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Why are you not getting a call back? This is
the Joe Show's left unrd A ninety three three fl Z. Shelby, Hi, Hi,
I already talked to Dax, so yeah, I'm just gonna
I'll pick that's up right now.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
Hey Dax, Hey, what's up?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Hey? So I told Shelby that we did talk Shelby,
we talked last night so we could save like the
awkward hellos and everything. I just think, Dax, you're you
be honest about this, and I genuinely I feel like
this is just a misunderstanding. But yeah, why didn't she
call her back?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Uh? Well, honestly, to be honest, he's she's completely vain
and self absorbed and really really full of herself. So
that's probably the biggest reason. Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, Shelby,
you're a very Oh I'm not I'm not kidding you. Yeah.
The whole time we were on our date, you would
(01:03):
not stop looking at yourself any reflective surface, including your
cell phone case that has a mirror. Yeah, oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
That's great. And I'm just confident and you and you're
not used to having a confident woman. I mean, I
think you could be happy you're being, You're being.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
What exactly? So wait, it shall be you know what
what exactly? I want to know through your lens, like
what what are you doing? Like why are you continuously
you know, because Dax says you were looking at yourself
a lot and stuff like that, like what.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
What are you doing my makeup?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
I'm making sure my Misscarre is not running. I'm making
sure my lipstick is not wearing off. Do I need
to put more lipstick on? I think he should be
happy because I'm beautiful and I'm confident and I have
no problem keeping up on how I look. And I
mean we're having a conversation. If I catch myself in
(02:11):
my mirror, I'm gonna, you know, make sure everything looks great.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
And sorry not to cut you off, because I just
want to figure this out quick. How often do you
think and do you feel like you were looking at yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
During the course of that dinner? Sure, I would say
maybe four times.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Okay. How long was dinner?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
An hour?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Dax? How often was she looking at herself?
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Okay? You could take whatever number she gave and multiplied
it by ten to fifteen. At minimum, it was oh
my god. Yes. And also we weren't doing anything on
the date that will require your mask, scarer and lipstick
to be checked.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Often.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
It wasn't rainy worrying.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
We weren't kissing, we're drinking, we're eating.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
She was in a little bit. I just want to,
you know, freshen up.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Yeah, we hadn't even got we hadn't even got drinks
and advertisers before she started checking at least the first
three to five times and just throughout the work. Yeah,
it was okay, unbelievable. I was like, I get it,
you're you're yes, you are pretty.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
Do you feel like she wasn't just giving you all
the attention?
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Oh my god, I don't know. I was like, if
does she have a tick? Does she have like a
neurological disorder? Does weren't quiet her to check this many times?
Speaker 1 (03:40):
Here?
Speaker 3 (03:40):
You just mad, just mad that you didn't get me.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Eight hundred and four on the ninety three ninety three,
And maybe that that could be.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
It.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Maybe because I don't know the whole like looking at yourself,
it just doesn't I don't know, Like Dex when you
told me yesterday, I'm like that there's gotta be Is
there anything else that she did or was it really
that much of an issue that she looked at her, so.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
We we really couldn't even. We would get in bits
and pieces of conversation, and then even during the conversation,
she's like checking, like, look she did it with the spoon.
At one point, I was like, what are you doing?
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Like, are you sure?
Speaker 3 (04:28):
I thought I thought it was funny the way my
chin looked in the spoon.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
I was.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
I was even I even grown up, like, look at that.
Look you should do it yourself. Why, I mean beautiful?
Speaker 1 (04:44):
I don't think anyone is telling you or not Shelby,
but Brian, go ahead.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
I just I just want to say.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
She keeps on saying that she's so confident, but her
words on matching her actions. Because why if you're so confident,
why you got to keep on looking at yourself? If
you say you're pretty, then you know you're pretty. You
don't have to keep on looking at yourself in the mirror.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
You do.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
If something smearing on your face? You've got something on
your face.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
What kind of what kind of makeup for you're using?
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Now?
Speaker 6 (05:13):
Your makeup smears across your face?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
I think one hundred and ten degree weather? Yeah, yeah, here,
I'm not gonna lie, I'm listen. I walk outside and
I'm wet and I'm sweating in places that I could
never imagine. Oh yeah, same. The grease is unreal right now,
The Cuban grease is just living on the forehead.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Who is this?
Speaker 7 (05:33):
Hi, my name's Autumn, And I'm sorry, but this girl
needs to check herself. If you're that confident and think
you're that beautiful, you shouldn't be checking yourself all the time.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Yeah, but listen, isn't there something to the fact that
in now, granted I don't know, you know what day
you guys are. Yesterday wasn't all that bad, but I mean,
this week has been atrocious, so the weather goes autumn,
don't you think like they're it's kind of tough to
like look good right now?
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Or no, it doesn't matter though.
Speaker 7 (06:05):
Your people should like each other for what's inside.
Speaker 8 (06:07):
It shouldn't matter exactly what they look like.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
But it's the first date. On a first date, I know.
Speaker 7 (06:14):
But if she walked out of the door and she
was looking good when the guy picked her up and
they went to dinner, she doesn't need to be looking
at herself every five minutes.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
That's that's disturbing.
Speaker 7 (06:23):
To me, it's maybe I don't even have a mirror
in my in my apartment.
Speaker 5 (06:28):
But Autumn, you got to understand it's a first date.
She really clearly likes this guy. She wouldn't be calling
us and trying to figure out why she's being ghosted
if she didn't really like him. So maybe it was
just like one of those things where she just she lost.
You know, there's there's times why I do the same
exact thing where you just have that nervous ticket.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
You go.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Every five minutes, jet.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Every five minutes, watches the video of him jump rope in. Yeah,
that's true. I'm myself.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
I relate.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
But if she's okay, bye bye.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
No, no, I'm just saying thank you for making me laugh.
I liked your comments.
Speaker 7 (07:07):
Oh oh oh, I thought you were like, okay, thank
you boss.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
No, I thought you were good. But I'm guessing what
now I want to say, thank you.
Speaker 4 (07:16):
Goodbye, bye love you, adam Yeah, mes bye.
Speaker 8 (07:23):
Amanda, guess Hi, good morning.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
I hope I didn't make Autumn then make your think
I'm hanging up or anything. I just wanted to pick
up Amanda. Now, Amanda, go ahead.
Speaker 8 (07:34):
So I was wondering if there wasn't more of like
a subconscious like nervousness to this. So I don't know
if anybody else does this, But if I'm in a
social situation where I'm nervous, i don't know anybody, or
maybe I'm around people for the first time, I find
myself like checking my cell phone even though I don't
have anything to look at, because it's like a distraction.
It makes me look like I'm busy and I'm not.
(07:55):
I was wondering if maybe her thing is like looking
in the mirror trying to check her up, and more
of it is of a like self conscious like nervousness
than something she was like doing because she's vain or
you know, has some kind of issue with looking at
her makeup.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
By the way, I agree with you, Amanda on that,
because I don't want anyone to think that Shelby is vain.
I don't really catch that vibe on that, and maybe
it is kind of like a tick, you know what
I mean. Shelby, where did you find yourself? I mean,
were you nervous on the date? He's not nervous on
first date.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
I mean, I'm just reading this guy. I want to
make sure that everything's working in my favor, and like
you know, he likes the way I look, and I yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
All right, well, Amanda, thank you for calling in, and
Shelby and Dax. Well, I'll let you guys handle this
kind of off the air if you know you you
choose to reach out to her, but you know, thank
you guys for coming on, and uh.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Yeah, thank you and I.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Yeah, well, I mean, Liza, that sounds like the day
one fine, but it sounds like it went fine to me.
You get oh, it didn't, all right,
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