August 11, 2024 • 38 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This Jon would Ben podcast. Hey, that's us broad to
you by Hello Fresh the Experts and Tastes.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
That kiwis love.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
It is the final of the Olympics today, the opening, sorry,
the closing ceremony is about to take place right now.
And it's been our most successful Olympics ever. Twenty medals,
ten gold, which is Brent just a credit.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Just seem like flurry of gold medals over the week.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Yeah, towards the end there, I think we were sitting
fourth on the per capita table.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Don't worry. I checked that yesterday.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Fourth on the per capital table, Australian eighth. So who's hey,
there's just I didn't do too much digging.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
But Ozzie your raids.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
We're fourth.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
So been so good, so many amazing performances. Lisa Carrington
of course in the kayaks, Lydia Coe goal Forlise Andrew cycling,
Finn Butcher, Hamish kur Hi jump, it's been just amazing
to watch.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
You're going to cross to Paris very shortly. Hamish curR,
the high jump gold medalist, We're going to talk to him.
I think he's walking into the closing ceremony, so no
better setting for Hamish to do a radio interview. We're
going to talk to him.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Megan's away today. He's got the vid.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Yeah, the vid still around and I think it's always
Noel Lisle said, the the sprinter, Yeah he did, yeah,
and he came.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Still got a bronze.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
He's got bronze, and there two hundred meters as well.
You got a golden and then the bronze as well.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Yeah, bood he floating around everywhere, isn't it.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
I think it's always going to be like that, Like
the flu. They always said that was going to end
up kind of like the.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Yeah, why don't we just treat it like that? From
the gig's do we have all that weird little.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Don't you knock on your neighbors sort of period?
Speaker 2 (01:22):
What a crazy time of the world.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Here's a new thing.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
People down to cat shit. Just welcome it and brace it.
Well we have now, Yeah, you're right. It was a
crazy time in the world. I tell you, I invented
a new Olympic sport over the weekend. Now this is
something that on Friday afternoon I had to take the
cat to the vet. Now, the cat, it's interesting because
the cat doesn't know yes to go to the vet,
so come home the cats. You know, nine times out
of ten the cats sleeping inside.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Not this day.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
Yeah, but you never know where a cat is. Listen
to the dog. They were within the confines of the property.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
So I walked around the neighborhood like shaking cat biscuits
and stuff like that, trying to get the cat.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
You know, the cat does the cats speaking of you've
got this cat during lockdown bubble, Yeah, we caught it
because it was in our bubble. But cat didn't come back.
So I had to ring the VT and say, look,
can't find the cat.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
You can't whistle a cat, you can't can't cat.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
And they're like Nick, They're like, it's fine. If keep
you'll probably come back for food tonight and then in
the morning. And if you want to just keep him
inside after breakfast, then bring him in first thing Saturday morning.
I'm like, yeah, no worries, I can do that. Saturday
morning textbook. Keep the cat inside. About five minutes away
from when I need to go to the v it
which is not far from home, and I'm like cool,
got the cat in this little cat cage ready to go,
(02:30):
and went to leave, and then went the car because
my wife and one of wife and daughters had gone
to nitball. The other car my wife's car, so I
was going to drive. We lifted up the road at
the pub the night before.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Oh no, I said to walk with the cage.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
No.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
So I was like, Okay, well here's what I'm going
to do it. It's new and I was inspired by
the Olympic athletes. I was like, it's about a ca
I'm going to run. I'm going to sprint. I'm going
to sprint. So that's the first part of the cat tathon.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
It's a sprint to get your car, then to drive back,
get the cat and the cat, get the cat, and
then get to the vit within an amount of time.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
Was the cat still in the cageman got home?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Yeah? Book cats like sitting by the door step. What
are you doing here?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
What's going on?
Speaker 2 (03:03):
I'm sprending down the road.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
But to feel like an Olympic athlete as well, So
and got to the Now it was a couple of
minutes late.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
To be honest, could you have ubered?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I probably could have.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Yeah, I think you can get pet ubers now, yeah,
well you can take you pet ubers.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
I think special pet ubers but I was like, no,
it's all right. So what I'll do a stressful sprint
to the car. Hangover, yeah, hangover part of the Vendo
as well. Yeah, I think the cat dusty cat deathline.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
That's how it works. And then you get back and
there you go.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
So if that's a little Olympic sport you want to play,
if you've got withdrawals, you can do that.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
This week and involves a cat. You got to buy
yourself a cat. On guess booking an event's very booking.
Maybe there's other thanks you cant.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
The hEDS that johnaan Ben podcast.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It was a big weekend next year. It was fun.
We we m seed.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
We hosted an awards night for the House of the Year,
the Master Builders House of the Year, and it.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Was a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
It was great until one moment. Now the rugby was
on at the same time. We're like, oh, this is
you know, a team room full of builders architects.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
They want to the rugby. We may lose their attention.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
So we're like, maybe we should give rugby updates throughout
the evening. We're on stage, We're like, who wants there?
Everyone's like yeah, And then you picked someone at random
You're like you mate, you were going to be our guy,
right yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
And I was like, you better get up on stage
here because I had a gag prepared as well as
the building industry. And I was like, I think you've
lift your tool up here, mate, come on, get up
on stage.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Come on, you get up on you let's get him
up on stage.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
So what was the gag going to be?
Speaker 1 (04:24):
So the gag was I know about that what I'm
making it seem like it was your gag.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
So the geg you went on this too?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I think I come up with.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
So the gig was the geg was one of the builders.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
You've lift your tools and the toilet and you hold
up this mirror and everybody's going, what it's a mirror?
I know you think this is just a humble mirror.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
But no.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
And then I was like, one of the builders, please
come up here. So I picked this gentleman. So what's
your name?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
In the front? Great near the front is.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
A great location to get up on stage.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
What yourname? My name is Reese?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Come up here, rece You're a big round of applause
for eased to get up here.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
And then went on stage. You're going to go, hey,
it's a mirror. No, no, it's a stud finder.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
That was the ga and this was coming and then
you hold the mirror to the fate and it's a
stud fighter. So it's a great bit of comedy, but
a prop comedy. But you got you're out propped in
the comedy department. So as I called this guy rece up,
I see him sort of hubbling, hobbling and and sort
of struggling to get out of his seat. And I'm like, oh,
dear God, and he pulls out some crutches and I'm like,
(05:20):
oh Jesus, oh no, oh no.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
And there was stairs up to this.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
As he gets up on his crutches, the whole rooms
are oh oh, and obviously oh is he Thankfully it
was a broken foot.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
It looked like a cast.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
The only way it could have been worse was if
it was anyone in a wheelchair.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
The problem is when you was sitting down, you don't
know what the situation.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Then he got up on stage and year toil half
hardly put the mirror out for the study.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
And it wasn't worth him. I saw the effort getting
up on the stage.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Sorry, this wasn't worth your time, and it took him
about ten minutes to get up the stairs, and then
I kind of helped him down the stairs like an
elderly person, and I was, yeah, we won't be asked
back there.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Oh my god. Next remember that it was so sorry,
I don't mean to drag this out.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
The other one and we're at the the fundraiser for
cancer and that guy, the guipe has finished the.
Speaker 6 (06:10):
Heads that johnaan Ben podcast.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Megan now, the wonderful Megan purpose Away got a message,
didn't we on the WhatsApp group Chap guys down with
the vid, I haven't heard anyone catching COVID and they
no Alyles the sprinter. Yeah, but then he came out
and he ran like I thought. I thought, we just
want me to pretend we don't have it, and you
just keep coming to work.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Well, yeah, I remember for Noah Lyles is probably a
good reason why he's he got third in the event
that he was thought that he.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Was going to win. Noah Isles still came to work
with COVID.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Third fastest in the world.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Meghan can't even come here and get some words out
of her mouth. No, but we were missing Meghan. She'll
be hopefully back in a couple of days. Don't know
how long. You can just return when you feel better.
Now came down pretty much.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I think.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Who cares about them anyway? So Taylor, you're filling in
for Megan today. Dear Meghan, she did send you a
message that someone had DM to her.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Yep, big shoes to Phil.
Speaker 8 (07:02):
So I'll read it out, Hi, tem I would like
to know what Megan and the boys think about my situation.
My girlfriend and I have been together since we're in
our mid twenties, and we did enjoy partying together back
in the day. But now I'm in my thirties and
I'm pretty keen to settle down and get married. I
want to propose to her, but her partying is becoming
an issue for me.
Speaker 7 (07:21):
I haven't.
Speaker 8 (07:22):
I have talked to her about it, and it does
feel like we're at different stages, even though we are
the same age. But I love her like crazy and
I know I want to be with her and settle down,
but I also don't want to change her or give
her an ultimatum.
Speaker 7 (07:36):
What do you guys reckon?
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Ooh party girl?
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
We yearn you know, obviously they're in love, but different
stages the relationship that they're not wanting to see.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Let her run party girls don't get it hurts us.
They just keep just watch it, keep her away from
the chandeliers. This lady, by the sounds of it, you,
I don't know. You don't want to change anyone, do you?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
We'll you know, well, you know, will she mellow a
little bit from a party where some of these still
people that love you going having a good time at
whatever age?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
But will she mellow? And is it really is it
affecting the even nights a week or is.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
It it's probably just only couple of days on the weekend.
Speaker 8 (08:16):
Yeah, but I guess if they're both working full time
Monday to Friday, he probably cherishes that time they get
together on the weekend. And if she's going out, I
could see how that would be a bit annoying because
you'd be like, well, am I not good enough?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Might not a fun times some champagne? Emotional and intelligence
thinking from experience, what would you do in this situation?
Speaker 7 (08:38):
If I was him, I.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
Would, I know he said he already talked to her,
But if I would still have another sit down with
her and be like, look, I want to take that
next step in our relationship, but this is bothering me
a bit. So I don't want to jump unless you're
fully committed too. I'm prepared to meet halfway, like I'll
come out with you and your friends here and there.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
But I did some quiet time Netflix and chill as well. Yeah,
eight hundred, So we love your advice on this four
for eighty seven. So should this guy's back out of
proposing to his partner early thirties, she still loves partying?
He wants to button off the partying. Yeah, he's done
with it. I mean some it does reach a stage
where I remember we used to go out.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
And then one of my friend's dads would come out
with us.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Oh, because all his mates are like, oh mate, mate,
But he still head it in him.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
He still the party juice.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
I don't feel that sometimes we age shame people as well.
I mean maybe hanging out with the young people. But
if you want to go party, guard party, you know,
why should.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
You be judged?
Speaker 4 (09:31):
What would you do? Would you back out of the
proposal if you were wanting to settle down but she.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Was still conversation.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
I don't know if you're back out of the proposal,
but it probably there's a way to navigate through that.
And I'm sure there's people listening right now. They probably
had someone in their relationship party too much. Does it
you know, does it stop eventually or do you find
some sort of middle grounds or do you just call
time on the relationship.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Maybe it's happened to you, Andrew. The hat's four four
eight seven. Let's get some good advice together. Megan's away today,
so we need to good advice to go back.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
I let down, dear Megan.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Without Meghan, we could tarnish this wonderful part of the shows.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
On Us the Heads that Jona wan Ben Podcast.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
First of all, dem Meghan pull Meghan away, got the
VID test and positive, and me Meghan handed over the
reins to you producer Taylor yup Son't miss this.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Up summary now of what we need to get a
reply back on.
Speaker 8 (10:24):
All right, my girlfriend and I have been together since
we were in our mid twenties, and we did enjoy
partying together back in the day. But now I'm in
my thirties and I'm pretty keen to settle down and
get married. I'd want to propose to her, but her
partying is becoming an issue for me. I've talked to
her about it, and it does feel like we're at
different stages in life, even though we are at the
same age. But I love her like crazy and I
(10:45):
know I want to be with her, but I also
don't want to change her give her an ultimatum.
Speaker 4 (10:49):
Oh well, yea early thirties for me.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Personally, myly thirties, I started to well by the end
of my thirties, started to be that person that I
was low key stoked when an event was canceled.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
Preach you know, that's those those are good. Sometimes there's
those ones who are like, oh, thank god, we don't
have to do that. That's what stage he wants his
partner to be. He's there already. We'll get some advice
from you, Carleen.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
What do you think?
Speaker 4 (11:11):
What do you think should happen here? Should he back
out of the engagement?
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Maybe put it on pause a little one's put it on.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
I still stay with her, don't leave.
Speaker 5 (11:20):
Her, No, no, no, But I definitely saying if they
need to sit up at date night where it's just
for two of them, they go out and start every
Saturday night.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
If she can't manage to keep one night, that's solely
for them, and then maybe she's not the one.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
Are they're getting wasted on the date night? That's the
big question.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
That's a good idea. That's a really good idea, sit
up one night that would work when.
Speaker 8 (11:42):
It Yeah, absolutely, And like what you said, Carlin, if
she can't stick to that, well then obviously her priorities
aren't the same as yours and something doesn't add up here.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Yeah, well maybe she's not isn't.
Speaker 7 (11:54):
Exactly no, one hundred percent your partner.
Speaker 8 (11:57):
If you can't put them as number one at least
once a week, then mate, I put my dog number
one every week.
Speaker 7 (12:05):
Number two.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
I saw a video of you on social media of
the week and geez, you're bailing your eyes out about
how much you.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Love your dog. Oh my god, my god, it's a dog.
Is a dog.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
I love that dog so much. I'm like, oh my god,
holding it so I know you're pregnant or mine.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
But I'm like, geez, oh you're.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
At a hints to a week in too, Yeah, the hints.
This is just it was the dog.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
I was like, geez. I was like, poor Louis, is
he going And he's like.
Speaker 7 (12:32):
No, he's just he's going.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Can we play the audio of it is a good audio.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
It's just me great, okay, great in the meantime, Madden,
This gentleman he wants to propose to his partner.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
She's partying hard bruh.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
What does he do?
Speaker 6 (12:49):
Buy a champagne? No, seriously, woman mature?
Speaker 9 (12:56):
Definitely in the mean.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Right, yeah, I guess even does at different times.
Speaker 5 (12:59):
Yeah, yeah, exactly, So I mean, give her time.
Speaker 8 (13:02):
Maybe she's so stressed at work she needs to relax
a little bit. You don't know the work situation.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
You don't know anything.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Really, It's true.
Speaker 8 (13:10):
That he wants to propose, and at the end of
the day, give a time.
Speaker 6 (13:15):
Movie, you love them, you'll stay with them.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
Yeah, what's he got some helpizza? That's great advice.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
It seems to be the general consensus.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Yeah, give a time and maybe the date night. It's
a really good suggestion. Yeah, okay, that's right.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Go back with there we go have. My mate went
out forty five years old. He went to a bar
of the bounces like you're not going to like it,
and then made He's like, you don't know me. He
went in there, walked out three minutes later.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
You did, right?
Speaker 6 (13:37):
The heads that John and Ben podcast.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
It's a National Middle Child Day around the world today.
Speaker 4 (13:43):
This day that's probably usually forgotten about.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Yeah, the recognizing the importance suspecial places of middle children,
not the oldest nor the youngest of the middle child.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Yeah, now will you haven't in your family.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
I've got a lot lots of you know, lots of
his sister half sisters, Lindon John. Yeah, I'm the I'm
the oldest, so I'm not sitting in the middle there
or anything like that.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
But mind you you were left off two trips to
Movie World, Hollywood on the Gold Coast when you.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Think, because I was, and they kind of moved to
a new relate. They moved on.
Speaker 4 (14:09):
We've got bene quits now moved.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
I'm over here, so I kind of I could sympathize
with the middle jobs.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
You know, when you celebrate your day as well, get
acknowledged too. Someone takes into about our torch.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
We've got our own torch ceremony going on, as the
closing ceremony happens at the moment. In no way associated.
But we turned on a dolphin torch last Wednesday, six
o'clock in the morning. Someone's ticking, going, how's the torch
can still gone, still blazing blazing like I shone it
and produced had his eyes this morning and she was
like pulling the fingers like it's still bright.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Yeah, So we'll keep an eye on it, where one
of us is keeping an eye on it all through
the night as well. We're setting up little cameras as
well so when it does run out of battery, if
it ever runs out of battery. So someone will you
get an inter at the hits breakfast on Facebook?
Speaker 4 (14:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Now, fresh back from the weekend, aren't we in a
pretty generic question that's asked around most office places or
workplaces in the country, as you know, how's your weakn
how was your weekend? And firstly, no one cares how
you weaken was? Secondly you just always something I asked you.
You're like, good, it's been forty eight hours and you
just come and beat.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
With a mine.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
But I do know, I know that when someone says that,
they probably don't really want to hear. Everyone's in the
mind frame of frame of mind that it ripped the
plaster off, get the week started.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
Let's not worry.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Yeah, now and again I might meet one little thing
and just is a little thing. God good, I went to,
you know, and see if that gets something to he
Sometimes we'll just go oh yeah, you know, but sometimes
you go, oh bad, I had to, you know, crush
the car. They're like, oh yeah, great, you know, listen
to what I said.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
But then the other one, too, is on email where
you go, hope all is well?
Speaker 2 (15:41):
Yeah? Which is?
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Which is? There's just a bunch of fellow.
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Content annoys me. It's like no one, you know, I
hope this email finds you. You know, we all you
need to say that because you can't just cut and
cut to the chase.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Why can't we should?
Speaker 4 (15:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:53):
And even if like all is not well in that
person's life, they're hardly about to bloody unload over email.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
Are they on a work email? Actual?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Sleeping out of my car? Oh great, I was just
asking about a meeting. But here's a bit of advice.
When you ask someone how's it going, you shouldn't actually
say how's it going? He listen, All right, I've ripped
this off instagreen.
Speaker 10 (16:16):
I stop asking the question how's it going? Because nobody's
listening to the answer, and ernest society stop asking the
question what question should they be asking? What's coming up
for you?
Speaker 11 (16:26):
Right?
Speaker 10 (16:26):
Now, what's the best thing that happened to you over
the weekend? What excites you about going home to your family?
That is when we start hearing it, what's going on
in the inside of individuals?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Right, They are great questions, but at the same time,
the key factor is the key effector there like I
do like like talking to people. But what excites you
about going home to your family? You're like, there was
this guy asking about what way am I getting excited
about my family?
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (16:55):
I got home to the very night.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
I mean, I love to seeing my family.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
But yeah, but what does excit you? Good? Just come
back with a good also, I also love Ah.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
We should really, we should. We should hang out sometimes,
we should catch up up. No one in the history
of ever saying we should catch up sometimes even caught
up sometimes, or.
Speaker 4 (17:15):
Keep in to make sure you keep in touch, keep
in touch. I'll be there in five minutes.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
No, you won't.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
You won't just leaving the location now because you've forgotten
you to meet me.
Speaker 6 (17:25):
Yeah, that's all things they have, the hits that John
and Ben podcast, or been something you saw on social
media that's undersettled.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
I just saw the you know, sometimes you're scrolling through
social media and you don't have the sound. The sound
doesn't always come on. So I just saw the photo
of you, photos of producing taless dog. I was gonna say,
a lovely Lois, but he's a bit snarly. He's lovely
when you get to know tumultuous relationship something like that.
I think we're good now, but at the start we're
(17:56):
a little bit yeah, but little dish.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
So I saw something.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
It was like photos of Louis go make a Ford
and just produce a Taylor just pulling her eyes, you know,
like crying, and I'm like, oh, dear God, does something
happened because louis your baby having babies?
Speaker 7 (18:08):
But yeah, she's my number one baby.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
I'll go on, and something happened to Loyd?
Speaker 4 (18:13):
So what happened? What was going on?
Speaker 8 (18:14):
Okay, so absolutely nothing happened. And my husband was just
in our spare bedroom waiting to record the podcast.
Speaker 7 (18:22):
That we're doing.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
It's the mon Toys out now on my Heart Radio downloaded, thank.
Speaker 8 (18:26):
You, and our producer was setting up and Muscle I
happened to get a notification from Apple saying that they
created a new slideshow for him to watch about the dog,
and he just showed me and started playing it.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
I love how they do that on the phone.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Andy by the beach, my daughter, three of the photos
of my daughter by the beach, by the water or something.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
I'm like, I was weird.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
I was doing this Apple.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
I hope no one is actually like it's a real
person going through a gold god John the.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Toilets a montage sitting on the.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I was doing this any it's just the phone doing it, but.
Speaker 4 (19:06):
No one's looking stream. Okay, so we have audio here.
This is Taylor watching a montage a algorithm. Sorry and Ai.
It is to get the montage of her dog Louis.
Speaker 3 (19:18):
Okay, can I say I love the music for and
foremost year.
Speaker 12 (19:30):
I'm crying because I love him so much. Chances dog,
(19:54):
you're sober.
Speaker 4 (19:57):
Well, yeah, it's lovely that you love him so much,
And you.
Speaker 8 (20:00):
Know what, like I could probably cry right now, you
know what you're about, Just thinking like he's been my
number one since I moved to this country, and like,
I hope he doesn't think that now I'm pregnant.
Speaker 7 (20:12):
Well I don't know if he knows I'm pregnant, but like.
Speaker 8 (20:15):
That doesn't I'm scared that he'll when the babies come,
he'll think that he's second fiddle and that's not the
third fiddle actually twins. Yeah, so we're going to try
and move his bed in the in the baby rooms
every time I have to wake up and feet.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
So we're going to keep just can we keep this
better audio right now? And we're going to check back
in on a year's time and we're going to find
out where things have things change they have where was
saying the same thing she was like before the dog
and him, but now she's like, oh the.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
Dog is outside or whatever.
Speaker 4 (20:47):
That won't be me.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
But that's a year's time, all right, we'll find out
very sweet the hormones are extra genuine.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
That's how you'll do that. If you were pregnant cry
like that. I think I will cry like that without
say I'd say you would. Yeah, you do that.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
You love that.
Speaker 6 (21:05):
The Heads That Joan Ben podcast.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
We played this earlier this morning and it was very
poignant given the life stage you're in, because you've got
some big news.
Speaker 7 (21:14):
Yeah, preggers with TWINSGS with twins?
Speaker 4 (21:17):
Is that your standard line? Preggers with twins?
Speaker 2 (21:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (21:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (21:20):
When I told my dad, I said, I'm knocked up
that's a good term to use.
Speaker 4 (21:24):
When you appear in surprise, when you're like twins.
Speaker 8 (21:27):
Yes, oh my god, Yes, there's none in our family,
so it was it.
Speaker 4 (21:32):
Yeah, I feel like you're carrying two human beings.
Speaker 7 (21:35):
Yes, can you guys see my face?
Speaker 8 (21:37):
Don't you think I've lost a bit of my pizzazz
in the last five months?
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Yeah? Yeah, okay, I'll be honest.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
The amount of beanbag setting in your life is gone
from zero to one hundred humans.
Speaker 7 (21:55):
These chairs are not twin friendly, so.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
I probably noticed that.
Speaker 7 (21:59):
Yeah, I haven't hit it from anyone.
Speaker 4 (22:02):
You look inside because you're creating humans and side.
Speaker 8 (22:06):
Then girls, and so they apparently trained the beauty out
of you. Boys make you glow.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
I really set the beauty well, you still look radiant
in our eyes.
Speaker 7 (22:14):
I don't believe you, but thank you.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
Sorry to say. Taylor played this audio.
Speaker 5 (22:20):
Now.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
This is a lady who's she's just given birth only
two days previous, forty eight hours previous. The demand from
her partner to make a meal, to prepare a meal
because his parents are coming over. Take a listen, you
want me.
Speaker 13 (22:32):
To do a roost? Can I just remind you of something?
I gave birth two days ago. Yeah, two days ago,
and he came out hospital straight away. You've been sitting
around nor this time.
Speaker 11 (22:44):
So if you make a rock.
Speaker 13 (22:45):
To send me home to get rest at home.
Speaker 4 (22:48):
But you've been doing nothing but rest and see I
mean sorry.
Speaker 13 (22:54):
That I need caffeine to keep going with a newborn baby.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
And it's not easy for me either. Right, I didn't
give No, I'm sleeping.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
You stop talking, bro, stop talking.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
About rules, not just giving before.
Speaker 7 (23:11):
Wow wow, absolutely not except no, you're right.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Somebody could tell him about roast shops and outlets.
Speaker 3 (23:21):
You're just checking her hunk well to be fear to him.
You're just chunking a hunk of meeting some veggies and
a train into the oven.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
You can do it himself. Actually, is not the hardest
thing the cock can.
Speaker 8 (23:30):
I just say my my mom went through pretty much
the exact same thing as that. So she had just
given birth to me. She's been dispatched at home with
the baby. My dad's gotten the case of man flu.
His parents have come over to meet me, just so
she did.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
The finger things.
Speaker 7 (23:49):
My grandma.
Speaker 8 (23:50):
My dad's mom goes, oh, suit, do you mind making
an your husband some soup?
Speaker 7 (23:56):
Like he's not looking too good.
Speaker 4 (23:59):
There goes down with suit.
Speaker 7 (24:01):
She's a chip off the old block mate, so you
can just imagine.
Speaker 4 (24:04):
All right, so Italians did get a suit.
Speaker 7 (24:08):
I think she told him to go.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Shove it up, drink it or that was so alright?
Speaker 3 (24:16):
This is all we want to check open on the Heads.
Have you done an outrageous activity after giving birth? Just
just only a matter of hours or days after giving.
Speaker 2 (24:25):
We were in the process of giving birth. We talk
about people drive themselves to the hospitals.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
There was a lady who spoke to once she drove
herself to the hospital. Her partner was in the passenger seat. Well,
he didn't like driving in Wellington traffic.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
You know, what did you do after giving birth or
on the way to giving birth?
Speaker 6 (24:47):
The Heads that johnaan Ben podcast.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
And we're just talking about what you did as you
were giving birth or straight after giving birth. Now, Sam
joins New Zealand's Breakfast on eight one hundreds the Heads.
Speaker 4 (24:58):
How are you this morning?
Speaker 2 (24:59):
Sam?
Speaker 5 (24:59):
Good? Thanks?
Speaker 4 (25:00):
How we're doing really well? It's lovely to have you
on the show this morning.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Now Sam, what did you do either as you were
giving birth or straight after birth?
Speaker 5 (25:08):
Well, when I was giving birth, so my mad wife
was on the way to home because I was in labor, and.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
Can I just say that the birth must have been successful?
About hearing the soundtrack in the background.
Speaker 5 (25:20):
Yes, sorry, I told him.
Speaker 4 (25:23):
It's wrong, skilled and these kids need to.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
Leave to shut up, Ben, this is radio, all right,
they need to respect audio as a medium.
Speaker 9 (25:31):
Continue on, Sorry, Sam, And yes, So I was in
labor and this was my second child, so I knew
what was going on, and I said to my husband,
he's coming out, He's coming and so he was listening
and he was talking to the ambulance, you know, to
get them here, and.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
They said can you see anything? And he had a
little no. Nine. I'm like, hey is And then I
just realized, well, I'm just going to have to do it.
He's not really being any help. So I just clouched
down and delivered my baby myself.
Speaker 4 (26:01):
Yourself, What do you mean you crouched down? Do you
sort of like hunch over? And what are you doing?
Can you tell us?
Speaker 5 (26:07):
Well, well, because you don't, And it's crazy because yeah,
I mean, I've been induced with my daughter and you know,
and had all this intervention and then she got taken
away to the Nikoo ward and everything. So this was
very different. But I was just thinking, well, gosh, I
have to do it. I know he's coming out, and
I didn't want him to like fall down or in anything.
So I got on my knees so there wasn't like
(26:29):
much room between the ground and him coming out, and
just kind of grabbed him if he came out, all right, So.
Speaker 4 (26:35):
You also you're kind of like on your knees, your hands.
Speaker 5 (26:39):
On the down, Yeah, like where the head gonna come out,
and you.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
Just caught it yourself, grabbed him out and put him
up and held him and then obviously.
Speaker 5 (26:50):
Billa cole Cord still attached, so I just had to
sit there holding him while waiting for somebody to turn up.
Speaker 4 (26:57):
She's quite the lion king moment.
Speaker 5 (26:59):
Yeah, that's so crazing.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Were you Was it hard?
Speaker 5 (27:05):
No? It was. I mean my daughter was a toddler.
She was quiet. She was two, so she was asleep
and the dogs were going crazy. So I was worrying that, oh,
she's going to wake up and be scared and like
with money. So yeah, in the time, I just did it.
So I forgot what your question was.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
Now, I actually forgot what it was.
Speaker 5 (27:25):
To be honest, I'm just thinking back.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
To it, that is a traumatic event, but really impressive.
The dogs.
Speaker 5 (27:33):
That wasn't very easy, just because I was walking around
in the bathroom like trying to be quiet as to
you know, not wake my daughter up and everything. And
then when it happened, I don't know, you just came
out and it was just time. I guess he was
ready to come out.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
So you know, there's moments and conversations that you have
like this where you go the women are just a fast,
superior species.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
Really, it was.
Speaker 5 (27:58):
Easier than the first period. Anyway, tell me that you
think to deliver your own baby. It's amazing.
Speaker 4 (28:05):
Don't talk it down, mate.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
It was Yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:07):
There's many doctors going no, no, you paid a lot of
money to turn about.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
That's very impressive. Thank you so much for sharing that
with us. You have BESLF a great day.
Speaker 5 (28:16):
Awesome, thank you.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Just on the text for a seven, my husband wanted
to go through McDonald's drive through on the way to
the hospital while I was in labor. Then at the
hospital complained so much that he was hungry and needed
coffee that the midwa had to send him to the
cafe there support in.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
Need of you do need sustenance to support. You need sustenance.
I've always said it.
Speaker 6 (28:37):
The heads that johna wan Ben podcast.
Speaker 3 (28:39):
This is Internet outrage where we each try and find
a headline from the Internet. We read the headline, we
all left to decipher maybe what the story is behind
the headline being you want to kick things off.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Yeah, there's a school in Texas. They're a school that
you can you don't. They don't have uniforms, but they've
caused outrage for something. They've made a rule. What do
you think the rule is in regarding to what the
students swear to school?
Speaker 4 (29:01):
They being cell phones approach out age. You know, I
reckon them. Cell phone banning is not working.
Speaker 3 (29:08):
But the amount of calms I'm having with kids in
school yards likes.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
I was gonna say, yeah.
Speaker 4 (29:19):
That sounded really terrible.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
Sorry Taylor, Sorry, I mean, but you know, I feel
like pleating it is really difficult.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
Well also because you know they're using a lot of
laptops and you can you know, there's miss.
Speaker 3 (29:34):
Anyway, So that's doggling. Something to do with uniform Yeah, uh,
Texas making them wear long trousers and the forty plus degree.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Because them outrage. No, they're banned students wearing.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
All black outfits, black tops and black pants. They reckon
it's associated the school and it's caused outrage. Have said
it's associated with maybe people, you know, mental health, depression,
also criminals as well.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
So we watched you. It's had fun learning environment wearing bright.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
Colored clothes to school, and it's caused outraged people like
what Yeah, Scott Robinson, the all black's not happy about
the Yeah as well, so I'm.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
Pretty sure they're pretty happy the all blacks are the
way bit. Maybe not today but in the hut.
Speaker 4 (30:16):
Yeah, black smife think that goes in my skin tone.
Speaker 2 (30:19):
Yeah, so I think it's going to change. But that's
caused outrage from back to school in America.
Speaker 3 (30:24):
With my very pasty white skin and my all black
clothing a lot like a zebra. Here's my headline. Internet
outraged over wife refusing to cook for in laws.
Speaker 4 (30:34):
Why, Well, I've pretty much given you the answer leading
into this.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
Well, yeah, I think, yeah, I think. And you brought
producer Taylor.
Speaker 8 (30:41):
Yeah, yeah, she indicates one thing.
Speaker 3 (30:43):
Hell, all the planets are aligning. It's a producing Taylor
pregnant with twins. The Internet is outraged over a man's
request of his wife to cook a roast for his parents.
Speaker 4 (30:56):
Now, for some reason she recorded this and put it online.
I don't know what. Got to do it for the views, baby,
have a listen.
Speaker 13 (31:02):
You want me to do roost? Can I just remind
you of something. I gave birth two days ago?
Speaker 4 (31:09):
Yeah, two days ago, and he came out just straight away.
Speaker 13 (31:12):
You've been sitting around this time. Send me home to
get rest at home.
Speaker 4 (31:18):
But you've been doing nothing.
Speaker 14 (31:19):
Rest the audio, But said the guy stopped the stopped
the audio.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
What does he do? I feel like I'm the Coronation Street.
Speaker 7 (31:33):
Stop talking an absolute idiot?
Speaker 2 (31:36):
Wow, how much would you fire up a fit?
Speaker 6 (31:38):
Was?
Speaker 4 (31:39):
Are you Marcello's Mum's coming over? She loves a roast?
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Yeah, because I wouldn't say that, but.
Speaker 4 (31:50):
His bloody dinners. But to be fear, he's to be
feel of the guy. He's like, you just do roasts.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Than I do. It was a far point.
Speaker 8 (31:57):
But at the same time, I'm trying to I'm trying
to find words aren't natural to my vocabulary right because
I can.
Speaker 7 (32:07):
I think you guys know exactly what I say.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
I think the world's with you.
Speaker 4 (32:11):
That's what the internet is.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
Forty els after give him I can see why that
shop exactly.
Speaker 6 (32:19):
The heads that John wan Ben podcast.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
I feel like, do I need to come clean about
something or do I just kind of I feel like
I've taken credit for something because my wife can.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
I ask a question, do you need to fill three
minutes of radio? Well, then you need to come clean.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
Yeah, So what happens.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
You know, my wife, who runs a busy operation is
you know a lot of people do around the country,
and every time I get in her car, drive her
car from time to time, I get a little frustrated
when it's not in a great state. I'm okay, right,
I'm going to so I drove the I'm going to
get it cleaned.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
Do you every time you get in another person's car,
probably in particularly partners, do you move the seat? Do
you change the seating range with it's a it's a
giant but beer in our relationship.
Speaker 1 (33:01):
But it's never a bug bit. No, I've never either way.
But I do know some people do.
Speaker 3 (33:04):
Get quite because she literally got her face against the windscreen,
that's how tight she ran.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
To move it back to get to move it forward
and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
But anyway, I was like, I'll get it and my
wife's busy, so I'm like, I'll get it cleaned.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
And it was on those occasions.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
Normally I would go to like a Washworld or whatever,
but I just drove past the place that does the
cleaning for you. And then I was like, great, I'll
go inside to have a hot drink, do some work
while they cleaned the car. Then I came home, I
was like said to Amanda, oh, I've cleaned your car.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Now. I kind of wasn't trying to take credit for it,
but I just kind of see to clean your car,
meaning like the car is clean.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
No, when you said I've cleaned your car, you definitely
took credit. No, I didn't try and take.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
It's lovely tics ladder when she gets there of the
car that was so nice she took the time to
clean it, clean it, and I'm like kind of like, oh, oh,
she thinks that I've cleaned the car, but I've got
the car cleaned, but I haven't actually cleaned the car.
And now I feel like, well do I just I've
taken the credit, but it's been three or four days now?
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Cool?
Speaker 4 (34:00):
I was school should be teaching already.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Yeah, we could, we could try.
Speaker 4 (34:03):
I mean she's still got the same number.
Speaker 2 (34:06):
Yeah, you try look here.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
So no suspicions have been raised.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
Well, no, I mean yeah, she did say that was
lovely that she might have thought that, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Because it was more clean or more professional than you would.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
Yeah, I wondered. I felt like it was better than
what if I had done it.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
This is a long do here we go, it's connecting
the truth line.
Speaker 4 (34:33):
We'll just say, did she know anything different about the cleaning?
Speaker 5 (34:36):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (34:36):
Yeah, you put a lot of effort in, so I'm
still going to take some credit.
Speaker 4 (34:39):
For Yeah, I'm not here to throw right.
Speaker 11 (34:42):
Hello. Oh hello, Hi, this is Gary.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
Gary.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
I feel like, Gary, what are you doing with what's phone?
Speaker 2 (34:58):
Okay, Carrie? Can we take this off? We'll take this
off the radio. Gary, I just got some words. I've
got some things. Have you noticed that when the car
has been a bit clean that my wife's anyway, we'll.
Speaker 4 (35:08):
Get have you noticed that Mena's car being a bit clean?
Speaker 6 (35:11):
And Gary?
Speaker 5 (35:12):
Sorry?
Speaker 2 (35:14):
Yeah, I said there's a lot going on. Gary.
Speaker 15 (35:18):
I'm getting my head around. Okay, now now I'm not
so worried about the car clean.
Speaker 6 (35:28):
At least the hits that John wan Ben podcast.
Speaker 1 (35:32):
I feel like, do I need to come clean about
something or do I just kind of I feel like
I've taken credit for something because my wife.
Speaker 4 (35:38):
Can I ask a question, do you need to fill
three minutes of radio?
Speaker 2 (35:43):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (35:43):
Yeah, well then you need to come clean?
Speaker 2 (35:45):
Yeah, So what happens?
Speaker 1 (35:46):
You know my wife, yes, who runs a busy operation
is you know a lot of people do around the country.
And every time I get in her car, drive her
car from time to time, I get a little frustrated
when it's not in a gray state. I'm like, okay, right,
I'm gonna you know, so I drove the other I'm
gonna get it cleaned.
Speaker 3 (36:02):
Do you every time you get in another person's car,
probably in particularly your partners, do you move the seat?
Do you change the seating range with it's a it's
a giant bug beer in.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
Our relationship, but it's never a bug beer. No, I've
never either way. But I do know some people do get.
Speaker 3 (36:16):
Quite because she has literally got her face against the windscreen,
that's how tight she ran the seat.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
To move it back, to get to move it forward
and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (36:23):
But anyway, I was like, I'll get it, and my
wife's busy, so I'm like, I'll get it.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Cleaned. And it was one of those occasions. Normally I
would go to like a Washworld or what, but I
just drove past the place that does the cleaning for you,
and then I was like, great, I'll go and soide
to have a hot drink, do some work while they
cleaned the car. And I came home. I was like
said to Amanda, Oh, I've cleaned your car. Now. I
kind of.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Wasn't trying to take credit for it, but I just
kind of see to clean your car, meaning like the
car is clean.
Speaker 4 (36:46):
No, when you see it, I've cleaned your car. You
definitely took a credit.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (36:51):
I didn't try and take It's lovely tics lader when
she gets there of the car go was so nice.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
She took the time to clean it clean. And I'm
like kind of like, oh, oh, she thinks that I've
cleaned the car, but I've got the car cleaned, but
I haven't actually cleaned the car.
Speaker 1 (37:05):
And now I feel like, well do I just I've
taken the credit. But it's been three or four days.
Now you're about school.
Speaker 4 (37:11):
I think she was school should be teaching already.
Speaker 2 (37:13):
Yeah, we could, we could try. I try.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
She's still got the same number. Yeah, you try look here,
So no suspicions have been raised.
Speaker 1 (37:23):
Well, no, I mean yeah, she did say that it
was lovely. That she might have thought that, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
Because it was more clean or more professional.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Than you would Yeah, I wondered. I felt like it
was better than what if I had done it.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
This is a long doll out.
Speaker 3 (37:40):
Oh, here we go, it's connecting the truth line.
Speaker 4 (37:44):
We'll just say, did she know anything different about the cleaning?
Speaker 5 (37:47):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (37:47):
Yeah, you put a lot of effort in. Oh so
I'm still going to take some credit for Yeah, I'm
not here to throw right.
Speaker 11 (37:53):
Hello. Oh hello, Hi, this is Gary.
Speaker 2 (38:03):
Gary. I feel like Garry, what are you doing with?
What's fine? Okay? Carry?
Speaker 1 (38:11):
Can we take this off? We'll take this off the radio. Gary,
I've just got some words. I've got some things. Have
you noticed that the car has been a bit clean
that my wife's got anyway, we'll get have you noticed
Mina's car being a bit clean?
Speaker 5 (38:22):
And Gary?
Speaker 1 (38:24):
Sorry, yeah, I said there's a lot going on.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
Gary.
Speaker 15 (38:29):
I'm getting my head around. Okay, now now I'm not
so worried about the car clean
This Jon would Ben podcast. Hey, that's us broad to
you by Hello Fresh the Experts and Tastes.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
That kiwis love.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
It is the final of the Olympics today, the opening, sorry,
the closing ceremony is about to take place right now.
And it's been our most successful Olympics ever. Twenty medals,
ten gold, which is Brent just a credit.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
Just seem like flurry of gold medals over the week.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Yeah, towards the end there, I think we were sitting
fourth on the per capita table.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Don't worry. I checked that yesterday.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Fourth on the per capital table, Australian eighth. So who's hey,
there's just I didn't do too much digging.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
But Ozzie your raids.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
We're fourth.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
So been so good, so many amazing performances. Lisa Carrington
of course in the kayaks, Lydia Coe goal Forlise Andrew cycling,
Finn Butcher, Hamish kur Hi jump, it's been just amazing
to watch.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
You're going to cross to Paris very shortly. Hamish curR,
the high jump gold medalist, We're going to talk to him.
I think he's walking into the closing ceremony, so no
better setting for Hamish to do a radio interview. We're
going to talk to him.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Megan's away today. He's got the vid.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Yeah, the vid still around and I think it's always
Noel Lisle said, the the sprinter, Yeah he did, yeah,
and he came.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Still got a bronze.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
He's got bronze, and there two hundred meters as well.
You got a golden and then the bronze as well.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Yeah, bood he floating around everywhere, isn't it.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
I think it's always going to be like that, Like
the flu. They always said that was going to end
up kind of like the.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Yeah, why don't we just treat it like that? From
the gig's do we have all that weird little.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Don't you knock on your neighbors sort of period?
Speaker 2 (01:22):
What a crazy time of the world.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
Here's a new thing.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
People down to cat shit. Just welcome it and brace it.
Well we have now, Yeah, you're right. It was a
crazy time in the world. I tell you, I invented
a new Olympic sport over the weekend. Now this is
something that on Friday afternoon I had to take the
cat to the vet. Now, the cat, it's interesting because
the cat doesn't know yes to go to the vet,
so come home the cats. You know, nine times out
of ten the cats sleeping inside.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Not this day.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
Yeah, but you never know where a cat is. Listen
to the dog. They were within the confines of the property.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
So I walked around the neighborhood like shaking cat biscuits
and stuff like that, trying to get the cat.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
You know, the cat does the cats speaking of you've
got this cat during lockdown bubble, Yeah, we caught it
because it was in our bubble. But cat didn't come back.
So I had to ring the VT and say, look,
can't find the cat.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
You can't whistle a cat, you can't can't cat.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
And they're like Nick, They're like, it's fine. If keep
you'll probably come back for food tonight and then in
the morning. And if you want to just keep him
inside after breakfast, then bring him in first thing Saturday morning.
I'm like, yeah, no worries, I can do that. Saturday
morning textbook. Keep the cat inside. About five minutes away
from when I need to go to the v it
which is not far from home, and I'm like cool,
got the cat in this little cat cage ready to go,
(02:30):
and went to leave, and then went the car because
my wife and one of wife and daughters had gone
to nitball. The other car my wife's car, so I
was going to drive. We lifted up the road at
the pub the night before.
Speaker 4 (02:40):
Oh no, I said to walk with the cage.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
No.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
So I was like, Okay, well here's what I'm going
to do it. It's new and I was inspired by
the Olympic athletes. I was like, it's about a ca
I'm going to run. I'm going to sprint. I'm going
to sprint. So that's the first part of the cat tathon.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
It's a sprint to get your car, then to drive back,
get the cat and the cat, get the cat, and
then get to the vit within an amount of time.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
Was the cat still in the cageman got home?
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Yeah? Book cats like sitting by the door step. What
are you doing here?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
What's going on?
Speaker 2 (03:03):
I'm sprending down the road.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
But to feel like an Olympic athlete as well, So
and got to the Now it was a couple of
minutes late.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
To be honest, could you have ubered?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
I probably could have.
Speaker 3 (03:11):
Yeah, I think you can get pet ubers now, yeah,
well you can take you pet ubers.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
I think special pet ubers but I was like, no,
it's all right. So what I'll do a stressful sprint
to the car. Hangover, yeah, hangover part of the Vendo
as well. Yeah, I think the cat dusty cat deathline.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
That's how it works. And then you get back and
there you go.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
So if that's a little Olympic sport you want to play,
if you've got withdrawals, you can do that.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
This week and involves a cat. You got to buy
yourself a cat. On guess booking an event's very booking.
Maybe there's other thanks you cant.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
The hEDS that johnaan Ben podcast.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
It was a big weekend next year. It was fun.
We we m seed.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
We hosted an awards night for the House of the Year,
the Master Builders House of the Year, and it.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Was a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
It was great until one moment. Now the rugby was
on at the same time. We're like, oh, this is
you know, a team room full of builders architects.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
They want to the rugby. We may lose their attention.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
So we're like, maybe we should give rugby updates throughout
the evening. We're on stage, We're like, who wants there?
Everyone's like yeah, And then you picked someone at random
You're like you mate, you were going to be our guy,
right yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:11):
And I was like, you better get up on stage
here because I had a gag prepared as well as
the building industry. And I was like, I think you've
lift your tool up here, mate, come on, get up
on stage.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Come on, you get up on you let's get him
up on stage.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
So what was the gag going to be?
Speaker 1 (04:24):
So the gag was I know about that what I'm
making it seem like it was your gag.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
So the geg you went on this too?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
I think I come up with.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
So the gig was the geg was one of the builders.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
You've lift your tools and the toilet and you hold
up this mirror and everybody's going, what it's a mirror?
I know you think this is just a humble mirror.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
But no.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
And then I was like, one of the builders, please
come up here. So I picked this gentleman. So what's
your name?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
In the front? Great near the front is.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
A great location to get up on stage.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
What yourname? My name is Reese?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Come up here, rece You're a big round of applause
for eased to get up here.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
And then went on stage. You're going to go, hey,
it's a mirror. No, no, it's a stud finder.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
That was the ga and this was coming and then
you hold the mirror to the fate and it's a
stud fighter. So it's a great bit of comedy, but
a prop comedy. But you got you're out propped in
the comedy department. So as I called this guy rece up,
I see him sort of hubbling, hobbling and and sort
of struggling to get out of his seat. And I'm like, oh,
dear God, and he pulls out some crutches and I'm like,
(05:20):
oh Jesus, oh no, oh no.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
And there was stairs up to this.
Speaker 3 (05:25):
As he gets up on his crutches, the whole rooms
are oh oh, and obviously oh is he Thankfully it
was a broken foot.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
It looked like a cast.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
The only way it could have been worse was if
it was anyone in a wheelchair.
Speaker 4 (05:37):
The problem is when you was sitting down, you don't
know what the situation.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Then he got up on stage and year toil half
hardly put the mirror out for the study.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
And it wasn't worth him. I saw the effort getting
up on the stage.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Sorry, this wasn't worth your time, and it took him
about ten minutes to get up the stairs, and then
I kind of helped him down the stairs like an
elderly person, and I was, yeah, we won't be asked
back there.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Oh my god. Next remember that it was so sorry,
I don't mean to drag this out.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
The other one and we're at the the fundraiser for
cancer and that guy, the guipe has finished the.
Speaker 6 (06:10):
Heads that johnaan Ben podcast.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Megan now, the wonderful Megan purpose Away got a message,
didn't we on the WhatsApp group Chap guys down with
the vid, I haven't heard anyone catching COVID and they
no Alyles the sprinter. Yeah, but then he came out
and he ran like I thought. I thought, we just
want me to pretend we don't have it, and you
just keep coming to work.
Speaker 1 (06:30):
Well, yeah, I remember for Noah Lyles is probably a
good reason why he's he got third in the event
that he was thought that he.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Was going to win. Noah Isles still came to work
with COVID.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Third fastest in the world.
Speaker 3 (06:41):
Meghan can't even come here and get some words out
of her mouth. No, but we were missing Meghan. She'll
be hopefully back in a couple of days. Don't know
how long. You can just return when you feel better.
Now came down pretty much.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I think.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
Who cares about them anyway? So Taylor, you're filling in
for Megan today. Dear Meghan, she did send you a
message that someone had DM to her.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Yep, big shoes to Phil.
Speaker 8 (07:02):
So I'll read it out, Hi, tem I would like
to know what Megan and the boys think about my situation.
My girlfriend and I have been together since we're in
our mid twenties, and we did enjoy partying together back
in the day. But now I'm in my thirties and
I'm pretty keen to settle down and get married. I
want to propose to her, but her partying is becoming
an issue for me.
Speaker 7 (07:21):
I haven't.
Speaker 8 (07:22):
I have talked to her about it, and it does
feel like we're at different stages, even though we are
the same age. But I love her like crazy and
I know I want to be with her and settle down,
but I also don't want to change her or give
her an ultimatum.
Speaker 7 (07:36):
What do you guys reckon?
Speaker 4 (07:37):
Ooh party girl?
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
We yearn you know, obviously they're in love, but different
stages the relationship that they're not wanting to see.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Let her run party girls don't get it hurts us.
They just keep just watch it, keep her away from
the chandeliers. This lady, by the sounds of it, you,
I don't know. You don't want to change anyone, do you?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
We'll you know, well, you know, will she mellow a
little bit from a party where some of these still
people that love you going having a good time at
whatever age?
Speaker 2 (08:05):
But will she mellow? And is it really is it
affecting the even nights a week or is.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
It it's probably just only couple of days on the weekend.
Speaker 8 (08:16):
Yeah, but I guess if they're both working full time
Monday to Friday, he probably cherishes that time they get
together on the weekend. And if she's going out, I
could see how that would be a bit annoying because
you'd be like, well, am I not good enough?
Speaker 4 (08:28):
Might not a fun times some champagne? Emotional and intelligence
thinking from experience, what would you do in this situation?
Speaker 7 (08:38):
If I was him, I.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
Would, I know he said he already talked to her,
But if I would still have another sit down with
her and be like, look, I want to take that
next step in our relationship, but this is bothering me
a bit. So I don't want to jump unless you're
fully committed too. I'm prepared to meet halfway, like I'll
come out with you and your friends here and there.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
But I did some quiet time Netflix and chill as well. Yeah,
eight hundred, So we love your advice on this four
for eighty seven. So should this guy's back out of
proposing to his partner early thirties, she still loves partying?
He wants to button off the partying. Yeah, he's done
with it. I mean some it does reach a stage
where I remember we used to go out.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
And then one of my friend's dads would come out
with us.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
Oh, because all his mates are like, oh mate, mate,
But he still head it in him.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
He still the party juice.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
I don't feel that sometimes we age shame people as well.
I mean maybe hanging out with the young people. But
if you want to go party, guard party, you know,
why should.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
You be judged?
Speaker 4 (09:31):
What would you do? Would you back out of the
proposal if you were wanting to settle down but she.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Was still conversation.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
I don't know if you're back out of the proposal,
but it probably there's a way to navigate through that.
And I'm sure there's people listening right now. They probably
had someone in their relationship party too much. Does it
you know, does it stop eventually or do you find
some sort of middle grounds or do you just call
time on the relationship.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Maybe it's happened to you, Andrew. The hat's four four
eight seven. Let's get some good advice together. Megan's away today,
so we need to good advice to go back.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
I let down, dear Megan.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Without Meghan, we could tarnish this wonderful part of the shows.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
On Us the Heads that Jona wan Ben Podcast.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
First of all, dem Meghan pull Meghan away, got the
VID test and positive, and me Meghan handed over the
reins to you producer Taylor yup Son't miss this.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
Up summary now of what we need to get a
reply back on.
Speaker 8 (10:24):
All right, my girlfriend and I have been together since
we were in our mid twenties, and we did enjoy
partying together back in the day. But now I'm in
my thirties and I'm pretty keen to settle down and
get married. I'd want to propose to her, but her
partying is becoming an issue for me. I've talked to
her about it, and it does feel like we're at
different stages in life, even though we are at the
same age. But I love her like crazy and I
(10:45):
know I want to be with her, but I also
don't want to change her give her an ultimatum.
Speaker 4 (10:49):
Oh well, yea early thirties for me.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Personally, myly thirties, I started to well by the end
of my thirties, started to be that person that I
was low key stoked when an event was canceled.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
Preach you know, that's those those are good. Sometimes there's
those ones who are like, oh, thank god, we don't
have to do that. That's what stage he wants his
partner to be. He's there already. We'll get some advice
from you, Carleen.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
What do you think?
Speaker 4 (11:11):
What do you think should happen here? Should he back
out of the engagement?
Speaker 2 (11:16):
Maybe put it on pause a little one's put it on.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
I still stay with her, don't leave.
Speaker 5 (11:20):
Her, No, no, no, But I definitely saying if they
need to sit up at date night where it's just
for two of them, they go out and start every
Saturday night.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
If she can't manage to keep one night, that's solely
for them, and then maybe she's not the one.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
Are they're getting wasted on the date night? That's the
big question.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
That's a good idea. That's a really good idea, sit
up one night that would work when.
Speaker 8 (11:42):
It Yeah, absolutely, And like what you said, Carlin, if
she can't stick to that, well then obviously her priorities
aren't the same as yours and something doesn't add up here.
Speaker 4 (11:51):
Yeah, well maybe she's not isn't.
Speaker 7 (11:54):
Exactly no, one hundred percent your partner.
Speaker 8 (11:57):
If you can't put them as number one at least
once a week, then mate, I put my dog number
one every week.
Speaker 7 (12:05):
Number two.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
I saw a video of you on social media of
the week and geez, you're bailing your eyes out about
how much you.
Speaker 2 (12:10):
Love your dog. Oh my god, my god, it's a dog.
Is a dog.
Speaker 1 (12:16):
I love that dog so much. I'm like, oh my god,
holding it so I know you're pregnant or mine.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
But I'm like, geez, oh you're.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
At a hints to a week in too, Yeah, the hints.
This is just it was the dog.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
I was like, geez. I was like, poor Louis, is
he going And he's like.
Speaker 7 (12:32):
No, he's just he's going.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
Can we play the audio of it is a good audio.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
It's just me great, okay, great in the meantime, Madden,
This gentleman he wants to propose to his partner.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
She's partying hard bruh.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
What does he do?
Speaker 6 (12:49):
Buy a champagne? No, seriously, woman mature?
Speaker 9 (12:56):
Definitely in the mean.
Speaker 2 (12:56):
Right, yeah, I guess even does at different times.
Speaker 5 (12:59):
Yeah, yeah, exactly, So I mean, give her time.
Speaker 8 (13:02):
Maybe she's so stressed at work she needs to relax
a little bit. You don't know the work situation.
Speaker 3 (13:08):
You don't know anything.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
Really, It's true.
Speaker 8 (13:10):
That he wants to propose, and at the end of
the day, give a time.
Speaker 6 (13:15):
Movie, you love them, you'll stay with them.
Speaker 2 (13:19):
Yeah, what's he got some helpizza? That's great advice.
Speaker 4 (13:21):
It seems to be the general consensus.
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Yeah, give a time and maybe the date night. It's
a really good suggestion. Yeah, okay, that's right.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
Go back with there we go have. My mate went
out forty five years old. He went to a bar
of the bounces like you're not going to like it,
and then made He's like, you don't know me. He
went in there, walked out three minutes later.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
You did, right?
Speaker 6 (13:37):
The heads that John and Ben podcast.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
It's a National Middle Child Day around the world today.
Speaker 4 (13:43):
This day that's probably usually forgotten about.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Yeah, the recognizing the importance suspecial places of middle children,
not the oldest nor the youngest of the middle child.
Speaker 4 (13:50):
Yeah, now will you haven't in your family.
Speaker 1 (13:53):
I've got a lot lots of you know, lots of
his sister half sisters, Lindon John. Yeah, I'm the I'm
the oldest, so I'm not sitting in the middle there
or anything like that.
Speaker 3 (14:02):
But mind you you were left off two trips to
Movie World, Hollywood on the Gold Coast when you.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Think, because I was, and they kind of moved to
a new relate. They moved on.
Speaker 4 (14:09):
We've got bene quits now moved.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
I'm over here, so I kind of I could sympathize
with the middle jobs.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
You know, when you celebrate your day as well, get
acknowledged too. Someone takes into about our torch.
Speaker 3 (14:19):
We've got our own torch ceremony going on, as the
closing ceremony happens at the moment. In no way associated.
But we turned on a dolphin torch last Wednesday, six
o'clock in the morning. Someone's ticking, going, how's the torch
can still gone, still blazing blazing like I shone it
and produced had his eyes this morning and she was
like pulling the fingers like it's still bright.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
Yeah, So we'll keep an eye on it, where one
of us is keeping an eye on it all through
the night as well. We're setting up little cameras as
well so when it does run out of battery, if
it ever runs out of battery. So someone will you
get an inter at the hits breakfast on Facebook?
Speaker 4 (14:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Now, fresh back from the weekend, aren't we in a
pretty generic question that's asked around most office places or
workplaces in the country, as you know, how's your weakn
how was your weekend? And firstly, no one cares how
you weaken was? Secondly you just always something I asked you.
You're like, good, it's been forty eight hours and you
just come and beat.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
With a mine.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
But I do know, I know that when someone says that,
they probably don't really want to hear. Everyone's in the
mind frame of frame of mind that it ripped the
plaster off, get the week started.
Speaker 4 (15:18):
Let's not worry.
Speaker 2 (15:19):
Yeah, now and again I might meet one little thing
and just is a little thing. God good, I went to,
you know, and see if that gets something to he
Sometimes we'll just go oh yeah, you know, but sometimes
you go, oh bad, I had to, you know, crush
the car. They're like, oh yeah, great, you know, listen
to what I said.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
But then the other one, too, is on email where
you go, hope all is well?
Speaker 2 (15:41):
Yeah? Which is?
Speaker 4 (15:42):
Which is? There's just a bunch of fellow.
Speaker 1 (15:43):
Content annoys me. It's like no one, you know, I
hope this email finds you. You know, we all you
need to say that because you can't just cut and
cut to the chase.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Why can't we should?
Speaker 4 (15:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (15:53):
And even if like all is not well in that
person's life, they're hardly about to bloody unload over email.
Speaker 4 (15:58):
Are they on a work email? Actual?
Speaker 3 (16:02):
Sleeping out of my car? Oh great, I was just
asking about a meeting. But here's a bit of advice.
When you ask someone how's it going, you shouldn't actually
say how's it going? He listen, All right, I've ripped
this off instagreen.
Speaker 10 (16:16):
I stop asking the question how's it going? Because nobody's
listening to the answer, and ernest society stop asking the
question what question should they be asking? What's coming up
for you?
Speaker 11 (16:26):
Right?
Speaker 10 (16:26):
Now, what's the best thing that happened to you over
the weekend? What excites you about going home to your family?
That is when we start hearing it, what's going on
in the inside of individuals?
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Right, They are great questions, but at the same time,
the key factor is the key effector there like I
do like like talking to people. But what excites you
about going home to your family? You're like, there was
this guy asking about what way am I getting excited
about my family?
Speaker 2 (16:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (16:55):
I got home to the very night.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
I mean, I love to seeing my family.
Speaker 4 (16:58):
But yeah, but what does excit you? Good? Just come
back with a good also, I also love Ah.
Speaker 3 (17:07):
We should really, we should. We should hang out sometimes,
we should catch up up. No one in the history
of ever saying we should catch up sometimes even caught
up sometimes, or.
Speaker 4 (17:15):
Keep in to make sure you keep in touch, keep
in touch. I'll be there in five minutes.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
No, you won't.
Speaker 4 (17:22):
You won't just leaving the location now because you've forgotten
you to meet me.
Speaker 6 (17:25):
Yeah, that's all things they have, the hits that John
and Ben podcast, or been something you saw on social
media that's undersettled.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
I just saw the you know, sometimes you're scrolling through
social media and you don't have the sound. The sound
doesn't always come on. So I just saw the photo
of you, photos of producing taless dog. I was gonna say,
a lovely Lois, but he's a bit snarly. He's lovely
when you get to know tumultuous relationship something like that.
I think we're good now, but at the start we're
(17:56):
a little bit yeah, but little dish.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
So I saw something.
Speaker 1 (17:59):
It was like photos of Louis go make a Ford
and just produce a Taylor just pulling her eyes, you know,
like crying, and I'm like, oh, dear God, does something
happened because louis your baby having babies?
Speaker 7 (18:08):
But yeah, she's my number one baby.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
I'll go on, and something happened to Loyd?
Speaker 4 (18:13):
So what happened? What was going on?
Speaker 8 (18:14):
Okay, so absolutely nothing happened. And my husband was just
in our spare bedroom waiting to record the podcast.
Speaker 7 (18:22):
That we're doing.
Speaker 4 (18:22):
It's the mon Toys out now on my Heart Radio downloaded, thank.
Speaker 8 (18:26):
You, and our producer was setting up and Muscle I
happened to get a notification from Apple saying that they
created a new slideshow for him to watch about the dog,
and he just showed me and started playing it.
Speaker 2 (18:36):
I love how they do that on the phone.
Speaker 1 (18:39):
Andy by the beach, my daughter, three of the photos
of my daughter by the beach, by the water or something.
Speaker 2 (18:49):
I'm like, I was weird.
Speaker 4 (18:52):
I was doing this Apple.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
I hope no one is actually like it's a real
person going through a gold god John the.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Toilets a montage sitting on the.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I was doing this any it's just the phone doing it, but.
Speaker 4 (19:06):
No one's looking stream. Okay, so we have audio here.
This is Taylor watching a montage a algorithm. Sorry and Ai.
It is to get the montage of her dog Louis.
Speaker 3 (19:18):
Okay, can I say I love the music for and
foremost year.
Speaker 12 (19:30):
I'm crying because I love him so much. Chances dog,
(19:54):
you're sober.
Speaker 4 (19:57):
Well, yeah, it's lovely that you love him so much,
And you.
Speaker 8 (20:00):
Know what, like I could probably cry right now, you
know what you're about, Just thinking like he's been my
number one since I moved to this country, and like,
I hope he doesn't think that now I'm pregnant.
Speaker 7 (20:12):
Well I don't know if he knows I'm pregnant, but like.
Speaker 8 (20:15):
That doesn't I'm scared that he'll when the babies come,
he'll think that he's second fiddle and that's not the
third fiddle actually twins. Yeah, so we're going to try
and move his bed in the in the baby rooms
every time I have to wake up and feet.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
So we're going to keep just can we keep this
better audio right now? And we're going to check back
in on a year's time and we're going to find
out where things have things change they have where was
saying the same thing she was like before the dog
and him, but now she's like, oh the.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
Dog is outside or whatever.
Speaker 4 (20:47):
That won't be me.
Speaker 1 (20:48):
But that's a year's time, all right, we'll find out
very sweet the hormones are extra genuine.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
That's how you'll do that. If you were pregnant cry
like that. I think I will cry like that without
say I'd say you would. Yeah, you do that.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
You love that.
Speaker 6 (21:05):
The Heads That Joan Ben podcast.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
We played this earlier this morning and it was very
poignant given the life stage you're in, because you've got
some big news.
Speaker 7 (21:14):
Yeah, preggers with TWINSGS with twins?
Speaker 4 (21:17):
Is that your standard line? Preggers with twins?
Speaker 2 (21:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (21:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (21:20):
When I told my dad, I said, I'm knocked up
that's a good term to use.
Speaker 4 (21:24):
When you appear in surprise, when you're like twins.
Speaker 8 (21:27):
Yes, oh my god, Yes, there's none in our family,
so it was it.
Speaker 4 (21:32):
Yeah, I feel like you're carrying two human beings.
Speaker 7 (21:35):
Yes, can you guys see my face?
Speaker 8 (21:37):
Don't you think I've lost a bit of my pizzazz
in the last five months?
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Yeah? Yeah, okay, I'll be honest.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
The amount of beanbag setting in your life is gone
from zero to one hundred humans.
Speaker 7 (21:55):
These chairs are not twin friendly, so.
Speaker 2 (21:57):
I probably noticed that.
Speaker 7 (21:59):
Yeah, I haven't hit it from anyone.
Speaker 4 (22:02):
You look inside because you're creating humans and side.
Speaker 8 (22:06):
Then girls, and so they apparently trained the beauty out
of you. Boys make you glow.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
I really set the beauty well, you still look radiant
in our eyes.
Speaker 7 (22:14):
I don't believe you, but thank you.
Speaker 4 (22:15):
Sorry to say. Taylor played this audio.
Speaker 5 (22:20):
Now.
Speaker 3 (22:20):
This is a lady who's she's just given birth only
two days previous, forty eight hours previous. The demand from
her partner to make a meal, to prepare a meal
because his parents are coming over. Take a listen, you
want me.
Speaker 13 (22:32):
To do a roost? Can I just remind you of something?
I gave birth two days ago. Yeah, two days ago,
and he came out hospital straight away. You've been sitting
around nor this time.
Speaker 11 (22:44):
So if you make a rock.
Speaker 13 (22:45):
To send me home to get rest at home.
Speaker 4 (22:48):
But you've been doing nothing but rest and see I
mean sorry.
Speaker 13 (22:54):
That I need caffeine to keep going with a newborn baby.
Speaker 4 (22:57):
And it's not easy for me either. Right, I didn't
give No, I'm sleeping.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
You stop talking, bro, stop talking.
Speaker 3 (23:04):
About rules, not just giving before.
Speaker 7 (23:11):
Wow wow, absolutely not except no, you're right.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Somebody could tell him about roast shops and outlets.
Speaker 3 (23:21):
You're just checking her hunk well to be fear to him.
You're just chunking a hunk of meeting some veggies and
a train into the oven.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
You can do it himself. Actually, is not the hardest
thing the cock can.
Speaker 8 (23:30):
I just say my my mom went through pretty much
the exact same thing as that. So she had just
given birth to me. She's been dispatched at home with
the baby. My dad's gotten the case of man flu.
His parents have come over to meet me, just so
she did.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
The finger things.
Speaker 7 (23:49):
My grandma.
Speaker 8 (23:50):
My dad's mom goes, oh, suit, do you mind making
an your husband some soup?
Speaker 7 (23:56):
Like he's not looking too good.
Speaker 4 (23:59):
There goes down with suit.
Speaker 7 (24:01):
She's a chip off the old block mate, so you
can just imagine.
Speaker 4 (24:04):
All right, so Italians did get a suit.
Speaker 7 (24:08):
I think she told him to go.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Shove it up, drink it or that was so alright?
Speaker 3 (24:16):
This is all we want to check open on the Heads.
Have you done an outrageous activity after giving birth? Just
just only a matter of hours or days after giving.
Speaker 2 (24:25):
We were in the process of giving birth. We talk
about people drive themselves to the hospitals.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
There was a lady who spoke to once she drove
herself to the hospital. Her partner was in the passenger seat. Well,
he didn't like driving in Wellington traffic.
Speaker 1 (24:41):
You know, what did you do after giving birth or
on the way to giving birth?
Speaker 6 (24:47):
The Heads that johnaan Ben podcast.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
And we're just talking about what you did as you
were giving birth or straight after giving birth. Now, Sam
joins New Zealand's Breakfast on eight one hundreds the Heads.
Speaker 4 (24:58):
How are you this morning?
Speaker 2 (24:59):
Sam?
Speaker 5 (24:59):
Good? Thanks?
Speaker 4 (25:00):
How we're doing really well? It's lovely to have you
on the show this morning.
Speaker 3 (25:03):
Now Sam, what did you do either as you were
giving birth or straight after birth?
Speaker 5 (25:08):
Well, when I was giving birth, so my mad wife
was on the way to home because I was in labor, and.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
Can I just say that the birth must have been successful?
About hearing the soundtrack in the background.
Speaker 5 (25:20):
Yes, sorry, I told him.
Speaker 4 (25:23):
It's wrong, skilled and these kids need to.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
Leave to shut up, Ben, this is radio, all right,
they need to respect audio as a medium.
Speaker 9 (25:31):
Continue on, Sorry, Sam, And yes, So I was in
labor and this was my second child, so I knew
what was going on, and I said to my husband,
he's coming out, He's coming and so he was listening
and he was talking to the ambulance, you know, to
get them here, and.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
They said can you see anything? And he had a
little no. Nine. I'm like, hey is And then I
just realized, well, I'm just going to have to do it.
He's not really being any help. So I just clouched
down and delivered my baby myself.
Speaker 4 (26:01):
Yourself, What do you mean you crouched down? Do you
sort of like hunch over? And what are you doing?
Can you tell us?
Speaker 5 (26:07):
Well, well, because you don't, And it's crazy because yeah,
I mean, I've been induced with my daughter and you know,
and had all this intervention and then she got taken
away to the Nikoo ward and everything. So this was
very different. But I was just thinking, well, gosh, I
have to do it. I know he's coming out, and
I didn't want him to like fall down or in anything.
So I got on my knees so there wasn't like
(26:29):
much room between the ground and him coming out, and
just kind of grabbed him if he came out, all right, So.
Speaker 4 (26:35):
You also you're kind of like on your knees, your hands.
Speaker 5 (26:39):
On the down, Yeah, like where the head gonna come out,
and you.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
Just caught it yourself, grabbed him out and put him
up and held him and then obviously.
Speaker 5 (26:50):
Billa cole Cord still attached, so I just had to
sit there holding him while waiting for somebody to turn up.
Speaker 4 (26:57):
She's quite the lion king moment.
Speaker 5 (26:59):
Yeah, that's so crazing.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Were you Was it hard?
Speaker 5 (27:05):
No? It was. I mean my daughter was a toddler.
She was quiet. She was two, so she was asleep
and the dogs were going crazy. So I was worrying that, oh,
she's going to wake up and be scared and like
with money. So yeah, in the time, I just did it.
So I forgot what your question was.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
Now, I actually forgot what it was.
Speaker 5 (27:25):
To be honest, I'm just thinking back.
Speaker 4 (27:28):
To it, that is a traumatic event, but really impressive.
The dogs.
Speaker 5 (27:33):
That wasn't very easy, just because I was walking around
in the bathroom like trying to be quiet as to
you know, not wake my daughter up and everything. And
then when it happened, I don't know, you just came
out and it was just time. I guess he was
ready to come out.
Speaker 3 (27:47):
So you know, there's moments and conversations that you have
like this where you go the women are just a fast,
superior species.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
Really, it was.
Speaker 5 (27:58):
Easier than the first period. Anyway, tell me that you
think to deliver your own baby. It's amazing.
Speaker 4 (28:05):
Don't talk it down, mate.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
It was Yeah.
Speaker 4 (28:07):
There's many doctors going no, no, you paid a lot of
money to turn about.
Speaker 2 (28:12):
That's very impressive. Thank you so much for sharing that
with us. You have BESLF a great day.
Speaker 5 (28:16):
Awesome, thank you.
Speaker 1 (28:18):
Just on the text for a seven, my husband wanted
to go through McDonald's drive through on the way to
the hospital while I was in labor. Then at the
hospital complained so much that he was hungry and needed
coffee that the midwa had to send him to the
cafe there support in.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
Need of you do need sustenance to support. You need sustenance.
I've always said it.
Speaker 6 (28:37):
The heads that johna wan Ben podcast.
Speaker 3 (28:39):
This is Internet outrage where we each try and find
a headline from the Internet. We read the headline, we
all left to decipher maybe what the story is behind
the headline being you want to kick things off.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Yeah, there's a school in Texas. They're a school that
you can you don't. They don't have uniforms, but they've
caused outrage for something. They've made a rule. What do
you think the rule is in regarding to what the
students swear to school?
Speaker 4 (29:01):
They being cell phones approach out age. You know, I
reckon them. Cell phone banning is not working.
Speaker 3 (29:08):
But the amount of calms I'm having with kids in
school yards likes.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
I was gonna say, yeah.
Speaker 4 (29:19):
That sounded really terrible.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
Sorry Taylor, Sorry, I mean, but you know, I feel
like pleating it is really difficult.
Speaker 1 (29:27):
Well also because you know they're using a lot of
laptops and you can you know, there's miss.
Speaker 3 (29:34):
Anyway, So that's doggling. Something to do with uniform Yeah, uh,
Texas making them wear long trousers and the forty plus degree.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Because them outrage. No, they're banned students wearing.
Speaker 1 (29:47):
All black outfits, black tops and black pants. They reckon
it's associated the school and it's caused outrage. Have said
it's associated with maybe people, you know, mental health, depression,
also criminals as well.
Speaker 2 (29:59):
So we watched you. It's had fun learning environment wearing bright.
Speaker 1 (30:02):
Colored clothes to school, and it's caused outraged people like
what Yeah, Scott Robinson, the all black's not happy about
the Yeah as well, so I'm.
Speaker 3 (30:11):
Pretty sure they're pretty happy the all blacks are the
way bit. Maybe not today but in the hut.
Speaker 4 (30:16):
Yeah, black smife think that goes in my skin tone.
Speaker 2 (30:19):
Yeah, so I think it's going to change. But that's
caused outrage from back to school in America.
Speaker 3 (30:24):
With my very pasty white skin and my all black
clothing a lot like a zebra. Here's my headline. Internet
outraged over wife refusing to cook for in laws.
Speaker 4 (30:34):
Why, Well, I've pretty much given you the answer leading
into this.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
Well, yeah, I think, yeah, I think. And you brought
producer Taylor.
Speaker 8 (30:41):
Yeah, yeah, she indicates one thing.
Speaker 3 (30:43):
Hell, all the planets are aligning. It's a producing Taylor
pregnant with twins. The Internet is outraged over a man's
request of his wife to cook a roast for his parents.
Speaker 4 (30:56):
Now, for some reason she recorded this and put it online.
I don't know what. Got to do it for the views, baby,
have a listen.
Speaker 13 (31:02):
You want me to do roost? Can I just remind
you of something. I gave birth two days ago?
Speaker 4 (31:09):
Yeah, two days ago, and he came out just straight away.
Speaker 13 (31:12):
You've been sitting around this time. Send me home to
get rest at home.
Speaker 4 (31:18):
But you've been doing nothing.
Speaker 14 (31:19):
Rest the audio, But said the guy stopped the stopped
the audio.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
What does he do? I feel like I'm the Coronation Street.
Speaker 7 (31:33):
Stop talking an absolute idiot?
Speaker 2 (31:36):
Wow, how much would you fire up a fit?
Speaker 6 (31:38):
Was?
Speaker 4 (31:39):
Are you Marcello's Mum's coming over? She loves a roast?
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Yeah, because I wouldn't say that, but.
Speaker 4 (31:50):
His bloody dinners. But to be fear, he's to be
feel of the guy. He's like, you just do roasts.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Than I do. It was a far point.
Speaker 8 (31:57):
But at the same time, I'm trying to I'm trying
to find words aren't natural to my vocabulary right because
I can.
Speaker 7 (32:07):
I think you guys know exactly what I say.
Speaker 2 (32:10):
I think the world's with you.
Speaker 4 (32:11):
That's what the internet is.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
Forty els after give him I can see why that
shop exactly.
Speaker 6 (32:19):
The heads that John wan Ben podcast.
Speaker 1 (32:21):
I feel like, do I need to come clean about
something or do I just kind of I feel like
I've taken credit for something because my wife can.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
I ask a question, do you need to fill three
minutes of radio? Well, then you need to come clean.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
Yeah, So what happens.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
You know, my wife, who runs a busy operation is
you know a lot of people do around the country,
and every time I get in her car, drive her
car from time to time, I get a little frustrated
when it's not in a great state. I'm okay, right,
I'm going to so I drove the I'm going to
get it cleaned.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
Do you every time you get in another person's car,
probably in particularly partners, do you move the seat? Do
you change the seating range with it's a it's a
giant but beer in our relationship.
Speaker 1 (33:01):
But it's never a bug bit. No, I've never either way.
But I do know some people do.
Speaker 3 (33:04):
Get quite because she literally got her face against the windscreen,
that's how tight she ran.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
To move it back to get to move it forward
and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
But anyway, I was like, I'll get it and my
wife's busy, so I'm like, I'll get it cleaned.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
And it was on those occasions.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
Normally I would go to like a Washworld or whatever,
but I just drove past the place that does the
cleaning for you. And then I was like, great, I'll
go inside to have a hot drink, do some work
while they cleaned the car. Then I came home, I
was like said to Amanda, oh, I've cleaned your car.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Now. I kind of wasn't trying to take credit for it,
but I just kind of see to clean your car,
meaning like the car is clean.
Speaker 4 (33:35):
No, when you said I've cleaned your car, you definitely
took credit. No, I didn't try and take.
Speaker 1 (33:41):
It's lovely tics ladder when she gets there of the
car that was so nice she took the time to
clean it, clean it, and I'm like kind of like, oh, oh,
she thinks that I've cleaned the car, but I've got
the car cleaned, but I haven't actually cleaned the car.
And now I feel like, well do I just I've
taken the credit, but it's been three or four days now?
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Cool?
Speaker 4 (34:00):
I was school should be teaching already.
Speaker 2 (34:02):
Yeah, we could, we could try.
Speaker 4 (34:03):
I mean she's still got the same number.
Speaker 2 (34:06):
Yeah, you try look here.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
So no suspicions have been raised.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
Well, no, I mean yeah, she did say that was
lovely that she might have thought that, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Because it was more clean or more professional than you would.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
Yeah, I wondered. I felt like it was better than
what if I had done it.
Speaker 3 (34:27):
This is a long do here we go, it's connecting
the truth line.
Speaker 4 (34:33):
We'll just say, did she know anything different about the cleaning?
Speaker 5 (34:36):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (34:36):
Yeah, you put a lot of effort in, so I'm
still going to take some credit.
Speaker 4 (34:39):
For Yeah, I'm not here to throw right.
Speaker 11 (34:42):
Hello. Oh hello, Hi, this is Gary.
Speaker 2 (34:52):
Gary.
Speaker 1 (34:53):
I feel like, Gary, what are you doing with what's phone?
Speaker 2 (34:58):
Okay, Carrie? Can we take this off? We'll take this
off the radio. Gary, I just got some words. I've
got some things. Have you noticed that when the car
has been a bit clean that my wife's anyway, we'll.
Speaker 4 (35:08):
Get have you noticed that Mena's car being a bit clean?
Speaker 6 (35:11):
And Gary?
Speaker 5 (35:12):
Sorry?
Speaker 2 (35:14):
Yeah, I said there's a lot going on. Gary.
Speaker 15 (35:18):
I'm getting my head around. Okay, now now I'm not
so worried about the car clean.
Speaker 6 (35:28):
At least the hits that John wan Ben podcast.
Speaker 1 (35:32):
I feel like, do I need to come clean about
something or do I just kind of I feel like
I've taken credit for something because my wife.
Speaker 4 (35:38):
Can I ask a question, do you need to fill
three minutes of radio?
Speaker 2 (35:43):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (35:43):
Yeah, well then you need to come clean?
Speaker 2 (35:45):
Yeah, So what happens?
Speaker 1 (35:46):
You know my wife, yes, who runs a busy operation
is you know a lot of people do around the country.
And every time I get in her car, drive her
car from time to time, I get a little frustrated
when it's not in a gray state. I'm like, okay, right,
I'm gonna you know, so I drove the other I'm
gonna get it cleaned.
Speaker 3 (36:02):
Do you every time you get in another person's car,
probably in particularly your partners, do you move the seat?
Do you change the seating range with it's a it's
a giant bug beer in.
Speaker 1 (36:11):
Our relationship, but it's never a bug beer. No, I've
never either way. But I do know some people do get.
Speaker 3 (36:16):
Quite because she has literally got her face against the windscreen,
that's how tight she ran the seat.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
To move it back, to get to move it forward
and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (36:23):
But anyway, I was like, I'll get it, and my
wife's busy, so I'm like, I'll get it.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Cleaned. And it was one of those occasions. Normally I
would go to like a Washworld or what, but I
just drove past the place that does the cleaning for you,
and then I was like, great, I'll go and soide
to have a hot drink, do some work while they
cleaned the car. And I came home. I was like
said to Amanda, Oh, I've cleaned your car. Now. I
kind of.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Wasn't trying to take credit for it, but I just
kind of see to clean your car, meaning like the
car is clean.
Speaker 4 (36:46):
No, when you see it, I've cleaned your car. You
definitely took a credit.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (36:51):
I didn't try and take It's lovely tics lader when
she gets there of the car go was so nice.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
She took the time to clean it clean. And I'm
like kind of like, oh, oh, she thinks that I've
cleaned the car, but I've got the car cleaned, but
I haven't actually cleaned the car.
Speaker 1 (37:05):
And now I feel like, well do I just I've
taken the credit. But it's been three or four days.
Now you're about school.
Speaker 4 (37:11):
I think she was school should be teaching already.
Speaker 2 (37:13):
Yeah, we could, we could try. I try.
Speaker 4 (37:16):
She's still got the same number. Yeah, you try look here,
So no suspicions have been raised.
Speaker 1 (37:23):
Well, no, I mean yeah, she did say that it
was lovely. That she might have thought that, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (37:30):
Because it was more clean or more professional.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Than you would Yeah, I wondered. I felt like it
was better than what if I had done it.
Speaker 4 (37:38):
This is a long doll out.
Speaker 3 (37:40):
Oh, here we go, it's connecting the truth line.
Speaker 4 (37:44):
We'll just say, did she know anything different about the cleaning?
Speaker 5 (37:47):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (37:47):
Yeah, you put a lot of effort in. Oh so
I'm still going to take some credit for Yeah, I'm
not here to throw right.
Speaker 11 (37:53):
Hello. Oh hello, Hi, this is Gary.
Speaker 2 (38:03):
Gary. I feel like Garry, what are you doing with?
What's fine? Okay? Carry?
Speaker 1 (38:11):
Can we take this off? We'll take this off the radio. Gary,
I've just got some words. I've got some things. Have
you noticed that the car has been a bit clean
that my wife's got anyway, we'll get have you noticed
Mina's car being a bit clean?
Speaker 5 (38:22):
And Gary?
Speaker 1 (38:24):
Sorry, yeah, I said there's a lot going on.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
Gary.
Speaker 15 (38:29):
I'm getting my head around. Okay, now now I'm not
so worried about the car clean
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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!