December 16, 2025 • 9 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
N s l Z four of the Roses on The
Joe Show, Danielle before the company party, did you ever
think that Kevin could be cheating on you? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Maybe, yeah, yeah, I think, I think, I think.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
So there's been a couple other signs.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Well, well then let's talk about those signs first.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
And then we'll we'll talk about that party you went
to with them. When you say there's other signs, because
I don't have anything about this notes from Jed, what
are those other signs?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
What? What's made you think that you know your boyfriend's
cheating on you?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Well, we've we've especially in the last couple of months,
we've been pretty much spending the night together almost every night,
kind of like back and forth between our places.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
But there there's usually a couple of nights where we're
not together and when when on those nights he like
never texts me. He used to text me all the time,
And it's definitely like a different pattern how it was,
(01:21):
you know, when we first started going out. So it
just feels like a little weird.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
When you bring that up to him, what does.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
He say, Just that he's really busy and that he
knew he would like see me soon.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
So yeah, that is uh, that's not good. You go
to his company's Christmas party.
Speaker 5 (01:44):
I mean it seems like everything's good when you guys
are together, right, So you guys are having a good night,
but when you're meeting his coworkers, they're saying something to
you that had you kind of freaking out.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Do I have that right?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:58):
What were they saying?
Speaker 3 (02:02):
They were just saying like, oh, I had no idea
Kevin had a girlfriend, and like oh, like oh really,
like I didn't know, or like, oh, you've been dating
almost a year, like yeah, like just no no clue
that I existed.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Last note and then like I said, we'll call him.
But you have a friend that you're pretty close with
who doesn't necessarily like him.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Yeah, that's that's true. Yeah, she's she's just like I
get a weird vibe. I think, yeah she does.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
All right, Well, listen, I think that we've got enough.
I don't want you to continue to wait. I think
that we just give him a call. I'm gonna put
you on hold right now, Ashley, do you have all
the infamiliar Yeah, yeah, let's just call him.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
I'm ready, all right. Jedd just gave me that thumbs up.
So we have called Kavin. Let's see if he picks up.
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Hello. Hi, is this Kevin?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Who's this?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (03:16):
Kevin? My name is Cale. I'm actually calling from Beautiful Blossoms.
We're a new flower store in Saint Pete and I
was calling to see if you can do a quick
survey for us, and I would offer you a dozen
long sum red roses for free. Can you help us
out by doing this quick survey? Nuts again, Kevin, it
will be very quick and you can send these roses
to whoever you want. I'm telling you you're gonna make
(03:38):
somebody's day. Can you help us by just taking two questions?
Answering two questions?
Speaker 4 (03:41):
It sounds like a scam.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
It's not a scam. I'm not even going to ask
for your credit card information. We're just a brand new
store trying to get our name out there and it's
gonna help with word of mouth and on social media
campus out Uh real, Quar, I do need to let
you know this call us be recorded for quality and
training purposes. Are you okay with that?
Speaker 4 (03:59):
That's fine?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Perfect? Do you plan on purchasing flowers in the next
six months?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Maybe?
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Have you purchased flowers in the last six months. Uh
no one, All right, now I do need a first
and last name before you want to send these roses too.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
You could send them to ari L.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
All right, are you? And with these roses we do
include a note, So what would you like to say
to Ario?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
You can do it. Hey, babe, hope you enjoyed this
little surprise, joy, this little.
Speaker 6 (04:39):
Oh r. She's truly going to enjoy these. Kevin, thank
you so much for helping us out.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Now.
Speaker 6 (04:45):
I'm actually gonna transfer you over to shipping and handling.
They're going to gather some more information and it should
be very very quickly.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Okay, okay, Hi is this Kevin?
Speaker 7 (04:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (04:57):
Hi, Kevin, Kevin, thank you so much for taking time
to have us out. I'm gonna make this super quick
so you can move on with your day. Confirmation on
the the name is it Ariel? Is it ari Who
are we.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Sending these to?
Speaker 7 (05:09):
Is Ariel?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Are yell? Okay? Not Danielle? What We're not gonna send
these to your girlfriend?
Speaker 5 (05:26):
What?
Speaker 4 (05:26):
What the is going on? You tell me what is
going on? I don't even know who you are. I
don't know, I don't know what's happening right now okay.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
Yeah, So my name is Joe. You're actually on the
radio right now, and your one girlfriend. See, I don't
know how many girlfriends you have, but Daniella hit us
up to see if you would send her flowers. So,
I mean, you and I can just talk and figure
out what happened there, and we could do something else too,
(05:58):
But you tell me what's been going on. I don't
know what you want me to say, Danielle. Maybe you
can get him to kind of tell us who this
other woman is.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Do you want to talk to him, Danielle?
Speaker 2 (06:18):
I who who is are l?
Speaker 5 (06:23):
Are you?
Speaker 7 (06:24):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Are you sleeping with her? Yeah? I am.
Speaker 7 (06:35):
What Listen, Danielle, what everything I like?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
I said, so, how many women are you sleeping with?
Speaker 5 (06:48):
I'm you?
Speaker 3 (06:50):
You said no, You're the only one.
Speaker 7 (06:52):
So I told you I wanted to keep the casual
early on.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
I don't know what you want to say.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
I know he's gonna hurt your feelings just to hear
the truth. So yeah, I'm not gonna tell you I'm
just going around hooking up with other people.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Other people.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Yeah, six months ago, six months ago, we were keeping
it casual.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Now you're not bactically living at.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
My plate, Kevin, Kevin, you just said people, how many
people are you hooking up with?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Oh my god, that's not the point.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
It is a point where you're also sleeping with her,
like let her know what's going on, just for safety measures.
Speaker 7 (07:22):
When I start meeting up with people and hanging out
with people, I'm very clear early on that I want
to be casual.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Yeah, but what's casual about going to a company party?
Why would you bring Danielle to a company party?
Speaker 7 (07:34):
I care about dan Yelle. It's not that I don't
care about her and stuff.
Speaker 5 (07:37):
I mean not enough to tell her though that like, hey,
we're not exclusive, just so you know, when I'm hooking
up with other people, you obviously don't care about her
enough to do that.
Speaker 7 (07:45):
No, I think that, uh, there's a time and place.
Maybe she's the one that I'm gonna move forward with exclusively.
I don't know, but that's something that I need to
figure out. Rat mother, Okay, is this you're putting me
on the bringing me on this sort of trapped scenario
(08:08):
so that you can it sounds like you already knew
your You trapped.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Yourself, you trapped the help.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Yeah, I trapped.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
I trapped myself on the audio you put me on
with the radio.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
You kidding me?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
How many people are you sleeping with?
Speaker 5 (08:24):
You know what?
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (08:26):
One?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
One?
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Less? After this, I can tell you that.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
You're like Kevin.
Speaker 6 (08:33):
I will no remorse for her at all, Kevin now, honestly.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
But this.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
Listen to how she speaks. This is I could already.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
Speaking from a place that hurt, like you cheated on her.
Speaker 7 (08:45):
You are unbelievable, like just been so obsessed with me NonStop,
and I can't get the away.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
You are so too bad obsessed with you. I can't
get you to leave my place.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
You're always at my place.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
We are together almost every single night. Well, I don't
know what to tell you, because this is not anymore.
Speaker 7 (09:18):
I've done.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Yeah, this is this is this is ninety three three
fl
N s l Z four of the Roses on The
Joe Show, Danielle before the company party, did you ever
think that Kevin could be cheating on you? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
Maybe, yeah, yeah, I think, I think, I think.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
So there's been a couple other signs.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Well, well then let's talk about those signs first.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
And then we'll we'll talk about that party you went
to with them. When you say there's other signs, because
I don't have anything about this notes from Jed, what
are those other signs?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
What? What's made you think that you know your boyfriend's
cheating on you?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Well, we've we've especially in the last couple of months,
we've been pretty much spending the night together almost every night,
kind of like back and forth between our places.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
But there there's usually a couple of nights where we're
not together and when when on those nights he like
never texts me. He used to text me all the time,
And it's definitely like a different pattern how it was,
(01:21):
you know, when we first started going out. So it
just feels like a little weird.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
When you bring that up to him, what does.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
He say, Just that he's really busy and that he
knew he would like see me soon.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
So yeah, that is uh, that's not good. You go
to his company's Christmas party.
Speaker 5 (01:44):
I mean it seems like everything's good when you guys
are together, right, So you guys are having a good night,
but when you're meeting his coworkers, they're saying something to
you that had you kind of freaking out.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Do I have that right?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:58):
What were they saying?
Speaker 3 (02:02):
They were just saying like, oh, I had no idea
Kevin had a girlfriend, and like oh, like oh really,
like I didn't know, or like, oh, you've been dating
almost a year, like yeah, like just no no clue
that I existed.
Speaker 5 (02:24):
Last note and then like I said, we'll call him.
But you have a friend that you're pretty close with
who doesn't necessarily like him.
Speaker 3 (02:34):
Yeah, that's that's true. Yeah, she's she's just like I
get a weird vibe. I think, yeah she does.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
All right, Well, listen, I think that we've got enough.
I don't want you to continue to wait. I think
that we just give him a call. I'm gonna put
you on hold right now, Ashley, do you have all
the infamiliar Yeah, yeah, let's just call him.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
I'm ready, all right. Jedd just gave me that thumbs up.
So we have called Kavin. Let's see if he picks up.
Speaker 6 (03:10):
Hello. Hi, is this Kevin?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Who's this?
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Hi?
Speaker 6 (03:16):
Kevin? My name is Cale. I'm actually calling from Beautiful Blossoms.
We're a new flower store in Saint Pete and I
was calling to see if you can do a quick
survey for us, and I would offer you a dozen
long sum red roses for free. Can you help us
out by doing this quick survey? Nuts again, Kevin, it
will be very quick and you can send these roses
to whoever you want. I'm telling you you're gonna make
(03:38):
somebody's day. Can you help us by just taking two questions?
Answering two questions?
Speaker 4 (03:41):
It sounds like a scam.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
It's not a scam. I'm not even going to ask
for your credit card information. We're just a brand new
store trying to get our name out there and it's
gonna help with word of mouth and on social media
campus out Uh real, Quar, I do need to let
you know this call us be recorded for quality and
training purposes. Are you okay with that?
Speaker 4 (03:59):
That's fine?
Speaker 6 (04:00):
Perfect? Do you plan on purchasing flowers in the next
six months?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (04:05):
Maybe?
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Have you purchased flowers in the last six months. Uh
no one, All right, now I do need a first
and last name before you want to send these roses too.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
You could send them to ari L.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
All right, are you? And with these roses we do
include a note, So what would you like to say
to Ario?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
You can do it. Hey, babe, hope you enjoyed this
little surprise, joy, this little.
Speaker 6 (04:39):
Oh r. She's truly going to enjoy these. Kevin, thank
you so much for helping us out.
Speaker 4 (04:45):
Now.
Speaker 6 (04:45):
I'm actually gonna transfer you over to shipping and handling.
They're going to gather some more information and it should
be very very quickly.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Okay, okay, Hi is this Kevin?
Speaker 7 (04:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (04:57):
Hi, Kevin, Kevin, thank you so much for taking time
to have us out. I'm gonna make this super quick
so you can move on with your day. Confirmation on
the the name is it Ariel? Is it ari Who
are we.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Sending these to?
Speaker 7 (05:09):
Is Ariel?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Are yell? Okay? Not Danielle? What We're not gonna send
these to your girlfriend?
Speaker 5 (05:26):
What?
Speaker 4 (05:26):
What the is going on? You tell me what is
going on? I don't even know who you are. I
don't know, I don't know what's happening right now okay.
Speaker 5 (05:37):
Yeah, So my name is Joe. You're actually on the
radio right now, and your one girlfriend. See, I don't
know how many girlfriends you have, but Daniella hit us
up to see if you would send her flowers. So,
I mean, you and I can just talk and figure
out what happened there, and we could do something else too,
(05:58):
But you tell me what's been going on. I don't
know what you want me to say, Danielle. Maybe you
can get him to kind of tell us who this
other woman is.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Do you want to talk to him, Danielle?
Speaker 2 (06:18):
I who who is are l?
Speaker 5 (06:23):
Are you?
Speaker 7 (06:24):
Are you?
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Are you sleeping with her? Yeah? I am.
Speaker 7 (06:35):
What Listen, Danielle, what everything I like?
Speaker 3 (06:45):
I said, so, how many women are you sleeping with?
Speaker 5 (06:48):
I'm you?
Speaker 3 (06:50):
You said no, You're the only one.
Speaker 7 (06:52):
So I told you I wanted to keep the casual
early on.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
I don't know what you want to say.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
I know he's gonna hurt your feelings just to hear
the truth. So yeah, I'm not gonna tell you I'm
just going around hooking up with other people.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
Other people.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Yeah, six months ago, six months ago, we were keeping
it casual.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Now you're not bactically living at.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
My plate, Kevin, Kevin, you just said people, how many
people are you hooking up with?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Oh my god, that's not the point.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
It is a point where you're also sleeping with her,
like let her know what's going on, just for safety measures.
Speaker 7 (07:22):
When I start meeting up with people and hanging out
with people, I'm very clear early on that I want
to be casual.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Yeah, but what's casual about going to a company party?
Why would you bring Danielle to a company party?
Speaker 7 (07:34):
I care about dan Yelle. It's not that I don't
care about her and stuff.
Speaker 5 (07:37):
I mean not enough to tell her though that like, hey,
we're not exclusive, just so you know, when I'm hooking
up with other people, you obviously don't care about her
enough to do that.
Speaker 7 (07:45):
No, I think that, uh, there's a time and place.
Maybe she's the one that I'm gonna move forward with exclusively.
I don't know, but that's something that I need to
figure out. Rat mother, Okay, is this you're putting me
on the bringing me on this sort of trapped scenario
(08:08):
so that you can it sounds like you already knew
your You trapped.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Yourself, you trapped the help.
Speaker 4 (08:15):
Yeah, I trapped.
Speaker 7 (08:16):
I trapped myself on the audio you put me on
with the radio.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
You kidding me?
Speaker 3 (08:21):
How many people are you sleeping with?
Speaker 5 (08:24):
You know what?
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (08:26):
One?
Speaker 1 (08:26):
One?
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Less? After this, I can tell you that.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
You're like Kevin.
Speaker 6 (08:33):
I will no remorse for her at all, Kevin now, honestly.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
But this.
Speaker 7 (08:39):
Listen to how she speaks. This is I could already.
Speaker 6 (08:42):
Speaking from a place that hurt, like you cheated on her.
Speaker 7 (08:45):
You are unbelievable, like just been so obsessed with me NonStop,
and I can't get the away.
Speaker 2 (08:56):
You are so too bad obsessed with you. I can't
get you to leave my place.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
You're always at my place.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
We are together almost every single night. Well, I don't
know what to tell you, because this is not anymore.
Speaker 7 (09:18):
I've done.
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Yeah, this is this is this is ninety three three
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