December 15, 2025 • 9 mins
Over the weekend Ashley ended up going to see Brandy and Monica in concert... but what happened with Ray J back stage?!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, I want to talk about ray J. This is crazy.
Ashley hung out with ray J over the weekend. Yeah,
a guy who uh.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Well, yeah, Brandy's little brother. I was gonna say more
so sex taper too, that too, that too. Talk to
us about that whole entire situation.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
And then eight hundred four O nine ninety three, ninety three,
I want to know if you got abandoned on your
family trip, or if you were on a trip at
all and you got abandoned and you had to figure
out a way to get home and the group that
you were with didn't really want you to be with
them anymore, or maybe you kick someone out of your
family trip. Eight hundred four O nine ninety three, ninety three.
(00:40):
You saw him as he's on tour with his sister.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, he's just on tour and every now and again,
the DJ will play a song one wish he won't
perform it, but he'll perform it just like in the
crowd walking around. He's definitely the problem sibling for sure,
because he's walking around as his sister Brandy's performing. He
is just trying to steal the shines in their songs,
louder than them. And then we happened to go to
(01:04):
the side of the stage. I think I sent you
a video, Joe of him singing just all in his feelings,
but he's the problem jolt. He was going around backstage saying,
jay Z and Beyonce don't respect.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Him, no respect.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Everybody's like he even says, because I was trying to
record more of him saying that, he goes, I can't say.
I don't camera my mo. Mom told me to like,
chill out. Mom told me to chill out. So like
when the cameras are off, he is rowdy, turning up,
yelling at people, not just literally, He's saying that all
night and then as soon as the camera comes on,
he goes, hey, my mom told me not to say that.
(01:38):
I gotta be a good guy. I was like, show
and anybody don't got no respect.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
We're gonna blast you.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
If you think ray J is not like that, he
that's him, like that is who he is. So when
he got stranded, I believe he was in channel side
all these people tagging me, Hey, we just saw you
with ray J.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
You might want to go pick him up. I'm like, no,
I see how he is in real life. I don't
even want to ride in a car with this man.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
He's come on.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
And as the youngest sibling, I know I am insane?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Is that the case is your brother, Luke.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
But we do some wild and crazy things. We're unpredictable children.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
That is true. Hey, one more time, ray J shout
out to the Joe Show and anybody don't got no respect,
We're going to blast you. That's right.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Oh yeah, I was like, right, I shot the job
show right now, so I got you.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Did he look at you like you were crazy? When
you say no, I'm done?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
He was so cool. It's literally just like hanging out
with friends, Like he can come in the studio and
just kick it with us.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
I'm not even joking.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Absolutely, I wish he was still here National Friday. During
the show he was international just walking around because I'm like,
why are they right posting him on their social run.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I saw I'm wearing a Bucks hat, which was really Yeah,
famous people wear Tampa Bay gear. Hey Ryan, Hey, I
was going it's going good Ryan. When you were in
high school and what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Uh so?
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
This was back in England.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
I was on a trip called the Duke of Edinburgh
Awards and we were on a hike, like a three
hour hike, and we all got back to the bus.
I went to go use the restroom and by the
time I got back, the bus was gone.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
What happened? I would be terrified.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
I just kind of sat on a bench for a
couple of hours, just wandered about.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
You didn't call the police help me.
Speaker 5 (03:45):
I didn't have my phone on me because of like
the school trip rules.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Phone.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
How old? How long ago was this?
Speaker 5 (03:57):
I'd say this was like eight years ago? Maybe I
was around faulting.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
And when you look back on it, is that why
you moved to America?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
No doubt.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Let's be fine, that's right, Yeah, I think so?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
No kidding? Did you take the what's it called? Mind
the gap?
Speaker 2 (04:21):
What is that? What do you call the subway? The
l No, that's Chicago the soup.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
We have metro links. Sure, London on the ground I
think you're thinking of. I was in Manchester, not London.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Bad, my bad. How long have you been in Northport, Oh?
Speaker 4 (04:45):
I've been there for around six years now.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
And do you have any plans on going back or
is this home?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
This is home for now? I definitely go back to
that's a vacation like years.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
But you're a Floridian now you like Florida.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Oh yeah, man, oh yeah, man.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah, come on, give me your best American accent. Hey, everybody,
I'll like listening to the Joe Show.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
To the Joe Show.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
That's pretty good. That's pretty good.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Your voice gets deeper as an American man.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Yeah, thank you for listening. Ryan, I really appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
And hey, get your get your family to download the
iHeartRadio up and then they'll be able to Yeah, but
they'll listen. They'll be able to hear you and and
hear you talk about this right now overseas.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
I'll absolutely convince them.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
I love it. Thank you, Ryan, appreciate it. And hey, guys,
that's what I want for Christmas. By the way, to
real quick, I would love if you guys could get
some people streaming us on the iHeartRadio app before we
leave for the new year. I would love if in
six it's the year that we break a lot of
streaming records via that I Heart Radio app. And the
best way we can do that is with you and
(06:09):
telling friends and even getting people. I don't know what happened,
but something's happening in Illinois lately where we have a
lot of people listening to Illinois and the Nebraska. And
I don't know what happened, but shout out. Maybe you
guys got a lot of family over there or something. Hey, Ash,
go ahead. You went to Texas and you got stranded.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Yeah. I went on a family trip for a conventional
with my mom to Texas and we were in Walmart
and basically everything had a time limit. She told me like,
if you go in line and by the eyeliner, I'm
leaving you in this Walmart. And I went in line
and about the eyeliner, and she's definitely left me in
a Walmart for like four hours.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Yet to teach you a lesson. Man, I teach you
a lesson.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
When you look back on that, do you give her
crap for it now? And does she like say, like, listen,
I was a busy mom and you ran away from
me or what?
Speaker 6 (07:02):
No, she doesn't know, like what I like, what happened
after she left me? She was like, hey, Magan, like nothing,
like everything was just normal.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
My parents tried to purposely lose me at Disneyland one
time to teach me a lesson, and I was just
happy to be away from it. I was like, oh,
this was actually a lot of fun. Really backfired for them.
Thank you Ash Brian, you were in Peru and you
got left.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Yeah, Ryan, I was at Peru. I was on a bus,
uh going to the Pause, Bolivia, and I didn't realize it,
but being an American citizen, I needed a visa for
for South America. Only countries need visas, and once I
got got the cares that I need because they only
(07:50):
take American currency and I didn't have any of that
my time at the time. But when I got back
to the border, the.
Speaker 8 (07:58):
Boss was gone and everything on the bus too, which
was kind of scary. The thing was, I was stamped
out of Peru and they wouldn't let me into Bolivia.
Speaker 7 (08:12):
So I and my Spanish sucks. So I had to
go to the police station and they gave me a
pass for three days in order to go to Pause,
Olivia to get my path on my visa at time.
So that was pretty crazy.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Yeah, no kidding, that sounds like money to these country.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
And if you ever get trapped in Peru, just go
tell people to download the iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
Can you do that?
Speaker 7 (08:41):
I go. I'm at sixty nine countries now it's a
lots of traveling for me. That's been fun.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Sixty nine you said.
Speaker 7 (08:50):
Sixty nine countries. I actually just got back two weeks
ago from the UK, Fell Islands and Ice one, and.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Then before before that would have been sixty eight countries.
Speaker 8 (09:02):
I was.
Speaker 7 (09:04):
It was that sixty sicks in the UK with sixty
seven and very
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Thank you Brian, you're the best.
Hey, I want to talk about ray J. This is crazy.
Ashley hung out with ray J over the weekend. Yeah,
a guy who uh.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Well, yeah, Brandy's little brother. I was gonna say more
so sex taper too, that too, that too. Talk to
us about that whole entire situation.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
And then eight hundred four O nine ninety three, ninety three,
I want to know if you got abandoned on your
family trip, or if you were on a trip at
all and you got abandoned and you had to figure
out a way to get home and the group that
you were with didn't really want you to be with
them anymore, or maybe you kick someone out of your
family trip. Eight hundred four O nine ninety three, ninety three.
(00:40):
You saw him as he's on tour with his sister.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, he's just on tour and every now and again,
the DJ will play a song one wish he won't
perform it, but he'll perform it just like in the
crowd walking around. He's definitely the problem sibling for sure,
because he's walking around as his sister Brandy's performing. He
is just trying to steal the shines in their songs,
louder than them. And then we happened to go to
(01:04):
the side of the stage. I think I sent you
a video, Joe of him singing just all in his feelings,
but he's the problem jolt. He was going around backstage saying,
jay Z and Beyonce don't respect.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Him, no respect.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
Everybody's like he even says, because I was trying to
record more of him saying that, he goes, I can't say.
I don't camera my mo. Mom told me to like,
chill out. Mom told me to chill out. So like
when the cameras are off, he is rowdy, turning up,
yelling at people, not just literally, He's saying that all
night and then as soon as the camera comes on,
he goes, hey, my mom told me not to say that.
(01:38):
I gotta be a good guy. I was like, show
and anybody don't got no respect.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
We're gonna blast you.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
If you think ray J is not like that, he
that's him, like that is who he is. So when
he got stranded, I believe he was in channel side
all these people tagging me, Hey, we just saw you
with ray J.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
You might want to go pick him up. I'm like, no,
I see how he is in real life. I don't
even want to ride in a car with this man.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
He's come on.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
And as the youngest sibling, I know I am insane?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Is that the case is your brother, Luke.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
But we do some wild and crazy things. We're unpredictable children.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
That is true. Hey, one more time, ray J shout
out to the Joe Show and anybody don't got no respect,
We're going to blast you. That's right.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Oh yeah, I was like, right, I shot the job
show right now, so I got you.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
Did he look at you like you were crazy? When
you say no, I'm done?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
He was so cool. It's literally just like hanging out
with friends, Like he can come in the studio and
just kick it with us.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
I'm not even joking.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Absolutely, I wish he was still here National Friday. During
the show he was international just walking around because I'm like,
why are they right posting him on their social run.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I saw I'm wearing a Bucks hat, which was really Yeah,
famous people wear Tampa Bay gear. Hey Ryan, Hey, I
was going it's going good Ryan. When you were in
high school and what happened?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Uh so?
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
This was back in England.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
I was on a trip called the Duke of Edinburgh
Awards and we were on a hike, like a three
hour hike, and we all got back to the bus.
I went to go use the restroom and by the
time I got back, the bus was gone.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
What happened? I would be terrified.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
I just kind of sat on a bench for a
couple of hours, just wandered about.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
You didn't call the police help me.
Speaker 5 (03:45):
I didn't have my phone on me because of like
the school trip rules.
Speaker 4 (03:52):
Phone.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
How old? How long ago was this?
Speaker 5 (03:57):
I'd say this was like eight years ago? Maybe I
was around faulting.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
And when you look back on it, is that why
you moved to America?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
No doubt.
Speaker 4 (04:12):
Let's be fine, that's right, Yeah, I think so?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
No kidding? Did you take the what's it called? Mind
the gap?
Speaker 2 (04:21):
What is that? What do you call the subway? The
l No, that's Chicago the soup.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
We have metro links. Sure, London on the ground I
think you're thinking of. I was in Manchester, not London.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Bad, my bad. How long have you been in Northport, Oh?
Speaker 4 (04:45):
I've been there for around six years now.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
And do you have any plans on going back or
is this home?
Speaker 4 (04:55):
This is home for now? I definitely go back to
that's a vacation like years.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
But you're a Floridian now you like Florida.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Oh yeah, man, oh yeah, man.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah, come on, give me your best American accent. Hey, everybody,
I'll like listening to the Joe Show.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
To the Joe Show.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
That's pretty good. That's pretty good.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Your voice gets deeper as an American man.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Yeah, thank you for listening. Ryan, I really appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
And hey, get your get your family to download the
iHeartRadio up and then they'll be able to Yeah, but
they'll listen. They'll be able to hear you and and
hear you talk about this right now overseas.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
I'll absolutely convince them.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
I love it. Thank you, Ryan, appreciate it. And hey, guys,
that's what I want for Christmas. By the way, to
real quick, I would love if you guys could get
some people streaming us on the iHeartRadio app before we
leave for the new year. I would love if in
six it's the year that we break a lot of
streaming records via that I Heart Radio app. And the
best way we can do that is with you and
(06:09):
telling friends and even getting people. I don't know what happened,
but something's happening in Illinois lately where we have a
lot of people listening to Illinois and the Nebraska. And
I don't know what happened, but shout out. Maybe you
guys got a lot of family over there or something. Hey, Ash,
go ahead. You went to Texas and you got stranded.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Yeah. I went on a family trip for a conventional
with my mom to Texas and we were in Walmart
and basically everything had a time limit. She told me like,
if you go in line and by the eyeliner, I'm
leaving you in this Walmart. And I went in line
and about the eyeliner, and she's definitely left me in
a Walmart for like four hours.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Yet to teach you a lesson. Man, I teach you
a lesson.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
When you look back on that, do you give her
crap for it now? And does she like say, like, listen,
I was a busy mom and you ran away from
me or what?
Speaker 6 (07:02):
No, she doesn't know, like what I like, what happened
after she left me? She was like, hey, Magan, like nothing,
like everything was just normal.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
My parents tried to purposely lose me at Disneyland one
time to teach me a lesson, and I was just
happy to be away from it. I was like, oh,
this was actually a lot of fun. Really backfired for them.
Thank you Ash Brian, you were in Peru and you
got left.
Speaker 7 (07:30):
Yeah, Ryan, I was at Peru. I was on a bus,
uh going to the Pause, Bolivia, and I didn't realize it,
but being an American citizen, I needed a visa for
for South America. Only countries need visas, and once I
got got the cares that I need because they only
(07:50):
take American currency and I didn't have any of that
my time at the time. But when I got back
to the border, the.
Speaker 8 (07:58):
Boss was gone and everything on the bus too, which
was kind of scary. The thing was, I was stamped
out of Peru and they wouldn't let me into Bolivia.
Speaker 7 (08:12):
So I and my Spanish sucks. So I had to
go to the police station and they gave me a
pass for three days in order to go to Pause,
Olivia to get my path on my visa at time.
So that was pretty crazy.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
Yeah, no kidding, that sounds like money to these country.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
And if you ever get trapped in Peru, just go
tell people to download the iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 4 (08:39):
Can you do that?
Speaker 7 (08:41):
I go. I'm at sixty nine countries now it's a
lots of traveling for me. That's been fun.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Sixty nine you said.
Speaker 7 (08:50):
Sixty nine countries. I actually just got back two weeks
ago from the UK, Fell Islands and Ice one, and.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Then before before that would have been sixty eight countries.
Speaker 8 (09:02):
I was.
Speaker 7 (09:04):
It was that sixty sicks in the UK with sixty
seven and very
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Thank you Brian, you're the best.
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