BIG FACTS FRIDAY- Equanimity

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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(00:23):
shouts to the homie baby j You know that family.
She riding around and getting it right. Now. What's up though, team?
What's up with everybody? How everybody doing? How everybody we're going?
What's the sensational? What's up? Look a real presidential over there. Bank.
I just came bay of gathering about to drink some
of these ship up okay, shouts to gather, spout the

(00:46):
home away from home. You know what I'm saying. Let's
get to this building. That's what everybody be wenting for
all week. What we're building on? What word were building on? Today?
Uh damn, I forgot Jane ain't here, So I gotta
do the word. It's equanimity. That's how you say it. Yeah,

(01:07):
you gotta read it, you all right? Equanimity, composure, steadiness
of the mind under stress, um used in a sentence,
the frazile mother maintained remarkable equanimity when her toddler had
an epic meltdown. That's speaking to me. It's basically composure,

(01:28):
right yeah, holding composure, not going crazy. Uh, equanimity is
keeping your I need to practice equanimity. We all should
practice that, but we all have times where it's not
always possible to uh practice equanimity, right right? What's one
thing that y'all know gonna make y'all lose y'all ships, like,

(01:49):
lose your composure. I feel like it differs from situation situation,
But like when I'm in traffic and people just like
moving hell of slow. Now the Devin man me lose
my composed speed up, specially in Atlanta because people Atlanta
got traffic for no reason. You'll think it's a traffic jam,

(02:09):
but it's just people just moving slow, you know what.
I started to get over that with all that traffic ship,
but I still to this day like I haven't mastered.
If a nigga just cut me off to go nowhere,
you know what, nigga just cut you off the stop
in front of you, like you ain't going nowhere. You
cut me off, old that made me lose because it's
like I can see if you was cutting me off

(02:30):
and getting off the age and going somewhere, would cut
me out just to be in front of me and
slow down. That's one of the things. You got a
race to change lanes in Atlanta. Yeah, when I guess
for me, when it comes to traffic, is there, um
you know how like you over on one side of
the lane and you got somebody that just fly they
like they go four lanes over like that right there?

(02:52):
Make me lose my ship? Yeah, because I'm like, you're
about to cause an accident. I think for me is
a liar. But if I know you lying in my face,
oh yeah, my composed when when the mothers just a
lot of men just I feel like you're just playing
me for stupid yea, yeah, insult to your intelligence and
they'll keep and they'll keep adding more lines onto the

(03:13):
lot of I can't control my equanimity then, But do
you call them out and be like, I know you lying,
or do you just keep it inside like this line?
I guess I I guess I didn't gain equanimity because
now just look at them for what it is and
just be like just write them off. I guess I
usually try to convince some motherfucker to know that they lying, Like,

(03:37):
tell me you lying more because I know you lying. Yeah,
I feel that like on up to that ship. I
used to be that type of person, but now it's
just like just a lie, you man, fuck you sometime.
Let me believe in the last them in their head
they're really not lie. That's that's that's that's true. That's
a big fact right there. Nah so much they like

(04:03):
people started believing they lie. Ye, not saying people like us,
but I'm saying I know people that have lied so
much that they'll they'll be telling a lite and I'll
be looking like, you don't eve been telling that a
lite about three or four years? You you you you
believe that lie? Yeah, people, I feel like the motherful

(04:24):
would be lying, Like fuck no, they lying. But I
just ain't got no sense of accountability whatsoever. It's like
I ain't. I just can't. I can't. They're just like
if I was in front of a judge, I'm gonna
I'm gonna believe that lie, whatever lie I'm telling, I'm

(04:45):
gonna believe wholeheartedly. Maybe that's maybe that's maybe that's the
trade of being a good lie. You have to kind
of you gotta believe on bullshit. But when the motherfucker
got you did to write though, like why a lot
to the mother who can't inconcierrate you and who can't
kill you by a lie. All you're gonna do is
be like you. But I'm saying I think that's what

(05:09):
it's personality traits. Some people just have them. Personality traits
were like, some people are just liars. What do you think?
What do you think? What you think people do that
ship though? I think it's learned behavior. Then they learned
in their household. What nah, I think they learned in
their household. I don't gonna lie like particular person liar

(05:32):
they parents was a liar, just my personal life situation.
Their parents were lives. So you think it's just passed
on like learning hereditary hereditary learned. Oh you know what.
I can see that because your mama would teach you,
like when we go up in this store and we're
gonna take this and we're gonna lie about it. And
then if they're getting over on the daddy, like keep

(05:54):
this secret. And so now they just think it's normal
or or they over here, they MoMA and Daddy lying
on the phone and they know they're lying, so they
think that's how it's supposed to be, like mama lying,
But I guess a mama lying like an lie to
mm hmmm. I'm not A lot of that ship be
passed down though, like gossiping. Just a lots of different

(06:15):
ship be passed down from my parent that we like,
you have to really unlearned a lot of ship because
you could be raised by motherfucker's who was who don't
even know that they're raising you funked up, yeah, because
they they sometimes they raised you based on survival and ship.
We can survive today and deal with the rest of
the bullshit later. Sometimes they raised you out not even

(06:39):
knowing that they you know what I'm saying, Because you
gotta thing, bro, all the bullshit that we ever did
coming up, we thought that that was the right way
to do ship, you know what I'm saying, Like, we
didn't know nothing else. We didn't know that this ain't
what you're supposed to do. This was what you're supposed
to do. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, And
then some people just lie for image, Like some people

(07:00):
just lie and put the facade on for image because
for one day, don't want people to look at them
in a different type of way, or like they don't
want them to judge them for certain reasons, so they'll
lie to fit in. Like if everybody on this phone like, oh,
I got a new chain, blah bla blah blah blah blah,
and I feel a way about me not being able
to afford the chain, and I'm a liar, I'm gonna say, oh, yeah,

(07:21):
I got a new chain that's on the way, know
when I'm lying. Yeah, that's sounds like Instagram. That's on Instagram.
A whole bunch of people on Instagram line to each
other about ship that don't nobody got right? But is
it okay? So we we we've been through this before,

(07:41):
Like if if if you are if if you feel
like and you said this before, but if you feel
like somebody can't handle the truth, do you a line
be getting the truth or see just mute yourself? Like
what do you do if you somebody can't handle the truth.

(08:02):
Like we're not talking about the petty lies that we're
talking about, but we're talking about like telling somebody about
their self type ship, but they can't handle it like
that type of ship, Like do you tell them the
truth and say fucking and just stand on being truthful?
Do you lie to them to protect their feelings? And
depends on isn't and how you care for him, if
you care for him, if you do, if you really

(08:24):
really care for him. I feel like it depends on
what it is too though. Yeah you know what I'm saying.
If you if you look at if you ask me
about some ship, like I said, some food, if you
cut me some food, and it's just I'm gonna saying
it good. You're good for that. They're really like lying though,

(08:50):
because that she could be Nasty's fuck, ain't attacked, but
ain't tacked, like just be it's good. That's lying? What
about it? Somebody got some clothes on and they're like,
damn in my fresh? Do we lie and be like
yeah when we know they're not. I'm telling them to
tell you, but you don't got that ship on. Chad

(09:11):
comes into play. I'm telling you because we've we've been
down this road before. You bet to be very you
bet to tread lightly about a female in their hairstyle,
So you better tread lightly now, It depends on who
she is though. If she already got her hair and securities,
you lie to her. But if she just a regular
real you know what I'm saying, you can tell her

(09:32):
honest truth because some of us we want to know
the honest truth. But wouldn't lying about how you somebody
looked kind of make that situation worse. What what I'm
saying is if you win and it's not I'm saying like,
if she got on some bullshit and I tell her

(09:54):
she don't got on some bullshit and she think that
she looked good, so she go out and thinking that
she looked good, the world gonna tell her the truth. Listen,
if you, if you, if you're gonna get a suit
and all that ship, so that if you decide to
go just jump fresh right and you and you and
you and you're messing with a chick and that chick,
tell you from top to bottom that ain't it. You
don't got the suit, Tell her you don't did everything

(10:15):
all that. You ain't gonna tell me, you ain't gonna
feel away. Hey man, she prevented me from the disaster.
Because if I go out looking like some bullshit is
gonna look worse, just her opinion pain because somebody might
like this, somebody might think you got it on everybody.
That's true, that is definitely true. Yeah. So that's that's

(10:37):
why I feel like, just tell the truth because at
the end of the day, with somebody, with somebody, you
know what I'm saying, put themselves together. If they feel
good or they feel like they got it on, they
feel good about the ship that they're wearing or their peerers,
that's all that really matter. It depends if you didn't
want somebody with no separate them though. You know they
can't take this, take criticism. You know what I'm saying,

(10:58):
it's way you tell me be like it'side, but I
think you should where it is type ship. Yeah, you
know what I'm saying. You can't just telling this some bullshit.
Then you might shut the whole night like, well, I
ain't going, I ain't on, you know what I'm saying.
Or every time I do something, you always feel this
way about it or not, and those ship so best
it's best for you to be like, well, I like

(11:21):
when you at this type of shift. I like when
you have like this, I like when that you know
what I'm saying, I ain't saying I don't like that,
but I like this better better? Yeah, having having some
chat about it, But what about it? If it's somebody
that like that's trying to nest with you, and she like,
oh I look good, right, but you're really not attracted

(11:41):
to her, do you at that point say yeah, you
look good? Or do you be like no, huh? I'm saying, like,
what if it's somebody that's like a girl like, oh,
I know I look good to you, right, but you
know you're not attracted to her, do you be like no,
you ugly? Or do you be like what's that? Then?
I'm just not interested. Maybe you're prutiful, but not for me.

(12:05):
You're beautiful, but not hung up on beauty. I'm hug
up on if you can stimulate me, queen. You gotta
stimulate my brain, you know what I'm saying. You gotta
make me feel. You have to feel you outside of
being able to just see right right right, it's bunchy bits.

(12:30):
You look amazing. They don't they're not amazing. If you
get what I'm saying, you feel the scream. Yeah, no,
you gotta have a full package. You ain't even gotta
be pretty if you got damn made me feel a
certain type of well, what you look like? I like you?

(12:50):
Mm hmm. It's the vibe. Yeah, your funk, what you
look like? If you if I like you, I like you,
So go ahead, yake, No, I'm I disagree because I
feel like that ship. I gotta I gotta be physically
attracted to you before we before I can like you.
That's a part of me, like me being physically attracted

(13:11):
attracted to women. You missed, you mistaken that because again,
physically attracted to women. That's just what it is. Like.
I'll take a pig with a weed if she made
me feel like I want to feel. If you, if you,
if you were stuck on that island what that woman
called that, and she was a good woman, then you'll
start to understand what really matters. But I'm not stuck

(13:31):
on the island. I got o go. I feel you
gotta get what I'm saying, though, bro, like you could
be looking That's that's how women be missing the blessing
because they still dan't like in high school looking for
the for the guy that looked like this, and your
blessing could be in the whole. Who do do faith? Said,

(13:54):
you know what I said. It could be your whole blessing.
It could be who God sent to you in disguise, tall,
dark and handsome, dunning or whatever the funk they be.
Won you're looking for that, but God just sent you
an angel and you can't even see it because you're blind.
Real ship, I'm gonna hear, yacht. What you gotta say, baby,

(14:18):
what you what? What you what you gotta save? Baby?
What you gotta say a little ugly, a little funny.
Look at what you gotta say? What you and whatever
she gotta say, whatever she got to say, Gonna feel
a lot better when it's a fine face saying and

(14:39):
now she said some bullshit and this is ugly face saying.
Now you you know code, I don't be bullying you
by with you. But yeah, how you tell you don't
get no pussy, bro, because you still hung up on
high bitch. Look, yeah we were what we're talking about.
We're talking about for relationship. We're just talking about like
what he took about for a relationship, right for relationship

(15:02):
even even even even also just kicking this ship, like
you still dating relationship just you know, like you know
what I'm saying. But they got so much going on. Man,
you can fix a bit up if you don't want
to be fixed up. Bank she ain't got no chuck
that You're gonna have to do something. Now you go ahead.

(15:22):
You you had to do something, you feel Yeah, I
feel that some folks would be like, this is this
is how I am. You should appreciate me how I am.
Some women, Yes, we can hear you, then we can
see you. Okay, what's that, y'all? What's up? Ship? Talking

(15:48):
about equanimity? Equanimity I don't forget what I mean though,
to remain calm in the face of pressure. Oh, yeah,
that's that's the word. But now we just talking about basically, Kodak.
Kodak is vain. I care about Kodak is vain. So

(16:09):
he don't care like if a woman is a piece
of ship. He just cared about how she looked. And
Banker saying that the new wave is um, you know,
seeing somebody for who they really are. To make you feel,
they have to make you feel a certain way. They
have to make you feel a certain way. They can't
just be fine. They actually gotta have substance. But Kodak disagrees.

(16:29):
Koda thinks that don't matter about the substance as long
as she looked a lot of people don't care about
that ship in real life. That's what we're debating a
little bit man, You get one knee, pretty dumb bitches, man,
she can't do nothing for you. Facts. Yeah, but a
lot of people, a lot of niggers don't care about

(16:50):
that because niks ain't really doing that. You Nika just
want the bitches and for a nut. That's a different way.
I thought you were talking about shot as was what
the question is you ask? I said, I said, Um,
what happens if a girl that you're trying to date
or a girl trying to date you or something she
doesn't look good? Like? Do you tell her she don't

(17:11):
look good and be like nah, like she's like, I'm
into you type of thing? Do you tell her like,
you know, you don't look good? But if you're, if you're,
if you're not attracted to people that look like her,
why are you working with her in the first place?
Were you really in my question and you wasn't really
working with her yet? It's like a girl going up
till you trying to mess with you, but you don't

(17:34):
find her attractive. Do you tell her like you know,
I don't find you attractive? Or do you Hell no,
you don't, don't, I don't. I feel like that's extremely insensitive.
I just feel like you just kind of like herber
Like what Banks said. I'm gonna see what she got
going on, because I don't know how my blessing come.

(17:55):
My blessing could be coming in an ugly bitch for him.
I don't know. Hello a queen, bro. You know I
mean the ugly bitches. I know that look good now
lot the ugland beach with ugly fun they look great.
I know some ugly bitches. That's still ugly too, but
something some of them pretty ones fell off to a nose.

(18:21):
You can fix a bit however you want. They got
something for everything you think. If she got a big note,
we can fix that. A mouth fucked up, we can
get a teeth done. She ain't got no as. We
can take some out of stomach and put it on
the as. This ship different, bro, But I think the
bigger I think the bigger picture to the ship is

(18:42):
is okay. Once you fix the bitch up how you
wanted to look, you still gotta deal with what's on
the inside. I'm saying, if I a you see what
I'm saying, what banker saying, If if I like what's
on the inside, I can fix it. The however, I
wanted to look it on the inside, staring out inside

(19:05):
just like a fine bitch. I can't fix our inside. Yeah,
that's why actually got the fixing. Like before you got
she's there, ugly bitch, try to ho let you do
you just curve? I said, no, i'mping to see if
I can vibe with her. I don't know, she might
be my vibe. And then if she just ugly, we

(19:26):
can fix that. Yeah. And all this long ass hell
they got that you can put in a bit of
head and all these makeups and ship they put whole
faces on. Bitch of the day. But then again, beauty
is in the eye of the beholder, though, because who's
to say she's actually ugly. I'm just saying, if she is,
we still can fix that. Was her spirit is clean?

(19:47):
How many how many niggas is actually I heard building visions?
How many? That's a difference she got sticking the bro
that's a deference talking about physically and bodies. These faces
and got that gives them screws rate is ten bands.

(20:10):
What nigger got that throw not putting that. We're not
talking about the average. We're talking about credit cover and
the goal rates ten bands the upgrade. I'm just saying,
you can't even get good teeth. You can get if
this bit ugly, that means she ready to work. So

(20:33):
we're gonna work this bitch till we get hustle. Got there,
That's what I'm That's what I'm saying. It really in
the real world mostly glad man, man, I would have
got me a Messican woman. What I'm saying when you
see the Mesican women was it being real real ship?

(20:56):
When you see the Mexican women, hoo, we having paint
on them and ship? The black girl gonna standing which
you paint the house? The Misican womans and ship, they'd
be paint tod ship and everything. Non people just came
to fix two Basically, people just came to fixul ship

(21:19):
at my house and on everything. He was a man
and his wife. I ain't gonna lie being from l A.
Mexicans are like, yes, Mexicans are very hot like women man,
because they're getting in the mud with them. Dudes. Man,
The black girl uh, what better ground that level. No,

(21:49):
I'll just say you can't tell nobody what makes them
feel good. See how you all be like, how did
that nigga get her? How did she get him? It's
a feeling that you get from that person, right, mm hmm, yeah,
Like he left that girlfriend, he left that girl for

(22:10):
this uglass girl. She don't make him feel like that. Yeah,
speaking fast, speaking big facts like, I don't know what
else to say, Like, it's like, how could you like,
I don't know no what you say it is fact
does It comes down to the feeling. It don't matter how.

(22:32):
It don't matter how amazing the person looked or you
perceived them to look. Like that ship, that ship wear
out anyway. I'm gonna grow all together. That's gonna wear
out anyway. So we're in that rot even when that
ship gonna grow out. So you ain't just been a
build on anything. You've been already be built what y'all got,

(22:56):
and then you're gonna invest in your woman already got
you and know what you are. You're talking about the
physical build of chick. You'll tell about the physical point.
We're gonna already be unbuilt emotionally and spiritually Yea, even
if you go buy her Jay saying that, even if
you go buy her ask and buy all that other ship,

(23:17):
it's still gonna fade away. Yep, you're saying, after you
you af you invest in the bitchess, she thinks she's fine,
she got there different Na, No, No, what I'm knowing though,
what I'm saying is, Okay, you're saying that that that, Okay,
this bitch got good inside, and you're gonna build a
bitch up to make her worth looking at that night

(23:40):
every night. But even if you build a bitch up
to make her look like something that you feel like
looking at every night after a certain amount of years,
that ship is still gonna alter. Also, like what's already
like you, I'm just doing that for yourself, this statement
already like you. You don't have to get this for me.

(24:01):
You just said the bench was ugly. I still like
you already. I don't just like she's just not that attractive,
y'all not getting what I'm saying. I guess you're missing
the point on what I'm saying. I'm saying, I'm gonna
build up for perception for her, but but she may
make me feel away that I don't. I don't see

(24:22):
her how you see how people see her. Beauty is
in the eye of the beholder. Yes, that's what I
could see her with my heart. That's different, ship. I
could see her with my heart. So she's beautiful to
me no matter how she looks. But if she got
low set his team, I may help her with her
I already feel the way I feel about you. We're

(24:47):
not big. It's like it's like building and the beast, right, Yes,
he's like building the beast. Okay, everybody, what what the
fund you doing with this beasts? The beauty is like, man,

(25:07):
this beast is beautiful to me. This is my beast.
This is my beast. That's all I'm saying. I'm saying,
like the end of the day, she's your beast. Yeah,
at the end of the day, she could be the
worst ship in the world to you, but be the
best ship in the world to me. But if I
see that she feels like, well, I can't, I can't,

(25:30):
like I don't feel right being around you because you
you who you is? Who who? Then I'm gonna help
her build a confidence up whatever whatever it is that
she wants, not because I already like you for what
you is. If you want what you think you need, Baby,
I'm straight with you, how you is what you think
you need? All about that one? Are you gonna tell me?

(25:53):
I'm saying if you if you already made me feel hot?
If you're looking at her, are you looking at one
particular trait? If you're not looking at it, light that screen,
because you already do not fulfill me? If you fulfill me, Bro,
I guess, I guess how does she already get there?
If you're not even attracted to her? How did she
get there to fulfill you? If you're not to women? Nah,

(26:17):
but that's it. Let's let's let's let's let's let's create
a hypothetical situation. Babe. All right, so you meet in
theory you a woman. We don't say, I'm gonna say
who is you may wand up from women color, that's

(26:39):
a nigger. It ain't wonder Jamie. So let's let's just
say the woman has a couple of attributes. We won't
A couple of attributes you don't care, A couple of
wonder is attributes? What maybe she cross eyed? Maybe she is?

(27:00):
But Bro, at the end of the day, Bro, they
say a dark shades man and all types of ship.
What you gotta look her in the eye, sit across
from her the dinner table. We can talk to the dark.
You can't tell me about me. I know we can

(27:22):
talk into the dark. So you gotta talk to the dark.
That means you really ain't all the way embracing it
because you think about it. That could we probably never
see out And the second she make you mad, you
can be like, damn, look at this cross side of
as bitch. We just not seeing out of eye. She

(27:48):
cross side, We go down to see out of the eye.
So that ain't gonna work. Yeah, what about a mid?
I'm saying though, bro, what about mid? Some of them think?
Think about this? Right? If you had a best friend
as a woman right coming up, you know that this

(28:09):
is a good woman, right, but she ain't all that hot,
and you and y'all fall in love with each other,
how did that work? You know this woman, you know
her inside out. You got a chance to really meet her,
You got a chance to know she's a good person,
right m hm? So why are you? Why are you blind?

(28:29):
Aby how she looks? But if it's your best friend
coming up, like you, you've already gotten past how she looks.
That's what I'm saying, didn't I just say that early
in the conversation, I said, if I meet a woman
and I like and and she makes me feel how
I want to feel, no matter what we could have.
We could have met on some business, we could have
met on anything. I don't know what how we met,

(28:51):
but if it turned into a physical or whatever type
of relationship, like you're the one, I don't give a
funk how you look, how the funk I put a
against that because of who are worried about how y'all feel?
A big fact Friday gonna feel about how she looks,
because you know what you know, what you're saying is right, Bank.
But what I'm saying is, and I'm gonna pull out

(29:12):
a little bit of my inner code that when it
comes time to jump in that bare room or jumping
that shower with that woman, but you cant you still
got to be attracted to the woman. But it's proven
that most ugly people have fat asses. I'm gonna keep
when motherfucker's stimulates, I get something different. I'm a gemini.

(29:34):
Motherfucker be on the same level with me. Mental. I'm
already harned for you. That's just how I am. Bro.
If you if you got me right here, you got
me all the way I can go for that. I
just you, I can go for that. I'm just being real.

(29:55):
If you got me right here, do well. Every time
we we got it's never a dull moment. We cool.
We who you got me? Fucked up when you when
you was young, when you was young young, you know
you know you didn't never say some ship like, man,
I don't know about a woman with no feet christy
his feet or no, god damn christy feet are too

(30:17):
totally Yeah, krusty feet could be fixed and big feet.
Krusty feet are a hygiene issue. Big feet is speaking
speaking hypothetically. I already had stake since I was sixteen
years old, right right, right, That's what we're saying. What
I'm saying is, at the end of the day, if
I feel like if I was to meet a woman

(30:37):
and if I didn't have her, and that she made
me feel exactly how I want to feel as a man,
like she covers all angles, don't given what she looked like. Okay,
so that that goes for to talk not to talk
really tall, really short, really big, really small, really really
really really white, really Asian, really black, really whatever, whatever,

(31:00):
just whatever. I ain't gonna say race. But if I
meet a black woman, what if women like black women?
You know what I'm saying. I grew up in the
household my grandmama and my sisters. I like black women.
They just so if I meet a black woman, no

(31:21):
matter how she looked, because I feel like all women
are pretty. That's just how I feel women and women,
and especially I don't like I said, but I don't
see some don't turn into some ship, So you can't
tell me like, bro, have it the bitches y'all looking
at on Instagram? They ugly, Oh take all that ship

(31:43):
off and ship there's some bullshit. Bro, we just see
that bullshit. That that fix up costume. You're right about
the costume and that fix up make all these bits
you look like something. But that when they fix up,
do they look set? Like he was saying, oh, y'all
saying when you say nobody was just saying, who if
y'all saying could be a this just ain't met the

(32:04):
fixer upper yet. They ain't. They ain't met Bob the builder,
the mother who would send her to the right. Uh,
the right stylist, the right hairstylist, the right facial people,
the right nail people, the right he ain't sent them
to the right people. Yet you're asking for it. It's

(32:25):
a lot of fixing up. And when I can just
go get a new car. I don't need car. The
ain't a new car. Bit jumping out the bed for
you do to fix the face of ship's saying he said,
he said, he said, He's saying he rather just in theory,
hold out for the natural bad chick. That's all that
the same, Yes, And now you want a natural bad

(32:47):
piff you want to take that's already been fixed up.
Now that different, You get a natural Now natural is different.
Oh your Twitter you said you don't care if it's
a bbl or if it's not the thing about it, No, bro,
when we're not talking about ask think about procession. These days,
we don't got to confuse what a real pretty woman
was supposed to look like. Just real. That's true. We

(33:09):
don't got this ship confused. Yeah, that's true. That yeah, yeah,
I agree with that. Like now there's something else that's
been made up. All the fake ship look better than
the real ship. Yeah, you have a badass, pretty ass lad.
They're just pretty. Alicia was shot. She don't look the

(33:32):
same as they made up bitches. Mm hmm. I think
it's coming back around, though it is for sure, No,
for sure, it's right, it's knocking on the dog. I
think it's coming back around. We're I'm saying it don't
take much for a woman, but especially out of black woman.
I don't even she look you got them putting them

(33:53):
little gotting the eyebris and eyelashes and now that ship
on the motherfucker she gonna look at your knee. Really, bro,
don't take that much. But what's the word again? Equanimity? Equanimity? Equanimity?
Think we just got off track. We always building equanimity

(34:14):
and what what is it? So? M what is it?
The ability to keep your composure? Yeah, keep your composure
and stressful situations? How does so how does y'all get
to plastic surgery? Off of that building? We've got to
talk about liars and liars makeing and liars kind of

(34:35):
got to that do you lie to a woman or
do you tell her the truth? That was kind of
like my question that ran into that. So what are
some other ways? So we know that A big way
to we all agree that we lose that equanimity is
like blatant liars. But what's some other things. That's probably
the biggest thing. When people take advantage of you m hm,

(35:00):
or or or when people insult your intelligence, that's the
same thing in lying to me in my face and something.
It's the same family. Yeah, what about disrespect. I can't
agree with that they take advantage of me because I
ain't don't even let nobody take advantage of me. I
ain't even never be the victim. H what about? What

(35:21):
was it? What was just saying, try to take advantage
now try that's the same thing. You try to take
advantam me, you lot of me. I get what you're saying.
But she said, when people take advantage of you, now
try it as a difference. I just did want because
at the end of the day, I'm gonna get your
head back. Yeah, but sometimes people, sometimes people get taken
advantage of and they don't even know that they're being
taken advantage of exactly like exactly an end ahead. I

(35:45):
was gonna say, like some people really go into that
and make you think that they're being pure and genuine.
But in reality, they have alternative odors, alterior motives, and
then at the same talking what you said about like
the whole get back or whatever, like that's cool and everything,
and it's a process to be able to learn that

(36:07):
the get back really takes too much energy and really
like funs up your universe in like a certain way
or whatever. But the get back is is is, for
lack of a better way to put it, like going backwards.
I guess that's a woman ship because at the end

(36:28):
of the day, if a man so was saying that
he's been taking advantage of you a bit, I disagree me.
I feel like if you let somebody take advantage you,
you know, when somebody taking advantage of you, I don't
because because when because when you when you're when like

(36:49):
you said, when you're one of those pure hearted people
and you have a good heart and your intentions are
in the right place. People that don't have good intentions
oftentimes are able to pick up on that and are
able to adjust their motives to fit something that will

(37:10):
make you think that you're actually helping them, when at
the end of the day, they're actually like using you.
It happens to the best of us. Yeah, I get it.
It happened to the best of It happened to the
best of people pleasers. When you sit in to me,
when you sit and think about energy, you know when
somebody is taking advantage of you with somebody ain't right?

(37:32):
You know it, you can feel it. I'll talk you
just you just want to be slapped in the face
with it. You don't want to believe what it is.
You know, if you, if you, if you putting this
ship on the scale, like we said, don't be a
fat fried Like, what do they do this for me?
Or do they do this for me? Or do they know?
So I know I'm being taken tooking advantage of off
the real but sometimes but sometimes to take advantage happens

(37:55):
before you even get a chance to put it on
the scale. When ya gotta hear me, I'm saying, least
help me understand when you might even over one time,
but you're not gonna taking advantage of me more than
one time. To me, Oh okay, Well that we got
a totally different opinion. I mean totally they keep on
they using you. Now you get over on me, Yeah

(38:16):
you got down, but what if the sunds now? But
I think what go back after nig got out on
you and let keep nothing to get out, then that's
to me, that's taking advantage. Am I tripping a little bit?
I think what they're talking about is, like, let's say wholeheartedly,
like if somebody came around and they act like they
were pure, they act like they were genuine with you,

(38:38):
they act like they're genuinely trying to help you and
all of that, but in reality, they're just trying to
get closer to screen to get the mixtape. So you
don't really know that you're thinking that this is my boy,
we're hanging out advantage of me? How did you take
advantage of me? That's wo man. I guess just lying
to you and then like using you, using your relationship.

(39:00):
It maybe asking you for I don't know. Some people
let me let me ask you this black real quick.
So do you believe in second chances? Not really? I
just all relationship people suck on me. I just to him,
I ain't gonna let you take advantage of me. I
still folks me. I ain't. I don't funk, which I
can funk with you. We can get money together, we

(39:20):
could do being together, but I don't funk. Which ain't
no second chance. But if you but okay, so let
me ask you this. If you like, if you don't
funk with somebody, how could you funk with him? I'm
saying I could do. I told you all this ship
twenty five episodes ago, twenty five episodes ago. I can
get money with the motherfucking worst ning in the world.
I could do being with the worst ning in the world.

(39:41):
But you don't have this. Oh, you mean strictly on
like some business. Other than that, you're not other than that,
I don't funk with you. Do you tell them you
don't sunk with them? You know I don't funk with
you if you try to take advantage of me. So
you think I'm I'm just sleep Yeah, some people do

(40:04):
be Some people don't know this. When people taking advance
of food, that's not naive. You know how you don't know?
You know, you know, you don't never sucked over you. You
You knew they were sucking over you when they were
doing Nah, I disagree they got away with it. They
did it more than one time. You knew they were

(40:24):
sucking over you. I don't agree with that. You know
how to queen you use a forgiving person I'm not,
so I can't see from your eyes. I can see
from mine. If you funck o me one time, you'll
funk with me again. So I can't look at you
the same. This is you can't. I can't retrust you
how because you say you saw it's trying to That's

(40:47):
like trying to put air back into a balloon. Man,
it's not gonna work. You said you're sorry, So I
bought to retrust you all over again like I pought
to love you with the same heart. No, I'm gonna
just this motherfucker because you don't already show me your
character traits how so you don't believe in like um
no stories and know you you are sorry every time

(41:09):
I told ther, motherfucker, I was sorry. Even my wife
I told him I was sorry because she was hurt.
I wasn't sorry for me. I was sorry because I
got caught. Let's be real, you ain't lying. M hm.
I was sorry. I want to did it s ship.
I would never do to her because I just know
that's that's that's that's when I feel like, how that

(41:33):
crossed you? Mm hmm. If I did something my own happiness,
how the funk I'm gonna be sorry for it. I'm
sorry for how it affected you. I'm sorry that you
found out real ship. Yeah m hmam being one hundred.

(41:53):
That's how I feel. I can't tell screen code at
Jay or shot how to feel how I feel. I
think we've all had that moment where we're like, damn,
we fucked up. Yeah, that's what. Listen. You can feel
bad about something because you feel bad because of how
the person feel that you care about. That's the only
reason you're the case. You want to did it? You've

(42:16):
never done something, and then why are you doing it?
You're like, Damn, I shouldn't be doing this. I did,
and I'm happy I'm doing this to get caught you
happy I'm doing it. I don't know about that I feel. Man. Man,
I'm just saying, you ain't never You ain't never did

(42:38):
some ship and on that ride home you feel bad
about it? What? Or are you didn't like? You didn't like? What? What?
I don't do something else? I'm more own on steal
from old ladies and ship. That's ship I feel bad about.
I'm just saying hypothetics speaking. I'm not a I'm not
a cheater, but I don't have partners that I feel bro,

(43:01):
if I cheated, Bro, that's what I wanted to do.
How to Funk'm gonna feel bad about nothing? I'm crying.
Did you feel bad at any point? No? If she
felt But I'm sorry that you. I just said that
I'm sorry because you found out. But what about like

(43:24):
if like, okay, I got one, you just had what
if you just had like a bad day at home
and then you come to you come to work and
somebody step on your shoe and you cut their ass out,
you go crazy on them, but you're really just taking
out your frustrations for at home. When you apologize, then
are you sincerely sorry or you just like fucking I'm

(43:47):
still mad? Like how does that work? You gotta be
sincerely sorry because it wasn't It wasn't for them exactly.
That's what I mean. I guess I'm trying to get
thank you if if I step on the niggatoel Edward
and I cut didn't want to cut him? Huh at
the house. You're already mad about things that's going on

(44:08):
at home. You come to work. I've been looking forward.
They're gonna get into it with him. I want to
get into it with him be that way. I don't
like him. If I come to work right now, I
came to work, should take you to piece me off
to the thirties thousand degree. I don't take that out
on y'all. Listen, listen to two sides of this. This

(44:29):
is what I'm trying. I don't see no bout of
that I want to get into it with. So sometimes
sometimes actions that sometimes the actions that you're gonna apologize for,
you don't necessarily know the like the results of that actions.
So let's say you got a household, right, you got
a household, you got your kids, everything is good. You cheat,

(44:49):
you don't give a fuck, right, you get caught. Now
you give a funk because you got caught, like you say,
but that funk up your whole household. So a year
or two down the line, now you now you now
got resentment because you can't be with your woman and
your kids at the same time, or that type of
like you got to be sorry about that? Who you're
not sorry to? Your kids? Know what my kids? I

(45:11):
ain't to. What's it my kids? Now I'm saying you
broke up the family that the kid. The kid want
to see. We come from different we come from different ship. Bro,
just say that, we just come from different ship. But
at the end of the day, if I if I,
if I cheat and she say, I have to league
my kids. Hey, we need to figure out a way
to co parent. This is what it is. My kids

(45:31):
grown anyway, So I made all of this is hypothetical. No,
all of this hypothetical. Great debate. But if your kids
walk up to you and say, Daddy, I'm saying that
you did that ship, I told him straight up, You're

(45:53):
gonna understand when you get old and get your older
get this man ship happens. I'm living in real. This
is my real. No. No, no, I don't know. I
don't know what else to say. Oh else to say it,
but no, no, you got you gotta speak to your truth.
I just think I was if I said I'm sorry,

(46:15):
I was sorry that I hurt you. I want sorry
for what I've done. So that means you would do
it again? Yes, yes, yes, I hope that. Hey, just
what it is, bro, I'm never a motherfucker who does anything.
They're not sorry for what they done, truly, they're sorry

(46:36):
that they hurt you. Man, if you go, if you
if you at that job. Why the funk what you doing?
If I think about it, let me say the screen
one thing about it. Most of these women, most of
these niggas who feel like they don't want to risk
what they got, they're not gonna do it that they

(46:58):
know that we're in their world, so ain't even thinking
about this. Look at the little kids. So why would
I do? How are you gonna make a mistake and
suck a dick? Bitch? That's what you wanted to do?
How are you sorry? Now? You hate motherfucking sorry? Funk
out of here? Man, he tricked me, stop you So

(47:23):
you're gonna take a sorry? I mean she gotta take
you're sorry? You don't gotta sorry? What do you mean?
It's more it's more common for a whole sorry. No,
I'm just saying it's more common for a woman to
take a man sorry when he cheats on her than
it is for a man to take her sorry if
she was take the same ship that women accept. I agree.

(47:49):
I just said that y'all women, So y'all aren't gonna
understand why I'm coming from. He said, it's way back.
Why would you accept the same way that he would
expect me to accept? Him cheating. He don't you just
do it? He never told you to do that crazy
ship because there's there's uh, there's a fucking an egregious

(48:12):
double standard in the world. Fucking that a fucking female.
It's supposed to They don't suppose to. Nobody said that.
Y'all said that you have a choice. So are we
gonna be like? Are we gonna be? Are we gonna be? Like?
What's what's what the fund is this show called Man?
Because choice? Man? Come tell you, I'm sorry, Millia times

(48:38):
you didn't have a choice to do? What the fun
you want to do? Listen to what I'm saying. Did
You're missing the whole point in what I'm saying. In
the world, and in the fucking westernized United States or
fucking North America or whatever the fun you call it
living in a woman is expected to no matter what
the man does, sitting home with her legs, take care

(49:01):
of the kids and fucking cleaning a weak bitch. I
know some bits who feel like, ain't going for that?
Fuck you, I know, plent on what ain't going for?
Not on that? Oh you're not, That's not what I'm saying.
That's not A woman is not call that. You don't
know what the funk I'm saying, Well, you don't know
what you say, Go ahead and shame saying. What I'm

(49:21):
saying is in a in a typical in a typical
setting where you call that, I'm playing in a typical
setting where a man and a woman is together. The
woman is expected to submit to the man, take care
of the click, take care of the kids, clean the house,
cook stick beside him, whatever, whatever, while fucking Papa can't

(49:44):
go be a rolling stone, have no problem, no consequences,
no nothing that's wanted. Three name a bit. During that
ship you just had the one outside man. No. But
what I'm saying that they ain't thinking about no igga
to what no nigga, tomboy. That's what I'm saying to you.

(50:06):
That's what I'm saying to you. A bitch ain't thinking
about what the nigga is talking about. But the nigga
can't accept the fact that a bitch ain't thinking about
what you're talking about. They can't. Nigga, No gonna fly, bitch,
get your wings and fly on Birdie flying. That's not
Berdie's flying. That is not mad that I'm gonna give
you your wings and at the same time, at the
same time, the stocking rate in the fucking United States

(50:28):
of America is through the roof. No, no, baby, you're
speaking for I don't know. I don't know. What I'm
saying is at the end of the day, if if
I was in if I was in a relationship with
a woman and she is upset with anything I do,
if I snore and she had a choice to wake
up and say I'm done, I'm crying, no matter how

(50:51):
sad I look, how many lies I say that I'm sorry, bitch,
you can say enough, that's enough. The buck stops here.
Straight up, what bankers saying, that's cool. Everybody know. Everybody know.
What I'm saying is that's cold. Let me say this
for him. I'm not trying to cut you out, but
what I'm saying is that's cold for black and black
is one of It's a lot of nigga whatever whatever,

(51:15):
But it's most niggas say, okay, yeah, a bitch can
kick rocks whatever whatever. But then when they wake up
the next morning and they realized that they don't have
this bitch that was doing everything for him, that was
making him feel how he wanted to feel and he
just fucking made a rash decision to tell this bitch
to go because he was in his feelings about his wrongdoing.
Then okay, here comes the fucking, the fucking aggravated, stalking,

(51:39):
fucking whatever whatever like that. Go for the bitches who're
taking kire of niggas. Man. When you when you, when
you n you know how to cook your own meals,
you know how to watch your own clothes, you know
how to do everything you need to do. You don't
need a bit for them, But some pussones. Okay, I
don't say you nigga, who you? Who you got? Damn No,
I'm not sure that's not what I'm talking about. A

(52:05):
nigga can know how to do everything for himself. But
at the same time, if if, if, if this woman
is making him feel like something that he's not able
to feel like by himself, huh, why do Yeah, most
men don't have a good reason of why they cheat.

(52:26):
They be ego what most men just cheat just because
it's kept. Then why they cheat? Why they're looking for
something else that they ain't got? Okay, No, because a
lot of times they go cheat with somebody that's like
not even on the standard of who they stop par

(52:48):
Do you think that's your standard? That's what you think
you think that's your standard. A nigga could be a
whole dirt bomb than looking for another dirt bag. Bitch
crying was keeping it real. You can't say you can
some be missing. I don't know what it is. He
don't probably know what it is, but something be missing

(53:10):
my computer, This ship better go there, somebody nigga on man.
Most of them just do it just because and then
like some niggas would be some niggas would be really
in that relationship and cool with that relationship, but scream.
They hang around number homeboys that don't got ship going
and homeboys that cheat, so they'll be trying to fit

(53:30):
in with them. If you sit here talking about all
the bitches you fucking, they want to be a part
of that conversation with all the bitches they fucking, So
they start cheating for no reason. That's why jay Z cheat.
Don't be on safe because he can. Yeah, okay, we're
gonna make all excuses in the realm. She she probably

(53:51):
was on tour too much, he was missing something. If
he was missing something, I ain't leave her and exactly niggas,
won't they cake and eat it too. I can't eat.
I ain't gonna take that from a nigga. People. Won't
they caking either, because I might go get something I
can get from this bitch and I can't get from you,

(54:12):
but I can't get get from her, but I can
get from you. That's the truth. They eat it too, niggas.
That's the truth, both sides. But I need this right quick.

(54:33):
What we were just talking about. Man does do wrong.
You could just choose, because you have the freedom of
choice to say fun him and do away with him.
A lot of women don't do that. You get some
mold bits to them add up to this one bitch.
But then when this one bitch who's the cake that

(54:53):
you want to eat too, goes and get a cookie,
then you want to flip out and lose your mind.
I already know what you is. I don't a little
my mind or some ship. It ain't. This ain't man,
don't What are you talking about? What you're not talking
about the same thing? We can't be queen. I don't know.
At the end of the day, if she stepped out,

(55:15):
then the the woman step out and the man lose
their mind, but it was the other way. The woman's
supposed to accept it. That's what you're said, but nobody said.
I don't feel like some niggas gets what bro I'm
gonna keep it always one hundring. I don't see niggas
who girl cheat on them and they try to accept it.
What you're gonna do, You're gonna run yourself crazy because
all you're gonna do is think about what she could

(55:35):
have been doing. So the best thing to do is
just leave alone like I. Like I said, my bis
can have a whole another husband somewhere else. I wouldn't know,
because at the end of the day, she respect me.
That's good enough for me. But once I find out,
ain't gonna bay to live with it. That's the difference.

(55:59):
Niggas can't live up with that ship. That's all I'm saying.
I gone and and he's said, and he and I
gotta be smart about it. There's everybody, but everybody not
built like that. What he's saying is correct. There are
some niggas that would probably most donna beat them. They

(56:23):
gona be killing their seven, killing them, girl. Can they
try to stay with them because they're so weak that
they can't walk away. They try to stay with them
because the don't want the negga to have them. Then
when they do all that, they knowing they can't be
with her. Bro, you know you can't be the woman
that's a cheese on you? How How because are you
thinking about you? But you're gonna drink every time it's
bitch lead, You're gonna think about, Oh, she's gonna go
get that nigga. Anytime you do anything, you're gonna think

(56:43):
about that. Niggas just like women do. Probably, But the
end of the day, niggas can't deal with that and
be a man. How are you gonna deal with that
and still try to got them go out and get
you some money to go out of hell and your business.
It's impossible for me. So I'd rather you just try

(57:04):
to be the sneakiest bitch you can be on earth.
I take that disrespect. You caught it consequences. That's just
how I feel about it, because everybody niggas are always thinking. Bro.
One thing about it. Bro the bitches to sneak his
thing in the world. Well, nigga, bitch, you boted me,

(57:24):
He'll be sucking dick man. What bitchapoted to do bitching up. Man,
you're a dick sucker, bit. Shut the funk up straight up.
I'd have seen them crown nigga's dick. He cheating on me,
But funk out of here, b is, bro. One thing

(57:45):
about the hood. Fuck up when you grow up in
the hood. Fuck up right now. My name is another
nigga lash name. That ain't my daddy. I don't put
my kids in another nigga name. I was boring into
this ship. A nigga can't tell my sister kids is
one of her babies is then another nigga name. Man,

(58:13):
I'm not going for it, bro, so respect me at
all costs, and I'm gonna respect you at all costs.
That's all I can say, because you ain't gonna convince
me like and I respect Chante to the max. We
get together all the time. We had some beautiful kids. Hey, man,
when you buy a call, you get up. You get
tight up when you buy how you get these? I

(58:33):
need you, I need I need um. I need paternity
test for my kids. There's something wrong with that. I've
never found a man in her phone. I've never seen
her out with a guy. I've never seen nothing but
for my sanity and the way I see the world.

(58:55):
Do that for me, and I feel like that should
be mandatory of any man. But you don't do you
Do you understand how that could come off as disrespectful
to the woman. If it's disrespect for that, mean you've
been somewheret sucking dick. A real woman gonna be like,
I don't give a funk what it is. Nigga, Come on, nigga,

(59:17):
what's ending like she did? Let's go, Nigga, Na to me.
He's gonna do it all that crime. I can't even
leave it. She don't know, bro, she's scared. Bro, she
she's scared. If anything you own, don't you get receipts,

(59:42):
you're gonna start up to get Let's say anything of yours.
Don't you got receipts and titles and deeds to it?
Am I tripping up? Whatever I could be? They're gonna
roast me to coming. I don't give a y'all get
better go checking kids, you know, like you and dad
on your auntie side, not on. Oh yeah, I can't

(01:00:07):
hear you shot hear me? Okay. I feel like that's
because you're only judging her off the way that you
think when people do, like I said, the way I
see the world, queen, But that's because you be on bullshit.
So you already assume that anybody around and I'd be
on bullshit. It's how I was domesticated. It's the way

(01:00:29):
I see the world. What's the what's the word for
that ship? Did you call that? No? No, no no no.
When you when you project, yeah, that's projecting. That's projecting
because because of because of your sit could have been wrong.
But I could have been right, so I could have
been right. So I've been right. So right right, I'd

(01:00:52):
rather be Man, I'm gonna call up there man, no
more drinks, Man, go in that road. Let me never man,
y'all think it's crazy, Bro, you can't understand. It's gonna
be some niggers. I know y'all need coming like baby saying, Bro,

(01:01:13):
they're gonna lose their bit with you. Don't don't do
what I do? Yeah, bit get it. I see why
you would want one. You ain't never whoever babies look
seemed like day to one. Well, I'm from whoever baby
see like he whoever baby see like he got a

(01:01:35):
fruture head? Really at the suburbs of the West Side.
Nobody never been shipped talking that real freak Nick Atlanta
talk right now. But you can't tell me how you

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look at ship. Yeah, it'd be the same girls who
look at who know they got a nigger like, he
ain't gonna after over, he ain't gonna after that. She's
been gulking. I don't know who baby it is. I'm
telling you from about the real iff, I have a baby. Baby,

(01:02:20):
we're gonna hit We're gonna hit them. Now. They're saying
you could do it in the stomach. Yeah, you can't ship,
But what woman would get upset about that? Though? I
think for me, I wouldn't. I wouldn't deny the test
because of course, if that's how you feel, you want
to do it, cool, But I still feel away. I

(01:02:40):
don't feel like if we got to get a fraternity
that though, Yeah, I would literally not like that. I'm
not saying that like that, but I'm just saying that
the relationship would never be the same. I looked like
I guess, I just I guess. I guess it's a

(01:03:01):
different because we were kids when we got together whatever,
and she grew up with me, so she see how
I was this mess. That's why she didn't take you
in no way she didn't. But but what but what
do you think is this with the girl that's outside? Sir?
Get you a blood test? That's different, but on a

(01:03:23):
on a way more dumbed down level. Right, it's way
more dumbed down level. Is she say, hand me your phone,
it's in there. Whatever you want to see, it's in there.
You show you on it, but get the past. Like

(01:03:44):
when I asked for the blood testing. Right now my
phone is wide open, look like the like the doors
of the church. Right now, my phone is wide open
like the doors. I'm thinking as a teenager coming up
trying to be in love and be in a relationships
in all this, So ship, what does astify you? Old man?
What does she ask for the phone? Then she asked

(01:04:05):
for the phone? Didn't she know it's in't? Ugh? Uh?
What are you talking about? Bro? So your first so
your first reply is not gonna be you don't trust me?
This is gonna be here on the phone. How can
you trust me? Bro? What were different? Bro? We need
I guess I don't know. Bro, we need to be
I need to be on another podcast. I guess this

(01:04:26):
is big committed cast. I guess I'm talking about. I
come up in era where I had to grow out
of being that person. Dogm. I'm just being one hundred.
So I'm speaking from these same folks who listen to
this ship, listen to listen to me, who follow me

(01:04:46):
and ship be them type of people that's coming up
through that same ship, big faithful m hmm. Need to
get your paternity tiest nick them them type of niggas
do He's ain't them type of niggas who when they
got a good girl. The niggas who going on a
whim Hey we're gonna get together. Membership revoked? Am I tripping? Bro? No? No, no, listen.

(01:05:21):
You know the beautiful the beautiful thing about our conversations
and Big Fast Friday and everything is that it's the
different perspectives of See, I get it. I ain't necessarily
a neggative thing like that, but I know nigga's that
thing just like that. Is that better thing like that
because you're not probably dealing with a woman like that, Bro,
I don't talking about niggas that dealing with then with

(01:05:42):
Ja little Jojo, Little Jojo got a baby about too, Bro,
and such and yes, you know she'd be at Cruicial
and she knows she'd be back then kitchen with the them,
and not like that about her brother project. But hey, no,
that ain't even gotta be proud of that ship. That

(01:06:03):
could be corporate shipped too. So you you you're saying
something maybe that should be it's twenty years old, like
when I had my baby. Bro, my first child was
seventeen years old. Bro, how the funk I ain't even
trust me? How the funk I'm gonna trust it? Won't
trust somebody else? Right, A right, That's all I'm saying.

(01:06:26):
Like y'all, like this sounds like a foreign language. I
guess caun we older, but I'm still we gotta speak
from where we come from too. Now for sure, a
baby raising a baby. That's why I'm different with my grandkids. Now.
You know what I'm saying, I'm not gonna tell these
things to Raleigh unto the era when she gets here.

(01:06:48):
You know what I'm saying, I'm not gonna tell them
to my to my granddaughters. That's why I'm getting it
all out now. Yeah, but Shot Jones, let's talk about you,
Shot Jones. So if a dude, if you're go in
a relationship with a dude, he's supposed to trust you,

(01:07:09):
yes or no? Yes, okay, Jake, If you go to
relationship with a dude, he's supposed to trust you yes, okay,
y'all to two out of a billion, because I think
honestly for me, because I haven't been in many relationships.

(01:07:31):
So if I decided to really be in a relationship,
I'm just saying in a regular relationship, not really be
a relationship a regular would because you are said you
would cheat though, Like that's what I'm saying. You already
have said you will cheat, Okay, so let's take shot
out of the equation so you won't cheat on no nigglen.
That's cal Oh okay, it's it's finding me how, it's

(01:08:01):
fighting me how man hey w W no flinning me
how because because because here's here's here's my theory, like
on the whole ship, right, I don't tie myself down
the niggas. So if if if I'm sucking with you

(01:08:21):
to the point where I decided to make it to
the point where a nigga can point me out and
be like, oh that's a bit or whatever, I'm like,
why would I do anything to jeopardize that if I've
already made a decision that I'm gonna fucking take your seat. Yeah,

(01:08:43):
they they didn't. Then being together two different things. Okay,
I just I quit. Bro Like, it's I love y'all
girls and I'm feeling good is changed from rid to

(01:09:05):
um white is a Kabernet Stop, ain't ya No, it's
a shot a sweet reasoning. Oh yeah, that's sweet reasoning
and sweet muscott are the two best kind. Mm hmm
you drink the whole bottle. Yeah, I got another one

(01:09:25):
over there too. I'm feeling great, but you know, to
each his own, man, and I hope everybody who listening
got okay, yeah my bad. We're not near done. Okay,
but you know, at the end of the day, Bro,
like I said, Man, nothing that I did I could say,

(01:09:47):
I'm truly sorry for nothing. We're not get big damn.
I feel like I feel you, but I feel like
maybe maybe sorry the word, but I apologize. Remorse bad,

(01:10:10):
maybe remorse fo. You're going to be remorse get turned
back in the hands of times you probably would not
have you right about that. Listen, scream You're gonna be
remorsefullly if you see somebody it's affecting someone that you love.
To me, you're not sorry, You just you just you
just don't like that you hurt someone you love. So

(01:10:32):
you really ain't sorry, bro, that that mother were like,
I don't give a funk about that. You wouldn't give
a funk either, So why do why do people say so? What?
What in the term my bad bro? What does that mean? Like?
What if somebody would say you might you might say that.
You might say to Day or Jade or whoever, like

(01:10:53):
my bad that ain't I'm sorry? Though? What is that
part bad parton me? That's basically like you know what
I'm saying, part my bad part of me. I'm to
my like, I'm sorry. You know what I'm sorry? Is
niggas do that that I'm sorry? Y'all? Are the R

(01:11:15):
the R and B singing sorry ship? Yeah I'm sorry?
Huh the ones that I'm sorry, y'all? Never do this again?
Trying to Day, You ain't bro, really be hurt? Being
hurt and being sorry two different things? To me? What's
what's the difference? I feel like you hurt because you

(01:11:37):
don't hurt somebody that you love. Sorry, Now you me
explain the screen please being sorry is I would never
do that again. If the time came for you to
do something like that again and you won't get caught,
you will That ain't sorry, bro. So So if a
nigger standing in front and judge about to get his

(01:11:58):
time for say it whatever, and he looked over to
the family of a person to say I'm sorry I
did that to that person, you don't think that they sorry.
You think that it's only because it hurts that family.
You don't think that they have no remorse and they're
not sorry at all. Bro the sells to make your

(01:12:20):
aunts hair remorse. No, I got a good one. Somebody
you saw you everything into courts. Sorry, So someone can
be sorry because what if you accidentally run somebody over
You were just driving one pay attention. You actually run
somebody over, kill him, So now you're different, that's different.
I'm sorry. I might do something intentionally wrong, but bank

(01:12:46):
man intentionally wrong, But bank ain't sorry that I took
that money. Man, I'm sorry I got caught. I'm not
sure what if you run out then make me shoot
his aunt and they ain't want to do it. Yeah,
I might be sorry for because I didn't want to
do that. Yeah, like what if you do something in
the heat of the moment, In the heat of the moment, yeah,
I can't for the money, I guess you'll not understand

(01:13:06):
what I'm saying. I'm saying if I get a bit
nomber off Instagram, call her, go funk her chante, find
out how the funk? Am I sorry? That's okay, you're
not because you did it, you really mean to you
meant to go and do it. If you lost chante

(01:13:28):
or if the person lost their woman forever and the
woman would never come back, would you have remorse and say,
if I could do it all over again, I wouldn't
do that because I didn't want to lose this person.
That's why. That's not being sorry, or that's just being like, damn,
I fucked up. That's like accepting. That's that's accountability separate

(01:13:51):
and remorse from being It's just like a nigga if
a nigga, if a nigga get caught for a cramp
and goddamn you just whatever the folk however it go,
that what it is you accepting, what come with it?
You're not sorry, that's what come with I did what
I did? That would nigga turned the rats. I'm sorry,
niggas turned the rats. I'm sorry, y'all. What y'all want

(01:14:13):
to know? Because you're not accepting? Bro? What come with
this ship? When you step your grass in that water? Yeah?
I better know how to swim. That's just what it is. Man.
How are you gonna be sorry? You really ain't. You

(01:14:35):
just don't want what come with this ship? What you did? Dog?
Don't here wid Now you have some very valid points,
but there are people who have remorse for some of

(01:14:56):
the ship that they did, and I think deep down
they're sorry them nigga sorry because they got caught and
they're bitching up. Man. Yes, you know what the reason
that's the reason. Okay, let me let me let me
ask you this. Name a nigga who undid something and

(01:15:18):
being sorry enough to go down and say, I know
y'all ain't gonna suspect no nothing, but I'm sorry I did.
Now you snap that they go home and tell it,
bit they've got so sorry I did this? Right, that's
a sorry nigga who's sorry. They may do it if

(01:15:39):
they're about to get caught. Don't count down. Niggas do
that when they when they're conscious is eating them up.
They could do it. That ship they are the way
to get caught like this. That's what I'm telly, I
get caught that what they could do that they is
going to tell it before the bitch tell you because
it's ready to hear from. You are trying to beat
the to the pups. Now that's a big fact. You

(01:16:01):
better beat her to the punt telling nothing you've done.
I'm sorry. Niggas who do that that? Niggas? Sorry? Yeah,
I just can't live with myself. I need to tell
you something. Yeah, and then ain't many of them out
there nowhere? Oh an, That's what I'm saying. Nobody's just
like take that ship to the grave. So have you shot?

(01:16:26):
Have you ever did anything that you want to go
tell a person you did it? No, I'm since you
got away with Now you'd be cheating though, So I
don't know. You have a lie to a person and

(01:16:46):
you know they ate that lie and you want to
go back and tell them. But I really a lie
like years later, like ten twelve years later, I never
did it, right, That's what I'm saying, Like it was
more like no. But I'm just saying, what the fund

(01:17:08):
is this show, Kyle Man, I'm just saying, like ten
twelve years later, I'll be going to say something just
because it's I don't even sorry. So everything I'm saying
is a foreign language. I'm just being real. I'm just
being I'm being one hundred am, I am I tripping.
You're not. You have very valid points, YEA from your perspective,

(01:17:30):
for sure, you have very valid points, for sure. But
it's a motherfucker's out there sorry because of what ye
A lot of niggle just sorry, a lot of niggas
just sorry, thought them nigga sorry and was sorry when
it was out Yeah, m hmm are you talking about No, No,

(01:17:54):
there's a valid point. You're saying that if you were
really sorry after you did, you wouldn't do it, Bro,
You wouldn't do it, wouldn't even mist you. We flawed.
So but you're just saying you would fess up to
it before you got caught. If you're that she said,
you're saying, so you can make a mistake and hurt
your wife feelings. You can't do that, bro. You did

(01:18:15):
that ship, you made a mistaken got caught. That's what
a slip come in that man, right, right, I got
you slip. Don't come in and what you're doing. If
it's in you, as in you, yeah, you made a
mistaken got caught, bro. Yeah, if it's in you, as
in you so hypothetically thinking, thinking and speaking and speaking.

(01:18:41):
If your significant other came home boo boo in tears
like throwing up you know how people crying, throwing up
in their things. Sorry, it was a mistake. I was drunk. No, sorry,
And then it's gonna be like that mean where the
where a lady was sitting on the toiler and the
nigga was kneeling down in front of her, and then

(01:19:03):
he was like, yeah, I sucked her and then she
jumped up and kicked him in the chest and knocked
him over. But jay, am I tripping? No, you're not.
You're gonna look at this like, Bro, you're not sorry? Bro,
you just yeah, I don't think you accidentally steal from somebody.
I don't think you accidentally. Still I'm saying you can't accidentally.
I feel you on that, but you can't. Actually if

(01:19:26):
you stole it, just stole it no better. How bad
you needed this? Bro? You're a thief. You ain't sorry? Yeah,
because the bigger, the need, the less remorse. You just
thought you were gonna get away with this ship. That
bro that was saying, like she when she asked earlier,
are you forgiving the reason why? I'm not? Because what

(01:19:48):
if you forget? What if you got away with the
ship that I found out you did right? M hmm,
what if that ship y'all need to try to pull
on bank would have worked? I don't want to you.
I'm sorry for ever. Mm hmm, ain't no sorry, fuck you?

(01:20:09):
Who ever looked like you You ain't sorry. You're gonna
funk with me? Yeah, No, that's a that's a great
that's a great way to put it. Where were Yeah?
Like come on, man, so we're gonna got them be
like you know where it man? Bro? Really got there? Bro?
Really side? That's the I'm sorry episode. I'm sorry. I'm

(01:20:35):
sorry your house tyl up, everybody. I think. I'm sorry.
I had to it was an accidents. Who taking side?
Know what came over a year? Who'll take it? Sorry

(01:20:57):
to enjoy you crazy? So this is my last This
is my last question. So has anybody ever told bait
they were sorry? And how did you even do it?
Iould be like, oh, what would you. Well, the fun
with you ain't gotta say it, just let it be
what it is. Yeah, that's what kind of nigga I am,

(01:21:20):
because on the fake ship gonna make me matter right, Yeah,
make me look at you like you look at me
in my face. Now you're gonna, like she just said,
now you're gonna take advantage of me. I'm not a
nigger you can take advantage of I'm never gonna play
the victim. So when you when you when you go
to doing the fake ship, now I gotta go to

(01:21:40):
and get what Well, we didn't even try this. Now
I now I'm playing the victim. So even my fun
with you ain't whoa to leave it at that. You
don't do that whatever it is, they don't do it.
We got explained with it. Then we gotta I m hm,
can you tell me you're sorry? I know you're lying,
because what if I didn't know you didn't call me

(01:22:04):
and be like, bro, let me tell you what I
did to you didn't do that, So you're not sorry
until you get caught. Yes, man, A question that's sorry
for you got caught. I'm crying name one h m hmmm.

(01:22:31):
Goust probably like damn, I probes did that, but he's sorry, Yeah,
I probably should have did it right then. But do
you take regret? Regret doesn't equal remorse. Yeah, regret equal remorse.
But I think what he's saying is none of that

(01:22:52):
all the way equation to just be sorry. Sorry? Yeah,
But I have a question. Do you take up? Do
you take like an apology the same as like I'm sorry?
Is that like the same thing? See you thank what
you mean? Like somebody said I apologize? Yeah? Is that

(01:23:12):
like is that more acceptable than somebody saying I'm sorry?
I guess is what y'all call it circumstantial situation? What
y'all call it, it's situational Like if you say something
to me and you're having a bad day out the way,
disrespectful something, then I could take that I apologize for that.
You do something to me that could put me in
harm's way or something that you know what I'm saying
that hurts me to my core. You can't tell you

(01:23:35):
sorry about that before to hold me on a different regard.
I feel that, Okay, it's just what it is. M hm.
Treat me, love me like you can lose me, Treat
me like I would like you treat your damn self.
Mm hmmm mm hmm. Yeah, I don't know. Hold that.

(01:23:57):
Hold that one took a million SoRs he texting her
right now. I know you want sorry? Huh? I actually don't.
You're saying she was sorry when that girl that got
did you kick you out her bad? When I saying that,
you just made that up? No, on the like twenty

(01:24:17):
five thousand Big Bets Fridays ago, you said the lady
kicks you out your bad, out her bad and you
saw her at the event. Hold on, hold on, hold on.
I guess what since y'all, since I got excited and
starts saying my points, I want to hear everybody else points. Now, okay,
please can we do that? Huh? Say about just people

(01:24:44):
people saying I'm sorry and and forgiveness and all that stuff,
because you're supposed to give. Jesus said you're supposed to
forget called Jesus. You think telling him he was they
was sorry. That's something the same judas. I'm sorry, bro. Now,

(01:25:10):
I just asked to the crop for the Big cave
and told me the folk for to do this ship.
Oh God, pass bad, Joe. We're gonna start with you queen,
what we're talking about? All right? So forgiveness and uh
accept an apology? How do you feel about that? Um?

(01:25:31):
I forgive, but I don't forget because I know for me,
I deal with like anxiety and all the type of
other ships. So if I keep thinking about it so much,
it is like turned me to another state. So I
have to forgive you, but I'm never gonna forget. I'll
handle you with like a long pole. Um um, I
kind of when they come out I'm sorry. It just

(01:25:52):
depends on what it is. Like if you can't say
like you said, you can't say you're sorry for cheating
on me because I'm like, ain't know even to you, right,
But like if you say like I'm sorry I forgot
or I'm sorry. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. Like
certain things I think I can forgive when it comes
to I'm sorry, but when it comes to forgiveness, I

(01:26:14):
I forgive, but I don't forget. What's what's really Okay, Okay,
we're gonna start right then, what's really forgiving a person?
If you, if you, if you, if you, if you,
if you forgive a person to me? We had this
conversation is gonna begive if you forgive a person, you
really love them with the same heart, when the people
in the church forgive you, if you truly forgive them. Yes,

(01:26:35):
So so what you mean to say, I accept your apology, Yes,
but you don't forgive the If you forgive a person,
you love them with the same heart that you love
them before, in the same trust. Okay, well, maybe y'all
correcting me, because when if it comes to that, I
don't love you with the same heart, so you just yes,

(01:26:56):
different levels of love like I can still um don't
forgive him, then I forgive them. I forgive you to
the point where I can deal with you. I could
deal with to the point where if I if I
run across you, I'm not gonna let you funk up
my day just because that's what I said. I still
detest you and all that ship then, and I don't

(01:27:17):
want my day and you mess up my energy and
all that ship, then I haven't forgiven you at all.
It's not forgive because I'm the type of person like
once you do a certain thing, like if I see you,
I don't want to see you. You my energy, I
feel it. It's like that's despise in the person. You
cannot despise a person and not for You cannot despise

(01:27:38):
a person and not forgive them too. You get what
I'm saying, Like, that's that's like you you're saying. I
just I don't despise you for what you did. Yeah,
when you forgive a person, it's like clean slate. I
don't believe in clean slates. I don't believe you un forgivable. Yeah,

(01:27:59):
I don't. I don't think there's a such thing as
a clean slate because no matter what your subcon people
people not people who have a heart, that there's people
who do have a heart. I'm gonna I'm gonna be
banked for me, for me, I don't forgive. I mean,
I don't believe in, like completely like clean slates, because

(01:28:21):
if you sucked me over once or you did something,
I could like still be around you or whatever. But
I'm gonna handle you a different type of way. You know.
Definition of forgiveness to stop feeling angry or resentful towards
someone for an offense, flaw, or mistake. So at the
end of the day, I get you said forgiveness screen yes,
to stop feeling angry or resentful towards someone for an offense, flaw, mistake.

(01:28:46):
So I'm saying I can't say you don't feel You
can't say you don't resent them if you don't loving
them with the same heart. Right, you're right because you
have a fully forgiven No, not even the forgiving is
what you just said. No, but your definitions say that
you can forgive somebody and you can love and then

(01:29:07):
fully love. Right. No, you could love somebody from a distance.
So you sline you can't. You can't kind of love somebody.
You can't kind of I believe you could you be
in love. You can't count a love somebody. You could
love somebody from a distance. No, you can't. Let me

(01:29:27):
Can I give you a? Hold on? Hold on? Hold on?
Can I let me get you? So when I say
love somebody from a distance, meaning that like I love
you enough to not want any harm brought against you,
I wish you well, but I don't want you in
my type. Uh, that's the type of forgiven this I'm
used to kind of execute. Let's see. That's why I

(01:29:50):
always say, like it's better to have loyalty as opposed
to having because when somebody loves you they love you
true enough, and you know, blah blah blah whatever whatever.
But love is an emotion, and that emotion can change
at any given point and allow them to do something

(01:30:12):
to harm you. But if somebody is loyal to you,
that loyalty to you will prevent them from ever wanting
to do anything to hurt They might even want to
do something to hurt you, but that loyalty will prevent
them from acting on that emotion. Like you know what
I'm saying, Like the end of the day. At the

(01:30:32):
end of the day, just because of man's or a
woman cheat, don't mean they don't love their partner. That
don't mean that. That don't mean if you if you
if you shot, if you go cheat on your dude
right now, I don't mean you don't love him, right,
I mean you wanted something else because you could be
really hurt that she's hurt, he's hurt, But you're not
sorry because that's what you want to do to please yourself.

(01:30:57):
But if you love, But if you love somebody, aren't
you gonna avoid doing things that you know are gonna
hurt them? If you loyal to them, love done, love
done prevents you from doing that. Because again, love is
an emotion because you love you too, right, So you
want to make yourself feel how you want to feel, right,
and sometimes making yourself feel the way you want to

(01:31:19):
feel comes at the expense of somebody else's feelings. Hold on,
hold on what what? What? What? What? What? What? You said?
What about your scream? I basically jumped into it like
it's just a Suddain the way I'm used to forgiving.
Like I don't know about the same pure heart from
day one, clean slate. I don't know if I have

(01:31:41):
reached that level, but I can get to a point
where yeah, that that that that that's what that means.
You just know, hold on, hold on malice in your
heart for that person, but you forgave him. I just
don't hold no malatine towards you. But it's still fuck you. Yeah,
certain agreed. So how I forgive you? If his fuck you?

(01:32:03):
You haven't people for that of you that give you.
But that's the that's the that's kind of the goal
of the aim. I've gotten a lot better than I
used to be, so maybe I'll get to that point
of the latest man. I'm sweet, ladies and ship and
they forgive you they pray for you, they come, they

(01:32:23):
come visit you when you did something they keep to
their son or something that ship with a real heart,
Like yeah, but ain't nobody on this call forgive the
right ship to you? How are you gonna forget how? Yeah? No, no,
no no. That's very admirable though, But depending on take sories.

(01:32:51):
But in certain situations, depending on what like what occurred,
forgiveness is foolish. Thank you. That's all I've been saying
the whole fucking podcast, Like, how are you gonna tell
me you sorry by some ship that I that you
know can make me feel how I feel or can
hurt me. Yeah, I'd be foolish to feel like you're

(01:33:14):
sorry for that. I just think what what you what
you're saying? Like I said, you have a lot of
great points, but this is like science and ship. Right.
If what you're saying is a hundred, I think it's true.
Then that means there we have to erase mistake from vocabulary.

(01:33:35):
With some people, there are no mistakes, No there, there's there.
There are mistakes. Like she said, if I'm rinning down
the street, got damn looking at my iPhone, I hit
somebody there that that's a mistake, accident, accident of mistake,
that's an accident. Some about mistakes. That's mistakes, human mistakes
of action. Now, I can mistakenly leave my phone in
your car, that was a mistake. Hain't mistakenly calls you harm.

(01:34:01):
So basically you're saying that an accident is some ship
that you don't even see coming. Yes, and a mistake.
It's some ship that you didn't mean to happen. Yeah,
but you kid, I might I might call, I might
take mistakenly go fuck. You know what I'm saying. I
might call, I might call, I might call, I might call,

(01:34:23):
I might call. Y'all be like, bro, I don't let me.
I don't made a mistake if I called my partner.
But like, bro, I don't made a mistake to doing
what let me whatever. I don't stepped out of my
woman or some ship I made. You ain't know a stake,
There ain't no mistake, and that you want some pleasant

(01:34:43):
so you don't think alcohol can cause a mistake. Comfort
from us to be like, hey, yeah, bro, are you're
a good dude? You you ain't about it? What are
you some bullshit? Like everybody a doct up pedestal. Take
scream off the pedestal. Laugh up there, and they told me,

(01:35:06):
ain't no mistakes talking about listen, anything that you have
to premeditate is not a mistake. That's what I'm saying.
So in theory, we're getting rid of a mistake. Now
call what is a mistake? So can't you mistakenly got there?

(01:35:28):
So you're just walking down the street, got there? Yo,
zipper flew open it a bit. Anything that you're playing
is not a mistake. But see, like, okay, just like

(01:35:48):
when you talk about fucking, right, when you talk about
like okay, when you talk about fucking, most fuckings are
like actually when actually when alcohol is involved, you got drunk,

(01:36:09):
So you mean to telling me you finished drinking. One
on one, that's a plan. We're one on one getting drunk.
You know what the mission was, what time it is? Sexually, Sexually,
I don't think there's no mistakes. Thank you, my brother
for sexually. I'm just playing devil kids. But there are
mistakes in life. You can make mistakes. The way to hear,

(01:36:31):
you're gonna be stakly mistakes even being in that situation.
So y'all, y'all land when the pop mistakenly got that
with dead ass, wrong man, wrong wrong for them three pumps.
That's the waste of a cheese. Yeah, like what the

(01:36:52):
wrong Charles been fixing that sing uh cabinet for that
plus the whole season to think of that same cabinet,
and it's the light even changing that same light bulb.
Whatever you would do this no mistakes and again that

(01:37:13):
was having And you can't be tricked, don't You can
be tricked. Women can because they're moving off emotional niggas
don't know. I'm gonna tell you one thing about women.
I'm gonna keep one hundred. Women can't be treating they'll
be trying to treat their self. M they be knowing, Yeah,

(01:37:37):
they try they best to treat their self. Gas Lighting
at its finest tripest What that means, I don't know
what that means. Hold on, let me pull it up
so I can read you the clear definition. Gas lighting
is like when somebody tries to make you feel like
you're crazy for thinking something that you think and that

(01:37:58):
you know it's true. So who guys like me? Yeah,
I'm not getting no. I kind of agree with you,
bank because a lot of times as a one at
least for me as a woman. You kind of know
niggab bullshit not counter you know. Yeah, but you'll be
thinking like, he ain't gonna do me like this. I'm
a little bit different every girl. If it's they pussy

(01:38:20):
on sway, you're neggna do something different than what he
already been doing. On God, I ain't even gonna like
he just did that the hooker. He still bitches you crazy.
This is yeah, I am him a feet ain't who
I am right, a biscuity cheat with you for five

(01:38:42):
years straight. Your bitch leave you and she feels like
you ain't. She don't wonna get cheated all. He just didn't.
That's a big that's a fact, Like women really think
that like a sibish turn to your bit and she
swear you're not gonna cheat on her. This is where
when you go in that position, who pot to go
on your Yeah, just being real, like what you're gonna

(01:39:08):
do is you're gonna see a difference. Now, I'm not
gott them, I'm not pulling up on your behind gob
the cans and ship. Now I live with you and
I ain't down that much. So then you started to
feel with she would fit h kids saying whatever we
were doing, the sneaky ship, that ship out the dope.
Now you gotta feel this pressure because now behind the

(01:39:29):
gobs came with somebody else. Yes. Wow, and then you booing,
I can't believe how the fuck you can't believe? Well,
I got you doing it weak be no, because you
was telling her that I tell you ship and the
women's brain, you'd be telling them that they're different, and
you're cheating on x y Z because of this reason

(01:39:51):
and that something different. Bait. You wiping my sels, my bitch,
don't let me wipe you see me crying, nigga, don't
be crying to the side. Might be I'm saying, they
do it, so that should be like that should be
the first rond flag like it ain't right. You ain't

(01:40:13):
gonna come crying to me thinking I'm gonna wipe up
another bitches tears and you think I'm supposed to still
give you something. You're gonna be okay, It gonna be okay, baby,
That's what I'm here for. We're good. We I got
you little digging recover he back to being back outside.

(01:40:34):
But man, car it gather, I'll just playing y'all, playing game.
But like I guess, I guess, I guess. I don't
know what you guys are trying to be in life.
I'm just saying, where you guys trying to protect you
guys future or whatever. I get it. But reality says,

(01:40:57):
reality says, But the reality what does the surveys? The
surveys saying, Man, hey, man, three, everything fucked up? Who
believing in a motherfucker word the day? Show me show
me your actions. I'm sorry, but don't you know I
don't see some real convincing liars in my life, Like

(01:41:20):
niggers would convince you right if I didn't know you
were lying, I would swear that was the truth. M hm.
Tell me your door digging like that, like you a
hollified liar. Bro, ship you put nigga put chills on
your body with a lie, I'll tell you, man, funk

(01:41:44):
out of here with that ship. Show me that that
way di real when you you're going, when you're going,
your cashing reel, you was real because everybody got a
chance to do some puts a ship long as you're living.
M's just straight up, you know that ship been going viral.

(01:42:05):
You don't know these people man like tomorrow. Inducing should
you be like though, I won't know these people, brocause
every everyday things changed. You know how many motherfucker could
be in your girl or in your dude. I'll working
on her, working on him liked h No, I'm saying,
like a friend, it could be a friend. Why are

(01:42:27):
you going through this working like that's working? They're working,
chipping away at chipping this bit a weight. Put that
fucking dress on, chip it away because you instead of
being a nigga, is she trying to be? She give
her that she's trying, and then she hits you with

(01:42:49):
I don't normally do this, but uh, I mean you know,
I mean that hurt that ship. This is my first time.
You just made me feel so comfortable. It's like I've
been knowing you. Oh what I said? What I said? Uh?

(01:43:14):
Oh that what's up? Man? You ain't said we're going on?
So how you feeling up the game? Man? You're putting
that some real ship. No, I'm just I'm really drunk. Bro.
Don't listen to me. Y'all know you spend y'all niggas
beat You know what I'm saying. These girls are good
girls out here. Huh. It's y'all one get y'all queens.

(01:43:37):
You asked me for my bullets. My bullets dog, huh yeah,
my bulls. If I be forgiven, yeah, go ahead. Yeah,
we know he's been indicted. We don't really we already
know what the colt because he already said he went
up to the bench after she put him out there. Yeah,
after she kicked him out of man, he was like,
what you doing here? You're speaking to me? We already

(01:43:58):
know how you get it out yat because now when
we're starting like, yeah, could that be forgiving? I don't
be forgiving? Ship. I gonna tell like it is. I'm
gonna be some bullshit. Y'all kick me off this. Don't
give a fun I do my own ship. I'm on
that bullshit. You don't tell how I feel whatever it
is to over the third bottle of wine. I got

(01:44:26):
a whole he ain't got no parent guardian right for
this ship. Bro, fake as ship man, I could be.
I think I'm living. I'm gonna tell you the word
thing it did, bro to try to live in this
new age with morals? Bro, you feel like morals is gone?

(01:44:48):
Nobody said tomorrow? Yes bro, yes man, everything wants everything
started getting remixed. But even the food is remixed. Oh God,
I seeing this much counseling. Never m hmm. All this
ship is going on all the knew as these everything
has been remixed. Man, life has been remixed. Man, it's

(01:45:09):
not pure no more. You're saying life has been remixed?
Like like what life has been remixed? Like, I'm gonna
keep it one hun bro a nigga light charged and white.
Sound like like he's saying the wrong ship. But the
man ain't really saying the wrong ships. It being real
saying the wrong ship by the police ship because I
don't indulge in police. But he's not saying the wrong

(01:45:29):
ship A lot of ship is. He's saying it's true?
What other dude, ny who died? Um Samuel Jackson? He
was Kevin Samuel, Kevin Samuel, Yes, Vin Stevin Samuel. Who

(01:45:58):
the fuck is that he's not? He's not saying on
real ship. I just hate when nigga's personally personalized that
you know what I'm saying, started talking about different people.
You know what I'm saying get kind of touching. But
if you listen to the overall message, niggas coming from
place of what it is. You gotta think when the

(01:46:21):
nigga is speaking the truth, that ship sounds so fucked
up now because all were ship this sensor and we
are living in the facade. Yes, all we hear ship
that's already been like a caption like and need to
get a chance of bad edited this ship edited. You

(01:46:41):
come with the real then you're gonna sound like a fool.
M hmm. Don't sound like you're living in the stone age, man,
like this ship real life nikas going through ship in
real life. Man, A lot of you needs at home
going through all this same ship they don't talk about.
But he's gonna put on the face. You know what
I'm saying. He's gonna put on the face for the
world that ship faith to me. I don't you ever

(01:47:02):
damn what y'all know, ask me anything I tell you,
tell all of my being. I don't care because you
know they don't give a funk nigga, look at me, bro,
I'm already satisfied with who I am. That's the problem.
Everybody looking for acceptance from the from a motherfucker that
still ain't gonna help you, funk. I care about you
all accepted me. I haven't seen me no money. Yeah,

(01:47:29):
to be real, like, who the fuck cares? Fuck you
look at me and streets me like that'sh that retarded nigga,
So would you don't even do it either way. I'm
gonna be either retarded nigga or sensor nigga. That's smaller,
and they still ain't gonna do ship for me, right, Yeah,
I'd rather be retarded me too. Brow. You gotta think, man,

(01:47:51):
motherfucker's get mad at you because you don't like Bro.
I look at all that ship. Bro, It's like, I
don't give an if you got five follower nigga, promote
my ship to your five followers, Nick, if you funk
with me, all right, he'll be looking at that ship. Bro.
God did me in the phone? He need? Yes, I do.
I want your people to know you funk with me
if you fun with me, all right. She's just fake

(01:48:16):
it for bro, This just fake it fun. I just
she started making my head hurt, Like every day I
wake up like Manna, move to Africa, screen that serious
cheap and funk over there. Bro. You gotta deal with
a lot of ship and they'd be having some wead
ass day parties. Man, go there now, but you can
go over there and turn up y'all seen this ship.

(01:48:37):
They come saying, online, bron, whatever you're doing over here,
go over there and do it. I feel righting on
black and funk, I go right and be a straight African. Hey,
Big facts Africa trip got the gun in on the
phone playing cost Hey, Hey, but we ain't got the plans. Yeah,

(01:49:01):
they go over there like the planes they have in
Japan with the beds on them. Yeah, all all the
all the ship they go that far. I got them
bids on hey man, big Facts, Yeah, gonna pay for that. Yeah,
they could flight to go into l A in the
morning till I got the beds on. Yeah. M hmm No,

(01:49:24):
but on the real ship bright, this ship is so
fabricated breds like. And then the old niggas starting to
do it too with the young needs. Mm hmm. There's
competition with him. Now. I'm just saying, like throwing they
just what do you call in the grate woodle mm hmm.
What do you mean by that? Because I got I

(01:49:46):
have a theory about that, but I'm trying to make
sure I'm going the same place. They scared to stand
on what it is, so they like it's cool to
what do you call it? Move with town? What do
you call reinvent and move with town? But I can't
take on these new morals. Yeah, I can't understand why

(01:50:07):
somebody would do a crime and then go tell her.
I can't understand that. Yeah, I can't understand why a
motherfucker be ready to kill a nigga about a bit.
It won't kill a nigga, nigga slappy child, I can't
understand that. Now, that's a big fact. I can't understand
why niggas died by community pussy. I can't understand that.

(01:50:30):
I can't understand it. I can't understand, like niggas be
always said, man, my little hole said that. Nigga said, dude,
why my little hole don't never talk to me about
niggas talking to that little hole about niggas that we're
going on king as a nigga, How could you even

(01:50:53):
feel comfortable enough to repeat that that sherlottle how told
you about this nigga Like a realnigg wouldn't even let
that come out of his mouth what a hole told him? Like?
But then also you got niggas out here pillow talking
with like pete bitches that they're just having sex with
versus like thee. So then they don't even know how
to handle it because once you pissed them off, they're

(01:51:14):
going back to tell other people other ship. I'll be
talking like that's different. She she's your wife. I'm talking
about when niggas like pillow talk with they're gonna go
hit the girls and then start telling creat ship. Yeah,
like whatever the funk they got going on? Most of
the time, nigga's pillow talk with bitches that are not
their bitch. They're trying to impress the bress nigga. Yeah,

(01:51:38):
and then that's how she gets started. In my opinion,
I just don't understand, Like it's just like I can't
take that sorry ship, I'm sorry, because I know how
I feel. If I say I'm sorry, you don't mean it.
How if you look at reality? How do you mean

(01:51:58):
that black? What's the thumbs up? I just got a
thumbs up the button. Oh damn that at me. I'm crying.
I ain't trying to do that ship. Then that ship
you see what I'm saying, said that ship work. That
means that ship came on my picture thumb up. But

(01:52:19):
look would you say what the question of queen what
we just basically you can't mean is you're sorry? Yeah?
Like when you when when I think about it, right,
and then she's probably I'm probably get a lie heat
from me because I say I'm sorry. I don't give
a funk though, But at the end of the day,
the truth is the truth. I'd probably be in that moment,

(01:52:42):
I wanna be sorry because of how you feel, but
I'm really not sorry. How Yeah, well, you enjoyed whatever
you did until you got caught. But what if you
didn't enjoy it? Do you? Are you sorry? Then? No,
that's a whole ain't sorry. But I'm like, damn, that

(01:53:05):
was a mistake. That if you do something on purpose
and you don't enjoy it, then that's the mistake. I
ain't gonna say a mistake. I probably got damn. I'm
trying to think of another word for that. Ship. If
you do some sh it you're not supposed to do
and you don't enjoy it, then you regret it, and

(01:53:27):
that's the mistake. So definietion sorry feeling distressed, especially through
symphony of someone else's misfortune. Yeah, because just like Okay,
well I guess I do be sorry. Now we got

(01:53:47):
all awry here two hours later, two hours ryn, but
do I care? That's what it up. I was sorry
to hear what happened to your family. That's the context
of you. I thought sorry something thinking about I guess

(01:54:08):
I do be sorry. We're two hours later, they're just
like we've been arguing back apart with you for two hours.
I'm sorry, not even to say I'm sorry, y'all, I'm

(01:54:29):
sorry than buck you talking about I'm sorry. I'm sorry, y'all.
I've been sorry before. But do you regret it? Give
me the definition of regret feeling distress? No, no, no,
I'm I'm gonna stand on what I said. But they

(01:54:51):
don't be sorry. You'd be sorry about the way that
person feel. You don't be sorry for what you said
with someone else, with someone else misfortune. I don't be sorry.
You don't be sorry for what you've done. That's what
I'm talking about. The only time people are sorry for
what they did is if it didn't end up benefiting
them after they've done it. Look at the context again, Like,

(01:55:16):
here's another context. He said he was sorry for upsetting me.
That's just like, okay, just said it. Was sorry for
upsetting me. I got a relationship example right now, hold
up you right, Jake? You right screen? Now I do Beth,
I just said it, so I'm really taking I'd be

(01:55:37):
sorry for upsetting the person, but I don't be sorry
for what I've done, right. I think remorse is the word,
huh for your actions. Remorse is the proper word. What's
the definition of remorse? Remorse is morse remorseful? Yeah, yeah,
I don't be remorseful. I'd be yeah, yeah, feel with

(01:56:00):
sorrow for your actions. Defend it was remorseful for the
crime he committed. Nigga, don't be remorseful. They don't bro
to say that's the definition you think? All right, get
it out? He regretted. Do you feel like if you

(01:56:25):
all right, if a nigga get locked up for the
p P P low, do you think he's sorry or remorseful?
Probably now because he broke Yeah, the back end of
the action can make you maybe sorry. Well, I don't
know about remorseful. Man, I'm sorry he went about it. Yeah,

(01:56:49):
the money was able to pay him for like here
gonna look back. That would be mad about yeah, because
when you get caught you're thinking like Damn. I shouldn't
have did all that flashy ship. I should have did
right there with this money. Yes, I don't know. I
don't know of nobody who got away with that ship.
Who give a funk about some ship that they got
away with? Okay, so I have an example. I got

(01:57:12):
an example. Okay, So let's just say me and Screamer together, right, Hypothetically,
me and Screamer together and I go fukoda. Right, Let's
just say I fun Kodak and Kodak has a small
piece of meat. I'm gonna be sorry if if, if,
if I get caught by scream and Kodak has a

(01:57:33):
small piece of meat and I didn't enjoy it, I'm
gonna regret making that mistake because I didn't enjoy it
and it didn't benefit me the way that I thought
that it was gonna benefit me. But I still did
it right. But if Kodak was if Kodak, you know,
packed the sausage, and I fucking have fun and I

(01:57:56):
want to fun Kodak again and you catch me, I'm
not gonna regret it. I'm just gonna be sorry that
you had. That's a big fact J as a woman,
most women is most women that women cheat because when
women cheat, right, they looking for something better. Yeah, and

(01:58:17):
then when the nigga be like man bit back to
the nigga. Now she crying to you because the nigga
and paying paying, not she wouldn't even gave a funk
about you give a funk about what you say, bro,
because my nine times out of ten, when women cheat,
they're already done anyway. But yeah, I gotta make my duck.
My duck is going to go for this. Sorry, yeah,

(01:58:40):
big cold that m hm shi won't really hint, so
you in our head, they don't really counsel now, Yeah,
but we're mad. We gotta lose that. We don't even
care about whacks jade. If you're drinking and we don't

(01:59:09):
see the cup, just let us know, y'all. But y'all
best believe I'm gonna have my bottle of wine on
the next one, bro, because like these these the wine
brings out the healthy discussions. That's what I've been over
here with. Yeah, yeah, I ain't gonna lie to you, ja.
I really agree because if you go mess, if you
cheat on your dude, or you cheat on anybody, and

(01:59:31):
you mess with somebody that you feel like it ain't worth,
you'd be more mad. But if you feel like it
was good, then it's like I'm gonna keeping with both
of you'all. Queens say, we don't hear you know what
I'm saying. Like women who don't cheat don't even have
these types if you cheat, conversations that ain't even today voca,

(01:59:52):
but don't little type ship. They don't even think like that.
But I'm speak. Guys have been hu no, no, no, no,
my my own speaking because I got hooke around, yeah,
being around like I don't I know hella girls I
don't see. Yeah, I don't know that that that that

(02:00:12):
are the bottom of my shoes come. But they're my friends.
I'm there. Ear to if y'all watching the drop a
coment right now, drop a comment below, yes, if they
lying a fly? You know the comments swear a shot
a cheeter? Did you comment? Swear I ain't ship in
the comment? Ship revision like a motherfucker? What that's revision

(02:00:41):
revisionist history because you definitely said that yourself. Oh I
said I would cheat. Y'all got some more shirts, y'all
wanta do another one? Makes you like another day chip
w big fest pot dad's jacket. That Big Fact called listen,

(02:01:02):
oh Triple W that big fast do what we say?
So sorry, what's the fucking moral of the story. I'm sorry,
but not sorry. Yeah, sorry sorry equanimity. The word is equanimity,
and the moral of this story is is that sorry
is not sorry period. Facts say, y'all agree with me,

(02:01:26):
then yeah, I think you got. I mean, based upon
the evidence that was presented, Judge, Judge bay no, but
get away at the end of the day, bro, And
I'm risking my whole relationship talking this ship with y'all, like,

(02:01:46):
might be God, what course next we talk about this ship?
But yeah, man, I think we all got. I'm sorry,
we got x off man me and my daughter. But

(02:02:07):
y'all can't tell me that I haven't changed. Absolutely you have.
You've transformed a training You're a triple W dit Big
Facts Podcast. No, Bro, scream, this is when you came.

(02:02:31):
But technically it hold look technically scream when you're transition
what are you this gender transitioner, transition transformer, transformer there
you go, Yeah, a transformer except the car. I'm crying

(02:02:54):
because I decepted. Curran is the word of deceptive and
we're not doing it to except exception. Hey, hey queen,
y'all only motherfucker lie. I hope your boyfriend. Listen, Jay,
it ain't ship. Shy ain't ship. Take that back, Take
that back. I'm telling y'all, bro, triple w trimple w

(02:03:19):
w W do because of big facts, I can't keep
a relationship anyway, so that don't matter. No, But I
bus you deside, man. I love y'all. Thank you for
coming out tonight. You could have been anywhere in the world,
but you was here with us. But get that return
into dog. Don't believe in my sorry's girls they lie.

(02:03:43):
Call that playing step that anybody needs to step step
that dude, this stand dad? You got a fat a
code that got you? All right? Or hold on? Hold on?
How long this ship is already? Screen at two screen
got the premium ZOOMA. I think we we should be straight.

(02:04:05):
We still record. That's been crazy. If it stopped this
halfway through, it'll tell you what stop boiler. The story is, y'all,
go by looks. I don't who my pretty as hell?
My wife pretty? So I was blessed, but I wanted
ugly bitch mhm. But you wouldna you wouldna you wouldn't

(02:04:29):
the ugly bitch wouldn't have provided you what you needed, though,
tell you that name chaste. I'm crying a scream, scream,
what's your moral? The job? I'll come. I'm like a ship.
I'm crying, scream. What's your moralder story? Oh? God, sh

(02:04:51):
sorry not sorry, sorry sorry? What's your moral? The story?
My moral of the story is the ship is sucking
up my household because I'm getting cursed out from jail
talking about I'm a cheater. Oh god, me too? Yeah,
like this, ain't it? Yeah? What's your more? Other story? One? Dark? Sorry,

(02:05:20):
don't mean they knew what they was doing when they
tried it. That sound it hurt? What's called that? She
should have tried me like that? Let's fact. Many'll be
hating on code cod that big o. I ain't gonna
lie to you. Kodak's face tip me one time with
a little light scared hottie with her feet on him
one time, and yeah, Kodak Coda get on me. You

(02:05:43):
just can't keep them big fat, that's the big fat. Yeah.
I think it's because yah be cheap on the dates.
They just be tired of them cheap as I've seen
him a note. You'll pull out the boy, you'll put
out that credit card. Oh ship, seen it. But see
my thing be trying to how you can't keep them yet,
playing to freeze the coda. Yeah, take them gloves off.

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You can stop it. Then we just keep talking to
y'all want you to talk, we can just stop in
the top on the streets. Exactly. It's a big fat
cat fitch

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