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August 12, 2024 11 mins

➡︎ The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up

What happens when you get ghosted after a first date? You call The Jubal Show and have them find out why! It's like putting yourself in a situation to get roasted, when you really just want a second date.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Bethany is on the phone today for a first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jeremy.
So in a second we'll call him and see if
he'll tell us why he's a ghostinger and maybe get her
another date. But first, Bethany, how long has it been
since you heard from Jeremy?

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Uh, it's been a few weeks. I haven't heard anything
from him, And it's weird because I thought the date.

Speaker 4 (00:26):
Went really well.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
What y'all do.

Speaker 3 (00:29):
We went and got dinner, sort of like a happy
hour type thing. We got like a couple of different
plates and stuff.

Speaker 4 (00:37):
We shared both of them, and I really liked him,
Like we have a lot in common. Both just recently
moved here. We're both originally from the small towns, and
we're both really.

Speaker 3 (00:49):
Like career motivated and excited about our job and things
like that. So I don't know, I thought it was
a really good match.

Speaker 2 (00:56):
Did you feel like he liked you?

Speaker 3 (00:58):
I thought he did. He did.

Speaker 5 (01:01):
I know.

Speaker 1 (01:01):
It's a weird question because when you get so caught
up in liking somebody you're not really paying attention to
if Like, wait a minute, Yeah that's true.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Yeah I thought he liked me, but I haven't heard
from him, so I'm not sure.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Okay, well I made that a very terrible narrative. I'm
not saying that he doesn't like him. Maybe something happened.
Did you guys kiss at all? Did you hug? How
did the day end?

Speaker 3 (01:22):
We didn't kiss at all.

Speaker 4 (01:24):
It's like hugged in second night, but the vibe was
really positive, like we had a really good time. We
were talking a lot, to the point where I thought
we were going to have a second date.

Speaker 3 (01:37):
So yeah, I don't I don't know what happened.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Is there anything you can think of that might be
a reason that he's ghosting you?

Speaker 3 (01:45):
I don't know. The only thing I can think of
is that, like, I feel like I definitely ate more
food than him.

Speaker 4 (01:51):
We shared some pots, and I feel like now I'm
kind of worried that I just like ate a lot
more of the food.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
Is that actually a thing? What do you mean? Like, dude,
guys actually like not like that. I don't know what happened.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
It's definitely a thing where girls fell self conscious about it,
and I know they didn feel self conscious about.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Yeah, I hear them feel self conscious, but I didn't
know if the like, I don't know if I know
any guys that would want to go somebody after they
went on a date with them and they ate a bunch,
Like I find I actually think it's cool because it's like, oh,
you're relaxed enough to just eat a bunch. Yeah, you know,
I would get annoyed, like if it's go to a
really nice steakhouse or something and then somebody's self conscious
about eating lots, so then they order a salad because

(02:29):
it sounds like fifty bucks anyway, So it's like, just
go ahead and spend the money on a steak and
enjoy yourself. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:35):
So hopefully that's not it, because that would be ridiculous.

Speaker 3 (02:39):
Yeah. So, like he just like walked me to my
car and we said good night and we hugged this
sort of I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:46):
There was an.

Speaker 4 (02:46):
Implication that he was going to call a text or something,
and I didn't hear anything.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
Did you reach out to him?

Speaker 4 (02:54):
I did reach out to him. I texted him once
and I didn't get a response. I didn't want to
text him too much because I didn't want.

Speaker 3 (03:02):
To, like, yeah, I don't know want him or anything.
And I really I just thought you would gonna text me.

Speaker 4 (03:09):
Or call me, so all.

Speaker 2 (03:11):
Right, and you literally have no idea why he's ghosting Yeah,
I mean, it's.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
Just like, I guess the only thing I can think
of is the food thing.

Speaker 4 (03:18):
I don't know, maybe I was eating too loud or
I was like being too messy or.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
All right, Okay, well we'll see if we can figure
it out. For you'll play a song come Back, and
then call him and see if he'll tell us why
he's ghosting you, and maybe get you another date if
you still want one. Okay, all right, we'll play song
come Back, get your first day follow up next. Right
in the middle of your first date follow up if

(03:44):
you're just joining us, Bethany is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jeremy. So in
a second we're gonna call him and see if he'll
tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another
date if she still wants one. But before we do that, Bethany,
why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
Yeah, so, basically, I I went on the date with
this guy. A week or so ago, we had a
great time, got drinks, dinner. I thought it went really well.
We have a lot in common. I was really into him.
He walked me in my car, we said good night,
and I just like didn't hear from him at all.

(04:18):
And I texted him and he just didn't respond. So
now I'm just not sure what's going on, and I would.

Speaker 4 (04:25):
Really like to know.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
Okay, make sure it's not because you ate a lot.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
Yeah, yeah, and I would like to know it's not
because I ate a lot.

Speaker 2 (04:33):
All right, we're about to call him right now. You're ready, yep, Okay,
here we go. Hey is this Jeremy? Yeah, Jeremy was
that man? How are you? My name is Jewbel and

(04:54):
host a radio show. It's called The Jewbil Show.

Speaker 1 (04:55):
Hi, Jeremy, I'mnina. Also on the show.

Speaker 2 (04:58):
Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you?

Speaker 6 (05:01):
I'm going fine?

Speaker 2 (05:02):
Sweet? Do you listen to the show?

Speaker 6 (05:03):
Ever? I mean, I'm familiar Okay, I.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
Don't know if you're familiar or not with a segment
we do. It's called the first date follow up. That's
where if you go on a date with somebody and
then you ghost them, that person can ask us to
get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
And we got an email about you from somebody.

Speaker 6 (05:20):
Oh, okay, can.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
You think of anybody that you're ghosting currently?

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Not have you gone on any dates recently?

Speaker 6 (05:32):
This is from Bethany.

Speaker 3 (05:33):
I take it.

Speaker 2 (05:35):
Yes, Bethany emailed us and then we talked to her
about your day a little bit, and she said, it's
been like a few weeks and you haven't talked to her,
So she's wondering if you would mind telling us why
you're ghosting her.

Speaker 6 (05:46):
Well, I mean I had a great time with her.
I really liked it because we went out, we had food,
and she's nice to talk to. But I got really excited,
and so I was starting to show my bros, you know,
like pictures from the night and I was telling her
about her, and you know, one of them, my guy
uh Rob Actually he said, wait a minute, no, I

(06:10):
know who this is.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
I know Bethany.

Speaker 6 (06:14):
Actually I went out with her for a while A
few weeks ago. I actually went out with her and
we ended up we slept together, and every day afterward
she kept just trying to get a hold of me.
It was like this constant, Hey, what's up and I couldn't.

(06:35):
I couldn't like get her, I couldn't drop a hint
that she would understand. So I eventually text her on
like I don't know, like the third or fourth day,
just to say that hey, we're not a good match.
And then then she stopped bugging me. So I was like, oh,
I do not want to get into that, you know,
I do. I don't want to wade into any of that.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
Well it sounds like, yeah, I'm not sure what waiting
into that means. But because me, he finally nipped it
in the butt by telling her what was what. So
really it was his fault that it got weird if
you think about it. So you actually would have had
the power to communicate with her what you wanted from her,
and especially if you were excited. Doesn't mean that you

(07:14):
guys would have the same situation.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
I don't know. I feel a little triggered by that excuse.

Speaker 5 (07:17):
I'm sorry, I guess I just I didn't I don't
want to even get involved with any of that, Like,
I'm not gonna I don't want it to get to
the point.

Speaker 6 (07:26):
Where I've got to send out a text of like, hey,
don't do this anymore.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
I just I know, well, why are you dating? Like,
are you dating to be casual or are you dating
to meet someone? So why are you anticipating telling somebody
I don't want to hear from you.

Speaker 5 (07:41):
I mean, like, I just I want to meet people
and hang out, and I didn't want to keep it
kind of.

Speaker 6 (07:46):
Casual, which is nice, but I just I'm not going
to be with someone who's gonna be like.

Speaker 2 (07:55):
Who wants to talk to you? Are you kidding me?
I'm sorry. Well, Jeremy, thanks for being honest with us.
We'll let you know that Bethany is actually on the
phone and wants to talk to you and she's been listening.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
Hi. Uh Okay, I gotta say, I'm like a little bit.

Speaker 4 (08:16):
Shocked I by what I'm hearing right now, Like I
do I know, I know exactly what you're talking about.

Speaker 3 (08:22):
I remember Rob obviously. Okay, So he said he was
really nice at first. We had a really good date.
We talked about going.

Speaker 4 (08:32):
On a second date, and that's like kind of the
reason I slept with him and he slept together, and then.

Speaker 3 (08:40):
He just completely goes to me again, just keep having
me with me, And yeah, I texted him a few times.

Speaker 4 (08:47):
We had just slept together, but I wasn't I didn't
text him like crazy.

Speaker 3 (08:51):
I literally texted him a couple of.

Speaker 4 (08:53):
Times, and then he messaged back saying he didn't want
to see me anymore. I yeah, I mean I was bummy.

Speaker 6 (09:04):
Uh, I mean, look, I trust I trust Rob's judgment
and if if it was too much for him minutes,
it's gonna be too much for me.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
You know, I got I gotta it was not too much.

Speaker 4 (09:16):
I literally texted him like a few.

Speaker 3 (09:18):
Times because we had like maybe a little passion. But
I feel like.

Speaker 6 (09:22):
If we put someone trust Rob's judgment on this one.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
Jeremy, how many friends do you have? Like how many
is in your inner circle? And can we have all
of their names? So Bethany knows not to date any
single one of them because you guys have interested in
new bro rules.

Speaker 6 (09:37):
Oh just I think you know we're tight and we
like to make sure that we're all on the same
page about this kind of stuff.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
Your friends are all on the same page about like
how you date.

Speaker 6 (09:45):
Yeah, I mean aren't yours?

Speaker 1 (09:49):
Yeah, they don't tell me who to see and not well,
yes they do, Yeah, but different, Jeremy, But different.

Speaker 5 (09:58):
Okay.

Speaker 6 (09:58):
I think it worked a really nice sort of system.
You know, I talk about my date now, well when
my friend goes, hey, don't don't do that, and I'm like, okay,
well tight, Rob, I go in. I talked about what
kind of girls to see. I trust Rob if he says, hey,
that's not that's not a good one, and like that's
not a good one, you know. Yeah, I mean, look,
with us, it's it's dogs before.

Speaker 2 (10:19):
Broads, you know what. Yeah, thoughts before broads before.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
Listen, Jeremy, I respect your friends circle, but Bethany, it's
time to get out.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
It's time to go. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (10:40):
I am not about this.

Speaker 2 (10:43):
At all.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
I do not like that mentality from a grown man.
So I'm good.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
I still have an ashet. Jeremy, would you like to
go on another date with Bethany? Will pay for it?
Dogs before?

Speaker 6 (10:55):
No? No, I got to listen to the Dodds.

Speaker 1 (10:58):
All Right, you guys you bark when you see each other.

Speaker 2 (11:02):
What was that? That was a dog? It was a bulldog, Bethany.
I'm assuming you're cool. You don't want another date?

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Yeah, I would like to never see either of them again.

Speaker 1 (11:12):
To be honest, there's rough in these streets, Jubile's first
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