We're Having Gay Sex

We're Having Gay Sex

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

Episodes

Discovering Kissing & Intimacy Kink w/ Robin Tran | WHGS Ep. 283

August 4, 2025 • 67 mins
This episode is relentlessly smooching, listener! Hilarious stand up comedian Robin Tran RETURNS to the podcast, and this time she’s in the apartment to teach us the most intense and freaky kink that exists in the bedroom: LOVE! We discuss kissing & intimacy kink, discovering your pansexuality, the ease of making positive changes in your life, and Asian earwax. Ashley finds the fire in her loins. Maddie’s rabbit comes out as bisexu...
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Spilling Tea on The Ultimatum: Queer Love w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 282

July 28, 2025 • 69 mins
This episode is gossip-filled, listener! It’s a catch-up today as beloved actor, content creator, and friend Breanne Williamson returns to the apartment, and in typical WHGS fashion, we go in-depth into the most popular queer reality TV show a month after everyone already forgot about it! We gossip about the newest season of The Ultimatum: Queer Love, making art, finding validation in the modern media landscape, and getting dunked ...
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Georgia Bridgers: Squirting is a Serious Medical Issue | WHGS Ep. 281

July 21, 2025 • 67 mins
This episode is gettin’ wet, listener! Actor, comedian, and content creator Georgia Bridgers returns to the podcast for the 5TH TIME, and today she’s in the apartment to tell us the tale of a petulant little SQUIRT, if you catch our drift! We discuss comphet, finding your orgasm, going to the doctor after mistaking your squirting for a kidney issue, and how pilates is for the people. Ashley is caught messing around in 4k. Maddie is...
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Transitioning, Dating, and Letting Your Parents Pick Your New Name w/ Brenna Jordan | WHGS Ep. 280

July 14, 2025 • 67 mins
This episode is challenging gender, listener! Brenna Jordan is an ICONIC trans content creator and comedian making her return to the internet, but today she’s making a return to the apartment to get wet and loose! We discuss adjusting to life a few years into transitioning, finding meaning beyond your trans identity, dating men safely in a world filled with gross fetishists, and the most trans thing ever: the Meisner Technique. Ash...
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How to Date Someone With Disabilities w/ Tina Friml | WHGS Ep. 279

July 7, 2025 • 65 mins
This episode is disabled and proud, listener! Tina Friml (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) is an incredible stand up comedian and writer with cerebral palsy that has been taking the internet by storm, but today she’s in the apartment GIVING the internet some TIPS on banging in the world of disabilities! We discuss dating with disabilities and its in’s and out’s, managing social anxieties around your disability, how male gaze affec...
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Being Straight is a Choice w/ Steph Tolev | WHGS Ep. 278

June 30, 2025 • 69 mins
This episode is chaos, listener! We have the return of fan-favorite Steph Tolev, one of today's best working stand-ups and actors with a NEW Netflix special out, “Filth Queen,” but today she’s in the apartment to undo her straight conversion therapy! We discuss being sucked out of the lesbian dating pool by a gorgeous man, maintaining a positive body image in the internet age, living life as a boy-girl, and freaking out at your gir...
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The WHGS Family Comes Out as Asexual | WHGS Ep. 277

June 23, 2025 • 67 mins
GET LIZZY TO 10K, LISTENER! It’s free and it actually really helps her career: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/. You’ve been asking, so we’re delivering… It’s a FAMILY EPISODE today, listener, and our dear co-hosts and stand up comedians Maddie Wiener and Lizzy Cassidy are coming together to drive this apartment to RIFF CITY! It’s the gay virgin and the bi-with-a-boyfriend CLASHING, and we may not survive the collision of th...
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Life After a Nuclear Lesbian Breakup w/ Ali Kolbert | WHGS Ep. 276

June 16, 2025 • 61 mins
This episode is thriving after chaos, listener! Fan-favorite Ali Kolbert is a fantastic stand up comedian, writer, actress, and dear friend of the show, and today she’s coming back onto it to tell us about life after one of the CRAZIEST breakups that you’ve ever heard. It’s a DUO episode today because all co-hosts were on tour, and we discuss Ali’s insane breakup, untangling your mind after gaslighting, reclaiming your agency, and ...
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Jared Freid Teaches You to Date (or Lizzy Tells the Greatest Story Ever if You Hate Men) | WHGS Ep. 275

June 9, 2025 • 67 mins
This episode is a lady killer, listener! Jared Freid is an amazing stand-up comedian, podcaster, and certified bachelor, and today he’s in the apartment for some gay-straight cultural exchange to give you tips for dating women that only a straight man could know! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the secrets to pursuit, how to plan a perfect ...
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Video Games Are The Gayest Thing Ever — ft. Ashly Burch (Life is Strange, Horizon) | WHGS Ep. 274

June 2, 2025 • 67 mins
This episode is an ALL-TIMER, gamers! Ashly Burch is an amazing writer and voice actor who has voiced some of your favorite video game characters, but today we are in the apartment NOT having sex with ANYBODY because this episode is all about playing video games! We discuss queer representation in video games, growing up as a gamer, the absolutely sickening specifics of Final Fantasy, and knowing about all of these topics intimatel...
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The Next Gay Obsession: Line Dancing? (w/ Josh Sharp) | WHGS Ep. 273

May 19, 2025 • 71 mins
This episode is bustin’ a move, listener! Josh Sharp is an iconic actor, writer, and comedian behind A24’s hit movie “Dicks: The Musical,” but today he’s in the apartment for a no-pants dance! In addition, hilarious stand-up comedian Lizzy Cassidy joins us as temporary co-host while Maddie is out of town! We discuss the phenomenon of line dancing in the sapphic world, why it has become so popular, the joys it brings, and the reject...
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Become Bi — Because Lesbian Divorce Statistics are WILD w/ Emily Wilson | WHGS Ep. 272

May 12, 2025 • 66 mins
This episode is bisexual as heck, listener! Emily Wilson is an amazing comedian, writer, and actor who was nominated for “Best Newcomer” at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, but today she’s in the apartment to be nominated for “Best CUMMER” with the LADIES! In addition, we are joined by the hilarious and whip-smart comedian Lizzy Cassidy while Maddie is out sick. We discuss maintaining your bisexuality in a long-term cishet relationsh...
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Conquer Fear of Rejection with This EASY TRICK w/ Jared Goldstein | WHGS Ep. 271

May 5, 2025 • 68 mins
This episode is confident, listener! Jared Goldstein (Black Mirror, The Unicorn, JFL) is a one-of-a-kind comedian, actor, and podcaster that will have you rolling around on the floor laughing, but today he’s in the apartment to roll around UNDER THE SHEETS! In addition, we are joined by comedian and queerbaiting girlie Yvette Segan as temporary co-host while Maddie is on tour! We discuss getting nervous in queer flirting, creative ...
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Overcoming Comphet to Always-Coming Hard w/ Alaire Thomas | WHGS Ep. 270

April 28, 2025 • 65 mins
This episode is discovering itself, listener! Alaire Thomas is your favorite queer content creator that has been taking the internet by STORM, but today she’s in the apartment to do some taking of your GAY VIRGINITY! We discuss compulsory heterosexuality and its effects on the coming out process, building confidence to hit on women, leather jackets and their effect on getting you laid, and if it's remotely possible to be polyamorou...
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Lesbians Have a Racism Problem w/ Sienna Hubert-Ross | WHGS Ep. 269

April 21, 2025 • 63 mins
(TW // racism/domestic violence; skip 33:46 - 35:17 & 53:18 - 55:26 to avoid) This episode is a dialogue, listener! Sienna Hubert-Ross is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, actor, and writer who you’ve seen all over your TikTok feed, but today she’s in the apartment to be all over your BODY! In a unique episode, we are also joined by her best friend, comedy club manager, and secret lover Mae Neil in lieu of a co host. ...
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Yvette Segan Prefers to Stay in the Closet | WHGS Ep. 268

April 14, 2025 • 70 mins
(TW // SA; skip 43:05 - 56:40 to avoid) This episode is QUESTIONING, listener! Yvette Segan is a hilarious stand up comedian, content creator, and producer who performs in comedy clubs across the U.S., but today she’s in the apartment because she’s having some “performance anxiety” around women, IF YOU CATCH OUR DRIFT! We discuss questioning if you’re bisexual despite all signs suggesting that you definitely are, sexual trauma and ...
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Claire Sundbye Sleeps With Women in a Dog Bed (Not a Joke) | WHGS Ep. 267

April 7, 2025 • 69 mins
This episode is GRIMY, listener! Claire Sundbye is an amazing Chicago-based standup comedian, opener for Ashley, and hamster mom, but today she’s in the apartment for some DOGGYSTYLE (bedding). We discuss preferring to sleep and bang in a literal dog-bed, leaving embarrassing surprises in your soulmate’s toilet, taking a penis sabbatical as a lesbian, and how NOT to eat a whole sleeve of Oreos as your only meal. Ashley rides a cowg...
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How to NOT Date a Trans Person w/ Sunny Laprade | WHGS Ep. 266

March 31, 2025 • 66 mins
This episode is REJECTED, listener! Sunny Laprade is a hilarious stand-up comedian and trans woman who has been doing comedy with Ashley since she was 14, but now she’s grown and in the apartment to become 69!!! We discuss absolutely DISASTROUS dates with other trans people, the long journey of coming out as a trans woman, going through it while baring all on stage, and how there is nothing funnier than getting dead-named by your s...
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I Have My First MMF Experience (w/ Breanne Williamson) | WHGS Ep. 265

March 24, 2025 • 68 mins
This episode is MESSY, listener! Breanne Williamson is a content creator, comedian, filmmaker, and beloved co-host of WHGS, but today she is a journalist uncovering the truth as I tell the follow up to my CRAZIEST and MESSIEST hookup story ever! We discuss my first ever MMF (Masc-Masc-Femme) three-way, the insanity of how it came about, and how the boring city of Calgary is somehow the thirstiest city alive. Bre, who opened for me ...
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My Girlfriend Jen Davis and I Podcast From Bed | WHGS Ep. 264

March 17, 2025 • 60 mins
This episode is deeply in love, listener! Jen Davis is an actor, content creator, and MY GIRLFRIEND, and today we decided to show you the visceral details of what we do together in bed: PODCAST! We switch up our usual format while the crew is on vacation and try out “Pillow Talk,” where Jen and I talk intimately from our bedroom in an idea that totally hasn’t been done the exact same way by hundreds of other creators. We open up. W...
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