BIG FACTS EXTRA 2025 Is Trippin!

Big Bank, DJ Scream and Baby Jade dive into the latest happenings and share their candid thoughts on life in 2025. The crew discusses everything from personal growth to the unexpected twists and turns of the year.

 A very interesting debate on whether or not one would choose to live longer with less money or expire sooner with riches occurs as well. Tap in!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:15):
Coming to you live from our Heart Studios and the
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Speaker 1 (00:21):
Facts is here. This is a Big Facts extra.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
Because, damn it, we wanted to do a big fast
extra for our people.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
What's up? What's up with y'all?

Speaker 3 (00:27):
Man?

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Was seen y'all this year? What y'all been on?

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Bank? Got a new extended Well we've seen it on
a couple of episodes, seeing him on a couple of
got big as fu fast. What you feeling that's all right?

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Is he plant based?

Speaker 2 (00:49):
Not yet yet.

Speaker 3 (00:50):
I'm gonna let him eat the bullshit for a year.
Take through the transient, get them right.

Speaker 4 (00:56):
Yeah, you can appreciate that, uh, that health and that well?

Speaker 1 (01:00):
Yeah, what up? Jay? What you've been on?

Speaker 4 (01:04):
Man ship? Just chilling man standing out the way? Fucking
Is this year going?

Speaker 1 (01:11):
I say, is this year going away? We expected it
to go not at all? It damn show ain't not
at all?

Speaker 4 (01:17):
This is like this year has been really crazy, really crazy,
Like from just a whole bunch of shit. Like it's
been a like a week and a half ago, it
was like a year, you know what I'm saying, the
Dave left and then a week before that year, this
shit happened with Scooter, Like, yeah, I don't know, it's

(01:40):
just been it's just been crazy. Like it's been a
lot of great ship happening this year, but it's also
been a lot of like what the funck shit happening
this year, like unbelievable ship.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
Like don't it seem like that's how I always had
a godo. I don't know why, but it seemed like
that's how I do, Like almost when everything is going
so moved and it always be soon, some has to
come with it.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
She ain't been smooth for a minute though, what you mean,
sh It ain't really been smooth, And shit been crazy
since since that pandemic.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Shit been crazed, A whole.

Speaker 2 (02:17):
Bunch of shit shifted the energy, right.

Speaker 3 (02:20):
Yeah, man, shit just been I don't know, but you know,
we're gonna keep on living.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
Nah, that's all we can do. You know what I'm saying,
Shit being craved, But I ain't complaining now, no, no, no, no,
We're not complaining about about living.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
No, no, but I got a question about that, right
about the not complaining part because I'm not complaining either.
I never complained and I never, like, you know, question
because I know you're not supposed to do that. But
how do you.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
How do you.

Speaker 4 (02:55):
How do you get answers in understanding without questioning? Like
how does how.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Does what answers you're trying to get?

Speaker 4 (03:07):
Like what the fuck is going on?

Speaker 1 (03:08):
Like we ain't supposed to know everything going on?

Speaker 2 (03:11):
I mean, I don't think if we knew everything going on,
they had it all figured out, then what's the purpose
of living. I'm just saying we're here to learn, right,
we all don't learn learn on our journey, right, you.

Speaker 5 (03:27):
Don't think that like.

Speaker 4 (03:30):
We should have some sort of understanding. I know we're
not supposed to know everything because that's the purpose of living.
But ship after you don't lived through the ship and
after the fact that the ship happening, like, you don't
think like there's some sort of explanation that would make
things a lot easier. Y'all. Don't think what y'all think?

Speaker 1 (03:50):
What you think? Back?

Speaker 4 (03:51):
Am I Triven.

Speaker 1 (03:54):
Triven Virgin? Say shit? Really?

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Like she said can I get the cold so I
can just figure this shit out, or like, like.

Speaker 5 (04:03):
Like, what what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
Is or ex all a question she wants to I
don't know what she's talking about. You exit the question
you want to ask?

Speaker 4 (04:09):
Now? What I'm saying is like, I know you're not
supposed to question it, and I'm not questioning shit, who's
saying that? I don't know. That's I don't know.

Speaker 1 (04:20):
You do supposed to question?

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Don't you ask questions?

Speaker 4 (04:22):
I do me too, questions, Yeah, yeah, okay.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Nah, you do suppose the question? Are you supposed to
accept the answers?

Speaker 2 (04:33):
Is what she's saying.

Speaker 4 (04:35):
Nah, that ain't what I'm saying either. Like what I'm
saying is Okay, we ask questions and we get our answers.

Speaker 5 (04:44):
But I know.

Speaker 4 (04:47):
Everything is supposed to happen for a reason, right, So
it's like that part of it technically from my understanding
growing up until a few years recently or whatever, you're
not opposed to question that part or whatever. But it's
just like, at the end of the day, the lack
of questioning leaves no understanding, which doesn't give you a

(05:11):
chance to fully process the shit. You get what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
That makes sense, But you still because you just said it,
you say what you mean, you still you still are
not fully You still haven't fully either received. You still
don't know everything you can feel like you want to
know because you just said it.

Speaker 4 (05:30):
I don't, so I get I get the answers to
my questions, but it's still it's still like other like
underlying ship that still doesn't connect sometimes with those answers
to those questions.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
And that's probably because that's how it's supposed to be.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
Yeah, everything's just just being it'. I ain't gonna say
weird and new different. It's been new and different, man,
But I'm embracing it all. Me personally, embracing it all
is a part of the journey.

Speaker 2 (06:03):
I guess definitely that.

Speaker 3 (06:05):
You know what I'm saying, Like circh shit ain't don't
need no questions when they when they give you the
answer off.

Speaker 2 (06:11):
The bat, what do you mean?

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Like just say vincent.

Speaker 3 (06:19):
If you know. Like sometimes even just with people and
friends and relationships, I always go back to that when
you're asking God, like why is this person like that?
Why'd you asking the asking why is he like that?
When I'm giving you the answer that this person ain't
for you?

Speaker 2 (06:33):
But what about it?

Speaker 1 (06:34):
I can't get along with the motherfucker? Why you're asking God?
Why they like that?

Speaker 3 (06:37):
I'm showing you can't get along with them, so you
can get a fuck away from them.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
The answer be in the answer, be in the action.
But what if it's somebody I have not saying?

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Damn? Why am I pooring some people rich? Like basic
questions like that, like basic questions for us, like are
you poor?

Speaker 3 (06:54):
But you could be rich in ways that they would
never be. You're right, So you're not embracing.

Speaker 1 (06:59):
What's going on.

Speaker 3 (07:00):
Now. See, people gotta look at themselves and see what
do I got that another motherfuckering' got? What makes me rich?

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Wealthy? Rich?

Speaker 3 (07:07):
What makes me rich? What makes me wealthy than these people?
You know what I'm saying, It ain't It ain't money
all the time.

Speaker 2 (07:13):
You snapped on that, right, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
So that's the part.

Speaker 3 (07:17):
That's what That's a nigga that's sitting around stressing about
the money because he's comparing himself because get what, you
wouldn't know you need money. You wouldn't know you need
that much money to you see a motherfucker with that.

Speaker 2 (07:26):
That's much money.

Speaker 3 (07:27):
Yeah, good, think about if your bill paid. You're living
okay and you're comfortable. You just compare yourself. That's what
makes you unhappy. Is comparison.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
Comparison, straight comparison, thief of joy.

Speaker 3 (07:41):
You gotta call you got a house, you got somewhere
to staate.

Speaker 4 (07:44):
You just don't got what they got.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
You just ain't got what they got.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
Yeah, comparison is the thief for joy.

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Yeah, you just really killing yourself by wording about the neck.
Motherfucker for real, you never see a motherfucker who happened that?
Just like damn happy with what they that?

Speaker 2 (08:01):
You ever see that ship The happiest people in the
box under get in the project, people be happier together
in not saying they don't want more, want to change
their circumstances, but some of the happiest times, some of
the happiest times you can think about it in the hood,
all of them.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
Yeah, because get what only thing to me coming up?
I ain't had no really no word. Like even even
though a nigga w was poe, we won't word because
we knew how to handle being Poe.

Speaker 1 (08:30):
You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 3 (08:31):
Shit, This poor ass shit really fun.

Speaker 1 (08:33):
We're making the best out of it.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
Yeah, the word once you're gonna create the twenty thousand
dollars a month bills, that's what brain stress. Right If
my bill was still sixteen dollars and were still getting
food stamped, man to worry about a market nothing this
ship lick.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
Yeah, So that's crazy. That's crazy.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
You say that because me and my wife was talking
about that, and we had a real conversation like not
not we were rebuke or whatever, but could we go
back to that and be happy? Could you go back
to that? Could you go could you go back and
be happy.

Speaker 4 (09:10):
If you didn't give a fuck about what people thought?

Speaker 1 (09:12):
If I was forced to do it.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
I'm talking about y'all personally.

Speaker 1 (09:15):
You're saying, like, could I go back to being.

Speaker 2 (09:16):
To like what we would say, bare minimum living and
then just be happy? Ain't necessarily got to be in poverty.
But it's like, fuck it, we giving up a god.

Speaker 3 (09:26):
If God showed me, If God brought me someone and
showed my life and say, okay, you can live for
forty years average or you live for ten more rich?
Which one would you pick?

Speaker 1 (09:36):
I take to forty forty so here. Yeah you can.
You can go back to it.

Speaker 2 (09:40):
I love life.

Speaker 3 (09:41):
Yeah, forty so you can go back to it, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
Yeah, and be happy because you're alive, or you can
be rich and hell have who knows what type of problems.

Speaker 3 (09:51):
Right until my ten years unlimited battling.

Speaker 1 (09:55):
But some people be on that. Some people live what
they call fast on.

Speaker 3 (09:59):
How old I wouldn't if I was sixty come on with.

Speaker 1 (10:03):
You don't want to say.

Speaker 3 (10:05):
If I was, come on with it.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
But me being forty six, Hell, now give me them
forty years fast life.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
Yeah, yeah, fast life. Man, Well though five or this year,
it is what it is.

Speaker 3 (10:26):
But you m hm, so y'all rather take the forty years.

Speaker 2 (10:35):
I love life. I have visioned life at some point
on the island, just like when I just went to
Turks last year. Like man, they grabbing coconuts off of trees.

Speaker 5 (10:44):
And just water a nut wrapping some coconuts, nutrap.

Speaker 3 (10:48):
But you ain't finna get no coconuts the life we're
saying for the fall.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
You just wanna be regular.

Speaker 3 (10:53):
Now that's regular.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
You shake the tree.

Speaker 3 (10:55):
No, I'm saying, you said, hold on I'm saying, you go.

Speaker 4 (11:03):
Atlanta, Atlanta, not poverty, he said, just back to basic
bear Mens.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Basically, bad memory was poverty for me. I'm saying to
where I come from.

Speaker 2 (11:15):
So back the Edge for forty or John's Creek for ten.

Speaker 3 (11:22):
Give me the fading because I can survive, and then
in jungle, give me them falling ed. Would you know
what I'm saying, that's all.

Speaker 1 (11:30):
She ain't even mad about it.

Speaker 2 (11:33):
Man, the cat. The cat can be bad on your
mental health. Man, I love it to be bad on
your mental health. It ain't even just life. It's like
the surroundings of the people in the mentality.

Speaker 5 (11:44):
With I'm from the West Side, we live over there.

Speaker 1 (11:46):
But people, if it don't get don't act like. It's
people that don't wear your mental health.

Speaker 4 (11:52):
For sure.

Speaker 1 (11:53):
You gotta think about this. It don't erase what you
already know.

Speaker 3 (11:58):
So if you, if you, if I go back at
this person, I still ain't gonna be there.

Speaker 4 (12:04):
So basically, it's kind of like the old saying, like
it's better to have loved and lost than to never
have loved at all.

Speaker 2 (12:13):
I can go for that.

Speaker 3 (12:14):
You know what I'm saying is I already know I'm
already he shift my mind satting on it. So I
go back that I'm already knowing what what what would
keep me my mind there?

Speaker 2 (12:23):
But you don't think like this might be bad example,
But this is like, okay, you evolve, right, and then
you're like, all right, I've evolved, so I can go
and I can just shield my energy and not to
deal with the bullshit. Right, But then it's like some
nipsey hustle shit. You back around the surrounding of people.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
Who, oh he acting funny, he acting it.

Speaker 2 (12:43):
I am like you say, I am different, I'm not
the same person, but they want to bring you back
down to the same person. You don't think that that
would wear on your mental health every day, somebody trying
to bring you your.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
Free You got to go around the niggas. You live
around nigga, don't mean you got to be around niggas.
Though we just was in the mix back then.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
Yes, you say, go back in the mix. We say,
and go back to poverty. Wisdom would be not to
be in the mix.

Speaker 4 (13:07):
What do you think it's possible to separate the poverty
from the mix.

Speaker 3 (13:12):
It definitely is, because at the end of the day,
you change your mix by go to work, nigga. The
nigg ain't gonna work you finsa get up and go
to work, come home. By the time you get around home,
you tied.

Speaker 1 (13:21):
Run my bad word. I'm I'm in the house, gonna
get all my motherfucking ports.

Speaker 3 (13:27):
For real, nigga did what it is Because you gotta think, bro,
Even in the hood, it's always been that one person
that had their boundaries that wasn't in the hood with us,
but they stayed there with us. Yeah hmm, you gotta think.
It's always people like that that's right there with you,
but I ain't right there with you.

Speaker 2 (13:45):
What makes sense? That makes sense? I just feel like
you still gotta go outside and take your.

Speaker 3 (13:51):
Walk, but I ain't walking with no nigga. Bro, I'm
gonna keep on hume. Even in the hood, Bro, they
respect a nigga who ain't on it being real. Like Dad,
it was a nigga nigga Wesed called schnitching ad. Dad
stayed on chippling.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
Bruh. Nigga respect the snitching ad Dad, Damn.

Speaker 3 (14:08):
Like like twin come her dad coming up bro, y'all.
Everybody just stopped lett him gone because he he walking
looking at your face and stopped right up by you
and car Twell, he got on a blue shirt. So nigga,
he demanded that respecting boundary, like he don't want us
up and selling dough. So we just gonna let schnitch
and add that.

Speaker 1 (14:26):
Gone. Man, fuck a nigga gone. But nigga were respecting him. Okay,
So you don't.

Speaker 3 (14:33):
Think, oh, that's just like right now, right, you don't
smoke a drink, you go out with niggas. Cauz jade me,
we all getting fucked up. You could be there with us,
but not there with us, for sure. That's the same thing, right,
you're right.

Speaker 4 (14:54):
That's kind of that's kind of the same thing. But
in my opinion, it's kind of not because if he's
going out with us, he's old returns home. You living
in that environment means that you're returning to that.

Speaker 3 (15:09):
But you can't tell me because I don't been in
an environment and seeing people that just didn't pay that
ship no attention that was there because they had to
be there, but they wasn't there. I don't seen it
that weren't speaking on this ship.

Speaker 2 (15:19):
What about the casualties of the BS though, Like let's
say you know they said to your kid got hit
with a straight died two days ago, or old lady
to your kid it was it was I thought it
was a straight.

Speaker 5 (15:33):
No, they said it was four people in the house.

Speaker 1 (15:35):
I don't know. I wasn't put up or something, okay.

Speaker 4 (15:39):
And the baby got shot in the head.

Speaker 1 (15:40):
My bad read it wrongs to their family.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
But I'm saying, like the circumstances of the hood, like shit,
the old lady can get hit.

Speaker 3 (15:50):
With it, bro, all that ship comes with I feel
like the energy you push out come with it. You
know what I'm saying, That ship come not with the
old lady. I'm saying for speaking of me as a
man for you. And if I had to move in
the hood, I still got choices on who I be around,
who I conversate with, no matter what, because when I'm
inside my house, I'm in my house before hanging on
the block.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
Hey, y, I'm gonna get what come with hanging.

Speaker 3 (16:12):
On the block. If I'm talking to the niggas, who's
doing what? Hey, I get what comes with that. But
if I'm minding my own business, leaving the block, coming
to park here, whatever the fuck I'm doing, go work
at Amazon. Whatever I'm doing, they ain't got nothing to
do with that.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
I got you anything him.

Speaker 3 (16:27):
You can got there and walk down this street, right
street and something happen. So I be walking down mating
and something happened. It's just that Jake can come with it.
I'm saying, fars uh interacting with it.

Speaker 1 (16:38):
You have a choice.

Speaker 3 (16:40):
Nobody can't make you do nothing you don't want to do. Bro,
you want to do that now if I'm sending it
out seeing any niggas and.

Speaker 1 (16:47):
And fuck it jump and that mean I have felt
weak to my conditions reverted? Okay, Nah, I can't. I
can't debate that point.

Speaker 3 (16:58):
Yeah, nigga, I hang around if I shamel a niggas,
eat some good ass chicken and good ass ship all
the time. I don't want that shit.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
Yeah, you're strong, but you That's what we always say
on big facts, though, Bro, you a lot more strong
minded than the average person.

Speaker 1 (17:13):
I can't speak for the average person. Yeah, I just
can only speak for me.

Speaker 3 (17:15):
If I said, if I went back to the hood
and I didn't want to be on that ship, I wouldn't.
But if I get back and I see, oh shit,
did the way that the way you all have it.

Speaker 1 (17:25):
It's still a choice.

Speaker 2 (17:27):
Everything's choice.

Speaker 1 (17:29):
Everything that's everything is based off choice.

Speaker 3 (17:32):
Everything but people definitely, I'm saying, like, as a man,
we cannot blame other for our choices.

Speaker 2 (17:39):
Nah, for sure. I mean everything is a choice. Everything
is definitely based on your choices and your decisions facts,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 3 (17:46):
So, man, I just look at it like this, Man,
the only thing stresses us out is to me, I
keep saying to me, the only thing stressed you out
is validation. Bro, you gotta think. Bro, a lot of

(18:08):
ship you wouldn't give a fuck about it enough, somebody
else didn't give a fuck about it.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
I shouldn't think the person is capable of creating stress
for other people.

Speaker 3 (18:19):
No, because you allow it.

Speaker 2 (18:22):
If you allow it, allowed, for sure.

Speaker 3 (18:24):
It's not capable you. If you don't allow it.

Speaker 2 (18:27):
Yeah, if you allow it, you only subjected to what
you put yourself through.

Speaker 1 (18:32):
Exactly what you what you digest.

Speaker 3 (18:36):
Because I can hear some ship that don't digest I can.
I can hear see some ship and just don't even like, Yeah,
a lot of people can't. They gotta they gotta receive
their energy. I ain't gotta receive it.

Speaker 1 (18:49):
Well, I used to you know what I'm saying. But
that's a choice.

Speaker 3 (18:55):
All these ships his choice to screen anything we stress about.
You have a choice to stress, damn Like niggas, you
ain't got no ternal ender disease. You're not behind bolls,
nobody seeking your family, God for being nothing's wrong with
your kids. What the fuck is nigga stressing about?

Speaker 2 (19:15):
They are influenced by outside circumstances, which causes stress.

Speaker 1 (19:20):
Thank you. I just said, you're right, You're all right.
So when you go in the house, just even you
cut your phone off, right, Like how niggas be like bro,
I gotta reset and reach out.

Speaker 3 (19:30):
You don't be stretched in they said any else.

Speaker 1 (19:38):
You know, it's starting school because it's like ship.

Speaker 2 (19:41):
When you got two pair of shirts, two pair of jeans,
that is what it is. But when you start seeing
other niggas getting fresh, it's trying to compete and trying
to I need a polo I need this, and your
parents really trying to put you down. Like man, that
white T shirt with no logo on it is fine,
it's clean, it's smelled good. But you want to polo shirts.

Speaker 3 (19:59):
You want to be fu this with stress niggas, bron
damn like trying to trying to to other standards.

Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah, especially materials.

Speaker 1 (20:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (20:08):
Man, it's like the most freezed motherfucker don't care then
about nothing, don't care about what you think about them.

Speaker 1 (20:13):
They don't care.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
Yeah, then how do you get there? Are you there?

Speaker 6 (20:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (20:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (20:21):
I don't give bro, ain't nothing nobody can do say
or nothing to embarrassment.

Speaker 1 (20:26):
You get there. That's when you tap me, how did
you get there?

Speaker 2 (20:31):
Ship?

Speaker 3 (20:31):
About going through it by thinking that the worst, when
the worst, when the worst thing could have happened happened.
It's like you ain't got no control of this ship,
you know what I'm saying. When it's like just imagine this,
Just imagine. I'm just gonna say some hypothetically so I
won't personalize.

Speaker 1 (20:52):
Just imagine.

Speaker 3 (20:57):
If your mama said fuck.

Speaker 1 (20:58):
You, mm hmm, like fuck you.

Speaker 3 (21:01):
It meant that that's the worst thing can happen, right,
what I'm saying, that's one of the worst.

Speaker 2 (21:05):
Things that created you.

Speaker 3 (21:07):
And you live through that, then what Nigga, I'm indestructible.
It wasn't that bad.

Speaker 2 (21:15):
Hmm.

Speaker 3 (21:15):
Everything that we think like the worst could happen, even
in a relationship like man if I lose a bitch
or if I lose lose my husband, that's gonna be
the end.

Speaker 1 (21:24):
Most of the time, that be the beginning.

Speaker 3 (21:30):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (21:31):
You ain't never seen.

Speaker 2 (21:31):
That, No, no, no, no, it's a new beginning when when
people when people sometimes evolve out of something that they're
so comfortable in, it creates new beginnings for sure.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (21:42):
That's with anything, bro, anything everything that we think that's
put here that we look at it stress really don't
be stressful, bro. If you look at you can look
at everything in a different way.

Speaker 1 (21:52):
So that's that and my brain just going there today.

Speaker 2 (21:54):
Sorry, had a good walk earlier. But does that conflict loyalty?
Is that so is is not being too attached to.

Speaker 3 (22:04):
I get what it could be my most loyal thing.
By me not fucking with you? Could me fuck with you?
Could be dislayer and.

Speaker 1 (22:09):
It could be hindering you.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
Yeah, that could be my part of being me, me
being disloyal to you knowing and I ain't right for
you and your new beginning, you know what I'm saying.
So me letting you go could be a form of layalty.

Speaker 2 (22:21):
Yeah, yeah, are you there?

Speaker 4 (22:25):
I've been there.

Speaker 2 (22:26):
Yeah, you get.

Speaker 4 (22:27):
There, like I just because I've been fucked over so
many times by people, I just had to it. And
it used to like I'm an EmPATH, so it's like
when people fuck me over, it like goes to my core,
Like it fucks me up, like I'm trying to figure
out what happened and what's going on and why and
all that all kind of shit. But I just like

(22:50):
realize one day, like I don't have the energy to
go through that again, and I'm not going through that again.
So however or whoever feels or however anybody wants to
take whatever or whatever.

Speaker 1 (23:04):
Like bruh, have at it.

Speaker 4 (23:08):
I don't give a scream.

Speaker 1 (23:09):
What you asked is like for us there with people.

Speaker 3 (23:12):
Bro, I'm there with myself too, Like I can do
some bullshit to myself and know that I just did
some bullshit, Like but shit, I did it, m or
I said it, or I missed that.

Speaker 4 (23:23):
That was the choice that I made.

Speaker 3 (23:24):
Yeah, that was the truck. You know what I'm saying.
It's just that mirror, bro, that motherfucker deadly. Bro, once
you can look at that motherfucker actually.

Speaker 1 (23:30):
See you and agree that that's who I am you good.

Speaker 2 (23:35):
Self compassion. I read about that too.

Speaker 3 (23:37):
Yeah, a lot of people looking look and see somebody
in the mirror and tell them, Nah, that ain't who
I am. No, brother, that's who you is. Just got
to embrace that and fix certain parts about it that
you don't.

Speaker 2 (23:49):
Like, becact best version of yourself.

Speaker 3 (23:53):
A lot of people are afraid to be one hundred
with theyself.

Speaker 2 (23:56):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (23:56):
So this going back to how we kind of started.
So that's part of.

Speaker 2 (24:02):
The reason on the journey. We can't have it all
figured out because part of the journey is progressive facts.

Speaker 3 (24:08):
That's ain't no, ain't no destination, right, I believe that too.
You know what I'm saying, ain't no destinaka everywhere that
I thought I want to be when I got there
finally it wasn't It was somewhere else I want to be.

Speaker 1 (24:19):
Yup, yah y.

Speaker 3 (24:21):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (24:21):
It ain't no destination. It's the journey only.

Speaker 2 (24:24):
But they say you find true happiness within, so you
probably one day found your happiness. Just oh damn, the
happenings right here. Facts with nobody around, with no cell phone,
with no nothing, probably was on the trail or some shit.

Speaker 3 (24:40):
Everything that you thought mattered really don't. Yeah, and then yah,
with only thing we think matter most of the time,
it's opinions.

Speaker 2 (24:48):
Yeah, for sure, all opinionated.

Speaker 3 (24:50):
That's the only thing that holding the hinder a nigga
man is how like, how wan motherfuckers say?

Speaker 1 (24:56):
How you think they gonna look at it?

Speaker 3 (24:57):
How y who gives a fuck?

Speaker 1 (24:59):
Yeah? What shit?

Speaker 3 (25:00):
What you think they're gonna say? Who gives a fuck?

Speaker 2 (25:03):
But on the flip side, you do believe that it's
a whole bunch of people here because to an extent,
I'm not saying like, overdo it over extent, but to
an extent, we are here to try to help other people.

Speaker 1 (25:16):
This is why you go other people. Yes, I'm gonna
help other people one hundred percent.

Speaker 3 (25:20):
What I'm saying is ain't gonna help you by me
being how I need to be for you?

Speaker 2 (25:24):
Right?

Speaker 1 (25:24):
Fuck you like?

Speaker 3 (25:25):
If I like, I'm gonna keep saying this, I'm gonna
keep running his back every time. I hate when the
motherfucker tig other people. You gotta learn how to act.
I start to do that with my that's the fakest
ship in the world. Can you telling them learn how
to be fake?

Speaker 2 (25:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (25:42):
If the kid throwed off, you could tell him, hey,
that's gonna be frowned upon. You you're doing that, that would.

Speaker 1 (25:50):
Be frowned upon.

Speaker 3 (25:51):
But if that's who these person is, then that's who
they is.

Speaker 4 (25:54):
Just trying to suppress it is gonna make it worse.

Speaker 3 (25:56):
Yes, bro, that's how mental illness happened. Bro, mm hmm,
that's how those problems happened. That's how that ship, like
all that trumbing shit, because you're not being yourself.

Speaker 2 (26:05):
I don't think like families of dolls and bears and
tigers be like, don't do that. Don't be a tiger,
don't be a bear, don't be a dog, don't be
a snake. I received that long time ago. You're right,
like certain.

Speaker 3 (26:20):
Ken folks and certain famin laws, houses and shit don't
go over because y'all have you have to know how
to act over there. I don't know how to act then, real,
so I'm just stay in my domain. Then y'all had
this shit at my house.

Speaker 1 (26:35):
This is how we act over here, right, all, This
is how we are over here.

Speaker 3 (26:40):
We're not acting. You could be yourself, right, whatever it is.

Speaker 1 (26:44):
That's my main thing with anybody. Nah, what you think no, nah,
what you think for real, don't think what you think
I should. I think you should think. What do you think?

Speaker 3 (26:53):
Most people try their best to appease everybody that they
come in.

Speaker 4 (26:57):
Contact with, and that's a recipe for a disaster.

Speaker 1 (27:01):
Yeah, I know, scream is a poison. Nigga. I know
he cool, cool cool. He gonna have to tell me now,
thank you?

Speaker 2 (27:07):
Crazy.

Speaker 3 (27:07):
I know what I means like you and wow, I
know what that means. Like I don't agree with that,
but that's you. You're not to me, Noah, I think
you should. No, bro, they yr a crazy I get that,
but we're different.

Speaker 5 (27:20):
Yeah, I'm supposed to feel how I'm supposed to feel.

Speaker 3 (27:23):
That don't make you listen, my partner, because you don't
feel how I feel. Bro, that's what. That's what. That's
where the ship is going left at. People won't to
want to make want everybody to feel how they feel.

Speaker 2 (27:35):
Bro, That ain't happened like that would be boring. Huh
If everybody was on that, that would be boring. Life
would be boring. That takes away personality, you know what.
I know what I'm saying, like you have to respect.

Speaker 4 (27:47):
It takes away everything because it's like, at the end
of the day, healthy conflict is what rules the world.
And me disagreeing with you and you disagree with him,
and then him not really agreeing with what I said
is what is gonna bring to the forefront all different
perspectives and all different points of views to really make

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you understand how people work and how the world turns.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
Yeah, what not, just talk.

Speaker 1 (28:18):
You up.

Speaker 3 (28:21):
For once now at the end of the day, bro
be yourself, man. I know that shit cliche to say, man,
but that's the best way to be because you don't
owe nobody nothing.

Speaker 1 (28:30):
That's what I think. I said this shit on perspective.
One of them spotss like.

Speaker 3 (28:35):
Only people be mad after a relationship is when they
won themself.

Speaker 2 (28:42):
Like the yeah on both ends.

Speaker 3 (28:44):
No, the only person be mad when when everybody like
how you see them people be cool and friends because
they were both theyselves. It just didn't work out. You
got another motherfucker being relationship with you.

Speaker 1 (28:55):
And they be like and I did all that because.

Speaker 4 (28:58):
You're expecting something.

Speaker 3 (29:00):
Yeah, you weren't being you.

Speaker 1 (29:01):
You like, I'm coming in the house just because that's
what you want. I'm doing this, Like, bitch, I tried
to be.

Speaker 4 (29:07):
Hot boxing in the car with the cigarettes.

Speaker 3 (29:10):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm doing what you want and then
it don't work out, you be mad because you're doing
what they wanted. But if you was in a relationship
doing what you wanted to do and it just didn't work.

Speaker 4 (29:19):
Out, you don't give a fuck because you you lived in.

Speaker 3 (29:24):
Your exactly and you live in your truth.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
Now I would say something real though, go ahead. Sometimes
people take.

Speaker 2 (29:32):
What you're saying is one thousand percent right, but sometimes
people take stuff and make it their own. So to
the Waiians out there, that's just on so reckless. I
don't think that you're saying that. If you are, yim like, yeah,
this is who I am, this is what, this is
what it is. Right, you should still be trying to
better yourself. You understand what I'm saying. They don't want

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to take that and be like, yeah okay, my mama
should be okay.

Speaker 3 (29:56):
I ain't saying that. I'm saying so many young niggas
is okay with dine and go to jail. Some of
the niggas okay with that.

Speaker 1 (30:04):
So what you have to.

Speaker 3 (30:05):
Do and let them know and you know what come
with this, right, this is what comes with this that's
when you did your part. I can't try to change
you like you shouldn't. I'm gonna tell you, hey, this
will come with what you're doing.

Speaker 1 (30:17):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (30:18):
So if you could okay with it, and if I
see you do it again, that means you're okay with it.
There's nothing else I can.

Speaker 4 (30:22):
Say to you because it's a pattern at this point.

Speaker 3 (30:24):
Yeah, I've told you what come with this, bro? This
would come with this now. Now, I ain't saying just
write a nigga off and see like, oh yeah, he
gonna know if you if you get a chance, make
you hey, hey, pull your coat. I ain't trying to
tell you to around your life, but hey, you know
what come with this?

Speaker 4 (30:39):
Right at least try Yeah?

Speaker 3 (30:42):
Yeah, I ain't telling you not to do it. You
This will come with this what you're doing, bro. So
if you on that, be on that. Just be on
that all the way through it. You know what I'm saying,
don't go to crime.

Speaker 4 (30:53):
Don't tell.

Speaker 1 (30:54):
Yeah, don't tell. Don't damn. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (30:56):
This what comes with ease. But jez, that's what comes
with this life that you're living.

Speaker 1 (31:02):
You know what I'm saying, I can't tell you not
to be a y N. That what you what you nephew,
I can't tell you not to do because I done
been a Wynn.

Speaker 3 (31:11):
They couldn't tell me shit. I ain't wanna hear that shit.
How you make some money off that ship you talking about?

Speaker 6 (31:17):
Though?

Speaker 3 (31:17):
O G. You know what I'm saying. I get it.

Speaker 1 (31:21):
I ain't pushing no negativity on nobody, But.

Speaker 3 (31:23):
I'm just saying you can't change people because sometime being
at y N and whatever he going through in that moment,
it could be something inside of that life he living
that can change him to be dishlife. Right, you get
what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (31:37):
Everybody got their own journey of journey.

Speaker 3 (31:39):
And now if you now, if you know you following
you ain't on your own your journey, that.

Speaker 1 (31:43):
Ain't your journey.

Speaker 3 (31:44):
If you jumped all the port and show to be
whatever you want to be, that's that's probably your journey.
That's what you want to do. Ain't gonna telling. But
if you're following that shit go wrong, that's when you're
gonna be upset. That's how you tell, because you ain't
even never built like that, Right, you get what I'm
saying you was just doing it because it was cool,
and them the niggas that fallause you were being a follower.

Speaker 2 (32:05):
And if you real like that, you'll take whatever, come
with it and take it.

Speaker 1 (32:08):
And sit come with it.

Speaker 4 (32:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:11):
Nah, I just feel like me personally. Man. It's shit, simple, bro.

Speaker 3 (32:17):
She's a simple scream. I'm taking Shit's simple, bro, especially
when you knowing I really don't give a fuck for real.
Most people don't really give a fuck. They we give
a fuck about what people give a fuck about.

Speaker 2 (32:31):
Mm hm, that makes sense what I'm saying. No, it's influenced,
like what I was saying earlier, Like it's influence. You
don't care about the polo shirt till you see it,
or everybody saying the polo shirt is fresh or the
Joindans is fresh. You don't even care about that.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
Like niggas don't care about taking their wife and ship
out to eat, but she cares, So I gotta call
being real. I don't mind, but this is something in
our relationship I have to care about because you care
about this.

Speaker 1 (32:56):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (32:58):
Then again, go back to you not being yourself and
trying to appease somebody.

Speaker 1 (33:04):
I can't say no not being yourself if you got them.

Speaker 5 (33:07):
Because if you don't give a fuck about it, But.

Speaker 3 (33:09):
That don't mean that don't mean you don't compromise in
a relationship. You know what I'm saying. But now I'm
not finish do it when I don't want to do it.
I'm not saying that I don't want to do it.
I'm just saying I don't give a fuck if we
do it or not. So they mean I'm open to it.
You get what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, okay, Now if
I don't want to do it, I don't give a
fuck what you want to do. I ain't doing that.
I don't want to do that. Yeah, I get what

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I'm saying. But it's up in the air, like okay,
this is yeah, we're married, so she wants she want
to have a date night every Friday. Okay, cool, I
agree to that. Okay, you know what I'm saying. Because
I ain't opposed or against. I ain't fall against it.
But if you want to, God damn, you want me to, God.

Speaker 4 (33:46):
Damn sipping paint twice a week?

Speaker 3 (33:52):
You just like you you work my schedule nothing. No,
I'm not doing that. You got some niggas a compromise day.
They non negotiatates.

Speaker 1 (34:01):
I ain't doing that, Like you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
Sometimes you gotta fold. But like I said, should I
take it say today, I ain't vegan no more. I'm
finished on in states. Go ahead, baby, I ain't mad
at you or not, but you can't get mad at
me because I don't want no state. Yeah congratulations, but
me either. I ain't eating that shit, man.

Speaker 1 (34:24):
You know what I'm saying, different stroke, different folks.

Speaker 3 (34:27):
Man. I just feel like, man, we're putting ourselves and
negative thoughts for no reason, bro, Because when you think
about it, when you stop thinking about it, you don't
even give a fuck about it no more to think
about all the shit that that stretched you out, that
really added up to nothing.

Speaker 2 (34:44):
People leave theirselves open for so much influence, though, like
between social media and quote unquote friends and this and
that and that, they lead theirself open to all of
that energy and all of this shit.

Speaker 1 (34:56):
It's just like I got my page, I ain't still
ain't put that motherfucker back up. Fuck, I think bank gone.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
I think you're gone.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
I think I'm gone to bro.

Speaker 2 (35:06):
I know you're gone because my wife said, oh you know.

Speaker 3 (35:12):
Exit, Yeah, once you see what the nigga see like, oh,
we can survive without this, like fuck this ship.

Speaker 2 (35:20):
I don't use worry. I hate social media man, me too.

Speaker 3 (35:24):
That she ain't about ship brocause especially no Sava just
showing me the other night how to change algorithm.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
Though you know you can change it.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
Show me that.

Speaker 1 (35:31):
I'm gonna show you can change that. She just starts
showing nothing but nothing but weight lifting in church ship.
Oh real, Yeah, I can show you. It's right there.

Speaker 3 (35:39):
He just showed to me the other night that it's like,
select your preferences.

Speaker 1 (35:43):
Let me go show you.

Speaker 2 (35:44):
Yeah, because I ain't all of them. All of my
algorithm is ship. I don't even care nothing.

Speaker 3 (35:49):
About Yeah, man, what three okay, three dots for the
people that don't know, hit the three dots, go down
to remember what the niggas said, go down to content preference,
then hit reset suggested content.

Speaker 2 (36:12):
So then, how how's it? So you gotta start liking positive.

Speaker 3 (36:16):
Yeah, Jail, whatever, Joe, whatever you like from whoever page
you started looking at from then on, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (36:22):
But you follow people say your follow is gonna come up.
Niggas you start liking it on.

Speaker 3 (36:27):
Your Explore page. Ain't gonna be all that bullshit. But
the nigga been liking you know what I'm saying, been
looking at it. Nigga talking about other niggas that she
ain't gonna be on them.

Speaker 2 (36:39):
Oh yeah, No, I think you just snapped on that
one salute savage yeah type.

Speaker 1 (36:46):
Of yeah, that's what I'm saying. That's we're gonna start
coming up. Said No, I'm finna.

Speaker 3 (36:51):
Say that ship crazy about them ship on the West
coast right and snatch the balls up their whole case
on the podcasts.

Speaker 4 (37:03):
That's crazy.

Speaker 3 (37:04):
I ain't seen. I ain't know them niggas saying all that.
Them nigga gotta be trolling and playing what I think.

Speaker 2 (37:09):
I don't think. I mean, I don't. I ain't here
to say, but ship what we say about the fizz, you.

Speaker 3 (37:17):
Know what I'm saying, The ship that them nigga was saying,
like on them podcasts, like they gotta be playing.

Speaker 2 (37:23):
If if some of that stuff happened or it is true,
how they I mean, I don't, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (37:30):
I feel like no, I feel like I feel like.

Speaker 4 (37:35):
They just didn't take it serious because it's been it's
been so long, like it's been like I don't know,
but it's just like, just like how how some rap
niggas rap about details of like real life ship that
they've done in songs and it's enough to piece together.

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Let me just make it make sense.

Speaker 3 (38:01):
It ain't the same things coming straight out your mouth.

Speaker 2 (38:03):
Yeah, let me kind of kind of sort of address
the elephant in the room. Has this podcast ship gone
too far?

Speaker 1 (38:09):
Yes, that's what I was thinking about. Yes, it's this
ship gone too far?

Speaker 2 (38:13):
Because now you got people just saying ship for the
sake of just saying shit.

Speaker 5 (38:16):
Nah, but they're not. They're not saying sh it just.

Speaker 2 (38:18):
For I'm not talking about them. I'm talking about it
in general.

Speaker 4 (38:21):
No, I'm not saying I'm not saying them. I'm just
saying people aren't just saying ship for the sake of
saying ship. They're saying ship to get engagement and clicks
and likes and views and all that kind of shit.
But that's been going on. Weird shit has been going on,
like weirdo shit has been happening on podcasts and on
platforms that are on social media.

Speaker 2 (38:41):
I'm saying that's crazy. When we started it was crazy,
but it's worse now.

Speaker 5 (38:45):
It's way worse now.

Speaker 1 (38:46):
But that's going on.

Speaker 5 (38:48):
Maybe it might not have been as prevalent.

Speaker 4 (38:51):
Detailed now, but yeah, like niggas niggas, it's almost like
to a certain extent, like they got something to prove to.

Speaker 1 (39:02):
That's people that don't matter.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
But that's what I'm saying, say, y'all just got that
to it. So so then what I'm saying, like, for
a motherfucker to do that, what you think triggered that?

Speaker 1 (39:12):
All validation insecurity?

Speaker 3 (39:15):
Then I just say validation is the only thing to
keep a nigga stressed and keep a nigga out of
his body.

Speaker 1 (39:19):
It's validation because it's.

Speaker 3 (39:21):
Just like right now, a nigga say something about me
on the ground, if I go back on there, I'm
seeking validation. I'm trying to get my porn across.

Speaker 2 (39:31):
Yeah, I just think that I'm.

Speaker 1 (39:32):
Trying to get my point.

Speaker 3 (39:33):
I'm trying to get they to hear my side, which
it don't matter because whoever gonna believe believe it in any way,
whoever don't don't.

Speaker 2 (39:49):
I just think going on a platform podcast whatever you
want to call it, and saying ship that could potentially uh,
mess with your freedom or get you hurd or get
some it's just kind of crazy. Like we started doing
this shit to have healthy conversation, and sometimes it go
wherever it go. But now what I'm saying is like
it's almost like a person on the way to the

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podcast trying to think how they.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
Can stirb the most bullshit.

Speaker 2 (40:15):
That's what it looked like when you start watching some
of this shit, Like this shit is like some of
the podcasts will they were where they just be kind
of just throwing out allegations at people like yeah, bro
did that, he did that.

Speaker 1 (40:26):
He did that too.

Speaker 2 (40:28):
I'm like, damn, I'm talking about like Outland is crazy
far right. You know what I'm saying, y'all know what
I'm talking about, like just attacking, like saying the crazy shit.
That shit just kind of toxic.

Speaker 4 (40:39):
But but what they're doing is they're planning that seed
because they know that they can and they know that Okay,
people are going to tune in to see what else
happens and what goes on and what else they have
to say and what other conspiracy theory they can come
up with to make this conspiracy theory make sense. Like
it's a it's just a chain of the chain and

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react exactly like it said. It goes back to what
Black was saying, like about the validation, like niggas feel
like they have something to prove and not really maybe
fully understanding that the point that they're trying to prove
and the people that they're trying to prove it too,

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don't matter in the total scheme of things.

Speaker 3 (41:23):
You ain't gonna be able to prove to to somebody
who already see you how they see you, right.

Speaker 2 (41:29):
Them created their perception right, and.

Speaker 3 (41:32):
Most of the time people already have that when they
before they meet you. When they meet you, they already
have it. Or a person can can watch the podcast
and already feel it. Gonna treat you when they meet
you how they feel like you is some niggas looking
at the podcast like I don't fuck with that. Nigga,
b thank you always got something say. Some niggas looking
like gonna prob be like bank bro, you be saying
some real shit. That shit change my life something even

(41:54):
gonna look at that, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (41:55):
Yeah, Like, man, that bitch talk too much and she
always cutting everybody off, and I feel like, damn she
be going hard for the real niggas or whatever. Like
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (42:04):
What it is, they already got their perception, so whatever
it is, that's what it is.

Speaker 7 (42:08):
So it's perception reality. Perception is that person's real reality.

Speaker 3 (42:11):
It's that person they meet you like, like I mean
some of the niggas and be like bank man, I
ain't know.

Speaker 1 (42:16):
You that, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (42:18):
Yeah, yeah, but I would, I would think you were different. Yeah,
but then why you can you You never know nobody.
That's why I like remember one of the earlier conversations
earlier episode when we first really started, we was like
y'all was like, y'all can't do being there with somebody.

Speaker 1 (42:34):
Yeah, I remember that.

Speaker 3 (42:35):
All you heard in the street was bullshit about it.
I remember that, you know what I'm saying. But you
gotta think they don't spread the good ship. If we
go back to hood reach day nigga be like, man
them nigga too high man, you know what I'm saying,
or whatever, not knowing how many mek Tail y'all actually did.

Speaker 2 (42:51):
It for free.

Speaker 3 (42:52):
You get what I'm saying. It's just like, yeah, certain
nigga was going through niggas and going through niggas and
had a cap on this nigga. Theven have a cap
on this nigg Then you get about to t you
get caps. It's a price on it too. You get
what I'm saying. So these nigga got cap on top
of captain. So it's like they got y'all nobody that
looking like y'all boosie. But you never had You never
ran up on stream or god damn or or rip

(43:17):
and actually did did the conversation you just heard through
a Johnny or somebody.

Speaker 2 (43:25):
He just text me.

Speaker 3 (43:26):
You just heard Johnny ship Man, you know, screamed them
gonna put your own give me a twin.

Speaker 1 (43:32):
I can get it done for you ain't gonna get
your cup of show with it or whoever. You know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (43:38):
Not just bank. She called me somebody to screaming and
tell you, man, I think they want to die.

Speaker 1 (43:44):
I know I probably get me one stream for a
nick or whatever. You get what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (43:49):
So, but I mean, at the end of the day,
just being real. Is that wrong?

Speaker 4 (43:54):
Because costs?

Speaker 3 (43:56):
But that's not wrong. But this this person still drawing
up conclusion what not what you said perception of screen
just off middleman. You get what I'm saying, cause they
ain't gonna say man that Nigga bank kept probably capping. No,
they're gonna be like man screen on too high. Man,
Nigga goes somewhere and diss him. I ain't talk to him,

(44:17):
ain't nothing. Yeah, yeah, you get what I'm saying. But
just just because he looked like his ship worth that,
and I said, niggas gonna be like he too high.
I ain't even talk to this.

Speaker 2 (44:29):
Man a lot of time.

Speaker 3 (44:31):
Yeah you get what I'm saying. Yeah, So this is
like I don't I don't judge people off with nobody
else say, because they could have had a bad experience
with the person.

Speaker 1 (44:40):
I could have had a best.

Speaker 4 (44:41):
Susperiense happened with the weed what we you know?

Speaker 5 (44:44):
I mean like like when we go ahead? No, I
just I just I was finna go into.

Speaker 1 (44:51):
Go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.

Speaker 4 (44:52):
No, some ship were just talking about nobody much on
the podcast. Yeah, you know had in other news.

Speaker 1 (45:02):
Yeah, but nah, I get what you're saying.

Speaker 3 (45:04):
But still though, man, it's just like you can't draw,
you can't base your experience off of another person spirit
that they already had.

Speaker 1 (45:11):
Because they ain't gonna tell their side.

Speaker 3 (45:13):
This is gonna tell how they they perspect them, you
know what I'm.

Speaker 1 (45:17):
Saying, And they could be dead air row.

Speaker 3 (45:19):
They could be drawing an assumption and being mad at
screen a nigga or jay. Just say, mencent, you might
walk in one day looking looking at how you be
looking sometimes to somebody else, and they take that personally
and be like, man, the bitch didn't even speak, but
don't even know what's on your on your brain, right,
you see what I'm saying. And they don't say that
to another motherfucker, and then you do be looking crazy,

(45:41):
be like, yeah, she always be looking crazy. I can't
stand that bitch either. They ain't even had a conversation
with you.

Speaker 5 (45:46):
Now, it's the community of people with that fucking.

Speaker 1 (45:50):
Passing the word that you some bullshit.

Speaker 3 (45:51):
Yeah, they ain't even had a chance, you know what
I'm saying, Like it could be a hundred month. It
don't take but one motherfucker to convince a humma because
if I give it, cause me my word law to
serve somebody. If I come in the room and tell
y'all too like, man, we ain't fun with such sit
that's what it is, all right, So you're gonna make
sure you tell little man and all these niggas banks

(46:12):
say that nigga ain't right.

Speaker 7 (46:13):
We ain't we ain't fucking with it. So by the
time and I could be on some sucker ship. That's
what I was about to say. What's the what's the
final go what's the fine line between truth and slander?

Speaker 2 (46:25):
Though?

Speaker 1 (46:26):
Like what if you're telling the truth? If you it
could be my truth.

Speaker 3 (46:31):
Sometimes the truth ain't the truth though that could be
my truth on me and me drawing assumption.

Speaker 7 (46:39):
It is your perspective, is your truth? You're correct, that
could be my truth. But my truth don't have to
be hurt truth for your but the.

Speaker 4 (46:46):
Thing but but I get what you're saying. But the
thing what that is is just like for instance, with
that like if you if you tell me that or
say something to me about like a nigga not being
right wing, fucking with him whatever, whatever, with the type
of faith that I have having you as a person,
and like the way that I feel about you and
the way that I know like.

Speaker 3 (47:07):
You make.

Speaker 4 (47:10):
Some of the most rational decisions or whatever, Like I
know that you're not saying this for a reason.

Speaker 1 (47:16):
But let me say it. Let me cut you off.

Speaker 3 (47:17):
How many times you don't told me somebody with some
bullshit and I dream you about it, like how what
did they do? Who?

Speaker 1 (47:24):
What happened?

Speaker 3 (47:25):
You can't go off there, Jake, because I cause niggas
done did that to me before. Just say it on
some bullshit and nigga run with. So Jay, just tell
me some about a nigga or you tell me somebody
the nigga. I'm gonna drill you tontil you convince me.

Speaker 1 (47:36):
Like, Okay, nigga is a hope.

Speaker 3 (47:38):
Like I ain't definna take it even though I love you,
because I can know you could be making out a rational,
irrational decision. Yeah you see what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (47:46):
So dream me, I guess with you like something For
the most part with me, if it's ever been a
situation like that, I've already seen the whole ass in
a nigga anyway, So like when you say it, that's
stamped it.

Speaker 6 (47:58):
Like okay, yeah, fuck, nobody's oh god everything, I already
seen it, and this nigga, then you haven't seen it too.

Speaker 5 (48:09):
If you haven't seen it and I haven't seen it,
that's all it needs to see this.

Speaker 3 (48:12):
Fact, like for real real yeah, because most of the
time I could be like on tripping, Yeah, but screen
be liken.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
Man, it just sounds weird, you know.

Speaker 3 (48:24):
What the whole Like, you get what I'm saying, but
bring that their bike. But the story there. Man, you
can't judge somebody else off another nigga to me.

Speaker 1 (48:34):
Now, what you said is what you say.

Speaker 2 (48:36):
It is all the way right.

Speaker 1 (48:38):
I haven't seen it none too many times tough.

Speaker 4 (48:40):
But I feel like if it's if it's if it's
a and I'm sorry not cut you off, but not
if it's if it's a whole just like when we
were talking about doing the business ship or whatever with
that conversation, if it's a whole bunch of people that
are saying the same ship, I agree with what you're
saying about. Don't completely cancel the opportunity, but I feel

(49:02):
like you should move into the opportunity with a certain
amount of skepticism or a certain amount of paying attention
this like everybody.

Speaker 2 (49:15):
That's That's what I'm saying, because if this person is
known for if this person for finessing people, then will
finesse nine people, then you're bound to be the tenth.

Speaker 3 (49:24):
Person this unfinessable.

Speaker 1 (49:27):
Okay, So, but.

Speaker 3 (49:30):
Some niggas ain't going for there, like try a nigga
a nigga rather tell you to play.

Speaker 1 (49:37):
See.

Speaker 3 (49:37):
I don't know what type, but I feel like if
a fanesse of bit finesse, you get to me and
be like, did what I've been doing this right here?

Speaker 1 (49:45):
Try to give me the play.

Speaker 4 (49:48):
This is what we need to do.

Speaker 3 (49:49):
I ain't too my own horn, but I don't just
don't feel like I'm the nigga to be a victim.

Speaker 2 (49:54):
Yeah, I got you.

Speaker 1 (49:57):
Because I'm it, Like, don't believe you anyway.

Speaker 3 (50:01):
You could be dead as right. I just don't believe
nothing until we till we make it happen. Right, So
I'm already asking questions. We already got a lawyer to
look at it. We already got it, we already got it,
already did.

Speaker 1 (50:15):
Real shit.

Speaker 3 (50:15):
So it's bendiness. At the end of the day, I
ain't coming anymore. See that the thing about being in
too will actually go side when niggas get upset because
you're coming into this thinking that you're gaining a friend.

Speaker 1 (50:25):
No, you're doing business.

Speaker 3 (50:27):
Right, so so only way you mad at another motherfucker.

Speaker 1 (50:31):
Because you didn't handle your.

Speaker 4 (50:32):
Business, You're end of the business.

Speaker 3 (50:35):
Yeah, because if a motherfucker tell you they did what
it is, okay, cool, But you ain't gotta look at
that shit on side. You know, we locked in and
you sign that you did it personally.

Speaker 1 (50:43):
You didn't do bidding.

Speaker 3 (50:47):
Because at the end of the day, I gotta get
this ship checked that.

Speaker 4 (50:51):
Yeah, Scream could fucking give me his lunch money, Like
I could buy lunch for everybody, Scream and give me
ten dollars.

Speaker 5 (50:56):
I'm still fing accounting.

Speaker 3 (50:57):
It made sure for I walk off, cause you could
have gave me eight. Nigga, even I walk off come back, you.

Speaker 4 (51:01):
Could have gave me twelve. Zach, I want to make
sure you know what I'm saying. You all, we know
extra idead what I wanted to do, Like you know
what so this so like.

Speaker 2 (51:10):
So how do you think people get to the point
of reputations because obviously reputations come with repetition, right, So
how do you get to the reputation of.

Speaker 1 (51:18):
Being a fuck nigga, a bitch or if it's a female.

Speaker 3 (51:25):
Some people, it can start by a rumor though and
sometime it be true, but it can start by a room.
A nigga can make you a fuck nigga bro by
a rumor, and then a nigga whoo who kind of
doubt it can catch you on the wrong day and
kind of see that mean, let me see what I'm saying,
let me get you know what I'm saying, Just say
mencing right, Like I just told Jay Jay could be
going through something. But due to the fact this persona

(51:48):
said Jay left me at the door. This persona said, Jade,
I always have an altitude and this person said that.
But that might not would have been your experience. If
you would have said something, if you could have been like,
why you look so mean girl? You too pretty to
be looking at me, you could have got a different response.
But off the rip, you're gonna inherit that like, yeah,
they said that by her.

Speaker 4 (52:05):
So that ain't a reputation that you know how many
times I have been a fuck nigga for real, like
to people that didn't know me, and then when they
talk to me or like God in my presence, they're
like amazed because they don't understand why I'm not like
the ship that everybody said that I was like that
ship is crazy.

Speaker 1 (52:25):
Shit is crazy when people get a reputation.

Speaker 3 (52:27):
I get what you're saying, screen like, well, that shit
came from somewhere somewhere, but that ship.

Speaker 1 (52:31):
Don't take that.

Speaker 3 (52:31):
But but but you gotta think, Bro, I don't seen
it happen. Bro, I done witnessed this ship. I done
seen it. Bro, I done been a part of it
happening to niggas like, yeah, fuck that nigga. Didn't think
about it, Like, why did I say yeah, fuck him
just because he said such, you know such such said that.

Speaker 1 (52:48):
Nigga.

Speaker 3 (52:49):
It could be that's that's that's that bandwagon. Hey damn,
Cause get what. I don't even know for myself. I
just know what my man said, you know such setting
them said that, then Weston ain't such set them said it.
Then another nigga gonna be like, he gonna tell the
story as if he was such and such.

Speaker 1 (53:06):
Bro, you know that for a nigga blase telephone, he.

Speaker 3 (53:08):
Ain't gonna say such and such. If first, first, if
it start off as a rumor, if start off with
the first nigga, tell what happened, okay, cool, Then they
go to the night niggas such say this happened such
said this happened. You know they say this about that,
but you know they say this about the bosn't yeah
didn't for you know, it.

Speaker 1 (53:24):
Come back around the reputation.

Speaker 4 (53:26):
Man ain't got damn.

Speaker 3 (53:28):
That's what it is. Not saying that some niggas ain't
everybody right, But I'm just saying, see for yourself.

Speaker 1 (53:36):
Yeah, some people have been slandered and everybody got a chance,
got got.

Speaker 3 (53:40):
A nigga could change. Nigga could have did that you
yesterday and be a different nigga tomorrow. Never I ain't
never finish put growth off like take that loss to the
table for ever for nobody, brocause it can happen. A
nigga can wake up tomorrow and be a different nigga.
A nigga can go through something, or nigga had a
wrong bitch in the life. Nigga had a wrong nigga
have no more money, or nigga have all the money

(54:02):
and losing money and be humble. Nigga get some money
and get humble. You never know. Certain circumstances change people
who they are.

Speaker 2 (54:10):
Yeah, yeah, damn.

Speaker 1 (54:13):
Always been a bit resume person that resume. It ain't
need all.

Speaker 2 (54:17):
You're right, I'm learning, I'm still learning. I'm still working progress.
But there's certain people that I trust, like what's so,
what's on? So it's kind of like it's kind of
like if you're going to get a job, it's hard
to get that job, like corporate and ship with our referral.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
The corporations ask for referrals. We need three referrals. They
don't just hire anybody up the street.

Speaker 3 (54:36):
They do. They do when you ain't never, when you
ain't never work nowhere. Yeah when you're young, saying when
they got new, they got old niggas throwing new ship
and showing these folks some different ship.

Speaker 2 (54:46):
Yeah, I get.

Speaker 3 (54:48):
What you're saying, but but you got I just I
just me personally, Bro, I just feel like a reputation
ship because you can never say who a person is today.

Speaker 2 (54:58):
Yeah you can still you wrong. Yeah, it could steal
you wrong. What's the morrow of the story.

Speaker 3 (55:05):
My moral is, BRO, look in the mirror, be honest
with that mirror, and whoever don't align with that person
that's in that mirror, they not for you. That's whoever
it is, Bro. And then that don't mean you gotta
be upset with nobody. That just means you can't every
day with people. You can't you know what I'm saying,
You can't expect certain things. You gotta see people who
they are and be like, that's who that person is.

(55:26):
How am I taking this personal personal? Because that's who
they are. I gotta respect who everybody is. But I
just cannot put myself in that situation to be let
down by this person. If I know you a thief,
that's in my thieve and add but I ain't finna
bring around then to steal, right, But well, you know
you be stealing.

Speaker 1 (55:45):
Ain't coming to my house till stealing l ass on.

Speaker 3 (55:47):
But you, my boy, Yeah, I ain't even a tempt you.
You're a thief, right, I can't.

Speaker 1 (55:55):
But I ain't gonna be somewhere telling everybody. Man, you
know that nigga be stealing? You know what? Play go
steal from them, don't steal from me, you know what?

Speaker 3 (56:03):
I but nah, I just feel like man man and
another thing. I just feel like the wholest ship in
the world.

Speaker 2 (56:11):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (56:12):
Just because you upset with a nigga, you try to
stop a nigga paper that might be always ship world.
You shouldn't do that, and niggas do that, Yeah, every
day every day. You know what I'm saying, Just because
you don't like a nigga, you cannot like a nigga.
You trying to stop a nigga, paper, stop a nigga,
feed the family like he got every right in the
world to be upset with you.

Speaker 1 (56:33):
When you do that, you're right like here and I
don't fuck with them, nigga bro huh man. So many
times niggas don't call me by niggas that I don't
fuck with period. I'll be like, hell no, that nigga.

Speaker 3 (56:45):
But he gonna if he say he gonna do that,
he gonna do that.

Speaker 1 (56:48):
You know what I'm saying. I ain't gonna be like
you know what I'm saying, No, for real, I ain't
gonna be like like it's just saying it's a nigga.

Speaker 3 (56:53):
If I was, if I ain't have my mechanic, I
don't like him no more, just for some personal reasons.
But he do a good joke up. The niggas sprayed
my truck, I mean, wrap my truck. This ship nice,
but I don't like him no more because the personal ship.
Now I'm telling nigga, don't go to him, that sucker
ship to me.

Speaker 4 (57:08):
Period.

Speaker 1 (57:09):
Because the man is.

Speaker 3 (57:09):
Good at his job. That what I say. That nigga
good the way he do a niggas just a whole
ad nigga though, but he nigga, don't get your ship right.
I ain't never not until in the middle of height.

Speaker 5 (57:20):
Of you gotta give credit where credit no matter.

Speaker 3 (57:22):
What you got some niggas to be like, I wouldn't
buy no jit because it's his the nigga who he
hated on about the jet.

Speaker 1 (57:29):
Yeah, like.

Speaker 2 (57:32):
Hard music, and then people might not with the person
who make hard music. You can't say his music ain't hard.
Niggas will and Lebron.

Speaker 4 (57:40):
Came out with some purple shoes. Man, I don't even
like purple.

Speaker 1 (57:44):
You know what I'm saying. That's how it go.

Speaker 3 (57:45):
Like you can't let that a disagreement or your your
strife for another person just turn you to a liar,
like like you like Bro, that ship hard, Bro, the
nigga music hard, he hard, even though I don't like
him or whatever. That hard he hard.

Speaker 4 (58:01):
Yeah, yeah, but you've done that before like.

Speaker 3 (58:04):
Many a time and listening going crazy this mean too
this on hard ship, nigga call crazy here just like
anybody allowed you to allow people.

Speaker 1 (58:18):
To do that around. Bro, that's hate.

Speaker 3 (58:21):
Yeah, that's hate.

Speaker 1 (58:22):
Bro. You know that ship hard? You know you know
that call fresh right?

Speaker 3 (58:29):
You know what I'm saying, You know that's a nice
watch hate Like.

Speaker 1 (58:33):
Here, you should have got the roll go. You ain't
got neither one like.

Speaker 3 (58:39):
Crazy that ship too much though, Bro, and I just
feel like that's what I feel like me personally, and
we can fix that, bro. Making assumption about people and ship,
just like the for agreement, making assumptions and being peckable
with our words and niggas start thinking before they say

(59:00):
ship and just saying what they mean. Then you ain't
got to retract on that if I say some bullshit
on the motherfucker. Even if I felt like that in
the moment, I feel like mm hmmm, that moment just
gave me the courage to see it, so I can't
take it back.

Speaker 1 (59:16):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (59:17):
Now, I might have to learn how to act.

Speaker 2 (59:23):
Accordingly on a certain partcast street.

Speaker 1 (59:27):
It's a big facts, no capt