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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date I follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Kristin is on the
phone today for a first date follow up and she's
getting ghosted by a dude named Cruse. So in a
few minutes we'll call him and see ifith House why
is ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Kristin,
how long has it been since you talked to Cruz?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Uh? Too?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Weat okay, that's a while.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
I know I should have just forgot about it, but
I don't know. This date was really good and that
he's a catch.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
So he's got a cool name. Yeah too. You know,
we didn't.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
Cruise along together, so hopefully that was cute.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
I guess you have to have a sense of humor
about the idea of being ghosted anyway.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Yeah, I mean it happens all the time. I was kidding.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
Did you reach out to Cruz though in that time
at all to try to get a hold of him?
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Oh, definitely. I was not about to let him go.
I was like, like, hey, how are you? Nothing? Didn't
do anything? Did it?
Speaker 4 (00:56):
Call me? I even then called him and left a voicemail.
I don't do that a lot, but I left a
voicemail letting him know, like, Hey, what's going on. I
thought you were going to call me when like you
wanted to hang out again? And then nothing.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Okay, tell us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Well, I first actually met him at my friend's boyfriends
as a son twister my friend's boyfriend's softball game.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
He was a player, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
And after we all went out to eat, so technically
that was the first date, you know.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Okay, it was so good. We had a second date
and I don't know, I had a great time. He
was such a gentleman, opened the door for me, was polite,
really good looking call, which is the plus. And I
really liked him. And then all of a sudden, just
he gave me a kiss. You know, we had a
(01:47):
little makeout session, and then he just said I'll call you.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
Later and nothing.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
What did you guys do on your date?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Though?
Speaker 5 (01:55):
So the first unofficial date was when you guys met
at with food, and then when you went out together.
What did you guys do?
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Well, we got pizza and beer after the game, and
then when we went out the second time, we went
mini golfing like Glow in the Dark, ones, you know, yeah,
at least so much. But my teeth are really bright,
you know. So I thought I was going great. I'm
not only use a little too much tongue. I was
trying to hold back, but.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Like what it is? It's like, did you do this long?
Did do that wrong? Did I? Did I do that?
You start thinking it's you, and then I'm like, did
I use too much tung? Do you not use too
much tongu on.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
The first day?
Speaker 1 (02:33):
What is the I like to use the side, the
left side, because that's my dominant side, but I will
not use the right side on a first date. So
I just you know, I don't get a lot of
calls back though.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
So you only like stick your tongue on one side of.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
The Yeah, anything? Can you think of anything awkward? I mean,
is it only the tone so funny?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I can't get over what you just said?
Speaker 5 (02:57):
Will give you a dog.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Kind of figure it out, maneuver and yeah, not enough
people can handle it.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
It's only on the left side. Like, no, I can't
think of anything. I don't know. I just felt like
we had a great time and then all of a sudden, I.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
Don't know, if like someone I don't know that's why
I'm calling you, guys. I have no idea because I
thought we had a great time. We had a great session,
you know, makeout session, like I said, but there was
one thing that I guess did happen. His eyes saw
someone that came in and I kind of just like
started kissing him really quick to hide my face.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
What do you mean by that?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Well, like, I don't know. I just don't want them
to see me. I'm a private person. I just don't
want them to see me out with.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
People, Oh like somebody you recognize, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
So I just like quickly tried to like, you know,
kiss him, and I told him like jokingly, like huh,
I'm just trying to hide away from someone. And I
don't know if that was weird to him, that is
something that happened.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Okay, we'll try to figure out for you.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Play song, come back and then call him and see
if they'll tell us why is ghosting you and maybe
get you another date?
Speaker 3 (04:00):
All right, all right?
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Cool?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Play so I come back, get your first day follow
up next Berny, middle of today's first date follow up
and if you're just joining us. Kristen is on the phone.
She's getting ghosted by a guy named Cruz. So we're
about to call him and see if you tell us
why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But
before we do that, Kristen, why don't you catch everybody
up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yeah, So I pretty much went on a first date
with the guy that I met at my friend's softball game, and.
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Then we had a great time with mini golfing at
the end of it. We had a good makeout session.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
But before that, I did see someone kind of come
in that I knew, and I tried to hide by
making out with him. I don't know if that threw
him off. I just didn't want them to, like see
my face, So I don't know. I don't know if
that's the reason why he's ghosted me. But I thought
we had a great time. He's a gentleman, checked all
my boxes, so I kind of want to see.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
What's going on.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
All right? You ready for us to call him?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
I guess, So yeah, let's do it.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Here we go.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
Hello, Hi'm a expect the cruise please. This is them,
Hey Cruz, how are you? My name is Jewbell. I'm
calling from a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
Hi Cruz, I'm Nina also on the show.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hey I listen to you guys.
Oh sweet, now you're on the show. Oh wow, what's
going on? Well, if you listen to us, have you
heard a first date follow up before?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:35):
I have?
Speaker 3 (05:36):
Oh okay, is that what this is?
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (05:38):
It is.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
So you're ghosting somebody and they emailed us to get
a hold of you and find out why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
Do you know who would email us?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
I got an idea.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Is it Kristin? Yes it is.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Kristen answered the first question correctly. Now the other question
is do you mind telling us why you're ghosting her?
Speaker 6 (05:55):
Yeah, I'll tell you. Uh listen. First of all, she
seemed like a great person, was really really cool. The
day was great, like we hit it off and it
just got a little shady. Yeah, it was. It was
really suspicious. So we met up at softball. I play
(06:15):
softball with a friend of mine who knows her, and
so you know, they were out and we kind of
hung out afterwards and hit it off like we were
talking to chatty. It was great. So we actually went
out went out, so I took her mini golfing, which
I think is a good way to kind of get
to know people. And we walked on the beach, wanted
to see sunset at the park, you know, like it
was really nice and romantic and she was really cool.
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But then at the parking lot when we're mini golf, like,
she just attacks me, like like starts making out with me,
like it forcefully, so it kind of threw me off.
It wasn't that sweet, you know, kind of get nose
to nose and you're gonna get that first kiss, like
it was right there, and I was like, what was that.
She goes, oh, I just saw somebody I knew. I
just wanted to I want them to see me. And
I'm like, are you embarrassed by me? Are you embarrassed
(06:58):
to be out with me? No, I just want people
in my business. That doesn't make sense to me that
you would make out with me so that they wouldn't
be in your business, Like now you're giving them something
to talk about.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
It was a little odd.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
So I went and and talked to my friends and
I was like, yeah, I went out, and they're like,
how to go?
Speaker 2 (07:16):
And I was like, oh, it went great.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
It just she did this weird thing, and they're like, yeah,
she's kind of she's kind of addicted to drama. And
I'm like, what, yeah, she she kind of does that,
like like her baby daddy is is pretty.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
Mean and kind of bad news.
Speaker 6 (07:30):
But she keeps calling them over like they're always involved
and all they do is fight in public.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
And I'm like, I'm sorry, hold on.
Speaker 6 (07:35):
She didn't have kids, and they're like, no, no, no, she's
she's pregnant. Now. Oh yeah, see that reaction.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
That was my reaction. I said, I'm sorry, what.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
Well, yeah, pregnant Ruth, I'm allowed to date. You say
you can't date I'm pregnant.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
Oh I forgot that she'd be listening.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
Yes, that is Kristen. She's on the phone and has
been listening this whole time.
Speaker 6 (08:02):
Hey, well you don't want to I'm not. Yeah, my
side is the truth. You didn't tell me that you
were pregnant.
Speaker 4 (08:09):
So you're hating on a woman that's pregnant and saying
you can't date. Is that what you're telling me?
Speaker 2 (08:13):
Right now?
Speaker 3 (08:14):
See, you'll see that drama. That's the drama.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
That's the drama right there.
Speaker 6 (08:17):
You're putting no, no, no, you're putting words into my mouth.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I don't want to be part of that drama.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
I don't want you need to tell me upfront if
you're pregnant. That's not something that I should find out.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
That letter telling you that I'm pregnant right away, Like ky,
nice to Misha. I'm Christian and I'm pregnant.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
How you doing? What do you want to eat?
Speaker 4 (08:37):
No?
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Well, when do you think that?
Speaker 5 (08:40):
Is that something you thought that you were going to
tell them at some point Kristen, of course.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Well maybe I'm showing.
Speaker 3 (08:48):
Wow. Okay, listen, listen, hey, you do you. I'm not
gonna I'm not judging you for anything.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
You do your thing.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
I'm just saying, that's not until your first off, it
was a first date.
Speaker 2 (08:58):
It's not your business until me maybe two months. I'm sorry.
So if I'm sorry, you kept saying it was our
second date. You've corrected me on that.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
So I'm trying to go on the same page you're
on because you're like, not technically our first date. So
I'm telling you right now is our second day, but
you said before it was our first, So it's our
first because you want to count it as our first,
because you don't count the fear and peace as well.
Speaker 6 (09:19):
I mean, we can change you can change the verbiage.
Now you can say our last date. That's that's how it.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
I don't want to us. I don't can't man up.
Are you kidding me? Can't man up? You're not you
want to sign my grave, whether my dad or something like? Okay,
I'm pregnant.
Speaker 6 (09:41):
You're not mad, You're pregnant.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
That's something. You're actually the opposite of dead.
Speaker 6 (09:47):
You've got more life in you.
Speaker 2 (09:50):
I know. I don't want you to get it out,
and you've cheated it.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Mini golf.
Speaker 2 (09:57):
You can't even you don't even hold your stick.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Hey, well, I have to ask the question, Cruz, would
you like another day with Kristen?
Speaker 3 (10:04):
Will pay for it?
Speaker 2 (10:06):
No?
Speaker 3 (10:07):
Okay, Kristen, I'm sorry. No second date. Congraunts on your baby.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Though, yeah, thank you. I'm definitely not naming him. Jubile's
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