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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Leslie is on the phone today for our first Date
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Neil.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call Neil and
see if that's all us why he's ghosting he But first, Leslie,
how long has it been since you heard from Neil?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
A little too long? I uh, it's been about a week.
A little too long for my taste.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Actually, yeah, the week point is usually the point when
people started to be like, Okay, is this ghosting now?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Exactly?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
Have you tried to reach out? No?
Speaker 3 (00:37):
I mean I can I just tell you guys what happened?
Or yeah, I can't stop thinking about it. Like, honestly,
one of the best dates I've ever had. He planned
this super creative date, like goat yoga. Have you heard
of this?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:55):
I mean, like it's adorable, right, like animals climbing on you,
like doing a downward dog.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I've always wanted to do that. I just heard that
they do go to the bathroom a lot.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
They do, they do, but they're so cute you almost
don't care.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
Totally and like it's automatically like an icebreaker, right because like, yeah,
stuff like that'll happen, or you're just like laughing you're
petting goats. It's just honestly, the whole date felt so natural.
But uh okay, so I might have gotten a little
a little too into it. You guys like I gave.
I gave one of the goats. I'm laughing about it.
(01:30):
It's so funny. But I called him stir bounces a lot.
I'm like, I well, I mean, I pretended he was
officiating our wedding while he's fit on meals back. But
like Neil laughed, So.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
I mean, you got really into it.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
I know, I know. But and then after yoga, like
obviously he didn't wasn't up step by because he set
up a picnic like after yoga, you know, with wine
and hummus, like the whole deal.
Speaker 1 (01:57):
Where'd you find this guy?
Speaker 5 (02:02):
But I'm I'm like, never done anything like this, calling
you guys like, but I just.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
He made me feel like I was in one of
those cheesy dating show montage is like thoughtful and smart
and honestly, like I loved that he planned something different,
like I don't think I've ever experienced that someone putting
in that much effort as a date. And I also,
oh my god, I could talk like a million minutes
about him. I'm kind of obsessed with how calm he is,
(02:31):
like steady, and that's something I really want.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
You know, like a frantic and freaking out.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Like in there done that. Honestly, I just keep playing
over in my head, like why why would he ghost me?
You know obviously, like, yeah, I mentioned the dating, the
wedding thing, but I don't know if it's like the
goat pooped in my shot. I laughed like a little
too hard, and I was like crying laughing, and then
(03:04):
I peete a little bit because I was laughing so hard, and.
Speaker 5 (03:11):
Like, you know, there's like no pink yoga pants. It's
like the peace showed a little bit.
Speaker 4 (03:19):
I know, I know, I know.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
I tried to play it off like I leaned on
something wet, but I'm pretty sure he thinks he knows
like I pete on myself.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
I guess you could have played it off like that
and say it was bounces a lot.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
Yeah it's been a week. Yeah it's been a week.
And I forgot to mention you, guys. I texted him
a photo of this, like the three of us, like,
you know, like a family's portrait with him, me and
Sir bounce of a lot of course, and he didn't
even like the photo. We had such a good date.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
You know, so, Leslie, that was a lot.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Well, play a song, come back, and then call him
and see if Hoo tells why he's ghosting you and
maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Okay, okay, thanks guys.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
All right, we'll get your first date follow up next.
Right in the middle of your first date follow up
if you're just joining us, Leslie is on the phone
and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Neil. So
in a second we're gonna call him and see ifa
tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her a
second date. But first, Leslie, why don't you run down
your date again.
Speaker 6 (04:29):
For us real quick?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Yeah, it was my favorite date of my life. He
planned everything. It was goat yoga followed by a picnic,
which was amazing, and yeah, I was really really into
him and maybe embarrassed that, like I keep myself a
little bit laughing and mentioned like marriage to the first date,
like as a joke and he laughed.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
But yeah, so you're just kind of unsure replaying some moments.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Yeah, that's been a week.
Speaker 6 (04:57):
So well, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah, let's do it all right.
Speaker 6 (05:03):
Here we go. Hello, Hi, man, I speak to Neil.
Please okay, Yes, I'm here. Hey Neil, how are you?
(05:27):
This is a radio show. It's called The Jewbile Show.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Hi, Neil, I'm Nina.
Speaker 6 (05:31):
I'm Victoria and my name is Jubel. What's up?
Speaker 3 (05:34):
How's it going is there?
Speaker 7 (05:36):
How'd you get my number?
Speaker 6 (05:38):
Well?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
We got it because we do a segment on the
show that's called the First Day follow Up. That's where
if you go on a date with somebody and you
end up ghosting them, that person can ask us to
get you on the phone and find out why. So
we got an email about you from someone that you've
been on a date with, but now.
Speaker 7 (05:52):
You Yeah, oh my god, I can't believe it exactly. Yeah,
I mean I know, I think I know who it is.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Leslie, right, yes, laid of course, of course, why of course?
Speaker 6 (06:06):
Hey, can you do you mind telling us why you're ghostinger?
Speaker 3 (06:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (06:10):
She stuck her finger and the humus and.
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Portion of the food.
Speaker 6 (06:16):
Were actually talking about actual hummas. We needed to go.
Speaker 7 (06:22):
Yes, I'm I'm talking about actual hummus.
Speaker 6 (06:24):
Yes, okay, okay.
Speaker 4 (06:27):
So how did she get her finger in there?
Speaker 3 (06:30):
Well?
Speaker 7 (06:31):
I had planned dait, right, and then I brought like
a little pictic and we had Thomas and it was
like our community like hummus bowl and she looked me
dead in the eye. She was just looking right at me,
and then she just dragged her finger across it and
then like licked it.
Speaker 6 (06:46):
Off, like to be sexy.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
I don't know, maybe, but I just think, is it
ever okay to like put your finger inside like a
community bowl of hummus that people are eating when you
have dirty hands?
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Ess, that's kind of questionable a situation. Who are you with?
Speaker 6 (07:04):
You just didn't like it?
Speaker 5 (07:05):
On?
Speaker 7 (07:06):
No, I mean I I called her on on it,
and she's like, oh, you know, you're so funny and
you're gonna, I mean literally, verbatim, you're gonna kiss me
later anyway. What's the difference between my finger and my mouth?
I mean, come on, hello, ma'am. Look, I was being
absolutely serious, and she had no idea that I was serious.
She thought I was joking, but I was being serious,
and so that's just another thing that I see. You know,
she can't tell the difference between me being serious or
(07:28):
not being serious, and she just goes to her own thing.
Just proves that our communications that could be good in
the future.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Oh okay, I'm sorry, Oh my god, Neil, Neil, you're
making it sound like Hi, hi guys.
Speaker 6 (07:43):
She's actually on the phone listing and wants to talk
to you.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Yeah, you're making it sound like I committed a bogus
I'm a literal crime. It was hummus. It's like not
a felony, like I was being playful. Ever heard of it?
Like on a date?
Speaker 6 (07:53):
That's what you know?
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Okay, playful?
Speaker 7 (07:56):
It's not playful, right, what would you call that's pulinaria
salts is what I would call it.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Oh, come on, okay, Like it's not like I just
double dipped. It was a one time swipe, one finger
one like boom, Like you're actually this is a huge
freaking deal.
Speaker 7 (08:12):
Yeah yeah, yeah, just a harmless public health violation.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
No, it's not.
Speaker 4 (08:20):
You can communicate with him, you.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
Crazy, don't throw it's away over like literal hummus? Is
this pathetic? Like I'll literally buy you your own hummus? Okay,
like a lifetime supply. I don't care. You'll you'll never
have to share like a kick pee with me again,
I swear.
Speaker 7 (08:35):
Come on, And that's another thing. I kind of would
prefer a woman who kind of would stick to your
guns about it. But you fold it so quickly over
this thing and and buy me something than fixing the issue.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
I can't win. I can't win here, Like if I
am actually like saying to you like I'll make you
happy and not eat hummus if you ever again like
you're now turning it on me. Literally, I'll wear gloves
to dinner. Okay, I'll eat with chopsticks only, I don't
even care. Okay, straws, I'll use straws. How about that.
Whatever it takes me and you're that's just me being committed.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
Okay, she really likes you meal.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
Yeah, I don't see it as her folding. I see
it as she likes you, just compromising.
Speaker 7 (09:17):
Yeah, I don't know. I think the wishy watching is
she's not really.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Helping her case. Okay, you have to admit it though,
come on, like part of you thought it was hot.
There's no way like a woman being bold enough to
claim her old honis Ball. That's passion. That's like, that's dedication.
Speaker 7 (09:33):
No, that's bacteria, that's what that is.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
Oh please cool? Like, is it so stupid that you're
ghosting me over chickpeas? Like I actually really like you,
Like if it's jubil on these guys like they'll tell you,
like I really like you, and I promise I'll never
use my finger, Okay, I promise. It's just like, this
is ridiculous, Am I wrong? Lay?
Speaker 4 (09:57):
Oh honey, you're really putting yourself out there, Neil. She's
really likes you.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Yeah, Neil, would you like to go on another date
with Leslie? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7 (10:04):
No, like a cat, I'm out.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
That is not what happened, you guys. I was playful.
I was pretending to go dared me to do it.
That's funny. It was a joke, Leslie. You looked at
me and you said, now it's our Onum this that's
not a joke.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
I don't know that.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
To me, that's a Hoswit situation.
Speaker 7 (10:25):
Look, I know, funny.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Yeah, I like you call it a joke. That is
not a joke.
Speaker 7 (10:30):
You're not Dave Chappelle. That is like that.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
It wasn't hot, funny, not but like I'm quirky. Everyone
tells me I'm quirky, and I'm not. It's not that
I'm unsanitary. I'm just quirky, and I swear I'm not
like usually a dip liquor, Like this is a nice deal.
Speaker 6 (10:44):
It's not my bad.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
You can't say not.
Speaker 7 (10:49):
Usually and expect me to be comforted by.
Speaker 3 (10:51):
That, you know, like listen to me for a second,
like don't listen to any of the noise in your head,
Like give was just like another chance, like all by you,
all the hardiness you want, Like I'll do it right now.
I'm gonna go to the grocery store anyway in like
five minutes, and I mean I'll never even I'll never
even look at a chickpea.
Speaker 6 (11:09):
Again if it Wow, she really wants to go out
with you?
Speaker 7 (11:13):
Oh okay, guys, So my love of life depends on
the hommus vand no, no, thank you.
Speaker 3 (11:20):
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