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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is second date update on interns John in your
morning show. You go out with somebody, you think maybe
they could be the one, maybe they're breaking the mold
of the crappy dating cycle. Then they stop talking you.
We try to figure out exactly what's going on. Clay,
good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
How you doing? Dan well Man walk us through this.
You and Rebecca met Howe.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
We met on the dating app actually, and you know,
we message back and forth and we ended up facetiming
a few times. We had a good time, and then
you know, we progressed and you know, she let me
take her out.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Well, I want to let's not cut yourself. Shut guys,
I'm reading your email here. You said the matching with her,
she was a bright light in a sea of gray,
which is pretty adorable.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I get romantic.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Yeah, it's really hard to find, you know, like a
special someone out there nowadays you a lot crazy, and
you do find someone they really like hitch you, you.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Know, in the hert it just means a lot, damn.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
And so I wanted to bring a couple of things
because you mentioned you guys FaceTime like three times before
your actual date.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
How the FaceTime goes? I imagine this guy.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
It's awkward when you face somebody FaceTime, somebody you know
for the first time, but to face sound like a
complete stranger.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
How'd the conversation go?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
You know it surprisingly you are right there because I
facetid a few people before, but FaceTime and her, it
didn't feel like I was talking to a stranger.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Yeah, like it.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Actually we felt really connected, like on our first time.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
It was.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
That's why it was really so special, Like it felt
like it was meeting the old friend.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Sure, okay.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
And then so two weeks ago, we do dinner, You
pack her up, you bring her dinner.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
How does that go?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
I thought dinner went pretty nice. You know, we started
really getting to know each other. Uh, we liked the
same food.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
So that was pretty easy.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
And just everything was clicking.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Yeah, okay. And the night kiss, no kiss.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
We had a small kiss, not a makeout, but you
know we can.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
We had a nice small kiss. It was it was respectable.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
And then and then that the last two weeks, nothing
on her and no response to your calls, text emails, letters.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
You know, it's like my bulls. I guess I got ghosted.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
Yeah, okay, Well, the one thing I wanted to bring
out though, because you mentioned in your email the reason
you guys FaceTime is because she travels a lot for work, right.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
So she was just a town does Yeah? Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Is it possible she's been busy with work the last
couple of weeks and that's why she hasn't reached out?
Speaker 2 (02:45):
You know, I don't know, because when we face time,
she did say she has a hectic schedule, but she
can always make time for the things she really wants
to do. And really, you know, she's she cuts some
time out for us to have dinner and times we
took the faith timing.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
Sure. Yeah, okay, So now like if.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
You could do that, why aren't you doing that?
Speaker 1 (03:08):
Now?
Speaker 3 (03:09):
That's fair?
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Ye?
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Friends?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
All all right, so let me let's call her and
get her on the line, get her story. Okay, because
I'm kind of curious too. On one second, shall I
get her on real quick?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
Hi, calling for Rebecca please? Yeah, this is hey girl,
it's intern John. I got Sauce and Rose here as well.
Can we talk to you on the show real quick
about something I see, like a minute of your time?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Nothing bad?
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Okay, thank you, We're doing a second date.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Update.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
I got somebody on the line here, Clay, if you
want to say, hello.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Hey, how you doing. Recca nailed it, and.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Clay reached out to us. You told us you guys
matched on. He had some face times, had dinner a
couple of weeks back. But he's not hurt me since.
So we're trying to see where your head is that because, uh,
to be honest, seems like a very stand a fella.
So we're just wondering where you're at and what you thought.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Well, the facetimes are great, and the dinner was good,
and but the thing, here's the thing that I saw
actually big red flags.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Okay, Okay.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
First of all, his lock screen on his phone is
him and another girl. You don't do like this, love
w pose on your lock screen with I was going
to say it, sister, it's no, you do not pose
(04:53):
with your sister.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Like this, okay.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
And also he says during the day, he's like, oh,
let me show you some pictures with my parents each house.
Speaker 3 (05:00):
I was like, okay.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
So he he's going through and he opens up this
foulder and it's got a heart on the name of
the folder, and it's got all these pictures under the
girl and it's got her name.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
On the folder.
Speaker 4 (05:16):
And I'm just like, you know what, you know, if
you cannot be done with someone else, do not start
with me.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Okay, yeah, Clay.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah, you know what that's that's really not a big deal.
Like I don't I don't want to Sam dumb or anything.
But I'm an android type of guy and I have
an iPhone. You know what that means. Like I'm not
very technically savvy, Okay, And like I do have these
like albums, I guess, and a lot of them.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Love my dog.
Speaker 1 (05:52):
I love my dog, and like, right, but if your
background photo is of an ex girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (05:58):
That's not like we're going that.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
It sounds like you have it moved on and you're
going on dates and.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Natural energy I want in my life.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Oh but you're saying your dog's in that photo, and
that's the reason.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
You're pictures of your dog.
Speaker 3 (06:14):
I'm sure. Okay, let me let me do this. I'm
gonna put you guys in hold.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Are your team Clay or team Rebecca eight seven seven,
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interns John in your Morning Show. Second Date update on interns.
John in your morning show. We just talked to Clay
and Rebecca. They matched on hinge about three weeks ago.
He hit off right away, went to dinner. She stopped
(06:38):
talking them. According to uh Hers, because his lock screen
appears to be a photo of next girlfriend. He also
has an album of photos. When you're trying to show
her picks of like the family beach house. Yeah eight
seven seven, nine, nine five four six eight one to
call nine nine three three eight to text, would love
your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (06:55):
We'll get you on hold sauce your thoughts with this.
Speaker 6 (06:58):
I mean, I now under stand what he was saying.
So he said he wasn't very tech savvy. He s
have an Android, not iPhone, so you know how like
you have the rotain lock screens. That's just what he
was basically saying. Is that the picture of his dog
in it. I understand they could delete it. I guess
if it's like a rotaining album and I only saw
it every now and then, I wouldn't really think to
delete it. Sure, but I don't think it's that they
(07:19):
were red flag now that he's explained it. At first,
I was like, oh.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
Yeah, as a dude, I believe him.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
I don't think he sees it and goes, oh, there's
Max's girlfriend, So I misster I think it's more so
like I just don't take the.
Speaker 6 (07:31):
Time to I'm only saying that just because like I
have like random out like the because your iPhone just
like picks. If you just do dogs, it's just going
to pick the dogs, yeah, on your pig. So I
don't know, I don't think it's that big of a deeal,
but that's just me.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
I would bet you without looking.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
I have an album, a Max girlfriend, a bar photos
ice never because I never really, I don't think about it.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
I only recently went through my albums, and that's because
I realized that I would put pictures when Kate would
go on first day. I would add them to an
album if they took a picture together, and I'm like
Kate's future wedding, and I was like, this is weird.
I was like, this is kind of getting weird. So
I finally like deleted everything, like a bunch of my albums.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
I also have sixty four thousand photos.
Speaker 6 (08:06):
I do also have that album I talked about yesterday
from this boss. I used to have that I hate,
so I save that. Okay, now, sure, all right, rouse
your thoughts with this.
Speaker 7 (08:14):
Am I the only one that thinks he's lying because
he says, Oh, I'm an Android guy, I'm not tech savvy.
But you have folders with names on your Apple phone
like that doesn't transfer like Apple and Android don't transfer
like that. So you have to be somewhat tech savvy
to make a whole folder label it this person's name.
(08:36):
And if it's an X with a new phone, why
would you label it with your ex's name instead of like, oh,
these are beach house pictures.
Speaker 3 (08:44):
Yes, it just doesn't add up to me. Yes, fair.
Speaker 7 (08:47):
And also if it's a picture of your dog, you
have hopefully hundreds of pictures of your dog, why not
just have a icture?
Speaker 3 (08:54):
It doesn't make it doesn't tract for me. I disagree.
I let me go. In Herndon David, good morning, Hey,
good morning. What'd you want to say with second up date?
My guy?
Speaker 5 (09:04):
I don't know, man, I don't really believe him. Oh,
I guess out of experience. You know, I've done the
same thing, not that I still do that, but I've
had you know, andreids before in the past, and I've
had hidden pictures you know my ex, but I deleted
them all, but I don't really believe him.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Did you have like a bad breakup, David?
Speaker 1 (09:21):
Because I feel like most dudes don't think to go
back and delete photos of an ax unless I'm just different.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I guess when it's a bad breakup. Yeah, it's a
bad breakup.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
You you tend to hide the past, you know, and
look go back to it.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
But once it's over, it's over.
Speaker 6 (09:34):
It's done with My axe is a terrible human being.
I saw pictures of him. Just never know.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Just in case you.
Speaker 1 (09:45):
Bye, let me go in booie, Jennifer, good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
What do you want to say, girl?
Speaker 6 (09:52):
So I feel like he's just like I'm a sucker
for a Southern guy, and he.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Just really sound like he just is not a how
to work his own Yeah.
Speaker 4 (10:02):
Probably like oh day, let's put off put off this show.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
On here, and he's like okay, and then now it
stuck and does not how to get it off.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
I just feel like it could have been a very
simple conversation and been like, hey, that makes.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Me uncomfortable, and he probably would have just okay, we'll.
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Show me how to do it, and then.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Disagree almost like he gives the vibes that maybe he
didn't even set the lock screen and begin with yeah,
I get like that kind of like, you know, unless
he's the greatest actor of all time, which maybe his
who knows?
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Did you ever thank you for listening? I have a
great day.
Speaker 6 (10:34):
Thank you too.
Speaker 3 (10:36):
Are you gonna say? I was just agreed.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
I was just looking because automatically on your iPhone, if
you go to photos, there's just it literally has like dogs, humans, people.
I just like scrolled down to my old dog and
I was and you can make a slide show and
then said it as your wallpaper. Yeah, but I don't
know if you would know how to do it because
I was trying to read and listen, so I stopped.
Speaker 3 (10:56):
I stopped reading.
Speaker 6 (10:57):
So so I think I think, oh, that's such sorry.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
All right, well we're gonna get back to this.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Yeah, yeah, that's okay with you, Lucy, good morning. What
do you want to say with us?
Speaker 4 (11:11):
I mean I think it's we gotta know the important context?
How long did they date and when did they break up?
Speaker 3 (11:16):
I stually ask that, Yeah, that's on me. That's a
good point.
Speaker 5 (11:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
So if it's been like a while and it's still there.
That's different than being short. Would you rather, Lucy, have
it be a long time that they broke up or
a short time?
Speaker 4 (11:26):
I think a long time. It's also like how long
did they date for it? This is some girl he
dated for five years. That's probably sticking no matter what.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Yeah, I disagree, Lucy. Thank you for listening, Have a
great day. Thank you too, Buys. If you want to
do a second date update, dms are open at YMS Radio.
Speaker 6 (11:46):
Let's do that in your morning Show's true and iHeartRadio.