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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jackson is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Cameron.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she tells us why she's ghosting him. But first, Jackson,
how long is evince as you are from Cameron?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Like, been a few days. I have no idea what's
going on?
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Okay, how the day go?
Speaker 3 (00:26):
I honestly think the date went pretty well. We just
went to go get coffee at like this local quality place,
and we were having a lot of fun. Like she's like, hey,
you know, I just don't work coffee that We just
had to go somewhere to get breakfast too, and so
we got some Bahols and then from a place that
actually she had heard of that from her friend. And
(00:47):
then we went about walk and then we had a
good time. We even ended on a kid.
Speaker 5 (00:52):
Well, is there anything that happened in that time that
you think might be kind of the reason why she's
not hitting you back?
Speaker 3 (01:00):
I mean, I I've been thinking about it, and I
feel like because at one point during the day, you know,
it was going well, but at one point I I
talked about my ex for like a minute. She did
ask about, uh, my ex any x I had, like
how it ended.
Speaker 4 (01:18):
So that's no.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
No, no, nothing like that. I didn't bring it up like
voluntarily like that like she asked. But I wasn't sure
if like maybe I went in like too deep about it,
and I just I basically talked about that how like
we were just not a good fit. She broke it off,
and uh, you know, just like not really like a
great relationship. And maybe that's why I feel like I'm
getting ghosted here, Like I'm just I'm afraid of like
(01:46):
this might be another one of those relationships, and I'm
hoping not, because, like I said, first date, great time.
Speaker 6 (01:53):
Did you call your ex crazy?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
You know, I remained the sibyl of possible, you know
about it?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
That can always be a tough one if someone's like, yeah,
they're just nuts, They're just so crazy.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
All of them are crazy, every single one I've had, right.
Speaker 6 (02:07):
And we're supposed to see that as a big red flag.
So I was just wondering.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
I mean, yeah, that's basically it.
Speaker 6 (02:14):
Did you talk about your ex before or after you
guys kissed it before.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
I only mentioned it for like a minute and that
was it. It's not like it was like it became
like a big topic of conversations about the date.
Speaker 6 (02:27):
Did you kiss her or did she kiss you?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
We both kind of just like leaned in and it
was a moment kissed each other. It was a moment.
Speaker 5 (02:36):
Yeah, did she eat so many big holes and have
to run home? But that wouldn't explain why she's ghosting
in a few days.
Speaker 4 (02:45):
Maybe she's not ghosting, she's just trying to figure it out.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Yeah, I mean, I'm just I'm trying to figure out.
I don't know a lot, like I said, like things
like we're just like going well and I don't know.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Maybe it was like the clone I.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Was wearing or something like that.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
But I hope it wasn't that wearing terrible colone.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
No, no, I say, it's a pretty good brand. It
wasn't anything like, you know, like a string like a
herding or something like that.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Honestly, AX smells still Actually yeah, yeah, I'll get up
in those You got.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Me all right, Well, we'll see if we can figure
it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Then we'll play a song, come back, and then call
her and see why she's ghosting you and maybe get
you another date.
Speaker 4 (03:23):
Okay, I think so again.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
All right, well, plas I come back at your first
date follow up next if you're just joining us for
today's first date follow up. Jackson is on the phone,
and Jackson is getting ghosted by Cameron. So we're about
to call her and see if she tell us why
she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date if
he still wants one. Before we call her, though, Jackson,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Basically, I went on a date with the skirl named Cameron,
and it started as coffee, but then they ended up
getting breakfast, and then it turned out turned into taking
a walk, and then it actually ended with a nice kiss.
That this all happened like on the first date and
then really really well on mine.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
And you haven't heard anything from her since and you
think it could be because you talked about your ex.
Speaker 6 (04:06):
Possibly, Yes, all right.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
You're ready for us to call her? Yes, okay, here
we go. Hello, Hi, mis to Cameron. Please came Hey Cameron,
how are you? My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from
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a radio show. It's called The Jubile Show.
Speaker 6 (04:29):
Hi, Cameron, I'm Nina.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Hi, I'm Victoria. Got sounds like you.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
Maybe I'm not sure yet, it sounds like you at
least listen to the show, though, so thank you.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Yeah, I love it.
Speaker 6 (04:44):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Oh my god, I'm excited.
Speaker 2 (04:46):
What's up is that we got an email about you
from somebody because you're ghosting them. This is a first
eight follow up, you know the segment that we do
with it. If you got somebody that can email us
and ask why you're ignoring.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Them, Yes, I've heard ever before.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Okay, well, who do you think?
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Oh my god, no way, Jackson.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Yes, Oh my god, you really like your date and
it's confused.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Oh my god, I'm so embarrassed right now?
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Are you ghosting him?
Speaker 1 (05:23):
No, I wasn't even I wouldn't even call it ghosting him.
Oh my god, I wasn't really ghosting him. But I mean,
after this, I'm mighty.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Oh no, why aren't you talking to him?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Then?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Oh my god, I'm so like overwhelmed. Okay, I'm not
really ghosting him. I mean we went on the day
like one day, a couple of days ago, like three
days ago.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Oh my god, I'm just so like I just don't
believe it. Okay, honestly, he was really cute.
Speaker 3 (06:02):
We went for.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Coffee and we were hitting it out pretty great. We
had breakfast. I just felt like he got very clangy
and like like before the after by the afternoon and
like he was I already told me he loved me.
I'm not farsta. It was a long morning, but still
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it was just like we were at the park. It
was just too much in one day, I think, And
that was probably the reason why I haven't called him,
because I didn't say I love you back.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
You, Yeah, was it I love you or like I
love this or I love talking to you?
Speaker 6 (06:44):
Was it really I love you?
Speaker 1 (06:46):
We listen, it was. It was just supposed to be coffee,
you know, and we started like really being a vit
charismatic and very charming, and then all of a sudden,
I don't know, he was just like very like flattering and
oh you're beautiful, and then I love your hair turned
into I heard I love you, you know, and I
(07:09):
don't want to try to concede that, but it really
was like too much, you know, like super exclain weary.
Oh no, oh my god, Jackson I'm so sorry, dude.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
You did say that.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Oh that's right, you know the first day follow us. Yes,
Jackson is on the phone listening and wants to talk
to you.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Hi, Hi, Cameron. I didn't say I love you, yes.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
He did.
Speaker 4 (07:36):
No.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
No, I was saying like I love your shoes.
Speaker 6 (07:40):
You know.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
I was troubled.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
No, we listen, we were walking and you were literally
like looked into my eyes and you were like I
think I love you or something like that. You literally said.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
That it's nothing that you No, no, no, no, I
was complimenting you on your shoes and like your your books.
I was just talking about like the things that I
love about you. And I thought because things were going
so well, I mean I didn't think I was, you know,
I didn't mean for to like sound like that, but
I wasn't saying like I love you, you know.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Yeah, and that right there is just weird, like why
do you love my shoes and like my house say,
it was just like.
Speaker 6 (08:18):
The things you love about me?
Speaker 1 (08:19):
Like how can you love anything about me? You don't
even know me, you don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Well, the thing is okay, Well, the thing is I
thought we were having a really good time throughout the
date and you know, just adding more things to do
when it was going on, and I was really enjoying that.
I loved all those things about you, like you know,
what your personality and how was. You're easy to talk to,
and I can understand why you might think I would
that would lead to me saying like I love you,
(08:45):
But I didn't specifically say I love you. I didn't
say that, but I.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Was loving my God, just stop saying just like really
creeming me on just said it like seventy times.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Okay, I'm sorry, I will say that then I know,
I'm I'll say it. I'll meet.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
But you see what you're doing.
Speaker 1 (09:06):
You're like making me uncomfortable. Stop saying I love you.
This is probably why your ex loved you.
Speaker 3 (09:11):
Oh okay, why are you bringing my accents and the plea,
don't do that? Okay, I was not saying I want you, Okay.
Speaker 5 (09:20):
I think sometimes people react to the word love differently.
You know, for some people it's a scary word. For others,
it's a comforting word. So maybe this is kind of
where you guys are on different pages, and some people
can say it freely, some people can't.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Cameron, would you like to go on another day, WHI
Jackson will pay for it?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
I mean, I would say I'd love you if I
knew him, but I don't know him.
Speaker 6 (09:41):
That's not fair and vice versa.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
I mean, yeah, and I don't think.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
I want to go on a day with someone who's
going to fall in.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
Love with me so quickly.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I was just saying I love your shoes and I
love your personality as well. I wasn't saying I love you.
What's that and the way that you're saying I'll tell
you what if you agree to a second day, then
I promise I won't use that word ever.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
But you see what I mean? You sounds so clingy,
just like I don't know.
Speaker 6 (10:13):
I mean, it's kind of nice. He just really likes me.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Maybe what do you guys think?
Speaker 4 (10:22):
I think you should give it another shot.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Yeah, he's kind of nice.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Okay, Well, there you go, Jackson, you got a second date.
Speaker 6 (10:31):
Jackson scream out, I love it.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
Good luck you guys, love you both.
Speaker 6 (10:40):
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