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April 30, 2025 • 64 mins
Tone Kapone, KeKe, and Zach Boog talk Sinners Movie Review, B2K's Reunion, Dating With Intentions & More!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Let's go all right, welcome to it and what more
can I say? Podcast? Oh boy, the Popamn, it's gonna
be a crazy episode.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Judging by the pre show, we welcome to it.

Speaker 1 (00:11):
I want your hopread well, wait a minute.

Speaker 2 (00:15):
What's your real name? Not your strengthen name?

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Boy, I was about to say I.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Had I had to you. I knew you was a stripper.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
It's Crazyive me the ship, crazy boy ready, ray fam
just everything's going crazy?

Speaker 2 (00:56):
All right?

Speaker 1 (00:56):
First of all, this is episode what rider two fifths
to t I want your whole song and Paul ahead,
this the first lady of the pot, the only lady
of the pie, and gave me a stripper name at
the beginning of the show. Just let it slide, ki key,
for God's sake. What's up, hey, y'all?

Speaker 2 (01:14):
What's up?

Speaker 3 (01:15):
Red? Hey?

Speaker 2 (01:18):
That's what I used to call you back to all
light skinned people, was called red. That is a fact.
That is that is a fact. All right?

Speaker 1 (01:26):
Man, the funny man at the pie, A little bro man,
Zach Bull, What up, my god?

Speaker 2 (01:31):
What's up with y'all?

Speaker 3 (01:32):
Man?

Speaker 4 (01:32):
I'm I'm actually about to change your name in my
phone to read. I want you to know that I'm
in that like that R E D D two D.

Speaker 5 (01:41):
Pause all right and kik you okay, your voice is deep.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
No, man, I've been smoking blackest again. You back on
that ship, You're back on it. No, don't come and
do get rid of that gin just.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
Like my I just I just left the funeral and
just saw my my that experiments.

Speaker 5 (02:01):
And drugs and said, y'all got the same voice right now.

Speaker 6 (02:04):
No, I'm sick, y'all. I've been down the last couple
of days.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
You have even sick.

Speaker 6 (02:10):
Yeah, I'm sick. I know, nobody lets me rest. I
still have been work.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
You know, I didn't notice her voice is a little.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
Can you imagine this at six in the morning taking
your kids to school? On kids?

Speaker 6 (02:26):
Lawyer, Hell, you don't like this, change it. I've been
drinking water, honey tea. I'm turning into a real man.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
I don't know. Man. All right, man, let's get to
the pot. All right. There is an update on the
Diddy trial.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
They said he turned down a federal sex trafficking please
deal h and his lawyers calling him a swinger.

Speaker 2 (02:53):
What are y'all thinking?

Speaker 1 (02:54):
They said, he's not a criminal, He's just a freaky dude. Hey,
I know a lot of freaky dudes. You want to
call it, Yeah, but I mean, what do you think.

Speaker 6 (03:04):
There's a lot of other stuff in there besides just
being a freak, A lot of sex trafficking.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
What is sex? Sex traffic?

Speaker 1 (03:12):
Is it flying people that have sex? That's that's not
not against they will you gotta get on the plane?

Speaker 2 (03:18):
Google is free. I bought you a ticket. You don't
have to come.

Speaker 5 (03:25):
Like, it's not that simple.

Speaker 1 (03:26):
I like, hey, Kiki, I wanted I'm gonna fly you
across country because you know what it is, and I'm
paying for your ticket.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
You don't have to come.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
I think it was paying the sex traffic part was
paying sex workers, which is illegal in certain states.

Speaker 5 (03:43):
In certain states, so you can do that in Vegas
but you can't.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Not really a federal crime.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
Noo.

Speaker 2 (03:48):
Yeah, you said like a man that flat people around. No,
I just I mean I have flown women here consensually.
Hold on, have you have you flework? Okay? Not knowing
he is a sex worker, he is a sex worker.

(04:12):
I just don't think that this is a good defense.

Speaker 4 (04:14):
Diddy's defense is I was too high and drunk, so
ain't no way I could have committed those crimes. You're
still liable for the things that you do when you
are intoxicated.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
Is it consensual? Though, I don't know. I don't know.
If you are getting we got a problem, then we
got a problem. You not.

Speaker 4 (04:36):
It's not consensual. I don't know what's going on. Even
if you're heavily intoxicated, it's not consensual.

Speaker 2 (04:42):
You can't legally.

Speaker 4 (04:43):
Let's say you go out with a woman y'all having drinks,
she goes over her limit, you have sex with her.
She wakes up and says, I don't think I can
sent it to this.

Speaker 2 (04:51):
You in trouble. Yeah, it's called overcooking. Overcook your chick.

Speaker 5 (04:57):
You say, you collars, But that's still so that's what
I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
So, if you're out here having these parties, you provide
these drugs you got baby, or you can't leave.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
You gotta do this type of cocon you you are
providing a sesspool of wicked things. What's that's the problem?
Shout and sharp, all of y'all are too freaky.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Well, you look what you wouldn't have done.

Speaker 1 (05:27):
You didn't have had chicken and hookah and alcohol that
you were providing something for women in that that could
be considered.

Speaker 5 (05:34):
You know it's not brother, what I brouh. First of all,
it's consensual sex.

Speaker 4 (05:38):
You said, you ain't never seen me with no handcuffs
or whips beating me my head. I mean my my
sex consists of folk that a head missionary from the
back in the side, go to sleep.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
That is That is it.

Speaker 4 (05:57):
I ain't got nothing else, Ain't no other tricks. Ain't
nobody coming out, ain't no handcuffs. Don't choke me, set
me on five, shoot me in the leg.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
I don't do that. It's weird.

Speaker 4 (06:08):
Y'all are too freaky. Y'all are overly freaky. Just do
regular sex. Regular sex is enough. Yes over there, Yes,
that's k ain't never said one word. We get to
talking about why that tim got some ship going on,
and that we probably do.

Speaker 2 (06:24):
But it's me and him.

Speaker 6 (06:25):
Ain't no extra people popping out the closet. It ain't
nobody driving back.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
Coming over there. She ain't coming over there.

Speaker 6 (06:32):
Yeah, I ain't hiring nobody. I'm asked she I don't
even like baby or so. It's a lot that you
know that ain't happening in my house. You ain't never
got to worry about me going to jail for some
freaky stuff.

Speaker 5 (06:42):
That's no quit adding all these people.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
Yeah, once you go to jail for being a freak,
you done win too far. I get it even I
can understand. Don't do that. If you don't, never go back.
Ain't no surprise.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
If we're gonna be a show, it's gotta go back
because even your laughing the same, you laugh like a criminal.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
Are you plotting to take over Gosbey City? Oh my god,
don't go back? So embarrassing. Oh man, let's get today.

Speaker 1 (07:25):
Drake jobs a new fragrance Lie is that mean anything
to anyone in this room? It's called but it's from
his better World fragrance house. It's called I like the
name Summer Mink, and it's one hundred and forty eight dollars.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
I would like to smell that. It sounds like something
ride it would put up. The name is fire like. Yeah,
this that Drake some ride? Right? But I tried it
right it. Don't let them play in your face? Would
you try it to support your life? Skined brother? I will.
I want to smell it.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
Smell it might it might be good enough to add
into my collection selection the collecting fragrances. That's one of
my things.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
It's for men or women. I think it might be unisex.
There's a lot of there's a lot I don't understand them. Again,
it's a lot of a lot of a lot of fragrances.
Fragrances by I don't like my fragrances bisexual. Just get
me for the man. Just you know, it's for everybody. Gosh, y'all.

Speaker 1 (08:36):
In the new GQ interview, your thugs said it's hard
to accept the plea deal, and uh, he said it
was a crazy choice, but it allowed him to go home.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
But y'all done the same thing. Oh yeah, I'm going
to take a plea deal. Absolutely. I would have snitched
that too.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
With the flee I think it's unanimous. We all would
have told within the first being in jail man what.

Speaker 2 (08:59):
I'm not built for? Yah.

Speaker 6 (09:01):
Did y'all watch the interview or see like clips of
the interview. Didn't he have like a mask or something
on being weird? Yeah, I'm tired of that. I'm tired
of the weird stuff. I don't know how everybody that
works with him like stands by and like acts like
this is normal.

Speaker 2 (09:15):
Like if Tom came in here and was like wearing
a mask and being mysterious.

Speaker 6 (09:19):
We would have a big problem, like I'm not talk
to me real even though in the interviewer I'm looking
at him like.

Speaker 2 (09:27):
Yeah, And if you don't want to be interviewed, don't
show up and be interviewed.

Speaker 5 (09:31):
You don't have to talk. Yeah, nobody asked, Nobody asks
you talk.

Speaker 2 (09:35):
You don't have to do this.

Speaker 4 (09:37):
You can literally be like I just want to put
my album out or put out the content that you
want to put out to promote it.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
You go sit down with me with a mask on.
You are weird though, and I mean, yo, wait a minute, yo,
God does it all the time. Guy, Future Future don't
interview with no mask on. Future takes off. Well, he
goes out in public, he wears mask, covers his tire face.
That's different than getting interviewed with a mask on. Going
out in public and covering your face so people won't
see you or go through so you can just try

(10:02):
to live some sense of normality is different than going
and send down what they live in normal where some
sense of normalty you can look at up, y'all can
look it up.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
That is that a word normal What so much confidence is?

Speaker 1 (10:23):
Right?

Speaker 2 (10:25):
Normalty is a word? Is that a word? All right?
There we go. It's normalcy for normalcy, not the t
No wait look it up right, No, no, no, yeah, yeah.
He tried to sneak a word, and I'm not gonna
let it fly. It's normal normality. That ain't what you said.

Speaker 4 (10:50):
You said with some sense of normality. This is the
word I was trying to say. Okay, okay, welcome, I
mean normality. No, no, you didn't you know you made
normal that you know you normally?

Speaker 2 (11:04):
You just I knew it was normal. I knew it
was yeah.

Speaker 6 (11:10):
Standing he got on the CPS uniform shirt and that
he's still I kind of argue, don't let how you
see you are? Okay, normality, That's what I was trying
to say.

Speaker 2 (11:26):
You meant normal seed. Go on now some sense of
normal seed normality? Is it more normal to wear a
mask or just move through life with your regular face?
Let me tell you something. These women wear masks every day.
Oh they don't move around with their normal face.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Oh that guy that wasn't a painting a whole mask
on every day and go out into the world get
complimented on.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
It every day.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
I just hate I hate filters. Why it's not okay
that cool? You use good filter, not the cloudy filter.
I'm talking about the older chicks.

Speaker 2 (12:08):
They probably on your timeline.

Speaker 6 (12:10):
They take it too fine, take it too fine with
the filters, like that normal.

Speaker 3 (12:16):
That is not.

Speaker 2 (12:18):
Normal. That is you look normal, because it can't be
having rosy cheeks out.

Speaker 6 (12:26):
They didn't put a little white line under their eyes.
I'd be like, take them white. First of all, you
shouldn't after a certain that you should not be on
Snapchat using filters. We gotta we gotta save our community
from that era. It looks a hot mess. Some of
y'all look like cartoon characters.

Speaker 2 (12:42):
Man, old page full of cartoons, And I don't believe you.
That's insane. I know you ugly when I see that.

Speaker 5 (12:50):
Yeah, that's the number one side of unattractive woman.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
Oh my gosh, did you guys see this?

Speaker 1 (12:57):
Ryan Coogler Centers of course number one, second week in
a row, one hundred and sixty one million globally.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
Zach, have you seen it yet? Yes? What do you
think you lie? He lives he ain't seen it yet.
I've seen have you seen it? I've seen it. I
ain't got to lie. Oh, I ain't want to see
nothing called Centers. I know that's right.

Speaker 6 (13:20):
I'm sitting in here with a bunch of centers. Now,
I don't need to go watch no movie called Centers.

Speaker 2 (13:23):
What do you think me? Your movie Centers? It ain't
for me. I love the Lord Christian. I would have
went Saint Sat. I'm not going nowhere to sen us.

Speaker 1 (13:32):
You sitting a darkhale. Now you're supposed to support that
black man's movie.

Speaker 4 (13:38):
I saw the truth support a lot of black men
because Ryan Kee looking at me, like, just go here,
say how you feel what?

Speaker 2 (13:45):
It was cool? It was cool. So here's the thing.

Speaker 4 (13:48):
I don't like scary movies. I purfose it with that,
so I wasn't gonna see it at all.

Speaker 1 (13:52):
But all the reviews were ten out of ten, twelve
out of ten, Gotta see it again, it's so good.

Speaker 5 (14:00):
And I said, man, if it's this good, I got
to see it.

Speaker 4 (14:04):
So I went into the movie theater with those type
of expectations ten out of ten, gotta see it again,
classic epic film.

Speaker 5 (14:11):
And when I saw it, it was a good movie.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
Was it epic? Was it?

Speaker 5 (14:16):
I have to see it tomorrow? Do I have to
see it again.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
No, it wasn't life changing. Didn't change my life.

Speaker 4 (14:23):
And then, you know, just for the world people, you
don't get the message. You don't understand the mess. I
do get the message. And it was still a regular
feel it was.

Speaker 2 (14:33):
It was solid.

Speaker 1 (14:34):
It was solid. It was definitely a nine or it
was definitely a nine. I don't know ten out of ten,
but I give it a strong nine seven. It was
noematic or the strong points to me. Cinematically, beautifully shot, okay,
every shottically, I said.

Speaker 2 (14:50):
Careful, you know, let me don't get too besides yourself.
I love, I don't know, I don't know you. I
ain't him making up a whole nother addictionary. He did
good with that, but it almost it all got tricky.

Speaker 1 (15:10):
They don't sometimes they go off through. I got Gary
public school education, so I know what it means. It
might not come out with the right pronunciation. Pronunciation, but
you did that one right, if you are all right?

Speaker 4 (15:22):
So what I'm trying to say, Okay, it looked good. Okay,
Cinematically it looked good. At the sound quality, you could
tell the acting was was good. The storyline is where
I thought was the it wasn't as strong, like when
I think of a when I think of a movie,
when I when I think of a movie, you have
to see again there's that twist, that turn, that point

(15:43):
where you didn't see it coming.

Speaker 2 (15:44):
I saw the whole movie coming. I saw it.

Speaker 1 (15:46):
I read it from beginning to end. Now it is
some good I guess what I would say worldview points
in there.

Speaker 4 (15:54):
I don't want to get a movie away for those
who haven't seen it that deals with the vampires, letting
people in your society and all those type of type
of things. I read all those messages. That was cool,
that was good. I think that's what really gives it
the seven for me. But outside of that, where was
the suspense? Where was the like, oh my god, I
can't believe this happened.

Speaker 2 (16:15):
Did you see it? Yeah? I saw it. And it's
what it is is.

Speaker 1 (16:18):
Basically, it's a kind of a I'm first I love
vampire movies. Secondly, and it's kind of a it takes
similarity of a Dust the Dawn type of movie.

Speaker 6 (16:31):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
It feels like it's an introductory film to it, which
they are saying introductory film into a whole thing, like
a whole universe.

Speaker 2 (16:41):
Of this.

Speaker 4 (16:41):
Well, I'm not a whole university, so that I mean,
you gotta. I'm not here for the introducing, Like what
do we doing. I'm judging the film for the film.

Speaker 2 (16:48):
No, I mean, no, Zach.

Speaker 5 (16:49):
But then if you go watch you talking about what
they finna do.

Speaker 2 (16:52):
Yeah, no, but it's still a good film.

Speaker 4 (16:54):
I'm saying that you when I saw the first Friday,
I go ahead and keep talking. Then it's gonna just
keep talking, sing it just take one, never mind, you
got it, you got it.

Speaker 2 (17:05):
I'm sorry, Tony. No.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
Since it's inductry film, it's an introductry film into what
it seems like could be a universe.

Speaker 2 (17:13):
It looks like a good a good fel a good film.
Michael B.

Speaker 1 (17:18):
Jordan's he played them two characters like they were two
different people playing them. So what I'm saying, like, it's
a good film. You just don't like vampire movies. There's
the negative in it. You don't like scary movies. There's
another negative.

Speaker 2 (17:34):
And it wasn't scary.

Speaker 4 (17:35):
It wasn't scary. But you said you don't like scary movies,
but it wasn't scary, And yeah, I think the dopest
thing that Michael B.

Speaker 2 (17:45):
Jordan did.

Speaker 5 (17:45):
I'm just being honest, man, Michael B. Jordan did an
amazing job.

Speaker 4 (17:48):
Like I think, responding to yourself on camera has to
be tough, like figuring out how to do it. But
have you've seen if you notice in the beginning of
the movie they had what was the stack and what's
the Smoking Stack? Had very thick Southern accents in the
beginning the movie. By the time they was running in

(18:09):
the vampires, the niggas sounded like Michael B. Jodan, you know,
I ain't lying. I was like, what happened to the
accent by the time they was running, I said, I
don't sound like the same. Oh, you know what I'm saying.
I just noticed those little things that were like it
was good, but it was not. With y'all talking about

(18:30):
twelve out of ten, go see it again? Oh I
gotta go see it three four times. Do you think
it's worth seeing again? You'll go back to the theater
to see it again?

Speaker 2 (18:38):
I definitely would. I liked it.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
I thought it was a good I thought it was
a good ass movie. I mean, what is your to
get a scale? What do you think is a good movie?
Let's say that a good Black movie. What's your what's
your favorite black movie?

Speaker 2 (18:49):
My favorite Black movie as far as what like suspended, No, no,
just favorite black movie. That's a good one.

Speaker 1 (18:57):
My favorite Black movie that I know word for word
has to be Friday, Friday after next.

Speaker 2 (19:05):
So you.

Speaker 1 (19:07):
Trying to compare that's that's your favorite. That's your favorite
Black movie. So out of all the black movies, that's
your favorite, one is Friday.

Speaker 4 (19:16):
That's one I think. I can't tell you right now,
but I think so because I just know that movie
by heart. That's the one with Cad Williams.

Speaker 2 (19:22):
I can.

Speaker 1 (19:22):
I can do stuff like this. I love I love
the Friday series. I love the Bad Boys series.

Speaker 4 (19:28):
I enjoyed the Uh, I enjoyed the I enjoyed the
Power series, the original one that had all these twists
and turns and different things that you don't see coming.
If I can read, if I know the end of
the script by the beginning I have, it's not a
good movie to me. If I know what exactly is
gonna happen. I said, Yep, she's finna buy them.

Speaker 2 (19:47):
Yep.

Speaker 5 (19:48):
This was like it wasn't it was predictable. If you
have a predictable script, it's cool.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
Yeah, what's your what's mine? What's your favorite?

Speaker 6 (19:59):
I was gonna, actually, what's your favorite movie? But I
feel like, okay, I was gonna say one of my
favorite movies.

Speaker 2 (20:05):
That's right, that's what you said. No, I thought, I
love Boomerang. That's an amazing that's a good movie. It's
an amazing. I was gonna say Route Bastard. I had
said that under my breath, and then he was like yeah,
So I was like, oh my god, he really was.

Speaker 1 (20:22):
No, it's not my favorite. I don't like Black Pain,
Oh I have, I have. I actually have trouble watching
me too, watched the slave movies.

Speaker 2 (20:31):
I don't. I don't like. I don't.

Speaker 1 (20:33):
They don't sit well with me. But boomerangu is Boomerang
is my all time favorite. That's ten out of ten.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
That's a ten out of ten.

Speaker 5 (20:40):
I agree with you. One hundred thousand. That's a ten
out of ten movie.

Speaker 2 (20:44):
So you give that. So you think Sinners is a nine.
I think this is not because because of a lot
of different because of the I like Michael B. Jordan's acting.
I thought I was good.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
I thought if I thought this was an introductory film
to a bigger bigger things that was coming along, sort
of like it was like Black Panther. Like when you
watched the first Black Panther, you knew that there was
other Black Panthers coming along because you could just.

Speaker 2 (21:08):
The way the story was kind of cut in a sense.
I don't know. I thought I just liked I like Centers.
I just liked it. I just liked it. Hey, I
thought it was solid. It was solid. Was it life changing?

Speaker 3 (21:20):
No?

Speaker 2 (21:21):
Was it a good film? Yes? I think if you
go into it.

Speaker 4 (21:24):
If I could have just went into the movie theater
just to watch the movie without the expectations, it would
have been a better film. For Okay, it was the
fact that I watched it because everybody was giving all
these raves Rotten Tomatoes one hundred.

Speaker 1 (21:37):
It's the first perfect score. So now my expectation is
through the roof walking in. I wish I could have
just if I would have just watched it on Netflix,
I be Oh.

Speaker 2 (21:44):
This was good. That's what happened. When you see it
week three oop, he said, get out and support the film.
When the drop, I'm gonna tell you something. Let's just
tram a single father and every weekend ain't free. Okay,
there we go.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
He this thing got so much in place to make
sure his little guys all good. That got systems in place.
He'd the one that taught me about some systems.

Speaker 2 (22:07):
Yeah, you gotta have some systems. He got some systems.
But when Zach don't want to do something, what he
gonna tell y'all you're gonna definitely I'm a single father
because that's his big joker.

Speaker 5 (22:19):
Yes, nobody can be what you're gonna say.

Speaker 2 (22:21):
I'm not. You can't beat that. That's true. You can't. Can't,
you can't ain't. Nobody gonna ask me what my favorite
black movie is? What's your favorite Black movie? That is
not right.

Speaker 6 (22:33):
I'm scared if my boys don't go back. But my
favorite black movie is Lowdown, Dirty Shame. He just yes,
he just yes, the best black If you've never watched
Low Down Dirty SHAMEE do it today.

Speaker 2 (22:48):
I think I have a confessed.

Speaker 1 (22:50):
That's the best. But that's my favorite. I know every
word of the movie. You think Low Down Dirty Shame
is better than Harlem Nights.

Speaker 2 (22:58):
First of all, sir, no dis to your genre. That's
before my time.

Speaker 6 (23:04):
I was not born when that was in the theaters,
back when y'all had the black theaters and the white
I wasn't there, but.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
It is a classic. Man, I haven't seen it. You
have never seen You never seen Lowdown? Have you seen
Booty Call? Absolutely call before you see Lowdown? I love
Booty Call. That was a great movie. Oh my god,
you have to see Oh, you got to see it.
It's pretty good. It's incredible.

Speaker 1 (23:36):
That's what made everybody like want to be involved with
Jada Pinkett. Everybody because everybody felt like Jada, that was
really Jada Pinkett. Peaches was really Jada Pinkings fits like
dudes lost their mind over that Peaches character. They lost
their lost that mine over They wouldn't try to find
a girlfriend to act just like Peaches.

Speaker 2 (23:58):
I'm gonna watch it this weekend. Oh man, you're go
don't love it. You'll love it. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (24:02):
You might not appreciate it because we're giving it too
much praise. Yeah, he's got high expectations good black films.

Speaker 2 (24:10):
Such a good movie. Man, don't do that. Shout out
to Keenan. How about this, y'all take a listen to this.
Take a listen.

Speaker 1 (24:30):
My only question is, Kiki, why you ain't tell us
this was gonna have it because you know what Marian
told you.

Speaker 6 (24:35):
Oh no, he did not tell me. He did not
tell me this, And I did not see this coming,
not gonna lie, did not see this coming at all.
I don't know why he keep throwing him a bone,
but I'm happy he do. And no, I'm seriously, I don't.
I don't understand the track record of things that have
taken place allegedly. I don't if it was me, y'all
would never we would never be bump bump up it again.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
You don't think the good times, I'll weigh the bad
times between them. Guys. Hope they do, hopefully they do.
But I don't know.

Speaker 1 (25:02):
You he must need them, Hey, hey, hey, that that
could be the only reason I can think of, Like
just that's the only reason I can think of of.

Speaker 2 (25:13):
Like somebody didn't try. Y'all have all tried to take
me down?

Speaker 4 (25:17):
Yeah, individually, I've got individual and for me on my
on the last leg of LA either I have the.

Speaker 2 (25:24):
Most forgiving heart in the world or my set need y'all. No,
he did it for the fans, Yeah, he did it.
Maybe maybe it's for the fans. He did it for
the fans and it was. It was a great look.
They all look well and healthy.

Speaker 4 (25:40):
And he still don't like them niggas. No, you can
tell he shook up with them. And even when he
got off Fiars, he was like, he told.

Speaker 2 (25:47):
One show and one show only. Okay, well black, don't
just show up. But they had dance moves and everything.
They get the same. They choreography the same for them
all these It looked like they had worked on it
from one more time.

Speaker 5 (25:59):
Come on, let's run it one more time before we
go out here, right before the show.

Speaker 2 (26:02):
And he looked so good in l A closing out
the tour. You know him and his kids were there.
I'm happy you ain't need him like that, Oh Marik,
not a little that this week to be your pluffy

(26:28):
fat because I can't say big like that. That's so evil.
That is where you want to go. It's gonna be
like away from you. I am sick, exact. That's not
right to kick me when I'm down like that. I

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don't care.

Speaker 1 (26:56):
Oh gosh, don't let our voice go on this hold
your voice is back by them, mone you gotta come back.

Speaker 2 (27:05):
All right, y'all, take a listen to this real quick.

Speaker 3 (27:09):
Would you still give dating a woman a shot. No,
I ride for like one second, like getting to know
this person this year, and then it was like weird.

Speaker 2 (27:23):
And then I just.

Speaker 3 (27:25):
Felt insecure and I was like, nah, I'm good. I
feel like I stick to what I know. I feel
like women, it's like hard, I don't understand them.

Speaker 2 (27:36):
Who is that?

Speaker 1 (27:38):
Oh? How you say you don't understand women? Because nobody does, y'all.
I don't understand this. We don't y'all. Don't understand y'allselves.

Speaker 2 (27:52):
That's true some days, y'all. And I love Ari Lennox,
I do. She's so gorgeous and so talented. So was
she a lesbian?

Speaker 3 (28:02):
No?

Speaker 2 (28:02):
She said she tried. Boy she lesbian and didn't say
she don't like it? No? Mo or was it like
it just an experiment thing? It sounds like it's an experiment.
There's something all the way not there. So I don't know.
I don't know what she is. I so like hearing
her speak. I don't. It's hard to put it all together.

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I'll say that.

Speaker 1 (28:24):
After seeing Ari at the war Music Fest, it seems
like this is an adequate response from somebody when they
asked about Dayton. Ari Lennux is A is A is
A is an interesting, interesting human being.

Speaker 2 (28:40):
You get what I'm saying. But so beautiful and talented.

Speaker 4 (28:42):
She beautiful and chalented, no question trying to say, man,
just peel the bandaid off, talking around.

Speaker 1 (28:48):
It, talking around it, Like I just like talking to
ari Lynox would be interesting.

Speaker 2 (28:55):
It'd be interesting. It seems like you have to it
says like the person that she would date.

Speaker 1 (29:00):
She gives eggshell vibes, like you definitely walking on eggs
shells because they feels like it could go left at
any minute if.

Speaker 2 (29:07):
You say the wrong thing. So you're saying she crazy.
Have you ever talked to somebody like that? What did
you know?

Speaker 5 (29:13):
It could go left anytime if you on egg shells?

Speaker 1 (29:15):
He just one story, one comment, and it don't have
to even be directed at them nothing.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
It could just be anything and they just gonna get.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
How do we get here?

Speaker 2 (29:27):
Yes, I can't talk to people like that. Yeah, I
can't stand that.

Speaker 4 (29:33):
And it's guys like that, who you know, they crazy
dude in the hood. He'd be like you say something
or something happened and he just blow up. Yeah, okay,
well we would try the best.

Speaker 2 (29:43):
Yeah, I don't I didn't know she was dating women. Okay,
she said she attempted, but she just didn't understand women.
She's gonna go back to what she knows. Uh.

Speaker 1 (29:52):
Is there any truth to this viral tweet? Uh saying no,
no girl talks to just one guy?

Speaker 2 (30:00):
Is that true? A false?

Speaker 7 (30:02):
Kiki, no girl talks? That's very false, Kiki. We're not
talking about you, right, we're talking about women. Yes, So
you're telling me out of all your friend groups that
you have, all.

Speaker 6 (30:19):
My friends who are in relationships are stand up, beautiful
women who are faithful, faithful black women talks.

Speaker 2 (30:26):
To just one guy? Yeah, I mean you talk. I
talk to y'all. That's talking.

Speaker 6 (30:33):
But now when they start doing that, yeah, you start
doing that's the bullshit.

Speaker 2 (30:40):
And I'm not that's a lot talking starts talk to y'all.
Know that's not what we're talking about.

Speaker 6 (30:47):
I mean when you're single, as a single one because
technically I'm a single woman, so you know, if I
was to be talking to multiple people, that's my prerogative.

Speaker 2 (30:57):
But all my girls who are in committed relationship, we
don't do that.

Speaker 6 (31:02):
Ain't no man calling my phone, the texting my phone
that I know you're in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (31:08):
You live with your person. That's a there's a difference, y'all.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
Playing house, y'all ain't married, y'all playing house, y'all, y'all
are in a different space. Yes, I'm talking about dating,
having a dating hanging out. Maybe send my serious You're
not gonna get me to say that. I believe that
women got more than one guy. They got the food guy.
They got the guy that they talk to when the

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other when the guy that they really like they talk
They got the friends on guy. They got the guy
that they gonna used to get into the club guy.
They got all of it. And all y'all do is
dangle vagina in front of all of them dudes.

Speaker 6 (31:43):
I don't know these women, y'all dangle vagina in front
of every dude like you might get this.

Speaker 1 (31:50):
Okay, you want to go out, Sure you want to
go watch the movie. Sure you wanna let me in
the club.

Speaker 2 (31:55):
Sure that's called dady called. Y'all, y'all, you got another dude,
ain't got the same got the same effect, don't get
you know what? Yeah, yeah, dude, you gottak for you.

Speaker 6 (32:09):
You got a girl at work, you got a girl
from the hood that you're still messing with. You got
one of your baby mamas. You're still hitting the block with.
Y'all have the same type of roster. So let's not
act like that. Let's not act like y'all true, y'all
are lying, y'all have that's so not the club girl.

Speaker 2 (32:28):
Y'all got it, just like we got. We got a
really freaky one right there you go. It was a
nasty six. Yes, it's the honesty we got. We got.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
We got one that's close to being our girl. We
just ain't sure because there you go. It's a couple
of things. You gotta tie some loose ends.

Speaker 2 (32:47):
That's right, That's okay, Now we can be honest. I
got loose ends, but she close. She it's two things
that you need to fix.

Speaker 1 (32:59):
Then you got one like man, I like, it's just
one thing about this personality, Like if she could fix this,
we could go further. It's it's you got You got them,
y'all had. Everybody got multiple people.

Speaker 2 (33:13):
We have to.

Speaker 6 (33:14):
Unfortunately, we have to when you're dating, When you're dating,
when you're my girls that are serious relationships, they don't have.

Speaker 2 (33:22):
I believe that, sir, yall, Yes you can believe that.
We don't do that. But when we're dating, just like y'all.

Speaker 6 (33:28):
Yeah, unfortunately, we have to have multiple options because most
of y'all are trash.

Speaker 2 (33:34):
I mean, I believe it. A lot of No, a
lot of people are trash women. Are some trash ass
women out there. I never said it wasn't.

Speaker 1 (33:41):
It's trash ass people out there. And so my thing
is I ain't mad at people today. My thing is
that like people get upset when they find out that
somebody's dating multiple people, they get upset about it. It
changes the way they move, and it shouldn't. It should
just if it's working out for y'all and it ain't

(34:02):
moving to your pace, get the fuck on, that's true.

Speaker 2 (34:06):
If you want more, you got to go, You got
to go.

Speaker 1 (34:12):
Yeah, I'm just saying, like, that's what I'm saying, Like,
you gotta you gotta make decisions or if you happy
and where you at.

Speaker 2 (34:18):
Stay where you at.

Speaker 6 (34:19):
But you have to communicate that too, because a lot
of times we don't communicate that with each other. So
one person is going into something with one set of
expectations and another person is operating at a different set
of expectations.

Speaker 2 (34:31):
So you have somebody who's.

Speaker 6 (34:33):
Thinking that you're just dating them, but you like, I'm
dating everybody, but you never communicated that. So that's why
there's that's where it gets weird.

Speaker 2 (34:40):
Some people project.

Speaker 4 (34:42):
I think that's a that's a it's a cool expectation,
and I think it sounds good. I don't, but I
don't think it's realistic.

Speaker 2 (34:50):
I don't think dating to think that you could date
one person.

Speaker 4 (34:52):
No, I don't think it's realistic to communicate this over
communication of where we are within this. I just think
that's a that's a it will sound good, but in
reality we all putting our best. Because if everybody don't
wag the same, you under say what I'm saying. Everybody
that you have in your life ain't the same. So
it's it may be rude for me to say, I

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really just want to hit it on Thursday, you know,
on Thursdays.

Speaker 2 (35:18):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (35:19):
But this other girl that I'm really interested in is
she's not gonna. I can't come out and say, oh,
I really want to be with you either. Like some
especially with women, you got to let them show you
they hand you gotta I was just talking to my
friend yesterday about this.

Speaker 5 (35:35):
You have to make sure that you're dealing with the
right one.

Speaker 2 (35:39):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (35:40):
Now, what you don't do is some guys they try
to create issues, they create drama.

Speaker 2 (35:45):
They'll line and be like, I ain't got no money
to pay for this. What you're gonna do?

Speaker 4 (35:49):
That's stupid. That's the you know you're setting yourself up
for failure. But you must thoroughly vet the women you
are dealing with. And usually when men getting the relationships
is because this woman has checked all these boxes and
she is so good to her, and he like, you
know what I got. I'd be a fool to walk
to let this go. That's how men getting relationships. We

(36:09):
don't sit up here and be like, well, you know,
I want to what are we you'll know about her?

Speaker 2 (36:15):
We all like to play games instead of.

Speaker 6 (36:18):
I don't want to have the open communication in the
honesty is because you cannot take what you're putting out.
So the girl that you're hitting on Thursday, you don't
want her to hit anybody. You don't want her to
get hit by anybody else all week. You want her
to wait for you on Thursday. So by doing so,
you never tell her that you're hitting everybody. Every other chick.
The rest of the days of the week. You want
her to sit there. She wants me to pay for

(36:43):
Women are not going and telling you, Kiki, what are
you talking about? Women are not going and telling no
dude that they're going.

Speaker 2 (36:49):
What are you saying?

Speaker 1 (36:51):
They're not going to tell no dude when they go
our other men, they not going to say, hey, you
know what. H Jack took me out on the date
and we went, so we went to what ever. I
ain't saying that either.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
I'm saying because because you're not opening, you're not coming,
You're like you're.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
Just because you're we're talking about your individual if you
believe about If a woman believes about being truthful Kiki
and being up front, she should say the same thing.

Speaker 2 (37:17):
It's not just on the are you talking about it?
That's what y'all do.

Speaker 6 (37:21):
When we tell y'all that, what starts slipping, crying and
sliding down the wall. Y'all can't handle that.

Speaker 2 (37:26):
Don't give ship. Please, you don't want to share your tree.
I don't share my trees. But you go away. Guess
what I can replace you fast. It's not a it's
not a thing. It's not a thing. It's not like
we're not gonna see we're not gonna see it.

Speaker 6 (37:45):
Go like, oh I'm gonna go cry, but you can
take it while you replacing. Let's just plus just no
no no.

Speaker 1 (37:50):
If I say because she should replace it, what I'm
saying is everybody's in charge of their own person. So
if we moving and I'm liking how things going, and
I'm not going how things go, and let's say I
start liking you, but you still want to keep me
in my place, I started liking it, and I'm be like, man, Damn,
nah's bothering me that she going out all the time.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
Damn not she. It's starting to rub on me.

Speaker 1 (38:14):
You know what I do, because I'm in charge of
Compone Enterprises, I take my ass and go somewhere else
and not mad at that person.

Speaker 2 (38:22):
I'm not mad at her for not.

Speaker 1 (38:24):
Because I want something that she doesn't want with me.
It's not her fault. I just we just didn't vibe
like that. And I think a lot of times people
get all all upset because somebody we've been interacting for
this amount of time and not we're supposed to be
moving this way. But maybe it just didn't click that way,
and it clicked with somebody else. It's okay. It ain't

(38:46):
about fighting out with somebody else. Nobody is telling anyone.
No one is telling anyone what they are doing.

Speaker 2 (38:55):
Period.

Speaker 1 (38:55):
When dating is happening, it's not a man or a woman,
And you keep trying to put it on the man
either either gender is doing that.

Speaker 6 (39:03):
Okay, But here's the thing I'm just saying, when we do,
y'all can't take Oh my god, when y'all.

Speaker 2 (39:10):
That, no man is gonna be honest about what he doing.
No woman is being honest. Woman. But the thing is
because of a woman you wants to be exclusive with you.
Of course she does, Yeah, she does.

Speaker 6 (39:22):
You just said that the woman wants to be exclusive
with you, So no one knows they come into the
situation with intentions.

Speaker 2 (39:29):
To be with you. No one knows me, No one knows.
She knows if she wants to be with you.

Speaker 1 (39:36):
Know, she likes me and we're dating, and then as
things progress, she might want to be with me. But
but the opposite happens all the time. It's human beings.
It happens. It's happened to me before. Well, I don't
daint no woman, and I'm like, yo, I'm trying to
and she like I'm not I'm not over here, I'm

(39:57):
not on that right with you. I'm mad at that
it happened because she was honest with you. She didn't
say here's the difference. Now here's the difference. Here's the
difference men. Men actually read actions, so we'll read the actions.

(40:19):
Women will continue despite the actions.

Speaker 4 (40:22):
So a man, a man will hear the act will
be like, ah, she ain't pick up, she ain't kind
of I could tell she ain't really feeling me like that,
so we'll fall back. A man will treat a woman
as if it's just a physical thing, not give her
nothing else, and then she'd be expecting and then she
lives as if in her mind she's created this story

(40:42):
that that she is a wife and that he wants
to be with her forever, and he's done no signs
of that. Now you can blame men for that and
be like, in tell her, but I'm telling you what
my actions. You didn't verbally tell me either, And I
know where I stand when it's the when she was
on the other foot, like it's like women are walking
around like I don't see you like that, and a

(41:03):
lot of.

Speaker 6 (41:04):
Women do walk around and I want a relationship with you.
A lot of women say that, what are you? I'm
dating with intentions? What I want a relationship with you?
Women saying all the.

Speaker 2 (41:11):
Time, but go buy what I mean?

Speaker 6 (41:13):
Never respond me and hardly ever respond and say I
don't want that. What y'all do is keep leading them
on want that all the time, acting like, acting like
y'all want a relationship, letting that do stuff to act
like y'all in a relationship, sending her off, and then
you get mad. But if you would have just said
from the beginning, I don't want a relationship, most guys
I know tell you from the jump.

Speaker 2 (41:36):
About what.

Speaker 6 (41:39):
Here's the thing women, if the truth on the matter
is kiki, it don't matter what you tell a woman.

Speaker 5 (41:44):
If she like you, she will create a narrative and
guess what she wants.

Speaker 4 (41:48):
They'll like created in y'all head, and then get upset
when the man doesn't live up to the thing that
you created, that that nigga ain't never did that before.

Speaker 5 (41:55):
And then you be like, in it's imaginary, and then
you get and be like, oh.

Speaker 4 (42:00):
Niggas ain't ship. No, it's probably a dude who would
do those things for you. It's just not that guy.
And you you put this guy on this pedaltal and
made him and like I.

Speaker 1 (42:09):
Said, I'm never going I just don't subscribe to the
fact that it's all guys. It's all guys. That's such
a that's such a weird way to say something. It's
not all guys, it's human beings. Women do women do
fucked up ship?

Speaker 2 (42:23):
You can't.

Speaker 1 (42:24):
They do fucked up ship the same way guys do
fucked up ship. It's just it's crazy. I just don't
understand that. I don't understand it. She'd be like, well, no,
it's all a dude fault.

Speaker 2 (42:37):
It's all a dude.

Speaker 6 (42:39):
I just know. I just know a lot of men
who don't be upfront about there that there's intentions in
the end, you know it's the one on fault because
I'm falling in love with you.

Speaker 2 (42:47):
Well, yeah, because you're doing I've heard women like, I
just love you so much, you don't know me.

Speaker 1 (42:56):
It's just it's it's it's people going to show you
who they they what they're going to do, and you
either can accept it or not.

Speaker 2 (43:04):
Especcy a data. You can either accept it or not.
That is true.

Speaker 4 (43:07):
But it was easier See what happens is to switch
your root happens. See a lot of times in your twenties,
everybody's on the same thing. Everybody's just looking to have
a good time. Unless it's like unless y'all take it
to the next level, and y'all agree on that. But see,
something happens within the thirties when you start dating women,
especially women in the mid to late thirties, they're on
this time clock and they are hitting.

Speaker 2 (43:28):
The speed boat.

Speaker 4 (43:30):
Yes, but okay, now what happens is men are just
now getting into theirself and getting their money and they
stability right, so they men is swowing down and while
women are putting the speed boat on. So now we
have these relationships where it's like the woman wants all
these things and the man ain't ready. He dragging his
feet because he like, man, I just started getting a
little paper.

Speaker 5 (43:48):
I was broke in my twenties. I want to see
what this feel like.

Speaker 4 (43:51):
And then she's like, no, I gotta hurry up because
we need to have children, we need to get married,
we need to do this, we need to do that.

Speaker 5 (43:57):
And what I realized it all just boils down to women.

Speaker 4 (44:00):
They don't really be that happy like in in relationships,
and what I'm saying is not like with you and
your relationship. I'm saying like they're ready for the next thing.
So let's say me and you are talking, we start talking.
Then it's like, okay, are we exclusive? They ready to
go to the next thing?

Speaker 2 (44:16):
Okay, yeah, we're exclusive.

Speaker 4 (44:17):
We enjoy a little exclusive. They'll be like, well, what
are we doing? I know we're exclusive, but like, are
we you know, are you looking to get and then
you get married? Well okay, well we be married, but
I was.

Speaker 5 (44:28):
Thinking I want to have a kid. Then you've run
out of ship.

Speaker 4 (44:32):
Then they run out of ship to aspire to and
then that's when all hell breaks because they have ran
themselves crazy.

Speaker 2 (44:41):
I don't know if I got that line, so that
might not be logic, but I don't know about that logic.
But I'm just saying the fact that, like, that's why
I don't know your relationship.

Speaker 4 (44:53):
We don't spend women don't spend enough time enjoying each
stage of a relationship. They're waiting on the next part,
and while they're in this part, they're thinking about the next.
You can't even enjoy dating this man that really loves
you and going on dates because you're worried about when
he's gonna propose, when you could have just been enjoying
each other and let it happen naturally.

Speaker 2 (45:12):
Can I ask that a question?

Speaker 1 (45:13):
You and Tim say, hey, let's do this or it
kind of just kind of happened like a relationship. Yeah,
this is kind of did it like happened? Did it
happen or did it like or did it just like
y'all like you know what we're gonna let's.

Speaker 2 (45:26):
Just lock in. It just happened.

Speaker 6 (45:29):
I don't know, I don't I don't date casually like that,
But that's what I'm saying. So again, that's what that's that's.

Speaker 2 (45:38):
That's that's my point. They just like you gonna know, like,
that's what I'm saying, like you know, you know what?

Speaker 4 (45:46):
Somebody and then like what you doing nothing? I'm about
to come over there, are you home? I'm about to
bring this up, and then it just never stopped.

Speaker 2 (45:55):
It never stopped. It never stopped, it never stopped.

Speaker 6 (46:00):
Everybody then y'all just together, it's nothing. How long do
y'all want this dating thing? At y'all age? How long
you want to date?

Speaker 2 (46:11):
Like you don't want you don't want to.

Speaker 1 (46:14):
I'm gonna tell killer, I don't want to get a ship.
I do not want to rush ship no more. How
long is it take?

Speaker 2 (46:22):
That's the crazy part, Like y'all want to date like
that man. You are blessed? You are? You understand how
both of y'all are.

Speaker 1 (46:32):
Okay, he's how blessed y'all are to find each other
and be like lock it and really want to be
like y'all like each other.

Speaker 2 (46:41):
Y'all like hanging around each other. Y'all do the same stuff.
He just happened.

Speaker 1 (46:45):
How crazy is it that this human being comes and
meets a person he fit all of your ship. That's
a blessing for you. It does not happen for everybody.
Trust me, meet people and it's something out of place.
You be like, whoa, But that comes with getting to
know each other.

Speaker 2 (47:05):
It ain't. He ain't come perfect for me. It was
some stuff.

Speaker 6 (47:08):
I said, Okay, I'm gonna take a leave, like I
like understand, like if I this this is a man
that don't you know.

Speaker 2 (47:13):
He played bills, he got a good heart.

Speaker 6 (47:16):
I could I can get over some other stuff, Like
everybody gonna have give and taken relationship.

Speaker 2 (47:20):
So nobody's gonna come perfect. It's about what you will
accept and what you will deal with. But I don't
want to want to move fast. I want to move correctly.

Speaker 6 (47:30):
Say it again, Fine, nobody fast, But y'all be if
we in our mid thirties, you think you're finna date
me for seven to twenty.

Speaker 2 (47:38):
Years like that? Okay, that's what I'm trying saying.

Speaker 5 (47:41):
Y'all have put the age has nothing to do with
what stage we are in.

Speaker 2 (47:47):
No, it doesn't choice.

Speaker 6 (47:49):
If you were a woman that wants kids, Okay, come
in now I want to know. Am I just okay?
But now I'll ask a question that is fair.

Speaker 4 (47:58):
But now I ask the quest question do you want
me or do you just want the person to be
able to have kids?

Speaker 2 (48:04):
I want a lot of times women be wanting.

Speaker 4 (48:06):
They be like I want my husband and husband is
just a figure and I just happen to be the figure.
It's not necessarily about the person. And men want to
talk kid Men want to be loved and sinu men,
and we want to figure out if you.

Speaker 2 (48:19):
Really do you want to believe men want to be loved.
It's crazy dudes don't want to be loved. What now
a lot of women are just looking for the figure.
I will say that that is very true.

Speaker 6 (48:35):
But I feel like if a woman come in, she's
telling you what her attentions are. If you know you're
not on that type of time, let her go. Don't
keep playing this game of like.

Speaker 2 (48:44):
I'm showing her with my actions.

Speaker 6 (48:46):
No, if she wanted to have a conversation with you
and tell you what she wants and you know you
don't want the same things, say.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
That when you do the man boys, you don't have
to do it today. Shut up, it's already there. Shut up. Yeah, y'all.
I mean, it's just so sad for women these days.

Speaker 6 (49:04):
And it's so sad because y'all don't realize how much
you can accomplish in life with a partner.

Speaker 2 (49:09):
I don't think.

Speaker 6 (49:13):
Right now you can live a beautiful life with a
partner who is right for you and who loves you.
And it's like, that's what a lot of women desire,
and we're just looking for the right partner.

Speaker 1 (49:26):
The right partner too, Ki Kitty, you think we are out,
especially when you talk about at a big age, it's not.

Speaker 2 (49:34):
After you have sex for a while, you ain't tripping
about it. Ain't you ain't one of the dudes. Yeah, man,
I hit her, I hit her.

Speaker 3 (49:40):
You not.

Speaker 2 (49:40):
It ain't even a thing, no more, it's not even
a thing.

Speaker 1 (49:44):
So after you're trying to find the right person, and
a lot of us that I've done it, done it,
because and I've done it, I'm gonna keep it a buck.
I won't say who I've done it, because, yeah, I'm
at this age, I got this accomplished, I got this account.
I'm going to man the next And you start looking
and you start looking at you start ignoring different things

(50:04):
and what you didn't happen. You got your stupid ass
in a situation that you shouldn't have got into. Because
now you you've made, you making decisions on partnership about
things that don't make sense about partnership, like your age,
where you are in life, things and that and that
because you you're looking around, you see your family, you
see what you're supposed to have at that age.

Speaker 5 (50:25):
I think I just think they'd be like, my next
relationship gonna be my last.

Speaker 2 (50:29):
Exactly. He'd be like, you don't even know the nigga yet,
you don't even know, so you have already like I'm
about to settle down.

Speaker 6 (50:36):
My dog don't have any plans like life plans. Y'all
make it like it's so bad.

Speaker 2 (50:42):
Woman love the woman though, kiki ya. We find a
woman that we love.

Speaker 4 (50:47):
We started j we start off on the vagina, and
then after it's five and we love you.

Speaker 2 (50:55):
Now.

Speaker 4 (50:55):
We fall in love women. Men fall in love with
the actual woman. When we get married and we propose,
we'd be like, I love this woman.

Speaker 2 (51:01):
This is the woman that for me, it would have
been married.

Speaker 4 (51:05):
Women are looking for Yeah, women are like the next
nigga I date. I'm going all the way.

Speaker 2 (51:13):
No nigga, just be like next girl a date. I'm
just that's the white.

Speaker 1 (51:20):
I'm gonna tell you. I got in a relationship because
I was like, yo, my mama was on me, my
grandma was on me. Everybody was like, yo, look you
got to you know, you got this situation. You need
to you need to make yourself whole. And started like
the same thing she said, like like my mama said
that same speech. God love them, love my mama to death.
Life is better with a partner. You start thinking like damn,

(51:43):
I'm out here wild and I'm tripping, and what happens
is you let somebody in your life because you're trying
to feel avoid the same way women do it with
guys in the sense of trying to it's timing me
to have kids, I need to do this, and they
end up getting themself jammed up. I just think the
smart decision, the smarter decision is todate. Everybody ain't lucky

(52:03):
like you, Kiki, and like I think, the smartest sasion.
It's a date and you gotta have your non negotiables,
and yeah, you want to lock in, you want to
lock in. But for me, I just I'm just speaking
from my point of view. I'm just I know what
a bad partner can do. Absolute I know, and I've
had a couple of those. Yeah no, and I know

(52:23):
what they could do to your life. And to be
honest with you, if I had to walk through this
boy alone, opposed to making another bad partner decision.

Speaker 2 (52:32):
I'll do it. No. I respect that, and I feel
the same way I would too.

Speaker 6 (52:37):
I just want you know, people who say that women
should date, and you know, date date, then be okay
with us date dating. Don't be mad when you see
me down at as two with my other man because
I'm dating. You know what I'm saying, let's be let's
you can't be mad.

Speaker 2 (52:51):
Though the guy can be mad. He could be mad,
but you you could shoot. But you could shoot. That's
what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (52:57):
You could be you could feel away if I saw
you out there and I'm like and I'm dating, and
I'll be like, man, that made me uncomfortable.

Speaker 2 (53:03):
You got it. You can either you now, you gotta now.
You got a choice to make. Do I try to
beat this dude out? Or do I leave? Or do
I lead? And that and that's that's the that's the
that's the decision that me and making all the time.
Do I beat this dude? I'm not thinking I'm gonna
try to talk to key key the keki.

Speaker 1 (53:21):
Even the men that they know you got somebody they
know they like, but you say I'm single officially. You
don't think their men? God nay mind whoever Big Tim is.
I gotta beat big Tim out. I gotta beat big
big Tim out. But I think a lot of times,
I think a lot of times sometimes women I don't beat.

Speaker 2 (53:38):
They don't want to compete.

Speaker 6 (53:40):
Competing, y'all, don't everybody trying to get y'all to admit
is that y'all don't want to compete either.

Speaker 2 (53:45):
No, I don't like I do. I know I personally
don't like to compete.

Speaker 1 (53:49):
I know I am, but when I come in the game,
when I come in the game, I gotta come in
with momentum.

Speaker 4 (53:55):
And if I feel the momentum building, we're good. But
what I don't look like is I come in the game.
I know when I come in, I'm competing and I'm running. Okay,
I'm sprinting. I'm at the front line. I'm putting my
best foot forward.

Speaker 1 (54:07):
But if I see you, if you see me putting
my best I'm running as fast as I can. I'm
putting my best foot forward. And you still want to
go over back over here and.

Speaker 2 (54:14):
Raise this nigga.

Speaker 4 (54:15):
Guess what he can hate you because I'm putting my
best foot forward in the beginning. And if if that's
not enough to keep your attention, then we probably aren't.
I definitely had We ain't meant to be.

Speaker 2 (54:26):
And I'm cool with that.

Speaker 6 (54:27):
Women, please do like Zack. That's all I'm saying. Yeah,
putting the effort in places that you are not getting
the results from. I think I think women are doing it. Though, No,
they're not the way women is doing. I think I
think women are he loved me, and they going and
thinking that the man. No, I think they're dating and
talking to dudes. So I think what I think, I

(54:49):
don't know.

Speaker 1 (54:50):
I think that women talk to they got a guy
that they like, and then they got a possible underneath him,
and then there's a then there's the dude that's all
ways checking in and maybe some other some other stuff.

Speaker 2 (55:03):
But I think they like they trying to go after him.

Speaker 1 (55:07):
They're trying to go after him, but they still got
the possible under there that they can communicate with.

Speaker 2 (55:13):
I just don't believe that everybody's walking around here one
hundred percent.

Speaker 1 (55:17):
A woman meets a guy and she's locked in on him,
solely him, and then she ends up getting a heartbreak.

Speaker 2 (55:23):
I just don't think that happens. They think, ain't hard.

Speaker 4 (55:27):
You knowing somebody don't like you, if they got it,
if you gotta keep calling them, they don't respond.

Speaker 2 (55:32):
They don't do that stuff.

Speaker 4 (55:33):
Like people who like you, they they talk to you
every day, They talk to you all the time. They
talk to you every day. You knowing a girl feeling
you and when she ain't, And that's so, and for
some reason we think we got to. I'm not finna
keep fighting you because I know if you like me,
If you like me, you like me. If you don't,
that's cool too, And I'll move around and find somebody
that like me. That's all I'm saying, move around like women.

Speaker 1 (55:53):
Y'all should do the same thing, yes, but instead, you
know what y'all do, y'all go find y'all, go pick
the nigga that don't like you, and then try to
make him like you.

Speaker 5 (56:04):
And then when he still don't choose you, you say
the pool got p in it.

Speaker 2 (56:08):
No, you put the p in it.

Speaker 1 (56:11):
You're not gonna let this go some way. So the
nigga didn't like you, I'm trying to get you to see.
I just don't get everybody do. It's funny with everybody
it is.

Speaker 2 (56:25):
You don't like him. And I'm so sorry for all
my sisters in Christ who are dealing with this.

Speaker 1 (56:32):
I'm sorry for my sisters and my brothers they have
to deal with with the day because it's got pp
in it and everybody is not as lucky as you.

Speaker 2 (56:42):
And it doesn't have to be that way if we
all just live by the Bible. You.

Speaker 6 (56:49):
I'm trying to get that. I'm trying to get that baby.
Every day, I'm putting my best foot for it, trying
to get that.

Speaker 2 (56:55):
I don't know why. It's She sound way more believable
with a deep voice. Period.

Speaker 6 (56:59):
I ain't gonna lie, you do serious Jesus so so
sad how we are, sa, it's a sad situation.

Speaker 2 (57:14):
But it's just where you at. It's where you at.
And I think it's I think it's always been like this.
It's just I think it's always been like I think it's.

Speaker 1 (57:22):
Always been like this in a sense of like, it's
just it's always been choices. We always try to blame
social media people by I did a thing. People try
to blame social media for cheating. Social media is just
another vehicle for somebody that wants to cheat. A person
that doesn't want to cheat, don't give a hell about
social media.

Speaker 2 (57:43):
You know, you know?

Speaker 1 (57:44):
No they liking pictures? That means I don't mean nothing
if you don't act on it. It's just if you
got a good woman. And if a woman tell you
to stop liking pictures, and you really, what are you
like that you're gonna do it?

Speaker 2 (57:54):
She gonna do what.

Speaker 1 (57:55):
It's just I think a lot of people make excuses,
but it's again, on both sides.

Speaker 2 (58:00):
It's a man, it's it's both sides. I just I
just try. You still worry about your sisters.

Speaker 6 (58:07):
I'm always gonna rade for the women because I just
you know, it's a lot of good women out of here,
out here that have been fumbled by men. And I
hate to tell you, all the good men have been
fumbled by absolutely And I wish all you know what
I really wish. I wish all the people who got fumbled,
all the good brother Chip, I think all the good people.

(58:27):
I wish that they could get locked in the building
with all the good people and they found each other
and then they lead the rest of y'all out there
for each other.

Speaker 2 (58:34):
That's what I really I pray that's your that's your
final thought. Yeah, I just want people to find love.
That that that stuff.

Speaker 6 (58:41):
Everybody deserve it. And life is beautiful with a partner,
is I believe beautiful single too, especially, And it's really
it's really beautiful. When you enjoyed the stage that you at,
you don't have to be worried about the next thing.
Life ain't always about just having fun. You need to
plant seeds and prepare for you, prepare for your future. Yeah,
you're gonna wake up at sixty five and then and

(59:04):
you're gonna get what you reap what you didn't song.

Speaker 2 (59:07):
Now, what are you saying?

Speaker 1 (59:08):
Now?

Speaker 2 (59:09):
What spell you're putting on us? Look at a bell chick.
See what's going on with be A Belichick? His wife
pasted do y'all see what's going on with be A Bellichick.
Hen woke up with this little twety three. Y'all girl,
that's giving him hell? That was that's irresponsible.

Speaker 1 (59:28):
That's an irrespect Like you can't we can't look at irresponsibility.

Speaker 6 (59:33):
I'm just saying, when you keep living your life just
willy nilly, I'm just having fun. This was what makes
me feel like I'm having fun. You're not thinking about
the future.

Speaker 2 (59:40):
No, you could think about a lot of people's. Everybody's
journey is different. When that thing stopped working, and who's
gonna be that, who's gonna be that to help you?

Speaker 1 (59:49):
But it stops it, don't stop work it don't stop work,
stop it, don't stop. I'ming them maybe the eighties stop it,
don't stop stopt whole. But you better hope it keep working.

Speaker 6 (01:00:01):
Thing when I get eighty some years old, y'all be
looking around, need some help, need somebody.

Speaker 2 (01:00:07):
What does y'all say? Edie, Edie, that's dying age. That's
all I keep on living.

Speaker 1 (01:00:14):
No, I'm just saying, like my thing, I trust me.
You talking to somebody that done a lot more than y'all. Yes,
I definitely know. I know.

Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
I know the end of this. I know where y'all at.
I've been where y'all at, and I know where you're going. Okay,
So I'm telling.

Speaker 1 (01:00:27):
What you.

Speaker 2 (01:00:29):
Know where you're going. Yeah, I definitely know where you're going.

Speaker 5 (01:00:34):
Crazy, I'm talking to you for nothing but experience. I'm
telling you.

Speaker 1 (01:00:39):
I'm telling you if there's any if there's anything that
I can ever tell you, cautious about what you bring
into your life.

Speaker 2 (01:00:48):
No, for real.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
And that's why I say what Bill Belichick is doing
is a irresponsible move. You know what's on this woman's
mind at twenty some years old? You know you know
what was on your mind at twenty some years old.
You definitely got kids, that's twenty some years old. Why
would you invite that into your life? Like, why would

(01:01:11):
you invite the same thing, Shannon Shark. Why would you
invite OnlyFans model teenager?

Speaker 2 (01:01:18):
See they just having fun, they have they're thinking fun.
That's what saying.

Speaker 5 (01:01:22):
All that fun fun, look at it.

Speaker 2 (01:01:25):
Fun, yells is fun. Fun. You gotta have this. It
was so fun. Now you living the rest of your
life behind bars. So fun.

Speaker 6 (01:01:32):
You had so much fun that you all same. You
had a wife, but that wife that was a different
type of fun.

Speaker 2 (01:01:39):
That's why y'all just gotta find just find you a
fine freaky woman, thank you.

Speaker 4 (01:01:44):
That nasty stuff with her period that got she got
a little sense, you know, just a little sense. She
don't got to have the most, just a little sense,
and y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
Ride it out. That's that's all I'm saying. The worst
and the worst can happen. Y'all break up, go find another.

Speaker 3 (01:01:59):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:01:59):
I just better than these cases. The better cases they usual.
But again it goes back to what I said, like THO,
like the caution you must have. But inviting anybody in
your life is is a It is real. And that's
what I could tell if it's anything I tell you,
if this big age, what I will tell you is

(01:02:20):
cautious about what you bring into your life, and that
because friends that goes, friends that goes, girlfriends that goes anything.
If you bring the wrong thing in your life, it
will crash it out and it will take you forever
to bring it back. And that's just that's just the
fact of its kills. Did something, he left something in

(01:02:43):
his life and it and he didn't have any discipline.
Bid boom diddy, same thing, shinning sharp, same thing. You
get it doesn't You've seen Jonathan Majors. You see all
of these different dudes bring people into their lives. And
there's women on the other side of I just drawing
a blank, but there's women that brought dudes in their

(01:03:03):
life that wrecked their ship.

Speaker 2 (01:03:06):
What what's my girl name? That was on I feel babbled?
The girl that was on Brandy, it's a star jack.
What's her name?

Speaker 1 (01:03:17):
She was on Mosha some and she had like she
had like a baby daddy that like that like it
was I think he got Britney Spears pressed it's in rector,
the rector. She brought that dude in her life and
it wrecked everything.

Speaker 6 (01:03:34):
Well, you gotta have your life in the order. Okay
when you're out here dating, you know, but you make
a good point. You do have to be cautious about
what you allow in your life. But when you have
somebody good in your life, don't play with them. That's
because you see what else was on the other side.

Speaker 2 (01:03:49):
That's fair, that's a fair statement.

Speaker 1 (01:03:52):
Those comments of Jesus the God voice sac you got
we gotta close up it. We ad an hour three
final thoughts. All right, today I prepared my final thoughts
please because I don't want them to get taken.

Speaker 2 (01:04:07):
Hello.

Speaker 4 (01:04:08):
My name is Zach Bug, and thank you for tuning
in to the What More Can I Say? Podcast.

Speaker 5 (01:04:13):
We hope you enjoyed today's discussion.

Speaker 4 (01:04:15):
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Until then, stay curious and could keep exploring.

Speaker 2 (01:04:34):
Oh wow, stay curious. That was actually pretty good. Thank
you sir. You got that for GBT. Yes, y'all like
the final thoughts like I like that one. All right,
my final thoughts.

Speaker 1 (01:04:50):
Make sure y'all do exactly what Zach Bug said, and
we will talk to y'all tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (01:04:55):
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