Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

Episodes

April 25, 2025 63 mins
Ever tried to introduce someone who just wasn't having it? Meghan experiences it firsthand this episode when Melisa seemingly ignores her attempt to connect her with Quan Millz. We dive into Melisa's week, including her spoiler-free thoughts on Ryan Coogler's "Sinners," and Meghan's audition results (or lack thereof). But spirits lift as they both gear up to be OUTSIDE next week! However, disagreement brews over Melisa's track meet...
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This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Not happy at new job Too pale for the beach An exhausting "friend" Bringing toys to the bedroom Update: Movie photography job Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twi...
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April 22, 2025 54 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Get My Boyfriend Out My House. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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But Am I Wrong: Melisa: If just the tip still virgin, then just the tip of space does not make you an austornaut Meghan: Going to space is embarrassing But Are You Wrong: Doesn't want mom to get a gun Should have got a heads up from their situationship But Are They Wrong: Melisa - Mayor Dan Rodrick Meghan - Elon Musk Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram...
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April 18, 2025 66 mins
What's with Meghan and the salt shaker this week?! While she's busy seasoning, Melisa makes the tough call to miss The Hunger Games livestream for her friend Samantha's film "Marshmallow". Meghan has finally watched "One of Them Days" (Netflix), so she and Melisa can FINALLY talk about it! Melisa also breaks down her love/hate relationship with the ending of Netflix's "The Residence," gushes over "Survival of the Thickest." Megha...
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April 17, 2025 54 mins
Content Warning: Don't Blame Them - Weight Loss This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Work friend having feelings for you Friend making plans on your behalf Announcing you don't want to have sex with your friend Having a crush on your lab partner Don't Blame Them: Weight loss due to health issues Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - megh...
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April 15, 2025 39 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Calling The Police Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitt...
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April 14, 2025 73 mins
But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Clayton Echard Melisa: Protest should be a little scary But Are You Wrong: Turned off by my man's past escapades Tired of waking up next to your boyfriend But Are They Wrong: Meghan: J. K. Rowling Melisa: Kiss of Life Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collection...
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April 11, 2025 54 mins
Meghan's got her hands dirty (literally!) this week, diving into the joys and challenges of gardening outside while Melisa has been doing hydro gardening inside. Meanwhile, Melisa is officially FREE! Freshly finished with her classes, she's promising Meghan (and you!) that those half-watched shows are finally going to get some love. But first, there's a crucial viewing assignment: Michelle Buteau's "Survival of the Thickest" has ...
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April 10, 2025 75 mins
Content Warning: Submission #3 - Sexual Assault This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Better dating app matches Jumping into a serious relationship Keeping religious parents away from your boyfriend Afraid of triggering your partner Don't Blame Them: Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or...
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Melisa shares her new life hack and then she and Meghan get into the results fro But Am I Wrong: Dropping A Friend Because of Their Husband. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/megh...
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April 7, 2025 70 mins
But Am I Wrong: Melisa: If TVs rot our brains, why did Scandall teach me more about a filibuster than my 8th-grade civics teacher  Meghan: Ghostwriters are for memoires. They’re not for novels But Are You Wrong: Hypothetically not telling the guy they’re dating that there’s an open position at their job Being disturbed by loud music But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Police Chief Robert Farley  Meghan: Kenneth Degiorgio Writ...
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April 4, 2025 58 mins
This week, prepare for a heartwarming and hilarious journey with Melisa and Meghan! Melisa gushes about her recent hangout with her friends' absolutely adorable baby, sharing all the sweet details. Meanwhile, Meghan recounts a magical day spent at Disneyland with her nephew, sparking a wave of nostalgia for Melisa as she reflects on her own Disney adventure with her niece... a whole 14 years ago! The Disney magic doesn't stop ther...
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April 3, 2025 75 mins
Content Warning - Body image in submission #2 This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Scared to become an influencer Losing weight because of a medical condition Not being compensated for work Unsure of what to do in life Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandm...
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April 1, 2025 65 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong? Karaoke Drama. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Thin people shouldn't comment on plus-size people's platforms Melisa: Normalize talking shit about your workplace if you can But Are You Wrong: Ending a friendship due to their spouse's political beliefs Old white people commenting on Black hair But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Bachelor in Paradise Melisa: Dr. Gerhardt Konig  Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on In...
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March 28, 2025 58 mins
After battling a bug, Melisa emerges from her sickbed with a newfound appreciation for entertainment! She dives headfirst into the world of variety and comedy shows, seeking laughter and lightheartedness. Meanwhile, her enthusiasm for "Running Point" sparks a hilarious anecdote from Meghan, recounting her 5-year-old nephew's shocking basketball allegiance. But the sports talk quickly shifts to the new Netflix show "The Residence,...
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March 27, 2025 70 mins
Content Warning: Update and Write In #3 - Sexual Assault This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: RA sharing experience dealing with SA in the dorms How to keep yourself fed as a college student Dating app advice Heinous bitch watch your bitches Romantically connecting with someone who's neurodivergent Don't Blame Them: Being with a delicate lover Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sig...
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March 25, 2025 54 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: CrossFit Cheating Scandal. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - butamiwrongpod@gmail.com DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks http...
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March 24, 2025 78 mins
But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Office Sirens Meghan: Leave Millie Bobby Brown Alone But Are You Wrong: Expecting your parents to know you're depressed Stopping a rude drunk girl But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Aimee Bock and Salim Said of Feeding Our Future Meghan: Happiest Baby Company Write In: butamiwrongpod@gmail.com Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: ...
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