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October 10, 2024 12 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Day follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jessica is on the phone today for a first date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Chase.
So we're gonna call him in a little while and
see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Jessica, how long
has it been since you heard from Chase?

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Hey? So, yeah, it's been about a week since I
texted him. He responded the first time, but since his
first response, I haven't heard anything back.

Speaker 4 (00:29):
Okay, how did you guys meet? And then what was
that date like?

Speaker 2 (00:32):
So?

Speaker 3 (00:33):
We actually met at a club and honestly, it was
like more of a rave than a club, and I
don't even go out that much, so I was just
like letting loose after a long week, and I was
dancing next to him and we were both just having
a good time, not really talking, and then I bumped
right into him, but he caught me before I fell

(00:54):
hall Mark moves, very romantic. I looked up at him
and I smiled and I was just like immediately smitten.
He was so gorgeous, So we danced for a little bit,
and then I asked if he wants to if he
wanted to go to the bar for a drink. And
I know it sounds like a wrong com but it
actually literally did happen that way. And then we just

(01:16):
went to the bar and sat there getting to know
each other. Well, we tried to because it was extremely
loud in the club, so I think he was there
like with his friends, celebrating something, but I couldn't really
tell what he was saying half the time. And also
we were both pretty drunk and there were some extra
party favors that we had as well, so we were

(01:38):
definitely feeling a little handsy, okay, And he didn't live
that far from the club, so he asked if I
wanted to go to his place for a little quiet time,
that's what he called it, and I agreed, and so
we both just walked a couple of blocks to his place.
We sobered up a bit, we were still feeling kind
of frisky, so we kind of like briskly walked to

(02:00):
his place, and once we got there, I definitely made
the first move and he was okay with that, so
you know, clothes were flying off.

Speaker 2 (02:11):
Wow, that doesn't sound like quiet time to me compared
to a rave.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
I can't say everything that happened that night because this
is the morning show. But afterwards we laid in bed
and in like a backwards day kind of way, we
actually got to know each other a lot.

Speaker 2 (02:27):
Better after all that. Like, so the next morning, you
guys talked and really got to know each other.

Speaker 3 (02:32):
Yeah, we just kind of spent the whole night talking
and we mostly talked about our shared music taste because
we were both hard ravers in our younger days. We
didn't really talk about work or relationships or anything boring.
We just wanted to have fun with the night. And
we laid there until the early hours of the morning,

(02:53):
and then I had to get up early the next day,
and I just went home, playing the whole night in
my head over and over again. And I texted him
the next day and he told me he texted me back,
and he said he'd talked to me tomorrow.

Speaker 5 (03:08):
But that was over a week ago.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
And I texted a couple more times. I tried calling,
but it went straight to voicemail.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
What do you think could have happened?

Speaker 3 (03:17):
Honestly, I feel like maybe I was just too enthusiastic,
and I came on too strong, and I kind of
and I just sort of like hooked up with him
without really knowing him at all. And so I think
maybe I feel guilty about the order of our gate
and I think maybe he just thought of it as like.

Speaker 4 (03:39):
A one night stand.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
And I don't blame him if he thinks that, but
I just feel like it would stuck to lose this opportunity.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
Yeah, if you're calling him, then he would be like, well,
maybe it's not a one night stand then, and.

Speaker 1 (03:49):
Then like also a one night stand, you sit there
and talk the next day, because usually it's like thank you,
nice to meet you.

Speaker 2 (03:55):
Yeah, yeah, that's true too.

Speaker 4 (03:57):
Does he have a girlfriend?

Speaker 1 (03:58):
That's the thing that always makes mess when I out here.
After you have a great connection, and usually when they ghost,
it's because they're hiding from somebody else.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
Oh god. I mean we didn't talk about past relationships
or anything like that, but I didn't even consider that.

Speaker 2 (04:10):
Did you notice any pictures on his wall or like
any anything around the house that looked like a girlfriend
was there?

Speaker 4 (04:16):
Did he have throw pillows?

Speaker 5 (04:18):
It was a bit of a blur.

Speaker 2 (04:19):
It was a blur, Okay, all right, well, yeah, we'll
see if we can figure it out for you. We'll
play a song, come back, and then call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and
maybe get you another day.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
Okay, Okay, thanks guys, right.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
Plus, i'll come back get your first Day follow up
next if you're just joining us for today's First Day
follow up. Jessica is on the phone and she's getting
ghosted by a dude named Chase, and we're about to

(04:51):
call him and see if we can figure out why
he's ghostinger. But first, Jessica, why don't you refresh everybody's
memory about your date with Chase.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
Yeah. So I bumped into Chase at the club. We
had a very immediate romantic connection. We hung out at
the bar for a little bit before going back to
his place. We were both pretty drunk, and then I
stayed over. We did things, and then we spent the

(05:19):
early hours of the morning talking and then we had
a great connection. I left, I texted him, and I
haven't heard back from him in a week.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
Okay, Well, we're gonna call him right now and see
if he'll tell us and then maybe get you another date.
Are you ready?

Speaker 3 (05:36):
I'm ready?

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Okay, here we go. Hello, I may I speak to Chase? Please?

Speaker 1 (05:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (05:52):
This is cha, Chase. How are you man? My name
is Jewbel and this is a radio show called The
Jewel Show.

Speaker 1 (05:57):
Hi, Chase, I'm Nina. Also on the Jubil Show. Hi,
I am Victoria.

Speaker 5 (06:03):
How are you good?

Speaker 2 (06:04):
Have you heard of the show before?

Speaker 6 (06:07):
In passing, I've was out once since someone was talking
about you guys show.

Speaker 5 (06:11):
I'd never listened to it, but I've heard of you guys.

Speaker 2 (06:13):
Okay, sweet, Well, we do a segment on the show.
It's called the first Date follow Up. What that is
is if you go out on a date with somebody
and then you end up ghosting them, that person can
email us to get you on the phone and ask
why you're ghosting them.

Speaker 5 (06:27):
Okay, all right, And.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
We got an email about you from somebody named Jessica.

Speaker 5 (06:32):
Wow. Okay, yeah, I know her.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
Okay. And Jessica told us a little bit about your
date and said that you haven't gotten back to her
and she's curious if she did something wrong or why
you're ghostinger.

Speaker 5 (06:46):
This is funny.

Speaker 6 (06:46):
I'm actually I'm flattered by this entire thing. To be
honest with you, I didn't think she would go to
do this on the radio, but you know, here we are.
So I didn't call her back because it seemed like,
you know, she just seemed too much of a party
girl for me. I'm someone who doesn't really go out much,

(07:07):
and when we had met, that was really the first
time I've gone out and did anything in about a
month or so.

Speaker 5 (07:13):
And look, Jessica is great, She's gorgeous.

Speaker 6 (07:17):
It definitely felt like I was in some sort of
romantic comedy situation like a movie. She bumped into me
and and like, oh, look who it is type thing,
and it's like like a like a Matthew McConaughey movie
or something.

Speaker 2 (07:29):
She picked her up and then then the music stopped, and.

Speaker 6 (07:33):
Yeah, she fell into my arms and she was falling
and I grabbed your arm. I was able to kind
of catch her from hitting the floor. But you know,
her defense, she was drunk. I think it is to
say she was trashed. Was was pretty fair, but she
seemed like it was an everyday situation as far as that.

Speaker 5 (07:49):
And I'm not judging her at all.

Speaker 6 (07:50):
You know, we've all kind of been to these situations
at clubs.

Speaker 5 (07:54):
And I get it, but I'm usually not that fun.

Speaker 6 (07:56):
I think I came off of like a super fun guy,
and I'm pretty boring and low key. We did go
back to my place. I was kind of barely hanging
on there.

Speaker 5 (08:05):
We had a few drinks.

Speaker 6 (08:05):
Obviously, She, on the other hand, incredible energy, Like wow,
she was really hanging out of my arm.

Speaker 5 (08:12):
It's kind of being all over me, which I kind
of liked.

Speaker 6 (08:15):
Obviously, we kind of, you know, did some things. I
didn't text her back saying it. You know, I feel bad,
you know now that I'm saying it all wow, to
be honest with him.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
So you're quite literally ignoring the science from the universe
to talk to Jessica.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
You laugh.

Speaker 1 (08:31):
Yeah, is what it sounds like to me, because you
feel like you can't you can't keep up with her.

Speaker 5 (08:37):
She's got incredible energy.

Speaker 6 (08:39):
I'm and I'm sort of an introvert, and I was
having a few drinks that night, so, you.

Speaker 5 (08:43):
Know, I was very eased and just kind of feeling
myself a little bit. I'm not that guy. Kelly and
I don't go out much, and.

Speaker 6 (08:52):
The drinks are flowing, and then she kind of comes
into the world and we just had a good night that.

Speaker 2 (08:55):
Night, and so that's all you know about her?

Speaker 3 (08:57):
Right, Yeah?

Speaker 5 (08:59):
I did pretty much, and get too deep in the conversation.

Speaker 2 (09:01):
In your head, you just picture someone who's just like
bouncing around and always on the go and has to
be out places and doesn't ever want to be home.
Like what do you? I don't know why you think
that wouldn't work.

Speaker 6 (09:11):
I just think that she's someone who kind of bounces around,
goes out a lot parties, probably has a high end job,
you know, probably goes out four five times a week,
probably drinks a lot, which totally cool. And I understand
I probably goes to a ton of concerts.

Speaker 5 (09:23):
And raised and whatever. I'm just not that guy.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
Okay, all right, you're making assumptions back, you might as
well ask her yourself.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
Good point, Chase, you can ask her yourself, because she's
actually on the phone and he's been listening this whole
time and wants to talk to you.

Speaker 3 (09:37):
Hi, I would, dude, you are not to believe this.
I am literally a librarian. What I I never go out.
I never go out at all.

Speaker 5 (09:55):
No, no, I look at it. I understand. Just there's
no way you're a librrian. I don't think those don't
even exist. Anymore. I appreciate what you're doing.

Speaker 6 (10:01):
Of course, but oh, it's just no, I'm super low.

Speaker 5 (10:06):
Key, so it's it's it's just no, I know, you
don't have to lie about it.

Speaker 3 (10:11):
What we still exist. I'm literally a librarian. I'm not kidding.
Come out so you actually, I'm just genuinely curious. You
actually work at a library, and a.

Speaker 2 (10:22):
Library that's what it is.

Speaker 3 (10:24):
Yes, I went to school for this. I am not
making this up.

Speaker 2 (10:30):
We never met a librarian before.

Speaker 4 (10:32):
You guys didn't hang out a library.

Speaker 2 (10:34):
Well, I mean yeah, when you're in the library, but
like in like outside of their natural habitat. That's cool, Jessica.

Speaker 3 (10:41):
Yeah, thanks, yes, I guess because usually librarians are boring and.

Speaker 5 (10:50):
Introverted to So what are you doing? How do we
meet at a club?

Speaker 4 (10:53):
Like?

Speaker 5 (10:53):
How did that even happen?

Speaker 2 (10:55):
Well?

Speaker 3 (10:55):
I honestly never go out at all, but my friends
kind of like oakes me into it that night, and
so I just decided to say I just happened to
be out that night. That's like not even my lifestyle either.

Speaker 2 (11:08):
Oh that's why when we first talked to you, Jessica,
you said that you used to go to stuff like that.
All the time. Maybe oh okay makes sense in high school,
so the.

Speaker 4 (11:17):
Universe quite literally had you fall into his arms. I
feel like I can't let you guys walk away from this.

Speaker 3 (11:24):
Yeah, I was just really into him, and I feel
like we're both just letting go. We both happened to
be here, you know, that night.

Speaker 6 (11:31):
Honestly, I feel like I'm wrong yet I'm I'm so sorry,
I really I apologize. I feel like an idiot literally
judging a book by its cover here, and that sounds
so stupid. Wow, I totally was jumping the gun and
had no idea, and I'm obviously Frankly, I'm just jealous

(11:52):
of how much energy you have, you know, that night
and the next morning, and seemingly the tolerance of a
twenty year old.

Speaker 5 (11:59):
So never in a million years when I think you're
a librarian's to be truthful, Chase.

Speaker 2 (12:03):
Would you like to go out on another date with Jessica?
We'll pay for it?

Speaker 5 (12:07):
Hell yeah, yeah, I definitely.

Speaker 6 (12:08):
I definitely need to make it up to her, for sure, Jeff,
I feel like an idiot, and to take you out
on actual Loki night, I'm done, Like I'm down.

Speaker 4 (12:16):
I think that'd be great From the chapter to.

Speaker 2 (12:18):
The Yeah exactly first day follow up
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