Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

Episodes

July 24, 2025 51 mins
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: How to tell people you're eloping Setting boundaries Don't Blame Them: Sharing trauma with a new therapist Update: Not changing your mind about eloping. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Meiisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id15...
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Watching? Sinners. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Meiisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - but...
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July 21, 2025 71 mins
But Am I Wrong: Melisa:  If you’re going to cheat on your spouse, do it in front of cameras Meghan:  You should have at least 1 ship in the harbor at a time But Are You Wrong: Constantly running into your exes 30th birthday party But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Hector Corona Villanueva Meghan: Conor McGregor Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id122380...
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July 18, 2025 69 mins
Look up! This week, Meghan and Melisa are dishing on all the spoilers from their viewing of the latest Superman installment. Plus, hear about their "blast" of a time at the Sparks game. Melisa recounts the interesting experience of attending her cat niece’s first birthday party, and Meghan is deep in her feelings about the Love Island finale, firmly declaring herself Team Olandria. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontb...
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July 17, 2025 53 mins
This week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Not wanting to go to a friend's birthday party Assimilating at work Feeling comfortable when going out Update: Sister's toxic boyfriend Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Meiisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Cal...
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July 15, 2025 48 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Should I F His Mom? Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Meiisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BA...
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July 14, 2025 73 mins
Meghan and Melisa watched Ryan Coogler's cinematic masterpiece Sinners and shared their hot takes, your hot takes, and nominated a wrong of the film. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Meiisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write...
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July 11, 2025 63 mins
This week, Meghan and Melisa are diving deep into the literary world and beyond! Meghan shares her recent discovery that she can, in fact, read (who knew?!), while Melisa spills the tea on her current obsession: writing her very own "romantasy”. They'll break down the difference between a kids' book and Young Adult literature – because apparently, it's more complicated than you think! Plus, they're tackling the wild west of "transr...
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This week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Bickering with partner Friend has FOMO How to move on Making the decision to elope Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meghanpodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @meghanrienks ⁠⁠...
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: 150th Episode. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAI...
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July 7, 2025 73 mins
But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Seperation of Church and State never really existed. Meghan: Time does not equal growth or change  But Are You Wrong: Friend's husband asked his mom about me Cutting ties after a friend got engaged to your situationship But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Nelly Meghan: Seafood City Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 ...
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July 4, 2025 62 mins
This week, the unmedicated Meghan is planning a spontaneous birthday trip, while Melisa recounts her "un-cécred" experience at Ulta and a family outing to Solvang. Later, Melisa shares her disturbance after watching Love Island, but Meghan jumps to the show's defense. Plus, Meghan is hyped for the new Jurassic Park movie, and Melisa tries to convince her to finally watch The Social Network. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podca...
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July 3, 2025 55 mins
This week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Attending a birthday party with your no-contact ex Roommate lies and doesn't clean Work friend doesn't want you to get a new job Update: Not getting along with your sister-in-law Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meghanpodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (30...
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: My Friend is Gossiping About Me. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) ...
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June 30, 2025 73 mins
But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Chill around Wedding Dress Code Melisa: Don't lie to get social media clicks But Are You Wrong: Homophobic comments about Love Island Updates: Surgery is getting pushed & Student submitting an assignment late But Are They Wrong: Meghan - Martin Kove Melisa - Baseball Heckler Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 ...
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June 27, 2025 60 mins
This week, the hosts are back to discuss "slutty little glasses" and their weekend plans. Plus, get ready for some juicy fruit talk as Melisa dishes on her new cooking series featuring peaches, and Meghan shares her thoughts on cherries. And don't miss out on Melisa's exciting announcement about her scripted new audio series! Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566...
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June 26, 2025 56 mins
This week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Co-Sucker and ending a friendship Separating from abusive parents Wanting more emotional and sexual experiences Update: Legally petty Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meghanpodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.co...
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June 25, 2025 73 mins
Original Air Date - January 22, 2021 Original Title: How Soon Is Too Soon? This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: (ex) boyfriend and his twin Partner wishing they had more sex before you Working with your ex and your boyfriend Both partners feeling burnt out Don't Blame Them: FOMO in a relationship   ⁠Call Transcriptions⁠   Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame...
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June 24, 2025 37 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Canceling Concert Plans. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write i...
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June 23, 2025 69 mins
But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Just because a company is For The People Today, doesn't mean they're For The People tomorrow. Meghan: Everybody is entitled to privacy But Are You Wrong: Reporting a doctor Ending a 10 year long friendshhip But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Vance Boelter Meghan: Boca Aquarium  Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Joi...
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