Are You Unintentionally Passive Aggressive?

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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It's the Jewel Show, and when the police department gets
in on the joke.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
I'm kind of repressed. Hey, it's cool that.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
You can just wear whatever you want and go out
looking like that and not care what people think. I
wish I could do that.

Speaker 2 (00:43):
WHOA.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
At some point today you might find yourself confronted with
somebody being passive aggressive. Or maybe you tend to be
passive aggressive and don't even realize it, which is cool.
I wish I was less self aware like you.

Speaker 2 (00:57):
Good for you. Well.

Speaker 3 (00:59):
Experts have released the top phrases that people use without
realizing they're being passive aggressive. So we'll go over them next,
so you can either stop using them or just fully
lean into it. What do you want to do, We'll
do it right after this it's the double show. Oh wow,
you wore glasses today. I love that they hide your face.
So well, said double show. What I actually had a

(01:21):
girlfriend say that to me once. Really why she was
not very nice?

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Probably?

Speaker 3 (01:27):
But let's face it, the world is full of passive
aggressive people, and sometimes it's hard to spot well. Thanks
to the Internet, psychologists have released a list of passive
aggressive phrases that people use without realizing they're being passive aggressive.
So let's go over it now so you can decide
if you want to use these phrases and be more
passive aggressive or try to pay attention to it. Okay,

(01:48):
I'm sorry you feel that way.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
That's aggressive. Huh.

Speaker 4 (01:54):
I know, I kind of wonder about that one too,
because that's kind of legit. I am sorry if you
feel a certain way, right. I think it depends on
the situation, Right. Did you cause them to feel that way?

Speaker 2 (02:04):
Right?

Speaker 5 (02:04):
Did you create the situation of why they feel that way? Possibly,
but still you'd be sorry that they feel that way.
People use it as a non apology. They say like,
I'm not sorry for what I did, but I'm trying
to sound like I am. Instead of taking responsibility, you're
placing the blame on the other person's feelings. I kind
of disagree with that one, because, yeah, you can still
be sorry that somebody feels that way. Also, if you

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didn't do anything wrong, yeah they're upset at you, then yeah, hey,
I'm sorry you're upset.

Speaker 3 (02:30):
But I know I didn't do anything wrong. So maybe
that's the you problem and not a meat problem.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
Making themselves upset. So clear think about the other way.
I'm actually really mad about that.

Speaker 6 (02:42):
Why because it's like, you did make me feel upset,
and you are the reason I'm mad, and now you're
acting like you're not the reason I'm mad, So now
you're just putting it on me.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
It's like should have been on you.

Speaker 4 (02:49):
Well, then you need to come back and say that
so the other person can go, oh, okay, well I'm
sorry for making you feel that way, but I'm also
sorry that you feel that way.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
Why should you just know or you could do another
passive aggressive thing back to them and just go whatever.
That's also on the list of out passive aggressive people.
Things that people say that they don't realize is passive aggressive.

Speaker 4 (03:10):
You don't realize you're being passive aggressive when you say whatever.

Speaker 5 (03:13):
I think you think you're being controlling while you're controlled, right,
You're like, I'm not.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
Gonna say all the things I'm feeling right now. So whatever.

Speaker 4 (03:20):
Yeah, that's like the most passive aggressive statement of all time.
When you lean into it, whatever'll.

Speaker 3 (03:27):
Say, you might might to throw in the towel, like
I really don't want to watch this movie. But whatever,
But either get on board for real or stick to
your guns and don't watch the movie.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Oh, I don't know if it can like end an
argument early.

Speaker 7 (03:40):
Whatever?

Speaker 2 (03:41):
Man, are you trying to do this by right now?

Speaker 3 (03:43):
Actually you do use whatever a lot, Victoria, Yeah, Victoria does.

Speaker 2 (03:46):
I just I don't have it in me right now.

Speaker 5 (03:50):
I just want I think by the time I get
to whatever, I am so incredible, incredibly exhausted by the
situation that I now truly do not care what happens. Yeah,
I am totally fine with whatever happens next.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
I feel like when I use whatever, I'm not using
it passive aggressively. I'm using it aggressively, Like you know,
it's gone past that.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
It's not passive.

Speaker 3 (04:11):
It's definitely not passive. All depends on how you say it,
I guess, and who too. Another thing that experts say
is passive aggressive that people don't realize if you say
so saying if you say so, oh, they say it's dismissive,
and it implies that you really don't believe what they're
saying exactly.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
So that is also not passing on the conversation. I
mean it's intentional.

Speaker 5 (04:34):
My uncle used to do this thing, and he's a
he's an older man, he's like in his seventies. He
used to go, well, it's your story. I'll let you
tell you how. You tell it how you want.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
You don't remember the details at all, right, if you're
telling the story wrong, which is if you.

Speaker 5 (04:48):
Say so on a whole new level, that's your story, sweethearted,
Tell tell how you want. What you say to his
wife and she was telling a story to people.

Speaker 2 (05:00):
Being supportive you your way when you.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
Said to his wife, I could feel her insights of
rage every time.

Speaker 2 (05:08):
You say it and whatever.

Speaker 3 (05:12):
Another thing that people say that they don't realize is
passive aggressive.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
You're just too sensitive. I don't think that one's passive.

Speaker 7 (05:19):
You're literally.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (05:23):
Well, I think the aggressive version of that is get
over it, right, And so the passive aggressive version is.

Speaker 2 (05:29):
Like, oh, you're just they're too sensitive.

Speaker 3 (05:32):
Sweet angel Yeah, you know, sweet, it's maybe angel you.
I was trying to kind of tell somebody they shouldn't
be upset about something.

Speaker 2 (05:39):
Yeah, it's a you.

Speaker 3 (05:40):
It's it's you're you're just too sensitive about stuff. That's
what it is. There's no real problem.

Speaker 6 (05:44):
I don't like.

Speaker 7 (05:45):
I don't like that.

Speaker 4 (05:45):
One's super triggering. But it's a bad thing to be
sensitive and you need to fuck up, babe.

Speaker 3 (05:51):
How many times has that happened in fights between men
and women?

Speaker 2 (05:54):
For sure?

Speaker 3 (05:55):
Guys say that a lot, and I don't even know
if they realize what they're doing when they say it.
But man, you want something to go from zero two
hundred real quick.

Speaker 5 (06:03):
You want to say your phrases, gentlemen, two phrases. One
is you're being too sensitive and two is calm down
the last.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
Things come right and call me crazy. Then we'll really
see things.

Speaker 3 (06:20):
Just so you guys know, that's the PSA for most women,
they say the top passive aggressive people. Thing that people
say without realizing they're being passive aggressive is good for you.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
Or now the version is I love that for you?

Speaker 4 (06:35):
Yeah I say that.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
I know, well it's not good for me, it's good
for you. Like like go you like. Thanks for the
verbal pat on the head for sure, good for you.
I love that for you.

Speaker 8 (06:50):
It's not what I would do.

Speaker 5 (06:51):
It's completely wrong, and you're an idiot, but good for you.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
For you, that's great because.

Speaker 3 (06:57):
You make a lot of mistakes, so good for you.

Speaker 4 (07:00):
I didn't realize until right now how passive aggressive you are, Victoria.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
You give me the good for you a lot. I'm
happy for you. I'm trying to be said.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
When you're happy, you say pop off, and when you're
being passive aggressive you say good for you.

Speaker 9 (07:16):
Great.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
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Speaker 3 (07:45):
Hello, hey, Mama bear, Hello, Hey, how you doing? This
is Pete Akins from bakery. We're the ones that are
making your gender reveal cake. Okay, yes, hey Mama bear,
when's the party? Because the cake is ready.

Speaker 10 (08:01):
Oh, great, because it's going to be tonight.

Speaker 3 (08:03):
Oh tonight. Oh, everybody's going to be very excited when
they find out about a new baby girl.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
I'm so excited.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
I'm sorry, I just said everybody's going to be super excited.
I love these moments when you know, people cut into
the cake and then they realize what, you know, what
they're getting, what bun has been cooking in the oven,
you know, and have everybody just be like, oh, do
you have a girl already?

Speaker 7 (08:26):
Did you?

Speaker 8 (08:27):
So you're telling me now that I have a girl. Oh,
you're not supposed to.

Speaker 10 (08:35):
I'm supposed to find out when I get the cake
at the party.

Speaker 7 (08:37):
Tonight, not now. The cake is for you, yes, but
it's for all of.

Speaker 10 (08:43):
My friends and family. We're going to learn about this
tonight together, not now on the phone with.

Speaker 7 (08:48):
Me so ruining everything.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
I'm wondering if you wouldn't mind if we could reverse
the conversation and start over and kind of forget what
I said there.

Speaker 10 (08:58):
We can't start we can start over now because now
I already know.

Speaker 8 (09:01):
I'm so pissed off because this is supposed.

Speaker 11 (09:03):
To be this is our first baby, this is the
first time and we were gonna do this and everybody
was going to be excited. My best friend's gonna be there,
the neighbors are, the family's gonna be there, and you
ruse everything.

Speaker 3 (09:15):
Okay, Well, how do you know it's not a boy.

Speaker 11 (09:19):
Because he just said it was a girl?

Speaker 5 (09:21):
You said it light.

Speaker 11 (09:22):
Don't try to make it better now because you've ruined it.

Speaker 10 (09:24):
You've ruined everything.

Speaker 12 (09:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (09:28):
I think I was just very excited and didn't really
put a whole lot of thought into what I was
saying there.

Speaker 10 (09:35):
So, well, you should be thinking better if you're doing
this kind of job of revealing. That's why we chose
you your bakery, because we heard about you did this and
you were.

Speaker 2 (09:42):
Good at it. Right, So.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
I want to make this better for you because I
feel like that was not a good thing for me
to say.

Speaker 13 (09:51):
I don't know how you're gonna make it better.

Speaker 10 (09:52):
How are you gonna make this better when you've ruined everything? Okay,
so you're gonna make another cake now?

Speaker 2 (09:56):
Well?

Speaker 3 (09:57):
Uh, okay, so the cat's out of the bag. Where
I guess the baby's.

Speaker 13 (10:01):
Out of it?

Speaker 14 (10:01):
Definitely?

Speaker 8 (10:02):
For sure?

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Do you accept my apology?

Speaker 12 (10:06):
I don't accept your apology.

Speaker 10 (10:07):
As a matter of fact, this was like I said,
our first baby and you ruined everything.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
Yeah, because I was gonna say, if you have another one,
then it's kind of like whatever at this point. You know, so, uh,
it's the first one that's a big deal. Okay, So
what if you come down to the bakery and because
obviously me letting that slip sort of ruin the surprise
for you, and.

Speaker 10 (10:32):
And what because you know, I'm so pissed off and
I ain't got time to deal with this. You need
to fix this.

Speaker 3 (10:39):
Well, okay, if you come down to the bakery, you
and I can sit together, I can apologize in person,
and then maybe we can do some acting classes so
you can act surprise surprised.

Speaker 12 (10:49):
What do you mean acting classes?

Speaker 3 (10:51):
You know, I'll coach you through acting surprise, so when
you cut it open, you don't have to say that
you already know.

Speaker 11 (10:57):
No, this is ridiculous ideas. There's nothing you can do.

Speaker 10 (11:01):
A polity is not acceptable. You know what, Let me talk.

Speaker 3 (11:04):
To your watch I will have you know. I've watched
hours and hours of acting tutorials on YouTube.

Speaker 7 (11:09):
And I feel like I can't care about your act.

Speaker 12 (11:11):
I don't care about your acting because it's not working.

Speaker 3 (11:13):
Now you see you here in my surprise and my voice,
I could teach you that.

Speaker 10 (11:19):
You know what, why don't I just come down there
right now. I'm going to get the cake and must
smash it all over your store because you've ruined everything
and you should be out.

Speaker 11 (11:27):
Of business for what you send to me.

Speaker 3 (11:28):
Okay, what if I tell you this is a prank
phone call that was set up by your husband, Jason.
Let me get better. What this is actually Doubil from
the Jebel Show doing a phone prank on you and
your husband. Jason, say you up? Yes, he said that
you guys got a cake to reveal the gender of
your baby, and he wanted me to mess.

Speaker 11 (11:45):
With you, so we we don't know.

Speaker 3 (11:51):
No, we don't know if it's a girl or boy.

Speaker 2 (11:53):
Right, No, we don't.

Speaker 3 (11:53):
He just wanted to mess with you and see how
you'd react If we're ruined the general.

Speaker 7 (11:58):
He's gonna kiss this.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
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Speaker 9 (12:53):
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Speaker 2 (13:39):
Oh, that's interesting.

Speaker 3 (13:41):
They don't look that bad to me, I'm sure. Yeah,
they look like normal, like normals, cream and coral and
blue on blue.

Speaker 2 (13:49):
That sounds nice, it does.

Speaker 4 (13:51):
I just feel like people are into the idea of
hating on like the baseball uniforms.

Speaker 2 (13:55):
What do you really want them to look like? Just
just watch the game and let them make their millions
and just stood over it. Let the players play well.

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Speaker 2 (14:54):
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Speaker 15 (14:57):
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It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.

Speaker 3 (15:22):
Julia is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
She's been with her boyfriend Tony for six months, but
now she thinks that something might be going on, so
we'll see if we're gonna help her out. Julia, what's up?
Why do you think that Tony might be cheating?

Speaker 7 (15:33):
Well, actually, we're both in relationships right now, and we've
been seeing each other. We work together. We've been seeing
each other for about six months, and we made a
pack that we're going to break up with our significant
others so that we could be together. And I don't know,
he seemed kind of hesitant about it, so I'm not
sure what's going on he's been It's not that he's

(15:55):
been avoiding me, but you know, we don't usually talk
at work anyway, Nobody really knows what's going on. It's
just he seems to be very distant, so I don't
know if he's changed his mind, And anytime I ask
him about it, he just kind of ignores me and
walks away. You know, we fall in love and we
didn't want to feel, you know, make the other my

(16:16):
boyfriend or his girlfriend feel bad. But at the same time,
you know, whenever you find your true love, then you
need to embrace it. So I'm just trying to figure
out if what's going on with him. Did he did
he break up with her? I mean, my my boyfriend.
She doesn't seem interested in a relationship anymore, so it's
kind of time to end things anyway, and I need

(16:38):
to know, you know, Yeah.

Speaker 4 (16:40):
It's hard to ask these questions though, because does he
live with his girlfriend? Do you live with your boyfriend?

Speaker 7 (16:44):
I mean, well, my boyfriend and I talked about living together,
and he stays there sometimes, but he works a lot,
so Tony actually comes over to my place quite often.
He lives with his girlfriends, and you know, he comes
up with excuses why he has be out of town,
and so, yeah, you know, he seems to enjoy whenever

(17:06):
he's with me, and I just I don't know. He
I told him he can move in with me. He
just seems to kind of, I don't know, ignore me now.
So I need to know what's going on so that
I can just continue, you know, do I need to
keep my boyfriend around or.

Speaker 2 (17:24):
Girl respectively? This is like a cheating inception father father?
Who else is cheating one? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (17:33):
But okay, so you're saying, if he doesn't leave his
girlfriend for you, you're going to stay with your boyfriend anyway,
which that probably isn't a good idea.

Speaker 7 (17:42):
I don't, you know, my boyfriend's super, super nice. You know,
he just doesn't seem like we've kind of grown distant.
We've been together for a while a couple of years,
and it's just you know, whenever you get kind of
in that spot where you just think that you need
to move on, and so he's so nice, then I
wouldn't want to give that up. But at the same time,
it's like, you know, what do you do? It's it's confusing,

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and it's it's a hard place to be in.

Speaker 3 (18:09):
Okay, so both of you guys are technically cheating with
each other, but now you think that he might be
more serious about his girlfriend or do you think there's
someone else?

Speaker 8 (18:20):
I think, well, that's a good question.

Speaker 7 (18:22):
It's because we just kind of casually started talking at
work and started hanging out, and nobody knows that work.
You know, We've tried to keep it very very quiet,
and but he maybe he does have somebody else. Maybe
there's a third person here that I don't even know about.

Speaker 2 (18:38):
How does he have the time? Yeah, I know this
is a lot for you.

Speaker 4 (18:42):
So I'm sorry I'm making jokes, but I'm trying to
digest how this is all working too.

Speaker 7 (18:47):
You know, to try to think about it. Whenever you're
with somebody and you're like, Okay, you're comfortable and they're
so nice, and then all of a sudden you meet
what you believe is your true love. You know, what
are you supposed to do.

Speaker 8 (19:00):
Things?

Speaker 7 (19:00):
Things just kind of evolved, And so is.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
He telling you that he's going to leave his girlfriend
then and he hasn't yet.

Speaker 7 (19:06):
Yeah, yeah, that's that was our pack. Then I'm ready
to leave mine, but I'm not going to just up
and be alone if he's not going to do the
same thing. So I need to figure out if he's
truly committed to our pact or if maybe he did
find somebody else, or maybe.

Speaker 4 (19:22):
He's waiting for you to do it. Maybe he doesn't
think you're going to do it because you haven't. Maybe
he's maybe.

Speaker 7 (19:27):
I don't know, maybe maybe he is. Maybe that's the
answer to the question. It's just a matter of finding
out what's you know, what's he thinking?

Speaker 3 (19:36):
Okay, well you told us what grocery store he shops
at and is a Rewards card member at. So we'll
play a song come Back, and then call him and
pretend to be from the grocery store and say that.
Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member at
random who gets free flowers delivered from our Florida department.
We'll see if he sends those to you or to
somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, we'll play some'n come back.
You're to catch a Teater next, if you're just joining

(19:59):
us for today's to Catch a Cheater. Julia is on
the phone and she's been seeing her boyfriend Tony for
six months. This is an interesting one. They're both in relationships.
But in a second, we're about to call him see
if he's cheating, and pretend to be from the grocery
store that he's a rewards card member at and say
that he's this month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered
from our floral department, and see if he sends them

(20:19):
to Julia, his girlfriend, or to somebody else. But before
we do that, Julia, why don't you refresh everybody's memory
on your situation.

Speaker 7 (20:26):
Well, we met at work, fell in love, and we
made a pack that we were going to leave our
current significant others to be together, and he just kinds
drifted away. So I'm trying to figure out why, if
he's still as interested or what's going on.

Speaker 2 (20:40):
Okay, all right, you ready for us to call him?

Speaker 7 (20:43):
Yeah, yeah, let's get this fun.

Speaker 2 (20:44):
Okay, here we go.

Speaker 3 (20:55):
Hi, this is Gorbel calling from I was looking for
our Rewards card member named Tony.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
Yeah, this is Tony, Tony. How are you? Please?

Speaker 3 (21:04):
Don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
I'm calling to tell you congratulations. You're this month big winner.

Speaker 8 (21:09):
All right, What exactly did I win?

Speaker 2 (21:12):
Oh? Maybe you haven't seen.

Speaker 3 (21:14):
But every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards card
member to say thank you very much for shopping with
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and a card to be delivered anywhere, totally on us.
It's actually a three hundred and fifteen dollars value.

Speaker 8 (21:33):
All right, Yeah, okay, great.

Speaker 3 (21:35):
So here's how it works. I can take down the
information over the phone in just a few minutes. So
if you know who you want to send them to
right now, I can take that information right now.

Speaker 8 (21:46):
Yeah. No, let's just do it now on the phone
some time.

Speaker 2 (21:49):
Okay, great.

Speaker 3 (21:50):
So first I'll need the first and last name of
the person you'd like to send them to.

Speaker 8 (21:55):
Yeah it's Ama.

Speaker 3 (21:59):
Okay, Emma, all right, and would you like to include
a card and anything in that card.

Speaker 8 (22:06):
Sure, yeah, that's just something simple. I love you baby.

Speaker 9 (22:11):
Happy anniversary, hopefully many more to come.

Speaker 8 (22:14):
Our anniversary is coming up.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
Oh well, happy anniversary. How long you guys been together?

Speaker 8 (22:19):
Thanks, it's a couple of years.

Speaker 3 (22:21):
Well, tony, thank you very much for the information.

Speaker 2 (22:24):
There.

Speaker 3 (22:25):
Now, I'd just like to tell you that this is
not the grocery store. My name is Jubel. That's the
radio show. It's called the Jebel Show.

Speaker 2 (22:31):
Yeah, shows here.

Speaker 16 (22:31):
Hi.

Speaker 2 (22:32):
I am Nina, Hi, and.

Speaker 3 (22:33):
I'm Victoria, and we do a segment on the radio.
Were called to catch a cheater and your girlfriend Julia
is on the phone.

Speaker 8 (22:42):
Are you serious? What are you doing? What are you stupid?
Like you? Why would you?

Speaker 7 (22:50):
Hi? Don't you dare call me that? You have been
ignoring me and you've been walking away. We made a
pack to be together and now now you're just being
I mean, I try.

Speaker 8 (23:04):
To work the radio.

Speaker 9 (23:05):
You want to talk about the fact that we're both
cheating on our significant ele on the on the radio.

Speaker 7 (23:13):
No, it's not crazy. It's still you can't do that. Okay,
you're out there and but no, I'm not being crazy.
You are being a complete arm total.

Speaker 8 (23:25):
You put us on the radio.

Speaker 7 (23:26):
This is I put it on the radio because me. Now,
you got there and said, oh, you're the love of
my life. I'm going to leave Emma, right, I mean
she's us but whatever you said that you were going
to be with me, and it's about time that you
own up and you you need to tell everybody this
is what you've been doing. You've been with me, you
say you love me, and then you just ignore me.

Speaker 8 (23:49):
Okay, this is your idea. This seems like a good idea.
This is your way of trying.

Speaker 16 (23:53):
To get me to like this is this is this
is your.

Speaker 9 (23:56):
Big plan was to put us on the radio and
tell the whole world that we're cheating on our significant others.

Speaker 8 (24:02):
Like this is crazy. I can't believe.

Speaker 7 (24:05):
Whatever Jack is. You know, if he finds out, then
find whatever our relationship is going down anyway, But for
you to sit there and tell me that you love me,
you're going to leave her and then send her roses
and sit there and say happy in a grocery Are
you serious? I mean you're getting mad at me, but
you're you do.

Speaker 8 (24:25):
I can't send them to you. I couldn't send him
to your house like y you have a boyfriend.

Speaker 7 (24:31):
Because you send them to your house.

Speaker 8 (24:35):
What am I crazy?

Speaker 7 (24:38):
Spend the night? No, it's not nuts, you know what.
You just have to get over yourself and need this side.
Are you going to be with her? Are you going
to be with me? Hello?

Speaker 9 (24:46):
Oh my gosh, I can't believe this is how you're
doing this. This is just.

Speaker 4 (24:53):
Yeah, you both are stressing me out.

Speaker 7 (24:56):
Okay, you guys, you send there trying to right now?
Do you hear him.

Speaker 13 (25:04):
There?

Speaker 7 (25:04):
And regardless, No, it's not okay? Then you need to
talk to me about stuff.

Speaker 9 (25:13):
Well, you're having me in the worst possible position.

Speaker 7 (25:17):
You realize that on the radio position by.

Speaker 8 (25:22):
I didn't okay, I didn't listen. You don't do that.

Speaker 9 (25:26):
You you're you were involved in this too, Okay, don't
don't put this on me, Scott involved?

Speaker 8 (25:32):
Okay, you plan for this? You know you didn't plan
for it.

Speaker 7 (25:37):
Okay, But you're gonna sit there and tell me that
I'm crazy for going on the radio. Well, I'm calling
you out. You have to make a choice, and you
know what she deserves to know.

Speaker 8 (25:49):
Neither of them. That's the whole point.

Speaker 9 (25:51):
We want to hurt either of them, that's the whole point.
We didn't want to hurt them. Okay, neither of them.

Speaker 7 (25:57):
Now you're your owning up to it. Now you're saying
that you don't want to hurt her. Okay, well you
should have left her. You should have left her already,
and that's appear and send flowers. Oh, happy anniversary.

Speaker 9 (26:09):
Things have been going better with Emma.

Speaker 7 (26:14):
Well congratulations?

Speaker 5 (26:15):
Do I mean?

Speaker 7 (26:17):
What do you want me to say? I'm so happy
for you?

Speaker 8 (26:20):
I don't. I can tell you what I did.

Speaker 9 (26:25):
Put it out on the radio for the whole world, like,
that's not the mature way to handle this.

Speaker 7 (26:32):
Well, I think you went past mature whenever you saw
you started ignoring me, or.

Speaker 2 (26:37):
When decided to have two girlfriends.

Speaker 7 (26:39):
Okay, yeah, so you can say, what adult? You know
what I'm done, and Emma deserves to know. So I'm
gonna thunder an email right now. She deserves No, she
you have, I'm done you goodbye, not your place to do, Tony.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
She hung up, and now Tony hung up. Wow, I
don't know what just happened. That sounds stressful, Yes, it does.

Speaker 2 (27:13):
It made me really uncomfortable.

Speaker 3 (27:15):
Yeah, I wasn't even sure we should have helped her
out because she was already cheating and then well, at
least thanks for the entertainment.

Speaker 2 (27:22):
Is that what we call that was crazy at this point, Yes,
they're both cheating. They're both in the wrong.

Speaker 17 (27:30):
The Jewel shows to catch a cheater. You know what's
weird about your quizzes, Katie, is that all the work
is right and just the answers are wrong. I know
that having a boyfriend may seem like the most important
thing in the world right now, but you don't have
to dumb yourself down to get guys to like you.

Speaker 3 (27:46):
Almost time for America's favorite trivia game, You Versus Victoria,
your chance to take on our own Victoria Ramires in
a short shorts game of trivia of.

Speaker 2 (27:56):
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Speaker 3 (27:57):
Also, speaking of short shorts, don't get caught in last
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(28:18):
four three one six one eight eight eight three four
three one six one. You can also d m us
at the Jewel Show or go to the Jewbelshow dot
com if you want to play Victoria. And now for
some fun brain exercises to loosen up Vicky's noodle word association.
Victoria first word that comes to mind when I say, come.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
Quat, why are you laughing? They're so good? You're delicious.
You're so good.

Speaker 3 (28:41):
Yeah, and at that time of year, yeah, I know,
so exciting. All right, we'll move past that one. I know,
nin come poop, I see a dragon? What dragon? Victoria
had a pet dragon?

Speaker 2 (29:00):
It'll be named nim.

Speaker 3 (29:04):
Squishy Victory. Okay, good, You versus Victoria is coming up
right after this. It's a jubil show.

Speaker 8 (29:14):
Got room for one more if you still want to
go to ask? But where did you find that? Some
kid back in town traded the van for it? Straight up?

Speaker 2 (29:22):
I can get seventy miles to the gallon on this hog.

Speaker 5 (29:26):
You know, Lloyd, Just when I think you couldn't possibly
be any dumber, you go and do something like.

Speaker 8 (29:33):
This and totally reveem yourself.

Speaker 3 (29:38):
It's time for America's favorite trivia game, You Versus Victoria
your chance to take on our own Victoria Ramirez in
a game of trivia for one hundred dollars gift card
to Macon, one hundred dollars gift card to Macy's. Love
hundreds of dollars in gift No, nope, nd dollars gift
card to Macy's. Let's meet today's contestant for you versus Victoria, Alicia.

Speaker 2 (29:58):
What's up? Alicia? Not much?

Speaker 3 (30:02):
How are you?

Speaker 8 (30:04):
I am fabulous?

Speaker 2 (30:05):
I'm so kind.

Speaker 8 (30:05):
I got through today.

Speaker 2 (30:07):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (30:09):
Do you think you have what it takes to take
down Victoria?

Speaker 2 (30:11):
Where is that like that?

Speaker 8 (30:12):
I think so?

Speaker 15 (30:13):
I don't a trivia basically every morning on my way
to work, and I actually get about three ish, right,
you know, so I think I got it.

Speaker 2 (30:21):
It's more than mess. It is significant.

Speaker 5 (30:23):
Yea, it is significant amount more all right, it's Victoria
out of the studio, Alicia.

Speaker 3 (30:29):
The game is played like this, thirty seconds to answer
as many questions as possible.

Speaker 2 (30:35):
If you don't know one, just say.

Speaker 3 (30:37):
Pass and the door is closing, and it's closed, and
Victoria has to beat you outright to win.

Speaker 2 (30:42):
You ready to go?

Speaker 12 (30:44):
Yeah, let's do this.

Speaker 3 (30:45):
Here we go, Alicia. Your time starts now.

Speaker 2 (30:49):
Which state is known as the first state?

Speaker 7 (30:52):
Oh, New York?

Speaker 2 (30:54):
Orange is rich in which vitamin.

Speaker 8 (30:58):
Vitamin C?

Speaker 2 (30:59):
What is the net which what is the national flower
of the United States?

Speaker 14 (31:06):
Path?

Speaker 4 (31:06):
Who wrote the poem that later became the lyrics for
the US national anthem? Oh Path, Which fictional city is
the home of Batman on the Declaration of Independence? Who
had the largest signature.

Speaker 7 (31:22):
John Hancock?

Speaker 2 (31:23):
All right, time is up.

Speaker 3 (31:25):
We'll bring Victoria back to the studio while she's getting settled. Alicia,
what's something you would like the world to know today?

Speaker 8 (31:33):
But I am a dedicated mother.

Speaker 15 (31:34):
I love my baby girl and my stepson, and I'm
getting married in August.

Speaker 3 (31:40):
Also props to you, Alicia.

Speaker 2 (31:42):
Good job.

Speaker 3 (31:42):
Most people go, I'm nothing really just I'm just just
a mom and I'm getting married. Nothing interesting. Huge, Yeah,
good job just being like I do this and it's cool.
Proud of you. All right, Victoria's being studio.

Speaker 2 (31:57):
I want to go to a wedding. You just went
to AA. I know, there's so much fun. The Victoria
is still at the wedding. She was doing her head.

Speaker 3 (32:07):
All right, Victoria, here we go thirty seconds to answer
as many questions as possible. If you don't know when
just say pass, and you have to be Alicia outright
to win?

Speaker 2 (32:15):
Who's so scared? Alicia? You can tell Victoria when to go?

Speaker 8 (32:21):
All right, girl?

Speaker 2 (32:22):
Which state is known as the first state? Texas? Orange
is rich in? Which vitamin? See? What is the national
flower of the United States?

Speaker 16 (32:31):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (32:31):
I always said bluebonnets? Only that's right. Sounds blow?

Speaker 4 (32:35):
I know pass who wrote the poem that later became
the lyrics for the US national anthem desf Which fictional
city is the home of Batman?

Speaker 5 (32:43):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (32:44):
Oh oh?

Speaker 4 (32:47):
Got them on the Declaration of Independence? Who had the
largest signature?

Speaker 2 (32:53):
Have anybody else had a picture of the Declaration of Yeah, Okay,
time is up.

Speaker 3 (33:01):
No, send it over to the scoreboard and see how
you guys did with our scoreboard. Victoria, Brad, Victoria did
get too correct?

Speaker 2 (33:08):
Yikes? Why do I feel like the way you said that?
Alicia got three correct?

Speaker 12 (33:12):
Morning?

Speaker 2 (33:12):
Yeah, congratulations, you won.

Speaker 3 (33:16):
You beat Victoria, and you got one hundred dollars gift
card to Macy's.

Speaker 2 (33:20):
Hey, you get something pretty for the wedding.

Speaker 15 (33:23):
Yeah, yeah, right, I gotta get a few more things
so that totally works out.

Speaker 3 (33:27):
Sweet love that let's get the answers now with Nina.

Speaker 4 (33:30):
The state that is known as the first State is Delaware.
What orange is rich in vitamin C. The rose is
actually the national flower of the United States since one.

Speaker 2 (33:39):
I don't know. Actually I just learned that today.

Speaker 4 (33:43):
Francis Scott Key wrote the poem that became the US
national anthem, Francis Scott my.

Speaker 2 (33:49):
Mad bro, I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (33:50):
Dotha City is the home of Batman. And then John
Hancock had the largest signature on the Declaration of Independence.

Speaker 2 (33:57):
Okay, that guy sounds like he'd be in a Marvel movie.

Speaker 4 (33:59):
First you ever heard of people say like, put your
dan John Hancock on it.

Speaker 3 (34:09):
Victoria's face, she's standing up now, Okay, signature?

Speaker 2 (34:19):
Did you hear Alicia? Alicia said that's how she knew
it too. So Eliza, let's be on it. What did
you actually think?

Speaker 8 (34:30):
I think?

Speaker 2 (34:30):
I know I ventured in such a good mood after
that wedding.

Speaker 3 (34:33):
That's another guy named John.

Speaker 17 (34:36):
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Speaker 3 (34:43):
Melyssa is on the phone today for a first date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Bryce.

Speaker 2 (34:48):
So in a few minutes.

Speaker 3 (34:48):
We're gonna call him and see Ifiel tell us why
is ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Alyssa,
how long has it been since you heard from Bryce?

Speaker 14 (34:55):
Oh my gosh, you guys, it's I want to say,
two weeks, Okay, I like that's legitimate. I gave it
a week and.

Speaker 7 (35:03):
I was like, Okay, maybe he's just like super busy
or got like late COVID, you know.

Speaker 14 (35:08):
I mean, yeah, okay, so I gave him a benefit
of it's out, but like now it's been too long,
you know, And I just I really really liked this
guy a lot, and I thought we had a really
you know, strong connection, But like then.

Speaker 7 (35:26):
Just to hear absolutely nothing, I'm just kind of like, okay.

Speaker 4 (35:30):
Like I need to find out what happened, you know, Yeah,
did you try to reach out to him to like
instigate the conversation or anything.

Speaker 14 (35:37):
Well, it's just like I don't think anything went wrong,
you know. I like maybe something on the date might
have scared him off. Like I just I'm not sure
because like he was so adamant about reaching out to
me and like you know, wanting to stay close and connected,

(35:58):
and then for him to just drop.

Speaker 7 (35:59):
Off a click like that, I'm like, Okay.

Speaker 14 (36:02):
Something's going on, you know, like now I'm playing detective,
you know. And we actually we first met and like
clicked over Instagram because we both have Frenchies, very specific
type of dog lover. It's a lifestyle choice, you know,
so we're part of a small community of French.

Speaker 7 (36:23):
Ye lovers and you know, we just.

Speaker 14 (36:26):
Like bonded over our adorable dog children. And you know,
after a couple of weeks like chatting back and forth,
I invited him.

Speaker 12 (36:36):
To go with me to an Italian cooking class.

Speaker 2 (36:38):
Oh that's fun, that's really fun.

Speaker 14 (36:41):
Yeah, so it was like super romantic.

Speaker 7 (36:43):
I'm supposed to go as a friend who bailed, and
I was like, oh my god, this is perfect, Like
it's not going to be awkward.

Speaker 14 (36:50):
We have an activity, you know, like we're not just
going to be like sitting across from each other. Like
what if you know, how like if you meet someone
online or like you're just texting, it could be weird
when you finally meet in person, you know, but right
so you don't know. But when I met him, I
was like, oh my god, I'm like totally floored, Like

(37:10):
he's so cute. He's so fun and like we were flirting,
like getting really like you know, touchy feely, and the
pasta was like we're it was a good excuse to
like accidentally touch each other.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
You know, I mean.

Speaker 14 (37:24):
It was it was like major wrong con vibes, like
I was living my best kid husband life.

Speaker 13 (37:29):
You know, this is.

Speaker 14 (37:30):
Amazing, right, and he's like so funny, so charming, and
he impressed the whole class. Like it was just anyway,
Like I said, I really liked him.

Speaker 7 (37:39):
That's why I'm now very confused. And you know, it
was just.

Speaker 14 (37:44):
Like a perfect date. So that's why I just can't.
I'm like going back in my mind trying to think
of anything that I said or that he said that
was like I don't know something I missed think of.

Speaker 7 (37:58):
I mean, I don't honestly, like we were.

Speaker 14 (38:01):
Like making out by the end of the class like outside,
you know, I just like got real spicy, like super fun,
and I honestly, if anything, I mean, it was like
too perfect.

Speaker 7 (38:15):
So I don't know, like can it be too perfect?

Speaker 14 (38:18):
And then that's the problem, Like so I don't know,
like maybe he's also or there's just something he didn't
tell me, you know, And maybe he's afraid to tell me,
So I just am trying to figure out. And it's
weird because like now I'm checking his Instagram. I feel
like that's like a mini like low key stocker, which

(38:40):
I'm totally not normally at all, Like I don't even
date that much, so it's kind of weird.

Speaker 4 (38:46):
You don't even have to explain yourself. I would do
the same thing because I'm like, are you alive?

Speaker 2 (38:53):
A perfect date? Did you die?

Speaker 8 (38:54):
What if he's in the hospital?

Speaker 7 (38:57):
Like what if I should be concerned? You know, like
should I be worried?

Speaker 3 (39:02):
At this point, we'll play us on come back and
then call him and see if he'll tell us why
he's ghosting you.

Speaker 8 (39:07):
Okay, okay, thank you?

Speaker 3 (39:09):
All right, well plas on'll come back and get your
first day follow up. Next Right in the middle of
your first date follow up and if you're just joining us,
Alyssa is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
a dude named Bryce. So we're about to call him
and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her
and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Alyssa,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?

Speaker 14 (39:26):
Real quick, okay, so perfectly met on Instagram.

Speaker 7 (39:30):
Initially, when we met.

Speaker 14 (39:31):
In person, it was like over the top, like chemistry,
super amazing making up by the end of the day,
and then.

Speaker 7 (39:39):
Just like nothing for two weeks.

Speaker 14 (39:42):
So I'm like almost concerned at this point because there
was no instution of anything that went wrong, you know,
and it was almost too perfect. So I'm like, what
is going on?

Speaker 2 (39:56):
Are you ready for us to call him?

Speaker 8 (39:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (39:58):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Bryce please.

Speaker 18 (40:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (40:14):
This is Bryce Bryce. How you doing?

Speaker 3 (40:16):
Man? My name is Jewbel and I'm calling from a
radio show. It's called The Jewbell Show.

Speaker 2 (40:19):
Yeah, Bryce, whole Show's here. My name is Nina, Hi,
and I'm Victoria. How are you.

Speaker 12 (40:25):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (40:26):
Have you ever listened to the show before?

Speaker 12 (40:29):
I'm sorry, No, I haven't.

Speaker 3 (40:30):
Okay, Well, okay, do apologize for just try to do
better in the future.

Speaker 2 (40:35):
Well.

Speaker 3 (40:35):
We do a segment on our show called the First
Aid follow Up. What that is is if you go
out on a date with someone and you end up
ghosting them, that person can email us to get you
on the phone and ask.

Speaker 2 (40:46):
Why you're ghosting.

Speaker 3 (40:48):
Oh okay, so you're ghosting somebody and they emailed us,
Do you have any idea who that would be?

Speaker 12 (40:55):
Yeah? I do.

Speaker 2 (40:57):
Okay, who do you think it is?

Speaker 12 (41:00):
I think it's probably Alissa?

Speaker 3 (41:03):
You are probably correct. Alyssa email us and told us
about your date and she's confused, So would you mind
telling us?

Speaker 2 (41:10):
Why are your ghostinger?

Speaker 8 (41:13):
Okay, No, it was Listen. It was a great day.

Speaker 13 (41:17):
I didn't expect it to be that great actually, and
she was kind of amazing.

Speaker 12 (41:23):
And we we did.

Speaker 8 (41:25):
We really hit it off.

Speaker 13 (41:26):
I mean, we got along, we connected on you know,
a lot of important things like that are in a lot.

Speaker 12 (41:32):
I mean, obviously our dogs.

Speaker 13 (41:34):
I'm sure she probably told you about that, being you know,
being a French frenchy dog owner. You know, it's this
kind of the whole thing. And No, it was great.
It was a lot. It was kind of one of
I just had this moment afterwards of like thinking like, oh,
this isn't going to I don't know how casual this
is really going to be.

Speaker 12 (41:52):
It didn't, but like this is just going.

Speaker 13 (41:54):
To jump a lot of steps, you know, and and
I don't I don't know if I'm I don't know
if I'm ready for that. I just moved here not
long ago and I started.

Speaker 12 (42:04):
With a new company, and so a lot of my
time is focused on that. You know. When we went out,
I kind of was one of my first three nights
in a long time.

Speaker 13 (42:10):
And I just I don't know if I really have
the space of my life right now for like a
serious relationship, which I think.

Speaker 8 (42:17):
Is probably where this is going to go.

Speaker 13 (42:18):
And I don't want to, you know, string it out
longer and you know, leus get a lot more emotions involved,
and then you know just have to you know, break
it off or disappoint her, you know, because then I'm
like I'm not available or you know.

Speaker 12 (42:32):
All kinds of things.

Speaker 4 (42:33):
But does it feel like you just skipped a lot
of steps, like thinking about the future before you even
go on a second date? I mean I understood, Like
I guess I kind of get fear, Like I think
there's always fear involved when you date somebody new. But
how do you know that you're going to disappoint her,
you know what I mean, unless you're planning on it.

Speaker 8 (42:52):
Well okay, no I'm not.

Speaker 13 (42:53):
I'm not planning on it, but I just she just
seems she's just really.

Speaker 8 (42:56):
Great, you know, and I that's great till that and
I just I just I don't. I don't want to,
you know, I just.

Speaker 12 (43:02):
Came into town.

Speaker 8 (43:03):
I don't want to.

Speaker 13 (43:04):
I guess I don't want to get a bad reputation already,
you know, and have an enemy, you.

Speaker 4 (43:09):
Know, because you think you're to date other girls or
it's just like you don't have time for her.

Speaker 8 (43:14):
I'm just worried. Yeah, I'm worried that, you.

Speaker 13 (43:16):
Know, I'm just I'm going to end up not actually
having time for her, and she's you know, I'm going
to make it seem like we can get invested and
then it's.

Speaker 12 (43:22):
You know, it's not really you know, I don't really
have that availability.

Speaker 2 (43:27):
Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 3 (43:28):
I don't really know what to say. I'm just worried
that you're going to fall in love too quickly.

Speaker 2 (43:32):
I mean I think that that's pretty cool when you
meet somebody special.

Speaker 8 (43:35):
I mean yeah, but.

Speaker 13 (43:36):
It's like, you know, I just got here and it's like,
is this really happening? Like it's it's scary and maybe
I am over, you know.

Speaker 18 (43:43):
I kind of almost want to ask, like, are you
sure you don't just want to be single for a
little bit, Like it's kind of sounds like you move
to a new city, you just want to play the field,
hang out.

Speaker 13 (43:54):
I mean, there's a bit of that, but I'm also
like at an age where it's like, you know, I
would like instability, like somebody to kind of share my
life with, but yeah, no, I.

Speaker 12 (44:03):
Did just get here, so it's like, am I already.

Speaker 8 (44:05):
Making that step, you know, with somebody who.

Speaker 12 (44:07):
I just got here?

Speaker 3 (44:08):
So well, thank you for being honest with us.

Speaker 2 (44:10):
I appreciate that.

Speaker 3 (44:11):
And now I let you know that Alissa's actually been
listening to this conversation.

Speaker 2 (44:14):
She's on the phone and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 14 (44:16):
Oh my gosh, Hi, all right, Sorry, I'm not trying
to like make it weird. Maybe too late, but thanks
for answering that question. Like I was definitely curious, you
know what happened.

Speaker 7 (44:37):
Because I thought I was like, okay, this is like
too perfect, you.

Speaker 14 (44:41):
Know, and it's definitely not me. Sorry, no offense, Like
I was just like, okay, like just because we had
so much fun and there was so much chemistry and like,
you know, I had no idea that you were going
through so much on your own.

Speaker 8 (44:58):
But we can keep things slow.

Speaker 7 (45:01):
It doesn't have to be like you know, this runaway.

Speaker 14 (45:04):
Train that like I'm not like rushing to the altar
like tomorrow.

Speaker 16 (45:09):
I mean I would Vegas like I'm down, but I also,
you know, don't necessarily want to get married by Elvis.

Speaker 14 (45:22):
So but we can like chill, you know, like I'm
totally down to hang out more and you know, like
just kind of get to know each other better while
you're still kind of learning ropes of you know, like
a new place. And it can be a lot all
at once. But it's more fun if you're hanging out

(45:42):
with someone that you like, right, I mean.

Speaker 13 (45:48):
If if you're if you can understand and like want
to take it slow, because I mean that date was
we got pretty fast.

Speaker 8 (45:54):
But I mean, yeah, we could just take it slow.

Speaker 12 (45:58):
I think, who are you? I can give it a try.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
Rice, Will you go on another day with a Lissa?
We'll pay for it. Oh well, congratulations.

Speaker 8 (46:11):
Wow, we're the winners in this second date.

Speaker 7 (46:14):
It's my dream and dreams.

Speaker 8 (46:15):
Appreciate it, you both.

Speaker 3 (46:18):
First date follow up.

Speaker 19 (46:19):
If I say I'm broken, I can't spend money at
the moment that does not include alcoholic beverages. Okay, realistically
that's kind of like a medical expense because avocadaya coke
is kind of like therapy, only you know, avoga coca
is fourteen dollars, a therapy is like within the hundreds.

Speaker 2 (46:33):
So realistically, I just think it's smart spending. Why is
the drinking vodka with a dia coke? That's my biggest takeaway.
I'm sorry. You know how it is.

Speaker 3 (46:42):
You meet someone that you're interested in and then you
try to set up a date. You so you think
of a good place to go, and you want to
go somewhere that you can really get to know each other,
not too serious, something you can talk right, the kind
of get to know each other. So you suggest you
meet up at body Con, the country's biggest newdiest can
then your date cancels on you last minute for some reason.

Speaker 2 (47:06):
Rude.

Speaker 3 (47:06):
Yeah, well, if body Con isn't for you on a
first date, a relationship expert has posted the five stress
free places to meet for a first date and we'll
go over it next since you will show, Hey.

Speaker 2 (47:23):
I would need are there? It is, Hey, Saucepan.

Speaker 3 (47:29):
I'm calling you Saucepan because you're hotter than an oiled
up pan that someone hap has or to left on
the oven on HYI let's sert go back to my
place for some veno and some uno. What that sounds
like a great time show. If that kind of date
isn't for you, don't worry about it. A relationship expert

(47:50):
has released the top five stress fee stress free places
to meet on a first date. So we'll go over
the right now so you don't have to have any
awkward vino and uno moments, saucepan. That would if someone
called me that, They say, a coffee shop is one
of the five stress free places to meet for a
first date.

Speaker 2 (48:10):
Isn't it also so boring?

Speaker 7 (48:12):
Uh? Not?

Speaker 2 (48:13):
If you make it not boring, you make it not boring, Victoria,
I would not have the answer to that question.

Speaker 3 (48:19):
Would you be excited about affee shop on a first date?

Speaker 6 (48:22):
Yeah, I'm probably more excited about a coffee shop than
going to a bar and watching the guy get drunk.

Speaker 3 (48:26):
Okay, that's the last date you are.

Speaker 6 (48:28):
Yeah. He's like, yeah, it goes seems like a really nice,
like local bar, and I'm like, oh cool, do you
come here a lot? He goes, no, this is my
first time, but it just seems like a really cool
local bar.

Speaker 3 (48:36):
I was like, okay, I love this place. Yeah, it's cool,
local watering home before. Never em thinking before at all,
but seems like it, right, he reviews on Vicery. I'm
sure that was a great date for you, Victorious, it
was terrible.

Speaker 5 (48:53):
It depends on what your intentions are, though, because if
you're actually trying to get to know the person, coffee
date doesn't sound boring at all, right, Like you're just
having a conversation.

Speaker 2 (49:01):
Like it's a really good conversation.

Speaker 5 (49:02):
And like you said, this is not about getting drunk
or about anything other than just talking about person.

Speaker 2 (49:06):
I think coffee makes sense. I think a coffee stress
free date.

Speaker 3 (49:09):
Is a great first date because then you can also
see how they are with their coffee, because it could
be a red flag, right if somebody's super particular with
their coffee, or they're constantly complaining about it, or they
want to like at a certain heat right right, it
has to be at one hundred and ninety three and
a half degrees. It's like we are not.

Speaker 8 (49:25):
A good match.

Speaker 5 (49:26):
Okay, Well, hold on, so that's fair. I have those
specific coffee needs. Why what would be terrible if we
were dating that? That's true.

Speaker 3 (49:39):
You need to find someone who has kind of similar
coffee taste yea.

Speaker 2 (49:44):
All around.

Speaker 3 (49:46):
The park is another great stress stress free place to
meet for a first date, they say, like the bar.

Speaker 4 (49:52):
I do too, it's great people watching what yeah, so
if all else fails and like if your conversation starts
to loow for whatever reason, there's people watching that you
can just always revert to.

Speaker 6 (50:01):
You know, Oh, I don't think that's good for me,
because I don't get distracted by the people watching at
the birds rather than talk to it.

Speaker 20 (50:05):
Skuy, you're add Victoria is a very terrible place for
your not.

Speaker 2 (50:12):
Letten me me. No, I'm so sorry, try. I don't
know who has worse.

Speaker 3 (50:18):
Add the squirrels at the park or your.

Speaker 2 (50:24):
Coffee might be your best bet so far. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (50:29):
The other place they say is one of the best
stress free places to take a first date a bookstore
that sounds like it could be kind of boring. It
sounds I got kind of interested for a second, and
then I went back to boring.

Speaker 4 (50:44):
It feels like a Hallmark movie, doesn't it. It's like
you're at the bookstore and then you're like going through
different titles of books, and then you create little stories
and then you make out in the back.

Speaker 2 (50:53):
That's kind of cool. What kind of bookstores are you
going to where you can make out the I'm not
going to any of them. I'm watching them on Hallmark,
and then I'm going that way.

Speaker 5 (51:00):
Bookshop owners like, we got to close that back room
because keep making out.

Speaker 3 (51:04):
That's also another great place to take somebody to watch
out for red flags.

Speaker 2 (51:09):
Which section are they going.

Speaker 3 (51:10):
To, exactly what kind of books are they interested? It's
all books that are like the TV show snapped. Sorry,
I don't think we should go out.

Speaker 4 (51:19):
That's what everybody gravitates towards. That's basically true, Crimed. You
guarantee I'm not in the same section as anyone else.

Speaker 2 (51:27):
I bet you you aren't. I think that's accurate. So
that wouldn't even be a date at that point.

Speaker 5 (51:31):
It was like, I'll be over here in the non
fiction and political history and and you know she's over there,
and she's like.

Speaker 2 (51:37):
I'll be at the fairy ants. Yeah, fairy smut books.

Speaker 3 (51:41):
How to poison a guy you just met on a
date back in a little bit does work for girls too, Yeah,
that's my place, sure, in my kitchen. Other place they
say is a greatest us free place to take a
first date is to have a picnic.

Speaker 4 (52:03):
That is really great, that's super fun. That was one
of the best dates I ever went on was a picnic.

Speaker 5 (52:08):
I really I was about to ask have you ever
been on a picnic date? Because I find them very hard.

Speaker 4 (52:12):
It was really cute, like I brought little peanut butter
and jelly sandwiches, and he brought this thermos and he
made a signature cocktail that he called the Nina and
it was really cute and we just sat.

Speaker 2 (52:21):
Like on the little grass by the river. It was
really fun.

Speaker 6 (52:23):
But wait, do you know that that drink has only
ever been called No No, No.

Speaker 4 (52:34):
He is a doctor, but he used to Bartend through
med school, so we're not med school before that undergrad
and so he just was like, what kind of liquor
do you like to drink? And then what flavors? And
so he made it because I requested it, and then
it was called.

Speaker 3 (52:46):
He went to his little cocktail book and was like,
tru us out Margarite, Marguerite. Whatever time for Nina's what's trending?

Speaker 4 (52:58):
So some Bridgerton fans are taking their love for the
show to a whole new level by sending in unsolicited
audition tapes. So the casting director for the show has
said that her inbox is always full of these tapes.
But they're not just like regular, you know, reading lines
or anything like that. They're like spicy because you know,
Bridgerton is known for its build up and intimate love scenes,

(53:20):
and so they think that if they can show her
that they can do it better than anybody else.

Speaker 2 (53:25):
They're getting those kind of tapes. They're getting those kind
of tapes. People are so lonely, just go meet somebody.

Speaker 3 (53:33):
They have met somebody, and they're sending tapes.

Speaker 2 (53:35):
In of them.

Speaker 4 (53:37):
I don't know if they're solo tapes or if they've
got a co star. I'm not really sure. It doesn't
say it just says that these types of tapes keep
coming in, and there's if you've read the books. I
guess some people are really convinced that they're going to
be the next Sophie, who would be like the lead
girl in the thing, I think, and that.

Speaker 2 (53:53):
Person doesn't exist in the show yet or something. No,
not yet. Oh yeah, what's his name? Season?

Speaker 20 (53:58):
Yes, you guys name? I can't give his name either
right now? Yeah, Sophie, he here's a video of me
making love. That's it's pretty bold.

Speaker 4 (54:15):
That people have just taken it upon themselves to say,
you know what, this is my dream that I'm just
going to go get it, so respect to a certain extent,
you know, delusion, Okay without de Lulu, where's the fun
speaking of? I guess this isn't so much delusion but
dreams coming true. The Hawk Tool Girl. If you didn't
know her real name, it's Haley Welch. She is in

(54:38):
talks like well getting her own documentary. She's not like
related to Welsh's. Her last name is.

Speaker 2 (54:43):
Just well documentary.

Speaker 4 (54:46):
And potential reality shows. So I guess she's been generating
a lot of buzz in la and people like her
because of her humor and how she was acting in
this video that went extremely Viraliz, this is getting a
little bit crazy, really, but I'm whatever to each their own.

Speaker 3 (55:02):
She had one line yeah, in a video that went viral.

Speaker 2 (55:07):
I mean maybe she is.

Speaker 3 (55:08):
She seems very like she seems like she could be
funny and fun but also might want to like audition
her a little bit, Like here's a reality show based
off of one line? I know, like, what are we
gonna watch?

Speaker 4 (55:20):
I mean she is cute. I mean that's one of
those things. Or maybe there's that I'm.

Speaker 2 (55:24):
Just gonna say it out loud.

Speaker 5 (55:25):
Based on the content of the video that went viral,
the only streaming location I can imagine for this would
be the hub.

Speaker 4 (55:32):
No, I think they're trying to take it away from
that adult content and let her like be a person.

Speaker 5 (55:38):
But why why not? I also found out she hadn't
made any money on all that clothing. It wasn't hers
really those other people. Yeah, maybe she's super interesting.

Speaker 2 (55:48):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (55:48):
I'm not, but it's just funny how they do that
off of like one thing.

Speaker 4 (55:52):
Yeah, you just kind of jump the gun a little bit,
you know what I mean. But it's okay viral moments.
If you get a moment like that, you better run
with it. That is a lesson in life.

Speaker 3 (55:59):
Sure is jealous, really honestly, I've been doing this job
for a long time and I couldn't. I almost had
a book deal once and I couldn't get it because
I didn't have enough followers on social media. And I'm like,
if I would have just walked down the stream and win,
but you could.

Speaker 2 (56:13):
Have had all of that, you'd be in jail. Brot
this guy away.

Speaker 4 (56:20):
And lastly, there is another way to tell your age
by your clothing. So if you want to look younger,
you're wearing socks with sandals. So socks with sandals are back,
sweet question mark that my whole life. Yeah, you're in
that trend setting all the way.

Speaker 2 (56:35):
Panes and my Gucci slids and going outside it.

Speaker 4 (56:39):
Now you're going to make all that and that's it
in your tape for Bridgerton too, there's a lot of
action of stories and that's what's trending.

Speaker 8 (56:52):
Doubles dirty little Secret.

Speaker 3 (56:54):
Hello, hey guys, Hey, what's up?

Speaker 2 (56:56):
You have a dirty little secret?

Speaker 7 (56:58):
Yeah?

Speaker 14 (56:59):
I have a dirty feed It kind of embarrassed.

Speaker 11 (57:02):
But here goes you ready, Yes, okay.

Speaker 12 (57:05):
You know what.

Speaker 10 (57:06):
Telemarkers are always calling and most people are just super.

Speaker 8 (57:08):
Annoyed by people.

Speaker 7 (57:10):
But I mean, I love you.

Speaker 8 (57:13):
And now he decided to do a little twist to it.

Speaker 7 (57:16):
I actually start having phone sex with them.

Speaker 4 (57:19):
Wait what, I feel like I missed that first part.
You're doing that with who?

Speaker 2 (57:23):
Telemarketers?

Speaker 7 (57:24):
The telemarketers.

Speaker 15 (57:26):
I don't the only person in the world who's never
thought about this, But it is so much fun on
versus it's going to get them off the phone.

Speaker 2 (57:34):
Do they hang up pretty quickly?

Speaker 8 (57:35):
You like, well, they're just.

Speaker 16 (57:37):
Really like they're awkward with it because they're like, wait,
you know, they need to.

Speaker 7 (57:41):
Stay on the line because they need to get their
money right.

Speaker 10 (57:42):
But like say, don't understand what's going on?

Speaker 8 (57:45):
And I am full blown like.

Speaker 7 (57:47):
Offer winning hear me, I am, I'm all about it.

Speaker 3 (57:53):
I'm going to try that next time I get a
call like that.

Speaker 11 (57:55):
You should.

Speaker 8 (57:56):
It's actually a lot of fun.

Speaker 2 (57:58):
I'm trying to think how that goes though. The telemarket
was like, oh, do you want to get a subscription?
And you say, what, Oh.

Speaker 21 (58:04):
Yeah, well, thank you for telling us your dirty little secret.

Speaker 8 (58:16):
You're welcome.

Speaker 3 (58:18):
Hello, Hello, what's up? You have a dirty little secret?

Speaker 22 (58:22):
Yes?

Speaker 8 (58:23):
I do?

Speaker 3 (58:24):
Sweet, what is it?

Speaker 8 (58:26):
Well?

Speaker 22 (58:27):
I work from home and my wife does not work
from home.

Speaker 12 (58:30):
She has a nine to five.

Speaker 8 (58:31):
She goes out the house and she loves to cook.
She isn't the best cook.

Speaker 12 (58:36):
She's not a good cook.

Speaker 8 (58:37):
She's a great woman, not a good cook.

Speaker 22 (58:40):
So dinner, she usually makes dinner and then have it
left over for lunch for me.

Speaker 8 (58:46):
It's like, here's your lunch, honey, you know.

Speaker 22 (58:47):
Putting a container for you And I can't do it.

Speaker 12 (58:53):
So I said it to the dog.

Speaker 22 (58:56):
Before I'd thrown her away and the neighbor's garbage can
so she.

Speaker 8 (59:02):
Won't see it. I've gotten caught by the neighbor.

Speaker 22 (59:05):
So I had a lot of them and tell them
what I was putting my trash in their garbage.

Speaker 8 (59:10):
Yeah. She is not not a good cook, great woman,
not a good cook.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
Yeah what do you tell her?

Speaker 3 (59:18):
Do you come back home and be like the food
was amazing.

Speaker 22 (59:21):
Yeah, so thanks for getting lunch together from me.

Speaker 8 (59:24):
And it was tasty. It's gonna be I love it.

Speaker 3 (59:26):
And then she's like, okay, I'll make dinner. Like I'm hungry.
I haven't eaten all day.

Speaker 2 (59:29):
Wait, what.

Speaker 3 (59:33):
Thanks for your dirty little secret?

Speaker 8 (59:35):
Yeah, you're welcome by

Speaker 2 (59:37):
What's your dirty little secret.

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