And she's like, oh okay.

Speaker 4 (40:54):
But then we kind of have a.

Speaker 1 (40:55):
Conversation about She's like, what is a way to where
I can say something? And she's like, because honestly, when
I said it, I'm thinking you could come back and
maybe have a joke, but you kind of had this.

Speaker 4 (41:05):
I was like, I know, like I was aggressive.

Speaker 1 (41:07):
I should not have said what I said, Yeah, because
I'm I'm just conscious when I am seeing it happen
to her, like I more so just give her a
little light like hey, sweetheart, like when Ru's trying to
grab her attention, and Charyl might be like, hey, I
have to get.

Speaker 4 (41:18):
To this email, which I get.

Speaker 1 (41:19):
She's she operates the two studios, so there's a lot
going on when somebody doesn't show up for a class
or it needs immediate urgent attention and all kind of
catch and just be like hey, sweetheart, and then she'll
get engaged with ru. And this isn't something that happens
all the time. This is us talking about our shortcomings.

Speaker 4 (41:36):
Such the same example of like where she could be there, yeah,
and so I say that to her, I'm like, I
try and do it in the saw like just a
soft you know, remindered way, not like one where I'm
putting it in the bank for whenever you come at
my throat like I'm gonna have these receipts that I'm
now throwing in your face Like I'm not actually meaning
to do that.

Speaker 2 (41:52):
I was just being very.

Speaker 1 (41:53):
Sensitive when you're like hey, blah blah blah, and I'm
like this, how you know, we're trying to figure out
how laying Kiff it's gone?

Speaker 4 (41:58):
Is he staying at all? Missus?

Speaker 2 (41:59):
He going out?

Speaker 1 (42:00):
I'm trying to break it down, well, why he could
be leaving? He could be leaving before the Egg Bowl,
not coaching the playoffs, like leaving his team. That would
be insane if that happens. And she's laughing about it,
but I'm like, I was like, for me, if we
just had like a like a word we could say
out there to where it's almost a reminder. So it's like, hey,
we need to be present in this or we need
our presence to be right here in this moment, Like
what if we just call each other Santa Claus or

(42:22):
we just say Santa Claus or we both know what
we're saying to each other and not doing it in
a way to where she could be feeling something in
that moment, And I'm taking it as her jumping at me,
when in her mind she was thinking she was like
kind of joking with me or thinking I was going
to joke back to her like hey, need your presence,
need you to be in this moment, YadA YadA, and
get in the bottle filled, And I'm just thinking, yeah,
make sure you're you're clean. It's the Bible verse, like

(42:44):
the speck in your eye, you got a log, You
got a log in yours.

Speaker 3 (42:47):
You're throwing the sticks, but I got the stones.

Speaker 1 (42:52):
But it was all the way back at the very end,
we're just talking about I'm going up the stairs to
watch Monday night football and get prepped for the lock
grim on Wednesday, and it's just we're just saying, like, hey,
we're saying we're the same team because we had a good, good,
good kiss.

Speaker 4 (43:05):
She was surprised that I apologize. I'm surprised that I apologize.

Speaker 2 (43:08):
Usually I'm I'm like, I.

Speaker 1 (43:09):
Could be like my downfall is like I'll let something
fizzle in my brain and hold it in internally to
where I'll just kind of be in this.

Speaker 4 (43:16):
I'll have this ready to go in any type of
potential argument. Yep.

Speaker 1 (43:22):
And as I'm sitting there rocking Scottie, I'm like, I'm
just having this self talk with myself because I'm kind
of like stewing a little bit, but I'm also playing
the other side. I'm like, Buddy, you were like you
can get to this information about link Kiffin after bedtime
or after this these finite hours that we have when
we do get home from a long day of work
and we only have two hours really with the kids,

(43:43):
And I'm like, you need to just apologize, bro, And
I'm like, yeah, but she kind of said, like she
kind of meant it this one. I'm like, no, dude,
you need to you need to go down here if
you want to throw her off a rock, or you
need to look her in the eye and you just
need to say, hey, I apologize because I had a
bad attitude.

Speaker 4 (44:00):
The good stuff's coming in my head.

Speaker 1 (44:01):
I'm thinking this is a moment where she's kind of like, hey,
the Four of the Dads Boca, like all this stuff's
going to where I'm fizzling. But then I'm like, hey,
she's right, but uh but yeah, man, you just get
caught up in your own bullshit.

Speaker 2 (44:13):
You do.

Speaker 1 (44:14):
You caught up in whatever's going whatever movie's going on
in your life. Hey, I have to have this attention here.
And it's like, no, you don't. You can only have
so many time, you know. I'll have a thing here
at the end where talking about you know, how fast
the early years ago, especially when you have a second kid,
and how first you know now you're on the second
so Scotty and being in these moments and how the

(44:35):
presence kind of reminds you with the second one grounds
you a lot more because you feel a little more
urgent and pressure with the first one, but I don't
I don't know where I'm going with that, And now
I'm just going down a foxhole.

Speaker 3 (44:46):
Of I'll word vomit. I'll add to it by saying
what you just described. I have gone through with Jill
thousands of times, hundreds of thousands of times. And I'm
sure that any dad sitting at home listening is like, yo,
that's me. Derek and I often we were joking two

(45:08):
weeks ago, just like the little things that kind of
set you off, that like your significant others says and
you're like.

Speaker 4 (45:17):
You know, oh you get worked up over it, You're
ready to put the gloves on.

Speaker 2 (45:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (45:21):
Verbally, the best advice I've ever gotten was from my therapist,
And here comesing where I was, you know, always kind
of we have this joke where can her like we're
on eggshells with each other, Like she makes a joke
and then I get sensitive about it, and then the
fund's gone. So we try to keep the fun there.
But there was one day where she had said something
and I came back and I had a receipt and
I was telling my therapist. I was like, yeah, well,

(45:41):
you know it's something like I had beard, hair in
the sink and she has hair on the floor. And
my therapist goes, dude, that's so sick. What did you
get for winning? And I just stay quiet and he goes,
you know, like, you know that's a joke, right, And
I was like thanks Sean, Like yeah, I know, that's
a joke. Like I didn't get anything. He's like, not
even a cookie, Like you didn't get a rib that

(46:02):
you won? Dude, Like, isn't that awesome? I'm like, okay, John,
I know what, John, you don't see all this hair
that's all over the shower?

Speaker 2 (46:09):
Do you want her side? Did she call you? Oh?

Speaker 3 (46:12):
I seems happening.

Speaker 4 (46:13):
You're on her site here.

Speaker 2 (46:14):
Huh.

Speaker 5 (46:15):
I was just like, ah shit, Like I was so
proud that I won, And then I was like, I
didn't win anything. All I wanted was anger and yes
and potentially going to bed with a little chip on
your shoulder.

Speaker 3 (46:25):
Yes, and the do we have come back to this
thing five million times? Communication? You say it all the time,
y'all say it all the time. I say it all
the time.

Speaker 4 (46:35):
It's what it's always going to be.

Speaker 3 (46:37):
It's what it's always gonna be. And and those frustrations
are going to come out in little moments of Derek
getting called out about his beard, uh trimmings, you getting
called out about being on the phone with Lane Kiffin,
me getting called out, or being on the phone looking
for Lank.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
But that sounds so funny, is going I'm seeing this.
Somebody took a screenshot of a snap jet to said
he might's getting a deal done?

Speaker 3 (47:02):
Boys, are we on this? Me me telling Jill that
I need to get on my phone for work purposes,
which I did for a little three minute thing, and
then now she's here in TikTok's and memes playing she's pissed,
and we can all pop off in those moments, but
like there is something that we want to communicate further

(47:23):
beyond that of like where Lane Kiffin goes to coaches
not more important than you, Charo or more important.

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Rue or Scotty.

Speaker 3 (47:32):
And I'm sorry for putting that before Scotty's bottle, like
I should have been locked in. You're totally right, yeah wait, yeah.

Speaker 4 (47:42):
Yeah, it's like that.

Speaker 1 (47:43):
Uh, it's like the idea of your both sitting across
from each other at the table, like when these debates
are when the ship on your shoulders kind of building
and you're fizzling a little bit and you want to
get the entire goals to how do you get from
the opposite side of the table to sitting next to them?

Speaker 4 (47:57):
And to do that you have to ask yourself why,
prop Like why am.

Speaker 1 (48:01):
I angry about this? Why did I get mad? Why
does this bother me so much? Why do I care
about this so much? You almost as to ask yourself
like five whys before you get to Okay, I know
where this is coming from from me. Then you you
also have to fully put yourself in their shoes, and
you're probably gonna find that answer after.

Speaker 4 (48:15):
You ask yourself why five times. So that way, then
when you do go.

Speaker 1 (48:19):
Back to the table with her, you're sitting next to
her trying to solve a bigger problem. Because the petty
bullshit that we get mad about with the hair, the
phone and everything else, it's not it's not that it's
not we're making it way bigger than what it should be. Yeah,
because really it's about us. It's about ourselves at the
end of the day. And then when you have the

(48:40):
reminder that you know we are teammates, we are partners
for life. I have an absolute badass with me on
this journey of life. How do we get back to
being on the same team? Yeah, good stuff?

Speaker 2 (48:51):
Boys.

Speaker 4 (48:51):
Can we talk about these grim fairy tales?

Speaker 2 (48:53):
Yes? Please?

Speaker 4 (48:54):
So Ruse in a phase right now. Ruse in her
three year old like she's she dialed in.

Speaker 1 (49:00):
We started to go to these fairy tale books and
these are like it's like grim something fairy tales and
it's like this book, the Brother's Grim, The Brother's Grim.
There you go, it's like fifty fairy tales in this book.
And it's kind of we've kind of moved to like
from all the picture like picture books and everything else,
what's the one that I hate fancy nancy stuff where
you can see photos in every in everything to where hey,

(49:22):
thank god, Now let's challenge her to use her imagination,
like story time is gonna be used in there laying
we're gonna read these stories. There's only oh, like the
fifty fairy tales. Each fairy tale might have one photo
and it's just this drawing. It's not even that it's
not even that like exciting to see. She still loves
to look at them, but the rest is all it's
all written. And so it's like hey, storytime, Like here's

(49:43):
where you use your imagination. Like Asdad and Mama reads
stories to you, you get to now use your imagination
and put some of these pictures together, like as we
read you this story downside, the con for the parents,
as you're reading a much longer story. These stories are.
This isn't the picture books where you have one or
two lines on each page. You're reading these stories, but
Ru's in his face where she's asking a million different questions.

(50:07):
And these grim fairy tale books, it's wild, like people
are dying in every story, like to where you know,
there's this one where it's like a red rose and
snow white and they're in this little side quest and
there's this dwarf.

Speaker 4 (50:20):
And this dwarf stole a bunch of jewelry he has.

Speaker 1 (50:23):
He has this sack of jewelry in his bag because
he took it from some prince or some king who
now has to be turned into a bear. But along
the way, this dwarf, this angry dwarf, he keeps getting
his beard stuck in stuff. He got it stuck in
a tree, you got it stuck in a fishing net.
And each time you have to stop and red Rose

(50:45):
and snow White who's wondering the forest. They come across
this angry dwarf and they're having this dialogue with him.
They have to get out scissors to cut his beard off,
and the whole time he's like, well, why did he
have to cut his beard off?

Speaker 4 (50:55):
Well, got stuck in the tree. Well why did he
get stuck in the tree.

Speaker 2 (50:57):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (50:58):
He's runnering around and got to call it in the tree?
Is he mean?

Speaker 1 (51:02):
Well, I don't know if he's mean, sweetheart. We got
to sit back and kind of read the story. I
haven't figured out if he's mean yet. But why are
they in the forest? Well, sweetheart, that's just where the stories,
that's just where the story is based. And his beard
beard had to get cut off and say hey, sweetheart,
can you can you lay down and we'll just get through.
Let's just get through this next paragraph and then we

(51:22):
can ask more questions. But this is the phase that
Rue's in, and along the way this this dwarf. Then
he gets his beer stuck in the net. And then
the third scene is he comes across this bear, this
old king who is transformed into a bear. The bear
wants to kill him and the dwarf is trying to say, no,
you need to kill Red Rose and snow White and

(51:42):
we can.

Speaker 2 (51:43):
Share this jewelry forever.

Speaker 1 (51:44):
Bear doesn't see that he's tunnel visioned on the dwarf,
because for the bear to come back to prince or
king form, he has to kill the dwarf and get
the sack of jewelry and jewels and everything. Come on,
come on, And so why do they want to kill
the girls.

Speaker 2 (51:59):
Well, the he wants to.

Speaker 4 (52:03):
Yeah, we just found out the dwarf's mean. Well why
is he mean?

Speaker 1 (52:06):
Well, he just wants to survive and live. And you're
trying to explain all these angles to where somebody's gonna
have to die in the story. And the bear, disacknowledged,
doesn't care about the girls, goes to and this is
written in there.

Speaker 4 (52:18):
The bear swings his paul so hard.

Speaker 2 (52:20):
The dwarf die or the dwarf can't feel his arms
and legs and eventually dies.

Speaker 4 (52:26):
And this is stuff that's like in the story.

Speaker 1 (52:29):
Yeah, not read what this one's called The Seven Goats
the Wolf and seven goats, and the wolf comes in
and eats all the little goat. The little goat. Kids,
there's one that survives. It's hiding in a clock. Mom
comes home. The little baby, the baby goat that's still alive,
is saying, like this wolf came in and ate all
the goats. Because Mom was saying, don't answer the door
to the wolf. The wolf disguises himself, paints his black

(52:51):
Paul's white, puts on all the different stuff, and ends
up getting in and killing all these all these little goats.
The wolf is outside sleeping by the tree, and the
lone survivors telling them am about it. They go outside.
They take a pair of scissors and cut the wolf's
stomach open. Free all the goats because they were still alive. Yeah,
free all the goats because they were still alive. Wolf

(53:12):
is still sleeping. They sew his stomach back up with
rocks in his stomach. Stones in his stomach, so he
thinks he's still full. He thinks he's still full. He
gets up and since the stones and not goats, he
feels a little dehydrated because of all how dry all
the stones are. So he goes over to the well
to get a drink of water, but he's so heavy
he ends up falling in the well, sinking to the

(53:34):
bottom and drowning and all the goats. Imagine all the
questions throughout that story. Oh yeah, yeah, the scissors. Well
are the baby goats? Are they still alive in the
in the tummy? Yeah, they're kind of floating around a
little bit. Well can they breathe? Well yeah, because there's
a little bit of air on top of the stomach acid,
and so they can still breathe. Why are there rocks?

(53:56):
And it's because they're trying to make him still seem full.
Why did he fall in the well because he's so
top heavy he fell in the well. Well, can't he swim? No,
he can't swim. That's why he sunk to the bottom
and drown. There were no rails because in her mind
she her swimming pool has rails to come out of.
There's no rails. No, there was no rails. He doesn't
know how to swim. No, he didn't do swimming lessons. No,
he didn't do swimming lessons.

Speaker 3 (54:16):
Great question, yeah, great question.

Speaker 4 (54:18):
No he didn't do swimming lessons. Do you ever do
you have?

Speaker 1 (54:21):
This is the phase that I'm in with Rue and
I'm sitting here reading some of these stories, like, man,
should she be you know, should she be here because
she'll get home and she knows. She understands, like good guys,
bad guys and dadad. We got to get the bad guy.
Tie him down to the floor, time to dada. You
hit his face and all hit his legs, and she's
got this. She's got a she's got a clothes hanger,
like hitting the ground where his legs are.

Speaker 4 (54:42):
Like, you get his face. I'm like, all right, I
think he's done. We got him like he died.

Speaker 2 (54:47):
Guy. Yeah, yeah, Uh.

Speaker 4 (54:49):
Get his teeth, sweetheart, I think we've done enough to this.
I think we've done enough to this. Fan. You get
his teeth, I'll get his ankles. Oh, we gotta get
his hands. We got to get his arms, his foe arms,
getting his knees, your nails. Now, she'd be sitting there
with a crown on. We got to get her into
a dress. She's got butterfly wings on, just holding the hanger.

Speaker 1 (55:08):
We gotta save the castle and it'll be I'm I'm
I'm Anna, Charles, Anna Ruz Elsa and Scottie is baby Elsa,
and we gotta get everybody. We gotta save everybody and
then get back to the castle. The castle's in her office.
We got to close the doors. Yeah yeah, and then
she stays on the look for bad guys.

Speaker 6 (55:25):
Good.

Speaker 1 (55:26):
Yeah, yeah, She's like, call bad guy, we gotta go
get him, hold him down. Then we'll be kind of debriefing,
kind of just relaxing. We'll finally get to the couch
of the living room, like, hey, let's just take a
load off.

Speaker 4 (55:36):
Let's relax.

Speaker 1 (55:36):
We've done a lot of playing, a lot of chasing,
a lot of running. We've been getting all the bad guys.

Speaker 2 (55:40):
Yeah that I just want to let you know.

Speaker 1 (55:42):
I tied him down and I I taped him down,
is what she said. Oh, I taped him down and
then he died because I put coloring all over him.
I put all the colors on top of him. Like, sweetheart,
you saved, you saved the kingdom.

Speaker 3 (55:58):
Can I just say one I did have a question
of when she's asking questions, do you ever pitch it
back to her? Do you ever ask her why she
thinks it's that way, like of, hey, why are they
in the woods?

Speaker 2 (56:12):
Like do you do you?

Speaker 1 (56:13):
That's a good that's a good idea. I love that
little dad hack within the storytelling. Yeah, that's a good
idea because sometimes you get you get caught up and
fielding all these questions, and you're like, sweetheart, like we
gotta start relaxing. She'll be, she'll be. She'll be like
laying on her bed listening to the story. And next
thing you know, she's like sitting up on the edge
of the bed like listening to like she's enthralled. Yeah,
which in her little brain, her little brain's going and

(56:36):
she's asking all these questions. And I'm like, sweetheart, we
gotta lay back in bed because one I want to
get I want to read the story. Like, Sweetheart, we
gotta use you know, I know you're asking a bunch
of questions. I love that you're asking all these questions,
but it's also bedtime. We need to get you laid
down and let that continue reading the rest story because
we got about six pages to go.

Speaker 4 (56:52):
Yeah, you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (56:54):
But that's a great call, Yeah, Doug, Well, I just
thought that could be something fun to just like throw
question back to her and be like, I don't know,
why do you think they're in the woods.

Speaker 4 (57:02):
Yeah, we're like, well, what is where.

Speaker 3 (57:04):
The animals are? And there's a wolf. You'll be like,
a great point.

Speaker 4 (57:08):
The point let's keep reading and see see if you're right,
see what comes of it?

Speaker 1 (57:12):
Yeah, yeah, or like, do you think he's mean or
is he mean? I don't know, Yeah, does he seem mean?
Challenge her to use that creativity on her side.

Speaker 2 (57:19):
I love that.

Speaker 5 (57:20):
Love that it fits what you did with Rue and
her outfit where she comes down the stairs and you say,
why'd you pick those?

Speaker 4 (57:24):
Yeah, yeah, that's what I've been doing.

Speaker 1 (57:26):
We've been doing a much better job with all that stuff,
like just holding in the first comment of oh my god,
you look so beautiful, Charles.

Speaker 4 (57:34):
She came out over the weekend, was like, hey, brace yourself.
Rue looks like a poodle. The way she made me
do her hair.

Speaker 1 (57:38):
She's like a couple of braids. Here goes down into
a ponytail. The ponytail is also braid, and she wanted
all these uh, all these ribbons, all these ribbons, all.

Speaker 4 (57:48):
These bows just in her hair. Mm hmm. She comes down.

Speaker 1 (57:51):
I'm like, I'm glad you kind of prefaced that and
told me, because it's not as bad as I was thinking.
But yeah, she's kind of decorated like a poodle right now.

Speaker 2 (57:58):
That's so big.

Speaker 3 (57:59):
Yeah, you were talking about the storytelling. You were talking
about I said, do you ever pitch it back to her?
And there was one other thing that I wanted to
say about the storytelling or the reading of books. Oh,
the whole tier. I tied them down. They're dead now,
blah blah blah. Like I know that maybe some people

(58:22):
listening are like, I don't know how I feel about that.
My personal opinion on it, I think it's pretty cool
that a three year old is starting to understand the
concepts of life, death, bad guy, good guy. Like, I
think it is a good time for those types of
story arcs and like real life things. She's getting a

(58:45):
small grasp of it, but she's getting a grasp of it.

Speaker 4 (58:47):
Yeah. I don't mind that it's happening.

Speaker 1 (58:49):
It's more of the shock as a parent when your
first one is starting to familiarize themselves with those concepts
and you just kind of feel out of your depths
and like, should we be should we be talking about this?

Speaker 4 (59:01):
Look, we got the story. Charlie bought the book, so
I guess this is okay?

Speaker 2 (59:06):
Mom?

Speaker 4 (59:07):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (59:09):
Does she know that this is We're pretty deep, Like
we're talking scissors and we're cutting open stomachs of wolves.

Speaker 4 (59:17):
Like, yeah, like we have to. We have to read
the story of the wolf just coming in and taking
over the village and eating all the children.

Speaker 3 (59:24):
That's pretty cool, dude.

Speaker 4 (59:25):
Yes, mom's witches bad guys.

Speaker 2 (59:29):
Yes, dude.

Speaker 1 (59:30):
The only thing I don't like is how the king
are the prince. They always get the girl with zero work,
and now I'm starting to understand it as a girl.
Dad Like, yeah, some of these stories, I kind of
hate him because it's not gonna be some Prince Charming
that shows up. Whenever he be dazzles you with something,
you fall in love with him. That's how that shit
goes That's how that shit goes down. Bro, Like this
dude ain't working at all. He's just the king and

(59:51):
he's got the world. So he's like, hey, I want
you to come back with me and be my wife,
and she comes back with him. Is why I'm thinking,
That's not how shit works. Stuff doesn't just get handed
to you. Yeah, I'm excited for when those questions come.
I don't know how I'm going to handle them, but
I'm going to handle them. I think the King could
have done a little bit more there. What do you
think on him the girl? Are they snow white. She's

(01:00:11):
pretty weak mentally.

Speaker 4 (01:00:14):
This guy kisses her and all of a sudden she's
gonna get married to him.

Speaker 3 (01:00:17):
And she gets all Google Gaga. What do you think
about that, honey?

Speaker 1 (01:00:21):
I want to hear a little bit about Jared Demon
Seaman Team six. We talked about it at the beginning
and he said he did a couple of things.

Speaker 2 (01:00:28):
Damon.

Speaker 4 (01:00:28):
Yeah, just get into the couple of storytellers.

Speaker 2 (01:00:31):
All right.

Speaker 3 (01:00:31):
So we went down to Franklin. First off, the Beamon's
that is Mackenzie, Jared's girlfriend, and then Jared Beamon. They
live together. They're just down the road from us, and
I've been meaning to hang out with these guys, like
purposefully hang out with them because of our proximity, but

(01:00:54):
we also very much enjoy their company. Jared's a gym
for anybody that's listening to for the dads. If you
want to see more content on Jared Beaman, check out
Anything Busting.

Speaker 4 (01:01:05):
Yeah, there's a lot of Jared Beeman lore out there.

Speaker 3 (01:01:07):
A ton of lore, a ton of demon Lord, which
is what we call him. But was very excited because
it was going to be his first time really hanging
out with Scarlet, and so we brought Scarlet to Franklin.
They had the best attitude. Because Scarlett was having a
tough morning, we had to postpone departure time to Franklin,

(01:01:30):
which ended up making us miss the Franklin Farmer's Market,
which was the whole point of us going to Franklin.
But the Bemon's had the best attitude ever. We got
down there, grabbed lunch at Culinary Food drop Out. Is
that the name of it. It's something like that. It's
like culinary Dropouts. Yeah, fantastic brunch. But it was really

(01:01:55):
a day that Jill and I got to let loose
and we're having some drinks at brunch.

Speaker 2 (01:02:00):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (01:02:01):
We were walking around outside with like Scarlet and the
stroller and demons like, hey, yo, god, k I help
carry that backpack?

Speaker 2 (01:02:10):
Yo, ky, push what you need? Man?

Speaker 4 (01:02:12):
Let me know what you need here?

Speaker 3 (01:02:13):
Hey, let me know what you need? And he was
being so helpful.

Speaker 4 (01:02:16):
H yeah, here you go go change your diaper. I
think I did I tell this When we were recording
of him being like he helped with one thing while
we were in Franklin, he goes, yeah, make sure you
telling about that on the podcast.

Speaker 2 (01:02:28):
Yeah, cause, uh, what do you do?

Speaker 3 (01:02:32):
I think I think it was literally like helping me
hold the backpack, like it was something to me.

Speaker 5 (01:02:38):
Was that he and I don't want to quot him
in correctly pushed the stroller the whole day, or like
he he pushed the stroller a ton.

Speaker 3 (01:02:46):
He's how it was worded. He pushed the stroller a ton.
He did. He helped with Hey, can we you know,
can I help carry this so you can concentrate on Scarlet.
He was putting on a great display of being a
Seman Team sixer friend, but very much felt the pressure

(01:03:09):
from Coop's performance, if that makes sense.

Speaker 4 (01:03:12):
Yeah, yeah, and it didn't. It didn't feel fake at all.
It didn't feel fake at all. Didn't feel performative, No.

Speaker 3 (01:03:19):
It did not. But you could tell there was some
pressure there of you. Hey, Coop said a bar and
I need to make sure that when Sherman's on the podcast,
it's not gonna be like, well, Demon didn't do shit. Yeah,
Demon stunk, But dude, it's very It was a very
great day from the standpoint of just a reminder to
Jill and I that we can go out there and

(01:03:41):
live life. We can hang out with friends. Seeing Scarlett
interact with Mackenzie. She was obsessed with Mackenzie, just staring
at her the whole time. One to hold her, one
to hold on to her fingers. Seeing Jared, who Coop
has identified as being a baby guy, he is very

(01:04:02):
pro baby. He thinks babies are cute. He wants to
hold him. Jared is not a baby guy and he
would tell you that. But seeing him throughout the day,
and he even said something at the end of the
day he was like, yo, I kind of get like
this whole baby thing, like yo u yo, baby's kind
of rip, Like, uh, I can see why people have

(01:04:22):
the uh So it was very fun to like kind
of see him going into the day of like how
is this gonna go? And then Scarlett had like an
all Star showing zero cries, zero blowout love zero. So there,
you know, Jared's probably sitting there going, oh Sherman's had
two beers and now he's you know, having an espresso

(01:04:43):
martini and we've been going around all day and hanging
out all these little shops like nothing's strange for him.

Speaker 4 (01:04:51):
This is great. It's kind of a good life.

Speaker 1 (01:04:52):
Yeah, he's kind of doing a great job, you know,
indirectly recruiting a Papa team sixer.

Speaker 3 (01:04:58):
Oh yeah, oh yeah, but you know, reminding him behind
the scenes of like he is not all such kind
and rainbows. And this is quite literally my first drink
I think in I mean six months, seven months.

Speaker 4 (01:05:14):
But it was a good like that was a great
day for me to get to kick back and let
the hair down. You feel the wind, yes, And that's
that day is what helped lead into that conversation that
I had with Jill on Sunday.

Speaker 3 (01:05:31):
It was a tone setter. It was a complete tone
setter of like, hey, we're in love and like we
love each other, we love having I.

Speaker 4 (01:05:41):
Love you, baby, Hey, I love you, and I'm gonna
remind you tonight. Remind let me give you a little
ramond that shockwave opening Daddy remind you.

Speaker 2 (01:05:53):
But it truly was.

Speaker 3 (01:05:54):
It was just a reminder of like, we do love
each other, and we are together for a like, we
enjoy each other's company and we get to continue living
life with each other, and it's not just a bunch
of checklists of things that we need to check off.
For Scarlet.

Speaker 1 (01:06:10):
Yeah a Dike, we gotta put the pressure, chef, we
gotta put the pressure on them. Make sure he follows
up they get a date night logged in. We gotta
help our we gotta help our we gotta help our guy.
We gotta help our guy. In the teams, pa lease please,
But I love that you were kind of recruiting a
little bit. I love the demons getting in the mix,
the Semen Team sixers as the captain back there. Like fatherhood,

(01:06:31):
it rips. It has its very low moments, but it
creates a bunch of extremely your best moments in life.
We actually just shouting out some more comments. We have
some new dad comments. I got one to hear from
a Jonah Maggard on Instagram. A guard Maggard doesn't matter
what your name is. He's a PT sixer, been a
short time listener, but already addicted. As everyone else says,

(01:06:51):
Wednesdays are not my favorite day of the week. I'm
a PT sixer with a three year old and a
one year old, both girls. Oh shout out Jonah my
type of guy. Hashtag girl dad. I've been in the
trenches it's day one and hate missing out on any
even our opportunity with my girls. They're my number one priority.
Love that y'all can be so relatable, genuine supportive and
other dads that have daily struggles. I personally struggle with

(01:07:11):
the transition from one to two kids. Our first daughter
is a big dadad girl. You know, it's hard for
me to bond with the newborn girl for the longest time,
especially since she was boob, especially since she was boob. Okay,
but fast forward to a year later and now we
have a great bond and I can balance time for
both of them and still help mom out. Love what

(01:07:33):
y'all are doing to look forward to seeing what other
dad hacks and advice y'all have ps. Our one year
old still is a sleeping through the night and I've
been meaning to try the cabbage tricks soon. If it works,
I will let you know. Shout out Jonah, shout out fatherhood.
I go through the same stuff with my one year old,
scott Zilla. We have a great relationship, but she is
addicted addicted to mom.

Speaker 4 (01:07:53):
She's addicted to mom right now.

Speaker 1 (01:07:55):
And we got another one here from Brandon Kay Muffitt
Muffet Brandon Moffatt maybe the case Silent nine on YouTube.
Fellas got introduced to this spob on My Buddy and
wanted to get through all them before I commented, this
guy gets it. He gets happy to be here and
happy to say I'm going to be a first time
dad to a baby girl. In March showed out Brandon,

(01:08:16):
she's an IVF baby. Let's go, and we're so grateful
to finally be parents. Thank you Will for sharing your
experiences with IVF and all that comes with it. Stoked
to be a girl dad and member of PT six
that's big time. Boys like to have you, dude, You're
happy to have you. Yeah, man, and shout out you
you and your wife.

Speaker 2 (01:08:32):
Your wife.

Speaker 4 (01:08:33):
In particular for the IVF journey, we got Anthony Petrone
four six three to one on YouTube. Yo shir fellow
PT sixer with a five month old and a wife
who was a nurse here.

Speaker 3 (01:08:45):
And my wife's nickname is jelly Bean. Oh lol, my
lool lol. My jelly Bean is also having a really
hard time dealing with what she sees at work and
relating it back to our daughter. Do you have any
tips share on things have worked for your Jilly Bean?
Would be awesome if she could talk about it when

(01:09:06):
she's on the podcast. Love you boys, you helped me
through these first five months. First off, congratulations on the
five month old and shout out and as far as
it advice goes. I actually was taking the dogs on
a walk last night and was answering some DMS and
a guy reached out to me, essentially saying that his

(01:09:29):
wife is in nursing and also struggles what she sees
at work. Being open, Anthony, being open with your wife
to have those conversations and talk through those things with
your wife, but asking her the questions that will help
prompt that instead of just expecting her to bring it

(01:09:52):
to you and then you have the conversation and be
open to have it. Ask her some questions that kind
of like help open the floor for her of like
how is work? Blah blah blah. Do that as like
your first kind of hey, how is work? See how
she answers that, and then do you see anything hard today?
Are there any kids that were just like kind of

(01:10:13):
breaking your heart, et cetera and giving her the opportunity
to go, oh my gosh, you know what? There was
this one and da da dua. Because I feel like
being able to be that person to bounce off those
feelings with somebody, that's a great first step of helping
them process that.

Speaker 4 (01:10:32):
I love that that would be my advice. That's great advice.
Crack a cold one to that advice.

Speaker 3 (01:10:38):
I did, dude, speaking of crack a cold one, crack
a cold one does go to communication.

Speaker 2 (01:10:45):
By the way, for this week, okay.

Speaker 1 (01:10:47):
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(01:11:07):
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Speaker 4 (01:11:32):
To you, Yes you ET six to you and yeah,
sip a hot one, crack a cold one. This week
is for communication.

Speaker 3 (01:11:38):
Communicado uh with your spouse because we I mean, we've
been bringing it up all day today with all of
our stories and then especially that comment last one. Here
packs and Hancock on Spotify one shelf in fat staff
PT six f from day one here listen to the
first EPI on the way to our first image appointment.

(01:12:01):
And now we are in the hospital waiting the birth
of our first little girl. Hayes, flooded with emotions and
watching love and watching the love of my life be
an absolute warrior as a poke and prodder for this
induction four centimeters and counting the bed quote unquote for me,

(01:12:22):
sucks harder than a shop back. Good baby mama soon
to be wifey can't eat anything and is starving. Good
prayers up, rain down.

Speaker 4 (01:12:32):
PT six out, PT.

Speaker 1 (01:12:34):
Six out, I actually have a one getting admitted to
the hospital as well, and shout out you baby Hayes.

Speaker 4 (01:12:39):
Welcome to the world. Welcome for the world. That's a
milk team six mom, come on, we just got a minute.
This was from David Gudurez Gutierrez, David Gutierrez.

Speaker 1 (01:12:51):
We just got a minuted to the hospital. My wife's
water broke. Now we wait for our sweet baby girl
to be born. Shout out girl, das Man. Ready to
earn my couch badge for the second time. Good staring
at you, shirm repeat offender. This is baby number two,
but first girl. Very excited to be a girl.

Speaker 2 (01:13:06):
Dad.

Speaker 1 (01:13:06):
I love the podcast. I wanted to call and leave
a voicemail. But baby girls about ten days early. With
the holidays right around the corner, what family traditions are
you looking forward to? It's a great topic. Well, what
we got, we got Thanksgiving next week, holiday seasons, holiday traditions. Y.
I'll tell you what I'm not looking forward to. Please

(01:13:28):
the pressure that comes with gift giving, the stress that
comes with gifting. As a guy, It's like my love
language is not even close to gifts. Like I always
appreciate if I do get a gift, if there's a
thoughtful gift, it kind of reminds me OF's like wuck,
I wish I thought, you know, I wish I could
put my attention toward a very thoughtful gift for somebody.

Speaker 4 (01:13:46):
It's just a reminder that I suck at gifts and
so the.

Speaker 3 (01:13:49):
Stress are you talking about to Charro or are you
talking about in general?

Speaker 4 (01:13:55):
In general? In general?

Speaker 2 (01:13:57):
Okay, it's a little like even even with Charro, like
like i get to where I'm two months out and
I'm like, I need to get on gift giving.

Speaker 4 (01:14:03):
I need to get and not procrastinate. So a tradition
I'm not looking forward to is gift giving the family.

Speaker 1 (01:14:10):
As a new parent, I would say the family dynamic
around the holidays is a lot different. You get to
as the parent of the kid, like say you got
the grandkids, I'm the only one. I'm one of three boys.
I'm the only one with kids right now, so I
almost have the leverage of making people come to me
because then you got to travel with kids, and you
definitely like don't want to do that if family members
have other kids. I know when my brothers when they

(01:14:31):
have kids, that'll come into the fold. But the family
dynamic kind of shifts because maybe you had a tradition
of going to your parents and maybe that's a few
hour driver you got to get on a plane, and
now that you have kids, it kind of all that
goes through your head. And then if you have you're
married to your wife, she might have family traditions where
you're trying to balance what the scheduling looks like, and
god forbid, there's other siblings that also have kids. So
then you're trying to map out and plan all these things.

(01:14:52):
That's where a lot of stress and pressure comes into
play for the families and for yourself individually, because you
want to you want to care for and make sure
it priority for your parents or your family that won't
to see the grand kids, but also prioritize your wife's
parents who also want to see the grand kids. So
not looking forward to those scheduling conflicts right now, we
don't have them.

Speaker 4 (01:15:10):
Right now.

Speaker 2 (01:15:11):
We hold the leverage.

Speaker 1 (01:15:12):
Yes, Charles, the only ones she has a brother, if
she's the only ones with kids, I'm the only one
in my family with kids. So now you have the
leverage of getting your family to come to you, which
is a nice which is great leverage to.

Speaker 3 (01:15:22):
Have needed that reminder, by the way, you you have
said that before, maybe two or three episodes ago of
like Sherman, you hold all the leverage, like you got
the kiddos.

Speaker 4 (01:15:37):
You got the kids out, you approaches the parents, they'd
be on you to pressure you to still come or
make it in, and it's like, hey, listen, I love you,
I hear you. Hear's how our world has changed. And
you just got to know in the back of your
mind you got the kids.

Speaker 3 (01:15:52):
You got the kids, and you can metaphorically hold them hostage, yeah,
and be like, hey, you do what I say.

Speaker 4 (01:16:00):
You come this way. You don't have to be that aggressive.
Maybe you can.

Speaker 1 (01:16:04):
Maybe you're at a point to where you do say like,
I got the kids, what are you gonna do? But creatively,
like in their brain it's like, hey, we got to
solve this problem. This this problem is hanging in the balance. Ultimately,
they have to be the one that bends the knee
because they want to see the kids well. And thankfully, look,
we're gonna do our own Thanksgiving. Look, we're gonna do

(01:16:24):
our own Christmas.

Speaker 2 (01:16:25):
Here.

Speaker 4 (01:16:26):
You'll love for you guys to come. My wife's parents
they're coming in. What are you gonna do?

Speaker 2 (01:16:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:16:33):
And thankfully you said that to me, And it opened
up a great conversation with my mom of like, you know,
because my mom wants to know, like, hey, what are
you El's plans? What do you else plans? And I
just straight up said, Mom, the learning lesson this year
is Jill and I need to do a way better
job of making plans. We need to do a way

(01:16:55):
better job of telling people what our plans are and.

Speaker 1 (01:16:58):
Thinking about what us as a fit family once once first, Yes,
and my mom had the most epic answer of all time.

Speaker 3 (01:17:06):
Oh, and goes tell us more well, Sherman. You know,
just keep in mind, you guys heard the shot callers.
You're the ones with the kids, in the in the
full time job.

Speaker 2 (01:17:17):
So shout out your mom.

Speaker 3 (01:17:18):
I know I was like, oh, yes, because she was.

Speaker 1 (01:17:21):
Like, that's what you needed to hear, because you need
to hear. You could hear some pushback, you could hear
something different. I know people are there's a lot of
family dynamics out there, and God bless them all. Everybody's
trying to figure it out and try to like win
with their situation. But shout out your mom for that answer.
I know that probably gave a lot of relief off
your shoulder munch waight off. She and then she followed
up with a great follow up. She said, all I

(01:17:42):
need to know is dates. That's all I need. She
was like, I have no dates that have been thrown
to me. If you just give me dates that work,
then I will come to you.

Speaker 3 (01:17:52):
I promise.

Speaker 1 (01:17:53):
She comfortably put it back into your courty. Hey, you
hold the cards. We want to be around you guys,
no matter what, you just let me know what dates.

Speaker 4 (01:18:00):
Mama Bear is going to be there.

Speaker 3 (01:18:01):
Mama Bear will be there because she's that's great. I
don't want to be in Jill's hair. I don't want
to be in your hair. What's a what's a week?

Speaker 1 (01:18:07):
Respecting the other parents on the other side, the in
laws on the other side, like, hey, you guys, just
let us know we're down for whatever. That's the fluidity
and flexibility.

Speaker 3 (01:18:16):
Literally a million kisses to miss Amy because I you know,
we have done a poor job of planning, yeah, and
taking your philosophy putting it together with Miss Amy's. I'm like,
we we have a good plan going forward into twenty
twenty six.

Speaker 4 (01:18:31):
Yeah, do you have any so for Thanksgiving?

Speaker 2 (01:18:34):
For us?

Speaker 1 (01:18:34):
Since we've been in Nashville, one thing that we've done
is we'll go over to the Lawans for Thanksgiving. Last
year we had Scotty Charles two weeks postpartum, so we say, right,
we're gonna We're gonna, uh, we're gonna cater in a meal,
a Thanksgiving meal because we don't want Charle to do
any work.

Speaker 4 (01:18:47):
You guys can come over. We'd love to have you.

Speaker 1 (01:18:48):
You can see Scotty for the first time. But we
had a Thanksgiving at our house because Charles was.

Speaker 2 (01:18:52):
Two weeks postpartum.

Speaker 1 (01:18:53):
Yeah, the couple years before that, I want to say,
we went to the Lawans, and it's been just a
different dynamic because it was when I was positioning out
of the NFL, when I was playing football, you know,
everything was based around the football schedule. So we're getting
into a world to where we can now create some
of these family traditions for Thanksgiving, for Christmas. I know
what I'm excited about. Like we're getting into our new house.
Our new house gets done here by the end of

(01:19:13):
the year, so we'll be in a new house next
year to where it's gonna have a lot of hosting capacity.
My eyes, my season to me goes to like whatever's easiest.
This year, we're going to the Lawan's parents just came
down for Scotty's birthday. We had all the parents, the
families over so that way we're going. We knocked that
out to where Okay, I can't expect them to travel
down again for Thanksgiving, so I'm assuming we're going to

(01:19:33):
do Thanksgiving apart, and then Charles's parents are going somewhere
else for Thanksgiving, so just makes it easy to go
to the Lawans just do a family thing.

Speaker 4 (01:19:39):
We got the food there.

Speaker 1 (01:19:40):
Our own tradition that we're gonna start is your boy's
gonna start doing bar three on Black Friday.

Speaker 4 (01:19:45):
We eat all the food. I'm gonna hit a Bar
three class.

Speaker 1 (01:19:48):
Can you guys get you guys are more than welcome
to join me if you want to take your significant
other and sign up for the class Friday morning. I'll
get you guys at details, but we could sweat it
out on Friday morning. Friday annually going to do bar
three is I'm thinking in my brain this could be
a good Thanksgiving tradition follow up. I don't know what
Thanksgiving is gonna look like for us traditionally. Moving forward,
once we're in our new house, yes again, I know

(01:20:09):
we got the kids. Brother just got engaged in his wife.
I'm sure families would be getting creativet's so traditions for
Thanksgiving is gonna be looking forward to the future. One
tradition I have it's I want to ask the audience
what is the best way on Thanksgiving to eat a turkey?

Speaker 4 (01:20:23):
Is it baked? Is it smoked?

Speaker 2 (01:20:26):
Is it fried? Is it bowld?

Speaker 1 (01:20:29):
Is it all the above? I love a good smoke turkey.
I know people can break their foot off in a
baked turkey. I grew up on big turkey, so I
like the new flavors of a fried turkey or smoke turkey.
I enjoy a smoke turkey.

Speaker 2 (01:20:40):
Let's leave it there and pick it back up. That's
a good spot to stop.

Speaker 4 (01:20:43):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:20:43):
When we come back, we'll go into the turkey to.

Speaker 1 (01:20:45):
Okay, just know that's how I ended the energy. I
enjoy a smoke turkey. All right, we're gonna take a
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Speaker 4 (01:22:17):
I just don't want to emotionally put it at the
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Speaker 1 (01:22:19):
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Speaker 3 (01:23:21):
Listen, I will have a classic grape and a Chrispapple
on camera this week. That is a promise because I
told my one to save it for a special occasion.

Speaker 2 (01:23:32):
So you go ahead.

Speaker 4 (01:23:34):
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Speaker 3 (01:23:35):
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Speaker 4 (01:23:41):
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Speaker 2 (01:23:46):
Yeah, yes, it's Wayfair.

Speaker 3 (01:23:47):
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They are the one stop shop for decor for furniture.
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(01:24:09):
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Speaker 4 (01:24:46):
We're gonna be. We're gonna be. It's gonna be Christmas time.

Speaker 2 (01:24:48):
We're gonna be.

Speaker 4 (01:24:49):
We're gonna be saying, hey, gifts on its way.

Speaker 3 (01:24:52):
Oh yeah, hey honey, did you get anything for the girls?

Speaker 2 (01:24:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:24:56):
I got it all Wayfair. It's coming tomorrow. But that's
I mean, that's literally what I'll say. It's coming tomorrow.
It's coming from Wayfair for the kids room. Maybe you
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Speaker 2 (01:25:09):
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Speaker 3 (01:25:09):
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Speaker 2 (01:25:45):
Wayfair?

Speaker 4 (01:25:46):
Every style? Every home? Is that what they do? Maybe?

Speaker 3 (01:25:50):
Am I making that up?

Speaker 2 (01:25:51):
You might be.

Speaker 4 (01:25:52):
Let's get back to this episode. What did I say earlier?

Speaker 3 (01:25:57):
Yeah, you said, hey, listen, people break their foot off
in an erosted turkey. But I like a smoke turkey.

Speaker 4 (01:26:03):
What do you what?

Speaker 2 (01:26:04):
How do you guys do your turkey? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:26:07):
I like a good smoke turkey.

Speaker 3 (01:26:13):
Let's go, hey, I like a good do you like
a good smoke turkey? I smoked my first turkey last Thanksgiving.
I think I told this story on the podcast. But
Jill stepdad just cutting into that thing and taking the
first bite and give me the look of approval, not
only the look of approval, but the head not.

Speaker 2 (01:26:32):
Oh, just the aura of that smoke turkey going in
your mouth, bro and seeing the smoke ring too.

Speaker 3 (01:26:41):
Because I use cherry pellets, so I gave it like
a nice little body, nice little pink. And when you're
cutting it, you go oh, my bird has a little
pink on it, and oh it's not cooked all the way.

Speaker 4 (01:26:52):
That's the smoke ring. That's really shut your punk ass.

Speaker 2 (01:26:56):
You knew you knew the smoking birds, aren't you?

Speaker 4 (01:26:59):
Yeah? Oh so, Chef Jack, this is a dude who
can who can sling it in the kitchen right now?
Where are you going with your chef?

Speaker 2 (01:27:07):
I am a bacon roast, traditional by the book, the
way our founding fathers intended it to be. That's how
I am og og og og. We did a smoke
turkey two years ago. That was my first ever, like
Wednesday night, go hang out with all your friends, and
I had one bite and threw up. So we've never
done that since we're roast turkey people. I'm and this

(01:27:30):
year is actually a special year, guys. This is the
first year that my father is passing on the responsibilities
of baking the turkey to me. And see, my airline looks.

Speaker 4 (01:27:42):
Terrible right now, But I'll go ahead and take that
out and give a clap for.

Speaker 3 (01:27:44):
That One's sons, that's a true Seman Team sixer right there.
It's a captain that's entering into PT six. He's taking
the right steps. His girlfriend is hearing. Oh, dad's handing
me the reins on turkey duty this year, Buddy pressures
pressures on.

Speaker 2 (01:28:01):
I think I'm gonna film it, so if you guys
want to see that, I can film it and edit
together and show you guys how I'm gonna do it.
Love that, But I'm traditionalist. I'm in charge of the green.

Speaker 4 (01:28:10):
You take it outside and roast it over a fire.

Speaker 2 (01:28:12):
No, but that would be sick. We don't have to
see you talking.

Speaker 4 (01:28:14):
About founding fathers and all this bullshit, your feedness, like
you never go outside, out and back and just wow
in the woods.

Speaker 2 (01:28:23):
Yeah, we can do an outside of roast, but I
think I think the way they would do it back
in the day is find like a big Dutch oven
type thing in there and then put the coals on
top like a true bake. Yes, baking wasn't a thing
just because the oven was invented.

Speaker 3 (01:28:36):
Yeah, it was the inc and the Incans and Mayans
would do the underground ovens. If you've never seen an
underground oven, never have. It's really it's actually very sick, intricate,
intricate and really cool.

Speaker 1 (01:28:51):
That's what we need to see from chef. We do
we need a heat underground oven. We need an incan
underground smoke.

Speaker 2 (01:28:58):
Going to be in the backyard and my parents house,
my pant Dad's gonna come home.

Speaker 4 (01:29:01):
What are you doing.

Speaker 2 (01:29:02):
I gotta shovel out there, like I gotta make a
boss man's ass to make an underground oven. But you
can't just buy a turkey from the store. You have
to go hunt one. Oh even, Oh dude'd be fun.

Speaker 3 (01:29:12):
I have my license for turkey this year, and Delaney
Walker has given me an invitation to come shoot one
on his property.

Speaker 2 (01:29:19):
I can get a can I get a day pass?
Appreciating you get us day pass is very cheap. I'll
come out there and we'll shoot turkey. You can use
your hands, your bands. Yeah, if we were about it,
that'd be sick. That would be six. And when I
say weed, chef, yeah you if he bleeds the brand,
she'll go out there and kill a turkey for Thanksgiving,

(01:29:41):
make an underground ink an oven and then roast one.
You just spent too much time with the mediator career.
That's what they do.

Speaker 3 (01:29:48):
Chef, you're co owner in fancy football. He's the lady
Walker and you were sitting right there when he invited
us to his property. The invitation was for you as well.

Speaker 2 (01:29:57):
I would be happy to go.

Speaker 4 (01:29:59):
And the question it would be, how great do you
want to be?

Speaker 2 (01:30:03):
I want to be the best.

Speaker 3 (01:30:05):
You gotta shoot Delaney a text today.

Speaker 2 (01:30:08):
All right, I'll get in touch with them at the
opportunity is right there. I've never a turkey hunt. Hey
you never hunted?

Speaker 3 (01:30:14):
Could he call Delaney right now and ask him about it?

Speaker 4 (01:30:16):
Is that? Okay?

Speaker 2 (01:30:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:30:18):
I don't care.

Speaker 3 (01:30:19):
Do you want to call Delaney and see?

Speaker 2 (01:30:21):
Yeah, we'll see the answers.

Speaker 3 (01:30:23):
Because getting chef out there to shoot a turkey and
cook it would be epic. Yeah, that's a Semen team
sixer right there. That's a sick Oh yeah, oh daddy,
and he can't he can't. Look Dad, you're giving me
turkey duty.

Speaker 2 (01:30:37):
Just go so far?

Speaker 4 (01:30:38):
You can't google incing up and you gotta seek out
an inking?

Speaker 2 (01:30:42):
Is that? What is? Though? They are.

Speaker 3 (01:30:50):
Seek out?

Speaker 2 (01:30:51):
You gotta go down to Peru in Chile. You can't
take a plane. There were no planes back then. You
gotta go down and asking inking, how do you make
these underground ovens?

Speaker 4 (01:31:04):
Because I got things given next week?

Speaker 2 (01:31:06):
Getting for the.

Speaker 4 (01:31:07):
Pressure took a turkey my dad gave me turkey? Did
he said.

Speaker 2 (01:31:13):
Big deal? Did he answer?

Speaker 4 (01:31:15):
Oh, we were trying to fill the conversation while you're calling.

Speaker 2 (01:31:24):
I don't think he'll answer. I'll give my shout. Do
you want to tell you? Well?

Speaker 4 (01:31:29):
See the answers? Your call?

Speaker 3 (01:31:32):
Is it ringing? That's ring, We'll fall We'll follow it
up with them.

Speaker 4 (01:31:40):
Delaney is a busy man.

Speaker 2 (01:31:42):
It's probably odd that I'm calling him to because I
usually text him fantasy updates.

Speaker 3 (01:31:47):
All the makers don't get care themselves. Any walker Lane?

Speaker 4 (01:31:50):
True? Is there a Delaney walker Lane? Your call that
feels like an ignore?

Speaker 1 (01:32:00):
We'll get, We'll get, We'll get them online. I'll see
we can hunt some turkeys on his Probably i'll see
a chef.

Speaker 2 (01:32:06):
Probably that'd be sick. It would be about making your
old man proud walking in with that bird. But no,
I don't him. Oh you're not a hunt fan. Don't
let the accent for you. The accent did's for me. Yeah, no,
I've That's a big joke around my friends. Is I'm
I have a very Southern accent, not by design, but

(01:32:27):
I'm not like insanely southern person. I love football, I
like beer. Yeah, I like a lot of things. I
don't know where this is fun.

Speaker 3 (01:32:40):
Hey, I will I will tell you all this as
far as as far as getting your first turkey. I
got mine with a rifle, not a shotgun.

Speaker 2 (01:32:49):
From range.

Speaker 4 (01:32:50):
And you get one of them birds down, and you
get them nice and plucked, they're ready to go right
then and there.

Speaker 2 (01:32:57):
I like football, I like drinking beer. I like a
lot of things I like. I don't know where I
was going with that. I like the American blog.

Speaker 4 (01:33:07):
I like tradition.

Speaker 3 (01:33:08):
I like God.

Speaker 2 (01:33:09):
I don't I don't know what to do in my hand,
but I don't tell I felt. I ain't never killed
a turkey. Yeah, but I'm are you open to it?
Chef one?

Speaker 3 (01:33:20):
Okay, good good?

Speaker 1 (01:33:22):
And for the comments too. Fried turkey, smoke turkey, baked turkey.
Are you a fried guy, Derek, I'm a deep fried guy.

Speaker 5 (01:33:29):
Now that I live in the South. We were we
were ham people up north. We weren't really turkey too much,
and so my dad make a ham no matter what.

Speaker 3 (01:33:35):
I think.

Speaker 5 (01:33:36):
Smoked is great, I think baked is great. I think
they're all great. Now that I've had a deep fried
turkey with the crispy skin and the ease it takes
to get into it, which I know is a little
bit of a I don't know, taking the easy way
out for it.

Speaker 3 (01:33:46):
But man, a deep fried turkey. I love that ship down,
love it.

Speaker 4 (01:33:50):
I couldn't agree more. And to set up PT six four.

Speaker 3 (01:33:54):
Next week's episode, just like Will said, let us know
how you prep your turkey. Let us know if you're
more of a Ham family. Maybe you're a Texan because
I know my family did this a lot. Maybe you're
a beef tenderloin on Thanksgiving. My grandparents always had a
beef tenderlin. My dad always did a beef tenderlin on Thanksgiving.
Leave in the comments, what's the meat that you're going with?

(01:34:17):
And hit us with some of those sides because we're
going to do a full breakdown next meeting, full breakdown
of what's going to be on the plane.

Speaker 1 (01:34:25):
Yeah, we need videos of Dad's making turkeys. Now I'm
thinking I'm going to Taylor's, but I just might make
a smaller turkey and smoke it up.

Speaker 4 (01:34:34):
Yeah, that would be fun. You can get the monarchs
on the feet safely.

Speaker 3 (01:34:38):
Yeah, we're talking about Monday next week. We're trying to
save Monday of next week, like in the evening for
some Turkey Sinans Turans because I might throw a bird
on Monday morning, let it smoke the whole day, low
and slow.

Speaker 1 (01:34:55):
Hey, by the way, shirm, I just want to tell
you look good in that merch. I know people have
been at people been asking where they can get the
further dads, the Christmas theme merche, the holiday merch. There's
a new line out right now at bwtv dot com.
It is out now, so now you can go shop
till you drop get ready for holiday season. Man, if
you're a Milk Team sixer, get your hubby. Hey, get

(01:35:18):
your hubby some of this nice for the dad's merch
or for the dad's merche.

Speaker 3 (01:35:21):
You get your hubby some of this merch. That's another comment,
and I'm not trying to force anything on this podcast.
I had multiple dads but a ton of Milk Team
sixer saying where's the Milk Team six merch?

Speaker 2 (01:35:37):
Where is it?

Speaker 3 (01:35:38):
You keep talking about it, you keep acting like you're
excited about it, but where are the results. I don't
see anything on the website for the Milk Team sixers.
I think you and I may just have to put
our heads together and design something for that.

Speaker 4 (01:35:57):
That's the problem.

Speaker 1 (01:35:58):
Like I feel, all of those questions are justified, and
we operate this business, but they have to understand, just
like their husband, just like all the men in their lives.
It's a bunch of dudes operating this business.

Speaker 2 (01:36:14):
Right now, we're excited about it.

Speaker 3 (01:36:18):
We're talking about going to de Lady Walker's property to
go shoot a turkey last second, right before Thanksgiving.

Speaker 2 (01:36:24):
The chances that happened.

Speaker 4 (01:36:27):
We get excited about stuff.

Speaker 3 (01:36:29):
That priority is over mil Team six right now? Does
that paint a picture for you?

Speaker 2 (01:36:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:36:37):
You have these grand ideas and then the weekend comes,
Football's on and the bud lights out.

Speaker 3 (01:36:42):
Buddy, wait for off season, Yeah, Milk Team six, Just
wait for the off season.

Speaker 1 (01:36:48):
You're talking about Milk Team six. Where my wife's on
my ass for Lane Kiffin news.

Speaker 3 (01:36:54):
My wife's on my ask because I still haven't got
the little cage for our dogs. They got to sleep
in kennels.

Speaker 1 (01:36:59):
Now, Yeah, well, and can we get your focus for
Milk Team six, merchant, Tell me where Lane Kiffin's going.
I'll be able to direct my attention there.

Speaker 3 (01:37:06):
Tell me where I can get a kennel where my
dog's not going to freak out and have PTSD throughout
the night, and then we'll get the Milk Team six shirt.
I do have a what are the odds I forgot
to do last week? And then we can jump into
emails and calls.

Speaker 4 (01:37:19):
Yeah sounds great.

Speaker 3 (01:37:22):
Okay, this was a huge thing on the stream. This
happened on the stream two weeks ago and Milk Team
sixers speaking of here's a really fun prank that you
can pull on your husband. Jill did not have the
intention of pulling a prank on me, but she texted
me a year from the day that we found out

(01:37:43):
that she was pregnant. Was scarlet by sending me a
picture of a bunch of positive pregnancy tests and just
left it at that. It was just a bunch of
positive pregnancy tests for about twenty five seconds, followed by
a year ago today. And Buddy, those twenty five seconds, bro,

(01:38:04):
you were pacing.

Speaker 4 (01:38:05):
You were starting to swear.

Speaker 2 (01:38:08):
She goes, Oh my god, I'm sitting there seeing six
positive pregnancy tests.

Speaker 3 (01:38:16):
Good, here we go again. I mean, thank got, I'm
on a dad podcast. I guess I don't know. Yeah,
buckle up, buckle up, because this one, I'm like Scarlett
was not planned like, this is a.

Speaker 1 (01:38:29):
En before you got to the weekend, before you got
to the conversation on Sunday, all the stressors, the stressor
is going on.

Speaker 4 (01:38:35):
You got pregnancy test popping up right in front of
your face.

Speaker 3 (01:38:38):
Literally just sent me this and I know right below
it says a year ago today that was not there
when that image first came through. I replied with you
just scared the fuck out of me.

Speaker 2 (01:38:49):
Holy shit.

Speaker 3 (01:38:51):
She replied, ha ha ha oh Sherman.

Speaker 2 (01:38:56):
Like, I'm sure crazy that I pretty you are silly.

Speaker 3 (01:39:01):
No, silly, sure. So the what are the odds is?
What is the chances? What are the odds that you
have a child born on the same day as your
first child? Do y'all want to go ahead and take
a guess at those odds?

Speaker 1 (01:39:19):
Say?

Speaker 3 (01:39:19):
Yeah, dear, I just I just want to are resetting
some parameters system. What are we giving you?

Speaker 5 (01:39:23):
We're giving him an answer percentage? Say I think I
won last time, and there was a lot of anger
towards me.

Speaker 3 (01:39:28):
They're winning. Okay, there's a comment that that broke down
the math will I will say no, no, no, no, no.

Speaker 4 (01:39:35):
No, he's talking about one fucking comment.

Speaker 3 (01:39:39):
Well, had mathematical equations.

Speaker 2 (01:39:41):
They did.

Speaker 3 (01:39:42):
They proved mathematically that Derek was close.

Speaker 4 (01:39:45):
No he wasn't. It was no, No, you weren't, No
you weren't.

Speaker 2 (01:39:48):
Is this a percentage?

Speaker 3 (01:39:49):
This is a percentage.

Speaker 2 (01:39:50):
Guess oh, this is gonna be another fiasco.

Speaker 4 (01:39:53):
I would say point zero zero.

Speaker 2 (01:39:58):
Two seven three in point zero zero two seven three,
I'm gonna go zero point two five. So your point
two five point two five, three hundred and sixty five
days in a year, point two five percent.

Speaker 3 (01:40:13):
Go ahead, yeah, zero point.

Speaker 2 (01:40:18):
Basically, all right, is this assuming that uh, is this
assuming that the couple tried to have kids on the
exact same day the first one was born.

Speaker 3 (01:40:31):
This is the odds of your second child being born
on the exact same day. But well, not that you're
trying for it, but just what are the odds of
that happening?

Speaker 2 (01:40:42):
Point zero two five?

Speaker 3 (01:40:45):
Okay, and just tower on the same day. Just to reiterate,
you are saying point zero two five percent, not point
zero two five okay, point zero It just points zero

(01:41:06):
one percent. There's a point zero one percent chance you one.
You said zero zero.

Speaker 1 (01:41:14):
I said zero zero zero two So it was chef,
maybe maybe? Yeah, til your fucking comment, your burner account.

Speaker 3 (01:41:22):
Comes in and says, hey, here's the map, this is
what's going on. But that was your what are the
odds brought to us by FanDuel.

Speaker 4 (01:41:29):
Thank you for Thank you FanDuel. Let's get to the
hotline again.

Speaker 1 (01:41:32):
If you want to be featured on the show with
a voicemail, just call into six oh one the Dad's
and we will read your voicemails in real time. They
will be recorded, but we will feature you on the
show and you can also. By the way, my old
man he DMS you not too long ago, saying he
wanted to send in a voicemail but you never responded
to him. He felt like I needed to handle that.

(01:41:52):
Oh no, yeah on Twitter or Instagram. Who knows that's
the Duke of Bonte. Yeah, that makes me sad. I'll
find that.

Speaker 3 (01:42:02):
Okay, I'll find that and that that's an apology not
only to your father but to pt Sichos. I took
not a true sabbatical, but I really tried to chill
on social media and like being on it when I'm
at home. I need to prioritize time reaching back out
to these pt siccos they're sending me some really cool

(01:42:24):
stuff and the d MS and I did some last
night and it was It's always fun, dude, getting to
read through those. I forget that those are there. I
need to dive back into that. So please tell Billy.
I'll tell Billy that I will find that and we're
gonna figure it out and we're gonna get them on
the voicemail.

Speaker 2 (01:42:41):
Okay, Derek, we should have an episode where it's just
all of our dads do a calling. Yeah, that'd be fun.
That'd be like a fun special episode where we'll dedicate
like half the episode to it.

Speaker 4 (01:42:53):
Bother Oh that's all I was thinking too. Good Father's
Day episode.

Speaker 3 (01:42:57):
We we have one titled ah.

Speaker 2 (01:43:02):
Okay just ah yo, what's good? Boys? Uh? Just got
off my leave.

Speaker 6 (01:43:11):
First day back to work. It's already been crazy. We
are in the trenches, like dude, I'm telling you we are.
We're in them three to four times.

Speaker 2 (01:43:25):
Last night, I just wake up and a but it's
a beautiful cry.

Speaker 6 (01:43:32):
And you know what I said, I said, good good,
I'm glad that I didn't get enough sleep and I
had to drink a freaking cold brew this morning.

Speaker 2 (01:43:45):
Good.

Speaker 6 (01:43:47):
You know, he's already pooped on my wife's hand about
three times.

Speaker 4 (01:43:50):
Good embrace it. You only have about, man.

Speaker 2 (01:43:58):
What two years of this and it's over. So I'm excited.
I'm pumped up.

Speaker 6 (01:44:05):
Got home from the hospital a few weeks ago and
now we're back into the swing of things. I'm actually
having to work right now. But love you boys. Hope
to hear back from y'all on the show soon.

Speaker 1 (01:44:21):
Shout out, man, you're in the trenches. Look Scottie right now,
twelve months old.

Speaker 4 (01:44:25):
She's a year old, and I'm wondering if there's a
twelve month sleep progression out there, because there's a couple
a few times over the weekend.

Speaker 1 (01:44:30):
We didn't get a whole lot of sleep over the
weekend because she's just I don't know if it's like
the separation anxiety. When she wakes up, she realizes mom
or dad, mainly Mom isn't there, like she's been clinging
the mom. But I'm talking just yelling, bro screaming. I'd
going there on Sunday night six times, and after the
last time I hear her screaming, and you know, I'm
laying in bed and I just let it go. She

(01:44:50):
probably screamed for like thirty minutes. They say her rhythm
would go down to her. She's falling asleep. A couple
of minutes go by, so I'm getting in that light
and then I just hear it again. I'm just like
Scottie Joe, just go to sleep, sweetheart, go to sleep.

Speaker 2 (01:45:05):
She just kicks kicks back the minute, like you know,
I'll go in there and I'll try and pat her
and soothe her without picking her up.

Speaker 4 (01:45:11):
So it's not like, you know, creating that that comfort
if she has to be in somebody's arms all the time.

Speaker 2 (01:45:15):
Yep.

Speaker 4 (01:45:16):
And I would get her to go down, and two out.

Speaker 1 (01:45:18):
Of those six I would say I picked her up,
and she immediately goes to sleep when you pick her up.

Speaker 2 (01:45:23):
So it's like this this what is it?

Speaker 4 (01:45:25):
What's what's the word I'm looking for this like.

Speaker 3 (01:45:28):
The oh, the you're just trying to break the clinging,
like the contact.

Speaker 1 (01:45:35):
So yeah, yeah, the contact needing the contact to be
picked up out of the crib to go to sleep.

Speaker 4 (01:45:39):
I'm like, we can't have that. You got to break it.
Like it's always been a mission.

Speaker 1 (01:45:44):
Just you're you're leaning on other things that where they
can help self suthe themselves back to sleep. And she's
been a stud at sleeping dude.

Speaker 3 (01:45:52):
Yeah, So for.

Speaker 1 (01:45:53):
Whatever reason, I'm like wanting to look up as there
like a twelve month or a year sleep aggression because
I'm just like, Bro, she's had us in hell for
a couple of nights.

Speaker 4 (01:45:59):
Last night she did phenomenal, thank god.

Speaker 1 (01:46:02):
But it's like an hour into her sleeping, and then
after the hour, in like every thirty minutes, she'll just
get up, like.

Speaker 4 (01:46:06):
Screaming or upset about something. To that sweetheart, just go
to bed.

Speaker 2 (01:46:09):
You know how to do this.

Speaker 1 (01:46:10):
Bro, there's your lama right there, there's all your Stuffi's yep,
I doug up to him back.

Speaker 3 (01:46:14):
No, four months is a big sleep progression stage that
Scarlett has somewhat hit. But it's really just kind of
turned into her like waking up super early.

Speaker 2 (01:46:24):
Now.

Speaker 3 (01:46:24):
Yeah, like she's still sleeping, but she's like waking up
super early. And this dad, he remained anonymous. But what
he'll learn is the next stage, which I kind of loved,
is when they are crying in the middle of the
night and you go in, like Will is talking about
for any new dads, they'll say, instead of picking them up,
because then you'll have to pick them up every time. Right,

(01:46:47):
you set the standard of just going in there, placing
her hand on their stomach or on their chest and
just kind of lightly rocking them back and forth. And
you could do a nice little like sh sh or
you could sing to them, whatever you want to do
to put them back. But that moment that you know
you're in some deep shit is when you step over
their crib to put the hand on the chest and pass.

(01:47:09):
He's out and they're just smiling, bro, and they're smiling.
You're like, oh, I'll cook.

Speaker 1 (01:47:15):
Scotta be trying to roll over to like grunt and
sit up. I'm like, no, no, no, no, you gotta
go back down. It's like this is not play time. Yeah,
because you're right, you're trying to do your best to
train them to kind of self soue like you let
them know that you're there, you're there.

Speaker 4 (01:47:27):
You're not making eye contact with you.

Speaker 1 (01:47:28):
I'm like kind of looking away and I'm on her
knee because Scotty likes to sleep on her stomach, so
she'll be like she'll be like her little butts tooted
it up and stuff, and I'm like patting on the button.
I'm just like looking away, like try and seek the
looking and she's looking at me with a smile or whatever.
I'm just like going to look away. You're trying to
help get it to where they're not just depending on
all you're eating. Contact from you because you pick her
up and put her in your arm, and she'll.

Speaker 4 (01:47:47):
Just be like and their little brains, you know, their
little brains when they've been crying and then they see
their favorite person, they're like, yes, it.

Speaker 2 (01:47:55):
Works, Yeah, crying work.

Speaker 1 (01:47:57):
What Scotti will start like what I'm thinking of how
she's mint ulating in the system. She'll take the stuff
he's and like throw them out of the crib and
then be like yelling standing up in the crib, and
I'll be like, hey, there's a camera up there.

Speaker 4 (01:48:08):
I see you. Bro, you're trying to do this to
just come up here. You leave these out. I will
not come back.

Speaker 2 (01:48:13):
You did that?

Speaker 1 (01:48:13):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, there ain't nothing else that did that.
You did that, Scott, lay him down. She starts trying
to set up pick her up. No, it's it's bedtime.

Speaker 3 (01:48:21):
I can just picture her doing a will comp to
grind as she's trying.

Speaker 4 (01:48:24):
To get Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:48:28):
Well, it gets to a point too where you go
so much and you'll just be fuming that you can't
get any sleep, and I'll just be you know, they're
like in your arm like this, and they're trying to
like hyper extend their body and wrestling them, squeezing.

Speaker 4 (01:48:39):
I'm like, no, no, no, you're not getting out of
this pretzel.

Speaker 2 (01:48:43):
They're shaking them, patting them extra hard. You are my son,
like water boarding with the past, like shoving in their mouth.

Speaker 3 (01:48:57):
She'll always get so pishy, and she doesn't want she
doesn't want it. She's gonna take you.

Speaker 4 (01:49:02):
She wants it, trust me. But yes, good luck to you, sir.
And she's never stopped.

Speaker 3 (01:49:09):
They never stop. Code Brown is our next calling.

Speaker 7 (01:49:19):
Hey boys, my name is Troy. I'm from Wisconsin. I
am the dad of a two and a half year
old daughter and a five month old son. Calling just
before seven am Central Time, just before the kids wake up.
I got a couple of minutes of peace and quiet.
I just wanted to share a funny story that just
happened this past week. So, my two and a half

(01:49:39):
year old daughter is in the midst of starting potty
training and has been dealing with some constipation issues, which
apparently is normal for the potty training age. And we've
been trying all sorts of different things, trying a lot
of ho fiber foods, prune juice, reached out to her pediatrician,

(01:50:05):
all this fun stuff. It had been about five days
since she had pooped last and it was, you know,
Dada's turn to give the bath, and I took her
up there. She had had prune juice earlier in the day,
and I think you can see where this is going.
But something between what we've been trying in the previous

(01:50:28):
days and that warm water relaxing the bowels let it
all out right there in the bathtub. And unfortunately, it
happened to be Data's turn to give the bath, so
I had a code brown up there, and that was
a wild experience. On one hand, it was good that
she finally pooped. On the other hand, it was bad

(01:50:51):
for Data dealing with the cleanups. So a little bittersweet moment,
just like many things as being a dad. It's the
greatest in the world, but it's also literally shitty sometimes.
So thought you boys would like that story. Loved the show,
just picked up my first piece of for the Dad's Merch.
Excited for it to arrive. Keep doing what You're doing.

(01:51:12):
My favorite podcast out there for sure, So thanks again
and uh talk to you again soon, Troy.

Speaker 1 (01:51:21):
Nothing like shitting in the tub, Nothing like it, And
talk about a frenzy that happens mentally. If you're the
dad on, if you're the one on the wall for
bad time, it is scarce. But like for me, nothing
more terrifying, nothing more of a nightmare than just shit everywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:51:36):
Nobody the tub dripping, stand on the tow stay ready, okay,
gold Well that's what happens when you shit in the tub.

Speaker 4 (01:51:42):
Put this down on, stay warm, drain it, refill it.

Speaker 3 (01:51:49):
Oh, he didn't have a super thick Wisconsin accident, but
I loved how it came out whenever he said dada,
oh yeah, you know Dada's tern. That's a man that
eat some cheese. Man that is a man they eat
some cheese. And hey, good on you, Troy. Way to
stay in the trenches. Way to fight it. Bath Time
is such a sacred part of our uh like night

(01:52:12):
night time for Scarlet, and she loves it. And if
anything goes awride that makes her have to come out
of the tub, like if I'm about to put her in,
and the little ducky thermometer I look at it last second.
I go, oh, one oh nine, that's too hot, you know, Scarlet,
let me adjust the temperature. Why I already held her
over the water. She thought she was about to go in.

(01:52:33):
She goes ballistic.

Speaker 2 (01:52:35):
You trying to get some action, so splash action.

Speaker 3 (01:52:37):
Put me in the damn tub. I don't care if
it's one hundred and twelve. Yeah, do your your ma?
Do they like bad time?

Speaker 4 (01:52:45):
They love bath time?

Speaker 1 (01:52:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:52:46):
Yeh, Scotty loves bad time.

Speaker 1 (01:52:47):
We'll get him in the bat together where Scotty's on
her little little seated thing and they splash each other
back and forth. Oh dud loves and russe. Always trying
to text a check check the temperature.

Speaker 4 (01:52:57):
Too hot. It's not too hot. Okay, it's a little spice,
but it'll you'll warm up to it.

Speaker 2 (01:53:02):
She said that her years.

Speaker 1 (01:53:03):
I said to her, I'm just standing there, like just
staying with your feet in first and warm up.

Speaker 4 (01:53:07):
See it's not that bad. I'll start splashing or she'll
spaz out.

Speaker 7 (01:53:10):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:53:12):
G't it out now.

Speaker 3 (01:53:14):
I want to I want to see you in the
trenches more. I'm sure you want to see me in
the trenches.

Speaker 4 (01:53:18):
Yeah, I was laughing this morning, carrying out those boiled
peanuts and holding Scarlet's backpack and her little milk bottles.
I went to open the front door and the boiled
peanut juice just all over my jeans.

Speaker 3 (01:53:31):
And the first thing that shot in my head was
I wish Will was here to see that, like oh
buddy in the trenches going, yeah it.

Speaker 2 (01:53:39):
Sucks at times, it does makes it great. Thank you
for calling, Thank you for calling in Troy. You do
have go ahead.

Speaker 3 (01:53:47):
Just another reminder, I feel like we haven't said this
on the show in a while, but for any new listeners,
when you call in and we select you for the show,
we send you free merch.

Speaker 7 (01:53:56):
Mm.

Speaker 1 (01:53:57):
Yeah, we have forgotten to say that. You get he
just bought his first piece. He's gonna be getting some
more merch now.

Speaker 3 (01:54:02):
Yeah, you're gonna be getting some more stuff. So when
we reach out to Troy, we'll make sure we'll you know, hey,
what'd you buy? Because we want to give you some day. Yeah,
don't already have.

Speaker 1 (01:54:09):
And again, if you want to be featured on the show,
let your voicemail be heard six o one the Dad's
we'll get into these emails if you're on again. If
you're on international soil beyond the Pond. Yeah, you can
write in or email us at six o' one the
dads at gmail dot com. I have one here from
Megan Paxton. Come on, Megan, Megan Paxton Milk Team, Milk
Team six here. Ever since we had our little girl

(01:54:31):
in February, my husband has been locked in on.

Speaker 2 (01:54:33):
For the dads.

Speaker 4 (01:54:34):
He's such a huge fan.

Speaker 1 (01:54:36):
He even wore the PT six shirt to the top
of a ten and a half mile hike in Montana
for a honeymoon, just so we could take a picture
and tag you.

Speaker 2 (01:54:43):
Photo attached below.

Speaker 1 (01:54:45):
This is our beloved PT sixer right here on top
of the mountain after a ten and a half mile hike.
He's always talking about which PT six piece of clothing
accessories he should get next. He's been trying to get
me to listen to an episode, which happened to be
the one where you share of Jill's Sweet Treat and
Sherman's misunderstanding Oli Pop and Jobanni Sweet Creamer. Let's just

(01:55:06):
say obsessed is an understatement. No, I have had one
of these drinks every day for the past ten days.
I tried five flavors so far and I'm definitely planning
to try more. Classic Grape is in the top three,
So shout out Jill because this drink is seriously phenomenal
and something I look forward to every day now. And
if you could do a shout out to my husband,
whose name also happens to be Will, shout out the

(01:55:28):
boy will he beat six that would mean the world
do him. He's a rock and we couldn't do it
without him. He just started a new job and is
working so hard to provide for our little family, and
we are so grateful for a dad like him. In
the examples like the U two to follow after you
guys do an amazing job. So excited for the next episode.
Coming straight from the Good Life, Go Big Red.

Speaker 3 (01:55:48):
Go big Grads, Go Big Red. That got shout out Will.
That got the eyes water in a little bit. I
love hearing Milk Team sixers being proud of their hobbies.
Yeah that's pretty sick. You sound like a stud, Will Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:56:00):
Yeah, I mean Will East, I mean, come on, keep
crossing it top of a ten and a half mile
hike Mountain Montana.

Speaker 2 (01:56:07):
Honey, honey, get a pick of this?

Speaker 4 (01:56:09):
Yeah now he Willy won and climbing up here.

Speaker 3 (01:56:12):
Now he hasn't wanted pictures our entire relationship, and now
all of a sudden he wants pictures.

Speaker 4 (01:56:16):
And again it's I talked about it on social media.

Speaker 1 (01:56:20):
They're now a proud sponsor for the dads are trying
to get the ollipop A team six Drink made Ollipop
continues to show up.

Speaker 3 (01:56:28):
They continue to show.

Speaker 4 (01:56:29):
Classic grape to her top three. You got one right, now,
got one right? Bracket open. This is your first taste
of a classic grape. Yeah, this is my very first
official sip. You should feel a lot of pressure of
the classic grete ollipop.

Speaker 2 (01:56:42):
Here we go. Yeah, you have a classic grape too.

Speaker 3 (01:56:48):
Change my volunteers got.

Speaker 4 (01:56:55):
Hey jeers, jeez?

Speaker 2 (01:57:04):
Come on, yeah dude, that's strong. Hey, come on, that's strong.

Speaker 4 (01:57:10):
That reminds me of like childhood, like grape juice flavors,
but like with the pop.

Speaker 3 (01:57:15):
And fizz of a soda. Like that's very strong.

Speaker 1 (01:57:18):
Come on, I'm telling you nine grams pre prebotic fiber,
two to five grams of sugar. You like a little
you know, if you're on a little I'm not drinking soda,
but you like to switch it up from water or
something bland Olli pop is.

Speaker 4 (01:57:33):
The move and we have to get Chris Bapple in here. Yeah,
that's that's crazy because that one is changing my life
from the inside out.

Speaker 3 (01:57:43):
That and that's not anything to be said like how
good SpongeBob is. Oh we love SpongeBob, love SpongeBob. I'm
not a shot at all. It's SpongeBob. But whoa that
was Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:57:54):
That's what we got a call in. Now, you see
what we got a call in last week. We got
an email this week.

Speaker 3 (01:57:59):
I want to hit up at him. I saw they
hit us up on Instagram. I want to hit him
up and say, hey, I know what you're talking about now.
Lollipop sent him a care package. No, yeah, they had
reached out on X and they said, check your DMS.
We want to get you some, which started a ex
conversation about people overseas saying that they've received Lollipop, to
which Olipop said, how the F did you do that?
It was a very funny little X thread, So shout

(01:58:20):
out to Adam.

Speaker 4 (01:58:21):
He got Allipop needs to be arm in arm with
for the dads. That's that's all I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:58:26):
That's all we're saying.

Speaker 4 (01:58:27):
That's all we're saying, have you, guys tried the classic
grape yet?

Speaker 2 (01:58:29):
Which have you?

Speaker 4 (01:58:30):
Which ones have you tried?

Speaker 5 (01:58:33):
Vintage Coola root beer, the strawberry vanilla, cream soda, grape.
I hadn't tried it until your obsession with it. Unbelievable.

Speaker 3 (01:58:41):
I'm not a grape guy with you. YEA, so good.

Speaker 5 (01:58:44):
My favorite still ten toes down cream soda and the
strawberry vanilla was delicious.

Speaker 3 (01:58:48):
Chef, what are your favorites?

Speaker 2 (01:58:49):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:58:50):
What are your favorites?

Speaker 5 (01:58:51):
Es?

Speaker 2 (01:58:51):
Chef? Oh that's so nice, you guys, asked fellas, I
have a confession to make. Don't do this. I have
not tried allypop yet. Okay, I would explain, but that's
a I don't believe in, you know, making excuses. I

(01:59:15):
just haven't been good enough. We got it.

Speaker 3 (01:59:17):
We gotta change eye right now. That's got a change
right now.

Speaker 4 (01:59:21):
Well, may I ask why?

Speaker 2 (01:59:24):
This is?

Speaker 1 (01:59:25):
Just because look for the dads where we're small. This
is you know, we talk about small businesses. This is
a small podcast for the dads. We got a couple
brands taking shots with us, brands that we love, Wayfair, Ollipop.
There's been a couple we said no to because It's
like we want stuff that we enjoy. We want this
community to trust everything that we're kind of saying we're

(01:59:46):
collaborating on, we're engaging with fans with Yeah, and Olli
Pop is one that has came to the forefront and
sponsored this show that we are beyond excited about that.
We are belated about belated sponsoring means giving us, giving
us money. They're now like, we would be you know,
shout out, no free shout outs, this is what we
do for Lollipop. Now They're like, no, we want to

(02:00:08):
we want to support this brand. We want to be
arm and arm with this brand. This brand gets us
going because they love our product. And we got a
group of four for a group of four for for
for the Dads that in my mind I go home
and I my wife's like, how is worked today? And
I'm like the forore the dand the for the Dads.
Guys bleed the brandy and are truly on board with

(02:00:31):
the vision. They represent everything more about. You're the captain
of st six of Semen Team six, and you want
to tell me that you haven't tried a brand that
is in the fox hole with us?

Speaker 4 (02:00:44):
Do you got their six?

Speaker 2 (02:00:46):
You don't well, is that no? No, no, he is.
He's right?

Speaker 4 (02:00:53):
Am I not spitting facts?

Speaker 2 (02:00:54):
Right? He's right.

Speaker 3 (02:00:56):
I think you're making really good points. I think you're
making really good points. Here's where I would jump in.

Speaker 4 (02:01:02):
Okay, I can't wait to hear your leadership right now.

Speaker 3 (02:01:05):
Has he fallen short so far?

Speaker 4 (02:01:07):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (02:01:08):
But he is willing to redeem himself and he is
willing to do it right here on camera to show
us and to show Ollipop that he may be belated
to joining us in the foxhole, but he is elated
to join us in the fox.

Speaker 1 (02:01:25):
That's the word I'll search you for earlier when I
said belated, No, truly, Hey, I might not have a brain,
but I have an idea.

Speaker 3 (02:01:37):
I knew where you were going. I knew where you're
in his brain. That is belated, dude. I lost him
and I was like, belated, they are?

Speaker 2 (02:01:48):
I do what you man?

Speaker 4 (02:01:49):
I'm so passionate When.

Speaker 2 (02:01:54):
It was one of those things, it's not intentional at all.
I just hadn't gone aroun I've been on a no
soda thing, which, uh, the wonderful leader of this podcast
is let me know that this is actually not a
soda but anything carbonated I've tried to stick away from uh,
so that was kind of the intention behind it. But
let me just say, guys, I'm all in now, and

(02:02:18):
just to prove it, I'm gonna try We'll try the
classic grape and I'm also gonna try the vintage cola.
Come on and give you guys some thoughts.

Speaker 3 (02:02:29):
Oh, he's gonna love it.

Speaker 2 (02:02:32):
Holy shit, that's good. That's actually really good. Yeah, that's
really good. That's very solid. I I just want to graphic.
I just want to quote Graphic. Yeah, chef on Ali

(02:02:54):
and the people that know me know that whenever I
think something's really good, you'll get like three or four
words out of me, and then I'll go right back
to whatever I'm eating or drinking. Yeah, you're right back
to sipping that vintage cola Nuza. Oh buddy, that is incredible.
And will what were we saying?

Speaker 1 (02:03:14):
This is in it nine grams prebiotic fiber, two to
five grams of sugar.

Speaker 3 (02:03:20):
So it's you got botanic goals.

Speaker 1 (02:03:22):
You're a guy that's wanting to stay away from soda
because of all the sugar that it has.

Speaker 2 (02:03:27):
Like I I completely understand that drinking. If I'm wanting
to get away from something. Yes, you like people, you
love a good change. Like my wife, she's water all
day long, and she'll ask me how much water if
you drink? I have pure water, and I'll like, sweetheart,
you know it's like, I'll drink some water, but I
need something different.

Speaker 4 (02:03:43):
I just need something different when I'm drinking, when I'm
having a drink.

Speaker 3 (02:03:45):
Yeah, and where allipop goes above and beyond is you
could just have flavored water that's like sparkling water.

Speaker 4 (02:03:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:03:54):
I've seen those like imitation sodas. Yes, they do that
part very well, but they also have a ton of
healthy stuff. A bunch of biomes are really great for
the gut as well.

Speaker 4 (02:04:05):
What's crazy as we are giving ollipops such a shot out?
I hope they're too a crazy shout out, but it's
coming from the heart, like we genuinely are.

Speaker 2 (02:04:13):
Like, Yeah, i'll go rate, We'll start vintage cola. I'll
get that an eight point two, okay, okay, which, by
the way, my scale is there's no such thing as
a ten. I'm a very serious person. I would give
this like an eight nine. Very good refreshing, doesn't feel heavy.
That's a big thing on soda for those you're like,

(02:04:36):
I can only have a couple of SIPs.

Speaker 3 (02:04:37):
This is for those listening and not watching. That was
an eight point two for Vintage Cola and an eight
point nine for Classic Grape.

Speaker 1 (02:04:46):
And you have the grape flavor and the difference here
because it's like a soda substitute or whatever.

Speaker 4 (02:04:50):
Yeah, yeah, whatever concepts in your brain. But the sizzle,
it's a light sizzle, light sizzle. It's not one that's
like attacking your mouth as it goes in there. Sure
to God, wait till you get your lips on the
Chris Bapple.

Speaker 2 (02:05:02):
I'm hummed, buddy, I'm not shitting yet.

Speaker 3 (02:05:07):
He's thought, Hey, Will's not trying to be funny. That's serious.
I got an email here from an MPT sixer. I
got Lexi Morris. She says, Fellas, I'm a proud Milk
Team six member and weekly listener. My husband got me
hooked months ago. He's a PT six sickoh and fellow
girl dad to Emerson, our eight month old baby girl.

(02:05:31):
Wanted to write in and let you know that the
wives love to gush on their husbands. We see the husband,
teammate and father. You're trying to be. We appreciate that
you want to be an intentional husband and father and
actively display your effort to us. While as women we
may carry a lot of the worry slash load for

(02:05:52):
our children, we couldn't do it without you. My husband,
Michael is truly the most amazing husband and father. Had
an easy go as first time parents, and my experience
postpartum h and my experience postpartum and as a first
time mom has still been amazing because of him and

(02:06:13):
how well he has loved me and truly met me
where I am. He's one month post a life saving
stem cell transplant, so just have to give him the
shout out he deserves. Michael, I know you're listening, so
just want you. I'm so sorry.

Speaker 4 (02:06:30):
It's okay. I feel in my nose too.

Speaker 2 (02:06:31):
Brother.

Speaker 4 (02:06:32):
In a while, we can get some tears going.

Speaker 3 (02:06:34):
I know you're listening. I just want you to know
that your girls love you endlessly and you're our superhero.
What an incredible man to fight for your life so
you can spend the rest of it with your girls.

(02:06:55):
Take care, fellas, and keep putting in the effort like
you do. As a why of an intentional partner, I
can tell that we appreciate you. I can tell you
that we appreciate you. Dang provided pictures, of course, let
me cover my wet eyes with the pictures of Michael

(02:07:16):
with his daughter Emerson and his wife.

Speaker 2 (02:07:20):
What a legend, dude, legend, what a legend.

Speaker 4 (02:07:23):
Thank you for writing in that is What are you doing?

Speaker 3 (02:07:28):
Why'd you have to do that?

Speaker 2 (02:07:31):
You got?

Speaker 1 (02:07:31):
The women have infiltrated our brand and now they just
give us stories that we just tear up about.

Speaker 3 (02:07:36):
Now, Golly and Michael, you are very lucky. It sounds
like you have a fantastic wife. I have another one.

Speaker 2 (02:07:45):
I think if I read it will kind of take
me out of this Okay, hopefully, uh says boys.

Speaker 3 (02:07:54):
Just got the news that my wife is pregnant. I've
been listening to Busting since the first episode in twenty nineteen,
listen to a couple episodes for the Dads, but hadn't
deep dived just yet. With the news coming out for
the Dads will be my number one podcast. I'm over
the moon, excited to bring a little one into this world.
And I was born for the trenches. My question for y'all,

(02:08:17):
my wife is only two to three weeks a long.
We found out November fourteenth, and now she wants to
do a big shi bang to surprise everyone on Thanksgiving.
This is a brilliant idea. By the way, I love this.
With the close relationship I have with my father, how
do I not tell them I'm not great at keeping
secrets and we talk every day.

Speaker 2 (02:08:38):
What do I do and how do I act?

Speaker 3 (02:08:40):
I know if I ruin the surprise, my wife will
be absolutely livid. She will, she will. We'd hate to
start fatherhood in the doghouse. Please help. Can't wait to
be a part of the pet Sikos also cream soda
allibop is better than great.

Speaker 4 (02:08:55):
Yeah, I said it. It always comes back to lollipop.
Did you say they're how far along?

Speaker 2 (02:09:03):
Three weeks?

Speaker 4 (02:09:04):
Three weeks?

Speaker 3 (02:09:05):
And they just found out four days ago and they
and he's saying, I got zip the lip until the
twenty six with twenty seven.

Speaker 2 (02:09:12):
We didn't say his name, did we? Oh? We did.

Speaker 3 (02:09:16):
Well, we'll knock that part out.

Speaker 4 (02:09:18):
Gotta knock you got that.

Speaker 3 (02:09:19):
That's a good note from a chef. Well, knock his
name out.

Speaker 4 (02:09:24):
You better be a bear trap.

Speaker 1 (02:09:26):
Yeah, or you just got to remind yourself this is
beyond you, beyond you and your insecurities of keeping a secret, like.

Speaker 4 (02:09:31):
You better be a bear trap.

Speaker 1 (02:09:33):
This is again you want to feel like you know,
you love to film the moment, the reaction and capture
it because your dad's gonna be elated.

Speaker 2 (02:09:40):
He's gonna lose it.

Speaker 3 (02:09:42):
He's gonna look like old fat Stafford reading Lexi's email.
He's gonna be balling, yeah, or he's gonna be trying
to hide the tears. He's gonna be so excited if
you are as close as he's saying. Especially it's like
loose lips sink ships.

Speaker 4 (02:09:59):
Yes what they say.

Speaker 3 (02:10:00):
And I would say that this is a great time
where you're just gonna you're gonna have to eat the secret, dude,
and he'll know something's going on.

Speaker 1 (02:10:08):
Maybe Yeah, he's got to pour your sight on into
just being excited that everybody's coming to town and seeing them,
and don't do it so much where he's like it's
something up and then you're kind of putting a weird spot.

Speaker 3 (02:10:18):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, just make it. And if you
have to make up a little lie to keep a
secret for a really fun thing, you know, dude, I'm
all in favor of lying to protect a surprise birthday
party or lying to protect a gender reveal, or we're pregnant.

Speaker 2 (02:10:35):
Yeah, yeah, I'm like a Santa Claus lie.

Speaker 4 (02:10:39):
It's a little a little white lie, a little white light. Anonymous.
I have an anonymous right in here. Pop A team six?

Speaker 1 (02:10:45):
Uh, what's up to the starting lineup for the Bus
and Dads number nine, qb Fatthew Stafford Young Junior number
fifty one, Mike linebacker, William Earl one shelf Compton the
third and team.

Speaker 4 (02:10:58):
Water Boys chef Jack a Lot and Derek drink water?

Speaker 2 (02:11:04):
Is this?

Speaker 4 (02:11:06):
That was my favorite one?

Speaker 2 (02:11:07):
Rading dat. I was like, we're water boys, baby, let's
go Jack a Lot. That's pretty great.

Speaker 1 (02:11:19):
I just got married on October twenty fifth. See a
picture below for the boys. My husband and I want
to have Oh this is a female just ripping shots. No, yes,
she knows how to hang?

Speaker 2 (02:11:34):
Boy?

Speaker 4 (02:11:34):
Does she knows how to hang She knows how to
drink a beer in a ollipop?

Speaker 2 (02:11:37):
Come on?

Speaker 1 (02:11:38):
My husband and I want to have kids, but we
don't know when we want to start or what conversation.
What that conversation is like? Any advice for an aspiring
member of Milk Team slash Milf Team six, Who bought?
Who brought up the conversation first, How did it go,
what questions did you have, et cetera. Any guidance will
be helpful and appreciated. I'm a Day one listener for
the Dads and a Tier one of busting as well.

(02:11:59):
Thanks so much much for reading and gb oh just
taking a shot at old fellow vall chef.

Speaker 4 (02:12:05):
Jack a lot.

Speaker 2 (02:12:06):
It's forgiven us Tennessee fans with at the banter. Yeah, yeah,
we did have a little fun, man, That's how we
do it involved. Could you like to go for a round?

Speaker 4 (02:12:19):
That's a great question, by the way, it is a
great question. How did it come up with y'all?

Speaker 1 (02:12:24):
I think we both kind of knew we wanted to
get started, Yeah, as soon as possible. I know that's
not the same for everybody. Everybody has different conversations at
the end of the day. I don't think you're not
going to figure out the perfect setup or the perfect.

Speaker 2 (02:12:37):
Time, you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (02:12:39):
Yeah, Like, if you think back to everything that worked
out for you that wasn't a perfect moment, Yeah, that
ended up resulting in favor to where you look back
on those moments and you think, ah, I'm glad SO
and so forced me to do this. I'm glad this
person said no to me. I'm glad this you know,

(02:12:59):
the these people gave.

Speaker 2 (02:13:00):
Me a shot.

Speaker 1 (02:13:01):
I'm glad I ended up doing this at not the
perfect moment or the perfect time, and it comes to
work out. You think of all those moments, it's no
different with parenthood. I mean, you're gonna you're not gonna
be able to time up everything that some people get
lucky and they're able to.

Speaker 2 (02:13:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:13:16):
Yeah, but dude, I'm telling you right now, the perfect
moment is going to be the moment when they come.
It's not gonna be what you planned on, what you
thought about. It's just getting into buds, training, breeding until
Dad's we gotta.

Speaker 3 (02:13:29):
Get into buds. That's step one, and I think pre
step if I can add anything of healthily pressuring your partner,
I think Jill absolutely murdered it by just sending me
pictures of you and Chara with Ru looking so happy
and just the cutest photos of Rude that she could

(02:13:50):
possibly find screenshot and that sending it to me she's adorable.
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 1 (02:13:56):
That's a good point, because you were a guy that
didn't know if you were necessarily ready, Yeah, and thinking
of the conversation advice she's looking for, like, yeah, as
the female wanting to get your your guy on board.

Speaker 3 (02:14:07):
Send cute baby pigs, dude of like happy couples that
you know he's a fan of, or maybe it's y'all's friends.
And look how precious this little baby looks. Oh my gosh,
do you think ours will have blue eyes? Do you
think ours would have blonde hair?

Speaker 2 (02:14:22):
Do you think?

Speaker 4 (02:14:23):
You know?

Speaker 3 (02:14:23):
Asking those little questions because then me very happily in
Semen Team six at the time, I'm reading these texts
and I'm looking at Rue and I'm thinking to myself,
wouldn't mind having one of those?

Speaker 2 (02:14:37):
That is horrible?

Speaker 4 (02:14:39):
Gotta stop posting photos? Are you had me in help?

Speaker 3 (02:14:44):
It was the you weighing in bed next to her
like selfie video and at the end she giggles and
kisses you on the cheek and says love you, dad, Dad.
Jill sends me that. I'm like, Okay, this is at
this point I think think Will and Jill are in cahoots.
I think they're working together.

Speaker 4 (02:15:05):
I think that's great advice.

Speaker 2 (02:15:07):
But yes, that's a really.

Speaker 3 (02:15:08):
Good way to help pressure your husband that maybe is
thinking too much about his college team at the time.
Maybe he's thinking too much about the golf trip coming up.

Speaker 4 (02:15:18):
Yeah, or maybe the career or maybe the career.

Speaker 3 (02:15:21):
And just sneak in those little Uh what is that called?
Like the fascist governments loved using it. It's uh propaganda. Oh,
some good propaganda, some PT six propaganda.

Speaker 4 (02:15:35):
Yeah, there is there is.

Speaker 2 (02:15:40):
Hey, guys, how are you sir?

Speaker 3 (02:15:47):
He is fighting, he is fighting torn ligaments. Goal, he
is fighting goal and uh, he's fighting the good fight
of also being a PT sixer. Yeah, on top of everything,
he's the big guy man.

Speaker 4 (02:16:03):
He said he was on all fours crawl into his bathroom.

Speaker 3 (02:16:05):
Mark, Wait, are you serious?

Speaker 2 (02:16:07):
Yeah, and then the dog had to go out, so
he had to crawl to the back door let the
dog out. He says.

Speaker 1 (02:16:12):
He's banging on the glass, begging the dog to come
back in so you can crawl back in bed.

Speaker 3 (02:16:16):
No, you're kidding.

Speaker 2 (02:16:17):
I'm not joking. I'm not I'm not joking.

Speaker 1 (02:16:20):
Like, well, I would guess that in his mind, he
probably wish a sniper would have been at the top
of a hill and just took him out, because that's
how much pain. It seems like he's in he's fighting
right now, he's fighting him down like this.

Speaker 3 (02:16:34):
I was about to tell him to come on the
producer cam or on my cam.

Speaker 2 (02:16:38):
Now.

Speaker 3 (02:16:39):
Now I'm like, you guys had gout.

Speaker 4 (02:16:41):
No, these guys had gout right.

Speaker 2 (02:16:43):
Yeah, I've had it. Two flare ups.

Speaker 5 (02:16:45):
That ship makes you wish your foot just fell up,
Like it makes you wish a car ran over your
foot and they had to get rid of it.

Speaker 2 (02:16:52):
Yeah, it swells up.

Speaker 5 (02:16:53):
It's gnarly, it's nasty and like it's just enough pain
for you to be like, I have to do something
about this, but it's the doctors are just like, it's
just go out, take this pill and hopefully the breakdown.

Speaker 1 (02:17:03):
It's oh god, yeah, all I can compare it to
I had a Liz Frank injury, so I was out
for I was like a felt like six eight months
in the art thea what's it called arthritis?

Speaker 2 (02:17:16):
Yeah? After hell on for a while.

Speaker 1 (02:17:18):
But yeah, dude, when your foot is I mean, any
injury sucks, but when your foot can't work.

Speaker 2 (02:17:25):
Damn dude.

Speaker 3 (02:17:26):
Hey leave some comments, yeahs and guys to Taylor, leave
some comments and uh, let's hope for the best with
the torn ligaments in the goup.

Speaker 2 (02:17:37):
Yeah yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:17:39):
Did you have a.

Speaker 3 (02:17:40):
Lesson of the week for us?

Speaker 2 (02:17:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (02:17:42):
Yeah, I got a lesson.

Speaker 1 (02:17:43):
So Scotty turned one last week and I was I
took some time to sit down and think about and
reminisce on how Scotty has changed our lives, because when
you have two, I know, leading up to Scotty being born,
Charli being pregnant and thinking of the bond we have
with Rue, there's a part of you that's like number one.

(02:18:04):
You learn how much your heart expands to love your
firstborn or your kid when they come, and then the
next when the next one comes, you're like thinking, am
I going to even come close to loving this one
the same way that I love Rue?

Speaker 4 (02:18:17):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:18:19):
But I wrote a little something down and essentially it
is you don't realize how fast the early years move
until your second kid turns one. With your first, you're
just trying to survive it, the pressure that comes with
every cry, every phase, every sleepless night that feels like
it's taken forever. But with your second, you know how
quickly and you realize how much at all, how fast

(02:18:41):
it disappears. My three year old is suddenly this little
human with jokes and opinions and asking me all these
questions at bedtime from the Grim's fairy tales. And my
one year old is still clinging on to us like
we're we are her entire world, more mom so than
dad right now. But she is still very much like
connected to us at the hip, with the smiles and
the laughter and wanting to be held and all of
these things. And somewhere in the middle of that chaos,

(02:19:03):
I call myself thinking, this is it. This is our family,
not someday, but right now. Your oldest teaches you how
to be a dad, your youngest teaches you how to
slow down, and both of them, without knowing it, are
raising a better version of you. So if you're in it,
the tantrums, the teething, the long nights, the regressions, all
of it, take a second to breathe it in. These

(02:19:26):
aren't the years you get through. These are the years
that you'll miss and the version of you they remember later.
You're building that guy today and in those moments. So
that's a little bit of the reflection piece. It's more like, oh,
thank you, thank you, gentlemen.

Speaker 4 (02:19:43):
What's that dude?

Speaker 3 (02:19:45):
Well said?

Speaker 2 (02:19:46):
But you you're still like learning on the go, like
you have all the firsts with your firstborn, so that
you're you're like recreating this capacity for your second.

Speaker 1 (02:19:54):
They're having their first and like having the same excitement,
having the same intention, you know, spend that quality time
that you know the first one had, even though the
first even though Rue she's like wanting you to paint
with her do ours and crafts, she's Scotty wanted to
get in the way and kind of hit because she
wants to be involved, be like her big sister, be
in the mix, and like taking those moments that helps
you slow down. They're like, hey, she's going through her
first two, and it just it shifts a perspective of

(02:20:18):
like slowing down on those moments because now that Rue's three,
I play all the old videos and tears will come
to my eyes when I listen to her old voice memos,
just when she's little and has a cute, little innocent voice,
and now that she's three and becoming this wonderful little girl.
It just as I hold Scottie, you just get reminded
that these moments go so fast because I just wish

(02:20:39):
Ru was Yeah, I know she's three. She's little, but
I wish she was still one two years old, and
having those moments that they're gone. They're now just bottled
up in photos and vote in videos and voice memos
that we hold on to and love to cling to,
like when we're scrolling at nighttime and we're just obsessed
with them, like we got our first photos in from
being at school and we're clearly just over the moon

(02:21:00):
about and we want all of them, we want to
hang them up everywhere, And it's just such a reminder
that having Scotty like those moments are happening right now
that we wish.

Speaker 4 (02:21:08):
So much we still had Roo with that we now
have it in Scotti.

Speaker 1 (02:21:11):
So it helps you to kind of slow down and
just see the perspective of it all, like when she
is having this little regression at twelve months and you're
hoping she's doing all right, and you're just having those
fun moments when she's laughing, she's ah, she's being a
little Scott's Zilla. It's just appreciating because time fucking flies.
We're always going to talk about time. We're always going
to talk about communication because we just we lose it

(02:21:34):
on and hopefully one day we do for the dads
for as long as we're dads. But this is like
a time capsule that we'll get to look back to
and hopefully our kids come across it one day and
listen to us talk about how they were little, the
stuff that we went through, And I think that would
be sick if that happens. But but yeah, man, kind
of some reflection as I was thinking about Scotty turning one,
because I want to do a video and do all

(02:21:54):
these things and I should probably just give it the
chef so we can make something. But it's tough with
how quickly and how much how busy the schedule gets.

Speaker 3 (02:22:02):
Yeah, I love that lesson of the week. I have
a short quake lesson of the week. Rip it Mine
actually comes verbatim from Jill on Sunday when we were
having that little pow Wow come to Jesus' Husband Wife
Talk and we had talked on the podcast last week

(02:22:23):
where I was like, I am having trouble having excitement
in the morning to like get out of bed. I'm loved, brother, decent, ps.
I am having trouble having excitement to get out of bed,
to go attack the day, to be excited just for
the day to day stuff.

Speaker 2 (02:22:44):
And.

Speaker 3 (02:22:46):
Jill, just with tears in her eyes, had a really
great message to me of when we were back in
Fort Worth and you were a contractor and you had
all the time in the day to have a nap.
You would sit there and you would call me and
you would cry about how you want all the responsibilities

(02:23:08):
and all the opportunities that you now have at your job.
You would have done anything to shoot the commercial that
we got to shoot yesterday on Monday, to be able
to direct that. And now that you're in it and
you have new responsibilities with our child, you have new
responsibilities with me as your wife. Sit back and really

(02:23:32):
find the things in your life that you are thankful for,
and really highlight those and run those things through your
mind and remind yourself how good your life truly is.
Because life is good. We do have a lot of
stuff that is hard, we do have a lot of
obstacles in our way, but God, we have a cute

(02:23:53):
little family of three and we get to go to Franklin,
Tennessee and go, you know, yuck it up with the
beaman and just be goofballs. And I have a great
job that like, I'm very excited to be a part
of this place. And I have a daughter that lights
up when she sees me, and when I'm still asleep
in the morning, Jill was telling me, I'm my tear

(02:24:15):
up on this part. I'm gonna fight it though. Jill
was telling me that Scarlett stares at me while I'm
sleeping because she can't wait for me to wake up.

Speaker 2 (02:24:25):
Life's good.

Speaker 4 (02:24:26):
There's really good things in life, and we gotta press
and lean into those things.

Speaker 3 (02:24:32):
That's my lesson of the week.

Speaker 2 (02:24:33):
Be thankful.

Speaker 3 (02:24:34):
And what a great time of year to be thankful.

Speaker 4 (02:24:37):
I love that.

Speaker 2 (02:24:38):
Man.

Speaker 1 (02:24:38):
That's a great gratitude and perspective from Jill. Yeah, good call, dude.
It's she's right, Like that's that's like the correct way
of thinking about like we used to beg for a
life that we have or opportunities that we now have
that you slip into the monotonies of everyday life so

(02:25:00):
you start to like take them for granted. Yeah, you
get in these phases, these mental les or these lapses,
and you just forget that we are living the life
that we want to live.

Speaker 4 (02:25:09):
Yeah, And so that's great perspective.

Speaker 1 (02:25:11):
That's a great way to wrap it all the way
back to gratitude or starting with gratitude, because that's she
nailed that one.

Speaker 3 (02:25:18):
We will always be going up that hill, and when
we get on top of that hill, there's gonna be
a new hill that we have to go climb. And
there are times that we should take of being at
the top of that hill and being happy and leaning
into that before we then press into that next hill
of responsibilities, problems, issues, whatever, because life is not going

(02:25:41):
to get easier, is going to get harder.

Speaker 1 (02:25:43):
As you often say, yeah, there's always going to be
issues and problems that we face, no matter what.

Speaker 4 (02:25:49):
Well said man, thank you, Yeah, well said, and well.

Speaker 3 (02:25:52):
Said on you.

Speaker 4 (02:25:53):
I have no no no well said on you, bro.

Speaker 3 (02:25:55):
Okay, before you start, before you start, Chef Jack lotting me.
I love it when you write stuff, and I'm just
gonna leave it at that.

Speaker 4 (02:26:06):
I love it when you saw stuff. He's not cut
his mind, dude, you that was well said.

Speaker 3 (02:26:10):
Cut his mike. He's done.

Speaker 4 (02:26:15):
Is that it boys, It is that.

Speaker 1 (02:26:16):
It feels like it's it a great sode, what a sod.
It's as always, it's a great time, great community, great
time to be for the dads. Yep, let's gear up.
For Thanksgiving, Christmas merch is out. Christ Yeah, Christmas merch
is out. Crush the wet. The rest of your week
go be great. As my daughter ru would say, oh dude,

(02:26:39):
another one matter of fact before we go. When you
were talking about she sits there and waits for you.
She's excited for you to wake up. A fun one
like when you're in bed. This is dad hack, whatever
you want to call it. But doing the whole you
know how they get in.

Speaker 4 (02:26:51):
The pikaboo phase or I'm sure Scarlet is probably getting
in that face.

Speaker 3 (02:26:54):
She's getting into the funny face. I was putting magnolia
leaves in front of my face.

Speaker 1 (02:26:59):
Yeah, reveal in So starting to learn about that concept
a little bit whenever they're able to sit or crawl
and like carry themselves, like when you bring them down
in your bed, like in the morning time it's just you,
wife and the little one, but sitting them there and
like doing pekaboo where you're like under the covers and
mom and.

Speaker 4 (02:27:14):
You know Charlie like, oh where's that? Where dead it go?

Speaker 2 (02:27:16):
And she's like lean up and trying like lifting the cover.

Speaker 4 (02:27:18):
She'll lift the covers and see my face and she
gets all excited.

Speaker 2 (02:27:21):
Dude.

Speaker 4 (02:27:21):
That is a though.

Speaker 1 (02:27:23):
That that's a Those are memories that I'll literally always
finally think about is when they're that little, like playing
the Pikaboo game in the bed where you're hiding under
the covers.

Speaker 2 (02:27:32):
It's the best. It's the best.

Speaker 3 (02:27:34):
It's so magical, dude, It's truly magical. Yeah, those moments. Yeah,
but being a dad's pretty cool, dude.

Speaker 2 (02:27:43):
Being a dad's pretty cool, man.

Speaker 4 (02:27:45):
Being a mom's school too. Being a mom is pretty badass, dude.
All Right, I love you guys, See you next week.
All the team sits out

Speaker 2 (02:28:01):
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