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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So Find the Florida Man eight ten coming up, real, real, real,
real soon. Can't wait to play it with you. Crazy headlines.
We read two of them. You tell us which one
happened in Florida. This was a headline. It's not gonna
make Find the Florida Man because it's not about criminals.
But when I read it, it had me thinking about
my wedding day and my relationship. And I don't know,
(00:23):
I don't know. Couple waited until their wedding to have
their first kiss. You hear about waiting for other things, obviously,
but first kiss. How old do you think this couple is?
(00:44):
They had their first kiss at the altar. They waited
nineteen months to do this.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
They'll be divorce in a month, you think, So, yeah,
you got to be compatible when it comes to you know,
the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
What if you done?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Like you kiss?
Speaker 1 (00:58):
We're gotta kiss. Their kiss does kind of seem good
like it seems like they definitely were kissing other people
probably mumm see no practicing. It's the peck eight hundred
and four O nine ninety three ninety three. What did
did you wait? And it could be more than just the.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Kiss my friend did And this is right out of
college him and it's guess, no baking cookies, mind you.
In high school, this guy with baked cookies all the time.
He was the first one to lose his virginity. So
when he went to college, he met his wife and
he said that they were waiting until marriage. We went
to the wedding and he was so excited to get
back to the whole town. I'm like, of course you are.
You have been baking cookies. But she was a version
(01:37):
this whole time, saving herself or her husband. And I'm
also thinking, what happens if you don't like it, You're well.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
You're you're stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
It's very important you can teach him. I believe that
it is very, very important in a relationship. Now. I
definitely think my love language love language is physical touch.
But I don't know. I mean, you really want to
like sit and wait around and then literally have it
stink in.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
The next You're like, oh my god, we've been together
for two years and I.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Don't like it. Also for two years, what are you
gonna do? Sometimes I just want to make out. I
like it. Literally, I'll like text listen, I'll be like, hey,
you want to make out? When you get home. She's like,
what sure. Yeah, she's like, that's weird that you're even asking.
But I get excited, need something. I'll look forward.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
But if you would have wanted to wait, would you help?
That was click.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
No, I wouldn't wait, honestly, I.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Mean some people will, some people want. I'm glad you're honest.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I assive I'd be like, hey, here every reason why
we should and here's a couple why we should not.
Here's not.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Well, I'll say this so I respect people who save
themselves from marriage, and part of me does kind of
wish that. I I do wait it because it's a
it's a spirituality in a religious thing for me. However,
if you're out baking cookies with other guys before me,
and then all of a sudden you're like, I'm saving
myself for marriage. But it's true, though, you can't be
(03:12):
a born you can't be a born again.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Yeah you can't.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
You can't.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
You can't you can be celebrated.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
No, No, the entrance is are.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Then you don't respect it. You don't respect her.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Well, she doesn't respect herself. She does.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
She doesn't want to give herself to another body.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
So now so now all of a sudden, it's rules
for the not for me because I have to wait
even though you didn't wait previously. No, I don't understand,
but I'm just saying, take kings out of it. You
were baking cookies like a mad woman in the y
and now all of a sudden, you're gonna put up
the guardrails for me and make me wait until marriage.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
You can't be mad at a woman so not wanting
to give herself or add another body to her list.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
But if I'm gonna be the person that you marry,
and then it's gonna be like, no, I'm gonna wait
until marriage, and it's it's a total that it's total double.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Can't respect someone money to not give them give up
their body to you at a certain time.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Well, yeah, they're an actual virgin for sure. Way just
trying for two years. Jed's just trying to kill off
anyone who could potentially listen to our show right now,
it's beautiful as women are the most important thing to
our show. I understand. Now you're going against guys.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
I No.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
I think it's the same thing that applies for guys though, too,
because if they were like, oh, I'm gonna.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Be I think I think women will look at him
differently too.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
She'd be like, Okay, Like I respect that he wants
to get to know me more and actually learn about
me before actually get into my pants.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
But they also want to kiss you want yeah a
little lip action. Hey, Christian, your wife is pregnant six
months into the relationship. Good job waiting, Yeah she was.
Speaker 6 (04:50):
We did not wait six months together pregnant with our
first kid, and here we are and half years later
and we have four.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Jed's disgusted that, like, no, I'm not discussing. I set
my point. That's not again, these two aren't listening. Christian.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
My point with it was if you are with somebody
who is previously baked cookies and all of a sudden
they get with you and they put the guardrails up,
it makes no sense. Pandora's boxes I made.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
You also to realize it's not They didn't put it
just because of you.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
They put it.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Oh what was that? Christian?
Speaker 6 (05:23):
I agree with you, it doesn't make sense. How are
you going to bake cookies for how long you've been
making cookies since high school and then all of a
sudden you're just gonna stop and you know, like you said,
be celibate until we get married.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yeah, that is so wild to me that you guys
are literally telling it a woman that, Hey, I don't
care if you had a pass and you were baking
cookies in high school at the baked cookies with me.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Now, they don't respect women.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
They don't I am expect themselves either.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Wow, I'm shocked. I hope your girlfriend isn't listening to this.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
I hope I.
Speaker 7 (05:57):
Have.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
And so you you're je being celibate.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
I don't judge women for being celibate. I think it's
actually great to stay celbate. I just said myself that I.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Wish I did.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
You happen to get with a woman she's celibate and
you guys are dating, and she's like, hey, I'm going
to be celibent too we actually get married, and that's
gonna be a problem for you.
Speaker 8 (06:15):
She's been selling her whole year. It's not you, this
is her whole life. Hey, can I raise my hand
real quick? Just because people are talking and I'm kind
of taken the back seat. The man's voice that you
hear talking and saying all these things, his name is
Jed Shilling.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
It's not Joe Carballo. That ain't me talking. Jed, say
something real quick.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Hi, this is Jed shilling and I hear it for
myself and I don't speak for anybody else on The
Joe Show where ninety three three fl z.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
My opinion is mine and mine own, and I am
not talking in this right now because I think it's
important to give the leader of the show, the woman
of our show, the right to speak for herself and
other women. I'm not gonna say I'm a man. I'm
not gonna speak for women. Now, you too, go back
to whatever?
Speaker 9 (06:54):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Can I raise my hand real quick, Joe Zero, I'm
a woman and I agree with I.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Was like, call, I want you to text in. I
want to hear her perspective. If it's a woman that agrees,
I mean, it's not a woman or a man thing.
I just feel as ow.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
We want to push back the news and continue to
have this conversation. Let's continue this kind.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Don't play this song though this is PTSD from this
early I love this song.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
This is this is a we've got. Honestly, I keep
saying it this morning, which would make me really happy,
because I don't think I realized how great of the
music is. Right now, the music is actually pretty damn
good on FLZ. We love to hear that, and child
right now, will continue whatever the hell this conversation is,
I'll have Ashley reset it and then I'm sure Jed
will go. Now we'll see what happens next. In iHeartRadio
(07:41):
station WFLZ, Tampa Bay. This is the Jo Show on
ninety three to three FLZ. All right, let me just
reset the scene right now. This started with a story
that I saw that was kind of interesting. So I'm
getting married and when I say whenever I see wedding stories,
now I read them. And this one couple waited until
(08:03):
their wedding to have their first kiss. You hear about
people waiting for other things. But the first kiss nineteen
months they were together and they're happy. They like it.
Of course, social media is hating on them. But other
than that, I mean, listen, at the end of the day,
you and your significant other, that's all that matters. Then
things took a turn, as they normally do, when Jed
(08:26):
and Ashley talked to each other. Jed, can you say
a couple of things real quick? Hi?
Speaker 4 (08:31):
I'm Jed shilling on the show show. But I did
not speak for anybody on ninety three three FL.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
So you don't have to say all that. I just
want people to know that that's not my voice. That's Jed.
I'm Joe. Hey. What up though? All right? So what
exactly happened? Ashley? Can you now set the stage because
I don't even know how it got into this?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Uh could because well, you brought up the topic and
I said a friend waited to bake cookies with his wife,
and he had been baking cookies. She didn't have an
issue that he had a past of, you know, doing
his thing.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
She waited, She was fine.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Jed thinks thinks it's an issue to have it to
bake cookies and then have someone wait until marriage to
bake cookies with the next person.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
I somewhat kind of got the point of it. My
point is, you can't put up a guardrail after you've
already baked cookies with me. No, you can't put a
guardrail up after you've already baked cookies. And I mean
it's like the toothpaste is already out of the tube.
You can't put it back in. You want to make
me wait, but you didn't make other people wait, and
you want to marry I was.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
At a different point in my life. That's what they're saying.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Jordan, you are a woman, and you agree with Jed.
Speaker 10 (09:34):
Okay, well halfway. I did at first, but when you
guys were just talking about it, I might have like
a little bit of a disagreeance. I agree that, like
once the toothcases out of the tube, as jud just said,
it's already out there. But if your partner is someone
who has not baked cookies yet and wants to wait,
(09:56):
then out of respect for them, I understand like that stamp.
But like if there's two people who just decide that
they just want to wait, so if both of them
have already baked cookies, then that doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Okay, And I think that that's the main conversation that
we should have right now, because Jordan, and thank you
for saying it. Unfortunately, in a world where we probably
do have to say that, we can't really say obviously,
but to me and I think most sane people like you,
Jordan and Ashley and even Jet as well, obviously, if
someone doesn't want to do it, you don't do it.
You respect it, and all of that, unless of course
(10:34):
your jet Jet doesn't respect it. It's very evident. I
can't stand it. Jordan. No, so you're saying you've already
done it? Why you is?
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Yeah, I don't see. I mean, yeah, that's essentially what Chelsea.
You're on Jet's side.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
Yes, I am.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
I do believe that if you know.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
For me personally, if I had big cookies previously with
you know, other people, and then got with my husband
and then you know, we can't a cookie, sorry, that
would be why are you punishing that person who you
are intending to marry?
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Why punishment to just why do you think it's not
a punishment. I don't think it's a punishment to not
want to give up my body. There are other ways
that you could be intimate with a person rather than
baking cookies. And the fact that I don't know to say,
but the fact that people are calling it a punishment
because you can't bake cookies, that is crazy to me.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
But also.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
I was gonna say, Joe, sorry.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
To cut you off.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Maybe sex just isn't that important to me where I'm
just like, it's I don't know, yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Love it, but then it goes so excited that it
goes back to Ashley's point with her friend that she
talked about, imagine not knowing what it's like, and then
all of a sudden, you get up to the altar,
you get back and it's bad. Well, you never gave
me that opportunity, even though you already are like, I'm
celibate and you slept with other people.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Thank you, Chelsea. John is on Ashley's side.
Speaker 9 (11:50):
Yeah, I think it's a good thing to actually have
the choice to be seli only because you might find
that one person that's specialty, that has that special connection,
and just having that special connection is just enough to
be celibate.
Speaker 6 (12:05):
And if she chooses to be celibate as well, same
thing to the guy. This is a special person. It's
if I want to wait until we get married. It's
just a special connection.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
And let's not talk like can we talk about regret?
What have you slept with someone? You regret it and
now you don't want to sleep with anybody.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
By the way, which is so crazy. Thank you, John.
Michelle says, what you can't make a mistake, right, Hello, Yeah,
go ahead.
Speaker 7 (12:32):
Hi, Yeah, that's what I was saying, Like, people make mistakes,
they sleep with people that or they bake cookies with
people that you know, got what they wanted and left
or they realized they weren't the ones and it was bad.
So now they can't, you know, decide with somebody else,
Like I want to wait to make sure that you're
(12:53):
a good fit for me, and you're not going to
just leave.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Guys, you two are way too quiet. That was going
to be.
Speaker 4 (13:08):
No no, because no matter what, Joe, no matter how
we spend this conversation, people are gonna look at me
and they're going to say.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
Do you know how many people I know?
Speaker 4 (13:17):
But there's also a lot of people got well, it's
been kind of split. It's been right down the middle.
My point is I don't want to be looked at
like I'm a key man woman hater and I'm not.
I love women. I think women are awesome when they
touch it.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
No behaving. Yeah, all right, one last one, Murray take
it away.
Speaker 11 (13:37):
Hey, Jed, Hey Joe, Hey Athley. I think this has
I think this has a lot more to do with
a level of maturity. When you're nineteen years old and
just starting to go to college and having a good time,
I think you don't really have the same sexual maturity
and so you might have baked cookies a few times,
but then you get to grow up and you get
older and you.
Speaker 12 (13:57):
Get a job, and you know, you have more respect
for yourself. So yeah, you know, you could meet someone
when you're twenty eight and say, hey, you know, I'm
a little a little bit more conservative now than I
was when I was nineteen. So you know, the store's
closed right now until I find the right person changed right, exactly,
exactly except Jack, if.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
He wants girls that are just give it away.
Speaker 12 (14:23):
Maybe maybe Jed has just not reached that level of maturity.
Speaker 11 (14:27):
Y Oh, sorry, Jed, That's.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Okay, Marie, thank you so much. Let's get into the news, guys.
You guys are crazy.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Yeah, let's get into it.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
You guys are crazy. All I'm going to say is
I'm not always right, but I'm never own all right.
Eight hundred and four Own, nine ninety three, ninety three.
It's eight hundred four Own, nine ninety three ninety three.
(14:55):
Taste changes, Taste always changes. I want know something new
that you're naz No, I don't want to do it anymore.
I was gonna do it, but I don't want to
do any.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
What are you gonna say?
Speaker 2 (15:12):
What did you not like when you were little and
you like it as an adult? Well, I want to get.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Something kind of like that. But I can't get my
mind off of this criminal the chef, the chef who
stole the recipe. There's a chef in Florida, over on
the East Coast. He stole the recipe a book from
a restaurant and now he got charged with a felony.
(15:43):
Anyone have that good of a dish? Anyone have that like?
Are they in possession of a recipe like that? There
is a pizza uh place in Saint Pete that from
what I here, the owner makes the garlic knots at
(16:03):
home and then takes them to the restaurant the raw
dough every single day, and then that's the garlic knots
that they make. Like the recipe isn't even they don't
even trust it to their chefs, which I guess you can't. Yeah,
because of this whole situation. But eight hundred and four
nine ninety three ninety three, is anyone in the possession
(16:25):
of that? Because so many times you talk about criminals
and stealing money, But I think food is more addictive
than gambling. That is true. I think like a good
meal that's valuable. When I found out that my grandma
just gives out her sauce recipe, I was heartbroken because
I'm like, you don't like there was a family friend
(16:47):
that's like, oh my god, yeah, I make that sauce.
It's so good. But you know what, Mary, you know
what I added was this, and I'm like, what the hell?
I literally I want to vombit. I'm like, whoa, First
of all, you're messing with a recipe in two Grandma like,
we don't even know her, she doesn't even go here.
What was that?
Speaker 4 (17:04):
My mom made that tragic mistake too. Have you guys
ever had Ashley or Joe? Have you guys had my
mom's cheesy potatoes ever?
Speaker 3 (17:11):
I have not, but I've had our meat loaf.
Speaker 4 (17:12):
So and oh my god, he's giving away the meat
load recipe too to who not me. She's been giving
it away, giving away to my aunt. She's given it
away to uh one of my uh one of my cousins,
So I mean it's staying within the family. But I'm
like this, even then, I feel raw and dirty, like
you can't be just giving away the family secrets.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
My grandma she makes homemade ice cream, and no one
knows the recipe for it, no one, And it's so good.
And to this day she has not told us, my grandma,
you have to tell us, like, what happens if you
homemade ice cream?
Speaker 1 (17:43):
How do you do that? I don't know, salt ice
asking her.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
But it's so every Thanksgiving, every Christmas we go to
our house and after we eat our meals, we get
up homemade homemade ice cream, and then we have pound cake.
Speaker 3 (17:54):
All so good?
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Oh have you, Joe? This is what we're gonna be.
A generation that just won't be able to cook? Is
it gonna turned into a point? Well? What can you make?
What can you make?
Speaker 3 (18:03):
I can make a pot ros, I can make tacos.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
I can make be talking about can make spaghetti.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
I can make fried catfish, fried chicken.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
Yeah, sure, there's her. She can't.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
There's a thing, Joe, where you can actually put like, uh,
you put it in like a soccer ball kind of
thing and you throw it around to make the ice cream.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
We're gonna do that rather cold.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
It's like this big, I don't know thing and.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
It's just got a hand crank on it, doesn't it
I don't think okay, never mind.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
What does she turned her own ice cream? That's what
they do in the Amish. I mean maybe the season
ice cream. Did you almost say she's not Amish?
Speaker 3 (18:39):
I wish she was up right now.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
But to be fair, remember when we Joe we called
Ashley's grandma one year and asked her what she used
for the recip.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
Oh, and she's like, I don't do that. What was that?
I used the box?
Speaker 7 (18:52):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Yeah, stovers. Let's see she'll answer. I don't know if
you answered, because I want to know if she remembers that.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
She's so.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
Oh my, hey, grandma, you remember you made a homemade
ice cream.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
I keep those recipes of secrets sometimes.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Yeah, let's see, what's time. It's seven forty five. There,
she might not be up.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Yeah, don't make grandma mad.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Uh, she's not gonna answer.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Ah man that she would have answered with me favor.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Whatever.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
It's the truth. I don't have any recipes. I ain't
got nothing in my life. Your mom makes a killer
chicken tortilla soup to heap my mond name o mouth.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
Oh she's going back. Oh, grandma, grandma, good morning. I'm sorry.
Did I wake you? Did I wake you up? You
can't hear me. You don't have your hearing aated.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
Hey, Grandma, do you remember making homemade ice cream for Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Tell her something that you've always wanted to Grandma?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Tell her something that Do you remember making homemade ice
cream on Thanksgiving? I know, Grandma, I'm a lesbian. I've
been sleeping with girls for a very long time.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
You didn't even know that, did you. Grandma. I'm doing great.
You're on the radio right now.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
I love you and I'll call you when I get
off work. Okay, okay, love you bye.
Speaker 1 (20:37):
He chat.
Speaker 3 (20:39):
Yeah, we gotta. I gotta send that.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
To my family. They're gonna die now. It's the first
time I've ever talked about her, tell her about being
a lesbian.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
That's a big moment. I'm proud of.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Thank you, my sister probabliciting, like what in the.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
Lord heyka moment. No, I'm just so happy that we
got to be a part of that, Kaylee. I mean
that was beautiful, wasn't it. Kaylee?
Speaker 4 (21:13):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (21:13):
You want to tell your grandma you're leslie?
Speaker 5 (21:15):
No?
Speaker 1 (21:15):
What what?
Speaker 4 (21:16):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (21:17):
What what are we talking? Oh? Yeah, we're talking about
the recipe. Recipe. Yeah, go ahead with the recipe.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
So I, uh my, my, he's down twelve. But a
couple of years ago he went to my stepmom when
he was visiting for the summer and he was like,
my mom makes the best lasagna in the world. I
want you to get her lasagna recipe. I don't want yours.
So she called me and I said, Okay, what you're
going to do and you're going to go to publics
and you go to You're going to go to the
frozen food section and you're going to get some first.
(21:46):
And she was so mad at me.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
Tell me why that happened to me. My dad used
to make this cream of mushroom chicken and rice like casserole,
and I used to when people would say, what was
your favorite meal as a kid, I'd say it was that.
My dad like didn't make anything, but he would make
this and it was so exciting. My mom got so mad.
Speaker 8 (22:07):
It's on the can.
Speaker 5 (22:14):
Now I will make homemade lasagna now, like it's completely homemade.
But it's just a fun story. It's like she just
gets mad at me anytime I mentioned lasagna, She's like,
is it sover
So Find the Florida Man eight ten coming up, real, real, real,
real soon. Can't wait to play it with you. Crazy headlines.
We read two of them. You tell us which one
happened in Florida. This was a headline. It's not gonna
make Find the Florida Man because it's not about criminals.
But when I read it, it had me thinking about
my wedding day and my relationship. And I don't know,
(00:23):
I don't know. Couple waited until their wedding to have
their first kiss. You hear about waiting for other things, obviously,
but first kiss. How old do you think this couple is?
(00:44):
They had their first kiss at the altar. They waited
nineteen months to do this.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
They'll be divorce in a month, you think, So, yeah,
you got to be compatible when it comes to you know,
the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
What if you done?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Like you kiss?
Speaker 1 (00:58):
We're gotta kiss. Their kiss does kind of seem good
like it seems like they definitely were kissing other people
probably mumm see no practicing. It's the peck eight hundred
and four O nine ninety three ninety three. What did
did you wait? And it could be more than just the.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Kiss my friend did And this is right out of
college him and it's guess, no baking cookies, mind you.
In high school, this guy with baked cookies all the time.
He was the first one to lose his virginity. So
when he went to college, he met his wife and
he said that they were waiting until marriage. We went
to the wedding and he was so excited to get
back to the whole town. I'm like, of course you are.
You have been baking cookies. But she was a version
(01:37):
this whole time, saving herself or her husband. And I'm
also thinking, what happens if you don't like it, You're well.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
You're you're stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
It's very important you can teach him. I believe that
it is very, very important in a relationship. Now. I
definitely think my love language love language is physical touch.
But I don't know. I mean, you really want to
like sit and wait around and then literally have it
stink in.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
The next You're like, oh my god, we've been together
for two years and I.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Don't like it. Also for two years, what are you
gonna do? Sometimes I just want to make out. I
like it. Literally, I'll like text listen, I'll be like, hey,
you want to make out? When you get home. She's like,
what sure. Yeah, she's like, that's weird that you're even asking.
But I get excited, need something. I'll look forward.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
But if you would have wanted to wait, would you help?
That was click.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
No, I wouldn't wait, honestly, I.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
Mean some people will, some people want. I'm glad you're honest.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
I assive I'd be like, hey, here every reason why
we should and here's a couple why we should not.
Here's not.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Well, I'll say this so I respect people who save
themselves from marriage, and part of me does kind of
wish that. I I do wait it because it's a
it's a spirituality in a religious thing for me. However,
if you're out baking cookies with other guys before me,
and then all of a sudden you're like, I'm saving
myself for marriage. But it's true, though, you can't be
(03:12):
a born you can't be a born again.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Yeah you can't.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
You can't.
Speaker 3 (03:15):
You can't you can be celebrated.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
No, No, the entrance is are.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Then you don't respect it. You don't respect her.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Well, she doesn't respect herself. She does.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
She doesn't want to give herself to another body.
Speaker 4 (03:26):
So now so now all of a sudden, it's rules
for the not for me because I have to wait
even though you didn't wait previously. No, I don't understand,
but I'm just saying, take kings out of it. You
were baking cookies like a mad woman in the y
and now all of a sudden, you're gonna put up
the guardrails for me and make me wait until marriage.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
You can't be mad at a woman so not wanting
to give herself or add another body to her list.
Speaker 4 (03:54):
But if I'm gonna be the person that you marry,
and then it's gonna be like, no, I'm gonna wait
until marriage, and it's it's a total that it's total double.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Can't respect someone money to not give them give up
their body to you at a certain time.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Well, yeah, they're an actual virgin for sure. Way just
trying for two years. Jed's just trying to kill off
anyone who could potentially listen to our show right now,
it's beautiful as women are the most important thing to
our show. I understand. Now you're going against guys.
Speaker 5 (04:24):
I No.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
I think it's the same thing that applies for guys though, too,
because if they were like, oh, I'm gonna.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Be I think I think women will look at him
differently too.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
She'd be like, Okay, Like I respect that he wants
to get to know me more and actually learn about
me before actually get into my pants.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
But they also want to kiss you want yeah a
little lip action. Hey, Christian, your wife is pregnant six
months into the relationship. Good job waiting, Yeah she was.
Speaker 6 (04:50):
We did not wait six months together pregnant with our
first kid, and here we are and half years later
and we have four.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Jed's disgusted that, like, no, I'm not discussing. I set
my point. That's not again, these two aren't listening. Christian.
Speaker 4 (05:06):
My point with it was if you are with somebody
who is previously baked cookies and all of a sudden
they get with you and they put the guardrails up,
it makes no sense. Pandora's boxes I made.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
You also to realize it's not They didn't put it
just because of you.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
They put it.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Oh what was that? Christian?
Speaker 6 (05:23):
I agree with you, it doesn't make sense. How are
you going to bake cookies for how long you've been
making cookies since high school and then all of a
sudden you're just gonna stop and you know, like you said,
be celibate until we get married.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Yeah, that is so wild to me that you guys
are literally telling it a woman that, Hey, I don't
care if you had a pass and you were baking
cookies in high school at the baked cookies with me.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Now, they don't respect women.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
They don't I am expect themselves either.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Wow, I'm shocked. I hope your girlfriend isn't listening to this.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
I hope I.
Speaker 7 (05:57):
Have.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
And so you you're je being celibate.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
I don't judge women for being celibate. I think it's
actually great to stay celbate. I just said myself that I.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Wish I did.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
You happen to get with a woman she's celibate and
you guys are dating, and she's like, hey, I'm going
to be celibent too we actually get married, and that's
gonna be a problem for you.
Speaker 8 (06:15):
She's been selling her whole year. It's not you, this
is her whole life. Hey, can I raise my hand
real quick? Just because people are talking and I'm kind
of taken the back seat. The man's voice that you
hear talking and saying all these things, his name is
Jed Shilling.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
It's not Joe Carballo. That ain't me talking. Jed, say
something real quick.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Hi, this is Jed shilling and I hear it for
myself and I don't speak for anybody else on The
Joe Show where ninety three three fl z.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
My opinion is mine and mine own, and I am
not talking in this right now because I think it's
important to give the leader of the show, the woman
of our show, the right to speak for herself and
other women. I'm not gonna say I'm a man. I'm
not gonna speak for women. Now, you too, go back
to whatever?
Speaker 9 (06:54):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Can I raise my hand real quick, Joe Zero, I'm
a woman and I agree with I.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
Was like, call, I want you to text in. I
want to hear her perspective. If it's a woman that agrees,
I mean, it's not a woman or a man thing.
I just feel as ow.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
We want to push back the news and continue to
have this conversation. Let's continue this kind.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Don't play this song though this is PTSD from this
early I love this song.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
This is this is a we've got. Honestly, I keep
saying it this morning, which would make me really happy,
because I don't think I realized how great of the
music is. Right now, the music is actually pretty damn
good on FLZ. We love to hear that, and child
right now, will continue whatever the hell this conversation is,
I'll have Ashley reset it and then I'm sure Jed
will go. Now we'll see what happens next. In iHeartRadio
(07:41):
station WFLZ, Tampa Bay. This is the Jo Show on
ninety three to three FLZ. All right, let me just
reset the scene right now. This started with a story
that I saw that was kind of interesting. So I'm
getting married and when I say whenever I see wedding stories,
now I read them. And this one couple waited until
(08:03):
their wedding to have their first kiss. You hear about
people waiting for other things. But the first kiss nineteen
months they were together and they're happy. They like it.
Of course, social media is hating on them. But other
than that, I mean, listen, at the end of the day,
you and your significant other, that's all that matters. Then
things took a turn, as they normally do, when Jed
(08:26):
and Ashley talked to each other. Jed, can you say
a couple of things real quick? Hi?
Speaker 4 (08:31):
I'm Jed shilling on the show show. But I did
not speak for anybody on ninety three three FL.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
So you don't have to say all that. I just
want people to know that that's not my voice. That's Jed.
I'm Joe. Hey. What up though? All right? So what
exactly happened? Ashley? Can you now set the stage because
I don't even know how it got into this?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Uh could because well, you brought up the topic and
I said a friend waited to bake cookies with his wife,
and he had been baking cookies. She didn't have an
issue that he had a past of, you know, doing
his thing.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
She waited, She was fine.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Jed thinks thinks it's an issue to have it to
bake cookies and then have someone wait until marriage to
bake cookies with the next person.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
I somewhat kind of got the point of it. My
point is, you can't put up a guardrail after you've
already baked cookies with me. No, you can't put a
guardrail up after you've already baked cookies. And I mean
it's like the toothpaste is already out of the tube.
You can't put it back in. You want to make
me wait, but you didn't make other people wait, and
you want to marry I was.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
At a different point in my life. That's what they're saying.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
Jordan, you are a woman, and you agree with Jed.
Speaker 10 (09:34):
Okay, well halfway. I did at first, but when you
guys were just talking about it, I might have like
a little bit of a disagreeance. I agree that, like
once the toothcases out of the tube, as jud just said,
it's already out there. But if your partner is someone
who has not baked cookies yet and wants to wait,
(09:56):
then out of respect for them, I understand like that stamp.
But like if there's two people who just decide that
they just want to wait, so if both of them
have already baked cookies, then that doesn't make sense.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Okay, And I think that that's the main conversation that
we should have right now, because Jordan, and thank you
for saying it. Unfortunately, in a world where we probably
do have to say that, we can't really say obviously,
but to me and I think most sane people like you,
Jordan and Ashley and even Jet as well, obviously, if
someone doesn't want to do it, you don't do it.
You respect it, and all of that, unless of course
(10:34):
your jet Jet doesn't respect it. It's very evident. I
can't stand it. Jordan. No, so you're saying you've already
done it? Why you is?
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Yeah, I don't see. I mean, yeah, that's essentially what Chelsea.
You're on Jet's side.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
Yes, I am.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
I do believe that if you know.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
For me personally, if I had big cookies previously with
you know, other people, and then got with my husband
and then you know, we can't a cookie, sorry, that
would be why are you punishing that person who you
are intending to marry?
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Why punishment to just why do you think it's not
a punishment. I don't think it's a punishment to not
want to give up my body. There are other ways
that you could be intimate with a person rather than
baking cookies. And the fact that I don't know to say,
but the fact that people are calling it a punishment
because you can't bake cookies, that is crazy to me.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
But also.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
I was gonna say, Joe, sorry.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
To cut you off.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Maybe sex just isn't that important to me where I'm
just like, it's I don't know, yeah, I.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
Love it, but then it goes so excited that it
goes back to Ashley's point with her friend that she
talked about, imagine not knowing what it's like, and then
all of a sudden, you get up to the altar,
you get back and it's bad. Well, you never gave
me that opportunity, even though you already are like, I'm
celibate and you slept with other people.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Thank you, Chelsea. John is on Ashley's side.
Speaker 9 (11:50):
Yeah, I think it's a good thing to actually have
the choice to be seli only because you might find
that one person that's specialty, that has that special connection,
and just having that special connection is just enough to
be celibate.
Speaker 6 (12:05):
And if she chooses to be celibate as well, same
thing to the guy. This is a special person. It's
if I want to wait until we get married. It's
just a special connection.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
And let's not talk like can we talk about regret?
What have you slept with someone? You regret it and
now you don't want to sleep with anybody.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
By the way, which is so crazy. Thank you, John.
Michelle says, what you can't make a mistake, right, Hello, Yeah,
go ahead.
Speaker 7 (12:32):
Hi, Yeah, that's what I was saying, Like, people make mistakes,
they sleep with people that or they bake cookies with
people that you know, got what they wanted and left
or they realized they weren't the ones and it was bad.
So now they can't, you know, decide with somebody else,
Like I want to wait to make sure that you're
(12:53):
a good fit for me, and you're not going to
just leave.
Speaker 1 (13:01):
Guys, you two are way too quiet. That was going
to be.
Speaker 4 (13:08):
No no, because no matter what, Joe, no matter how
we spend this conversation, people are gonna look at me
and they're going to say.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
Do you know how many people I know?
Speaker 4 (13:17):
But there's also a lot of people got well, it's
been kind of split. It's been right down the middle.
My point is I don't want to be looked at
like I'm a key man woman hater and I'm not.
I love women. I think women are awesome when they
touch it.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
No behaving. Yeah, all right, one last one, Murray take
it away.
Speaker 11 (13:37):
Hey, Jed, Hey Joe, Hey Athley. I think this has
I think this has a lot more to do with
a level of maturity. When you're nineteen years old and
just starting to go to college and having a good time,
I think you don't really have the same sexual maturity
and so you might have baked cookies a few times,
but then you get to grow up and you get
older and you.
Speaker 12 (13:57):
Get a job, and you know, you have more respect
for yourself. So yeah, you know, you could meet someone
when you're twenty eight and say, hey, you know, I'm
a little a little bit more conservative now than I
was when I was nineteen. So you know, the store's
closed right now until I find the right person changed right, exactly,
exactly except Jack, if.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
He wants girls that are just give it away.
Speaker 12 (14:23):
Maybe maybe Jed has just not reached that level of maturity.
Speaker 11 (14:27):
Y Oh, sorry, Jed, That's.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Okay, Marie, thank you so much. Let's get into the news, guys.
You guys are crazy.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Yeah, let's get into it.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
You guys are crazy. All I'm going to say is
I'm not always right, but I'm never own all right.
Eight hundred and four Own, nine ninety three, ninety three.
It's eight hundred four Own, nine ninety three ninety three.
(14:55):
Taste changes, Taste always changes. I want know something new
that you're naz No, I don't want to do it anymore.
I was gonna do it, but I don't want to
do any.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
What are you gonna say?
Speaker 2 (15:12):
What did you not like when you were little and
you like it as an adult? Well, I want to get.
Speaker 1 (15:17):
Something kind of like that. But I can't get my
mind off of this criminal the chef, the chef who
stole the recipe. There's a chef in Florida, over on
the East Coast. He stole the recipe a book from
a restaurant and now he got charged with a felony.
(15:43):
Anyone have that good of a dish? Anyone have that like?
Are they in possession of a recipe like that? There
is a pizza uh place in Saint Pete that from
what I here, the owner makes the garlic knots at
(16:03):
home and then takes them to the restaurant the raw
dough every single day, and then that's the garlic knots
that they make. Like the recipe isn't even they don't
even trust it to their chefs, which I guess you can't. Yeah,
because of this whole situation. But eight hundred and four
nine ninety three ninety three, is anyone in the possession
(16:25):
of that? Because so many times you talk about criminals
and stealing money, But I think food is more addictive
than gambling. That is true. I think like a good
meal that's valuable. When I found out that my grandma
just gives out her sauce recipe, I was heartbroken because
I'm like, you don't like there was a family friend
(16:47):
that's like, oh my god, yeah, I make that sauce.
It's so good. But you know what, Mary, you know
what I added was this, and I'm like, what the hell?
I literally I want to vombit. I'm like, whoa, First
of all, you're messing with a recipe in two Grandma like,
we don't even know her, she doesn't even go here.
What was that?
Speaker 4 (17:04):
My mom made that tragic mistake too. Have you guys
ever had Ashley or Joe? Have you guys had my
mom's cheesy potatoes ever?
Speaker 3 (17:11):
I have not, but I've had our meat loaf.
Speaker 4 (17:12):
So and oh my god, he's giving away the meat
load recipe too to who not me. She's been giving
it away, giving away to my aunt. She's given it
away to uh one of my uh one of my cousins,
So I mean it's staying within the family. But I'm
like this, even then, I feel raw and dirty, like
you can't be just giving away the family secrets.
Speaker 2 (17:31):
My grandma she makes homemade ice cream, and no one
knows the recipe for it, no one, And it's so good.
And to this day she has not told us, my grandma,
you have to tell us, like, what happens if you
homemade ice cream?
Speaker 1 (17:43):
How do you do that? I don't know, salt ice
asking her.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
But it's so every Thanksgiving, every Christmas we go to
our house and after we eat our meals, we get
up homemade homemade ice cream, and then we have pound cake.
Speaker 3 (17:54):
All so good?
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Oh have you, Joe? This is what we're gonna be.
A generation that just won't be able to cook? Is
it gonna turned into a point? Well? What can you make?
What can you make?
Speaker 3 (18:03):
I can make a pot ros, I can make tacos.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
I can make be talking about can make spaghetti.
Speaker 3 (18:07):
I can make fried catfish, fried chicken.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
Yeah, sure, there's her. She can't.
Speaker 4 (18:12):
There's a thing, Joe, where you can actually put like, uh,
you put it in like a soccer ball kind of
thing and you throw it around to make the ice cream.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
We're gonna do that rather cold.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
It's like this big, I don't know thing and.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
It's just got a hand crank on it, doesn't it
I don't think okay, never mind.
Speaker 1 (18:31):
What does she turned her own ice cream? That's what
they do in the Amish. I mean maybe the season
ice cream. Did you almost say she's not Amish?
Speaker 3 (18:39):
I wish she was up right now.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
But to be fair, remember when we Joe we called
Ashley's grandma one year and asked her what she used
for the recip.
Speaker 1 (18:49):
Oh, and she's like, I don't do that. What was that?
I used the box?
Speaker 7 (18:52):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Yeah, stovers. Let's see she'll answer. I don't know if
you answered, because I want to know if she remembers that.
Speaker 1 (18:59):
She's so.
Speaker 3 (18:59):
Oh my, hey, grandma, you remember you made a homemade
ice cream.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
I keep those recipes of secrets sometimes.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
Yeah, let's see, what's time. It's seven forty five. There,
she might not be up.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
Yeah, don't make grandma mad.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
Uh, she's not gonna answer.
Speaker 1 (19:14):
Ah man that she would have answered with me favor.
Speaker 3 (19:20):
Whatever.
Speaker 1 (19:21):
It's the truth. I don't have any recipes. I ain't
got nothing in my life. Your mom makes a killer
chicken tortilla soup to heap my mond name o mouth.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
Oh she's going back. Oh, grandma, grandma, good morning. I'm sorry.
Did I wake you? Did I wake you up? You
can't hear me. You don't have your hearing aated.
Speaker 2 (19:50):
Hey, Grandma, do you remember making homemade ice cream for Thanksgiving?
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Tell her something that you've always wanted to Grandma?
Speaker 2 (20:02):
Tell her something that Do you remember making homemade ice
cream on Thanksgiving? I know, Grandma, I'm a lesbian. I've
been sleeping with girls for a very long time.
Speaker 3 (20:19):
You didn't even know that, did you. Grandma. I'm doing great.
You're on the radio right now.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
I love you and I'll call you when I get
off work. Okay, okay, love you bye.
Speaker 1 (20:37):
He chat.
Speaker 3 (20:39):
Yeah, we gotta. I gotta send that.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
To my family. They're gonna die now. It's the first
time I've ever talked about her, tell her about being
a lesbian.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
That's a big moment. I'm proud of.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Thank you, my sister probabliciting, like what in the.
Speaker 1 (20:57):
Lord heyka moment. No, I'm just so happy that we
got to be a part of that, Kaylee. I mean
that was beautiful, wasn't it. Kaylee?
Speaker 4 (21:13):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (21:13):
You want to tell your grandma you're leslie?
Speaker 5 (21:15):
No?
Speaker 1 (21:15):
What what?
Speaker 4 (21:16):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (21:17):
What what are we talking? Oh? Yeah, we're talking about
the recipe. Recipe. Yeah, go ahead with the recipe.
Speaker 5 (21:22):
So I, uh my, my, he's down twelve. But a
couple of years ago he went to my stepmom when
he was visiting for the summer and he was like,
my mom makes the best lasagna in the world. I
want you to get her lasagna recipe. I don't want yours.
So she called me and I said, Okay, what you're
going to do and you're going to go to publics
and you go to You're going to go to the
frozen food section and you're going to get some first.
(21:46):
And she was so mad at me.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
Tell me why that happened to me. My dad used
to make this cream of mushroom chicken and rice like casserole,
and I used to when people would say, what was
your favorite meal as a kid, I'd say it was that.
My dad like didn't make anything, but he would make
this and it was so exciting. My mom got so mad.
Speaker 8 (22:07):
It's on the can.
Speaker 5 (22:14):
Now I will make homemade lasagna now, like it's completely homemade.
But it's just a fun story. It's like she just
gets mad at me anytime I mentioned lasagna, She's like,
is it sover
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