War Of The Roses (Over Brushing Teeth) Part 2

We have a follow up conversation and hear some stories from listeners who have been in a situation with someone who stays at home and how cheating could be an issue.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Tampa Bay's number one and only hit music channel ninety
three three FLZ. We Are the Joe Show unfortunately caught
another cheater with war the Roses Now started with an
electric toothbrush. Things got weird and you can listen to
everything up on our free iHeartRadio app. This was a
man who didn't have to have a job. His wife
completely took care of him. We'll see what happens, you know,

(00:22):
in the coming weeks, months, and year. The guy didn't
have a kid's nothing going on. He just got to
stay home, didn't have to do anything, all right, And
in no way do I want this to come across
like we are bashing anyone who doesn't have to have
a job, because once again, and I genuinely mean this,

(00:45):
I'm not trying to panderr I come from a household
where my mom was blessed enough to not have to
have a job. Her job was completely taking care of
three boys who were getting suspended and doing a lot
of bad things and having to she like she never
missed any of our games. She was always there for us.
He's always there. Yeah, this guy's kind of the absolute

(01:09):
the guy I ain't got to do nothing but he's cheating,
and that to me, it just doesn't I can't comprehend that. So, Rachel,
you are here to say that you were the cheater. Yes,
and you were. You are a stay at home mom.
You were a stay at home mom and I.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
Was back then, okay, And it was his idea for
me to be a stay at home mom. But every
chance he got it, like got he was thrown in
my face that I didn't work and I didn't help,
and I cooked, I cleaned, I took care of our daughter.
It was in order to save that money from daycare
and so she would be safe and raised by us

(01:50):
and not someone else. But he would any chance he
got he get on, he'd throw it in my face.
He made me feel so unappreciated that I did. I
cheated one time because I just wanted to feel like
I was appreciated. And I just wanted to feel something
because I was just put down all the time.

Speaker 3 (02:08):
Were you caught?

Speaker 1 (02:10):
No?

Speaker 2 (02:11):
You are now people ever bold We're not even together anymore.

Speaker 3 (02:16):
Okay, So this is a good situation.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
No, no one knows my best friend, does anyone else?

Speaker 3 (02:21):
Well? No?

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Wow, what does that feel like? How long ago did
this happen.

Speaker 2 (02:28):
Like ten years ago.

Speaker 1 (02:29):
Ten years ago, you cheated on your husband, and ten
years later you just admitted it to the Joe Show
and all of Tampa Bay that that happened. You said
that out loud for the first time.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
You just yeah, I feel a little better because I
always felt guilty and I don't know why, because.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
Well, you cheated. I think that's probably why. It's why. Well,
it's not okay.

Speaker 1 (02:50):
But with everything that he was doing, I mean obviously
and that we're not here to say it's okay to cheat,
it's definitely not.

Speaker 3 (03:01):
But the things that led you to do that, I.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
Mean I couldn't even go and do anything without having
to ask permission like he was going.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
But I don't stand for tuna. But if I got
actually permission to do this and do that, oh baby,
And you're not making me feel wanted or you just
don't appreciate me. Yeah, I'm my step out.

Speaker 2 (03:19):
And I worked full time the whole time I was
pregnant up until I had her, like works full time.
Everything else. It was his like him pushing me, no,
let's not pay for daycare. You stay home, like I
didn't even want to stay home, Like I like the work.
I enjoyed it because I got to spend quality time
with my daughter. But are you with the.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
Guy that you cheated on him with? Now?

Speaker 2 (03:41):
Okay, that was literally like some rands like it was.
It wasn't anything meaningful. Does that make sense?

Speaker 3 (03:47):
When I said, yeah, okay, I had no idea it
was his brother. It was who isn't It was.

Speaker 2 (04:02):
Just like on one of those like it wasn't tender
back then. Whatever, it was like plenty of fish or something.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
I just made it.

Speaker 2 (04:09):
I was done. I just deleted the app. I was like, okay,
I got my I just I got what I needed.

Speaker 3 (04:15):
Problem, where did you go?

Speaker 2 (04:20):
Oh god? I mean it wasn't nothing fancy. I met
him at a bar and we went back to his house,
and then I had to go home because I had
a baby.

Speaker 3 (04:30):
Oh man, unreal.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
And when you walk through your your front door and
you get into the home, you pick up your baby,
what's going through your head? Uh?

Speaker 2 (04:41):
I was just like you know what she was in
my mind? Sorry?

Speaker 1 (04:46):
No, you're good. Hey, I mean listen, that's how you
uh you felt?

Speaker 3 (04:53):
Well?

Speaker 1 (04:54):
Uh wow, Rachel. I appreciate you being so honest and
sharing your story.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
You know, I love talking to teeters, catching them, and
I love getting in their head.

Speaker 2 (05:04):
It's my only time I've ever done that because that's
not my that's not my style, that's not.

Speaker 3 (05:09):
My m O.

Speaker 2 (05:11):
Appreciate it all.

Speaker 3 (05:12):
You ain't got no reason to cheat.

Speaker 2 (05:14):
Yeah, And I didn't even throw it in his face,
like I caught him like a couple of years later
cheating on me, and I was just like, Okay, we're done. Like,
but I never I could have thrown it in his face.
I could have. That's just not me, that's not my
back