July 18, 2024 • 11 mins
➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up
What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Teddy is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her see if she
told us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him
another date.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
But first, Teddy, how long has it been since you
heard from her?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
I spent about a week.
Speaker 5 (00:21):
How many times have you tried to reach out to her?
Speaker 6 (00:24):
Maybe three times, like once every couple days, two or
three days, just you know, saying what's up, how's it going.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
We were talking before and after we went out that
it just kind of stopped.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
She didn't respond to any of those I know, not
not at all. Well, let's talk about the date and
see if we can see went wrong? What and see
what went wrong?
Speaker 6 (00:46):
We went to a really nice place we went to.
I don't know if you've ever been there, but really cool.
If they have a rooftop dining area. So she suggested,
you know that we sit outside because it was a
really really nice day.
Speaker 7 (00:58):
It was cool.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
We had a really great conversation. She's got her head
on her shoulders, you know, in the right way.
Speaker 6 (01:04):
You know how a lot of people they focus too
much on like social media and stuff, you know what
I mean, they saying about everything like their job, and
that's I'm not I'm not trying to meet anybody like that,
you know.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
But she really loves her job. She's got a really
good job.
Speaker 6 (01:18):
She workship, and she's got goals, which is always a
good thing, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
It's like like like a five year plan.
Speaker 6 (01:26):
That's you know, that's that's important, and that's something that
I was I really thought we hit it off.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
On on that level. And uh, you know, the food
is great and the hombi anption is great. You know.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
So I really can't really think off the top of
my head of why after such a nice date that,
you know, I just she just stopped communicating with me.
Like I can't say that we've stopped communicating. I'm so,
you know, trying to.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Reach out, you know, but there's nothing on the other end. Well,
is there anything awkward that happened on the date at
all that you can think of?
Speaker 4 (01:57):
I don't know if it's anything I did.
Speaker 6 (01:59):
I mean, I'm thinking maybe she didn't like the restaurant
even though it was great, you know, but I picked it.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
That might have been something. I will admit. The service
wasn't the best.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
You know. We wanted to sit outside like that she
suggested it, but then they sat as were the suns
like directly in our faces, you know, so I had
to ask them to move us. And maybe, like because
the service wasn't so great, I think maybe like the way,
you know, I can be a little assertive when I
you know, when when the situation calls for it.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
And maybe that's part of the reason.
Speaker 6 (02:30):
Why A feel like the second time that I had
to ask to be moved to get somebody's attention, that
might be it, you know. Other than that, we talked
for a while. We watched you know, the sun go down.
It was really really cool, you know, and again we
had a lot in common, and you know, we had you.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Know, we had we talked about goals. That was always
really good. You know.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
So like after you were being assertive, she didn't seem
to change her on my quote unquote assertive. She didn't
change her demeanor. Do you feel like she kind of
was like, what are you doing?
Speaker 6 (03:00):
Bro? No, I mean in the moment, I can't I
don't remember any disagreement.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
I'm going to say, no, you sound really really nice.
So I'm having a hard time picturing that, Like what
did that sound like? Do you mind like pretending for
a second?
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Well, no, it was because it's like, you know, excuse me.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
You know, I don't know if you remember the old
Bugs Bunny cartoon where he's trying to get Bee.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Another animal's attention. He's like, hey, e's all the animals
are just running.
Speaker 6 (03:24):
He's trying to figure out what's going on, you know,
And then finally I was like, hey, excuse.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Me for a second, you know.
Speaker 7 (03:29):
Okay, I didn't.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
Like raise my voice or anything, but I definitely had
to like get up and go talk to somebody.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Yeah, very very tame. That's what I was trying to
figure out.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Like, it wasn't an excusemer, No, I'm not going to
do that.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
That's inappropriate.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
Did you guys kiss or anything?
Speaker 6 (03:46):
No? No, I didn't hug. I don't really make any
moves in that direction. It was a nice little hug
at the end.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Okay, not like a side hug.
Speaker 7 (03:56):
Oh no, it wasn't.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
No, I wasn't like a side but it was very brief, like, oh,
thank you very much, a little peck of the cheek.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
That was it.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well, play a song come back, and then call her
see if she tell us why she's ghosting you, and
maybe get you another date.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Okay, okay, great, all right, Well play.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Song come back? You get your first a follow up next.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Right in the middle of the first, ay, follow up
if you're just joining us, Teddy is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So we're about to
call her if she tells us why she's ghosting him,
and maybe get him another date. But first, Teddy, why
don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Maya?
Speaker 4 (04:25):
No, we met online, We talked for a while.
Speaker 6 (04:28):
We went on a really nice date at dinner and
talk for a while, and I thought.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Everything was going great. And I haven't been able to
get a touch to her since.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
You ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Please? Yeah, okay, here we go.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
I may A speaking to Maya. Please. This is she,
Hey Maya? How are you? My name is Jewbell and
this is a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
Hi, Maya, the whole show's here. My name is Nina Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 7 (05:07):
Hi cool, how are you I'm good. Are you.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
I'm wonderful. Thank you for asking.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Well, we're calling you today because we do a segment
on the show it's called the first Date follow Up.
What that is is if you go out on a
date with somebody and then you ghost them, that person
can email us to call you and ask why you're
ghosting them.
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Okay, that makes me nervous.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
Are you ghosting?
Speaker 7 (05:32):
I guess like kin and I feel like I know
who this is up? Maybe about guess Teddy.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
You're correct. Congratulations, you got it right. You don't get
any price for that, but yes it's Teddy. Would you
mind telling us why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 7 (05:50):
Uh?
Speaker 8 (05:50):
Well, so we So I met him online and I
had when I was when I was online and I
was like going to the app or whatever. A friend
of mine was a way to me a girlfriend and
she noticed him actually and she was like, oh, I
know exactly who that is.
Speaker 7 (06:07):
And she was telling me all about him. She like
mentioned that he was kind of.
Speaker 8 (06:11):
A tool and that like, I don't know, like dating
him is condidence just so bad. Dating him is kind
of like getting a like a loan at a bank.
And so for some reason that really made that I
was kind of intrigued, and I was like, I want
to see if this guy is really like that.
Speaker 7 (06:30):
Maybe he's totally not and it'll be great.
Speaker 8 (06:33):
So I ended up we ended up going on the date,
and I just like the whole time he was complaining
about things and like making kind of like a fuss
about things, Like we were sitting outside and the sun
was like on our table and he like made us
move and I just I didn't really mind, really like
totally care and it was like super busy in a
(06:53):
restaurant through so it was like this was kind of
like uncomfortable. And then when we started talking, he only
asked me about my career and like how my lifestyle
is and stuff like that, and I just felt like
I was like, don't you actually want to get to
know me? Like it kind of felt like he had
already like made up his mind, like he's like I
could date her and let me just see how it
(07:14):
fits into my life style.
Speaker 7 (07:15):
What's exactly is she?
Speaker 8 (07:16):
Like?
Speaker 7 (07:17):
I just felt like I had like no say in it.
And I was like, Okay, this was kind of strange.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
Don't we want somebody that wants to date us?
Speaker 6 (07:27):
No?
Speaker 8 (07:27):
Of course, of course, I think it was just that
he didn't really ask me about any of my hobbies.
He didn't ask me about like anything that I like.
He was just like, what's your job? Like do you
make enough money to like support yourself?
Speaker 7 (07:39):
Like what what do you do?
Speaker 4 (07:41):
You like?
Speaker 7 (07:41):
You know what I mean? It was very like, I
just feel like I was in a job interview or something.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Those are kind of weird questions, especially on a first date.
There's ways to get those answers without asking that question.
By the way, you'd like to learn that, but.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Well, guess what MAYA Well, it's not as easy as
you think, because Teddy's actually on the phone and has
been listening this whole time, wants to talk about.
Speaker 6 (08:08):
I don't really know how much I want to have
this conversation.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Now. That's that's super messed up.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
You know that, you know, you and your friends are
making fun of me, And that's that's really what's wrong
with these apps. Instead of trying to get to know
someone or or share a you know, like anything proper,
it's just, oh, let me go see what this person
is like really about with a you know, with a
with an agenda that you don't even like articulate you know,
it wasn't like.
Speaker 7 (08:34):
A vet or anything. I was just genuinely curious.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
You're genuinely curious, and you could have just asked that
before we went out, all of the questions that saying
that we were talking about.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
You could have asked me about me before we went out.
Speaker 6 (08:46):
You could have actually just said, Hey, I spoke to
my friend, do you know whatever whoever your friend was,
and we you know, we could have had this conversation
and just avoided all that whole thing. It's just it's
a little on the ridiculous side, you know, And that's
that's a problem.
Speaker 8 (08:59):
You think that you would have just acted probably like
like a different way, and then I would have not
actually known who the real you is.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
Like I just think that that's a silly thing.
Speaker 8 (09:08):
I just I went on the date, I like tried
to get to know you a little bit, and you
did not care about anything I had to say.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
You just cared about like the way I like was
in my life, like how I.
Speaker 8 (09:18):
Fit into your life. And I just think that that's
a silly reason.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
I don't know about other people online.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
I've definitely me twenty four hours a day, seven days
a week.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
So if you would have asked me. We could have
you know, we could have avoided that.
Speaker 6 (09:30):
All you had to do was ask me about my
experience with your friend. And if I could have remembered
your friend, I would have told you exactly what you know,
what I felt. But when I meet with somebody, when
I meet anyone, you know, I'm very straightforward about you know,
what's important to me. And I think that we know,
what we talked about was really cool and I thought
we had actually you know, so we had a cool vibe.
Now I don't know how the it was. You know
(09:51):
how much that was you you you.
Speaker 7 (09:53):
Know, I mean it was all me. I just I
just expected.
Speaker 8 (09:58):
I mean I could have actually been a little bit
more fun and stuff. But you didn't ask me anything
about me as a person. So you got what she
asked for. I mean you asked me. It felt like
I was in a job interview, Like I just don't
get it.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
Well when you when you say job interview, if you're gonna,
you know, meet someone and you want to know if
you're compatible, you would ask questions. And for me, I'm
a person who does a lot of I'm very serious about.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
Work and goals and meeting my goals.
Speaker 6 (10:27):
I just wanted to make sure that I was, you know,
on the same page as somebody who had.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
You know, goals. I mean, do you even have any
type of goals? Or was that all this stuff that
you were saying?
Speaker 7 (10:35):
Of course I have.
Speaker 8 (10:36):
So it's like a silly, silly thing to say, you know,
I just I just expected you to give a little
bit more of a crap about like who I am
as a person, and all those other things that you're
asking of me would have came naturally, they would have
come out. You could have like just been a little
bit more like, I don't know, like swab about it
or something. It did not go well, Well, tell me
(10:57):
one thing that I said about myself on the.
Speaker 7 (11:00):
Tell me because if if it was good, then you
should know this, right.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
Yeah, but that's not the point, all right now.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
You know, hey, Maya, would you like another date with Teddy?
Speaker 3 (11:14):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7 (11:15):
No, thank you, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (11:18):
I don't want to go out with you again.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
I get it, you know, they just just have fun
on your apps. Maybe you can meet somebody that you're
not going to be playing games with.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
From the beginning.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
Okay, Teddy, Well, you have fun playing games with yourself.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
Juble's first Date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Teddy is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her see if she
told us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him
another date.
Speaker 3 (00:16):
But first, Teddy, how long has it been since you
heard from her?
Speaker 4 (00:19):
I spent about a week.
Speaker 5 (00:21):
How many times have you tried to reach out to her?
Speaker 6 (00:24):
Maybe three times, like once every couple days, two or
three days, just you know, saying what's up, how's it going.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
We were talking before and after we went out that
it just kind of stopped.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
She didn't respond to any of those I know, not
not at all. Well, let's talk about the date and
see if we can see went wrong? What and see
what went wrong?
Speaker 6 (00:46):
We went to a really nice place we went to.
I don't know if you've ever been there, but really cool.
If they have a rooftop dining area. So she suggested,
you know that we sit outside because it was a
really really nice day.
Speaker 7 (00:58):
It was cool.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
We had a really great conversation. She's got her head
on her shoulders, you know, in the right way.
Speaker 6 (01:04):
You know how a lot of people they focus too
much on like social media and stuff, you know what
I mean, they saying about everything like their job, and
that's I'm not I'm not trying to meet anybody like that,
you know.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
But she really loves her job. She's got a really
good job.
Speaker 6 (01:18):
She workship, and she's got goals, which is always a
good thing, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (01:24):
It's like like like a five year plan.
Speaker 6 (01:26):
That's you know, that's that's important, and that's something that
I was I really thought we hit it off.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
On on that level. And uh, you know, the food
is great and the hombi anption is great. You know.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
So I really can't really think off the top of
my head of why after such a nice date that,
you know, I just she just stopped communicating with me.
Like I can't say that we've stopped communicating. I'm so,
you know, trying to.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Reach out, you know, but there's nothing on the other end. Well,
is there anything awkward that happened on the date at
all that you can think of?
Speaker 4 (01:57):
I don't know if it's anything I did.
Speaker 6 (01:59):
I mean, I'm thinking maybe she didn't like the restaurant
even though it was great, you know, but I picked it.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
That might have been something. I will admit. The service
wasn't the best.
Speaker 6 (02:09):
You know. We wanted to sit outside like that she
suggested it, but then they sat as were the suns
like directly in our faces, you know, so I had
to ask them to move us. And maybe, like because
the service wasn't so great, I think maybe like the way,
you know, I can be a little assertive when I
you know, when when the situation calls for it.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
And maybe that's part of the reason.
Speaker 6 (02:30):
Why A feel like the second time that I had
to ask to be moved to get somebody's attention, that
might be it, you know. Other than that, we talked
for a while. We watched you know, the sun go down.
It was really really cool, you know, and again we
had a lot in common, and you know, we had you.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Know, we had we talked about goals. That was always
really good. You know.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
So like after you were being assertive, she didn't seem
to change her on my quote unquote assertive. She didn't
change her demeanor. Do you feel like she kind of
was like, what are you doing?
Speaker 6 (03:00):
Bro? No, I mean in the moment, I can't I
don't remember any disagreement.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
I'm going to say, no, you sound really really nice.
So I'm having a hard time picturing that, Like what
did that sound like? Do you mind like pretending for
a second?
Speaker 4 (03:14):
Well, no, it was because it's like, you know, excuse me.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
You know, I don't know if you remember the old
Bugs Bunny cartoon where he's trying to get Bee.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
Another animal's attention. He's like, hey, e's all the animals
are just running.
Speaker 6 (03:24):
He's trying to figure out what's going on, you know,
And then finally I was like, hey, excuse.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Me for a second, you know.
Speaker 7 (03:29):
Okay, I didn't.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
Like raise my voice or anything, but I definitely had
to like get up and go talk to somebody.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
Yeah, very very tame. That's what I was trying to
figure out.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Like, it wasn't an excusemer, No, I'm not going to
do that.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
That's inappropriate.
Speaker 5 (03:43):
Did you guys kiss or anything?
Speaker 6 (03:46):
No? No, I didn't hug. I don't really make any
moves in that direction. It was a nice little hug
at the end.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
Okay, not like a side hug.
Speaker 7 (03:56):
Oh no, it wasn't.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
No, I wasn't like a side but it was very brief, like, oh,
thank you very much, a little peck of the cheek.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
That was it.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Well, play a song come back, and then call her
see if she tell us why she's ghosting you, and
maybe get you another date.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Okay, okay, great, all right, Well play.
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Song come back? You get your first a follow up next.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Right in the middle of the first, ay, follow up
if you're just joining us, Teddy is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Maya. So we're about to
call her if she tells us why she's ghosting him,
and maybe get him another date. But first, Teddy, why
don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Maya?
Speaker 4 (04:25):
No, we met online, We talked for a while.
Speaker 6 (04:28):
We went on a really nice date at dinner and
talk for a while, and I thought.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Everything was going great. And I haven't been able to
get a touch to her since.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
You ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (04:41):
Please? Yeah, okay, here we go.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
I may A speaking to Maya. Please. This is she,
Hey Maya? How are you? My name is Jewbell and
this is a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
Hi, Maya, the whole show's here. My name is Nina Hi,
and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 7 (05:07):
Hi cool, how are you I'm good. Are you.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
I'm wonderful. Thank you for asking.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Well, we're calling you today because we do a segment
on the show it's called the first Date follow Up.
What that is is if you go out on a
date with somebody and then you ghost them, that person
can email us to call you and ask why you're
ghosting them.
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Okay, that makes me nervous.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
Are you ghosting?
Speaker 7 (05:32):
I guess like kin and I feel like I know
who this is up? Maybe about guess Teddy.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
You're correct. Congratulations, you got it right. You don't get
any price for that, but yes it's Teddy. Would you
mind telling us why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 7 (05:50):
Uh?
Speaker 8 (05:50):
Well, so we So I met him online and I
had when I was when I was online and I
was like going to the app or whatever. A friend
of mine was a way to me a girlfriend and
she noticed him actually and she was like, oh, I
know exactly who that is.
Speaker 7 (06:07):
And she was telling me all about him. She like
mentioned that he was kind of.
Speaker 8 (06:11):
A tool and that like, I don't know, like dating
him is condidence just so bad. Dating him is kind
of like getting a like a loan at a bank.
And so for some reason that really made that I
was kind of intrigued, and I was like, I want
to see if this guy is really like that.
Speaker 7 (06:30):
Maybe he's totally not and it'll be great.
Speaker 8 (06:33):
So I ended up we ended up going on the date,
and I just like the whole time he was complaining
about things and like making kind of like a fuss
about things, Like we were sitting outside and the sun
was like on our table and he like made us
move and I just I didn't really mind, really like
totally care and it was like super busy in a
(06:53):
restaurant through so it was like this was kind of
like uncomfortable. And then when we started talking, he only
asked me about my career and like how my lifestyle
is and stuff like that, and I just felt like
I was like, don't you actually want to get to
know me? Like it kind of felt like he had
already like made up his mind, like he's like I
could date her and let me just see how it
(07:14):
fits into my life style.
Speaker 7 (07:15):
What's exactly is she?
Speaker 8 (07:16):
Like?
Speaker 7 (07:17):
I just felt like I had like no say in it.
And I was like, Okay, this was kind of strange.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
Don't we want somebody that wants to date us?
Speaker 6 (07:27):
No?
Speaker 8 (07:27):
Of course, of course, I think it was just that
he didn't really ask me about any of my hobbies.
He didn't ask me about like anything that I like.
He was just like, what's your job? Like do you
make enough money to like support yourself?
Speaker 7 (07:39):
Like what what do you do?
Speaker 4 (07:41):
You like?
Speaker 7 (07:41):
You know what I mean? It was very like, I
just feel like I was in a job interview or something.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Those are kind of weird questions, especially on a first date.
There's ways to get those answers without asking that question.
By the way, you'd like to learn that, but.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Well, guess what MAYA Well, it's not as easy as
you think, because Teddy's actually on the phone and has
been listening this whole time, wants to talk about.
Speaker 6 (08:08):
I don't really know how much I want to have
this conversation.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Now. That's that's super messed up.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
You know that, you know, you and your friends are
making fun of me, And that's that's really what's wrong
with these apps. Instead of trying to get to know
someone or or share a you know, like anything proper,
it's just, oh, let me go see what this person
is like really about with a you know, with a
with an agenda that you don't even like articulate you know,
it wasn't like.
Speaker 7 (08:34):
A vet or anything. I was just genuinely curious.
Speaker 6 (08:37):
You're genuinely curious, and you could have just asked that
before we went out, all of the questions that saying
that we were talking about.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
You could have asked me about me before we went out.
Speaker 6 (08:46):
You could have actually just said, Hey, I spoke to
my friend, do you know whatever whoever your friend was,
and we you know, we could have had this conversation
and just avoided all that whole thing. It's just it's
a little on the ridiculous side, you know, And that's
that's a problem.
Speaker 8 (08:59):
You think that you would have just acted probably like
like a different way, and then I would have not
actually known who the real you is.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
Like I just think that that's a silly thing.
Speaker 8 (09:08):
I just I went on the date, I like tried
to get to know you a little bit, and you
did not care about anything I had to say.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
You just cared about like the way I like was
in my life, like how I.
Speaker 8 (09:18):
Fit into your life. And I just think that that's
a silly reason.
Speaker 4 (09:22):
I don't know about other people online.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
I've definitely me twenty four hours a day, seven days
a week.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
So if you would have asked me. We could have
you know, we could have avoided that.
Speaker 6 (09:30):
All you had to do was ask me about my
experience with your friend. And if I could have remembered
your friend, I would have told you exactly what you know,
what I felt. But when I meet with somebody, when
I meet anyone, you know, I'm very straightforward about you know,
what's important to me. And I think that we know,
what we talked about was really cool and I thought
we had actually you know, so we had a cool vibe.
Now I don't know how the it was. You know
(09:51):
how much that was you you you.
Speaker 7 (09:53):
Know, I mean it was all me. I just I
just expected.
Speaker 8 (09:58):
I mean I could have actually been a little bit
more fun and stuff. But you didn't ask me anything
about me as a person. So you got what she
asked for. I mean you asked me. It felt like
I was in a job interview, Like I just don't
get it.
Speaker 6 (10:11):
Well when you when you say job interview, if you're gonna,
you know, meet someone and you want to know if
you're compatible, you would ask questions. And for me, I'm
a person who does a lot of I'm very serious about.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
Work and goals and meeting my goals.
Speaker 6 (10:27):
I just wanted to make sure that I was, you know,
on the same page as somebody who had.
Speaker 4 (10:30):
You know, goals. I mean, do you even have any
type of goals? Or was that all this stuff that
you were saying?
Speaker 7 (10:35):
Of course I have.
Speaker 8 (10:36):
So it's like a silly, silly thing to say, you know,
I just I just expected you to give a little
bit more of a crap about like who I am
as a person, and all those other things that you're
asking of me would have came naturally, they would have
come out. You could have like just been a little
bit more like, I don't know, like swab about it
or something. It did not go well, Well, tell me
(10:57):
one thing that I said about myself on the.
Speaker 7 (11:00):
Tell me because if if it was good, then you
should know this, right.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
Yeah, but that's not the point, all right now.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
You know, hey, Maya, would you like another date with Teddy?
Speaker 3 (11:14):
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7 (11:15):
No, thank you, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (11:18):
I don't want to go out with you again.
Speaker 6 (11:19):
I get it, you know, they just just have fun
on your apps. Maybe you can meet somebody that you're
not going to be playing games with.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
From the beginning.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
Okay, Teddy, Well, you have fun playing games with yourself.
Speaker 5 (11:32):
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