August 20, 2024 • 11 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Tyler is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named
Jessa who he went on a date with. So in
a few minutes we'll call her and see chat tell
us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date.
But first let's find out what happened on the date. Tyler,
what's up man? How long has it been since you
heard from Jessa?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I mean it's been about a week and have not
heard anything from her at all?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Have you tried? How many times have you reached out
to her?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Not too much? You don't want to be like aggressively late.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Oh yeah, I agree. I just was checking to see
where you did.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
A double text is all I did, you know? Okay,
texted a the night after and then I text a
couple of days later.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
That's really all I've done.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Okay, I don't want I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Pus. Sure, it was fun. We had a great time,
went out to dinner at and then ended up going
to a second location, which is always a good you know,
good sign you go to a second location that's a drinks.
I went really well. We just wad a lot of
great conversation. I was, you know, I paid for everything.
I wanted to make sure she never had didn't have
(01:03):
to worry about it. But I also made clear there
was no obligations. I was just there enjoying my time
with her because we really got along well and I
was just really happy with the whole day. Like she
was fantastic.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
So what do you think happened?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Then?
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Why do you think she's ghosting you?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
I don't I honestly, I honestly don't know. The conversation
never lagged. It never she never felt like it never
seemed to me like there's any issue I was. I
was a little sweaty, I dressed up and we went
out somewhere nice. Maybe I don't know, if I don't
feel like hope it wasn't that that seems kind of weird.
I did pay for everything. It was expensive, so it
was like super pricey, So maybe that was too much.
(01:40):
I am worried that I put on like too much
of an effort, but I really liked her, and I
don't have a lot of these free times, so like
I wanted to make the effort because she seemed worth it.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
That's sweet.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah, I'm really not sure. I like, I know that
sometimes if you put too much money into it the
first day, like, it can turn somebody off. So I
am a little worried that might be it. But it's
it's so hard to tell because I really and in
the night, you know, it went really well. Like I said,
we had some drinks and then afterwards we just walked
around a little bit and then she was waiting for
her uber and they was really nice out and she
(02:11):
looked really beautiful and I asked her if I could
give her a kiss and she said yes. So it
was just a very nice, you know, nice kiss, right
and you know, nothing like aggressive. And then she d
in her car and I text her and you know,
and said I had a great time, and then have
heard for he sings.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
So did you guys kiss on the lips?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Yeah? I was just a little one though, Like what
do you call a church kiss? Like a church weddy kiss?
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Ye, I was trying to be.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Very respectful, you know, and I you know, it's a
grandma kiss.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Well did it seem like she was really into you? Like,
did you guys talk about seeing each other again at the.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
End, Well, we did, and she seemed amenable to it,
and like we talked back and forth, Like I mean,
I always didn't want to talk about myself much, so
I asked her a lot of questions about herself, and
she was very engaging, and like we we told some
pretty funny stories. We had some you know, kind of
just little things in common, and that were fun. You know,
you can really tell when you have a spark with somebody,
and there was a legitimate spark that I felt. So
(03:07):
this is why if it was a bad day, I
can see the ghost I mean, you understand, it happens.
But this was a really good one and I was
kind of really invested. Like I said, I'm really busy
with work, and so when I find somebody that's worth
my time, I put a lot of effort in because
who knows when the next person might be around that's
worth my time. So it's really kind of sad that
she ghosted because I was really into her.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Yeah, did she say anything about wanting another date with you?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
She seemed to like I said we should do this again,
and she seemed yes, of course, let's do the day.
There was not any she didn't shut down, and I
mean we didn't make actual plans, but you know, she
seemed to be like, Okay, yeah, that sounds great.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Tyler. When you said earlier that you were sweaty, Like
how sweaty?
Speaker 3 (03:46):
We're not talking like you know, buckets, but I mean
it was, it was kind of sweaty. It just you know,
I think I overdressed a little bit from the weather,
and the restaurant had a keat on. So yeah, just
a little bit of you know, forehead sweat. But I'm
not like, just enough that I was worried about it.
I was probably more subconscious than anyone.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
All Right, Well, we'll play a song come back, and
then call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting you and maybe get to another date.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Okay, that'd be fantastic, all right, Plus I'll come.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Back get your first day follow up next if you're
just joining us for today's first Day follow up. Tyler
is on the phone, and Tyler is getting ghosted by Jessa.
It's been about a week now and he hasn't heard
from her. So in a few minutes we're gonna call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
and maybe get him another date. But first, Tyler, why
don't you catch everybody up on your situation with Jessa.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah, Jess and I went out on our first day
to uh. It was a really nice, nice time, really
kind of expensive restaurant. They went off for drinks afterwards.
I paid for everything, and then we really got along. Well,
I kissed you goodbye and haven't heard from her since.
I'm kind of worried. Maybe because I paid so much
for this for the meals and she thought I was
trying to show off, or or maybe because I was
(04:51):
a little steady during it.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
All right, well, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Yes? Please?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
All right, here we go. Hello, I may I speak
to Jessa? Please?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Hey, Jessa, how are you? My name is Jewbell, and
I host a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Jessa,
I'm mean also on the show, Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Oh okay, a lot of you.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah, what's up? How are you doing today?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I'm okay, what what's going on?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
We do a segment on the show it's called the
first Date follow Up.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and then you ghost them, that person can ask
us to get you on the phone and ask why
you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you
from somebody.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Oh okay, Well, I mean I am on a dating app, so.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
This could be going a couple of times. All right, Okay,
wait to put yourself out there.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Well, I'll tell you who it is. Okay, Okay, his
name is Tyler.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Oh okay, that's a recent one. Okay, because this thing
does happen to me where somebody will ghost me for
like months. I just had a guy reach out to me,
went on one date ten months ago. He stopped talking
to me and then was like, you're gonna so okay, no,
this is very recent. Okay, I'm with you, Tyler.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Yeah, it's been a week since he talked to him.
Yeah is that.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I mean honestly, like the date, like there was nothing
like bad that happened or anything. He just I don't know.
It kind of feels like maybe our our lives aren't
going to match up like he did seem really tired
on the date, and I think he's just like super busy.
He might be like a workaholic, and I just didn't
feel like he had like time to date somebody. So
(06:39):
I just kind of was like, we'll just cut it loosen.
One date, so like, you know, it's easier to ghost
people than to like be like your life isn't you
know what I mean, It's just like it's awkward. It
just it just didn't feel like it was gonna work out.
He works like all the time, Like I feel like
even going on this date with me, it was like
they feel like you know, I mean, he made it
work obviously, but it just didn't feel like he's gonna
(07:00):
have time.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Okay, that's really it.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Like it's nothing crazy like it was. Wasn't like oh god,
he you know didn't tip or you know that's a
deal breaker.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
But like, okay, well, it just it just like didn't.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Feel like it was going to work out, like I
really I want, like I'm looking for that like fairytale romance,
you like want to spend all your time together and
fall in love and like not that you know, after
one date. But it just didn't feel like it was
gonna I was gonna get what I wanted out of it.
So yeah, I did post him.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
What's that? Like? What's that saying?
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Though?
Speaker 5 (07:31):
People will always make time for what it is that
they want to make time for or are the people
that they want to spend time with.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:37):
It just kind of feels like maybe it was a
a little quick or maybe, you know what, he needs
to just slow down, like he needs to slow down.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
I mean, I feel like he needs to slow down
to me, and I get it, like I work a
lot too, But yeah, I don't know. I mean, that's
really it, Like maybe that's not a good enough reason
to go somebody. But like when you're on the ass,
it's such a like I don't know if we can curse.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
But it's such like a show.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, you gotta sometimes just get in and out and
move on, because you know, you wait ten months and
he might hit you up again anyway.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
I mean, who are we to tell you why you
should or shouldn't got people?
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Yeah, I mean he didn't even wait ten months. He
waited a week. He waited a week.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
We're still in the statute of limitations.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Thanks for being honest with us, appreciate that. Yeah, sure,
I should let you know that he's actually on the
phone too. Tyler is on the phone listening and wants.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
To talk to you.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Oh am, I in trouble now.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
I don't know, no, you know what Okay, Hi, Hi,
oh hey Tyler.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
So how's it going. Well? You know, I think you
said it's more awkward to try to tell somebody and
then you just ghost, but this is probably more awkward.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Yeah, this is a little awkward now.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
So yeah, I'm sorry about that. But you know, I do.
I do work a lot, and I was tired, but
like when something does matter to me, I do make
the effort for it. I do put in the effort
to make space when things are important to me. And
so I want you to know that that is something
that I'm working working on. But also I'm already aware of.
(09:16):
And I did make a time for our date because
it was important to me because I think we got along
really well and I could tell we're going to go well,
and I am I'm willing to put some flexibility into
my schedule. Like I like my work, but I also
like having someone to spend time with and you know,
go do things with and all of that. And then
(09:37):
you know, I love that a little bit more than work.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Okay, So you think you're going to be able to
like loose a little bit.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Maybe a little bit somebody who's willing to be like, hey,
let's go do something or give me a little encouragement
to stop working for a bit, because it's hard when
you work from home, it's really hard to stop working.
You're just constantly working. And so if I have somebody
that I'm like, hey, let's that I want to spend
time with, and that's a good intentive for me that
to stop working. So I'm one hundred percent willing to
(10:05):
work on that and talk about it and everything. But
I want to talk about it. I'd like to be
able to, you know, actually talk about it, not just
not hear from somebody for a bit.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Yeah, I mean, honestly, I didn't know that. I mean,
I guess I didn't know you had any kind of
like feelings that way after one date. But that is
good and refreshing to hear. So I guess I'm glad
I answered the phone this time.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Me too, Me too. And so you have all the
pressure of the radio behind you to say yes you
want to make you make you say yes to a
second date right now. But if you do want to
go on a second date, I would love to, but
I would lead to a few to maybe text me
privately later on which I don't. I don't want you
to feel presure if you don't want to.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
You know what, actually this is, this is going well,
so yeah, I feel good it we can we can
give it another shot, especially if you're you know, open
about the time issue and willing to make some like
assuming we want to make more time for each other, then.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Yeah, so you'll go on another date with Tyler. We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Oh okay, even better?
Speaker 4 (11:18):
Sure so Tyler doesn't have a problem spending money.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
But I love Congratulations Tyler, you got another date.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Thank you so much. I'm glad.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
Okay, great, well, I'm so excited, just so.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Thank you man. I probab this next time I will
be like so sweaty?
Speaker 4 (11:42):
What so sweaty?
Speaker 3 (11:44):
What did I miss them?
Speaker 4 (11:49):
Okay, all right, okay, I'll let it go.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
I don't know about it.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
First date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Tyler is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named
Jessa who he went on a date with. So in
a few minutes we'll call her and see chat tell
us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date.
But first let's find out what happened on the date. Tyler,
what's up man? How long has it been since you
heard from Jessa?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I mean it's been about a week and have not
heard anything from her at all?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
Have you tried? How many times have you reached out
to her?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Not too much? You don't want to be like aggressively late.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Oh yeah, I agree. I just was checking to see
where you did.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
A double text is all I did, you know? Okay,
texted a the night after and then I text a
couple of days later.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
That's really all I've done.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Okay, I don't want I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Pus. Sure, it was fun. We had a great time,
went out to dinner at and then ended up going
to a second location, which is always a good you know,
good sign you go to a second location that's a drinks.
I went really well. We just wad a lot of
great conversation. I was, you know, I paid for everything.
I wanted to make sure she never had didn't have
(01:03):
to worry about it. But I also made clear there
was no obligations. I was just there enjoying my time
with her because we really got along well and I
was just really happy with the whole day. Like she
was fantastic.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
So what do you think happened?
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Then?
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Why do you think she's ghosting you?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
I don't I honestly, I honestly don't know. The conversation
never lagged. It never she never felt like it never
seemed to me like there's any issue I was. I
was a little sweaty, I dressed up and we went
out somewhere nice. Maybe I don't know, if I don't
feel like hope it wasn't that that seems kind of weird.
I did pay for everything. It was expensive, so it
was like super pricey, So maybe that was too much.
(01:40):
I am worried that I put on like too much
of an effort, but I really liked her, and I
don't have a lot of these free times, so like
I wanted to make the effort because she seemed worth it.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
That's sweet.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah, I'm really not sure. I like, I know that
sometimes if you put too much money into it the
first day, like, it can turn somebody off. So I
am a little worried that might be it. But it's
it's so hard to tell because I really and in
the night, you know, it went really well. Like I said,
we had some drinks and then afterwards we just walked
around a little bit and then she was waiting for
her uber and they was really nice out and she
(02:11):
looked really beautiful and I asked her if I could
give her a kiss and she said yes. So it
was just a very nice, you know, nice kiss, right
and you know, nothing like aggressive. And then she d
in her car and I text her and you know,
and said I had a great time, and then have
heard for he sings.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
So did you guys kiss on the lips?
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Yeah? I was just a little one though, Like what
do you call a church kiss? Like a church weddy kiss?
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Ye, I was trying to be.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Very respectful, you know, and I you know, it's a
grandma kiss.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Well did it seem like she was really into you? Like,
did you guys talk about seeing each other again at the.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
End, Well, we did, and she seemed amenable to it,
and like we talked back and forth, Like I mean,
I always didn't want to talk about myself much, so
I asked her a lot of questions about herself, and
she was very engaging, and like we we told some
pretty funny stories. We had some you know, kind of
just little things in common, and that were fun. You know,
you can really tell when you have a spark with somebody,
and there was a legitimate spark that I felt. So
(03:07):
this is why if it was a bad day, I
can see the ghost I mean, you understand, it happens.
But this was a really good one and I was
kind of really invested. Like I said, I'm really busy
with work, and so when I find somebody that's worth
my time, I put a lot of effort in because
who knows when the next person might be around that's
worth my time. So it's really kind of sad that
she ghosted because I was really into her.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Yeah, did she say anything about wanting another date with you?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
She seemed to like I said we should do this again,
and she seemed yes, of course, let's do the day.
There was not any she didn't shut down, and I
mean we didn't make actual plans, but you know, she
seemed to be like, Okay, yeah, that sounds great.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Tyler. When you said earlier that you were sweaty, Like
how sweaty?
Speaker 3 (03:46):
We're not talking like you know, buckets, but I mean
it was, it was kind of sweaty. It just you know,
I think I overdressed a little bit from the weather,
and the restaurant had a keat on. So yeah, just
a little bit of you know, forehead sweat. But I'm
not like, just enough that I was worried about it.
I was probably more subconscious than anyone.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
All Right, Well, we'll play a song come back, and
then call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting you and maybe get to another date.
Speaker 4 (04:09):
Okay, that'd be fantastic, all right, Plus I'll come.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Back get your first day follow up next if you're
just joining us for today's first Day follow up. Tyler
is on the phone, and Tyler is getting ghosted by Jessa.
It's been about a week now and he hasn't heard
from her. So in a few minutes we're gonna call
her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
and maybe get him another date. But first, Tyler, why
don't you catch everybody up on your situation with Jessa.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah, Jess and I went out on our first day
to uh. It was a really nice, nice time, really
kind of expensive restaurant. They went off for drinks afterwards.
I paid for everything, and then we really got along. Well,
I kissed you goodbye and haven't heard from her since.
I'm kind of worried. Maybe because I paid so much
for this for the meals and she thought I was
trying to show off, or or maybe because I was
(04:51):
a little steady during it.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
All right, well, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Yes? Please?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
All right, here we go. Hello, I may I speak
to Jessa? Please?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Hey, Jessa, how are you? My name is Jewbell, and
I host a radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show. Hi, Jessa,
I'm mean also on the show, Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Oh okay, a lot of you.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah, what's up? How are you doing today?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I'm okay, what what's going on?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
We do a segment on the show it's called the
first Date follow Up.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and then you ghost them, that person can ask
us to get you on the phone and ask why
you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you
from somebody.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Oh okay, Well, I mean I am on a dating app, so.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
This could be going a couple of times. All right, Okay,
wait to put yourself out there.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Well, I'll tell you who it is. Okay, Okay, his
name is Tyler.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Oh okay, that's a recent one. Okay, because this thing
does happen to me where somebody will ghost me for
like months. I just had a guy reach out to me,
went on one date ten months ago. He stopped talking
to me and then was like, you're gonna so okay, no,
this is very recent. Okay, I'm with you, Tyler.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Yeah, it's been a week since he talked to him.
Yeah is that.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:17):
I mean honestly, like the date, like there was nothing
like bad that happened or anything. He just I don't know.
It kind of feels like maybe our our lives aren't
going to match up like he did seem really tired
on the date, and I think he's just like super busy.
He might be like a workaholic, and I just didn't
feel like he had like time to date somebody. So
(06:39):
I just kind of was like, we'll just cut it loosen.
One date, so like, you know, it's easier to ghost
people than to like be like your life isn't you
know what I mean, It's just like it's awkward. It
just it just didn't feel like it was gonna work out.
He works like all the time, Like I feel like
even going on this date with me, it was like
they feel like you know, I mean, he made it
work obviously, but it just didn't feel like he's gonna
(07:00):
have time.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Okay, that's really it.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Like it's nothing crazy like it was. Wasn't like oh god,
he you know didn't tip or you know that's a
deal breaker.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
But like, okay, well, it just it just like didn't.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
Feel like it was going to work out, like I
really I want, like I'm looking for that like fairytale romance,
you like want to spend all your time together and
fall in love and like not that you know, after
one date. But it just didn't feel like it was
gonna I was gonna get what I wanted out of it.
So yeah, I did post him.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
What's that? Like? What's that saying?
Speaker 1 (07:31):
Though?
Speaker 5 (07:31):
People will always make time for what it is that
they want to make time for or are the people
that they want to spend time with.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (07:37):
It just kind of feels like maybe it was a
a little quick or maybe, you know what, he needs
to just slow down, like he needs to slow down.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
I mean, I feel like he needs to slow down
to me, and I get it, like I work a
lot too, But yeah, I don't know. I mean, that's
really it, Like maybe that's not a good enough reason
to go somebody. But like when you're on the ass,
it's such a like I don't know if we can curse.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
But it's such like a show.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Yeah, you gotta sometimes just get in and out and
move on, because you know, you wait ten months and
he might hit you up again anyway.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
I mean, who are we to tell you why you
should or shouldn't got people?
Speaker 4 (08:10):
Yeah, I mean he didn't even wait ten months. He
waited a week. He waited a week.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
We're still in the statute of limitations.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Thanks for being honest with us, appreciate that. Yeah, sure,
I should let you know that he's actually on the
phone too. Tyler is on the phone listening and wants.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
To talk to you.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Oh am, I in trouble now.
Speaker 4 (08:30):
I don't know, no, you know what Okay, Hi, Hi,
oh hey Tyler.
Speaker 3 (08:38):
So how's it going. Well? You know, I think you
said it's more awkward to try to tell somebody and
then you just ghost, but this is probably more awkward.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Yeah, this is a little awkward now.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
So yeah, I'm sorry about that. But you know, I do.
I do work a lot, and I was tired, but
like when something does matter to me, I do make
the effort for it. I do put in the effort
to make space when things are important to me. And
so I want you to know that that is something
that I'm working working on. But also I'm already aware of.
(09:16):
And I did make a time for our date because
it was important to me because I think we got along
really well and I could tell we're going to go well,
and I am I'm willing to put some flexibility into
my schedule. Like I like my work, but I also
like having someone to spend time with and you know,
go do things with and all of that. And then
(09:37):
you know, I love that a little bit more than work.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Okay, So you think you're going to be able to
like loose a little bit.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
Maybe a little bit somebody who's willing to be like, hey,
let's go do something or give me a little encouragement
to stop working for a bit, because it's hard when
you work from home, it's really hard to stop working.
You're just constantly working. And so if I have somebody
that I'm like, hey, let's that I want to spend
time with, and that's a good intentive for me that
to stop working. So I'm one hundred percent willing to
(10:05):
work on that and talk about it and everything. But
I want to talk about it. I'd like to be
able to, you know, actually talk about it, not just
not hear from somebody for a bit.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Yeah, I mean, honestly, I didn't know that. I mean,
I guess I didn't know you had any kind of
like feelings that way after one date. But that is
good and refreshing to hear. So I guess I'm glad
I answered the phone this time.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Me too, Me too. And so you have all the
pressure of the radio behind you to say yes you
want to make you make you say yes to a
second date right now. But if you do want to
go on a second date, I would love to, but
I would lead to a few to maybe text me
privately later on which I don't. I don't want you
to feel presure if you don't want to.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
You know what, actually this is, this is going well,
so yeah, I feel good it we can we can
give it another shot, especially if you're you know, open
about the time issue and willing to make some like
assuming we want to make more time for each other, then.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Yeah, so you'll go on another date with Tyler. We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Oh okay, even better?
Speaker 4 (11:18):
Sure so Tyler doesn't have a problem spending money.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
But I love Congratulations Tyler, you got another date.
Speaker 3 (11:30):
Thank you so much. I'm glad.
Speaker 4 (11:34):
Okay, great, well, I'm so excited, just so.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Thank you man. I probab this next time I will
be like so sweaty?
Speaker 4 (11:42):
What so sweaty?
Speaker 3 (11:44):
What did I miss them?
Speaker 4 (11:49):
Okay, all right, okay, I'll let it go.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
I don't know about it.
Speaker 4 (11:55):
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