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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Craig is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Bailey. So in
a few minutes, we're gonna call her and see if
she tells us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But first, Craig, what's up. How long
has it been since you heard from Bailey.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been about a week.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Okay, seems like the sweet spot, you know, in that week.
Did you try to reach out to her at all?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Yeah, I have. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
I don't know what's going on is happening. I thought
it went really well, so I'm not sure why she's
not getting back to me.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Okay, what'd y'all do?
Speaker 4 (00:38):
We went to We went to this restaurant and Waterspo
placed nice. Yeah, they have like great appetizers and stuff.
And then we talked a lot, and I mean she
did bring care cards to.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
The date, like to do a reading.
Speaker 4 (00:54):
Yeah, but she really didn't know how to how to
use them. So it was kind of like fun and shoot,
kind of like a like an icepicker type deal. And yeah,
we were both like making up stories about what our
future would be like, and it was cool. We kind
of we kind of just like you know, talked about
how much kid we wanted and grew up on a
farm and it was fun. It was like we will
(01:16):
she was saying, was saying something similar as well, and yeah,
then it was going everything was going great. And we walked,
I walked with her car and we kind of, you know,
we made out of the parking lot and we did
for a while and it was great. And then I
don't know, and I want to get, you know, to
hold her. She's like really really fun. She's like really
(01:37):
fun Sponte type person, which I'm really like looking for
right now. And I really liked the excitement she brings.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
Did anything happen on the date that was awkward at all?
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Yeah, a little bit, because.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
Afterwards I realized, I actually, I'm kind of embarrassed by
actually because when I got home, I realized, like I
spilled olive oil on my my my pants, like my
my from the bread from like my my crotch area.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Okay, and I didn't.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
Notice at all until I until I got home. So
the only thing I'm thinking of, I'm afraid that she thought, like,
you know, I feed myself or like something worse from
the makeout. I got too excited.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Oh was this a book? So it's a big oil
scene that was on your pants?
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Yeah, it's because I dropped bread on me and the
bread had a lot of oil on it. Yeah, and
I didn't, I didn't even know. I would have talked
that, I would have mentioned I didn't even know. So that's
the only thing. I think why she would not be
might be not be calling.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Me back, especially if it's in a certain area. I mean, yeah,
and I tried, like on her next day. She didn't answer.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
Yeah, I don't know if it's a pants or for
something else. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
I don't I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
And you said you've texted her. What did you say?
Speaker 4 (02:59):
Was just like, Hey, how'd it going?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I had fun?
Speaker 4 (03:02):
We love to do it again, like you a lot.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
Yeah, you can't really explain over text. I feel like
if I got a message like a guy trying to explain.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
What that was, I don't know how i'd react, well,
especially if she didn't see it.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Maybe she did. I don't want to like take a
picture of my pants, like hey about this weird all.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Right, Well, yeah, that would be worse, Craig, you want
to talk to you about this? What is this? All right? Well,
we'll play a song come Back, and then call her
see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and
maybe get to another date. Okay, okay, great, all right,
we'll play song come back, get your first date follow
up next. Right in the middle of your first date
follow up, And if you're just joining us, Craig is
(03:42):
on the phone and we're about to call Bailey, a
girl that he went out with who's now ghosting him,
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Craig,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Yeah, I went up this girl, Bailey. We had a
lot of fun with a sheepho plays we uh play
her cards, left around, joked around me a little bit.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
I think it went well.
Speaker 4 (04:05):
I think everything went well until I got home and
I realized I had some oil from the bread and
I spilled on my pants and sitting in my crotch
area and doesn't look uh, doesn't look great. So and
I can call texted, I haven't heard back so I
don't know, she's kind of go she's ghosting me.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
I'm so sorry, I'm laughing the host. I mean, come on, yeah,
I mean it is even if she is ghosting you.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
Because of that, it's still pretty funny. I know. It is.
All right, you're ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Sure, yeah, okay, here we go. Hello him as week
to Bailey. Please, Hi Bailey, how are you. My name
is Jewbel and this is a radio show. It's called
(04:55):
The Jewbel Show. Hi, the whole show's here. I'm Nina Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Hi. I'm good. Uh, hi guy, thanks for calling.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
I guess yeah. Have you listened to the show before? Yeah? Cool.
So we're calling because this is a first day follow
up where if you go on a date with somebody
and you end up ghosting them, they can get they
can have us get you on the phone and ask
why you're ghosting them. And you're currently ghosting.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
Somebody, Okay, maybe do you have.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Any idea who would email us?
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Oh? You know, I casually. You know, I have met
some people, so I'm not exactly sure.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Okay, Bailey's busy, so it could be a number of
people you want to throw out a name.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Okay, excuse me, is it Craig?
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Yes, congratulations, you did win something. You got that right,
It's Craig. He emailed us and told us about your date.
And he says that you haven't talked to him for
a week, and he's wondering if you'll tell us why.
Speaker 5 (05:53):
I mean, it actually might kind of sounds super stupid,
but yeah, I guess I have been avoiding him.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
So I didn't like his shoes.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Well, it's wrong with his shoes.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
She was wearing these like these like half sneaker kind
of like half hiking boot kind of shoe, you know,
are dates and and he just felt a little too
like you know, crunchy granola for me.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Okay, you know there's like that type the granola.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
Guys. I don't know. That shouldn't be a big deal.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
I know that sounds probably a lot of people think
that sounds super stupid, but for me, at this point
in my life, like it just seems like that's his vibe.
And I'm like way too tired and like getting older,
like to try to change a man and like make
a man fit into like the kind of style in
life that I would live, and to change how he
acts or how he dresses. So yeah, I just feel
(06:47):
like I'm past that teaching stage of my life and
I just want to find a man who.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Is like an already trained, ready to be like the
way that I like him.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
So you don't want to have to train a dude
again to get into it.
Speaker 5 (07:02):
Yeah, Like, let's be real, we all know we train
our men. I mean, come on, like you know, the
drastic like women kind of you know, we train our
dudes to be in the way that we like our dudes.
And it just seemed like I'd have to work too
hard to try to change him. And I shouldn't want
to have to change somebody from who they are.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
You shouldn't. Yeah, you're right there, you shouldn't want to
do that.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
I mean I get wanting to influence somebody, Like if
you really like somebody and you really hate their shoes,
I mean, there's definitely a way to be like, babe,
you know, you look really cute and.
Speaker 5 (07:29):
I know, and that seems simple, but it just seems
like the way life, I know. I guess I just
felt like I was like, oh, this is going to
take like months years of like trying to like maybe
make you be the dude that I'm usually into, but
this is not your style. So at this point I
was just like, eh, you know what, forget it, Like
he is actually super hot.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
I had a great time with him. I just yeah.
After that, I was just like, this isn't going to
go past the first date.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Did you know that Craig is on the phone listening
and wants to talk to you?
Speaker 4 (07:57):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (07:58):
No, yea, he is a lot high. Hello, doing im good.
I'm sorry that you had to hear all that. It's
nothing personal.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
I think it's kind of shallow to be honest, especially
like over shoes, like I have other pairs of shoes.
I mean, yeah, I mean I think it's I don't
know how you judge someone based off one appearance, one date,
but I guess that's your thing. It's kind of what
you do so well.
Speaker 5 (08:29):
I mean, and I'm polagize if you were like confused.
I mean, I know, we had like an awesome kiss
at the end of the night and that was great.
It's just like to me, of course we made out,
you know, like I had two glasses, a start and
a and you were there. You know, like make ups
are just like innocent and fun, like I think maybe
by us kissing, you probably thought it would be more
serious after that.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
Like, I don't know, it didn't have to mean anything,
like I just thought it was a one great date
and that was a great time.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
But that way, just like believe it at that, Okay,
I mean that's that's fine. I mean, I guess you
had a lot of past trauma about training guys or
whatever that what that means. But there was just a
pair of shoes. So I mean, it's fine, it's cool,
no worries. I hope you, uh, you know, bring a
pair of shoes to your next date.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
Do you want the guy to.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Wear so you'll feel more comfortable.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Yeah, I mean I wouldn't really need to bring the shoes.
Speaker 5 (09:24):
I was obviously looking for a man who just like
knows how to dress on a date, is what I
kind of mean.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Like, I mean you do you. I'm sure you have.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Plenty of other grat shoes. Then, like, why was that
like this choice to represent who you are on date one?
So I wouldn't say this is all on me, just
like I don't think it has anything to do with trauma.
It's just call I don't want to waste my time
on someone you like. He isn't really putting the thought
in on a date.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
I mean, I think a lot of girls like what
I wear.
Speaker 4 (09:50):
I mean I didn't like your I don't like your makeup.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
It was a little shoppy.
Speaker 4 (09:53):
But I wasn't trying to end the entire relationship because
you couldn't. You don't know how to put on makeup.
I guess that's your thing, you know. I just thought
you had a bad makeup day. I will see how
well you didn't the next time.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
But I guess we're not doing maselfs now.
Speaker 5 (10:09):
Like you said, you'll find you said there's plenty of
girls who like your shoes, so definitely go find one
of them and you'll have a second date.
Speaker 3 (10:15):
I'm sure.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Are we sure about that? Bailey? Would you like another
day with Craig? Will pay for it?
Speaker 3 (10:19):
No, I'm good. I you know, I like somebody who
really wants to bring it and wants to respect me
on the date. I'll pass.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Uh No, I'm good as well. I'd rather not go
on a second date someone who's empty and Shallo has
trauma over shoes and shirts and the very questionable makeup choices.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
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