February 12, 2025 • 6 mins
A new study has come out telling people exactly what to do if you want to scare off your significant other this Valentine's season.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Stop everything.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
What you're about to hear is the most important thing
that you need to hear before Valentine's Day. Okay, the
Jewel Show, So listen very very closely.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Really excuse you. Sorry, I couldn't help it. That's not
what I was going to say.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
What I was going to say is relationship experts have
released the top ways to scare someone off in a
new relationship. So what should you not do just in
time for Valentine's Day? If you don't want to scare
your Valentine off? Have so many ideas, what's your first idea?
You know, what are we when you're eating married?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
WHOA, I love you? What we'll go over?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
A relationship experts day right now? Posting too many photos
of you two on social media too early, that's definitely
definitely definitely, but I think at all would kind of
bug me exactly if you're like just started hanging out
with somebody. That's I've had that happen to me before,
when I've just started hanging out with someone and then
all of a sudden they're posting photos of us together,
like as if we are together.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
I think they would me ten years in I like
to be claimed, but at the very least. I think
it would be cool if it was like pictures of
stuff that we did together, like even if I'm not
in the photo, you're not in the photo, but maybe
it's like a dinner that we had together, or then
that tells me that you're excited about the time we're
setting up better.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yep, okay, because it's also too if somebody's just gotten
out a relationship and they're doing that, it's like, are
you just doing this to them because this is about
you liking me or you wanting to get even with them.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
And be like, look, I'm fine.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
I'm so happy to say a lot of people are
doing that.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Far.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
What are the top things that you shouldn't do if
you don't want to scare your valentine off? According to
relationship experts, referring to their pet as our pet, what
when talking to other people?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
That's weird, that's their pets. This is at the beginning
of a relationship, or just.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Like ever, this is at the beginning of a relationship,
it says, but really that's odd.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
It's very odd.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Even if I were with someone and they had a
dog when I met them, and then we got married,
I would still consider that their dog, like we didn't
get that together.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
It's ours, I.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Guess, I mean it's ours, but also I might not
have gotten the dog and unless I.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Got her right, So listen, there was one care of it.
Why do you want to claim it anyway? Ten years
and you'd be like.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Your dog's doing bads dogs, you know what I mean,
Like you don't want to put down on yourself.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Well, that's the best part.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
It can be their dog when you want it to be,
or yours when it's convenient.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Obviously, if whoever you're with has a.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Dog, you live with them whatever. You know, you're walking
the dog, you know, you're taking it like doing all that.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
It's not my dog. If you wake up, it's always
their dog, their dog. Yeah yeah, but that's good because
you don't want those memories.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Imagine you just start dating somebody and you have a pet,
and then you go out to meet your friends for
the first time. They're like, yeah, our dog is so crazy,
but I will be very weird. It would be very disturbing.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
I told you I had Oh my gosh, it was
a cat.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Though.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
The top ways to scare off your Valentine Day as
according to Valentine As according to relationship experts, They say,
these are the things you should not do early on
in a relationship if you want to keep the person around.
Asking someone to leave a toothbrush at their place but
you are just hooking up.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Don't ask you just do know?
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Somebody asked me that one time.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
And I never spoke to them again. Really, to keep
a toothbrush at their place? What if they didn't ask
and it just was left, would it matter? Yeah? I
would throw it away and never speak to them again.
If you're just hooking up, absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
You don't want them to have fresh breath at your home, exactly.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
If we're just hooking up, I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I want them to meet me somewhere and then we'll
be over there, or they can just come there. But
I don't want them having to worry about brushing their teeth,
like I want to leave before they have morning breath.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
You don't want a little good morning.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Hell.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
In fact, bring your own pillow because I'm not washing
mine extra.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
I don't know you all.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
I have scabies, I don't wear of a mat, so
it just doesn't sound right. Fashion breath is always welcome,
I will say, if you're in a relationship with someone,
or you're just starting to get in a relationship and
it's like a few months in and then you get
them a toothbrush, that's a good move, that's probably a
solid move.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
But when you're just hooking up with.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Someone, no brush, I feel like you also need to
be asked, like, don't just do like ask because I
feel like that's just more polite. Well, I used to
keep extra toothbrushes at my house wait, just in case,
whether it was my friend or somebody who stayed. I
just think it's important to brush your teeth before you
go to sleep, no matter what different story.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
That makes sense.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Also, some people keep a toothbrush on them at all times.
That's that's a whole different thing. If you're if you're like, hey,
I'm gonna I want to leave toothbrush at your place,
the answer is no.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
You just do it. We're marry, but I don't want
it here.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Who gets to the number one thing that relationship experts
saying you should not do early on in a relationship
if you don't want to scare the person off. But
another one is getting upset if they don't respond to
your texts right away.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Oh that would annoy me that it's annoying you.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Well, just don't tell them you're upset. I understand why.
But you just don't tell them that you're upset. You
understand why, Yeah, Because it's like if you have an
anxious attachment, you're a little insecure, you're trying to get
comfortable in the new situation. You get a little panicky
if you don't get a text back in a few hours. Right,
I'm busy, But you don't tell them about it, because
that's not that's a flack, that's okay, it.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Is Yeah, you kind of deal with it yourself and
go okay, exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Everything seems to be falling down around me right now
because they haven't texted me back, but I know that
they're busy at work, and they said that they don't
really text at work. We're gonna sit here and start
the wall for a while. I'm not saying anything to them,
and then over time, if it has happened that they
text you back after work, and then you go okay, cool,
(06:01):
yeah exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Yeah, yeah, that's fine. I talked to you about it
a lot.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
What is the number one thing that relationship experts you
should not do early on in a relationship. If you
don't want to scare the person off talking about baby names.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Why would you bring that up? Okay, I don't I
agree with this. I have no defense. I can't wait
till we're raising little Percocet. Isn't that
Stop everything.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
What you're about to hear is the most important thing
that you need to hear before Valentine's Day. Okay, the
Jewel Show, So listen very very closely.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Really excuse you. Sorry, I couldn't help it. That's not
what I was going to say.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
What I was going to say is relationship experts have
released the top ways to scare someone off in a
new relationship. So what should you not do just in
time for Valentine's Day? If you don't want to scare
your Valentine off? Have so many ideas, what's your first idea?
You know, what are we when you're eating married?
Speaker 1 (00:47):
WHOA, I love you? What we'll go over?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
A relationship experts day right now? Posting too many photos
of you two on social media too early, that's definitely
definitely definitely, but I think at all would kind of
bug me exactly if you're like just started hanging out
with somebody. That's I've had that happen to me before,
when I've just started hanging out with someone and then
all of a sudden they're posting photos of us together,
like as if we are together.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
I think they would me ten years in I like
to be claimed, but at the very least. I think
it would be cool if it was like pictures of
stuff that we did together, like even if I'm not
in the photo, you're not in the photo, but maybe
it's like a dinner that we had together, or then
that tells me that you're excited about the time we're
setting up better.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
I like that.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Yep, okay, because it's also too if somebody's just gotten
out a relationship and they're doing that, it's like, are
you just doing this to them because this is about
you liking me or you wanting to get even with them.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
And be like, look, I'm fine.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
I'm so happy to say a lot of people are
doing that.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Far.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
What are the top things that you shouldn't do if
you don't want to scare your valentine off? According to
relationship experts, referring to their pet as our pet, what
when talking to other people?
Speaker 1 (02:02):
That's weird, that's their pets. This is at the beginning
of a relationship, or just.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Like ever, this is at the beginning of a relationship,
it says, but really that's odd.
Speaker 1 (02:12):
It's very odd.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Even if I were with someone and they had a
dog when I met them, and then we got married,
I would still consider that their dog, like we didn't
get that together.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
It's ours, I.
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Guess, I mean it's ours, but also I might not
have gotten the dog and unless I.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
Got her right, So listen, there was one care of it.
Why do you want to claim it anyway? Ten years
and you'd be like.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
Your dog's doing bads dogs, you know what I mean,
Like you don't want to put down on yourself.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Well, that's the best part.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
It can be their dog when you want it to be,
or yours when it's convenient.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Obviously, if whoever you're with has a.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Dog, you live with them whatever. You know, you're walking
the dog, you know, you're taking it like doing all that.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
It's not my dog. If you wake up, it's always
their dog, their dog. Yeah yeah, but that's good because
you don't want those memories.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Imagine you just start dating somebody and you have a pet,
and then you go out to meet your friends for
the first time. They're like, yeah, our dog is so crazy,
but I will be very weird. It would be very disturbing.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
I told you I had Oh my gosh, it was
a cat.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Though.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
The top ways to scare off your Valentine Day as
according to Valentine As according to relationship experts, They say,
these are the things you should not do early on
in a relationship if you want to keep the person around.
Asking someone to leave a toothbrush at their place but
you are just hooking up.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Don't ask you just do know?
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Somebody asked me that one time.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
And I never spoke to them again. Really, to keep
a toothbrush at their place? What if they didn't ask
and it just was left, would it matter? Yeah? I
would throw it away and never speak to them again.
If you're just hooking up, absolutely not.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
You don't want them to have fresh breath at your home, exactly.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
If we're just hooking up, I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I want them to meet me somewhere and then we'll
be over there, or they can just come there. But
I don't want them having to worry about brushing their teeth,
like I want to leave before they have morning breath.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
You don't want a little good morning.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Hell.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
In fact, bring your own pillow because I'm not washing
mine extra.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
I don't know you all.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
I have scabies, I don't wear of a mat, so
it just doesn't sound right. Fashion breath is always welcome,
I will say, if you're in a relationship with someone,
or you're just starting to get in a relationship and
it's like a few months in and then you get
them a toothbrush, that's a good move, that's probably a
solid move.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
But when you're just hooking up with.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Someone, no brush, I feel like you also need to
be asked, like, don't just do like ask because I
feel like that's just more polite. Well, I used to
keep extra toothbrushes at my house wait, just in case,
whether it was my friend or somebody who stayed. I
just think it's important to brush your teeth before you
go to sleep, no matter what different story.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
That makes sense.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Also, some people keep a toothbrush on them at all times.
That's that's a whole different thing. If you're if you're like, hey,
I'm gonna I want to leave toothbrush at your place,
the answer is no.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
You just do it. We're marry, but I don't want
it here.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Who gets to the number one thing that relationship experts
saying you should not do early on in a relationship
if you don't want to scare the person off. But
another one is getting upset if they don't respond to
your texts right away.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Oh that would annoy me that it's annoying you.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Well, just don't tell them you're upset. I understand why.
But you just don't tell them that you're upset. You
understand why, Yeah, Because it's like if you have an
anxious attachment, you're a little insecure, you're trying to get
comfortable in the new situation. You get a little panicky
if you don't get a text back in a few hours. Right,
I'm busy, But you don't tell them about it, because
that's not that's a flack, that's okay, it.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Is Yeah, you kind of deal with it yourself and
go okay, exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Everything seems to be falling down around me right now
because they haven't texted me back, but I know that
they're busy at work, and they said that they don't
really text at work. We're gonna sit here and start
the wall for a while. I'm not saying anything to them,
and then over time, if it has happened that they
text you back after work, and then you go okay, cool,
(06:01):
yeah exactly.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Yeah, yeah, that's fine. I talked to you about it
a lot.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
What is the number one thing that relationship experts you
should not do early on in a relationship. If you
don't want to scare the person off talking about baby names.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Why would you bring that up? Okay, I don't I
agree with this. I have no defense. I can't wait
till we're raising little Percocet. Isn't that
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