January 25, 2025 • 48 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Three, two one, Start it Up, Waking Up, This is out,
DC and Moore weakened.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Right to part of the show with Intern Johnny Your
Weary Show.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Yo, It's Hoodie back again with another I see why
am I? In case you missed it or recap the
best bits, the best segments, the best everything from this
past week of Intern john Your Morning Show. Put in
one little podcast for you to enjoy. That way, come
Monday morning, you know what's going off. Everybody can be
part of the crew, part of the in the no
(00:33):
crowd that knows everything about this show. I'm kind of
friend about.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
It to your friends if you want.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Oddly enough, it is already technically the last full weekend
of January. January kind of flew by, which is wild
because next week next Saturday, February first, So get your
Valentine's Day plans planned accordingly, But we gotta kick off
this week's in case you missed it with why can't
you run for public office? Something you did in the past,
(00:58):
Maybe you were arrested for something dumb. Maybe it did
something that someone has some tea on you. Why can't
you run for public office? Here's what you guys said.
Speaker 5 (01:05):
Why could you not run for public office. Let's just
say you're trying to run for mayor or something like that.
They dig in your past, what would they find eight
seven seven, nine, nine five four six State one, the
call nine ninety three three eight to text or getting
you on hold Shelby sauce, you have a checker pasted?
Speaker 6 (01:21):
Okay, No, I don't, No, I don't. I think it
was just kind of I don't know. If I for
like a long time, if you googled me, it would
be like the run Eyes Doc barbikini contest picture would
come up for quite some time. So probably not the
best for public office.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
But did you win?
Speaker 7 (01:36):
No, I was like runner up.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
I think it's exciting.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
I won money though, that's great. Yeah, I think one
hundred and fifty bucks that's exciting.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Yeah. I have a perfectly clean past year. So yeah,
it's really nothing that.
Speaker 6 (01:47):
People might picture from your dorm room that went missing
or something that was like no, sorry was it.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
No?
Speaker 5 (01:54):
So my dorm room, my college dorm, freshman dorm, it
was each floor was you know, it was guy girl floors, right.
So they were fixing the elevator, so they moved like
the guys to the ninth floor instead of the girls,
because that's why they stowed the elevator equipment. So long
story short of the common area, there was like a
block off where they had like the elevator equipment. They
finally opened it when like they're done fixing things now.
(02:16):
You would think they fixed the elevator before school started.
Not not at all. There's a giant portrait of a
ballerina hidden and somebody to this day not too sure
who drew a giant weening on it, and they had
the audacity to accuse me.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
It's wild.
Speaker 6 (02:33):
So much stuff happened on that floor, Like there was
like the like bounty balls or something.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
Oh yeah, something to shooting with the hockey six, shooting
gunballs in the hallway. God, and all these things brought
to again try to pin on me. I would always
say to them, I would say, with all due respect, yeah,
my parents have worked here my entire life. Do you
think I'd be stupid enough to pull insert whatever it
was here at this college? Absolutely not, and then would leave.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
It to them.
Speaker 6 (02:59):
So that was like me in college. I kept I
got in trouble for always like throwing my dorm keys
out people so they can come in nice.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Yeah, flex.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Let me go in Middle River, Alessa. Good morning, Good morning,
my girl. So you couldn't run for public office.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Why, Okay, this sounds really bad, but it would come
out that in my past, I went to a party
and I stole the muddy's cat.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Okay, okay, well, poor k Why.
Speaker 8 (03:28):
It was good.
Speaker 7 (03:29):
It was very good cause the cat needed to go
to the vet.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Clearly had a.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Ton of fleas and stores and everything. So I kind
of just ran down the street to my house, got
a cat carrier, came back and snuck the cat.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Out I did. That's good. Good for you, I know. Yeah,
I like.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
That it gets you elected. I'd believe that's a hero.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Yeah, absolutely, Okay, that's yeah. Well one second less that
you were in the running, the good for you. It's amazing.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
I was sealing pictures of my friends dads, not cats,
So huh. We stole pictures of my friend's dads and
you take them out with us and like set them
up like the picture frames, like when we were in
high school parties.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
So people think they were dead. No, oh, just the
high school parties.
Speaker 7 (04:06):
We were just hanging out with people's dad.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Oh.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
It was like we had like a chaperone that we'd take.
It was kind of like the flat Stanley dolls that
you like take with you everywhere?
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Would you take it to restaurants?
Speaker 6 (04:14):
Do we took this one guy Steve's dad Greg, We
took him everywhere.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
People for sure thought he was dead. No, if you're
at a restaurant with a picture frame of a ram
dude therefore sure thinking he's longer with us.
Speaker 6 (04:26):
I just remember, like my parents were out of town
so that I had a party and I had to
hide all the pictures of my friend's dad's like in
my parents' bedroom because I didn't want them taking their
dad's back.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
So anyway, now I always bring up that you'll say
things from your childhood do you think are normal?
Speaker 4 (04:40):
That is normal.
Speaker 6 (04:41):
It's like a flat Stanley of someone's dad that I respected.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
There is Why have you taken any photos of my dad?
It's messed up. You don't respect him.
Speaker 7 (04:48):
You don't have a picture of your actual dad?
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Do I have pictures of my fake dads?
Speaker 6 (04:53):
Nobody don't want to take a picture of just your dad.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Yeah, tons of me with him? Okay, okay, well yeah
my actual day off your wall.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
Anyway, I have my TV dad and I have my
radio dads and have my daddy's Let me go, fake name, Amanda,
good morning, good morning.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Night girl. So you can run for public office? Why?
Speaker 9 (05:14):
Because I'm a swinger.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
That's right?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
And so how long we've been going branch to branch for.
Speaker 9 (05:21):
A couple of years now?
Speaker 5 (05:23):
Okay, And let me ask you, Amanda, what's the biggest
misconception about swinging.
Speaker 8 (05:30):
That you don't have boundaries or got you?
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Okay, gotcha? Is the pineapple thing real?
Speaker 8 (05:39):
I think so most most of the time.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Okay?
Speaker 9 (05:42):
And can you like some people just like pineapple?
Speaker 4 (05:46):
That's fair?
Speaker 5 (05:46):
And so can you get a vibe off a couple
when you meet him for the first time, like, oh,
they probably also do.
Speaker 9 (05:51):
This, not in a vanilla environment.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Sure, sure, that makes sense. Okay, fake name Amanda, one
second you were in the running. Let me go, fake
name Abby, good morning girl.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
You can run for public office. Why?
Speaker 10 (06:10):
I can't remember public office because I am and I
have had public in the numerous over the country.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna translate that fakeing, Abby you've
had You've had the relations in relations clubs all across
the country.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Oh yeah, Okay, And how many clubs we check off
the list, probably like up. Okay, do we leave a
Yelp reviews afterwards?
Speaker 9 (06:42):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (06:43):
I think that would get you in office for doing
it in a consensual way. Yeah, that's public and your
also private, same time public.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah what what city's got the best club for that?
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Fake? Nae, Abby?
Speaker 8 (06:58):
I like New York.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
That makes sense?
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Makes sense?
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Yeah, thank name Abby. One second you were in the running.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
You can vote for your favorite over tax nine nine
three three eightheeters.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
We're coming for you.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
It's more of the roses on intern John in your
morning shows in case you missed it.
Speaker 7 (07:16):
Hi, sus Jake. Hi, my name is Diana.
Speaker 6 (07:21):
I'm just calling you from this new local flower shop.
We're offering up a free bouquet of roses, trying out
some new marketing.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
They're totally free. We don't need your credit card info.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
Is that something you'd be interested in?
Speaker 9 (07:35):
Number.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
We're just trying out new marketing since we're new to
the community and we're trying to get our product actually
out there so you see it and then you just
come back for future occasions.
Speaker 7 (07:44):
That's why they're free, just so you can try it.
You get done them anywhere in the country anywhere.
Speaker 10 (07:53):
Yeah, basically, so you're a follower company that said it
out Flee three Flowers, that's what you're telling me.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
We're a local flower shop. So we're trying out new marketing.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
Instead of just having people advertise on Instagram just random ads,
we're trying to send them out locally so that you know,
let's say you send them to somebody in an office
and then you know, people that worn't there see them
and then you come back.
Speaker 7 (08:20):
So we're trying to keep it within the community.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
Instead of just trying out you know, like ads on
Instagram or Facebook.
Speaker 9 (08:28):
That's interesting, can attend it anywhere in the country Ukans.
Speaker 7 (08:31):
We do have an online shop as well.
Speaker 10 (08:35):
Yes, I don't know about this because that's the sound suspect.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
I mean, I get it.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
We're just like I came up with the idea a
few months ago and it's working okay so far. We're
just trying to get more foot traffic. We didn't have
the best you know, holiday season, and that's going to
be here again before you know it. So uh, so far,
so good. We're just trying to keep it up, keep
up that energy.
Speaker 10 (08:57):
Okay, I hear you, But how many people have you
sent these flowers up to wait, how many people do
you call it day?
Speaker 6 (09:01):
I only try to call five a day because again,
we're local and we're sending out usually roses or like,
you know, whatever their favorite flowered flower is.
Speaker 7 (09:10):
So okay, it's trying to make my mom's dream come true.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
You know.
Speaker 10 (09:16):
Yeah, I definitely hate you. That sounds really nice, and.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
You're helping out the community. You're helping out a family.
My mom will love me a little more.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
I'm just kidding.
Speaker 10 (09:28):
Yeah, no, I definitely hear you, but I don't know.
I really don't know. That's that's who I.
Speaker 9 (09:34):
Send it to.
Speaker 6 (09:35):
They can't I mean, do you have anyone in your life?
You can send them to anyone you want. They are roses, though,
unless you wanted a different kind of flowers. So they're
red roses, so romantic. So if you have, you know,
like a wife or girlfriend or something, he's something there.
Or if you're a mama's boy, send them to your mom.
Speaker 9 (09:55):
Well not a mama's boy, okay, sorry.
Speaker 10 (10:00):
Keep flying that in. I'm not a mama boy. But
I don't know that's.
Speaker 9 (10:07):
You said.
Speaker 10 (10:07):
You're a local company.
Speaker 6 (10:08):
Again, yeah, right downtown. I mean, I don't know, I'll
tell you. I give you my entire speech I have
written out here, so.
Speaker 10 (10:19):
I definitely hear you on that though, Like you gonta
understand you're just calling me out of nowhere.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Yeah, it's just it's called gorilla marketing. I mean literally,
this is the kind of marketing has been around for years.
Speaker 10 (10:30):
So okay, all right, all right, Hey you located downtown
and you said your name what.
Speaker 11 (10:39):
You know?
Speaker 10 (10:39):
All right? All right, let me see.
Speaker 6 (10:44):
Yeah, my mom named me after her hometown, Pasadena, Maryland.
Speaker 10 (10:50):
That's cool, it'll be nice.
Speaker 9 (10:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 10 (10:57):
Sorry, Well you.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
Don't want them, I can try somebody else, so I
don't want to hang up on you.
Speaker 10 (11:03):
I just I think I got somebody a mile wait
to send it to.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
Okay, can I get their name?
Speaker 9 (11:13):
Yeah, Maddie Maddie?
Speaker 4 (11:15):
Is that like m A D D?
Speaker 9 (11:16):
I E yes?
Speaker 4 (11:18):
Oh cool?
Speaker 6 (11:19):
And then I am just like keeping this all in
file just in case you do decide to come back
and send Maddie flowers again.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
So what does she do?
Speaker 6 (11:26):
Like?
Speaker 12 (11:26):
Wife?
Speaker 7 (11:27):
Fyance? Girlfriend?
Speaker 4 (11:28):
Friend?
Speaker 7 (11:32):
She's like some girlfriend? Recent?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Oh cool?
Speaker 7 (11:36):
Is it like maybe like an anniversary gift?
Speaker 10 (11:40):
I mean, I just like we just been together for
a couple of months, so it would be like a
thinking of you type of thing.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Oh that's nice. No, she'll like that for sure. And
then what do you want the card to say? It's
just like your typical little card.
Speaker 10 (11:56):
The baby, I can't wait to see you this weekend?
Speaker 7 (11:58):
Do you say, baby, I can't wait to see see.
Speaker 10 (12:01):
You this weekend?
Speaker 11 (12:05):
So really, so you're gonna sit there and send it
to another woman and you will just with me the
other week here?
Speaker 4 (12:12):
That's about us, Like, are you serious? I can't say,
wait Jake, real quick.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
First of all, thank you for giving us the longest
conversation that went in circles for I'll know how long
that was. My God, my name is John. That is sauce.
Uh that woman who obvious? I'm gonna play this game
with you, Jake, who is the woman he slept with
last weekend the bachelor party?
Speaker 10 (12:37):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
How do you smell that?
Speaker 10 (12:44):
He wei?
Speaker 4 (12:46):
H a I No, that's wrong, that's wrong.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
So you if the way it sounds from where we're sitting,
you have a girlfriend, but you hooked up with somebody
at a bachel party?
Speaker 10 (13:00):
Yes, yes, yes, yes yes?
Speaker 5 (13:05):
So do you see why that be well? Do you
see why that's probably not a good thing.
Speaker 10 (13:12):
That a good thing for that you cheat on.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
Your girlfriend with somebody man a bachelor party.
Speaker 13 (13:17):
Yeah, poor Maddie, I mean, uh does I don't even
know my name?
Speaker 4 (13:26):
That's fair?
Speaker 9 (13:27):
Really?
Speaker 4 (13:29):
By with a b Bailey.
Speaker 10 (13:33):
I'm sorry, Billy Billy, I mean Billy was cool. We
we all go.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
You have a girl friend, You have a girlfriend.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
How does she not put her head through the wall
talking to you?
Speaker 4 (13:47):
My god, hopefully.
Speaker 10 (13:51):
We'll say helly never really see me? Belly never asked
me if I.
Speaker 9 (13:56):
Had a.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
Sleeping around a bull face?
Speaker 9 (14:01):
Lie?
Speaker 6 (14:02):
I did, but not only that, Like, why does she
have to You shouldn't be hooking up with people if
you have a girlfriend.
Speaker 9 (14:08):
How about that?
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Why?
Speaker 10 (14:09):
Why not question to me? What would I did?
Speaker 6 (14:11):
Like?
Speaker 10 (14:11):
Why would your question her about sleeping with me?
Speaker 2 (14:16):
No?
Speaker 4 (14:17):
So, Jake, does Maddie? Now you sleep with other women?
Speaker 8 (14:21):
I mean, let let me, let me let Okay, I think.
Speaker 9 (14:25):
You are right?
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Yeah, all right.
Speaker 9 (14:28):
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Speaker 7 (14:32):
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Speaker 5 (14:36):
Carnate Psychologists. The first sign Somebody's gonna be a nightmare
of date and this thing makes a.
Speaker 6 (14:41):
Lot of sense James, Sorry, don oh wait yeah, well
inn than I.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
It does, it really does. He never dated you.
Speaker 6 (14:56):
I like briefly talked to this guy darreed. Okay, so
now no, I mean hung out okay, vibe. He came
visit me Atlanta?
Speaker 5 (15:03):
Okay, who didn't? Okay, John, I like all your friends
came out to see you in Atlanta.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
Thank you. I was there twice, that's true. Buster came.
I was excited.
Speaker 10 (15:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:16):
Absolutely. They act like they're doing you a favor just
by talking to you.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (15:21):
I think a lot of dudes.
Speaker 6 (15:22):
Feel this because they're like and it makes you just
feel like crap about yourself. It's like, why are you
talking to me like this? Are you're making me feel
dumb for talking to you? Like, why would you think
you're worthy? I'm like, all right, I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 7 (15:33):
I'm just never going to talk to you again.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
They say, even if you're interested in them, the moment
you see them behave this way, it's to sign the likely.
Speaker 7 (15:41):
Bail, especially because like you shouldn't.
Speaker 6 (15:44):
It just seems like, uh, I don't even know, like
the like Johnny Bravo or something like you should be
feel lucky.
Speaker 4 (15:50):
To be around me. Yeah. I mean I go back
to that example.
Speaker 5 (15:53):
On dating apps, sometimes I feel like somebody feels bothered
you're messaging them. It's like, hey, you're also on the
dating app sack. I found you on LinkedIn. Yeah, this
is like we're all here for that purpose.
Speaker 6 (16:04):
You consent it to me messaging you, But being on
the SAP, why are you acting like message?
Speaker 4 (16:08):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (16:08):
Absolutely, they try to hide their hate for others, but
you can still feel the energy.
Speaker 6 (16:14):
Oh yeah, because they're being like fake over the top.
I have definitely definitely been on dates with guys like that,
oh really, Yeah, where you can just tell it. They
want to like almost gossip, but they're really negative. And
then they keep trying to like reel it in and
like not be negative. And I'm like, I can just
tell that you're not a nice person.
Speaker 9 (16:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:29):
Well, they say, even if they're trying to restrain themselves,
that hate does bubble through.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (16:35):
And if you can pick up where they are filled
with hate, people pick up on you hating them.
Speaker 7 (16:39):
Yeah, you can just tell with energy.
Speaker 5 (16:42):
Oh yeah for sure, because it's like if you can't
hide it, your white knuckle and a date and like,
what's going on?
Speaker 4 (16:47):
Well, what's going on here? Exactly what I mean? They
go from zero to one hundred real quick.
Speaker 7 (16:52):
That's it's no good, like their their temper just.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
With everything they say. When some interjects you, do you
flip out in them? Do you feel like you get
to make a scene or lash out? Teach him a lesson?
They say, this will make somebody avoid you and getting
you the unstable label in the dating scene.
Speaker 6 (17:07):
Oh for sure, especially because the dating scene in general
it's not that big if you really think about it,
for demographics and everything. So if you, you know, match
with some or go out with somebody that is just
flips out out of nowhere, it's going to go around.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
I would also say to that point, if I saw
somebody who also always aired their stuff on social media,
I'd be like, that's.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
A no go for me.
Speaker 6 (17:31):
That make people that also like have the really long
captions about real detail.
Speaker 5 (17:35):
Yes, and they post the lyrics like that. The best
is this one memes like girl'll take down the lyrics
she's yeah, and it's like it's so true.
Speaker 7 (17:41):
He doesn't even know what that means.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
No, but that's a weird poem and just keep it
moving to the next set. That's weird.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
It's a weird thing. She must be going to a
concert soon. You have no ideas about him. You can
make it the close friends and close friend. Oh, I
guess she got a new album she's listening to.
Speaker 4 (17:57):
That's what I do.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
I put any man that hurts my feelings on my
cloth as friends, and then I'll post something to just
like fel like, look at me.
Speaker 5 (18:04):
So in this case, you're the person not to date,
is what we're going.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 13 (18:09):
I feel like that would make a dude feel like, Oh,
I'm still on her close friends.
Speaker 4 (18:13):
That's what I'm saying. That's why I do.
Speaker 6 (18:14):
I'm like, oh, look, I haven't done this since last year.
To be fair, when I got flowers from this guy,
you evolved. Well, just I don't date. I really don't
date anymore.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
If they have an underlying victim mentality, yes, if.
Speaker 6 (18:27):
They're always playing the victim, I don't want anything to
do with you.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
Yeah. I think I think that's it's just draining.
Speaker 7 (18:33):
Especially because it shows how immature you are.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
No.
Speaker 13 (18:35):
Absolutely, if this segment has some weird edits blame Eric.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
This is intern John and your morning show is in case.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
You missed it, Shelby Sauce. You're in the dating field.
Speaker 5 (18:47):
As the kids say, do you like to text often
with somebody before a first date?
Speaker 6 (18:53):
Not often, because I feel like we're already like establishing
some kind of like relationship, be like friends, Like I
don't want to like have something already established, because then
you put it up on a pedestal, and then it
also can just take the fun out of the first date.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
Okay, that's fair, Rose.
Speaker 5 (19:08):
Do you think I know it's been a minute, but
texting too much for a first date? Is that a
thing you used to worry about? No, not really, Okay,
I think for me, I guess it probably depends. But
also our hours are so weird. So according to the
psychologist why this is why texting too much for a
first date can be a huge mistake. Okay, I wanted
to get you guys thocks on this. For one thing,
(19:30):
they say it's way too familiar. So what they mean
by that is you think you're bonding with this person
and getting to know them, but you don't know them yet.
They're still a complete stranger to you. Keep it that
way and then meet them in person for you to
decide how you.
Speaker 6 (19:44):
Feel yeah, because even like I want to dig it
last year with this guy that I had rescheduled with
him once and he had to rescheduled for something, and
I felt like we'd text so much that by the
time we went on the date, it was he was
just acting like we'd know each other for the longest
time and I really didn't know him, and it was
just He's like, oh, remember we talked about that, and
I'm like, yeah, I met you.
Speaker 4 (20:05):
I get that guy.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
Add to that, I would assume, especially as a female
and safety, you could almost if you're texting somebody a
lot before a date, your brain may be tricks like, oh,
they're not a threat, and then you can't see it's texting,
so they can. I mean, the worst person in the
world probably can be really smooth over text. So then
your guard kind of gets down for the date. And
then I think that would make sense to you where
(20:28):
it's like you think, oh, this is a good friend,
it's like, no, this is literally a stranger.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
You didn't even know if they look like that.
Speaker 12 (20:33):
Vers just because they're good at texting doesn't mean they're
good at.
Speaker 5 (20:36):
Actually talking undred percent. Rose you were out of things
to say. Is the reason why.
Speaker 6 (20:42):
Well, yeah, and then it's like awkward and you're like,
so should we still hang off?
Speaker 4 (20:45):
We don't.
Speaker 7 (20:45):
Can't even have a conversation if you a text.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
Yeah, they say, if you're texting someone before the first date,
you'll one hundred pund of things to say in person disaster.
Speaker 7 (20:52):
Yeah, sure makes sense.
Speaker 5 (20:54):
This I thought was a good point too. Any connection
you feel is totally fake. Here's what they say. Online
dating is super tricky. You're trying to figure out whether
someone's the right one for you based on a handful
of photos, some paragraphs, likes, dislikes, and messages. That's why
you get a headache every so often. Take a break
from dating. It's easy if youel connected with somebody when
(21:14):
you're having a seemingly amazingly amazing conversation over your phones.
After all, especially for millennials, we're used to talking to
somebody in this way.
Speaker 6 (21:22):
Yeah, I mean yeah, and then you build you think
that there's someone that they're not you've never met them.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
Yeah, I guess like the idea too.
Speaker 5 (21:28):
Of like on the app, you're probably a little more
guarded because, like I'm on the internet, when somebody's texting,
it's like it seems safer.
Speaker 7 (21:34):
Yeah, and then you get excited but you literally.
Speaker 4 (21:35):
Don't know them.
Speaker 5 (21:37):
Man, this is wild. They also say beware of the
twenty four to seven texters.
Speaker 4 (21:42):
If you have that sauce.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (21:44):
I've had guys that will just text me a lot.
It's to the point that like it. It is kind
of odds. It's like I feel like they act like
we're already dating when we haven't even gone the date yet.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
Oh interesting, And I don't like that.
Speaker 5 (21:56):
Yeah, they said the ones like how's your day, whitey
up tonight. I used to people text me like just hi,
and I'd be like instantly out yeah, like instantly or
or like sub like that to me was always like
an oh God.
Speaker 6 (22:12):
Like I had a guy actually in the springtime that
I was supposed to go on a date with, and
we had actually met one time, probably like a year
and a half before, at this like work thing, and
basically we had seen each other like like we saw
each other at the same place, but we didn't talk.
So he had like messaged me. So then we were
(22:33):
talking and I was like, yeah, like maybe we should
go out like he had suggested it, and I agreed. So, uh,
for some reason at this work thing. It was like
the Cupids under Run, like a few years ago.
Speaker 4 (22:43):
Fantastic charity event. By the way, it is.
Speaker 7 (22:45):
Such a great charity event.
Speaker 6 (22:46):
And I was hosting it and I was and it
was you know, it's right for Valentine's Day, and I
was saying, go buy your girl flowers. And I had
mentioned that no one had ever sent me flowers ever,
and since we had mutual friends and one of his
friends had been to my apartment before, he asked what
were my building was, so he sent roses to my
apartment and I thought that was really nice, but it
was so creepy because I had never told him where
(23:08):
I lived. I didn't tell what neighborhood. He asked my
friend and he just sent them to.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
The office reward.
Speaker 12 (23:13):
I don't like that.
Speaker 7 (23:14):
And it was when my friend was in town.
Speaker 6 (23:15):
So I get this call from my apartment building that
I have flowers and I didn't know who it was from,
and said, you're number one fan. Interesting like that, like
like he thought that we'd become friends, like via texting.
When I told him that made me really uncomfortable. He
was like, but like we're friends, but like we'd only
met at this work event and seen each other out
the weekend before.
Speaker 14 (23:31):
Also, if we're friends, why didn't you just ask me
for my contract going around to my other It's weird
when somebody gets your phone number or your address or
anything from somebody else. Agree exactly, sorry, your friend kind
of poop pooed.
Speaker 6 (23:47):
I know.
Speaker 4 (23:47):
I was so mad.
Speaker 14 (23:49):
I was so if somebody asks me for somebody's phone
number or address, I'm going to that person being.
Speaker 12 (23:54):
Like, hey, so and so is asking for this.
Speaker 5 (23:56):
Yeah, I think to the problem with that specific situation.
I'm sure the guy probably is a good guy whatever,
but you don't know that. It's the problem like where
you assume the other person knows that you are a
good person, so it wouldn't be weird. Do you think of,
oh they they know nothing about me. Yeah, it looks
like a little bit odd.
Speaker 4 (24:14):
It was.
Speaker 6 (24:14):
It was very weird, and we didn't end up hanging out,
of course. That was just like so weird out by it,
And I'm like, why wouldn't you just like ask me
my address?
Speaker 4 (24:21):
Why?
Speaker 6 (24:21):
And then I'm like, why did kypria address? Why did
they give it to you? And then I think he
just dropped off the flowers in the office oh, okay,
any weird, let's school.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
Here's another moment of broadcast brilliance on intern Johnny your
morning show is in case you missed it.
Speaker 5 (24:38):
Oh Man Rose sent this to me. I was like,
I can think of some people in my life. The
toxic reasons folks can't admit when they're wrong, According to experts,
one of the most odd things ever, especially when it's
like clearly night and day and they just won't just
say it and then we can move on.
Speaker 12 (24:58):
You like double down even though they know the wrong.
Speaker 9 (25:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (25:00):
It's like if you see somebody in buildings on fire, like, hey,
the building's on fire. You know it's not no, but
like it's on fire. I'm not getting mad, I'm saying
this out of the building and be okay. Yeah, this
is an odd, odd, odd situation. So the first they
talk to seven experts about the reasons people can commit
the wrong I think everybody probably has that person in
(25:21):
their life, maybe several people in their lives. The first
one is insecurity and fear of consequences. They say fear
is the most common reason for people not willing to
admit the wrong.
Speaker 4 (25:30):
At the right time. I think it's the worst too.
In like work situations.
Speaker 5 (25:35):
Not that we really have it here, but when bosses
don't do it, it's like, hey, I would respect you
more if you admittedly made a mistake because we all
know it. Yeah, Like, or for doing something that's not
like an effective way. There's a better way. We'd all
be like, yeah, it makes my sense to the other way.
Speaker 6 (25:49):
Hey, thanks for like actually being honest and like a
stand up person.
Speaker 5 (25:52):
Yeah, and like admitting that you know everything, you know
what I mean? Yeah, over polishing their self image made
the list. Okay, say, sometimes people fall prey to unrealistic
and practical images of the self. The self image is fake,
and the cultivation of fake image leads them not be
able to accept they can be wrong.
Speaker 7 (26:09):
I mean that makes sense.
Speaker 6 (26:10):
If you feel like you just like you're like I'm
right and right and right, you're not gonna want to
be wrong.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
Yeah, especially I guess if you die in the hill
so many times, then maybe it's hard to emit the
first time that you're wrong. I just thing is this's
easier to meet you're wrong. It almost like it takes
away the power from the other person. If you say
you're wrong.
Speaker 6 (26:26):
They don't want to be embarrassed, that's what.
Speaker 11 (26:28):
Damn.
Speaker 5 (26:29):
They can't see beyond themselves. So people are trouble admitting
they're wrong have difficulty seeing beyond themselves. Many are insecure,
have a strong ego, and afraid looking stupid. Kind of
to your point song. Yeah, Also, people who need help
admitting they're wrong are not well grounded. So the enneagram
tells us that when we are stuck in our personality,
(26:49):
we don't have full access toward inner wisdom and thus
gets stuck in fear. It's hard to admit we are
wrong when we're stuck in fear.
Speaker 12 (26:57):
Damn, that's fair. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (26:58):
I was watching this show the other and no, it's
like a reality TV show, and I don't really watch
that stuff, but I was and this girl was very
clearly wrong and I know it's reality TV, but it
was like very obvious, and he was like, can you
just say something? She's like, you're not right, but she
was clearly wrong, and she just like wouldn't budge on
something because she was being like very disrespectful to the
(27:22):
camera crew. Yeah, and it wasn't even like the person
that was like like the guy was like, I just
don't think you're being very nice. So it was like
very obvious because like even the cameracter was like, yeah,
she's not nice.
Speaker 5 (27:33):
I mean, I had somebody who once sent me a
screenshot of a text conversation between me and them they
meant to send to somebody else, and then they were
talking trash to me, so imagine it was like, I
don't understand this. Yeah, here's the screenshot, and they sent
it to me, and I was in the room when
it happened.
Speaker 4 (27:48):
Yeah. I was like, Hey, I'm not.
Speaker 5 (27:50):
Really even mad that you're talking trash because like I'm
pretty confident in who I am and yeah yeah, but
like the fact that you're doing it during a bad
time and we're supposed to be doing like a project. Yeah,
And they couldn't admit that part was wrong.
Speaker 15 (28:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (28:02):
I was like, that's kind of okay, but like it's
clearly we're not supposed to be doing that right now.
Also an adult, that's why I need the paper clip,
is say, hey, you're talking trash about John. Are you
sure you want to send this conversation? Yeah, d's our
next one. Lack of self awareness. One of the most
toxic reasons people can admit they're wrong is the lack
of self awareness. People lack of self awareness may have
(28:23):
difficulty engaging in deep self reflection. Without this introspection, they
may not realize how their actions impact others, which can
lead to a host of toxic behaviors.
Speaker 7 (28:33):
Love that, Love that because I don't know.
Speaker 12 (28:37):
I just feel like so so.
Speaker 6 (28:37):
Many people aren't self aware enough to like and like
we're getting older, so like then when you're just not
admitting that you're wrong, it just makes things even more awkward,
and then you're just like stuck in that rut.
Speaker 4 (28:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (28:46):
Yeah, I feel at some point you just kind of
realize to let go of those people too. Yeah, where
it's like he just realized there's no getting through, Like
I can't live my whole life pretending that you're right
about something I know you're not.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
Yeah, yeah, I mean like that, that'd be real. It's
too hard, real tough.
Speaker 5 (29:01):
They're gasline, you made the list, core you this therapist
liberally playing mind games manipulate you.
Speaker 4 (29:05):
Yep. They have a rigid ego.
Speaker 5 (29:08):
People's egos can't accept any information that contradicts their pre
existing beliefs.
Speaker 7 (29:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (29:13):
I think this happens again more so like in the
business world sometimes where it's like we've all worked for
companies and yet not here but previous jobs where it's
like we do things so asked backwards.
Speaker 4 (29:23):
That's what we've always done. Yeah, but there's a better
way though in.
Speaker 5 (29:29):
And nobody's gonna be like, oh weird, you know, think
there's you know, when Steve Jobs made the iPod, nobody's like, oh,
he's an idiot. First, No, there's probably a better idea.
The last ones that are a narcissist, they need to
win every argument regardless.
Speaker 4 (29:40):
Of the facts involved. Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 5 (29:44):
Yeah, you know they say for the person who's never wrong,
considered doing self assessment to see if he might need
to focus on self work for a while, seek some counseling,
or maybe you're always right being sure, check the fancts first,
because the chances that you might be a little bit
right but a little bit wrong.
Speaker 4 (29:59):
Yeah, if you think you're always right, you're wrong. That's
the problem. Like that, what are you doing if you're
always right? Play the lottery? Fam do?
Speaker 13 (30:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (30:06):
I mean, be a California psychic, do anything like that?
Speaker 6 (30:10):
Hell yeah, looks like a podcast for people that don't
listen to podcasts.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Intern John in your Morning show case you missed it.
Speaker 5 (30:17):
Second date update on Internshohn in your morning show, you
meet somebody could be on the apps, could be out
in the wild, but you think this person is different.
You think there's a vibe. We try to see what
goes wrong, why they stop talking to you.
Speaker 4 (30:33):
That's what we're here for, Matt, Good morning, Good mornings.
Speaker 5 (30:37):
So walk us through this. You and Hannah met where
and how? I guess.
Speaker 9 (30:42):
Okay, So Hannah and I met on Hinge? Okay, I'm
about two weeks ago.
Speaker 5 (30:46):
And what about Hannah on Hinge? Made her stand out?
Like why why her?
Speaker 11 (30:52):
I thought she was really really attractive, but she also.
Speaker 9 (30:55):
Seemed really smart. Okay, and I'm gonna both of those things.
Speaker 5 (30:59):
Okay, And you man, you an email. You made a
point of taking things slow. So how long do we
talk on the app before we got numbers?
Speaker 9 (31:06):
So we're talking on the app for about two weeks?
Speaker 4 (31:09):
Okay.
Speaker 11 (31:11):
And I wanted to kind of keep it like a
low profile, so we talked a little bit enough to
garner interest, but.
Speaker 9 (31:16):
Not to overdo it, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Yeah, that makes me. I think that's the hard part.
Speaker 5 (31:21):
Like you, you have to realize you haven't met this
person yet and it just seems like they're the one
for sure.
Speaker 4 (31:26):
Okay, so we do that. We had dinner last Friday.
Speaker 9 (31:30):
Correct, correct? Yep?
Speaker 4 (31:32):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (31:33):
And so how long I guess from matching to seeing
each other for the first day, Like what was the
how many days in between.
Speaker 9 (31:40):
From matching?
Speaker 11 (31:41):
Because I would say maybe about ten to fourteen days
that would.
Speaker 4 (31:47):
Get okay, And so tell us how dinner goes.
Speaker 9 (31:51):
So dinner went really really well. We didn't talk much
of the day of the date.
Speaker 11 (31:57):
But you know, essentially I wanted to have been the
talk about while you.
Speaker 9 (32:01):
Know, we were meeting face to face.
Speaker 5 (32:04):
But you can you confirm the day though, right, so
they can I ask the big thing like the day
of d you text like, hey, so make sure on right?
Speaker 4 (32:12):
Oh yeah, yeah, gotcha?
Speaker 11 (32:14):
All right, all of that, I went, I picked her up,
or actually rather I wanted to pick her up, but
she said that she would meet me there, so I said, okay,
you know, no problem, and so we met there.
Speaker 9 (32:27):
We both got there on time. We had what I
thought was a really great time. Then it was great.
Speaker 10 (32:34):
I feel like there was some chemistry and you know,
I took her home.
Speaker 9 (32:39):
There wasn't too much after that.
Speaker 11 (32:41):
I mean we we we uh like I had like
a small little kid from the cheek, nothing super crazy,
wanted to keep it, you know.
Speaker 9 (32:49):
Modern sure, and it was over all a great night.
Speaker 5 (32:53):
And this this was on Friday, last Friday, And you've
not heard her since.
Speaker 9 (32:59):
I have not heard from her, sense, So I.
Speaker 11 (33:02):
Facetimed, you know, a couple of times I called attack,
but I didn't want to overdo it. Yeah, you know,
like it's still very new, So I I just haven't
heard from her.
Speaker 5 (33:12):
I'm gonna be honest, I'd be confused too, because I
get like, if as a woman wanting to meet somebody
somewhere instead of taking up I get that. But the
fact that she felt comfortable enough with you that you
could take her home though, to me, suggests it must
have gone well. It seems like it'd be an odd
thing if like she didn't have a good time and goes,
well he can bring me home. Still, so two questions
(33:35):
I have left. So you left things thinking like for
sure it'll be a second date?
Speaker 4 (33:39):
Correct?
Speaker 9 (33:41):
Yeah, absolutely no.
Speaker 5 (33:42):
And then how long have you both been single? Just
just kind of paint the picture.
Speaker 9 (33:48):
How want have we both been single? That's a good,
good question I've been single for quite some time.
Speaker 4 (33:52):
Okay, but I worked, Yeah, got you got you got.
Speaker 11 (33:58):
I want to say, handled with single for a good
amount of time as well, like a reasonable amount of time.
Speaker 5 (34:04):
Sure, yeah, I was curious, So let's let's do this then, Matt.
So I'll I'll call Hannah. We'll try your out with
us and get her side.
Speaker 9 (34:11):
Okay, okay, sounds great.
Speaker 4 (34:13):
One second.
Speaker 5 (34:15):
Yeah, I guess the car at home to me is
the interesting part.
Speaker 7 (34:20):
Yeah, yeah, I'll disagree.
Speaker 4 (34:28):
Hello, Hi is this Hannah?
Speaker 15 (34:31):
This is Hannah.
Speaker 5 (34:32):
Hey, Hannah, it's intern John. I got Sauce and Rose
here as well. We talked to you on the show
real quick about something nothing bad. Just need like a
I on like forty five seconds of your time.
Speaker 15 (34:42):
Uh sure, I guess, go ahead.
Speaker 4 (34:43):
Okay, so we're doing second date update.
Speaker 5 (34:46):
I got somebody in the line here, Matt, if you
want to say hello, Hey, Hannah nailed it, and so Hannah,
Matt reached out to us. He told us you guys
and matched on hinge. You've been talking for a couple
of weeks. We had dinner last Friday. But he is
not her sins and we're trying to see where your
head's at and trying to help him out too, because
we're a little bit puzzled.
Speaker 15 (35:09):
Well, hello, Yes, we went on a date the other day,
and I have been avoiding him. I honestly have.
Speaker 4 (35:18):
We got that. We kind of figured that.
Speaker 5 (35:20):
I guess we're here more so for the why, because
we can't really from what he's told us.
Speaker 15 (35:26):
So, Okay, the date was amazing.
Speaker 9 (35:30):
It was great, but.
Speaker 15 (35:31):
He offended me and I didn't quite know how to
address it or how to say something, but it really
offended me.
Speaker 9 (35:41):
So, like I.
Speaker 15 (35:42):
Said, the date was amazing, and when it came time
for the bill, I asked him, Okay, well let me
pay my part of the bill, because I don't want
any man taking care of me or paying my way
or anything like that. I worked very hard and I
can afford my lifestyle and I can afford to pay
for things. And he no, I got it. I asked
(36:03):
you out of the day, and he just went back
and forth. And at that part, I just started to
get offended and I felt like he didn't think that
I could afford the food. Okay, so I was just
really offended.
Speaker 5 (36:15):
I'm not passing judgment. Yeah to this, I understand. So
you you were upset that he paid for the date? Yes, Okay, okay,
And so because of that you'd rather not see him again?
Speaker 15 (36:31):
Yes, because at that point I felt I was offended
and I felt disrespected because I said to him, let
me pay the date was it was. It was a
mutual agreement. It's not like he asked me on a date.
It was like, not like I asked him on the date.
It was we should.
Speaker 4 (36:50):
Need so that we can meet.
Speaker 15 (36:54):
Then I'm expected to pay for myself. I don't need
anybody paying for me. And I just felt very disrespect.
Speaker 12 (37:00):
It in that moment.
Speaker 6 (37:01):
Okay, do you think then maybe he just you know,
because I feel like I've done on dates where I'm like,
oh no, I pay and he's just being a gentleman,
you know, very nice.
Speaker 15 (37:10):
So for me, in my head, it was, okay, this
will be the start of a whole bunch of not
living this relationship continue.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
Well, I'm gonna put your guys on hold real quick.
Are your team, Matt, are your team, Hannah?
Speaker 1 (37:27):
You can go here, you can go get caught up
with intern Johnny your morning shows in case you.
Speaker 5 (37:32):
Missed it, So they were doing brain fart Here's works.
Got a bunch of die with category's on it roll dice,
I pushed the brain, gives us a letter. We gotta
say things from that category starting with that letter. Do
we follow the roles exactly? Just as long as I win.
That's basically the only role here. The game category is
reasons to break up, Reasons to break up? Our letter
(37:55):
is Oh, I'm gonna go ovulating to you sas orange addiction, okay, sure, rose.
Speaker 12 (38:06):
Oh with another.
Speaker 5 (38:08):
Person, yeah, over simplifying their problems.
Speaker 7 (38:12):
Ah, orioles hater, outrageous requests.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
I'm going orangutan as a pet. Difficult to have?
Speaker 7 (38:23):
Uh, not doing that?
Speaker 4 (38:26):
Nothing that it's a clock. I really do not think
of it.
Speaker 13 (38:30):
You make it so loud in our ears when it's return,
and then you like hide it behind your back.
Speaker 4 (38:36):
Start doing it.
Speaker 7 (38:39):
I think you have excuses, excuses, and I really feel bad.
Speaker 4 (38:44):
Categories books, Shelby sauce. There we go. Your letters is
m mmm, I don't know. I can't think of anything.
I'm just having a mind. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (39:02):
I don'ly think of book titles I read anyway.
Speaker 4 (39:04):
I'm just like, I'm so into like this Mary hell lamb.
Is that a book that's a song. I think it's
a book. It's probably a book to make it up.
I was girls, sure, okay.
Speaker 13 (39:14):
Roast to you, Matthew, Oh good in the book, pretty
good book.
Speaker 4 (39:20):
I can go mother goose to.
Speaker 5 (39:26):
Let me go you Mackenzie, good morning, Good morning, I Mackenzie.
Speaker 4 (39:31):
How is your Tuesday so far?
Speaker 9 (39:33):
It's good?
Speaker 8 (39:34):
How are you doing?
Speaker 4 (39:34):
Good? Thank you?
Speaker 5 (39:35):
Do you understand the game works? Who do you want
to play against? You can choose sauce, a rose.
Speaker 8 (39:43):
Sauce.
Speaker 4 (39:44):
Okay, you don't go first or second?
Speaker 15 (39:47):
I can go a second.
Speaker 5 (39:48):
Hold on, I'm girl die okay. The category is gross things,
gross things. Your letter sauce is c.
Speaker 6 (39:59):
Okay, gross sayings, chugging milk okayie gross cricket sauce, coin
tossing illegally.
Speaker 4 (40:16):
Absolutely crumbs.
Speaker 7 (40:22):
Absolute caption is not working.
Speaker 4 (40:27):
Captions not working, okay, Mackenzie to you for the wind,
h cooking, snow cooking.
Speaker 5 (40:36):
When you're gonna see Tam mcgreg congratulations, Thank you, one
one second, all information, just.
Speaker 12 (40:43):
The good stuff. This is injured John and your Morning Shows.
Speaker 5 (40:47):
Hey, in case you missed it, let's go to fake
name Brittany, good morning, all right, your question asking for
a friend involves I guess that's really involved the X,
but has to do with him.
Speaker 4 (40:59):
What's going on?
Speaker 8 (41:01):
Yeah, well, okay, I just got out of a long
term relationship. I guess you would call it like a
year and a half okay, And you know this just
happened like about a week ago. So I'm just thinking,
how soon do you think it's too soon for me
to get back out there, get on the apps and okay,
back out in the dating pool.
Speaker 5 (41:21):
And so who if you want me asking, who is
the one that pulled the plug on the relationship?
Speaker 8 (41:26):
Oh, that was me?
Speaker 9 (41:27):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (41:27):
And so and if I was a betting man, it
wasn't just like you guys have one bad day and
you're like, I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 4 (41:34):
I was probably building up over time.
Speaker 8 (41:36):
You are right, Yeah, it was probably I know, month
and a half something like that. That's okay, we had.
Speaker 9 (41:43):
To you know, it was coming.
Speaker 5 (41:44):
Yeah, So if we broke up about a week ago,
about a month and a half ago, we kind of
thought so basically like in not technically, but in your mind,
like you know, two months single almost is that kind
of fair? Like at least most you've been detached for.
Speaker 9 (42:01):
Two months for sure?
Speaker 4 (42:03):
Yeah, Okay, was.
Speaker 5 (42:05):
The breakup a bad one? Or was it just like
they are a good person just not your person?
Speaker 9 (42:10):
You know?
Speaker 8 (42:11):
Is it wasn't really bad? You know, he was kind
of I think he's on the same page as me
as far as like it was just coming. It was
of the fall, sure, and we just weren't right for
each other.
Speaker 4 (42:21):
Gotcha.
Speaker 5 (42:22):
And the final question, are you guys in the same
friend group or not cross pollinating that way?
Speaker 9 (42:28):
No?
Speaker 8 (42:28):
No, we're not in the same front group.
Speaker 4 (42:30):
Okay, all right, can I put you to hold us
one second?
Speaker 9 (42:33):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (42:33):
So what would you do?
Speaker 5 (42:35):
Your fake name Brittany, so we get you on hold
shelby sauce your thoughts.
Speaker 6 (42:39):
I mean, I think it sounds like they had a
really mature breakup. They both were on the same page.
There's no drama. So I just think that if there
was a lot of drama with the breakup, that you
shouldn't bring anybody else into, you know, your life yet
if there was, but there isn't. So, I I mean,
I think if she's ready to do it, because it's
already like mentally she's been checked out this relationship for
(43:00):
some time, so just getting on the apps won't hurt.
You're officially single. You guys, don't you know have the
same friend group. I think it's okay.
Speaker 4 (43:08):
Do you think the week is enough time to u?
Speaker 6 (43:10):
But like put your as a woman, I know, like
on my end, whenever I've broken up with someone, it's
been such a long time coming and I have been
through so much to that point that I'm just so
done at that point that I've already worned the relationship almost.
Speaker 4 (43:24):
I guess like the lease is coming in anyway place.
Speaker 6 (43:28):
Yeah, so if you're of course you're gonna be upseex.
It's weird going through a long term breakup in general,
except person that you're so used to as a part
of your life. So once you feel like in your
gut you're ready, I would say, download it. I think
that there's really just no timeline for like a very
mature breakup.
Speaker 5 (43:43):
Can I suppose like you kind of say like it
shouldn't matter what people think.
Speaker 4 (43:46):
Yeah, if you think you're ready to go.
Speaker 7 (43:48):
Yeah, it's your life, do whatever you want.
Speaker 6 (43:50):
Just but there it was drama if they did have
like some like tumultuous breakup and he was still like
hanging around saying that that exer like she was still
doing that.
Speaker 4 (43:58):
Don't bring somebody into that. Yeah, that's fair.
Speaker 6 (44:00):
That's why I like when my ex and I dated
and we had to go to court because of him
stealing my car, I didn't date anybody for a long
time because I didn't want to add to that.
Speaker 5 (44:07):
That's a whole thing too. Yeah, that's a whole old novel.
Rose your thoughts.
Speaker 12 (44:11):
I agree.
Speaker 13 (44:12):
I feel like it sounded to me like she said
that he also saw it coming, like if they both
probably were prepared for the relationship to end. I feel like,
if you're mentally ready to get back out there, go
for it. If you're not, that's when I would say,
maybe don't do it.
Speaker 7 (44:29):
Listen to how you feel, Listen to your body.
Speaker 12 (44:32):
There's no timeline for when you're gonna be ready.
Speaker 4 (44:35):
To get back out there exactly.
Speaker 5 (44:36):
I would also just add that I think that one
thing get realized. If you're putting yourself back out there
and you're not ready, you're messing with somebody else's life exactly.
So if you're like on the apps, which I think
the app is a good way to kind of see
what's out there and for sure a confidence booster. But yeah,
that's a real person on the other end of that exactly.
So if you don't tell them, if you're just looking
to have fun, yeah, no, shame of the game.
Speaker 6 (44:56):
If it's window shopping, just be up front of your
window shopping, Like I'm not read for anything serious. Like
you just need to also, especially like the last two
years of dating, you need to be honest.
Speaker 4 (45:05):
At this point, we don't need to play games. It
is the worst.
Speaker 7 (45:08):
It's actually the worst.
Speaker 4 (45:09):
The apps, I think of the worst now than they've
ever been.
Speaker 6 (45:11):
I was talking to my best friend yesterday and I
was like, I just feel like at this point, if
you were to like give me relations like if like
any of our friends who we were talking about, like
our friends who are in like serious relationships and they
have been for a long time when we were like
any of our friends that have been in relationships since
twenty twenty or like they're married, just they can't have
an opinion anymore because it's just so different. It's just
like it's just night and day from dating and twenty
nineteen to dating in twenty twenty five. It's just completely different.
(45:34):
It's funny Rose sent me last night. There's this woman
who took over her guy friend's dating profile for like, yeah,
you see how bad just to be guy. And she
was floored because it's just like hey, hey, but she
wasn't even getting like she was getting nothing.
Speaker 4 (45:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (45:49):
And then it didn't help because some of the comments
were girls because they have too many matches, Like well,
that's that's all the problem.
Speaker 7 (45:54):
That's like a it's a real thing. But then like
limit it.
Speaker 6 (45:58):
Yeah, limit like especially if you have actually matched and
you're not responding to them all that's why what is
it hinge they make you respond now?
Speaker 5 (46:06):
Yeah, like you know, nine matches, I think something like that.
Let me go in Frederick Brittany on the phone, good morning.
Speaker 9 (46:12):
Good morning. Yeah, I mean I just think, yeah, what
for you? Well, I.
Speaker 14 (46:20):
Was in a relationship for two years, we broke up,
and then I met my fiance two weeks later.
Speaker 12 (46:26):
Oh really, yeah, so you just never know.
Speaker 2 (46:30):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (46:31):
I think it's just always good to keep your eyes open, Okay.
Speaker 5 (46:35):
And so Brittany meeting your fiance a couple of weeks later,
did you guys like start dating right away or just
like you saw put them in the back of your
mind and then one day it happened.
Speaker 9 (46:45):
No, he asked me out, and I was just like it,
you know, I did it?
Speaker 4 (46:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (46:52):
And then were you afraid to tell like friends and
family that you were dating somebody right away? Or is
it kind of like now I'm doing it my life whatever?
Speaker 6 (47:00):
I think.
Speaker 9 (47:00):
I waited like two weeks and then that was it.
I didn't really.
Speaker 6 (47:03):
You know, I didn't like like call everyone I know, be.
Speaker 15 (47:06):
Like I'm not this guy.
Speaker 9 (47:07):
But I just kind of it wasn't it was pretty soon?
Speaker 4 (47:09):
It's pretty soon?
Speaker 5 (47:10):
Yeah, yeah, sha the game okay, Brittany, but you well
one second if you wanted do you an asking for
a friend. DM's are ope and at YMS Radio can
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Oddly enough, it is already technically the last full weekend
of January. January kind of flew by, which is wild
because next week next Saturday, February first, So get your
Valentine's Day plans planned accordingly, But we gotta kick off
this week's in case you missed it with why can't
you run for public office? Something you did in the past,
(00:58):
Maybe you were arrested for something dumb. Maybe it did
something that someone has some tea on you. Why can't
you run for public office? Here's what you guys said.
Speaker 5 (01:05):
Why could you not run for public office. Let's just
say you're trying to run for mayor or something like that.
They dig in your past, what would they find eight
seven seven, nine, nine five four six State one, the
call nine ninety three three eight to text or getting
you on hold Shelby sauce, you have a checker pasted?
Speaker 6 (01:21):
Okay, No, I don't, No, I don't. I think it
was just kind of I don't know. If I for
like a long time, if you googled me, it would
be like the run Eyes Doc barbikini contest picture would
come up for quite some time. So probably not the
best for public office.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
But did you win?
Speaker 7 (01:36):
No, I was like runner up.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
I think it's exciting.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
I won money though, that's great. Yeah, I think one
hundred and fifty bucks that's exciting.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
Yeah. I have a perfectly clean past year. So yeah,
it's really nothing that.
Speaker 6 (01:47):
People might picture from your dorm room that went missing
or something that was like no, sorry was it.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
No?
Speaker 5 (01:54):
So my dorm room, my college dorm, freshman dorm, it
was each floor was you know, it was guy girl floors, right.
So they were fixing the elevator, so they moved like
the guys to the ninth floor instead of the girls,
because that's why they stowed the elevator equipment. So long
story short of the common area, there was like a
block off where they had like the elevator equipment. They
finally opened it when like they're done fixing things now.
(02:16):
You would think they fixed the elevator before school started.
Not not at all. There's a giant portrait of a
ballerina hidden and somebody to this day not too sure
who drew a giant weening on it, and they had
the audacity to accuse me.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
It's wild.
Speaker 6 (02:33):
So much stuff happened on that floor, Like there was
like the like bounty balls or something.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
Oh yeah, something to shooting with the hockey six, shooting
gunballs in the hallway. God, and all these things brought
to again try to pin on me. I would always
say to them, I would say, with all due respect, yeah,
my parents have worked here my entire life. Do you
think I'd be stupid enough to pull insert whatever it
was here at this college? Absolutely not, and then would leave.
Speaker 4 (02:59):
It to them.
Speaker 6 (02:59):
So that was like me in college. I kept I
got in trouble for always like throwing my dorm keys
out people so they can come in nice.
Speaker 4 (03:07):
Yeah, flex.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Let me go in Middle River, Alessa. Good morning, Good morning,
my girl. So you couldn't run for public office.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Why, Okay, this sounds really bad, but it would come
out that in my past, I went to a party
and I stole the muddy's cat.
Speaker 4 (03:25):
Okay, okay, well, poor k Why.
Speaker 8 (03:28):
It was good.
Speaker 7 (03:29):
It was very good cause the cat needed to go
to the vet.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Clearly had a.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Ton of fleas and stores and everything. So I kind
of just ran down the street to my house, got
a cat carrier, came back and snuck the cat.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Out I did. That's good. Good for you, I know. Yeah,
I like.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
That it gets you elected. I'd believe that's a hero.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
Yeah, absolutely, Okay, that's yeah. Well one second less that
you were in the running, the good for you. It's amazing.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
I was sealing pictures of my friends dads, not cats,
So huh. We stole pictures of my friend's dads and
you take them out with us and like set them
up like the picture frames, like when we were in
high school parties.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
So people think they were dead. No, oh, just the
high school parties.
Speaker 7 (04:06):
We were just hanging out with people's dad.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Oh.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
It was like we had like a chaperone that we'd take.
It was kind of like the flat Stanley dolls that
you like take with you everywhere?
Speaker 4 (04:13):
Would you take it to restaurants?
Speaker 6 (04:14):
Do we took this one guy Steve's dad Greg, We
took him everywhere.
Speaker 5 (04:18):
People for sure thought he was dead. No, if you're
at a restaurant with a picture frame of a ram
dude therefore sure thinking he's longer with us.
Speaker 6 (04:26):
I just remember, like my parents were out of town
so that I had a party and I had to
hide all the pictures of my friend's dad's like in
my parents' bedroom because I didn't want them taking their
dad's back.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
So anyway, now I always bring up that you'll say
things from your childhood do you think are normal?
Speaker 4 (04:40):
That is normal.
Speaker 6 (04:41):
It's like a flat Stanley of someone's dad that I respected.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
There is Why have you taken any photos of my dad?
It's messed up. You don't respect him.
Speaker 7 (04:48):
You don't have a picture of your actual dad?
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Do I have pictures of my fake dads?
Speaker 6 (04:53):
Nobody don't want to take a picture of just your dad.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
Yeah, tons of me with him? Okay, okay, well yeah
my actual day off your wall.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
Anyway, I have my TV dad and I have my
radio dads and have my daddy's Let me go, fake name, Amanda,
good morning, good morning.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
Night girl. So you can run for public office? Why?
Speaker 9 (05:14):
Because I'm a swinger.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
That's right?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
And so how long we've been going branch to branch for.
Speaker 9 (05:21):
A couple of years now?
Speaker 5 (05:23):
Okay, And let me ask you, Amanda, what's the biggest
misconception about swinging.
Speaker 8 (05:30):
That you don't have boundaries or got you?
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Okay, gotcha? Is the pineapple thing real?
Speaker 8 (05:39):
I think so most most of the time.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Okay?
Speaker 9 (05:42):
And can you like some people just like pineapple?
Speaker 4 (05:46):
That's fair?
Speaker 5 (05:46):
And so can you get a vibe off a couple
when you meet him for the first time, like, oh,
they probably also do.
Speaker 9 (05:51):
This, not in a vanilla environment.
Speaker 5 (05:57):
Sure, sure, that makes sense. Okay, fake name Amanda, one
second you were in the running. Let me go, fake
name Abby, good morning girl.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
You can run for public office. Why?
Speaker 10 (06:10):
I can't remember public office because I am and I
have had public in the numerous over the country.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Okay, I'm gonna I'm gonna translate that fakeing, Abby you've
had You've had the relations in relations clubs all across
the country.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
Oh yeah, Okay, And how many clubs we check off
the list, probably like up. Okay, do we leave a
Yelp reviews afterwards?
Speaker 9 (06:42):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (06:43):
I think that would get you in office for doing
it in a consensual way. Yeah, that's public and your
also private, same time public.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
Yeah what what city's got the best club for that?
Speaker 4 (06:56):
Fake? Nae, Abby?
Speaker 8 (06:58):
I like New York.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
That makes sense?
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Makes sense?
Speaker 4 (07:02):
Yeah, thank name Abby. One second you were in the running.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
You can vote for your favorite over tax nine nine
three three eightheeters.
Speaker 7 (07:09):
We're coming for you.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
It's more of the roses on intern John in your
morning shows in case you missed it.
Speaker 7 (07:16):
Hi, sus Jake. Hi, my name is Diana.
Speaker 6 (07:21):
I'm just calling you from this new local flower shop.
We're offering up a free bouquet of roses, trying out
some new marketing.
Speaker 7 (07:27):
They're totally free. We don't need your credit card info.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
Is that something you'd be interested in?
Speaker 9 (07:35):
Number.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
We're just trying out new marketing since we're new to
the community and we're trying to get our product actually
out there so you see it and then you just
come back for future occasions.
Speaker 7 (07:44):
That's why they're free, just so you can try it.
You get done them anywhere in the country anywhere.
Speaker 10 (07:53):
Yeah, basically, so you're a follower company that said it
out Flee three Flowers, that's what you're telling me.
Speaker 7 (08:02):
We're a local flower shop. So we're trying out new marketing.
Speaker 6 (08:04):
Instead of just having people advertise on Instagram just random ads,
we're trying to send them out locally so that you know,
let's say you send them to somebody in an office
and then you know, people that worn't there see them
and then you come back.
Speaker 7 (08:20):
So we're trying to keep it within the community.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
Instead of just trying out you know, like ads on
Instagram or Facebook.
Speaker 9 (08:28):
That's interesting, can attend it anywhere in the country Ukans.
Speaker 7 (08:31):
We do have an online shop as well.
Speaker 10 (08:35):
Yes, I don't know about this because that's the sound suspect.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
I mean, I get it.
Speaker 6 (08:41):
We're just like I came up with the idea a
few months ago and it's working okay so far. We're
just trying to get more foot traffic. We didn't have
the best you know, holiday season, and that's going to
be here again before you know it. So uh, so far,
so good. We're just trying to keep it up, keep
up that energy.
Speaker 10 (08:57):
Okay, I hear you, But how many people have you
sent these flowers up to wait, how many people do
you call it day?
Speaker 6 (09:01):
I only try to call five a day because again,
we're local and we're sending out usually roses or like,
you know, whatever their favorite flowered flower is.
Speaker 7 (09:10):
So okay, it's trying to make my mom's dream come true.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
You know.
Speaker 10 (09:16):
Yeah, I definitely hate you. That sounds really nice, and.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
You're helping out the community. You're helping out a family.
My mom will love me a little more.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
I'm just kidding.
Speaker 10 (09:28):
Yeah, no, I definitely hear you, but I don't know.
I really don't know. That's that's who I.
Speaker 9 (09:34):
Send it to.
Speaker 6 (09:35):
They can't I mean, do you have anyone in your life?
You can send them to anyone you want. They are roses, though,
unless you wanted a different kind of flowers. So they're
red roses, so romantic. So if you have, you know,
like a wife or girlfriend or something, he's something there.
Or if you're a mama's boy, send them to your mom.
Speaker 9 (09:55):
Well not a mama's boy, okay, sorry.
Speaker 10 (10:00):
Keep flying that in. I'm not a mama boy. But
I don't know that's.
Speaker 9 (10:07):
You said.
Speaker 10 (10:07):
You're a local company.
Speaker 6 (10:08):
Again, yeah, right downtown. I mean, I don't know, I'll
tell you. I give you my entire speech I have
written out here, so.
Speaker 10 (10:19):
I definitely hear you on that though, Like you gonta
understand you're just calling me out of nowhere.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Yeah, it's just it's called gorilla marketing. I mean literally,
this is the kind of marketing has been around for years.
Speaker 10 (10:30):
So okay, all right, all right, Hey you located downtown
and you said your name what.
Speaker 11 (10:39):
You know?
Speaker 10 (10:39):
All right? All right, let me see.
Speaker 6 (10:44):
Yeah, my mom named me after her hometown, Pasadena, Maryland.
Speaker 10 (10:50):
That's cool, it'll be nice.
Speaker 9 (10:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 10 (10:57):
Sorry, Well you.
Speaker 6 (10:58):
Don't want them, I can try somebody else, so I
don't want to hang up on you.
Speaker 10 (11:03):
I just I think I got somebody a mile wait
to send it to.
Speaker 6 (11:07):
Okay, can I get their name?
Speaker 9 (11:13):
Yeah, Maddie Maddie?
Speaker 4 (11:15):
Is that like m A D D?
Speaker 9 (11:16):
I E yes?
Speaker 4 (11:18):
Oh cool?
Speaker 6 (11:19):
And then I am just like keeping this all in
file just in case you do decide to come back
and send Maddie flowers again.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
So what does she do?
Speaker 6 (11:26):
Like?
Speaker 12 (11:26):
Wife?
Speaker 7 (11:27):
Fyance? Girlfriend?
Speaker 4 (11:28):
Friend?
Speaker 7 (11:32):
She's like some girlfriend? Recent?
Speaker 4 (11:35):
Oh cool?
Speaker 7 (11:36):
Is it like maybe like an anniversary gift?
Speaker 10 (11:40):
I mean, I just like we just been together for
a couple of months, so it would be like a
thinking of you type of thing.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Oh that's nice. No, she'll like that for sure. And
then what do you want the card to say? It's
just like your typical little card.
Speaker 10 (11:56):
The baby, I can't wait to see you this weekend?
Speaker 7 (11:58):
Do you say, baby, I can't wait to see see.
Speaker 10 (12:01):
You this weekend?
Speaker 11 (12:05):
So really, so you're gonna sit there and send it
to another woman and you will just with me the
other week here?
Speaker 4 (12:12):
That's about us, Like, are you serious? I can't say,
wait Jake, real quick.
Speaker 5 (12:16):
First of all, thank you for giving us the longest
conversation that went in circles for I'll know how long
that was. My God, my name is John. That is sauce.
Uh that woman who obvious? I'm gonna play this game
with you, Jake, who is the woman he slept with
last weekend the bachelor party?
Speaker 10 (12:37):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (12:41):
How do you smell that?
Speaker 10 (12:44):
He wei?
Speaker 4 (12:46):
H a I No, that's wrong, that's wrong.
Speaker 5 (12:48):
So you if the way it sounds from where we're sitting,
you have a girlfriend, but you hooked up with somebody
at a bachel party?
Speaker 10 (13:00):
Yes, yes, yes, yes yes?
Speaker 5 (13:05):
So do you see why that be well? Do you
see why that's probably not a good thing.
Speaker 10 (13:12):
That a good thing for that you cheat on.
Speaker 4 (13:15):
Your girlfriend with somebody man a bachelor party.
Speaker 13 (13:17):
Yeah, poor Maddie, I mean, uh does I don't even
know my name?
Speaker 4 (13:26):
That's fair?
Speaker 9 (13:27):
Really?
Speaker 4 (13:29):
By with a b Bailey.
Speaker 10 (13:33):
I'm sorry, Billy Billy, I mean Billy was cool. We
we all go.
Speaker 4 (13:40):
You have a girl friend, You have a girlfriend.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
How does she not put her head through the wall
talking to you?
Speaker 4 (13:47):
My god, hopefully.
Speaker 10 (13:51):
We'll say helly never really see me? Belly never asked
me if I.
Speaker 9 (13:56):
Had a.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
Sleeping around a bull face?
Speaker 9 (14:01):
Lie?
Speaker 6 (14:02):
I did, but not only that, Like, why does she
have to You shouldn't be hooking up with people if
you have a girlfriend.
Speaker 9 (14:08):
How about that?
Speaker 1 (14:09):
Why?
Speaker 10 (14:09):
Why not question to me? What would I did?
Speaker 6 (14:11):
Like?
Speaker 10 (14:11):
Why would your question her about sleeping with me?
Speaker 2 (14:16):
No?
Speaker 4 (14:17):
So, Jake, does Maddie? Now you sleep with other women?
Speaker 8 (14:21):
I mean, let let me, let me let Okay, I think.
Speaker 9 (14:25):
You are right?
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Yeah, all right.
Speaker 9 (14:28):
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with permission granted from all participants.
Speaker 7 (14:32):
Want more roses, go to y MS radio dot com.
Speaker 5 (14:36):
Carnate Psychologists. The first sign Somebody's gonna be a nightmare
of date and this thing makes a.
Speaker 6 (14:41):
Lot of sense James, Sorry, don oh wait yeah, well
inn than I.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
It does, it really does. He never dated you.
Speaker 6 (14:56):
I like briefly talked to this guy darreed. Okay, so
now no, I mean hung out okay, vibe. He came
visit me Atlanta?
Speaker 5 (15:03):
Okay, who didn't? Okay, John, I like all your friends
came out to see you in Atlanta.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
Thank you. I was there twice, that's true. Buster came.
I was excited.
Speaker 10 (15:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:16):
Absolutely. They act like they're doing you a favor just
by talking to you.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (15:21):
I think a lot of dudes.
Speaker 6 (15:22):
Feel this because they're like and it makes you just
feel like crap about yourself. It's like, why are you
talking to me like this? Are you're making me feel
dumb for talking to you? Like, why would you think
you're worthy? I'm like, all right, I'm just gonna go.
Speaker 7 (15:33):
I'm just never going to talk to you again.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
They say, even if you're interested in them, the moment
you see them behave this way, it's to sign the likely.
Speaker 7 (15:41):
Bail, especially because like you shouldn't.
Speaker 6 (15:44):
It just seems like, uh, I don't even know, like
the like Johnny Bravo or something like you should be
feel lucky.
Speaker 4 (15:50):
To be around me. Yeah. I mean I go back
to that example.
Speaker 5 (15:53):
On dating apps, sometimes I feel like somebody feels bothered
you're messaging them. It's like, hey, you're also on the
dating app sack. I found you on LinkedIn. Yeah, this
is like we're all here for that purpose.
Speaker 6 (16:04):
You consent it to me messaging you, But being on
the SAP, why are you acting like message?
Speaker 4 (16:08):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (16:08):
Absolutely, they try to hide their hate for others, but
you can still feel the energy.
Speaker 6 (16:14):
Oh yeah, because they're being like fake over the top.
I have definitely definitely been on dates with guys like that,
oh really, Yeah, where you can just tell it. They
want to like almost gossip, but they're really negative. And
then they keep trying to like reel it in and
like not be negative. And I'm like, I can just
tell that you're not a nice person.
Speaker 9 (16:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (16:29):
Well, they say, even if they're trying to restrain themselves,
that hate does bubble through.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (16:35):
And if you can pick up where they are filled
with hate, people pick up on you hating them.
Speaker 7 (16:39):
Yeah, you can just tell with energy.
Speaker 5 (16:42):
Oh yeah for sure, because it's like if you can't
hide it, your white knuckle and a date and like,
what's going on?
Speaker 4 (16:47):
Well, what's going on here? Exactly what I mean? They
go from zero to one hundred real quick.
Speaker 7 (16:52):
That's it's no good, like their their temper just.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
With everything they say. When some interjects you, do you
flip out in them? Do you feel like you get
to make a scene or lash out? Teach him a lesson?
They say, this will make somebody avoid you and getting
you the unstable label in the dating scene.
Speaker 6 (17:07):
Oh for sure, especially because the dating scene in general
it's not that big if you really think about it,
for demographics and everything. So if you, you know, match
with some or go out with somebody that is just
flips out out of nowhere, it's going to go around.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
I would also say to that point, if I saw
somebody who also always aired their stuff on social media,
I'd be like, that's.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
A no go for me.
Speaker 6 (17:31):
That make people that also like have the really long
captions about real detail.
Speaker 5 (17:35):
Yes, and they post the lyrics like that. The best
is this one memes like girl'll take down the lyrics
she's yeah, and it's like it's so true.
Speaker 7 (17:41):
He doesn't even know what that means.
Speaker 4 (17:44):
No, but that's a weird poem and just keep it
moving to the next set. That's weird.
Speaker 5 (17:48):
It's a weird thing. She must be going to a
concert soon. You have no ideas about him. You can
make it the close friends and close friend. Oh, I
guess she got a new album she's listening to.
Speaker 4 (17:57):
That's what I do.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
I put any man that hurts my feelings on my
cloth as friends, and then I'll post something to just
like fel like, look at me.
Speaker 5 (18:04):
So in this case, you're the person not to date,
is what we're going.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
Yeah, totally.
Speaker 13 (18:09):
I feel like that would make a dude feel like, Oh,
I'm still on her close friends.
Speaker 4 (18:13):
That's what I'm saying. That's why I do.
Speaker 6 (18:14):
I'm like, oh, look, I haven't done this since last year.
To be fair, when I got flowers from this guy,
you evolved. Well, just I don't date. I really don't
date anymore.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
If they have an underlying victim mentality, yes, if.
Speaker 6 (18:27):
They're always playing the victim, I don't want anything to
do with you.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
Yeah. I think I think that's it's just draining.
Speaker 7 (18:33):
Especially because it shows how immature you are.
Speaker 2 (18:35):
No.
Speaker 13 (18:35):
Absolutely, if this segment has some weird edits blame Eric.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
This is intern John and your morning show is in case.
Speaker 4 (18:43):
You missed it, Shelby Sauce. You're in the dating field.
Speaker 5 (18:47):
As the kids say, do you like to text often
with somebody before a first date?
Speaker 6 (18:53):
Not often, because I feel like we're already like establishing
some kind of like relationship, be like friends, Like I
don't want to like have something already established, because then
you put it up on a pedestal, and then it
also can just take the fun out of the first date.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
Okay, that's fair, Rose.
Speaker 5 (19:08):
Do you think I know it's been a minute, but
texting too much for a first date? Is that a
thing you used to worry about? No, not really, Okay,
I think for me, I guess it probably depends. But
also our hours are so weird. So according to the
psychologist why this is why texting too much for a
first date can be a huge mistake. Okay, I wanted
to get you guys thocks on this. For one thing,
(19:30):
they say it's way too familiar. So what they mean
by that is you think you're bonding with this person
and getting to know them, but you don't know them yet.
They're still a complete stranger to you. Keep it that
way and then meet them in person for you to
decide how you.
Speaker 6 (19:44):
Feel yeah, because even like I want to dig it
last year with this guy that I had rescheduled with
him once and he had to rescheduled for something, and
I felt like we'd text so much that by the
time we went on the date, it was he was
just acting like we'd know each other for the longest
time and I really didn't know him, and it was
just He's like, oh, remember we talked about that, and
I'm like, yeah, I met you.
Speaker 4 (20:05):
I get that guy.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
Add to that, I would assume, especially as a female
and safety, you could almost if you're texting somebody a
lot before a date, your brain may be tricks like, oh,
they're not a threat, and then you can't see it's texting,
so they can. I mean, the worst person in the
world probably can be really smooth over text. So then
your guard kind of gets down for the date. And
then I think that would make sense to you where
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it's like you think, oh, this is a good friend,
it's like, no, this is literally a stranger.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
You didn't even know if they look like that.
Speaker 12 (20:33):
Vers just because they're good at texting doesn't mean they're
good at.
Speaker 5 (20:36):
Actually talking undred percent. Rose you were out of things
to say. Is the reason why.
Speaker 6 (20:42):
Well, yeah, and then it's like awkward and you're like,
so should we still hang off?
Speaker 4 (20:45):
We don't.
Speaker 7 (20:45):
Can't even have a conversation if you a text.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
Yeah, they say, if you're texting someone before the first date,
you'll one hundred pund of things to say in person disaster.
Speaker 7 (20:52):
Yeah, sure makes sense.
Speaker 5 (20:54):
This I thought was a good point too. Any connection
you feel is totally fake. Here's what they say. Online
dating is super tricky. You're trying to figure out whether
someone's the right one for you based on a handful
of photos, some paragraphs, likes, dislikes, and messages. That's why
you get a headache every so often. Take a break
from dating. It's easy if youel connected with somebody when
(21:14):
you're having a seemingly amazingly amazing conversation over your phones.
After all, especially for millennials, we're used to talking to
somebody in this way.
Speaker 6 (21:22):
Yeah, I mean yeah, and then you build you think
that there's someone that they're not you've never met them.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
Yeah, I guess like the idea too.
Speaker 5 (21:28):
Of like on the app, you're probably a little more
guarded because, like I'm on the internet, when somebody's texting,
it's like it seems safer.
Speaker 7 (21:34):
Yeah, and then you get excited but you literally.
Speaker 4 (21:35):
Don't know them.
Speaker 5 (21:37):
Man, this is wild. They also say beware of the
twenty four to seven texters.
Speaker 4 (21:42):
If you have that sauce.
Speaker 2 (21:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (21:44):
I've had guys that will just text me a lot.
It's to the point that like it. It is kind
of odds. It's like I feel like they act like
we're already dating when we haven't even gone the date yet.
Speaker 4 (21:54):
Oh interesting, And I don't like that.
Speaker 5 (21:56):
Yeah, they said the ones like how's your day, whitey
up tonight. I used to people text me like just hi,
and I'd be like instantly out yeah, like instantly or
or like sub like that to me was always like
an oh God.
Speaker 6 (22:12):
Like I had a guy actually in the springtime that
I was supposed to go on a date with, and
we had actually met one time, probably like a year
and a half before, at this like work thing, and
basically we had seen each other like like we saw
each other at the same place, but we didn't talk.
So he had like messaged me. So then we were
(22:33):
talking and I was like, yeah, like maybe we should
go out like he had suggested it, and I agreed. So, uh,
for some reason at this work thing. It was like
the Cupids under Run, like a few years ago.
Speaker 4 (22:43):
Fantastic charity event. By the way, it is.
Speaker 7 (22:45):
Such a great charity event.
Speaker 6 (22:46):
And I was hosting it and I was and it
was you know, it's right for Valentine's Day, and I
was saying, go buy your girl flowers. And I had
mentioned that no one had ever sent me flowers ever,
and since we had mutual friends and one of his
friends had been to my apartment before, he asked what
were my building was, so he sent roses to my
apartment and I thought that was really nice, but it
was so creepy because I had never told him where
(23:08):
I lived. I didn't tell what neighborhood. He asked my
friend and he just sent them to.
Speaker 4 (23:11):
The office reward.
Speaker 12 (23:13):
I don't like that.
Speaker 7 (23:14):
And it was when my friend was in town.
Speaker 6 (23:15):
So I get this call from my apartment building that
I have flowers and I didn't know who it was from,
and said, you're number one fan. Interesting like that, like
like he thought that we'd become friends, like via texting.
When I told him that made me really uncomfortable. He
was like, but like we're friends, but like we'd only
met at this work event and seen each other out
the weekend before.
Speaker 14 (23:31):
Also, if we're friends, why didn't you just ask me
for my contract going around to my other It's weird
when somebody gets your phone number or your address or
anything from somebody else. Agree exactly, sorry, your friend kind
of poop pooed.
Speaker 6 (23:47):
I know.
Speaker 4 (23:47):
I was so mad.
Speaker 14 (23:49):
I was so if somebody asks me for somebody's phone
number or address, I'm going to that person being.
Speaker 12 (23:54):
Like, hey, so and so is asking for this.
Speaker 5 (23:56):
Yeah, I think to the problem with that specific situation.
I'm sure the guy probably is a good guy whatever,
but you don't know that. It's the problem like where
you assume the other person knows that you are a
good person, so it wouldn't be weird. Do you think of,
oh they they know nothing about me. Yeah, it looks
like a little bit odd.
Speaker 4 (24:14):
It was.
Speaker 6 (24:14):
It was very weird, and we didn't end up hanging out,
of course. That was just like so weird out by it,
And I'm like, why wouldn't you just like ask me
my address?
Speaker 4 (24:21):
Why?
Speaker 6 (24:21):
And then I'm like, why did kypria address? Why did
they give it to you? And then I think he
just dropped off the flowers in the office oh, okay,
any weird, let's school.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
Here's another moment of broadcast brilliance on intern Johnny your
morning show is in case you missed it.
Speaker 5 (24:38):
Oh Man Rose sent this to me. I was like,
I can think of some people in my life. The
toxic reasons folks can't admit when they're wrong, According to experts,
one of the most odd things ever, especially when it's
like clearly night and day and they just won't just
say it and then we can move on.
Speaker 12 (24:58):
You like double down even though they know the wrong.
Speaker 9 (25:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (25:00):
It's like if you see somebody in buildings on fire, like, hey,
the building's on fire. You know it's not no, but
like it's on fire. I'm not getting mad, I'm saying
this out of the building and be okay. Yeah, this
is an odd, odd, odd situation. So the first they
talk to seven experts about the reasons people can commit
the wrong I think everybody probably has that person in
(25:21):
their life, maybe several people in their lives. The first
one is insecurity and fear of consequences. They say fear
is the most common reason for people not willing to
admit the wrong.
Speaker 4 (25:30):
At the right time. I think it's the worst too.
In like work situations.
Speaker 5 (25:35):
Not that we really have it here, but when bosses
don't do it, it's like, hey, I would respect you
more if you admittedly made a mistake because we all
know it. Yeah, Like, or for doing something that's not
like an effective way. There's a better way. We'd all
be like, yeah, it makes my sense to the other way.
Speaker 6 (25:49):
Hey, thanks for like actually being honest and like a
stand up person.
Speaker 5 (25:52):
Yeah, and like admitting that you know everything, you know
what I mean? Yeah, over polishing their self image made
the list. Okay, say, sometimes people fall prey to unrealistic
and practical images of the self. The self image is fake,
and the cultivation of fake image leads them not be
able to accept they can be wrong.
Speaker 7 (26:09):
I mean that makes sense.
Speaker 6 (26:10):
If you feel like you just like you're like I'm
right and right and right, you're not gonna want to
be wrong.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (26:16):
Yeah, especially I guess if you die in the hill
so many times, then maybe it's hard to emit the
first time that you're wrong. I just thing is this's
easier to meet you're wrong. It almost like it takes
away the power from the other person. If you say
you're wrong.
Speaker 6 (26:26):
They don't want to be embarrassed, that's what.
Speaker 11 (26:28):
Damn.
Speaker 5 (26:29):
They can't see beyond themselves. So people are trouble admitting
they're wrong have difficulty seeing beyond themselves. Many are insecure,
have a strong ego, and afraid looking stupid. Kind of
to your point song. Yeah, Also, people who need help
admitting they're wrong are not well grounded. So the enneagram
tells us that when we are stuck in our personality,
(26:49):
we don't have full access toward inner wisdom and thus
gets stuck in fear. It's hard to admit we are
wrong when we're stuck in fear.
Speaker 12 (26:57):
Damn, that's fair. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (26:58):
I was watching this show the other and no, it's
like a reality TV show, and I don't really watch
that stuff, but I was and this girl was very
clearly wrong and I know it's reality TV, but it
was like very obvious, and he was like, can you
just say something? She's like, you're not right, but she
was clearly wrong, and she just like wouldn't budge on
something because she was being like very disrespectful to the
(27:22):
camera crew. Yeah, and it wasn't even like the person
that was like like the guy was like, I just
don't think you're being very nice. So it was like
very obvious because like even the cameracter was like, yeah,
she's not nice.
Speaker 5 (27:33):
I mean, I had somebody who once sent me a
screenshot of a text conversation between me and them they
meant to send to somebody else, and then they were
talking trash to me, so imagine it was like, I
don't understand this. Yeah, here's the screenshot, and they sent
it to me, and I was in the room when
it happened.
Speaker 4 (27:48):
Yeah. I was like, Hey, I'm not.
Speaker 5 (27:50):
Really even mad that you're talking trash because like I'm
pretty confident in who I am and yeah yeah, but
like the fact that you're doing it during a bad
time and we're supposed to be doing like a project. Yeah,
And they couldn't admit that part was wrong.
Speaker 15 (28:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (28:02):
I was like, that's kind of okay, but like it's
clearly we're not supposed to be doing that right now.
Also an adult, that's why I need the paper clip,
is say, hey, you're talking trash about John. Are you
sure you want to send this conversation? Yeah, d's our
next one. Lack of self awareness. One of the most
toxic reasons people can admit they're wrong is the lack
of self awareness. People lack of self awareness may have
(28:23):
difficulty engaging in deep self reflection. Without this introspection, they
may not realize how their actions impact others, which can
lead to a host of toxic behaviors.
Speaker 7 (28:33):
Love that, Love that because I don't know.
Speaker 12 (28:37):
I just feel like so so.
Speaker 6 (28:37):
Many people aren't self aware enough to like and like
we're getting older, so like then when you're just not
admitting that you're wrong, it just makes things even more awkward,
and then you're just like stuck in that rut.
Speaker 4 (28:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (28:46):
Yeah, I feel at some point you just kind of
realize to let go of those people too. Yeah, where
it's like he just realized there's no getting through, Like
I can't live my whole life pretending that you're right
about something I know you're not.
Speaker 4 (28:56):
Yeah, yeah, I mean like that, that'd be real. It's
too hard, real tough.
Speaker 5 (29:01):
They're gasline, you made the list, core you this therapist
liberally playing mind games manipulate you.
Speaker 4 (29:05):
Yep. They have a rigid ego.
Speaker 5 (29:08):
People's egos can't accept any information that contradicts their pre
existing beliefs.
Speaker 7 (29:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (29:13):
I think this happens again more so like in the
business world sometimes where it's like we've all worked for
companies and yet not here but previous jobs where it's
like we do things so asked backwards.
Speaker 4 (29:23):
That's what we've always done. Yeah, but there's a better
way though in.
Speaker 5 (29:29):
And nobody's gonna be like, oh weird, you know, think
there's you know, when Steve Jobs made the iPod, nobody's like, oh,
he's an idiot. First, No, there's probably a better idea.
The last ones that are a narcissist, they need to
win every argument regardless.
Speaker 4 (29:40):
Of the facts involved. Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 5 (29:44):
Yeah, you know they say for the person who's never wrong,
considered doing self assessment to see if he might need
to focus on self work for a while, seek some counseling,
or maybe you're always right being sure, check the fancts first,
because the chances that you might be a little bit
right but a little bit wrong.
Speaker 4 (29:59):
Yeah, if you think you're always right, you're wrong. That's
the problem. Like that, what are you doing if you're
always right? Play the lottery? Fam do?
Speaker 13 (30:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (30:06):
I mean, be a California psychic, do anything like that?
Speaker 6 (30:10):
Hell yeah, looks like a podcast for people that don't
listen to podcasts.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Intern John in your Morning show case you missed it.
Speaker 5 (30:17):
Second date update on Internshohn in your morning show, you
meet somebody could be on the apps, could be out
in the wild, but you think this person is different.
You think there's a vibe. We try to see what
goes wrong, why they stop talking to you.
Speaker 4 (30:33):
That's what we're here for, Matt, Good morning, Good mornings.
Speaker 5 (30:37):
So walk us through this. You and Hannah met where
and how? I guess.
Speaker 9 (30:42):
Okay, So Hannah and I met on Hinge? Okay, I'm
about two weeks ago.
Speaker 5 (30:46):
And what about Hannah on Hinge? Made her stand out?
Like why why her?
Speaker 11 (30:52):
I thought she was really really attractive, but she also.
Speaker 9 (30:55):
Seemed really smart. Okay, and I'm gonna both of those things.
Speaker 5 (30:59):
Okay, And you man, you an email. You made a
point of taking things slow. So how long do we
talk on the app before we got numbers?
Speaker 9 (31:06):
So we're talking on the app for about two weeks?
Speaker 4 (31:09):
Okay.
Speaker 11 (31:11):
And I wanted to kind of keep it like a
low profile, so we talked a little bit enough to
garner interest, but.
Speaker 9 (31:16):
Not to overdo it, you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Yeah, that makes me. I think that's the hard part.
Speaker 5 (31:21):
Like you, you have to realize you haven't met this
person yet and it just seems like they're the one
for sure.
Speaker 4 (31:26):
Okay, so we do that. We had dinner last Friday.
Speaker 9 (31:30):
Correct, correct? Yep?
Speaker 4 (31:32):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (31:33):
And so how long I guess from matching to seeing
each other for the first day, Like what was the
how many days in between.
Speaker 9 (31:40):
From matching?
Speaker 11 (31:41):
Because I would say maybe about ten to fourteen days
that would.
Speaker 4 (31:47):
Get okay, And so tell us how dinner goes.
Speaker 9 (31:51):
So dinner went really really well. We didn't talk much
of the day of the date.
Speaker 11 (31:57):
But you know, essentially I wanted to have been the
talk about while you.
Speaker 9 (32:01):
Know, we were meeting face to face.
Speaker 5 (32:04):
But you can you confirm the day though, right, so
they can I ask the big thing like the day
of d you text like, hey, so make sure on right?
Speaker 4 (32:12):
Oh yeah, yeah, gotcha?
Speaker 11 (32:14):
All right, all of that, I went, I picked her up,
or actually rather I wanted to pick her up, but
she said that she would meet me there, so I said, okay,
you know, no problem, and so we met there.
Speaker 9 (32:27):
We both got there on time. We had what I
thought was a really great time. Then it was great.
Speaker 10 (32:34):
I feel like there was some chemistry and you know,
I took her home.
Speaker 9 (32:39):
There wasn't too much after that.
Speaker 11 (32:41):
I mean we we we uh like I had like
a small little kid from the cheek, nothing super crazy,
wanted to keep it, you know.
Speaker 9 (32:49):
Modern sure, and it was over all a great night.
Speaker 5 (32:53):
And this this was on Friday, last Friday, And you've
not heard her since.
Speaker 9 (32:59):
I have not heard from her, sense, So I.
Speaker 11 (33:02):
Facetimed, you know, a couple of times I called attack,
but I didn't want to overdo it. Yeah, you know,
like it's still very new, So I I just haven't
heard from her.
Speaker 5 (33:12):
I'm gonna be honest, I'd be confused too, because I
get like, if as a woman wanting to meet somebody
somewhere instead of taking up I get that. But the
fact that she felt comfortable enough with you that you
could take her home though, to me, suggests it must
have gone well. It seems like it'd be an odd
thing if like she didn't have a good time and goes,
well he can bring me home. Still, so two questions
(33:35):
I have left. So you left things thinking like for
sure it'll be a second date?
Speaker 4 (33:39):
Correct?
Speaker 9 (33:41):
Yeah, absolutely no.
Speaker 5 (33:42):
And then how long have you both been single? Just
just kind of paint the picture.
Speaker 9 (33:48):
How want have we both been single? That's a good,
good question I've been single for quite some time.
Speaker 4 (33:52):
Okay, but I worked, Yeah, got you got you got.
Speaker 11 (33:58):
I want to say, handled with single for a good
amount of time as well, like a reasonable amount of time.
Speaker 5 (34:04):
Sure, yeah, I was curious, So let's let's do this then, Matt.
So I'll I'll call Hannah. We'll try your out with
us and get her side.
Speaker 9 (34:11):
Okay, okay, sounds great.
Speaker 4 (34:13):
One second.
Speaker 5 (34:15):
Yeah, I guess the car at home to me is
the interesting part.
Speaker 7 (34:20):
Yeah, yeah, I'll disagree.
Speaker 4 (34:28):
Hello, Hi is this Hannah?
Speaker 15 (34:31):
This is Hannah.
Speaker 5 (34:32):
Hey, Hannah, it's intern John. I got Sauce and Rose
here as well. We talked to you on the show
real quick about something nothing bad. Just need like a
I on like forty five seconds of your time.
Speaker 15 (34:42):
Uh sure, I guess, go ahead.
Speaker 4 (34:43):
Okay, so we're doing second date update.
Speaker 5 (34:46):
I got somebody in the line here, Matt, if you
want to say hello, Hey, Hannah nailed it, and so Hannah,
Matt reached out to us. He told us you guys
and matched on hinge. You've been talking for a couple
of weeks. We had dinner last Friday. But he is
not her sins and we're trying to see where your
head's at and trying to help him out too, because
we're a little bit puzzled.
Speaker 15 (35:09):
Well, hello, Yes, we went on a date the other day,
and I have been avoiding him. I honestly have.
Speaker 4 (35:18):
We got that. We kind of figured that.
Speaker 5 (35:20):
I guess we're here more so for the why, because
we can't really from what he's told us.
Speaker 15 (35:26):
So, Okay, the date was amazing.
Speaker 9 (35:30):
It was great, but.
Speaker 15 (35:31):
He offended me and I didn't quite know how to
address it or how to say something, but it really
offended me.
Speaker 9 (35:41):
So, like I.
Speaker 15 (35:42):
Said, the date was amazing, and when it came time
for the bill, I asked him, Okay, well let me
pay my part of the bill, because I don't want
any man taking care of me or paying my way
or anything like that. I worked very hard and I
can afford my lifestyle and I can afford to pay
for things. And he no, I got it. I asked
(36:03):
you out of the day, and he just went back
and forth. And at that part, I just started to
get offended and I felt like he didn't think that
I could afford the food. Okay, so I was just
really offended.
Speaker 5 (36:15):
I'm not passing judgment. Yeah to this, I understand. So
you you were upset that he paid for the date? Yes, Okay, okay,
And so because of that you'd rather not see him again?
Speaker 15 (36:31):
Yes, because at that point I felt I was offended
and I felt disrespected because I said to him, let
me pay the date was it was. It was a
mutual agreement. It's not like he asked me on a date.
It was like, not like I asked him on the date.
It was we should.
Speaker 4 (36:50):
Need so that we can meet.
Speaker 15 (36:54):
Then I'm expected to pay for myself. I don't need
anybody paying for me. And I just felt very disrespect.
Speaker 12 (37:00):
It in that moment.
Speaker 6 (37:01):
Okay, do you think then maybe he just you know,
because I feel like I've done on dates where I'm like,
oh no, I pay and he's just being a gentleman,
you know, very nice.
Speaker 15 (37:10):
So for me, in my head, it was, okay, this
will be the start of a whole bunch of not
living this relationship continue.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
Well, I'm gonna put your guys on hold real quick.
Are your team, Matt, are your team, Hannah?
Speaker 1 (37:27):
You can go here, you can go get caught up
with intern Johnny your morning shows in case you.
Speaker 5 (37:32):
Missed it, So they were doing brain fart Here's works.
Got a bunch of die with category's on it roll dice,
I pushed the brain, gives us a letter. We gotta
say things from that category starting with that letter. Do
we follow the roles exactly? Just as long as I win.
That's basically the only role here. The game category is
reasons to break up, Reasons to break up? Our letter
(37:55):
is Oh, I'm gonna go ovulating to you sas orange addiction, okay, sure, rose.
Speaker 12 (38:06):
Oh with another.
Speaker 5 (38:08):
Person, yeah, over simplifying their problems.
Speaker 7 (38:12):
Ah, orioles hater, outrageous requests.
Speaker 4 (38:18):
I'm going orangutan as a pet. Difficult to have?
Speaker 7 (38:23):
Uh, not doing that?
Speaker 4 (38:26):
Nothing that it's a clock. I really do not think
of it.
Speaker 13 (38:30):
You make it so loud in our ears when it's return,
and then you like hide it behind your back.
Speaker 4 (38:36):
Start doing it.
Speaker 7 (38:39):
I think you have excuses, excuses, and I really feel bad.
Speaker 4 (38:44):
Categories books, Shelby sauce. There we go. Your letters is
m mmm, I don't know. I can't think of anything.
I'm just having a mind. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (39:02):
I don'ly think of book titles I read anyway.
Speaker 4 (39:04):
I'm just like, I'm so into like this Mary hell lamb.
Is that a book that's a song. I think it's
a book. It's probably a book to make it up.
I was girls, sure, okay.
Speaker 13 (39:14):
Roast to you, Matthew, Oh good in the book, pretty
good book.
Speaker 4 (39:20):
I can go mother goose to.
Speaker 5 (39:26):
Let me go you Mackenzie, good morning, Good morning, I Mackenzie.
Speaker 4 (39:31):
How is your Tuesday so far?
Speaker 9 (39:33):
It's good?
Speaker 8 (39:34):
How are you doing?
Speaker 4 (39:34):
Good? Thank you?
Speaker 5 (39:35):
Do you understand the game works? Who do you want
to play against? You can choose sauce, a rose.
Speaker 8 (39:43):
Sauce.
Speaker 4 (39:44):
Okay, you don't go first or second?
Speaker 15 (39:47):
I can go a second.
Speaker 5 (39:48):
Hold on, I'm girl die okay. The category is gross things,
gross things. Your letter sauce is c.
Speaker 6 (39:59):
Okay, gross sayings, chugging milk okayie gross cricket sauce, coin
tossing illegally.
Speaker 4 (40:16):
Absolutely crumbs.
Speaker 7 (40:22):
Absolute caption is not working.
Speaker 4 (40:27):
Captions not working, okay, Mackenzie to you for the wind,
h cooking, snow cooking.
Speaker 5 (40:36):
When you're gonna see Tam mcgreg congratulations, Thank you, one
one second, all information, just.
Speaker 12 (40:43):
The good stuff. This is injured John and your Morning Shows.
Speaker 5 (40:47):
Hey, in case you missed it, let's go to fake
name Brittany, good morning, all right, your question asking for
a friend involves I guess that's really involved the X,
but has to do with him.
Speaker 4 (40:59):
What's going on?
Speaker 8 (41:01):
Yeah, well, okay, I just got out of a long
term relationship. I guess you would call it like a
year and a half okay, And you know this just
happened like about a week ago. So I'm just thinking,
how soon do you think it's too soon for me
to get back out there, get on the apps and okay,
back out in the dating pool.
Speaker 5 (41:21):
And so who if you want me asking, who is
the one that pulled the plug on the relationship?
Speaker 8 (41:26):
Oh, that was me?
Speaker 9 (41:27):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (41:27):
And so and if I was a betting man, it
wasn't just like you guys have one bad day and
you're like, I can't do this anymore.
Speaker 4 (41:34):
I was probably building up over time.
Speaker 8 (41:36):
You are right, Yeah, it was probably I know, month
and a half something like that. That's okay, we had.
Speaker 9 (41:43):
To you know, it was coming.
Speaker 5 (41:44):
Yeah, So if we broke up about a week ago,
about a month and a half ago, we kind of
thought so basically like in not technically, but in your mind,
like you know, two months single almost is that kind
of fair? Like at least most you've been detached for.
Speaker 9 (42:01):
Two months for sure?
Speaker 4 (42:03):
Yeah, Okay, was.
Speaker 5 (42:05):
The breakup a bad one? Or was it just like
they are a good person just not your person?
Speaker 9 (42:10):
You know?
Speaker 8 (42:11):
Is it wasn't really bad? You know, he was kind
of I think he's on the same page as me
as far as like it was just coming. It was
of the fall, sure, and we just weren't right for
each other.
Speaker 4 (42:21):
Gotcha.
Speaker 5 (42:22):
And the final question, are you guys in the same
friend group or not cross pollinating that way?
Speaker 9 (42:28):
No?
Speaker 8 (42:28):
No, we're not in the same front group.
Speaker 4 (42:30):
Okay, all right, can I put you to hold us
one second?
Speaker 9 (42:33):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (42:33):
So what would you do?
Speaker 5 (42:35):
Your fake name Brittany, so we get you on hold
shelby sauce your thoughts.
Speaker 6 (42:39):
I mean, I think it sounds like they had a
really mature breakup. They both were on the same page.
There's no drama. So I just think that if there
was a lot of drama with the breakup, that you
shouldn't bring anybody else into, you know, your life yet
if there was, but there isn't. So, I I mean,
I think if she's ready to do it, because it's
already like mentally she's been checked out this relationship for
(43:00):
some time, so just getting on the apps won't hurt.
You're officially single. You guys, don't you know have the
same friend group. I think it's okay.
Speaker 4 (43:08):
Do you think the week is enough time to u?
Speaker 6 (43:10):
But like put your as a woman, I know, like
on my end, whenever I've broken up with someone, it's
been such a long time coming and I have been
through so much to that point that I'm just so
done at that point that I've already worned the relationship almost.
Speaker 4 (43:24):
I guess like the lease is coming in anyway place.
Speaker 6 (43:28):
Yeah, so if you're of course you're gonna be upseex.
It's weird going through a long term breakup in general,
except person that you're so used to as a part
of your life. So once you feel like in your
gut you're ready, I would say, download it. I think
that there's really just no timeline for like a very
mature breakup.
Speaker 5 (43:43):
Can I suppose like you kind of say like it
shouldn't matter what people think.
Speaker 4 (43:46):
Yeah, if you think you're ready to go.
Speaker 7 (43:48):
Yeah, it's your life, do whatever you want.
Speaker 6 (43:50):
Just but there it was drama if they did have
like some like tumultuous breakup and he was still like
hanging around saying that that exer like she was still
doing that.
Speaker 4 (43:58):
Don't bring somebody into that. Yeah, that's fair.
Speaker 6 (44:00):
That's why I like when my ex and I dated
and we had to go to court because of him
stealing my car, I didn't date anybody for a long
time because I didn't want to add to that.
Speaker 5 (44:07):
That's a whole thing too. Yeah, that's a whole old novel.
Rose your thoughts.
Speaker 12 (44:11):
I agree.
Speaker 13 (44:12):
I feel like it sounded to me like she said
that he also saw it coming, like if they both
probably were prepared for the relationship to end. I feel like,
if you're mentally ready to get back out there, go
for it. If you're not, that's when I would say,
maybe don't do it.
Speaker 7 (44:29):
Listen to how you feel, Listen to your body.
Speaker 12 (44:32):
There's no timeline for when you're gonna be ready.
Speaker 4 (44:35):
To get back out there exactly.
Speaker 5 (44:36):
I would also just add that I think that one
thing get realized. If you're putting yourself back out there
and you're not ready, you're messing with somebody else's life exactly.
So if you're like on the apps, which I think
the app is a good way to kind of see
what's out there and for sure a confidence booster. But yeah,
that's a real person on the other end of that exactly.
So if you don't tell them, if you're just looking
to have fun, yeah, no, shame of the game.
Speaker 6 (44:56):
If it's window shopping, just be up front of your
window shopping, Like I'm not read for anything serious. Like
you just need to also, especially like the last two
years of dating, you need to be honest.
Speaker 4 (45:05):
At this point, we don't need to play games. It
is the worst.
Speaker 7 (45:08):
It's actually the worst.
Speaker 4 (45:09):
The apps, I think of the worst now than they've
ever been.
Speaker 6 (45:11):
I was talking to my best friend yesterday and I
was like, I just feel like at this point, if
you were to like give me relations like if like
any of our friends who we were talking about, like
our friends who are in like serious relationships and they
have been for a long time when we were like
any of our friends that have been in relationships since
twenty twenty or like they're married, just they can't have
an opinion anymore because it's just so different. It's just
like it's just night and day from dating and twenty
nineteen to dating in twenty twenty five. It's just completely different.
(45:34):
It's funny Rose sent me last night. There's this woman
who took over her guy friend's dating profile for like, yeah,
you see how bad just to be guy. And she
was floored because it's just like hey, hey, but she
wasn't even getting like she was getting nothing.
Speaker 4 (45:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (45:49):
And then it didn't help because some of the comments
were girls because they have too many matches, Like well,
that's that's all the problem.
Speaker 7 (45:54):
That's like a it's a real thing. But then like
limit it.
Speaker 6 (45:58):
Yeah, limit like especially if you have actually matched and
you're not responding to them all that's why what is
it hinge they make you respond now?
Speaker 5 (46:06):
Yeah, like you know, nine matches, I think something like that.
Let me go in Frederick Brittany on the phone, good morning.
Speaker 9 (46:12):
Good morning. Yeah, I mean I just think, yeah, what
for you? Well, I.
Speaker 14 (46:20):
Was in a relationship for two years, we broke up,
and then I met my fiance two weeks later.
Speaker 12 (46:26):
Oh really, yeah, so you just never know.
Speaker 2 (46:30):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (46:31):
I think it's just always good to keep your eyes open, Okay.
Speaker 5 (46:35):
And so Brittany meeting your fiance a couple of weeks later,
did you guys like start dating right away or just
like you saw put them in the back of your
mind and then one day it happened.
Speaker 9 (46:45):
No, he asked me out, and I was just like it,
you know, I did it?
Speaker 4 (46:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (46:52):
And then were you afraid to tell like friends and
family that you were dating somebody right away? Or is
it kind of like now I'm doing it my life whatever?
Speaker 6 (47:00):
I think.
Speaker 9 (47:00):
I waited like two weeks and then that was it.
I didn't really.
Speaker 6 (47:03):
You know, I didn't like like call everyone I know, be.
Speaker 15 (47:06):
Like I'm not this guy.
Speaker 9 (47:07):
But I just kind of it wasn't it was pretty soon?
Speaker 4 (47:09):
It's pretty soon?
Speaker 5 (47:10):
Yeah, yeah, sha the game okay, Brittany, but you well
one second if you wanted do you an asking for
a friend. DM's are ope and at YMS Radio can
also a text to nine nine three three eights just
the good.
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