November 4, 2025 • 8 mins
Joe saw a survey that claims honest people say these phrases... but what are the other phrases honest people say?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So I don't want to know if you say that.
(00:01):
I mean, if you do say that, that's pretty awesome.
Ashley Terry jed myself. I want to know if you
say these lists of things. So you ready, you tell
me if you said this before? No offense, but of course, Okay,
I'm just being real with you. Ashley said that you're
(00:21):
too sensitive. You can just be honest. You can't take
a joke. No, no, okay, right, that's good two for four.
I say this because I care. I've said that. Okay,
(00:41):
not to be rude, but I've said that. I've said that.
Everyone thinks it. I'm just the only one who's brave
enough to say that's so rude. Eight ninety three. This
is the list of things that honest people say. People
(01:03):
who self identify as being honest actually say hurtful things.
You want more on the I want to hear these.
It's for your own good. Are you laughing? I've heard
those things before, and I don't think those are coming
from honest people. You're gonna like this one? You ready
(01:25):
for this one? You've done well for yourself, considering that
sounds like a slimy thing to say, hey, you've done
well for yourself considering fill in the blae. What more time.
This is a list of things that people who identify
with being honest. I'm not even done. You want more.
(01:50):
I know you like it. Let's see if anyone else does.
Here's like the number one, with all due respect.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
God hate I use that one, so I'm gonna hand
up on that one.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
But a lot. And there's one more that I know
for a fact. Jedu, Oh God, I'm just gonna tell
you like it is. And he said, this is an
honest person. Yeah, so one more time. Ready, I'm just
(02:23):
gonna tell it like it is with all due respect.
You've done well for yourself, considering it's for your own good.
Everyone thinks it. I'm just the one that's brave enough
to say it, not to be rude, but I say
this because I care. You can't take a joke, you're
too sensitive. I'm just being real with you. And last
(02:45):
one no offense. But yeah, those are all like I
don't know, the thing is, we've all said those things.
Jet's just said more of them. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
True, I'm the man of the cliches. Those are cliche sayings, though,
what do you mean I feel like just because they're
used in so many movies, and just just what takes
the common phrases that people who identifies being and the
and the reason why I believe Ashley thinks that dishonest
(03:21):
people use it is because there's a lot of people
in movies television that are dishonest, that are dishonest characters
that say those like Tony Soprano.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
What was he saying? I really don't know what he
said at the end of those things.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
I don't think he knows what he said either.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
This's not making any sense at all. Why are you
acting like you know what he's saying.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
I don't know, he.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Says gobbol. I thought he was going to say one
of the things on the list. I was interested. Jules
were reading off the list of top phrases that people
who identifies being honesty, because there's a study that came
out that said people identify as being honest tend to
say very hurtful things. What's a common phrase from you?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
I love that for you? Oh, I love that for
you even though you really don't like it, like, oh
my god, I love that for you. And I catch
myself saying it all the time when it's.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Like I don't.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
I don't really love it, but it's like, okay, if
it makes you happy, I love that for you. And
a lot of those phrases that I think every phrase
you read off that list, I catch myself saying it
almost every day. So I guess I'm hurtful for being honest.
But honestly, they say the truth hurts. So I mean
sometimes you just got a lot of people make them
happy and not say them phrases.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
We got to add that one to the list. Truth hurts.
I love that hurts. The truth.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
I like to say is that it could be me
like I you got.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
One that you ever heard the must be nice? Yes,
that's when it come from somebody else that's the hated person.
I don't say that, you know, hater will be like,
must be nice.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
I don't like that one.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Like their way of saying, yeah, they're a little jelly.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I'm realizing that all of you have said these things
to me, So now I'm really starting to give you jewels.
I'll talk to you later. Tammy backhanded compliments, Yeah, if.
Speaker 6 (05:21):
You're doing so well. But I can't stand it when
people say things like, uh, I'm not trying to be
a bitch. But and then proceeds to be a bitch.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Yeah, that you're trying to soften the blow before they
continue to bitch about it.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Anybody knows that if I'm saying something slick mouth, I'm
trying to be exactly that exactly?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Are you a raggedy as I love you?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
I tell you one that our bosses, our boss Joe.
Sometimes he does this when you're getting it, We get nothing,
a bit of a heated argument, and then and then
you'll say something he'll respond with, I agree with you.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Bye, Oh my god. It drives me insane. What do
you agree with me? Argument over? We don't need to
go back this path, Sarah. We're talking about the top
phrases that people who self identify as being honest say.
Some of those are you can't take a joke. Another
one is not to be rude. But how about this one?
(06:32):
It's for your own good? And then I'll read one more.
How about you've done well for yourself considering blank. Go ahead, Sarah.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
So I just heard you will come on and say
that or love that for you, and I laughed because
I am one of those people that has probably said
almost every one of those phrases at one point or another. However,
I've also said it like at myself, like I've done
pretty well for myself considering everything I've been through and
(07:05):
all that, So I get it. But my other one,
when Jewels came on and said, uh, I love that
for you, I think that's one of those comes from
more of a negative kind.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Of place as opposed to all this.
Speaker 7 (07:21):
But my other one was, yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
That that checks out. So like if I hear something
super super fun and it's like, yeah, you know what
that yep, that that checks out for that situation or
that person.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
But I am one of those people that's like.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
All those phrases sound bad, but if it comes from
a place of genuine honesty, which I always say, there's
nothing that anyone can say about me that I haven't
already said about myself, or there's nothing that I would
say that I that I that I wouldn't say to
(07:59):
someone else is space. And I'm like, listen, it just
kind of is what it is like in other words, the.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
List of things that in other words, the list that
I just read off, the the things that people who
self identifies being honest say that others are deeming to
be hurtful. You say they're not hurtful. That's just being honest, right.
Speaker 7 (08:22):
I think if it comes from a genuine place here
for you and I am just trying to help, then.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Yet yeah, Sarah, that checks.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
It does
So I don't want to know if you say that.
(00:01):
I mean, if you do say that, that's pretty awesome.
Ashley Terry jed myself. I want to know if you
say these lists of things. So you ready, you tell
me if you said this before? No offense, but of course, Okay,
I'm just being real with you. Ashley said that you're
(00:21):
too sensitive. You can just be honest. You can't take
a joke. No, no, okay, right, that's good two for four.
I say this because I care. I've said that. Okay,
(00:41):
not to be rude, but I've said that. I've said that.
Everyone thinks it. I'm just the only one who's brave
enough to say that's so rude. Eight ninety three. This
is the list of things that honest people say. People
(01:03):
who self identify as being honest actually say hurtful things.
You want more on the I want to hear these.
It's for your own good. Are you laughing? I've heard
those things before, and I don't think those are coming
from honest people. You're gonna like this one? You ready
(01:25):
for this one? You've done well for yourself, considering that
sounds like a slimy thing to say, hey, you've done
well for yourself considering fill in the blae. What more time.
This is a list of things that people who identify
with being honest. I'm not even done. You want more.
(01:50):
I know you like it. Let's see if anyone else does.
Here's like the number one, with all due respect.
Speaker 2 (01:57):
God hate I use that one, so I'm gonna hand
up on that one.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
But a lot. And there's one more that I know
for a fact. Jedu, Oh God, I'm just gonna tell
you like it is. And he said, this is an
honest person. Yeah, so one more time. Ready, I'm just
(02:23):
gonna tell it like it is with all due respect.
You've done well for yourself, considering it's for your own good.
Everyone thinks it. I'm just the one that's brave enough
to say it, not to be rude, but I say
this because I care. You can't take a joke, you're
too sensitive. I'm just being real with you. And last
(02:45):
one no offense. But yeah, those are all like I
don't know, the thing is, we've all said those things.
Jet's just said more of them. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
True, I'm the man of the cliches. Those are cliche sayings, though,
what do you mean I feel like just because they're
used in so many movies, and just just what takes
the common phrases that people who identifies being and the
and the reason why I believe Ashley thinks that dishonest
(03:21):
people use it is because there's a lot of people
in movies television that are dishonest, that are dishonest characters
that say those like Tony Soprano.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
What was he saying? I really don't know what he
said at the end of those things.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
I don't think he knows what he said either.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
This's not making any sense at all. Why are you
acting like you know what he's saying.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
I don't know, he.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
Says gobbol. I thought he was going to say one
of the things on the list. I was interested. Jules
were reading off the list of top phrases that people
who identifies being honesty, because there's a study that came
out that said people identify as being honest tend to
say very hurtful things. What's a common phrase from you?
Speaker 3 (04:10):
I love that for you? Oh, I love that for
you even though you really don't like it, like, oh
my god, I love that for you. And I catch
myself saying it all the time when it's.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Like I don't.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
I don't really love it, but it's like, okay, if
it makes you happy, I love that for you. And
a lot of those phrases that I think every phrase
you read off that list, I catch myself saying it
almost every day. So I guess I'm hurtful for being honest.
But honestly, they say the truth hurts. So I mean
sometimes you just got a lot of people make them
happy and not say them phrases.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
We got to add that one to the list. Truth hurts.
I love that hurts. The truth.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
I like to say is that it could be me
like I you got.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
One that you ever heard the must be nice? Yes,
that's when it come from somebody else that's the hated person.
I don't say that, you know, hater will be like,
must be nice.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
I don't like that one.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Like their way of saying, yeah, they're a little jelly.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I'm realizing that all of you have said these things
to me, So now I'm really starting to give you jewels.
I'll talk to you later. Tammy backhanded compliments, Yeah, if.
Speaker 6 (05:21):
You're doing so well. But I can't stand it when
people say things like, uh, I'm not trying to be
a bitch. But and then proceeds to be a bitch.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Yeah, that you're trying to soften the blow before they
continue to bitch about it.
Speaker 6 (05:41):
Anybody knows that if I'm saying something slick mouth, I'm
trying to be exactly that exactly?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Are you a raggedy as I love you?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
I tell you one that our bosses, our boss Joe.
Sometimes he does this when you're getting it, We get nothing,
a bit of a heated argument, and then and then
you'll say something he'll respond with, I agree with you.
Speaker 1 (06:08):
Bye, Oh my god. It drives me insane. What do
you agree with me? Argument over? We don't need to
go back this path, Sarah. We're talking about the top
phrases that people who self identify as being honest say.
Some of those are you can't take a joke. Another
one is not to be rude. But how about this one?
(06:32):
It's for your own good? And then I'll read one more.
How about you've done well for yourself considering blank. Go ahead, Sarah.
Speaker 7 (06:43):
So I just heard you will come on and say
that or love that for you, and I laughed because
I am one of those people that has probably said
almost every one of those phrases at one point or another. However,
I've also said it like at myself, like I've done
pretty well for myself considering everything I've been through and
(07:05):
all that, So I get it. But my other one,
when Jewels came on and said, uh, I love that
for you, I think that's one of those comes from
more of a negative kind.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Of place as opposed to all this.
Speaker 7 (07:21):
But my other one was, yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
That that checks out. So like if I hear something
super super fun and it's like, yeah, you know what
that yep, that that checks out for that situation or
that person.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
But I am one of those people that's like.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
All those phrases sound bad, but if it comes from
a place of genuine honesty, which I always say, there's
nothing that anyone can say about me that I haven't
already said about myself, or there's nothing that I would
say that I that I that I wouldn't say to
(07:59):
someone else is space. And I'm like, listen, it just
kind of is what it is like in other words, the.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
List of things that in other words, the list that
I just read off, the the things that people who
self identifies being honest say that others are deeming to
be hurtful. You say they're not hurtful. That's just being honest, right.
Speaker 7 (08:22):
I think if it comes from a genuine place here
for you and I am just trying to help, then.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Yet yeah, Sarah, that checks.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
It does
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