Cardi B & Offset Reunite, Why Women Shouldn't Cheat Back, Financial Status In Relationships & More!

Tone Kapone, KeKe, and Zach Boog talk Cardi B & Offset Reunite, Why Women Shouldn't Cheat Back, Financial Status In Relationships & More!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
All right, welcome to it. And what more can I say?
Podcast Riding?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
What episode were on one seventy four, one seventy four.
I'm your host, Soul Component, and I'm joined by two
people that have mental issues. You guys, she's the first
lady of the pie, the only lady of the pie.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
She's fluffy and five and she has a grace. He
get it right. It's hey, friends, stop, guys, I need
a sound. I think the woo woop. I like the
wool wool.

Speaker 3 (00:33):
I think it's no, no, no, we gotta keep the
woo woop alive.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
He's dying. I like the I do. I do? You
like THEO I do? Still, I don't even I don't
even get them, but it's.

Speaker 4 (00:46):
I like it.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
I don't even get one of say your name so fast.
It's me talking about all that. I can't even. I
gotta okay, I gotta give a pause. Yeah, you gotta.

Speaker 5 (00:55):
You gotta give you not you give us a little
like instro like you say like she's fluffy, I got
a grace. So you gotta list your stuff like you
know what I'm saying. You are growing now, actor, you
know what I'm saying. You are mister Hennessy. You know
what I'm saying, that would stop, never settled. You know
what I'm saying you you may have seen him on
the pockets, right, Yeah, come on, go play with your accolades.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
I got accolades you gotta do. They're very long. You
know it's gonna take a look.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
We didn't say all that.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yeah, you know what, got something anyway, here's the funny
head of the part soon to be going on tour
at every Chipling circuit city around the United State.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
That book tells me this story all the.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
Times that I'm giving me a sprinter and every weekend
I'm gonna be going to eventually that's the goal.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
Yeah, not yet. What I do.

Speaker 6 (01:56):
I want to sprinter and I want to travel to
the country in my sprind doing shows on the weekend.

Speaker 3 (02:01):
You're gonna drive yourself in the sprintery know, you're gonna.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Have a drift. That's the purpose of getting the sprinding.
That's why you get the sprinter. Els gonna be in there.

Speaker 6 (02:09):
What you sprinting for, because to lay out and go
to sleep, because I gotta do radio.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
In the morning. That you could lay out in the
key of Baby. You don't need.

Speaker 4 (02:17):
You want to.

Speaker 2 (02:18):
Talk about mama, that's crazy, friend, and go to sleep.
If you lay out in the if you can spread
out at the entire key, that would be that's no.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
Your aspirations.

Speaker 4 (02:38):
I believe in you.

Speaker 1 (02:40):
You want to start off, you know.

Speaker 4 (02:41):
I want us to have a sprinter.

Speaker 2 (02:44):
You do. Yeah, like all of us that have a sprinder,
we pull up the events. Eventually we get rich and
we all have I don't.

Speaker 1 (02:51):
Know if I want to ride with y'all. It's gonna
be fun. I don't know. You know we're gonna leave.
It's gonna be a party. It's gonna be some wet
to get you in a sprint of Kiki, we throw
that gin. Yeah, I will be there. I got leg
in air conditioner. Yeah, yeah, we know how to spread. Okay,

(03:15):
we both get hot. I get hot, but I did.

Speaker 2 (03:18):
I found the manly fan Where I had found the
manly fan.

Speaker 4 (03:23):
Boy had it.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
He had it.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
It's called it's called I got Well we're taping on them,
but I would have it in.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
But it's called something jet something.

Speaker 2 (03:32):
It's like a little it looks like a I don't know,
it's just it's mainly though.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
What makes it more manly than exactly, because it's just
I got it.

Speaker 5 (03:42):
Because I got it. That's the only thing that he
don't like is that I have it. It's something regular fan.
You keep it on me.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
He's the first person I see it with the fan. Yes,
I started this trend. She did, you should say a fan.

Speaker 5 (03:55):
I tried, but you know, I want a high quality product,
and they kept trying to give me something off the
flea market.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
Now they got one of my head pins stuck in
the fan.

Speaker 1 (04:02):
But anyway, this is the fan.

Speaker 4 (04:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (04:05):
Is that the original for BT?

Speaker 2 (04:06):
Yes? Man, Miss pat took up every woman and sat
down at BT Awards, took that fan.

Speaker 4 (04:12):
They was like, it was like, wait a minute, girl,
what's that? Yes?

Speaker 1 (04:15):
And now everything he started it? Yeah, he started. I'm
gonna give you that. I started that.

Speaker 4 (04:21):
I gotta give you that.

Speaker 6 (04:22):
So what is like, I want to see your fan though,
because you can see your fan pan.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
No, my family looks like like a Maley contraption.

Speaker 1 (04:32):
It looks like a male told.

Speaker 3 (04:33):
Me he wanted a fan with some footballs on it.

Speaker 1 (04:37):
I need it. I said, you're right. I'm like, so like,
what does yours like a gun?

Speaker 4 (04:42):
Like a man?

Speaker 6 (04:46):
I'm a man, I'm hot like a man hot is hot?

Speaker 4 (04:50):
Too many women have it?

Speaker 2 (04:52):
Bro Okay, tell the truth, all right, tell the truth
about this so everybody knows when what is it? Martiniz
and all of that stuff. That glass, that's what got
really popular. And women were drinking Martini's constant sex in
the city, all of that stuff, and dudes like Martinis too.
Matter of fact, what was it James Bond, Drake Martini?
He drinking Martini, but the Martini glass. Because so many

(05:15):
women were using Martini glass, you had a lot of
dudes like, hey, put mine in a in a in
a cup, really yeah, or even like a sidecar, put
mine in a cup, Give me a man glass.

Speaker 1 (05:25):
Y'all got to get out of that.

Speaker 4 (05:27):
Too many women have stuff. You don't want to do
it what.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
I'm not gonna get into the gender role thing, and
like y'all gotta y'all.

Speaker 4 (05:35):
Gotta be I'm getting this manlely fan and you're gonna
like it.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
Well you get big or something.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
It's actually compact. It's like it's not a got like
it come out.

Speaker 6 (05:46):
Like as it's like an air conditioning.

Speaker 4 (05:52):
You trying to make fun of me. It's a real man.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
Fans the same fan yes, it's gonna be better anyway.

Speaker 4 (06:02):
Let's get to it and keep it.

Speaker 1 (06:03):
In your man purse.

Speaker 3 (06:06):
Now, he didn't try you. He didn't tried it, because
that's funny to hell. They don't man wear that person.
They don't want to. That's the truth. He was talking
about man persons the whole time. And I came out
of church and guess what I on a man person?

Speaker 4 (06:24):
You got one.

Speaker 1 (06:25):
It's a diaper? Bad? What a god? It's a Louis
VAUTI man purse. You didn't get you? Yes, I wear
it for my I keep my son stuff.

Speaker 6 (06:37):
He went and bought a Louis No, I definitely don't
have a never get the hell out of here.

Speaker 1 (06:45):
I can't stick.

Speaker 6 (06:47):
But I keep knowing stuff in his iPad and snacks,
and like when I'm going place and I got him.

Speaker 4 (06:53):
You had to make it, Louis baton.

Speaker 3 (06:56):
That we can't have nothing. Y'all want to take everything.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
Am I supposed to have? What should I carry my
son stuff in?

Speaker 4 (07:03):
I don't know? But you.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
Yeah, I'm just I'm not mad.

Speaker 6 (07:08):
But you got all type stuff in yours. I got
stuff with my son. You got your lip gloss in there.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
You got glossy yellow discharge from sixy red.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
His lip gloss. That's hilarious.

Speaker 5 (07:24):
Really, should we should go and like just everybody take
out what's in the purse. Since we all got persons, now,
everybody should just take out.

Speaker 3 (07:30):
We should do like what's in your bad like everybody,
all of us, all three of us.

Speaker 6 (07:36):
Just I should just wear a full book bag just
for a few things for myself.

Speaker 5 (07:39):
You could wear whatever you want. I'm not mad that
you have anyone. I just didn't know.

Speaker 3 (07:43):
Yeah, club, I didn't know.

Speaker 6 (07:46):
I talked so bad about ton I can't bring it
out in public.

Speaker 4 (07:49):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (07:51):
He called it a diaper.

Speaker 2 (07:52):
Bag, and I called it and he said it. I said, oh,
that's bad, he's gonna say. I keep knowing he had
it loaded up already.

Speaker 1 (07:59):
I keep knowing stuff in No, I've been potty trained
for two years.

Speaker 2 (08:03):
Diaper bade no ping about diaper, bass.

Speaker 6 (08:09):
Snacks, water, his tablet, all that stuff. You need that
stuff quick because that's right. Okay, all right, man, let's
get to this speaking the kids.

Speaker 4 (08:17):
Uh t I is a.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
Grandpa again, y'all can turn the trap king into a
grandpa king. Uh it's about to have his first child
at twenty years old. What you gotta said about dad
Zach bro Wow, that's your fellow comedian brother.

Speaker 6 (08:31):
I love t I, you know what I'm saying. And
t I said. He also said that he was gonna
make him the biggest thug in the world. He's gonna
basically to that point. So you're gonna make his grandson
the biggest thug in the world. So King can have
to go through what he put t I through. I
thought that was funny, but it's just crazy to me,
the fact that King's getting ready to have a child.
It's just like, I mean, think about how I feel,

(08:52):
how old I feel like I'm getting old. Well, my
one of my favorite rappers, TI is a granddaddy, and
that's just weird to me, Like granddaddy Tip. He just
put out a song. But he did put out a
song on Kirk Franklin, which makes sense because when you
get older, you start to go see got so wow,
it makes sense.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
Oh wow, Yeah, but nah, shout out to them. Shout
out to them. Do y'all know who the baby mama is? No? No,
I don't know the baby mama.

Speaker 3 (09:18):
They put a picture up of some young girls saying
she is his baby mother. But we don't know that
to be you know, it's not a fact proven fact.

Speaker 1 (09:25):
Okay, King got a baby.

Speaker 5 (09:30):
I just want I just pray that they have a beautiful,
healthy baby and that tiny be strong. These are going
to be some of the strongest years she needs to
have in her life dealing with her son and his
baby mother. And you know, y'all know because y'all got
baby mamas, so you gotta eat. The selection process is
not always thorough, and so she about to experience a

(09:53):
deeper level when you when it's your son picking the
baby mama, like, it's different when it's when your daughter
get pregnant. She got you know, baby daddy is just like, okay,
you my daughter' gonna take take care of the baby.
But when it's the you got a co parent with
a baby mama and you on the daddy side, it's rough.

Speaker 1 (10:11):
Bro. I got all brothers, it's rough. Who you telling?

Speaker 4 (10:16):
Who you telling?

Speaker 2 (10:20):
Welcome King to the fine world of child support. Brother,
Welcome in, and welcome welcome brother. What what are you
doing at twenty years old? I know t I is like,
I'm happy, but dude, but then you look at the
way Kig was moving the whole thing, the whole time.
This is part of King's journey. He gonna learn about
child support and he gonna learn about the adventures of

(10:42):
going wrong and the consequences of it.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
Yes, for real, Yeah.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
He probably like a you know, like I love her,
like bro like he You got to realize and you
don't realize it's twenty I couldn't even imagine I have
my I have my first kids house twenty eight, so
I can't even imagine at twenty years old. You don't
really realize that you are connected that person for the
rest of your time on this planet.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
It don't matter like that's That's a lot.

Speaker 2 (11:11):
Of times when people try to say this stuff about
oh all these questions about your baby mama and.

Speaker 4 (11:17):
Blah blah blah.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
I want to let you ladies know, there's only one
way to hurt. There's two ways to hurt a man.
Actually three, but two maybe eight, maybe not but no.
But I will say, you mess with a man's money
and his family, quickest way to crumble him.

Speaker 4 (11:38):
And you see how people get weird.

Speaker 2 (11:40):
Look at I mean, no shade, look at Ty Race
mess with his money and his family. He didn't turn this,
Oh nothing dude, brother, and so you gonna learn, brother,
You're gonna.

Speaker 5 (11:50):
Learn stay strong, young young man, stay strong from your
own ant key. Yeah yeah, I just want to tell
you stay strong.

Speaker 1 (12:00):
Yeah, you're gonna be fine. He's gonna be no, no, no, no, rich.

Speaker 3 (12:05):
But it ain't about money. It's not about money.

Speaker 5 (12:07):
When a woman, when you have a baby mother, it's
a different type of like Ton just said, it's a
different type of pain because she could play all kinds
of games with your child. No matter how much money
you got, she could play games with you for eighteen
years now through your child.

Speaker 6 (12:22):
How you know this man ain't selected no good woman
outstanding because.

Speaker 5 (12:26):
He's twenty twenty, bro, twenty None of us made a
good decisions, none of us. No, no, yeah, stay strong,
tiny man.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
You're good. Bro. Let me tell you why you're good. Brother.

Speaker 6 (12:40):
By the time you're gonna have to go through some stuff, king,
but you're gonna be fine because by the time you
thirty five, thirty six years old, your kid has been done,
be ready to graduate. Okay, I really wish I would
have had kids a little early. You know what I'm saying.
I'm thirty five right now walking around with a four
year old. Let me would have had him when I
was twenty. Know how old my key would be right now,

(13:01):
sixteen seventeen, home free, new life.

Speaker 2 (13:07):
That emotional I would I would personally, I would have
rather had my kids around this heage, because I got
way more patience.

Speaker 1 (13:17):
There's nothing a baby mama. It's nothing that the boyfriend
could say.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
There's nothing that nobody, they weird friends could say that.

Speaker 4 (13:27):
Would make me mad.

Speaker 2 (13:29):
I would be like, I'm gonna get mad, punch the
air in the crib, and then go on by my
business like nah, bro like nah, because just think about it, dog,
because you new to this, new to it. You ever
had somebody play with your kid on the holiday doll?

Speaker 1 (13:47):
Oh, on a holiday doll? Like on a holiday like
I had?

Speaker 2 (13:52):
I told, I tell the story all the time when
I realized, because I didn't realize I had feelings for
a long time.

Speaker 4 (13:58):
But my mama played with my daughter on me.

Speaker 2 (14:02):
Well it was really her ex husband, they was, he was,
he was whatever, But and play with me with my
daughter on Christmas time. Now, I live by a mall
at that time, and I went to the mall, I'm like, man,
forget it, I'm it's gonna get up a bunch of stuff.

Speaker 4 (14:20):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
I'm gonna get up a bunch of stuff. I'm sending
everything gonna be cool. You know it's Christmas, Bro, I
mean it's all right. I go to my family, man,
I got in there.

Speaker 5 (14:28):
Man.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
Do you know how many damn daddy's I've seen walking
around their little girl during Christmas time? Bro, buying them stuff?
They looking at they daddy, I'm looking at them.

Speaker 4 (14:39):
Man.

Speaker 2 (14:40):
I got so emotional I had to leave. I was like, dang,
I got feelings. So at the end of the day,
when people play with that, those those holidays, they play
with the visitation, the dude call you or the dude
come out like, man, this a dude, send me a
picture of picture of me, picture of my son with

(15:00):
a dude with a with our boyfriend on Instagram on.

Speaker 4 (15:04):
My my son on shoulders on the underdude's shoulders. And
she caught me.

Speaker 1 (15:10):
None of the joint said drove me crazy.

Speaker 2 (15:14):
I get you know, bro, I just see I don't
heard and done seen so much stuff they play with
that emotion. And I just pray, I pray hones say,
I pray for King not to have to go through that.
But nine times out of ten, bro, especially if it
go bad, it's gonna go bad.

Speaker 4 (15:30):
Yes, it's gonna a twenty. Are you really ready to
handle that? Are you really ready? You're gonna he gonna
you already? See. He can't control his emotions, can't he
high head?

Speaker 2 (15:39):
Can't he like skinning in high head, can't control he
always seen somebody playing.

Speaker 3 (15:43):
Them short light skin and a high head.

Speaker 4 (15:46):
He can't.

Speaker 1 (15:47):
He can't control the more she gonna play with him
because she knows she's gonna win.

Speaker 4 (15:50):
She gonna have to.

Speaker 2 (15:51):
Imagine he ain't. He's twenty, Bro, he been dating who
we want?

Speaker 4 (15:57):
He didn't.

Speaker 2 (15:58):
He got money, His daddy t y I is mama
tiny in Atlanta.

Speaker 4 (16:02):
He live in a life. Now.

Speaker 2 (16:03):
Imagine how how you gonna feel if they don't work
out and she started playing with them and go and
start dating somebody else, with somebody around the baby. He
ain't gonna know how to, bro. I'm telling you, man,
comics are your best friends. You work raw dog Warriors.

Speaker 3 (16:20):
You got to choose your baby, mama.

Speaker 1 (16:23):
You got to baby.

Speaker 6 (16:25):
Yeah, y'all broke it down. Oh yeah, y'all broke that down.
I'm scared for him. Good luck, brother, Good luck. Hey,
let's got a good daddy, though, his daddy gonna lead him.

Speaker 2 (16:35):
Oh yeah, yeah, that's that's the one. The great thing
about it is I was doing it. You know, I
got my I got great relationships with my parents. But
I think t I has been in and kings like
the whole the whole rip, the whole rip.

Speaker 1 (16:47):
They lived in the same household.

Speaker 2 (16:48):
So he's gonna be probably a little bit better prepared
for stuff than this because he'll be able lean on tipe.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
I got baby mamas, he does.

Speaker 4 (16:57):
Yeah, so he'll be a leaning think three.

Speaker 2 (17:01):
Yeah, okay, okay, cool. Let's get to this man before
we jump to the Kanye West story.

Speaker 1 (17:06):
Let's get to this.

Speaker 2 (17:07):
Since we're talking about relationships off set, UH and Cardi
b seen together. Now with all of this rumors UH
going around about what all set had going on, we
actually talked about it on the pot.

Speaker 1 (17:20):
Is this is this surprising for you to see?

Speaker 3 (17:22):
Kik you said what Offset had going on?

Speaker 1 (17:24):
I'm sorry I had.

Speaker 4 (17:26):
Yeah, we're doing the pot.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
We ready? Yes, Okay, I gave you an amazing leader too.

Speaker 4 (17:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:40):
What did he say? I hate? I hate, I'm sorry.
It's really it feels like Monday and it's like you,
it's a weird day.

Speaker 4 (17:51):
Put an inn word on the shave room. I would
have let our little one more, could I say?

Speaker 1 (17:57):
Early? You don't.

Speaker 5 (18:00):
Had you coming in with all this new refreshed energy,
you know? Fulk okayed out for a second.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
He fell asleep at the wheel. She dosed off. What
who upset?

Speaker 4 (18:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (18:16):
Me go hop set? She shout too a hat lift.

Speaker 3 (18:24):
That don't know what you said either. That's why he's cracking.
He don't know what you said either because he can't
repeating up to me.

Speaker 1 (18:30):
So don't laying for you. We both over here like
my life. What did I'm say?

Speaker 5 (18:35):
Do?

Speaker 1 (18:39):
Tell what my promise?

Speaker 4 (18:47):
Dude?

Speaker 1 (18:48):
You now upset? Yeah? You didn't got me in trouble?
Oh all right, hardy be.

Speaker 2 (19:02):
We're seed together after all the rumors that were happening,
we all said him opposedly having a pregnancy another woman. Yeah,
so what do you think about them being back together
or even a rumor?

Speaker 3 (19:15):
Well, I told you what was gonna happen.

Speaker 1 (19:17):
So Cardi B.

Speaker 5 (19:18):
You know, he cheats and then every time he gets
caught cheating, he go live. And he tried to get
ahead of the story, and then Cardi B.

Speaker 1 (19:25):
Is pregnant.

Speaker 5 (19:25):
She's always pregnant. Every time he gets caught cheating. I
don't know what that's about. So then he got it,
he gets it pregnant, and then she founds for the Voice.
We've been here before. Okay, this is how it go.
So we got all the boxes checked. She pregnant, he cheating,
She fould for divorce.

Speaker 3 (19:38):
Now what comes next is they're gonna welcome a beautiful baby,
and then he gonna he gonna go talk to the lady,
and then he gonna go back home, and then we're
gonna act like it never happened again. They gonna drop
some music together, do a little joint video together, and
then about six months later, we're gonna go down the
same road again. So I don't think it's anything shocking
to see them back together already the day she found

(19:59):
for the Voice, next day she was online defending him
in the comments to people.

Speaker 1 (20:02):
So she loves that.

Speaker 3 (20:04):
That's her husband. She loves him, and it's till death
do us part.

Speaker 5 (20:07):
And I think Cardi B Is gonna stick it out
with offset and try to really make it work for
herself or her family and her children.

Speaker 2 (20:13):
I have no.

Speaker 5 (20:15):
I would free him but that's me. Nobody ever put
a ring on me, so I really should shut up. However,
I think that you know they're gonna end up being
together for the long haul. This is just the steps
that we have to take. You know, you cheat, you
get me pregnant, We talk to the lady, I filed
for divorce. We get back together. Now we are my
way to get back they are way to get back together.

Speaker 1 (20:34):
That's all. I just won't let y'all know that I
said that it was not over.

Speaker 6 (20:42):
You did, yes when Now, when we first talked about
this Cardi B story, everybody was like, oh, she filed
for divorce. I told y'all on the pod, I said,
her filing for divorce is really simple because Cardi B
got people, so she can just pick up the phone. Hey, foul,
you know what I'm saying. She gets emotional, which she
rightfully should. I'm not even saying it. But here's the thing.

(21:02):
Here's the thing that y'all don't understand hood relationships until
the oldest child is about ten years old. That's when
she'll be done for me, okay. In hood relationship, hood
math is different. In relationships, it's loyal, It's like hood
relationships are built in loyalty and staying together. It's only

(21:25):
the only way that Cardi that off set needs to
be worried about Cardi b leaving is when she doesn't
go live, when she don't do the voice loudly, when
she not snapping, when she.

Speaker 1 (21:36):
Get quiet and go do it and ain't got nothing
to say.

Speaker 6 (21:40):
She done as long as she being emotional and loudness
and like oh, I can't believe you did me like
this and writing long captions on social and we know
about it.

Speaker 1 (21:50):
When she over, we ain't even gonna know that's true.

Speaker 3 (21:52):
You'd have got left before. That's a man that left,
you know all the steps. That's the man that got
left before.

Speaker 2 (22:01):
You know.

Speaker 1 (22:05):
Y'all.

Speaker 5 (22:05):
When she get loud, that's still care, that's true. But
when she's quiet and she like, I'm gonna eat pardon,
that's the truth.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
That's the truth. That's the truth.

Speaker 2 (22:14):
I just for me, It's just damn, I look at
that whole I look at this whole relationship like like, damn,
I ain't gonna lie. I thought, Confusually that's smoke you
for me, And if I was, if I was off
set for I would be like, yo, you didn't get
caught and you got a baby.

Speaker 1 (22:29):
That's proof of the cheat.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
If if this all happened, let's just say, if it
all happened, alleged, all this alleged stuff happened, I'd be like, bro,
like she dropped that shorty, keep an eye on them
because the get back might be real.

Speaker 4 (22:42):
I don't. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (22:43):
But then but then you see that's what But that's
why I say it was confused. It's confusing to me.

Speaker 1 (22:48):
It's confusing to me because it's allegedly happened a bunch
of times.

Speaker 4 (22:52):
And you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (22:52):
So I'll said, I'll said, bro, you got a jam
bro Like, it's no man in history that has survived it.
We all know Cardi got the bush money, she got,
she got the bigger career, and you keep you survived
these type of allegations.

Speaker 4 (23:11):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (23:12):
That's that's love, tee. That's at another level of love.
I ain't never seen it before in my life.

Speaker 1 (23:18):
Yeah no. And usually when a have a baby love,
everybody hull love.

Speaker 2 (23:23):
Yeah, you gotta break up, but usually the baby in
hood love is a deal breaker.

Speaker 1 (23:28):
If you have a baby hood. We don't know that
that's true.

Speaker 6 (23:33):
If not putting other than kick sitting at me, looking
at me, sidified the way she looked at me.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
I don't know that to be true, so I'm not
putting the side baby on off. Baby is in that
lady's stomach. Who baby is it? According to this the
dude who passed away? Okay, it's the dad man baby. Okay, alright,
all right, until the baby can rap and see, we
can't until the DNA test come out and it's proven

(24:01):
that comes out. I'm going with the ladder. Okay, I'm
not believing this.

Speaker 6 (24:05):
All I'm saying is hood love for forget their status
when it comes to their careers.

Speaker 1 (24:12):
Cardi B is a hood chick.

Speaker 6 (24:15):
We all love her because of her authenticity and how
vulnerable she really is with her fans and her people. Okay,
off Set, same type of guy. You know what I'm saying.
They both Offset before Offset even came out. We knew
offset name when he was locked up. You know what
I'm saying comes from a different They come from a
different situation. They are going to be fine until one

(24:38):
Cardi B stops snapping. When she stops snapping, yeah, he
in trouble. But what I'm trying to say, is she
probably want to see if that's his baby or not
before she'll make a decision like when that baby is born,
and then she you know what I'm saying, she'll go
from there.

Speaker 1 (24:53):
But I think they're gonna be good. This is hood.

Speaker 5 (24:55):
Look hood Couples break up all the time, they get
back together, make up.

Speaker 1 (25:00):
I hate you.

Speaker 6 (25:01):
You see it all on social media all the time.
It's just want to let you know I'm single. They
put that out there, You've seen everybody does it and
it ain't. Then two three weeks later you see her
back with her man. Yeah, that's just how it works.

Speaker 2 (25:17):
Giky that No he but I mean he pobb would
you take would you do that? Like, let's just say
you in this situation, how would.

Speaker 4 (25:25):
You have.

Speaker 1 (25:28):
What I'm gonna do.

Speaker 6 (25:29):
What I'm gonna do that what I'm doing, She's gonna leave.
I know you would have been left after the first
cheap thank you. Ain't staying for no cheap I'm not staying.

Speaker 2 (25:39):
Not like life partner. It's like that person you got
along with the best in your life.

Speaker 1 (25:44):
My ego can't take it at this point.

Speaker 2 (25:46):
Your life did I'm talking about somebody you because you
know You've been out here enough to see your dated
a lot to see that it ain't a lot of
good people to match you and be like, yo, somebody
that really understand there as you rock with you it's
your your person.

Speaker 4 (26:04):
But they mess up, you're gonna say.

Speaker 5 (26:06):
You can say all that. She's gonna be like, yeah,
I gotta go. I'm the type that will die lonely
because I'm that like my I'm that prideful. So like
I would die at home alone. It be just fine,
Like you know what, me and my little roles, we
just gonna have to rock out for the rest of
that life because I'm not putting up with no ball.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
So I would leave.

Speaker 5 (26:28):
But if I had to stay in there, because it's
different when you have children. I feel like you have
children involved, you've created a family and you want your
family to work.

Speaker 3 (26:37):
I would probably just cheat back and get and get
my lick back.

Speaker 4 (26:41):
And then women cannot cheat back.

Speaker 1 (26:45):
Yes, we can. Somebody gonna break you out back and
you're gonna keep wanting it.

Speaker 3 (26:50):
Yes, and that's fine because you're gonna keep doing what
you're doing too.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
But she don't stop. Stop stop side. Let me tell
you something, dudes and women are different in that aspect.
Not saying that all I'm not so before anybody, but
oh women, I'm saying that they were the most parts.

Speaker 1 (27:08):
Like I hate what you say, dudes, they do it.

Speaker 2 (27:11):
Everybody want to talk about the outlier dude, the outliers chick.
But for most most cases, Zacha agreed, dude, we have
a conquering thing.

Speaker 4 (27:21):
We have a conquered thing, right, or even we have
a conquered mentality.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
But my point is is to get killed, move on,
will go do something and gone about their business. Y'all
will do something and then be like I kind of
most of the time, you're not just randomly crashing out
with somebody. It's a dude that's been on the back

(27:47):
burner that you like, but he doesn't have all of
the quality necessary qualities to be the guy. But he
got enough to be on the side, so you now
you didn't let him be intimate with you, and now
it's a feeling, so you might. That's where august with
dudes and women get getting a little get a little
sketchy on the cheat back stuf because y'all gonna keep going.

(28:09):
We might knock a girl down and then realize talk
about a dude is an habitual cheater for a while.
You most of the time you hit the Zach's not
gonna say anything, but you hit the girl, and you're like,
why not?

Speaker 4 (28:25):
Why even do that?

Speaker 3 (28:26):
Why?

Speaker 2 (28:28):
I swear it's it's some car, It's something remorse, something remorse.

Speaker 1 (28:35):
On Saturday, being like, why do you have to cheat?
I'm trying to be better.

Speaker 6 (28:43):
But the real reason he did that, that's true. What
he's talking about is true, and I will talk to you.

Speaker 4 (28:49):
Don't leave me out.

Speaker 6 (28:52):
The reason that happens, ladies who me to be watching
is because usually when guys are thinking with their with
their penis, they really don't think straight.

Speaker 1 (29:03):
So all that post nut clarity comes back. That's what
it comes back.

Speaker 6 (29:08):
And then the blood flows, the blood that just flew
to your penis flows back into your brain and you're like, oh,
that was stupid.

Speaker 1 (29:16):
I shouldn't have done that. It wasn't even worth it.
Now you're guilty.

Speaker 6 (29:20):
Now you got twenty four roses coming home with no
rea because now you're trying to open compensate.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
I used to have a friend. He used to every
time he messed up, he would try to do ten
things good. He raised his cheek. He would trying to
erase his cheek, be like, no, you can't erase it.
But it's it's men really do have a problem, and
that like the thing is, we do me an got

(29:47):
a problem. We do have a problem. But what I'm
trying to tell you is if.

Speaker 6 (29:51):
If I'm a if a woman decides to cheat back
on me, she's gonna stay back.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
See, because now that's a little different. It's a little different.
That's what I'm talking about. You pre you pre thought
in your head, let me go cheat.

Speaker 6 (30:07):
You got a better chance just cheating, you know what
I'm saying, Like me finding out and it just be
something that happened or oh your ex or something you know,
baby daddy, maybe you went over the house games.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (30:20):
You have a better chance than to sit back, premeditate
and try to get me back.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
Oh you trying. I take that as a threat. But
what did we do to get here? Or something.

Speaker 3 (30:32):
Like she just woke up and said, I'm going like
you did today.

Speaker 1 (30:37):
At this point, you're trying to hurt me. Wrong.

Speaker 4 (30:42):
We have all been weak in moments.

Speaker 1 (30:45):
What but for you to go out and just try
to purposely hurt me.

Speaker 6 (30:50):
I didn't go out cheating like you know what was
get her back and I'm gonna I'm gonna hurt her feeling.

Speaker 1 (30:55):
That's low down, I'm not. It's like murder and premeditated murder.

Speaker 6 (31:04):
Let's say you got vehicular manslaughter where you were you
were drunk driving.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
You probably shouldn't have been drunk driving.

Speaker 6 (31:11):
That's completely wrong, right, you broke the law there drunk driving,
you hit somebody and let's say they passed away.

Speaker 1 (31:17):
Yes, you can go to jail for that. You know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (31:19):
That is still considered murder because you shouldn't have been
drinking and driving, but you did. That's not the same
as going out going and getting a gun and saying
I'm about to go kill a mother, right, it ain't
the same thing.

Speaker 1 (31:31):
Okay. And if you go out here and say I'm
going out here to kill somebody, I'm not being with
a murderer, is what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (31:39):
Look, understand, that's.

Speaker 5 (31:44):
Why I would just leave, because I'm going to I'm
going to murder some You. It's either I'm going to
leave or we both gonna die. So which one you prefer?
Because let me tell you, I got left you you
took your choice when Kiki, when you decided to cheat back,
you made your decision.

Speaker 1 (32:02):
What I made your decision?

Speaker 3 (32:04):
What decision did you make when you were cheating first?
That was I was weak and I was not right
and I shouldn't have done that. This is how they
think for I shouldn't have done that. But either either
you leave, you can leave me.

Speaker 1 (32:18):
And I'm gonna leave.

Speaker 5 (32:19):
That's okay, then you should just leve, but don't cheat
back and stayed to stay. I'm gonna cheat back. So
you picked what's gonna because you cheat first, So you
cheated on me.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
You tell me what we're gonna do. You tell me
what we're gonna do.

Speaker 3 (32:32):
Either I'm not to go or you're gonna beg me
to stay. I'm gonna stay, but I'm gonna get my
look back. It might not be next week, it might
not be next I have to think about it.

Speaker 4 (32:44):
You should I and I said I did. I did it.

Speaker 2 (32:47):
I'm a living proof. I broke my rule. I literally
broke my rule. Like I got caught up and I
was supposed to. I supposed to go because I knew,
because I know, I knew the woman I was with
was prideful I knew she had her pride couldn't take it,
like you couldn't take it.

Speaker 4 (33:03):
She's like, I'm bad, like what are you doing?

Speaker 1 (33:06):
And I'm just like I just wanted to see what
it felt like. And that problem, y'all.

Speaker 4 (33:12):
I had a lot of nose. I told a lot
of nose.

Speaker 2 (33:15):
No no, but this one caught me at a week moment,
a week moment, and it happened, and it happened, but
I get it. And it was like early on in
our situation, early on our emotional equity with each other
was it already?

Speaker 4 (33:28):
It wasn't in a lock, that.

Speaker 1 (33:32):
Emotional equity wasn't in the lock like that, but it was.

Speaker 4 (33:36):
We wasn't like in it so but then you was
in it. But look, y'all ain't.

Speaker 3 (33:42):
This is another thing that fissed me off. When y'all
get caught cheating, it's never as serious.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
You know, we were.

Speaker 5 (33:47):
We wasn't really together together. She was living in my
house and we was, you know, splitting bills, but we
wasn't really we.

Speaker 1 (33:55):
Wasn't dating for really, like, no, y'all was together.

Speaker 2 (33:58):
Bro, We okay, we were together together, And then I
should have I should have I should have got the
hell about a dodge.

Speaker 1 (34:05):
I should have got the hel up out of dodge
and just said it was over.

Speaker 3 (34:10):
That's crazy. How y'all don't want to get cheated on?

Speaker 1 (34:14):
But y'all that's crazy. Don't like she don't everybody? So
why I gave?

Speaker 2 (34:19):
I let her get her get back. She definitely gotta
get back. But no, no, no, she she kept getting back.

Speaker 4 (34:27):
That's what.

Speaker 6 (34:27):
That's what, And that's the thing that is getting Women
don't have that capability in our opinion, Like when y'all
get it back, y'all like them, you know you like him,
but we never.

Speaker 1 (34:45):
I don't even like them.

Speaker 4 (34:47):
I was only it's over, it's over.

Speaker 1 (34:52):
She just think that was it.

Speaker 4 (34:55):
I don't want to hear her talk anymore. Boys.

Speaker 1 (34:59):
That is so fun. Her hair stank a little bit.

Speaker 4 (35:01):
This is this is.

Speaker 3 (35:05):
How y'all be.

Speaker 4 (35:06):
That's so fashional.

Speaker 1 (35:07):
It But when y'all cheat back, you like this, taking
you on dinner, telling them all the stuff I didn't do.
He rubbing you down.

Speaker 4 (35:16):
I hate it.

Speaker 2 (35:18):
No, yes, no, this was in and out and she
and most of the time, and this is and I
want to tell you, this is the part that that
really gets me.

Speaker 1 (35:29):
Every time, right, it's because we lie to the other chick.

Speaker 4 (35:33):
She think we single. The other chick thinks we single.
They think they called.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
Don't go on.

Speaker 2 (35:40):
We got all this motion in the city by itself.
Go ahead, that's what you want to think. I ain't
nobody likes me cool. I'm gonna let you look at
that imagination. But that's the part like so she didn't
even know said I.

Speaker 4 (35:58):
Like the women. You gotta girl. Come on, you know
I had on.

Speaker 2 (36:01):
You think I was by myself a real straight up.
You didn't ask, but anyway, you didn't want to know.
You didn't want to know the truth. She didn't want
to know. You women asked all the questions.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
They want to know. They are FBI agents, you hear me.
And now when something happened, they friends called. They can
get on.

Speaker 6 (36:17):
They'll get on the internet and know everything about a
person who they talk to and the blood type, everything.

Speaker 1 (36:22):
Right. But then the dude you was talking to, I
didn't know he had a girl.

Speaker 4 (36:28):
That's a lie.

Speaker 6 (36:29):
Y'all run background checks on everybody, And if you didn't,
that means you didn't want to know.

Speaker 1 (36:34):
That's true because you wanted to mess with him.

Speaker 3 (36:37):
Exact a sad cheek fault because she knew you had
a girl.

Speaker 2 (36:40):
No, no, girl, No, the girl doesn't know we're saying,
is this The girl does not know she's an innocent victory.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
She asked you. But the side dude knows completely about
Zach and.

Speaker 2 (36:55):
He knows everything. He knows everything. We don't do everything.
You mad at us about everything. He knows the whole.

Speaker 4 (37:04):
He knows when to call you, he knows where you're
going to work, he knows every moment.

Speaker 1 (37:09):
You have with you, not with me.

Speaker 4 (37:11):
So now we got a dude that knows how to
be better than us.

Speaker 1 (37:16):
So now you now when you find out, you know.

Speaker 2 (37:18):
What he's doing that We men, we living men, live
in a life of competitiveness.

Speaker 5 (37:24):
And don't y'all realize y'all are slighting y'allself when y'all
cheat back start there, Please let me tell you something.

Speaker 1 (37:31):
You're setting a man up.

Speaker 6 (37:33):
Boy, y'all set a man up to just be the
person who doesn't have to commit to you that gets
to hit and y'all like that, and what.

Speaker 1 (37:41):
Are you doing? That's crazy?

Speaker 5 (37:43):
What are you doings? Okay, you're just running around town
sleeping with everybody. What are you setting yourself.

Speaker 1 (37:52):
Up for what do you mean a man if he's cheating.

Speaker 6 (37:55):
Yes, yes, you're cheating. Okay, you're looking at a man conquered.
You're looking at a man go through all.

Speaker 2 (38:02):
His his Uh you letting another man conright?

Speaker 1 (38:07):
What I want to be conquered. I want to be conquered.
If you cheat on me, I want to be conquered. No,
that man, bring him into it. I'm talking about to
cheat us.

Speaker 3 (38:17):
In the room. If y'all out here doing all the conquering,
what's wrong with me want.

Speaker 1 (38:23):
To be conquered? Because it's because to that man, Because
that man.

Speaker 6 (38:28):
Just gave him that alley of ease. That man who's cheating,
he got to convince them women to cheat with him.
So he has to be in a He has to
be that much of an outstanding man that other women
would like to share their vagina with outstanding. Okay, women,
y'all don't have to convince nobody to give y'all penis,
because penis is not that valuable. But what you do

(38:51):
is you set up a man to get you. Let
a man degrade you and say, I'm not even gonna
be your Yeah, I don't even have to be your man.
I'm just your brother. I'm just your dude on the side.
Every man would love that role. So you're giving that
role away?

Speaker 1 (39:16):
Is he?

Speaker 2 (39:17):
He know you got you sleeping, that he getting ready
to tear you apart things that he ain't never probably
done on a regular he doing everything, put his face everywhere,
putting your face everywhere, all every place, and then sitting
you back, all destroyed.

Speaker 4 (39:32):
And this gruntled to me. I don't know that woman.

Speaker 2 (39:38):
Didn't do half the things that you we do on
a regular We just had quick sex. This dude, this
dude with a crazy on you. The fact of thinking
your dude, I can't shoving stuff in your mouth and
everywhere else that got your ankles.

Speaker 4 (39:57):
I can't take it. I know I can't pay.

Speaker 5 (40:00):
And that's why I'm just letting y'all talk, because y'all
literally showing us that y'all cannot handle what you put out.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
So stop it.

Speaker 4 (40:07):
No, it's a quick beating.

Speaker 5 (40:08):
You don't you know we can stop this whole cycle
if y'all just stop cheating, we can stop.

Speaker 1 (40:13):
Y'all have the power.

Speaker 3 (40:14):
So let me let me tell y'all take back y'all
power as.

Speaker 5 (40:17):
Men take back y'all power. As the King's God have
created y'all to be. Okay, y'all shape this society in
this world, and to end cheating. Just stop it, because
when you cheat, you put me.

Speaker 3 (40:30):
In a very compromise position to make me want to
get what.

Speaker 1 (40:34):
You say, conquered. And I don't want to be out
here wanting to get conquered. You know what I'm saying.
So take your power back, black men.

Speaker 3 (40:42):
Okay, and y'all stop the cheating, and then we can
stop being what we gotta be because we don't want
to do that.

Speaker 1 (40:48):
I want to be faithful to you. I want I
want to be that for y'all want to clean. I
want to do all that.

Speaker 5 (40:54):
But I can't do that if you out here cheating,
because if you cheat, now I got to get now,
I gotta beat you.

Speaker 4 (41:00):
But you have so fair. That's fair.

Speaker 2 (41:02):
You y'all stop, and I definitely stopped. I definitely shot.
I don't know after you know, I didn't know. I
definitely have. I definitely have.

Speaker 1 (41:14):
I mean I would.

Speaker 2 (41:16):
I would prefer to date. And if I'm gonna that's
what that's really the key thing. If you're gonna date
that date. But once you lock in, you gotta lock in.
You gotta lock in, don't let your That's what I
learned them. I don't know anybody else when it's time
to lock in.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
You just got to lock in.

Speaker 4 (41:31):
Date until you don't want to do that no more.

Speaker 1 (41:34):
That's right, that's take your power back. Yeah, because you can't.
We can't handle it.

Speaker 4 (41:39):
That's just that.

Speaker 1 (41:39):
Really, that just gets right down to it.

Speaker 2 (41:43):
Before I was about to go to this, well, we'll we'll,
we'll go there. We'll get to our quick question here.
We got a couple of minutes. Do you financially stability?
We talk about a lot, but it's really it's still
a lot going on financial stability, credit score, good.

Speaker 4 (42:00):
With money, it's people where we got good credit. But
I mean, you just think about it.

Speaker 2 (42:06):
Just' say you financially stable in your girls, Rocky, Kiki,
you financially stable in your guys a little rocky.

Speaker 1 (42:14):
Is that a thing? Or you gotta find equally yoke
people in that financial or not.

Speaker 2 (42:19):
When I'm saying financial stability, I'm talking about being able
to function as an adult by yourself, totally independent, don't
need anybody else.

Speaker 5 (42:28):
Yeah, I feel like we all desire that. We all
desire to be equally yoked. But it's never it's not
a reality in this climate. It's just not somebody's gonna
out earn somebody in a relationship, somebody. You might have
peaks and valleys for each partner in a relationship. You
gotta figure out how much you willing to work with
a person in that how much you love them, how
much you like them, how much you want to be

(42:49):
with them, what you're willing to give up and sacrifice
to be with a person, Because trying to find somebody
who earns just as much as you earn, who matches
your level of ambition, who match is your your level
of hustle, is not realistic. We're all not created the same,
we're all we are raised by the same people, we
all come from different backgrounds. So you gotta find out

(43:11):
who you willing to compromise for because trying to date
out here and have this expectation of they gotta match
you or be above you, it's just not realistic to
me in this climate. And so when you're dealing with somebody,
you gotta figure, Okay, so if they not financially stable,
what else do they bring to the table, Because what
you're not gonna be is a cheating, okay, disrespectful, unfinancially

(43:34):
secure person.

Speaker 1 (43:35):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (43:36):
You got to bring something to the table if you
you not gonna cheat on me and be broke. Okay,
you got to bigger struggle. So you get one struggle.

Speaker 1 (43:53):
What is gonna be?

Speaker 5 (43:53):
Is it gonna be finan You know it's you gotta
have to compromise with whoever you end up dating, is
what I'm saying. And so I think it's crazy because
a lot of us are raised to believe and tell
you talk about this all the time, like you don't
want to date a woman who doesn't work and doesn't
bring anything financially to the table.

Speaker 2 (44:10):
I never seen it before. I didn't grow up like that.
My mom and my mom and grandmother and aunts, I mean,
would go to work all day. My uncle would do
hair in a kitchen well in the basement, and then
you had you know it just I've never seen it.
I've never I just I don't come from that type
of woman. I've never seen a woman that doesn't have
multiple hustles. I think that's why I got them, to

(44:31):
be honest with you, because this is what I saw
growing up. But my thing for this, I'll pose this
question you, Zach, because this is for all of us
in the room and for people like us that and
even when you saw Judge matthis talk about it what
we are, our achievement seekers and the hustle.

Speaker 1 (44:50):
It's always about it is, Hey, I got this, what's next?

Speaker 4 (44:54):
I got this?

Speaker 1 (44:54):
What's next?

Speaker 2 (44:55):
Is that something that may you may think that causes
problems and relationships that you've had because you always grind.
It's a comedy show, it's a show, it's a podcast.
Is that caused the problem that?

Speaker 6 (45:07):
Definitely, That's definitely caused problem my relationship. It's just because
I'm always doing the next thing and I don't take breaks.
I don't take vacations and stuff like that, and I'm
not good at like planning them either, Like, oh, I'm
gonna take this time. It just feels weird for me
to be like, I'm not gonna work through this whole
time and I'm gonna go someone.

Speaker 1 (45:25):
I'm gonna spend money and go somewhere, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (45:29):
And I think that just comes from I didn't take
vacations as a kid growing up. Vacations weren't like we
didn't have like family vacations we had like we're going
to a family union this weekend and we'll be back.
You know what I'm saying. So I didn't never I've
never even seen. I don't even my mind. Don't cut
off in those ways like it's just you keep going,
you keep going, you keep going. Now that I'm mindful

(45:51):
of it, I'm trying to do better, but that's still
a work in progress, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (45:55):
But to your point of a woman, I don't want
a woman that hustle like me. I do want you to.
I do want you to have your own thing going.
I do want you to have your own bag.

Speaker 6 (46:05):
All right, But I also want you to be better
at managing the cut off than I than I can.
I would a balance, balance, like I need you to
bring that balance into my life. I need you to
tell me, hey, call off work between this day and
this day. All right, you ain't going We're going.

Speaker 1 (46:24):
Such and such.

Speaker 6 (46:25):
I need somebody to tell me that, you know what
I'm saying. I need somebody who is going to be
able to be that balance. I don't want to know
every time I like, I want to talk to you
a lot. I want to come home to you. I
I want you to be available.

Speaker 1 (46:38):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (46:39):
If you're always working, you're not available. And if I'm
always working, we you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (46:44):
But you do want her to work? Now, I do
want her to work. Get he mixed up? You want
a housewife that work? That no, I wanna, I wanna,
I wanna, I wanna. I wanna working woman who can
and cut it off.

Speaker 5 (47:03):
That's as you exa it is, but it's not think
about it. It's so women cut it off.

Speaker 1 (47:12):
They go to brunch all the time, they go to
they go on trips.

Speaker 4 (47:18):
Kiki like us, That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (47:20):
But I'm talking about I'm talking about Kiki's in the
same field as us.

Speaker 1 (47:25):
This this stuff don't cut off.

Speaker 6 (47:27):
I'm talking about a woman who works, but now it
may not be in a career where we demanded and
we pulled so many different ways. These women who work
nine to fives go to the club, they go on vacations,
they go with their friends, they see all this, All
those things still happen, and they work like.

Speaker 3 (47:45):
A school teacher that's off in the summers.

Speaker 6 (47:47):
Yeah, Pharmacists, they don't want the VP, he don't want
the CP of the.

Speaker 1 (47:54):
Company he won't or a CEO that's built it and
got people running for.

Speaker 6 (48:01):
But even in that, she can cut it off at
certain times, she can be like, all right, from this time,
I just need you to be It's not even about
what you do, it's about you being in touch with
your cut off side more than I am, because I
don't have to cut off.

Speaker 1 (48:12):
Yeah, I think.

Speaker 2 (48:13):
Women, I'm sorry. I think women in general are more
in touch when they cut off side than me. And
I just think I do, I do think. I think, y'all.
I think, and you can look at it. I think
women are way more tuned with they like, hey, I gotta,
I gotta, I gotta, I gotta, I gotta stop, I gotta.
I mean, spas are full of women at.

Speaker 1 (48:35):
Like that.

Speaker 3 (48:36):
This man is crazy. Spies are full of women is insane.

Speaker 2 (48:40):
But I'm just saying women know how to say, hey,
I'm about to go get a massage. Hey I'm about
to go get them I'm about to go have have
a have a have a me day.

Speaker 1 (48:49):
A lot of times dudes don't know that because every
day is a U day.

Speaker 4 (48:53):
Every day. I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (48:55):
I just I'm just thinking of the system.

Speaker 4 (48:57):
I don't know how to I never I know. I
know I know more women and know.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
How to say it's cool, let me go on vacation.
I know more women to say I'm going to go
get a massage. I don't know a lot of dudes
at least all my friends grind all of them, real estate, business, architecture, engineer, entertainment,
all of my boys. The people that make them stop
is their girl. It says, hey, we haven't I got

(49:23):
a spot day with my girl, bro, I gotta go here.
And then they become actually they women teach them how
to become guys, to carve out like they've become on
their own, Like, yo, I'm going to the spa.

Speaker 1 (49:36):
But I don't think men and we not afforded the
right to do that. And who's saving us?

Speaker 4 (49:41):
Kiki, Ain't no such thing as a house husband.

Speaker 2 (49:44):
I knew you get mad when I say it, ain't
no such Ain't nobody saving no man, Ain't nobody saving
no man.

Speaker 4 (49:50):
Ain't nobody saying that's just a fact. It really got brothers, brothers.

Speaker 3 (49:58):
So every time I get ready to go all the
way to the feminis side.

Speaker 1 (50:01):
I got.

Speaker 5 (50:01):
I do have brothers, and I understand what you're saying.
I do understand that men do not get the same
type of grace that may be looked upon. But I
do think a lot of women have to set boundaries
and carve out those type of times because we have
to care for so many more people that a lot
of times men do. We gotta go to work, we
gotta take care of the kids, we gotta take out
the house, and we gotta take care of our men.

Speaker 1 (50:20):
So a lot of women are doing that. Not me,
but a lot of women are.

Speaker 5 (50:24):
So those women are cutting off times to go to
the spot and get their mental health together, and they
deserve to do that because they've worked enough to do that.

Speaker 4 (50:30):
Right.

Speaker 5 (50:31):
Men, on the other hand, same thing, y'all deserve those
same type of rights because you are working to be
a provider, You are hustling, you are trying to create
whatever for yourself. But when you just say it like
the spas are full of women, yeah, I.

Speaker 4 (50:43):
Don't I don't mean. I don't mean I mean that.

Speaker 2 (50:44):
I mean that in the sense of maybe, because again,
when you say anything about women, you go crazy.

Speaker 4 (50:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (50:48):
Yeah, when I say that, it's said as a as
a gender, y'all know how to cut it off. Y'all
been taught how to cut it off. Your mamas have
taught you how to cut it off your daddy. My
dadd ain't never told me to go to the right right,
but that ain't nothing. My dad ain't never told me, hey,
go get a massage.

Speaker 5 (51:06):
Y'all would go to the strip club and take a break,
or y'all would be down at the local bar taking
a break, or y'all in the club helling AAA, or
y'all playing a video game, y'all going to a certain event.

Speaker 3 (51:16):
So yeah, y'all have y'all time, and y'all take y'all
time a lot, Okay. Whereas a woman may have to
literally carve out on a calendar, I gotta find a babysitter,
I gotta find you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (51:26):
I gotta take off work. I gotta make sure this
project's still done for my boss. I gotta women who
have the same type of things that we all have
to carve out. I think when it comes to relationships,
you have to find somebody who is a balance for you,
a good balance for you. And Zach made a good
point of what a balance is for him when it
comes to financial stability. I can work with you until
you start affecting my lifestyle. So when I want to

(51:47):
go on vacation and I got to worry about you
know what I'm saying, If you.

Speaker 1 (51:52):
Gonna be able to go, now that's a problem.

Speaker 3 (51:55):
If I got if I want to bask something for
the house and I got to think twice about what
I got about.

Speaker 1 (52:00):
Now that's a problem.

Speaker 5 (52:01):
So when we talk about financial and being in relationships,
for me, it's we cool. Whatever your situation is is
cool because I'm gonna earn, I'm gonna earn, I'm gonna earn,
I'm gonna figure it out.

Speaker 1 (52:15):
So you ain't.

Speaker 5 (52:16):
I don't necessarily want nobody to take care of me,
but you cannot negatively affect.

Speaker 4 (52:20):
My lifestyle once you start negativity.

Speaker 3 (52:23):
I came, I came out about it because you ain't
got your stuff together.

Speaker 1 (52:28):
We in trouble, that's what you know what I'm saying.
I get it there. Yeah, that makes sense. I need plays.

Speaker 2 (52:37):
I need a woman that got like that. I don't
know what I found. Intelligence is probably my way smarter
than me. I enjoy women that are way smarter than
me because I learned they teaching me stuff. It's been
I've dated to women that are extremely intelligent that teach
me stuff that I had no idea about. And then
there's the then then, But it's the plays part too,

(53:00):
that no business or no other ways, and they can
talk to you about your business, they could talk to
you about other business and y'all figure out places to
get I don't know that part of it. So when
you say, like a woman for you to stay home
and do and can turn it off, I kind of
don't want my woman to turn You want to partner?
I want, yeah, I want.

Speaker 4 (53:17):
I want.

Speaker 1 (53:18):
Let's let's let's go get as much money as we
can get.

Speaker 3 (53:23):
I don't let go and see who with your first.
I want you to just as hard as me.

Speaker 1 (53:29):
That's the time. I want, let's go get Well, we
ain't gonna we ain't gonna see each other.

Speaker 4 (53:34):
No, no, we're gonna. You are gonna see you are
gonna you are gonna see each other.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
You just have to.

Speaker 2 (53:38):
It's more thought out and it's more and it's actually,
in my opinion because I've been in some situations like that,
relationships like that where it's more thought out.

Speaker 1 (53:47):
It's more like, all right, it's planned out.

Speaker 2 (53:49):
We gotta do this. But it's still I enjoy watching.
I enjoy watching my girl go get bread. I enjoy
it like a hustling ass cheek like yo, I enjoy.

Speaker 4 (53:59):
Her to see her.

Speaker 2 (54:01):
I'm gonna cheave. I'm like, my life is a video game, bro.
I love getting to the next level. And once I
get that that next level, I'm on the next one.

Speaker 1 (54:10):
Y'all be with me all the time.

Speaker 4 (54:11):
We what do I do?

Speaker 2 (54:13):
I talk about we didn't hit this level? All right,
that's cool. What's the next one?

Speaker 4 (54:18):
We hit this?

Speaker 1 (54:18):
I want to think like that. I want her to
do her thing, but I also want to be taken
care of. Yes, that's what he wants. We can.

Speaker 4 (54:28):
We can.

Speaker 1 (54:29):
Tom wants to get flown out.

Speaker 4 (54:31):
He was like like, like you, I don't want to
get flowed out.

Speaker 1 (54:38):
Girl to send a jet to him, and that's what's
talk about. I'm in love. She got a jet. I'm
in love. That's what dag.

Speaker 3 (54:46):
On the other hand, you won't not broke housewife.

Speaker 6 (54:50):
Yeah, you don't want you to be broke. I want
you to be able to take care of something, but
I also want you to.

Speaker 1 (54:55):
My back, and I don't know what I want. I
needn't exactly I.

Speaker 4 (55:02):
Want to be you got your person.

Speaker 1 (55:04):
You was a quiet, strong, strong shooter and you got one.

Speaker 3 (55:08):
Yes, that's literally.

Speaker 1 (55:11):
This is what I prayed for. A shooter. Lord should
be a shooter.

Speaker 4 (55:15):
It's crazy, all right, man, thoughts man, we had time man.

Speaker 5 (55:18):
Oh final thoughts man. I just want to say shout
out to Cisco. Yeah, it hit my I thought about
this over the weekend and it's been on my heart heavy.
We did not appreciate Cisco the way we should have
appreciated him in his prime. And I saw him moon
walking at like a picnic or something over the weekend
on Instagram.

Speaker 1 (55:40):
And it just really it be is something to me.
I don't like it.

Speaker 3 (55:42):
So I just feel like everybody need to go stream
some Cisco this weekend or this week and we need
to get him. You know, Cisco good out here.

Speaker 5 (55:51):
He's great, Drew, he'll be performing everywhere, right, but he's Cisco,
and we did not appreciate before. See I don't want
to star, I don't rough no feathers. But before that
was Chris Brown, there was Cisco.

Speaker 1 (56:03):
Fight me.

Speaker 3 (56:03):
If you want to do your research, before there was
Chris Brown, there was Cisco, and we did not know.

Speaker 6 (56:12):
As much as you think it's disrespectful to compare people.
You I know you did not bring Chris Brown and comparison.

Speaker 1 (56:18):
I'm just telling you.

Speaker 3 (56:20):
Cisco backflipped so Chris Brown.

Speaker 1 (56:24):
Could do what he doing, so he could do that
karate and then twist children that may see this.

Speaker 5 (56:31):
I would like y'all to go on YouTube and research Cisco.
We did not appreciate that man like we should have. Well,
I'm gonna tell you what Cisco's problem we have. We
have love and appreciation for Cisco Andrew Hill.

Speaker 1 (56:45):
We do not talking about Drew Hill.

Speaker 5 (56:47):
I'm talking about Cisco, well, Cisco, but I can't talk
about the reason I can't talk about just Cisco is
because the last five times I've seen you know, I
know about it.

Speaker 1 (56:56):
The last.

Speaker 6 (56:59):
The last five time I have seen Cisco perform, he
has performed with full new nits right, and I'm sick
of that. You know what I'm saying, Either be bring
the same people back. We don't know these other three
that you're singing with Cisco stop.

Speaker 1 (57:15):
And my thing is that he don't need them. That's
what's it.

Speaker 5 (57:19):
But I feel like we have not valued him enough
that people feel comfortable putting featuring Cisco on the ticket,
so they put Drew Hill because they feel like that's
the bigger brand, when Cisco is the brand and he
is the Beyonce and he should have been bigger than
what we let him be.

Speaker 3 (57:36):
And I feel like we need to redo it. He
need another shot.

Speaker 4 (57:41):
Cisco could death. Drew Hill needs it.

Speaker 1 (57:43):
I'm looking at some of the songs Residency, No, the
biggest hits off from Drew Hill.

Speaker 6 (57:49):
Cisco has no bigger head than thank You, No No No,
I Got You, I Got you. But I'm talking about
replay value. I'm talking about replay back. You're not going
You're not going to the club. Nobody's going to pull
on thong songs.

Speaker 1 (58:02):
You hear thong song in Passing and you like it,
but you not be like, let me hear that thong
song today, But you will hear you and I ever
make a prime. You'll listen to that any.

Speaker 4 (58:11):
Day, beauty.

Speaker 1 (58:13):
That's Drew hell No, that's jazz. Don't you cannot sit
up here jazz. Let sing lead on that song.

Speaker 3 (58:21):
I love you, Jazz, I respect you. Cisco voice was
was the you don't know that.

Speaker 1 (58:31):
I know, I know Jazz, I know Cisco, and I
know Nico.

Speaker 5 (58:34):
Okay, there was one that could backflip, stay on key
and had silver Hair in the night.

Speaker 6 (58:40):
But that's what records that Cisco have by himself. He
had incompletely had song.

Speaker 1 (58:45):
I don't even have to listen to the other songs
that he got. He had thong songs. There is no
there is nothing else to talk about.

Speaker 4 (58:53):
It.

Speaker 1 (58:54):
If you like thog song that much, see how many
tickets you get? So incomplete was.

Speaker 6 (59:02):
The better record, if you want to be real, long
song was the bigger record, bigger.

Speaker 1 (59:06):
I just feel like a white folks got a hold
of the Thong song and it couldn't take it.

Speaker 4 (59:12):
That's all it was. That's a fact.

Speaker 1 (59:14):
But I just want us to respect. I think I'm
the same bird song. It's the same burden, don't matter.
It's a huge record.

Speaker 5 (59:29):
Sing about a throne and like that, Like what y'all
we don't I'm gonna do this, think'mna this ever episo.

Speaker 3 (59:38):
I'm gonna bring up somebody that needs their flowers and
today it is Cisco, and.

Speaker 1 (59:44):
Let's Cisco. I love you baby, and I'm ride for you.

Speaker 4 (59:51):
Okay, all right, Zack, you got a final thought. That's
not a dog as Kiki. I do not.

Speaker 6 (59:55):
I do not have some dying love to old school
two thousand and be artists like Key. I don't know
what she stoes through on the weekends, but it seems
like when we have longer weekends, especially with the holiday
or something, she comes back with some randomness. Okay, so
what we need to do is keep the weekend short
because thirty day weekend, she don't win that Sisco rabbit
hole on Monday because she don't know what to do

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her time.

Speaker 4 (01:00:21):
Y'all sleep an hour.

Speaker 1 (01:00:24):
This is one of the longest episodes we had it weekends.
I'm out shout out to let me get one.

Speaker 4 (01:00:35):
The one music fast now.

Speaker 1 (01:00:36):
Lloyd is dope? Yeah, oh man, y'all crazy.

Speaker 2 (01:00:40):
Bye, All all right, guys, remember keep watching t r L.
Thank you so much for showing up.

Speaker 1 (01:00:45):
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Speaker 4 (01:00:47):
Yeah, they canceled actually audition with t r L.

Speaker 3 (01:00:53):
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Speaker 2 (01:00:54):
Yeah, I ended up getting sucker for days for four months, yeah,
seven three Sundays.

Speaker 1 (01:01:01):
Yeah. I think we should do this every episode too.
What history about a fact about Tone's career that we
did not know? I did not know that.

Speaker 2 (01:01:08):
Yeah, we actually got it. We were in like a
contract and then they just kind of like just all
just like, hey, let's just have you do because the
amount of money that MTV was gonna pay, it wasn't
at that, it wasn't that you know you more.

Speaker 1 (01:01:21):
Like I'm on MTV.

Speaker 2 (01:01:22):
Yeah, but in tr and TRL was about to end
pretty much, but they was looking for some hosts.

Speaker 4 (01:01:29):
But we did.

Speaker 1 (01:01:29):
We did that.

Speaker 2 (01:01:30):
We did that, Sucker Free Sundays four month, wow TV. Yeah, yep,
I got story about the Boondocks. I got a story
about the game. What I got a story about I
Entertainment News.

Speaker 4 (01:01:41):
I got some story.

Speaker 1 (01:01:42):
Okay, well we'll unlock one every week. Yeah, we'll unlock them.
Well unlocking Uhisco shout out to Nelly.

Speaker 4 (01:01:49):
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you watch you watch it?

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Speaker 1 (01:02:01):
With that being said, what more can we say