Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more. On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation. On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well. Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

Episodes

September 23, 2025 42 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Splitting the Grocery Bill. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch ⁠https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign⁠ Listen to Melisa’s New Show ⁠https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8⁠ Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) ...
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But Am I Wrong: Melisa:  All football players should be wearing the Guardian cap Meghan: It’s crazy to admit to crimes in a published novel But Are You Wrong: Mom is urging you to date an older man Considering a friendship with your ex But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Michael Scaletta Teates Meghan: Kansas City Chiefs Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch http...
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September 19, 2025 36 mins
In this week’s episode, Melisa is triggered by a sfx from a song that Meghan brought up. Meghan surprises Melisa with a new podcast from Ned of The Try Guys. The chaos continues as Melisa recounts her personal hell while getting her hair done, and Meghan shares some of her go-to YouTube lore. Melisa also riles Meghan up by watching a lot of shows that weren't recommended. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme ...
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September 18, 2025 44 mins
On this episode, Meghan and Melisa give advice on: Hooking up with a man who sees you as a womb Wasting time on a guy that doesn’t want to see you in person How to build sexual confidence  Don’t Blame Me/Update - When to Have the Talk (March 20, 2025) Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps...
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September 16, 2025 35 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Like Kissing Crypto-Obsessed Cousin. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less)...
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September 15, 2025 48 mins
But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Justice for raisins Melisa: Have decorum at sporting events But Are You Wrong: Roommates expecting you to pay for groceries Friend's toxic boyfriend But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Oura Ring Melisa: Tori Branum Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://ap...
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September 12, 2025 47 mins
This week, Meghan and Melisa dive into the chaos of Citizen app notifications, sharing some of the wild alerts they’ve received. The discussion then shifts to the latest in television with a look at The Studio and Hacks, exploring how both series offer a satirical, behind-the-scenes look at the entertainment industry from different perspectives. The hosts also take a deep dive into the filmography of director Spike Lee, examining h...
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September 11, 2025 53 mins
This week, Meghan and Melisa share advice on: What not to do when you meet your partner's mom Being jealous of others' relationship with their parents When to introduce a man to your child Meeting the right person at the wrong time Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket...
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September 9, 2025 35 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Media Literacy. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW -...
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September 8, 2025 87 mins
But Am I Wrong: Melisa:  Letter to Southern Racists Meghan:  Burning Man Attendants But Are You Wrong: Boyfriend is following his ex Too many green flags But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Matthew Mastronardi Meghan: Sansum Health  Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps....
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September 4, 2025 60 mins
This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Getting used to doing things alone Finding out your therapist is in your friend group Update: When to Have the Talk (March 20, 2025) Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM ...
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September 2, 2025 29 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Hooking Up In God's Time. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in ...
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September 1, 2025 62 mins
But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Benson Boone has an op Melisa: We need more career politicians But Are You Wrong: People need more But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Betty Who Melisa: Jelena Ostapenko Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538...
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August 29, 2025 46 mins
Meghan's redecorating her bedroom and got a great deal on a new grill. Meanwhile, Melisa is navigating the chaos of moving and channeling her excitement into decorating her new space. She also shares a recent visit to an art show. Plus, Meghan gives her take on the new show Zero Day. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Sho...
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August 28, 2025 37 mins
On this episode of Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa give advice on: - Judging partners - Wanting your friend who was your ex back - Figuring out your bisexuality - Relearning to trust Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM - 3...
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August 26, 2025 36 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Vape Smoke to the Face Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in for...
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August 25, 2025 61 mins
But Am I Wrong: Melisa:  Roblox Meghan:  Scary Reality TV But Are You Wrong: Living with your ex Update: SZA as Catwoman But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Texas State Legislators Meghan: Madison Prewett and Grant Trout Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Melisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/...
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Meghan and Melisa hung out with Mary. Melisa's saw a double feature of Naked Gun and Freakier Friday.  This leads to a hilarious discussion about actors who have seemingly been "old their whole lives." They’re excited to see J. Lo’s musical, “Spider Woman.” They then discuss what musicals they’ve never seen Later, Meghan shares her thoughts on the show Anatomy of a Scandal.  The duo also delves into a modern-day my...
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August 21, 2025 45 mins
This Week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: How to regain your missing personality Being the primary support system for your partner What to do if your F buddy is in love with you Crushing on your TA Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Meiisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id...
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August 19, 2025 40 mins
Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: SZA Should Be Catwoman. Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Listen to Meiisa’s New Show https://apps.apple.com/in/app/pocket-fm-audio-series/id1538433480?mt=8 Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - meghanpodcast@gmail.com (300 words or less) Write in ...
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