Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

Episodes

June 27, 2025 60 mins
This week, the hosts are back to discuss "slutty little glasses" and their weekend plans. Plus, get ready for some juicy fruit talk as Melisa dishes on her new cooking series featuring peaches, and Meghan shares her thoughts on cherries. And don't miss out on Melisa's exciting announcement about her scripted new audio series! Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566...
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This week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Co-Sucker and ending a friendship Separating from abusive parents Wanting more emotional and sexual experiences Update: Legally petty Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meghanpodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.co...
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June 25, 2025 73 mins
Original Air Date - January 22, 2021 Original Title: How Soon Is Too Soon? This week we're sharing advice on:    Update: (ex) boyfriend and his twin Partner wishing they had more sex before you Working with your ex and your boyfriend Both partners feeling burnt out Don't Blame Them: FOMO in a relationship   ⁠Call Transcriptions⁠   Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame...
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June 24, 2025 37 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Canceling Concert Plans. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write i...
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June 23, 2025 69 mins
But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Just because a company is For The People Today, doesn't mean they're For The People tomorrow. Meghan: Everybody is entitled to privacy But Are You Wrong: Reporting a doctor Ending a 10 year long friendshhip But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Vance Boelter Meghan: Boca Aquarium  Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Joi...
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June 19, 2025 60 mins
This week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Feeling unwanted Getting back at a shitty landlord Find a job as a neurodivergent person Update: Trying to get along with your sister-in-law Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meghanpodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com...
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Thank you Diana for doing the Lord's Work! Original Air Date: 12/2/20219 It’s our 100th Episode, baby!!! We’re doing something special for this one. We’re talking to the callers LIVE on air and sharing advice on carrying emotional baggage into a new relationship, what to do if your high school sweetheart won’t make time for you, dealing with your study buddy who never talks about his girlfriend , and talking to your partner a...
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from BAIW: MY Friend's Boyfriend is on House Arrest. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) ...
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June 16, 2025 83 mins
But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Don't be a creepy man Melisa: Be careful of your language when defending immigrants But Are You Wrong: Accepting a late paper Canceling plans But Are They Wrong: Meghan: People who have a parasocial relationship with dogs Melisa: Riley Gaines Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.p...
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June 13, 2025 48 mins
While Melisa gets pampered with a luxurious headspa treatment, Meghan is hard at work... painting her wall.  They talk about the informative, but terrifying Citizen. Then, they correct the viral grandma surrogate story, The conversation turns to the BET Awards, where Meghan and Melisa break down Doechii's powerful speech. And, because she's a true friend, Meghan makes sure to fill Melisa in on all the essential drama, hookups...
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June 12, 2025 56 mins
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Finding a new roommate Frustrations about finding a job Having sex again DBT: Making mistakes at work Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meghanpodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @meghanrienks ...
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June 10, 2025 45 mins
Melisa is on the Mend and Meghan's Glasses Broke. They then get into the results from But Am I Wrong: Regifted PR. And end it with some disturbing baby news. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minute...
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But Am I Wrong: Melisa: We need more at-home health tests Meghan: More people should go on cruises  But Are You Wrong: Not taking their child on Christmas vacation Getting a friend away from a controlling boyfriend But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Anthony Emmanuel Labrador Sierra Meghan: Elmer's Glue Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 J...
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June 5, 2025 77 mins
Original Air Date: July 8, 2019 This week we’re answering your questions on what to do if your boyfriend doesn’t want to hang out with you family, negotiating your sugar baby status, returning to normalcy after a break up, and having compassion for your sociopath brother. In Don’t Blame Them a listener shares her advice on being scared that you’re going to get pregnant. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoice...
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Original Air Date: September 8, 2022 For But Am I Wrong Melisa: Behind every trend is a PR company Meghan: Faking mental illness is a mental illness In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Not disclosing personal information about a co-worker Boyfriend wanting to see his friend and not you And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The Week" they nominate Melisa nomin...
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Original Air Date: September 1, 2022 For But Am I Wrong Meghan: People thinking negatively on others that don't read Melisa: Sending emails to people who want to collaborate but don't research our shows In But Am You Wrong they if listeners were wrong in the following situations: Boyfriend who doesn't care about your dead pet Changing your mind about having kids And in But Are They Wrong AKA "Rachel of The ...
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May 29, 2025 67 mins
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Plane anxiety Making mistakes at work Rekindling a friendship Doubts about a new relationship Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠meghanpodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ @meghanrienks ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanr...
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May 27, 2025 50 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results of But Am I Wrong: Unethical Patient Posting. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write ...
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May 26, 2025 69 mins
But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Do not let a man embarrass you Melisa - Implement International Deadbeat Parent Shaming Day But Are You Wrong: Receiving leftovers as a gift Rant on dressing up But Are They Wrong: Meghan - Guy Edward Barkus Melisa - xAI, Mayor Paul Young, Mayor Lee Harris Write In: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠butamiwrongpod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com...
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May 23, 2025 61 mins
This week, Meghan shares a sad recap of her chaotic morning. Melisa serves up a "non-but-am-I-wrong" hot take on graduations. She also recounts sitting through a tornado watch with her parents. Later, Meghan asks Melisa to recount a hilarious story abuot her dad. Plus, Meghan's found a new movie to replace "Game Night" and finally started watching Melisa's recommendation: Poker Face. Finally, Melisa questions Meghan's love for Mich...
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