Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

Episodes

May 9, 2025 60 mins
Giddy Up, Giddy Up! Hold onto your chaps, BeyHive. Meghan and Melisa just left the "Cowboy Carter and the Rodeo Chitlin' Circuit Tour," and these TYRANTS share what they witnessed. Join them as they raise II HANDS II HEAVEN and unpack every breathtaking moment from Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter's latest global spectacle. From the groundbreaking fusion of country, Black history, and pure artistry to the overwhelming emotions it sti...
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This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Flip-flopping in a relationship Splitting items with your roommates Talking for 2 years Birthday drama Buy Our Merch ⁠⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠⁠meghanpodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠⁠ @meghanrienks ⁠⁠instagram.com/meghanrienks⁠⁠ ⁠...
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May 6, 2025 39 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: This Lad. Listen to Full Episodes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-blame-me-but-am-i-wrong/id1223800566 Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - bu...
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But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Sperm Race Fraud Meghan: No Issue With Jordon Hudson But Are You Wrong: Kissing cousins Twin bond But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Julia and Fred Ramos Meghan: Kate Mackz Write In: ⁠⁠butamiwrongpod@gmail.com⁠⁠ Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/⁠⁠ Buy Our Merch: ⁠⁠https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me⁠⁠ Joi...
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May 2, 2025 60 mins
Meghan and Melisa attended Ziwe's hilarious and thought-provoking and they had a good ass time! Speaking of good times, Melisa finally caved and watched "Grosse Pointe Garden Society," much to Meghan's enthusiastic "I told you so!" Meghan is finalizing her perfect "Cowboy Carter" outfi. Meanwhile, Melisa's been spreading joy by letting people taste her biscuits. Melisa caught a Dodgers game against the Pittsburgh Pirates. ...
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May 1, 2025 52 mins
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Former friend calling your partner Regretting not moving for college Having a very chill dating situation Friends can't accept the new you Buy Our Merch ⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠ Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - ⁠meghanpodcast@gmail.com⁠ (300 words or less) Follow Us! ⁠instagram.com/meghanandmelisa⁠ @meghanrienks ⁠...
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Just The Tip - An Embarrassing Blast Off Into Space Follow Us: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unhingedandimmoralpod Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unhingedandimmoralpod/ Patreon: patreon.com/UnhingedandImmoralPod This has been a Diamond MPrint Production Hosted by Jamila Bell and Mecca Evans Produced by Melisa D. Monts Post-Production Sound by Coco Llorens Gr...
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April 28, 2025 70 mins
Content Warning for Melisa BAIW: Sexual Assault and Rape But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Nail Polish Without Acetone Melisa: If you’re having sex with someone young enough to be you’re daughter, even though they are legal (barely), it’s still assault But Are You Wrong: Not being referred to by your name by your partner Lending Money But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Mark Measures Melisa: Latrance Battle Write In...
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April 25, 2025 63 mins
Ever tried to introduce someone who just wasn't having it? Meghan experiences it firsthand this episode when Melisa seemingly ignores her attempt to connect her with Quan Millz. We dive into Melisa's week, including her spoiler-free thoughts on Ryan Coogler's "Sinners," and Meghan's audition results (or lack thereof). But spirits lift as they both gear up to be OUTSIDE next week! However, disagreement brews over Melisa's track meet...
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April 24, 2025 60 mins
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Not happy at new job Too pale for the beach An exhausting "friend" Bringing toys to the bedroom Update: Movie photography job Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twi...
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April 22, 2025 54 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Get My Boyfriend Out My House. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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But Am I Wrong: Melisa: If just the tip still virgin, then just the tip of space does not make you an austornaut Meghan: Going to space is embarrassing But Are You Wrong: Doesn't want mom to get a gun Should have got a heads up from their situationship But Are They Wrong: Melisa - Mayor Dan Rodrick Meghan - Elon Musk Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram...
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April 18, 2025 66 mins
What's with Meghan and the salt shaker this week?! While she's busy seasoning, Melisa makes the tough call to miss The Hunger Games livestream for her friend Samantha's film "Marshmallow". Meghan has finally watched "One of Them Days" (Netflix), so she and Melisa can FINALLY talk about it! Melisa also breaks down her love/hate relationship with the ending of Netflix's "The Residence," gushes over "Survival of the Thickest." Megha...
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April 17, 2025 54 mins
Content Warning: Don't Blame Them - Weight Loss This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Work friend having feelings for you Friend making plans on your behalf Announcing you don't want to have sex with your friend Having a crush on your lab partner Don't Blame Them: Weight loss due to health issues Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - megh...
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April 15, 2025 39 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Calling The Police Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitt...
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April 14, 2025 73 mins
But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Clayton Echard Melisa: Protest should be a little scary But Are You Wrong: Turned off by my man's past escapades Tired of waking up next to your boyfriend But Are They Wrong: Meghan: J. K. Rowling Melisa: Kiss of Life Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collection...
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April 11, 2025 54 mins
Meghan's got her hands dirty (literally!) this week, diving into the joys and challenges of gardening outside while Melisa has been doing hydro gardening inside. Meanwhile, Melisa is officially FREE! Freshly finished with her classes, she's promising Meghan (and you!) that those half-watched shows are finally going to get some love. But first, there's a crucial viewing assignment: Michelle Buteau's "Survival of the Thickest" has ...
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April 10, 2025 75 mins
Content Warning: Submission #3 - Sexual Assault This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Better dating app matches Jumping into a serious relationship Keeping religious parents away from your boyfriend Afraid of triggering your partner Don't Blame Them: Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or...
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Melisa shares her new life hack and then she and Meghan get into the results fro But Am I Wrong: Dropping A Friend Because of Their Husband. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/megh...
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April 7, 2025 70 mins
But Am I Wrong: Melisa: If TVs rot our brains, why did Scandall teach me more about a filibuster than my 8th-grade civics teacher  Meghan: Ghostwriters are for memoires. They’re not for novels But Are You Wrong: Hypothetically not telling the guy they’re dating that there’s an open position at their job Being disturbed by loud music But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Police Chief Robert Farley  Meghan: Kenneth Degiorgio Writ...
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