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September 2, 2026 • 18 mins

Una mujer se volvió viral en redes sociales después de asegurar que no encuentra un hombre que realmente valga la pena. Su comentario abrió un debate sobre las relaciones modernas, las expectativas al buscar pareja y si hoy es más difícil encontrar a alguien compatible. ¿Realmente hay menos hombres buenos o estamos buscando a la persona perfecta? ¿Qué hace que un hombre valga la pena para ti? Hoy ponemos el tema sobre la mesa y queremos conocer la opinión de todos.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Enrique Santos. Enrique Santos.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Podcast.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
Se está viendo a muchachas, mujeres, mujeres adultas. Vi una
en particular en TikTok que me llamó la atención. Ella
se está quejando. Dice que no encuentra buena pareja hoy
en día.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
Check this out.

Speaker 4 (00:20):
Tengo que hablar con mis mujeres solteras de 35, 40 años.
A ver si es a mí que me pasa o
si se sienten identificadas conmigo. Yo tengo 36, cumplo 37
en agosto de este año. Yo siento que estamos como
que en una edad que es bien difícil encontrar pareja.

Speaker 2 (00:35):
no? O como que conectar con alguien.

Speaker 4 (00:36):
Porque los hombres de 40 como que están buscando a
las de 25, entonces los de 25 como que nos coquetean,
pero no tienen la estabilidad para poder construir una vida con...
A person of 35, 40 years old. So it's like
one is like we can be collagen, but like we
can be in sugar.

Speaker 3 (00:54):
I don't know how you see it. Are we facing
a crisis of relationship or simply changed the rules of
the game? 844 and it's Enrique. You can also talk
to us on WhatsApp 305-605-9494.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
305-605-9494. What do you think is the problem, Dayanara? And
do you think.
Que el TikTok es un.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
Lugar correcto para buscar colágeno o para buscar una relación seria.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Colágeno for sure. Okay, colágeno for sure.

Speaker 6 (01:19):
No sé si es el mejor lugar, pero obviamente es
donde está la gente. La gente está en las redes sociales.
Pero yo creo que.

Speaker 3 (01:26):
Ya, o sea, no hay ningún dilema. Pero podemos desmayar ese.
That stigma, the stigma that people, oh, they met on
social media. We're in 2026, that's how people know each
other today, by DM, by likes, by comments. Slide into
my DMs.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
Yep. As a fan of your relationship, that's how people
get along.

Speaker 6 (01:48):
I've met people on DM, yes, that's how it's been
going lately.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
But, to the point.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
Have you gone out with someone who's been shot on
social media?

Speaker 6 (01:56):
Desde que descubrí que todos me están ayudando con esto
de las redes porque no chequeaba ni mis DMs ni
nada de eso.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
Pobrecita, ya lo saben.

Speaker 6 (02:05):
Pero, no, pero ahora sí.

Speaker 2 (02:06):
No, pero ahora sí. Escúchame. Ahora tú eres la CEO
de TikTok. No, te voy a explicar por qué. No, no, no, no.
Te voy a explicar por qué.

Speaker 6 (02:13):
Because DM, for example, on Instagram, the DM, I see
people that I follow, but I didn't know there was
another area where everyone is.

Speaker 2 (02:21):
Request. It's like T-Pain. T-Pain, I just discovered it last year.

Speaker 6 (02:25):
Julio, Julio, Xavier, they explained to me. No, it's just that, yes.
There are things of years that I never, I don't know.

Speaker 7 (02:31):
Anyways.

Speaker 6 (02:33):
No soy rubia, sí soy rubia. Me lo pinto, el pelo. Pero, listen,
yo creo que ella no está, aquí no hay ningún problema,
ella está diciendo exactamente lo que es. Los mayores quieren jovencitas, poco,
no tener conversaciones extensas, ni deep, ni tener ese control.
Los jovencitos están detrás de las mujeres mayores.

Speaker 2 (02:54):
Las mujeres con experiencia.

Speaker 6 (02:55):
Con experiencia, porque estamos mucho más seguras, no estamos con eso.

Speaker 2 (02:58):
De juego, porque sabemos lo que queremos.

Speaker 8 (03:00):
Es normal.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
Bueno. En este momento, disfrute, señora, disfrute.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Pero toda la vida lo ha sido normal y toda
la vida ha sido.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
What happens is.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
That now, thanks to social media, it is seen more frequently.

Speaker 2 (03:14):
But people have always criticized this.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
First it started with the old green, the famous title
of the old green, because an older man, mature, liked
the young girl. That has been since the beginning of time.
So now this phenomenon of women who like and want
collagen is being given.

Speaker 2 (03:30):
There is nothing wrong with that.

Speaker 3 (03:33):
And you're also seeing that young people want someone with
experience to treat them well, to buy them things.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
And a lot of people don't... Yeah.

Speaker 3 (03:40):
They want a sugar daddy or a sugar mama.

Speaker 6 (03:43):
What happens is that in the past, it was seen.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
All right.

Speaker 3 (04:08):
Y quiero saber si tú estás de acuerdo con lo
que estamos planteando aquí.

Speaker 2 (04:12):
Ponte en su lugar.¿ Qué harías tú?

Speaker 3 (04:13):
Una mujer también mayor, que le llamen la jovencita, que
le den tips también.¿ Y por qué este tabú de
que la gente quiere carne.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Fresca?

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Qué hay de malo en eso? Pero el fenómeno de
que los jóvenes quieren una mujer con experiencia.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Así es. How do you see it, Extreme? Bueno, lo
que pasa es que now we see it. Ese es
el problema. Pero siempre ha sido este fenómeno. Siempre ha sido.

Speaker 5 (04:34):
Lo que pasa es que ahora existe la red donde
se ha convertido hasta en un negocio.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
El negocio?

Speaker 3 (04:38):
Cómo funciona el negocio?

Speaker 2 (04:39):
Explícanos eso.

Speaker 5 (04:40):
El negocio, claro, hay mujeres que abiertamente en las redes
sociales están diciendo, no, yo tengo mi jevo, me paga
las cosas, pero de vez en cuando no es algo,
no es como una relación donde es un negocio donde
ella se va a la cama ciertas cantidades de veces,
nada más.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
Lo mismo con los hombres. Oye, oye, oye,¿ este eres tú?

Speaker 3 (04:59):
Estamos ante una crisis en relación o simplemente cambiaron las
reglas del juego? Tira para acá, 844-JS-ENRIQUE en WhatsApp 305-605-9494.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
Enrique Santos. Enrique Santos.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
Podcast.

Speaker 1 (05:12):
Enrique Santos. Enrique Santos.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
Podcast.

Speaker 1 (05:18):
Petrita González on Facebook says that the best place.

Speaker 3 (05:21):
Can we put the comments here on Facebook?

Speaker 2 (05:24):
Just a moment.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
She says that the best place to meet an older
guy for a relationship is in the supermarket. You see
the presence of the person, their diet, how they have
the package, how they have the package, and most importantly,
what kind of car they drive. And then he says

(05:45):
that women are not interested. Roberto says, to be a
sugar daddy of Dayanara, I would have to have 10
sugar centers. And if sugar is missing, I declare myself diabetic.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
Is that like a poem? No, yeah, that's a... Well,
he's wrong. He's wrong, because she brought cupcakes with no frosting, so.

Speaker 6 (06:05):
Ay, en serio, gente, y se los van a comer
y se callan.

Speaker 3 (06:09):
Harold,¿ dónde es el lugar correcto? Is TikTok the right
place for a woman to find a good relationship?

Speaker 8 (06:17):
Yo no creo que las redes sociales es el mejor sitio,
porque en las redes sociales tú simplemente estás viendo lo
que la persona pone como su vida, no como es
la persona en verdad.

Speaker 2 (06:27):
Because they use a lot of filters.

Speaker 8 (06:29):
You're going to see that I like the beach, that
I like this, that I like that, but in reality
the person is not like that. Because it's a fantasy
that they live in and they upload on social media.

Speaker 3 (06:37):
But if what you want is perreo, you don't want
anything serious, you see how the buttocks are, you see
the legs, you see the chest.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
It hasn't happened.

Speaker 8 (06:43):
To you, but I have friends who have it happen
to them, that you say.

Speaker 2 (06:47):
Damn, that woman is so good. And when she goes,
she says, bro, come here. I got the version of
this woman. 844. Yes, Enrique. Vámonos con Sara. Sara.

Speaker 6 (07:01):
Sí.

Speaker 9 (07:02):
Cómo estás?

Speaker 2 (07:02):
Hola.

Speaker 9 (07:03):
Buenos días.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Buenos días. Bien, gracias.

Speaker 9 (07:04):
Saludos.

Speaker 2 (07:05):
Saludos. Besitos. Cuéntanos.

Speaker 9 (07:08):
Besitos. Sí, estoy de acuerdo con la chica. Es ya
muy difícil encontrar una pareja.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
Yo tengo 47.

Speaker 9 (07:16):
Sí, se hace difícil. Sí, tengo muchos enamorados. Aparecen mayores.

Speaker 2 (07:22):
Sí, claro.

Speaker 9 (07:23):
What they want are the young girls. And the young ones,
who supposedly want the older ones, but they don't know
how to conquer them. The men, for example, and now
with the men, they don't know how to conquer them.
They want a woman, but they only want her for,
you know.

Speaker 2 (07:39):
But does that bother you?

Speaker 3 (07:40):
Do you look for collagen or do you look for
a serious relationship there?

Speaker 9 (07:46):
No, no, serious. Collagen, yes, of course. Women, after a
certain age, what we want is collagen. But with a
serious relationship.

Speaker 6 (07:53):
Normal.

Speaker 9 (07:53):
Men don't want seriousness. They don't want seriousness.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
So, how do you find that balance? Because you see
a good looking guy like Julio, and you say, wow,
what a trunk, Evo. But what you want is an interesting,
chubby guy with money.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
But Julio offers you collagen. And joy. Collagen and joy.

Speaker 9 (08:10):
That's what we women want, right? But, look, the problem
is that the man doesn't have to be young to
have collagen.

Speaker 2 (08:19):
Explain, okay.

Speaker 9 (08:21):
There are older men.

Speaker 2 (08:23):
There are older men who... Who.

Speaker 9 (08:26):
Also offer it? They're more collagen, they're better.

Speaker 8 (08:28):
They're going to be better than the younger ones.

Speaker 2 (08:31):
Don't tell me.

Speaker 9 (08:32):
No, but at that age, it's no longer collagen, no,
that's powder.

Speaker 6 (08:35):
No, women are not powder, it's a lie.

Speaker 2 (08:39):
It's a lie.

Speaker 5 (08:43):
Look, if I want to understand something, Sarah says that
at the age that she is 47, she looks for,
finds a pile of young boys, but they don't want
anything serious, they just want a bed, right? I think
the reason is because they don't want anything serious, because, well,
and I don't speak for everything, but what man, if
there is, please call, what young man wants something more

(09:04):
than sex with a woman at that age, where maybe
he can't give him children, Okay, so in your case,
you have children?

Speaker 3 (09:39):
Okay, so ya la factoría cerró, tiene 47, está soltera.

Speaker 9 (09:43):
Y me gustaría así tener a alguien que ya que
también tenga sus hijos, que uno ya.

Speaker 2 (09:47):
Pueda disfrutar, viajar, compartir.

Speaker 9 (09:50):
Cocinar junto, bailar, cosas ricas, pero ya no parece nada
de eso. Mira, ya ni en la iglesia aparecen cosas ricas.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
Facebook. No. No. No, she's still Instagram. No.

Speaker 5 (10:11):
No.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
Wow, Sara. Wow. I cover my... Yeah.

Speaker 7 (10:44):
Double D?

Speaker 2 (10:45):
Double D? That looks like it. Yeah, I think so.
That's a C cup.

Speaker 5 (11:03):
No, Harold De Gea sabe que vendía lingerie. No, he's
a panty sniffer from Victoria's Secret.

Speaker 6 (11:09):
Victoria's Secret?

Speaker 2 (11:10):
De Gea is a 38 C. De Gea no quiero.
38 C.

Speaker 7 (11:13):
38 C.

Speaker 2 (11:14):
I think it's double D is what I have here. Gracias, Sara.
Vamos a ver qué dicen los hombres. Is it Johnny?
Buenos días, Johnny.

Speaker 6 (11:20):
Hey. Hey.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
Good morning, Enrique.

Speaker 9 (11:22):
Good morning.

Speaker 2 (11:23):
How old are you? What do you offer and what
do you look for in the networks? Papers.

Speaker 7 (11:26):
I'm 44 years old. And really, I mean, it's been
very complicated for me to get women, both young and adults,
older than me. I have a lot of qualities, I
tell them, I try to conquer them and it doesn't
catch their attention.

Speaker 2 (11:42):
Stay there. Let's see what the problem is. We have Sara, right?
Let's put Sara up here on the other side. Stay there, Sara.
Sara has 47 and Johnny has 44. Can we interview
these two? Yes, Sara, are you there?

Speaker 6 (11:51):
Sara, we have a possible match. We are going to
interview Johnny here and then we will pass it on
to you.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
You listen there, Sara. Okay, so Johnny, you are looking
for a woman older than you, the same age as you, less.

Speaker 9 (12:00):
Than you, and why and for what?

Speaker 7 (12:15):
No, I've been single for a long time. I've been
divorced for three years. I have a nine-year-old daughter. I
don't know if many women don't like to know that
they have children because they dedicate their time to their children,
but sometimes you want to have the company of a woman.
You are Venezuelan, from what I can see.

Speaker 2 (12:30):
Yes.

Speaker 7 (12:30):
Sara, where are you from? Yes, I'm Venezuelan.

Speaker 4 (12:33):
Dominican.

Speaker 2 (12:34):
Okay, Dominican. Have you tried with Venezuela?

Speaker 1 (12:45):
No.

Speaker 8 (12:46):
Ah, mira.

Speaker 2 (12:47):
Y tú, Johnny,¿ has probado tú con una dominicana?

Speaker 9 (12:52):
No, no, no.

Speaker 3 (12:54):
Okay, primero, de pana a pana, Haro,¿ alguna advertencia para Johnny?

Speaker 2 (12:57):
Algo que él necesita saber?

Speaker 8 (12:58):
Prepárate, que la de mi mañana sabe cocinar muy bien.

Speaker 2 (13:02):
Va a engordar.

Speaker 5 (13:04):
Entonces, Haro, lo que le dijo que es criada. Porque
si lo único que sabe cocinar.

Speaker 2 (13:10):
No, que cocina rico. Espérate, espérate. Claro, claro, que cocina.

Speaker 9 (13:15):
Incluso yo le.

Speaker 7 (13:16):
I tell you that I know how to cook, I
know how to iron, because I was very young. I
learned everything because my mom worked.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
That's mine.

Speaker 7 (13:23):
And I stayed at home with my brother and we
had to do things. Johnny, tell me.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
Less, tell me less, because the girl is hooked. Tell
me less, listen more.

Speaker 3 (13:32):
Yes.

Speaker 9 (13:32):
Sara, what do you think, Johnny?

Speaker 2 (13:35):
That's mine.

Speaker 9 (13:35):
Talk to him, ask him how he looks, how.

Speaker 2 (13:38):
He looks, his height, what?

Speaker 9 (13:43):
Pregunta.

Speaker 7 (13:45):
Dime en el.

Speaker 2 (13:47):
USA, a ver.

Speaker 7 (13:48):
Cuándo?

Speaker 5 (13:49):
Cinco siete, cinco ocho, cinco nueve, a ver.

Speaker 6 (13:51):
Cinco ocho y adelante.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
No es para ti.

Speaker 1 (13:56):
Ah, bueno.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
No, no, cinco seis. Según la licencia.

Speaker 9 (13:59):
Dayanara es para mí, Dayanara. Perdón, Sara, es tuyo, es tuyo.

Speaker 2 (14:02):
Cuántas pulgadas?¿ Cuántas pulgadas? Digo cinco, seis.

Speaker 7 (14:06):
Según la licencia, cinco cero seis.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
Okay, sí, sí.

Speaker 6 (14:09):
Cinco seis. Okay, cinco seis.

Speaker 2 (14:11):
Qué más quieres saber, Sara?¿ Qué más?

Speaker 6 (14:13):
U.S.

Speaker 7 (14:14):
Citizen.

Speaker 9 (14:14):
Ya, me lo dijo todo ahí. Cocina, U.S. Citizen. Bueno,
la niña también. Me encantan los niños. No hay problema
con la niña. Me encantan los niños.

Speaker 6 (14:22):
Cuántos años tienes tú?

Speaker 2 (14:24):
Tú tienes una hija, Sara?

Speaker 9 (14:27):
No, yo tengo dos ya.

Speaker 6 (14:28):
Dos grandes chiquitos.

Speaker 2 (14:30):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (14:30):
Okay. Okay.

Speaker 5 (14:31):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (14:31):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (14:31):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (14:31):
Okay.

Speaker 5 (14:55):
How is your relationship with your ex? Because if there's.

Speaker 6 (14:59):
Going to be drama in this new.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
Relationship, then... Good point. You can change things. Let's see, Johnny,
how are things with your ex?

Speaker 7 (15:07):
My relationship with my ex has changed a lot. We
are now... Even I go to her house. She got married,
she has a child. I go to their house. Excellent, spectacular.

Speaker 2 (15:18):
And the relationship, Sara, with your ex?

Speaker 9 (15:20):
We've improved a lot. I've been divorced for five years now,
but we're still friends.

Speaker 2 (15:26):
Very cool.

Speaker 6 (15:28):
Sounds like a plan.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
Let's see, Sara, describe yourself.

Speaker 7 (15:32):
Enrique, listen to me.

Speaker 6 (15:33):
Tell me.

Speaker 7 (15:33):
But I don't know if where I work is what
makes women scared.

Speaker 5 (15:40):
Here we go, here we go.

Speaker 2 (15:45):
Possible red flag. Possible red flag, stand by. Sara, Sara, breathe.
Let's hope for the best. Let's hope for the best.

(16:17):
Club 11. Club 11.

Speaker 9 (16:18):
Club 11.

Speaker 2 (16:20):
Club 11. Club 11. Club 11. Club 11.

Speaker 6 (16:41):
No.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
A ver,¿ a qué hora bailas tú?¿ A qué hora
bailas tú, Johnny?

Speaker 9 (16:44):
Que me lleve, Dios!

Speaker 2 (16:45):
Yo trabajo de noche.¿ Qué haces ahí?

Speaker 9 (16:47):
Bailando?

Speaker 7 (16:54):
No, no, no, de las mesas ayudando la limpieza y
todo esto.

Speaker 2 (16:58):
Picking up the dollars.

Speaker 3 (16:59):
Y las mujeres te disparan. Las mujeres te disparan ahí.

Speaker 7 (17:02):
No, no, no, ahí no.

Speaker 4 (17:03):
No?

Speaker 7 (17:04):
No, uno no.

Speaker 9 (17:05):
Puede salir ni siquiera con trabajadores ni nada.

Speaker 7 (17:08):
Incluso eso no se ve muy como que muy bien, pues.
A los ojos no se ve muy bien. A mí
tampoco lo hago, pues.

Speaker 4 (17:17):
Bueno.

Speaker 2 (17:20):
Puedo decir algo?

Speaker 6 (17:21):
Bueno.

Speaker 2 (17:21):
Here we go. Adelante, Chuma.

Speaker 9 (17:23):
Here we go.

Speaker 2 (17:24):
Pongan hola ahí a Johnny. Sara, averigua bien que te
mande fotos. A mí me suena que este tipo es
feo con cojines. Debe ser feo. Debe ser feo.

Speaker 9 (17:33):
Yo no quiero hombre feo.

Speaker 2 (17:35):
Yo tampoco, te lo digo de amiga a amiga.

Speaker 3 (17:39):
Johnny, Chuma Lady quiere saber si tú eres feo.

Speaker 7 (17:44):
No, no, no me considero feo.

Speaker 4 (17:47):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (17:47):
Okay, you live in Miami and Sara lives in West
Palm Beach.

Speaker 9 (17:50):
Is it far away?

Speaker 5 (17:51):
No.

Speaker 2 (17:52):
No, that's fine. It doesn't sound like a match.

Speaker 6 (17:55):
It sounds good to me.

Speaker 9 (17:58):
Well, oh, yes.

Speaker 2 (18:00):
It's a good hour.

Speaker 9 (18:00):
Let's do the following. I think he can make a
trip here to meet me first.

Speaker 2 (18:04):
Let's do a thing. Let's do a thing.

Speaker 6 (18:05):
Let's do an interview together.

Speaker 2 (18:08):
Let's do a thing. Let's do a double date.

Speaker 5 (18:10):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (18:10):
Let's do it. Dayanari and I are going to invite
you to have lunch or dinner.

Speaker 4 (18:14):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
Okay? Un double date.

Speaker 3 (18:18):
Bueno.

Speaker 6 (18:19):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (18:19):
Vamos nosotros de chaperón para ver cómo está la cosa.
Y si ustedes cuadran ahí entre ustedes dos, ustedes entonces empatan.

Speaker 2 (18:24):
Yes.¿ Qué te parece? Okay. Y terminamos en Eleven.

Speaker 9 (18:27):
Qué te parece?

Speaker 2 (18:28):
La ganas tú estás loca.

Speaker 7 (18:29):
Yo también, pero voy a aplicar.

Speaker 2 (18:31):
Yo de Eleven, pero voy a aplicar. Voy a aplicar ahí.
Voy a aplicar.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
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