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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hailey is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Nate.
She has no idea why, So in a few minutes,
we're gonna call him and ask him why is ghosting
her and maybe get her another date. But before we
do that, Hailey, how long has it been since you
heard from Nate?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
That's been four days?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Okay, okay, not too long. Yeah, are you sure you're
getting ghosted?
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Not like a hundred percent sure, but I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Why do you think so?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Well? Like the they went really well, but I worry
that I I don't know. So we went on a
picnic and it was really nice and we even like
got to slow dance a little on the picnic blanket,
and I don't know, Yeah, I was.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Really sweet and I was like, I don't know, he
was just really attentive.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
But I just worry, like I can't dance and I
kept stepping on his feet, and so I'm like, maybe
he just.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Didn't like that I can't dance.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
I've been like hyper fixating on it. But I'm just
like I really was bad. I'm I was like nervous
and stuff. So I can dance a little better than
I did, but yeah, it was pretty bad.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
Okay, did he say anything about your dance skills?
Speaker 4 (01:12):
No?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
I mean we both laughed it off, but like you know,
sometimes people pretend things are funny or okay, and it's not.
And I don't know, it's the only thing that I
really feel like I did wrong.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
So tell us about the date though, Like how were
things with him? Did you guys get along?
Speaker 5 (01:27):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Yeah, we had a lot in common, so like I
brought the wine, he brought the food. We met up
at the park and we had a picnic and it
was just really chill and we got to talk a lot,
so like we got to know each other a little bit,
and I really liked it.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
It was just a nice, peaceful date.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
You know, I've been dating a little and like nothing
really exciting, so this was kind of to me.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
This one. This really stood out and it felt really special.
So like it went really well.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
We even like got to make out a little bit,
So like I I thought he really liked me, But
I don't know, I just I'm really concerned because I
would have hoped that like the next day or maybe
even a couple days later. I mean, I know people
have jobs, but I just haven't heard a thing.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
Was he supposed to reach out to you? Like, did
you try to contact him at all?
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I haven't, but he said he would like text or call,
and then I just haven't heard anything.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
I feel like after a date like that, I would
also want to hear back, like the next day or two,
because it ended so well, Like why wouldn't he be
messaging back? Well, like he said he would.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Reach back the next day, but I texted him when
I got home and said thanks.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
For such a great date.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
And he didn't text back that night, and he didn't
text or call the next day like he had said
he would, oh the day after that.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
So I'm like, I don't know, So what.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Was your communication like leading up to the date. Is
he just kind of one of those guys that takes
a few days or was he more attentive?
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Well, we have a mutual friend who set us up,
so like we didn't really talk much before the date. Okay, yeah,
we just like we texted a little bit so organize
who was bringing what, But that was really it.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
So do we know that he's not sick? Like, did
you do some investigating with a mutual friend?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Yeah? I did, Okay, so yeah I asked her because
she works with him, and she was like, no, he's fine,
he's at work. Oh yeah, So like because I wanted
to give him the benefit of the doubt, like I've
definitely been six after a date and I haven't.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
But yeah, no, he's fine.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
What I heard watch me pull up real quickly.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
Well that is a little bit weird. Yeah, no, it
is all right. Well we'll see if we can figure
it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Then we'll play a song come Back, and then call him,
ask him why is ghosting you? And maybe get you
another date? Okay, thanks guys, all right, we'll play song
come Back, get your first date, follow up next. Right
in the middle of the first date follow up. But
if you're just joining us, Haley is on the phone.
She's getting ghosted by a guy named Nate. So in
a second we're gonna call him see if it tass,
why is ghosting her? Maybe get her another date? But first, Haley,
(03:53):
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:56):
So basically we went on this really nice picnic date
at the park. It was, in my opinion, pretty romantic,
and I thought it went really well. We had a
lot of fun. We slow danced, we drank wine, we
ate naxt what more did a girl wants? And yeah,
I was really hoping for a second date. And I
(04:17):
texted in that night, no response, And I haven't heard
of things since so and you.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
Think it might be because of your bad dancing.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Yeah, I have no sense of rhythm. Okay, it's gotten
worse than it has better.
Speaker 2 (04:31):
All right, well we'll see if that is it. Are
you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Okay, here we go. Okay, I'm answered to eight. Please
(04:57):
was a Mason? Yes you can, Nate. My name is Jewbel.
I host the radio show. It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 5 (05:02):
Yeah, hi, Nate, whole show's here on Nina.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Hi, and I'm Victoria. How are you.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Doing all right? That I like win something or what's
going on here?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
You might have I'm not really sure. Do you listen
to the show ever?
Speaker 4 (05:16):
Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? Actually big fan?
Speaker 1 (05:18):
Oh cool?
Speaker 5 (05:18):
Thank you?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Are you a big enough fan to know what the
first eight follow ups are? Oh?
Speaker 4 (05:23):
My god? Yeah? Yeah I am.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
You know why I'm bringing that up, Nate, I might as.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Well just what you tell me, right, I guess I'm
already on that.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
But go, you're ghosting somebody and they emailed us because
they want to know why they're getting ghosted.
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Do you have any idea who would email us? I'm
imagining this is Haley Haley. Yeah, well.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
If I guess you forget that there and she forgot. Yes,
Haley is on the line, Nate. She wants to know
why you're ghosting her. I'll just let you guys talk
it out now.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Oh my god, Hey, what's going on?
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Right?
Speaker 3 (06:04):
You know, just chelling?
Speaker 1 (06:07):
So what what happened? I know I can't dance, but like,
I didn't think I was that bad.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
No, actually I consider myself that good of a dancer.
There's no don't worry about that. No, it was that's
all good. Like I said, I mean, I did have
a good time. But you know, I mean, honestly, the
whole entire time we were on the you know, on
our picnic, you just kept talking about your you know,
(06:35):
comparing comparing me to your X from how long ago
that six seven years? He said, I don't like every
time you brought up his name I just tuned out.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Uh okay, So it was six years ago, and I'm sorry.
I just knew that you had mentioned that you've been
through a recent breakup, and I was not comparing you
to him.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
I was trying to like relate your situation.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
So what I went through, I wasn't like, I'm sorry
if I brought up too much, but I was just
like really nervous and maybe like I don't know the
line was talking or something, but like I was just
trying to relate to you.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Yeah, So like there was there was times where you know,
I laughed at something that you said, you know, you're
talking about you're dancing, and then all of a sudden
You're like, oh my god, Jason laughed that way, and
I was like, this is like are you even over him?
Like is that even like is this something I need
to be concerned about?
Speaker 3 (07:28):
You know.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
I tried to brush it off every time, you know,
at the end of the night, like I really just
couldn't get over it, couldn't take it. Like it just
like I said, just every single thing you brought up
was oh, nay, Jason did this, Jason did that, And
I'm like, my.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
Name is not Jason.
Speaker 3 (07:48):
Yeah, I'm so. First of all, I'm really sorry, Like
I did not mean to do it that much. I
think I was just really nervous and maybe I didn't
know what to say, and maybe I was just I mean,
I was I was excited, so like maybe that, but
I like your laugh and your laugh is not just
like Jason's.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
I was just like, I think I was just nervous.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
I didn't mean to do that, and I'm really sorry,
and like, okay, so like I was comparing your laugh
to his laugh because he had a nice laugh, like
he was a there's a reason here.
Speaker 1 (08:17):
He did have a good laugh.
Speaker 3 (08:19):
So it was just like I was nervously complimenting you,
I guess, and like, but I love your laugh and
your laugh, and I'm I didn't mean to make it
seem like I was like wrapped up in the past.
I just I guess it has been a long time
since I was so excited, and my brain kind of
related it to a past experience.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
And I'm sorry. No, I mean, there's no need to
apologize for it.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
And then sometimes wine does talking for us. But you know, honestly,
is there something that I'm gonna have to be worrying about?
You know, day in day out, is she like, are
you even over him? Like you haven't even said anything
about that, like whether.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
You are over him or not? And well, so yeah,
definitely over him.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
No, No, I mean I'm definitely over him. Yeah, you
said it was just it was just a major, major
red flag and like, yeah, I don't know you want
to go from here?
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Yeah, I'm really like I said, I'm sorry and I'm
over him, And if you're willing to give me another shot,
I will. I promise that the word Jason will not
come up.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Yeah, not one.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
I would hope not. But I mean, yeah, I mean
I don't Maybe I'll give you a shoot your text
tonight and see what you're doing if you're free, or
maybe I don't know, on.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Another day with Hayley. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
Uh yeah, I mean I'm down, but I just hope
that it's a Jason free night. Like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Trying to remember my name is Nate.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Awesome. I'm super excited and I promise that it'll be
a fun time.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
Thank you for much for giving.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Me another shot.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Congratulations, Hailey, Thank you. Juble's first date follow up