October 29, 2025 • 7 mins
We get the answers as to why Mia decided to ghost her date and we have a debate of if he was wrong or not bringing up this on the first date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We're live on ninety three three FLZ. By the way,
Joe Show's left on Red. Daniel got in contact with
us because he was trying to figure out why Mia.
They went on a good date, at least he thought
it was a good date, and she just has not
been talking to him since now. Daniel, the whole entire time,
the whole entire time, Mia, you said he was bringing
up the gym.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yeah, absolutely, human of all times.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, and you took it as basically like he's telling
me I need to lose weight and that's making me uncomfortable.
He's basically calling.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Me fat, as he has said on the show multiple.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Times, which at the end he did definitely call you
a chunky and said that your personality is good and
you could afford to lose some weight. And Daniel, yeah,
you're unapologetic about it.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I mean, if you want me to say fat, I
could say fat. I was just being polite.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Oh wow, okay, before before paid out loud for everyone
to hear, Daniel, just so you know you're on rate.
By the way, like all the girls out there, all
the girls listening, do not date Daniel.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I think calling someone fat definitely can't do that. Now,
there is a debate to be had about if you
feel a certain way about someone and feel like you
could better them. See actually, no, that that sounds super wrong.
I don't know how I could put this. But if
your significant other, if you see your significant like I've
(01:26):
gained weight over the past couple of months, Alyssa hasn't
said anything. My fiance hasn't said a single word. I
wish she would, though, because at least did it from her.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
Yeah, hold these people accountable?
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Man, No, I actually don't. It would kill though.
Speaker 5 (01:41):
What do you want?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
My mom?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
She told me this was when we first started the show.
I was freaking fat, man. I was probably forty fifty
pounds of a year than what I actually was. But
if I didn't get that kick in the pants from
somebody who knew and loved me, then I wouldn't have
been able to change anything. So this guy actually cares
about you. He's saying oh and subliminal ways like hey,
you need to lose a few pounds Like that.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Is such a completely different situation about fiance significant other.
Speaker 6 (02:07):
That is where you're in a relationship where you're supposed
to say, yeah, this.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Is a very good Okay, So he's showing right off
He's showing right off the bat. So he's showing right
off the bat that he cares. And you take issue
to that, all right.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Not only is saying.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
That you're wrong, he hates the way I am.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Hold on, guys, real quick, Darien, you agree with me,
You agree with Ashley, and I agree with you guys too.
Jad's in the right.
Speaker 7 (02:36):
I cannot even believe the words that are coming out
of just not this morning.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
What do you mean?
Speaker 7 (02:42):
I am genuinely shocked. You don't tell someone there's fat.
If your girl brings it up and says, hey, I'm
gaining a few pounds, maybe I should lose some weight.
You say, no, baby, you're gorgeous the way you are.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
No, no, no, sir, that's not love.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
No, it's yeah, exactly. She she is bring it. She's
the one who's bringing it up.
Speaker 7 (03:05):
So maybe she's looking to you the confirm that she's like.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
Still going, but you don't agree with her.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
What is the problem?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Why are we so hung up on looking some physical
standard anyway?
Speaker 6 (03:25):
Why can't someone be able to and.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
They still be physically attractive and loving, especially to the
person that they're planning on spending the rest of their life,
by the way.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Marie, go ahead, Hey, listen, Mia, get rid of this guy.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
It has nothing to do with your weight, has nothing
to do with that much.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
He cares about you.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
All this man cares about is controlling you.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Listening to the words he's using.
Speaker 6 (03:47):
He is a control freak.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Forget about it.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Don't even lose a diamond, sleep over it. Goodbye, mister Daniel.
So so let's unpet this really quick. Please listen, let's
unpack it. We definitely got some insecurities going.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
On, right real quick, hold on before Night gets into this.
Actually he brings up a great point. Let me reset
this for everyone so they know what's going on. Daniel
calls us four left on Red, wants to know why
Mia hasn't called him back after he thought the date
was awesome. Mia says, hey, right right off the jump,
(04:28):
he kept on bringing up the gym he's bringing up
to Jim. I think he's calling me big. I think
that he's trying to get me to work out. I
don't want to be with a guy like that. Daniel,
You right right, we could play it. You said, hey,
you could afford to lose a little bit, Nitro take
it away.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
All right, perfect? So MEA definitely have some insecurities going on, right, No,
I don't.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I'm happy that I am. The problem is that Daniel
is an ass for trying to make me be something
that I'm already o. I'm okay with how I am.
He's trying to make me something different.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
I'm totally agree with you. I'm gonna agree with you
on that, Daniel, way too soon, right bringing up the
gym way too. This is the first date, Like, that's
unbelievable to me. I think there's some kind of underlying
issue there, Like I'm almost thinking that he has like
an X at the gym that he wanted to make
jealous or something like why are you trying to force
(05:27):
her to go to the gym?
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Like was excited I met Mia and I was like, man,
if she could just get fit, she'd be perfect because
I haven't met a girls in a while.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
You know, you're such a disgusting human, Daniel. You're gonna
get old one day and got what, You're gonna get
fat too. But guess what, one thing is always going
to stay the same size, and that's unfortunate for you.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
M M Daniel. Wait wait, wait, we're taking it too far, Uh, Daniel,
I do understand that perspective. Also, like you see something
in her, you say, she has a great personality and
you actually want to date me up. But you're just like, hey,
you know, just come work out with me a little bit,
you know, so you'll be more aesthetically pleasing.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
But you're saying, is crazy, this is crazy, this is crazy.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
It is crazy. But it's a way that you do that, Dan,
y'all can tell you probably it's a way that you
do that, like, and it's not on the first date.
It can be something over time, Like if you're spending
time together, you're gonna gravelly, you're gonna automatically gravitate towards
each other's hobbies. Right, So she's gonna see that you're
working out a lot, and I'm.
Speaker 8 (06:36):
Like, hey, you know you're going to the gym, Boddy, like, hey.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
You know, just come with me a few times like that.
You don't just you don't just tell her no, no, no,
It kind of do work out that way, are you.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Let's just put it this way. If he was trying
to make an ex jealous, he clearly wouldn't be bringing
her to the gym right away.
Speaker 8 (06:58):
Oh, come on, and.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Me and me and me and me and MEA thank you, Daniel,
thank you mia I. I am so sorry that these
guys are a holes, and I wish I could say
the whole thing they're asses.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
But at least they've they've said it for themselves on radio.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
There you go exactly. You're beautiful. I hope you know
that you are. And we'll talk to you. Yep, we'll
talk to you later
We're live on ninety three three FLZ. By the way,
Joe Show's left on Red. Daniel got in contact with
us because he was trying to figure out why Mia.
They went on a good date, at least he thought
it was a good date, and she just has not
been talking to him since now. Daniel, the whole entire time,
the whole entire time, Mia, you said he was bringing
up the gym.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Yeah, absolutely, human of all times.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
Yeah, and you took it as basically like he's telling
me I need to lose weight and that's making me uncomfortable.
He's basically calling.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Me fat, as he has said on the show multiple.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
Times, which at the end he did definitely call you
a chunky and said that your personality is good and
you could afford to lose some weight. And Daniel, yeah,
you're unapologetic about it.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I mean, if you want me to say fat, I
could say fat. I was just being polite.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Oh wow, okay, before before paid out loud for everyone
to hear, Daniel, just so you know you're on rate.
By the way, like all the girls out there, all
the girls listening, do not date Daniel.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
I think calling someone fat definitely can't do that. Now,
there is a debate to be had about if you
feel a certain way about someone and feel like you
could better them. See actually, no, that that sounds super wrong.
I don't know how I could put this. But if
your significant other, if you see your significant like I've
(01:26):
gained weight over the past couple of months, Alyssa hasn't
said anything. My fiance hasn't said a single word. I
wish she would, though, because at least did it from her.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
Yeah, hold these people accountable?
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Man, No, I actually don't. It would kill though.
Speaker 5 (01:41):
What do you want?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
My mom?
Speaker 4 (01:42):
She told me this was when we first started the show.
I was freaking fat, man. I was probably forty fifty
pounds of a year than what I actually was. But
if I didn't get that kick in the pants from
somebody who knew and loved me, then I wouldn't have
been able to change anything. So this guy actually cares
about you. He's saying oh and subliminal ways like hey,
you need to lose a few pounds Like that.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Is such a completely different situation about fiance significant other.
Speaker 6 (02:07):
That is where you're in a relationship where you're supposed
to say, yeah, this.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
Is a very good Okay, So he's showing right off
He's showing right off the bat. So he's showing right
off the bat that he cares. And you take issue
to that, all right.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Not only is saying.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
That you're wrong, he hates the way I am.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Hold on, guys, real quick, Darien, you agree with me,
You agree with Ashley, and I agree with you guys too.
Jad's in the right.
Speaker 7 (02:36):
I cannot even believe the words that are coming out
of just not this morning.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
What do you mean?
Speaker 7 (02:42):
I am genuinely shocked. You don't tell someone there's fat.
If your girl brings it up and says, hey, I'm
gaining a few pounds, maybe I should lose some weight.
You say, no, baby, you're gorgeous the way you are.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
No, no, no, sir, that's not love.
Speaker 4 (02:58):
No, it's yeah, exactly. She she is bring it. She's
the one who's bringing it up.
Speaker 7 (03:05):
So maybe she's looking to you the confirm that she's like.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
Still going, but you don't agree with her.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
What is the problem?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Why are we so hung up on looking some physical
standard anyway?
Speaker 6 (03:25):
Why can't someone be able to and.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
They still be physically attractive and loving, especially to the
person that they're planning on spending the rest of their life,
by the way.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Marie, go ahead, Hey, listen, Mia, get rid of this guy.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
It has nothing to do with your weight, has nothing
to do with that much.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
He cares about you.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
All this man cares about is controlling you.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Listening to the words he's using.
Speaker 6 (03:47):
He is a control freak.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Forget about it.
Speaker 5 (03:50):
Don't even lose a diamond, sleep over it. Goodbye, mister Daniel.
So so let's unpet this really quick. Please listen, let's
unpack it. We definitely got some insecurities going.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
On, right real quick, hold on before Night gets into this.
Actually he brings up a great point. Let me reset
this for everyone so they know what's going on. Daniel
calls us four left on Red, wants to know why
Mia hasn't called him back after he thought the date
was awesome. Mia says, hey, right right off the jump,
(04:28):
he kept on bringing up the gym he's bringing up
to Jim. I think he's calling me big. I think
that he's trying to get me to work out. I
don't want to be with a guy like that. Daniel,
You right right, we could play it. You said, hey,
you could afford to lose a little bit, Nitro take
it away.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
All right, perfect? So MEA definitely have some insecurities going on, right, No,
I don't.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I'm happy that I am. The problem is that Daniel
is an ass for trying to make me be something
that I'm already o. I'm okay with how I am.
He's trying to make me something different.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
I'm totally agree with you. I'm gonna agree with you
on that, Daniel, way too soon, right bringing up the
gym way too. This is the first date, Like, that's
unbelievable to me. I think there's some kind of underlying
issue there, Like I'm almost thinking that he has like
an X at the gym that he wanted to make
jealous or something like why are you trying to force
(05:27):
her to go to the gym?
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Like was excited I met Mia and I was like, man,
if she could just get fit, she'd be perfect because
I haven't met a girls in a while.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
You know, you're such a disgusting human, Daniel. You're gonna
get old one day and got what, You're gonna get
fat too. But guess what, one thing is always going
to stay the same size, and that's unfortunate for you.
Speaker 5 (05:47):
M M Daniel. Wait wait, wait, we're taking it too far, Uh, Daniel,
I do understand that perspective. Also, like you see something
in her, you say, she has a great personality and
you actually want to date me up. But you're just like, hey,
you know, just come work out with me a little bit,
you know, so you'll be more aesthetically pleasing.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
But you're saying, is crazy, this is crazy, this is crazy.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
It is crazy. But it's a way that you do that, Dan,
y'all can tell you probably it's a way that you
do that, like, and it's not on the first date.
It can be something over time, Like if you're spending
time together, you're gonna gravelly, you're gonna automatically gravitate towards
each other's hobbies. Right, So she's gonna see that you're
working out a lot, and I'm.
Speaker 8 (06:36):
Like, hey, you know you're going to the gym, Boddy, like, hey.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
You know, just come with me a few times like that.
You don't just you don't just tell her no, no, no,
It kind of do work out that way, are you.
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Let's just put it this way. If he was trying
to make an ex jealous, he clearly wouldn't be bringing
her to the gym right away.
Speaker 8 (06:58):
Oh, come on, and.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Me and me and me and me and MEA thank you, Daniel,
thank you mia I. I am so sorry that these
guys are a holes, and I wish I could say
the whole thing they're asses.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
But at least they've they've said it for themselves on radio.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
There you go exactly. You're beautiful. I hope you know
that you are. And we'll talk to you. Yep, we'll
talk to you later
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