March 6, 2023 • 42 mins
On this BIG FACTS Extra, Bank, Scream and Jade discuss H*** A** N*gg*s!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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You know what's going on. It's Big Bank DJ Screen
Baby Jay. Were team Big Facts and it's time for
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(00:21):
What's going on? Bank got that wine for lout lout.
So you're on the white wine now, bro, Yeah, that's
what your Yeah, I can't get rich. They said that
rich thame them teeth. The red is dead. She ain
got me feeling great. Yeah, man, you'd be going to
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a different level on the white wine. Yeah. Yeah, it's
like a different form of cannabis or some ship. He
gotta get on that mascotto though not that reads as
we're talking about to day Jay. What we're doing, Jake, Man,
let's talk about these hard ass niggas. Man, oh man, y'all,
what's the definition, let's get into it. Whole ass nigga?
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What is the definition? A whole ass nigga is a
nigga that does a plethora of whole shit. Like, what's
what's elaborate to me? A hole ass nigga is a
nigga that's always like writing another nigga's dick facts. A
whole ass nigga to me is a nigga that's always
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doing like little bitty pussy ass hohle ass shit facts
to me. For number three, ah ass nigga is a
nigga that's just a bit all the way around. Really
all the same thing. So we gotta elaborate on some
of this. What do you think the whole ass nigga
is always got sipin like hose, They always you know,
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got something to say. Nigga, shit the fuck up and
let the hold talk. So so so so in the
vague definition the whole ass niggas, if we let just
that fly before we break it down, thuse we're gonna
break it down. That's a lot of niggas. Most niggas.
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Some nigga get paid to talk though, because we get
paid to talk to that screen. So we am my
whole ass nigga. No we're talking. You ain't gossip, but
you ain't gossiping facts. You're talking into a mic and
not into a pillow. I'll be talking, but I mean
that's different thought. The whole as nigga though we said
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how to get some money? What what is a whole
as nigga? So it's gonna be a whole ass conversation
that we haven't right if we get the gossip. Okay,
what is a whole ass nigga? I feel like a
whole ass niggas Any nigga who don't stand done what
he feels like he portrayed, he represents m That makes
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nigga to me? You know what I'm saying, If you
ain't standing on business like you know what I'm saying,
It's one thing to be a liar. I don't feel
like a liar is a whole ass nigger. He's just
a liar, right, you know what I'm saying, whole ass
niggas a nigga that if something happened you, Tony, you
keep de nine instead of standing on them. Like if
I get caught up in some shit, if I get
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I get caught up in some ship, yeah I did it.
What whatever the consequences, it did. What it is, even
if it's a shit against my boy, however you want
to do it, my wife know about it, then ship
by that what it is. I can't see him keep
lying about it and I'm caught. I've got damn fo
put him handcuz on me. Boy, some shit, I ain't
gonna agree to it or add nobody else in it.
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I don't know. Whole ass shit. If a nigga feel
like nigga said you sit here, Yeah, I said the
nigga because I feel like that, fuck you what? And
you get what I'm saying. So it's just like I
feel like a whole ass niggas a nigga that don't
stand on well he know he did or said in mind. Yeah,
that's some whole ass nigga. To me, that's an amazing definition.
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I agree with Bank. Yeah, it's like at the end
of the day, like like, so you that scared of
them whoever it is, that you can't be you yourself? Yeah, exactly.
You know what I'm saying now, I get it when
it comes down to relationships, like you, you care about
this person feeling, so you'll try to bob and weep. Yeah.
I don't think we talked about relationship. But if I'm
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a cult, I'm caught. What can I do now? Now
I'm trying to make a fool out of you. Yeah,
it makes me a whole ass nigga, because I feel
like I'm trying to make you out of be a fool.
A whole ass nigga to me would be like if
I said, man, I want to do the intro. I'm
telling Jay I want to do the intro. Screen? Why
he got to keep doing the intro that come in?
Like screen? You the best intro man married as nigger.
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You get what I'm saying, like you ain't standing on
what you're saying or how you feel. You a bit.
Oh god, so let me let me let me um
barber shop talk again. You got a ball head. You
don't even go to the barber shop right now, get
the little shit in my beard. So Kevin Durant hed,
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finitely don't go to the I'm not talking about oh
and I think I know where we're gonna go. But
in the barbershop, a lot of people was like, man,
Kevin Duran a whole ass nigga because the Warriors beat
him and he left his team to go join the Warriors.
He laid down. Is that a whole ass nigga or
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want to win? I'm just asking this is barbershops. That's
some whole ass shit. You left your team, and you
ain't telling Westbrook and all that ship. Even though man
I did it, I'm just barbershop talk. I don't feel
like that the whole ass ship. I just feel like
at the end of the day, that's the decision of
man making for his life. I agree, some whole ass
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ship would be of God. Damn nigga, I put some
rocks in your shoe, or you can't go for my
legacy in my career. How to I'm a whole ass
nigga because I'm choosing me right, all right. When Tray
got out the car, let me out know, boys in
the hood, that whole a whole whole niggah or something.
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I'mnna tell you what the whole ship was in that situation.
Him getting in the car, that makes your whole ass.
Yeah the first place, you ain't even that kind of nigga.
So you're a whole ass nigga for getting this. Can
you know you're not that kind of nigga? Exactly, he
got out of the car. He was a smart and
he was a man. Yeah right, exactly. You know what
I'm saying because that's your truth. Yeah, made your whole
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ass niga. When I got your dad a big bragula
three he got playing you was a whole ass nigga,
because you know that ain't what you bout. So you
saying that you can somebody like that can have a
whole ass nigga moment, but pulled himself out of a moment. Yeah,
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because we all had that for Sean okay shure. Yeah, Yeah,
because I can be coming in out. I come in
out and Jim be acting like a great bitch, a
whole ass nigga to my bitch, just because I'm mad
about some other ship, and then I just snap out
like they ain't got to do it that girl. So
I was spending be a whole ass nigga for nothing.
That's some real shit, you know what I'm saying, Some
real shit. Like even on the way here smoking in
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the car the ship, I'm mad and I really want
to punching the ship because you're Cashmel, Like we don't
want to ride with car with weed because she got
damn be having her gun like I don't have a
gus she'd be having her gun and I'm gonna copet
the fellow. I don't want to be around the gun
with weed smoke. So I started going into whole ass nigga.
Move about that by the time I got here, got
some food in me, like bru, then ain't smoking in
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the car. You get what I'm saying. Yeah, Like, but sir,
shit triggers whole ass moments, whole ass moments, So you're
basically saying that whole ass tendencies are triggered. For sure,
everybody had those, But to be a whole ass nigga,
you have to consistently do whole ship to be labeled
a whole ass niggas, yeah, instead of just a real
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nigga with whole ass moments. Yeah, every nigga gonna have
female ten This is female emotions. You're gonna have that
because we come from females. So you're gonna have attitude problems,
You're gonna have that shit that come with it. But
if you can't check yourself and realize that I did,
you're a whole ass nigga. You know what I'm saying.
If you can't be take accountability and be apologetic about
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some whole ass shit, you're a whole ass nigga trying
to stand on some whole shit. Now, I said, what
makers a nigga who ass niggas. A nigga whill be
trying to make right out of wrong. You can't make
right out of this. But you I just heard you
talking about this to somebody else about somebody about another person,
and there was some whole ass shit that he did.
When you do it, because you can justify it ain't
no whole ass shit, that's some whole ass shit. So
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if you do some shit that's not so not so
popular or favorable, but you stand on that, what's the
balance of that, Like, we won't go to the extreme,
but like, if you do something what people consider whole
ass shit, but you stand on it, Like, if you
and your truth, it ain't no whole ass shit to me,
you can say whether it to me because you're standing
in your truth. We just said said pillow talking. So
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if a nigga go on the grammar, be like, yeah,
I'll be pillow talking. That's what I do. I do blood.
I want to I want to straighten that out. I
want to straighten that up. If your pillow talking with
your bitch, like who's your bitch and you've been with
this bitch like forever and you're locked in with a
lock bitch, that's not pillow. That's not necessarily pillow talking
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because it's not going anywhere. But if you pillow talking
with every bitch that you fucking or a bitch that
is Fenna get up in the morning and go home,
then that's pillow talking. That's puss. Yeah, that's a pussy.
That makes sense. Like, at the end of the day,
your just because your partner in life. So at the
end of the day, you're telling how your thoughts is
not pillow talk, right, you know what I'm saying, It's
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just how you feel. It's on a perjecy basis. You
can really trust. What I'm saying is if you stand
if someone else stands on it, if they stand, if
you can stand on being a whole ass nigga too,
you stay the whole ass just because you're standing on
I mean, you're not know ask nigga. You're just standing
on some whole ass business. Yeah, but if you, if you,
if you, if you, if you adamantly feel the way
you feel about some shit, go ahead and let me
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tell you what the fuck up. Come in there. Because
you're a whole ass nigga as your partners. Don't tell
you that your whole is nigga. They agree with everything
you say or whatever whatever reason should be. You. You know,
you a whole ass nigga, but your people allow you
to be there. They're enabling your whole ass So those
are whole ass friends. Yeah exactly. Yeah, Now that's that's
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when shit shifted. You know what I'm saying. When ship
ships We were just talking about this other. The ship
shifted when money ruted everything like money and money is
like money over everything. When that ship became the properer
you right, Like the pussies nigga in the world is
right now? Like bro you Yeah, in our day you
got to hide with that money. You can't get no pussy,
ain't you know nothing like the day now the holes
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and strip you you're the holes, thank you? Right? The
gangsters following the nigga with the money everything. So it's
just like it's different and you could be a straight,
whole ass nigga, but just because you got the bag,
it's like you're right, but it right, you know what
I'm saying, And niggas, no, you're not right, but they're
just gonna agree with you and say that you're right
because of whatever they're trying to get out of you.
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Sometime they just want to hang around nigga. He right,
because he that nigga. So it's all the whole, whole
ass nigga shit, the whole hole. It's all this shit
at an all time high. No, No, this shit is magnituded.
They balloted, Yeah, But I feel like at the end
of the day, any nigga can fall into that whole
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ass nigga category. Is sometime you know, I'm saying because
of emotions, but it's like if you got just you
just a pure, whole ass nigga all the time in
every situation. That's what makes your whole ass nigga. If
you're emotionally driven like a female, then you're like a
whole ass nigga because because you can't because you can't
control your emotions. But you but sometimes with dealing with
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certain people, you are not gonna make control your emotion
when you got your heart in certain shit, like a
relationship with Chante. I'm a whole ass nigga. I'm just
being real, Like, if I come in the house, anything
can put me in my feeling who hu because she
could touch every emotion when it comes down to me.
You know what I'm saying, so I can't control that,
I could feel a way that she ain't got them,
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I ain't got no food, just some whole ass shit.
But it goes away fast. But I ain't gonna feel
no kind of well about nothing, but nobody else do.
But see that's another But see that's another thing too,
when you're when you're like kind of trying to distinguish
between a nigga who's having a whole moment and a
nigga who's just a whole ass nigga. If you're not
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able to, like he said, snap out of your feelings
and snap out of your emotions and you are constantly
staying in your feelings, that's a whole ass nigga. So
how you how you how you how you deal with
how you deal with your folks if they get on
some whole shit, Like, what's the best way when you
say your faults? What do you mean your partner, your
home girl? Well, I'm saying that they have in a moment,
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though I ain't saying that they just some They have
too many whole moments. They gotta go. No, I tell
a lot of my nigga bro, you on some whole
ass shit. I don't call you the whole ass nigga. Yeah,
I said, Bro, that's the whole ass shit you Jed did.
And you guys are taking in for what it is
and be like, yeah, but the nigga who knows he's
a whole ass nigga, he taking it, then I'm calling
him a whole ass nigga. Like even when my kids,
I'd be like, Bro, that's some pus nigga shit you
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Jed did. He's not taking it as I feel like
you are puss ass nigga. He's just like I'm out
of bounds. Yeah, let me check myself because I know
this niggan'a feel like I'm gonna puss ass nigga. I
got this blood in me, but I gotta be doing
some pussas ship that speak on it because he usually
don't speak on ship. Yeah, but when I see you,
just don't turn into a whole ass nigga. You're gonna
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know when you ain't got my number? No more like
real shit, bro, Like it's several guys out there that,
to me, his whole ass niggas who would never have
never communicate again. Right, Yeah, it's cool. What's up? If
I see you it ain't even what's up. It's just
unless we're in a close clothes you know what's up.
Keep it pushing. I don't want to touch your handkers
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on much injury. But the end of the day, a
whole ass nigg gonna be a whole ass nigga. You
cannot change a nigga from his roots. Yeah, that's who
you will. Like, I've did that ship for years and
this woman that's in right next to me, tell me like,
that's a whole ass nigga. Bro, Stop trying to see
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the good in the nigga. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like,
you know a nigga when you feel like you just
want to see the good like nah man. Yeah, but
you could point out sixty two incidents what nigga was
the whole ass nigger and instead of trying to be
like nah for love. Yeah, but then when it slapped
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in your face when you ain't got no charge. Now
you got the motherfucker right here saying I told you so.
I've been told you this ship fifteen years ago. It's
a whole ass nigger. You get on saying, but love
will make you overlook a lot of SHITU. Yeah, make
you to make you be like man that you're him
until you sit until it directly affects you. You don't
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give a fuck about it. Nigga being a who as
nigga to somebody else. And that's real shit. Like if
you love a person, you can look over all the
whole ass ways until it directly slap you in your face,
and then now you're a whole ass nigger. You get
what I'm saying. But I've seen you do all whole
ass shit. Don'ta take care of your kids you got
damn nigga. Don't nobody else fuck with you but me?
And you use a whole ass nigga. But you my
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whole ass buddy. So I'm trying to God, damn you
know what I'm saying. Look pass it, But I what's
the so, what's the female term? What's the female term?
What's the term for a female version of a whole
ass nigga? Puss asshole piece of shit? In my mind,
she's just a piece of shit. Damn piece of shit
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is the lowest a lot of holes, pieces of She'll
show what some of the ship the women be doing.
We don't, we don't, we don't win it on the
whole ass niggas. Some of the women niggas killed. Yeah,
they motherfuck emotion that shit. Trying to goddamn trying to
get you know what I'm saying, trying to do certain
shit to get reactions from niggas, like bitches aduce her
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shit just to get a reaction out of nigga and
no matter if it's gonna hurt her or him, Like
bit you caught me and puts that Nigge, you want
to get your ship bust? Now, I gotta goddamn walk
around you with your mother fucker live fat a hell
because I ain't going for that now. I'm a I'm
a whole ass nigga for knocking your teeth whatever the
fuck I just did. But you provote this right, so
you're a piece of shit knowing that you didn't mean
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it and knowing that like you're not going anywhere and
knowing retarded. Yeah, like, motherfucker's play with your triggers. Yeah,
that's a piece of shit. You can't play with no
nigga triggers. Yeah, Like you know what's this gonna bring, right,
And it's like you want to do it to create
some bullshit when going to what Black was saying about
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like playing with the nigga's triggers or whatever. Man, I've
seen some bitches that have intentionally played with niggas triggers
just to try to make the nigga. How am I
trying to say this, have intentionally played with the niggas
triggers to cause a situation, just to hang it over
in nigga's head so that he can feel sorry about
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being caused or being provoked into doing what he did.
Like that shit, Man, that should be some crazy shit.
Like to me, that's a piece of shit. So wow,
piece of shit. But another piece of shit is a
motherfucker that just don't have no lord toy to nothing
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no about it, Like you're not even to yourself, Like
he's just a piece of shit. I don't know how
to explain it. It's just you. We all know something.
It's that is that is that some deep routed ship
that you think because I always go with the same thing.
I think people learn that in their household for sure,
But at the end of the day, we all have
our own brain, you know what I'm saying. So nigga,
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you can see your uncle, my uncle, and god damn
be sneaking back in my ground, my house, smoking dope,
sucking dick for dope. I know that ain't what I
want to do. Like you were just talking in one
other episode, y'all were saying, God, damn uh, nigga can
be provoked to be a dick sucker? How who say
you nigga? Fuck you telling about y'all were saying, I
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said he could. Nigga could be provoked to be ya.
I was saying, No, folks, he showing Batman and robbing,
fucking and got then earning Burt fucking They showing that
ship to the kid, that the kid can be no nigga, No,
I said. Their kids are impressionable and and and and
fucking placing that in front of them. They are read
of that. Can't nobody, whatever your household, bring you up
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in that's what you win for the most part. Can't
if you intrigue with that, you into that. Yes, you
know you can't. I agree, you can't become that. You
already that. But if you only get exposed to some bullshit,
are you gonna know it's bullshit? You're right about that,
But I'm saying, at the end of the day or not, No, no,
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I'm saying that's extreme. No, I agree, you're gonna want
You're gonna know if you want to do that or not.
If you don't want to do that, I don't give
a fuck. How many times you're saying that bullshit, you
ain't gonna do it. I agree. If people get up
and go to work, we ain't got to talk about
sexual If your household, your mama, parents, grandma, and granddad
and everybody got up and went to work. But you
know that you're entrepreneur, you're gonna do entrepreneur. But what
they're doing, yeah, I don't want to sweat like them. Yeah,
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or I don't want to go through that. I want
to be my own boss. I want to ask them
about to win. I could be our work? Why I
could be our work? How long I'm gonna be our work?
I ain't here? This is correct? Can't know. You can
show this a million times on TV, sing it in
a song or whatever. You know if you wanta, okay,
so let me ask you this fall let me ask
you this. Then some people like, okay, if you feel
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like a kid, a nigga kid can't be impressioned into
dick sucking, then how do you feel about racism. Do
you feel like racism it's something that you learn or
do you feel like racism is something that you're born with.
I feel like that's something that's taught. Racism something that's taught,
and then you go through your experience. You go through
your own experience, your parents and whatever could be. I
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fight the power. This is what we do. But if
you haven't been through your own experiences and stuff, you
may not understand what they're even talking about. No, I
feel like racism like a language. Basically, you know what
I'm saying, Like if you it's like a language. But
I know to me how I felt. I knew when
I first seen women, that's what I want for sure.
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You get what I'm saying, Like, no matter what I've seen,
like we had a punkinghood and insisted on it. I
knew I didn't want to be like sistonin You're man,
I see other men like, hell, ain't that ain't it? Bro?
You you was weird? You know what I'm saying in
my mind, And I don't have anything against that, that
that that race, whatever the fuck they is, I don't
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have nothing against that. What I'm saying is at the
end of the day. I know me like I know,
I didn't want to smoke crack. I see what it
did to my dad in them. Yeah, no matter what
it is, I ain't I'm not finding I'm not findling
convinced me to smoke no crack. What it is, I
think it's the I think it's the Let's say, like,
some kids come up in the suburbs and it's the
suburbs and they really ain't got shipped wrong with their life, right,
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but they just keep getting exposed to street ship through whatever.
But in that street ship, that shit gotta be in you, bro. Yeah,
they shit gotta be in you. You see niggas trying
to play gangster, they want to play gangster. Yea. Yeah,
some nigga do this shit to be helped, but they
still intrigued by That's what I like, nigga might go
get a fucking basketball contract and they didn't go by
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fifty pounds of weed. Trying to understand, I can't explain
it to you because I'm a suburban kid. This since
the sense of it is, I wasn't intrigued by suburban
or the cross the tracks, however you want to say it, right,
I liked it what I liked it, regardless of what
I saw or what I knew. What a track did me.
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So it didn't have anything to do with because I'm suburban,
I should think like this or I should be like this.
I am who I am, don't matter where I was raised.
So with me, I like, I'm a suburban person too.
But it was like, okay, suburban, Okay, well, I mean
I didn't. I didn't grow up in whatever however you
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want to put it. Ya you say, y'all middle class
with yeah, we still have to just make sure you
don't leave out the web five. But now it was
like my mom was like my mom and dad were
like night and day. Saw. My mom was like a teacher,
she went to Clark, she went to Atlanta University, she
got a PhD, all her degrees, all this shit whatever whatever.
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And then my daddy was a nigga. He had a club,
you know what I'm saying. He had like all this
shit whatever whatever. He was in the street, blah blah
blah whatever whatever. But when my mom was busy, like
teaching school and doing all this shit, I was with
my daddy, Like you know what I'm saying. I used
to hang with my daddy. So that's how I know
like a majority of the people like from the street
that I know to this day, like from him and
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from like you know, his club, and you know what
I'm saying, all that shit, But when I saw when
I was I don't want to say when I was
introduced to that, but when I that's what you want it, Yeah,
because at the end of the day, you saw your
mama going to work if you want to be there,
and that's what you to be. You saw this street
shit did what it is. Yes, that's what I'm saying.
That's the same thing. That's what I'm saying. So if
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a nigga see a man and a woman together, and
you see a man and a man together, which one
would you ever wanted to treat you? That's what you want. Yeah,
because at the end of the day, they both on TV. Yeah,
both on TV. Okay, Batman and Robbing. But you if
you like that, that's what you like. So the people
that to me that make excuses like, oh they keep
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putting this on TV, they're forcing us. That's because you
think somebody in your household maybe because you know or
you may be that you know what you never think
about it like that. You know when you had them,
you know when they was five, you know, when they
was two, what they how they was was yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah, that's fine what they choose. But at the
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end of the day, like what Black said, you see
a married woman and the marriedman on TV or you
know that's what they're playing, you also see this. Which
one you're gonna choose. You're gonna choose the one that
you identify with, regardless of what they show. It's gonna
be the one that you identify with. Yeah, that's just
like you know, like when the boy assassin all bad,
like stop but stop walking like that. You don them paired,
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don't won't do it. They need stopped showing it TV.
You're looking for her out, Yeah, because bad as little
June ain't looking at that. He don't. We can't see that. Yeah,
he didn't intrigued him, but already don't but looking at
the TV like huh, this is okay. Or she's looking
at the TV like this is okay. But Ray playing
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he doing whatever he's doing, it doesn't intrigue him. When
you're intrigued bad because that's your thought already, it's already
in you, I ain't ship with the gangster ship. The
young nigs already be wanna be that. You can be influenced,
but you already gotta be want to be that though,
bron it's time beenced until it's time to be influenced.
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Then you know, if you that and then you start
singing like a bird singing a song, what happened? What
this was that? But when it was all cute and
good that you got a whole game behind you, or
I run with this game. Then now you're in a situation,
right you ain't with that game. You didn't found the lord.
You go to school, you play ball, you do all
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of this. He was getting ready to go to the
art insta everything, and he got caught up with the
wrong crowd. You know, I got caught over the Crown
crowd because he chose that crowd because that's what he
thought he wanted into ship got sears. That just the
cop out to me, get that woman a podcast. Ye,
that's the cup out to me, you know what I'm saying,
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that's the cup out. Like niggas really be want to
be that until like she said, go left, then that's
your cup out. But you don't really want to be that,
you want the protection behind that, you don't really want
to be that. I just think that this is a
whole ass nigga shit because you're not that. You're not that.
That's all I'm saying. You're not that. You know you
ain't that. You're going the house every day knowing you
lame it for because like you that, because you know
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if then that Mary is gonna say whatever you gotta say.
This is an extension. This is an extension of your
This is an extension of your pride and your ego
being something you completely ain't. When you get you can beat,
you can beat. Ain't gonna be they try to take
over the old for sure. But you could be around
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all that shit and people will respect you just being
you big facts. That used to be my main thing,
Like I used to be trying to tell them niggas
like everybody ain't for everything. You know what I'm saying,
Just because this dude hang around, you don't mean you're
gonna put him in the car with the shooter us.
He's not that. He's a fucking engineer, like you got
to engineer Ryan with you. The old kill somebody and
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they spent for him to be solid, right, that's not
what you do, bro. This is y'all gonna wrap or
y'all gonna kill, y'all gonna wrap. Reason why it's because
they make excuses for these niggas that it's okay that
we understand, we knew you one built for that. It's
all right. You run really a part of that. That's
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the issue. Y'all ain't letting make any nigga stand on
bidding it supposed to be there us to know that anyway. Yeah,
that's what I'm saying or whatever. The I feel like
the guys the whole another story because they don't turn
into a trend. Is it like when Jesuum came out
with a dope everybody with dope. They were even the bitches.
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Everybody want to be dope dude, just like now even
the bitches gangster. I don't get it fun everybody scrub
j scrat right now. Yes, but that yeah, I'm saying.
But what I'm saying is it's just what it is. Yeah,
I think that having a daughter and I'm gonna have
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to put my daughter in school, and of course I'm
gonna give her a cern morals to stand on, you know,
as she grows. But there's a lot of shit that
your kid gets exposed to when they leave, kind of
like your nest and then they go. But with the
with the public world, now, that's something you have to
do because they got with a premature mind. But you
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do understand that shelt trying to shelter them from the
inevitable worst thing. It's only gonna handicap her. I'm dealing
with that now in therapy because I know soon I'm
gonna have to We're gonna have to start dropping her
off before her mind is all or what you know
what I'm saying, and pray for the best. But it's
still an insiety of the mind because it's my first
go round. But the realer you are with her, the
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bet is easier. Her personal you're gonna be Yeah, you
have to be real with her. You have to let
her know like I like me, I told mine, I knew,
I know y'all cuss, but I don't want y'all cussing
it in front of grown folks or egg grown folks.
But I knew they cuss. I was letting mine know
I'm not a oblivious on what go on outside, you
know what I mean? So if you raising her in
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your household I know, which I know you are, then
she can see whatever she sees. She gonna have to
trust in what you're showing her. True, you feel like kids.
But what I was saying, what I'm trying to say
is at the end of the day, when you let
your kids know right from wrong, that's how you can
do You know I'm saying, because they got their own
choice at the end of the day, because it life.
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You know what it's like when you try to keep
them like Sunta Claus is this that's when you suck
them up at like when you when you lead them
into fairy tale world, that's the world they're gonna live in. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying, like out the real But
Sunta Claus ain't about y'all shit about this right right?
You know what I'm saying, Like, oh back, we're fucking
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that up. I was muscle like the fairy tale. Ain't
no too fair on the hood. Here go a dollar
for your teeth, nigga. You know what I'm saying, like real,
like you know not when your babies is different. When
you get up age to start making decision like you're
in school, and ship all that shit out. Yeah, let's
shit out because of the think about five or six me.
My wife was arguing about that. Yeah, it's like you
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gotta tell them what it is like at the end
of the day because I don't know. Bro. It's like
we taught all type of lessons like you want to
you want to do certain ship. Yeah, it might not
get it for criminal for real. This ain't a joke,
but damn you Finn feel this even feel hot. Feel
get your whole criminal away to your cousin them. Oh
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you're acting bad on criminal Monio. You don't open up
a tell you sneaking. Watch this nigga ride your mos
up street. Little went all day long. He's opened up
his guilt. I took that ship from him and gave
it the tyree, like you can have it that one.
You ain't buy him ship for Chris none at all.
Everybody else, my friends, Felicia, everybody, they brought him something,
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all of them. I ain't get him one thing because
he was just that you know what I'm saying. He
was that kid. Yeah, but out of all my kids,
he'd realist. You know, he knew, he knew in his
mind he wanted to go to school and wrought with
bby guns and ship because it's what he I couldn't
change that. I couldn't tell him. I didn't persuade him.
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I used to seeing him. He's listening to La Boy Lunny.
Pilling out of that ship is fake. Shit is fake
you you getting ripped up by this ship? Okay, go ahead,
Yeah you know what I'm saying. But no, that's what
you wanted to do. Yeah, I ain't nothing I can
tell you for you not to do that. So you
gotta experience whatever. You gotta take your attit you or I,
or go to jail, whatever that is. You gotta see
that that ain't what you want because I can't persuade
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you that this ain't what you want or you already
chose it. So that comes with most things that you know,
if you if a woman like puts it, she knows
she like puts it? Man like did he know he
liked it? More? For the most part is when they
are told not to and then they live in a lie.
That's the thing. So what if you don't what if
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what if what if you on't? What if you don't
like the company they keep like as they get older,
what if you like them, I ain't gonna say the
impression or whatever. You like the company kid? What if
you think like your kid is one way, but the
other kids might be some whole ass nick or no
even handle sassay a little boys in our house and
nothing that shit like nah that other ship too. What
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I'm saying like, what if you're like the company they
keep but they say that this is my friend, that
he's either sassy or that they he's a gangster. But
if but if he's sassy, he's whatever he is, you
already don chose your friend. So said, yeah, I mean that,
no sassy people, I have a I have a friend,
no sass fright, I have a friend that you know
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that whatever. And my kids knew when they were younger
that he was sassy, you know what I mean? But
I couldn't tell. I didn't know. Yeah whatever, But now
that he's older, it's he's sassy, which is fine. But
my kids knew at a young age that he was.
I could not tell, but they knew. They say, Mom,
we're not going over that with you, and exactly they
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made the point to be like, woon't e't want to
go over there? And then have a nigga started acting
like when he coming over here again? You that too,
and we gotta accept Joe. You know what I'm saying.
We gotta accept Joe ship. Yeah, but what if they
gangster manwa gangster son? Come on, yeah manwa gangster so
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and so. I can't as long as at the side
and he can't be the side. If he said said,
I don't care, but if he ain't saying it, then
then need to come over exactly once you choose your side,
That's what it is like. How the fuck impy? How
the fuck impinging um depride you of who you is?
You know what I'm saying, then I might as well
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tell you how to do it and what comes withness.
So let me ask you a question, though, ain't it
used to be trying to be I tried that like
little one. I remember when I'd never forget he got
out of juvenile. Let me say this, I never get
he guys, you and I trying to say we got
the impression that god damn go to college shit because
he had got a g D and JUVENI but I
used to see the nigga a day spot when I
pull up there, So I'm like, your mama finding got
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any book? Eighteen hundred? You want to get these books?
What you're doing? You want to school? What you're doing
because I ain't even spend my money and you're gonna
be a real nigga. You're like, man, ain't been sense,
say less, I ain't even to pay for no books.
And then I'm gonna be mad at you. You let
me spend my money lying to me too, So now
you're going to deal with this ship with your mom.
So I ain't even get a chance? Was he? Then? Though,
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what I'm saying that the age of twelve or thirteen, say,
you don't think that the motherfucker is the most confused
that they'll be in life at the age of twelve
or thirteen. No, no, you know what you know. But
what I'm saying, but you continually to try, You continually
to try. You don't give up, you just shit. You
continuously to try to make sure that this is not
a phase. When you see what you here, Yeah, you
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know when it's a phase. Little one was not a
phase at all. I didn't know him, I'm gonna be honest.
I didn't know that he was doing the things that
he was doing because he was different. You know, he
was sweet at home, you know, little Yeah, And then
when I figured out who he was, I was like, okay, yeah.
Then when when he went June, I broke my hold,
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like I was done because I'm like, wait a minute,
you come in, you come up with two two parent household,
get whatever you want? What is you? But he wanted
he was intrigued with that life, regardless of what we
gave him or whatever. He knew. I'm a gangst he
knew that until he decided that he didn't want that
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for his life. It was up to him. And he
was thirteen. I called Blake all the time like you
nen't just how here, Like, man, this nigga's driving me crazy.
What else do you want me to say to him?
And I used to get mad at black like I
can't raising the bear man, But he was already becoming
his own man. Black Head did with all he could
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do with him, But I couldn't see that. I just
you know, I see ship from both sides, Like I
remember when I was thirteen, like, man, I don't tell
me then, Like if you even tell me how to
do it, you know what I'm saying. So what I
do is I feel like, this is how I feel
and this might be the dumbest shit though. Once I
see you don't show your side, I'm gonna show you
what come with your side. You know what I'm saying.
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I'm gonna show you, like the morals of this ship.
What you're talking about. Bro, you play with pedestrians, that's
what gets you off the streets forever you do shit.
The people that don't deserve this shit in this game
will get you out of this ship forever. You know
what I'm saying. I'm gona tell you the morals of
this ship. You know what I'm saying, Go get you
some money if that's what you're gonna do. Nigga gangsters
get money, dumb It's goddamn do the dumb shit, you
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know what I'm saying. So, at the end of the day,
if that's what you won't be a hustler. I can't
tell you how to be no food because I ain't
never been there, you know what I'm saying. So at
the end of the day, if you feel like you
following me, you that ain't following me, what you're doing,
you get what I'm saying. So what I have to
do is just cut you cut you from me. Now
I look at you as a fuck nigga because the
shit you're doing ain't ain't what I do. So I
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really need to god damn get another DNA test. Yeah
you know what I'm saying, but you must not be
of my cloth. I'm just being real, you know what
I'm saying. So I started hitting the nigga with that.
He started seeing like, yeah, this this is some little
bit lariush shit. Let me get on my ship. You
know what I'm saying, because you can't hear it from
your mama, right, But it was what to me what
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it was he had to find himself. You feel like
you want to be a gangster, you feel like you
want to be at this, You feel like you want
to be that until you find yourself. And one thing
Lotte told me, he was like, I didn't lost too
many of friends, too many of this, too many of that.
I don't never want to see you go through that
pain or my grama. That's all this stuck with me
at this point. Now he could be outside to whatever.
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I don't give a fuck what he doing. I trust
what he's said because how he lived. But he had
to choose that one then I can tell him. So
if you this way of that way, it's your choice.
It ain't never nobody telling you. People say, oh they're
putting that on them. They putting it. That's who them
people are because at the end of the day, man,
just like like back when we were growing up, the
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freaks with the girl who's the good girls the bleach. Yeah,
like the ones who like they too ready to do it. Yeah,
girls who come from goddamn where we come from, with
bucking Yeah, like na, you gotta go with me. Yeah,
But them girls who got damn come school them nice
shoes and nice clothes on. Yeah, they up on the bleach.
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You with one thing. I knew that because I was
came up suburban. You can't work me. We're the ones
that you're supposed to work. I always went against the grain, like,
ain't stuff. I've always been intrigued with niggas that get money. However,
I can't give a fuck what you did gets money. Yeah,
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but I ain't one. Never, no golfer. I ain't gonna
get ship because I may be I am a suburban girl,
but I got some sense. My dad all day long
raised me right. So but I was never gonna be
a gopher period. I ain't running to no stove, can't
go pick you up, shit, can't do shit but say
hey and back, this's it. Ain't fucking the people ain't
doing all of that right, hey and back. I've always
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been that, so I can't put that on all suburban women.
Some of my suburban w we was in the hood.
Some of them, the hood bitches was had it well
off too. I'm just saying like they was good girls.
You know what I'm saying. They might have been had
on the cheap clothes, but but the cheap nighte shit,
you know what I'm And the girls who dadd and
coming up they're picking them up from school, and you
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know what I'm saying, we had the parents. Yeah, y'all
get what I'm saying. I ain't. I ain't. I ain't
putting it off phone. What you stayed. And I'm saying, like,
because we went to school in the hood. Yeah, the
mores like she had a mom and her dadd but
they're like tomorrow in my turn on her. You get
what I'm saying, because she with the ships because they
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too too strict on her. Yeah, everything they tell the
free time, it's like everything they tell them not to do,
she trying to do it. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
But the ones you're telling them like, Okay, I'm gonna
take you to get on birth contropes early just in
case that's what you want to do, they up. They
the ones to be waiting a chilling like I'm going
to see what's up. You know what I'm saying. I'm
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up to see what's up, like I uh, take care
of my body, you know what I'm saying. But the
ones you you into knowl about is the one that, Yeah,
you can't. You can't. You can't shout a graveyard in
that put. Okay, stop human being for living like that?
That is Ain't it like that? That ain't gonna work
because eventually when they bust out, they's gonna go crazy
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and bust out. It's just like who you is is
who you is. It's like even in relationships or anything else, bro,
who you are is who you are. Yeah, like you can't.
You can. You can suppress certain shit for other people
feelings for so long. Yeah, but who you is is
who you is, no matter how it goes. You know
what I'm saying. You gotta let people be who they is.
Like you could love a person so much and see
them for what you want them to be, but who
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they is is who they is. If you don't realize
that sooner than later, that's gonna be one of the
most painful lessons that life is going to teach. And
it's gonna be resentment there. You know what I'm saying, Like,
you ain't gonna do never resent that person? Man. Fact. Yeah,
stopping for somebody who from being what they want to
be and who they are? So what what the topic was?
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We started with? Whole just built into just some real conversation. Yeah,
did you know what I'm saying? Find the words. Yeah,
you whatever you want to be in, like you donna
be a whole whatever you want to be in, Like
be who you walk, don't let know about it is
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the turt that and be happy and don't pay attention
Batman in Rockman in twenty twenty three. So y'all said
Ernie Bird cooking man out of doing it some butt
bandits little big bird though a big bird. It came
out um um like three or four years ago, said
(42:29):
mister Rogermanlo Triple W Big fastpot dot Com like us
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Big back screen. You're gonna be on nothing. I'll be okay.
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You know what's going on. It's Big Bank DJ Screen
Baby Jay. Were team Big Facts and it's time for
another Big Facts extra. We're about to chop it up.
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What's going on? Bank got that wine for lout lout.
So you're on the white wine now, bro, Yeah, that's
what your Yeah, I can't get rich. They said that
rich thame them teeth. The red is dead. She ain
got me feeling great. Yeah, man, you'd be going to
(00:41):
a different level on the white wine. Yeah. Yeah, it's
like a different form of cannabis or some ship. He
gotta get on that mascotto though not that reads as
we're talking about to day Jay. What we're doing, Jake, Man,
let's talk about these hard ass niggas. Man, oh man, y'all,
what's the definition, let's get into it. Whole ass nigga?
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What is the definition? A whole ass nigga is a
nigga that does a plethora of whole shit. Like, what's
what's elaborate to me? A hole ass nigga is a
nigga that's always like writing another nigga's dick facts. A
whole ass nigga to me is a nigga that's always
(01:21):
doing like little bitty pussy ass hohle ass shit facts
to me. For number three, ah ass nigga is a
nigga that's just a bit all the way around. Really
all the same thing. So we gotta elaborate on some
of this. What do you think the whole ass nigga
is always got sipin like hose, They always you know,
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got something to say. Nigga, shit the fuck up and
let the hold talk. So so so so in the
vague definition the whole ass niggas, if we let just
that fly before we break it down, thuse we're gonna
break it down. That's a lot of niggas. Most niggas.
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Some nigga get paid to talk though, because we get
paid to talk to that screen. So we am my
whole ass nigga. No we're talking. You ain't gossip, but
you ain't gossiping facts. You're talking into a mic and
not into a pillow. I'll be talking, but I mean
that's different thought. The whole as nigga though we said
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how to get some money? What what is a whole
as nigga? So it's gonna be a whole ass conversation
that we haven't right if we get the gossip. Okay,
what is a whole ass nigga? I feel like a
whole ass niggas Any nigga who don't stand done what
he feels like he portrayed, he represents m That makes
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nigga to me? You know what I'm saying, If you
ain't standing on business like you know what I'm saying,
It's one thing to be a liar. I don't feel
like a liar is a whole ass nigger. He's just
a liar, right, you know what I'm saying, whole ass
niggas a nigga that if something happened you, Tony, you
keep de nine instead of standing on them. Like if
I get caught up in some shit, if I get
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I get caught up in some ship, yeah I did it.
What whatever the consequences, it did. What it is, even
if it's a shit against my boy, however you want
to do it, my wife know about it, then ship
by that what it is. I can't see him keep
lying about it and I'm caught. I've got damn fo
put him handcuz on me. Boy, some shit, I ain't
gonna agree to it or add nobody else in it.
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I don't know. Whole ass shit. If a nigga feel
like nigga said you sit here, Yeah, I said the
nigga because I feel like that, fuck you what? And
you get what I'm saying. So it's just like I
feel like a whole ass niggas a nigga that don't
stand on well he know he did or said in mind. Yeah,
that's some whole ass nigga. To me, that's an amazing definition.
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I agree with Bank. Yeah, it's like at the end
of the day, like like, so you that scared of
them whoever it is, that you can't be you yourself? Yeah, exactly.
You know what I'm saying now, I get it when
it comes down to relationships, like you, you care about
this person feeling, so you'll try to bob and weep. Yeah.
I don't think we talked about relationship. But if I'm
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a cult, I'm caught. What can I do now? Now
I'm trying to make a fool out of you. Yeah,
it makes me a whole ass nigga, because I feel
like I'm trying to make you out of be a fool.
A whole ass nigga to me would be like if
I said, man, I want to do the intro. I'm
telling Jay I want to do the intro. Screen? Why
he got to keep doing the intro that come in?
Like screen? You the best intro man married as nigger.
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You get what I'm saying, like you ain't standing on
what you're saying or how you feel. You a bit.
Oh god, so let me let me let me um
barber shop talk again. You got a ball head. You
don't even go to the barber shop right now, get
the little shit in my beard. So Kevin Durant hed,
(05:00):
finitely don't go to the I'm not talking about oh
and I think I know where we're gonna go. But
in the barbershop, a lot of people was like, man,
Kevin Duran a whole ass nigga because the Warriors beat
him and he left his team to go join the Warriors.
He laid down. Is that a whole ass nigga or
(05:20):
want to win? I'm just asking this is barbershops. That's
some whole ass shit. You left your team, and you
ain't telling Westbrook and all that ship. Even though man
I did it, I'm just barbershop talk. I don't feel
like that the whole ass ship. I just feel like
at the end of the day, that's the decision of
man making for his life. I agree, some whole ass
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ship would be of God. Damn nigga, I put some
rocks in your shoe, or you can't go for my
legacy in my career. How to I'm a whole ass
nigga because I'm choosing me right, all right. When Tray
got out the car, let me out know, boys in
the hood, that whole a whole whole niggah or something.
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I'mnna tell you what the whole ship was in that situation.
Him getting in the car, that makes your whole ass.
Yeah the first place, you ain't even that kind of nigga.
So you're a whole ass nigga for getting this. Can
you know you're not that kind of nigga? Exactly, he
got out of the car. He was a smart and
he was a man. Yeah right, exactly. You know what
I'm saying because that's your truth. Yeah, made your whole
(06:25):
ass niga. When I got your dad a big bragula
three he got playing you was a whole ass nigga,
because you know that ain't what you bout. So you
saying that you can somebody like that can have a
whole ass nigga moment, but pulled himself out of a moment. Yeah,
(06:47):
because we all had that for Sean okay shure. Yeah, Yeah,
because I can be coming in out. I come in
out and Jim be acting like a great bitch, a
whole ass nigga to my bitch, just because I'm mad
about some other ship, and then I just snap out
like they ain't got to do it that girl. So
I was spending be a whole ass nigga for nothing.
That's some real shit, you know what I'm saying, Some
real shit. Like even on the way here smoking in
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the car the ship, I'm mad and I really want
to punching the ship because you're Cashmel, Like we don't
want to ride with car with weed because she got
damn be having her gun like I don't have a
gus she'd be having her gun and I'm gonna copet
the fellow. I don't want to be around the gun
with weed smoke. So I started going into whole ass nigga.
Move about that by the time I got here, got
some food in me, like bru, then ain't smoking in
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the car. You get what I'm saying. Yeah, Like, but sir,
shit triggers whole ass moments, whole ass moments, So you're
basically saying that whole ass tendencies are triggered. For sure,
everybody had those, But to be a whole ass nigga,
you have to consistently do whole ship to be labeled
a whole ass niggas, yeah, instead of just a real
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nigga with whole ass moments. Yeah, every nigga gonna have
female ten This is female emotions. You're gonna have that
because we come from females. So you're gonna have attitude problems,
You're gonna have that shit that come with it. But
if you can't check yourself and realize that I did,
you're a whole ass nigga. You know what I'm saying.
If you can't be take accountability and be apologetic about
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some whole ass shit, you're a whole ass nigga trying
to stand on some whole shit. Now, I said, what
makers a nigga who ass niggas. A nigga whill be
trying to make right out of wrong. You can't make
right out of this. But you I just heard you
talking about this to somebody else about somebody about another person,
and there was some whole ass shit that he did.
When you do it, because you can justify it ain't
no whole ass shit, that's some whole ass shit. So
(08:42):
if you do some shit that's not so not so
popular or favorable, but you stand on that, what's the
balance of that, Like, we won't go to the extreme,
but like, if you do something what people consider whole
ass shit, but you stand on it, Like, if you
and your truth, it ain't no whole ass shit to me,
you can say whether it to me because you're standing
in your truth. We just said said pillow talking. So
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if a nigga go on the grammar, be like, yeah,
I'll be pillow talking. That's what I do. I do blood.
I want to I want to straighten that out. I
want to straighten that up. If your pillow talking with
your bitch, like who's your bitch and you've been with
this bitch like forever and you're locked in with a
lock bitch, that's not pillow. That's not necessarily pillow talking
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because it's not going anywhere. But if you pillow talking
with every bitch that you fucking or a bitch that
is Fenna get up in the morning and go home,
then that's pillow talking. That's puss. Yeah, that's a pussy.
That makes sense. Like, at the end of the day,
your just because your partner in life. So at the
end of the day, you're telling how your thoughts is
not pillow talk, right, you know what I'm saying, It's
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just how you feel. It's on a perjecy basis. You
can really trust. What I'm saying is if you stand
if someone else stands on it, if they stand, if
you can stand on being a whole ass nigga too,
you stay the whole ass just because you're standing on
I mean, you're not know ask nigga. You're just standing
on some whole ass business. Yeah, but if you, if you,
if you, if you, if you adamantly feel the way
you feel about some shit, go ahead and let me
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tell you what the fuck up. Come in there. Because
you're a whole ass nigga as your partners. Don't tell
you that your whole is nigga. They agree with everything
you say or whatever whatever reason should be. You. You know,
you a whole ass nigga, but your people allow you
to be there. They're enabling your whole ass So those
are whole ass friends. Yeah exactly. Yeah, Now that's that's
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when shit shifted. You know what I'm saying. When ship
ships We were just talking about this other. The ship
shifted when money ruted everything like money and money is
like money over everything. When that ship became the properer
you right, Like the pussies nigga in the world is
right now? Like bro you Yeah, in our day you
got to hide with that money. You can't get no pussy,
ain't you know nothing like the day now the holes
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and strip you you're the holes, thank you? Right? The
gangsters following the nigga with the money everything. So it's
just like it's different and you could be a straight,
whole ass nigga, but just because you got the bag,
it's like you're right, but it right, you know what
I'm saying, And niggas, no, you're not right, but they're
just gonna agree with you and say that you're right
because of whatever they're trying to get out of you.
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Sometime they just want to hang around nigga. He right,
because he that nigga. So it's all the whole, whole
ass nigga shit, the whole hole. It's all this shit
at an all time high. No, No, this shit is magnituded.
They balloted, Yeah, But I feel like at the end
of the day, any nigga can fall into that whole
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ass nigga category. Is sometime you know, I'm saying because
of emotions, but it's like if you got just you
just a pure, whole ass nigga all the time in
every situation. That's what makes your whole ass nigga. If
you're emotionally driven like a female, then you're like a
whole ass nigga because because you can't because you can't
control your emotions. But you but sometimes with dealing with
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certain people, you are not gonna make control your emotion
when you got your heart in certain shit, like a
relationship with Chante. I'm a whole ass nigga. I'm just
being real, Like, if I come in the house, anything
can put me in my feeling who hu because she
could touch every emotion when it comes down to me.
You know what I'm saying, so I can't control that,
I could feel a way that she ain't got them,
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I ain't got no food, just some whole ass shit.
But it goes away fast. But I ain't gonna feel
no kind of well about nothing, but nobody else do.
But see that's another But see that's another thing too,
when you're when you're like kind of trying to distinguish
between a nigga who's having a whole moment and a
nigga who's just a whole ass nigga. If you're not
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able to, like he said, snap out of your feelings
and snap out of your emotions and you are constantly
staying in your feelings, that's a whole ass nigga. So
how you how you how you how you deal with
how you deal with your folks if they get on
some whole shit, Like, what's the best way when you
say your faults? What do you mean your partner, your
home girl? Well, I'm saying that they have in a moment,
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though I ain't saying that they just some They have
too many whole moments. They gotta go. No, I tell
a lot of my nigga bro, you on some whole
ass shit. I don't call you the whole ass nigga. Yeah,
I said, Bro, that's the whole ass shit you Jed did.
And you guys are taking in for what it is
and be like, yeah, but the nigga who knows he's
a whole ass nigga, he taking it, then I'm calling
him a whole ass nigga. Like even when my kids,
I'd be like, Bro, that's some pus nigga shit you
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Jed did. He's not taking it as I feel like
you are puss ass nigga. He's just like I'm out
of bounds. Yeah, let me check myself because I know
this niggan'a feel like I'm gonna puss ass nigga. I
got this blood in me, but I gotta be doing
some pussas ship that speak on it because he usually
don't speak on ship. Yeah, but when I see you,
just don't turn into a whole ass nigga. You're gonna
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know when you ain't got my number? No more like
real shit, bro, Like it's several guys out there that,
to me, his whole ass niggas who would never have
never communicate again. Right, Yeah, it's cool. What's up? If
I see you it ain't even what's up. It's just
unless we're in a close clothes you know what's up.
Keep it pushing. I don't want to touch your handkers
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on much injury. But the end of the day, a
whole ass nigg gonna be a whole ass nigga. You
cannot change a nigga from his roots. Yeah, that's who
you will. Like, I've did that ship for years and
this woman that's in right next to me, tell me like,
that's a whole ass nigga. Bro, Stop trying to see
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the good in the nigga. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like,
you know a nigga when you feel like you just
want to see the good like nah man. Yeah, but
you could point out sixty two incidents what nigga was
the whole ass nigger and instead of trying to be
like nah for love. Yeah, but then when it slapped
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in your face when you ain't got no charge. Now
you got the motherfucker right here saying I told you so.
I've been told you this ship fifteen years ago. It's
a whole ass nigger. You get on saying, but love
will make you overlook a lot of SHITU. Yeah, make
you to make you be like man that you're him
until you sit until it directly affects you. You don't
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give a fuck about it. Nigga being a who as
nigga to somebody else. And that's real shit. Like if
you love a person, you can look over all the
whole ass ways until it directly slap you in your face,
and then now you're a whole ass nigger. You get
what I'm saying. But I've seen you do all whole
ass shit. Don'ta take care of your kids you got
damn nigga. Don't nobody else fuck with you but me?
And you use a whole ass nigga. But you my
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whole ass buddy. So I'm trying to God, damn you
know what I'm saying. Look pass it, But I what's
the so, what's the female term? What's the female term?
What's the term for a female version of a whole
ass nigga? Puss asshole piece of shit? In my mind,
she's just a piece of shit. Damn piece of shit
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is the lowest a lot of holes, pieces of She'll
show what some of the ship the women be doing.
We don't, we don't, we don't win it on the
whole ass niggas. Some of the women niggas killed. Yeah,
they motherfuck emotion that shit. Trying to goddamn trying to
get you know what I'm saying, trying to do certain
shit to get reactions from niggas, like bitches aduce her
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shit just to get a reaction out of nigga and
no matter if it's gonna hurt her or him, Like
bit you caught me and puts that Nigge, you want
to get your ship bust? Now, I gotta goddamn walk
around you with your mother fucker live fat a hell
because I ain't going for that now. I'm a I'm
a whole ass nigga for knocking your teeth whatever the
fuck I just did. But you provote this right, so
you're a piece of shit knowing that you didn't mean
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it and knowing that like you're not going anywhere and
knowing retarded. Yeah, like, motherfucker's play with your triggers. Yeah,
that's a piece of shit. You can't play with no
nigga triggers. Yeah, Like you know what's this gonna bring, right,
And it's like you want to do it to create
some bullshit when going to what Black was saying about
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like playing with the nigga's triggers or whatever. Man, I've
seen some bitches that have intentionally played with niggas triggers
just to try to make the nigga. How am I
trying to say this, have intentionally played with the niggas
triggers to cause a situation, just to hang it over
in nigga's head so that he can feel sorry about
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being caused or being provoked into doing what he did.
Like that shit, Man, that should be some crazy shit.
Like to me, that's a piece of shit. So wow,
piece of shit. But another piece of shit is a
motherfucker that just don't have no lord toy to nothing
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no about it, Like you're not even to yourself, Like
he's just a piece of shit. I don't know how
to explain it. It's just you. We all know something.
It's that is that is that some deep routed ship
that you think because I always go with the same thing.
I think people learn that in their household for sure,
But at the end of the day, we all have
our own brain, you know what I'm saying. So nigga,
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you can see your uncle, my uncle, and god damn
be sneaking back in my ground, my house, smoking dope,
sucking dick for dope. I know that ain't what I
want to do. Like you were just talking in one
other episode, y'all were saying, God, damn uh, nigga can
be provoked to be a dick sucker? How who say
you nigga? Fuck you telling about y'all were saying, I
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said he could. Nigga could be provoked to be ya.
I was saying, No, folks, he showing Batman and robbing,
fucking and got then earning Burt fucking They showing that
ship to the kid, that the kid can be no nigga, No,
I said. Their kids are impressionable and and and and
fucking placing that in front of them. They are read
of that. Can't nobody, whatever your household, bring you up
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in that's what you win for the most part. Can't
if you intrigue with that, you into that. Yes, you
know you can't. I agree, you can't become that. You
already that. But if you only get exposed to some bullshit,
are you gonna know it's bullshit? You're right about that,
But I'm saying, at the end of the day or not, No, no,
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I'm saying that's extreme. No, I agree, you're gonna want
You're gonna know if you want to do that or not.
If you don't want to do that, I don't give
a fuck. How many times you're saying that bullshit, you
ain't gonna do it. I agree. If people get up
and go to work, we ain't got to talk about
sexual If your household, your mama, parents, grandma, and granddad
and everybody got up and went to work. But you
know that you're entrepreneur, you're gonna do entrepreneur. But what
they're doing, yeah, I don't want to sweat like them. Yeah,
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or I don't want to go through that. I want
to be my own boss. I want to ask them
about to win. I could be our work? Why I
could be our work? How long I'm gonna be our work?
I ain't here? This is correct? Can't know. You can
show this a million times on TV, sing it in
a song or whatever. You know if you wanta, okay,
so let me ask you this fall let me ask
you this. Then some people like, okay, if you feel
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like a kid, a nigga kid can't be impressioned into
dick sucking, then how do you feel about racism. Do
you feel like racism it's something that you learn or
do you feel like racism is something that you're born with.
I feel like that's something that's taught. Racism something that's taught,
and then you go through your experience. You go through
your own experience, your parents and whatever could be. I
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fight the power. This is what we do. But if
you haven't been through your own experiences and stuff, you
may not understand what they're even talking about. No, I
feel like racism like a language. Basically, you know what
I'm saying, Like if you it's like a language. But
I know to me how I felt. I knew when
I first seen women, that's what I want for sure.
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You get what I'm saying, Like, no matter what I've seen,
like we had a punkinghood and insisted on it. I
knew I didn't want to be like sistonin You're man,
I see other men like, hell, ain't that ain't it? Bro?
You you was weird? You know what I'm saying in
my mind, And I don't have anything against that, that
that that race, whatever the fuck they is, I don't
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have nothing against that. What I'm saying is at the
end of the day. I know me like I know,
I didn't want to smoke crack. I see what it
did to my dad in them. Yeah, no matter what
it is, I ain't I'm not finding I'm not findling
convinced me to smoke no crack. What it is, I
think it's the I think it's the Let's say, like,
some kids come up in the suburbs and it's the
suburbs and they really ain't got shipped wrong with their life, right,
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but they just keep getting exposed to street ship through whatever.
But in that street ship, that shit gotta be in you, bro. Yeah,
they shit gotta be in you. You see niggas trying
to play gangster, they want to play gangster. Yea. Yeah,
some nigga do this shit to be helped, but they
still intrigued by That's what I like, nigga might go
get a fucking basketball contract and they didn't go by
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fifty pounds of weed. Trying to understand, I can't explain
it to you because I'm a suburban kid. This since
the sense of it is, I wasn't intrigued by suburban
or the cross the tracks, however you want to say it, right,
I liked it what I liked it, regardless of what
I saw or what I knew. What a track did me.
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So it didn't have anything to do with because I'm suburban,
I should think like this or I should be like this.
I am who I am, don't matter where I was raised.
So with me, I like, I'm a suburban person too.
But it was like, okay, suburban, Okay, well, I mean
I didn't. I didn't grow up in whatever however you
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want to put it. Ya you say, y'all middle class
with yeah, we still have to just make sure you
don't leave out the web five. But now it was
like my mom was like my mom and dad were
like night and day. Saw. My mom was like a teacher,
she went to Clark, she went to Atlanta University, she
got a PhD, all her degrees, all this shit whatever whatever.
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And then my daddy was a nigga. He had a club,
you know what I'm saying. He had like all this
shit whatever whatever. He was in the street, blah blah
blah whatever whatever. But when my mom was busy, like
teaching school and doing all this shit, I was with
my daddy, Like you know what I'm saying. I used
to hang with my daddy. So that's how I know
like a majority of the people like from the street
that I know to this day, like from him and
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from like you know, his club, and you know what
I'm saying, all that shit, But when I saw when
I was I don't want to say when I was
introduced to that, but when I that's what you want it, Yeah,
because at the end of the day, you saw your
mama going to work if you want to be there,
and that's what you to be. You saw this street
shit did what it is. Yes, that's what I'm saying.
That's the same thing. That's what I'm saying. So if
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a nigga see a man and a woman together, and
you see a man and a man together, which one
would you ever wanted to treat you? That's what you want. Yeah,
because at the end of the day, they both on TV. Yeah,
both on TV. Okay, Batman and Robbing. But you if
you like that, that's what you like. So the people
that to me that make excuses like, oh they keep
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putting this on TV, they're forcing us. That's because you
think somebody in your household maybe because you know or
you may be that you know what you never think
about it like that. You know when you had them,
you know when they was five, you know, when they
was two, what they how they was was yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah yeah, that's fine what they choose. But at the
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end of the day, like what Black said, you see
a married woman and the marriedman on TV or you
know that's what they're playing, you also see this. Which
one you're gonna choose. You're gonna choose the one that
you identify with, regardless of what they show. It's gonna
be the one that you identify with. Yeah, that's just
like you know, like when the boy assassin all bad,
like stop but stop walking like that. You don them paired,
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don't won't do it. They need stopped showing it TV.
You're looking for her out, Yeah, because bad as little
June ain't looking at that. He don't. We can't see that. Yeah,
he didn't intrigued him, but already don't but looking at
the TV like huh, this is okay. Or she's looking
at the TV like this is okay. But Ray playing
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he doing whatever he's doing, it doesn't intrigue him. When
you're intrigued bad because that's your thought already, it's already
in you, I ain't ship with the gangster ship. The
young nigs already be wanna be that. You can be influenced,
but you already gotta be want to be that though,
bron it's time beenced until it's time to be influenced.
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Then you know, if you that and then you start
singing like a bird singing a song, what happened? What
this was that? But when it was all cute and
good that you got a whole game behind you, or
I run with this game. Then now you're in a situation,
right you ain't with that game. You didn't found the lord.
You go to school, you play ball, you do all
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of this. He was getting ready to go to the
art insta everything, and he got caught up with the
wrong crowd. You know, I got caught over the Crown
crowd because he chose that crowd because that's what he
thought he wanted into ship got sears. That just the
cop out to me, get that woman a podcast. Ye,
that's the cup out to me, you know what I'm saying,
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that's the cup out. Like niggas really be want to
be that until like she said, go left, then that's
your cup out. But you don't really want to be that,
you want the protection behind that, you don't really want
to be that. I just think that this is a
whole ass nigga shit because you're not that. You're not that.
That's all I'm saying. You're not that. You know you
ain't that. You're going the house every day knowing you
lame it for because like you that, because you know
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if then that Mary is gonna say whatever you gotta say.
This is an extension. This is an extension of your
This is an extension of your pride and your ego
being something you completely ain't. When you get you can beat,
you can beat. Ain't gonna be they try to take
over the old for sure. But you could be around
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all that shit and people will respect you just being
you big facts. That used to be my main thing,
Like I used to be trying to tell them niggas
like everybody ain't for everything. You know what I'm saying,
Just because this dude hang around, you don't mean you're
gonna put him in the car with the shooter us.
He's not that. He's a fucking engineer, like you got
to engineer Ryan with you. The old kill somebody and
(27:31):
they spent for him to be solid, right, that's not
what you do, bro. This is y'all gonna wrap or
y'all gonna kill, y'all gonna wrap. Reason why it's because
they make excuses for these niggas that it's okay that
we understand, we knew you one built for that. It's
all right. You run really a part of that. That's
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the issue. Y'all ain't letting make any nigga stand on
bidding it supposed to be there us to know that anyway. Yeah,
that's what I'm saying or whatever. The I feel like
the guys the whole another story because they don't turn
into a trend. Is it like when Jesuum came out
with a dope everybody with dope. They were even the bitches.
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Everybody want to be dope dude, just like now even
the bitches gangster. I don't get it fun everybody scrub
j scrat right now. Yes, but that yeah, I'm saying.
But what I'm saying is it's just what it is. Yeah,
I think that having a daughter and I'm gonna have
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to put my daughter in school, and of course I'm
gonna give her a cern morals to stand on, you know,
as she grows. But there's a lot of shit that
your kid gets exposed to when they leave, kind of
like your nest and then they go. But with the
with the public world, now, that's something you have to
do because they got with a premature mind. But you
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do understand that shelt trying to shelter them from the
inevitable worst thing. It's only gonna handicap her. I'm dealing
with that now in therapy because I know soon I'm
gonna have to We're gonna have to start dropping her
off before her mind is all or what you know
what I'm saying, and pray for the best. But it's
still an insiety of the mind because it's my first
go round. But the realer you are with her, the
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bet is easier. Her personal you're gonna be Yeah, you
have to be real with her. You have to let
her know like I like me, I told mine, I knew,
I know y'all cuss, but I don't want y'all cussing
it in front of grown folks or egg grown folks.
But I knew they cuss. I was letting mine know
I'm not a oblivious on what go on outside, you
know what I mean? So if you raising her in
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your household I know, which I know you are, then
she can see whatever she sees. She gonna have to
trust in what you're showing her. True, you feel like kids.
But what I was saying, what I'm trying to say
is at the end of the day, when you let
your kids know right from wrong, that's how you can
do You know I'm saying, because they got their own
choice at the end of the day, because it life.
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You know what it's like when you try to keep
them like Sunta Claus is this that's when you suck
them up at like when you when you lead them
into fairy tale world, that's the world they're gonna live in. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying, like out the real But
Sunta Claus ain't about y'all shit about this right right?
You know what I'm saying, Like, oh back, we're fucking
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that up. I was muscle like the fairy tale. Ain't
no too fair on the hood. Here go a dollar
for your teeth, nigga. You know what I'm saying, like real,
like you know not when your babies is different. When
you get up age to start making decision like you're
in school, and ship all that shit out. Yeah, let's
shit out because of the think about five or six me.
My wife was arguing about that. Yeah, it's like you
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gotta tell them what it is like at the end
of the day because I don't know. Bro. It's like
we taught all type of lessons like you want to
you want to do certain ship. Yeah, it might not
get it for criminal for real. This ain't a joke,
but damn you Finn feel this even feel hot. Feel
get your whole criminal away to your cousin them. Oh
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you're acting bad on criminal Monio. You don't open up
a tell you sneaking. Watch this nigga ride your mos
up street. Little went all day long. He's opened up
his guilt. I took that ship from him and gave
it the tyree, like you can have it that one.
You ain't buy him ship for Chris none at all.
Everybody else, my friends, Felicia, everybody, they brought him something,
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all of them. I ain't get him one thing because
he was just that you know what I'm saying. He
was that kid. Yeah, but out of all my kids,
he'd realist. You know, he knew, he knew in his
mind he wanted to go to school and wrought with
bby guns and ship because it's what he I couldn't
change that. I couldn't tell him. I didn't persuade him.
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I used to seeing him. He's listening to La Boy Lunny.
Pilling out of that ship is fake. Shit is fake
you you getting ripped up by this ship? Okay, go ahead,
Yeah you know what I'm saying. But no, that's what
you wanted to do. Yeah, I ain't nothing I can
tell you for you not to do that. So you
gotta experience whatever. You gotta take your attit you or I,
or go to jail, whatever that is. You gotta see
that that ain't what you want because I can't persuade
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you that this ain't what you want or you already
chose it. So that comes with most things that you know,
if you if a woman like puts it, she knows
she like puts it? Man like did he know he
liked it? More? For the most part is when they
are told not to and then they live in a lie.
That's the thing. So what if you don't what if
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what if what if you on't? What if you don't
like the company they keep like as they get older,
what if you like them, I ain't gonna say the
impression or whatever. You like the company kid? What if
you think like your kid is one way, but the
other kids might be some whole ass nick or no
even handle sassay a little boys in our house and
nothing that shit like nah that other ship too. What
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I'm saying like, what if you're like the company they
keep but they say that this is my friend, that
he's either sassy or that they he's a gangster. But
if but if he's sassy, he's whatever he is, you
already don chose your friend. So said, yeah, I mean that,
no sassy people, I have a I have a friend,
no sass fright, I have a friend that you know
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that whatever. And my kids knew when they were younger
that he was sassy, you know what I mean? But
I couldn't tell. I didn't know. Yeah whatever, But now
that he's older, it's he's sassy, which is fine. But
my kids knew at a young age that he was.
I could not tell, but they knew. They say, Mom,
we're not going over that with you, and exactly they
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made the point to be like, woon't e't want to
go over there? And then have a nigga started acting
like when he coming over here again? You that too,
and we gotta accept Joe. You know what I'm saying.
We gotta accept Joe ship. Yeah, but what if they
gangster manwa gangster son? Come on, yeah manwa gangster so
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and so. I can't as long as at the side
and he can't be the side. If he said said,
I don't care, but if he ain't saying it, then
then need to come over exactly once you choose your side,
That's what it is like. How the fuck impy? How
the fuck impinging um depride you of who you is?
You know what I'm saying, then I might as well
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tell you how to do it and what comes withness.
So let me ask you a question, though, ain't it
used to be trying to be I tried that like
little one. I remember when I'd never forget he got
out of juvenile. Let me say this, I never get
he guys, you and I trying to say we got
the impression that god damn go to college shit because
he had got a g D and JUVENI but I
used to see the nigga a day spot when I
pull up there, So I'm like, your mama finding got
(34:41):
any book? Eighteen hundred? You want to get these books?
What you're doing? You want to school? What you're doing
because I ain't even spend my money and you're gonna
be a real nigga. You're like, man, ain't been sense,
say less, I ain't even to pay for no books.
And then I'm gonna be mad at you. You let
me spend my money lying to me too, So now
you're going to deal with this ship with your mom.
So I ain't even get a chance? Was he? Then? Though,
(35:02):
what I'm saying that the age of twelve or thirteen, say,
you don't think that the motherfucker is the most confused
that they'll be in life at the age of twelve
or thirteen. No, no, you know what you know. But
what I'm saying, but you continually to try, You continually
to try. You don't give up, you just shit. You
continuously to try to make sure that this is not
a phase. When you see what you here, Yeah, you
(35:27):
know when it's a phase. Little one was not a
phase at all. I didn't know him, I'm gonna be honest.
I didn't know that he was doing the things that
he was doing because he was different. You know, he
was sweet at home, you know, little Yeah, And then
when I figured out who he was, I was like, okay, yeah.
Then when when he went June, I broke my hold,
(35:48):
like I was done because I'm like, wait a minute,
you come in, you come up with two two parent household,
get whatever you want? What is you? But he wanted
he was intrigued with that life, regardless of what we
gave him or whatever. He knew. I'm a gangst he
knew that until he decided that he didn't want that
(36:09):
for his life. It was up to him. And he
was thirteen. I called Blake all the time like you
nen't just how here, Like, man, this nigga's driving me crazy.
What else do you want me to say to him?
And I used to get mad at black like I
can't raising the bear man, But he was already becoming
his own man. Black Head did with all he could
(36:30):
do with him, But I couldn't see that. I just
you know, I see ship from both sides, Like I
remember when I was thirteen, like, man, I don't tell
me then, Like if you even tell me how to
do it, you know what I'm saying. So what I
do is I feel like, this is how I feel
and this might be the dumbest shit though. Once I
see you don't show your side, I'm gonna show you
what come with your side. You know what I'm saying.
(36:50):
I'm gonna show you, like the morals of this ship.
What you're talking about. Bro, you play with pedestrians, that's
what gets you off the streets forever you do shit.
The people that don't deserve this shit in this game
will get you out of this ship forever. You know
what I'm saying. I'm gona tell you the morals of
this ship. You know what I'm saying, Go get you
some money if that's what you're gonna do. Nigga gangsters
get money, dumb It's goddamn do the dumb shit, you
(37:11):
know what I'm saying. So, at the end of the day,
if that's what you won't be a hustler. I can't
tell you how to be no food because I ain't
never been there, you know what I'm saying. So at
the end of the day, if you feel like you
following me, you that ain't following me, what you're doing,
you get what I'm saying. So what I have to
do is just cut you cut you from me. Now
I look at you as a fuck nigga because the
shit you're doing ain't ain't what I do. So I
(37:33):
really need to god damn get another DNA test. Yeah
you know what I'm saying, but you must not be
of my cloth. I'm just being real, you know what
I'm saying. So I started hitting the nigga with that.
He started seeing like, yeah, this this is some little
bit lariush shit. Let me get on my ship. You
know what I'm saying, because you can't hear it from
your mama, right, But it was what to me what
(37:55):
it was he had to find himself. You feel like
you want to be a gangster, you feel like you
want to be at this, You feel like you want
to be that until you find yourself. And one thing
Lotte told me, he was like, I didn't lost too
many of friends, too many of this, too many of that.
I don't never want to see you go through that
pain or my grama. That's all this stuck with me
at this point. Now he could be outside to whatever.
(38:16):
I don't give a fuck what he doing. I trust
what he's said because how he lived. But he had
to choose that one then I can tell him. So
if you this way of that way, it's your choice.
It ain't never nobody telling you. People say, oh they're
putting that on them. They putting it. That's who them
people are because at the end of the day, man,
just like like back when we were growing up, the
(38:37):
freaks with the girl who's the good girls the bleach. Yeah,
like the ones who like they too ready to do it. Yeah,
girls who come from goddamn where we come from, with
bucking Yeah, like na, you gotta go with me. Yeah,
But them girls who got damn come school them nice
shoes and nice clothes on. Yeah, they up on the bleach.
(38:59):
You with one thing. I knew that because I was
came up suburban. You can't work me. We're the ones
that you're supposed to work. I always went against the grain, like,
ain't stuff. I've always been intrigued with niggas that get money. However,
I can't give a fuck what you did gets money. Yeah,
(39:19):
but I ain't one. Never, no golfer. I ain't gonna
get ship because I may be I am a suburban girl,
but I got some sense. My dad all day long
raised me right. So but I was never gonna be
a gopher period. I ain't running to no stove, can't
go pick you up, shit, can't do shit but say
hey and back, this's it. Ain't fucking the people ain't
doing all of that right, hey and back. I've always
(39:43):
been that, so I can't put that on all suburban women.
Some of my suburban w we was in the hood.
Some of them, the hood bitches was had it well
off too. I'm just saying like they was good girls.
You know what I'm saying. They might have been had
on the cheap clothes, but but the cheap nighte shit,
you know what I'm And the girls who dadd and
coming up they're picking them up from school, and you
(40:03):
know what I'm saying, we had the parents. Yeah, y'all
get what I'm saying. I ain't. I ain't. I ain't
putting it off phone. What you stayed. And I'm saying, like,
because we went to school in the hood. Yeah, the
mores like she had a mom and her dadd but
they're like tomorrow in my turn on her. You get
what I'm saying, because she with the ships because they
(40:24):
too too strict on her. Yeah, everything they tell the
free time, it's like everything they tell them not to do,
she trying to do it. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
But the ones you're telling them like, Okay, I'm gonna
take you to get on birth contropes early just in
case that's what you want to do, they up. They
the ones to be waiting a chilling like I'm going
to see what's up. You know what I'm saying. I'm
(40:44):
up to see what's up, like I uh, take care
of my body, you know what I'm saying. But the
ones you you into knowl about is the one that, Yeah,
you can't. You can't. You can't shout a graveyard in
that put. Okay, stop human being for living like that?
That is Ain't it like that? That ain't gonna work
because eventually when they bust out, they's gonna go crazy
(41:05):
and bust out. It's just like who you is is
who you is. It's like even in relationships or anything else, bro,
who you are is who you are. Yeah, like you can't.
You can. You can suppress certain shit for other people
feelings for so long. Yeah, but who you is is
who you is, no matter how it goes. You know
what I'm saying. You gotta let people be who they is.
Like you could love a person so much and see
them for what you want them to be, but who
(41:27):
they is is who they is. If you don't realize
that sooner than later, that's gonna be one of the
most painful lessons that life is going to teach. And
it's gonna be resentment there. You know what I'm saying, Like,
you ain't gonna do never resent that person? Man. Fact. Yeah,
stopping for somebody who from being what they want to
be and who they are? So what what the topic was?
(41:47):
We started with? Whole just built into just some real conversation. Yeah,
did you know what I'm saying? Find the words. Yeah,
you whatever you want to be in, like you donna
be a whole whatever you want to be in, Like
be who you walk, don't let know about it is
(42:09):
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