November 4, 2025 • 8 mins
Can silence, slow speech, and intense eye contact really make you irresistible? On this episode of The Jubal Show, we break down a viral guide on how to be more seductive, and put its “tips” to the test. From awkward silences to unpredictable moves, we explore what actually works and what just makes you look… well, a little psycho. Hilarious, relatable, and definitely eye-opening for anyone navigating dating and attraction.
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
How you doing? Oh, I know what you're thinking. How
did I get so sultry? Will you know? You can't
spill sultry without the S, the L, the U, and
the T. No, that's a fact. Anyway, My e bark
is E bike is parked out front. Want to go
for a little ride with me? Wait? Where are you going?
(00:26):
I hadn't even gotten started yet. It's the Jewbil Show.
And let's face it, it's tough to be sexy, especially that sexy.
And do you want to be a little more sultrier
or perhaps the most sultryist. Well, there's an article that's
going viral that tells people how to be more sultry
in order to get dates. Okay, we'll see if any
(00:48):
of this will actually work for you. We'll tell you
what it is right after this. It's the Jubil Show.
What do you think of when I say the word seductive?
It's the Jewbil Show? A pan of fresh bake lasagna?
Oh yeah, probably Mark Zuckerberg on a unic cycle. Not
much is more seductive than that. But there is an
article that's going viral that says how you can be
(01:11):
more seductive in order to get dates? And it has
techniques for anybody who wants to become more seductive in life.
Really over right now to see what you think if
this will be something that will work for you or
something that you would find attractive on somebody else. But
here's how they say you can be more seductive. If
you say it like that, that's really the only way
(01:32):
you can say seductive. I think true. But if you
want to be more seductive, here are the key things
that you need to do in order to attract the
people that you want and seduce them into doing whatever
you pleases. You. Wait, I like actually want to know
what these are.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
But I just wanted to say that I had a
friend who there's a book on.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Seduction and the seduction is oh yeah, before.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Wanted to sleep with this guy so bad that she
knew of And I was like, girl, give it, like
what does leave it?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Let it go? She actually buy the book, the Auto
Seduction you get to try to get with the dude.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
She bought the book in after two weeks. It's so fast,
like I've never seen.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Or read anything fast.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
You're gonna buy me this, Victoria, Nina. I will buy
you this just as an experiment.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
I was I had a friend who read that book
and a few other books on being seductive and didn't
work for him. I think it might have been just
a waiting to drist anyway. Here are the ways that
they say you can be more seductive in life. The
first thing that you need to do is be less reactive.
(02:40):
They say, when you don't flinch overlaugh, or rush to
fill silence, you signal confidence. Psychology calls it self assured
nonverbal dominance. So, in other words, if you're out and
someone tells you a little joke, don't laugh at it
and just let it sit there with nothing but silence
(03:01):
and just look at them. What seductive? Right to me?
Somebody comes to afforded me, like, hey, what's your name?
Going to buy you a drink and just stare. I
guess that's seductive. Be less reactive.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
I mean that's one way to make them feel small,
So that's more domination.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I'm seductive af I didn't realize that because I'm fine
with silence, like it doesn't bother me, and I don't
never rush to fill in the silence. But it's not
that I'm trying to be seductive. It's just that I'm like, okay, cool,
if you want to be quiet, to be quiet or
whatever on me. You know, but I know for a
lot of people that awkward silence is very hard, and
I do enjoy those awkward moments when it's awkwardly silent
and you know the other person is like uncomfortable because
(03:42):
it's funny for me. I'm like, can't they just relax
and enjoy the silence, but they're so uncomfortable. But I
didn't know I was being seductive. Self assured nonverbal dominance
is what that's called. So that's step number one to
being more seductive, according to this article, So be less reactive,
don't overlap, don't rush to feel silence, just stand there.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yeah, we've only gone through one thing and it's making
me stressed. Yeah, you don't do well with silence, Victoria, No,
because it's just quiet and I can't help. But like,
I don't do well silence. So then I'm thinking in
my own mind, like funny things, and what do I say?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
What do I do? Oh my gosh, wait, he's looking
way I'm looking. What am I looking at? Oh jesus,
here's the next tip to being more seductive. Slow down
your speech, says ause between sentences and let the silence
hang to create tension. Absolutely not. So there's a fine
line between that and just like really weird creepy. You
have an awkward pause and then you're like, well, I
(04:42):
enjoin the silence, lick my lips. What your name O?
Way for it. It also says to soften your tone
and lower your pitch slightly. This makes sense. People rate deeper,
slower voices more trustworthy and emotionally intelligent. So dowry your
(05:04):
voice and slow down your speech, Victoria, you want to
try to seduce? Yeah, everybody right now?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
You can read an email if you want. Hey, guys,
how was you're not going? That does not sound seductive.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
That's somedimes somebody trying to do a bad cowboy impression.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Like your voice is going like wow, saying to go deeper.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
All I can do. Didn't say to sound like a cowboy.
L Hey, y'all come this watering hole often. But you know, Victoria,
I mean you.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Think about like that cowboys standing and the thing talking
real slow going.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Hey, baby, you look like a wild horse needs to
be broke. I got it. I've been breaking horses for
a long time like you.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
That's when you start going, I'll go to.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
A cow, Hey baby, let me go steeven.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I would not be able to say any of these
things or in the tone that it needs to be
done without laughing at the whole scenario.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
You just focus on silence and want to be more seductive,
be less reactive, don't really talk much, don't feel in silence,
pause between sentences, and speak slow, speak with a lower voice,
and also hold eye contact longer than usual, it says.
Research calls this the intimacy equilibrium. Holding just a second
longer than the social norm increases perceived interest. Yeah, so
(06:33):
let that eye contact just linger. This sounds like.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
A really bad date I once went on, and let
me tell you, I never saw that man again.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Why it was weird. It was awkward.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
We were both sitting in silence because no one knew
what to say, and all you know, it was finance,
and so I didn't want to respond, and then I
left it in silence.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
And then it's just it was weird. Trying to seduce
you with silence and money. That works for people, No,
not me. Here's it has on how to be more seductive.
And this is another one that you have to really
kind of perfect, I think, but it says, be unpredictable,
especially in the way that you walk. It says, if
you normally walk grounded, slower, breathing, and compostured, you project control.
(07:14):
So sometimes you need to also walk jittery. Ay, no,
it looks like you're anxious. So in other words, go
from just walking normal to having a seizure quick. That's seductive.
It makes me nervous on.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
The corners seductive, you gotta look Marty from Madagascar.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Go and zigzag. That's unpredictable as you can be, It says,
don't always text back. Oh, I hate that rule. That's
so blowney that tacks back. Your phone is in your hand.
Don't be rude. Basically, in order to be seductive, you
need to look like a total psychopath. Don't laugh or
talk to anybody. Let the silence just fill in. Talk
very very slowly, and let people hang on your every
(07:55):
word in a low pitched voice than you normally have,
hold eye contact super long, and be crazy unpredictable. Kanye
West is seductive if he's the most seductive person on
the planet, probably
How you doing? Oh, I know what you're thinking. How
did I get so sultry? Will you know? You can't
spill sultry without the S, the L, the U, and
the T. No, that's a fact. Anyway, My e bark
is E bike is parked out front. Want to go
for a little ride with me? Wait? Where are you going?
(00:26):
I hadn't even gotten started yet. It's the Jewbil Show.
And let's face it, it's tough to be sexy, especially that sexy.
And do you want to be a little more sultrier
or perhaps the most sultryist. Well, there's an article that's
going viral that tells people how to be more sultry
in order to get dates. Okay, we'll see if any
(00:48):
of this will actually work for you. We'll tell you
what it is right after this. It's the Jubil Show.
What do you think of when I say the word seductive?
It's the Jewbil Show? A pan of fresh bake lasagna?
Oh yeah, probably Mark Zuckerberg on a unic cycle. Not
much is more seductive than that. But there is an
article that's going viral that says how you can be
(01:11):
more seductive in order to get dates? And it has
techniques for anybody who wants to become more seductive in life.
Really over right now to see what you think if
this will be something that will work for you or
something that you would find attractive on somebody else. But
here's how they say you can be more seductive. If
you say it like that, that's really the only way
(01:32):
you can say seductive. I think true. But if you
want to be more seductive, here are the key things
that you need to do in order to attract the
people that you want and seduce them into doing whatever
you pleases. You. Wait, I like actually want to know
what these are.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
But I just wanted to say that I had a
friend who there's a book on.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Seduction and the seduction is oh yeah, before.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Wanted to sleep with this guy so bad that she
knew of And I was like, girl, give it, like
what does leave it?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Let it go? She actually buy the book, the Auto
Seduction you get to try to get with the dude.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
She bought the book in after two weeks. It's so fast,
like I've never seen.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Or read anything fast.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
You're gonna buy me this, Victoria, Nina. I will buy
you this just as an experiment.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
I was I had a friend who read that book
and a few other books on being seductive and didn't
work for him. I think it might have been just
a waiting to drist anyway. Here are the ways that
they say you can be more seductive in life. The
first thing that you need to do is be less reactive.
(02:40):
They say, when you don't flinch overlaugh, or rush to
fill silence, you signal confidence. Psychology calls it self assured
nonverbal dominance. So, in other words, if you're out and
someone tells you a little joke, don't laugh at it
and just let it sit there with nothing but silence
(03:01):
and just look at them. What seductive? Right to me?
Somebody comes to afforded me, like, hey, what's your name?
Going to buy you a drink and just stare. I
guess that's seductive. Be less reactive.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
I mean that's one way to make them feel small,
So that's more domination.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I'm seductive af I didn't realize that because I'm fine
with silence, like it doesn't bother me, and I don't
never rush to fill in the silence. But it's not
that I'm trying to be seductive. It's just that I'm like, okay, cool,
if you want to be quiet, to be quiet or
whatever on me. You know, but I know for a
lot of people that awkward silence is very hard, and
I do enjoy those awkward moments when it's awkwardly silent
and you know the other person is like uncomfortable because
(03:42):
it's funny for me. I'm like, can't they just relax
and enjoy the silence, but they're so uncomfortable. But I
didn't know I was being seductive. Self assured nonverbal dominance
is what that's called. So that's step number one to
being more seductive, according to this article, So be less reactive,
don't overlap, don't rush to feel silence, just stand there.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Yeah, we've only gone through one thing and it's making
me stressed. Yeah, you don't do well with silence, Victoria, No,
because it's just quiet and I can't help. But like,
I don't do well silence. So then I'm thinking in
my own mind, like funny things, and what do I say?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
What do I do? Oh my gosh, wait, he's looking
way I'm looking. What am I looking at? Oh jesus,
here's the next tip to being more seductive. Slow down
your speech, says ause between sentences and let the silence
hang to create tension. Absolutely not. So there's a fine
line between that and just like really weird creepy. You
have an awkward pause and then you're like, well, I
(04:42):
enjoin the silence, lick my lips. What your name O?
Way for it. It also says to soften your tone
and lower your pitch slightly. This makes sense. People rate deeper,
slower voices more trustworthy and emotionally intelligent. So dowry your
(05:04):
voice and slow down your speech, Victoria, you want to
try to seduce? Yeah, everybody right now?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
You can read an email if you want. Hey, guys,
how was you're not going? That does not sound seductive.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
That's somedimes somebody trying to do a bad cowboy impression.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Like your voice is going like wow, saying to go deeper.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
All I can do. Didn't say to sound like a cowboy.
L Hey, y'all come this watering hole often. But you know, Victoria,
I mean you.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
Think about like that cowboys standing and the thing talking
real slow going.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Hey, baby, you look like a wild horse needs to
be broke. I got it. I've been breaking horses for
a long time like you.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
That's when you start going, I'll go to.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
A cow, Hey baby, let me go steeven.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
I would not be able to say any of these
things or in the tone that it needs to be
done without laughing at the whole scenario.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
You just focus on silence and want to be more seductive,
be less reactive, don't really talk much, don't feel in silence,
pause between sentences, and speak slow, speak with a lower voice,
and also hold eye contact longer than usual, it says.
Research calls this the intimacy equilibrium. Holding just a second
longer than the social norm increases perceived interest. Yeah, so
(06:33):
let that eye contact just linger. This sounds like.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
A really bad date I once went on, and let
me tell you, I never saw that man again.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Why it was weird. It was awkward.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
We were both sitting in silence because no one knew
what to say, and all you know, it was finance,
and so I didn't want to respond, and then I
left it in silence.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
And then it's just it was weird. Trying to seduce
you with silence and money. That works for people, No,
not me. Here's it has on how to be more seductive.
And this is another one that you have to really
kind of perfect, I think, but it says, be unpredictable,
especially in the way that you walk. It says, if
you normally walk grounded, slower, breathing, and compostured, you project control.
(07:14):
So sometimes you need to also walk jittery. Ay, no,
it looks like you're anxious. So in other words, go
from just walking normal to having a seizure quick. That's seductive.
It makes me nervous on.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
The corners seductive, you gotta look Marty from Madagascar.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
Go and zigzag. That's unpredictable as you can be, It says,
don't always text back. Oh, I hate that rule. That's
so blowney that tacks back. Your phone is in your hand.
Don't be rude. Basically, in order to be seductive, you
need to look like a total psychopath. Don't laugh or
talk to anybody. Let the silence just fill in. Talk
very very slowly, and let people hang on your every
(07:55):
word in a low pitched voice than you normally have,
hold eye contact super long, and be crazy unpredictable. Kanye
West is seductive if he's the most seductive person on
the planet, probably
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