March 28, 2025 • 7 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It is ten times harder to find a decent husband
than it is.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
To find a great wife.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
I'm almost forty, so I have all these like acquaintances
getting divorced right now, all these women they keep coming
up to me, Oh atlee. It is so difficult dating
out there for a divorced woman. None of these men
can handle me a strong woman. None of these men
want a strong woman. I'm like, you're an annoying woman.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
But.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
I do believe that it's slim pickings out there.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
You know, none of these women they keep telling me
about their battle, how ugly it is, how they're fighting
for full custody of their kids.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I'm like, why even half custody sounds like American horror story.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
It's a jutile show. And relationships are a lot of work.
But you know it's even more work than that. Divorces
so much paperwork, and who wants to do paperwork?
Speaker 5 (01:08):
That's why I want.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Relationship Expert is trying to help you out, and they're
going viral because they want to save you from all
the paperwork of divorce.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
That's nice, they realize.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
And they just released a list of red flags that
you should think about before you say I do, including
what profession you should never get married to? Okay, so
we'll go over it now, so you can think twice
if you're married to one of these people, getting married
to one of them? But what profession do they say
you should not get married to at all? It says
if one or both parties in the marriage makes a
(01:36):
living as a bartender, casino manager, or a flight attendant.
That is somebody who you definitely should think twice about
before you say, I do really.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
So many opportunities to stray?
Speaker 6 (01:47):
Yeah, flight attendant, you can so have so many opportunities
to travel.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Yeah, look at the pros and the cons.
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Yes, but while you're traveling, that's like different area codes,
less likely to run into your partner because they're across
the country.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
I'm find with that.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Okay. The casino manager one kind of gets me. I'm like,
why casino manager, which is.
Speaker 7 (02:05):
They're always in the environment of like a party people
around everyone around them is party mode just all the time.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Same thing with the bartender.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
It's like associated with sin immediately, right, Yeah, but you just.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Don't trust these people.
Speaker 7 (02:18):
If you don't trust your person, you probably shouldn't be
in a relationship.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
With When in Vegas. You're not. You're always in Vegas, though,
because we live in Vegas.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
What happens in Vegas is in Vegas. We live in Henderson,
not actually correct, We live a little bit outside of Vegas.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
I work in Vegas.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
What is another red flag you should pay attention to
if you're going to get married to somebody? They say
there's two ages that you should be aware of. Oh,
if you get married as a teenager, or if you
get married after thirty two, it's a high likelihood.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
You get divorced.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
What why why?
Speaker 5 (02:56):
The teenager makes sense?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Right?
Speaker 4 (02:58):
Because you don't know each other well and I don't
know the world well enough. Right, Yeah, change a lot
from a teenager to twenties, even after thirty two.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I don't know why that doesn't make sense.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
I would I would guess that the later you will
get married, age wise, the likelihood of you, guys staying
together is higher. You've already waited that long. You're waiting
to make sure that you're with the right person. Wouldn't
you be staying with them the older you are when
you get married versus divorcing them.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
You're also grown up. Yeah, you know more about yourself.
They say that after thirty two. Every year boosts your
chances of divorced by five years.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
I don't believe, sorry, by five percent.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Really, I don't believe that.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
I don't believe that.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
And also you're kind of beat down by life at
that point, right, so you're like, well, it is what
it is.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
I mean, how much time I really got left? Man?
Speaker 4 (03:47):
You just stay because it's not worse what I mean. Yeah,
you're like a moment and I get that. I don't know,
I got a lot of twenty some years. Maybe I
have no idea, might as well just chill.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I would think.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
I think somebody that got married after thirty and that's
been divorced would be a little bit more because they've
already been through it.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
So they're like, of I gotta do it again. I'll
just do it again.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Yeah, this is first marriage. I think this first marriage,
right right? Yeah? Yeah, having gone through one of those,
I don't ever want to do that again.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Like I said, it's a lot of paperwork.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Doun like a lot. This is emotionally taxing too.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
Yeah, it's definitely that. It's definitely emotionally taxing.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
But then there's the paperwork, and then paperwork for me
is probably the most emotionally taxing thing. I mean, you
should see the way I cry when I just check
email once a week.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Sure, he really does.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
If your wedding planning was a disaster, they say you
should probably not be getting married.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
Aren't all wedding planning is a disaster because you're kind
of running around, you have a lot to choose from.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Like that sounds stressful.
Speaker 7 (04:42):
Being stressed is different than having a disaster of a
wedding planning session.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Really.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
According to a study of five hundred newly weds or
engaged couples, ninety six percent say they found the planning stressful,
forty percent of the planning was very or extremely stressful,
and seventy one percent had met the wedd planning was
more stressful than finding a job or buying a home.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
I believe it.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
I don't know anybody that said it was. And I've
been a part of wedding planning. Not my own weddings obviously,
but as a friend. I've been a part of wedding
planning and it's always stressful. Thankfully they're all still married,
but very stressful.
Speaker 7 (05:16):
Yeah, I don't understand that that is so silly to
spend all that time, money and stress a stress party.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
Yeah, it's essentially just a party. Who cares to celebrate?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
It's a dream who.
Speaker 7 (05:27):
It cares was fed to you by Walt Disney himself,
and you should be.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Mad at him. Go have a party.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Go have a party. It's a dreams fine.
Speaker 7 (05:36):
Party has to be perfect, yeah, all right, yeah, because
marriage is perfect.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
Right, there's a nation out of place.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Everything's hold onto that one special moment.
Speaker 7 (05:46):
Yeah, you'll have to hold onto it. It's called your
credit card debt.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
It says another red flag when it comes to a
wedding and if you should or shouldn't do it more
than twenty percent of if more than twenty percent of
the wedding guests refuse to attend, I'm not getting married.
I'm sure there are people that have invited a bunch
of people and they're like, nope, I am not I'm
not co signing this.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Even by sitting in a seat, I feel like I would.
Speaker 6 (06:12):
Still have to go, Like if it was my friend,
even if they were marrying somebody that I didn't agree with.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Like, I feel like I have to be there for support.
Speaker 7 (06:18):
I think most people do feel like they have to
be there. So think about that. They were like not,
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
And lastly, what this one I think is ridiculous. What
is one of the red flags that you should pay
attention to in a partner if you're gonna get married
to them, I'm going to a career and other things
like stress and stuff like that. If the husband has
a high level of testosterone.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
Well you laugh at that, but that also goes with
the aggression. The higher like need for like sexual whatever release,
all of that type of stuff puts them in situations
where they may act up a little bit.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
So they're saying they're more likely to cheat.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
But also if you have a high level of testosterone,
you can also practice self control.
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Right, I mean, this is the weirdest thing, your babe.
I had no choice.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
You're asking for a lot no choice. I couldn't do it,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Like problem is all the testosterone running through my brain,
Like it just tastes control, you know what I mean.
So really, you can't blame you at all. I should
be blaming you for questioning me about it. It's probably
all that stupid estrogen in your brain. You know, nothing
makes you guys crazy all the time.
Speaker 6 (07:30):
Yeah, good, thing you're immediately over, but you'll know that
before you get married.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
So if you walk down the aisle with that, that's
on you.
It is ten times harder to find a decent husband
than it is.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
To find a great wife.
Speaker 1 (00:06):
I'm almost forty, so I have all these like acquaintances
getting divorced right now, all these women they keep coming
up to me, Oh atlee. It is so difficult dating
out there for a divorced woman. None of these men
can handle me a strong woman. None of these men
want a strong woman. I'm like, you're an annoying woman.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
But.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
I do believe that it's slim pickings out there.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
You know, none of these women they keep telling me
about their battle, how ugly it is, how they're fighting
for full custody of their kids.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I'm like, why even half custody sounds like American horror story.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
It's a jutile show. And relationships are a lot of work.
But you know it's even more work than that. Divorces
so much paperwork, and who wants to do paperwork?
Speaker 5 (01:08):
That's why I want.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Relationship Expert is trying to help you out, and they're
going viral because they want to save you from all
the paperwork of divorce.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
That's nice, they realize.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
And they just released a list of red flags that
you should think about before you say I do, including
what profession you should never get married to? Okay, so
we'll go over it now, so you can think twice
if you're married to one of these people, getting married
to one of them? But what profession do they say
you should not get married to at all? It says
if one or both parties in the marriage makes a
(01:36):
living as a bartender, casino manager, or a flight attendant.
That is somebody who you definitely should think twice about
before you say, I do really.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
So many opportunities to stray?
Speaker 6 (01:47):
Yeah, flight attendant, you can so have so many opportunities
to travel.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Yeah, look at the pros and the cons.
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Yes, but while you're traveling, that's like different area codes,
less likely to run into your partner because they're across
the country.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
I'm find with that.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Okay. The casino manager one kind of gets me. I'm like,
why casino manager, which is.
Speaker 7 (02:05):
They're always in the environment of like a party people
around everyone around them is party mode just all the time.
Speaker 5 (02:12):
Same thing with the bartender.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
It's like associated with sin immediately, right, Yeah, but you just.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Don't trust these people.
Speaker 7 (02:18):
If you don't trust your person, you probably shouldn't be
in a relationship.
Speaker 5 (02:21):
With When in Vegas. You're not. You're always in Vegas, though,
because we live in Vegas.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
What happens in Vegas is in Vegas. We live in Henderson,
not actually correct, We live a little bit outside of Vegas.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
I work in Vegas.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
What is another red flag you should pay attention to
if you're going to get married to somebody? They say
there's two ages that you should be aware of. Oh,
if you get married as a teenager, or if you
get married after thirty two, it's a high likelihood.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
You get divorced.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
What why why?
Speaker 5 (02:56):
The teenager makes sense?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Right?
Speaker 4 (02:58):
Because you don't know each other well and I don't
know the world well enough. Right, Yeah, change a lot
from a teenager to twenties, even after thirty two.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I don't know why that doesn't make sense.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
I would I would guess that the later you will
get married, age wise, the likelihood of you, guys staying
together is higher. You've already waited that long. You're waiting
to make sure that you're with the right person. Wouldn't
you be staying with them the older you are when
you get married versus divorcing them.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
You're also grown up. Yeah, you know more about yourself.
They say that after thirty two. Every year boosts your
chances of divorced by five years.
Speaker 4 (03:31):
I don't believe, sorry, by five percent.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Really, I don't believe that.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
I don't believe that.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
And also you're kind of beat down by life at
that point, right, so you're like, well, it is what
it is.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
I mean, how much time I really got left? Man?
Speaker 4 (03:47):
You just stay because it's not worse what I mean. Yeah,
you're like a moment and I get that. I don't know,
I got a lot of twenty some years. Maybe I
have no idea, might as well just chill.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I would think.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
I think somebody that got married after thirty and that's
been divorced would be a little bit more because they've
already been through it.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
So they're like, of I gotta do it again. I'll
just do it again.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Yeah, this is first marriage. I think this first marriage,
right right? Yeah? Yeah, having gone through one of those,
I don't ever want to do that again.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Like I said, it's a lot of paperwork.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Doun like a lot. This is emotionally taxing too.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
Yeah, it's definitely that. It's definitely emotionally taxing.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
But then there's the paperwork, and then paperwork for me
is probably the most emotionally taxing thing. I mean, you
should see the way I cry when I just check
email once a week.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Sure, he really does.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
If your wedding planning was a disaster, they say you
should probably not be getting married.
Speaker 6 (04:35):
Aren't all wedding planning is a disaster because you're kind
of running around, you have a lot to choose from.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Like that sounds stressful.
Speaker 7 (04:42):
Being stressed is different than having a disaster of a
wedding planning session.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Really.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
According to a study of five hundred newly weds or
engaged couples, ninety six percent say they found the planning stressful,
forty percent of the planning was very or extremely stressful,
and seventy one percent had met the wedd planning was
more stressful than finding a job or buying a home.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
I believe it.
Speaker 6 (05:04):
I don't know anybody that said it was. And I've
been a part of wedding planning. Not my own weddings obviously,
but as a friend. I've been a part of wedding
planning and it's always stressful. Thankfully they're all still married,
but very stressful.
Speaker 7 (05:16):
Yeah, I don't understand that that is so silly to
spend all that time, money and stress a stress party.
Speaker 5 (05:22):
Yeah, it's essentially just a party. Who cares to celebrate?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
It's a dream who.
Speaker 7 (05:27):
It cares was fed to you by Walt Disney himself,
and you should be.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Mad at him. Go have a party.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Go have a party. It's a dreams fine.
Speaker 7 (05:36):
Party has to be perfect, yeah, all right, yeah, because
marriage is perfect.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
Right, there's a nation out of place.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Everything's hold onto that one special moment.
Speaker 7 (05:46):
Yeah, you'll have to hold onto it. It's called your
credit card debt.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
It says another red flag when it comes to a
wedding and if you should or shouldn't do it more
than twenty percent of if more than twenty percent of
the wedding guests refuse to attend, I'm not getting married.
I'm sure there are people that have invited a bunch
of people and they're like, nope, I am not I'm
not co signing this.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Even by sitting in a seat, I feel like I would.
Speaker 6 (06:12):
Still have to go, Like if it was my friend,
even if they were marrying somebody that I didn't agree with.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
Like, I feel like I have to be there for support.
Speaker 7 (06:18):
I think most people do feel like they have to
be there. So think about that. They were like not,
I'm good.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
And lastly, what this one I think is ridiculous. What
is one of the red flags that you should pay
attention to in a partner if you're gonna get married
to them, I'm going to a career and other things
like stress and stuff like that. If the husband has
a high level of testosterone.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
Well you laugh at that, but that also goes with
the aggression. The higher like need for like sexual whatever release,
all of that type of stuff puts them in situations
where they may act up a little bit.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
So they're saying they're more likely to cheat.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
But also if you have a high level of testosterone,
you can also practice self control.
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Right, I mean, this is the weirdest thing, your babe.
I had no choice.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
You're asking for a lot no choice. I couldn't do it,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Like problem is all the testosterone running through my brain,
Like it just tastes control, you know what I mean.
So really, you can't blame you at all. I should
be blaming you for questioning me about it. It's probably
all that stupid estrogen in your brain. You know, nothing
makes you guys crazy all the time.
Speaker 6 (07:30):
Yeah, good, thing you're immediately over, but you'll know that
before you get married.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
So if you walk down the aisle with that, that's
on you.
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