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Speaker 1 (00:00):
When it comes to two besties, there's always a King
Julian and there's a more okay, like one's a little
bit of the leader and the other one's a little
bit of the follower.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
And I think they take turns right.

Speaker 1 (00:08):
Like I'm more of the time, like I believe if
I have to, But most of the time I'm out
here like King Julia. I love you, bestie, I love
you bestie.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
It's the Jebel Show.

Speaker 3 (00:22):
For get it, and somebody could be lying to you
right now. What a poll found that one in five
people lie about something in their dating profiles.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
So I believe that the number one thing that people
lie about.

Speaker 3 (00:38):
And what are other uncommon, common untruths that you should
be looking out for in the wonderful world of online dating,
Victoria take notes. We'll tell you right after this it's
the Jewbil Show. Stop what you're doing right now, because
somebody could be lying to you Tojewill show. And I

(01:01):
know this might come as shocking news. When it comes
to finding true love online, you have to avoid all
the land mines that stand in your way.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
There's a lot.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
There's the guy that only has pictures of him and
a hat on his profile, so yes, so he can hide.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
His bald spot. That's so real.

Speaker 3 (01:17):
Then there's the ladies that have gotten so good at
angles in their pictures they could probably get a job
as an architect.

Speaker 2 (01:25):
Man.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
And there's people that straight up lie about things in
their profile in order to entice you in a swiping
ride on them. And what are the most common lies
in the treacherous land of online dating. We'll tell you
what the number one is in a second, but first,
a new poll found that one in five people lie
about things on their dating profile.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
Yeah, one in fact.

Speaker 4 (01:49):
Jesus coming in just letting you know it's out there, Okay,
ask a question.

Speaker 5 (01:56):
That means like, if we were all on a dating website,
one of us would be lying.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Definitely, Victoria, it would be me.

Speaker 4 (02:02):
Yeah, at least he's honest.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
You don't hear find out for your sal The top
lies that people tell their dating profiles are their height. Okay,
people lie about their height, which is a hard one
to lie about because eventually, if somebody wants to meet you,
you're gonna have to show up and be that tall, right,
And I think.

Speaker 4 (02:23):
That there's a little bit confusion about that because even
if you're not six foot five ten happens to be
the one that people like put down and then you
show up and they're like five eight, so they think
that they can get away with like two inches yeah,
instead of being like five eight to six foot, Like
that's dramatic. We say, you can say you're five I know,
I do know this difference. Five ten is just right
here my head.

Speaker 3 (02:45):
I'm five seven is five to eight depending on footwear.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
Yeah, you know.

Speaker 3 (02:52):
And I used to work with a guy the same
height as me, and he would say he was five ten.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
What it's all. I'm like, I don't think he's lying.
I think.

Speaker 6 (03:02):
Too.

Speaker 4 (03:03):
There also is a guy that used to work with you,
that I dated that would put socks in his shoes
so it would make him look higher.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
Wouldn't I be uncomfortable?

Speaker 4 (03:11):
I don't know if he just used to do it
because he wanted to feel taller.

Speaker 3 (03:14):
I don't understand that. As a shorter dude myself, I've
never had a thing about my height, Okay, but I
know so many guys that do. He put extra socks
in his shoes, socks and his shoes to be higher.

Speaker 5 (03:25):
Yeah, someone told me thought that I was lying. He's like,
I think you can't fetch me a little bit. And
I was like, how all my pictures are recent? Like
what did I do? And he's like, well, I thought
you were taller, and I was like, my profile says, okay,
I'm maybe putting five four and I might be closer
to five to three.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
I'll be honest with you, I would not know the
difference between those two heights. Thank you.

Speaker 7 (03:48):
You're either taller than me or shorter than me. I
don't know how tall you are.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
That's another thing to learn people lie about on their
dating profile was their income.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
There's a lot of people that lie about that. Why
do they put it down?

Speaker 4 (04:01):
Yeah, that unless you're on one of those paid apps
that says like you either make more than this or
less than this, like the like you know, like the
fancier ones.

Speaker 2 (04:11):
I don't think that that should be on there. That
is a good point, Nina.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
If they're putting their income on their dating profile, probably
a red flag.

Speaker 8 (04:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (04:18):
Are they just typing in or is it like an
option in the form? What are they're just typing it in?
By the way, I.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
Make I have two hobbies hiking and making hella do
like just cash, Like I make one hundred and seventy
five grand a year. Not to put it all out there,
but I like to be honest when I'm dating, you.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
Know, I mean some people they're into it.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
Another thing people lie about on their dating profile is
their job.

Speaker 2 (04:48):
Really. I mean I kind of lie about my job.
You say your job is.

Speaker 5 (04:54):
I don't be able to listen if I go on
a date with them, because most likely.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
I'll talk about it.

Speaker 5 (04:57):
Well, I'll just say that I'm a pretty So they're like, oh,
they asked me what for.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
I'm just like, oh, just like a little show. Just
like on the side. You probably won't hear about it,
answer the question.

Speaker 4 (05:07):
It's so funny, Like Victoria and I were talking yesterday
and she's like, man, I just want to friends with benefits,
Like I just want somebody to hang out with.

Speaker 2 (05:13):
But what's happening is you're lying to.

Speaker 4 (05:15):
People and you're sketchy, and then that's why nothing is
happening for you.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
Show up, you say you're six foot tall, and then
you just go, I work in produce.

Speaker 9 (05:27):
Let me see you.

Speaker 2 (05:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Another common lie that people tell them their dating profile
is their dating history.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
Oh I do that all the time. You about that too,
Victoria get start dating history on the eye. Did you
do that?

Speaker 10 (05:46):
Well?

Speaker 5 (05:46):
I didn't Once when someone asked me, They're like, oh,
like okay, like how serious I have relationship?

Speaker 2 (05:50):
Have you been on it? And I'm like, oh, I just
like one or two? Oh we all know it's zero
say that. How do you hand?

Speaker 7 (05:58):
No follow up questions to that, because you can tell
you've never dated anyone in person. I could tell, like
I'm the first time met Victoria, I was like, she's
never had a boyfriend.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
The first thing, Come on, Brad.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
That place have fun, which was like, it's really tough
when you're so tall.

Speaker 2 (06:17):
I didn't have a job in produce. That's very demanding.
I supposed to do. Matther are so franchile, you know
what I mean. But I've had seventeen long relationships. I
probably I'm not a walking red flag.

Speaker 4 (06:35):
You lie about all of these things. Well, that's what
we're discovering.

Speaker 3 (06:42):
The most common lie, the one in fun Victoria is
the one in five for sure. My most common lie
that people have on their dating profile is their age.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
Oh yeah, I don't lie about that. Twenty four homies.
Not yet.

Speaker 7 (06:56):
You will lie probably next year. You'll get to mid twenties.
I feel like your whole life's ending.

Speaker 2 (07:02):
You're produce. You believe me, right, and then she'll date
the first guy that believes her. I love hiking. Let's
go on a hike. I just got to buy some
hiking shoese first. You'll we never see her again.

Speaker 11 (07:21):
It's another jewbile phone Frameay Mornings on the twenties.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
Hello, Hey, this is Pete Eakins calling from bakery. Is
this Vanessa?

Speaker 10 (07:37):
Yeh?

Speaker 12 (07:38):
Hey, thank you.

Speaker 10 (07:39):
It is about the cake.

Speaker 3 (07:40):
Yes, it is about the cake. Have you looked at
the cake yet?

Speaker 10 (07:44):
No? Actually, I'm away on business, but this is for
my boss. So is everything okay?

Speaker 3 (07:50):
Oh okay? So the cake is for your boss? Yes,
and it's Sarah her birthday obviously, yes it is. It's
really nice of you to get a cake delivered to
your boss for her birthday. A lot of people don't
really do that, so that's sweet of you.

Speaker 12 (08:07):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
So you're not in the office.

Speaker 13 (08:11):
No, my assistant Rebecca actually said she got it and
it's sitting on my boss's desk right now.

Speaker 10 (08:16):
So is everything okay?

Speaker 3 (08:18):
Well, okay, I'll just full transparency here. Our cake decorator,
he's a nice sky Phil is his name, and Phil,
he's been going through it.

Speaker 14 (08:30):
Can you just like get to the point though I
don't understand.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
Sure.

Speaker 3 (08:34):
Okay, So the cake that was delivered to your boss
for her birthday today and you're out of town and
unfortunately cannot grab the cake. Well, every cake that has
been decorated this morning says the same thing written on it?

Speaker 2 (08:48):
Is the problem? Okay?

Speaker 10 (08:49):
What does it say?

Speaker 3 (08:52):
It says happy birthday on it, you know, it says
happy birthday and then.

Speaker 10 (08:56):
Uh, okay, and then doesn't have her name.

Speaker 12 (09:01):
Is that the problem?

Speaker 3 (09:02):
It does not have her name? No, it says what
it happy birthday cheatings?

Speaker 10 (09:09):
Oh my gosh, are you serious?

Speaker 2 (09:12):
Yeah? Like I said, he's been going through.

Speaker 12 (09:13):
So write that on a cake. Let a on a
cake for my ball.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
And that is what I said, d him. I said, Phil,
what are you?

Speaker 3 (09:19):
And you know his wife and him they're getting divorced
because of some stuff that I don't care.

Speaker 10 (09:24):
I don't care what's going on in his life.

Speaker 12 (09:26):
Oh my god.

Speaker 14 (09:26):
I'm going to text my assistant right now, like who.

Speaker 10 (09:29):
Puts happy birthday cheatings on a cake?

Speaker 13 (09:32):
That is?

Speaker 10 (09:32):
To get rid of this? Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (09:34):
Also what I said, hopefully your boss has a good
sense of humor.

Speaker 12 (09:38):
That's funny.

Speaker 10 (09:39):
Oh my god. No, she said she opened it and
she is not happy.

Speaker 12 (09:44):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
Oh yeah, that was what I messed up. Well, I
would say Phil our cake decorator. He's the guy that
mess up, you know. But he calls himself an artist,
so sometimes he just he creates cakes based off of
his emotions.

Speaker 14 (10:01):
That day and art.

Speaker 10 (10:02):
He's a cake decorator.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Yeah, you say, you know, is there any way you
could text your boss? And well, I mean, I don't
know much about your boss.

Speaker 8 (10:10):
I'm going to text her and say Phil's having a
rough day.

Speaker 10 (10:13):
This is so up. Oh my god, I'm going to
lose my job.

Speaker 12 (10:16):
Oh my god, Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
You know, I am fully prepared to obviously make this better.

Speaker 10 (10:22):
Uh you know, how are you going to make this better?

Speaker 14 (10:25):
How are you going to give my boss a cake
that's on it?

Speaker 3 (10:29):
Okay, well, I am prepared to offer you a gift
card for fifteen percent off your next cake from us.

Speaker 10 (10:40):
What the hell are you even talking about?

Speaker 8 (10:41):
I am not ordering another cake from you. What am
I going to get my mom a birthday cake that's
a happy birthday?

Speaker 10 (10:47):
No, I'm not doing that.

Speaker 14 (10:48):
Are you crazy.

Speaker 8 (10:49):
I cannot believe this right now, I cannot believe I'm
having this conversation and then I'm going to lose my
job over a cake.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
That's on it twenty five percent off of that is
as we're buying anything again, are you now?

Speaker 8 (11:04):
I got to figure out how am I going to
tell my boss that I didn't order cake that is
happy birthday cheating and make her believe me about some
story nea pill and his feelings and emotions like this
is like crazy.

Speaker 2 (11:14):
Well, you could tell her that it's a prank phone
call if you want.

Speaker 14 (11:17):
I want to tell her that I will go for
that prank phone call?

Speaker 3 (11:20):
Is stupid, you should because this is actually Jubil from
the Jubil Show doing a phone brank on you and
your assistant Rebecca set you up.

Speaker 12 (11:26):
Shut up, shut up?

Speaker 10 (11:28):
She said, they kill Rebecca.

Speaker 14 (11:29):
Oh my, I'm out of town. I'm like schweating.

Speaker 10 (11:33):
I'm like ready to throw up.

Speaker 8 (11:34):
Are you kidding me?

Speaker 12 (11:35):
Oh my god.

Speaker 8 (11:36):
I listen to your show too.

Speaker 10 (11:37):
I should have known.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
Oh my god, she said everything's okay with the cake
and wanted me to mess with you.

Speaker 2 (11:44):
Oh my god, wake up every morning with double phone branks.
It's time for Nina's what's trending?

Speaker 4 (11:53):
Is there a story that you love so much that
you would just dream of living above it?

Speaker 3 (11:59):
Target Tario would be hart would be nice, especially when
I need a towel. Didn't do laundry, I'll just pop
downstairs real quick and grab a towel.

Speaker 2 (12:10):
It would be super. Well, now I know where I
want to move.

Speaker 7 (12:14):
I literally you will going downstairs stopping wet. Yeah, yeah, okay,
I need a towel.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
I live upstairs. It's fine. People are scared. They're like, no, no,
it's just you.

Speaker 4 (12:27):
Well, if Costco is your jam in La, they've decided
to build eight hundred apartments on top of the brand
new warehouse store with a bunch of different amenities on
top of it, and then one hundred and eighty four
of those apartments are going to be set aside for
affordable housing, which is actually kind of cool too.

Speaker 2 (12:42):
With that parking situation is gonna be terrible. Vitoria, Yeah,
this is a very legit point.

Speaker 4 (12:50):
But I also would imagine that they're going to have
some kind of garage going on and then they'll get
money from it.

Speaker 2 (12:54):
But where like under the Costco, you can't go under Costco.
Can you, I don't know. It's not built yet. They
can build it however they want, if it's cossable. If
you ren't one apartment, is it? Like, but do you
get five?

Speaker 4 (13:08):
I mean you just have to already automatically get a
membership too though no, like.

Speaker 2 (13:13):
Yeah, apartment any So this is interesting.

Speaker 4 (13:17):
We were accidentally talking about barbecue fashion, but that's going
to be a thing now because Kate Spade and Hines
have teamed up for a fashion line like the Ketchup brand.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
The Ketchup brand and Kate Spade.

Speaker 4 (13:30):
Yes, so one of their first items is a purse
that looks like a Ketchup packet.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
So we'll get it up.

Speaker 4 (13:36):
If you follow us on the at the Jubile show,
you can see a picture of it. But it's like
this white purse with a little bit of red coming
out of it, like the packets open with like a chain.

Speaker 2 (13:45):
Thank you.

Speaker 4 (13:46):
It's actually not bad, like it is kind of cute,
like you'll see like those little fruit purses like a
watermelon or a cherry purse, like those are cute for
the summer.

Speaker 7 (13:54):
I haven't business has done this before, where like I
think it was Campbell's. Did they had a bag that
was actually a can of soup. Oh yeah, I think
I think they've done this before this Toms has done it.

Speaker 4 (14:06):
Wait, I have a friend that swears by Tom's and
so she was one of the first people to get
that bag.

Speaker 2 (14:13):
You should see a doctor. That's not great, that too interesting.

Speaker 4 (14:20):
You bring up doctors because some of these Summer Olympians
may have to see one if they don't get this
river tested to pass the bacteria situation. So there's a
poopy problem in Paris. So the Summer Olympics start July
twenty six, and the sen River is what they've been
testing for bacteria, and that's where a lot of the
open water swimming events are going to happen. But right now,

(14:41):
if you haven't already heard, they keep failing. So they
failed again. So the river is full of do uh huh.
Essentially they are calling it bacteria.

Speaker 7 (14:51):
Not only that, one of the protests that they're having
around the Olympics is people do doing more.

Speaker 5 (14:56):
Really really the same because the president or someone high
up said like, it's clean, I swear, I promise, like
nothing's wrong with it.

Speaker 2 (15:05):
I'm gonna go swimming it myself.

Speaker 5 (15:06):
And they're like okay, well we know it's a queen,
so we're just gonna poop it forehand.

Speaker 2 (15:10):
And they don't like this person's Wow.

Speaker 7 (15:13):
There was a whole website set up and said, if
you want your doodude to reach where she's going to
be swimming on this day, oh my god, do it
here at this time?

Speaker 10 (15:21):
Crazy?

Speaker 2 (15:23):
It is crazy. But they're talking about how they believe
the French I don't like it, poop on it.

Speaker 4 (15:32):
They feel like the heat is gonna help it. But
don't you think that's gonna make it smell more like
to hear it?

Speaker 15 (15:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (15:38):
On a positive note, Simone Biles will become the older
poop on it what I picture French people doing.

Speaker 4 (15:44):
Sorry, no, that's okay, and that is probably what they did.
But this was the positive note. Simone Biles will become
the oldest female gymnast to represent the US at the
Olympic Games since the nineteen fifties. She got for her
third Olympic team. Yeah wow, and that's what's trending.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
It's time to catch a cheater.

Speaker 3 (16:07):
Only on the Jubile Show, Yvonne is on the phone
today for to catch a cheater and she thinks that
her boyfriend of six years named Chuck might be cheating,
so we'll see if we can help her out.

Speaker 2 (16:17):
Yvonne tell us what's going on.

Speaker 10 (16:19):
Hi.

Speaker 14 (16:20):
Yeah, So my boyfriend Chuck and I have been together
for six years. I'm actually the breadwinner between the two
of us, and I have a really nice job and Chucky,
I think he has his art, Like he has like
an okay job, he's a bar manager, but he's always

(16:40):
like spending tons of his money and his time on
his painting and his art, which, you know, when I
first started dating him, like I actually I thought that
was like really cute and very sweet, and he's you know,
there's like some.

Speaker 10 (16:52):
Vulnerability in that.

Speaker 14 (16:54):
And now and like that's actually like how we used
to spend a lot of our time together. And now
it's just off like painting in his office. And he's
like always been artsy, but in the last month or so,
it's just become really intense. Like when he's not doing
something at the bar and he's not with me, he's
just off in his little room. And when I walk by,

(17:19):
when he's like apparently working on a painting, he's actually
just sitting on his phone like texting. I don't even
know who. And so I know that he hangs around
like a lot of the waitresses at his bar, and
I don't know, I think he might be really tempted
by one of them. And I've confronted him a couple
of times about just being really shady around these girls,

(17:39):
and he keeps denying it, and he keeps telling me
that I'm nothing to worry about, and I just, yeah,
I think he might be cheating on.

Speaker 10 (17:46):
Me with one of the waitresses.

Speaker 14 (17:49):
Like it just this past month specifically, he's really not
been spending time with me. He's been in his little
office or he's been spending too much time at the bar.
And that's why I'm reaching out to you.

Speaker 2 (18:00):
Now, Okay, have you talked to him about this?

Speaker 14 (18:03):
I have, and I mean, I'm pretty convinced that she's
cheating on.

Speaker 10 (18:07):
Me with one of the waitresses.

Speaker 14 (18:09):
And I had been like, hey, like you seem to
be really shady, you seem to be spending a lot
of time, like you seem to not be hanging out
with me, you think to only be in your office,
like what is going on? And he keeps denying it.
So I have brought it up to him, and it
certainly hasn't yielded any sort of result.

Speaker 4 (18:25):
Has he ever lied to you before any of this
that you're aware of, not that I'm aware of.

Speaker 12 (18:31):
I mean again, we've been together for six years, so
I'm sure there's you know, like little stuff here.

Speaker 14 (18:34):
And there that both of us probably you know, maybe
don't share that. I wouldn't say it's like explicitly a lie,
but not in this way, no, because.

Speaker 4 (18:43):
I just wonder if like your your gut is probably correct,
but what if it's just like, yeah, he likes the
attention from this person. I mean, I guess that could
still be a form of cheating.

Speaker 14 (18:53):
I mean I think depends on like how you exactly
like you know, for me, an emotional cheat in some
ways actually to depends to be worse the physical cheese.
Like you know, if you're spending time and energy with
other people who who are not your girlfriend, it's a
big concerning you know, And if you're not able to
vocalize why you're doing that, then I think I have

(19:13):
a reason to be even more concerned. Like you're not
expressing to me, like what's not going well? You're not
sharing with me why you're interested in talking to other people,
like clearly something is broken that either the communication's not
working that you're going to do this, or that you
don't feel safe with me or comfortable with me that
you're not talking to me about this and I'm your
girlfriend of six years.

Speaker 3 (19:32):
Other than that stuff, I mean that you know, it
sounds like there may be something going on it. Have
you checked, like is he doing his art? I mean,
is he spending a lot of time on my project?

Speaker 14 (19:40):
I mean he's in his little office apparently doing art.
As like, I'm not an artist myself, so I don't
really know, like how quickly one is supposed to produce
a painting. You know, they'd be like, I don't know
the like how long it takes to create a painting.
It's like if he's like, I'm working on it, I'm
going to I'd like to trust that that's part of
the process. And we've gobble around and mixed your paint,

(20:01):
I don't I mean, I don't know.

Speaker 10 (20:02):
What do I know?

Speaker 6 (20:03):
You know?

Speaker 3 (20:03):
Okay, you already told us what grocery store you guys
are rewards card members at. So we'll call and pretend
to be from the grocery store and say that every
single month we choose one Rewards card member at random
who gets free flowers delivered from our flooral department, and
we'll see if he sends those to you or to
somebody else.

Speaker 10 (20:16):
Okay, yeah, Roses would be like perfect.

Speaker 14 (20:20):
He usually actually actually guessed me like a dozen every month,
so that actually kind of is our thame.

Speaker 3 (20:25):
Yeah, okay, well that works perfect. Then if you definitely
if he sends them to someone else, that's weird, all right. Yeah, well,
we'll play a song come back, and then call him
and get her to catch a cheeter. Right after this,
right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, if
you're just joining us, Yvonne is on the phone and
she thinks that her boyfriend of six years named Chuck
might be cheating on her. So in a second, we're
going to call him and see if we can catch him.
But first, yvon why don't you catch everybody up in

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your situation?

Speaker 9 (20:48):
Yeah, I guess the long.

Speaker 12 (20:49):
And short of it is that we've been together for
six years.

Speaker 10 (20:51):
I'm the bread winner. Chuck works at a bar.

Speaker 14 (20:55):
He's really into art, and she has been the whole
time he've been together, but more recently, this half month
specifically achieved anytime he's not at the bar. He's in
his little office doing his apparent painting and or like
what I think is like on his phone texting, and
I'm just pretty convinced that he is cheating on me
with one of the waitresses at the bar.

Speaker 3 (21:16):
All right, and we're about to call him from the
grocery store where he's a rewards card member at and
say that every single month we choose one rewards card
member at random, we gets three flowers delivered from our
florial department. Anyone you said he gets you flowers every month?

Speaker 2 (21:28):
Anyway?

Speaker 12 (21:28):
Right? Yeah he does.

Speaker 2 (21:29):
Yeah, so really sweet.

Speaker 3 (21:31):
Hey it is if he sends them to somebody else,
then I mean that is definitely a red flat, red flat,
a big one.

Speaker 2 (21:37):
All right, here we go. Hi, this is.

Speaker 3 (21:49):
Jafar calling from I was looking for a rewards member check. Yeah, hey, Chuck,
please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
I'm calling to tell you congrat relations here. This must
big winner.

Speaker 9 (22:02):
Oh thanks for I win the flowers. Oh wow, cool,
like a bouquet or something like that, Like, oh.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
Maybe you haven't seeing the signs in the store that
every single month we choose one rewards card member to
get free flowers delivered from our floor apartment. It's our
way of saying thank you very much for being such
a loyal customer. You'll get thirty six long stimm read roses,
a box of chocolates, and a car delivered to anybody
that you like to deliver them to in the fifty
United States of the Americas. So congratulations, thank.

Speaker 2 (22:30):
You very much.

Speaker 10 (22:31):
That's awesome.

Speaker 16 (22:31):
Cool.

Speaker 9 (22:32):
Thanks.

Speaker 3 (22:32):
I can take the information down in a matter of
minutes if you know who you want to send it
to right now.

Speaker 9 (22:37):
Yeah, we can do it right now.

Speaker 3 (22:38):
First I would need to get the first and the
last name of the person you'd like to send them to.

Speaker 9 (22:43):
Sure, So the first name is Yvonne.

Speaker 2 (22:47):
And do you want to put anything on a card there?

Speaker 9 (22:51):
Yeah, let's do. Okay, you get more roses this month
because you're extra special.

Speaker 3 (22:58):
Okay, Well all just let you know that she's on
the phone. And this is actually the Jebel Show. It's
a radio show. My name's Jebel.

Speaker 2 (23:04):
Hi am Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria, and Yvonne, your girlfriend
is on the phone.

Speaker 9 (23:09):
By really.

Speaker 2 (23:11):
Yeah. We do a segment on the show. It's called
to Catch a Cheater.

Speaker 3 (23:14):
It's where if you think your significant other might be
cheating on you, we try to catch you based on
things like who you send flowers to, so Avon has
been suspicious.

Speaker 9 (23:25):
I don't believe this van for the last time, I
am not eating on you. Does that make sense to you?

Speaker 12 (23:35):
Do you get that now?

Speaker 9 (23:36):
I'm so tired of you accusing me of all of
this book and just being straight of mean in general.
You're how am I?

Speaker 12 (23:46):
How am I being you?

Speaker 9 (23:49):
Do you actually want to go through this on the air?

Speaker 12 (23:52):
Yeah? I do?

Speaker 9 (23:53):
Okay, great, Okay, So let's start with maybe the fact
that you belittle my job every day. It's, oh, you're
not making enough money. Oh, you're working too many hours.
You know, like you're always reminding me that you are,
you know, the one putting in all the money, you're
supporting us, which, by the way, is not the case
at all. I'm putting in my fair share. You just

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seem to have this need for control, right, and then uh, okay,
let's go on to the next thing. Since you seem
to have such a problem with me painting and being creative,
I mean, like, it feels so unsupportive to me that
and just makes me feel bad.

Speaker 4 (24:31):
I do have to ask really quick, Chuck, you sound
very frustrated, and rightfully so.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
At any point have you told her how you feel? Yeah, okay,
I brought it up.

Speaker 14 (24:40):
No, no, you haven't, And even if you have, Honestly,
I don't belittle you. No, I don't belittle you. Okay,
if you want to look, if you want to do
your art thing, you can go ahead and do it.
I don't need I don't give a Okay, Honestly, at
the point of time that I understand or I get it,
you are saying.

Speaker 9 (24:58):
Just the fact that you call it you're art thing,
it sounds so condescending. It's like it just throws it away.
It makes it seem like it's nothing. It makes it
seem like, oh, it's just a hobby, like you know what.
It's just so kind of well, it is a hobby.

Speaker 14 (25:12):
You're not making any money on it.

Speaker 10 (25:14):
Do you make money? No, it is a hobby.

Speaker 14 (25:16):
You sit in your little office and I don't know
what you paint.

Speaker 10 (25:18):
You don't really talk about it with me.

Speaker 14 (25:20):
It is a hobby. So why am I supposed to
understand this painting thing being anything more than you just
sitting in a little office and dabbling on a on
a canvas, well bars and money I make more, Okay,
so what I work hard and I get paid well
so that you can do your little bar thing also okay,

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so art thing and bar thing same thing.

Speaker 9 (25:43):
You do make more money with me.

Speaker 14 (25:45):
Maybe if you stayed home and talk to me instead
of being in your little office. Maybe if you paid
any attention to me, Maybe if you actually gave it
about me and our relationship, I would give.

Speaker 9 (25:55):
About your art. Maybe I'm gonna tell you something. Nothing
has changed in the last six years I've had this job.
Since we started, I haven't changed.

Speaker 14 (26:04):
That's exactly the problem. The problem is that nothing has changed.
We've been together for six years. I think I'm just
wanting to stick here and just twiddle my thumbs while
you're doing what. I'm invested in our future together. It's
in six years. What's the happening to us and our relationship?

Speaker 10 (26:19):
Nothing?

Speaker 14 (26:20):
And I'm tired of having the same conversation with you
every single day.

Speaker 16 (26:25):
Okay, you know what, Kip, I did cheat on you,
and you know what it wasn't one of the stiftes.
Do you want is that what you want to do?
Is that what you wanted to hear yeah, well, well.

Speaker 14 (26:38):
I knew I was right.

Speaker 10 (26:39):
That's talk about a woman's intuition.

Speaker 9 (26:41):
Do you want to know why I did what I did?

Speaker 1 (26:43):
I don't give it?

Speaker 10 (26:45):
Why what did you mean? You had never.

Speaker 14 (26:48):
Given all putting on your girlfriend of six years? Tell
me anyway you're justified and cheating as opposed to communicating
with your girlfriend of sixth Tell.

Speaker 9 (26:58):
Me, chuck, because you was nice to me and she
gave it.

Speaker 10 (27:05):
Do you know how hard it is.

Speaker 9 (27:06):
To come home and realize that the person that you
spent all this time love and care with doesn't give
us about who you are and what you do, and
she was just.

Speaker 12 (27:16):
I'm really glad.

Speaker 10 (27:17):
I'm really glad that all.

Speaker 14 (27:19):
You really want in a relationship with someone to be
nice to you. I'm really really glad that that's something
that you're looking for.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
I'm so glad sometimes that's just enough. That's all I've
ever wanted, and you know I helped to get that
someday too.

Speaker 14 (27:31):
But I know that with she were today, you you
f liar such. Eventually she's going to have her heartbroken
because you're gonna go cheat on her because maybe her
niceness isout something that you're bored with and then you'll
just cheat again, always a cheater.

Speaker 9 (27:43):
You know what, Maybe what I did wasn't right, but
I know that life is too short to be with
somebody who doesn't support you, who doesn't give us about you.
All right, Well, you know what, I'm going to pack
up my stupid little office with my stupid little art
supplies and you see you never cool?

Speaker 12 (28:00):
That's great, Yeah, just.

Speaker 10 (28:01):
Run from your problems.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
Good on you, and they both hung up. Wow, we
should not be together. Definitely not this happened. What just
happens is I think the most appropriate breakup ever.

Speaker 4 (28:15):
Squeezing my butt cheek that whole time, the ju will
show to catch a cheater.

Speaker 10 (28:23):
I'm stupid, you're smart.

Speaker 2 (28:26):
I was wrong, you were right. You're the best.

Speaker 9 (28:29):
I'm the worst.

Speaker 2 (28:30):
Thanks, you're very good looking.

Speaker 16 (28:33):
I'm not attractive, all right, as long as you're willing
to admit this.

Speaker 3 (28:37):
Almost time for America's favorite trivia game. You versus Victoria.
Your chance to take on our own Victoria Ramires in
a skinny dipping game of trivia, to be the Lieutenant
Governor of Trivia Tucky.

Speaker 2 (28:49):
What fifty second state in this fine country?

Speaker 12 (28:52):
A wait?

Speaker 2 (28:54):
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Speaker 2 (29:11):
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Speaker 2 (29:17):
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Speaker 2 (29:23):
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Speaker 3 (29:24):
And now for some fun brain exercises to loosen up
Victoria's head and get it ready to go for the games.
Word association Victoria. First word that comes to mind when
I say biscuit, ngrievy. Okay, that's a two words. That's delicious.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
You know, debates, debates, president yikes. Talk to the girl
on the viral video going You Versus Victoria is coming
up right after this.

Speaker 3 (29:55):
If you want to play calls up eighty eight three
four three one six one eight three four three one
six one.

Speaker 17 (30:00):
What you just said is one of the most insanely
idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in
your rambling incoherent response were you even close to anything
that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this
room is now dumber for having listened to it. Okay,
I award you no points, and may God have mercy

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on your soul.

Speaker 3 (30:22):
It's time for America's favorite trivia game. You versus Victoria.
Your chance to take on Victoria Miraz in a game
of trivia for one hundred dollars Macy's gift card today,
and let's meet today's contestant for you versus Victoria Rossa.

Speaker 2 (30:35):
What's up, Rosa? How are you?

Speaker 12 (30:37):
I'm good?

Speaker 2 (30:38):
Are you wonderful? Thank you for asking? And are you
ready to take on Victoria?

Speaker 12 (30:44):
Yeah, let's do it.

Speaker 2 (30:45):
Yeah, I don't know if Victoria is ready to take
you on.

Speaker 5 (30:47):
She's got I masks those I need to call it imasks.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
Imasks and welcome a little bit late. I didn't have
time this morning and so I had to put them on.
Now that way, I don't Yeah, multitest, that's it.

Speaker 3 (31:01):
Well, we'll send Victoria out of the studio so she
can continue to get her beauty ongeous, her morning ritual
or bedtime ritual.

Speaker 2 (31:12):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (31:13):
I can't tell which one it is while she's outside.
Here we go, Rosa. The game is played like this.
You have thirty seconds to answer as many questions as possible.
If you don't know one, just say pass and Victoria
has to beat you outright to win. Okay, okay, all right,
here we go, Rosa. Your time starts now.

Speaker 2 (31:31):
What's the smallest bird in the world.

Speaker 4 (31:36):
How many states does the Appalachian Trail cross on the internet?

Speaker 2 (31:41):
What does URL stand for?

Speaker 10 (31:45):
Use her?

Speaker 4 (31:47):
What occasion corresponds with the longest day of the year.
What is the distance from Earth to the sun. What
sport was featured on the first curved US coin in
twenty fourteen?

Speaker 18 (32:04):
Washington.

Speaker 2 (32:07):
Time is up.

Speaker 3 (32:08):
We'll bring Victoria back into the studio, and while she's
getting settled, Rosa, what's something you would like the world
to know today.

Speaker 12 (32:15):
I'm about to walk in the gym right now, So
getting back into the gym life.

Speaker 2 (32:19):
Yeah, gym live. What are you working on today? Pop off?

Speaker 9 (32:24):
I'm gonna go for a walk, just a little.

Speaker 2 (32:25):
Walks, walk for a walk, Yeah, that's what it is. Yeah,
all right, here we go. Yeah, Victoria, Oh, I'm scared.

Speaker 4 (32:36):
I feel like you should be These are kind of hard.

Speaker 2 (32:39):
My apologies.

Speaker 3 (32:40):
Alright, thirty seconds to answer as many questions as possible.
If you don't know one, just say passed, and you
have to beat Rosa outright to win. And Rosa you
can tell Victoria when to.

Speaker 12 (32:49):
Go, okay, go.

Speaker 2 (32:52):
What is the smallest bird in the world? What?

Speaker 13 (32:58):
Oh?

Speaker 18 (32:58):
What?

Speaker 10 (32:58):
Gabby?

Speaker 2 (32:59):
What is it called Heinberg?

Speaker 4 (33:00):
How many seats does the appalation trail cross?

Speaker 2 (33:05):
Uhhead on the internet? What does RL stand for United?

Speaker 10 (33:16):
Well?

Speaker 2 (33:16):
I passed?

Speaker 4 (33:18):
What occasion corresponds with the longest day of the year,
the night Davings?

Speaker 2 (33:23):
I don't I don't like those questions.

Speaker 3 (33:26):
All right, let's send it over the scoreboard and see
how you guys did with our scoreboard.

Speaker 2 (33:31):
Producer bread I never even put his pen to the paper.

Speaker 7 (33:36):
Rosa, you did not get any correct It was the
most passes I've ever seen in my life, and I
really I thank you for following the rules. Victoria. I'm
gonna give her one. She got one correct? What did
the first one? Technically speaking?

Speaker 3 (33:52):
Congratulations, Victoria, Hey, gives give the point to me.

Speaker 2 (33:58):
I don't remember you saying that. Rossa. I'm sorry you
did not beat Victoria.

Speaker 3 (34:02):
Today, but you still got one hundred dollars gift card
to Macy's.

Speaker 2 (34:07):
Yes, and now let's get the answers with Nina. What
did you say the smallest bird in the world was Victoria?
What are the answer is?

Speaker 4 (34:17):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (34:17):
I say himbird?

Speaker 4 (34:18):
Oh okay, okay, I see, I see the hummingbird is
the smallest.

Speaker 2 (34:21):
Yeah, I got that right, oh, okay.

Speaker 4 (34:24):
Fourteen states. The Appalachian Trail crosses fourteen states. Vidim URL
stands for Uniform Resource Locator. No one knows that the
summer solstice is the celebration of the longest day of
the year. What the distance from the Earth to the
Sun is ninety three million mile?

Speaker 2 (34:41):
You don't ask me that because you didn't get that far.
Rosa got Farna got ninety three thousand miles right, Victoria
it was million?

Speaker 4 (34:48):
But yeah, yeah, and then well, baseball was the sport
featured on the first curved US coin in two thousand.

Speaker 2 (34:56):
I knew that you.

Speaker 10 (35:02):
Right now.

Speaker 2 (35:04):
Send me up for failure.

Speaker 3 (35:06):
Thank you for playing Rosa to play you versus Victoria
at the same time every single weekday morning. Remember, if
you want to play, you can always d m us
at the Jubile Show. Or go to the jubilshow dot com.
And while you're at it, if you go to the
iHeartRadio app and you click on the little red button
there a little microphone button, you can send us messages.
Then we can hear them and hear all of the

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weird things you have to say to us.

Speaker 2 (35:30):
Yeah, it's pretty rat. You tell us that you already
knew what you are l was.

Speaker 7 (35:36):
No one knows that that is, to be fair, When
I wrote that question, I didn't know what it was,
and I'm a total geek.

Speaker 2 (35:46):
I need delete it because I know what it is.
Why ask you on the street? Maybe you can go viral?
Do you remember what it means? No? I already forgot.

Speaker 14 (35:59):
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Speaker 3 (36:06):
Treya is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted from a day she
went on with a woman named Carolina. So we're going
to see if we can help figure it out for
and maybe get another date if he still wants one.
In a second, but first, Draya, how long has it
been since you heard from Krolina?

Speaker 10 (36:20):
It's been about a week.

Speaker 13 (36:21):
Now that I hadn't heard from her, okay, And yeah,
so I'm just really confused because we well, for like,
we met at work, and we've kind of been flirting,
like back and forth, you know, just kind of office romance.

Speaker 10 (36:40):
I guess, yeah, exactly. But she's really pretty.

Speaker 13 (36:47):
She has a great sense of humor, and we've actually
been having coffee like in the office break room and
stuff and kind of getting to know each other. So
it was we kind of knew each other before going
into the date, and so I finally got up the.

Speaker 12 (37:01):
Nerve to ask her out.

Speaker 13 (37:03):
And I want I've been wanting to play pickleball because
I've heard there's so much hype around it, and I
thought it would be fun.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
Is that what you did for your date?

Speaker 13 (37:13):
Yeah, we went, we played, We played a couple of
rounds of pickleball, and then we had some drinks after
words at the bar.

Speaker 2 (37:20):
Okay.

Speaker 10 (37:21):
And I mean, as far.

Speaker 13 (37:23):
As I'm concerned, the date was great, Like, the conversation
was wonderful. Like I said, she has a great personality,
she's funny, she has wonderful sense of humor, and we
even shared a little kiss. Oh but yeah, the next day,
I was excited to like get to work and see her,

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and she wasn't there. So I texted her because I
was like, oh, no, you know, I just wanted to
make sure she was okay, maybe she was sick. I
wanted to check in on her. And she didn't answer
me back, and so she hasn't been at work all week.

Speaker 2 (37:59):
She got fired.

Speaker 12 (38:01):
I don't know.

Speaker 10 (38:02):
I haven't heard anything, so I don't think so.

Speaker 13 (38:04):
But I've been reaching out to her, and I'm actually
like kind of worried because like, I don't know if
something happened or she's really sick or yeah if I mean,
maybe I just don't know.

Speaker 10 (38:15):
I thought we had a great date. I think, you know.

Speaker 14 (38:18):
Now I'm just worried I did something.

Speaker 3 (38:20):
Do they have like a policy about dating other coworkers
at your office only if.

Speaker 13 (38:27):
You're like you can't like supervisors can't date hourly employees
and things like that. But if you're both hourly then
you can, then you can be Okay.

Speaker 2 (38:37):
It's a free for all. I love it. Does she
usually show up to work every day?

Speaker 4 (38:47):
Like, I mean, is she the type of person that
just calls out sick randomly sometimes or no?

Speaker 13 (38:51):
She's actually pretty good with attendance, so, which is why
I'm so worried that she's missed so much.

Speaker 4 (38:57):
Did anything weird happen on the date? Like, was there
a moment where you felt like?

Speaker 2 (39:01):
I don't know, I mean not on my.

Speaker 13 (39:04):
End, I thought everything went went great, Like when we parted,
we parted on great terms, and you know, we even
said we were kind of even like, hey see, you
see we're like see around the office, and just kind
of made a little joke out of it.

Speaker 2 (39:17):
But I'd be worried too. Have you asked around about her?

Speaker 13 (39:22):
I asked a couple of people, but nobody really and
everybody just kind of says they haven't heard from her either,
especially a week.

Speaker 5 (39:28):
I feel like it's a good amount of time to
not be in the office, right, Like do you know
where she lives?

Speaker 2 (39:33):
Just do a drive by or I mean, I don't know.
It's an idea.

Speaker 13 (39:40):
I did call her from a block number to see
if she would answer, and she did answer, but I
got a little nervous and.

Speaker 10 (39:47):
Just hung up.

Speaker 3 (39:48):
Oh no, so you know that she's answering her phone
at least.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
Okay, Well good, she's a live.

Speaker 10 (39:56):
Yeah, she is alive, so that's good.

Speaker 13 (39:57):
I just now it's more so I'm worried that she's
shit avoiding me.

Speaker 2 (40:02):
We'll see if we can figure it out.

Speaker 3 (40:03):
We'll play a song come Back, and then we'll call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
you and maybe get you another date if you still
want one.

Speaker 12 (40:09):
Okay, that's great, thanks guys.

Speaker 2 (40:11):
All right, well play a song come back, get your
first day follow up next. Grea is on the phone.

Speaker 3 (40:16):
Today for a first day follow up and she's getting
ghosted by a date she went on with a coworker
named Carolina and doesn't know why. So we're about to
call Carolina and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting and maybe get Drea another date if she still
wants one. But first, Drea, why don't you catch everybody
up on your date with Carolina.

Speaker 10 (40:33):
Yeah, Carolyne and I met at work.

Speaker 13 (40:36):
We've been kind of floating back and forth, and I
finally got the nerve to ask her out.

Speaker 10 (40:40):
We went and we played pickleball.

Speaker 13 (40:42):
We had drinks, great conversation, and even a little kiss
at the end. So I'm just wondering why she's not
returning my text.

Speaker 2 (40:53):
Or cls and she hasn't been to work for a week. Yeah,
that's the alarming.

Speaker 10 (40:57):
Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, that's where I'm worried.

Speaker 3 (41:01):
Yeah, okay mccaller. Hello, Hi, may I speak to Carolina please?

Speaker 10 (41:15):
Yes? This is Carolina, Carolina.

Speaker 2 (41:17):
How are you? My name is Jewbell and a host
the radio show and it's called The Jewbell Show.

Speaker 4 (41:21):
Hi, Carolena, the show's here too. My name is Nina, Hi,
and I'm Victoria. There's three of us on the phone
with you right now.

Speaker 14 (41:26):
Hi.

Speaker 10 (41:27):
Okay, sorry, three of this Okay, what's going on?

Speaker 2 (41:30):
We do a segment on our show. It's called the
first Date follow Up.

Speaker 3 (41:32):
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and end up ghosting them, that person can email
us to get you on the phone and ask why
you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you
from somebody that you dated recently, Okay, any idea?

Speaker 2 (41:45):
Who would be.

Speaker 12 (41:48):
Was it Drea?

Speaker 2 (41:49):
Yes? It was Drea. Wants to know why you're ghostinger,
why you haven't been to work.

Speaker 14 (41:54):
Okay, So I'll tell you about that, Okay, cool. I
mean if you don't ask me about it, yeah, I'm sorry, sorry.

Speaker 2 (42:02):
Appreciate it.

Speaker 14 (42:02):
Yeah, okay, but you know what fine, so go seek Drea.
You can tell her this, because you know, as we
were leaving our.

Speaker 12 (42:12):
Date, something just didn't really sit right with me with
a comment that she made.

Speaker 14 (42:16):
She's kind of like, oh, you know, it's going to
be amazing when my ex hears about this, She's going
to lose her ship. And I just kind of looked
at it like, oh, so there's this some sort of competition.
Like to me, that's like, you know, listen, I'm getting older.
I don't want to be a pawn in anyone's game.

Speaker 12 (42:33):
So I was hurt by that.

Speaker 14 (42:35):
I thought it was really uncalled for, and from there
on out I was really uninterested.

Speaker 2 (42:39):
She was saying that going out with you was going
to make her ex angry.

Speaker 14 (42:43):
Yeah, like basically like getting back to her, like happiness
is the best revenge.

Speaker 12 (42:48):
Like that's what I took from it with her saying that.

Speaker 14 (42:50):
So I ended up Actually I haven't been around her
because I called out of work the next day. First
and foremost I did not want to see Dreya. But
he turns out Universe works and mysterios ways, and I
really did come down with something.

Speaker 12 (43:02):
So I've actually been pretty sick.

Speaker 14 (43:04):
This past week or so. But at the same time,
I can't. I'm getting better, but I just have no
interest in being used to make someone jealous, you know
what I mean.

Speaker 2 (43:13):
Yeah, I'm glad you're feeling about her.

Speaker 14 (43:16):
She seems like a cool girl. I got to protect
my heart, you know. I don't want to set myself
up for something and be disappointed to get hurt. So
we work together, which makes it super awkward. I just
think it's probably best if we can just avoid each
other at work. I don't know how I'm going to
go about that once I do return to the office,
but I'm going.

Speaker 12 (43:35):
To figure that out.

Speaker 3 (43:36):
You think that she didn't really like you that much,
she just wanted to make her ex jealous.

Speaker 14 (43:42):
Well that's the thing, Like I didn't see that coming.
That she gave me no sign to that. It was again,
just at the very end of the day she said it.
So that was when I felt let down because I
thought everything went well. I thought we had really good
chemistry and everything. It's just tough to find. So, yeah,
this is let down for sure. But now I just
kept trying to be It's more about this whole thing,
you know.

Speaker 4 (44:01):
I mean, I get that protecting yourself is one thing.
But did you ever think about calling her out and
having a conversation about it?

Speaker 2 (44:07):
Maybe?

Speaker 14 (44:08):
You know, it was just the one date. So I
kind of feel like, I don't know, I don't hope
I'm not being cowardly, but I just kind of want
to let it go. And I really am being a
ghoster here, aren't I? But sometimes like it's better than
to just get into a long drawn out conversations. But I
don't know what she'll say if I mentioned that comment
that she made. I don't know, a little backfire.

Speaker 3 (44:29):
Well, let's see, because she's actually on the phone and
she's been listening this whole time, and she wants to
talk to you.

Speaker 12 (44:35):
Oh my god, So Dreya you're there right?

Speaker 10 (44:38):
Well, yeah, yeah, I'm here.

Speaker 13 (44:40):
Sorry, I just got kind of like I just got
really anxious all of a sudden.

Speaker 12 (44:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 13 (44:47):
No, first of all, I am so sorry, Like, let
me apologize for making that comment. Obviously, you don't know
a lot about my past, and I didn't. It didn't
come from a place of oh ha ha, you're going
to be how I get back at my ex and
everything like that. Actually I had an amazing time with you,
but my ex was kind of one of those who

(45:08):
was kind of abusive and always made me feel small
and like I wasn't good enough for anybody, and you're just,
all of a sudden, this amazing, beautiful person who showed up,
and it was just one of those things where it
was it was more of like a happy like, oh
my god, wait till my exies this because ha ha,
I finally like might actually be happy for once. And

(45:29):
it wasn't to be petty or to use you as
a pawn in a game or anything like that.

Speaker 10 (45:33):
It was just more of like.

Speaker 13 (45:34):
A I'm wow, I finally met somebody like really nice
and that I like it might like me back. So
I'm so sorry for that comment. If it heard you, okay,
I would say right now, like I do appreciate the
apology for sure, and you know, I didn't think that's
where you'd be coming from.

Speaker 14 (45:53):
Not really sure if I'm interested they gave us any
further For me. The big reason why, it's just kind
of like the whole X talk. I feel like this
is a lot of talk about your act and like
I don't even like bringing up like past girlfriends or
even guys I dated about nothing from the.

Speaker 12 (46:10):
Past like early on, so I feel like.

Speaker 14 (46:12):
This is a lot coming at me.

Speaker 10 (46:14):
Does that make sense? You dated guys?

Speaker 12 (46:18):
Yeah, I date people for sure.

Speaker 13 (46:20):
Yeah oh yeah, you didn't tell me that, so I
didn't know that.

Speaker 6 (46:25):
So I just thought I'll mention, you know, puture secrets
for sure. So you know, that's kind of oh, just
a lot. Yeah, well you're getting onto me about like
my ex but you didn't even tell me about your
x is.

Speaker 10 (46:40):
So it's just kind of it's just kind of odds
to me.

Speaker 12 (46:46):
I wasn't really getting on too about your acts.

Speaker 14 (46:48):
I think for me, it was just more about like, oh,
that's seen like some game playing there.

Speaker 13 (46:51):
So yeah, well I just I mean, I guess like
I do kind of like to you upfront about things.
I you know, I don't really like to keep things
from people, even though early on in a relationship, you know,
because when you're trying to get to know somebody, you're
trying to get to know somebody.

Speaker 14 (47:05):
Yeah, but like in time, for sure, that is exactly.

Speaker 12 (47:09):
What I'm trying to say. You just pretty much stated
that there.

Speaker 14 (47:12):
You know, I just think it takes time to get
to know one that I don't need to know everything
up front.

Speaker 13 (47:17):
I guess I'm just kind of different on that end.
I kind of like, you know, I mean more different, Carolina.

Speaker 3 (47:21):
Would you would you like to go out with your
egga and on another day we'll pay for it.

Speaker 12 (47:25):
I think that's just made myself pretty clear here.

Speaker 14 (47:27):
Again, I think she seems like a cool girl, but
I just think, you know, she's I'm not the one
for her. You know, it's early on, but I can tell,
I can definitely tell this We're just not a match.

Speaker 10 (47:36):
But yeah, no, that's fine.

Speaker 13 (47:38):
I mean I would feel like to be friends because
I think you're a really cool girls. But I mean
I just I'm not really interested either, because you know,
it's like doing to hide things for me.

Speaker 10 (47:48):
So well, hopefully you don't work. Friends believe it of that.

Speaker 3 (47:52):
Yeah, all right, well see it work, Carolina.

Speaker 2 (47:58):
I have a good birthday. Back after being.

Speaker 14 (47:59):
Said, oh thank you, I appreciate that.

Speaker 10 (48:05):
Doubles first day follow up.

Speaker 11 (48:06):
I've done some really diabolical things for a hot dog.
I've done some really financial meetearsufs I thinks for a
hot dog as well. Recently, after the bars, me and
my friends were like, oh, you know what, we need
a seven eleven hot dog, And I'm.

Speaker 2 (48:17):
Like, yeah, here's the problem.

Speaker 11 (48:19):
Seven eleven is in Baltimore, close at midnight and the
bars closed at too, So there we get a little
bit of a gap and time that that's the problem.

Speaker 2 (48:24):
So I go up to a closed to the seven eleven.
The guy from across the seven eleven goes, no, leave.

Speaker 11 (48:29):
I take fifty dollars in cash out of my purse,
hold it up against the window.

Speaker 2 (48:33):
I go, oh, that dog.

Speaker 11 (48:35):
He comes up to the door. He goes, ma'am, what
can we get you? I go, please, I'll do anything
for just two hot dogs and a diet coke. This
gentleman brings them over and he's like, just take them,
have a good night off to pay, but I insist
on him taking the fifty dollars in a hog.

Speaker 2 (48:45):
Oh wow, the Jeble Show.

Speaker 3 (48:48):
That's a story and one of the world's biggest celebrities
might be a terrible influence on your kids what. We'll
tell you who it is in a second, but first,
there's so much going on in the world today. We've
got two elderly gentlemen competing for the job of running
this country when they most likely can't even run their
own bladders. We've got so many Netflix options that most

(49:08):
of the time spent watching something to entertain you to
check out from the day to day, ends up just
sitting on the couch going no, no, no, accurate no,
and then turning off the TV and going to bed.
And now we have to worry about one of the
world's biggest sweethearts being a terrible influence on your kids.

Speaker 2 (49:24):
Oh, can't imagine?

Speaker 3 (49:26):
Person is none other than Taylor Swift? Really Taylor Swift?

Speaker 2 (49:33):
Who's calling her this?

Speaker 3 (49:34):
One writer for Newsweek is taking heat today for a
piece that he wrote called Taylor Swift is not a
good role model?

Speaker 2 (49:41):
Okay, what is he spelling it? Writer?

Speaker 3 (49:43):
Here's why he feels that way. For starters, he says
that Taylor Swift is not a good role model because
she's unmarried and childless at thirty four.

Speaker 19 (49:51):
Okay, I was waiting to be like, I kind of
agree with the bullies.

Speaker 3 (49:59):
Dat, let's I'm back here. Why how do you feel
about that, Nina, she's unmarried? In challice the thirty four
shees is a bad role mom.

Speaker 4 (50:07):
I think this person really needs to get his head
checked because that is completely inappropriate.

Speaker 2 (50:12):
That's so, how would you call it? Why? Why?

Speaker 3 (50:16):
He says, quote, we must ask if her personal life
choices are ones we want our sisters and daughters to emulate.

Speaker 2 (50:24):
Are doing this again?

Speaker 4 (50:26):
I don't want a handsmaid's tale. Yes, literally trying to
do that to us, sir. Who else doesn't have kids
and who isn't married?

Speaker 2 (50:37):
Victoria, you're you're young. Yeah, she's okay.

Speaker 5 (50:40):
Yeah, but I can't imagine the thought of kids right
now literally scares me, like to no end right now.
So I can't even imagine like and or I don't
have a boyfriend. I can't even get married like in
the next few years.

Speaker 4 (50:52):
Even more than that, I just really hate the fact
that there are some people that still believe that that's
a measure of success, because I mean, at this point
in our lives, you know, dang well, there are a
lot of women out there doing a lot of things
that is also considered successful. But are they married, oh,
you know, and or childless? They couldn't do it, they
were waiting, And I'm just kidding, I'm joking. I want
those things.

Speaker 3 (51:12):
We're going over an article from a Newsweek writer Who's
taking It Today that he wrote called Taylor Swift is
not a good role model. The next point that he
made is that Taylor Swift's revolving door of relationships is
another reason that she's not a good role model.

Speaker 2 (51:29):
Let her live her a live. She's trying to find
out what she likes.

Speaker 3 (51:33):
She says, quote, would any loving parent reading this want
their daughter to date twelve different men in the span
of just a few years.

Speaker 5 (51:41):
I mean, my dad has told me, Victoria, I don't
care if you stick with the guy, but like, just
go on different.

Speaker 19 (51:46):
Days to figure out what you like in a relationship.
Maybe this is what he means. I mean, it's really
not a bad thing. That way, you get to really
figure out what you like, which you don't like. Yes,
by the time you choose to be with somebody, it
was a choice you didn't settle.

Speaker 2 (51:58):
That'sally true. True, Nina, that's a good point.

Speaker 3 (52:02):
Why didn't you rather your child date until they were
ready and they found the right person, even if it
was twelve different men in the span of just a
few years.

Speaker 4 (52:09):
I mean, good for that person. We're putting themselves out
there consistently. Do you know how hard that.

Speaker 2 (52:13):
Is to do? Yeah, it's scary.

Speaker 3 (52:15):
Another point that the writer makes is that he says
there's hypocrisy because of Taylor Swift's attacks on patriarchy. She
tends to date quote strong influential men, celebrities who embody
significant social and economic power. So what he says, Swift
either doesn't realize this is a hypocrisy or doesn't care

(52:37):
neither of this is a good look. Why she's a billionaire,
ye who she won? Who's she going to be surrounded
by probably influential, successful people?

Speaker 4 (52:49):
So true, right, because if they weren't, I'm sorry, don't
you think they'd be a little intimidated by her and
then feeling like less than a man in that type
of a situation.

Speaker 3 (52:56):
So according to this writer, though, she should just go
to an RB's and git on a dude in an
army because she shouldn't be dating influential man.

Speaker 2 (53:04):
This person sounds like a sad individual.

Speaker 3 (53:07):
The author made a few other points, like the way
Taylor always plays the victim in her breakups and the
fact that she makes it seem like quote partners can
be replaced as easily as toilet paper.

Speaker 4 (53:18):
As toilet paper, Honestly, I do find it kind of
inspiring when somebody can go through multiple breakups and move
on to the next person and understand that they don't
have to dwell in their pain for years and years
and years, you know, like what is she supposed to do?

Speaker 2 (53:33):
But also how do you know she's going to go
over them so quickly?

Speaker 5 (53:35):
Like I mean, I don't know her way of like
rights processing and releasing that like energy or whatever is
writing music? So yes, you're gonna write bad about them,
especially if you didn't end well.

Speaker 4 (53:44):
Right, it's her narrative. If he wants to tell a story,
let him write a.

Speaker 2 (53:48):
Song, true right.

Speaker 3 (53:50):
The author also says, quote Taylor's life is a meticulously
managed pr machine, and it represents a filtered facade rather
than genuine reality. What young girls truly need, perhaps without
fully recognizing it, which is also another thing to say
that sounds very man's plaining to me. I'm not a woman,
but I don't even really know what man's planning is

(54:12):
that well, I'm sure I do it sometimes, but doesn't
it like women don't even realize it?

Speaker 2 (54:17):
Please, sir, tell me how to live.

Speaker 3 (54:19):
You don't fully understand and recognize what her life is, anyway.

Speaker 2 (54:24):
Explain it to me.

Speaker 3 (54:25):
He says that young girls truly need, perhaps without fully
recognizing it, role models who provide both authenticity and actual
depth rather than artificial narratives and superficial glamour.

Speaker 2 (54:37):
Did he say like? Did he give examples?

Speaker 4 (54:39):
I just actually don't agree with that. I do think
that she's quite authentic in most in most regards, I
think I did too.

Speaker 3 (54:44):
To me, it sounds like this newsweek article writer has
a crush and is very angry they he'll never be
able to meet Taylor.

Speaker 2 (54:51):
She didn't respond. I know she didn't, and so that
he's mad. It's time for Nina's what's trending?

Speaker 4 (54:57):
Are you traveling this summer or specifically, are you traveling
this weekend?

Speaker 2 (55:00):
I wish well.

Speaker 4 (55:02):
If you are, it's important to know that it's expected
to be the busiest summer travel season ever.

Speaker 2 (55:08):
Don't they say that every summer? I guess it just
keeps getting busier.

Speaker 4 (55:12):
But ever since the pandemic, people have really been out
there trying to live their lives, which I think is
a wonderful thing.

Speaker 7 (55:18):
This is an interesting one too, because fourth of July
on a Thursday, means you get Friday. That's a straight
up four day weekend.

Speaker 4 (55:26):
They expect to process over thirty two million people from
last Thursday to Monday, July eighth. Oh my, gosh, I know,
but don't worry. TSA is on it. They're staffed up
and they are making sure that their wait times meet
their standards. Ten minutes are less in the TSA pre
check lines, and thirty minutes are less for regular lines.

Speaker 5 (55:46):
Wait that never happened to the airports never meant that standard.

Speaker 3 (55:51):
Also, who do you complain to if they don't want
to make you promises? You can't complain.

Speaker 4 (55:58):
I was gonna say, you can complain because you heard
the promise and you better hold them to it. Accountability
is something that we all owe each other, and this
is one of those moments.

Speaker 3 (56:08):
Start shouting at them in line. I would love to
be there to see that. I love this audio on
the podcast and play it for them. They've made a promise.

Speaker 4 (56:16):
They did, but I think there's a respectful way to
do it too. Just really put your foot down and
be like you promised.

Speaker 2 (56:21):
Now do it. I get you to back then.

Speaker 4 (56:25):
I want to hold people to these promises too, because
while everything is more expensive, we know, especially if you're
going grocery shopping or if you have babies and diapers,
but there are five things that have actually gone down
in price this year, and so just to focus on
it in case you need to stock up on any
of these things, like cars or trucks.

Speaker 2 (56:42):
They've gone down in price.

Speaker 4 (56:44):
Televisions are cheaper this year, major appliances like ovens and fridges,
dishes and flatwear, and then even airfares gone down. I
don't know if I believe that one either, but this
is another one of those moments where you just need
to hold people accountable for what they're trying to promise.

Speaker 2 (56:58):
That's house people's stuff.

Speaker 7 (57:00):
Yeah, most people already have a house or they can
actually afford one. Any TV's and appliances and trucks. And
about why it's going down, don't you. Oh that's true,
because nobody don't you have a TV in an apartment
or a rented home. Sure, but the one you've got
is the one you got. You're not even looking at
TVs right, A new one painted at TV in my

(57:22):
house the other day. So wasteful art.

Speaker 2 (57:28):
It was broken, right, No, that makes it more art
to me. For the love of the game. I was
bored and I had.

Speaker 3 (57:37):
A spray can in my hand and something needed to
get painted. Like you're getting a TV, Like, yeah, you
didn't watch it, you just can't probably see it.

Speaker 4 (57:50):
It's just like was like like a little child in
his house with his spray cand it's my daughter.

Speaker 15 (57:55):
It's a TV also at yeah, yeah, but I'm sure
I will.

Speaker 4 (58:05):
Okay, I'm gonna leave you with this summer PSA. And
I think out of everybody in this room, the person
that needs to hear this the most is jubile and
that is that going number one in the pool is
not okay. You talk about wearing potty outside in all
different places, but every.

Speaker 2 (58:19):
Year, every year, and every summer, I do feel like
this isn't me. This is science.

Speaker 4 (58:24):
By the way, this is not a me PSA, it's
a science PSA. But every year there is some kind
of debate about what you can and can't do in pools.
And for the longest time, even my mom told me
it was fine because like the chlorine would just kill
it and nobody would even know that you went. But
now science is saying that if you do go, combining
with the chlorine and chemical compounds, it can end up
being more harmful to your eyes, skin, and your respiratory system.

Speaker 2 (58:47):
So hold it.

Speaker 3 (58:49):
Please, thought about that if I open my eyes in
a pool, I'm getting in my eyes.

Speaker 4 (58:53):
Yeah, that's well, if you key in the pool or somebody,
somebody is guarantee it's Yeah, but has anyone ever died
from from opening their eyes in a pool after.

Speaker 7 (59:05):
Not yet, because it's been happening since before pools were
even official.

Speaker 3 (59:12):
There's water, I'm peeing in it. No, that doesn't matter
where it is, it doesn't matter.

Speaker 7 (59:16):
Yeah, someone was doing dishes earlier in the kitchen in
the right here, and I was like, there's water, might
need a pee in it?

Speaker 2 (59:22):
Might as well.

Speaker 4 (59:23):
Yeah, so next time, let's not go swimming in the
same pool as anyway.

Speaker 2 (59:30):
That's what's trending.

Speaker 10 (59:33):
Jewbles dirty little secret?

Speaker 2 (59:35):
Hello, Hi, Hey, what's up? You have a dirty little secret?

Speaker 10 (59:39):
I do?

Speaker 2 (59:39):
Sweet?

Speaker 12 (59:40):
What is it?

Speaker 4 (59:41):
So?

Speaker 8 (59:41):
My dirty little secret is that I've changed in front
of my window for the past ten years.

Speaker 14 (59:48):
Yeah, Like I'm never fully nude, but like enough to
know this, is.

Speaker 2 (59:51):
There a hot guy across the street? Did you do
it on purpose because you want someone to see you?

Speaker 8 (59:54):
Or I don't do it for anybody specifically, but like
for just like my neighbors, like anytime I've moved.

Speaker 14 (01:00:00):
Like I've always just done it. It's kind of a
thrill for me. And I do have a fantasy of
like of hooking up with a neighbor.

Speaker 13 (01:00:09):
I don't have anybody specific in mind, but you know.

Speaker 3 (01:00:13):
Yeah, you're just hoping you live next to some hot
Australian dude. At some point you're changing and he's like oy.

Speaker 4 (01:00:23):
Then you realize it's not hot up close, and you're like, oh, shoot,
is that what you hope for?

Speaker 10 (01:00:29):
I mean, you never know.

Speaker 8 (01:00:30):
It's not like I know my neighbor as well, and
it's like, you know, at least we'll give them something
to talk about, like enough for them to say, it'll
just if I'm talking to me.

Speaker 3 (01:00:39):
You got to be careful when you hook up with
a neighbor. I've done it me too.

Speaker 4 (01:00:42):
Does not always end well, damn yeah, and then what
do you gotta do?

Speaker 2 (01:00:46):
Move?

Speaker 3 (01:00:48):
It was really funny because she came over randomly. She
had moved in, and then she came over to introduce herself,
and then we had a conversation. And later that night
she came over with a bottle of wine. I was like,
you want a bottle wine? And I was like sure,
and then we ended up, you know, hooking up for
like a couple of months. And then I was still dating,
you know, And so I also was dating, and she

(01:01:09):
heard me one time with somebody else because our wall,
our bedroom balls were right next to each other. And
then she didn't talk to me anymore, and then she
started dating, and then she made sure that I knew
she was.

Speaker 2 (01:01:20):
Thanks for your dirty little secret, no problem. Hello, Hey,
what's up? You have a dirty little secret?

Speaker 10 (01:01:28):
Yeah. So there's a group of friends and myself.

Speaker 12 (01:01:32):
We go to our local.

Speaker 18 (01:01:33):
Walmart and we'll open up like cans of tuna fish
and we'll shove it and like the men's underwear and
then sometimes the women's underwear. I was just staying there
and wait to see who you know, goes shopping for it,
and when I was like grab it. We'll follow them
just to see if they ever catch on. And most
of the times they don't. But it's nasty.

Speaker 2 (01:01:55):
I bet it is funny. Have you ever talked that?

Speaker 8 (01:01:58):
Not?

Speaker 12 (01:01:58):
In on things?

Speaker 10 (01:01:59):
We did this pretty often.

Speaker 2 (01:02:01):
There's a list it's.

Speaker 18 (01:02:02):
Like nine to nine things to do to get kicked
out of Walmart, and we try every single one of them.

Speaker 2 (01:02:07):
Okay, have fun. It's better than doing drugs.

Speaker 4 (01:02:10):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:02:10):
Now, if I buy someone to wear a Walmart and
it's got tune in, and I'm just gonna laugh about
it and be like, dang, that was you.

Speaker 2 (01:02:16):
Yeah, thank you for telling us your dirty little secret.
Thank you by What's your dirty little Secret?
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