Minka Kelly's Thoughts on Marriage Spark Interesting Conversation

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Episode Transcript

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Harry Styles, it's kiss fm um, am, I am I gonna.
I don't know how am I gonnafeel during this trending report right now?
Well? I picked it because Ithought I would tickle your pickle. Well,
I'm just gonna say in my walkup song, where is it there?
It is? So? Can wenot use that phrase anymore? Why?

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Uh, sissy, let's take avote. I think it's a little
inappropriate. Is it tickle your fancy? Is that better? Better? Better?
Yeah? I don't want my kidsto hear that. I'm with you
on that because I feel like alittle taken a like a I don't know
I could find tickle your fancy.I thought it would tickle your fancy.
I gotta look at that one uptoo, but sure. Um. Anyway,

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So the thing is, I hadsomeone say to me not seven days
ago, we need to find outwhy you're so afraid of marriage? Right?
Oh geez? Yeah? It isinteresting though, ye, but why
why why are you not afraid?Uh? I feel like it's not for

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me. I've said this before,because you don't you're you're afraid that it's
going to fail. I'm not gonna. I don't know, I don't know
I just hear so many scary storiesabout why doesn't matter, Like you have
a happy my parents have a happymarriage, you have a happy marriage.
But then I have friends like,right, you don't need to compare yourself

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to everybody else, please you don't. I leave in a game of the
world of comparison. So anyway,I'm just telling you that's that's what's going
on. There's the lay of theland. Didn't that change after forty that
the comparing? Uh No, Idon't maybe the compare, but I do
listen to all the different stories,and like all the narratives are in my

(01:56):
head. Yeah, it's also muchabout comparing. I think what you're trying
to say is like you hear allthese horror stories, so it's like a
little like I don't want to yeah, but again I see my parents.
So anyway, this is not atraining report for me. This is a
training report for you, Tanya.But whoever that person was, I would
encourage you to explore it because Ido think getting to the root of these
things would kind of just open up. It would just like open your mind
up to different things that you didn'treally realize, you know what I mean.

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Funny, I blocked them. Okay, so somebody I don't know how
to block them, but I'm ignoringthem. Minka Kelly is doing promo for
her new memoir and it's called TellMe Everything. That's coming out early May.
But she said something that I reallywanted to hone in on, and
it's respect her perspective on marriage.She said, I don't know about marriage.
I'm not opposed to it. Ithink I might be a little afraid

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of it. I don't have ablueprint of it really working out. It's
not the most important thing to me. And I found this to be interesting
because I feel like oftentimes we feelwe need to change our views, or
if you're dating somebody for a reallylong time and you don't necessary sarely have
the same views on marriage or children, you feel like you have to compromise,

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and these are big things to compromiseon. And so I just I
felt the story was encouraging because Ithink that it's okay. I think Minka
Kelly will find the shoe that's goingto fit her foot, do you know
what I'm saying? Like, Ithink she will meet somebody that might have
the same opinion or have the sameviewpoint as her. He's great that she
said this. I do too.Just rereading the quote, I don't know

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about Marriges. I'm not appost toit. I think maybe a little afraid
of it because I don't have theblueprint. That's interesting because I have the
blueprint and I'm still afraid of it. Correct. Maybe she have Mika on
to talk about this love. I'msure she'd come on. She's promoting her
memoirs, memoir between Okay. Thewords that we can't say, well,

(03:57):
well were four of them both memoirand put it out and we all struggle
with certain words. Those are mine, um, yeah, very and she
I'm really glad to hear her sayit, though, me too because I
also think too, there's a littlebit of this stigma out there that all
women want marriage and that all peopleat some point have to be But I

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don't think that's the stigma any partthat was the stigma, Like, yeah,
ten years ago, fifteen years we'restill. I wonder if Nika gets
people like I get people saying tome, we need to figure out why
you don't want to get married.I want to think strangers say that to
her too. I think she's exploringit. She seems like a therapy girl
to me, did you are youspeculating or I am speculating just because no,

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I saw a bunch of the pressthat she's been doing it. All
right, great, well, thankyou for that. There's a therapy session
this morning. Yeah, he's goodto have one. When you ever walk
out of therapy not feeling better tanynever one time, because I was like,
really getting to a breakthrough and shelike, time's up. I was
like, are you joking to waitanother week to figure this out? Oh?

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Boy? Keeping you coming back formore? Yeah? All right,
here's the song or something about apologizeme. I'd rather hit him up one.
Hey you heard this for six monthsin my place, but I got
you. Domin is a remake ofit, Yeah, but it's not the
original. Yeah. I was inthe gym doing a heavy weight set and

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her and that's all we can play. What are you listening, by the
way, your heavy weight set,that's what he really wants to talking about.
What we're talking about, how heavyexercise and plates, plates, plates,
arms, If you're doing arms andchest chest, I have forty fives
on the bar. Oh on thebar? Wow? The bar already a

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