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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com. Breeze on the phone today
for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted
by a dude named Jeff, and so we're about to
see if we can get another date and find out
why she was ghosted by calling him in a second.
But first let's find out about the date. Brie, how
long has it been since you heard from Jeff?
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I have not heard from him in four days, for
a very long day.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
When did you last talk to I mean, like, what
was your last interaction with him?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Like, so it was our date with our last interaction,
I've not heard from him since the date, and I'm
not sure what happened.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Did you reach out to him since?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Yeah, yeah, I'm starting to look a little bit crazy.
So friends, you guys.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Okay, fair, well, let's talk about the day. How did
it go?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Okay? So we met on Hinge. He ticks all of
my boxes. It was a great first date. He basically
picked everything out. He has his favorite neighborhood spots. So
we went to this really really nice Battalion restaurant and
all the Italian food was really thoughtful. He asked me
before we went what my favorite food was, so we
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had that in common, which was really cool. And then
we went to another little cute spot to get some
drinks and there was a tooth box there, which I
thought was pretty cool, and he gave me money so
I could pick out my favorite songs. It was very thoughtful. Yeah,
like just really a low key, sweet, sweet, thoughtful date.
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And we sat next to each other and we sang
like my favorite songs and uh like, we accidentally brushed
elbows a couple of times.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
And.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
It was like the best dates that I've ever been on.
So I'm kind of confused. We had a lot in common,
like we talked about sunny movies, we liked, like our childhood.
I was telling him I was interested in self a
dancing and he said he was like open to going
because I was trying to test the waters because fee
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we'd be, you know, interested in the mother hang. We
both are mediocre cooks. There was just like a lot
of commonalities and laughter and just I thought it was
good vibes and then I don't know, I thought it
was perfect, like yeah, we've closed down the bar. And
then Ki walked me home and then we kissed and
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I thought it was magic. And then I have not
heard from him since, so I don't know. I've been
We texted that night and that was fine, but then
I tried to keep texting to like, you know, I'm
going to the Salta Cross. We're gonna hang out. How
is your day, how is work? Any of that.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
I've got nothing, any idea of why he's ghost to
you at all.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
My friends have a prediction. Okay, so I talk a lot.
I don't know if she's noticed. They think maybe I
over did. I was talking about like pillar talk and
intimacy and like, I don't know. Maybe they think I
just I was too hardcore for flirting. I came on
too strong with hey, let's go sal the dancing. I'm
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looking too far into it. I don't know. They're thinking
I did maybe too much flirting or too much like
where are we going with the next step? How do
you feel about this?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Or that?
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Maybe when your elbows brushed, did you guys have long
sleeves on a bare elbows?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
I rolled my sleeves up. He did not.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Oh that's why we thought you were a little risky
going in barrel bow like that. That right, skin to skin. Well,
we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
We'll play a song come back, and then call him
and see what tellus why he's ghosting you and hopefully
get you in date. Okay, okay, all right, we'll get
your first date follow up next. Right in the middle
(04:06):
of your first date follow up, if you're just joining
us and Bree is on the phone and she's getting
ghosted by a dude named Jeff, So we're about to
call him and see if you'll tell us why he's
ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But before
we do that, Rie, why don't you catch everybody up
on your situation? Okay?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Because he is Jeff. We met on Hinge, best date
of my life, very thoughtful, very kind. Now has been
ghosting me for four days. My friends think it's because
maybe over shit, Maybe I like came on too strong.
I don't know, Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Yeah it must have been what it was? All right? Well,
are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 2 (04:42):
Yes? Please?
Speaker 1 (04:43):
All right, here we go. Hello, Hi mansweak to Jeff. Please, Jeff,
how are you? My name is Jewbel and I host
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the radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Jeff,
the whole show's here. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Good. How are you?
Speaker 4 (05:13):
What do I owe the honor?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Once or twice?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
We do a segment on the show it's called the
first Date follow up. So that's where if you go
out on a date with somebody and end up ghosting them,
that person can have us get you on the phone
to ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an
email about you, sucka, you need to be very nice, coaxing,
but we got an email about you.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
I think I see where this is going. Yeah. About
about Kaylen No, I'm sorry, her name is Breu.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
You're busy, Jeff never okay, and I heard it it okay.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
I'm going to give you a short answer. Relie to
me be a liar about what about her age? I
mean she was. I liked her. I liked her a lot.
So I went and you know, I did the the
proverbial scouting technique where you going on you know, social
media find out things about them. And I found out
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that actually she told me she was thirty three the
app that she was thirty three, I'm thirty years old.
Turns out she's thirty eight. What and yeah, yeah, kind
of like cousing me for a loop. I was like, well,
we had a lot in common, we shared a lot
of stuff, we had it. I had a great day.
I thought we had a good time. But I just
don't do well with liars.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
How do you know she was lying about her age?
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Well her because her birthday on her on her social
media page?
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Okay, and then you asked her her real birthday or
something like how'd you find out the real birthday?
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (06:55):
It shows on apps like how old they are on
one app? Right? But then so she said she's.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Jay said she was thirty three.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Okay, so it said she was. But then you saw
her birth date on what.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
On her social media?
Speaker 4 (07:07):
On her face?
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Oh okay, So you didn't ask her about that.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
Well, I didn't really need to ask her anything. I mean,
she already lied to me. She's gonna lie to me again.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
What do you ask me?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
You're not supposed to have cool woman her age?
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Right? I mean, maybe it's like an accident. Maybe it
was like a typo. All of a sudden, you put
in the wrong number and you're thirty eight.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
I don't know. I just feel like, does it matter
how old she is?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
Though?
Speaker 1 (07:30):
Like, does is that really what bothers you?
Speaker 2 (07:32):
No, don't get it twisted.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
It's not about her age, okay, It's about the fact
that she was she wasn't forthcoming. It's about I've had
my own pass experience that somebody lives about the little thing,
the next thing, you know, everything, So it's kind it's
just kind of a deal breaker for me, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
So we spiral a little bit. That makes sense. Okay, well,
thanks for telling us, Jeff, I appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Also, Bri is on the phone. She's been listening this
whole time and wants to talk to you. Oh oh, okay, three.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
Yess. Yes, the age on hinge is not correct. However,
you would not have met me if I didn't fudge
the number a little bit.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
Oh, so you know you did.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Okay, there's so many it's not people normally don't bump
the age up to thirty five. So I've noticed that
the pool is much smaller. So I just reduced my
age by a little bit. An age is nothing by
that but a number. So I didn't think it was
a big deal, and I didn't realize he was googling me.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
I think it's safe to assume that anytime you go
on a day at risk of being googled.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
He should have asked me. You didn't even ask me.
You just assumed that I'm like a big wire because
it was hinge.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Well, I mean, honestly, I think that should have been
one of the things you addressed on our date, you know,
I mean, maybe something about letting me know that by
the way, you know, maybe it wouldn't have been such
a such a shock to me had I heard it
from your mouth instead of finding out on my own.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Okay, I understand that my intention was never to not
tell you. I was planning on telling you, and then
I just kind of got caught up in everything and
forgot about it and got nervous, and then it was
just in the moment. The plan was never not to
tell you. Well, have you lied to me about anything else?
Speaker 1 (09:31):
Is there anything else you want to come clean about?
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Or no, that's that's it. I don't know why I
would lie about anything else.
Speaker 4 (09:39):
So, you know, we were listening there at the jukebox
and you play all these songs, is I mean flowers,
you know by Miley, Is that not your favorite song?
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Is that?
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Are you lied about that too?
Speaker 3 (09:49):
No?
Speaker 2 (09:51):
That is my favorite song. You saw me saying to
it loudly. That is definitely my favorite song.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
I mean, do you did you like the food that
we had? Did you like my Neighborhood's you lie about
that as well?
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Food?
Speaker 2 (10:04):
I enjoyed the food. It was great.
Speaker 1 (10:06):
I think Jeff has some trust issues, and that's okay.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
I'm not a liar. I'm not a bad person. I'm
not like trying to trick you. Nobody after thirty five,
like there's a cutoff on hinge. I don't know why.
So the pool small for dating options. So I just
made my net a little wider and I wouldn't have
met you otherwise. I really don't think it's a big deal.
I'm not lying about all sorts of weird things like
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pasta and music. Okay. I was planning on telling you
and then I just got caught up, That's all.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Jeff, would you like to go on another date with Brie?
We'll pay for it. Give it a chance. You can
griller in person?
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Right?
Speaker 4 (10:48):
Yeah, I would love to go on another date with
Bree and I would love to you know, come clean
about whatever we need to come clean about.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Okay, well, Bree, congratulations, got another date.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
You're going to be questioned every movie you make, but hey,
more power to you.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Yes, I will be asking you who Calan is? Why?
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Oh yeah, that's right.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
I forgot about that. You know what, It's true. I
believe you.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Oh she had that in her back pocket. Jubile's first
day follow up